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00:06:49.660Not necessarily touching all of your food all the time.
00:06:53.580Yeah. Yeah. But like that experience, just working there, this sandwich in general.
00:06:58.320What what do you think? The fact that like the fact that this shop, this barbecue shop operated with the attempted efficiency of a McDonald's is so Texas.
00:07:13.280Because when you think of barbecue in the classical sense, the whole point is it takes forever.
00:07:45.120no it's not bad at all but it serves a ton of people but the thing that always struck me is
00:07:51.100so funny was that it was located in a dry county so they wouldn't serve you booze but you could0.91
00:07:57.400bring your own so people actually just got more shit face right like a whole the whole thing of0.92
00:08:03.220like texas which has what is it 354 254 counties a lot and each county each county gets to decide0.94
00:08:10.940like we're dry we're not dry but then the next county is like 20 minutes away like what are you
00:08:16.420doing this doesn't it doesn't do anything it doesn't and also pound for pound i think texans
00:08:23.720are maybe the most consistent drinkers in the union really we drink whether we say we're sober
00:08:30.680or not texans drink i mean like there are the decided holy rollers of which i was a part in
00:08:38.420my youth but if you're not that you're drinking i went to catholic schools for a lot of my youth
00:08:42.820luscious texas catholics drink texas lutherans drink texans drink so the fact that we even play
00:08:50.500around with dry counties is hilarious to me my favorite my my my second texas barbecue was weird
00:08:56.560story um so i grew up in san antonio in that area but we went to church in lockhart texas
00:09:02.280And on the drive to Lockhart, Texas every week, we would pass multiple Black's Barbecue.
00:09:08.480Black's Barbecue is some of the best barbecue in Texas.
00:09:11.860It's ranked every year because we have barbecue critics down there.
00:09:15.220But I didn't realize until adulthood, there's Black's Barbecue and the original Black's Barbecue.
00:09:22.640Because the black family got into a fight and they said, we're keeping the name.
00:09:27.920And the other side was like, no, we're keeping the name.
00:09:30.040so you think it's all just blacks barbecue no it's a family feud barbecue chain
00:09:37.100100 also lockhart understood as the the barbecue capital of texas oh yeah um the other thing that
00:09:46.460this person asked for us to start and i think this is a great way as well to to ground us in
00:09:52.080Texas culture is what is so Texas about H-E-B? Oh my goodness. The beauty of H-E-B.
00:10:01.820Which is a grocery store. It's a grocery store chain, but like a cut above. Just to give you
00:10:06.220a quick sample of how great H-E-B is, a year before COVID hit, they were running pandemic
00:10:13.700drills for their food supply chain. And in the midst of not just the first pandemic lockdown,
00:10:20.860but also in that great big texas freeze yep heb never lost food or power and they sustained
00:10:27.780their systems they're just so good i remember growing up people competing for jobs to be
00:10:37.080general managers at heb after undergrad because it was that great of a place to be um they have
00:10:42.680their own line of condiments they make their tortillas fresh in the store and they're so
00:10:48.360freaking good so cheap and so good so cheap and so good and then there's an elevated heb um central
00:10:56.320market central market which is better than whole foods 100 100 i love heb and the heb also whenever
00:11:04.260there's disaster like hurricane relief like they just show up with these giant trucks and we'll
00:11:08.260link to some articles that have been written about like how they conceive of aid and it's
00:11:12.780specifically about texas aid and like helping other people also the last name of like part of
00:11:18.900the reason it's called heb is that the last name is howardy butt but here's the thing that i think
00:11:25.820really like here's why heb is quintessentially texas it is more than anything above politics
00:11:33.480it is non-partisan it is so non-partisan republicans love it democrats love it and
00:11:39.240they make it a point to always stay out of it and i think like at its core when i think about
00:11:43.700the parts of texas that are the deepest within me it is actually quote unquote normal texans
00:11:50.480not caring about your politics if the thing that we're doing is towards a common goal and if it's0.92
00:11:57.880good shit yeah i see it all the time when i go home to see my family and friends and they're at0.88
00:12:04.120the football games or they're at the christmas plays i walk in these rooms and i don't know0.99
00:12:10.700who's a trumper and no one's trying to figure it out and i'm not saying that's good or that's bad0.99
00:12:16.440i'm saying it is such a different emotional experience than being in los angeles that's
00:12:21.640very true like no matter where you go and i think this is particular not okay let me backtrack it's
00:12:26.900No matter where you go, if you are in a more urban area or suburban area, it is not as easy as you think it is to predict the politics of the people.
00:12:38.880All of the cliches you think about what a Republican or Democrat looks like, if you are in a major Texas city, San Antonio, Austin, Houston, Dallas, even El Paso, you don't know.
00:15:18.800Not a ton, like smaller, you know, there was hope that maybe that he would actually pull it off.
00:15:23.960But so that is when I learned a lot and talk to a ton.
00:15:29.040Like, I probably had hour long conversations with at least 200 Texans because before I would go to whatever event that he was putting on, I would find two people in that area.
00:15:41.400Through various connections, through Twitter, whatever, to sit down and have coffee with.
00:15:45.460and I like my question would be more like okay tell me about this place I love that like what's
00:15:50.500the history how have the political lines changed that sort of thing and we'll get more into this
00:15:54.780when we talk about whether or not Texas is southern or not but they're like yeah the whole
00:15:59.520like the shift from like old white Anglo Democrats who are more like Dixiecrats right like right like0.56
00:16:05.720maybe just have forgotten that they should probably be Republicans and still like cling to that
00:16:10.080democrat like understanding and then on to like and all the conversations about voting blah blah
00:16:16.140blah like there's just so much there and i love the state it is so much more than most people
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00:43:22.140so texas is always changing and we have a question about this even as much as people0.73
00:43:30.760like to think of like texas forever and all of this bullshit this question comes from katie
00:43:35.640could you comment on how immigration causes cultures to change i moved to the dallas texas
00:43:41.180area from central california when my husband's job was transferred here three years ago and i0.79
00:43:45.900was surprised to have way more indian neighbors than native texans the native texans are panicking
00:44:20.700but it's dallas so dallas has a shit ton of apartments right and a decent bus system
00:44:28.080and cost of living is still low so i did a big story on this several years ago because
00:44:34.820a lot of the people who work with refugee resettlement in dallas are parts of churches
00:44:41.400yes that voted for trump and so like when trump first like this is like post 2016 2017 they're
00:44:49.240like how do i reconcile the work that i'm doing that i believe is godly work that i believe it's
00:44:54.740like the good work yeah with this person that i voted for we now know that people can reconcile
00:45:00.820pretty much anything but i i learned so much about why and how dallas and texas in general
00:45:08.460became such a like a site of refugee resettlement but then also immigration too there's jobs there
00:45:14.420And this is this is, of course, a tension, I think, within conservative and liberal politics is that like in these red states, because there is less regulation, there's more housing and everyone's everyone is working in Texas.
00:45:27.820This is the thing. This is this is I'm so glad you bring this up.
00:45:31.620Like, I have so many people close to me in my family.
00:45:36.840My brother, actually, he's been splitting his time between Texas and Anaheim, California for family reasons.
00:54:02.640No matter what color you are or what your politics are,
00:54:05.700And, you know, liberals want a big backyard, too. Right. You have you have the promise of bigness in Texas. And then, too, and this was in the state's DNA before Texas was a state. It was its own country for a while.
00:54:17.100right texas has the promise of freedom and i think for a lot of folks who love texas you have
00:54:23.700the freedom to expand as you want you have the freedom to build where you want and you kind of
00:54:31.500have the freedom of the state's bigness that just makes me i feel so much more independent
00:54:37.640when i'm in texas than when i'm in la yeah and there's also this feeling of like
00:54:42.860like i actually don't think people complain of like the only people i hear who complain about
00:54:48.320the traffic are like almost always like liberals from out of state like me right um it's like
00:54:54.760yeah we in houston we made it so that like there would be no regulations and we could sprawl all
00:55:00.140over the place and now we're gonna fucking deal with it yeah we did this and you know what it's
00:55:05.100like in the midst of the bigness and the vastness and the sprawl houston feels like an incredibly0.86
00:55:10.960free city because everything is happening everything everywhere all at once i like i'm
00:55:15.560always drawn back to these feelings of largesse when i'm in texas and that that for me is a
00:55:23.180cultural core of texas that and that is a that is actually a feeling everyone enjoys in some
00:55:29.600capacity and i do think that's why some of like the the the new urge amongst like this current
00:55:37.420crop of conservatives i'm not talking about george w bush i'm talking more about like
00:55:41.480the abbots yeah like yeah like kind of christian christian fundamentalist yeah like the like people
00:55:49.700who believe more in the theocratic understanding of like you know we shouldn't teach evolution
00:55:54.920in even our textbooks kind of thing like that seems counter freedom it's very counter freedom
00:56:02.040And I think the way our coverage of politics and Texas politics works, we do a disservice to all Texans because we act like there are more of those theocrats than there really are.
00:56:17.600They are incredibly overrepresented in the political landscape because of the way that they have assured that they will remain overrepresented.