00:00:00.000Hey, everyone. We just wanted to go over a few upcoming episode ideas so that you can submit
00:00:04.200your questions. We're going to do a star image analysis of Hilary Duff in honor of her new0.96
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00:00:21.040We have Allie Jones, who writes a fantastic gossip newsletter. And at the end of every issue,
00:00:27.320She has stuff by Hilary Duff. So I actually have kept up to date somewhat on what Hilary Duff is doing because Allie has kept me updated. But like what an interesting mid millennial star image for us to analyze. So send us your questions.
00:00:43.760We've also got an episode about kid influencers, specifically like how they look back on being a kid influencer, how they grapple with being a person who basically like sells a lifestyle or sells their parents' lifestyle.
00:00:58.840We're going to be doing this episode with someone who's written a whole book talking to a bunch of former kid influencers.
00:07:41.340And that something is nominally a plot.
00:07:44.640And I can tell, too, that you get really into, like, a time period and are like, oh, the post-war newspaper industry was really interested in New York.
00:07:55.220That's exactly what it is, where it's like, it's hard.
00:07:57.740Like, there's a chicken and an egg situation here, right?
00:08:00.140Like, the book that was about baseball, is that because I'm into baseball or was I like into baseball because I was already kind of researching the book?
00:08:08.800But like that is like part of the fun of writing historical fiction in general is that you can spend a year of your life like doing like immersive research on something that can become your like all-encompassing special interest.
00:08:22.380And then just at the point when you start to get bored of it, you can pick something else.
00:08:34.620You know, like, usually, like, usually, usually it's like after a book, I'm like really ready to go, you know, other places, other things.
00:08:45.540To have characters wear different types of like formal wear and casual wear, like to describe that.
00:08:51.360Your first book came out a decade ago.
00:08:53.640what was the landscape of queer stories with historical romance at that time like what do
00:08:59.900you remember when your books came out like how did people talk about them okay so like0.83
00:09:03.680slightly irritatingly like the narrative at the time was like it's this is like the first queer0.62
00:09:09.440romance like ever written like here she is like she did it no one's done it right and like that's
00:09:14.720not true i mean like people know it's like it's not even true somebody pointed out that it wasn't
00:09:19.860even true within my publisher you know but like there was queer historical romance it's just that
00:09:28.340like you had to go looking for it right like you had to like you had to know where to look you had
00:09:33.800to know where to start the game of follow the links right yeah you had to be following the
00:09:39.040right people on social media and this is all a very high barrier to entry yeah you just want
00:09:44.140to pick up a book but like p.j. charles was writing um totally jordan hawk was writing and
00:09:51.180that's like what like you know like i don't if they hadn't been writing what they were writing
00:09:54.380like set in the past right i don't think it would have occurred to me to do it you know yeah um yeah
00:10:00.560yeah yeah like and what i had in mind was like something very like when i started to write i
00:10:08.180had been reading a lot of like regency set romances like a lot like back to back never
00:10:13.200like when my kids were babies like I basically had a book in one hand and a baby but they were
00:10:18.200all babies at once basically you know what I mean like and a baby in the other and it was like
00:10:21.540absolutely self-medication and like eventually it occurred to me like wait a second you know like0.97
00:10:26.800there's no queer people everybody's like remarkably mentally well you know0.99
00:10:33.000where they're like they start out like kind of like dark because they have like a tough childhood1.00
00:10:38.760but that's magically cured by the love of a good woman yes and like you know if only you know um
00:10:45.880if only there were all these women out there who were like going to going to solve our traumas
00:10:51.100but um i wanted to like take that like because regency romance has like there's an energy of0.97
00:10:56.600shared universe like fandom type of energy where it's like for sure it is related to history but
00:11:02.680it's mostly related to other works of fiction set in the same in the same universe right like
00:11:08.220rich people London um it's drawing on like a collective imaginary that exists in our heads
00:11:15.320which is great from an from like an accessibility standpoint where like you pick up a book and you
00:11:20.920don't have to if you need to turn off part of your brain right you have that option where you already
00:11:27.000know where these people are what they're wearing and what they're dancing to and what their day0.98
00:11:31.420looks like you know um and so I wanted to take that universe and fill it up with like queer0.97
00:11:38.620people that's what I wanted to do and it turns out that once you start doing that you also wind1.00
00:11:43.720up having to unpick a lot of other like foundational parts of this universe where
00:11:48.780totally it was like it took me like five pages before I realized I found writing about rich
00:11:58.460people like privileged people to be like least appealing thing like being like the rich like
00:12:02.460like somebody who inherited wealth and privilege was the least attractive thing a person could
00:12:07.140could be you know it does so i think this is a different sort of coziness right is that the
00:12:16.020coziness of not having to worry about money all the time and part of the reason why many people
00:12:20.220seek solace totally in these books yeah it's like um this is also why people read about like
00:12:26.500billionaire romance and stuff where it's just like just imagine not having to think about it
00:12:30.660right right but it turns out when you're writing about right so reading a book that's a couple of
00:12:34.880hours writing a book like i have to spend many many months of my life and i can't spend many
00:12:41.100many months of my life with somebody who i want to tie to the train tracks you know right right
00:12:46.120like at least not in that particular way you know what i mean and you and you can't when you have
00:12:50.560the knowledge of like how colonialism was working in this time like you i would imagine as a writer
00:12:56.000if you know all of this stuff you can't like turn it off and be like oh we're just gonna like
00:13:00.600pretend that doesn't like exist in this world right it's very difficult it's like it is if you
00:13:07.640put everybody in outer space right where like they have different problems you know like then I can
00:13:13.680I have a it's easier for me then to just say like okay sure like he's the space king you know what
00:13:21.820you mean like you know what i mean like and i'm just gonna go with that you know totally but like
00:13:26.220because i don't know i don't i don't know the details of like who's being marginalized by that
00:13:30.540trade agreement you know yeah it's always that's kind of the beauty i've always loved that about
00:13:36.580like space dramas right as they can kind of configure these new ideas about how like race
00:13:42.180works right or like what if we don't have to eat ever um that's sort of thing uh we're gonna get
00:13:50.520to this more in the questions but i think oftentimes people have been convinced or persuaded
00:13:56.440by narratives that like well if you want to be like grappling with reality or historical reality
00:14:03.120then like you could never have someone who's queer like they would be you know what i mean
00:14:07.640like just these very blanket narratives that are of course we're like eager that queer people you
00:14:13.160know like got invented in 1995 like that's always which is also like ellen ellen went on the cover
00:14:19.220people magazine and then gay people existed that's right that's how it happened like i was
00:14:23.500there i remember being like oh i didn't exist and then i sprang fully into being um but like
00:14:32.120you know like and that's always very sweet like that's i don't really i don't i don't really know
00:14:37.720what kind of like shelter like you have to have to believe that but like good for you you know
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00:27:12.100I can't blame the time period for anything that hasn't worked out.
00:27:16.640One thing I was thinking about, the most too recent of yours that I've read are We Could
00:27:20.900be so good and uh hither page and both of them are in these really interesting moments of like
00:27:27.360masculinity post-war where there is some like supposedly everything is fixed but it's actually
00:27:33.680very fluid trying to figure out like how do we define what manhood is there's a character in
00:27:39.240hither page that was a deserter but like what does that actually mean like how do we define what good
00:27:45.460manhood looks like it's just really interesting there's so much to play with there yeah especially
00:27:50.320like um i don't know if you've read um alan barabay is coming out under fire but like during
00:27:55.380world war ii in particular you have this like loosening of standards when it comes to like
00:28:02.200people maybe looked the other way you know yeah um yeah and then afterwards there's this like
00:28:09.840really sad constriction like in the u.s you have um you have like this whole like you know you have
00:28:16.540McCarthyism you have the lavender scare and you have this like tightening of what it means to
00:28:21.080what it means to be a man what it means to be a woman you have this like like really like this
00:28:25.860solidifying this like temporary okay like solidifying of like gender role yep total
00:28:31.960backlash if you think about it right yeah that's very like poisonous and I think that like that it
00:28:38.440takes its toll like certainly and I think that we can all relate to how that would how that would do
00:28:42.740it and that does that is something that interests me like when we like when all of when not i don't
00:28:46.880say all of a sudden but like when sort of the knot tightens you know yeah and also like i like the
00:28:52.720other end of it too like where all of a sudden the knot loosens like what does that mean like when
00:28:57.540you i'm so used to these are the rules i'm following the rules you know like all of a sudden
00:29:03.080there's like a new vista of possibility that has to be terrifying also yep i think about this all
00:29:08.960the time actually when it comes to like celebrity especially male celebrities and and being out
00:29:13.940how does someone like let's say like Ricky Martin right who became a celebrity and like whose image
00:29:19.980was really fixed around performance of masculinity but also was at least technically in the closet
00:29:26.280right like as time passes how do you how do you shift your identity to include more of that but
00:29:33.520also you're so acclimated to performing self as a closeted person like that 2000 would be an
00:29:41.540interesting time to yeah yes um and like at that whole like 2000 2005 period where like yeah that's
00:29:49.960like because also this is like the peak of like gawker stalker era yep right yep you know and so
00:29:57.020So there's this like, and yet it's before social media, basically, basically, right?
00:30:02.020And like Perez Hilton outing Lance Bass because he and his reality star boyfriend were wearing the same clothes, like we're sharing clothes.
00:30:11.000And then that forces Lance Bass to go on the cover of People Magazine and be like, I'm gay.
00:30:16.060Right. But as you said, before social media, really interesting fraud time.
00:30:19.700So like celebrities don't have their own platform, really.
00:30:23.420Yes, that needs to be like, I've read a couple of historical, you know, some historical fiction set in that time period. But like, I am, I feel like the cryptkeeper when I think about writing, you know, like.
00:30:39.100It's also just a difficult time for me personally. Like, it's kind of like why I don't like, like, flare jeans, you know?
00:30:45.200Uh-huh. Yes. Like, this is like where it's, um, my.
00:30:58.900I was looking at my daughter's pants. I was like, those could be my pants. Those could be the pants
00:31:05.340that I wore. No, I will not borrow them. Okay. This is a good tee-up for our next question.
00:31:14.640Well, it's an okay tee-up. It's a solid tee-up for our next question, which is from Camilla.
00:31:19.580I am an avid reader of queer historicals, and I'm curious about the dynamic of fantasizing about queer happy endings in historical settings where danger to queer people is often present, especially in the context of today's rising hostility to queerness.
00:31:36.060I think a lot about the role of stakes in romance, specifically the balance between external constraints and internal emotional barriers to the romance, and how the fantasy of overcoming or resolving these stakes is a big part of what makes romance impactful.
00:31:52.520In a time when so many queer and trans folks are facing down threats to our civic, existential, and physical safety, what can the fantasy of a queer historical HEA offer?0.67
00:32:03.760Or, in other words, why is it so comforting, even thrilling, to read about queer romance in the past?0.96
00:32:11.020Is it the erotics of the closet, secrecy as titillating, or something more nuanced?
00:32:16.960I would love to hear your and Kat's thoughts.
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00:39:55.440Next question comes from Julie, and it's about queer romances more broadly and allows us to talk.
00:40:00.800You know, we didn't do the like very typical like, why do women write male-male romances?
00:40:06.440like oh my gosh there are so many there are many things that have been written about this we talked
00:40:11.520about i talked about it and like he did rivalry stuff like every art every smart article has
00:40:17.100traced this history we don't need to talk about this explicitly but we do need to talk about
00:40:21.920lesbian romance so this question comes from julie i would love a discussion about lesbian versus gay
00:40:28.200queer romance why even as a gay woman does lesbian romance not feel as intense or well-written as
00:40:35.000queer men. The best sex scenes I read last year for two women was The Safe Keep, and that's an0.95
00:40:40.500intense post-World War II novel. I'm sure some of this is personal preference, but it comes up
00:40:46.680often at book club and with my queer female and non-binary friends. Thoughts? Have you read The
00:40:52.680Safe Keep? The Safe Keep is great. I loved it. Yeah. I know, me too. I was like, this is really
00:40:58.060hot. I actually also was completely... It's one of those books where I just thought about it
00:41:01.760nonstop for like weeks after reading it and like wanted to like go and like gently place it beneath
00:41:08.600the pillow of like everyone I knew you know I kind of did that I did that I wrote like a whole0.91
00:41:13.720newsletter about it that was like this is gonna fucking blow your mind like it's so definitely
00:41:18.580done I love it yes um and also I think revises a period in history that I think a lot of people0.91
00:41:26.880have a very neat narrative about in terms of what was happening with how Jewish people were
00:41:33.540reincorporated into daily life after the Holocaust. And every single aspect of that book
00:41:40.120is layered and messy. And like, you just love, you love to see it, right? Like it was just like
00:41:46.340such, yes, underneath everyone's pillow. Okay. So here's, here's like, I get this question all
00:41:52.440the time okay like this is like and what i generally say is like this is this is my theory
00:41:56.680i've been there okay my theory is that like this is an issue on the reader end all right like we
00:42:03.120are all swimming in a sea of patriarchy and we're used to seeing men as main characters and it would
00:42:09.480take a yep of psychiatrists and like an exorcist to undo all of that okay and i don't know what to
00:42:18.860do about that right like it's i think that we are in a place where we're seeing so much more
00:42:25.400super hot lesbian romance and that's like the progress i personally want to see in the world
00:42:30.560you know um yeah this is like where i plug anna cowan's the duke which is coming out really really
00:42:37.060soon if it hasn't come it takes place like in french revolution and right after the french
00:42:43.480revolution in an alternate england where women can inherit titles and and like so the duke is a
00:42:53.100woman okay yes yes and the duke is also the worst person you're ever going to meet like which is
00:43:01.460like borrowing from the tradition of like men men dukes were the worst person you're ever gonna
00:43:06.660okay and so just truly terrible complete with the daddy issues and all of that you know um
00:43:14.240and like so hot like I genuinely couldn't believe Anna Cohen is actually a gem okay um this is
00:43:21.200basically like it's being treated like a debut because it basically is but she wrote a book
00:43:26.420god like 15 years ago um about a duke who cross-dressed and like wound up stacking up
00:43:33.100with a pig farmer and it was like this like to publish that in like 2012 or whatever 2012 when
00:43:39.620it was like the law to be like doing like bridgerton okay right you know like she broke the
00:43:45.620law for us i i love this idea too because it takes like a almost like this imaginary or like
00:43:53.500other timeline england to allow a female character to have like the expansiveness of character right
00:44:01.760because the ways you could be a woman were so limited yeah and like the way i always see it
00:44:08.500is like oh this one's spunky right and i'm like like this doesn't do anything for me like oh she
00:44:14.140reads more books no than this other one who also read books or like she goes around and visits the0.99
00:44:20.160people the different farmers on the estate not interesting like it's just a horrible asshole1.00
00:44:28.280okay i love it like god like populate all of my books with women who are horrible assholes okay0.99
00:44:35.400like i will pay full resale praise um i think like but i think that there's another thing going on0.97
00:44:41.040when it comes to gender that you like sort of got out there okay when i started writing there were
00:44:48.200quite a few other writers of like mm romance who were using at the time like see her pronouns
00:44:57.600And then a few years later, they were using they-them pronouns and now they're using he-him pronouns. And like there is something about reading about queer men that I think is a way to explore the parts of gender and the parts of being a person, okay, that are not usually allowed in narratives about women.
00:45:27.600And obviously there's like a, there, like you and I could spend, we could filibuster on like
00:45:33.420exceptions to that. You know what I mean? But it is, we're used to the patterns that we see.
00:45:38.700For me, when I write about women, there is something vaguely dysmorphic about it. And1.00
00:45:42.940like, I don't know what's going on. And I have decided that I will leave that for the afterlife.
00:46:22.840This makes me think of a couple of things. And the first is that, like, I think the dominant narrative explanation for female fandom of MM romance is that, like, it allows women to see men as more vulnerable. Right. And that, like, I get it. Right. And I think that is a huge part of especially like the recent heated rivalry fandom.
00:46:43.900Yeah. But I also think like hearing you describe this, it reminds me to like this is pretty Freudian, but like a desire for the phallus to have to like embody this moment, like these positions of power and to identify with these positions of power that are often withheld from us because we are not like our sex organs do not match the sex organs.
00:47:06.780And you can see that in a lot of the way that, like, especially, like, with the, like, heated revelry has been, like, a craft course in, like, how people will recreate gender roles even when you're given, like, a story about two men.
00:48:41.200And I think, like, hopefully it leads to not replicas of this, right?
00:48:47.460Like, I think this is, like, the very, like, painfully obvious future is, like, a bunch of heated rivalry knockoffs instead of, like, how can we explore different dynamics that are also titillating and beautiful and interesting and undergirded by this very Canadian ethos that is, I think, at the heart of a lot of it.
00:49:09.560Because, like, I was the last person in the world, actually, to watch He Did Rivalry because I was really, like, that was, like, my emotional support novel through, like, many mental health episodes.
00:49:19.520And so I was so worried I was going to watch it and then, like, have to go get a new mental.
00:49:23.660Like, they don't just grow on trees, like, emotional support novels.