00:03:11.820and it was like Bradley you could have just talked my dude but this is the Tracy Flick of it all
00:03:17.500yeah it's not just let me be competent or good it's like let me show you how much I can do
00:03:22.040let me show you how much I can do and it's it's always that with him and I feel like why I loved
00:03:27.200the hangover so much and him in the hangover so much is that he wasn't doing that yet it seemed
00:03:32.180yeah well and we're going to talk a lot about this and the answers to the questions to come
00:03:38.080But I think part of what makes him interesting is he is not as good as some other Method-y stars at erasing the signs of effort or at least at naturalizing it.
00:03:54.060Because to me, Daniel Day-Lewis, I'm never like, oh, my God, that fucker's so annoying, right?
00:17:47.160Or at least the press cycle for A Star is Born.
00:17:48.900So I think that what's happening here and this kind of this goes back to our question of why is it easy to dislike him or why do I feel the way that I do about him is to me this is a calculated overcompensation.
00:18:02.580You know, so he has like because he couldn't do any press because of the SAG strike.
00:47:23.560It's about relationality to your fans and the media.
00:47:28.580And Bradley's like, well, I should just be so good at what I do that y'all just all give me all the awards and are always watching me anyway.
00:47:33.700And, you know, and if he wants a different path forward, there are those like he could just direct.
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00:49:07.300Okay, today's question comes from Ruthie.
00:49:10.400I'm a 38-year-old woman with real-world issues, problems, and life to navigate,
00:49:14.760so the escape of celebrity culture is amazing.
00:49:18.220Why do I feel so guilty and judged when my knowledge of celebrity gossip comes up?
00:49:23.660Honestly, I can't buy a copy of Us Weekly without blurting out,
00:49:26.940I love reading trash like this, or feeling pissed off when someone, very judgmentally, says,
00:49:32.880oh i don't keep up on that stuff when anything celebrity is mentioned
00:49:37.440Ruthie's friends are missing out i just like yeah celebrity culture is amazing it is such
00:49:48.220a great way to think about the world without thinking directly about the world in some ways
00:49:53.800i'm protected from this question because i'm able to always have a phd in this yeah i like
00:50:01.000deflect it right and i'm like oh yes i have a phd which somehow like legitimizes it which it
00:50:06.460should like if anyone's really has been reading us weekly forever they have a phd in celebrity
00:50:11.840you know what i mean and i think that like the same way that i think it's cool to have a lot of
00:50:18.080knowledge about your favorite sports stars or any other hobby that you're super into it is a way of
00:50:25.980getting really into something and knowing a lot about something that is not your job right in low
00:50:32.460stakes yeah yeah low stakes but also like oh when i think about the star and like what are my thoughts
00:50:37.960about them the the thing i often challenge people to do if they like for some reason feel any sort
00:50:43.740of shame or guilt about reading trash is like sometimes be like oh why do i think that way
00:50:48.600about this like why is my reaction the way it is just take it's like doing a little bit of like
00:50:53.380self-interrogation there because it's usually pretty interesting but what what's your thought
00:50:58.080when people talk to you about this sort of like shame and pop culture just broadly so one i think
00:51:03.720you know who never asks themselves these questions of themselves yeah straight men straight men yeah
00:51:10.020they like what they like and that's it yeah they like what they like and that's it right so i would
00:51:14.360encourage anyone from a marginalized background to like what they like and just say that's it
00:51:19.200Right. For one. For two, I think for a long time, part of why I've, you know, said to myself, I take celebrities seriously and entertainment seriously and pop culture seriously is because for a lot of us growing up, the things that give us the script for how to be, it's movies, it's TV, it's music, it's books, it's celebrities and how they move through the world.
00:51:39.340You know, I grew up in a very Pentecostal, religiously conservative environment where I was obviously queer from day one.
00:51:49.140And I was never actually around gay men around them for real until like adulthood, like adulthood when I left home.
00:51:56.920Yeah. And so I realized as an adult now, a lot of what gave me the early script for how to like conceive of homosexuality, period, was TV and movies.
00:52:06.640because my family wasn't teaching me that my church wasn't teaching me that so in many ways
00:52:12.340like the fluff of tv and film and celebrity was actually educating me right so it's always worth
00:52:18.080taking seriously especially if you're someone from a marginalized background because this stuff gives
00:52:22.000you the script to help understand your world and the world for one um for two i think that like
00:52:30.480this stuff actually is important yeah people will talk about sports or they'll talk about business
00:52:38.580and they'll take it seriously because look look at all these these dollars involved it's a big
00:52:43.300business do you know what is a multi-billion dollar industry in america cosmetics yeah why
00:52:49.520can't i take that fucking seriously do you know what's a multi-billion dollar business the real
00:52:55.040housewives franchise the real housewives franchise why can't i take that seriously you know years
00:53:00.460ago um i wrote a piece for i want to say cjr and talked about it on las culturistas of all places
00:53:07.360but i spent a long time when i was a news reporter grappling with these distinctions between hard and
00:53:13.160soft news and you know this there's some things that are hard news and there's some things that
00:53:17.180are soft news and that's just bible and i realized the older i got the things that they say are hard
00:53:22.580news are things that typically straight men like and the things they say are soft news are usually
00:53:28.200the things that women and gays are into yeah and that's it and so we have to understand that we
00:53:35.120live in a social context in which the very question about is it is it a guilty pleasure
00:53:41.000is it trash it is in that is informed by notions of power and patriarchy and if we want to go there
00:53:47.620white supremacy so unpack that shit too unpack it and i'm on the soapbox now no i know i think
00:53:53.820all i need is like a little bit of prompting and then i'm like let's talk about this question
00:53:58.540and another thing and another thing but like when she says that she gets uh like annoyed with
00:54:04.060herself when she gets pissed off when someone says oh i don't keep up with that stuff like
00:54:08.200you should be pissed off that is an incredibly dismissive way to react to someone's interests
00:54:13.940what if i was like like someone started talking about football and i just was like oh i find that
00:54:21.540like an incredibly abrasive and stupid thing to pay attention to right oh yeah speaking of football
00:54:27.720yeah i had someone because so last year when beyonce was touring because i could and the
00:54:33.180money was good that year i went to see her four times i went to see beyonce twice in london and
00:54:37.260twice in la and someone trying to be smart at one point i'm having a conversation this dude is like
00:54:42.380you went to see beyonce four times why it's the same concert each time and i said do you like
00:54:48.560football and he said yeah and i go if you could go to all of your favorite football teams games
00:54:55.900for the whole season would you and he was like yeah oh i was like why because no matter what
00:55:00.920happens i'm gonna play again next year right then he shut the fuck up but it's like we are all
00:55:06.700allowed to enjoy what the fuck we enjoy yeah we are as long as it's not harming other people
00:55:11.080like exactly get into your thing be like thing like life is hard and we die alone find some joy
00:55:19.280in this motherfucking earth us weekly is there for you and do not feel like you have to defend
00:55:25.160it like if anything yes if anything it allows you if someone sees you reading a copy of us weekly
00:55:30.860maybe they'll have a more interesting conversation with you because you can talk about whoever's on
00:55:34.560the cover right like i don't just fuck anyone who says that you should be feel shame for being
00:55:42.600into celebrity culture but that's the thesis of this podcast yes yeah also i've had to learn
00:55:48.340through just living life as an adult we think sometimes that everyone is watching everything
00:55:53.780we're doing everyone's seeing what we care about and what we want and how we are most people don't
00:55:58.940care yeah like everyone is the star of their own movie we sometimes think that we're the star of
00:56:04.800the world's movie no we're not yeah people actually don't care about what you're doing as much as you
00:56:10.220think you are live your life yeah so figure out if you like it if you're doing something because
00:56:15.500you like it like that's part of the joy of getting older i think it's being like do i really like
00:56:20.420doing this thing i want to do this thing i'm gonna do it man you know what i would do i would get a
00:56:25.320subscription to us weekly and have it delivered to your house yes and get a subscription for the
00:56:32.560person who questions your love of us weekly get it sent to their house i will say that us weekly
00:56:38.060has gone downhill in so many different ways there are much better gossip publications i would
00:56:43.440personally suggest hung up by hunter harris and ali jones's gossip time both of which are fantastic
00:56:48.920because that's the future of gossip yeah so that that's a great way for us to finish but thank you
00:56:54.100so much sam for coming on the show if people want to find more from you where can they find you
00:56:59.640right now on the internet i host a podcast all about the culture it's amazing big c it's called
00:57:06.100vibe check it's from stitcher and it comes out every wednesday i co-host it with my dear friends
00:57:12.840poet and buzzfeed alum saeed jones and tony award-winning broadway producer zach stafford
00:57:20.720former editor-in-chief of The Advocate. We are three journalists who are also black queer men
00:57:27.860who just took our group chat and made it a podcast. And it is a riot every week. I think
00:57:32.960y'all would like it. Besides that, you can catch me on all social platforms at Sam Sanders. And
00:57:39.620on those platforms, I announce when I'm on other shows like recently Slate's Political Gap Fest.
00:57:45.520Amazing. Thank you again, Sam. This was a dream come true for me.
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