Diabolical Lies - July 13, 2025


The Womanosphere Claims It's Winning Young Women—But Is It?


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00:00:00.000 Today's episode of Diabolical Lies was brought to you by Hot Pink MAGA Hats,
00:00:04.960 the sticker manufacturer being kept in business solely by Turning Point USA conferences,
00:00:10.340 Charlie Kirk's orthodontist's file in the Witness Protection Program,
00:00:14.300 and that's right, folks, Barry Weiss again, somehow.
00:00:19.180 Barry Weiss again, somehow. Wow, she is really driving our reporting forward at every step of the way.
00:00:25.300 Caro, before we get into it today, do you want to share a little housekeeping update for subscribers?
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00:00:46.520 We're very proud of that. This previous month, our paid episode was about Sabrina Carpenter and kind of the politics of pop star sexuality.
00:00:52.560 We talked for a long time about that.
00:00:54.140 And we also did a bonus episode about Zoran Mamdani and how he has been treated in the
00:00:59.340 press and what we can kind of learn from that.
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00:01:04.640 you want us to cover.
00:01:05.480 We want to always keep it as call and response-y as we can.
00:01:08.860 But it's been really fun to see this community take a pretty big jump over the past six weeks.
00:01:13.700 So for today, my goal for this episode was to approach the recent Turning Point USA
00:01:19.680 Women's Conference and this broader phenomenon of what has been called cultural conservatism
00:01:26.500 like an anthropologist would. You're like Jane Goodall. 0.98
00:01:31.580 The Jane Goodall of conservative ladies, of like bad girl Suzanne Lamberts, 0.99
00:01:37.100 inside out Suzanne Lamberts. Sorry, I have to continue the bit. Katie's like,
00:01:42.960 Katie's like in like a poorly decorated DC Marriott ballroom and these women, 0.97
00:01:48.540 And these conservative young college girls are, like, carefully walking up to her and, like, taking food from her hands and then, like, explaining why they voted for Trump.
00:01:56.240 Okay, I'm done.
00:01:57.740 I'm done.
00:01:58.560 Oh, my God.
00:02:00.640 But I am going to throw it back and I'm going to resurrect the question that underwrote our conversation about Evie magazine, Cara, which is, if you recall, what is conservatism?
00:02:11.860 What does it mean to be conservative?
00:02:14.240 What are conservative values?
00:02:16.240 values because I just spent the last week and conducted several field interviews trying to
00:02:23.220 answer that question, and I barely feel closer to an answer. So, Carol, what do you know about
00:02:30.260 the Young Women's Leadership Summit? Was this the Turning Point one? Yes. Do you know anything
00:02:35.980 about it? I know a little bit about it. I know that it was hosted by Turning Point USA, which
00:02:41.340 is, is it founded by our brother-in-arms, Charlie Kirk?
00:02:45.460 Correct.
00:02:46.500 Our brother-in-ungodly arms. Yeah, I know that there were 3,000 women there, and that a number 1.00
00:02:52.980 of media institutions kind of use this as an example for how the world of women is becoming 0.93
00:02:59.460 more conservative. And I've mentioned to you that I'm kind of skeptical about that,
00:03:02.620 but I don't know much more about what happened there.
00:03:04.980 Cool. I'm going to have you read the conference description as provided by Turning Point USA.
00:03:09.780 say. The Young Women's Leadership Summit is the premier event in the country for female
00:03:15.220 conservatives. Beginning in 2015, YWLS has remained committed to empowering conservative women
00:03:22.960 through networking and educational conversations. Pause. Why do you need networking if you're never
00:03:26.960 going to have a job? Okay, moving forward. Join us to celebrate the fabulous freedoms of being
00:03:31.840 female in the greatest country in the world. Yas! YWLS, it's so, this is such a bad acronym, 1.00
00:03:40.480 it's so hard for me to read those letters. YWLS has proven that conservative women are 1.00
00:03:45.540 stronger than ever before. Has it? Let's go, girls! Exclamation point. 1.00
00:03:50.800 Dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun.
00:03:53.220 Oh my god, take Shania Twain's lyrics out of your mouth.
00:03:56.840 So, the Young Women's Leadership Summit is an event. It is hosted by Turning Point USA,
00:04:01.840 and in June, they held their 10th annual summit in Grapevine, Texas, with, as you noted, a record
00:04:08.680 3,000 attendees. And what you will often hear is about how well-attended this conference was,
00:04:15.780 how more women than ever are flocking to this message. It is true that this is the largest
00:04:22.880 annual conference for young women and girls in the conservative movement, and this year's theme
00:04:28.640 was Home Sweet Home. So not super subtle. Madeline Peltz, a reporter who's working on a book about
00:04:38.420 Gen Z and right-wing culture called Pick Me, attended the event. Great title. She was generous
00:04:44.600 enough to speak with me about it, so we are going to get into her observations shortly. But there
00:04:49.640 were a couple viral clips that originally pulled my attention to the fact that this even happened.
00:04:54.540 The first was a clip that was circulating of a 14-year-old girl asking Charlie Kirk during a Q&A for the pros and cons of going to college.
00:05:03.960 Have you seen this?
00:05:04.940 Oh, my God. No, I have not. She's 14?
00:05:07.580 14. We are going to watch that quickly now just to get on the same page about what is going on at this conference.
00:05:15.460 Do you know how much this conference cost?
00:05:18.300 It costs, I believe, $200 to attend for the day.
00:05:21.900 Okay, I wonder if that girl paid herself or if a parent brought her there. Anyways.
00:05:26.360 Well, we're going to get into the money of it all, because I actually think that that's an important ancillary story for the claimed popularity of this event and the claimed attendance. Okay, here we go. Your face!
00:05:44.780 hi charlie i'm addie and i'm 14 i'm a freshman in high school and i was wondering as someone who
00:05:52.320 has uh like a different opinion on college um what would you say the pros and cons are because
00:05:58.160 i'm interested in political journalism and what would your advice be yes so let me also speak to
00:06:04.320 some of the young ladies here in high school where your top if you are who's here where your
00:06:08.620 top priority your top priority is get married and have kids raise your hand okay interestingly i
00:06:14.520 think there is an argument to bring back the mrs degree and no seriously and just be clear that's
00:06:21.800 why you're going to college right don't lie to yourself like don't like i'm going i'm studying
00:06:26.600 sociology no you're not we know why you're here and that's okay actually and that's a really good
00:06:31.480 reason to go to college actually especially an sec school like you you will find a husband
00:06:38.120 if you have the intent to find a husband at Ole Miss.
00:06:42.700 Like, it's just going to happen, okay?
00:06:44.300 Or wherever.
00:06:45.960 Yeah, there you go, see?
00:06:47.140 Or at University of Alabama.
00:06:48.940 And but, there you go.
00:06:50.600 But I always laugh, because, and by the way,
00:06:52.700 we should bring back the celebration of the MRS degree,
00:06:55.980 which is, no serious, I mean, if you think about it,
00:06:59.460 like, I say college is a scam,
00:07:01.220 but if you're going to find your life partner,
00:07:02.840 like, that's actually a really good reason to go to college.
00:07:05.460 you have a bunch of people that are single you know they're at the prime of their you know let's
00:07:12.840 just say attractiveness the the the dating pool is as robust as you ever find and they all live
00:07:18.600 together over a four-year period like you don't you don't you don't get much better than that
00:07:23.440 okay it doesn't get better after college there and so yeah you could go learn some stuff that's
00:07:27.980 fine i guess or whatever just don't listen to your professors but um that actually was the reason why 1.00
00:07:34.300 a lot of women went to college in the 70s, 80s, and 90s. And it worked for a lot. Marriage rates 1.00
00:07:38.740 have plummeted since that. So. Oh, my God. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Thoughts? I told you, 1.00
00:07:45.480 Katie, that I was like a very competitive athlete for a very long time. Okay. And after I graduated
00:07:49.560 from UVA, I thought that I kind of had lost any kind of like aggression or competitiveness that
00:07:56.100 I had just kind of like worked it all out of me. And now you're like, damn, I want to beat the shit
00:07:59.960 out of that guy it has been through this project with you that i have realized to quote you that i
00:08:06.420 actually do still got that dog in me and that i will and that i will do everything in my power
00:08:14.760 to have a career that renders his influence not only moot but laughable because it is ridiculous
00:08:22.700 but it is also like infuriating to me to a degree that i actually have a hard time finding language
00:08:28.340 for that this young woman said very specifically, she didn't come up saying, I want to find a
00:08:33.100 husband and I want to have a job. She said very specifically, I want a career in political
00:08:37.300 journalism. How do you weigh that out for me? And he basically said, the funny thing about
00:08:41.800 political journalism is it's not located on your husband's dick. And that's what we need to be
00:08:46.060 focusing on. I genuinely hope that that girl, you can see how uncomfortable she is too. Like she's 0.98
00:08:51.240 trying to smile. She's trying to laugh along, but she also like had a question that she wanted him
00:08:55.860 to answer. And he just basically like shoved her nose in a totally different conversation.
00:09:01.660 And I'm just going to spend the rest of my life rendering his work and his impact negligible.
00:09:07.140 Yeah. Charlie Kirk, your days are numbered. You piece of shit. I also just love this shout out
00:09:13.300 to the University of Alabama because I'm like, as a bitch that fully went to the University of 1.00
00:09:17.280 Alabama intent to find a husband, no, you fucking won't. So let's get that out there. 0.94
00:09:23.320 He married his wife far after college.
00:09:26.300 Oh, Caroline, Charlie Kirk didn't go to college.
00:09:29.400 Shut the fuck up. Oh, okay, so he's bitter. Okay.
00:09:32.780 It's like, oh, you're talking about an experience that you never had.
00:09:36.540 It's also so funny, the extent to which people like Charlie Kirk and J.D. Vance just couldn't locate Riz if their family had guns pointed to their heads.
00:09:44.400 What he could have said, if I were going to red pill myself, my response to that would be, you can have it all. You don't need to go to college. Join a Substack newsletter. Write a little Substack newsletter while you're popping out babies. It's so important to have it all. That's what the good conservatives do. They basically flip the message and go, you can do it. You just don't have to do it their way. And for him to just be like, no, don't go to college. Just marry a man. It's just like he's bad at it. He's bad at what he does.
00:10:10.840 Yeah, we're going to spend a lot of time on that today. The second clip that called my attention to the fact that this conference happened was a video of Alex Clark in this tweed faux Chanel getup and these like periwinkle platform Louboutins, which honestly, game recognize game. I will admit I looked them up after the fact. I'm not proud of that.
00:10:32.300 shimmying around on stage during her speech and saying... 0.99
00:10:37.160 Wait, who is she?
00:10:38.520 Alex Clark, we've played her clips twice before on the show.
00:10:41.460 The first was in her speech before the Senate roundtable
00:10:45.780 about Maha in that Maha Moms episode.
00:10:49.120 That was sort of what, like, rocketed her
00:10:50.800 to the next echelon of MAGA celebrity.
00:10:52.980 But she's on stage, she's giving a speech,
00:10:54.620 and she goes,
00:10:56.080 it's never been hotter to be a conservative.
00:10:59.780 And I was like, boop, antenna goes up.
00:11:01.780 I'm jotting down in my field notes notebook, like, follow up on this.
00:11:05.980 Suffice it to say, I'm interested.
00:11:08.100 I find right-wing cultural ephemera to be, like, a little bit of a train wreck.
00:11:14.360 I can't really look away.
00:11:15.460 There's a morbid curiosity here.
00:11:16.840 And at this point in my research, I'm like, all right, this is a rich text.
00:11:20.160 There's a lot going on.
00:11:21.940 A couple other things that happened at this conference.
00:11:24.200 Charlie and his wife Erica did this bizarre, like, Jim and Tammy Faye Baker routine.
00:11:28.640 I mean, Brett Cooper, the 23-year-old former Daily Wire contributor, was a speaker.
00:11:34.260 She has a new show on YouTube.
00:11:35.740 Now, I thought she was relatively niche, but she actually has more subscribers than her 0.99
00:11:41.440 liberal doppelganger Alex Cooper does on Call Her Daddy. 1.00
00:11:44.460 I would just push that in defense of our girl, Alex Cooper.
00:11:47.160 She has launched YouTube very recently and her podcast.
00:11:50.940 Like, I would—it would be hard for me to believe that Brett Cooper has the same
00:11:53.960 listenership and audience that Alex Cooper does.
00:11:56.420 Yeah.
00:11:56.960 Nancy Mace and Tulsi Gabbard were speakers as well.
00:12:00.500 Of course they were.
00:12:01.840 Riley Gaines announced her pregnancy, like, in the middle of an anti-trans tirade.
00:12:08.240 I wonder if her baby will be as slow as she was in the water.
00:12:13.020 I can't wait for your baby to disappoint you as much as you disappointed yourself.
00:12:16.720 In conclusion, if you held a nightmare blunt rotation on DMT in the space where Ann Coulter's
00:12:28.320 soul should be, that was the speaker lineup for this conference. I will put the picture of all
00:12:35.340 the speakers in the show notes. They had a burn book with pictures of Democratic politicians and
00:12:40.820 captions like, make AOC bartend again. I want to show you some of the swag they had for attendees
00:12:48.880 because it is cursed in the funniest way possible. They are really obsessed with socialism and
00:12:56.860 communism, and there is also a really big emphasis on how cute or how hot they are. So I'm going to
00:13:02.620 share some photos with you, and I just want you to tell me what you see. Do they too want to fuck
00:13:07.260 Karl Marx. 30-year-old Karl Marx.
00:13:10.800 Oh. Ooh. Okay. All right.
00:13:13.420 So I'm looking at a political poster that's got an upside— 0.75
00:13:16.560 you just, like, see a woman's legs in cowboy boots upside down.
00:13:19.780 It almost looks like she's lying on her back,
00:13:21.460 and you just have a picture of her legs. 0.90
00:13:23.660 And it says, too cute to cancel.
00:13:25.920 And then at the bottom, it gets hardcore,
00:13:28.140 and it goes, recruit, train, elect, tpaction.com.
00:13:32.040 Which also, I'm just like, what is your political, your platform is like anti-cancellation.
00:13:41.140 That's, you're going to put that on the docket in the midterms.
00:13:44.140 It's also just like, the irony is so constant all the time where it's like, so are you recruiting
00:13:48.820 these people to be influencers to talk about how they don't want jobs when in fact they
00:13:52.420 have jobs?
00:13:53.680 All right, here's a table of stickers and buttons and signs.
00:13:58.260 Whoa.
00:13:59.600 If you can kind of run us through these.
00:14:02.040 Okay, we got some little pin buttons that say Make America Healthy.
00:14:06.160 I guess they got rid of, again, Make America Healthy.
00:14:08.880 They have a big poster that says the food pyramid is a scam.
00:14:12.780 And then we have a little sticker that says I won't apologize for my patriotism.
00:14:17.480 Weirdly enough, it's in all caps except for patriotism, which is lower caps,
00:14:21.120 which is a very interesting design choice for them to make.
00:14:23.980 Moving on.
00:14:24.700 And then we have a little plaid cutie cute button that says dump your socialist boyfriend. 1.00
00:14:29.160 Yeah, we hate a feminist boyfriend.
00:14:30.440 And then we have a sticker that says, train like a girl, compete like a girl, win like a girl.
00:14:37.000 And it's like an animated tennis ball.
00:14:39.520 Spinning a tennis ball on its finger like a basketball.
00:14:42.720 We know sports.
00:14:44.220 People do that.
00:14:45.900 That's just a smattering.
00:14:47.700 I also found buttons that said, homemaking is hot, hot people eat red meat, and communism kills business.
00:14:57.900 it's so funny the idea of someone like one of these conservative women having a boyfriend being
00:15:02.760 like i believe in the inherent dignity of all people and her being like i can't continue this
00:15:07.880 relationship like i really need you to make me your subordinate who has titular power of this
00:15:14.640 household i need you to have the titular power of this household so i i guess i just want to 0.60
00:15:21.920 take this opportunity to ask you what the fuck does any of that have to do with conservative 0.67
00:15:27.160 of policy. Right away, something that became clear to me as I was spending like an untold
00:15:32.320 number of hours scouring the internet for more information about this event was that there were
00:15:37.240 essentially two stories playing out simultaneously. The stuff that was happening on stage and the
00:15:43.120 stuff that was happening off the stage. So, Caro, I am going to have you read this snippet from the
00:15:48.760 Washington Post about the conference. It's a little long, but I think it gets at a few of the
00:15:55.180 important themes that we are going to talk about today. President Donald Trump's most enthusiastic
00:16:00.660 supporters like to imagine that his narrow victory in the 2024 popular vote signals a wholesale
00:16:06.740 rejection of liberal cultural values and institutions. Turning Point leader Charlie
00:16:11.640 Kirk has suggested that liberal ideas prevailed in the past because media and tech leaders had
00:16:16.560 stacked the deck, LOL, and that was changing. We are the zeitgeist now, Caroline Downey,
00:16:23.000 the editor-in-chief of a conservative lifestyle magazine, The Conservator,
00:16:27.220 recently told attendees of a party in Washington. Trump's gains among younger voters, including
00:16:32.880 young women—Kamala Harris still won these groups, but by relatively small margins—have
00:16:37.540 been particularly exciting to the soothsayers of the MAGA-cultural revolution. Sure, maybe it was
00:16:43.160 concerns about the economy and the job market, but hear them out. Maybe it was a backlash against
00:16:48.240 toxic feminism, trans people, and the woke police. If you have any confusion at all about the steps
00:16:53.520 of womanhood, they are covering all of that, which has been super helpful and insightful,
00:16:57.820 Lauren Thacker, a 19-year-old from Fort Worth, told the Washington Post the morning after Erica
00:17:02.540 and Charlie's Q&A. Later that day, Nicole Hader, a high schooler from Massachusetts,
00:17:08.260 approached the microphone in a smocked blue dress to press Charlie Kirk on what exactly he thought 0.76
00:17:12.960 women should be aspiring to. I was wondering if you could clarify what the mission of this summit
00:17:18.020 is because it's a young women's leadership summit, and all of the women that spoke on that stage
00:17:22.620 today and yesterday were there because they pursued a career, she said. As far as Hayter
00:17:27.260 could tell, the takeaway from the conference, quote, was that I should, quote, get married and
00:17:31.740 have babies. Murmurs and some giggles rippled across the room. That's interesting, Kirk replied
00:17:37.940 from the stage. His face scrunched into a thoughtful grimace. I wouldn't say all of them
00:17:42.940 are there because they pursued a career. Maybe I'd have to think about the entire career.
00:17:48.020 God, he cannot think on his feet.
00:17:49.740 He stammered a bit before continuing.
00:17:51.840 I could flip it on you, he told the high schooler.
00:17:54.680 The people that pursued a career are telling you to pursue kids.
00:17:57.800 Maybe they know something you don't know.
00:18:00.480 Hater asked for the microphone back.
00:18:02.080 Oh, hell yeah. 1.00
00:18:03.120 I love that she's like, no, you slippery bitch. 1.00
00:18:06.120 Hey, Hater, if you want an internship, you know where to come. 1.00
00:18:08.700 We got you, girl.
00:18:09.940 We fucking got you.
00:18:11.260 Quote, but don't you think that they, like, had children and got married to their wonderful husbands because of their career?
00:18:16.760 She said.
00:18:17.200 Like, if they didn't pursue that career, that wouldn't have happened?
00:18:20.560 I thought that one of the speakers today was really cool about this,
00:18:23.080 and she talked a bit about how you can have a child and a family while also pursuing your career.
00:18:27.380 An unscheduled panel discussion seemed to be taking shape.
00:18:31.020 Again, that's for every one person to decide, Kirk countered.
00:18:34.360 The mission of the summit, he ultimately concluded, is whatever takeaway you want to have.
00:18:38.520 A renewed sense of patriotism, of, quote, traditional norms and roles,
00:18:42.400 of, quote, true femininity, not this toxic type.
00:18:44.980 But I'll also tell you this, Kirk added, I hope that some of you walk away with a warning that a career-driven life is very empty.
00:18:53.820 Yeah, seriously.
00:18:55.960 So, something that jumped out at me while I was reading the reporting was the emphasis on this fact that the girls seemed to clock the incongruities and contradictions of the speakers and the material that they were hearing.
00:19:09.140 Like, I spoke with Madeline about what she saw there in the crowd, and she told me that she interviewed a number of women who were there, around a dozen of them, and said that there were a few trends that emerged, that many of these young women were, quote, socialized to be extraordinarily submissive, quote, very close to their families, very uncritical views of the role the father plays in their house, extremely polite and religious.
00:19:37.240 She emphasized that more than once, that the Turning Point crowd was super, super religious.
00:19:43.580 One woman she spoke with was like 16 or 17, had recently lost her best friend to leukemia
00:19:50.040 and was there because her dad was a listener of the Charlie Kirk show
00:19:54.240 and like told her to reach out to the field rep.
00:19:57.360 Her poor dad is like maybe actually just trying to help out.
00:20:00.960 I'm going to actually send a little bit of empathy to the dad.
00:20:03.160 Maybe he was like, this is a girl's thing happening and this is the only girl's thing I know about.
00:20:07.240 So they lived in the Pacific Northwest, and she reached out to her local field rep there,
00:20:12.100 who was like a former youth pastor. She didn't have any money to attend. Turning Point paid for
00:20:17.320 her to go. And Madeline told me that this girl, like, cried when she was talking about this and
00:20:23.360 said, I just can't believe the blessings Jesus brings into my life. So that's kind of like the
00:20:29.760 sort of attendee, really, that you're dealing with here. Mostly, Madeline just noted that the
00:20:35.380 women she met there who were in attendance were much more practical and far less dogmatic
00:20:42.000 than the women that were on stage.
00:20:45.360 She said she spoke with a lot of girls from Alabama, from Texas. She said that of the 0.67
00:20:50.100 dozen people she interviewed, she would only characterize one of them as, like, extremely
00:20:54.580 radicalized. She said the rest were just, like, normal, very religious teenage girls.
00:20:59.320 So it's probably women who are predisposed to probably being more likely to have this type
00:21:04.540 of life that they're talking about to begin with, rather than women who were actually standing on
00:21:09.800 a knife's edge of deciding what type of woman they want to be.
00:21:13.200 Zooming out again to the reporting, this is from E.J. Dixon's coverage in The Cut.
00:21:18.880 We love E.J. E.J. has really been getting in there and doing some serious work in this
00:21:23.660 space. So shout out to E.J. Dixon because that is...
00:21:26.200 You also may have an internship.
00:21:28.660 E.J. Dixon is like, E.J. Dixon's like, I'm all set. I'm a celebrated journalist.
00:21:34.540 I'm a staff editor at New York Magazine, but thanks for that.
00:21:38.840 Appreciate the offer from your little sub stack.
00:21:43.300 Okay.
00:21:44.420 The more time I spent in that ballroom, the more obvious it became that conservatism's
00:21:48.980 appeal to the young women gathered inside had little to do with Trump himself.
00:21:52.920 Few young women I spoke to mentioned him by name.
00:21:55.520 Interesting.
00:21:56.220 Some even said they disliked him.
00:21:58.120 The number of bedazzled cowboy hats and pastel bows in the audience far eclipsed the number
00:22:02.460 of MAGA caps.
00:22:03.780 Instead, the women seemed to be drawn to the speaker's soft-focus brand of femininity. 0.99
00:22:08.820 The left wants women to feel angry and like victims and like your rights are being taken away. 0.99
00:22:13.600 Arian Wexler, a 31-year-old influencer. 0.90
00:22:16.440 Her name's Erin, but I also love Ari.
00:22:20.340 Erin Wexler, a 31-year-old probably Arian influencer, told me. 0.99
00:22:25.300 Whereas we think women are beautiful and serve a great purpose, and we elevate them in our own right. 0.99
00:22:29.640 In this world, instead of a machine to rage against, there was a vision of more babies and beef tallow, less blue hair and birth control, as Alex Clark put it in her speech.
00:22:39.520 An attendee could leave that talk and wander over to the merch tables to buy We Heart Nutrition Omega-3 Supplements, 10% of your purchase goes to pro-life pregnancy centers, a sign next to them read, Maha Red lip glosses, and $70 pastel crewneck sweaters that read, healing a sick culture physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
00:22:58.960 All right. Now I'm going to show you the sweatshirt, and I want you to describe. 0.57
00:23:05.980 Oh, my God.
00:23:07.360 Caroline, how are you going to heal the culture physically?
00:23:10.520 Oh, my God. This is actually, this graphic design is taking my breath away.
00:23:15.700 So healing a sick culture, it's kind of like extremely, extremely cursive. 0.89
00:23:20.200 It almost looks like antique portraits, like gold portraits you would hang on the wall. 0.97
00:23:24.600 And there's a portrait of butter, a portrait of an engagement ring, and a portrait of, like, very elderly hands clasped in prayer.
00:23:33.740 I'm just obsessed with the idea of we're going to physically heal the culture with a stick of butter.
00:23:40.880 It's so incoherent that you must walk out of that conference feeling like you just, like, are emerging from an acid trip.
00:23:48.560 Like, it's really Alice through the looking glass.
00:23:50.660 So what you'll find, and this is if you watch a lot of the programming on their little YouTube channel, which we are going to do today, is a lot of advice about dating, parenting, fashion, and nutrition.
00:24:05.020 pretty fucking light on literally any discussion of anything actually policy related. And you would
00:24:14.500 think that given the position the United States is in right now, you would have heard a mention
00:24:19.600 of something about immigration or trade or the deficit or taxes. They're like, no. When they say
00:24:26.300 that women should care about culture and not politics, they really fucking mean it. 0.99
00:24:30.100 The great irony, too, is that they move very quickly between individual and societal responsibility for getting there. It's like, all you have to do to get what you want is just marry a man and have babies and don't work. But then they're also like, well, we need this whole conference and we need to change the government. But then they're like, but don't ask any questions about that. 0.86
00:24:48.820 We've talked about how there was this glaring contradiction between the women on stage and the women and girls in attendance, and nobody embodies this contradiction more than Alex Clark.
00:25:00.360 Alex Clark is a fascinating character to me because her star is rising as one of the most well-paid women in right-wing media.
00:25:08.580 Really?
00:25:09.260 She was the main draw of this conference, and she is 32 years old, single, and childless, for those keeping count.
00:25:18.080 We are going to watch the first several minutes of her speech
00:25:20.960 because this is ultimately what, like, sent me down a rabbit hole
00:25:24.100 on a completely different path than I originally expected this episode to take.
00:25:27.900 It is a pretty stunning mask-off display of opinions, even for her.
00:25:35.100 Ooh.
00:25:36.800 If you don't know me, my name is Alex Clark,
00:25:40.840 and The Guardian recently accused me of running a PSYOP
00:25:45.020 to turn American women thin, fertile, and conservative. 1.00
00:25:54.060 I'm here to publicly say the accusations are true. 0.89
00:26:01.460 Ladies, welcome to the biggest American conservative women's conference, YWLS.
00:26:08.100 2,000 views on this YouTube video, worth noting.
00:26:10.780 Half of which are Katie's.
00:26:11.760 And by the way, by the way, this is our 10-year anniversary. 1.00
00:26:19.100 Get him, bitch.
00:26:20.060 You are in this room, and you are witnessing a cultural revolution. 0.99
00:26:25.740 Less Prozac, more protein.
00:26:30.920 Less burnout, more babies. 1.00
00:26:35.340 Less feminism, more femininity. 0.99
00:26:39.000 I love that one. 0.99
00:26:40.280 I love it.
00:26:41.000 I love that one.
00:26:41.760 They told us to trust the science, but they didn't tell us it was bought and paid for by Pfizer and Pepsi.
00:26:50.480 I don't know if you saw this, but just a couple days ago,
00:26:53.480 Self Magazine came out with this huge spread accusing Maha,
00:26:58.220 the Make America Healthy Again movement, of wanting to put women back in the kitchen.
00:27:04.400 You know what? 1.00
00:27:05.920 Hell yeah. 1.00
00:27:08.360 These women look so uncomfortable. 1.00
00:27:10.100 And no to the media who's here. 0.64
00:27:13.020 It's not because we want it to be the 1950s again or whatever,
00:27:16.220 but it's because the kitchen is where the real revolution starts.
00:27:21.860 And if I haven't even gotten started yet, but if the truth offends you,
00:27:25.800 you're not very bright. 1.00
00:27:28.440 When women, let me explain this. 1.00
00:27:30.580 When women were kicked out of the workforce or sorry, 1.00
00:27:33.880 when women were kicked out of the home, pushed into the workforce,
00:27:38.780 Posit, Katie. Posit, posit, posit, posit, posit, posit. 1.00
00:27:42.160 I'm sorry. I just, I have to, I was holding my breath.
00:27:45.160 I just have to fucking say this.
00:27:47.040 I'm sorry.
00:27:48.080 Are women not doing the lion's share of domestic labor right now? 1.00
00:27:53.100 I absolutely love the idea of women being kicked out of their homes. 1.00
00:27:58.020 You know, all the men are like, I'm going to do the work. 1.00
00:28:00.500 Get out of here, babe.
00:28:02.100 It's my turn to vacuum.
00:28:04.020 All right.
00:28:04.300 That was when Big Food saw the perfect opening.
00:28:07.200 They said, oh, yeah, don't worry about cooking.
00:28:10.000 Here's a TV dinner.
00:28:11.600 Here's a Lunchable.
00:28:12.900 Here's a microwave tray of chemicals.
00:28:16.220 And look where that got us. 0.94
00:28:18.820 Skyrocketing chronic disease, infertile young women, kids who are totally morbidly obese, and families who don't eat together.
00:28:26.820 Okay, I'm going to pause it one more time just to point out, if you are a newer listener of this show, nothing that she's saying about, like, increasing infertility among young women to, like, this nod to the obesity epidemic, none of that is supported by the data in any meaningful sense.
00:28:42.880 and I think it's easy when you hear that stuff
00:28:44.960 repeated over and over again
00:28:46.320 to just kind of assume that it is true.
00:28:48.920 But at every juncture,
00:28:50.220 every single time they try to breeze past that,
00:28:52.620 I think it's worth pointing out
00:28:54.020 the fact that the foundation for their argument
00:28:56.100 is made up. 0.95
00:28:58.600 So yeah, more women, men, and kids 1.00
00:29:02.360 in the kitchen cooking real food. 1.00
00:29:05.540 She looks like if Jackie Kennedy
00:29:07.120 got eaten by a Kardashian.
00:29:08.500 How is this political in the least? 1.00
00:29:12.880 Feminism told women to chase their corporate dreams for their validation while their kids were eating sea oils and their marriages were collapsing. 1.00
00:29:24.120 Well, we're done pretending that a cubicle is more empowering than a countertop. 0.97
00:29:32.140 When we reclaim our food, we reclaim our health and we reclaim power.
00:29:38.300 And that is what terrifies the left.
00:29:40.780 they've got pronouns but we've got purpose
00:29:46.380 and look around this room let's just be honest it's never been
00:29:52.240 hotter to be a conservative 0.96
00:29:54.260 we've got the girls who lift weights eat clean have their hormones balanced have their lives
00:30:03.780 together those women are conservative the men who stand tall lead with quiet strength
00:30:10.680 Don't cower in the face of danger and treat women with unwavering respect and honor.
00:30:15.640 Conservative.
00:30:20.200 The most viral podcast, by the way, in the world.
00:30:25.120 Joe Rogan.
00:30:26.980 Charlie Kirk off stage.
00:30:28.760 Tim Dillon.
00:30:29.820 Yeah, fuck you.
00:30:30.680 Theo Vaughn.
00:30:32.900 The Charlie Kirk Show.
00:30:35.500 not exactly msnbc darlings we are the new mainstream we are the cool kids now
00:30:47.540 even the girls are like we're not sure these tiktok activists with five shades of autism 1.00
00:30:54.260 panic attacks and a ring light we've got girls who look like they just walked off the cover of
00:31:00.000 vogue and can still deadlift more than harry sisson who is she referencing i don't know
00:31:04.720 i do not know we're not running from culture anymore we're running it
00:31:10.320 but here's the thing we're not just changing the vibe ladies we're changing the laws the food and
00:31:19.200 the future. Let me hear you make some noise if you were here last year. One year ago, I stood on 1.00
00:31:31.300 this stage and I told the doubters, the people who had accused me of not knowing what I was talking
00:31:38.440 about when I said that health was going to be the future of the conservative movement, they accused
00:31:42.240 me actually of sabotaging the conservative movement by warning women that hormonal birth
00:31:46.960 control was poison, a fact that I still stand by today. They said, I didn't know what I was
00:31:53.540 talking about when I was saying last year on this stage that if conservatives owned the fight
00:31:58.840 against food and big pharma, we would win the 2024 election. They laughed. They called me a
00:32:07.340 crunchy conspiracy theorist. No surprise to me, at least they were wrong. I was right.
00:32:13.240 Bobby Kennedy Jr. dropped out. He endorsed Donald Trump. They both pledged to make America healthy
00:32:20.900 again. And guess what? Donald Trump won, gaining 11 points with young women 18 to 29 compared to
00:32:28.940 2020. Well, it turns out when you tell women the truth about what's going on with their food and 0.99
00:32:40.840 what's being injected into their children they don't want a fact check they want a pitchfork 0.90
00:32:45.500 this isn't your grandma's gop no offense grandmas we love you
00:32:51.780 this is whole foods meets the west wing
00:32:55.480 it's collagen calluses and conviction it's castor oil christ in a well-stocked pantry
00:33:04.540 it's not just a movement it's a mood okay okay okay oh my god okay there's a lot of stuff there
00:33:15.640 that i feel like you and i have just systematically debunked over our time on this show that i won't
00:33:20.320 spend a lot of time with but i just want to ring the bell and remind everyone that like
00:33:24.620 the irony of this woman pushing this message when she is embodying every masculine traits that she 1.00
00:33:30.280 claims not to want like she is loud she is aggressive she has a relatively low voice 0.99
00:33:35.940 she is speaking angrily she is commanding the stage she is making money for it she is single 0.99
00:33:40.880 she does not have children and it is just this is prototypical and each of these women
00:33:46.240 candace owens alex clark brett cooper they will all have their own explanations for this
00:33:52.100 contradiction it is the most obvious profit cash grab in the world that there is a moment in the
00:33:58.580 son where they can grab money and they're going to grab it. They're going to make a lot of money.
00:34:01.900 They don't give a shit what's going to happen to that 14-year-old girl who wanted to be a 0.99
00:34:05.460 political journalist and now is going to go marry some fucking loser from Sigma Alpha Theta Chi or 1.00
00:34:10.580 whatever the fuck. And so it's just worth highlighting that.
00:34:14.280 It's interesting because Alex came to Turning Point as a pop culture commentator.
00:34:20.520 They all do.
00:34:20.980 And her show just, it never took off. It wasn't until she was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease
00:34:27.340 called Hashimoto's that she became really obsessed with wellness because she believed
00:34:33.420 that her birth control is what gave her an autoimmune disease. That's when she pivoted
00:34:38.720 and rebranded to Culture Apothecary and made wellness her entire thing. And I do think it's
00:34:45.820 fair to say that she does bear a lot of responsibility for wellness becoming a right-wing
00:34:50.780 culture war thing. Yeah, I agree. Let's go back to the crowd temporarily. This is what the Times
00:34:58.240 of London reported seeing here, which just sidebar is so wild that like this is their beat now.
00:35:04.980 All the way from the UK, they're like, look at this fucked up shit that's happening in Texas,
00:35:09.060 you guys. Vivian Chamberlain, 19, who works at a bank, had driven 12 hours from her home in
00:35:16.040 Alabama with her friend, Caitlin Harris, a law student, ooh, tough time, tough location to be a
00:35:21.400 law student, to come to the conference. Though there were things she didn't like about Trump,
00:35:25.360 she said, the Democrats had seemed like the worst option. Okay, that feels important. 0.96
00:35:29.940 Their values just fell off with the younger generation. They didn't talk about economics.
00:35:34.160 They didn't talk about the things that really resonated with us, she said. I'm growing up in
00:35:38.360 a world where my parents were able to afford a house. They graduated college. They can go get
00:35:42.940 an apartment. For me, it's like I'm looking at the future and I'm like, oh my God, there's just
00:35:47.880 no way I'm ever going to afford a house or even gas is way too expensive. Another man said that
00:35:53.260 in a focus group in Michigan last year, he noticed that not a single person put reproductive rights
00:35:57.860 as their top priority. Yep. One young woman, he said, had told him that while abortion access
00:36:02.700 mattered to her, she could only think about issues such as that once she had a roof over
00:36:06.700 her head and enough money to survive. Yes, this is Maslow's hierarchy of needs in action. People
00:36:11.920 are worried about affording to be alive, and they're going to pick the candidate who's talking
00:36:16.460 about that. And I really think it has way less to do with women's rights than Alex Clark is trying
00:36:19.980 to make it seem. So it's at this point that I am slowly slipping on my Hot Girls for Zoran shirt
00:36:25.400 being like, I can fix her. Let me at her. I have actually a great book she could read. But we're 0.99
00:36:31.120 going to go back to Dixon's reporting because I do think it's necessary to remember just what
00:36:35.400 we are dealing with here. As a millennial mother who also had been sold the lie that women can 0.56
00:36:41.900 easily, quote, have it all, I was conducting these interviews on three hours of sleep and
00:36:46.180 in between FaceTimes with my own kids, I agreed with Clark to a point. I am constantly reminded
00:36:51.420 how society makes it extremely difficult for women to balance their professional aspirations
00:36:55.500 with raising a family. Sure, I disagreed with the solutions turning points speakers were offering.
00:37:01.740 When I discussed, for instance, instituting paid family leave, state-subsidized daycare,
00:37:06.300 and universal basic income for mothers with one 30-year-old mom of two, she wrinkled her
00:37:11.640 nose and said, I think that sounds a little crazy. That sounds a little communist to me.
00:37:16.460 But it was hard not to concede the basic premise of what Dana Loesch, the former NRA spokesperson,
00:37:21.520 said during her speech. You cannot have it all at the same time. Something will suffer.
00:37:25.920 Yeah, I mean, this also comes back to how Republicans and Republican-dominated states
00:37:31.540 actually want their voters to not be educated, that they are very against increasing educational 0.74
00:37:36.680 measures because god forbid these women find out that this is already happening in the world 0.64
00:37:40.960 genuinely god forbid these women find out that in most other developed countries the things that 0.95
00:37:46.440 they are suggesting that sound communist are taking place in like market capitalist countries
00:37:50.800 god forbid i want to come back in a little bit to why i think that quote is kind of the linchpin
00:37:58.180 of all of this because i had this overwhelming feeling watching all this material and engaging
00:38:04.860 with this world in such an immersive way for a week where I was like, I think I actually get it
00:38:10.120 now. So we're going to come back to that. But basically, what you have here is a fairly diverse
00:38:15.900 audience of people who are drawn to this conference for their own reasons. Many are religious. Many
00:38:21.720 are driving from other states in the South. Many are expressing sentiments that feel a lot less
00:38:27.180 extreme than what the women on stage are saying. So we're going to get into our last little bit
00:38:32.080 from the conference, which is the Q&A with Charlie Kirk and his wife. And so, Caroline,
00:38:38.780 I'm going to play you a little clip, and I would just love your reaction to this.
00:38:44.860 Oh, God.
00:38:45.960 Let me ask you, raise your hand if you had to choose between amazing career,
00:38:49.860 amazing family. You have to choose. Who here would choose amazing career?
00:38:53.360 That's fine if you do. Please, like seriously, please raise your hand.
00:38:56.440 There's a couple hands. Amazing family. All the other hands. Got it. Okay. So,
00:39:00.600 So, for everyone that rose at the hand of amazing family, how many of you every single day, it's your purpose for being is finding a husband then?
00:39:10.520 Every hand should then go up.
00:39:13.560 But I thought you said you wanted amazing family.
00:39:16.100 You have to prioritize and aim at what you want the most.
00:39:21.680 I might be the only speaker that says this these next couple of days.
00:39:24.980 You just have to make sure that you find the right...
00:39:27.440 I know, but you have to prioritize it.
00:39:28.800 I know, but you can't be like...
00:39:30.600 You can't be like a heat-seeking missile where you're like... 1.00
00:39:33.440 Shouldn't he, like, hit her or whatever they're supposed to do when women talk back? 0.96
00:39:38.580 Like, you can't... 0.72
00:39:39.960 There's, like, some nuance.
00:39:41.060 I get what you're saying.
00:39:41.800 I understand his sentiment.
00:39:43.420 If you're not married by the age of 30, you only have a 50% chance of getting married.
00:39:49.160 And if you don't have kids by the age of 30, you have a 50% chance of not having kids.
00:39:53.040 You should know that.
00:39:54.280 And I'm not telling you anything that is that provocative.
00:39:57.420 It's just the data, right?
00:39:59.680 having children are our gift from the Lord and unfortunately our culture
00:40:03.920 de-emphasizes it and again you get what you aim at you get what you prioritize
00:40:09.160 and so yeah I I just it's interesting because every hand except a couple not
00:40:14.500 so I'm not even saying which answer is right or wrong it's this if that matters
00:40:19.420 more for you then everything you do in a daily basis should point towards that
00:40:23.440 yikes to add on to that for the women who are getting married after 30 that's
00:40:29.660 okay I'm trying to bridge the gap here because it is okay it's not ideal it's
00:40:38.900 not probably the best statistical odd position for you but it's but God is
00:40:45.420 good and there's nothing wrong with it right it's right I find the work this
00:40:52.220 woman is doing for her husband if you just want happy talk that's fine God
00:40:57.160 God bless. God is good. Wow, he's such a dick.
00:41:00.400 It's good. God is good. You'll find your human. I found mine.
00:41:06.140 Did you, honey? Because your marriage looks awful. 0.62
00:41:09.400 Such an awkward dynamic.
00:41:11.540 It's actually incredible to me, though, I will say, that every single woman who is presenting here has so much more charisma and intelligence and ability to effectively communicate their little propaganda than this man.
00:41:24.160 Charlie Kirk is so bad at this.
00:41:27.040 They're, like, working overtime to compensate for him. 1.00
00:41:30.020 Caroline, the conservative movement needs these women. 1.00
00:41:34.900 Yeah, they really do. 1.00
00:41:36.080 They are carrying this entire thing on their fucking backs.
00:41:40.540 That's the wild thing.
00:41:42.020 They're so pivotal.
00:41:43.080 Like, she immediately comes across as a girl's girl.
00:41:46.180 She's like your friend.
00:41:47.000 She's saying, it's not ideal, but it's totally fine.
00:41:49.600 And he comes across as, like, the guy you go to dinner with
00:41:52.740 and you're going home and you're like,
00:41:54.480 should I tell her that he's a dick?
00:41:56.240 Putting aside conservative values,
00:41:57.860 he is so off-putting,
00:41:59.120 and this is why he hasn't capitalized
00:42:00.800 on his political capital to run for office,
00:42:03.020 and he's still stuck in these little college conferences.
00:42:05.800 He just doesn't have the charisma to be a good politician.
00:42:08.260 She does, though. 0.70
00:42:09.120 She should run.
00:42:09.640 She should run for whatever grandmaster 0.96
00:42:11.640 supreme conservative country they want. 0.98
00:42:14.380 Whatever grand dragon. 1.00
00:42:15.800 I hope Erika Kirk runs.
00:42:17.400 In the first clip that we watched, 0.96
00:42:19.100 Charlie says women in the 70s, 80s, and 90s
00:42:22.140 went to college to find husbands.
00:42:25.100 Madonna's like, hey, can I talk to you for a second? 0.96
00:42:28.100 And it worked.
00:42:29.680 In this clip, Kirk says that you have a less than 50% chance of getting married
00:42:34.680 if you are unmarried by 30.
00:42:36.480 Offstage, Alex Clark is like, fuck.
00:42:38.880 Arthur fist.
00:42:40.680 Something known as the diminishing chance of matrimony myth.
00:42:44.240 Now, I want to spend a beat there because I think that there is this sort of fear-mongering
00:42:49.140 you hear a lot from men on the right, particularly when they are speaking to young women, that like
00:42:54.080 30 is this statistical cutoff beyond which your life will end if you are not already a wife and
00:42:59.980 mother. And it turns out the prevalence of that myth began with a Yale-Harvard study that was
00:43:08.060 the cover story for Newsweek in 1986 that claimed women over 30 only had a 20% chance of getting
00:43:17.360 married. And it established this idea in conventional mainstream wisdom that like 30 is
00:43:23.940 the cutoff, that a 30-year-old woman is like a hopeless spinster. Now, of course, it has since
00:43:29.980 been debunked. The real figure is like almost 70%. But I ended up reading this 1991 book for
00:43:36.780 this episode called Backlash by Susan Faludi. And I didn't end up using much of it in my notes,
00:43:41.880 But a big emphasis in her book was that the media apparatus in the Reagan era 1980s, so like think about the era following all the feminist gains of the 1970s, was just on an all-out warpath to discredit sociologists whose work found that women were happier with more freedom and autonomy and instead amplified these quacks who claimed that feminism had made women unhappy.
00:44:09.720 Like, there was a steady drumbeat of that type of story in the news back then, and that era was really the source of a lot of the narratives that we still see the right cling to and amplify today.
00:44:21.620 There was this one guy in particular she wrote about who, like, had columns in multiple major newspapers who was peddling a lot of this shit.
00:44:30.560 Eventually, it comes out that, like, all of his schooling, all of his credentials had been fake.
00:44:34.420 He wasn't actually a doctor.
00:44:35.780 Like, none of his studies were real.
00:44:37.060 But the damage had been done and there was no sort of major retraction or, like, course correction. He just, like, sort of quietly stopped being published. So the dominant cultural narrative becomes this idea that women's gains from feminism were essentially a pyrrhic victory because they had made women unhappy.
00:44:55.000 and like, ooh, sorry that all your freedom has made you so miserable.
00:44:59.020 The data just did not support that, but it didn't matter
00:45:01.660 because there had been such a steady beat of messaging
00:45:04.820 that insisted that it was true.
00:45:07.760 I will also just note, it's important to bear in mind
00:45:10.780 how Charlie met Erica.
00:45:12.400 Have you heard this story?
00:45:13.580 No, I haven't. 0.95
00:45:14.520 Wasn't she like a pageant queen? 0.99
00:45:16.060 So Erica was interviewing for a job at Turning Point. 0.99
00:45:19.320 She wanted to work there. 0.99
00:45:21.160 Jesus fucking Christ!
00:45:25.840 After it concluded, Charlie said, quote, I'm not going to hire you. I'm going to date you.
00:45:34.120 Oh, my God. I want to bring Charlie. I want to do what people do with bad dogs and be like, yeah, we sent him to a farm upstate. I want to take Charlie Kirk to a farm upstate, if you know what I mean.
00:45:45.220 Kristi Noem that ass? 1.00
00:45:46.500 I want a Kristi Noem his ass. 1.00
00:45:48.340 We're going to take a step back for a second. We're going to talk about Turning Point. 0.88
00:45:51.080 So far, we've heard a lot from the voices of this movement that conservatives are culturally
00:45:55.200 dominant, they're culturally relevant again, they're shifting the culture rightward, they're
00:45:58.840 hot, they're the cool kids. Turning Point USA sees itself as an influential and dominant force.
00:46:06.640 So what is it? Technically, it is a 501c3, which means they have tax-exempt status. They are like
00:46:14.560 legally a charity, and donations to Turning Point USA are tax-deductible. According to their 2022
00:46:22.000 tax filing, they received $81 million in tax-free grants in 2022. They have a few affiliate
00:46:31.060 organizations. They have Turning Point Action, which is a 501c4. They can engage directly in
00:46:35.780 political organizing and Turning Point Faith. They claim they have supported and incubated
00:46:41.640 350 right-wing
00:46:43.700 influencers. Incubated is
00:46:45.820 such a good word. It's such an
00:46:47.940 apt, like, Alien v. Predator
00:46:49.740 reference for this type of situation.
00:46:52.360 We've gestated
00:46:53.580 300 0.99
00:46:54.780 woman Borgs who no longer 0.99
00:46:58.100 care about themselves or their own 1.00
00:46:59.840 sovereignty and will happily
00:47:01.580 march their little booties all around 0.96
00:47:03.880 America. God help us. 1.00
00:47:06.080 Their unofficial slogan, at least
00:47:07.840 for a time, was, win the culture,
00:47:09.960 win the country, but their official mission and how they classify the work of their philanthropy
00:47:16.080 is to, quote, educate students about the importance of fiscal responsibility,
00:47:22.420 free markets, and capitalism. You know, what I'm just thinking about right now is the way that I
00:47:27.620 am viewing this, the way that you're describing it, this isn't actually even about women quitting
00:47:32.500 their jobs or, like, having kids or becoming moms or being subordinate. This is just voter suppression. 0.94
00:47:38.880 This is just like them figuring out a very effective propaganda tool. 1.00
00:47:43.060 With Black communities in Georgia, they make it so that you can't show up and you don't have enough papers. 1.00
00:47:47.720 With white women in wealthy towns, they scramble the fuck out of your brain so that you still don't show up on voting day. 1.00
00:47:54.640 This is just fucking voter suppression. 1.00
00:47:56.600 They don't care if you have kids or if you get married.
00:47:58.900 This is just another tactic to gerrymander the outcomes of all of these elections.
00:48:03.640 There's a historical thread here back to like the founding of the Heritage Foundation and conservative economic interests. But it is relatively unique today, I think, for a right-wing organization that prides itself on its dominance of culture to so overtly name capitalism as one of its goals.
00:48:26.560 Because, like, free markets as a value, assuming you're taking that at face value, that's, like, a way more libertarian thing than a conservative thing, especially, like, the way that the conservative party works today, which is, like, very protectionist.
00:48:40.500 They're a very anti-free market.
00:48:42.100 So it just kind of jumped out at me as bizarre that, like, capitalism is literally in the mission statement for this organization.
00:48:49.260 Right.
00:48:49.360 If you will please look at this screenshot from their tax return about what their grants were for. I think this is from their 2018 tax return. I can't remember. I looked at a lot of them.
00:48:59.340 God bear me strength. Purpose of grant or assistance. Awareness of free markets. What?
00:49:07.760 Are we aware enough, everybody? Are we aware of the free markets?
00:49:11.100 I think there are two options here. Number one, it's that they genuinely think that we need to promote capitalism all over the world the way that the U.S. will do that and pay for pro-capitalist propaganda in other countries. Or do you think, honestly, that this is also just indicative of a wildly disorganized organization? Because I almost don't want to give them more credit than they necessarily deserve.
00:49:33.700 They have to find some way to justify the fact that they're tax-exempt.
00:49:38.980 I don't know how much of it is earnest and how much of it isn't.
00:49:42.540 Turning Point started in 2012 when Charlie Kirk was 18 years old and he was headhunted,
00:49:48.320 or like, honestly, I feel like he was kind of groomed, by this 70-year-old rich guy named Bill Montgomery,
00:49:55.380 who like heard him speak at some thing when he was 18.
00:49:58.920 And was blown away by his charisma.
00:50:00.660 And again, was talking his erection into the seam of his pants. You know, it's funny. Ironically, given Turning Point's relentless mocking of mask mandates and vaccine misinformation during the pandemic, old boy actually died from COVID in 2020.
00:50:16.960 Aw, that's so sad.
00:50:19.420 Kirk and Turning Point, more broadly, really rose to prominence in part from maintaining watch lists of professors on college campuses who were spreading, quote, leftist propaganda.
00:50:31.240 Oh, very Barry.
00:50:32.340 Recall that Charlie Kirk did not go to college.
00:50:35.080 So I'm going to have you read from a 2018 Politico profile when Turning Point and Charlie Kirk were gaining relevance.
00:50:41.360 On a warm January in Tempe, Arizona, John Willis was walking down a palm tree-lined path on the campus of Arizona State University when he saw something that made him irate, a student wearing a t-shirt silkscreened with the image of Che Guevara.
00:50:56.920 I thought, kid, you don't even know who Che Guevara is, says Willis, a commercial real estate broker in Mesa, Arizona. God help me.
00:51:04.760 A Che shirt on a college campus might not stick out for most people, but for Willis, 36, it touched a nerve. It was just the latest confirmation of his worry that more young people today are embracing socialism, even Marxism, instead of American capitalism.
00:51:19.740 Okay, wait, I want to come back to that. Some of these kids have no real desire to build something on their own, says Willis, who works for a firm founded by his father. Incredible, bravo. As long as these kids get something for free and they get taken care of, they're happy. What they don't know is that the world that works that way, the socialist world, leads to extreme poverty and eventually death. Please reference Katie's recent episode on the rise and fall of capitalism. Seriously.
00:51:44.500 I have a three-hour podcast episode for you.
00:51:47.480 I was just about to say, if you haven't listened to that, guys, please go listen to it.
00:51:50.900 The donors I spoke to for this story will see that essential to this mission.
00:51:55.100 One thing I like about Turning Point, Willis says, is that it is educating these kids right in front of their socialist professors' faces that what they are being told about capitalism is wrong.
00:52:04.700 Quick cutaway to, like, all the econ professors who are teaching everyone about trickle-down theory, but whatever.
00:52:09.220 But Kirk, not unlike the GOP overall, has become split between Trump, an ardent trade protectionist whose policies could push the federal deficit over $1 trillion, and the free market limited government principles espoused in the group's charter.
00:52:24.540 Can I just say something really quickly? I find it really interesting that these people will always claim that there is a conservative revolution taking place, but then they also claim at the exact same moment that they are fighting back against a socialist revolution taking place.
00:52:38.780 And that really, I think, gets to the heart of what you and I talk about all the time, which is, oh, are people running towards your theories or are they running away from neoliberal economics and running towards anything that even, like, hints at the discomfort that has been caused by that, you know?
00:52:54.220 Yeah, I think the thing that really jumped out to me about that piece was it made it click for me that a lot of these people seem to believe that the only reason young Americans are critical of capitalism or interested in socialism is because their professors or educators are like pushing it on them as if they aren't like living in the breakdown of capitalism at every moment of every day.
00:53:19.640 And like, they couldn't possibly just be reacting to the actual conditions of their lives. And so, of course, the antidote for this is more, quote, awareness of free markets.
00:53:31.020 No, no, no. Let us explain how good you have it. How good you have it. How good you have it. Shut up. You have it good.
00:53:36.600 That's also ironically, like, the position of the entire marketing campaign behind Bidenomics, but I digress. By 2020, Turning Point was embroiled in an election fraud-related scandal. The affiliate Turning Point Action had paid minors to post misinformation about coronavirus and mail-in ballot voter fraud.
00:53:57.140 This was like before the election happened. They were already seeding the internet with this idea that the 2020 election would be stolen. The Washington Post worked with an independent data science firm and identified no fewer than 4,500 posts as part of this effort.
00:54:13.360 I found this quote from a parent of two teenage girls. They said in the piece for the Washington
00:54:20.340 Post, one parent of two teenagers involved in the effort, Robert Jason Noonan, said his 16 and 17
00:54:27.000 year old daughters were being paid by Turning Point to push, quote, conservative points of view
00:54:32.520 and values on social media. He said they have been working with the group since about June,
00:54:37.680 adding in an interview, the job is theirs until they want to quit or until the election. So I
00:54:42.900 found in one of Turning Point's tax documents that they, looks like they paid the firm who
00:54:49.440 orchestrated that astroturfing campaign $530,000. At least some of the supposedly grassroots support
00:54:56.740 for this stolen election idea came from this very highly organized paid effort that began
00:55:03.600 in like the middle of 2020 before the election even happened. In 2021, they paid to send 80
00:55:09.900 buses of, quote, patriots to the Capitol for January 6th, and then later, of course, downplayed
00:55:15.240 that they had any involvement. This was the same year when they tried to open a school. They wanted
00:55:19.120 to open Turning Point Academy that was going to teach a K-12, quote, America-first education.
00:55:24.600 They had projected their revenue at $40 million per year. By 2023, they came under fire again
00:55:29.420 from more middle-of-the-road GOP people, all of whom have since been fired, who called their
00:55:35.140 worldview, quote, radicalized and tried to essentially sideline Kirk and his influence.
00:55:40.360 They, like, basically thought he was bad for the conservative party. I talked to Madeline about
00:55:44.640 this, who's been studying Kirk and Turning Point for a long time. She told me that this was around
00:55:49.200 the same time that Trump ousted the leaders for the RNC and outsourced his field operations to
00:55:55.620 Turning Point. So when Trump won, Charlie did this big victory lap claiming that, like, it was him
00:56:01.100 and turning point in their influence that turned out the vote for Trump, essentially.
00:56:06.440 However, I think it's fair to say that that claim is pretty dubious. I think this is echoed in the
00:56:13.860 Politico reporting. It's also in some New Yorker coverage that their presence and their influence
00:56:20.940 on college campuses and elsewhere is most likely vastly overstated. The Politico piece is from
00:56:28.480 2018. So, like, clearly this was a much smaller organization with a lot less money at the time.
00:56:33.160 They've grown really rapidly in the last couple of years. But the Politico reporter reached out
00:56:38.740 at that time to, like, a half dozen candidates for student government who Turning Point had
00:56:44.160 claimed to have trained and backed or, as we like to say, incubated.
00:56:48.160 Just dated.
00:56:48.880 And none of them corroborated the claim. Some were like, yeah, they reached out to me,
00:56:54.320 but I never responded. Others, like, outright denounced Turning Point.
00:56:57.660 So it's pretty likely that Turning Point is overstating how much influence it really has. 0.89
00:57:04.060 I'm glad that you bring that up because I think that something that I have talked to you about in the last few weeks that is kind of like tricky to work with and I think you have to contextualize is the amount of power that all of these female conservative influencers have.
00:57:18.440 where it's like Brett Cooper, oh my God, she has all these subscribers, Candace Owens, all these
00:57:22.680 people, all these women who have frankly pivoted away from politics who are talking about celebrity 0.83
00:57:27.140 culture. When you contextualize that with how many influencers there are with millions of followers,
00:57:34.580 on Love Island alone, there are multiple influencers from that show who have
00:57:38.600 millions of followers. Think about Hailey Bieber in Road. When you think about just like how crowded 0.99
00:57:43.200 the ecosystem of attention is, just the extent to which that we can so easily deduce the level
00:57:49.320 of impact they are having in a real way on our culture and politics, I think is way more
00:57:53.260 complicated than some people have led us to believe. The distinction to be made is that
00:57:59.340 it feels like supply outpaces demand in the turning point space. They are extremely well
00:58:06.980 funded. They are extremely organized, but their ideas are not that popular. Madeline told me one
00:58:14.340 story about a field representative going through the followers of the Pepperdine Republicans Club
00:58:20.320 before this women's conference and DMing every woman that followed the account and offering them
00:58:26.340 a free trip to Dallas for the conference. So earlier in this episode, you were like, how much
00:58:30.360 did this cost? And I'm thinking like, I don't even know how many people that were there actually paid
00:58:34.100 to be there versus we're on the receiving end of outreach and like, we will pay for you to go to
00:58:39.960 this, who they might be receptive to the idea, but they're not like seeking it out, spending money on
00:58:45.880 it, paying for the travel themselves. And so I just think it's, there's a little like fog of war
00:58:51.340 around how this organization is actually working and like how many people genuinely support it.
00:58:57.160 And I think that part of that comes back to Charlie Kirk. Madeline described him as
00:59:01.820 psychotically ambitious and extraordinarily wealthy. She told me that he went through a
00:59:08.160 religious conversion in 2021 with some megachurch pastor named Rob McCoy, who now works for the
00:59:15.700 faith division of Turning Point. This guy was like, you know, one of those who refused to shut
00:59:20.080 his church down during COVID. And apparently this was when Charlie got really big on the
00:59:24.980 Christian nationalism thing. So from a business perspective, Madeline was like, this is also
00:59:30.460 but partially because there was less of an audience for Turning Point without tapping into churches.
00:59:36.080 If you recall, two different people that I spoke with about this conference told me these attendees
00:59:40.420 were extremely religious. So I think it makes perfect sense that this was just as much a
00:59:45.640 business move as it was him becoming a sincere Christian nationalist. So his influence, I think,
00:59:53.680 to sum it all up, is a little bit of a paradox. It's hard to overstate his presence online.
00:59:58.420 His TikTok footprint is massive. I mean, his top videos get tens of millions of views.
01:00:04.500 But Madeline told me that she thinks Turning Point itself is actually a bit of a paper tiger,
01:00:09.360 that their ideas are just not popular. We've just spent a lot of time on Turning Point. We've spent
01:00:13.840 a lot of time on, like, religiosity, the types of women that this is attracting.
01:00:19.180 Tangentially related to what you are witnessing at this Turning Point USA Women's Summit 0.80
01:00:23.760 is the thread of conservatives being hot.
01:00:28.300 So I wanted to pull on that a little bit more
01:00:30.320 because I felt like it might lead us somewhere interesting.
01:00:33.140 And what I found really expanded my understanding
01:00:36.340 of what is happening here.
01:00:37.860 So there are a few avatars for this faction
01:00:40.980 of the cultural conservatism thing,
01:00:43.820 who I have come to think of and refer to myself
01:00:47.240 as the dark girl bosses.
01:00:49.640 You have Aaron Wexler or Arian Wexler,
01:00:52.740 who spoke at the conference. And she was quoted in that earlier paragraph you read. Raquel De
01:00:57.840 Bono, who also spoke at the conference. And Jamie Lee Franklin, who wasn't there,
01:01:03.640 but is in that Venn diagram. So you see a lot of this in the major liberal outlets since the
01:01:09.140 election. New York Magazine has covered it, Washington Post, New York Times. And these
01:01:13.140 women's names and their projects are name-dropped constantly throughout all of it, as those that
01:01:18.920 are like at the vanguard of this new conservative movement. If you remember that New York magazine
01:01:24.380 cover story, The Cruel Kids Table, or similar pieces about these like Make America Hot Again
01:01:29.380 parties in New York, you will see these women's names and faces peppered throughout. My key thing
01:01:34.780 here is that where you're seeing these extremely religious low and middle income girls from
01:01:41.140 suburban or rural communities culturally represented at the Young Women's Leadership Summit,
01:01:46.400 The women featured in these circles are typically highly educated, high-income, and urban.
01:01:53.800 So we're going to explore a little bit of what they're up to. 0.94
01:01:56.880 Kara, had you heard of Erin Wexler before today?
01:01:59.600 No, I had not.
01:02:00.840 Okay.
01:02:01.220 I am going to have you read the bottom two paragraphs of her About page on her website.
01:02:10.220 Amazing.
01:02:11.280 I'm not entirely clear on what this website is supposed to be for.
01:02:17.300 Okay.
01:02:21.460 Oh, it's just so good that her name is spelt basically Arian.
01:02:25.160 Okay.
01:02:26.180 I don't fit the standard mold.
01:02:29.120 I grew up as one of few conservatives on the outskirts of the very blue New York City, classic, with two degrees from Wharton Penn.
01:02:35.980 Girl, why are you getting degrees?
01:02:37.400 And a career that started on the trading floor at Goldman Sachs and took me to the startups of Silicon Valley.
01:02:42.660 The left doesn't know what to do with me.
01:02:44.800 Or we're like, you're welcome for your education and your career.
01:02:48.760 Yeah, the left is thrilled that you got educated, honey. I'm not here to echo the same old narrative. I'm all about smashing the status quo and redefining what conservative commentary can be. This reads like a Real Housewives open liner. My quote non-lib takes are about challenging norms, sparking conversations, and injecting some fresh thinking into the mix. Stick around. I've got a lot more to share.
01:03:11.720 Okay, I got nothing from that. I have no clue who she is or what she thinks. I could guess.
01:03:16.180 Thank you. I ask you, what is conservative commentary? What the fuck does conservatism
01:03:22.760 mean? I went and I watched some of her videos, and I was like, again, I feel no closer to
01:03:27.500 understanding what any of this has to do with conservatism. Okay, moving on to Jamie Lee.
01:03:33.120 Caroline, I could give you a thousand guesses for how this woman's name is spelled. You would be 1.00
01:03:38.240 no closer by the thousandth guess, but I'm going to have you try anyway.
01:03:42.380 There's going to be a why.
01:03:43.360 Yes.
01:03:43.860 Several.
01:03:44.780 There's going to be a why.
01:03:46.140 You're correct.
01:03:46.780 There is a why.
01:03:47.180 There is going to be between the two words, a surplus of E's.
01:03:51.440 I think like five E's, maybe six.
01:03:55.140 I'm going to share my screen so you can see how her name is spelled.
01:03:58.360 Whoa.
01:03:59.480 Okay.
01:04:00.540 So many vowels.
01:04:02.540 So Jamie Lee is the founder of that website called The Conservator.
01:04:07.520 or as I will henceforth be referring to
01:04:10.720 a Kirkland brand Squarespace template
01:04:12.640 Evie magazine
01:04:13.400 sometimes when I look at these websites 0.94
01:04:18.480 and these girls Fox News appearances
01:04:20.740 I honestly feel
01:04:21.900 jealous that I'm not like
01:04:24.220 more hateful or brain dead
01:04:25.980 because I do feel like my relationship with my parents
01:04:28.340 would just be god tier if I were
01:04:30.260 on Jesse Waters
01:04:31.800 talking shit about immigrants and poor people
01:04:34.120 anyway here is the about 0.66
01:04:36.540 page of The Conservator's site, if you will do me the honors of reading what they say they're all
01:04:46.580 about. The brainchild of style aficionados and conservative politicos, The Conservator is
01:04:53.860 igniting a countercultural revival among women. Our media and lifestyle brand represents American
01:05:00.180 women hailing from all corners of the country. Inspired by the adventurism of the Wild West,
01:05:05.920 the heritage of the Northeast, the charm of the South, and the patriotism of the heartland,
01:05:11.500 the conservatory captures America's quintessential style and traditions.
01:05:15.960 Through elegant design and prose, the conservatory restores long-lost moral and aesthetic refinement.
01:05:21.760 Okay. We are blessed to have earned the trust of many devotees from all vocations who look to us
01:05:27.580 to navigate life's seasons amidst spiritual crisis. We could also say that, Katie. We could
01:05:32.060 put that as our new tagline. No matter the story or subject, the conservator delivers thoughtful
01:05:38.020 commentary and insightful analysis. We continue to create beautiful products that reflect American
01:05:43.040 greatness so women everywhere can wear their values on their sleeve. I feel like I've read the
01:05:46.680 topic sentence for a paragraph 11 times in a row. For our followers, yeah, okay, here we go,
01:05:52.120 another one. For our followers, the conservator is a confidant as much as a bold contrarian voice.
01:05:57.660 Here's another one.
01:05:58.660 Dedicated to timeless truths, our project transcends politics to provide a nostalgic
01:06:03.160 oasis, a spirited salon, and a community for women who aspire to become the best versions
01:06:07.500 of themselves.
01:06:08.460 Oh, and the final one is also a topic sentence.
01:06:10.840 With its steadfast commitment to excellence, faith, and virtue, even when it's not in vogue,
01:06:15.400 the conservator's runway is limitless.
01:06:17.120 Okay, this is the problem with eschewing education. 1.00
01:06:19.880 These girls never learned about the five-sentence paragraph. 1.00
01:06:22.640 Topic sentence. 0.97
01:06:23.480 Example one.
01:06:24.220 Example two.
01:06:24.920 Example three.
01:06:25.820 Conclusion.
01:06:26.300 They give me nothing to work with in this because I have no fucking clue what that bag of word salad was.
01:06:33.020 Whenever we talk about, like, the mechanics of writing together, I remember that I, too, am also an uneducated gunscap compared to you.
01:06:41.860 Where I'm like, duh, this sounds nice.
01:06:44.200 I should also note, you actually don't even need an education for that because stories are the most instinctual aspect of being, like, humans instinctually understand how to make arguments and how to give stories.
01:06:54.760 if they have brains that are designed to do that.
01:06:57.580 You have a brain that is designed to communicate,
01:06:59.660 which is why it comes naturally to you.
01:07:01.080 These women were not gifted by the Lord
01:07:03.440 with the ability to naturally communicate, 0.99
01:07:05.840 and they also didn't pay attention in school.
01:07:07.800 And so they're just doing a five-paragraph about page
01:07:10.860 that is 50 topic sentences
01:07:12.940 with no explanation for what's happening here.
01:07:16.580 With that sort of grand vague mission,
01:07:19.560 you'd probably expect their politics coverage
01:07:22.420 to be at least a little bit on top of it.
01:07:24.600 I mean, they're calling themselves conservative politicos in the opening sentence, especially given the last 150 days of legislative horror that we have had in this country.
01:07:35.300 So I was like, okay, okay, dope.
01:07:37.860 Insightful conservative analysis from refined contrarian ladies.
01:07:42.600 I love it. 0.89
01:07:43.440 Barry Weiss is shaking in her filas.
01:07:45.260 So can you go to the conservator's website and navigate for me to the politics section of the site and tell me what the most recent article was?
01:07:57.960 Okay. Politics. Okay. All right. Okay. So this is very Evie coded. So I just clicked on the politics tagline and the latest article is from February.
01:08:11.640 Okay, so seven months ago?
01:08:13.320 Wait, okay.
01:08:13.880 So I'm looking at the politics tagline,
01:08:15.680 and it looks like they stopped writing politics articles in February,
01:08:19.120 but they also really never wrote politics articles to begin with,
01:08:22.720 because I'm going to read the headlines.
01:08:24.340 Let's see.
01:08:25.380 Headline number one.
01:08:26.440 The media's latest buzzword, misogyny.
01:08:29.320 Yes, this is a piece about how the media uses the word misogyny too much.
01:08:33.920 Incredible.
01:08:34.680 No notes.
01:08:35.560 Headline number two.
01:08:37.060 Promises made, promises kept.
01:08:38.740 The Trump comeback tour.
01:08:40.600 Headline number three, the case for Bobby Kennedy.
01:08:43.980 Headline number four, it's been a long four years.
01:08:47.260 Here's how to reset and embrace the exciting next four.
01:08:50.300 Terrible headline. 1.00
01:08:51.360 One more headline, the future is female under Trump. 0.53
01:08:54.900 So that's their politics articles.
01:08:57.260 Is this the insightful analysis that you would expect from a couple of conservative politicos?
01:09:04.180 I had the same reaction.
01:09:05.280 I was like, you know what?
01:09:05.960 Maybe this is just like a shell company for laundering human trafficking money.
01:09:09.740 Like, maybe they haven't actually posted in any verticals for a while.
01:09:13.740 Caro, click fashion for me.
01:09:15.560 Oh, no.
01:09:16.940 Here we go.
01:09:17.840 Yep, June.
01:09:18.720 Our most recent June.
01:09:20.040 We've got a headline, Summer of Nostalgia, From Food to Fits.
01:09:23.540 Let's see.
01:09:24.420 Stars, Stripes, and Summer Style.
01:09:26.780 2025 Spring Style Guide.
01:09:28.940 Mastering the Fashion of the Masters Tournament.
01:09:31.060 Yeah, so this is where I get into my theory where it's like, I've had a lot of people message me recently what I think about, like, Candace Owens for obvious reasons if you know my history.
01:09:39.280 Yeah. 1.00
01:09:39.740 I actually find it to be great news that all of these conservative women are funneling their 1.00
01:09:45.280 efforts into essentially replicating something that already exists, which is conservative tabloid 1.00
01:09:49.900 culture. Like, this is not new. Yeah, click lifestyle for me.
01:09:54.180 Tabloid culture has always been conservative. Oh, yeah. June. Teach your children well. 1.00
01:09:59.280 Jordan Peterson counsels parents in new series. Let's see. June. Charleston, South Carolina,
01:10:04.060 where faith and civil society flourished. Article number three. This is pretty confusing for
01:10:08.260 lifestyle clarity over chaos it's just like they're all eating themselves too like i'm happy
01:10:13.460 let this spring up and fight with evie magazine and then they can both go under again i ask you
01:10:18.020 what makes this website conservative why does this align in any way whatsoever with what trump
01:10:25.500 is it doesn't it doesn't it doesn't at all it's just a cash grab so just for fun i'm uh i'm gonna
01:10:30.920 have you read a pinned post on the Conservator's Instagram page. Because if you recall, this is
01:10:39.420 like a New York-based operation. Mm-hmm. Oh, incredible. Hey, actually, this is like decent
01:10:46.540 design work. Zoran Mamdani represents the far-left fringe pushing a socialist, anti-policed,
01:10:53.420 anti-Western civilization and anti-capitalist vision that's out of step with American values.
01:10:59.260 Zoran Mamdani's far-left agenda would destroy safety, prosperity, and unity,
01:11:04.440 turning New York City into a lawless, unlivable socialist experiment
01:11:08.240 where criminals thrive, businesses flee, and working families suffer. 1.00
01:11:12.220 The conservator. 0.94
01:11:13.700 With, like, sunset background.
01:11:16.140 This is a weird headline.
01:11:18.000 Oh, oh, okay, so this is them, like, trying to scare you.
01:11:20.640 So they have this weird headline that says,
01:11:22.360 Member of the Democratic Socialists of America.
01:11:24.820 I guess that's them describing him.
01:11:26.380 Terrifying.
01:11:26.960 Terrifying.
01:11:27.360 Mom Donnie openly identifies as a socialist and promotes dismantling capitalism and dramatically expanding government control over private industry and personal life.
01:11:36.140 What does that sound like?
01:11:37.540 What is government control over private industry and personal life?
01:11:40.420 Does that sound like what we have right now?
01:11:42.300 Neither here nor there. 1.00
01:11:43.580 By vilifying business and—wait, by—okay, these women are such bad writers. 1.00
01:11:47.940 By vilifying business, just all business, and pushing socialist economics, Momdani would choke job growth, raise taxes, and kill innovation, driving jobs and talent to other states, and furthering the cost-of-living crisis. 1.00
01:12:02.660 Momdani blames capitalism for nearly every societal issue, ding, ding, ding, and wants to replace it with state-driven socialism, a proven failure globally and historically.
01:12:11.500 Do you think that someone that, like, one of their conservative bros, like, told them to write this?
01:12:18.000 Because why wouldn't this be on their website?
01:12:20.780 Almost certainly.
01:12:21.760 I mean, it's also just the most surface-leveled, disproven 40 times over style talking points.
01:12:30.400 This last paragraph is my favorite. 0.86
01:12:34.500 I knew there was going to be some jihadi terrorist push. 0.71
01:12:37.360 Okay. 0.70
01:12:38.380 Anti-Western civilization extremism. 1.00
01:12:41.500 He's brown! 0.98
01:12:44.220 Mamdani supports the boycott, divestment, and sanctions movement against Israel, 0.90
01:12:49.080 which is, just to be clear, a fully legal economic movement of just protest.
01:12:54.900 Okay.
01:12:55.400 Mamdani's hostility toward Israel, support for radical anti-colonial movements, 0.82
01:12:59.760 and they're just pro-colonial, it's hilarious,
01:13:03.320 and refusal to condemn terrorist groups like Hamas aligning with anti-Western forces.
01:13:07.820 Furthermore, he supports education policies, terrifying, that demonize Western history, promote critical race theory, and paint America's founding as oppressive.
01:13:17.740 Western civilization prioritizes individual liberty and equal opportunity, says the girls who are literally fighting against that.
01:13:25.320 Mom, Donnie's embrace of identity politics and collectivist ideology is divisive and regressive, turning citizens into competing tribes rather than united individuals.
01:13:34.360 Incredible rhetorical trick there.
01:13:37.820 It's a collectivist ideology which turns citizens into competing tribes rather than united individuals.
01:13:49.180 Word salad. Total word salad.
01:13:51.060 So I wanted to include that because I think in my like, oh, everyone join hands and shout, you don't hate feminism, you just hate neoliberalism belief system.
01:13:58.640 I like to think that these people just do not even recognize capitalism as a force that is shaping their lives.
01:14:05.780 But I fear that is not true. We will come back to the capitalism of it all at the end of this and, you know, the profit motive at play that's driving a lot of this. But in the meantime, I want to talk about the parties because part of what they do is they throw parties and mixers and events for other so-called hot conservatives in New York.
01:14:28.760 And from what I can tell, the events are hosted by a number of organizations. You have Date Right Stuff, which is the dating app for conservatives that Caroline Leavitt did SpawnCon for, The Conservator, and another, which we're going to talk about in a second, called Make America Hot Again.
01:14:44.080 And Caroline, would you believe that the unedited Google photo libraries from these events are just open for anyone to see?
01:14:52.880 It's so pick me. It's so embarrassing.
01:14:54.740 who's good at googling do with that information what you will everyone and by do what you will
01:15:01.020 i mean i'm gonna put the link in the show notes oh my god these sorts of parties are like exactly
01:15:07.860 the beat that the free press loves um when i tell you that i can feel the boner straining against
01:15:14.940 the cargo pants of this reporter caro i'm gonna have you read an excerpt from a march free press
01:15:20.920 article called Write Young Things, A Night Out with the MAGA Kids. This is talking about the
01:15:29.020 cruel kids table piece. You said this is the free press? Oh, yeah. Okay, so we know it's going to be
01:15:37.560 well-written, fact-checked, thoroughly reported. Try to get through it without gagging. I'm just
01:15:43.460 going to say the quiet part out loud. Hot people don't have to say all the time, I'm hot.
01:15:50.920 Do you know what I mean?
01:15:52.220 Hot people are just hot. 0.99
01:15:54.340 Like, beauty is visual.
01:15:56.020 If you are as beautiful as you say, people will say it for you.
01:15:59.700 You don't have to tell us.
01:16:01.480 Your effort to convince me is really starting to make me think that your filter is working pretty hard.
01:16:06.540 Okay.
01:16:07.440 The image was straight out of Gossip Girl.
01:16:09.680 The most beautiful young people you've ever seen with razor-sharp cheekbones and expensive-looking clothes in an opulent ballroom having the time of their lives.
01:16:19.560 Yes. Yes. Sell me on it. The associated hit piece clearly meant to reveal what the new young
01:16:24.980 right is really like. Awful. But what it actually did was amplify an idea already popular on the
01:16:30.380 internet, that being young and right-wing is hot. What does being right-wing mean in this context?
01:16:37.020 What makes it hot? Again, I feel no closer to understanding. And so that brings us to Raquel
01:16:43.440 de bono raquel de bono is the founder of make america hot again we are going to watch one of
01:16:50.120 her videos before we go any further so you can understand what we're talking about here all 0.52
01:16:55.040 right let's fucking go i don't think enough conservatives talk about the emerging movement 0.75
01:16:59.060 that is the new right and what's the new right you may ask it is the normal city conservative 0.88
01:17:03.160 we're just normal people they can have liberal friends they can have conservative friends and
01:17:06.540 they just don't really care about a lot of these issues on the dock for example abortion let's be 0.60
01:17:10.840 so fucking for real as a city conservative my friends and i don't care about abortion would i
01:17:15.520 judge someone for getting an abortion no would i ever get an abortion no not at this point in my 0.91
01:17:19.760 life because i'm almost 29 years old do i think people should just like willy and nilly me having
01:17:24.200 abortions like no that's also there's a lot of people in the mega movement have qualities that
01:17:29.160 i don't love like for example the super bowl you guys are so mad about kendrick lamar who care who
01:17:34.540 care like am i gonna make it about politics no because it's not political who care who care i
01:17:40.280 just think that a lot of these issues that conservatives like will die on the hill that
01:17:43.800 is certain a city conservative or like this new right or new generation of mega people don't give
01:17:49.140 a fuck about and i think a lot of liberals still judge people who are on the right when at the end
01:17:53.160 of the day i probably think we could probably have a normal conversation probably wouldn't even know
01:17:56.660 i was conservative if you didn't like stalk me on instagram yeah i think it's really good to just
01:18:00.360 always have many perspectives and not be in an echo chamber it's funny because the more i hang
01:18:04.000 out with liberals the more conservative i become the more i hang out with conservatives the more
01:18:07.620 liberal. So it's always good to... Okay, so she's not conservative? Exactly! I literally...
01:18:13.340 Wait, wait, Paz, though, I just want, again, once again, when we note how successful this movement
01:18:17.200 is, this woman has 19,000 followers. You and I have more followers on both TikTok and Instagram
01:18:22.600 than this woman. Would we say the movement is growing? Unclear. I'm sitting there watching
01:18:27.000 this and I'm going to go, dude, you're describing liberalism. Like, you are describing, if anything,
01:18:31.660 you're describing, like, libertarianism, which is, like, I don't care what people do. You're
01:18:36.720 describing apathy. Right? So I've watched this and I'm like, dude, what the fuck does conservatism
01:18:43.140 mean to these people? Why does she think that she's a conservative? And so in my effort to find
01:18:49.020 out, I looked at all the press that she has gotten for Make America Hot Again and all the
01:18:54.980 associated speaking engagements at things like the Turning Point Conference. Something interesting
01:19:00.240 about this is that they basically concede that the conservative impulse in many of these spaces
01:19:06.620 is about culture not as a means, but as an end in itself.
01:19:12.160 And this finally set me over the edge.
01:19:13.740 This is from the Wall Street Journal.
01:19:15.600 She says,
01:19:16.480 I always say it's harder to come out as conservative in New York City
01:19:19.540 than to come out as gay, said Raquel De Bono, the event organizer.
01:19:22.680 Oh my God, the victimization.
01:19:24.640 That might be changing.
01:19:26.120 After November's election turned much of America red
01:19:29.140 and won President Trump the popular vote,
01:19:31.900 right-leaning 20 and 30-somethings in blue cities
01:19:34.420 are proudly declaring their conservatism in the hopes of finding love. Many of these highly
01:19:40.000 educated, upwardly mobile young people embody a new kind of conservative, one who is less focused
01:19:46.740 on sticking to the party lines and more interested in swinging the culture to the right from nightlife
01:19:53.220 to social media. So at this point, I reach out to her and I'm like, will you talk to me about your
01:19:59.740 views because I don't understand what swinging the culture to the right means to you.
01:20:06.020 Right.
01:20:06.180 So she agreed. We talked for like half an hour. And one of the things that she says is that
01:20:10.680 hotness is a bipartisan issue. So I wanted to know why she was explicitly tying it to
01:20:16.920 conservatism. And she said, my best way to explain it is that my mother worked part time.
01:20:22.800 She was always put together. She taught me to always have my nails done, always have my hair
01:20:27.960 done. Always put my best face forward. The confidence comes from looking good. These are
01:20:33.480 basically traditional values, basic principles of femininity. And so she was like, I think the
01:20:39.980 right has gone too far. She brought up the thing about how people will be like, oh, women shouldn't 0.66
01:20:43.940 vote. And she thinks that's crazy. She's like, I want all of the economic advantages that 0.98
01:20:48.920 feminists have fought for, but sometimes I find their strategies annoying. She said, quote, men 1.00
01:20:53.540 and women are inherently different. Women have to spend an extra 20 minutes getting dressed in the
01:20:58.480 morning. The feminists of today say that you can wear whatever you want, and you just can't. 1.00
01:21:03.940 Okay. So, so far, everything was pretty boilerplate. She basically associates feminine
01:21:08.640 upkeep with traditional values and associates traditionalism with conservatism. It's really
01:21:13.380 not that deep. But what's interesting about Raquel is that she's also an attorney. She is a careerist.
01:21:19.120 She is single and childless.
01:21:21.200 L-O-L.
01:21:22.840 And so I asked her if she felt any sort of cognitive dissonance
01:21:26.320 around associating with a party
01:21:28.060 that essentially, like, denigrates her identity
01:21:30.440 as a woman with an education, a career, and no family.
01:21:33.580 And she said, quote,
01:21:35.140 We need a rebrand.
01:21:36.400 We need a facelift on the right.
01:21:38.160 I'll give you an example. 1.00
01:21:39.560 Turning Point did a women's conference a month ago.
01:21:41.940 I sent all the pictures to my friends,
01:21:43.960 and I was like, this is embarrassing.
01:21:46.040 They're all wearing floral, roughly dresses.
01:21:48.200 were they given a dress code?
01:21:50.800 She also told me that she has spoken to the speakers
01:21:53.440 at this conference at length.
01:21:55.500 And she said, quote,
01:21:56.740 I know for a fact they don't believe what they are saying.
01:21:59.700 It's very inauthentic.
01:22:02.740 I talk to one of them about casual sex all the time.
01:22:06.180 So I'm like, why are you on this panel?
01:22:09.500 Okay, Raquel.
01:22:11.200 So finally, I ask her what conservative values mean.
01:22:14.640 Was this an interview conducted over email?
01:22:16.620 Phone.
01:22:17.780 Incredible. What was the vibe? Can I just ask? Like, was there chemistry?
01:22:21.020 It was totally friendly and chill.
01:22:23.120 Okay, cool.
01:22:23.660 It was totally chill. She was extremely friendly. She did not seem sheepish. She did not ask me what the project was for. There was, like, no suspicion on her part about, like, why I was asking these questions. She was very open about her beliefs. It was very friendly.
01:22:40.780 Cool.
01:22:41.620 So I asked her what conservative values mean to her.
01:22:44.480 Like, what does it mean to swing the culture to the right?
01:22:47.720 Because I told her, I'm like, look, I hear what you're saying in this video, how you don't care about abortion, for example.
01:22:54.440 And I'm like, it doesn't really sound to me like you're conservative.
01:22:57.180 And she says, if I pick a focus group of 10 of my friends and I ask them about issues they care about, none of them care about abortion.
01:23:04.820 So at this point, I stop her and I'm like, wait, when you say they don't care,
01:23:07.460 do you mean they don't care about the legislative fight for the right to have an abortion?
01:23:12.200 Or they don't care if people get abortions?
01:23:15.120 And she was like, oh, the second one.
01:23:16.940 Like, none of these people care about what other people do with their lives. 0.63
01:23:20.880 Then she brings up trans people.
01:23:22.540 She goes, it's like the trans issue. 0.73
01:23:24.180 If you want to be trans, go be trans. 1.00
01:23:26.360 I don't care. 1.00
01:23:27.760 Okay, so she's liberal. 0.97
01:23:29.360 I go, okay, well, most conservatives do care if people get abortions or get gender reassignment 1.00
01:23:35.340 surgery. So why do you consider yourself a conservative?
01:23:38.980 She just doesn't want to think about it. 0.71
01:23:40.380 She basically says, you know, we have a two-party system. You have to pick a side.
01:23:44.360 And essentially that her and her highly educated, upwardly mobile friends,
01:23:48.900 she name-dropped the tech and finance sector specifically, essentially just don't like the
01:23:54.120 left. She was like, we just identify more with the right. We're open-minded.
01:23:58.920 a New York City Republican looks more similar to a Texas Democrat. She was like, the finance guys
01:24:04.800 are all scared that they're going to get in trouble at work for saying the wrong thing.
01:24:09.560 They want to pay less taxes. They want to be able to say things without getting in trouble.
01:24:13.960 They want to have fun. In a sense, I think that this highlights that it's not that conservatism
01:24:21.220 has become more popular. It's actually the opposite. That liberalism is so ubiquitous now
01:24:27.420 that you can essentially hold a slate of boilerplate liberal ideas about individual freedom
01:24:33.060 and still feel like you're conservative simply because you want the ability to be like a little
01:24:38.180 bit racist or classist without consequence. But like, this is liberalism. While you were talking,
01:24:43.880 I looked really quickly at her Instagram and her TikTok. So her Instagram, she has 19,000 followers.
01:24:48.620 Her TikTok, she has 85,000 followers. I don't think that you and I are people who tend to
01:24:53.580 give a flying fuck about someone's social media following. But if your whole bag is arguing that
01:25:00.300 your ideas are popular and also that you are the one to communicate those ideas, then you kind of
01:25:06.860 need a little bit of evidence for that. And I'm not seeing evidence for that. So I looked at her
01:25:10.800 TikTok. She has been very active on TikTok for three and a half years now. She has 85,000
01:25:15.460 followers. You and I are very often on a TikTok. We both have over 100,000 followers. So you have
01:25:21.160 these examples, again, with all of these influencers where I'm like, I'm just not seeing
01:25:25.840 much evidence that you guys are gaining traction. You do have conservatives who have millions of
01:25:30.840 followers. You have conservatives who have built little empires. But I still have not yet seen
01:25:35.300 evidence that they are doing anything besides doing what everyone else does online, doing like
01:25:39.880 the Mr. Beast version of celebrity, which is taking a headline, talking about Blake Lively,
01:25:44.860 pulling people in who are interested in Blake Lively or Meghan Markle or any of these rabbit
01:25:50.040 whole topics, using them as a YouTube click, and then people watch them because they're interested
01:25:55.000 in Meghan Markle or Blake Lively or whatever. And sure, there might be a little bit of resentment
01:25:59.860 of some image of liberalism, but I really don't see the movement that they are talking about.
01:26:05.280 Well, the only one that I would say kind of flouts that trend is Alex Clark,
01:26:10.740 and her show is about health and wellness. Sure. Again. So like,
01:26:14.080 Like, Brett Cooper, her show is also typically more about pop culture.
01:26:18.000 So there really isn't, as far as, like, women who are explicitly political in their beliefs,
01:26:24.800 who are explicitly making policy arguments online that are conservative,
01:26:30.240 you don't really have any women that are doing that successfully. 0.72
01:26:33.480 All the popular ones are talking about something else.
01:26:37.060 Right.
01:26:37.720 I'm even looking at Alex Clark, and I'm like, okay, she has Culture Apothecary.
01:26:41.480 That is a podcast that is number one, whatever that means.
01:26:46.360 We don't know the audience it drives.
01:26:48.200 She has 450,000 followers on Instagram.
01:26:52.260 Sure, I guess you're big for the conservative space, but the fact that you have 400,000
01:26:57.220 followers, AOC has 8 million.
01:27:00.180 Do you know what I mean?
01:27:01.040 Like, I'm just like, it's really hard for me to balance this because they get such
01:27:05.160 disproportionate attention because number one, they're a part of this group.
01:27:08.900 and number two, because they're the women who are willing to put their faces there. 1.00
01:27:12.100 But there are many other women in media entertainment politics 1.00
01:27:15.240 whose star has shot up faster and to greater effect, 1.00
01:27:19.780 even in terms of, like, boilerplate social media numbers,
01:27:22.740 which, again, I think you and I are skeptical of to begin with.
01:27:25.000 It's just that we give disproportionate attention
01:27:27.340 to people who say crazy shit in this administration.
01:27:31.140 So to conclude my conversation with her,
01:27:33.600 I, again, kept trying to drive toward policy.
01:27:37.040 So I was like, hey, I get it.
01:27:38.660 there's politics and then there's policy. I was like, the actual legislative reality of the
01:27:43.840 conservative party that you align yourself with, what conservative policies do you favor? What
01:27:49.540 matters to you? You know, she brings up taxes, right? That came up. She brings up securing the 0.98
01:27:56.220 border. And I'm kind of like, dude, you live in Manhattan. The southern border is not an issue.
01:28:03.300 She says while she's like standing outside of a food truck eating like an empanada.
01:28:08.660 Again, it was very, very light on, like, what she wants to see.
01:28:12.840 It was taxes.
01:28:13.480 It was securing the border.
01:28:14.540 She gestures at feeling safe.
01:28:16.220 And then that is when she brought up the mayoral race in New York City.
01:28:19.540 You should tell her how many immigrants that Obama deported. 0.86
01:28:22.560 Maybe that'll make her a liberal.
01:28:25.700 Oh, honey, the Democrats do that, too.
01:28:27.700 You're good.
01:28:28.360 She was like, a lot of these privileged people that I know want Zoran to win.
01:28:34.140 She goes, it's this rich guilt that is just hilarious to me.
01:28:38.120 And I asked her, do you think it's possible for a rich and privileged person to earnestly feel concerned about the working class in New York City and to actually want things to be more affordable for everybody?
01:28:51.260 And she was like, I'll just point you to the map of the votes. The underprivileged communities don't want that. It's the highly educated Democrats who want that.
01:28:59.600 And I'm like, okay, first of all, that's not true. There was like a remarkable lack of like class gradation in the people that voted. He won working class neighborhoods and wealthy neighborhoods alike. So we kind of move on from that. And I just ask her like, hey, it feels like a lot of the mainstream press that you're quoted in talks about conservative cultural values. Like, what are those? What do those mean to you?
01:29:20.780 and she said do what you want say what you want the right has become the party of the rule breakers
01:29:26.840 and the cool and the left are the party of the hall monitors who say you can't say that word
01:29:31.980 you can't do that as i hung up the phone i was like that just kind of felt like a run it back
01:29:36.300 of the cruel kids article like a very similar to your point apathy i think conservatism as an
01:29:43.100 identity or political movement has basically lost all cohesion at this point like if it's not clear
01:29:50.080 by now, most of the people who are cashing in on the media interest in these ideas and their
01:29:54.520 supposed political popularity are chiefly interested in vibes and don't earnestly hold
01:30:01.240 really any beliefs. So she said she's a lawyer. She's like in this wealthy elite crowd in New
01:30:06.280 York. I would also say that like the most empathy I would extend is that she probably has major
01:30:10.840 incentives to perform these beliefs because there is a disproportionate number of conservative white
01:30:17.500 dudes who don't want to deal with rules and who are very upset about me too that whole like wall
01:30:21.740 street big five law like that whole energy is very conservative and it is also very stacked against 0.98
01:30:29.080 women doing well in those workforces i almost wonder i mean i don't want to take away her 0.78
01:30:34.260 ability to have bad ideas on her own but like i also am just kind of like well yeah no shit you 0.65
01:30:39.780 believe that you're going out to lunch with your little friends you're having caviar and you want
01:30:43.580 to play with the boys you want to like stick around and say that like you nothing bothers you
01:30:48.420 nothing bothers you when they say something and like there are actual incentives for her life
01:30:52.760 that align with that it would be very uncomfortable for her to have to put on a hot girls for mom
01:30:58.820 donnie shirt you and i have created ecosystems where like we actually know a lot of people who
01:31:03.660 have the same beliefs as us and so we actually both have faced certain career challenges for
01:31:07.480 having these beliefs, but by creating a community who have similar beliefs as us, you do feel that
01:31:13.900 reinforcement and that solidarity. And it sounds like this chick is really far from that. And
01:31:18.060 also, she doesn't give a fuck. Okay, great. You don't give a fuck. That sounds good. I'm glad. 0.97
01:31:22.280 Thanks for clarifying. And this is something that you've touched on, Caro, but again, I have yet to
01:31:26.540 see actual proof that these ideas are actually gaining popularity. I do think that, to your
01:31:31.980 point about social media followers, that's not everything. But a lot of these people have been
01:31:37.360 profiled in every major news outlet. Raquel Debono has fewer than 20,000 followers. According to
01:31:44.260 similar web data, The Conservator, as of May 2025, got 55,000 visits per month. So like to put that
01:31:51.240 in perspective, Zoran Mamdani had more individual volunteers door knocking for him than there are
01:31:57.320 people who visited the conservatoire website last month. Right. I know you've like dug into some of
01:32:03.180 this data around voting and college attendance and like I have dug into the data about how many
01:32:07.760 women are out earning or equal earners to their husbands and mixed sex marriages and like none of
01:32:12.940 the data around any of these things confirm that people are actually living their lives in a way
01:32:18.240 that indicates these ideas are becoming more popular. It is worth distinguishing that like
01:32:23.120 Kamala won a majority of women, but Trump did win the majority of white women, which was also true
01:32:29.360 10 years ago. So it's not like we've seen some, like, explosive shift. Like, he won the white
01:32:34.580 women then, he won them now. And I realize this is, like, a little meta and a little hypocritical
01:32:39.300 because we are talking about it right now, but after spending so much time reading all these
01:32:45.040 profiles in the major newspapers and magazines about this so-called movement, it really does
01:32:50.840 feel astroturfed to me. This is something that Madeline highlighted too. She was like,
01:32:55.320 there is such a tremendous media demand and interest in content about conservative young
01:33:00.780 women because there are so few of them and they seem like such an oxymoron. So like these women 1.00
01:33:06.140 are really just responding to media incentives. I'm actually really happy that we're talking 0.54
01:33:10.640 about this today, number one, because it's fascinating, but I also feel like it serves
01:33:13.420 as a counterbalance to the deep dive we did into the Make America Healthy Again movement,
01:33:17.740 which is obviously deeply influential but i also think that you have to have this balancing of like
01:33:23.400 yeah but this isn't a rising movement and if you were to look at these headlines
01:33:27.440 on all of this you would think that it is and you would really get the impression and
01:33:32.100 that is a very effective strategy for the gop if you think that they are growing that is almost
01:33:38.780 as useful for them as actually growing i feel very optimistic when we talk about this stuff 1.00
01:33:44.640 because I'm like, number one, they're not convincing women of anything. And number two, 1.00
01:33:49.080 as we have discussed in the past, women who do what these people say, which is to say, 0.95
01:33:55.220 behave in a subordinate way, have the babies, marry a man who behaves in a dominant way, 0.62
01:34:00.760 the reaction period is so fucking swift that it's not going to work. And I think we often reference
01:34:08.220 the loss of reproductive rights as evidence of this rising movement. And I think it is here 0.58
01:34:13.060 where I would say our Roe v. Wade rights were so shaky to begin with. Do not let them make this a
01:34:20.140 bigger domino than it is. They are very much trying to make the toppling of Roe v. Wade a
01:34:26.640 cultural momentum moment, and it should not be. Abortion was very shaky to begin with. We did a
01:34:32.340 whole episode about this you can listen to. From the moment we passed Roe v. Wade in 73, there were
01:34:37.660 efforts to chip away at that legislation. Not all women had the right to get an abortion,
01:34:43.380 even when we had Roe v. Wade. Like, it was already on very, very unstable ground. And so
01:34:47.560 we should absolutely fight to restore those freedoms. But, like, do not let the fall of
01:34:53.060 Roe make you think that there has been a huge cultural subversion or inversion because there
01:34:58.020 has not been. One of the most important things that you highlighted in that abortion deep dive
01:35:03.780 that you did was the Democratic Party never tried to enshrine those rights. At no point was there an
01:35:12.480 earnest effort made. So it's like, okay, so if we know that that is true, then what would change if
01:35:18.800 it actually did become a priority beyond being like a surface little talking point that you can
01:35:23.780 wave around? On the left, we fall into this trap of arguing that same point sometimes where you'll
01:35:30.020 see people be like, see, women's rights are being stripped back and you'll kind of gesture at all
01:35:34.380 of these things that are going wrong, again, to indicate that there is some cultural sea change
01:35:39.980 around women. The feeling that I was left with going through all of this this week was like
01:35:44.120 pulling back the curtain and being like, there's nothing there. They got nothing. There is nothing
01:35:49.200 there. So when I was sitting back and trying to understand like, okay, well, what is the bedrock
01:35:54.420 of the conservative identity? Why does it attract people who seemingly believe so many different
01:35:59.880 things. Like how could you have these religious 16-year-olds who want to become young mothers in
01:36:05.300 like a Raquel De Bono type in Manhattan? What is the like unifying link? And I went back to a piece
01:36:11.520 that Joe Mayall wrote about a study out of the UK called Attitude Networks as Intergroup Realities
01:36:17.460 Using Network Modeling to Research Attitude Identity Relationships in Polarized Political
01:36:22.180 Contexts. And the TLDR is that so little of modern conservative culture is about policy at all.
01:36:28.340 It's just white identity politics. This is what Joe wrote. Pun intended.
01:36:36.160 So while any group of modern Trump supporters might have more expansive views on gay marriage
01:36:40.740 than a group of Democratic voters, that's because desired policy outcomes are not what
01:36:45.280 makes someone a Republican. The GOP attracts Americans with, quote, cultural issues,
01:36:49.840 which inevitably centers the straight white Christian male as the head of a traditional 0.88
01:36:54.300 family and the rightful steward of the country. The closer you are to this ideal identity, 0.95
01:37:00.020 either physically or ideologically, the more likely you are to be a Republican.
01:37:04.200 Conversely, Democrats coalesce around ideas about civil rights, gun control, and other political
01:37:09.400 issues. So I've been thinking a lot about why any of this would be appealing to anyone.
01:37:16.060 And I found myself continuously going back to the quote from the New York Magazine article
01:37:21.500 of the Turning Point conference
01:37:23.500 where the reporter was like,
01:37:24.820 don't you think the solution is
01:37:26.900 insert all typical policy proposals here?
01:37:29.720 And the girl was like, 1.00
01:37:30.980 well, that sounds a little crazy.
01:37:32.580 That sounds a little communist to me.
01:37:34.600 Sounds communist to me.
01:37:35.920 And like setting the red scare of it all aside,
01:37:38.200 I am comfortable admitting that like
01:37:40.100 in our current paradigm,
01:37:41.260 all of that does feel super unrealistic
01:37:43.700 and super out of reach.
01:37:45.640 Like, does anyone actually think
01:37:47.920 that we are going to get any of those things
01:37:50.360 in the United States?
01:37:51.500 anytime soon? I don't. No, I don't. And so much of what the conservative movement is offering
01:37:57.900 people right now is the same thing that the billion-dollar self-help industry offers people,
01:38:02.900 which is solutions that feel realistic and within your control. So, like, the fact that
01:38:07.960 the EV Magazine competitor describes itself as a nostalgic oasis, a spirited salon, and a community
01:38:13.760 for women who aspire to become the best versions of themselves is the whole ballgame. It's a
01:38:19.120 political movement for women who don't care about politics and don't want political solutions. 1.00
01:38:26.040 It is a political movement with no policy. It's LuLaRoe. It's LuLaRoe. And so in the end, 0.88
01:38:33.120 I was trying to figure out how these two seemingly disparate variations of the conservative women's 0.99
01:38:39.340 culture coalesce. Like, what do they have in common? What is the ideological center of that 1.00
01:38:44.720 Venn diagram because on one hand, you have the trad wife, single earner, heterosexual family
01:38:49.780 solution as like the realistic alternative to a hard life that's being sold to low and middle 0.98
01:38:54.960 income women with low levels of education. But you also have the dark girl boss variation for 1.00
01:39:00.580 essentially what I would call the high income, high education women who do not want to be made 1.00
01:39:05.000 to feel bad or guilty or responsible for making anything better for anyone else and just want to 1.00
01:39:10.360 be able to freely enjoy their privilege without anyone bitching at them about it.
01:39:13.840 They don't want to feel the most remote level of friction, which comes all the way down to someone saying, hey, do you mind not saying that word anymore? Like, that's the level of lack of friction they want in their life with the outside world.
01:39:25.720 And I started to think about, you know the phrase heteropessimism?
01:39:29.360 Yes. Heterofatalist, too. Like, we talked about that with our last episode.
01:39:33.100 I started to think about that in relation to, like, capital pessimism or capital fatalism. It's the same thing but about our economic reality, that these women, whether they like it or don't like it, see capitalism as an immutable, unchangeable reality. They are all looking for the path that will allow them to thrive most within that reality. 0.88
01:39:52.200 And for a while, I was like, oh, okay, we just need to distribute copies of socialist literature and, like, surely they'll all see the error in their ways. But this is where the conservative identity comes in. This is where the identity piece is crucial.
01:40:05.340 The center of the Venn diagram is that these people are all outright hostile to the idea of collectivism. They like hierarchies. They see themselves as being at the top of them, whether that hierarchy is whether you're high income or educated or you're thin, fertile, and feminine, or you're a white man, whatever.
01:40:26.600 they don't feel moved by calls for equality or egalitarianism because they do not perceive
01:40:31.800 those things to be positive. They like individualism. The conservative identity is
01:40:37.680 one that feels attracted to and uplifted by neoliberal ideas, not turned off by them.
01:40:43.740 They are threatened by the idea of interdependence. And that is why it was inconceivable to Raquel
01:40:49.200 De Bono that wealthy New Yorkers could care about working class people and sincerely support Mom
01:40:54.560 Donnie, because in the conservative conception of the world, one that sees hierarchies as natural
01:40:59.900 and just, that is simply not something that someone at the top of the socioeconomic hierarchy
01:41:04.780 would ever do. Yes, Katie. Okay, this is, I'm so glad that you're saying this, because this also
01:41:11.160 connects to people talking about what's taking place with the Trump administration. We have got
01:41:15.900 to stop assuming that people want democracy. There is this assumption that people are going
01:41:21.440 to be upset by violations of the rule of law or by expansions of the executive branch because the
01:41:27.080 assumption is that people don't want monarchy. Plenty of people want monarchy. Plenty of people
01:41:33.000 want authoritarian rule. Plenty of people were sick and fucking tired of the barest, barest
01:41:38.720 structure of democracy that we had previously. We have to start baking that into our understanding
01:41:43.960 and start breaking apart this idea of the American dream that we all want this democratic vision.
01:41:49.920 these conservatives actively do not want Black people in Georgia to have votes that are equal
01:41:55.240 to their own. They actively do not want everyone to be represented. And I feel like it is a huge
01:42:01.260 breaking through point to start to acknowledge that, that people are fucking fine with Trump
01:42:07.440 taking more executive power. They are fine as long as he reflects them and keeps them at the
01:42:11.740 top of the pyramid. And I feel like we really need to see more leaders just behaving like you. I
01:42:16.480 think you should run for office. Actually, don't, because I want to do this podcast with you.
01:42:22.080 But okay, so like at the beginning, I was like, what is conservatism? This is my goal. I'm trying
01:42:26.340 to figure out what the fuck cultural values you're talking about. And I realized conservatism
01:42:32.360 is individualism. That is all it is. Conservatism is just individualism. It is the identity that
01:42:39.380 likes individualism. You like these neoliberal ideas. They appeal to you. You don't actually
01:42:45.560 want them to go away. And so you are just going to assess realistically and rationally your lot
01:42:52.740 in life. If you are a low-income woman with no education, they're going to tell you to get 1.00
01:42:57.700 married. If you are a high-income woman like Raquel, they're going to tell you to start a little 0.97
01:43:01.480 fucking organization that hosts mixers for other hot people who don't care about things. 1.00
01:43:06.460 And like, there is a solution for you.
01:43:08.560 For people who say they're hot. I just really can't emphasize this enough. This is not just,
01:43:13.000 we're not just giving them hotness it's organizations for people who self-identify
01:43:17.240 as hot that's kind of the thing is like yes the reason that these ideas are popular to the extent
01:43:22.000 that they are popular is because some people just like hierarchies and individualism and like
01:43:25.960 it doesn't matter how much communist manifesto you show them they don't fucking feel moved by that
01:43:31.620 yeah and also there are so many more people who are moved by it and do want who do want
01:43:38.780 collective action and who do think that interconnectedness is a good thing. So in
01:43:43.180 conclusion, cultural conservatism is individualism, and I rest my case.
01:43:48.000 In conclusion, Katie and I are just at the very, very beginning of the bell curve of our success,
01:43:53.040 and we already have more influence than 90% of the people that we spoke about today. So like,
01:43:58.060 let that be the final word.
01:43:59.360 I'm going to cut that.
01:44:00.580 No, keep it. Keep it. God damn it, we do. Factually speaking, you better fucking keep it.
01:44:05.400 Also, we have to do our non-abrupt goodbye.
01:44:09.560 This is the end.
01:44:11.380 The episode is ending now.
01:44:13.140 The episode is over.
01:44:14.440 To Katie's brother-in-law and to my husband, Riley, let this mark the end and I hope this was...
01:44:20.080 Steven, just so you know, the episode is over now.
01:44:23.880 It's over.
01:44:24.460 Goodbye.