00:01:24.580Right. And I always wonder whether that is influence or whether he's just being sort of used as a barometer.
00:01:32.000Right. Right. He's just sort of there and people are checking in on him because he symbolizes something.
00:01:37.320Well, I think, I mean, my sort of whole David Brooks like thing clicked into place when I was reading his bio. He's one of these boomers who like kind of brags about getting bad grades in high school. He's like, oh, school really wasn't for me.0.70
00:01:50.840But then I attended the University of Chicago, like immediately upon graduation.
00:02:15.080So he just sort of like flits from thing to thing without any real object permanence and without really gathering any like deep expertise on anything.
00:02:25.640Yeah. And you really get the sense when you're reading his columns that that's exactly what's happening.
00:02:35.620He's creating the illusion of authority, right?
00:02:37.860He's like, FYI, in case you didn't trust me, I do read a book now and then.0.85
00:02:42.360I keep thinking of like those you know those like CBS shows where someone is like I saw on NCIS the other day and you're like that's still on every time I see David Brooks I'm like oh really this fucking guy because he really only sort of like gets talked about when he's like being made fun of on Twitter.0.85
00:02:59.280Yeah. Three or four times a year. He'll kind of overstep the mark and he'll write something egregious and he'll get made fun of. But it's not it's it's very rare to see an article or to see anybody say like, oh, David Brooks had an interesting column the other day. He doesn't really have the kind of positive influence. It's just like every once in a while he's just like the grandpa that gets like hit with sticks.
00:03:18.380Although I also similar to NCIS, I feel like it's one of those things where you you find out not only is it still on the air, but it's like one of the top shows on television.
00:03:35.360Because I had I had one of my parents, church friends the other day was I mentioned I had lived in Denmark and I made some joke about socialism.
00:03:41.160And they're like, oh, did you know Denmark isn't actually socialist?
00:03:46.120the other day i was like first of all that's just a nightmare of a sudden secondly that this is like
00:03:50.660a three hour long conversation that i'm not willing to have with you i was like oh fun fact
00:03:54.480interesting so the title of the book is bobos in paradise the new upper class and how they got
00:04:01.340there okay as opposed to other books that we've done on the show i'm not going to talk about this
00:04:05.160book thematically i'm not gonna like break it apart and put it back together okay mostly because
00:04:09.800the overwhelming experience of reading this book is not the ideology. It's the thudding
00:04:16.200shallowness. So do you know anything about this book? Yeah, I think I know what Bobo stands for.
00:04:23.080It's a combination of bohemian and bourgeoisie. Is that right? Yes. I don't really know much more
00:04:29.540about it than that. I think he was just writing about that generation, but I don't know much
00:04:33.760beyond that. So the book comes from his observation. He was posted in Brussels for
00:04:40.420four years in the early 1990s for the Wall Street Journal covering Europe. And when he returned to
00:04:45.540America, he noticed a bunch of differences in the kinds of lifestyles, the kinds of brands that
00:04:49.300people were buying and just sort of the culture around him. So I'm going to send you an excerpt
00:04:54.020where he basically lays out the thesis of the book. Oh, my God. I know it's a big brick. This
00:05:00.080episode is going to have like a lot of quotes because some of the stuff that he says in the
00:05:03.260book like you really have to like read it to believe it all right the thing that struck me
00:05:08.280as oddest was the way the old categories no longer made sense throughout the 20th century
00:05:13.280it's been pretty easy to distinguish between the bourgeois world of capitalism and the bohemian
00:05:17.980counterculture the bourgeoisie were the square practical ones they defended tradition and
00:05:23.180middle class morality they worked for corporations lived in suburbs and went to church meanwhile the
00:05:29.420bohemians were the free spirits, they were the artists and the intellectuals, the hippies and
00:05:34.140the beats. But I returned to an America in which the bohemian and the bourgeois were all mixed up.
00:05:40.120It was now impossible to tell an espresso-sipping artist from a cappuccino-gulping banker.
00:05:45.840And this wasn't just a matter of fashion accessories. I found that if you investigated
00:05:49.780people's attitudes towards sex, morality, leisure time, and work, it was getting harder and harder
00:05:55.500to separate the anti-establishment renegade from the pro-establishment company man by the way no
00:06:00.760nothing i would like less than for david brooks to investigate my attitude toward sex we have a
00:06:06.980really long excerpt about that later it's really dark i feel like this is combining two of the
00:06:15.460most hackish think pieces the first is where you define an entire generation of people based on like
00:06:23.120a couple of mostly aesthetic shared features like the modern version of this is you just
00:06:28.060find out what app is popular with 15 year olds and then you pitch to your editor a piece called
00:06:34.620like the snapchat generation yeah right and then the other archetype is when you make the
00:06:40.680observation that a generation of people that used to be like more carefree and anti-establishment
00:06:46.800in their youth are now more bland and conservative because they're like 45.
00:06:53.860It's like, well, this guy used to listen to Nirvana, but now he has a job selling insurance.
00:07:01.500But then I also think that in a way that is not a given for the books that we talk about
00:07:05.000on this show, I think the central premise of this book is true.
00:07:09.460The first chapter is where he lays out the sort of core argument.
00:07:12.800And the core argument is essentially there used to be a much more entrenched hereditary elite in the United States, like the old money, Carnegie's, East Coast elites.
00:07:21.360Right. And really, since the 1960s, there has been the creation of a kind of knowledge class.
00:07:27.460It's a bunch of people who have these kind of professional jobs and who do have this kind of ethos that comes from the kind of post hereditary aristocracy world.
00:07:39.640Yeah. And I feel like smarter people have written about it.
00:07:42.600Yes. About sort of, you know, this sort of post New Deal realignment where you had this generation of more educated upper middle class types, not really part of the elite, but sharing some some common features and in fact, perhaps associating themselves with the elite more than the traditional middle class.
00:08:05.420And I think when this giant class of like just below upper class people was created, those people brought their sort of counterculture attitudes and also their counterculture aesthetics into that class.
00:08:17.640It's really just the the transition of the United States and frankly, every other developed country from like a manufacturing society to like a knowledge society.
00:08:25.540Right. Am I am I wrong? I feel like we're dancing around what the the term that the more diseased online folks use, which is the professional managerial class, the PMC.
00:08:36.820Yes. I have a whole section on this. The reason why I think that David Brooks's book is correct
00:08:42.760is that this is like the 48th book to chronicle this. This is a really obvious trend. Bordieu
00:08:51.100talked about the, I think it was like the new Petit Bourgeoisie. Daniel Bell wrote a book called
00:08:58.020The Coming of the Post-Industrial Society, which also explored this in 1973. I read a bunch of
00:09:02.880articles about yuppies from the 80s and 90s you know these panicked newsweek articles they basically
00:09:06.960said the same thing they're like they're railing against selling out as they eat eight dollar sushi
00:09:12.000yeah i found an academic article that talked about slumpies socially liberal urban-minded
00:09:19.400professionals thank god that didn't catch on jesus christ slumpies it's like all right that's a
00:09:24.920little bit try hard but also this is like a true thing that happened yeah in the world like there
00:09:30.640is now the creation of a knowledge class. And yes, the famous and I think most accurate description
00:09:35.720of this is Barbara and John Ehrenreich's terminology of the professional managerial
00:09:41.240class. They were coming at this from like a socialist labor organizing perspective. And
00:09:46.400their original paper from, I believe it was 1978, essentially said that Marx predicted that the
00:09:51.760world was going to be divided between capital and labor, right? And this was going to define
00:09:55.000the political struggle of the next hundred years. What he didn't predict was that over time you have
00:10:00.340the creation of a class that is in between. In some ways, they are tied to capital and they want
00:10:06.140to protect capital's interest because many of them are wealthy. But they're also like a lot
00:10:10.500of middle managers are workers and they have bosses. And so in a lot of ways, they're also
00:10:14.940similar to labor. In their original piece, they said schoolteachers, civil servants, professors,
00:10:25.960So Barbara and John Ehrenreich came up with this term, not necessarily to like say anything bad about it, but just to like note that it existed.
00:10:34.160And also to talk about how this was to them anyway at the time was the fundamental split in the left.
00:10:40.420So they said that they would have these organizing meetings at their house where it would be like a truck driver and like a university professor.0.97
00:10:47.160The truck driver is like, I don't know what the fuck I'm doing here with this guy.
00:10:49.800And then the professor is like, I don't know why we're talking about like working hours, minimum wages and stuff.
00:10:55.500He just wouldn't be interested in that.
00:10:57.200They estimated in the 70s that it was at that time around 25 percent of the workforce.
00:11:03.040People now say it's roughly like 35 to 40 percent.
00:11:06.360And this is now one of the defining features of like our politics, our economy, our society.
00:11:10.800It's changed things in so many different ways.
00:11:14.000And David Brooks is interested in none of these ways.
00:11:16.420David Brooks is like, you ever notice that people are drinking a lot of cappuccinos these days?
00:11:21.260Exactly. Like this is this is what he's interested in is basically he's just like driving around strip malls and like taking notes on stuff that he sees.
00:11:27.660But he's not doing any of the like actual analysis or even like meeting these people.
00:11:32.120Like this is a book about Bobo's right about a social class that comprises somewhere, you know, 50, 80 million people.
00:11:38.200Right. This book does not have one interview.
00:11:40.500so like you don't get any specificity in this book but you do get a lot of like what we saw
00:11:46.760in the earlier description where he's like cappuccino gulping bankers it feels like what
00:11:50.200he really wants to say is like doesn't this stuff seem a little bit gay yeah but he can't say it
00:11:54.620it is he tries to mask it because he says like i'm a bobo myself in the introduction but like0.99
00:12:01.020he fucking hates these people it's like really obvious that he fucking hates these people0.98
00:12:05.800so okay so basically his entire argument which again could have been like a magazine article1.00
00:12:12.260it would have been fine is that it's essentially education that has caused all this the the mass
00:12:17.460availability of education starting in the 1960s the expansion of higher education created all
00:12:23.180these educated people and then all these millions of educated people essentially flooded into the
00:12:27.220workforce and then started like replicating american culture along the lines of their own
00:12:31.580tastes. So the first chapter of the book is called The Rise of the Educated Class. And to illustrate
00:12:38.640the difference between America's previous ruling class and its current ruling class,
00:12:44.160he contrasts, are you, you're familiar with the New York Times wedding page, right?
00:12:49.300Yeah, the New York Times wedding page is a list of weddings that,
00:12:54.660um except that it is this sort of like prized status symbol if you are a couple of successful
00:13:06.000people you might get a wedding write-up if one of you is the child of someone famous you will
00:13:11.580certainly get a wedding write-up but yeah this is something that you um throw in the face of uh
00:13:18.880the house the housewife you hate the most right at your little uh dinner parties or whatever if1.00
00:13:24.300you're a New York City asshole. As a New York City asshole, are you going to try to get one?1.00
00:13:27.940I'm going to be honest. I don't I didn't know that you try. I don't know how the process works. Do1.00
00:13:33.920you like apply? Someone has to mention it to someone at the Times like, hey, one of the top
00:13:39.98020 legal podcasters in the country is getting married. Let's not drop the ball here. So what
00:13:45.500he's basically trying to do with this chapter is he wants to contrast the previous ruling class
00:13:49.760with today's ruling class and the way that he does this is by talking about the new york times
00:13:55.420wedding pages which i think is like a smart pop journalistic way to do this i'm just like to draw
00:14:01.640the contrast so he talks about the page from 1950 of course it was all like pedigreed people and i0.98
00:14:08.220guess it would mention when your ancestors arrived in america okay apparently the women's jobs were
00:14:16.720ever mentioned or like they didn't have jobs yeah that was disqualifying if the woman had a job it's
00:14:21.320just kind of like a snapshot of where the ruling class was in 1950 right and then he contrasts this
00:14:27.380with a bunch of wedding announcements from 1998 so i'm going to send you another abysmally long
00:14:35.200excerpt from this all right the couples tell a little of their own story in these articles
00:14:40.520an amazing number of them seem to have first met while recovering from marathons or searching for
00:14:45.140remnants of Pleistocene man while on archaeological digs in Eritrea. They usually enjoyed a long and
00:14:51.660careful romance, including joint vacations in obscure but educational places like Myanmar and
00:14:56.880Minsk. Many of the couples broke up for a time. Then there was a lonely period apart while one
00:15:01.620member, say, arranged the largest merger in Wall Street history while the other settled for
00:15:06.180neurosurgery after dropping out of sommelier school. See? He's good at what he does, man.
00:15:11.540Sometimes we get to read about modern couples who propose to each other simultaneously.
00:15:16.280But most of the time, the groom does it the old-fashioned way.
00:15:18.900Often, it seems, while hot air ballooning above the Napa Valley or by letting the woman find a diamond engagement ring in her scuba mask while they're exploring endangered coral reefs near the Seychelles.
00:41:02.820This is one of the things about, yeah, the early days of the internet when, like, all of a sudden these communities that most people in David Brooks's position weren't aware of now have, like, a message board somewhere.
00:41:48.680Okay. Bobos turn out to be the Parsons of the pubic region. Nearly gone are the 1960s traces0.95
00:41:54.720of Dionysian wantonness. Instead, play safe and play responsibly are the slogans that are
00:42:00.780repeated again and again in sophisticated sex literature. The practitioners talk so much about
00:42:06.640how healthy it all is that you'd think they were doing jumping jacks. To keep everything
00:42:10.800responsible and under control, weird activities are codified in rules and etiquette. Weird
00:42:16.080activities. The rules at a group sex community meeting, when it is necessary to sign a legal0.73
00:42:21.220waiver, when to wear latex gloves, when it's okay to smoke, are strictly adhered to. Theirs may not
00:42:28.060be the same as the etiquette that govern behavior in a 19th century parlor, but in their relentless
00:42:32.580demands on self-control, they weirdly mimic these sorts of social codes. In odd ways, these are
00:42:39.340moralistic people. I imagine that if there were a room full of people rubbing each other's excrement0.99
00:42:45.100over each other and somebody confessed he didn't recycle he'd be immediately expelled from the
00:42:51.040group and told never to come back it's a weird version of propriety but it's propriety nonetheless
00:42:57.480aren't the non-judgmental people also judgmental what what is this like what are we supposed to
00:43:02.620take from this other than like yeah people who engage in like group sex adhere to certain rules
00:43:10.200and norms right in the same way if there's like a volleyball group that meets on wednesdays they
00:43:15.300probably also have some rules but he's just saying like these people are degenerates without any moral0.99
00:43:21.240moral compass and yet they have their own exactly exactly and the the final paragraph is a fucking0.98
00:43:29.480masterpiece where he literally says i imagine that if there's an orgy and somebody says that0.99
00:43:35.380he doesn't recycle he'll be expelled right and then he immediately jumps from his fake
00:43:40.400anecdote to basically bobos are like just as puritanical as the previous ruling classes0.98
00:43:47.520but this is a completely hollow fucking argument because you've made up the evidence for it you've0.82
00:43:52.920said i imagine also puritanism is not just having rules and norms right like that's not what that's0.98
00:43:59.240not what puritanical behavior is exactly this is a 2000s version of like modern cancel culture
00:44:04.960discourse where it's like, you know, the left says that they don't like the authoritarian impulses of
00:44:11.680the right, but they're critiquing this professor on Twitter for using a well-known slur against
00:44:18.480Mongolians. It's this sort of like, it's this sort of equivocation that makes no sense when you
00:44:24.020actually understand the values involved on both sides. This is the one area where I would forgive
00:44:29.760David Brooks for not being able to do any actual reporting because if he walked into a BDSM0.99
00:44:34.260social group they would be like sir you need to leave get the fuck out of here i know immediately
00:44:38.760once again i was kicked out of a bdsm group uh for not recycling this is supposed to be like the0.83
00:44:44.020ending insight of the book is basically that the bobos like now that the bobos are like the new
00:44:49.920ruling elite they're setting up a whole set of rules that are just as opaque and oppressive and0.83
00:44:57.340weird as the previous ruling class right so like the mom from fucking titanic with all the forks0.98
00:45:03.640We don't have that anymore. But we have, you know, rules at orgies and we have other kind of social rules about like the way that you talk about money, the way that you dress. There's less, I guess, conspicuous consumption now than there would have been. I mean, I think there's some real shifts. But also it's like he's just saying the rich liberals are the same as the rich aristocrats.0.96
00:45:26.940By the nature that they just have social norms.