In Bed With The Right - April 14, 2026


Episode 130 -- Elizabeth Cady Stanton

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00:00:00.000 Hello, I'm Adrienne Dobb.
00:00:07.840 And I'm Moira Donegan.
00:00:09.160 And whether we like it or not, we're in bed with the right.
00:00:14.000 So, Adrienne, today we are talking about somebody who is really under my skin, who I think I
00:00:23.160 could talk about forever.
00:00:25.180 And now it's going to be your problem and our listeners' problem, because today we are
00:00:29.520 talking about a little lady named Elizabeth Katie Stanton. Phenomenal. This is one of the
00:00:35.860 white whales that we've talked about for a long time. I am ready. I trust you. I'm going to make
00:00:41.320 a Seneca trust fall. Yeah. And no, I've had her on the brain for a couple of years. She's kind
00:00:48.660 of the object of some controversy. And I had a chance recently to write a review of a new Stanton
00:00:55.440 biography for the new yorker shout out to my editor there morella gaia who was absolutely
00:00:59.860 great and some of the ideas i'm going to be sharing with you here are actually hers it's
00:01:04.460 like a kind of like nice little secret of having a good editor is that as the writer you get to
00:01:09.180 take their good ideas and just pass them off as your own but she has been sort of on my mind for
00:01:14.120 a while as both a paradigmatic figure in her own right somebody who's really influential in the
00:01:20.660 history of early American feminism, one of the inventors of what I would say is like the liberal
00:01:25.780 feminist intellectual tradition that comes out of the Enlightenment, and also somebody who is the
00:01:31.680 object of a lot, a lot, a lot of discourse and hand-wringing and controversy, and we're going
00:01:40.500 to get into it all today. Yeah, so she's kind of an unusual subject for us because we don't tend
00:01:47.240 to associate her with gender conservatism.
00:01:49.140 But, of course, I think you're partaking of a really kind of unique
00:01:52.900 and laudable feature of feminist thought, 0.63
00:01:55.260 which is that it has a strong tradition of self-criticism, right,
00:01:58.340 and reckoning with the failures of its own past.
00:02:01.480 And I do think that that makes her a pretty useful subject for a podcast,
00:02:05.640 even though in her own day she would not have been classed
00:02:08.380 as a gender conservative in the least, right?
00:02:10.160 No, in fact, I've seen her referred to, I think, 0.79
00:02:12.020 with some justification as a radical feminist,
00:02:13.900 even though her thinking is very much like liberal tradition.
00:02:17.240 like big L liberal. But, you know, she also was a person who said some really fucking racist stuff, 0.99
00:02:25.040 honestly. And she became sort of famous for these racist comments she made, especially like during 0.98
00:02:31.720 Reconstruction over the fight over the 15th Amendment and who the franchise was going to be
00:02:37.300 extended to in that like really interesting political moment. But there's also some like
00:02:41.820 misconceptions that get passed around in this received history about Elizabeth Cady Stanton
00:02:47.400 that arrives out of that feminist tradition. So I think we're going to try and do some chin
00:02:52.420 scratching, some, like, reconsiderations of this person. I'm going to try and put her somewhere in
00:02:57.340 the middle of what I think of as competing feminist historiographical traditions, one that's
00:03:01.540 kind of, like, the hagiographic, laudatory, like, triumphant, like, maybe traditional feminist
00:03:08.400 history that positions Stanton as, like, a hero and the person who sort of advanced or began the
00:03:16.020 American women's movement. And then there's this, like, newer, much more recent history by much
00:03:20.440 younger women, like mostly millennial feminists, who are trying to condemn Stanton or place her
00:03:25.160 as this paradigm of everything that's wrong with the feminist movement and everything that needs 1.00
00:03:29.440 to be, like, purged out of our history and out of our tendencies. And, you know, I think there is,
00:03:34.500 as you said, Adrienne, this tendency in feminism towards self-criticism that's like really unique
00:03:40.580 among social movements. Other social movements will like look at their strategic failures or
00:03:47.000 their tactical failures. Feminism won't really redefine itself. It will look at like their moral 1.00
00:03:52.020 or intellectual failures. And there's one argument that like, look, this is matricidal, right? Like
00:03:58.260 the idea is that feminists who are like, you know, repeatedly revisiting their own movements past 1.00
00:04:03.800 and excreting the failures of those past leaders 1.00
00:04:06.980 are, like, indulging in a kind of internalized misogyny.
00:04:10.780 They're spending a lot of time purifying their own ranks
00:04:13.440 instead of, like, actually advancing their cause.
00:04:16.900 They're, like, refusing to learn from the past
00:04:19.460 and therefore sort of reinventing the wheel a lot.
00:04:21.160 That's, like, one criticism.
00:04:22.640 And the other argument, though,
00:04:24.800 is that this is a kind of a movement hygiene practice. 0.99
00:04:27.320 These revisitations of these past feminist failures and missteps 1.00
00:04:31.980 help future feminists keep from repeating them. 1.00
00:04:36.020 Right. 0.92
00:04:36.420 I think that Elizabeth Cady Stanton is sort of like the person that this happens about.
00:04:41.700 So, Adrian, what do you know about Elizabeth Cady Stanton?
00:04:45.620 What are you coming in with?
00:04:46.840 So, I'm coming in with, obviously, an association with the 1848 Seneca Falls Convention,
00:04:52.040 which I think was sort of her brainchild, the fight for suffrage,
00:04:56.180 which she was one of the main leaders of,
00:04:58.220 the partnership over decades, I think, with Susan B. Anthony,
00:05:01.980 And then I guess this newspaper they started together, The Revolution, but she died, I think, in the 20th century, right?
00:05:08.160 She's sort of a defining figure of 19th century feminism, but died, in fact, I don't know exactly when, but like in the aughts, right?
00:05:16.920 Died 1902, so a little less than 20 years before women's suffrage was actually achieved, right?
00:05:23.800 So, yeah, Stanton is best known for the 1848 Seneca Falls Convention, the first organized convention relating to women's rights in American history.
00:05:33.260 She is known for demanding the vote for women at that convention, which was really out there at the time.
00:05:39.340 Even the like more militant advocates for women's rights, which was sort of like bubbling up as an idea, particularly like in the abolitionist movement and in like various radical and reform movements in 19th century U.S.
00:05:51.400 Even the people who were like pretty on the far revolutionary vanguard of that movement did not women have the right to vote. That was crazy. And so she really had to bring people along there and persuade it. And it was 72 years before it actually happened.
00:06:06.060 So we talk about the women's suffrage movement. I think people imagine that this was an idea that's like Alice Paul had in like 1915. And then they got it basically five years later. And that's just not true. Right. It was a 72 year long struggle that had a ton of internal contradiction and fights. It had victories and defeats. It would come to prominence and then be rejected.
00:06:30.400 and then a new generation of activists would take it up again.
00:06:33.300 It was a really, really, really long fight.
00:06:36.840 And the other thing, of course, is that she's engaging in this fight
00:06:39.740 at a time when the expansion of the franchise sort of was part of what people
00:06:44.880 sort of thought of as historic progress.
00:06:46.420 That is to say, across Western democracies or among Western countries,
00:06:50.920 the range of people who were able to vote throughout the 19th century
00:06:54.620 started progressively expanding.
00:06:56.600 In the United States, obviously, the most important step in that 0.97
00:06:59.640 were the Reconstruction Amendments and the enfranchisement of black men. 0.76
00:07:03.460 But similar things did take place in other countries.
00:07:05.960 And then the question of, like, how women related to that expansion 0.99
00:07:09.060 also enmeshed the fight for a woman's right to vote
00:07:12.380 with all these other social questions, right? 0.66
00:07:15.200 Like extension of franchises into the working classes, etc., etc.
00:07:18.460 Yeah, and this was interesting because, as you mentioned, Adrienne,
00:07:21.660 the franchise was being expanded both in the U.S. and in other Western countries,
00:07:26.480 but it had never been expanded to women.
00:07:28.000 Like, even the Jacobins of the French Revolution did not entertain this as a serious possibility, right?
00:07:34.120 So you have all of these Enlightenment ideas talking about, like, individual rights and the dignity of humanity and what it means for government to be just. 0.89
00:07:43.560 And there's this glaring, or there's several glaring emissions and hypocrisies in that project, and one of them is the exclusion of women, right? 0.88
00:07:52.400 This untenable reality that women are, like, evidently, if you know any, men's equals in intellect and dignity, right?
00:08:02.080 And yet they are excluded.
00:08:04.140 And this is a problem that had not been considered a political problem.
00:08:08.260 And Stanton really is the reason it became a political problem.
00:08:13.180 And she devoted her life to that issue. 0.97
00:08:16.220 She had a wide purview of, like, women's rights projects, but suffrage was really her signature issue. 0.99
00:08:22.300 She never saw it succeed.
00:08:23.760 She died thinking that she had failed.
00:08:26.720 And she also had, as I think many lives have in retrospect, sort of a confrontation with history in the aftermath of the Civil War, in the Reconstruction era, which is a moment when in America, the notion of what a United States was going to look like after slavery and without the institution of slavery was really very much in question.
00:08:49.620 And Stanton was absolutely outraged that the Reconstruction amendments did not grant the vote to women.
00:08:58.860 It sort of gets pop historicized as she opposed the extension of the franchise to Black men.
00:09:04.460 That's actually not true. 1.00
00:09:06.120 What she wanted was what she called universal suffrage. 0.99
00:09:09.100 Her line was votes for all or votes for none. 1.00
00:09:11.300 So she wanted to leverage the political moment of Reconstruction to try and get both Black and women's suffrage into the Constitution, and she failed.
00:09:22.400 And as she was failing, she took comfort in hierarchy and started expressing her rage and resentment at that failure in slur-laden, extremely condescending, wildly racist terms.
00:09:39.580 Wow. And that is now her legacy. That's what she's known for. Yeah. Yeah.
00:09:43.760 So when you talk to these younger feminists, when you read their books, like a bunch of these books came out in the aftermath of the 2020 Black Lives Matter protests, Stanton gets posited as the origin point for mainstream feminism sins of exclusion and like recapitulation of other hierarchies. Right. 1.00
00:10:03.700 She's like a cautionary tale of what happens when feminism is insufficiently tempered with other commitments or becomes too animating a force in a woman's intellectual life. 1.00
00:10:14.040 And they posit Santan is patient zero of mainstream American feminism's racism.
00:10:20.220 So you'll hear this argument that she and her activist partner, Susan B. Anthony, are like symbols of all of feminism's sins. 0.82
00:10:29.780 So Kyla Shuler, who is the author of, like, The Trouble with White Women, one of the most prominent of a bunch of these, like, post-2020 leftist books on feminist racism, says that Stanton, like, invented white feminism.
00:10:42.460 Yeah, I remember that, yeah. 0.74
00:10:43.420 You could also say that the term white feminism was invented to talk about people like Stanton, like, to talk about Stanton specifically.
00:10:50.180 And I'm really, really not here to debunk any of that.
00:10:54.560 These things she said in the Reconstruction era, they make me cringe.
00:10:58.080 She used the word Sambo over and over again.
00:11:01.720 Yikes. 1.00
00:11:02.080 Like she really doubled down. 1.00
00:11:03.960 And later in life, she also frankly had some kind of weird ideas about gender too.
00:11:09.420 She became like weirdly essentialist about like women's nature and women's impulses in this way that feels like a sincere departure from what she was doing earlier in her life.
00:11:20.000 And I find it like weird to square with her ongoing commitments to women's liberation.
00:11:24.660 And she didn't just say Sambo.
00:11:26.900 Frankly, she used a lot of different slurs for a lot of different groups of people.
00:11:30.620 In addition to harboring a clear sense of, like, her own personal superiority to Black men, especially, like, formerly enslaved Black men, she spoke disparagingly of Chinese people, of German people, and also of the Irish.
00:11:44.720 Oh, so she would not have been a fan of this podcast, yeah.
00:11:47.320 Yeah, I was like, oh, we are also going to catch strays in this.
00:11:50.260 She actually really, really hated the Irish for reasons that we're going to get into.
00:11:56.900 Is it the J.D. Vance reason?
00:11:58.720 It actually has to do with the draft riots. 0.97
00:12:00.900 Oh, of course, yeah.
00:12:01.340 The Civil War draft riots.
00:12:03.320 1863, I think.
00:12:04.400 Yeah, she was living in New York City.
00:12:06.160 They, like, kidnapped two of her sons.
00:12:08.540 Oh. 0.98
00:12:08.740 It was actually, like, no, the roving bands of drunken Irish racists
00:12:12.360 who didn't want to get recruited to fight in the Civil War
00:12:14.720 actually really did harm the Stanton family.
00:12:18.780 So you heard it here first.
00:12:20.280 Horrible racism, except specifically against the Irish.
00:12:23.800 She was on to something.
00:12:24.660 But I'm only quoting Maura Donegan here.
00:12:29.620 But like basically all of that amounted to like an anti-immigrant sentiment, right?
00:12:34.720 Yeah.
00:12:35.200 And her ideas about citizenship and the franchise and what they meant, towards the end of her life, those really were shaped by the sense of like wounded narcissistic supremacy.
00:12:45.600 And it was pretty nasty.
00:12:47.000 What I kind of want to push back on, though, is what I sometimes think can be a tendency to flatten these characters from the feminist past by making them into symbols of all the rifts and disaffections and failures within feminism.
00:13:01.320 I think that can tend to obscure some of the specifics of who these women were, of what they were responding to in their own time, of what shaped their thinking both for good and for ill.
00:13:14.340 Because when we identify somebody like Stanton as a boogeyman for like everything that's ever gone wrong within feminism, we set her apart from us. 1.00
00:13:23.460 We make her this like monstrous stand in for these like evil forces. 0.64
00:13:27.940 And I think when we look at her more closely as a real person, we can see her less as, like, this cartoonishly evil monster and more as somebody who is made intellectually weak by her experiences and her character flaws.
00:13:41.280 And that, I think, is where the lessons are.
00:13:43.320 I think the lessons of Elizabeth Cady Stanton's story are how, like, very, like, human flaws can lead to some really, like, disproportionate responses and actions.
00:13:54.760 And that's like the more disturbing and challenging exercise, because that's how we see Stanton not just as this like evil figure of a bad past or like a kind of feminism that we can shun, but as somebody whose flaws might remind us a bit of our own.
00:14:09.320 And then she's more of a warning that way. 0.81
00:14:13.320 So who was this woman? 0.91
00:14:17.620 As you said, Adrienne, Stanton is best known as one half of a pair.
00:14:22.020 So she partnered with Susan B. Anthony, and together, the two of them were the most visible and prominent American advocates for women's rights in the 19th century.
00:14:32.160 She sort of enters, I feel like, into most U.S. history textbooks with Seneca Falls.
00:14:37.420 When, where does her path start?
00:14:39.720 Well, Seneca Falls was actually before she met Susan B. Anthony.
00:14:43.040 Yeah.
00:14:43.500 So the two of them meet in 1851.
00:14:46.040 But Seneca Falls was in 1848.
00:14:49.060 And that is when Elizabeth Cady Stanton organized a convention in the town where she was living in, which sounded like western New York by the Finger Lakes.
00:14:57.060 It's really the middle of nowhere.
00:14:58.860 I've been there.
00:14:59.440 It's beautiful.
00:15:00.040 That was the first gathering about women's rights.
00:15:02.840 And Frederick Douglass came from Rochester to be there.
00:15:06.220 And it was Stanton who at that convention first called for women's suffrage.
00:15:09.740 Nobody had done that before.
00:15:10.840 It was a very daring, out-there proposal.
00:15:12.980 She's like, I've called you all here today to say something kind of controversial.
00:15:17.580 And everyone's like, no.
00:15:21.000 No, but like seriously, people were like, we can't go there.
00:15:24.160 And she had to work to get the crowd on her side.
00:15:27.920 And that gathering got publicized in newspapers back when there were newspapers all around the country and actually set off this firestorm of women's rights meetings.
00:15:38.120 So it was like a really influential moment, even in its own time.
00:15:42.500 It's not something where we look back retrospectively and are like, oh, that actually was the beginning of something crazy.
00:15:47.400 At the time, it set off this big firestorm.
00:15:49.840 Just for my own sort of inner timeline, how many months was it before Caitlin Flanagan published Has the Seneca Falls Manifesto Gone Too Far?
00:15:59.440 I'm just asking.
00:16:00.620 About 10 minutes, yeah.
00:16:01.720 Yeah, yeah.
00:16:02.900 The moment the telegraph arrived in Brooklyn, she was like, hello, Atlantic?
00:16:08.780 There's been a thing happening, and I think I can write an article about how it's gone too far.
00:16:13.480 Right, so she was already having success in 1848.
00:16:16.020 She set off this, like, first wave of women's rights activism.
00:16:21.440 But she becomes a lot more famous and a lot more effective, frankly, as a political strategist when she meets Susan B. Anthony three years later.
00:16:30.060 because Susan B. Anthony is going to lend Stanton's passion and vision
00:16:34.720 this, like, real intense discipline and organizational prowess.
00:16:38.520 So they're remembered together, but their pairing was really asymmetrical.
00:16:44.120 Elizabeth Cady Stanton was about five years older than Susan B. Anthony 0.85
00:16:47.140 and about twice her weight.
00:16:49.840 So, like, you see these pictures of them together,
00:16:52.520 and they were photographed together towards the end of their lives quite a bit.
00:16:55.480 And Stanton is a big girl.
00:16:57.600 Like, she is sturdy and rotund.
00:16:59.720 she always was. Her mom was really tall. In her diaries, she had seven children, all of whom 0.97
00:17:04.980 lived to adulthood. So also she's doing a lot of this political work early in her career while
00:17:11.140 she's also raising five boys and two girls. And in her diaries, she's always talking about
00:17:17.560 childbirth in this kind of crazy way. She's like, around noon, I felt pangs. 15 minutes later,
00:17:24.840 young Henry was born. He was 12 pounds. Her babies are always 12 pounds.
00:17:28.680 which is nuts.
00:17:32.100 And like Stanton was very proud
00:17:33.560 of being like physically strong
00:17:35.160 and robust.
00:17:36.280 But Susan B. Anthony 0.95
00:17:37.400 was really skinny 1.00
00:17:38.200 and she was unmarried.
00:17:41.020 Anthony was famously a spinster.
00:17:42.780 Stanton had a husband
00:17:44.040 who was kind of a jabroni,
00:17:45.860 but she had a husband 1.00
00:17:46.460 and a ton of kids.
00:17:47.960 And Anthony was single
00:17:49.260 and devoted 100% of her time
00:17:50.880 to the cause
00:17:51.420 and was always begging
00:17:53.300 Elizabeth Cady Stanton
00:17:54.500 to like stop having babies 1.00
00:17:56.900 and spend more time on politics.
00:17:58.780 Like at one point, Elizabeth Cady Stanton writes to Susan B. Anthony.
00:18:02.060 She's like, I'm done, I'm done, I'm done.
00:18:03.240 This is my last baby.
00:18:04.160 She had like three more babies after that.
00:18:06.040 Oh, wow.
00:18:06.400 The biography by Ellen Carol DuBois that I reviewed for The New Yorker
00:18:10.320 referred to Stanton as, quote, an appreciator of male beauty.
00:18:14.520 And I was like, okay.
00:18:15.420 Wow. 0.98
00:18:16.080 Yeah, so you're pregnant constantly. 0.96
00:18:18.200 But despite this asymmetry in their lives
00:18:21.060 and like the fact that it was Anthony who just had a ton more time to devote to politics,
00:18:25.960 both of them felt that Stanton was smarter.
00:18:28.060 They're like, Elizabeth is a genius.
00:18:29.920 Susan is Stanton's helper.
00:18:32.100 So Elizabeth Cady Stanton was just much, much, much more intellectually confident than her, like, intellectual partner.
00:18:37.940 We don't really think of 19th century American women this way, especially somebody like Stanton, who was, like, not college educated.
00:18:45.180 She never wrote a book.
00:18:46.720 But the fact of the matter is that what Stanton was doing was, like, public political philosophy, right?
00:18:52.540 Yeah.
00:18:52.740 First of all, she was not, like most women activists of her generation, religiously motivated. 0.98
00:18:58.580 Elizabeth Cady Stanton was pretty militantly irreligious.
00:19:02.300 She was an atheist.
00:19:03.680 She had had, like, a mental health crisis as a teenager, like, Who Among Us. 0.53
00:19:07.880 And the object of that had been this, like, paranoid fantasy that she was going to go to hell for being a sinner. 0.62
00:19:13.640 And so she emerges on the other side of that at the end of her adolescence and is like, religion is bad for me and I think it's bad for all women. 0.57
00:19:19.980 So she's not, as some of her peers are doing, like the Grim K sisters or Lucretia Mott, like, really operating in, like, a Quaker tradition. 0.75
00:19:27.320 Yeah, I was going to say.
00:19:28.620 She is like a purely secular thinker, and she's reading Enlightenment political philosophers.
00:19:34.700 So she comes up through a lot of abolitionism.
00:19:37.240 And maybe for our listeners that are not from the United States, when Moira is sort of drawing the distinction to the Quakers, that would be the classic abolitionist who is deeply humanistic, but is deeply humanistic out of a religious impulse.
00:19:50.400 It's an abolitionism that is founded in natural law traditions around the dignity of every human being.
00:19:57.520 And that's not Stanton's position.
00:19:59.640 No, Stanton is coming from a different set of beliefs.
00:20:03.360 And she really understands herself to be elaborating upon and like taking to the logical conclusion the secular thinkers of the American and French revolutions.
00:20:12.880 her mother was from this like very old Dutch New York family and her ancestors on that side had
00:20:20.420 fought in the American Revolution which wasn't like that long ago you know it's like it's in
00:20:25.160 living memory for these people there's like old people around who fought in the revolution or
00:20:29.900 witnessed the revolution and so the principles of that war and the rhetoric of that war and the
00:20:36.660 sort of ideals of this very young country are still at the front of people's minds and Stanton
00:20:41.280 is really using that rhetoric for her own ends. And Susan B. Anthony is just not on that level,
00:20:47.160 right? Like she was a really good administrator. She was really good at organizing people,
00:20:52.700 Susan B. Anthony was. She was good at getting them to keep their promises and imposing like
00:20:57.040 organizational discipline. She was not good at like writing speeches or like thinking through 0.92
00:21:02.440 the implications of a new demand. So Susan B. Anthony really thought of Elizabeth Cady Stanton
00:21:08.660 as her superior. 0.56
00:21:10.200 Famously, Susan B. Anthony called Stanton Mrs. Stanton.
00:21:13.820 Oh, wow.
00:21:14.340 I didn't know that.
00:21:15.140 And Stanton called Susan B. Anthony Susan.
00:21:17.460 Wow.
00:21:18.000 So, like, they were conscious.
00:21:19.380 Like, this is asymmetrical between them, right?
00:21:21.200 This is, like, hierarchical.
00:21:23.380 And basically, Stanton agrees with Anthony that she was better than her.
00:21:27.340 She's like, yes, in fact, I am.
00:21:29.040 Nice.
00:21:29.500 That's kind of something you need to understand about Elizabeth Cady Stanton 1.00
00:21:31.920 is that she thought she was better than fucking everybody. 1.00
00:21:34.640 This woman was a wild narcissist. 0.99
00:21:38.660 And biographers talk about her remarkably intact ego, which really does set her apart from other women of her age. 0.98
00:21:46.580 Like, other women didn't act like this.
00:21:47.940 She was conspicuous in her confidence.
00:21:51.640 And that really was accompanied by this, like, lifelong sense of purpose and destiny that Stanton had.
00:21:59.460 And also, she seems to have been pretty unimpressed with just about everybody else, like, especially the activists and intellectuals of her era.
00:22:05.480 It's not just that she thinks she's a genius. 1.00
00:22:08.560 She sees herself as a genius surrounded by idiots. 1.00
00:22:11.980 Nice. 1.00
00:22:12.720 We stan a recognizable queen.
00:22:16.580 Like, does she not remind you of some people you already know?
00:22:20.080 Oh, yeah.
00:22:21.280 But so the other thing that's interesting here is that the psychological structure you're describing and the liberalism sort of are of one piece.
00:22:28.660 What I mean by that is in advocating for women's suffrage in the 19th century, there were two objections to it.
00:22:34.940 One had to do with the supposed natural inferiority of women.
00:22:38.260 The other had to do with the fact that women already do vote through the paterfamilias, 1.00
00:22:42.520 through the unit of the household. 0.99
00:22:44.060 And that's in itself a deeply illiberal or anti-liberal understanding of society.
00:22:50.760 It's saying there are parts of society where not everyone's equal
00:22:53.660 and where there are these organically grown things.
00:22:56.160 And the family, being all about biology, is one of those.
00:22:59.840 And her kind of anti-social streak goes very nicely with the rejection of that,
00:23:04.160 with saying, hey, no, like, you know, a man cannot express the view of the household the way
00:23:10.800 some Enlightenment thinkers thought and a lot of 19th century thinkers thought. No, that guy might
00:23:15.240 be a complete jabroni. They both need to be able to vote. And so already, I think you're queuing
00:23:20.700 into how her psychological makeup and her politics really challenge the dogmatic understanding of the
00:23:28.160 family and of the state at the time that often enough, even people who we would think of today
00:23:32.800 as sort of arguing from a feminist perspective would share.
00:23:36.000 Yeah, and I think that something you have to understand about Stanton 1.00
00:23:38.520 is that she did not have, as some people still have,
00:23:44.180 that sense of like a curtain drawn around private life, right?
00:23:48.040 She had a fundamental sense of human rights,
00:23:51.000 like what we would now call human rights.
00:23:52.560 It like sort of precedes social configuration or ordering. 0.99
00:23:56.120 And she saw the family as a tool of tyranny.
00:24:01.600 She really did. 0.55
00:24:02.460 She was a person who had a lot of profound experiences witnessing the injustice that is meted out upon women in the so-called private sphere where there is no law and so the strong rule, right?
00:24:19.120 So, like, we talked about her, like, disdain for the Irish a little earlier. Part of what happened was that when she moved to Seneca Falls in her, like, youngish adulthood, she was living on this street where there were a lot of, like, Irish immigrant families.
00:24:33.900 And she witnessed these, you know, Irish men get drunk and beat the shit out of their wives. Like she saw that happening. And she saw these women, her neighbors, these immigrant women, who would be left alone with no education, no ability to work really, and then tons of kids to take care of. 0.97
00:24:53.100 While their husbands just abandoned them, right? So this acute awareness of the dependence of women in marriage and the vulnerabilities that that dependence created was extrapolated in her mind to the condition of women's citizenship, right?
00:25:09.480 Like, we actually need individual rights recognized and enforced by the state for people to have basic safety and dignity.
00:25:16.720 And that's not something where she was, like, willing to concede a difference in the marital realm or the family realm.
00:25:25.160 And that makes her even more radical than somebody like Betty Friedan 120 years later.
00:25:29.280 Yeah.
00:25:29.860 A question about that.
00:25:31.180 So the idea that the privacy of the home or of the marriage is kind of a trick of patriarchy, though, Margaret Fuller does that too, right?
00:25:39.240 woman in the 19th century. So this is an idea that's around and often, I think, is sort of
00:25:45.000 informed not so much by Enlightenment philosophy, but really by kind of emerging communist and
00:25:50.460 socialist theorizing. Is there any of that in her background? Did she read a sort of social
00:25:55.860 utopianism or did she read early socialist literature? Yeah, she seems to have been
00:26:01.160 really influenced actually by her cousin Garrett. And this might be a good time to turn to Garrett
00:26:08.880 Smith. Elizabeth Cady Stanton is born in 1815 in Johnstown, New York, sort of upstate New York.
00:26:16.900 She is one of many, many daughters born to Daniel Cady. Have you ever heard of this guy?
00:26:23.540 No. Daniel Cady was a very famous New York State jurist. He was a judge for a long time.
00:26:29.620 He was briefly in the House of Representatives, like Nepo baby, right? Like she is the daughter 0.98
00:26:35.380 of a wealthy father and he was working as a lawyer during her childhood this is kind of like a famous
00:26:41.020 story where this woman comes to their house to talk to stanton's father and she's like look i
00:26:50.320 managed to get some paid work i saved up a lot of my own money and i bought myself a house
00:26:56.160 and my husband just died and in his well he left my house to his brother oh wow who now wants me
00:27:06.680 to move out and this house that i bought with my own money i have no legal rights to because i'm a
00:27:11.860 woman and i was married and i cannot hold property so like legally now this house has been stolen out
00:27:17.340 from under me because of the coverture law right the the status of women and young elizabeth who's
00:27:25.440 like 10 ish at the time overhears her dad telling this woman who's come to visit like i'm sorry
00:27:31.780 there's nothing i can do for you this is what the law says and young elizabeth little baby girl
00:27:37.780 elizabeth marches into her father's office goes to one of his statute books finds this statute 0.99
00:27:44.320 in the book that says that women's property belongs to their husbands and cuts it out or 0.94
00:27:50.340 moves to cut it out before he comes in and tells her she's not allowed to do that nice so it's like
00:27:55.440 early feminist consciousness and early, like, alertness to the injustice of legal misogyny.
00:28:01.820 It's also a really formative relationship that Stanton has with her father. Her father is an
00:28:08.000 intellectual. He's a respected man. He has a job that as a woman, she is not able to be eligible
00:28:14.220 for. Like, she just cannot get the education to practice law or minutes in the bar to practice 1.00
00:28:20.540 law or the ability to stand for election. These things that this man she really admires is able
00:28:25.400 to do. And also, she can't make him think of her as serious. So throughout her childhood,
00:28:33.980 Elizabeth's father is telling her that she's really smart. It's true. He's right. She is very
00:28:37.780 smart, right? He's also telling her all the time that it doesn't matter. Oh, wow. His recurring
00:28:43.240 line to her is, I wish you'd been born a boy because you're so smart. This guy has a bunch
00:28:47.900 of daughters. Daniel Cady does. Elizabeth Cady Stanton's mother basically goes to bed
00:28:52.960 during her childhood and is overcome with depression and just basically never gets up
00:28:57.200 again. She gave birth 11 times and six of those kids died. Oh, God. Five when they were very,
00:29:04.120 very young, like infancy. And then the sixth, the only son to survive childhood was this boy,
00:29:10.960 Eliezer. And he died when he was 20, which is when Elizabeth was 11. And the mom just kind of
00:29:17.820 like never got up again right so the mom is like depressed out of the picture but elizabeth goes
00:29:23.600 into her father who's like looking over her dead brother's body in the living room and she's like
00:29:27.900 i will be for you everything that a son would have been i will live up to all the expectations
00:29:34.760 you put in my brother i will be good enough and he's like no you can't do that oh man she never
00:29:40.000 gets her father's approval by the way she grows up and becomes this activist and he's like what
00:29:44.140 are you doing it's just like absolute tragic failure to fulfill this inheritance and like
00:29:52.900 restore the wounded parents right she cannot do it and that said when she's growing up like her 0.88
00:30:01.400 dad is a judge and a congressman her mom is sort of like debilitated by depression her primary 0.74
00:30:07.500 caregiver is a man named Peter Tebout, who is Black. And Peter Tebout was almost certainly
00:30:15.220 enslaved. So in the 1820 census that was taken when Elizabeth was five, her father is listed
00:30:23.940 as enslaving two people and of having a free Black child living in his home, right? So he's
00:30:30.260 listed as enslaving one Black man, one Black woman, and then is living also in his household, 0.96
00:30:35.320 a 14-year-old black boy.
00:30:36.840 So generally it's thought like,
00:30:38.560 okay, he had enslaved this married couple
00:30:40.200 and their child who was freeborn
00:30:42.200 was living with him.
00:30:43.460 We might say that New York State
00:30:44.880 outlawed slavery in 1827.
00:30:47.640 Does that sound right?
00:30:48.380 But it was gradual, right?
00:30:49.560 They were emancipated in stages.
00:30:52.780 So this man, Peter Tebowt,
00:30:54.080 who was probably enslaved
00:30:55.460 by Stanton's father,
00:30:56.840 he didn't die free.
00:30:58.400 He died a landowner,
00:30:59.640 although he never got
00:31:00.500 above the property threshold to vote.
00:31:03.040 She describes him as her manservant,
00:31:05.260 Right. But this is her primary caregiver. I think that's interesting for her later politics.
00:31:11.420 She gets this like better than usual for a girl education, but she's not able to go to college. 1.00
00:31:17.440 That is not available to her. The first woman to graduate college with a bachelor's degree in the United States isn't until 1840. 1.00
00:31:23.780 Wow. And even then it stayed very rare for a very long time.
00:31:27.140 Yeah. But she gets this kind of like informal education when she starts hanging out a lot at the home of her cousin.
00:31:35.260 Garrett Smith. Garrett Smith was, by all accounts, a real charmer. And I'm not saying that
00:31:41.340 sarcastically. People loved this guy. And he was also a really, really radical abolitionist.
00:31:48.460 So he was a friend of and seemingly an underwriter of John Brown and was, like, funding a lot of
00:31:55.880 money in Kansas into, like, the militant, like, abolitionism in Kansas.
00:32:01.360 Nice. 0.53
00:32:01.560 John Brown, for our listeners abroad, famous for killing enslavers, a, like, white, really militant, violently so abolitionist. 0.66
00:32:09.820 And Harper's Ferry, Virginia. 0.69
00:32:11.400 Yeah.
00:32:11.840 Yeah, super based, as they would say today.
00:32:14.600 Yeah, a really cool guy and a friend of Cousin Garrett, as the biographers call him.
00:32:21.820 And, like, Garrett is known for his hospitality.
00:32:24.920 All these radical intellectuals are hanging out at his house.
00:32:27.680 and Elizabeth is going over kind of all the time
00:32:32.660 because it's a really glamorous, cool place to be
00:32:35.540 and because people are talking about things that are exciting
00:32:37.540 and she's getting this, like, education there.
00:32:40.600 And one day she's sitting in Cousin Garrett's parlor
00:32:44.460 with his wife and daughter.
00:32:46.360 Garrett's, like, 15, 20 years older than Elizabeth
00:32:48.680 and he's got a daughter about her age.
00:32:50.880 And the three of them are, like, I don't know, embroidering
00:32:52.720 whatever women in the 19th century do. 1.00
00:32:54.880 Cocaine. 1.00
00:32:55.540 Yeah.
00:32:55.780 home remedies just huffing home remedies and cousin garrett comes in and he's like a little
00:33:02.320 winded and he seems stressed and he's like ladies you all have to follow me right now because i need
00:33:08.380 to show you something and he takes them up and some accounts call this the third floor and some
00:33:13.860 call it the attic i've seen pictures of this house and i'm like i feel like the third floor in that
00:33:17.320 house is like an attic it's a museum now but there is a black woman hiding in this attic
00:33:22.860 because Cousin Garrett's house is a stop on the Underground Railroad. 0.95
00:33:27.140 This is a woman who is on her way to Canada.
00:33:29.640 She is almost exactly Elizabeth's age.
00:33:33.140 And he's like, okay, this is a woman who has experienced slavery in the American South.
00:33:38.480 She's come up from Louisiana.
00:33:41.320 She's going to answer all of your questions.
00:33:44.660 And so Elizabeth recounts having like a three-hour conversation with this woman
00:33:49.020 who's almost exactly her age.
00:33:51.020 and what she tells her is that she has been being raped basically constantly since she was like
00:33:57.060 very very young she's like look i was raped by my first enslaver as a child i was sold as like 0.61
00:34:04.960 functionally like a rape victim i was like sold for sold for her beauty is the euphemism
00:34:09.560 that stanton uses and she's like i've been subjected to sexual violence like basically 1.00
00:34:16.040 every day of my life and i'm running away from it this woman does eventually make it to canada 0.97
00:34:20.640 by the way, but there's a pretty intense manhunt for her, including the slave catchers coming to
00:34:26.140 Cousins Garrett's house, specifically looking for this fleeing rape victim. But Elizabeth had been 0.98
00:34:32.560 kind of like going to these abolitionist parties for the glamour, right? She'd been going to have
00:34:37.120 a good time. She was like flirting with young men there. She was into the excitement of being part
00:34:42.560 of a scene. And this is a moment that makes her a really militant, committed abolitionist.
00:34:46.940 Wow.
00:34:47.820 Because she understands slavery, maybe like, you know how there's a difference between knowing something and understanding it?
00:34:54.940 Yeah.
00:34:55.140 She talks about like crying, listening to this woman talk about her experiences of sexual violence.
00:35:00.360 She understands that as a woman, she's implicated.
00:35:03.120 And this is how she describes it, right?
00:35:04.780 She's like, the enslaved are women, they are vulnerable as women in a way similar to how I am vulnerable, and therefore I have an obligation to them.
00:35:12.240 At the same time, what's making her vulnerable in upstate New York, which at this point no longer has slavery, is of course are the fugitive slave laws and that kind of stuff. So you also get the sense that like, you know, this isn't about personal morality. This is about how to change a government. This is something that is a problem that comes from the federal government at that point in the United States, and that can only be addressed through that.
00:35:36.880 So this is an interesting point you make because she marries a guy pretty soon thereafter, like within a year of this encounter in the attic.
00:35:43.500 She gets married to a guy named Henry Stanton. 0.99
00:35:46.380 And Elizabeth's father fucking hates this guy. 0.99
00:35:48.500 And like now, so do I. 1.00
00:35:50.140 Honestly, the more I learned about him, the more I was like, oh, this fucking douchebag. 1.00
00:35:53.300 He got thrown out of the Republican Party later for taking bribes. 1.00
00:35:57.200 He was just kind of an idiot, right? 1.00
00:35:59.040 Well, he's a New York politician. 1.00
00:36:00.800 Whomstam on them has not been thrown out of the—
00:36:03.260 Well, I guess you don't get thrown out. 0.98
00:36:04.580 You have to be real corrupt to get thrown out of—I mean, that's George Santos shit, but the slogan should be, New York politicians, don't ask where the pool came from. 0.99
00:36:14.280 This is like 20 years after they got married. 0.99
00:36:16.220 He had this job at a custom house, and they caught him taking bribes.
00:36:19.400 And he was like, I thought that was the point of having a job at a custom house is you take bribes to let stuff in that shouldn't come in.
00:36:24.340 But then, like, when he got caught, he threw their oldest son under the bus.
00:36:27.620 He was like, my son who was working for me, it was him who did it. 1.00
00:36:29.980 And you're like, this fucking asshole. 1.00
00:36:31.380 Yeah. 1.00
00:36:31.700 For the last couple decades of their lives, he and Elizabeth will live separately, and Elizabeth becomes this, like, great advocate for divorce reform.
00:36:40.720 She, like, forwards every article, like, by the way.
00:36:45.840 But, like, he's there, right? He's, like, a friend of Cousin Garrett's. He's, at the time, an abolitionist speaker. He has no source of income, and it pisses off her dad that he's an abolitionist.
00:36:56.000 Her father, the slaveholder, you'll be shocked to learn, is not an abolitionist.
00:36:59.720 But Elizabeth really risks her family and her inheritance and consigns herself to what she thinks is going to be a life of permanent poverty to marry this guy.
00:37:09.280 Largely because he promises her that if they get married, he will take her to the 1840 World Anti-Slavery Convention in London.
00:37:20.440 Ladies, have you ever gotten married for a free trip?
00:37:22.740 because elizabeth gets married to this guy so that she can travel with him 1.00
00:37:29.420 to london to this global abolitionist conference with abolitionists from the uk from the u.s
00:37:38.760 a couple people from france a couple people from the west indies like they're all gathering in
00:37:43.680 london in 1840 in the summer and elizabeth really wants to be there and two things happen
00:37:50.280 at the 1840 World Anti-Slavery Convention in London,
00:37:53.920 where Elizabeth goes on her honeymoon.
00:37:55.720 She's 24.
00:37:57.160 The first thing that happens is that she's an absolute hit. 0.61
00:38:00.500 People love her. 1.00
00:38:01.680 The Grimkay sisters are writing letters home being like,
00:38:05.260 God, I hate Henry Stanton, but his new wife's really cool.
00:38:09.860 Like, she's a charmer. 0.97
00:38:11.500 Everybody thinks she's smart.
00:38:12.640 They're like, who's this girl?
00:38:14.100 So she makes a lot of friends.
00:38:15.820 But the other thing that happens at the World Anti-Slavery Conference in London
00:38:19.420 is that women who have been elected as delegates are not recognized.
00:38:26.260 Oh, wow.
00:38:26.600 So the whole first day, like the American abolitionist movement in the 1830s and like now 1840,
00:38:34.580 it's a women's movement, right?
00:38:37.080 Especially in the U.S. 0.99
00:38:38.540 This is something where women are feeling very strongly about this issue. 0.80
00:38:42.520 Women are taking what they see as a moral position as like wives and mothers to oppose this.
00:38:50.020 And they are really becoming leaders of abolitionist circles in the U.S.
00:38:54.880 And that is a source of great angst and controversy within the American abolitionist movement.
00:39:02.140 The radical reform sectors at this time are constantly devolving into infighting about whether women can be involved.
00:39:10.340 Or whether it's inappropriate or scandalous or whether it will make them look bad or whether, like, women are qualified.
00:39:18.420 Like, this is something that is a controversy within these people who are radical on these other issues, right?
00:39:22.800 Yeah.
00:39:23.420 So at the London conference, all of these American women have been elected as delegates by the American abolitionist groups that they already lead, right?
00:39:33.220 They've saved up money or had to raise money in a lot of cases.
00:39:36.700 They've left their kids behind.
00:39:38.040 They've traveled. It's like a two-week boat ride at this point, also from the U.S. East Coast to the U.K.
00:39:44.400 They've really put their lives on hold, and they are made to wait on the first day of this conference
00:39:48.520 while all the men debate whether or not they'll be allowed to participate, and the men vote no.
00:39:54.500 Wow.
00:39:55.440 And this is a really formative betrayal and disappointment for Stanton.
00:40:01.480 She's met all these women she really admires.
00:40:03.600 she's become friends with lucretia mott the quaker preacher and abolitionist activist i
00:40:08.520 mentioned earlier who's like 20 years older than elizabeth and after the first day they just walk 0.96
00:40:13.300 around london with elizabeth like losing her shit at how unfair this is she's like i cannot believe 0.95
00:40:18.980 these assholes and lucretia mott is kind of just like yeah they do that like what are you gonna do 0.99
00:40:23.720 um it reminds me of like conversations i've had with older women especially when i was like that 0.99
00:40:29.340 young being like i cannot believe the existence of sexism i see it really acutely it's unfair i
00:40:35.400 see this disparity between like my intellect and the dignity that i'm afforded by others i see the
00:40:41.140 disparity between your intellect and the dignity you're afforded by others and the older women are 1.00
00:40:45.540 like i am used to this you know um so she goes to this convention she's outraged and pissed off at
00:40:51.960 the start but then the other thing that happens is that there's a rift within the abolitionists
00:40:56.940 over a totally different issue, which is how you posit a theory of change.
00:41:02.780 So at this point, William Lloyd Garrison is leading a faction that wants to abandon politics
00:41:11.500 because they understand all political institutions as corrupted by slavery.
00:41:17.940 They're like, we will corrupt ourselves, we will contaminate ourselves through contact
00:41:24.320 with this political system.
00:41:25.840 What we need to do is sort of just keep on preaching abolition and have a change theory of moral suasion.
00:41:35.420 Yeah, this is called no-governmentism, right?
00:41:37.340 Yes, yeah. 0.99
00:41:38.200 This is also the sect that wants to include women, by the way. 0.99
00:41:42.640 Elizabeth Cady Stanton's husband, Henry, is the leader of a group that, like, now gets shorthanded as the politicos, who were like, that's stupid, actually. 0.98
00:41:53.480 You can't kumbaya yourself into the end of a system that is making people rich. 0.89
00:42:01.220 What you have to do is use the levers, the existing levers of power, to try and move policy towards your desired goal.
00:42:09.220 It might be obvious from the way I'm discussing these people who I think was right in this.
00:42:14.600 Yeah, speaking of which, Maura, happy Confederate Surrender Day.
00:42:18.380 We're recording this on April 9th. 1.00
00:42:20.020 Yeah, fuck you guys. You lost. 1.00
00:42:21.880 You lost. Well, now you run the government, but you'll lose again. You rose again and you will lose again.
00:42:29.180 So Elizabeth is like really torn. On the one hand, she really admires the Garrisonians for their principled gender inclusion.
00:42:37.860 But on the other hand, she thinks that their theory of change is bullshit and it's not going to work. 0.82
00:42:42.960 And what you need to do is the hard political work of organizing people and not this like sort of, you know, handholdy moral suasion argument. 0.98
00:42:50.260 And burn down Atlanta. 0.96
00:42:51.320 You gotta burn down Atlanta. 0.69
00:42:55.320 William Long Garrison famously did not burn down Atlanta. 1.00
00:42:58.080 I know, fucker. 0.99
00:42:59.440 So after this, she and Henry move back to the U.S. 1.00
00:43:03.620 They settle briefly in Boston, where Elizabeth starts pumping out a lot of babies.
00:43:08.860 She has four boys in a row.
00:43:10.680 There's all these stories about how, like, just having a lot of boys really got in the way of her being able to do work
00:43:18.360 because they were very loud and rambunctious.
00:43:20.460 So she's like, yeah, I was going to write this speech,
00:43:23.380 but then I had to spend all day, like, yelling to get off the roof
00:43:28.400 and stop throwing stones and get out of the trees.
00:43:31.520 The three oldest boys would do a lot of, like,
00:43:34.200 elaborate sadistic bullying of the fourth younger one.
00:43:37.880 So at one point they, like, put him on a raft
00:43:40.100 and just sent him down this river.
00:43:42.460 Oh, my God.
00:43:43.020 And there had to, like, be a search party
00:43:43.840 to go find this little boy on the river.
00:43:45.180 So it's a lot of like slapstick, like Dennis the Menace style comedy happening in the background of Elizabeth Cady Stanton's life.
00:43:52.700 To be fair, to be set afloat on a raft is how I imagine every upstate New York childhood in the mid-19th century.
00:44:01.560 But before they moved to Seneca Falls, they're living in Boston.
00:44:05.300 Oh.
00:44:05.780 They're living in Boston just briefly, just for a couple of years at the beginning of their marriage.
00:44:10.000 And when she's there, that's when Elizabeth Cady Stanton meets what's going to be one of her best friends for a long time, Frederick Douglass.
00:44:17.680 I was going to ask, her I'm smarter than everyone policy must have had a Frederick Douglass exemption, right? 0.99
00:44:23.520 She fucking loved that guy. 0.97
00:44:26.140 I mean, like, it is Frederick Douglass. 0.99
00:44:27.640 This is not like an outlier opinion.
00:44:29.680 Yeah, no.
00:44:30.200 She thought he was like a unique genius, right?
00:44:32.820 So the way she thought she was better than everybody, she thought she had found somebody who, like her, was marked by destiny and, like, meant to change the course of the nation and the course of history.
00:44:46.400 When she met Frederick Douglass, like, got to hand it to her.
00:44:49.340 She was right.
00:44:50.120 Yeah, exactly.
00:44:51.140 Do you want to, like, gloss for anybody who doesn't know just, like, the basics of Frederick Douglass?
00:44:54.620 Yes. So Frederick Douglass was born into slavery in the early 19th century, escaped to Maryland in the 1830s, and essentially then became one of the great promoters of the abolitionist cause, mostly, I think, in New York and New England, and was, yeah, was just, I mean, you're welcome to pull up any of his speeches.
00:45:20.440 they are phenomenal. He really was able to bring it. Wrote, I believe, no less than three memoirs.
00:45:27.960 Is that right? Yes. He wrote a bunch of memoirs. His first one is the best. If you're going to
00:45:32.340 read any of them, the first one is his best. But he, yeah, he escaped. He was born into slavery,
00:45:37.640 taught himself to read as a child, basically by like bribing these boys who were working with him
00:45:44.260 at the docks in Baltimore to teach him to read. And he marries a free Black woman in Baltimore,
00:45:50.560 and she helps him escape north to freedom, where he sets about becoming a public intellectual.
00:45:57.500 And he settles first in Boston, but then like Stanton, he moves to like Western New York. So
00:46:02.380 he settles in Rochester, which is like 20 miles away from Seneca Falls. Not too, too far, way less
00:46:09.040 far now than it was then. But they meet in Boston. And the thing about Frederick Douglass is when he
00:46:14.880 comes north and he encounters white abolitionists in the north, he is really disappointed by how
00:46:21.620 racist they are. So for our purposes, we do a lot of shorthanding of the abolitionists as the good
00:46:26.900 guys. But it is perfectly possible and was perfectly possible then to have a personal
00:46:35.800 investment in white supremacy and racism and still think slavery was egregious.
00:46:40.980 Yeah.
00:46:41.420 Like a lot of people did.
00:46:42.920 So Frederick Douglass gets to Boston.
00:46:44.760 He expects to meet like nice white people or non-racist white people for the first time
00:46:48.260 in his life.
00:46:48.760 And like, he's like, oh boy, am I wrong? 1.00
00:46:50.480 These guys are crazy racist. 0.98
00:46:51.940 And he writes of Elizabeth Cady Stanton that she is like the least racist white person 0.98
00:46:56.600 he's ever met, which like, oh, poor Frederick.
00:47:00.440 You're going to have to set back that counter in a little bit, buddy.
00:47:03.420 But he says she has uncommon contempt for racial prejudice. So at this point in her life, she's in her 20s, like later 20s at this point. And she's a really radical committed abolitionist. She is invested in intra-abolitionist frischers, and she is forming her own political philosophy in response to what's going on within the abolitionist movement.
00:47:26.320 and she is evincing a sort of personal disdain for anti-Black racism
00:47:31.980 that is manifested at least on one level in her relationship with Frederick Douglass,
00:47:37.840 who she reveres so much.
00:47:41.540 She doesn't think anybody was her equal, but she seems to have thought of him as her superior.
00:47:47.320 Over the coming decades, her letters and her journals reveal an intense desire for his approval,
00:47:52.820 even when she is at her
00:47:54.980 most virulently racist.
00:47:57.040 So they have this relationship
00:47:58.280 of like initial intimacy,
00:48:00.380 solidarity for many years
00:48:02.060 in their joint activism
00:48:03.200 and then a rift
00:48:04.580 and then like an eventual
00:48:06.240 like tepid partial reconciliation
00:48:08.000 towards the end of their lives.
00:48:09.380 When does he die?
00:48:10.400 1890s?
00:48:11.200 Yes, before her,
00:48:12.480 but not by much.
00:48:13.500 Okay.
00:48:14.140 And this is like
00:48:14.900 taken by a lot of people
00:48:16.420 to be symbolic
00:48:17.340 of the broader interplay
00:48:18.520 between the women's rights movement
00:48:19.800 in America
00:48:20.500 and the black freedom struggle
00:48:21.620 in America. 1.00
00:48:22.180 I think that's a really tempting metaphor to buy into.
00:48:25.720 Again, I'm going to ask us to try and see them as people here rather than symbols, but that's almost an impossible ask with figures of this much significance.
00:48:34.800 So, you know, she is a mom.
00:48:37.840 She moves to Seneca Falls where her dad, like, owns a house that he kind of gives them because her husband's not really good at making money.
00:48:45.280 And she gets really bored.
00:48:48.180 bored. She doesn't really like being like a mom all the time only. She's kind of frustrated with
00:48:54.960 it, but she's really still plugged in to these abolitionist women's circles, right? And one day,
00:49:01.040 Lucretia Mott is in town visiting. It's a really hot summer in upstate New York. If you've ever
00:49:06.720 done like Northeast summers, they can be pretty brutal. And she's over at a friend's house where
00:49:12.000 Lucretia Mott is visiting a bunch of these abolitionist women, most of them Quakers, 1.00
00:49:15.340 are all hanging out. They're literally drinking tea. And they start complaining about the state 0.99
00:49:20.540 of women's rights and about like the lack of dignity and freedom that they have and the way 0.90
00:49:24.320 that they're disrespected by male abolitionists, right? And Elizabeth has been sort of like 1.00
00:49:29.600 turning this over for a long time. And she has an idea. It's like, listen, Lucretia Mott's really
00:49:35.120 famous and you're in town right now. What if we threw a convention to have people talk about this
00:49:41.840 and we use your celebrity as a peg. 0.93
00:49:44.700 And so Elizabeth puts together
00:49:46.200 something she calls the Declaration of Sentiments.
00:49:49.500 Adrian, have you ever heard of this document?
00:49:52.060 I have.
00:49:52.820 The signatories are just a list of attendees
00:49:54.680 of the Seneca Falls Convention, right?
00:49:58.080 Well, not everybody wants to sign it.
00:49:59.920 Right.
00:50:00.460 But it's essentially like people who were there.
00:50:02.860 First of all, this document is modeled very, very closely
00:50:06.100 after the Declaration of Independence.
00:50:07.800 Yeah.
00:50:07.980 It starts when in the course of human events.
00:50:10.020 It has, we hold these truths to be self-evident that all men and women are created equal, that they are endowed by their creator with certain inalienable rights, right?
00:50:18.160 She's very, very deliberately evoking this tradition.
00:50:23.260 I'm going to read just a little bit of this.
00:50:24.920 She says, the history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her.
00:50:35.280 To prove this, let facts be submitted to a candid world.
00:50:38.640 He has never permitted her to exercise her inalienable right to the elective franchise. 0.91
00:50:42.800 That is the first grievance listed.
00:50:44.880 He has compelled her to submit to laws, a formation of which she had no voice.
00:50:48.460 Having deprived her of this first right as a citizen, the elective franchise, thereby leaving her without representation in the halls of legislation, he has oppressed her on all sides.
00:50:56.660 He has made her, if married, in the eyes of the law, civilly dead.
00:50:59.580 He has taken from her all right and property, even to the wages she earns.
00:51:03.700 It goes on like this, right? 1.00
00:51:04.920 It enumerates women's lowered legal status. 0.87
00:51:07.660 in exactly the same form that Thomas Jefferson used
00:51:11.060 listing out the grievances against King George III
00:51:13.380 in the Declaration of Independence.
00:51:15.280 Right. It's not an accidental sort of formatting thing here.
00:51:19.140 The grievance appealed to a sovereign, right?
00:51:22.160 Like, there's the Declaration of Independence,
00:51:24.120 there's also the Cahiers de l'Oléans in 1789 in France.
00:51:27.860 It's usually what you send to a sovereign over you
00:51:30.980 before things get choppy, before the guillotine comes out.
00:51:34.820 So, like, this is not a petition so much as, like,
00:51:37.660 or else. Like, not only does she commit attendees to women's suffrage, but really sort of to the
00:51:45.440 revolutionary project. Yeah. And it's maybe because of that militancy, in part, that people
00:51:51.660 at Seneca Falls, the actual gathering in the church of a couple hundred people, are really
00:51:57.440 iffy on this. Yeah, it's like a third of them signs it, right? Yeah. And you know what persuades
00:52:02.700 more of them to come over to her side, is that Frederick Douglass, who has come all the way from
00:52:08.660 Rochester to be there, stands up and speaks in favor of it. Elizabeth Keady Stanton becomes a
00:52:13.900 much more powerful public speaker later in her political career. But at the time, she's actually
00:52:18.480 kind of nervous. Like for somebody who's so confident in her intellectual prowess, she's
00:52:22.820 apparently like kind of afraid of public speaking. Oh no. But Douglass is there. He's the only black
00:52:28.360 person in attendance, one of very few men in attendance. And he lends his support to women's
00:52:34.240 suffrage. And that is what gets the rest of the white women to come on board. So this sets off a 0.60
00:52:40.180 firestorm, a flurry of women's rights initiatives come forward. She winds up kind of traveling the 1.00
00:52:47.320 country a lot. She'll testify towards like legal reform, trying to get women property rights. 1.00
00:52:52.560 Anthony was really pushing her to get, like, women's wages because she was, excuse me, Anthony was really concerned for, like, working women as opposed to those who were just trying to inherit property.
00:53:03.960 And then the Civil War starts.
00:53:08.180 And in 1863, Abraham Lincoln signs the Emancipation Proclamation, which frees the slaves in the Confederate States.
00:53:18.420 It's a fun document because it doesn't really have any, like, effect, right?
00:53:22.380 It's like we are freeing the slaves in a territory that we don't have control over right now.
00:53:27.540 But it's a like rhetorical device.
00:53:30.360 And the abolitionists are worried that he's going to chicken out and not make it permanent or not extend it to the union.
00:53:39.240 So also, Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susie B. Anthony have heard that Southern women have formed a pro-slavery organization, Southern white women.
00:53:49.580 And that really pisses them off. 0.88
00:53:51.800 Nice. 0.93
00:53:52.380 So they form what is called the National Women's Loyal League, which is meant to petition Lincoln to make emancipation universal and permanent, right?
00:54:04.040 And they put up 400,000 signatures for permanent emancipation.
00:54:10.240 That's one in about 24 citizens of the U.S. at the time.
00:54:14.260 Wow.
00:54:14.320 It is a shocking proportion of the population that they get to sign this thing.
00:54:17.820 And that really creates the political will to pass the 13th Amendment. This is like one of their biggest first wins.
00:54:26.620 And after the Civil War, you get, as we say, this real like heady time when people are thinking about what America is going to be, what a more equal country is going to be like, right?
00:54:42.040 Like, okay, we have to take the promises of the Declaration seriously enough at least to not have slavery anymore, right?
00:54:52.100 How far are we going to carry that thought?
00:54:54.360 How much are we going to change?
00:54:57.220 In 1866, she and Anthony formed the American Equal Rights Association, which is designed to push for universal suffrage for Black people and for women. 0.99
00:55:08.280 And that's the votes for all, votes for none. 0.71
00:55:10.120 Votes for all or votes for none, right? It is a position that is, I gotta say, really unpopular.
00:55:18.900 Yeah. Well, precisely because so much abolitionism comes out of church traditions which, you know, hold up the family and hold up essentially the unequal gender system that sustains it, right?
00:55:31.840 Well, I mean, this isn't just within abolitionism. This is everywhere.
00:55:35.360 Right.
00:55:35.480 At this point in 1866, Stanton has been advocating for women's suffrage and a broad array of other women's rights issues for like 18 years.
00:55:46.440 But that doesn't mean that most people are on her side.
00:55:50.440 Women's suffrage remains a fringe movement for which there is not a lot of political support, including among women, right?
00:55:58.860 It is a minority position.
00:56:01.680 People keep telling Elizabeth Cady Stanton, no, this is the, they call it the Negroes
00:56:06.120 Hour.
00:56:06.800 And she gets mad at one point and writes to this guy, Wendell Phillips, who's like a
00:56:10.720 big opponent of women's rights within the abolitionist movement.
00:56:13.600 She's like, do you think all black people are men?
00:56:16.400 She's trying to do both at once.
00:56:18.480 She is not getting a lot of takers.
00:56:22.380 And among other things, it's really hard for her to get funding.
00:56:25.320 So these abolitionist organizations that would normally participate in fundraising for these
00:56:29.680 kind of campaigns are not giving her money. They're like, no, we think your women's suffrage 0.70
00:56:36.460 plank is actually going to sabotage the black male suffrage plank, or we just don't like it. 0.87
00:56:42.880 We think you're going too far. And this is when she meets a guy named George Train. Have you ever 0.50
00:56:49.660 heard of George Train? I have not. George Train is a aptly named railroad entrepreneur.
00:56:55.540 Oh, right. He's the one who funded the revolution. Yes.
00:56:58.700 Yes. He's kind of like a 19th century Elon Musk. He's a really weird guy. He's got like these kind of esoteric, nonsensical set of political commitments. Like for one thing, he's really, really super racist. He is always saying in public that he thinks black people are not as smart as other people.
00:57:15.580 So like not a egalitarian guy, but he believes very strongly in an independent Ireland for some reason and women's suffrage. 0.96
00:57:26.560 Unclear.
00:57:27.300 Does he have a very mobile right arm? 1.00
00:57:30.940 He reminds me a lot of Elon Musk because he's also really vulgar and annoying and saying stupid shit in public. 1.00
00:57:38.320 And he's always doing this weird stunts like trying to circumnavigate the globe and getting sick. 1.00
00:57:42.940 So everybody finds him really annoying and cringe.
00:57:45.580 And they don't like him. They don't trust him. But Elizabeth and Anthony start taking his money because they're like, we'll take money from anybody who will help us do this.
00:57:55.520 And the other thing you have to understand at this point is that male suffrage, like black male suffrage, has a clear political valence. That is a winner for the new Republican Party, right?
00:58:08.280 The Republican Party really wants black male suffrage for that reason, not just a principled reason, but also because they think it's going to benefit them electorally, right?
00:58:15.900 That's a lot of votes for us. 1.00
00:58:18.140 Nobody knows what women's suffrage would do politically. 1.00
00:58:21.560 That's just doubling the electorate. 1.00
00:58:24.560 And nobody knows how it's going to shake out or how it's going to function in a partisan fashion.
00:58:29.480 The theories we have about women voters and how they differ from male voters and how they understand their own interests, none of that exists yet.
00:58:35.680 So nobody's like, oh, a lot of more women voters, like women voters will be good for X party or women voters will be good for X cause.
00:58:42.620 Nobody knows that.
00:58:43.560 So people are really, really wary about that just in self-interested reasons.
00:58:47.720 Yeah. Plus, I mean, their sexism might tell them, and I mean, realism, too, that abusive husbands could, of course, use that to just vote twice.
00:58:56.420 Right. 0.98
00:58:56.860 But, you know, that doubles the black electorate.
00:58:58.540 It also doubles the white electorate.
00:58:59.700 It doubles every constituency that you might be trying to make some calculation about as a politician now has twice as many votes.
00:59:07.840 Which is why the history of women's suffrage in the late 19th century, of course, is one of these kind of piecemeal victories where it's often stuff like, oh, you can vote in local elections.
00:59:17.980 And that's about that.
00:59:18.820 It's about the fact that, like, well, fine, for a city council, this feels OK, but not for president or something like that, right?
00:59:25.400 Like, basically, it's under more controlled circumstances that it's often allowed.
00:59:29.100 And then often those are rescinded.
00:59:31.400 Yeah, and it's often in the West, too, where there's like a very small or much smaller like voting eligible population.
00:59:38.260 Oh, but this is not just an American thing.
00:59:39.740 Like, I think there are a lot of forward steps across the world, often on a municipal or state level.
00:59:46.500 And then often those are rescinded.
00:59:48.020 And I think it's less about there's obviously sexism baked into it.
00:59:51.540 But the ostensible reason that's given usually is about just electoral uncertainty that it generates.
00:59:56.780 Yeah.
00:59:57.260 Yeah. So she's taking money from this guy, George Train, who's funding her to like go campaign for these two ballot initiatives in Kansas, where it's like women's right to vote in one initiative and black men's right to vote in another initiative or like on the basis of sex in one and on the basis of race in the other.
01:00:19.220 and she had wanted them to just be one ballot initiative and then the local people had split
01:00:24.340 them and like one theory for like the anti-women's rights campaign at this point was like oh we can
01:00:31.460 use the women's rights initiative to make black men's suffrage look less radical right and like
01:00:36.980 people will vote down women and then vote in black men to the franchise that doesn't work in kansas
01:00:43.140 they both get voted down but he's funding that and then he funds her like substack basically her 1.00
01:00:48.820 newsletter called The Revolution. But basically, she's already pissing off a lot of her old 0.90
01:00:55.000 allies in the abolitionist movement by trying to tie women's suffrage to black men's suffrage.
01:01:00.440 They're like, you're making us look bad. You're asking us to do something there's not actually
01:01:03.920 political will to do. We feel like you're risking our political movement. And her universal suffrage
01:01:11.960 association, the American Equal Rights Association, has this big showdown over two of its annual
01:01:18.360 meetings, first in 1868 and then in 1869, where the membership is basically exploding in anger
01:01:27.880 at Stanton and Anthony for this position. So at the 1868 meeting, Frederick Douglass shows up
01:01:34.080 and he gives this whole big speech about how like black men need the vote more than women do
01:01:38.400 because women are not killed for being women. And then like the crowd of mostly women has to like
01:01:44.680 correct him. Like, no, actually, we're murdered for being women all the time. It's like kind of
01:01:48.920 a weird L for Frederick Douglass. But he has his position, right? He's like, I think we need to do
01:01:53.920 what's politically feasible. I mean, I'm guessing what Douglass fails to grasp there is that like
01:01:58.240 violence against black men in the 1860s in the Reconstruction South is like super public,
01:02:05.080 super violent terrorist attacks. And he probably thought of anti-women violence as happening inside
01:02:11.580 the home being private and, like, you know, an altercation between married partners.
01:02:16.340 We once again get into this whole, like, public-private distinction that he accepts and that she does not, right?
01:02:21.800 Right. Also, Frederick Douglass, famously not a very good husband.
01:02:25.200 So around this time, he's also, like, moved his white mistress into the house with his black wife, 0.68
01:02:32.620 and his wife doesn't know how to read, and, like, he never teaches her, 0.66
01:02:36.520 and he's, like, very clearly carrying on with all these white abolitionist women, including, like, one from Germany.
01:02:41.580 who he literally moves into her house.
01:02:43.620 Frederick Douglass's children were so pissed at him
01:02:45.760 for the way that he treated their mother, actually.
01:02:47.900 It's like a famous thing about him.
01:02:50.160 So, like, he is supportive of women's rights in public
01:02:55.000 and women's rights as citizens.
01:02:56.380 But his understanding of, like, individual liberty,
01:02:59.460 yeah, you're right, Adrian,
01:03:00.440 it doesn't really extend to the private sphere
01:03:02.040 where he's just, like, not treating women
01:03:03.680 with equal dignity there,
01:03:05.280 even though he's very capable of doing so in public.
01:03:08.040 So then, like, at the next year's meeting,
01:03:09.880 Lucy Stone, who's this other women's suffrage activist who becomes Stanton's great rival, she's like, this is about political possibility.
01:03:18.940 She says, I'll be happy if anybody can get out of the terrible pit. 0.70
01:03:21.960 And, you know, she's a white woman.
01:03:23.520 And Stanton at this point has started advocating for what she calls educated suffrage.
01:03:28.400 She's like, look, it is not fair to exclude people from the franchise based on a characteristic that they cannot change.
01:03:35.080 But this is where she gets really racist.
01:03:37.260 She's like, we can't have these uneducated, you know, agricultural laborers who don't know how to read, can't be voting, right?
01:03:44.820 That's her tack right now where, like, conveniently she gets the franchise, you know? 0.99
01:03:49.400 Yeah, you want to do the goose meme. 1.00
01:03:50.800 Why are they uneducated, Elizabeth? 0.55
01:03:53.000 Why are they uneducated?
01:03:54.120 Well, this is where Lucy Stone tells this incredible story. 0.93
01:03:57.680 She's like, listen, I worked for the Freedmen's Bureau.
01:04:01.100 And there was an emancipated former slave who was, like, 80 years old.
01:04:06.980 And he came to me every day trying to learn to read, and he was really having a hard time.
01:04:12.300 And I said to him, I was like, look, you're at the very end of your life.
01:04:15.620 You've come this far.
01:04:17.380 Why do you need to learn to read?
01:04:19.320 And she says that he told her, he's like, well, 20 years ago, a son was sold away from me.
01:04:25.080 And if he writes a letter or puts an ad in the newspaper trying to find me, I want to be able to read it and write him back.
01:04:31.620 Oh, wow. 0.98
01:04:32.560 And that's Lucy Stone's counter argument against educated suffrage. 0.94
01:04:36.780 She's like, look what we did to this man.
01:04:39.080 Why are you saying that the conditions of the oppression that we put on him should exclude him from the equal dignity of citizenship? 0.95
01:04:46.380 I find that fucking hard to argue with, to be honest. 0.95
01:04:48.460 Yeah, no, no kidding. 0.98
01:04:49.760 So this is when Stanton is absolutely at her nadir of my sympathy, right?
01:04:57.020 She is absolutely as gracious as she's going to get right now.
01:04:59.880 So she starts giving tours and, like, committee testimony on this issue where she is contrasting the dignity of educated upper-class white women like her.
01:05:10.540 Remember, she comes from, like, you know, an American revolutionary family. 0.99
01:05:13.980 Squierarchy.
01:05:14.700 Yeah. 1.00
01:05:15.300 And she's contrasting that with, like, the ignorant male masses who she does not want integrated into the franchise ahead of her. 0.54
01:05:22.540 She goes – I'm quoting her here. 0.99
01:05:24.640 American women of wealth, education, virtue, and refinement. 1.00
01:05:27.260 If you do not wish the lower orders of Chinese, Africans, Germans and Irish with their low ideas of womanhood to make laws for you and your daughters, demand that women, too, shall be represented in government. 0.98
01:05:38.780 That sounds to me like European anti-Muslim racism of today, right? 0.99
01:05:44.600 Like, look, these immigrants are culturally backward and we need to exclude them. 0.98
01:05:50.380 This is kind of also the beginning of the anxieties about immigration that shaped so much of the racism and the sexism of the late 19th century, which are all about like, oh, they're not ready for democracy and therefore we have to exclude them from it. 1.00
01:06:03.700 Also, the advent of abortion bans comes from this panic in the 1860s over the influx of mostly Catholic immigrants from other parts of Europe who are, like, outbreeding the Protestant natives, right?
01:06:17.560 This sense that, like, these people are coming and that's scary is also very much used to oppress women.
01:06:24.480 Yeah, yeah. 0.95
01:06:25.040 Like the justification for this Du Bois biography was that she discovered some letters by Elizabeth Cady Stanton that have bearing on her reproductive rights politics. 0.81
01:06:36.480 Because Stanton and really specifically Anthony have been used as these puppets by the anti-abortion movement who like to claim that they were anti-abortion.
01:06:44.900 And then Du Bois found these letters from Elizabeth Cady Stanton being like, infanticide is not that bad in context.
01:06:51.580 Wow.
01:06:51.820 It's like, okay.
01:06:52.780 Nice. 1.00
01:06:53.040 Or she's like, you shouldn't be able to try somebody for the crime of infanticide unless there's women on the jury. 0.99
01:06:57.560 And like this sort of like counter movement, right?
01:07:00.780 But she's participating of the same rhetoric that's making those restrictions possible at the time.
01:07:05.420 Yeah, I am. 0.95
01:07:06.140 So one question I had was like, what do black women think about this?
01:07:11.240 Because something really annoying about the story of this debate is that everybody's talking as if women and black people are two separate categories.
01:07:21.020 Yeah.
01:07:21.300 Well, not Sojourner Truth.
01:07:22.340 Well, Stanton has that one line where she's like, do you think all the black people are men? And that's like, it's kind of a gotcha, right? It's like kind of this rhetorical cudgel. And very few people are really thinking about what it would mean for black women to have a full citizenship, what it would mean for the rights and privileges of citizenship to overcome like both of these structures, as they are deployed simultaneously in the lives of like this, like quite large, at this point, section of women.
01:07:49.920 And the truth is that black women don't all agree with each other either. 0.79
01:07:54.060 So there's Frances Ellen Watkins Harper, who's a very famous abolitionist and poet at this time. 0.98
01:07:59.300 She's a freeborn black woman from Baltimore.
01:08:02.060 And she is in the American Equal Rights Association at this time. 0.64
01:08:06.320 She's like one of the few black women who has an officer role.
01:08:09.480 And she's like very much against Stanton on this. 0.72
01:08:12.720 She says, when is a question of race, I let the lesser question of sex go.
01:08:16.120 Yeah.
01:08:16.340 But then against the Jordan R-Truth, a friend of Stanton's and a women's rights activist and a formerly enslaved black woman also from upstate New York, she's taking Stanton's side. 0.74
01:08:26.240 She says if colored men get their rights and not colored women theirs, you see the colored men will be masters over the women and it will be just as bad as it was before.
01:08:35.340 So you have some people being like we need to do what is politically feasible and some people being like that will create more problems.
01:08:42.520 And you have some people being like, I am getting at what is this public question of racial dignity, and I will deal with sex later. And then you have some people being like, actually, the private sphere will continue to oppress us in ways that we can't get over.
01:08:57.740 I feel like the way it worked out has like vindicated the pro-black male suffrage crowd, right?
01:09:05.940 Because we know that women get the right to vote a few decades after this.
01:09:10.520 They didn't know that at the time.
01:09:12.220 I think that's like useful.
01:09:14.460 So the women's rights movement really splits over Stanton's racism.
01:09:19.520 One of the ways it gets historicized is people like, oh, all the suffragists were really racist.
01:09:25.400 And I think that underplays, like, just how out there and offensive and wild Stanton's statements were. 0.94
01:09:32.040 People were fucking pissed and offended her. 0.87
01:09:35.260 And her organization splits. 1.00
01:09:37.960 She has a long career after this moment.
01:09:40.520 Yeah, 50 years, more. 1.00
01:09:41.840 Yeah, she gets herself into this, like, activist movement trying to argue that women are already enfranchised by the 14th Amendment.
01:09:50.400 So, like, Susan B. Anthony gets arrested and has this, like, very highly publicized trial.
01:09:54.520 Right.
01:09:55.320 She, like, rewrites the Bible for women in this kind of, like, really controversial, like, kind of sacrilegious way. 1.00
01:10:01.600 Nice. 0.81
01:10:02.040 It's like she's speedrunning the 1970s.
01:10:04.520 Yes, exactly. 0.94
01:10:05.780 She's, like, married daily.
01:10:07.340 And, like, towards the end, she turns to Susan B. Anthony and goes, like, you know, I'm really concerned about trans women in sports. 0.95
01:10:15.440 But, like, listen, her racism in the Reconstruction era splits the women's rights movement in two.
01:10:21.660 Yeah. 1.00
01:10:21.900 There's two different organizations.
01:10:23.740 Neither of them is accomplishing anything. It's a real moment of like backlash and dissolution and alienation for this women's rights struggle that had been so flourishing and had so much potential when Stanton was young.
01:10:36.720 And, like, I think this is the lesson of Elizabeth Cady Stanton. It's like, what do you do with political disappointment? Which I think a lot of us have plenty of right now, right? It's like, what do you do with defeat? What do you do with all your anger when an injustice is ignored and the people you thought were your allies disappoint you, right?
01:11:01.260 One thing to do with that, I think, is to get angry at everybody.
01:11:07.140 And the other thing to do with that is to try and have a commitment to what's right that is greater than your own sense of woundedness at what's wrong.
01:11:17.880 And I think that's where Stanton failed.
01:11:19.920 And that's where I think we can use her most productively as a cautionary tale.
01:11:26.060 So that's what I got.
01:11:26.900 I've been talking about you for a long time.
01:11:28.840 No, I learned so much, Maura.
01:11:30.260 Thank you so much. 1.00
01:11:30.980 This woman is fucking batshit, dude. I get so mad at her. And then also she's so brilliant. I think the Declaration of Sentiments is actually a really beautiful and incendiary document. And then it's nuts that that comes out of the same mouth as he's like racial slur-filled diatribes just like two decades later. And I think it's really sad. 1.00
01:11:55.040 I mean, I think you're right the way you framed it in closing, right? That it is a question of how to deal with, right, you have a sense of how history is supposed to go. And then the narcissistic wound that comes from the world not moving in that direction. And like, the way we hold up under that pressure, that pressure is real, that disappointment is real, that hurt is real. The way we deal with it is where we're tested and where we sort of prove ourselves, it seems to me.
01:12:20.660 Yeah. So hang in there, guys. Don't go racist when you don't get your way. And thank you so much for listening. We'll see you next time.