In Bed With The Right - January 09, 2024


Episode 14: Prisoner of Sex – Norman Mailer vs. Kate Millett and Women

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00:00:00.000 It's like, no, no, no, I'm not evil.
00:00:02.300 You merely think that because you don't understand how smart I am.
00:00:18.600 I'm Adrian Dobb.
00:00:19.900 And I'm Moira Donegan.
00:00:20.940 And whether we like it or not, we're in bed with the right.
00:00:23.200 So today, Adrienne, I wanted to take you on a little detour, a little fun little romp in mid 20th century gender politics, because when we recorded our episode on the sort of taxonomy of conservative masculinity that we've been working with about perverts, preachers and creeps,
00:00:44.680 We talked as our example of the pervert about Norman Mailer, this like titan of 20th century American literature and his very particular gender politics.
00:00:58.120 And that got me thinking about this strange little episode in 1970 called The Prisoner of Sex. 0.72
00:01:06.880 So, Adrian, what do you know about The Prisoner of Sex?
00:01:08.920 So I have it here. I have read it. And on the occasion of that same episode that you mentioned, I discovered that I recall jack shit about it. I have no recollection of this book. It's got my annotations in it. I've underlined a whole bunch of stuff. But that's it. Like I treat me as a babe in the woods. I mean, I am familiar with, you know, I don't know Norman Mailer, but I'm familiar with his work, as they say, the writing and the stabbing and, you know, all of it.
00:01:38.920 And this book, I know he got a lot of criticism.
00:01:42.380 He was made the topic of a book by a very famous feminist critic.
00:01:46.280 And he, in characteristic mailer fashion, took it super well.
00:01:50.160 Hence this book.
00:01:50.920 That's what I know.
00:01:51.840 Yeah.
00:01:52.260 So The Prisoner of Sex was a cover story in Harper's Magazine that came out in 1971.
00:02:00.640 It was, I believe, 40,000 words, which for people who aren't used to thinking of writing
00:02:06.600 in terms of word count is quite long for a magazine story.
00:02:09.980 It was-
00:02:10.780 Oh my God.
00:02:11.560 It's like a short book.
00:02:13.020 It was the only story in that issue of Harper's.
00:02:17.780 I believe it was summer 1971.
00:02:19.840 And after the Harper story,
00:02:22.900 The Prisoner of Sex was published as a standalone book,
00:02:25.600 which in the copy that I'm working off of
00:02:27.320 is about 250 pages.
00:02:29.260 This was all prompted by a chapter in Kate Millett's,
00:02:33.040 the feminist literary critic, Kate Millett's,
00:02:35.440 very, very influential.
00:02:36.600 book from the year before, Sexual Politics, which is a critique of the sort of assumptions and
00:02:44.540 practices and like sort of ideological modes under undergirding heterosexuality,
00:02:50.400 as applied through a couple of different lenses. Sexual Politics is a weird and interesting little
00:02:55.800 book. It was Kate Millett's dissertation. And she sort of turns to an articulation of sexual
00:03:01.840 politics. Then she turns to a history of sexual politics. Her like longest and I think strongest
00:03:07.320 section is a critique of Freud. But then at the end of the book, she has four chapters
00:03:14.240 addressing the sexual politics of various different influential male writers in English,
00:03:21.440 right? So she goes through a chapter on D.H. Lawrence, a chapter on Henry Miller,
00:03:26.840 a chapter on Jean Genet. And one of the last and one of the shortest chapters is on Norman
00:03:31.580 Mailer. It's about a 22-page chapter. So a 22-page chapter on Norman Mailer in the book by a feminist
00:03:39.080 literary critic led to Norman Mailer's 250-page response. Always a measured guy, yeah.
00:03:45.600 Yeah, it was a kind of like disproportionality, right? Now, I think it might be good to sort of
00:03:51.900 place Millett and place Mailer like where they were in 1970, because I think part of the asymmetry
00:03:58.980 of Mailer's response is also a reflection of like the asymmetry of power between him and Millett.
00:04:05.800 So social politics was Kate Millett's doctoral dissertation, I believe, from Columbia. She has
00:04:11.900 a PhD in literature from Columbia University. And she was sort of a grad student artist activist on
00:04:20.020 the radical fringes of New York City's radical feminist scene that emerged in the late 1960s,
00:04:26.520 Not the sort of old school liberal feminism that emerged out of like more traditional civil rights projects, but the radical feminist tradition that emerged really out of the new left and the counterculture, right?
00:04:39.560 So she was part of a group that was advancing more fundamental critiques of institutions like marriage and motherhood, whereas people like half a generation older than her, like Betty Friedan, had really been about sort of tweaking or reforming the policy regulation of those institutions, right?
00:04:57.300 So Millett is part of this younger generation. She's right out of school. She's really far to the left. And she's sort of not totally aiming for respectability, right? Whereas Mailer, on the other hand, was considered and was, you know, told to his face quite often that he was the most important writer in English of his generation.
00:05:16.940 His biggest book was The Naked and the Dead, which was his first novel, a sort of account about World War II that is a novelistic treatment of like what violence does to the psyche and the soul.
00:05:28.300 That was considered a foundationally important book of the World War II era and then also sort of propelled Mailer into a very influential career as what we now call a new journalist, sort of a narrative and character driven nonfiction writer.
00:05:45.720 And that is a career that was just astronomic in its heights and that was not really interrupted very much when, in 1960, Mailer stabbed and almost killed his second wife, Adel Morales, at a party full of elite people while he was running for mayor of New York.
00:06:02.500 So you've got these people who are of different generations.
00:06:05.700 There are different points in their careers.
00:06:08.260 And one of them has quite a bit more cachet than the other, right?
00:06:12.740 Yeah, doesn't The Prisoner of Sex, I mean, it's all very hazy, but doesn't it start with him not winning the Nobel Prize and being kind of pissed about it?
00:06:20.800 Actually, he's totally not mad at all, Adrian.
00:06:23.760 Yeah, no, no, no. That's right. He, again, in a theme that I'm sure will not reoccur at all, handles it super well.
00:06:31.120 Yeah.
00:06:31.260 Very cool.
00:06:32.040 So The Prisoner of Sex is Mailer's response to Millett and really to the women's liberation movement more broadly, right?
00:06:40.820 And he sort of positions himself and is given the credit as being like a representative of the intellectual establishment, warding off what he sees as an attack from this insurgent feminist left that he calls, with no apparent irony, a kind of totalitarianism and a threat to civilization.
00:07:01.520 So he does divide this into four sections, all of which are named after different aspects of himself. So section one is the prize winner. Section two is the acolyte. Section three is the advocate. And section four is the prisoner, right? So I'm a prize winner, I'm an acolyte, I'm an advocate, I'm a prisoner.
00:07:20.460 These are all of the ways that Mailer sees himself in relation to the feminist movement, the sort of insurgent radical feminist intellectual movement that's like growing up really in the late 60s and early 70s.
00:07:32.740 And in the prize winner, yeah, the Prisoner of Sex opens with Henry Miller being told, or I'm sorry, Norman Mailer, excuse me, I'm getting them mixed up now.
00:07:40.540 It's a bad sign.
00:07:42.500 It begins with Norman Mailer being told that he's about to win the Nobel Prize.
00:07:46.180 this is again about 10 years after he stabs his wife he is in such a position where that is
00:07:54.080 actually like a quite plausible possibility yeah and he spends the whole day feeling all great that
00:07:59.780 he's about to win the Nobel Prize and then the evening or the next morning the news comes in
00:08:03.440 that it actually went to Samuel Beckett uh he was robbed Mailer was robbed um and sort of you know
00:08:12.380 he's like kind of talking himself into feeling good about it because you know fame is so foreign
00:08:18.320 and terrible and amenical to his art etc etc and then what he does was he takes five of his children
00:08:24.920 to Maine for six weeks so this is coming at a moment where Norman Mailer is coming off his
00:08:31.800 forced divorce which seems to be the divorce that got under his skin you said fourth right yes fourth
00:08:37.040 one two three four yeah like Henry VIII he had six wives the one he stabbed was his second wife
00:08:41.240 So we're two wives in after the stabbing.
00:08:43.800 And this seems to have been the divorce that really got under his skin in a way that the
00:08:47.880 other ones didn't.
00:08:48.920 Is this what marriage was like before Google that they're like, wait, what are you famous
00:08:52.960 for?
00:08:53.540 What were your previous relationships with your wives like?
00:08:55.620 He's like, oh, don't Google that.
00:08:56.780 Oh, actually, he's talking in the same section about one of his mistresses who he said linked
00:09:02.760 up with him right after he gets out of Bellevue after the stabbing of his wife, because it
00:09:08.140 had actually given him this sexual cachet and made him seem more dangerous and appealing
00:09:12.680 to straight women. I don't know if I trust Norman Mailer's account of women's heterosexuality, 0.75
00:09:17.540 but that's how he thought. It's a trap, girls. It's a trap. 1.00
00:09:21.440 Ladies, if he stabbed his last girlfriend, maybe swipe left. Anyway, he goes to Maine,
00:09:28.900 right? And he is without his wife and he is with five of his children. He's got three
00:09:33.720 teenage daughters and two sort of like school age, like under 10 year old sons. And he spends
00:09:40.220 a couple days or he at first has the idea that he's going to be the only adult there. And he is
00:09:46.080 going to sort of submit himself to caring for these children to try and better understand the
00:09:53.180 life of the wife who just left him. Right. But then he thinks, no, that's ridiculous. I'm actually
00:09:56.740 going to hire a maid. So he hires a local woman up in Maine to do a lot of the housework and 0.98
00:10:02.320 caretaking. And then that's too much. So he delegates his older daughters to taking care 0.98
00:10:07.900 of his younger sons. And then that's still too much on him. So he has his mistress come up for
00:10:14.220 the rest of the summer and also contribute to the care of these children. I mean, you say that so
00:10:18.820 judgmentally, but the man just almost won a Nobel Prize. I mean, like, you know, you can't take you
00:10:24.000 can't change a diaper in that sort of state. Obviously, Benice's dignity, right? But like at
00:10:28.160 At the end of this six weeks in Maine, with only the help of three teenage girls and two adult women, he decides that he understands what it is to be a woman, that it has this domestic life that he has assigned to women in his mind is actually has quite a few joys in it, but that he would not be good at being a woman because he craved the public world, to which you got to say, like, buddy, you are so close to getting it.
00:10:58.160 And it's in this situation in Maine in which he is living what he describes as like the life of a housewife and a mother that he is asked to write about the women's movement by the editor of Time magazine.
00:11:09.720 So it's weird because the piece was commissioned by Time, but it winds up at Harper's, which is a sort of like editorial detail that he doesn't really explain.
00:11:18.080 It's like, OK, at some point, Time magazine read what you gave them and went, I'm guessing we can't publish this.
00:11:25.560 but harper's magazine decided to valiantly take it on to just bump their movie reviews and
00:11:30.900 whatever like whatever norman needs another 10 000 words which again like i can't norman needs
00:11:36.300 another 35 000 words like based on like how long a magazine really unbelievable i mean like
00:11:41.420 for those of our listeners who don't write for like pitching a 4 000 word piece is like 0.96
00:11:47.620 kind of a lot like you you better have like been solicited to write that shit but like 40 000 is 0.92
00:11:54.360 astonishing and to read i mean like that's what like like something like 80 pages right i mean 0.98
00:12:00.120 in the print book it was 250 i don't know how much it would be like 40 000 words is like it's
00:12:05.480 like i was hoping that was an expanded edition uh no i actually looked it up it's just reprinted
00:12:10.480 it's like it does not seem to have been it does not seem to have expanded or changed the manuscript
00:12:14.940 significantly before it was published as a book yeah i mean not not the point here but like can
00:12:19.220 you imagine like who finished that thing like i i've had this experience before with like atlantic 0.51
00:12:25.700 pieces especially where like uh but harper's does this too where you're like how fucking long is 0.75
00:12:30.380 this thing right you're like you kind of grooving with it for like three pages like whoa i'm sorry 0.76
00:12:33.960 there's more and like imagine this happening like for 40 more pages it's just astonishing i mean 0.90
00:12:39.340 this is i finished it for my sins i finished this fucking book i will say it's a it's quite a quick 0.93
00:12:46.260 read it's yeah 250 pages but you know they're small it's like biggish type on smallish paper 0.97
00:12:53.280 and it does go smoothly but it has quite a few digressions and quite a bit of you know
00:13:00.720 autobiography and it should also be said that norman mailer does in the prisoner of sex something
00:13:04.980 he does throughout his non-fiction work which is right of himself in the third person yeah he never
00:13:12.260 says I he says the prisoner or the acolyte or like the advocate was the last one the prisoner
00:13:19.540 the prize winner yeah he never says I Norman Mailer he sort of deflects his experience and
00:13:25.820 opinions onto a third character a third person which I think I wanted to I want to touch on
00:13:33.460 that later and really get your insights Adrian because something that Mailer does throughout
00:13:39.220 the prisoner of sex throughout his refutation of kate millett and then later in his sort of like
00:13:45.940 public defense of this piece in a appearance on a panel that was documented in a movie called
00:13:51.680 town bloody hall in april 1971 he always says i don't mean it that's my character right uh he 0.70
00:13:59.020 always triangulates it's the lamest fucking thing right and kate millett in her critique 0.68
00:14:09.160 of Mailer in sexual politics I'm going to try and pull this up because she does she says this really 0.98
00:14:14.180 nicely you know this is the kind of defense of all of these writers you know it's like oh this
00:14:21.100 is not what I mean this is a character and the character is being pilloried or parodied sometimes
00:14:29.220 is the justification or just you know just kind of an identity line drying in the sand exactly the
00:14:34.780 people criticizing you just don't pick up on the subtle irony and the subtle friction between
00:14:39.540 your authorial persona and your real beliefs what are your real beliefs oh well that's for you to 0.96
00:14:44.280 know and for them to find out right like it's it's such a fucking tired game right it positions 0.95
00:14:49.260 the critique as coming from a place of like ignorance or unsophistication and then insulates 0.92
00:14:54.040 the actual professor exactly or or like dunderheaded literal right yes it's uh it's like
00:14:59.140 no no no i'm not evil you merely think that because you don't understand how smart i am
00:15:04.540 So this is Kate Millett. In fact, the most fascinating problem in dealing with his writing, she's talking about Norman Mailer, is to establish the connection between his fiction and his other prose writings. For ideas one is convinced are being satirized in the former, are sure to appear with straightforward personal endorsement in the latter.
00:15:23.600 And this is kind of a, this is something I rewatched Town Bloody Hall last night, which the whole thing is on YouTube. It's this amazing documentary that's very hilarious that happened in the aftermath of Mailer's publication of The Prisoner of Sex.
00:15:35.780 And like, we should say the prisoner of sex is just an excoriation of the feminist movement, right? We should probably like go through its actual argument, right? Which is that Norman Mailer positions himself as an advocate of sexual liberation. And as somebody who takes the question of women's liberation entirely seriously, right? He says, you know, he can sound the way that like misogynists can sound like a radical feminist for the first clause of the sentence. And the second clause of the sentence is quite different.
00:16:04.320 He's like, this is actually the greatest question of civilization, right? It's the question of division between human beings from which everything else flows. And that's like pretty standard, like 1969 radical, like Shulamith Firestone could have said that.
00:16:18.240 And then he says, or he sort of reveals himself to believe through a series of irony, social positioning, and disavowals that actually maintaining the hierarchy of men over women is the foundation of civilization and the division between people and the imposition of order upon which humanity is able to build. 0.89
00:16:37.640 And this is something where like, the more I read of The Prisoner of Sex, the more my taxonomy of Norman Mailer in our preacher pervert creep sort of buckets blurred, because he is a pervert. He's very much a person who understands sex and violence as related, understands sex as an antagonistic contention between men and women, in which men sort of prove their virility through like violence and domination against women, right?
00:17:07.540 But, and that strikes me as like a straightforward, like pervert masculinity, but then he also
00:17:12.700 becomes like quite creepy because he starts talking about his hatred of technology.
00:17:20.340 And by technology, it becomes clear that he meets contraception and his rationale.
00:17:24.920 I was wondering about that.
00:17:26.400 Yeah.
00:17:26.620 Yeah.
00:17:26.960 Interesting.
00:17:27.320 His rationale for the hatred of contraception is that he feels that masculine sexuality,
00:17:34.140 This sort of conquering, domineering virility exercise that he depicts sex as being is the stuff of life.
00:17:43.120 It is the stuff of meaning making, that it is like the source of human vitality.
00:17:47.520 Millett calls this philosophical posture on the part of Miller sexistentialism, which I thought was kind of cute.
00:17:53.240 Nice.
00:17:55.120 You know, he equates male sexual aggression and response with sort of the entire human project.
00:18:02.420 And in that metaphorical schema, contraception doesn't just like mute the capacity of the sperm to impregnate, it sort of like mutes human potential itself. And in this sense, he's kind of Catholic. Or at least it sounds interesting. It sounds like a like extension of the Catholic prohibition on contraception. But it also sounds a little bit like Dr. Strange lovey, you know, he's like my precious bodily fluids.
00:18:28.520 And this is something that he seems to get from Freud, but I wonder if you might have
00:18:34.360 more insight into where it comes from.
00:18:36.740 Yeah, it's a good question.
00:18:37.600 I mean, definitely in the Catholic rite of the 2010s, right, like when it comes to gay
00:18:43.260 adoption, gay marriage, et cetera, like you often get this kind of argument that a very
00:18:47.260 specific kind of sex is this necessary site of meaning making, this absolutely essential
00:18:53.900 side of meaning making for human beings and that any change to it right like whether or not it
00:19:00.600 results in pregnancy right down to whether like positions whatever like will destroy its ability
00:19:07.160 to make meaning the idea that like yes human beings like to be intimate with each other and
00:19:10.980 it is a big thing we do but we've also found a truly bewildering arrays of ways of doing that
00:19:17.480 right that's the thing that never occurs it's like nope uh it's gotta be you know pnv and uh
00:19:23.280 for three to five minutes uh and no grunting by him uh right and like this idea of naturalizing
00:19:30.780 it's something that we hadn't associated with the pervert indeed that certainly sounds like it here
00:19:35.260 with mailer and there might be one other strain in mailer's appropriation of the catholic rationale
00:19:43.020 for a prohibition on contraception which is that miller or mailer rather god i'm doing it again
00:19:48.940 Mailer has a thing about Irish people. And this is in Millett's critique. And in The Prisoner of
00:19:57.740 Sex, he's talking about, why did Kate Millett get under my skin? And he's like, well, I've been the
00:20:03.620 subject of a lot of criticism from feminists. And it always strikes me as more annoying than when
00:20:12.700 it comes from men, partly because I think women aren't as good critics as men are, and partly 0.89
00:20:16.380 because they remind me of my mothers and my ex-wives.
00:20:19.000 And I was like, yeah, well, that's a feminist could have told you any of that, buddy.
00:20:22.100 Yeah.
00:20:22.360 Tough, buddy.
00:20:23.000 But in Millett, she points out something that I think is very interesting, which is
00:20:27.200 that, you know, Miller, Miller's Jewish.
00:20:29.520 He's American.
00:20:30.200 He's born to a Jewish family. 0.57
00:20:31.660 And he's writing in a time when like white ethnic politics among the intellectual elite
00:20:36.960 are a lot more weighted than they are now, partly just because of like the extreme paucity
00:20:41.780 of people of color in these circles that Mailer and later Millett were circulating in. But he's
00:20:48.000 one of these mid-century Jewish male writers with a sense of Jewish ethnic emasculization.
00:20:54.860 He understands his masculinity to have been infringed upon by a sort of hereditary or 0.52
00:21:01.560 culturally Jewish intellectualism. In Town Bloody Hall, at one point, he's yelling at all these
00:21:07.380 feminists who are on the panel with him. And he goes, I'm happy to play the clown. If you like, 0.98
00:21:11.480 i'll take out my humble jewish dick and put it on the table for all of you to spit at yikes yeah 1.00
00:21:15.940 and it's it's you know it's philip roth also has this anxiety yeah yeah i think roth is kind of a 0.99
00:21:20.920 better writer um oh much better my god but in a lot of norman mailer's novels particularly the
00:21:27.680 naked and the dead his sort of proxy characters the men who are him and who enact his sexual
00:21:33.560 politics in the world of the novel are often not jewish they're often irishmen huh um like 0.67
00:21:39.600 Sergio O'Shaughnessy is one of them. Wow. Doesn't get much more Irish than that last name.
00:21:44.120 Yeah, O'Shaughnessy. Yeah. Although like, apparently that character was adopted by an
00:21:47.560 Irish family and was actually like ethnically Eastern European, which Millet points as sort
00:21:52.240 of the conversion of an ethnic grievance into a sexual grievance, right? Yeah, yeah. He seems to
00:21:58.420 be adopting for himself characteristics that he sees as being Irish, such as like, you know,
00:22:06.880 in contrast to the jewish educated cultivated and masculinization that mailer is sort of trying to 0.57
00:22:12.660 purge himself of he understands the irishman as having this uneducated uncultivated like brutish 0.77
00:22:20.560 brutal violence this is all i should say wildly racist and i'm not endorsing any of these ethnic
00:22:26.520 stereotypes but this is mailer's imagination and he sort of wants to or seems to aspire to
00:22:33.100 what he perceives as like an authentic Irish violent masculinity.
00:22:37.900 I think it's worth pointing out that Kate Millett is one of their very few public intellectuals
00:22:41.840 of this period who's coming from an Irish Catholic background.
00:22:45.760 So if there are things that like particularly got under his skin about Millett, this might
00:22:51.340 be one of them. 0.96
00:22:51.920 She's a representative of this ethnic group that he sort of envies and resents in this 0.97
00:22:55.880 neurotic racist way. 0.78
00:22:57.820 I mean, just to kind of give a shout out to an episode we've yet to record, of course, sort of, you know, the idea that Jewish masculinity is somehow problematic, that like there's something about Jews not living gender right is extremely common.
00:23:14.160 That's an extremely common trope of late 19th century antisemitism. Otto Weininger, who we'll talk about on the pod at some point, is the key person for this. But Freud was fascinated with Weininger for that exact reason, that he's like, this seems to be something that a lot of people believe, and I should really look into this, right?
00:23:29.680 this idea that new jewish masculinity was something that had to be proven was something that you know
00:23:34.540 comes straight out of 19th century anti-semitism as a you know little i guess it testifies to the
00:23:40.140 power of self-hatred for someone to adopt it again in 1969 well it's also it's also a common
00:23:46.900 feature of anti-semitic misogyny right the idea that jewish women are sort of monstrously masculine 0.98
00:23:53.120 Right. Or they've got a sort of devouring maternal possessiveness that then in turn emasculates their Jewish sons. Like this is, you know, Betty Friedan, a Jewish intellectual of Mailer's generation, basically recreates this whole anti-Semitic archetype in the feminine mystique. 1.00
00:24:12.920 She's like, you know, we are too overbearing as mothers because we are like psychically constrained by being housewives. 0.91
00:24:19.860 Oh, I forgot about that. 0.91
00:24:20.380 And that makes us obsessed with our sons and that makes our sons homosexual.
00:24:24.540 You know, it's just like a whole weird causation.
00:24:27.300 We should probably do an episode on momism.
00:24:29.340 Yeah, yeah.
00:24:29.980 And the sort of bastardization of Freud or like misuses of Freud against mothers in this misogynist mid-century project is, I think, really, really interesting.
00:24:39.540 And it's definitely hanging heavily over both Mailer and Millett.
00:24:42.920 we should probably get back let's get back to prison let's get back to prison yeah let's get
00:25:04.740 back to prison let's get back to the substance of these critiques right so millett's critique
00:25:10.300 of Mailer is that he associates sex with violence. He eroticizes violence. Mailer actually has this
00:25:18.080 great quote where he just kind of steals de Beauvoir. He's like, nobody is born a man. You
00:25:21.380 have to make yourself a man all the time. And the way that you do that in Mailer's schema, 0.89
00:25:26.080 as I think Millet charts like quite persuasively, is you do it through sex and violence, right? And
00:25:31.460 this is the way that manhood is demonstrated, maintained, and created. And she views this as
00:25:38.160 like, first of all, she kind of dispenses with, she articulates the sexual politics of eroticized
00:25:43.040 violence. She pulls out a lot of pieces from Mailer's war novels in particular, where, you
00:25:50.560 know, explosions are compared to ejaculations, guns are penises, etc. And then she sort of 0.98
00:25:57.000 dispenses with his claims to ironic detachment and says, you know, look, these are not actually
00:26:02.940 anti-war books. These are books that glorify the violence of war as a demonstration of masculine
00:26:10.840 virility. Right, as a proving ground kind of. Right. Which I think might strike us now in 2023
00:26:16.600 as somewhat a pedestrian critique. But at the time, it was totally revolutionary. And frankly,
00:26:22.300 Miller kind of agreed with her. He's like, yeah, my understanding of violence has changed. I do
00:26:26.960 think it's necessary. He says that writing The Naked and the Dead changed him from being a
00:26:31.180 pacifist to being somebody with an appreciation of violence, which is a crazy way to rate the
00:26:36.880 naked and the dead. Yeah. It's been a while, but that's not, you don't come away being like,
00:26:42.280 oh, that was awesome. It reminds me of when Sally Rooney in one interview said she thinks
00:26:48.440 that conversations with friends is a beautiful love story. And I was like, wow, you really were
00:26:54.360 born in 1993. I was like, that is not the impression I got from that book, but authorial
00:27:00.800 intent. It's crazy. But you know, Millett's reading. Here's the thing is like Millett and
00:27:04.680 Mailer actually kind of have the same assessment of Mailer's politics, right? It's just Millett
00:27:09.460 thinks it's bad and Mailer thinks it's good, which is this like sort of classic clash we have between 0.81
00:27:15.440 the radical feminists and the gender conservatives, right? It's like they can actually articulate the
00:27:19.740 same phenomenon. They just have different sets of values and priorities around it. But Mailer's
00:27:25.840 critique in The Prisoner of Sex, his response is kind of not totally consistent, right?
00:27:31.780 So sometimes he claims to be a great advocate and proponent of women's liberation who truly
00:27:37.880 believes that the question of, you know, the extent to which women and men can live together
00:27:42.220 and freedom and equality is the greatest question of the human project, right? So he sometimes says
00:27:47.220 he takes it very, very seriously. And then he sort of adopts this posture of like school boyish,
00:27:53.480 like jeering dismissal right he's like contemptuous he can't decide what he means he can't decide if
00:28:00.700 he's joking or not uh he can't decide the tone he wants to take something i thought about when we
00:28:05.320 talked about the libertine in our other episode in some way the libertine does have to be in favor
00:28:10.700 of some kind of liberation because he needs enthusiastic frequent and not very discerning
00:28:17.240 partners basically for his libertinism right like and i mean we see that all throughout the 1960s
00:28:22.320 that like a lot of men appear to mean bisexual liberation basically are the gendered values 0.98
00:28:29.540 that structure our society stay the same but i get my dick wet more right like that's that you 0.95
00:28:34.860 know i feel like that's you know around the bay area right all these communes that basically turn 0.96
00:28:39.180 into these like patriarchal like nightmares right like or weird cults you know they all sort of say
00:28:45.720 like oh you have to get rid of your inhibitions etc and that always means like kind of consenting
00:28:51.060 you things that you normally might not have consented to. And even being told that it's
00:28:55.820 like, it's actually like traditionalist or Puritan not to want to. So it makes perfect sense to me 0.84
00:29:01.220 that like, Mailer must be on board with that part of women's lib, given that like, that's what keeps 1.00
00:29:05.600 Norman Mailer in business. He's just not so cool about the part that would get women to write a 0.98
00:29:10.080 book about him and about gender politics suck. Yeah, I think this is a really good point, 1.00
00:29:14.960 because it points to the novelty and the challenge posed by Kate Millett's contribution in 1970,
00:29:22.080 right? So feminism had, since the 19th century, been critiquing restraints on heterosexual 1.00
00:29:29.480 expression, right? There had been free love feminists in the early 20th and late 19th century. 1.00
00:29:36.060 There had been sort of anti-monogamy feminists. There had been people advocating for the 1.00
00:29:42.940 destigmatization and really legalization in practice of having children out of wedlock.
00:29:48.140 So, advocation for increased sexual expression and access had traditionally been- 1.00
00:29:54.900 A feminist project. 1.00
00:29:55.480 A feminist project, and continued to be, right, into the 1960s and 70s. 0.99
00:30:00.060 What Millett does is she enters at a moment when heterosexuality has been because of the 0.65
00:30:08.700 sexual revolution remember like millet publishes in 1970 the pill is only legalized for married
00:30:15.380 couples in 1965 right it's only available to anybody since 1960 so that's only 10 years
00:30:20.460 legal and actually like practically accessible for a lot of people since 1965 won't be accessible to
00:30:26.820 single women until 1972 oh is that true i didn't even know that oh my god yeah that's eisenstatt
00:30:31.440 v baird um i mean it's different state by state it's like abortion but griswold versus connecticut
00:30:35.680 It technically only legalized the pill for married couples.
00:30:38.220 Did not know that.
00:30:38.740 So this is a moment, and this is also at the moment where the sexual revolution is sort of critiquing from the non-feminist or like sort of gender neutral counterculture, moral prohibitions on sexual expression, right?
00:30:53.840 So sex has become a lot more free, a lot more available.
00:30:56.680 And it's also been decoupled from a Christian moral framework.
00:31:01.220 So the critique of heterosexuality that Millet advances is new and unique in that it's not a critique of heterosexuality as filtered through Christianity. It's not a critique of heterosexuality as filtered through state apparatuses. It's a critique of heterosexuality on its own terms, right? Or at least on men's terms. And that is new.
00:31:20.560 And that is, it's not a critique so much of institutions to critique of men, of individual men, of men as a class, and of the way that they deal with women in intimate relations. And it implicates individual men.
00:31:34.200 So like in The Prisoner of Sex, Norman Mailer does something that anti-feminist men always do, which is sort of like he cops the wage gap. 0.80
00:31:42.640 He's like, women don't make as much money as men.
00:31:45.040 And that's legitimately wrong.
00:31:46.820 He's like, even people, those of us skeptical of women's liberation have to concede that the economic exploitation of women is, you know, real and must be amended, something like that.
00:31:57.180 Babysitters don't make nearly enough money.
00:31:59.020 I know, right? 0.75
00:31:59.720 Like now that I have experienced this for six whole weeks with only five women's help, I understand how terrible it is.
00:32:05.980 Yeah, but like that's a common thing, right? 0.62
00:32:07.860 A lot of anti-feminist men will particularly point to money. 0.82
00:32:11.180 On the one hand, it's empirical. 0.99
00:32:12.600 It's not a sort of like qualitative or moral charge the way Kate Millett's sexual politics is.
00:32:18.440 But it's also something where you can like move the goalposts a lot.
00:32:21.040 You can always be like, well, what do you mean by the wage gap?
00:32:23.320 Or like, oh, look, I'm going to discursively remove the motherhood penalty as a legitimate objection.
00:32:29.720 That's something that they can poof away very quickly. But it's also often a way to rhetorically purchase some credibility. I'm not denying that women have a subordinate place in our society that's often incongruous with their capacities. And look at me not denying that by saying that the wage gap exists. And that then allows me to go protect these other privileges.
00:32:49.400 But like crucially, the wage gap is a critique of institutions.
00:32:52.340 It's a critique of employers.
00:32:53.540 It's a critique of corporations, which are entities that somebody from the counterculture
00:32:58.640 like Mailer is like very comfortable pointing the finger at.
00:33:02.060 Whereas the sexual politics critique that Millett is advancing is one that happens, that
00:33:07.840 is carried out by men in private on a person to person, individual basis, right?
00:33:13.480 So there's individual culpability that he takes great offense to.
00:33:17.200 Well, it also, right, I mean, in some way, he has to find something to critique capitalism on because there needs to be something radical about his critique. And then the other move I remember him making is just kind of accusing feminism of totalitarianism, right? Basically, he's like, this is a left totalitarianism. You basically say, I'm the modern one. You liberated women are actually the traditionalists here, right? You're authoritarian, you're new Puritans, et cetera, et cetera. Basically, you're the ones who are not reading the signs of the time.
00:33:44.920 I'm for women making a dollar to a men's dollar. 0.99
00:33:48.280 And isn't that the thing that really mattered? 0.99
00:33:50.320 Are material conditions the most important thing? 0.59
00:33:52.240 And in some respects, that's a plea back to the liberal feminism of now, right?
00:33:58.060 Although it should be said of now that they did not buy this from Mailer whatsoever. 0.65
00:34:01.740 There's this great moment in Town Bloody Hall when Betty Friedan, who's not on the panel,
00:34:06.280 she's in the audience, she stands up and like curses him out.
00:34:09.460 It's great.
00:34:09.860 It's a great movie.
00:34:10.540 But that panel, and it might be a good moment to turn to it really quickly, just
00:34:14.480 before we wrap up, because it's a really interesting sort of confrontation between
00:34:20.940 Mailer and his critics, not on the page, but in real time, right? So it's a town hall, like,
00:34:27.860 you know, at town hall, I used to think, honestly, that town hall in New York City
00:34:31.900 was New York City Hall. And then I moved to New York bright eyed and bushy tailed. And it's
00:34:39.040 actually a concert hall in Times Square. It's like this, you know, famous theater. It's like
00:34:43.460 pretty big it's a it's a broadway theater right and the national organization for women i believe
00:34:49.040 like sold tickets like it was like a fight night where norman mailer was going to confront critics
00:34:54.440 of the prisoner of sex so kate millett was in the audience but she did not come on stage on stage
00:34:59.840 where jacqueline sabalos who was the head of the very powerful new york city chapter of now 0.91
00:35:04.660 the kind of willowy like sex pot feminist writer germaine greer oh germaine greer nice yeah yeah 0.58
00:35:12.480 It was weird to see Jermaine Greer in 1971, when she was actually at the height of her powers on this stage, because she's now descended into paranoia and bigotry.
00:35:23.180 And so it was weird to see her back when she was in this other era of her life, when she was actually quite intellectually serious.
00:35:30.280 And she's kind of the star of the panel.
00:35:33.440 Then there's Jill Johnston, who's a radical lesbian separatist from The Village Voice.
00:35:37.740 And then Diana Trilling, who sort of plays the role as the anti-feminist woman and this like elder states woman.
00:35:43.540 Big anti-68-er.
00:35:45.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0.99
00:35:45.840 I mean, that's a very interesting panel and four very interesting women. 0.95
00:35:49.980 But I would say, where's Valerie Solanas when you really need her? 0.52
00:35:54.760 I think she may have been locked up at this point.
00:35:57.400 Yeah.
00:35:57.920 It's April 1961.
00:35:59.860 But it's quite rowdy.
00:36:01.580 People in the crowd keep standing up to interrupt the speakers.
00:36:05.080 it is very much a two-way street between people on the stage and people in the audience
00:36:10.640 and Mailer is like varyingly contemptuous he spends a lot of time attacking Greer who is I
00:36:18.040 think kind of the best equipped to fight back he patronizes even his ally on stage Diana Trilling
00:36:24.600 and he claims that you know simply nobody understands him and that nobody is correctly
00:36:29.240 reading his work but then he also makes a claim that he makes variously and sort of partially in
00:36:34.960 prisoner of sex or like incompletely but he's he's a little more avowed about it on the stage
00:36:39.860 which is that an acceptance of sexual inequality is in fact an honorable confrontation with the
00:36:47.360 realities of the world right and this i think he really gets from freud and millet also traces it
00:36:52.540 from wilhelm reich but i think yeah this reading of reich is he says like women have this burden
00:36:59.860 and privilege of creating life, even though they don't want to. And their psychic and moral task
00:37:06.100 is to reconcile themselves to this fate, and to thereby submit to it and play their role in this
00:37:12.080 human struggle. And he just kind of keeps like reverting back to, it's not as specific as a
00:37:17.740 biological determinism, it's more abstract, it's more like an existential determinism
00:37:21.320 of childbearing and sort of feminine submission as, you know, not culturally imposed, but the
00:37:28.260 fullist expression of the human soul for women yeah yeah and it's just kind of a brick wall which
00:37:34.120 is something that as we saw talked about with the detector like that is one thing that the
00:37:38.540 mid-century intellectuals seem to get out of freud with an ease that i can't get it out of freud
00:37:43.720 right like their freud was one that was all about learning to cope with these noble but restrictive
00:37:51.200 roles that you know the species is forcing us into and i don't think freud ever really i mean
00:37:59.260 freud has those kinds of moments but by and large it's a fairly selective reading of freud's work
00:38:04.940 i would say and freud thought he was telling as far as i can tell a story of contingencies like
00:38:09.700 this actually this can go wrong in many which ways like yes like we all are gonna die we all
00:38:14.940 at some point will likely want to be intimate with other people like there are things that are
00:38:19.500 just givens. But what's interesting is that we're not actually, we chafe under that quite
00:38:25.860 extensively and productively. And I think that that's something that mid-century Freudianism
00:38:30.820 had a real tough time with. And we talked with Sam and Matt from Know Your Enemy about this a
00:38:35.140 little bit about why that is, why sort of the professionalization and almost straightjacketing
00:38:39.660 of Freudianism in the psychiatric kind of establishment really meant that, yeah, you
00:38:46.000 had to kind of promise people this is a form of normalization because otherwise you're not going
00:38:51.060 to get anyone to cover it you're not going to have enough people showing up you're just going
00:38:54.220 to have your flowy willowy germane greer on your couch and not like people could actually pay for
00:38:58.920 therapy and it was a way to kind of square let's say the viennese sensibilities of psychoanalysis
00:39:05.100 with the very sort of use focused american moralism right yeah historians of psychoanalysis
00:39:10.660 Like my friend and friend of the pod, Hannah Zeevan of Parapraxis magazine, really trace the conservative turn in American psychoanalysis to, frankly, just American immigration policies, right?
00:39:23.040 Like the analysts who were in this overwhelmingly Jewish profession, the analysts who were able to flee Germany and Austria and come to the United States were the ones who already had a conservative disposition.
00:39:34.720 They were the ones who were avowedly anti-communist. They're the ones who were best equipped to slot into a socially conservative American intellectual milieu. And that was, you know, further incentivized by the marketplace that they found in the US. 0.61
00:39:48.180 But I want to say also like Freud was a subject of more contention for the mid-century intellectuals than you might think.
00:39:56.240 One of the best parts of Town Bloody Hall is Diana Trilling and Germaine Greer just sort of mudslinging at each other over their respective selective quotations of Freud.
00:40:06.460 And they eventually just both say, well, you know, we're going to have to agree that both of us quote Freud when it suits us and ignore him when it doesn't.
00:40:12.520 Right.
00:40:12.680 Which is at least quite honest, you know? And, you know, Freud is a guy who alternated between loyalty to the superego and the id, right? At times he had a great loyalty to, I think, what Mailer would identify as sort of a spirit of uncultivated authentic vitality, right? And that's the principle behind a lot of uses of Freud for sexual liberation purposes, right?
00:40:35.720 And I think Mailer has no problem seeing that, certainly not for himself, but he does not apply that sort of spirit of vitality to women, that sort of ability to impact the world and make meaning. 0.96
00:40:47.660 This is something he reserves for one sex. 1.00
00:40:49.820 Exactly.
00:40:50.020 He has both the Freudian right and the Freudian left in the back of his mind, I think, right?
00:40:54.600 There's a very good book that might have even been out by the time this event happened.
00:40:59.200 I can't quite remember. It was published in the 1970s by our Stanford colleague, Paul Robinson, called The Freudian Left. And that is exactly the study of these kind of people who thought that a kind of left-wing critique of the superego was really what needed to happen. And his three examples are Wilhelm Reich, Gesa Roheim, and Herbert Marcuse, right, are sort of his exemplars of this. It's called The Freudian Left. I don't know if it's still in print, but it's quite good.
00:41:24.440 And it's clear that like, as you say, that Norman Mailer is drawing on that. But then he's also clearly, you know, drawing on the kind of more professionalized sort of anti-revolutionary Freudian, I don't call him Freudian establishment or Freudian right or whatever you want to call him. And it seems like, yeah, Freud is sort of feeding everyone their lines at Town Bloody Hall.
00:41:44.860 Before we go in the like five minutes we have left to record before you have to go pick up your daughter from daycare, I wanted to ask you about Mailer's uses of irony.
00:41:55.300 Millett calls it Nietzschean, and that reminded me of your comments on Nietzsche's uses of irony.
00:42:00.720 I think it's accurate but incomplete to say that Mailer is simply using irony as a kind of plausible deniability so as not to take responsibility for his misogynist views.
00:42:11.540 I think that's part of what he's doing, but it seems like it's serving other purposes for him.
00:42:16.480 Yeah. I mean, I think that the idea that you're publicly enunciating things that you may not
00:42:21.400 fully believe, right, is obviously for literary, I mean, it's what makes Nietzsche so difficult
00:42:28.860 to sort of assimilate as a philosopher, because philosophy is really not supposed to do that.
00:42:32.960 But literature, it's birthright to kind of be like, to just talk out of one corner of your mouth
00:42:37.360 and be like, no, I mean, I wrote a person that I found reprehensible. And it's, of course,
00:42:42.060 made even more difficult for, let's say, the new journalists, right, which Mailer was most famous
00:42:48.960 as by 1970, 71. Because, of course, the whole point of this was like, yes, it's subjectively
00:42:55.620 shot through. It really did happen. And the whole point is the authenticity of the author kind of
00:43:01.920 vouches for the values or for the value of the observations, right? It vouches for what makes
00:43:08.180 these books compulsively readable and exciting, or this reportage, you know, useful and interesting.
00:43:14.060 Of course, there's a certain kind of irony built in, in the sense that there's a self-reflexivity
00:43:18.100 of what you're doing. That's a very big part of the new journalism. And of course, you're not
00:43:22.820 fully identical with the kind of the speaking position you adopt in any article, right? Like
00:43:27.300 we always, everyone who writes for a living knows that sometimes you're like, my full argument would
00:43:32.280 take too much time. This is the bridge I can build here. And my editor says, I'm already 200 words
00:43:36.580 over, unless we're Norman Mailer and it's Harper's, I guess. Like all of us other than Norman Mailer
00:43:41.260 will have experienced this. So like in some way, yes, there is this kind of inherent irony. On the
00:43:46.280 other hand, I do think that this double game that people like to play and that they, I think, to
00:43:52.840 some extent learn from Nietzsche, but by misunderstanding Nietzsche has become really
00:43:57.120 this kind of, frankly, this plague on our discourse, this idea that in one moment insists
00:44:02.720 that you be taken seriously as though you were being authentic and unironic.
00:44:08.060 And then the moment you get pushed back to be like, well, you didn't understand the complex
00:44:11.280 irony of this situation, right?
00:44:12.820 Of my speaking situation.
00:44:14.480 And it's like, yeah, I feel like enjoy having that cake and eating it too.
00:44:19.260 It's a very, very tricky thing, right?
00:44:21.220 Like it's deeply corrosive in many ways, frankly, a little bit cheap to kind of make
00:44:28.260 statements of value and fact.
00:44:30.180 And then depending on what kind of pushback you get, it's a different thing where we talked
00:44:34.720 about a mailer novel, right?
00:44:36.440 Where like, yes, if a novel character says this, you know, on some level, we can't ever
00:44:41.400 say like, that's what the author is saying.
00:44:43.260 I think that's fair, right?
00:44:44.840 On the other hand, once that author is mostly known as a public intellectual, there's a
00:44:49.580 presumption that at least some of that person is saying they mean right that's why you know
00:44:55.500 catchard is not a you know not a useful or whatever internet troll is not a useful public
00:45:01.160 intellectual because like a public intellectual has to say i kind of stake my implicit reputation 0.94
00:45:05.380 on this being the case right and everyone from fucking david brooks on down to like matt iglesias 0.79
00:45:14.420 like they'll always run to this. And it's so easy. And it's this rote kind of language game 0.88
00:45:21.280 that we've established. And I think it's a real disservice. That's not to say that there isn't
00:45:26.620 a gap here. That's not to say that there isn't something that, you know, easy equations are not
00:45:32.140 a good idea. At the same time, it also does slimy critique in its most basic form, right? You're
00:45:38.220 basically saying, oh, you're both too serious and not serious enough. You're both overly
00:45:42.820 intellectual and not intellectual enough right you're like it's putting your critics in this
00:45:46.880 really weird neither fish nor fouls position which like rhetorically is super seductive and i get that
00:45:53.400 it's just i think it's usually pretty unearned and not particularly interesting if what's keeping
00:45:58.980 mailer from making the making the defense yeah i didn't mean it that way it was kind of i was
00:46:03.320 taking a role i was playing a role but what i would say in his defense is this right that's
00:46:08.560 totally fine you can say that right like i don't actually know that i believe that but if i were
00:46:12.080 to defend it this will be my defense sure but like but that's not what he's doing it's like oh you 0.95
00:46:16.900 dumb broads don't get what i'm doing here you know go back to literature seminar right yeah i think 0.90
00:46:22.340 this is a maybe a good place to close and also a good lesson both from norman mailer and to all 0.98
00:46:27.620 the public intellectuals of our own time which is if you yeah want to be taken seriously you have to
00:46:32.940 be able to be held responsible that's them's the breaks that's the deal sorry adrian thank you for
00:46:38.840 following me down this weird path into this you know my obsessive little detour into norman
00:46:44.940 mailer a guy i just can't get enough of hating oh god i'm i had a lot of fun i i gotta say i'm glad
00:46:51.240 we'll be hopefully done with him for a little while i wouldn't mind a philip roth i wouldn't
00:46:55.400 mind a philip roth episode because i actually enjoy reading roth but uh yeah i mean like you
00:47:00.380 right like you're like i disagree with this but like i the sentences are beautiful and i'm having
00:47:04.660 a good time that's not my experience with usually sorry he has his moments but they're uh they're
00:47:10.660 few and far between all right i guess we'll see you next time yeah well this has been 0.58
00:47:15.160 in bed with the right in bed with the prisoner of sex uh and a bad time all around
00:47:20.100 in bed with the right would like to thank the michelle r claimant institute for gender research
00:47:26.400 for generous support jennifer portillo for setting up our studio our theme music is by
00:47:31.100 Katie Lau. Our producer is Megan Kalthus.