Missing Witches - June 17, 2019


Missing Witches X Witch Wave: Waking The Witch

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Missing Witches Beltane Special - Music Witches: Music As Witchcraft Part 2 Witches Found - The Divine Invites You To Dance

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00:00:00.000 Hey witches! It's a big day and a big week. The last full moon before the longest day 0.70
00:00:11.760 of the year. It's right now. A powerful, bright, and dynamic time.
00:00:16.800 So this week we're catching up on some things missing witches have done since the end of
00:00:20.920 season two. Maybe all this is news to you. Maybe you don't have social media. We love
00:00:25.920 that, but follow us if you do. Here's what you might have missed. On Friday's solstice, we'll
00:00:31.500 be uploading the recording from our live event that we held in May. The Divine invites you to
00:00:36.780 dance in two parts, Missing Witches and Witches Found. Today, in the In Case You Missed It file,
00:00:43.040 is our interview with one of our favorite podcasting witches, Pam Grossman, which we did
00:00:48.180 for her show, The Witch Wave, in support of her book, Waking the Witch. Hers is the first voice
00:00:53.260 you'll hear after our theme. Again, huge thanks to Pam for the work she does and the person she
00:00:58.840 is. And come back Friday for a super special two-part Letha dance. Blessed be. 0.93
00:01:05.140 You aren't being a proper woman, therefore you must be a witch. 1.00
00:01:11.380 You must be a witch. 1.00
00:01:13.560 Now, on to my guests. Or perhaps a better word to use would be co-hosts. Because as I said, 0.99
00:01:21.120 this is really kind of a crossover episode between the Witch Wave and the amazing Missing
00:01:28.440 Witches podcast. Missing Witches goes looking for the witches we've been missing throughout history
00:01:36.480 and with their Witches Found series, Modern Witches 2. The Missing Witches podcast was
00:01:44.420 started by Risa Dickens, and is now co-hosted with her by Amy Torek.
00:01:50.180 They are both very gifted artists and musicians and writers and witches based outside of Montreal.
00:01:57.800 And with the Missing Witches podcast, you can really hear all of their skills be put to use.
00:02:04.540 When people ask me for other witch podcast recommendations,
00:02:09.140 Missing Witches is always at the top of my list because it is informative and intersectional
00:02:15.240 and so, so inspiring, not to mention beautifully produced, so a real pleasure to listen to.
00:02:23.400 I've learned so much from Risa and Amy and their show, and so when it became time to
00:02:28.820 try and figure out a way to celebrate the release of my book, I immediately thought
00:02:33.780 that they would be perfect to have on the witch wave to help guide me in a discussion about it.
00:02:39.680 And frankly, it was also an excuse for me to get to collaborate with them because I'm such a big
00:02:45.480 fan of what they do. And I think you will be too. So what you're about to hear is first me
00:02:52.260 interviewing them about missing witches, and then them interviewing me about waking the witch.
00:02:59.280 and then we get into some really juicy conversation about witches and feminism and all kinds of other
00:03:05.840 magic. In my experience, if you put a few podcasters together, odds are you're going to
00:03:12.540 have an interesting discussion, and I'm so happy to share ours with you now. Risa joined me rather
00:03:19.780 spontaneously from the woods, and Amy joined me from her home, both outside of Montreal via Skype.
00:03:29.280 Risa Dickens and Amy Tarek, welcome to The Witch Wave.
00:03:41.880 Hi, Pam.
00:03:42.920 Hi, thank you so much for having us.
00:03:45.700 I'm so, so thrilled you're both here.
00:03:48.500 And just so we can get your name and voice differentiations, can you tell me who is talking?
00:03:56.040 Hi, this is Risa.
00:03:58.540 And the deep voices, Amy.
00:04:01.020 I love it.
00:04:02.260 And some listeners may be familiar with your voices already because you both have one of my favorite podcasts,
00:04:12.820 Witchly or Otherwise, that you create together called Missing Witches.
00:04:19.120 And for a little bit of background, one of the reasons that I invited you both on the Witch Wave
00:04:25.020 is because I've been asked to do as much as I can to talk about my book,
00:04:31.340 but I was feeling a little bit shy about just having a me, me, me episode.
00:04:38.680 And I wanted to also spread the good word about Missing Witches
00:04:43.660 because your podcast is so special.
00:04:46.100 So we're going to have kind of an unusual format
00:04:48.440 where I'm going to ask you both some questions and then the tables will turn.
00:04:52.520 How does that sound?
00:04:53.320 Oh, can't wait to talk to you about your book.
00:04:57.160 And yeah, we're super thrilled that you like our podcast because we are listeners since the day we launched ours.
00:05:03.820 So we're really excited.
00:05:05.060 Our podcasts have crushes on each other.
00:05:09.320 Hardcore.
00:05:09.880 So for those who may be new to the Missing Witches podcast, you both describe it as a, quote, research-based feminist occult storytelling project.
00:05:23.320 which is so great. Risa, why don't we start with you? How did Missing Witches come to be and what
00:05:31.880 is your intention for the podcast? Yeah, so actually, originally, I was brainstorming a
00:05:39.100 fictional podcast. And in the fictional podcast, I thought maybe that these two women would have 0.99
00:05:47.880 a podcast where they would do witch history. And then somehow that seemed so much more interesting
00:05:56.340 than whatever fiction I was trying to cook up. Yeah. And then I called Amy about it because
00:06:02.020 she's like the natural collaborator for that. Our sort of witch improvisations predate the podcast
00:06:08.820 together by years. And we've just been like kind of creatively inspired by each other. Amy is like
00:06:15.320 a huge inspiration to me as a maker and as a person and so I called her and told her I had
00:06:22.520 this idea for a podcast called Missing Witches where we would just get to do this history research
00:06:27.600 and Amy was like yeah fuck we're doing that and then like three seconds later three seconds later
00:06:35.600 she was like I've claimed the Instagram the Twitter the Facebook I have the Gmail account 0.96
00:06:41.140 the url is available it's a sign like we're doing this we're launching so that's kind of the story
00:06:47.240 of how that little light started i think that i i jumped on it so um immediately because as soon
00:06:53.900 as risa said it i was like oh obviously that's what we should be doing i mean these were
00:06:58.180 conversations that we were having like risa said for 10 years before we sort of formalizing the
00:07:04.160 curiosity into the podcast so it seemed like such a natural and obvious thing for us to do i was
00:07:10.160 almost like, duh, why haven't we been doing this for however long? Exactly. So the thrust of
00:07:19.000 Missing Witches seems to be about featuring a historical figure and sometimes someone who's
00:07:27.320 still alive, who is someone who either has identified as a witch or who we might identify
00:07:36.760 as a witch due to either their orientation in the world or the kind of work that they make.
00:07:42.860 So how do you decide which witch you're going to feature on each episode? Amy, why don't we start
00:07:51.060 with you? The first season, Risa had a few witches already in mind because the idea had sort of been 0.98
00:07:58.580 germinating, like she said, as fiction. But I think it's just the ones that we get really excited
00:08:03.420 about like I remember Risa calling me up to tell me this story about Monica show and I was like oh
00:08:08.500 tell me tell me more tell me more so uh whoever gets us really excited we make a long list and
00:08:14.880 then we chop it down to who gets our witchy juices flowing the most and whose story we want to
00:08:20.400 research more and whose story we want to tell and some of the witches that you featured
00:08:26.560 I'll just run down a quick list of some of my favorite episodes you've done Pamela Coleman
00:08:32.120 Smith, who many listeners might know as the illustrator of what was originally called the
00:08:38.460 Rider Waite tarot deck. And now we call it the Smith Waite tarot deck because so many of her
00:08:45.600 images or all of her images, at least which were, you know, certainly based on earlier tarot, but
00:08:51.760 which she really made her own. And, you know, these are the images that have become truly iconic.
00:08:57.280 For sure.
00:08:58.600 And then Zora Neale Hurston, Doreen Valiente, who's one of my favorite witches, who's really, I suppose we could call her like the godmother of Wicca if Gerald Gardner was the godfather.
00:09:12.840 Totally.
00:09:13.600 It's a really eclectic bunch of people.
00:09:16.840 And then you do have some folks who are still with us.
00:09:20.180 Z Budapest is a really good example.
00:09:23.300 And, Amy, I definitely want to talk to you about that episode in particular.
00:09:30.820 I suppose I'll just dive right in.
00:09:32.400 So we've talked about Z on this podcast before and about how she is a very controversial figure in the witchcraft community and in the world overall.
00:09:46.580 I should also say that, Amy, you taught me how to correctly pronounce her full name.
00:09:51.220 I've been calling her Zuzanna this whole time, and you taught me that it's Zuzanna Budapest.
00:09:57.540 Zuzanna, yeah.
00:09:58.800 Again, that's my Hungarian heritage coming through with the European pronunciation.
00:10:04.040 Hell yeah.
00:10:05.120 So can we talk about that episode in particular?
00:10:10.140 Because that for me, I mean, I love all of your episodes, but that episode for me really
00:10:16.280 sang because you braided together history, also your own autobiography with some of your family
00:10:25.340 roots, as well as diving into the controversy that surrounds Z in terms of some of her transphobic
00:10:34.500 comments that she's made. So how did you go about approaching that episode, Amy?
00:10:40.620 Props to Risa.
00:10:41.540 She was the one who came upon Zsuzana's name first, I think, and put it on our short list.
00:10:48.820 And when I read about her a little bit, and you hear about this in the podcast, I read that she had walked after the Hungarian Revolution.
00:10:55.600 She had walked from Hungary to Austria as a refugee, and my father had done that same walk at that same time.
00:11:03.500 So I said to Risa, like, I would love to do this episode.
00:11:07.640 But, you know, she does most of the writing.
00:11:10.360 There are certain episodes that I've written that I was like, I really want, because this is very personal to me.
00:11:15.340 It was the first time that it was something that was like, you know, I need to write this.
00:11:21.520 Not just for our listeners, but like for my own self and for my own digging into my Hungarian heritage and ancestry.
00:11:29.060 So the name was shortlisted.
00:11:30.520 I said, of course, you know, I have to do this story.
00:11:33.900 And Risa was very supportive of that.
00:11:35.560 And I'm grateful for that.
00:11:36.640 So the research started like it does with any of our witches. We start with Google. We read as many articles as we can. And then once we've really shortlisted, then we start buying books. I was into her books, like the Holy Book of Women's Mysteries. And sure, it uses gendered language, but a lot of feminist work does use gendered language because it's reactionary to patriarchy.
00:12:01.560 So I get that, and that's fine. But I happened to be on Twitter one day. And I'm not on Twitter that often, but someone had said, you know, Z, TERF, this, that. And I was like, oh, is this the case? I didn't know this. You know, I just started my research on her. And so then, of course, I Googled those terms together. 0.89
00:12:20.080 And that's trans-exclusionary radical feminist, correct?
00:12:24.440 Exactly. Yeah, yeah. Turf is just like you said. And so I called Risa and I said, okay, you know, there's a hiccup. Because most of our episodes, Risa will agree, are love letters. We make no secret of our editorializing of stories and their love letters to the witches that we're featuring. 1.00
00:12:42.040 but this had to be a little bit different because it started as a love letter but then it was kind
00:12:46.900 of like but and we we said you know we can either toss this or we can talk about it and Risa and I
00:12:52.700 are always on the on team talk about it I think I love that and I thought we were going to get
00:12:58.700 some backlash like strictly just for featuring her regardless of how we did it but we really
00:13:03.480 didn't it was all quite positive and I think that's because again Risa and I have this sort of
00:13:09.240 mandate of compassion, you know, which has been demonized so much. So we want to really take a
00:13:14.760 gentle hand as often as we can and talk about why they're amazing. But sometimes, you know,
00:13:19.800 we have to seek the rot in the ancestors' bones and dig it up and air it out, you know?
00:13:26.140 Yeah. And it's a really tough one because in the writing of my book, which we'll get to in a little
00:13:32.520 bit, but of course, I had to mention her and talk about her because she is the founder of
00:13:38.560 dianic wicca or you know very feminist feminine focused goddess focused wicca which is so
00:13:48.000 influential to contemporary witchcraft and to intersectional feminist witchcraft but then you're 0.97
00:13:54.780 like ah fuck when you start you know hearing some of the statements that she continues to make to 0.98
00:14:02.480 this day about she believes only cisgendered women are witches, or they're the only people 1.00
00:14:11.140 that she wants included in her different circles and groves and all of this absolute crap, 1.00
00:14:18.260 honestly. I mean, that's awful. And there's no excusing it. But she also, you know, you actually 0.99
00:14:25.880 opened my ears up to the fact that she was involved in a lawsuit that the results of
00:14:33.840 which maybe you can actually walk us through that a little bit, both of you.
00:14:37.880 I just wanted to jump in a little bit before that to say, I think what was important to
00:14:42.880 us in telling that story or in deciding to tell that story was there is so much fear
00:14:49.600 and pain often around being a woman and being a witch but even more so around being a trans person
00:14:57.760 and a queer person so to make a space to say like no we've declared this space a safe space
00:15:03.740 for women and for our magic like that's holy and that's huge and that's important deserves to be
00:15:09.280 cherished but we then feel and sort of beautifully expressed in that episode I think that then it's
00:15:16.140 on us to like make an even bigger space and to make circles of protection for people who experience
00:15:21.260 more violence than we do you know so anyway that's my tangent but I thought that was the
00:15:26.120 most important thing in that episode and I understand if women who have been advocating
00:15:31.160 for safe spaces for women for generations for decades don't see that right up front in front
00:15:36.880 of them but I think if you spend two seconds in a trans community where they're fighting for their
00:15:41.780 lives in a more profound way you can see that we have more of a responsibility there and there's
00:15:45.980 some really deep magic there if we can hold and cherish those people. Absolutely. I couldn't agree
00:15:51.100 more. And it's honestly that attitude and that approach that makes me love the both of you and
00:15:56.840 love the podcast so much. I know we're focusing on this one particular episode, but that really
00:16:03.000 comes through in terms of the way that you curate the podcast. I mean, you have people from so many
00:16:09.220 different backgrounds and it's a real widening of the circle, inclusionary stance. And I'm just
00:16:15.660 so grateful for it yeah intersectionality was definitely like our first guiding principle i
00:16:21.780 think even before compassion absolutely so if we could just finish up the z budapest story oh right
00:16:29.200 okay so she had a little witch store and she was doing a tarot reading and the police came in and
00:16:35.400 arrested her for doing witchcraft and she took this battle it took her a decade i think eight
00:16:43.020 years maybe 10 years she took the battle to the state supreme court and basically was eventually
00:16:49.160 finally acquitted and changed the law in california so if there are any california
00:16:53.940 witches out there who make a little cash from your craft then you know maybe see budapest isn't
00:17:00.360 all bad question mark again that that was the thrust of the episode was like no one is all good 0.63
00:17:06.300 or all bad but we have to be thinking about our legacy and what message we're leaving behind
00:17:10.040 when we're not there to qualify our statements anymore absolutely now you're both skyping in
00:17:16.740 from canada you're both north of montreal is that right yeah and we should say that amy
00:17:24.820 is skyping in from her home and risa is like crouched in the woods somewhere
00:17:30.260 which is all too appropriate so thank you both but i wanted to ask what is the canadian
00:17:38.840 witchcraft scene like these days? Because certainly down here in the States, it's exploding,
00:17:45.160 especially in urban centers, but really all over the place. And in terms of even my own listener
00:17:50.620 base and readers, it's people from all over and it seems to be growing and growing. Are you finding
00:17:55.880 that's the case up north as well? Yeah, it's a funny question. I would say like, yes,
00:18:01.720 unqualified yes it's exploding we see people reaching out to us from across canada and it
00:18:08.960 really intersects with you know the environmental movement and the pressure up here to try to
00:18:16.480 figure out a way to meet our climate targets and resist conservatism that we're kind of
00:18:21.840 experiencing coming up from the states and the sort of backlash that's happening everywhere like
00:18:27.300 witches are a force to be contended with in that fight and they're finding each other
00:18:31.020 But I would also say like Amy and I are kind of in some ways the wrong people to ask that because, as you said, we live in the woods.
00:18:40.260 We left Montreal behind, both of us, in the last couple of years and we both kind of live in the middle of nowhere.
00:18:48.080 And that's been like incredibly sustaining and enriching and like balancing and peace finding.
00:18:54.520 but it means that sometimes I think at least for myself but I feel really sometimes out of touch
00:19:00.640 with trends or like which is a trend or like scenes and then we just had our first live show
00:19:07.380 this weekend about dance ritual in a united church that was like kind of a really badass
00:19:13.540 incredible experience but like to actually do our show in front of human people to meet people
00:19:19.780 So coming out of the woodwork, who connect with this current that we are all sort of touching and raising was really rad.
00:19:28.640 So yes, and also I have no idea.
00:19:32.340 Amy, what do you think?
00:19:34.060 I am on the Missing Witches social media, I think, more than Risa.
00:19:37.400 So I'm on the ground in a digital sense, you know, despite being in the woods.
00:19:42.620 Obviously, it's having a very major moment, witchcraft, you know, identifying as witch, claiming the title of witch. And I think it's happening all over the world. We get emails from all over the world, but especially because it is such a vast term that it encompasses everything from like, at the risk of using labels, a black lipstick goth to a barefoot hippie to anarchist activists, you know, any kind of dissident.
00:20:12.620 rebel, if you're a feminist, if you're into herbology, all of these things sort of can come
00:20:18.360 under that heading of witch. And as our society grows increasingly more slash less feminist,
00:20:26.460 you know, it's a very weird time to be alive, let me just say. Because, you know, in the bubble
00:20:32.260 that I live in, that Risa lives in, that presumably you kind of live in yourself, it's like
00:20:36.480 we surround ourselves with self-expression and love and intersectionality. But then you
00:20:42.600 go even even online like i say and you see that that's not how everybody is talking and how
00:20:48.360 everybody is feeling oh my goodness yeah and if i could just uh interject and say i don't know how 1.00
00:20:53.860 much you guys are following the news down here but bodily autonomy for women is like fucking 0.94
00:21:00.280 being re-litigated all over again and all of these states are banning abortion left and right it's 0.87
00:21:06.980 really really horrifying and you to sort of get back to your question you had asked a bit like
00:21:12.540 networks of witches and I saw something come up and I immediately wrote to the person who
00:21:16.640 had posted it. It was basically, and I'll say this to your listeners too,
00:21:20.720 we're your Canadian auntie now. If you need to go
00:21:24.660 on a quote-unquote vacation for a couple weeks, we'll help you make
00:21:28.600 your reservations, quote-unquote. We'll take selfies with you.
00:21:32.480 So yeah, to your listeners, hit us up at Missing Witches if you need a quote-unquote
00:21:36.400 Canadian aunt to go and visit for a couple weeks if things really get too harsh.
00:21:40.560 But yeah, the internet has really helped the witches come out of the broom closet to a massive degree because we can still be networking, but we can be doing it in secret.
00:21:51.000 And the thrust of what we do is, Reese's tagline that she came up with was, we go looking for the witches we've been missing.
00:21:58.640 And so I think when you go looking for witches, you find them literally everywhere.
00:22:03.240 You know, some of them are a little more out in summer.
00:22:06.400 but when you start talking to people about it yeah it's quite amazing I feel really strongly
00:22:12.840 although sometimes I question our decision to include women who don't self-identify as witches
00:22:19.140 but I do feel like telling like a history of female shamans in the Philippines and how they
00:22:27.060 were colonized and burned and called witch during the same period as the witch hunts
00:22:31.340 in Western Europe or telling a story of Maria Sabina like a healer in the mountains in Oaxaca
00:22:38.220 that to reach out and tell those stories and suggest that those women are part of the same
00:22:45.260 process and have been victimized and violated in like very unique and specific ways to them
00:22:51.740 but also in ways that are communal I feel like telling those stories together and claiming the
00:22:56.880 which kind of gives us some power and I do love that in your book Pam I think we're like close
00:23:02.660 to turning the tables and I want to get there because I love that stance that you take in your
00:23:09.600 book that like the teen mall witch has as much value and as much power and as much strength in
00:23:17.300 her little heart as you know the most sacred dianic 50 year old queen I don't know. Teresa
00:23:23.400 it's funny that you and I are collaborators because I've made like very similar notes here
00:23:27.780 um your fan your use of the the term permission slip like we've had people saying like you know
00:23:36.720 I don't necessarily feel like I'm ready or or deserving or worthy of claiming that term which
00:23:42.860 and obviously our answer is always it's already yours yeah and so you use the term permission slip
00:23:48.460 And I'm lifting and keeping that term forever.
00:23:51.880 So thank you so much.
00:23:53.800 All right.
00:23:54.600 So this is the part where I hand the reins over to you both.
00:23:59.880 And you are now the interviewers. 0.99
00:24:03.500 So hit me with your best shots, ladies.
00:24:06.580 Risa, let's spring back since we both wanted to jump off on the same point,
00:24:10.380 which was you were talking about the mall witch versus the high priestess.
00:24:14.320 and one of the things that I picked out was whether it's heartfelt or flippant, public or
00:24:21.220 private, that these are all equal. Pam, can you talk a bit about the mass equality of witchcraft
00:24:27.820 and that idea that sort of comes through in your book? Sure. I think for me, when I was writing
00:24:33.900 this book, and it's also my approach when I'm putting together this podcast, I've discovered
00:24:40.140 the fact that there really is no gatekeeper to witchcraft. And I know some hardcore Wiccans 0.93
00:24:46.820 might disagree with that because they might think, hey, you know, I've gone through three
00:24:52.700 degrees of initiation and I've been studying and so on and so forth. And there are also folks who
00:24:58.520 identify as witches because of some family lineage and some tradition that's passed down that is
00:25:04.860 extremely not just important to their identity, but often is an aspect of themselves that has
00:25:11.600 been under threat for a long time. And so they feel really protective of that. So I don't mean
00:25:16.840 any disrespect to those folks, but truly there really is no one way to be a witch. And in my
00:25:26.920 research, I've discovered that the word witch historically has more often been used as a 0.99
00:25:33.460 negative epithet against someone than it has as this badge of honor. Certainly the English word 0.94
00:25:41.560 witch anyway, has really only started to become more positive in the 19th century. And at the
00:25:50.280 same time as the first wave of feminism was cresting, so too was there a more, I don't know,
00:25:57.120 romantic or sympathetic reframing of witches. So to sum up, I just feel like the word is so
00:26:04.420 elastic and it means so many different things to different people and it's all meaningful and it's
00:26:10.320 all potentially really empowering. Yeah. And I think that's what's so attractive again to me
00:26:16.480 about the word is that it's a label, but it's like the least labely label because it could mean
00:26:21.480 an infinite number of things absolutely yeah i felt so connected to your descriptions of
00:26:29.960 playing with the word as your self-identity you know that like sometimes it's tongue-in-cheek
00:26:35.520 and sometimes it's empowering and sometimes you don't really want to get into it with everybody
00:26:41.640 you know and sometimes it's like a banner that you're really ready to wave and um and you sort
00:26:48.600 of describe building that identity over your life. I wondered if you would tell us more about
00:26:54.620 that process in your life, and then maybe about that process as it was affected by the writing
00:26:59.920 of the book. Oh, yeah. And it's constantly evolving. And I imagine it is for the both of
00:27:05.960 you too, and for a lot of listeners and hopefully readers. You know, I have been doing some form of
00:27:12.260 magic ever since I was a kid. And I actually think a lot of children do magic very naturally.
00:27:19.720 You know, I think we enter this state of deep imaginal play very intuitively. But, you know,
00:27:26.160 a lot of people outgrow that phase and I just grew further into it. And, you know, I was really
00:27:33.100 attracted to mythology and anything where there were female monsters and witches and magical
00:27:41.640 protagonists. And then, you know, it evolved into just, you know, a deep, deep interest in all
00:27:48.520 things magical and mythological, both in my reading, and in the kind of art that I was
00:27:54.980 attracted to music I was attracted to. And eventually, that led me to, you know, the
00:27:59.680 witchcraft section of the library and different workshops and actually doing, you know, what we
00:28:05.400 might think of as more literal spells or more, I don't know, traditional spells, though I have a
00:28:10.220 problem with the word traditional too here. But yeah, that's really how it started is just
00:28:15.060 never growing out of that magical phase of my life. Yeah, I loved in the book you talked about,
00:28:22.560 I think it was you and your sister sort of came upon this magical space that I mean,
00:28:26.720 a lot of people would probably walk by and said, Oh, that's a swamp. Yep. You know,
00:28:31.040 that's about all that to you, it was a mystical. And I think children and witches sort of have
00:28:37.480 the magical power of x-ray vision where we can see past what's there and see the magic behind
00:28:43.840 the facade. And so when you say outgrow, why does that happen? And at what point do people lose
00:28:50.560 their magical vision, do you think? And why? Yeah, I think it's socialized. And I think a
00:28:56.620 lot of folks, unfortunately, have parents who start telling them, you know, certain things
00:29:02.920 aren't real or aren't true or only little kids believe in. And I think you really have to strike
00:29:09.400 a balance. And I should say I'm not a parent. And I certainly know that everybody does their best.
00:29:15.000 And you don't want your kids to walk around being fools and believing in nonsense or bullshit. I 1.00
00:29:21.340 understand. But on the other hand, I was really blessed that my parents, they're both really
00:29:27.820 artistic. My mom's a painter and my dad's a musician and they both had other day jobs and
00:29:33.740 such. But at their core, they're these really spiritual, artistic, sensitive people. And
00:29:39.020 they just never trained that out of me. They didn't actively encourage it either. They just
00:29:46.880 let me be me. And that was a real gift that I appreciate more and more as I get older.
00:29:53.520 Risa is a new parent.
00:29:55.260 So do you have any tips for her raising her little witch? 1.00
00:29:58.740 Oh, my goodness.
00:30:00.920 I mean, I would just say to allow your child to unfold and whatever they're naturally interested in to, you know, really encourage that sense of wonder.
00:30:14.360 And I imagine Risa is going to be pretty awesome at that anyway.
00:30:18.160 He probably doesn't need my advice.
00:30:20.480 But that's what I would say.
00:30:21.540 You know, I was never shamed for believing in magic or for loving fairy tales or mythology.
00:30:29.800 I was never told that it was time to put those books down or stop watching those cartoons or whatever.
00:30:36.440 And, you know, I'm 38 now and I still love cartoons and magic and mythology.
00:30:41.180 And our apartment is stuffed with all kinds of magical objects.
00:30:45.860 And, you know, I think it's a really beautiful way to be because it feeds your imagination.
00:30:51.540 and it fills your heart yeah I feel so excited about being a parent there's so many ways that
00:30:59.060 we can like bring hope into the world and to bring magic into the world and like I feel really like
00:31:05.940 inspired by the idea that like there have been parents like your parents and like mine
00:31:12.000 out there and there have been artists out there who like allowed a spark in the world that was
00:31:18.660 free from shame and that allowed for the possibility that things could be totally different than they
00:31:24.500 are. And I want to, I really want to give that to my kid. Amy usually does the Witches Found
00:31:29.340 interviews, but I did one with, you know, an herbologist and her mom, because she told me,
00:31:34.940 she whispered to me once that her mom had raised her to believe she was a witch.
00:31:39.140 Oh, I love that. And we should just interject to say that Witches Found is kind of the episodes
00:31:45.740 that you do every other week where you talk to contemporary witches. So go on ahead.
00:31:51.680 Yeah, that was an important addition. You know, originally we thought about doing history
00:31:56.240 only. And then I think Amy was so inspired to meet with people as part of building our coven
00:32:01.840 and finding these missing witches that we added this second episode every week where we interview
00:32:06.760 people. And doing this interview with a mother and daughter in my basement while my partner and
00:32:14.960 and Celia's dad walked around the lake with our two babies so that they wouldn't be hollering in
00:32:19.980 the background. It was totally magical. And Celia asked her mom if she remembered telling her
00:32:26.120 that she was a witch and getting her to sit and focus on, I think it was a napkin on the table,
00:32:31.800 to try to move it with her mind. And then they both giggled. And then Celia was like,
00:32:36.000 maybe you were just trying to keep me busy. It's really interesting. Like,
00:32:42.960 i don't know if you guys read recently that article in the new york times about the placebo
00:32:48.440 effect it was a really great article and it really reminded me of magic not because yes i think that
00:32:56.860 magic isn't real and we're just tricking our minds and it's all bullshit but even if that is the case
00:33:04.600 like who cares it works and you know i i often say i'm a pragmatic witch and i would not bother
00:33:12.320 with all of this if it didn't have results and it didn't really work and changing my life and
00:33:18.940 making me feel more connected to spirit and all of that. I actually got a text recently from a very
00:33:25.880 good friend of ours who's the mother of two daughters who we just adore. And one of her
00:33:32.440 daughters is, gosh, four or five years old. And they just had to put their cat to sleep, which is
00:33:39.440 awful and heartbreaking and ever since then she's been really scared of ghosts and it's not even
00:33:46.260 oh she thinks you know the ghost of her cat is floating around but i'm sure it's just she's
00:33:51.040 afraid and she's sad and she's dealing with death and so suddenly she's afraid of ghosts
00:33:55.960 and her mom is not a witchy person but she texted me and said is there some kind of ritual we could
00:34:02.640 do or magic we could do to help her leave us afraid of ghosts and i was like yes i bet you've
00:34:08.380 got some salt in your kitchen. And why don't you, you know, sprinkle it around the apartment in a
00:34:14.360 circle with her or put a little bowl of salt in every room and tell her that that's going to 1.00
00:34:19.460 protect her. And they did it. And she felt better and no longer afraid of ghosts. Now, whether or
00:34:27.480 not, yeah, whether or not that actually, you know, protects a home, you know, for scientific or
00:34:35.840 metaphysical reasons or it was just something that made her daughter feel better like I honestly
00:34:41.220 don't give a shit it works yeah I think you said like pragmatic which was pragmatic the word yes
00:34:48.180 but I think that's why our work the three of us all all resonates with each other because we are 0.98
00:34:53.260 science-minded practical people you know sometimes I think the phrase that gets used is woo woo
00:34:59.280 yeah like we're not we're not woo woo and I have nothing against people who are woo woo it's just
00:35:03.480 not me. But especially paganism, like the earth, the sky, I mean, this is where we get our air that
00:35:11.340 we breathe. It's very practical to me to be pagan, much more than any other religion, really. All of
00:35:18.460 my senses are engaged in paganism. So yeah, we're very science-minded people, and we don't think
00:35:25.240 that that's out of line with being a witch in any way. In fact, we did a whole episode with a coven
00:35:31.420 of which is led by Whitefeather Hunter, an amazing artist and scientist, out of their
00:35:36.600 lab.
00:35:37.760 And their whole practice is science-based.
00:35:39.680 I heard that episode.
00:35:40.440 I loved that episode.
00:35:42.860 Again, no disrespect to the woo-woo, but like for me, and I think for Risa and for yourself,
00:35:47.160 it is very practical.
00:35:48.860 It is like science-based or evidence-based, for lack of a better term.
00:35:53.120 Yeah, evidence-based, I think, is a great way of putting it.
00:35:56.280 And it's results-oriented.
00:35:57.700 But I really appreciate, you know, the fact that you represent all these different witches in your podcast.
00:36:04.680 And that's what I was trying to do with my book, too, where, you know, there are historical figures in there and there's, you know, real history of feminism and people fighting against the Vietnam War and people fighting against, you know, the Nazis and World War II and who were identifying as witches.
00:36:22.960 That's all in there, but then there's also fictional figures like Hermione and Sabrina.
00:36:30.160 I wanted to show the fact and the fiction of the witch and how they feed each other,
00:36:35.780 how they inform each other and change each other, and how all of it has helped me shape
00:36:41.700 my own identity as a witch.
00:36:43.360 Because yes, some of it is from our pagan foremothers, forefathers, forepeople, but
00:36:50.880 a lot of it also comes from the world of art and music, fashion and politics and fiction.
00:36:58.760 That's important to me too. And at one point in the book, I say the witch is a creature of
00:37:04.600 accretion, by which I mean every layer adds and adds and adds to the archetype. And there are
00:37:11.220 more and more facets that are built up. And that's why I think it's such a fascinating archetype,
00:37:16.580 because it says so much and means so much and has so many different layers to it.
00:37:21.440 I really appreciated your treatment of like the teen pop culture witch.
00:37:25.620 Yes.
00:37:26.560 Because you weren't glib about it in any way,
00:37:28.920 like the way you analyze them and sort of unpacked,
00:37:31.920 you know, from Sabrina to Macbeth even.
00:37:35.240 And it was really exciting to me.
00:37:36.880 So how do you conceive of like young teenage girls and what their power is?
00:37:45.860 Yes. 0.89
00:37:46.580 I really came into witchcraft in terms of casting intentional spells when I was a teenager.
00:37:55.640 I know that's not true for everybody, but a lot of people have that experience.
00:37:59.280 And for me, and I write about this in the book, some of it is just, I think, for especially cisgendered teen girls, it's such a time of your life when you start to feel like you're coming into this power and you also are learning how to control it.
00:38:16.580 And also all these outside forces are trying to control you and it's intense, right? Like you have sexual power and it's kind of dangerous and risky. And also you can use that power for better or for worse.
00:38:33.040 Your body's changing. At the same time, you're getting all these influences from friends and society and teachers, and you feel really judged and kind of out of control of your circumstances in a lot of ways, too.
00:38:48.640 So I think, you know, a lot of teen, especially young women, gravitate towards witchcraft to, you know, have some sense of control or agency over their lives.
00:38:58.760 So I think that's a big part of it. But I also think, you know, for me, I had other hard shit 0.98
00:39:07.120 going on. You know, and I write about this a little bit in the book, you know, my older sister, 0.96
00:39:11.520 who's a wonderful person, and she's thriving now, she was really suffering from mental illness in
00:39:18.580 very intense, scary ways. And so she was also this volatile figure in my house. And I think when
00:39:25.400 you're a teenager, you start to wake up to, you know, certain trauma or certain, I guess I would
00:39:32.120 say more adult problems, you start to realize, oh, maybe something in my house isn't okay. Or maybe
00:39:38.840 this experience I'm having with someone I have a crush on is unhealthy, or I guess it's a loss
00:39:47.940 of innocence is what I'm trying to say in a very roundabout way. And so magic is both, I think,
00:39:56.020 a metaphor for the transformation and the shape-shifting that is happening to teenagers
00:40:05.100 psychologically and physically, but it is also a literal thing that you can do to try to help
00:40:11.340 yourself feel like you have a little bit more autonomy. Yeah. I just wanted to go back here
00:40:16.300 talking about teenage girls and their power. I recently read that the most effective person
00:40:22.740 at changing a conservative adult's mind about the reality of climate change is like a 12 to 14 year
00:40:30.000 old girl. Oh my goodness. What's the name of that young woman? Oh, her name just slipped out of my
00:40:35.220 head, but there's this like Greta Thunberg. Yes. Incredible. She's incredible. And talk about also 0.55
00:40:44.060 someone who's using her reality as someone who's like neuroatypical to like reach a vast community
00:40:52.500 like there's 89 climate strikes planned across Canada for the global day of climate action coming
00:41:00.200 up in September and that's like her movement we've had strikes every Friday going on weeks now
00:41:06.660 led by like students you have 10 year olds writing to their mayors and their ministers to declare
00:41:12.040 climate crisis, like those are kids and I have so much faith in their power. And, and I think
00:41:17.820 you're so right. And it's such a meaningful message to give to young people. If you have
00:41:23.280 them in your life that like your power is in part your sexuality and is in part your loss of
00:41:29.340 innocence and is in part your innocence and your like your asexuality and just your, your knowledge
00:41:35.300 and your energy and your like pure raw emotion and connection to the world. Absolutely. We're
00:41:40.440 seeing that here in the states too with like um the parkland kids so yeah you know all of these
00:41:46.260 kids who are trying to fight for gun reform which is an issue you guys do not really have
00:41:52.840 but it's a crazy one down here and a really crucial one as you know so you're right and
00:41:59.400 it's a teen girl who's been leading that charge as well so you're absolutely right thank you both
00:42:05.460 again for being on the show. I have to say it's pretty wild to have people interviewing me and
00:42:12.600 it is also kind of a fantasy come true. So thank you again. Thank you so much for reaching out to
00:42:19.400 us and for sharing your book. We feel really lucky to get to get our hands on it early. And
00:42:24.440 you know, the world can be dark these days. I hate to keep going back to it, except I don't
00:42:28.760 because it's all that matters. But in Canada, like you've mentioned before, we have abortion rights
00:42:34.280 and we have gun control and we are holding on to those things by the skin of our teeth like those
00:42:38.920 are not battles that are done and i think that like connecting with other witches however you
00:42:46.220 identify that around the world to give each other strength whether in private or in public
00:42:50.220 is kind of one of the most important things we can do right now to fight patriarchy and greed and 0.98
00:42:55.340 the shit that wants to eat us absolutely absolutely part of the thing about being a witch 0.97
00:43:01.180 that Risa and I talk about it a lot is sort of embracing the light and embracing the darkness. 0.99
00:43:06.840 I hesitate to make a pro and con list because it's sort of, you know, I don't want to put them
00:43:12.960 in those binary terms. So in terms of the writing of your book, what were some of the highlights and
00:43:19.920 some of the challenges? Not pros and cons, but like highlights and some of the major challenges
00:43:25.440 that you came up against? Yeah, I would say the highlight for me of the book is obviously getting
00:43:34.220 to write about something that I love so much and have studied for most of my life in all these
00:43:40.040 different ways. One section of the book in particular was pure joy to write. A lot of it
00:43:47.000 was really, really hard. But there's a chapter about art witches, and in particular, five
00:43:54.800 artists that I identify as witches, Leonora Carrington and Remedios Varro, Pamela Coleman
00:44:01.380 Smith, Hilma Off-Klint, and Georgina Houghton. And it was so exciting to me to finally be able to
00:44:10.740 frame these female artists as types of witches and to talk about creativity and magic and female
00:44:21.220 autonomy and female authorship or visual authorship as all kind of being part of the same
00:44:30.380 thing or you know two sides or maybe that's three sides of the same coin that to me is what gives me
00:44:39.700 I mean, the whole book was difficult, but also it gives me a lot of joy. But that notion in
00:44:46.640 particular, I find to be a really liberating one. The fact that our creative work is our magic when
00:44:53.500 we do it with intention. And, you know, if you're not compelled to cast a spell and light candles
00:44:59.060 and all of that, that's fine. If you're writing a poem or you're being an activist or you're
00:45:05.040 starting a small business, whatever it is, that can be a magical offering too. So that was
00:45:10.780 definitely a highlight talking about art and magic for sure. Oh, yes. Any kind of form of
00:45:16.000 creation is definitely magic making. Yeah. The most challenging thing about writing this book,
00:45:21.860 and I imagine listeners are getting this from hearing me talk about it, is the book is a lot
00:45:29.540 of things. It is a lot of history. It is a lot of pop culture analysis and why are we
00:45:37.860 now celebrating witches so much and why are they popular and what do they mean? You know,
00:45:44.140 that kind of introspection and more broad analysis of this moment in time. It is also a little bit
00:45:52.700 of memoir. And so trying to braid together these three different types of writing was such a
00:46:01.160 challenge, trying to get those levers and levels adjusted well in such a way that hopefully the
00:46:07.360 book is still readable and that they're all flowing into each other instead of being jarring.
00:46:13.860 That was definitely the hardest part. This is like the best alchemy is, you know, when we take
00:46:19.780 things and put them together to make a greater thing also magic right it's part memoir it's
00:46:26.120 part essay it's part research it's part and that and it's it's very readable I think Risa and I
00:46:31.520 you you gave us an advanced copy not that long ago and I think both of us were like yeah yeah
00:46:36.040 you know we'll take a look we'll skim it and both of us ended up just sitting down and reading the
00:46:39.720 entire yeah oh thank you so much that really means a lot it's like it's so readable and so
00:46:46.660 delightful and so exciting and you know just from our own interest in real history and research
00:46:53.040 there's so much good juicy real research that it's not like a slaky story or you know it's not
00:47:02.000 just sort of fairies god bless them they're surrounding me now by this creek but so much
00:47:07.180 good history i'm like i can't wait to go back and dig more into those women's lives in particular 0.99
00:47:12.580 that you shared with us like you will be quoted on multiple future episodes of missing witches
00:47:17.540 risa i was thinking the same thing i was like mentally highlighting it like oh we'll read this
00:47:22.600 we'll wait till it comes out though we don't want to give any spoilers
00:47:26.180 yeah by reading entire chapters well by the time this episode airs it will be out hooray
00:47:34.280 but i do want to just thank you from the bottom of my heart for saying all of that because i
00:47:40.000 respect the both of you so much. And to know that you guys think that it's working, that the weird
00:47:48.240 combination of genre is working, is very affirming for me. Because I have to say, from a practical
00:47:54.440 marketing perspective, my publisher, who has been wonderful, but they've kind of grappled with
00:48:01.860 how to categorize this and how to pitch it, how to market it, really. So I'm really delighted
00:48:09.580 that you think it makes sense thank you oh it makes perfect sense it does and your audience
00:48:15.720 will eat it up oh i hope so you hear that audience get the horse and knives ready
00:48:21.240 yes i know what my sister's getting for christmas this year
00:48:25.540 but i have a very brief yes or no question for you if you don't mind oh please have you seen
00:48:35.140 Jinx Monsoon live yet? I am going in just a few weeks. I'm so excited. I'm losing my mind with
00:48:43.280 joy and anticipation. Yeah, it's everything you want it to be and more. Yeah. Have you seen Jinx
00:48:50.000 Monsoon? Oh, yes. I've seen Miss Jinx Monsoon many several times and I've never, never once been
00:48:56.640 anything less than blown away, thrilled, satisfied, wouldn't cover it, but you're going to have an
00:49:01.980 amazing time and that was one of my favorite episodes i was like in case you guys missed it
00:49:06.920 go check out the episode with jinx monster yes drag is magic everybody i think folks are so sick
00:49:14.300 of hearing me talk about rupaul by now so but it's with good reason you know the the act of
00:49:20.880 building one's identity and playing with one's identity you know which drag highlights so much
00:49:27.760 I think is such an important part of the archetype of the witch. And that's why, you know, getting
00:49:33.560 back to an earlier point we've all been making, people can call themselves a witch or think of
00:49:40.240 themselves as a witch for many different reasons. And that can change over the course of your life.
00:49:46.260 And maybe now you're really into crystals or tarot, you know, maybe you'll never consider
00:49:53.480 yourself pagan or Wiccan, that's fine. Maybe you're not into any of that woo-woo shit, 0.99
00:49:59.860 but you are a badass feminist and you think that the witch is a wonderful symbol for you as a rebel 1.00
00:50:08.400 and as a feminine force that refuses to bow down to patriarchal forces herself. That's all 1.00
00:50:17.420 important and I think it's all really meaningful and worthwhile. 0.98
00:50:20.260 The witch is the ultimate symbol of intersectional feminism. All cultures have witches, and they all represent this iconoclast, strong, independent person. And that's why I think so many of us strong, independent people tend to gravitate to that.
00:50:37.900 absolutely i highlighted this part from your book and i'm gonna print it up and put it on my wall
00:50:44.060 because it speaks to me so much where you say that virgins whores daughters mothers wives each
00:50:50.240 of these is defined by whom she's sleeping with or not the care that she's giving or that is given 1.00
00:50:54.780 to her some sort of symbiotic debt the witch owes nothing and that's what makes her dangerous
00:50:59.720 i love that and then you say that they commune with the spiritual realm freely and free of any
00:51:05.200 mediator. And I think that is so key to why they've been the target of so much oppression
00:51:09.940 and why there's so much power there. You don't need a mediator to have access to your own power.
00:51:16.580 It's such a kick-ass part of your book. I really, really appreciate you sharing it.
00:51:21.240 Oh, thank you so much. And I think that comes through with all the witches that you
00:51:25.660 highlight on your podcast, whether living or in the, in the next realm, you know, these are people
00:51:33.260 who have engaged in risky behavior and most of all the risk is just being themselves right it's
00:51:42.800 trying to live a life of full purpose and intention and often going against the grain
00:51:50.840 because still so many of our religious structures our government structures our business structures 0.98
00:51:57.640 our social structures are head up and controlled by cis, straight, white, I will add often Christian 0.91
00:52:08.920 men. And there's nothing wrong with individuals who might fit that profile. But when that is the
00:52:17.580 only perspective that you have been fed for most of your life, for all of your life, for generations,
00:52:24.920 I believe that it's incredibly destructive and incredibly toxic. 0.68
00:52:29.780 And the witch is one way forward.
00:52:33.360 The witch is one path through that wilderness to make space that is safe and generative and collective and, I believe, thoroughly magical.
00:52:45.520 To make space and to take up space.
00:52:48.260 To allow yourself to take up space, I think, is one of the biggest things, too.
00:52:52.800 Absolutely.
00:52:53.300 Well, speaking of taking up space, I don't want to take up any more of yours.
00:53:00.000 I'm so grateful to you both for making time to interview me, first of all, but also for the love and craft that you put into the Missing Witches podcast.
00:53:12.020 It is so well researched.
00:53:13.640 There's so much heart and brain and spirit, and it's beautifully produced as well.
00:53:19.280 So big, big, big thank you.
00:53:21.780 Thank you so much.
00:53:23.300 and where can people find missing witches all the podcast places
00:53:29.520 missingwitches.com and then uh yeah on instagram at missing witches and then yeah
00:53:36.260 spotify google play uh apple podcasts excellent missingwitches.com
00:53:41.900 excellent that one already yeah and also missingwitches.com
00:53:46.780 also did we say missingwitches.com and also guys missingwitches.com
00:53:52.360 Well, I'm so glad that we found each other. And I wish you just all of the love and creativity
00:54:00.740 and joy that you can possibly muster because you have brought so much of that into my life
00:54:05.960 and my ears. Thank you both again. Thank you. And thanks to your beautiful
00:54:10.100 listeners. We're so happy to be here. That's it for the show. Thank you again to
00:54:16.340 Teresa Dickens, and Amy Torek of the Missing Witches podcast for being so generous, supportive,
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