There Are No Girls on the Internet - April 03, 2024


Andrew Huberman is the internet’s favorite guru. Can we trust him? - CONCLUSION

Andrew Huberman is the internet’s favorite guru. Should we trust him? Pornification of women on Twitch; Baltimore bridge DEI conspiracy; Amazon just walk out stores flop; Ignore your boss’s emails – NEWS ROUNDUP

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00:01:22.300 So this is part two of our episode on Dr. Andrew Huberman.
00:01:26.040 If you have not listened to part one, you're probably going to want to listen to that before you listen to this to have the context.
00:01:32.080 But to recap, Andrew Huberman is a very famous, very popular podcaster and neuroscientist who has been giving guidance to millions of people on how to hack their way to a better life.
00:01:43.940 New York Mag just published a piece with the stories of six women in Dr. Huberman's life who alleged that he mistreated them and also looking at some of his questionable science and ethical practices.
00:01:55.100 like endorsing dubious supplements. I'm joined by my producer, Mike, who is also a scientist
00:02:01.160 to get into why we're all so quick to build up a lot of people into gurus.
00:02:07.080 You and I were talking about this off mic, Mike, weird thing to say, about what exactly you think
00:02:12.940 is going on here, right? So after doing all my research for this episode, I have totally changed
00:02:18.180 my mind. I go back to this episode that we did early in Tangodi's history with Afoma Uzoma,
00:02:25.440 who was formerly of Pinterest. She developed the platform's first ever medical misinformation
00:02:29.680 policy. And in our conversation, she told me that it's really not that deep. Like a lot of the people
00:02:34.860 who push medical misinformation are just scammers, right? They're just using fear or whatever,
00:02:41.220 or like junk science to get people to give them money for whatever scam supplement or scam course
00:02:47.460 they're selling or whatever and i think i'm kind of coming around to the fact that maybe huberman
00:02:52.440 is like a little bit of a scammer like like maybe it's not like like maybe it's not that deep he is
00:02:57.860 just like a snake oil salesman who gets rich from selling snake oil so he is using his scientific
00:03:04.340 credentials to boost that snake oil yeah i agree i think that's a big piece of it here right like
00:03:10.600 Like, it's not in dispute that he is aggressively promoting supplements that do not have evidence base to demonstrate their effectiveness.
00:03:20.460 And he's getting rich off that, right?
00:03:22.720 That's like literally, you know, I guess it's not literally, but it is a direct analogy to selling snake oil.
00:03:32.920 Yeah, good old fashioned scammer.
00:03:33.880 I do think that he's a little bit more interesting or different than a lot of your garden variety scammers, just because he's so much more educated and is like a bona fide scientist making scientific contributions and seems to be a very introspective person.
00:03:53.580 So, like, I'm just so fascinated the story he tells himself to justify selling that snake oil.
00:04:00.260 Well, Andrew Huberman's whole thing is like a storytelling exercise about himself, like a myth making exercise about himself. Like the sort of story that he tells about himself is that he was a troubled kid. His parents handled his divorce in a way that left him neglected and like unparented.
00:04:19.280 His parents kind of dispute that, but whatever. And that he was sent to sort of a facility for
00:04:25.780 troubled youth and that talk therapy is what saved him. And he wanted to dedicate his life
00:04:32.420 to like helping others because of that. And he got into Stanford despite the fact that he was
00:04:37.260 this like troubled youth who was essentially unparented. The piece says, what does seem
00:04:41.880 certain is that in adolescence, Andrew became a regular consumer of talk therapy. In therapy,
00:04:46.480 one learns to tell stories about one's experience.
00:04:49.000 A story one could tell is,
00:04:50.960 I overcame immense odds to be where I am.
00:04:53.560 Another is, the son of a Stanford professor
00:04:56.140 born at Stanford Hospital
00:04:57.700 grows up to be a Stanford professor.
00:05:00.580 Like, I do think that he maybe is somebody who,
00:05:04.300 like we all do in certain effects,
00:05:06.340 but like gets down on the story that he tells himself
00:05:10.400 and that story sort of becomes the truth.
00:05:12.700 And so maybe the story that he tells himself,
00:05:14.620 like the story that I tell myself
00:05:16.200 when I have to do ad reads is like, if I didn't do these ad reads, the people who make my podcast
00:05:22.680 would not be able to be paid. I would not be able to be paid. The show would not be able to go on.
00:05:26.900 And so that's the story I tell myself when I'm doing ad reads for our sponsors, all of whom I
00:05:32.220 love and respect very much. But I think that's the story that I have to tell myself to feel okay
00:05:38.340 about doing these ad reads, even though nobody likes ads. I think it's different when you are
00:05:42.900 a scientist telling yourself a story that makes it okay to use your credentials as a scientist
00:05:49.260 to maybe lead people into things that are risky.
00:05:52.660 Yeah, especially when you are publicly preaching introspection and discipline and accountability.
00:06:00.000 Those all seem like virtues that maybe he should take a deeper look at.
00:06:04.420 Yeah, this is kind of going off script here.
00:06:06.680 But like you were saying how the popular guru who doesn't take their own advice and is not living the values that they preach in public, that is such a well-worn thing that it's almost a cliche at this point.
00:06:19.560 I wonder what it is about Huberman that makes it so hard to see this well-worn trope playing out before our eyes.
00:06:31.580 Because I think that's in part kind of what's going on here with Huberman.
00:06:34.920 But it's so interesting to me how people are like, but he's a scientist, but he's introspective, but he's very thoughtful. He's different. Maybe it's just the power of marketing, the power, how people really want to believe that what he's doing is so much different than the Dr. Oz's of the world because of the way he packages it so effectively as being different.
00:06:53.700 Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. I haven't listened to his podcast, but, you know, in the research for doing doing this, you know, I read a couple articles that were talking about it and all of them mentioned when he's interviewing guests or speaking in public.
00:07:12.680 you know, it's characterized by humility and kindness and compassion. And I could imagine
00:07:19.060 that all of those would be things that would disarm a audience and make them feel like the
00:07:27.040 person could be trusted, right? And feel more connected to them. Like, humility is super
00:07:33.100 powerful. But even that reminds me of the way these women say that he used that same kind of
00:07:41.600 language to control them. You know, that's sort of like, like at one point when one of the women
00:07:47.180 realizes that he cheated on her, he texts her like something along the lines of, I hear you
00:07:52.560 and I'm willing to hear you for as long as you need, which again, it's almost like therapy speak
00:07:58.860 to get away with bad behavior. And I wonder if that's part of it, like using a certain kind of
00:08:04.040 disarming language and disarming presentation and disarming, you know, vibe to really affect
00:08:11.520 effectively trick people into trusting you and to trick them into not seeing what is so obviously
00:08:18.080 in front of their own eyes or happening in their own ears. Some of this stuff is not in dispute.
00:08:24.020 It's not in dispute that he takes money from supplement companies. It's not in dispute that
00:08:28.140 supplement companies are notoriously not transparent and rely on junk science, if any
00:08:34.320 science at all. Those things are not in dispute. So the fact that people are like, no, he would
00:08:38.680 never it's like he would not dispute that that is what's happening yeah it's a good question what
00:08:43.000 is it about him that makes people like him and want to follow his advice but clearly he's done
00:08:49.600 very well at it and i think it is an important question for us all to consider i think part of
00:08:56.560 it's gotta be that he's hot probably helps like he's like jacked he has glasses like i don't know
00:09:01.780 like i think he's someone that maybe a lot of the male listeners in his audience want to see
00:09:08.140 themselves in like who would not want to be like oh yeah i'm this like jacked ripped guy who has
00:09:13.880 glasses but is also a scientist and like can maybe juggle women in an unethical way like i think that
00:09:19.280 men are identifying with him in a certain way and that is maybe making it hard for them to see
00:09:25.700 what is happening so plainly right out and open yeah that's a good point yeah there's a lot of
00:09:31.760 ways in which the life he's leading feels aspirational. I completely agree. So Dr. Andrea
00:09:38.800 Love, her piece just makes him sound like a good old-fashioned scammer. Again, I will link to it
00:09:44.360 in the show notes. You should definitely read it. So she points out that he is somebody who uses
00:09:48.360 dubious science to put people off of accepted medical interventions like fluoride or vaccines,
00:09:54.680 even when there is broad medical consensus about it in service of suggesting an alternative that
00:10:00.680 he has a financial stake in. So Dr. Love says that Huberman uses false balance, the fallacy that
00:10:06.160 equal and opposite sides always exist. Take his thoughts on fluoride. While fluoride has been
00:10:11.520 used for decades to prevent dental disease, Huberman gives the impression that there is an
00:10:15.620 ongoing debate among experts about its use and reasons for his listeners to be careful about how
00:10:20.280 much fluoride-containing tap water they consume. During his Oral Health podcast episode, Huberman
00:10:25.700 undermines consensus data on fluoride, endorses fluoride-free toothpastes, as well as a Yerba
00:10:30.680 Mate tea company that uses fluoride-free water, and which he is a business partner of, and cites
00:10:35.820 a dentist who spreads fear about fluoride as his expert reference. Huberman positions this for his
00:10:41.660 listeners as information to make the best decision, as though we all need to be carefully thinking
00:10:46.440 about our fluoride levels. Yeah, again, cherry-picking. Here it sounds like he cherry-picked
00:10:50.700 particular expert who has an ax to grind about fluoride while ignoring the vast majority of
00:10:57.860 dentists who are in consensus that fluoride is a positive thing to promote oral health.
00:11:04.500 And when we were talking about his cold and flu episode, where he was talking about how he doesn't
00:11:08.220 always get the flu shot because it is not effective unless the shot protects from that exact strain of
00:11:14.180 flu going around that year, which is not totally accurate. You were like, well, why would he do
00:11:18.500 that? What does he have to gain in discrediting vaccines? And again, if you believe Dr. Andrea
00:11:23.320 Love, it comes down to those supplements that he sells. Having a paid sponsor is not a disqualifier
00:11:28.780 in and of itself, she writes, but when your financial conflicts of interest seem to dictate
00:11:32.700 your content, it should be. After dismissing legitimate data in the flu episode, his lengthy
00:11:38.360 quote, science-backed discussion to prevent colds and flu boiled down to an extended commercial
00:11:43.880 for taking supplements. So all of me has me wondering, which I think is the point of the
00:11:49.020 New York Mag piece, why do we look to anybody for their life advice? Why do we make people
00:11:54.260 into gurus in the first place? It does not surprise me that Huberman really got famous,
00:11:59.480 famous in the 2021 era of COVID. We were all sort of alone and disconnected and looking for
00:12:06.480 some solution or some antidote to that. You weren't sleeping well, you weren't eating well,
00:12:11.040 maybe like the vibes were terrible. So in a lot of way, I think the public, we were just like
00:12:16.380 easy marks during that time. Yep. Just a bunch of dupes with money.
00:12:21.680 Yeah. Looking for a quick fix. Yep. Rude looking for a solution. 0.79
00:12:27.040 And you and I kind of talked about this off mic, but it's one of the reasons why
00:12:31.200 like life advice content, like I'm not somebody who really, unless I'm really having a dark time
00:12:38.400 of desperation. I'm not someone who listens to lifestyle or life advice podcasts. I don't like
00:12:46.780 career advice podcasts. I just don't like this idea that one person has a one-size-fits-all
00:12:53.080 solution. This is my opinion. I don't think life works that way. I think people are really complex.
00:12:57.180 People have very complex motivations and desires and needs and hang-ups. I don't see how a stranger
00:13:02.500 could speak to that in any way that is effective. I'm not saying that anybody should like,
00:13:07.500 Like you're a bad person if you listen to that. I just feel like anybody who is like wearing a blazer and crossing their arms and being like, I have the answer. Something in me automatically is like suspect of that.
00:13:18.340 I 100% agree. Yeah, anybody who says that they have the answer, huge red flag. And I'm somebody who loves learning from people. There are so many smart people in the world who have insight, who have wisdom, who talk about interesting philosophical and ethical questions that help me understand the world and help me decide how to live my life.
00:13:43.980 But I feel like there's a very fine line where that crosses over into solutions and therefore you should do XYZ. You should buy this supplement. You should adopt my patented life routine. Once they start hawking a specific solution, that red flag gets a little bit higher. And then when that solution is something that you can buy, it's time for me to walk away.
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00:14:15.440 You've lost me.
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00:16:07.360 you get your podcasts. See you between the pages. And we're back. I think we're kind of in a golden
00:16:20.600 age of the snake oil salesman who can use digital mediums like podcasts or social media to
00:16:28.100 demonstrate that they have it all figured out, that they had the kind of life that is aspirational
00:16:33.640 that you would want to live. It's basically how MLMs operate of like, my life looks dope as hell
00:16:39.420 on Instagram. Don't you want to live like I do? If you buy this thing, you can. And so I think 0.60
00:16:46.220 that we're kind of in a golden era of coaches and lifestyle gurus and wellness people and
00:16:55.060 people selling courses just like, and I'm not saying all of those are bunk because I certainly
00:17:00.400 don't know. But I think that we're in an era where people are looking for a solution to the
00:17:06.880 way that things feel right now. And there's always going to be somebody willing to take
00:17:12.060 their money offering that solution. And we got to be extra careful about who and why we elevate
00:17:18.580 to that platform. I think you're absolutely right. And I think that really intersects with
00:17:25.640 the fact that he is a scientist and that, you know, speaking from science is part of his brand
00:17:33.140 on the podcast. You know, he's somebody who looks really good on videos, looks good on Instagram,
00:17:38.980 is good at managing social media, can build this following, leads this like aspirational,
00:17:44.620 cool looking life, which makes people want to emulate him. And if he's giving advice,
00:17:51.480 it's reasonable to think that, oh, if I take that advice, my life could look like his.
00:17:55.020 So the things that he's saying must be true because his life looks pretty good.
00:17:59.460 He's healthy. He's wealthy. He's sleeping with a bunch of women.
00:18:02.180 But that's so different from how evidence gets evaluated in science.
00:18:05.660 You look at evidence, you look at multiple studies.
00:18:09.140 Do they agree? Do they disagree?
00:18:11.340 Look across the balance of all of the evidence to reach conclusions based on the evidence that's there in a transparent evaluation of the methods that were used to create those conclusions.
00:18:21.640 It's much more boring than an Instagram reel or a YouTube video, but that's how scientific conclusions get reached. And I think that's maybe why it's so easy and feels so dangerous for people who have scientific authority due to their institutional positions and just take that over to Instagram and popular culture to start dispensing advice that is not within their area of expertise.
00:18:50.700 Yes. And I think that like that's the real scandal that I think the piece is trying to highlight. The scandal is not to me like how he treated women badly in his personal life. It is that he enjoys this pedestal of like men of science and knowledge and enjoys all of the respect that comes with that while also behaving in ways that are like really small and like maybe unethical and maybe like anti-science.
00:19:16.500 He wasn't trying to unlock the science of all of us living our best lives. Maybe he was a little bit, but it sounds like it was also an enterprise to personally enrich himself, get in control women, and have fame. Like I said, small. That's not a super respectable man of science behavior. That is like small man driven by desire and vice behavior.
00:19:42.100 Yeah. I mean, if you were to, you know, take a stoic approach to it, one should be leading a virtuous life. And none of those things sound very virtuous.
00:19:51.420 Ultimately, nobody likes to pursue vice and hedonism and desire more than your girl right here. So I'm not judging, but to create an entire platform around the importance of discipline and avoiding this and avoiding that, while you are privately courting your version of those things yourself.
00:20:12.400 Like, I don't think he's somebody who was, like, preaching not drinking and then drinking alcohol, but he is somebody who preaches, like, avoid dopamine and then, like, clearly has these, like, dopamine-driven relationships with women that are very chaotic based on lies.
00:20:24.940 Like, I think that's the scandal.
00:20:27.100 The writer Justin Murphy put it really beautifully on Twitter.
00:20:29.720 He writes,
00:20:30.060 the Huberman story is not altogether trivial. The smartest men in every generation of Western
00:20:35.360 history have generally converged on the idea that knowledge and cultivation involve a certain
00:20:40.180 conquest of the appetites. Obviously, men who are successful economically and socially are free to
00:20:45.620 indulge their appetites and often do. The story is not surprising or informative if you already
00:20:50.560 had Huberman pegged as playing primarily an economic and social game. The story is surprising
00:20:55.640 and damning if you saw him as playing a game of knowledge and cultivation. It is not, therefore,
00:21:01.060 a totally vacuous story, as many seem to be saying. In the eyes of any classically educated observer,
00:21:07.040 it is a precipitous fall in the stock price of rationalist, materialist, utilitarian frameworks
00:21:12.520 for living. For many people, Huberman was not just a purveyor of useful information,
00:21:17.400 but an image of wisdom, an image of a cultivated man. No longer, obviously, except for the most
00:21:22.900 naive. You can know everything there is to know about the body and have all the followers in the
00:21:27.320 world and not exceed the wisdom of the average 25-year-old man. The scandal of the story is not
00:21:32.840 Huberman's immorality, which is common and generic. The scandal is ethical. Someone who is famous for
00:21:38.280 having tremendous knowledge of how to live does not himself live in a beautiful way.
00:21:43.640 Common and generic. That's got to sting.
00:21:46.900 Yeah. I mean, I guess that's the disconnect that people want to see Huberman as this
00:21:51.300 learned man of science and knowledge and cultivation which is so high-minded and like elevated in 0.99
00:21:57.300 reality he's trying to get a check and get his dick wet like that like that is like generic and 0.98
00:22:02.200 small-minded i could tell you a thousand other men i know who are the same way trying to get the 0.99
00:22:06.140 same shit it's not like i'm not trying to demonize him for it but let's call it what it is and like 0.97
00:22:11.120 i think from the article that is like plainly what it is and i guess ultimately the question 0.99
00:22:16.200 is like, does this matter? Here's where the New York mag piece leaves it. There is an argument to
00:22:21.300 be made that it does not matter how a helpful podcaster conducts himself outside of the studio.
00:22:26.220 A man unable to constrain his urges may still preach dopaminergic control to others.
00:22:31.380 Morning Sun still remains salutary. The physiological sigh employed by this writer
00:22:36.280 many times in the writing of this essay continues to affect calm. That's one of his
00:22:41.080 trademark tactics is a specific side that's supposed to calm you down.
00:22:45.360 The large and growing distance between Andrew Huberman and the man he continues to be
00:22:49.820 may not even matter to those who buy questionable products he has recommended
00:22:53.580 and from which he will materially benefit, or listeners who imagined a man in a white coat
00:22:58.560 at work in Palo Alto. The people who definitively find the space between fantasy and reality to be
00:23:04.720 a problem are women who fell for a podcaster who professed deep, sustained concern for their
00:23:10.220 personal growth, and who, in his skyrocketing influence, continue to project an image of
00:23:15.780 earnest self-discovery. It is here, in the false belief of two minds in synchronicity
00:23:20.520 and exploration, that deception leads to harm. They fear it will lead to more.
00:23:25.860 So yeah, what a piece, beautifully written. And I think that's kind of the so what. These women
00:23:32.040 are just raising the alarm that this guy who is trafficking off his scientific credentials
00:23:36.920 is maybe actually not who he says he is.
00:23:41.880 And the public should know if he's going to be a guru,
00:23:44.620 there should be some transparency around that.
00:23:46.860 Yeah.
00:23:47.300 You know, anybody who stands up and says, I have the answer,
00:23:52.240 it is reasonable to inspect how they live their life.
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00:25:59.480 So a lot of Huberman supporters are really digging in and defending him.
00:26:04.600 Maybe those are just the loudest ones.
00:26:06.120 Maybe people who were like casual listeners of his podcast are like, I don't know, like
00:26:10.480 that article seemed fair.
00:26:11.640 Who cares?
00:26:14.000 It is so interesting, really, because, you know, I wonder if a lot of the people who
00:26:18.480 listen to Huberman really identified with him or maybe his lifestyle was like really
00:26:23.320 aspirational to them and so when he is being called out in this way maybe they feel personally
00:26:29.340 threatened and that is why they are coming to his defense so specifically like Lex Friedman was like
00:26:34.880 he is a personal friend of mine and this is a hit job again I was not able to read Lex Friedman's
00:26:41.040 entire statement because he has me blocked but this idea that because you are a listener of
00:26:44.840 his podcast or even like Lex like you know him personally that you would know the intimacies of
00:26:49.700 his like romantic life and how he shows up sexually and romantically like I have plenty of close
00:26:53.920 friends and I don't know the ins and outs of how they get down sexually and romantically and I would
00:26:58.180 never I would never pretend that I did right like I find it really interesting how many people are
00:27:04.200 so loudly coming to his defense like I follow and enjoy plenty of podcasters that I don't personally
00:27:11.160 know there is not one of them that I can think of that I would read like a long critical deep dive
00:27:17.440 into their work and their history and their values, that I wouldn't come away thinking like,
00:27:21.640 oh, maybe they had a few points. To see people summarily dismissing this as a hit job to defend
00:27:26.920 Huberman like he is someone they know. And it's interesting how this has become this kind of
00:27:31.680 culture wars thing where it's like, oh, they're just attacking him for no reason. And I'm not
00:27:38.160 even going to like, it's all bunk, right? And so like, they're not even engaging with the pieces
00:27:43.960 of the article that are not about his romantic life. The way that he talked about that colleague
00:27:49.040 of his that was a woman, that's not about his romantic life. His relationship with AG1 and
00:27:53.620 supplements, that's not about his romantic life. The questions about his own myth-making
00:27:57.880 and his background, that's not about his romantic life. Are those not questions that
00:28:02.720 need answers and deserve scrutiny for somebody who is bolstering themselves as a public guru?
00:28:07.600 Yeah, it's not surprising that it has sort of been framed and is being talked about as yet another culture war of us versus them.
00:28:16.800 I think another lens that we can look at it is earlier we made an analogy to conspiracy theories where his scientific rationale behind this or that solution is often like cherry picked.
00:28:29.760 It'll be like a germ of truth in there, but then build this elaborate just so story around it that it sounds like in a lot of cases leads to the conclusion that you should buy some product that he's selling.
00:28:40.100 And similarly here, his followers, I suspect a lot of them are true believers when confronted with a critical piece like this New York Mag article, just reject it. Right. The same way that when you present somebody who believes in a conspiracy theory with evidence that refused that conspiracy, they will, in most cases, just double down. And the conflicting evidence is somehow reinterpreted in a way that makes them believe in the conspiracy even more strongly. It feels like there's something similar going on here as well.
00:29:08.720 Well, I can tell you who a lot of his defenders are saying is behind this hit piece. Big Pharma. Big Pharma doesn't like that Andrew Huberman is preaching the powers of meditation and sunlight and ice baths and supplements. They want us all hooked on the Big Pharma machine. And that's why New York Mag is like writing this like well-researched, well-written takedown of his life.
00:29:36.080 Yeah, they're just a front for big pharma. I'm no big fan of the pharmaceutical industry. They do lots of pretty shady, harmful stuff, no question. But in this case, yes, dismissing this piece as a hit piece by big pharma, I feel like George Soros is just one step away in that causal chain of dismissive logic.
00:30:01.500 Oh, totally. And side note, I feel like whenever this is a hit piece, an attack job by Big Pharma, whenever that is the go-to line of defense, it really tells me a lot about the audience that the person has cultivated.
00:30:14.860 Because that was the same thing that they used to defend Joe Rogan when people like me were pointing out his use of misinformation in the podcast space.
00:30:23.540 They were like, oh, like, he isn't down with the COVID vaccine.
00:30:27.560 He's interested in alternatives to curb COVID.
00:30:30.660 So Big Pharma had to take him down.
00:30:32.880 I feel like that tells me so much about the audience that you have cultivated and what they are about and what they value, what they don't value.
00:30:39.780 Yeah, because it's not just listen to me.
00:30:41.440 I have the answer.
00:30:42.280 It's also, don't listen to anybody else.
00:30:45.040 They're trying to deceive you.
00:30:46.860 And anybody who says anything critical about what this person is saying, they're not just
00:30:51.020 wrong.
00:30:51.820 They are like in the pocket of big pharma.
00:30:54.680 Again, it's that total conspiratorial thinking that it's like, they don't just have a difference
00:30:58.360 of opinion.
00:30:59.200 It's like a nefarious plot.
00:31:01.780 So in the fallout of all of this, people are really trying to come for the person who wrote
00:31:07.460 the article, who is New York mag writer, Carrie Howley, who I love Carrie's writing. Like if you
00:31:13.620 ever see a deep dive written by Carrie, go ahead and click it immediately. One of those writers 0.99
00:31:18.040 that if anybody ever calls me and is like, I'm fact checking a piece by Carrie Howley. I'd like
00:31:22.460 to ask you a few questions. I will be very concerned. Yeah. But can confirm it is so well
00:31:29.740 written. It was like a joy to read, even like setting the content aside, just the, the prose,
00:31:36.200 the writing. It was refreshing. It was really nice. Yeah, totally agreed. So I hate to see
00:31:41.860 Kerry being attacked in this way. Huberman retained the crisis PR firm called Scale Strategy.
00:31:47.700 Fun fact, Scale Strategy is brought to us by one of the guys who handled the disastrous
00:31:52.740 WeWork IPO and was fired soon after. So one of the folks who might be on Huberman's crisis PR
00:32:00.960 campaign to navigate the fallout of this article. Something else I have seen is that a lot of his
00:32:06.580 loudest defenders are saying, well, if Huberman has been juggling hot women this effectively,
00:32:13.240 it means that the methods that he preaches on the podcast must be effective. He's really a
00:32:18.740 masculine guy. They're applauding what he has been accused of doing. And that makes him more
00:32:26.240 likable in their eyes. And that is what I mean. Like, that's the thing that I think that we're
00:32:30.700 not coming right out and saying directly. I think that casual misogyny and sexism and gaslighting
00:32:36.880 women and demanding submission of women, I think all of this stuff isn't something that the audience
00:32:43.980 that he has cultivated isn't all bothered by. In fact, quite the opposite. I think to them, 0.53
00:32:48.920 this is a feature, not a bug. I think that they like this. I think that the way he is accused
00:32:53.940 of treating these women is not removed from the content that he makes on the podcast. I think it's
00:33:00.200 all one big, intricate quilt. And I think it's all related. Yeah. And the fact that they aren't
00:33:09.180 more bothered by the deception that is at the very root of it is worrisome and unfortunate.
00:33:15.720 You know, people can have different ideas about what dating and relationships and life should
00:33:22.120 look like. But I feel like most people that I know in my personal life, even people who like have
00:33:27.980 different political and social views than me, most people agree that deception is bad and you
00:33:33.080 shouldn't use it. And it feels like there's something going on where public figures get a
00:33:39.780 pass on that, that people would not allow peers or acquaintances in their everyday life.
00:33:46.200 Oh, my gosh. I mean, I would argue that we are kind of in a golden era of scammers where people are willing to close their eyes to the way that the people that they follow, the people that they have upheld as aspirational, they are very willing to close their eyes to the way that those people are moving right in front of their faces in a way that is deceptive.
00:34:08.680 This is a weird analogy, but there's this young Black Mormon trad wife influencer who is really famous for making videos of her baking in ballgowns to show off how much money she has, like shopping and blah, blah, blah. 0.59
00:34:24.780 And I got into an argument on threads with somebody, another Black woman, about this. 0.64
00:34:29.020 And she was like, people are hating on her because they hate to see a Black woman live a life of luxury.
00:34:34.180 and like that's what she's doing and she's like being a good mom and people just hate to see that
00:34:38.200 when it's a black woman and I was like well I'm a black woman and I don't hate to see that but this 0.64
00:34:41.620 woman is a content creator the whole thing is like artifice to make her money this isn't just 0.98
00:34:47.420 how she lives her life it's by nature performative so like I wasn't like getting down on this woman 1.00
00:34:52.840 but I was just saying like let's be honest that this woman is a content creator she is setting 1.00
00:34:56.680 up a tripod and lighting and wearing a specific outfit to do something performative to make money 1.00
00:35:02.040 That's just what it is. 1.00
00:35:02.960 And you would have thought that I called this woman a bad name. 1.00
00:35:06.600 She was like, how dare you say that? 0.99
00:35:08.160 And I was like, it's obviously performative.
00:35:10.680 I don't even think that the woman in the videos would be like, oh, this is a realistic depiction of my life as someone who makes food for my kids.
00:35:18.640 Like, I just couldn't believe that an adult would be so willing to play into the scam that is so obviously unfolding in front of her.
00:35:26.880 Not to say this woman is scamming, but I was surprised to see an adult unwilling or unable to call this what it was, a money-making enterprise.
00:35:37.100 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:35:38.400 I do, yeah.
00:35:39.740 Like, why was it so important to her that this woman be deemed authentic and not performative?
00:35:45.420 What is lost if you acknowledge the obvious truth that this is a performance to make money? 0.74
00:35:50.920 Yeah, it's a good question.
00:35:52.320 And maybe one for another episode.
00:35:56.880 so bridget i know that you like this story really got you you read a bunch of stuff you uh kept
00:36:09.600 writing and writing and writing and writing uh and thank you for doing all that let's land this
00:36:14.900 plane and bring it home what is it about this story that really speaks to you i think the story
00:36:19.680 speaks to me for a lot of reasons. I think the response, it demonstrates how siloed and how
00:36:28.340 charged everything is that you can't even deal with this story on its merits or pick out the
00:36:36.560 pieces that you might think like, oh, well, that could be something. That the only way that people
00:36:40.700 who are detractors of it can engage with it is as a hit job. Two, this is maybe so petty, but
00:36:47.000 Like, it bums me out that this is what the podcast space looks like sometimes.
00:36:51.040 That it's like, it's such a space where through marketing and a certain kind of language and appeal, people can really build huge, powerful platforms that maybe when you look a little closer are not so great.
00:37:06.640 And maybe you look even closer, maybe they're a little bit dangerous.
00:37:10.180 And so I think that's my main takeaway is that I think that we all deserve good content.
00:37:15.960 Like, if you care about what you put in your body, part of that, I think, is that we deserve, like, good information. And we deserve good information from people who are not liars. And it sounds like from reading this piece that Huberman might be somebody who is so invested in personal myth-making and brand building and enrichment that he might be someone who is at risk for their platform causing some harm.
00:37:44.900 And I think we got to look out for that.
00:37:47.460 Yeah, totally agree.
00:37:49.840 Well, Mike, you were in the document, my research document.
00:37:52.840 When you saw it, it was five pages long.
00:37:54.720 And then when you clicked in this morning, you were like, oh, it's 11 pages now.
00:37:56.960 I could have kept going.
00:37:59.200 Thank you for diving into all of this with me.
00:38:02.180 And listeners, I want to hear your thoughts.
00:38:04.260 Are you a Huberman husband or someone, a follower of Daddy Huberman?
00:38:09.240 That's what they call him on TikTok.
00:38:10.620 I want to know.
00:38:11.500 You can hit us up at hello at tangody.com.
00:38:13.100 Yeah, I'm also so curious. If you listen to our show and you also listen to Huberman's show, we would love to hear your take. I know that there's a lot of good people who get a lot of value out of his content. And so we'd just love to hear your take about this. Please let us know.
00:38:29.960 Agree. Hit us up.
00:38:31.380 Thanks for having me, Bridget.
00:38:32.320 Thanks, Mike.
00:38:37.080 Got a story about an interesting thing in tech or just want to say hi? You can reach us at hello at tangody.com.
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