There Are No Girls on the Internet - February 20, 2026


Chris Pratt Is Hawking an Anti-Abortion Prayer App; Elon's Grok Is Doxxing Women; DOGE Bros Let ChatGPT Do Their Job; Trump’s Big DEI Loss – NEWS ROUNDUP

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00:02:06.400 Yeah, this is just like the banter between Chris Pratt and Mark Wahlberg on the Hello app.
00:02:15.140 The Hello app is wild to me.
00:02:18.280 So it is a prayer app where celebrities like Mark Wahlberg, like Chris Pratt is the newest one this week.
00:02:26.460 Gwen Stefani are basically hawking.
00:02:29.180 It is a prayer app for Catholics.
00:02:31.580 I knew about Gwen Stefani because I had seen that a while ago.
00:02:35.600 I did not know about Mark Wahlberg, although that totally tracks.
00:02:39.460 Is he also a celebrity affiliated with this Catholic prayer app?
00:02:43.680 He's in there, yeah.
00:02:44.660 He's actually a major investor and partner.
00:02:48.220 Oh, that makes so much sense.
00:02:49.800 I was actually watching, for some reason, him on The View on Wednesday morning, which was Ash Wednesday.
00:02:56.040 Obviously, he had to book an interview to talk about any random thing just to show off his ashes.
00:03:02.680 I went to Catholic school.
00:03:03.620 I have had my fair share of Ash Wednesday ashes smudged on my forehead. Back when I would get
00:03:10.660 it, it would just be like a little smudge that would be gone. You would get it during mass and
00:03:15.180 it would be gone by lunchtime. Mark Wahlberg's ashes look like somebody put grease paint on
00:03:21.220 his forehead. I think that they're doing the ashes more intense so that notable Catholics can go on 1.00
00:03:27.440 tv and have their faith be this big large badge on their forehead i think he booked an interview
00:03:34.680 to talk about any random thing just so that he would have an opportunity to show off these ashes
00:03:38.780 so yeah not surprising that mark walberg is pulling out the big guns to promote the halo app
00:03:44.340 i was curious so i created an account logged in uh and it was a pretty long onboarding he asked
00:03:52.180 me a bunch of questions about myself uh had a couple choice quotes from various saints and
00:04:00.460 disciples uh and then it asked it invited me to select the uh what was a celebrity guides that
00:04:08.340 i wanted to hear from mark walberg was like top left guide to choose did you choose him number
00:04:14.220 one position of course i did i mean i knew you would be interested and want me to report back
00:04:19.440 about your boyfriend oh shut up i was a kid okay listeners mike is teasing me because he knows a
00:04:27.260 shameful secret of mine which i will reveal but please don't tell anybody this is just between 0.89
00:04:32.520 me mike joey who edits this and i guess whoever is listening which is that when i when i was young
00:04:39.960 i had such the hots for mark walberg i had a marky mark you might be too young to know this
00:04:47.100 Merck Wahlberg used to be Marky Mark with the Funky Bunch.
00:04:51.700 That was his group, which was awful.
00:04:53.320 But I had one of his Calvin Klein posters on my wall when I was a kid.
00:04:57.700 I used to write him letters.
00:04:59.480 I was so obsessed with him.
00:05:00.520 I thought he was so hot.
00:05:01.920 This is when I was a child, by the way.
00:05:04.060 So not currently, not now.
00:05:06.740 I know exactly the poster that you're talking about.
00:05:10.360 I feel like I knew a lot of girls who had that poster on their walls.
00:05:15.440 There was a movie that Mark Wahlberg was in that it's called Fear. There is a specific scene from the movie Fear that let's just say it really made an impression on me when I saw it when I was like 11. And I what can I say? I have terrible taste. What can I say? But I guess it doesn't surprise me now. Like Mark Wahlberg is a scumbag for so many reasons. We could talk so much about all the scumbag stuff.
00:05:42.860 I know that he is a famous Catholic. 0.99
00:05:46.140 Hello, this app, this faith-based prayer app for Catholics, fun fact, funded by Trump-supporting 0.98
00:05:52.740 evil gay billionaire Peter Thiel and also J.D. Vance, our backers of this app, here is how 0.54
00:06:00.960 them described it.
00:06:03.260 Though prayer is famously free, the app is a subscription-based service that charges $70
00:06:08.640 dollars per year for an annual plan or eleven dollars a month for a monthly option that is a
00:06:14.780 lot of money to pray they better they better have some some primo voice talent on there for those
00:06:19.640 prices yeah and i had to buy the subscription to get in there which i did immediately cancel but
00:06:25.400 it was going to be uh you know i think 69.99 for the year was what they were going to bill me if
00:06:31.700 i didn't cancel which is it's a lot to to pray i don't know how much of that makes its way to god
00:06:36.480 how much of it makes its way to god how much of it makes its way to mark walberg chris pratt
00:06:42.900 and gwen stefani even on the catholic subreddit on reddit a place where catholics gather people
00:06:50.260 are very skeptical about this app that is charging that amount of money just to pray
00:06:54.380 and basically they're also kind of skeptical about what they call these influential catholics
00:07:00.120 being used as a marketing opportunity the general consensus over there is this the whole thing just
00:07:05.780 feels like turning people's legitimate faith into a cash grab. And Mashable reports that the CEO,
00:07:13.700 Alex Jones, no, not that Alex Jones, a different Alex Jones, is on the record saying that they're
00:07:19.560 courting famous religious celebrities. So that is part of their thing. They've done partnerships with
00:07:25.420 Wahlberg, as you said, Chris Pratt, newly this week, he released a video about this app,
00:07:31.100 Hollywood icon Mario Lopez, which again, I don't know that I should say that I am shocked to hear
00:07:37.620 some of these names, but the founder says that he's doing this as a way to reach fallen away
00:07:41.920 Catholics or those who are not particularly religious on the social media platforms they
00:07:47.460 frequent most. They're just incredible Christians. They're great people of faith, Jones said.
00:07:52.360 That actually is interesting to me that they're not going after people who might consider themselves
00:07:57.520 as like deeply religious they're just you know you're just scrolling social media and you
00:08:01.840 have a particular fondness for mark walberg unfortunately like me you might say oh what
00:08:09.080 is this app maybe i'll pay a hundred dollars a year to pray one of the other celebrities they
00:08:13.900 talked about reaching out to work with is kevin james paul blurt mall cop
00:08:19.340 oh man mike's boyfriend yeah but i could see how that might pull me in i i had never considered
00:08:29.160 paul blart malcop's views about theology and the divine you know i might be curious to hear what
00:08:36.180 he had to say but i probably wouldn't pay for it you know like i i do feel like there's something
00:08:40.800 a little sus about putting up a paywall between people and the divine right like and it just
00:08:50.540 seems like a bit of a red flag oh jesus notably loved a paywall you know that was like one of
00:08:55.720 his famous sayings in the bible is that'll be eleven dollars a month please right yeah yeah 1.00
00:09:03.440 That's why he went into the temple and the money changers and was like, make sure you have a good system for only allowing people with money to get in here because we don't want those riffraff. 0.99
00:09:18.140 Make sure this whole thing is backed by Peter Thiel's capital. 1.00
00:09:21.080 That is in the Bible.
00:09:23.320 So when Gwen Stefani last year was hawking this app, one of my favorite people, or not that I know this person, but one of my favorite parasocial podcasters, Matt Bernstein, from the podcast A Little Bit Fruity, pointed out that the app is not just prayers.
00:09:41.380 They also have, I guess I would describe them as almost sort of mean prayers, specifically targeted at people who have gotten abortions.
00:09:51.820 These prayers are read by people like anti-abortion activist Lila Rose.
00:09:56.520 One of the prayers is, Jesus, we pray for every woman who is considering abortion and in a special way for those who are pregnant from acts of rape or incest.
00:10:05.520 Every woman know the goodness, gift and beauty of her own life and so be able to receive the gift of her child's life.
00:10:13.220 What I find interesting about this is that Alex Jones, the CEO of the app, was like, oh, we're not even targeting people who are religious.
00:10:20.840 This is just like content. It's interesting to me how, when convenient, this is able to sort of be couched as nonpolitical, not even necessarily overtly religious.
00:10:34.040 Then you get into the app and it's like these abortion having women to just have the baby. Am I right, people? 0.58
00:10:41.560 Yeah. Funny how they always just like kind of sneak that in.
00:10:44.740 This is me revealing how Pollyanna I am. I'm a little bit, I was a little bit surprised about Gwen Stefani on this one, based purely on the Girl Power songs that she was making when I was in sixth grade. I think maybe adulthood is about, is like learning who people actually are. You know, when you're a kid, you just, you decide who somebody is, you project who they are, and then you're like, oh, this is who they actually are.
00:11:06.640 I also remember not that long ago, I don't know if this is true or not, but reading that Gwen Stefani had put out a holiday album that was available to buy exclusively at Cracker Barrel, which I feel said a lot.
00:11:18.040 That was true, but I don't remember it being a holiday album.
00:11:21.920 I guess it wasn't her solo album, but she's featured on Blake Shelton's 2016 album, If I'm Honest, which was sold at Cracker Barrel locations.
00:11:33.900 Blake Shelton is her husband.
00:11:35.820 What is this Cracker Barrel collab couple? 0.85
00:11:40.120 A CCC.
00:11:41.160 This is back before Cracker Barrel went woke, too.
00:11:43.480 So it was acceptable for them to be there.
00:11:45.740 Pre-logo change Cracker Barrel. 1.00
00:11:47.980 You know, so I'm a little disappointed to find that Gwen Stefani is mixed up in this.
00:11:53.560 I shouldn't be, but, you know, she was somebody who I liked as a youth quite a bit.
00:11:57.680 But Chris Pratt, nobody is surprised this week to find that Chris Pratt made an ad for this prayer app. You know, I was really having a big think about it, about what it is about Chris Pratt, why it is that I, that not just me, but like people dislike him.
00:12:16.080 Also, I do love that our super producer, Joey, their last name is Pat. The first time that Joey and I spoke, I was like, oh, Joey Pratt. And they were like, actually, it's a Pat. Actually, my whole social media vibe is Pat, not Pratt, to distinguish from Chris Pratt, which I respect immensely.
00:12:35.380 but that's how much people don't want to be associated with Chris Pratt and I don't know I
00:12:41.680 was thinking what the deal is obviously Chris Pratt really hangs out a lot with RFK so it's in
00:12:48.260 the sort of like Maha universe so there are definitely reasons to not like him and not trust
00:12:54.800 him but for me it is not even necessarily really his politics or his ideology that I find so
00:13:01.600 annoying. One, I feel that he disarmed us when he was on Parks and Recreation. He was sort of
00:13:09.820 goofy, lovable Andy Dwyer. People liked him. He was generally inoffensive. Then after that role,
00:13:18.120 remember he got jacked? His whole thing was like, oh, hey, I'm Chris Pratt and I'm jacked now.
00:13:23.380 I feel that there's something that happens there where it just, there's like an ego thing that
00:13:29.840 happens there when you go from being lovable and goofy to then being jacked that you really got to
00:13:35.060 keep an eye on with men i'll just put it that way yes we saw jim from the office do the same thing
00:13:40.700 right where he rose to stardom as kind of like a a gentle sweet every man uh but apparently lurking
00:13:49.820 within was like a desire to be the lead of an action movie don't even get me started aren't
00:13:57.020 his movies this is i i'm speaking off the cuff so i don't know and i actually would love to be
00:14:01.320 educated on this aren't his movies basically just propaganda for u.s imperialism and the war machine
00:14:09.200 basically you've got jim helper in those in those movies is he also doing the jim helper where he
00:14:14.480 looks at the camera and makes that little half smile like oh i'm my work at imperialism what
00:14:19.100 are you gonna do do you know what i'm talking about well wearing body armor yeah that would
00:14:24.820 be pretty good so the thing with chris pratt is that i feel that he does this thing that i can't
00:14:32.940 stand where okay we get it you are religious you are catholic you don't want to be too open about
00:14:42.660 your politics but your politics are very clear i don't think anybody is confused i'm not confused
00:14:46.940 you align yourself with kind of conservative or traditional values but you're also in hollywood
00:14:54.000 fine got it totally fine the thing that gets me is i have to be a victim about it right it can't
00:15:02.440 just be yes i align myself with all of these traditional conservative values that i also need
00:15:10.320 to be talking about it as if i'm a victim for these stances that's what i don't like and also
00:15:16.740 i don't like how he is everywhere like he is really overrepresented in media when you compare
00:15:26.500 to the actual talent and charisma and the kind of roles that he gets like i don't understand why he
00:15:31.100 is everywhere but could you other than the avengers or whatever could you name a role or a
00:15:36.820 movie that he's in right now that he that he's in and and and like really crushing i mean i couldn't
00:15:43.920 but I don't know anything about movies.
00:15:45.620 It was notable when I selected him in the Halo app
00:15:48.760 as a guide that I wanted to hear from
00:15:50.780 that they did not mention Parks and Rec.
00:15:53.140 They listed Guardians of the Galaxy
00:15:54.740 and some other movie that I didn't know,
00:15:57.320 but probably should.
00:15:58.580 But it seemed like a notable omission.
00:16:00.960 Yeah, I just feel like if you are an actor
00:16:03.840 and you're not really that charismatic
00:16:05.880 and you're not really that talented
00:16:07.560 and you're not really getting great role
00:16:10.440 after great role after great role,
00:16:12.400 well, why do I have to be hearing about you so much?
00:16:14.780 Why do I have to know so much about your faith?
00:16:17.480 You know, there are plenty of entertainers
00:16:20.260 or performers that I don't personally like.
00:16:22.960 But if I'm like, oh, well, they're in the conversation.
00:16:25.400 I'll give you a great example. 0.73
00:16:27.200 Sydney Sweeney, I don't personally enjoy her work.
00:16:31.100 I did really like her in the movie Reality,
00:16:33.840 which if you've not seen that on HBO, 0.52
00:16:35.180 she actually does a great job with that. 0.92
00:16:36.620 She was great in Euphoria,
00:16:38.520 but that was a pretty minimal role.
00:16:40.260 She is someone that I'll say,
00:16:41.500 i don't like that i'm hearing from her often but i'll say like she's in the conversation
00:16:45.920 she is in a lot of movies i'll concede that she is being interviewed a ton because she is like
00:16:53.840 in the conversation i don't have to like it but there she is i'll tolerate it i don't get the
00:16:58.640 deal with chris pratt i don't get why i'm hearing about him constantly i think i might cut this but
00:17:04.000 this just so that you are aware of how i feel about chris pratt sure well i mean i think we
00:17:09.200 could put Marky Mark in that same category oh don't make me I hate oh you know I do know I do 0.98
00:17:17.360 know listen Mark Wahlberg he is a scumbag he has a history of violence toward minoritized people 0.99
00:17:26.500 from his youth look it up it's like horrifying I hate I I hate and cannot help how much I was 0.99
00:17:33.100 obsessed with him when I was young he stars in my favorite movie of all time Boogie Nights
00:17:37.420 um i don't know i don't i we we do hear about it we do hear from him too much i will say that we
00:17:45.240 do hear from him a lot compared to it's not commiserate with his act with the actual like
00:17:51.160 his the footprint that he takes up in hollywood i guess i'll put it that way does that make sense
00:17:55.880 it does make sense and if you want to compare acting skill uh i mean i guess he's he's been
00:18:01.220 He's a pretty good actor, but in the reading that him and Chris were doing in the Halo app, he was really phoning it in.
00:18:10.640 It was clear that Chris was giving it his all.
00:18:15.840 Mark was definitely reading from a script.
00:18:19.320 I think he was doing a big batch of clits that were going to be used for a bunch of things.
00:18:25.200 They were not in conversation. 0.63
00:18:26.920 They were recording separately.
00:18:28.340 It was being edited together.
00:18:30.000 He was really phoning that one in.
00:18:32.120 You can hear the note, like, is that good?
00:18:37.180 Good enough.
00:18:38.380 God is love.
00:18:39.500 Is that good?
00:18:40.160 I was trying to do a Boston accent because he's from Boston.
00:18:43.940 Yeah.
00:18:44.080 Fun fact about Mark Wahlberg.
00:18:46.100 So you know that I think P.T. Anderson's Boogie Nights is the best movie of all time.
00:18:50.740 It's a masterpiece.
00:18:52.040 Mark Wahlberg basically never brings up that he was in that movie.
00:18:55.800 He has said in interviews that he regrets doing boogie nights and said that he actually has prayed to God for forgiveness for having done boogie nights.
00:19:06.220 Now, mind you, this is somebody who went to prison for a hate crime when they were young.
00:19:12.400 I hope that he also asked for forgiveness for that behavior.
00:19:16.480 but because it's like a movie that is about sex and debaucherous behavior comma things that mark
00:19:23.520 walberg in real life is definitely associated with these i don't know why he's like like makes
00:19:27.940 it seem like he's above these things he certainly is not but imagine being part of a masterpiece
00:19:34.140 and distancing yourself from it i don't even know why because it's like not christian enough or
00:19:40.360 whatever i mean i guess he he does like a lot of disney stuff right so maybe maybe he's trying to
00:19:47.000 protect the the walberg brand for the the sanitized disney audience yeah i don't know
00:19:54.680 because boogie nights is an excellent movie if i was in it i'd tell people oh it mean i never shut
00:20:00.980 up about it yeah you weren't even in it and you never shut up about it i wasn't even in it don't
00:20:05.740 can't be started on boogie nights fun fact about boogie nights it has the best dvd commentary of
00:20:11.400 any dvd commentary because i love it i live for a dvd commentary you know this the best dvd commentary
00:20:17.620 i've ever heard pt anderson definitely in my opinion sounds like he had been doing some
00:20:25.180 partying while recording that dvd commentary let's put it that way they don't make dvd
00:20:30.160 commentaries like that anymore if you have the dvd if you if you've seen this if you're one of the
00:20:36.820 handful of people that know what i'm talking about there are a few specific moments where
00:20:40.600 you're like wow just a different time in the entertainment industry i guess uh on that dvd
00:20:46.800 commentary anyway i've really got off track here yeah let's let's bring it back around to the
00:20:52.460 halo app well fun fact about the halo app is that it was actually banned from eu markets a few months
00:20:58.820 ago, many suspected that the reason that regulators shut it down in the EU was due to data privacy
00:21:05.200 concerns and things like sensitive data being used for ad targeting, including religious
00:21:10.500 affiliation, which all that stuff is obviously highly regulated under the EU's Digital Services
00:21:15.380 Act. Yeah, just like Jesus intended for your deepest, most intimate religious thoughts and
00:21:22.580 connections being used to target you, to sell you more crap. Yeah, totally fine here in the US. 0.99
00:21:28.820 though like no problem go for it uh make that money target target on religious ideology what
00:21:37.760 whatever you want to do have at it have at it y'all in the u.s fucking live free 0.95
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00:25:13.180 grok because 404 media has this new report that grok is being used to uncover private information
00:25:20.260 about porn performers so we talked about how grok was being used to undress women and minors
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00:25:32.720 saying that well it just gets worse from there because porn performer Siri Dahl basically has 0.67
00:25:39.600 spent over a decade and lots and lots of money trying to protect her legal identity from the
00:25:45.980 internet and Grok basically just destroyed that when a user on x tagged Grok asking oh who is
00:25:53.660 this person in this clip grok wasn't just like oh here is siri doll here is this porn porn
00:26:00.240 performers like performance identity grok volunteered siri doll's full legal name and
00:26:07.500 birthday mind you this person was not asking for this information the user just asked who is this
00:26:14.680 performer because they wanted to find more of this performer's work public facing work so what you
00:26:20.300 might have expected is for Grok to generate this person's stage name. No, no, no, no. What was
00:26:26.920 actually generated was their full legal name and birthday, which happens to be information that
00:26:32.840 this performer has been trying to keep from the internet for many years. As soon as this happened,
00:26:40.520 harassers started opening Facebook accounts in her real name. Porn leak sites started posting
00:26:46.980 her content using her legal name instead of her stage name. And people started asking Grok for her
00:26:52.720 car, her address and her location. Scary stuff. And what makes this particularly kind of scary
00:27:01.160 and painful is the collateral damage, because she says that the reason why she is trying to guard
00:27:06.860 her legal name is to protect her family, which, you know, it's probably no surprise to anybody
00:27:11.480 that it is common practice for harassers to find somebody's parents' phone numbers and call them
00:27:17.880 or email somebody's family and friends. And so now she has to warn her family and put all of
00:27:23.040 these defensive plans in place thanks to X's chatbot volunteering this information about her
00:27:29.920 unprompted. It is ostensibly against X's own terms of service, which explicitly prohibit doxing,
00:27:37.240 call and get a serious safety risk but here it is x's own chatbot grok actually volunteering
00:27:43.820 this information about somebody that is really scary uh like how terrible for this performer
00:27:50.620 and you have to wonder how does grok know her name in her birthday is it just that good at
00:27:57.920 facial recognition is like what percentage of americans would grok be able to identify
00:28:08.400 uh that's kind of a scary thing to think about yeah and i think it fits into a broader pattern
00:28:14.540 of grok related abuses and harms which we're going to continue talking about both in this episode and
00:28:21.200 just generally as long as i'm fucking alive and i have a beating heart i'm going to continue 0.64
00:28:26.840 talking about it because I genuinely cannot believe that not more is being done. In the 0.89
00:28:32.340 United States, federally, nothing is being done. Zero. Nothing. We have a collection of state
00:28:39.260 attorneys generals trying to do something, but there is no federal regulating body in the United
00:28:45.760 States that is taking any action whatsoever against this. And mind you, we're talking about
00:28:51.560 sex crimes against minors here. We're talking about like crimes against kids. Regulators from
00:28:58.240 other countries are stepping in because federally in the United States, essentially nothing is being
00:29:04.560 done. And as the 404 piece really points out well, in all the debate about internet safety,
00:29:12.000 in all these conversations that we have about the need to regulate and censor the internet
00:29:16.500 to protect kids, it is worth asking who is actually being protected and who keeps being
00:29:22.700 left exposed to harm. I think stories like this one really illustrate what's going on here.
00:29:29.300 Totally agree. And I think something that's becoming clear over this past year is that
00:29:35.880 the types of answers to those questions, who's being protected and who's being harmed,
00:29:41.620 I think are really changing. You know, over the years, as we've been doing this show,
00:29:46.400 we've talked about categories of people who were not being protected, right?
00:29:52.400 We talk about the ways in which black women face multiple threats,
00:30:00.820 challenges, you know, are disproportionately harmed
00:30:04.000 by a lot of the abuses that happen online.
00:30:08.760 We talk about how trans people are being disproportionately
00:30:13.360 and unfairly targeted.
00:30:14.800 uh and so we're used to talking about categories of people who are left out but with the trump
00:30:20.840 administration it really feels like it's specific people who are being protected right you can look
00:30:26.860 at elon musk he's a big supporter of trump he's donating to republicans uh i i don't know but i
00:30:34.860 truly suspect and believe that a big part of the reason the administration is not doing anything
00:30:40.340 about any of these egregious crimes that his platform is doing
00:30:44.340 is because he's, like, part of their crew. 0.91
00:30:46.920 You know, we can look at the Epstein files for other examples
00:30:50.280 where it's not even, like, categories of people anymore.
00:30:56.660 It's specific people who are in power protecting themselves
00:31:01.120 and everybody else can just, you know, get bent.
00:31:07.060 Pretty much. That's really how it feels.
00:31:10.340 404 also reported on a site called Cam Girl Finder, which has been quietly operating for years, that uses facial recognition technology to let anybody search a database of over 2 billion faces scraped from adult streaming platforms.
00:31:25.460 The premise and the threat is very obvious. You just take a photo of a woman from her personal Instagram or social media, upload it, and you can use that to find out if she does sex work and if so, where.
00:31:40.140 404 tested this, and it actually works.
00:31:43.540 Results will show a person's username, the probability of a face match, when they were
00:31:48.980 last online, and links to other profiles across platforms.
00:31:52.740 The site will even sell you all of the images it has of a given person for $1.
00:31:58.940 This database includes women who stopped streaming or doing cam work years ago, meaning there
00:32:04.460 is really no expiration date on the exposure risk.
00:32:08.100 So if you did streaming or cam work once years ago, it can still be used to find you across the internet, and it will still allow whoever to buy your image.
00:32:20.320 Now, 404 talked to the creator of this site about privacy concerns, and their point is basically like, hey, if you stream publicly, you are a public figure, deal with it.
00:32:31.100 He compared people who do sex work to politicians or YouTubers, never really talked about what I think is like the obvious difference, which is that people who perform in adult content might want to keep their actual like legal names and identities separate from their personal lives for safety reasons because people are creeps.
00:32:54.920 You know, you don't, it doesn't take a genius to imagine why it might not be good to have your actual legal identity and family and name attached to the work that you do professionally because it's not safe for you.
00:33:07.740 So there is an opt-out option, but that option only works if the women know the site exists in the first place.
00:33:16.860 And I wanted to sort of put these two stories, the one about Siri Dahl having her real name be exposed on X and this story, I wanted to sort of put them in conversation with each other because I do think that they're sort of the same accelerating problem that these tools can be used to very easily, cheaply and quickly strip away the separation that a sex worker might put between their personal and their professional identity.
00:33:45.440 And that has real meaningful consequences for their safety, for their lives, for their families.
00:33:53.320 And I think it's really two stories about the same thing, that we have a tech infrastructure that treats people's safety and privacy as like a public resource to be dismantled, not a right to be protected.
00:34:08.520 and that it's kind of fun or a fun challenge to dismantle and erase whatever boundary somebody
00:34:18.740 might have put up between their personal and their professional lives. It's kind of a quote
00:34:22.980 fun challenge to see how you can trample those. And I think it just goes back to something that
00:34:28.560 we talk about on the show all the time. It's just how much of the internet is about exploiting
00:34:34.280 and consuming women and i think the fact that these folks are targeting women who do sex work
00:34:41.080 is not a coincidence because you know it's not enough that you could pay to have access to
00:34:47.980 these performers professional work and call that the end of it it's like no i cannot have them
00:34:55.060 control the means by which they they present themselves to the world and to me i need to be
00:35:01.160 control of that like it's very it's very much about control to me and profit right like they're
00:35:06.780 charging a dollar for these images that they have stolen yeah and i also i don't think that it works
00:35:13.500 that oh the information is public so anything goes there are plenty of like if i started an
00:35:22.200 only fans tomorrow that is technically public but only fans still has rules that you can't
00:35:28.260 screenshot it and share it elsewhere because it's my ip right like that i feel like we have this
00:35:33.920 logic particularly when it comes to women and our bodies particularly when women have found a way to
00:35:42.200 have agency and economic control over how they want to use their own bodies that says like oh
00:35:47.560 well if it's public it belongs to everybody right i i have the right to to quote expose or unmask
00:35:54.420 this person as if they're doing something that means that they don't have a right to privacy
00:35:59.500 anymore it's it's a it's a very toxic exploitative dynamic that i think is baked into so much of our
00:36:07.340 culture and not even really a tech problem necessarily a cultural rot problem totally 0.99
00:36:13.140 and this cam girl finder is like specifically built for this purpose right like there's there's
00:36:20.620 not as far as I can tell there's not a legitimate use of this tool and people are have just found a
00:36:26.960 way to use it for this nefarious purpose like this is it this is the sole reason that uh the
00:36:36.180 creators of this app built it uh which is just really gross yeah and I'm just so sick of it
00:36:44.660 Because it just doesn't feel, as you were saying, it doesn't feel that we have a system that is invested meaningfully in whether or not people get hurt.
00:36:56.500 The creator of Cam Girl Finder says that if privacy is a concern, this kind of job is not for you.
00:37:02.000 And gets to dictate how and who shows up to this work, as opposed to the performer dictating how they show up to that work, right?
00:37:12.540 Elon Musk's platform has a terms of service that explicitly bans doxing, but also has a chatbot that it volunteers people's private personal information that they don't want on the Internet.
00:37:27.120 And I just feel that until we have some sort of real accountability, and right now in the United States, we don't really have that, the burden is going to continue falling on women, right?
00:37:38.000 It's our responsibility to opt out of this website that some creep designed. It's our responsibility to report, to warn families, to spend all of this money like this porn performer did on data removal services that AI can undo in like one single reply. I'm just really sick of that. I'm sick of living in a world where we are made to shoulder this burden.
00:38:02.820 as bad as i find all of this i do think the tides are turning because you know as we talked about
00:38:11.840 on x grok was being used to generate what the european commission deemed illegal images of
00:38:18.240 women and minors at a rate of 6 000 requests per hour while no u.s federal agency or body did
00:38:26.000 anything at all about this. Other countries were and are taking it more seriously.
00:38:33.040 UK Prime Minister Keir Starmer is calling non-consensual intimate images both real and
00:38:38.200 AI-generated a national emergency and is actually backing that up with new legislation. So under
00:38:44.220 proposed amendments to the crime and policing bill, tech companies like X would have just 48
00:38:50.520 hours to remove deepfake nude and revenge porn after those images have been flagged. Or they
00:38:57.260 would face fines up to 10% of their global revenue or an outright block in the UK. Talking to The
00:39:04.240 Guardian, Starmer said, the burden of tackling abuse must no longer fall on victims. It must
00:39:09.560 fall on perpetrators and on the companies that enable harm. So I have a lot of gripes about
00:39:15.940 Starmer's government. But in this case, I really think that that is well said. The idea that we
00:39:22.440 need to stop blaming victims, stop putting the onus and the responsibility on people who are
00:39:28.860 targeted and move that onus and responsibility to tech companies and tech platforms is one of
00:39:34.840 the core reasons that I started this podcast. The prime minister went on to say that institutional
00:39:39.320 misogyny being, quote, woven into the fabric of our institutions means the problem has not been
00:39:44.780 taken seriously enough. Too often, misogyny is excused, minimized, or ignored. The arguments of
00:39:50.540 women are dismissed as exaggerated or one-offs. That culture creates permission, Starmer wrote. 1.00
00:39:56.740 So under these new rules, victims and survivors could report images once, either to the platform
00:40:02.480 or to the media regulator in the UK, Ofcom, and that would trigger removal requests across multiple
00:40:08.800 platforms simultaneously. Ofcom is also being asked to explore digital watermarking so that
00:40:14.540 abusive images can be automatically detected every time that they're reposted. Creating or
00:40:20.680 sharing non-consensual digital images would become a, quote, priority offense under the Online Safety
00:40:26.200 Act, putting it in the same category as child abuse material or terrorism. Ofcom would then be
00:40:32.300 responsible for enforcing the ban on the images with the aim to remove that burden or onus from
00:40:38.400 the person targeted to need to report the same image potentially thousands of times as it just
00:40:43.260 keeps continually getting reposted. And that was one of the points that I made when talking about
00:40:46.940 what was happening with Grok here in the States, is that we actually do have legislation to take
00:40:53.220 it down at, which ostensibly you might be thinking, well, why is that not being triggered?
00:40:57.900 And one of the reasons is, is that the person targeted has to make a complaint before anything
00:41:04.180 happens. And so if nobody makes that complaint, nothing happens. And that really, the burden
00:41:09.660 really is on the person targeted to do something to have it taken down.
00:41:12.960 So is 48 hours feasible? Are companies going to be able to do this even if they want to comply with this new rule?
00:41:21.220 That is a great question. The Guardian spoke to the Institute for Strategic Dialogue, which I should say I did a bunch of work with in my former job.
00:41:29.000 They spoke to Anne Crannon, who researches online misogyny for ISD, who said, I think that 48 hours is certainly possible, to be honest with you.
00:41:37.840 The problem is it may not necessarily incentivize a quicker response rate from companies.
00:41:42.960 but 48 hours is longer than the time frame for removal of other types of content,
00:41:47.880 such as terrorist content in the EU.
00:41:50.780 She added that there are already existing initiatives to use hash matching to protect victims of intimate abuse,
00:41:56.560 although it can be challenging to get different tech platforms to coordinate among themselves
00:42:01.100 so that an abusive video uploaded to, say, Facebook, for example, is automatically then detected on Reddit.
00:42:08.660 She's really careful to talk about the ways that hash matching is not,
00:42:12.960 perfect technology and can be circumvented.
00:42:17.120 Terrorist groups, for example, often add small alterations to videos that have already been
00:42:22.280 hashed as terroristic content or like they'll add an emoji and that will then make them
00:42:27.100 unrecognizable to hatch mashing systems.
00:42:30.120 There's also the problem of AI tools and AI deepfakes that just make everything worse,
00:42:35.360 allowing non-consensual intimate images and other content to be altered really quickly
00:42:40.060 and then spread across different pockets of the internet,
00:42:43.500 which makes it a lot easier to evade attempts
00:42:45.980 to detect it quickly with tools like hatch mashing.
00:42:49.880 I really think that that is a big part
00:42:52.760 of why it seems like things are becoming so bad so rapidly
00:42:57.180 is just AI allowing these pre-existing structural harms
00:43:03.320 to happen so much faster
00:43:04.960 and on such a wider scale so quickly.
00:43:07.620 Exactly.
00:43:08.140 Exactly. And then you add to that the fact that you've got platforms that are private or encrypted, like Signal or WhatsApp, where content is able to be traded and passed around in ways that are harder to get a sense of.
00:43:20.380 And then the fact that you've got rogue websites or fringe platforms that fall outside of the reach of legislation, like the Online Safety Act, it's just tough.
00:43:32.380 And I think that a lot of what people like me and advocates have been warning about, it's here.
00:43:38.820 You know, this is what it this is what this is what that looks like when you have a climate where platforms are not being held accountable.
00:43:46.000 This is what it looks like. The people who are harmed are women and young people.
00:43:50.960 And the people who get to just do whatever they want are billionaires like Elon Musk who are getting rich off of it.
00:43:56.780 So I really I really think you're right.
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00:47:19.840 So speaking of stuff that I hate on the internet, I have to quickly talk about this, frankly, absurd,
00:47:27.860 it would almost be funny if it wasn't so enraging insight into how Doge decided what humanities programs were DEI
00:47:37.660 and thus needed to be cut, and it was being done by two totally unqualified bros
00:47:44.760 who literally just asked ChatGPT.
00:47:49.800 This is one of those stories created in a lab
00:47:52.800 to make me angry and piss me off.
00:47:55.620 Mission accomplished.
00:47:57.600 Now, bear in mind that we are talking about federal grants
00:48:01.880 that were already approved
00:48:03.880 after the whole rigorous application and review process.
00:48:09.220 So if you're doing some interesting, important work
00:48:12.920 in the humanities. You write a vigorous grant application. It's submitted to the federal
00:48:19.040 government. The federal government, it's no joke. I've done it and I've never gotten one of these
00:48:23.160 grants. It is no joke. It takes a long time. They really, there's very rigorous. Your application
00:48:29.240 is approved. The money is approved. It just takes two bozos using chat GPT to say up,
00:48:36.700 we're taking it back. So these grants were terminated by these two random, inexperienced 0.99
00:48:45.040 Doge bros based on whether or not Chad GPT could explain in under 120 characters that they were,
00:48:53.560 quote, related to DEI. We know this thanks to a newly released complaint from the Authors Guild
00:49:00.480 against the government, which reveals how Doge actually decided which national endowments
00:49:06.460 for the humanities grants to kill
00:49:08.640 after those grants had already been awarded.
00:49:12.220 So Tech Dirt reports,
00:49:14.120 two young Doge operatives,
00:49:16.260 Nate Kavanaugh, comma, a college dropout.
00:49:19.280 Love that little ad, Tech Dirt, great detail.
00:49:22.460 And Justin Fox, a junior private equity associate,
00:49:25.760 were given access to the National Endowment
00:49:28.420 for the Humanities and tasked with cutting grants.
00:49:31.440 Their method?
00:49:32.520 Fox built a keyword detection list
00:49:34.600 with words like LGBTQ, tribal, BIPOC, and immigrants.
00:49:39.220 Notably absent were words like white,
00:49:42.360 Caucasian, or heterosexual.
00:49:44.620 Then they fed the grant descriptions into ChatGPT
00:49:48.300 asking whether or not they were, quote,
00:49:50.660 related to DEI, requiring answers in under 120 characters.
00:49:55.480 Side note, they couldn't even read more.
00:49:58.900 Like 120 characters is so few characters.
00:50:03.600 So I'm guessing that there's a field, like when you submit for one of these grants, because I've never applied for a National Endowment for the Humanities grant, but I've applied to other federal agencies.
00:50:14.520 And, you know, it's a whole automated system with different fields where you have to paste stuff in.
00:50:19.180 And I'm guessing that there was like a description field that was limited to 120 characters, which is just the absolute shortest you could imagine.
00:50:29.480 that's that's what like 10 words maybe 15 words it's like a sentence so i have two bones to pick 0.97
00:50:37.280 with this methodology which is like so stupid but it's like extra extra stupid for two reasons one 0.97
00:50:44.620 they created a list of words and then needed chat gpt to tell them whether one of those words was 0.99
00:50:51.920 present in a text string like you don't need chat gpt for that so that's one thing uh and then the
00:50:58.840 second is, yeah, why would they use the shortest, what I assume has to be the shortest field,
00:51:05.160 this 120-character description? Why not use the abstract, which was probably, you know,
00:51:11.740 maybe like 500 characters or something? Just really dumb execution of a dumb strategy. 0.98
00:51:20.160 Well, I think it's purposeful, right? Because then you would actually have to consider 0.99
00:51:26.580 the merit of these grants and they don't want to consider the merit of these grants they want to
00:51:31.940 cut the grant and so if you did it that way you might actually get a clear or full picture of
00:51:38.340 what these of the purpose of these grants and the merit of these grants they're not interested in 0.97
00:51:42.980 that and so i think it being so stupid and sloppy and blunt is the point they probably put their 1.00
00:51:50.060 stupidest assholes on it on purpose yeah yeah these were probably like the dumbest guys on 1.00
00:51:56.540 team doge yes they're like oh yeah we want you to match some text strings see if you can figure 1.00
00:52:04.480 out how to do it with an llm like the like the stupidity is the point i think and so the grants 0.85
00:52:10.780 that were flagged by chat gpt were then canceled even though the grants were already awarded 0.98
00:52:15.000 Experts at NEH who could have provided any kind of context were blocked from pushing back.
00:52:22.060 The acting director, whose signature appeared on 1,400 termination emails, sent from a private server.
00:52:29.460 You know, you would really expect an email like this coming from an agency director to come from an official agency server.
00:52:37.880 In fact, I'm pretty sure there are laws requiring that for, like, records retention reasons.
00:52:45.000 So, just one more dumb piece of the execution here, sending it from a private server.
00:52:53.360 Well, that acting NEH head later admitted they had no idea which grants were cut and why. 0.91
00:53:01.060 Basically, I don't know, couldn't even tell you.
00:53:03.700 Among the Grant casualties were grants on the Colfax Massacre that happened in 1873 in Colfax, Louisiana, wherein a group of 62 to 153 Black men were murdered while surrendering to a mob of former Confederate soldiers and members of the KKK, Jewish women's slave labor during the Holocaust, Native American boarding schools, and the women pilots of World War II who were denied entry because of their race.
00:53:31.180 So this discovery came through a lawsuit by the Authors Guild, and the details are as bad as you would imagine. Just like two guys with absolutely no humanities experience, and this culture war key list that somebody cooked up asking Chad GPT to make funding decisions that actual experts had spent months reviewing, and again, this money had already been awarded.
00:53:58.980 So taking away money that had already already been they'd gone through this rigorous process that had already been doled out. 0.98
00:54:05.820 You know, as comically stupid as these two guys' execution was, the consequences are quite real, right? 0.97
00:54:17.280 Like, those grants were canceled, and these important, if uncomfortable, histories are not being studied or told or whatever the purpose of these grants was, right? 0.98
00:54:32.300 I think it connects with what we talked about last week, the Save Our Signs campaign, because this is right in lockstep with the administration's larger efforts to erase all of these aspects of American history that they don't like.
00:54:53.780 that paint white people in anything other than the most flattering picture,
00:54:58.940 that give any sort of pause to the idea that America is like the best and pure
00:55:07.820 and has never made any mistakes.
00:55:09.680 And it's such a dangerous thing to try to do to erase that history
00:55:17.580 rather than try to learn from it and move forward.
00:55:21.280 That is a good reminder.
00:55:22.200 Shout out to one of our listeners, Deb. We will put Deb's call to document signs that you see for the Save Our Signs project in the show notes.
00:55:32.160 It's very important to preserve our history, even the history that is uncomfortable or, heaven forbid, paints white people in an unflattering light, despite being absolutely historically accurate and truthful.
00:55:43.520 I have a related story, which is that the EEOC, the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, which is the federal civil rights agency that is supposed to sort of represent workers who have been legitimately discriminated against, has filed its first DEI-related lawsuit of the Trump era, and that is against a Coca-Cola bottler in New England. 0.53
00:56:09.040 So if you listen to this show, we've definitely talked about shocking cases of discrimination where people have been genuinely harmed.
00:56:18.300 Hold on to your hat. You're not going to believe the harm that happened in this case.
00:56:24.240 So this is the allegation.
00:56:26.960 Coca-Cola hosted a two-day networking event for about 250 female employees at a Connecticut casino.
00:56:36.400 know get this the men were not invited just perpetuating that girls club smoking cigars
00:56:46.340 for too long women have had their boot on the neck of the white american male worker and it's
00:56:53.040 high time we did something about it so y'all might remember that back in december the eeoc
00:56:58.180 Chair Andrea Lucas posted this video really just explicitly asking white men, do you feel you have
00:57:07.400 been discriminated against at your job? Let us know. We will file a lawsuit. So the kind of cases
00:57:14.660 that the EEOC typically takes on involve people who have been measurably, clearly harmed by their
00:57:23.360 employers because of discrimination, right? We've covered things like pregnant women being fired
00:57:29.940 for being pregnant right before giving birth or nursing parents being let go because they need to
00:57:36.200 pump on the job. Workers with cancer or MS or diabetes who lost their jobs and subsequently
00:57:43.240 their health insurance because their employer would not make reasonable accommodations.
00:57:47.560 There are also the agency that sued Tesla for racial discrimination in its factories that was found to be widespread.
00:57:56.840 Yeah, they in 2015, they sued BMW and BMW had to pay back one point six million dollars to black workers who were screened out by a background check policy.
00:58:06.540 The EEOC successfully argued had a racially disparate impact.
00:58:11.060 Right. And so historically, this is what the EEOC has been used for.
00:58:16.840 Cases where there has been a clear, measurable harm.
00:58:21.840 It is not typical for the EEOC to sue because men were not invited explicitly to a networking event.
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01:01:48.360 So this first lawsuit under the Trump administration's sort of new focus around this is claiming that a diversity-focused workplace program is itself unlawful.
01:02:03.320 They're also investigating Nike and Northwest Mutual for allegedly discriminating against white workers.
01:02:09.240 And of course, we talked about it on the show, but also demanded DEI policy information from about 20 major law firms.
01:02:16.400 This Koch case is kind of being seen as a test for how far the Trump administration is willing to push DEI when it comes to the private sector.
01:02:27.320 We talked about this on the show before, but when Trump was reelected, a lot of companies just Trump administration did not ask them to do this yet, but they just immediately pulled their DEI initiatives, companies like Target.
01:02:40.520 Meanwhile, Costco was asked to do the same thing.
01:02:44.400 Costco basically said, kick rock, we'll do what we want.
01:02:47.460 Diversity and inclusion is making us money, so we're going to continue making money.
01:02:52.780 They are not suffering the same kind of economic woes that Target is experiencing.
01:02:57.680 I almost wonder how much of this is the Trump administration saying, hey, companies, wouldn't
01:03:03.360 it be great if you abandoned all the people who are making you money by publicly backing
01:03:10.740 away from DEI initiatives?
01:03:12.680 Don't you want the opportunity to be as financially and economically uncertain as Target right now?
01:03:18.420 Don't you look at the CEO of Target and think, that should be me.
01:03:22.340 Well, get in line and do what we say.
01:03:24.040 Yeah, it's got to be a pretty tough sell, which, yeah, maybe you're right.
01:03:27.220 Maybe that's why they're just coming out and suing these companies to get them to do it.
01:03:31.660 Because clearly, as Target has learned, it's not a very financially rewarding way to go.
01:03:39.920 So this employment attorney, Daphne Delvaux, that I follow on threads, put it very well.
01:03:44.680 She writes, women hold roughly 10 percent of Fortune 500 CEO positions, earn less in virtually every occupation and face a wage penalty for having children while fathers get a bonus.
01:03:56.960 White men are not a systematically excluded group.
01:04:00.720 Individual discomfort is not structural discrimination.
01:04:03.700 I think that's such a good point to make that the reason the EEOC exists is to address structural discrimination, right? It came out of the civil rights era as a way to address some of these entrenched structural factors and forces that were systematically disadvantaging certain groups of people.
01:04:29.960 And a lot of those disadvantages still exist. You know, you just mentioned leadership positions. We could also look at wages, right? Like there is still a big pay gap. That is why the EEOC is supposed to exist, to eliminate practices that are perpetuating that wage gap.
01:04:51.180 And the Trump administration just fundamentally acts as if things like the wage gap or the leadership gap at the top of Fortune 500 companies doesn't exist and that the only thing that matters is the personal comfort of white men working in a Coca-Cola factory in Connecticut.
01:05:14.780 It's so, it's tempting to say it's short-sighted, but they know exactly what they're doing. 0.52
01:05:21.180 Right. Like they are interested in actively perpetuating white supremacy and patriarchy.
01:05:28.400 Yes. And that employment attorney, I think she's so right. She exactly put it that way.
01:05:33.720 She says this is about discouraging women from gathering because when women gather, we compare notes, we identify patterns, we realize our collective power of everything this administration could have chosen to prosecute.
01:05:45.200 wage theft, pregnancy discrimination, mass layoffs. They chose this that tells you exactly
01:05:51.100 who they consider a priority and who they consider a threat. They're so scared of our stories that
01:05:57.460 they're suing to stop them. Kevin from accounting missed some appetizers. And that is what the
01:06:03.160 federal government decided was worth its litigation power. And it's actually kind of funny because I
01:06:09.800 I saw this piece in Bloomberg called White Men Learned the Hidden Costs of Suing for Discrimination,
01:06:15.300 all about these white men who kind of had their grievances, their professional grievances,
01:06:23.240 nursed by the Trump administration and decided to sue their employers for what they felt was
01:06:28.800 discrimination against them as white men. They talked to this newscaster named Vaughn who said
01:06:35.920 that, you know, he had been a newscaster and that when they made when the news outlet made
01:06:41.520 their video of all the newscasters, he was not featured in it. He didn't get a billboard and
01:06:46.880 they did a diversity initiative and then they hired a black newscaster and that black newscaster
01:06:52.740 got a billboard. Now, the news outlet is quoted as saying, oh, no, this person was fired for
01:06:58.940 cause for documented performance issues. The article reads, if the Trump administration has
01:07:04.380 its way, more suits like Vons will come before the courts as the government seeks to redress
01:07:09.080 what it sees as discrimination against white men. In December, the EEOC urged white men to come
01:07:15.300 forward with complaints about their treatment by employers looking to diversify their workforces.
01:07:20.980 However, many of the white men doing so are confronting the same blunt reality as countless
01:07:26.880 employees of other genders, races, or sexual orientations who have stood up to corporate HR
01:07:33.220 over perceived wrongdoing bringing a lawsuit against your employer may well damage your career
01:07:40.020 and so basically this person vaughn says that he cannot find a steady stable job that pays what his
01:07:48.220 old job paid after suing his former employer and you know he's a he's in his 60s now and like it's
01:07:55.740 a lot harder to find employment and having this he says he does not regret doing the lawsuit but
01:08:00.520 the lawsuit is part of, he says, why he is having trouble replacing that work. And basically,
01:08:08.160 these white men who are suing their employers are finding out the hard way what women and queer
01:08:14.960 folks and trans folks and people of color and pregnant people and other minoritized populations
01:08:21.200 have been known that standing up for yourself and suing can hurt your career. Now, it is complicated
01:08:28.880 because I do think that just across the board,
01:08:32.040 we need better protections for people who speak up around real workplace harm
01:08:36.600 and people who blow the whistle on things like abuse and discrimination.
01:08:40.820 But it's like these guys want to play the part of being a marginalized, oppressed class
01:08:46.580 without actually having realized that, oh, being a marginalized, oppressed person
01:08:51.900 comes with real economic disadvantages that we've known about for a really long time.
01:08:57.260 women and people who sue their employers for discrimination, they have talked about this kind
01:09:01.460 of thing. But these white men are like, oh, I want to say I'm the victim without having to incur
01:09:07.780 the actual real costs that we know that victims just have to eat when they speak up. But that
01:09:14.640 said, in my opinion, that is not what is going on with these cases, because the piece points out,
01:09:21.080 rightly, men still make up 90 percent of chief executive officers at S&P 500 companies, as well
01:09:28.340 as about three quarters of all C-suite employees. And the proportion of black men or women who have
01:09:34.040 held the top job is extremely small, currently hovering at about one percent. And these white
01:09:40.200 men were like, we would like that one percent, too, because equal right. If I don't get that
01:09:45.320 1% as well? That's discrimination against me, actually. Actually. I heard they had mini quiches
01:09:51.580 at that mixer. I didn't get any mini quiches. Yeah, like you missed the happy hour, dude.
01:09:58.040 Calm down. The article also talked to this guy who sued Meta because Meta at the time had an
01:10:04.940 apprenticeship program for minority applicants and that ever since he sued Meta, he has had a
01:10:11.240 hard time finding work ever since. The article says the program offered ethnic minority workers
01:10:16.980 opportunities to shadow professionals and learn new skills. And this guy said that while working
01:10:21.740 on a contract job for Metta, one of those apprentices was given a title and a role
01:10:26.620 superior to him, even though in his view, that person had less experience. So Metta and other
01:10:34.780 defendants said in a legal filing that this person actually never even applied for the role in
01:10:39.700 question and was simply not eligible for that program and also lacked the legal standing to
01:10:45.280 sue over it. His case was dismissed in 2024 and now is pending appeal. So I think so much of this
01:10:52.660 is exactly what you were just talking about, because I am seeing a lot of white men being told
01:10:59.960 anytime somebody gets something that they want, it is an injustice. Anytime something doesn't go
01:11:07.320 their way, it is an injustice. And I think that's really the crux of the problem, that nobody could
01:11:13.960 ever be just more qualified for you or better positioned for a role, especially if the person 0.86
01:11:20.580 that gets something that you want is Black or trans or queer or otherwise a minoritized person. 0.91
01:11:27.880 That is an injustice. And we now have a dynamic where that kind of white male grievance is being
01:11:35.640 codified into a kind of legitimate public policy. You will have the federal government deciding that
01:11:42.000 its legal authority and ability to sue companies and individuals will come down on protecting that
01:11:49.280 very fragile white male need to get what they feel they deserve. And I think that's exactly
01:11:56.700 what we're seeing play out here. I see the same thing playing out in conversations about who gets
01:12:02.340 into college. You can just blame all of your problems or shortcomings, or maybe they're not
01:12:08.800 even shortcomings. Maybe they're just things that didn't go your way on this hypothetical,
01:12:14.440 mythical, unqualified, minoritized person who got something that you saw was as rightfully yours,
01:12:21.980 and now you want to sue about it. And again, I mean, we've talked about this on the show so often.
01:12:28.000 they don't give us shit if a black if a let me tell you something if a black woman 0.99
01:12:32.140 gets into a c-suite people are pissed about it and it's she got there because she earned it 1.00
01:12:37.760 because she was like better than everybody they don't they would not they would not allow people
01:12:43.400 into these positions willy-nilly if we were not qualified and so yeah i just i just hate how
01:12:50.560 our current government is allowing for these feelings of grievance we all we all have to
01:12:57.420 experience not getting things that we want in life that's life as an adult but telling people
01:13:03.020 no anytime you've experienced having to watch somebody get something that you wanted it's not
01:13:09.580 just that things didn't go your way you are being discriminated against that's what i think is so
01:13:14.520 insidious and that's their whole campaign just encouraging grievance nursing grievances yes it
01:13:22.420 It's all about grievance with these people.
01:13:24.560 And, you know, last week I was talking about how I took a break from the news roundup because it was just getting me down.
01:13:32.200 I'm going to try to be intentional about including a win or a positive story in every episode.
01:13:38.980 And we actually do have a positive story as it pertains to the Trump administration and DEI initiatives, because this week the Trump administration agreed to drop its ban on DEI initiatives in public schools nationally, which is great news.
01:13:55.540 A federal judge dismissed a case in New Hampshire this week, which then triggered the administration to dropping the ban nationwide.
01:14:02.280 We covered a little bit of the fallout of the administration's attacks on anything even remotely related to DEI.
01:14:09.780 So this is very positive news. 0.71
01:14:12.020 So New Hampshire's largest teachers union for school districts and civil rights groups like the ACLU sued the Trump administration last year,
01:14:20.640 arguing that the ban violated free speech and equal protection.
01:14:24.260 This was pretty serious. Schools risked losing federal funding if they did not comply.
01:14:28.720 The administration then told the court that it would not withhold federal funding from schools that maintained DEI programs.
01:14:36.160 Didn't really give an explanation for why they were pulling this, but a similar challenge in Maryland got the same result.
01:14:43.700 Teachers at this point were saying that this ban had them afraid to teach basic American history because they were worried that lessons on things like racism or discrimination could trigger an investigation and potentially cost schools their funding.
01:14:59.560 According to the ACLU's Giles Bissonette, the lawsuit forced the government to prove the necessity for why they're doing what they're doing.
01:15:07.380 And here they certainly could not do that.
01:15:09.660 This is a case where teachers and civil rights groups really pushed back and held the line and won and in the process protected classrooms nationwide without the need to have a single trial.
01:15:23.440 Two separate New Hampshire state level laws restricting DEI and limiting teaching around racism are still being challenged in court.
01:15:31.600 So, like, I don't want to give the impression that the fight is entirely over, but I'm going to take this as a win, given all given all that we talked about in this episode.
01:15:40.280 Absolutely. It's a win. I saw I was on Blue Sky when this happened, and it was so interesting to me that so many people seem to want to, like, diminish the importance of this win and be like, oh, well, they're just going to find some other way to do it.
01:15:56.340 And like, yeah, no kidding. The Trump administration is going to like keep looking for ways to push their white supremacy agenda.
01:16:05.040 But like this is still a win, right? Like the the fight is going on.
01:16:10.420 But this is a big win about something very important. So what a nice thing to end on here.
01:16:18.260 And especially in this climate, let's learn to take a W when we get a W, huh?
01:16:23.500 Let's not, we don't need, there is so much to be discouraged about.
01:16:29.620 I don't know.
01:16:30.520 I'm taking my wins when I get them.
01:16:32.700 Hell yeah.
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