There Are No Girls on the Internet - January 23, 2026


Heated Rivalry's Podcast Drama; White House Posts AI Altered Crying Arrest Photo; Morally Dubious Florida Candidate Dislikes Only Fans - NEWS ROUNDUP!

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00:02:06.360 welcome to there are no girls on the internet where we explore the intersection of technology
00:02:13.280 social media and identity and this is another installment of our weekly news roundup where
00:02:18.280 we talk through all the stories that you might have missed on the internet this week so you don't
00:02:21.940 have to i hope i'm not opening up a can of worms on this one because i think it's going to be one
00:02:28.900 of those topics that people have a lot to say about leave it in the spotify comments i read
00:02:33.960 them all. I want to know. Don't come for me, but let's just get into it. So there are two former
00:02:40.520 hockey players who are brothers, Dan and Chris Powers. They have a very popular hockey podcast
00:02:47.360 called Empty Netters. As far as we know, they are both cis straight white dudes. They have been
00:02:54.260 covering the show Heated Rivalry. We talked about Heated Rivalry a little bit. It's about two male
00:03:00.760 hockey players who have a romance and it's very horny it is a very horny show so i don't listen
00:03:09.360 to the podcast but in a piece for queer tea writer alex reamer describes the podcast's coverage of
00:03:14.740 heated rivalry like this instead of breaking down games and chattering over penalties dude sporting
00:03:20.900 sweats and sloppy stubble started reacting to the lascivious scenes and intimate interplay between
00:03:25.740 the two male leads. Their efforts resulted in hundreds of thousands of views and unforeseen
00:03:31.060 popularity. So it sounds like these two straight hockey podcast guys have gotten a lot of popularity
00:03:38.620 from covering this queer, steamy, sexy show, specifically breaking down the sex scenes, 0.91
00:03:44.900 which there are a lot of because the show is super horny. So the question that Reamer poses 0.61
00:03:49.420 in this piece is whether or not this should be celebrated as straight men, you know, paying
00:03:56.020 attention to queer media that is not necessarily for them, or if it's performative allyship.
00:04:03.440 You know, we're in a culture where people like Ben Shapiro are demonizing really any portrayals
00:04:10.000 of sex and sexuality, but specifically also queer sex and romance. So if you've got these white, 0.97
00:04:16.120 straight, cis, heterosexual guys celebrating, like, horny, queer romance and sexuality, 0.93
00:04:23.200 that's great, right? However, they're also getting lots of downloads and popularity and, 0.89
00:04:29.600 like, tangible monetary benefit from doing this. So are they really celebrating it,
00:04:35.760 or are they just kind of pretending to celebrate it to get that money? As Reimer put it,
00:04:41.800 It is wonderful when straight guys embrace queer art. Despite right-wing grievances,
00:04:47.560 they are still the dominant force in society. Their support goes a long way toward normalizing
00:04:52.640 gay love stories that feature far more sex than tragedy. But it's hard to take their efforts in 0.84
00:04:57.660 good faith when they're monetized for views and downloads. Their exaggerated reactions,
00:05:02.680 yelling, screaming, jumping up and down, pulling their hair, openly weeping, can also be obnoxious. 0.95
00:05:08.800 Take the Empty Netters guys, for example. The backward hat-wearing hosts live-streamed their
00:05:14.640 performative reactions to every episode. During their season finale show, which netted nearly
00:05:19.860 530,000 views, the hosts squealed and squirmed. So I actually saw on social media this piece
00:05:27.840 got a little bit of backlash from fans of the Empty Netters hockey podcast who basically said,
00:05:33.040 oh, this is silly because the hosts speak so glowingly about this show all the time.
00:05:39.320 They clearly really like it.
00:05:41.200 Why are you getting upset that these straight guys are enjoying queer media? 0.55
00:05:44.800 That should be exactly what we want. 0.95
00:05:48.100 But the plot thickens because now we have a piece in the outlet Out Sports,
00:05:55.260 an LGBTQ sports outlet by Sid Zeigler, titled, like, just get a load of this title, 0.96
00:06:00.920 empty netters host privately called heated rivalry trash show creators losers and cowards
00:06:08.680 subtitle as he publicly praised heated rivalry one empty netters host privately trashed the show 0.63
00:06:15.480 outsports has seen the text they have received they've seen the text this is this is such a wild
00:06:24.300 story about
00:06:26.340 a podcast talking about
00:06:28.400 a TV show, but
00:06:30.420 then there's like, the
00:06:32.440 texts have been leaked, and now
00:06:34.340 they're getting called out for
00:06:35.840 talking about it in an
00:06:38.100 inauthentic way.
00:06:39.740 What a story.
00:06:42.060 Mike, we have the smoking gun.
00:06:44.120 We have the receipts. One of the hosts
00:06:46.340 hate, doesn't just dislike it,
00:06:48.380 hated heated rivalry
00:06:49.840 and said so very
00:06:51.920 clearly in text messages. So all
00:06:54.000 while they were gushing about this show and enjoying a nice bump in listeners and probably
00:06:58.720 like as podcaster to podcaster money in pockets from talking about it and gushing about how much
00:07:05.060 they liked it they he privately hated it this is from the piece so they would gush about this show
00:07:10.600 yet in a series of text messages sent to multiple recipients and seen by out sports
00:07:15.780 one of the podcast hosts dan powers was highly critical of the show while at the same time the
00:07:22.300 podcast and Dan personally were publicly effusive in their praise. This guy really is not fucking 0.98
00:07:29.160 with this show. Here are some of the text messages. Quote, I think these losers who made this show 0.90
00:07:34.840 are cowards. Cowards? They're making a television show. No, they're cowards. Bemoaning the fact 1.00
00:07:44.040 that the producers are, quote, Canadian for crying out loud, which part of me is like,
00:07:49.220 what does that mean what does that mean is it like are these guys canadian are they
00:07:56.140 they're like canadians should know better than to make gay content or like these guys are canadian 0.99
00:08:02.980 we shouldn't respect them obviously they're cowards because they're canadian like what does 0.98
00:08:06.300 this even mean i i think it's that they're cowards because they're canadian the show is canadian i 0.99
00:08:12.380 will say canadians are very proud of the show it's it's a show that that they have and a lot of
00:08:17.860 people because it's on hbo here in the states a lot of people will be like oh the hbo show
00:08:21.980 and if you said that on social media there would be a canadian in your mentions rightly so and
00:08:26.840 correctly being like actually it's not an hbo show it's canadian so i i think that what he is
00:08:33.280 saying is that canadians are just by their nature cowardly and cannot make media that should be
00:08:41.580 taken seriously okay wow this is really escalating that's not me saying this that's him i'm just 0.99
00:08:50.260 trying to get a handle on what he's saying here's another text message quote this is the trash they 0.51
00:08:57.780 make because it panders it's provocative and it checks inclusivity boxes that one i feel like is
00:09:03.960 very is like a lot it kind of gets at the heart of the matter a little bit more that he is talking
00:09:10.760 about how great this show is in a in a very over the top effusive way when in reality he thinks
00:09:16.580 that it's just the reason why it's it's successful is because it checks inclusivity boxes to me that
00:09:23.280 that's that is the most revealing of the text because you know heated rival like as they as 0.91
00:09:28.820 one of the pieces points out i think one of the reasons why it's successful is that it's a queer
00:09:33.720 story that does not have deep tragedy at the heart of it like you know so many queer stories i mean
00:09:41.880 it's a trope right the barrier gaze trope where at the end the you know somebody has to die they 0.58
00:09:48.360 have to experience some sort of trauma if you've read a little life like like the worst things that
00:09:52.840 can happen to somebody have to happen and this is not a show like that it's also a well-acted show
00:09:57.720 It's also, like, very sexy.
00:09:59.560 There are so many reasons why this show is successful.
00:10:03.220 To just boil that down to, 1.00
00:10:06.120 oh, it's because they just, like, forced it to be a gay show, 0.72
00:10:09.560 and it's just, like, checking the inclusivity box. 0.56
00:10:12.640 I feel like that's the real revealing text message here to me.
00:10:17.480 And if that's really how he feels,
00:10:18.980 then how do you think he feels about himself on this show,
00:10:23.900 performatively, talking about how much he loves it,
00:10:27.720 Right. Like if he thinks the whole reason he did rivalry is successful is because it's pandering and it's checking inclusivity boxes and and he thinks that's bad.
00:10:38.660 And then he himself is duplicitously saying how great it is.
00:10:44.560 That's getting a little like twisted there.
00:10:48.300 Let him know, Dr. Amato. Exactly right.
00:10:51.300 Like, if heated rivalry is pandering to the, like, queer, progressive, to just check inclusivity boxes, then what the hell are you doing on your podcast?
00:11:01.840 Very good point.
00:11:02.740 Yeah, and also backing it up, what the hell are you doing on your podcast?
00:11:06.080 What the hell are you doing on your podcast?
00:11:08.760 The article also says, quote,
00:11:10.060 In fact, in the early days of the public reaction to heated rivalry, he was so incensed by the positive response to the show that he bemoaned the gushing response was, quote, making blue haired Twitter happy.
00:11:23.100 So these are the same people that he is essentially cashing in from by attracting to his hockey podcast by talking about how much he likes this show.
00:11:32.900 So it really is. I mean, if this is how if you if you have such disdain for these people, why would you want them? Why would you be trying to be in community with them in this way? You know what I mean?
00:11:43.640 yeah it's like pretty puzzling i mean maybe they feel like they stumbled backwards into
00:11:51.260 a way to get a bunch of downloads and make a bunch of money i guess like is this the equivalent of
00:11:59.660 how you are always threatening to sell out and like go maga and i'm sure you would make a fortune
00:12:09.080 you know if you got up on the stage of cpac and like denounced everyone that you've ever cared
00:12:15.780 about uh they would eat that up right you can go on tucker carlson or maybe an actual show that
00:12:22.020 like has advertisers is this the the right wing equivalent of that oh i don't know about that
00:12:30.980 i think that he doesn't like this show but wants money and acclaim so we'll say whatever
00:12:39.220 okay that's probably right but i but i see what i see your point though that like isn't it the
00:12:44.760 same thing you know i've always said candace owens is the reason why i'm i'm obsessed with
00:12:49.560 her is that she is my shadow self i i look at her and i see a sort of what if inverse funhouse 0.91
00:12:55.600 mirror of like things that could have been yeah but i guess you're right like these backwards hat
00:13:02.720 wearing hockey players like no shade to backwards hat wearing hockey players but you know they're
00:13:07.040 maybe i'm overthinking it here maybe they're just trying to get some engagements make some money
00:13:13.500 i don't know you and i had a very long talk about this before we started recording i have i have
00:13:18.420 so many thoughts my first question is just how did out because at the out sports article they go out
00:13:24.780 other way to explicitly say several times including in the title we have the texts how did
00:13:29.840 they get and they say this this person was sending texts to multiple recipients how did they get these
00:13:36.160 texts i am so curious and this is a little bit of a nightmare scenario of mine what i think i mean
00:13:43.260 i love it when it happens to somebody else but it's also the my nightmare of it happening to me
00:13:47.520 when you're reading texts or communications from someone who clearly never thought they would be
00:13:54.520 read by the public it's my favorite thing in the world but it's also the idea of the text that i
00:14:01.800 send just to my friends when i don't think anybody else is going to read them it happened to taylor
00:14:07.360 swift and blake lively this week too like i like it is my nightmare how do you think outsports got
00:14:13.860 these texts i mean i have no clue but i have to assume that somebody who was receiving them
00:14:24.520 didn't think what was happening was cool and forwarded them on to a reporter or it could be
00:14:29.760 like a pete hagseth signal gate situation and they just inadvertently added the editor from their fat
00:14:36.840 thumbs right like didn't mean to but that seems unlikely i feel like this was a deliberate
00:14:42.940 communication to journalists i agree i will say kind of back to the point we were making earlier
00:14:50.320 I have kind of been
00:14:52.900 silently hating
00:14:54.140 I never put it in text message
00:14:55.640 but I have sort of been
00:14:56.680 silently hating about
00:14:57.860 just some of the discourse
00:14:59.520 around heated rivalry
00:15:01.080 kind of
00:15:02.040 straight dudes
00:15:03.940 getting a lot of credit
00:15:05.420 for liking a queer show
00:15:07.040 I saw this piece in New York Mag
00:15:08.900 about how straight men
00:15:10.280 were watching it
00:15:11.260 and how it was like
00:15:12.960 this great pushback
00:15:14.120 to heteronormative culture
00:15:15.920 and I was just thinking like
00:15:17.300 come on y'all
00:15:18.100 watching a television show
00:15:19.840 is not
00:15:20.320 activism it all just kind of made me roll my eyes i was always sort of looking at that with a little
00:15:26.940 bit of side eye and skepticism because it's a good show it's not for everybody if you watch like i was
00:15:34.140 listening to um watch what crappens you know i love my boys on watch what crappens and one of 0.83
00:15:39.260 them and they're gay men and one of them was like that's not really for me you know i i i just hate
00:15:46.600 this idea that straight men are saving the world by watching this very popular piece of
00:15:52.860 entertainment media that everybody else is just watching. They're clocking in and taking one for
00:15:57.920 the team and helping society. Everybody else is just voluntarily pleasure watching it. I just
00:16:01.900 never liked that dynamic, I guess I'll say. There's been a lot of discourse about the show.
00:16:07.800 I feel like so many people in my life are talking about it. I admit I haven't seen it.
00:16:14.000 I feel a little culturally negligent that I haven't but it's it's interesting to see like such strong feelings that people have about a TV show that I haven't seen but everyone who tells me about it the main thing that they emphasize is that it's like horny and gay.
00:16:33.480 yeah i mean but also it's like a it's like a good show yeah i mean i've only seen one episode so
00:16:39.800 don't come for me but like yeah it's it's a good show we talked on the podcast about how
00:16:44.600 it's a show that really rewards careful viewing that you can't really watch it and while you're
00:16:50.180 on your phone and get the full the full scope of the thing which i think shows that it's a show
00:16:54.440 that is a bit challenging and also trusts the viewer which i feel like in this day and age
00:16:59.660 there's not a lot of media that trusts their audience so it is it is a good show i guess
00:17:04.720 that's what i'm saying i don't think that straight men should be getting credit for like being agents
00:17:11.240 of social change or something by watching a good show like watching good tv is is like its own
00:17:18.560 reward i i just i don't like the precedent that sets up in and not just with this show in general
00:17:24.160 Anytime that I feel like there's a whiff of something that is like, it is your cultural duty to watch this movie. I could tell you movies where I felt like the marketing campaign was a little bit like that. I reject that. I think that people should watch what they like. People should be culturally, you know, expanding their diets. But consuming media is not activism.
00:17:49.180 I just like patently don't like the idea that we're conflating the two.
00:17:54.480 Well, it's not activism, but commenting on media, it can you can get paid for that.
00:17:59.640 Right. Like these two guys.
00:18:01.540 What I do is activism.
00:18:03.440 Oh, yeah.
00:18:04.200 Talking talking about movies.
00:18:06.040 We're changing the world here.
00:18:08.080 Am I?
00:18:09.260 No, I'm just I'm completely kidding.
00:18:12.220 Please no one.
00:18:13.100 Please no one think that I'm not kidding about that.
00:18:15.460 um i will say now we've looped around to my favorite part of this whole thing which is that
00:18:21.560 because people are like if these two straight hockey dudes are so progressive let's take a
00:18:28.880 look back at some of their other takes from a podcast shall we oh no and uh that's not going
00:18:33.840 well i'm gonna play a clip for you uh that was from their podcast like it's just dude if i go 0.90
00:18:43.600 if i am paying 500 bucks a month for a membership at a fucking bar yeah and i don't get a drink 0.98
00:18:51.040 on my table the second i sit down accompanied with a fucking spit in the hand tug job then 1.00
00:18:57.320 your establishment sucks ass and i just can't believe that we're letting we're just letting 1.00
00:19:02.960 all these places exist like this with these pretentious wannabe tick-tocking cunts serving 1.00
00:19:08.560 me poorly and everyone's 0.99
00:19:10.720 just like this that's that hey you're
00:19:12.620 at Soha house baby I'm like this well this 0.99
00:19:14.560 place is fucking terrible like it's 1.00
00:19:16.160 okay so 0.99
00:19:17.800 oh my god
00:19:20.140 oh my god
00:19:22.280 so I
00:19:24.700 want to say it's not
00:19:26.780 cool to refer to young women
00:19:28.480 with the c word like that's not cool
00:19:30.740 $500 for
00:19:32.760 a membership to a
00:19:34.640 bar that's crazy I'm
00:19:36.680 already on his side
00:19:38.560 Okay. We talked about this off mic. So there's some listeners who are like getting, who are like about to leave you mean comments. I've, so I don't know if they live in LA or New York. I've been to Soho House New York and I, I, fuck this guy for that comment, but I, I know what he's trying to say because I've been to Soho House New York and it is like, I mean, I'm not a member of Soho House, but I was a guest to somebody who was a member.
00:20:02.040 and the service there is bananas. 0.98
00:20:05.160 Like, I can't understand it.
00:20:06.700 And it's so expensive.
00:20:08.560 Everything is overpriced.
00:20:09.560 But my thing in this, in that clip,
00:20:12.600 I get what he's trying to say.
00:20:14.820 However, I don't understand how he doesn't get 0.99
00:20:17.660 how the asshole in the situation is him, right? 0.99
00:20:21.080 It's like, you're the person that's paying 0.99
00:20:23.600 this amount of money for the exclusivity
00:20:26.560 of being a member of Soho House,
00:20:28.300 which folks don't know what that is.
00:20:29.120 It's like a members-only exclusive social club.
00:20:32.040 you are the one who is paying $500 a month
00:20:35.960 to have this, quote, 0.99
00:20:38.020 exclusive experience that actually kind of sucks. 0.88
00:20:41.240 So in my book, you kind of get what you get.
00:20:43.240 Yeah, the service in there is slow.
00:20:45.320 People aren't paying that amount of money for the service.
00:20:47.640 I don't get, like, the complaint.
00:20:48.940 He should be delivering that complaint to a mirror.
00:20:51.000 Why do you continue to spend $500
00:20:53.020 on this experience that is no good?
00:20:56.340 That's on you, sir.
00:20:57.180 Not on these, quote,
00:20:59.540 pretentious TikTok C-words.
00:21:02.040 I had no idea that this was a thing.
00:21:05.700 Soho House?
00:21:06.400 Yeah, like, I guess I just live in a totally different world
00:21:09.320 from so many people, certainly these guys.
00:21:13.800 But, like, you had to describe it to me.
00:21:17.280 Yeah, it sounds terrible.
00:21:18.760 Like, why would a person go there?
00:21:21.580 It sounds like a country club, right?
00:21:23.880 Like, you're paying a high fee for exclusivity 1.00
00:21:26.960 to keep the riffraff out. 1.00
00:21:29.260 And I think the riffraff is me, 0.95
00:21:31.700 because I would never pay $500 a month for a membership to a bar.
00:21:36.740 Are you kidding me?
00:21:38.860 It's supposed to be a high end.
00:21:41.860 And my understanding of it, listen, I only went once
00:21:44.380 and I was a guest of somebody.
00:21:46.660 I think there was a time where it had more cachet.
00:21:48.980 My understanding is the cachet is kind of worn off.
00:21:51.000 When I lived in New York, it was sort of a like frou-frou thing.
00:21:55.860 It's a social club.
00:21:58.060 So you go there, you can co-work.
00:22:00.120 They have, you know, events that if you remember, this is really outing me as a millennial, a recovering millennial girl boss.
00:22:08.660 But I got a comped membership to the women's only social club, The Wing.
00:22:16.020 And that was like, I don't know how you would describe it.
00:22:20.140 It was like a co-working place where they had events at a bar, at a restaurant and showers and lockers.
00:22:28.960 So basically, if you were a busy gal on the go, a girl boss, you could go there and blow out your hair with a good blow dryer and take a shower.
00:22:38.520 If you went to the gym and had a meeting after, basically, they had one in D.C. 0.98
00:22:44.220 I quickly was like, I don't have the kind of life.
00:22:47.600 The lifestyle that I have as a podcaster who very rarely leaves my apartment, I don't have the kind of life that warrants a membership to any kind of social club.
00:22:57.680 Soho House is really...
00:22:58.940 And also, if you were like a crypto grifter or something,
00:23:03.280 it would totally make sense to have a membership there 0.99
00:23:05.700 because it's like, oh, dummies with fat pockets 0.96
00:23:08.340 and money to spend who aren't really that discriminating 0.99
00:23:10.620 about how they spend it.
00:23:11.860 I think there's a world where it would make sense
00:23:14.100 for somebody to pay $500 a month for Soho House.
00:23:17.660 Yeah, if you're like a crypto bro
00:23:20.060 or like a Wall Street trader
00:23:23.700 and you just have like piles of money
00:23:25.640 you don't know what to do with sure that probably makes some sense you go you get mad at the
00:23:34.760 servers for not caring about you no no not just not caring about you as he puts it not giving you 0.99
00:23:43.520 a spit in the hand tug job i cannot believe he said that shit on mike 0.99
00:23:49.100 yeah so people are just going through digging up these guys clips 0.99
00:23:55.920 i've actually find that so less egregious than lying about enjoying heated rivalry
00:24:04.020 i don't know i guess this is this segment isn't supposed to be about my my preferences and
00:24:09.000 reactions here well that was the thing we had this whole conversation before we started
00:24:14.540 recording but do listeners of podcasts expect to get the hosts real opinions and feelings about
00:24:24.000 things it really reminds me of the advice slash curse that i think tina fey put on bow and yang
00:24:30.840 of the podcast lost culturistas which you know was i love i love bow and yang but uh tina fey was a
00:24:36.280 guest on that podcast and they have a segment every week called i don't think so honey and her
00:24:40.360 i don't think so honey was i don't think so honey to bow and yang giving his real opinions about
00:24:46.300 things because he's too famous to do that now and then um she said like a year later
00:24:52.420 bow and yang and his co-host matt rogers said some stuff it turned into a whole thing online
00:24:59.080 and it was like oh tina faye she kind of really saw it coming but it made me wonder like i don't
00:25:05.840 know i'm curious for your thoughts listeners i'm curious for all of your thoughts i feel like
00:25:10.260 i try to be pretty authentic there are definitely things that i would maybe hold back on but i would
00:25:16.640 i care so seriously about media and books and film and shows and television that i would never
00:25:25.980 say something i would never say that i like something if i truly didn't so like i might
00:25:29.780 hold back on certain things for for particular reasons sometimes it's like my opinion is maybe
00:25:35.080 not that good or, you know, not that interesting, but I would never effusively heap praise on
00:25:43.700 something that I didn't like.
00:25:44.820 Just a little example, last week in our episode with Joey, I casually offhand mentioned RuPaul's
00:25:50.660 memoir, and I said, oh, I read RuPaul's memoir, it was pretty good.
00:25:54.060 Then after the episode, I remembered, actually, I was getting it mixed up with a different
00:25:58.080 memoir.
00:25:58.600 I actually didn't really like RuPaul's memoir, so I had to call up Joey and say, can you
00:26:03.580 edit out me saying that I enjoyed RuPaul's memoir, because it was important to me to be like,
00:26:09.000 I don't want somebody to read this memoir and be like, wow, Bridget likes this. And I remember I
00:26:12.340 was like, I didn't like it. I thought it was full of platitudes and it sounded like an Instagram
00:26:15.300 caption. No offense to RuPaul, didn't love the memoir. So I say that to say, I can't see myself
00:26:21.860 pretending to really enjoy a piece of media that I did not. That's not the same thing as holding
00:26:28.860 back my feelings. I don't know. What do you think? Is any of this making sense?
00:26:32.560 it is yeah we talked about this and thought about it is an interesting question and i
00:26:36.500 think you really hit the nail on the head that or as far as i i feel at least that
00:26:42.380 there is a big difference between holding back because for whatever reason you think people
00:26:50.140 don't want to hear your opinions and actively saying something when you believe the opposite
00:26:58.000 it those feel i would never yeah i i mean would i i would never i would never even if i i'm trying
00:27:06.880 to think of it i just can't i just can't see myself ever doing that anyway y'all let me know
00:27:12.840 what you think in the comments do you think that these hockey bros are just performatively
00:27:18.940 pretending to like this queer show to get money and more listeners and well yeah what do you think
00:27:27.060 about that we i i i have so much to say about it i'm curious what other people think yeah also
00:27:33.980 curious what listeners think about authenticity because we hear so much about authenticity being
00:27:39.400 so important but i feel like the example about bow and yang that you gave is a pretty good one
00:27:46.900 that tina fae's advice to him that he needs to be careful about what he says because he's so famous
00:27:53.620 i think most people probably get that and so there's like this duality of expecting authenticity
00:27:59.520 but also recognizing that when you have a big platform maybe it's not actually good to just
00:28:07.520 say whatever comes into your head right yeah yeah that's a thoughtful way to put it i mean
00:28:14.880 it would be such a curse for me personally to talk about monkey paw to be i you know i want
00:28:21.680 to be successful. I want the show to be successful because I care about it. If I ever got to the
00:28:27.200 point where I can't say what I actually think, that would be a curse. May I never get famous
00:28:32.620 enough that I cannot speak my mind. And if, you know, and I get it, Bowen Yang, he's friends with
00:28:40.920 Ariana Grande. He's friends with the guy who plays SpongeBob. Like he's famous, famous now. And I've
00:28:47.060 been listening to his show since it first started. And it's like, you really see the trajectory of
00:28:50.460 just getting somebody's unvarnished takes and that's what like made me fall in love with their
00:28:54.580 show lost culture east is but then when you get to a certain level of fame it wouldn't be a good
00:28:59.560 idea to be so authentically you know as tina faye put it authenticity comes at a price and
00:29:06.640 i understand at a certain point when your career gets to a certain point
00:29:10.240 you don't you don't want to pay that price you want to if somebody calls you up and wants to 0.97
00:29:14.640 put you in a movie you don't want there to be a track record of you talking shit about them 0.79
00:29:18.140 forever i basically accept that i'll never i i before i had this podcast i worked at a tech
00:29:22.980 company i worked at medium that was the best job i ever had it's a company that i will ride for
00:29:26.880 i've accepted that i will never work at another tech company probably till the day i and for the
00:29:31.200 for as long as i live because i've talked shit about so many of them but like i gotta call it
00:29:36.120 like i see it i have to i have to call out companies that i think are bad and people that 0.79
00:29:40.420 i think are bad leaders and people that have made bad choices like i i don't have much in this life
00:29:45.440 I need that. Give me that.
00:29:50.100 Yeah. You know, people value different things.
00:29:52.260 Some people value money over everything else.
00:29:55.340 Other people value the freedom to say what they want, do what they want.
00:30:00.320 I know which side I'm on.
00:30:02.280 Yeah, you're like, you'll never own a home, 1.00
00:30:04.200 but you will be talking shit into a microphone in your kitchen 1.00
00:30:06.740 until the day that you die. 1.00
00:30:07.840 You can say whatever you want. 0.98
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00:33:19.640 let's get right back into it okay so switching gears we have talked about this in the podcast
00:33:31.460 before but the white house their social media is such a cluster of the worst most gruesome
00:33:39.100 content that you've ever seen in your life it is truly ghoulish stuff i sort of stopped paying
00:33:44.760 attention to it which i think is exactly what they want and i think it's the kind of thing that i
00:33:49.640 In my opinion, even among their supporters, like even if you were a Trump supporter or like a Trump voter, the kinds of content they put out is I think you would have to be a real ghoul to want to see.
00:34:02.020 Right. I remember they were putting out videos of like stacks of migrant men, all like it's just like stuff where it's like you would have to be a sicko to want to see this. 0.87
00:34:11.820 Yes, they are actively engaged in a campaign to desensitize Americans and make us all more cruel and indifferent to the suffering of others. They want to celebrate the suffering of others with a capital O. 0.98
00:34:27.620 Exactly. Exactly. And so that's why so much of this administration has been about creating content, you know, but and they create the content that plays with the worst and also the most stupid people on the Internet.
00:34:43.060 I remember you and I talking about the video of I think it was Pete Hegseth and Sean Duffy doing chin ups at an airport. And it's like, what kind of what kind of person is like, yeah, this is what I want to see. 0.92
00:34:55.500 I mean, at least that was stupidest person. 1.00
00:34:58.080 At least that one was just stupid, right? 1.00
00:35:00.020 Like no one was having their life destroyed or their body injured. 1.00
00:35:07.380 Right. 1.00
00:35:08.160 Give me more of that stupidity. 1.00
00:35:09.740 I would take that any day over the cruelty and depravity that they push on us every day. 1.00
00:35:16.200 Totally fair.
00:35:17.340 And it's, you know, one of the reasons is now the White House is asking ICE to make their own content.
00:35:23.780 And it's why when Renee Good was killed in Minneapolis, the officer that stopped her was also filming on his personal cell phone, right?
00:35:31.720 And so, side note, do you remember in Chicago when ICE and federal agents used helicopters to break into an apartment building in the middle of the night?
00:35:39.140 Were they zip-tied residents, including kids and elders?
00:35:42.680 Do you remember that? 0.94
00:35:43.640 Yeah, I definitely remember that.
00:35:45.560 And it's a real testament to these insane times that we live in that that is an event that like came and went and it's not like a continuing national embarrassment.
00:36:02.140 Yes. And based on reporting from ProPublica and PBS, none, zero, not a single of the 37 individuals arrested during that raid were charged with a federal crime, despite that operation initially being framed as this like big, high profile anti-terror action where they were going to like, you know, take down these high level big deal criminals.
00:36:28.360 The detainees, who were primarily Venezuelan nationals, faced administrative immigration violations rather than any kind of criminal charges.
00:36:37.840 What they ended up doing in that was just getting super cool footage of helicopters breaking into people's homes and windows at night that they put on official White House social media channels.
00:36:50.940 So they basically just terrorized the entire community for a video shoot.
00:36:54.540 They didn't get any high-profile, you know, big-deal terrorists or bad guys at all.
00:37:00.780 Zero, nada, none, not one.
00:37:02.600 Yeah, we are all just props in a collective glamour shot of Trump
00:37:11.640 portraying him as, like, some big tough guy.
00:37:15.720 It's really despicable and bothering. 0.99
00:37:20.160 Can we just talk about, like, the gay hockey again? 1.00
00:37:23.020 I know.
00:37:23.600 So you might have heard that this woman, Nakima Levy Armstrong, who is an attorney and an organizer and the former president of the NAACP's Minneapolis branch, she was arrested during an action that disrupted church services in Minnesota.
00:37:37.880 So she and protesters entered the city's church in St. Paul, and at this church, an ICE enforcement official serves as the pastor of this church. So to be clear, there was zero violence and zero property damage of any kind during this action. Literally, they just came into the church, said an anti-ICE slogan, and that was it.
00:38:01.560 So there's not even any accusations
00:38:03.420 that anything beyond that happened.
00:38:05.440 All parties agree on this.
00:38:07.000 However, she was arrested by federal officers.
00:38:11.920 You might be wondering, like, what are the charges?
00:38:13.840 It's not even clear.
00:38:15.000 This is from the Minnesota Public Radio News.
00:38:17.560 It was not immediately clear what charge she would face.
00:38:21.300 Justice Department officials have said in recent days
00:38:23.100 they were considering charging the protesters
00:38:25.020 under the Freedom of Access to Clinic Entrances Act.
00:38:28.660 If you're wondering what that is or if it sounds familiar,
00:38:31.560 That's the FAITH Act, and it prohibits physically obstructing or using the threat of force to intimidate or interfere with a person seeking reproductive health services or seeking to participate in a service at a house of worship.
00:38:44.420 So basically, it's a policy that is really intended to allow folks to get to reproductive health services.
00:38:52.300 And the administration is trying to be like, oh, maybe we can charge them under this act to say that they physically block people who were trying to participate in a church service.
00:39:00.840 The people were already seated and participating in a church service, so I don't know.
00:39:05.180 Again, I'm no lawyer, but that's what they're saying. 0.99
00:39:07.940 It's like the creativity of morons who think that they're really thinking outside of the box, and they're not. 1.00
00:39:16.540 They're just having stupid thoughts that don't make sense. 1.00
00:39:20.760 Initially, they tried to charge journalist Don Lemon, who was covering this protest, but ultimately those charges didn't stick. 0.99
00:39:27.200 a magistrate judge rejected federal prosecutor's bid to charge Don Lemon related to the church
00:39:32.780 protest. So Lemon said that he was there as a journalist, not a protester. Like, I saw the
00:39:37.600 footage that he took, and it's just like, very obviously, he was there as a journalist. He said,
00:39:43.060 once the protest started in the church, we did an act of journalism, which was to report on it and
00:39:47.140 talk to the people involved, including the pastor, members of the church, and members of the
00:39:51.240 organization. That's it. That's called journalism, he said. So they arrested Nakima Levy-Armstrong
00:39:57.580 and the White House published an AI-altered image of her on social media. According to The Guardian,
00:40:05.480 the White House used AI to darken her skin and make it look like she was hysterically sobbing
00:40:12.260 with like tears streaming down her face. We'll put the image in the show notes. In reality,
00:40:17.980 during her arrest, she looks completely composed.
00:40:22.320 The altering of the image on the official White House channel
00:40:25.320 also just made her look worse than she actually looked.
00:40:28.560 They made her look older.
00:40:30.020 They made her look kind of more disheveled. 0.99
00:40:31.980 They darkened her skin.
00:40:33.320 They made her look heavier.
00:40:34.880 So originally, the White House posted the real picture.
00:40:39.280 The Homeland Security Secretary, Kristi Noem,
00:40:41.820 posted the image of Armstrong's arrest at 10.21 a.m. on Thursday,
00:40:45.500 an hour after Pam Bondi's announcement that she had been arrested.
00:40:48.960 The image, the unaltered image, shows law enforcement blurred out,
00:40:54.240 escorting Armstrong, who appears to be handcuffed.
00:40:57.040 She's dressed in all Black, and she appears to be composed in the picture.
00:41:00.840 But then, I guess the White House was like, nah, this isn't inflammatory enough.
00:41:05.760 So 30 minutes later, the White House posted another image of her arrest,
00:41:09.820 in which she is crying.
00:41:11.560 White House Press Secretary Caroline Leavitt reposted this image,
00:41:15.500 And the image posted by the White House, according to a Guardian analysis, has been altered.
00:41:22.360 Yeah, I mean, it just reminds me of how much the Trump administration really goes out of their way to deeply disrespect Black women. 0.70
00:41:33.120 It's misogynoir, it's racist, it's sexist, it's gendered, it's racialized.
00:41:37.340 And I think that they had to know that the image of this Black woman composed and defiant while being arrested by federal agents for this very low-scale protest in a church, they had to know that the image of her looking defiant and composed was not going to play.
00:41:58.180 So they were like, we have to we have to use A.I. to create this reality where, in fact, she looks terrified and disheveled and was sobbing because that's what's going to play with our base, especially because it's a black woman. 0.52
00:42:10.140 totally that's what they do they have no regard for truth or reality they think that they can just 0.98
00:42:20.020 create reality and push it on the rest of us and alter images say lies and especially if it's about 0.86
00:42:30.060 a black woman absolutely right it's so despicable it like boils my blood everything going on in
00:42:38.480 minneapolis is so offensive to human dignity uh and like the sense of what it is to to be 0.99
00:42:49.040 an american it's really like pushing people's boundaries i think they're trying to they're
00:42:55.940 trying to like push the limits of what they can get away with it's despicable i don't i don't
00:43:01.320 even have a deeper point yeah and you know i'm really reminded i in my home i have so many like
00:43:09.100 images around my home of all of the powerful and arresting images that we have from you know the
00:43:16.020 civil rights movement the black arts movement all of that i had there's this one iconic image and
00:43:20.480 i'll put it in the show notes of this woman gloria richardson who was the leader of the cambridge
00:43:25.380 non-violent action committee and she's it's this image that folks have might have seen where
00:43:30.100 she is really giving a heavy side eye to a national guardsman who was holding a rifle in
00:43:38.260 her face and she's taking her hand and she's like physically pushing the rifle out of like out of
00:43:44.120 her face and she looks so defiant right and the look that she's giving i can't really explain it 0.82
00:43:53.100 but if you're a black woman or you are around black women or you if you had a black mom or you
00:43:57.520 It is a particular look that she is giving this National Guard member and that rifle that I've seen from my own mom a million times.
00:44:08.440 I can't even really put it into words, but I know exactly what she is communicating via her look.
00:44:13.960 And my question is, that image is arresting because she's using the gifts and the tools that we as Black women have as a tool of, in the face of being threatened with a gun, right? 0.99
00:44:31.060 It's like, you may have a gun in my face, but I'm a Black woman and I have a withering fucking stare and that's enough. 0.99
00:44:37.760 No one's going to remember the name of that National Guard member putting a gun on her face. 0.99
00:44:41.180 this image when you see it you'll be like oh iconic right so what i guess the point that i'm
00:44:46.120 making is that i think this is the administration using the tools at their disposal which are of 1.00
00:44:52.240 course ai because they're lazy stupid morons who don't care about anything original and don't have 1.00
00:44:56.640 anything original to offer anybody they're using these tools to try to take away our like god-given 1.00
00:45:04.420 abilities to resist right we as black women one of the gifts that we have is the ability to
00:45:12.580 you know keep it cute have composure look defiant look iconic even if we're being arrested like 0.99
00:45:19.560 this sister was being arrested right and so the fact that they are using such a lazy fucking 0.99
00:45:24.580 moron trick of make her look bad and disheveled and crying and scared when in fact the sister was 0.98
00:45:31.180 composed in the face of this arrest this federal arrest i think really says a lot i'm like what 0.83
00:45:37.980 what if like what if all of the iconic images of people throughout the years resisting
00:45:44.220 somebody went in and and used ai to try to make them less defiant and less iconic and again i like
00:45:52.780 i did something about this image they have nothing real to offer so they have to use 0.97
00:45:59.480 the lazy moron's trick 1.00
00:46:01.680 of making her look bad via AI 1.00
00:46:03.920 to obscure the reality
00:46:05.780 that this woman was confident,
00:46:08.140 composed, and defiant.
00:46:09.680 She might have been scared inside.
00:46:11.340 I get that.
00:46:12.360 But trying to use what they can
00:46:15.260 to strip away the power of her composure
00:46:18.220 using AI, I think, really says it all.
00:46:21.760 And, you know, the reality is
00:46:24.240 we've all seen the original image.
00:46:25.740 They posted the original image.
00:46:27.360 I think the original image, 0.97
00:46:28.360 She looked too bold.
00:46:31.400 They were like, we can't have this be the official image of this woman, you know, eating us up, serving a face while she's getting arrested. 0.99
00:46:40.280 We need to use AI to make this image fit what our base is going to like.
00:46:45.880 And it really, it just really says a lot to me.
00:46:48.140 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:46:49.180 I do.
00:46:49.720 Yeah, you really said it well.
00:46:51.240 You know, they don't have anything real to offer. 1.00
00:46:55.340 they depend on making people afraid they depend on immigrants being afraid they depend on
00:47:04.700 americans of color being afraid like in in minneapolis people are not going out it's like
00:47:12.240 a city under siege right like i saw a video the other day of a 12 year old boy getting stopped
00:47:21.020 and arrested. He was on his way home from school.
00:47:23.460 There was a woman, she was 0.86
00:47:25.060 a black woman 0.99
00:47:26.760 cop, like on the Minneapolis Police 0.99
00:47:28.680 Department.
00:47:30.480 She was off duty. I don't know what she was 1.00
00:47:32.920 doing. She got stopped by
00:47:34.820 either ICE or Border Patrol.
00:47:37.520 I saw that.
00:47:38.700 It's just like, American citizens
00:47:41.000 going about their business,
00:47:42.840 children coming home from school,
00:47:45.100 all of them, this administration
00:47:46.480 wants them to be
00:47:48.620 afraid. And
00:47:50.240 they know that most americans find what they're doing repugnant and so they have to use ai and
00:48:01.660 fakery to create this illusion that people are actually afraid because people people are afraid
00:48:09.160 but also like nakima armstrong people are standing up against this tyranny despite their fear right
00:48:18.340 Like some things are more important than being afraid.
00:48:20.720 Some things are more important than our own physical safety of the moment.
00:48:25.360 A lot of things are more important than like getting arrested for a protest, you know, like it's not great, but whatever.
00:48:33.160 I don't know her whole backstory, but like what I do know about her, I'm sure she's been through far worse than spending an evening or even overnight in a holding cell.
00:48:46.340 Oh, yeah.
00:48:47.180 You know, and that is what I think is so is so completely unacceptable to these would be tyrants that people are not afraid of them.
00:48:56.560 And so they have to digitally edit things to make it seem as if people are afraid when they're not.
00:49:05.440 People are disgusted.
00:49:07.340 Yeah. Oh, that's such a good point.
00:49:08.580 When The Guardian asked the White House whether or not that image had been digitally altered, the White House responded by sending a post from X from Kaylin Doerr, the deputy communications director, that said,
00:49:20.400 Yet again, to the people who feel the need to reflexively defend perpetrators of heinous crimes in our country, I share with you this message. Enforcement of the law will continue. The memes will continue. Thank you for your attention on this matter.
00:49:33.600 So, you know, you're a serious administration when you say the memes will continue. But also, that doesn't answer their question at all. So they obviously did that shit.
00:49:42.120 The memes will continue. That should be the tagline to this second Trump administration. 1.00
00:49:48.000 Yes, it absolutely should be. And I'll just leave y'all with this. If they will use AI to manipulate images, especially when the images exist in the original and that they put them out, so the public has seen them, on official White House communication channels, they will do absolutely anything, right?
00:50:07.100 Like, like there is no I mean, not that I needed to tell anybody this, but there is no reason to believe anything coming out of this White House. And I don't think that they understand that when you use AI to to manipulate reality in this way, what you are admitting is that we are liars. You cannot trust anything that we say. Not that anybody needs that. That's a newsflash to anybody listening. But like, I don't know that they're aware that they're just making it clear that no one should ever take them at face value about anything ever. If they'll do this, they'll do anything.
00:50:37.100 you make a good point that like this is so hard to talk about because you're right that's not a
00:50:43.380 new point everybody knows that they lie constantly they will say anything they will make things up
00:50:48.300 their relationship to the truth is non-existent like new phone who dis like they don't even know
00:50:56.820 and like what do you do with that it's but it's clear that anybody who does take anything they
00:51:07.540 say as a fact or something that might be true is playing along is carrying water for
00:51:15.940 these authoritarians um and just like those podcast hockey bros you know we have to ask like
00:51:25.000 what how how important is authenticity you know how much are we going to let people get away
00:51:31.580 with saying things that they don't believe that they know are not true i don't know what the
00:51:38.080 answer is there but i you know it seems like a big question that we need to sort out as a society
00:51:43.160 couldn't have put it better myself more after a quick break
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00:52:53.860 When I was 14 years old, I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months.
00:52:59.680 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
00:53:06.060 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files.
00:53:09.620 I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear saying, shut up, don't say anything.
00:53:18.220 Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable.
00:53:22.480 I knew if he woke up, without a doubt, he was going to hurt me.
00:53:27.040 I started feeling that there was someone at the end of my bed, and I just started screaming.
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00:53:41.880 They're stories about what it takes to make it out alive.
00:53:45.520 Listen to The Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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00:53:59.880 This is Prose Society, the weekly podcast that's part book club, part group chat for thought daughters,
00:54:06.080 pop culture obsessives, and anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the
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00:54:19.340 I'm going to have to look up this story. I'm obsessed. So obsessed.
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00:54:53.240 Let's get right back into it.
00:55:02.080 Okay, so really quick, let me tell you about this guy, James Fishback.
00:55:07.460 I know what you're thinking.
00:55:08.860 Who?
00:55:09.240 Never heard of him.
00:55:10.240 But he is a Republican running for the governor of Florida.
00:55:12.800 And this guy's background is something.
00:55:16.660 First of all, financial messiness.
00:55:18.440 A hedge fund that he used to work for successfully sued Fishback for more than $200,000, which he told the court that he's not able to pay. So great start for somebody who is throwing their hat in the ring to manage a state's budget, right?
00:55:33.460 Then there is the political company that he keeps.
00:55:36.240 He has openly defended supporters
00:55:38.600 of the far-right commentator Nick Fuentes
00:55:41.720 by saying, quote,
00:55:43.460 I found the audience of young men
00:55:45.180 who follow and watch Nick Fuentes
00:55:46.580 to be actually incredibly informed
00:55:48.440 and insightful and very patriotic.
00:55:50.740 Just for context, 0.77
00:55:51.780 Nick Fuentes is like a straight-up Nazi. 0.90
00:55:54.560 He was just in a club in Miami 0.98
00:55:56.240 bopping to that Kanye West song,
00:55:59.140 Heil Schmittler.
00:56:00.780 again i will never say that in on no one will ever have a record of me saying that because i
00:56:05.920 know the second that i do someone's gonna clip it so but you know you know who i'm talking about
00:56:10.500 so i'm not trying to derail this but when i read that in the notes for this episode i
00:56:14.620 just needed to look into it i was like what kind of club would possibly play that song
00:56:20.300 uh it turns out it's some parisian themed club in miami that was hosting fuentes the tate brothers
00:56:27.580 and a bunch of other Manosphere chuds 0.85
00:56:29.620 who all arrived on a big party bus 0.78
00:56:31.900 that was blasting that song over its loudspeakers
00:56:35.100 because they love it so much.
00:56:38.200 After the fact, the club put out a statement
00:56:40.820 that they had fired three people from their staff
00:56:44.140 who were involved, which I guess is good.
00:56:48.060 Like, on the one hand, I feel even more angry
00:56:52.200 at these dudes for getting a bunch of workers fired.
00:56:55.280 But then again, if those workers were cool with this song and thought that it was going to be like a fun joke to play it or maybe not even a fun joke, maybe like a fun affirmation of their values, they can get bent.
00:57:09.200 And my solidarity for almost all workers does not extend to straight-up Nazis.
00:57:18.660 So, sorry for that diversion, but I just had to share more about that story because I cannot believe that that happened in Miami of all places.
00:57:29.000 We talked about this in the episode that we did this week with Parker Malloy briefly.
00:57:34.360 That was such a weird situation.
00:57:37.260 i saw some like footage of it and they were in a sprinter van playing heil schmittler beforehand
00:57:45.260 and i think sneeko or one of them had an image that was like we're driving around in a sprint
00:57:51.720 in the sprinter van with college hotties and it's an image where the the incel right wing dudes are
00:57:59.760 up front and then the girl it's like it's like a group of girls just in the back and it's like
00:58:06.360 i can tell that you all just paid these women to come in the sprinter van because if these were
00:58:12.620 like the girls are just talking amongst themselves it was like the girls are just props y'all aren't
00:58:16.260 even like taught like embedded with or talking to or engaging with the girls in any capacity
00:58:21.800 just like and there's some girls in the back i don't know what they're doing we're not even
00:58:25.860 talking to them but we're up front doing this and then also funny enough i saw a video of
00:58:31.480 andrew tate after the fact basically being like i didn't request the song i wasn't singing the song
00:58:38.580 it just happened to play and i was like you're supposed to be this big alpha and after your big
00:58:45.280 stunt you can't even stand 10 toes down on it you're gonna be like i just went into the club
00:58:51.460 and this song smile schmittler that we had just been filming ourselves bopping to in the sprinter
00:58:57.620 van they just happened to randomly play it i didn't even dance to it it's like you i just was
00:59:02.900 like this is the you're the big scary alpha you can't even like commit to the bit my god i mean
00:59:09.200 talk about distorting reality these dudes who are all like they just live to like bench press with
00:59:17.300 each other and like be up at the front of the bus while all the girls are in the back yeah i it's
00:59:24.260 also funny because i'm curious what the deal was how the song ended up getting played in the club
00:59:29.460 i am a former dj i dj'd all through college if somebody came up to me and was like hey play
00:59:35.860 this song that references hitler positively uh i would not do it i mean somebody i have no
00:59:43.880 recollection of this but when i was in college it was like 19 i was djing a party and i i must
00:59:49.380 have been blackout drunk because i have no recollection of this somebody came up to the
00:59:52.840 dj booze and requested a song and apparently i flicked the lit cigarette at them and said no
00:59:57.060 requests i have no i i have only heard about this from other people i have no recollection of it 0.95
01:00:04.960 actually happening but fuck no i wouldn't have played this song i would have flicked at the very 0.72
01:00:09.100 least i would have put the lit cigarette at he was said no requests there's a lot of the things 0.98
01:00:12.960 in this world that i feel were like missed opportunities and make me a little sad i feel
01:00:17.520 like the fact that the world did not get a better glimpse of 20 year old bridget like flicking lit
01:00:26.420 cigarettes at people from behind a dj booth this is a real tragedy i the people who were there i
01:00:33.840 hope they understood what they were witness to oh my god i just thank god that unlike sneeko and
01:00:41.300 nick fuentes there's no footage of this because this was all happening at a time before that was 0.99
01:00:46.080 ubiquitous also a dude's name is sneeko sneeko yeah he's one of the he's one of the chuds sneeko
01:00:54.900 okay okay so back to fishback so fishback he's running for governor of florida he also freely
01:01:03.040 admits that he spends three to four hours every day on x just like posting content and like doing
01:01:09.980 content, YouTube interviews, gaming streams. He's basically a rage bait candidate, y'all.
01:01:16.420 As Democratic political consultant Steve Shale put it, he's shown absolutely nothing to demonstrate
01:01:22.460 that he's actually a serious candidate for governor. But instead of languishing in obscurity,
01:01:27.460 this is according to the Miami Herald, like the nearly three dozen other political unknowns
01:01:32.020 running for Florida governor. Also, three dozen people are running for Florida governor. That is
01:01:37.280 that is some florida nonsense right there his one of them is a gator
01:01:41.860 like a literal alligator this time the gator bites gators bite back 0.90
01:01:49.520 his policies are socially conservative financially liberal and he will bite you
01:01:57.780 because he's a gator okay oh sorry where was i okay instead of languishing in obscurity like 0.56
01:02:04.020 the nearly three dozen other political unknowns running for Florida governor, his nonstop social
01:02:08.980 media outrage machine has raised his profile enough to force the Republican establishment
01:02:13.240 to deal with him and the white nationalists that he's been courting. So here's a detail about him
01:02:20.200 that connects with why I would be talking about this turd at all. He used to run a debate program
01:02:26.300 for young people, for kids.
01:02:28.520 How did that go?
01:02:29.820 Well, four years ago,
01:02:32.560 the Broward County School District in Florida
01:02:34.480 had to cut ties with Fishback
01:02:36.160 and his organization, Incubate Debate,
01:02:39.540 following allegations that he had
01:02:41.160 an inappropriate romantic relationship
01:02:43.240 with a then 17-year-old girl
01:02:45.200 employed by Incubate Debate.
01:02:47.700 These allegations led to the resignation
01:02:49.860 of an Incubate Debate board member.
01:02:52.620 Fishback also threatened the parents
01:02:54.360 who made this allegation
01:02:56.040 with legal action. So here's what we know. Fishback and this girl moved in together in the
01:03:01.740 spring of 2023 after she turned 18. They were briefly engaged in 2024 before publicly breaking
01:03:08.080 up. Now, Fishback has denied any inappropriate contact prior to her turning 18 and reaching the
01:03:14.940 age of consent. This is a denial that she disputes. She said that they did have inappropriate contact
01:03:21.080 when she was 17 when she was a minor the Broward County School District says that they cut ties
01:03:26.860 with his debate program after concerns about his quote failure to follow district safeguards with 0.99
01:03:33.180 students so don't fuck them this is yeah this is the kind of guy who wants to dictate morality 0.99
01:03:40.480 to women what do you think about that he's definitely the kind of person who I think like 1.00
01:03:45.080 needs to be when i when i think of somebody who is morally upstanding it's guys like this so just
01:03:52.620 to recap not only was she 17 and part of this like student group thing that he was running
01:03:59.600 but she was also his employee correct he's just like maybe he has a fetish for anti-ethical
01:04:07.540 behavior. I mean, he never paid back that 200K. So one of the major planks of his campaign is
01:04:15.740 what he is calling a sin tax for OnlyFans creators. He says that if he's elected governor,
01:04:21.720 he will push for a 50% tax on income earned by OnlyFans creators in Florida and that that money
01:04:29.080 will go to support the schools. Listen to how he talks about this. He said, quote,
01:04:33.980 My message to the owners of OnlyFans
01:04:36.080 is to get the hell out of our state. 0.94
01:04:38.140 I hope you go bankrupt. 0.99
01:04:39.780 Don't you dare come to my state 1.00
01:04:41.860 and try to exploit and abuse young women 0.99
01:04:44.300 because that's my job. 0.78
01:04:45.940 Just kidding, he didn't say that.
01:04:46.940 I added that.
01:04:48.660 My message to the men buying this content, stop.
01:04:52.080 My message to the women who are being exploited, stop.
01:04:55.260 So this is just more like rage bait from this dude.
01:04:58.560 His policy even called out
01:05:00.900 a specific OnlyFans creator by name.
01:05:03.220 He says, my proposal as Florida governor is to raise the tax on OnlyFans model's income to 50%. 0.97
01:05:08.860 So for someone like Sophia Rain, she would end up paying Florida $42 million in taxes.
01:05:15.900 And Sophia Rain, the OnlyFans creator that he specifically named, was like, I don't think so, honey.
01:05:22.580 To quote Bowen Yang and Matt Rogers from Los Colteristas, I don't think so, honey.
01:05:28.660 So she clapped back.
01:05:29.620 she said, never in my whole life that I think that I would wake up and see a Florida politician
01:05:33.820 trying to start beef with me for clout. She pointed out that she and all the other OnlyFans 0.80
01:05:40.060 creators already pay significant federal taxes. We would have to pay 50% to the state on top of
01:05:46.400 the 37% I already pay to the government. And I would be more than happy to pay that if
01:05:51.920 multi-billion dollar corporations were also being properly taxed. But surprise, they are not. So
01:05:58.640 listen one thing you can say about rain she pay her bills because this guy was like listen i owe
01:06:04.720 you 200k guess what i can't pay it and i'm not gonna pay it right like she pays her bills honestly
01:06:11.100 she sounds like she would make a better governor of florida than this guy yeah i mean i think that 0.96
01:06:16.140 fictional alligator candidate would probably be a better governor he might bite you but at least
01:06:23.120 he's not this guy yeah at least you know where he stands yes biting and i just think that people
01:06:30.560 like fishback they i mean i think that like sophia rain is exactly right he is trying to clout chase
01:06:36.400 by talking about her mentioning her name she's a very popular creator um you know makes a lot of
01:06:42.260 money and so i think that she is spot on but i also think that it's really the fact that folks
01:06:47.900 especially women who are doing sex work and have been able to find ways to profit that might be
01:06:52.260 less exploitative and give them more control that is really what the beef is with him now just to
01:06:57.920 be clear OnlyFans I think does take like 20% off the top so it's not like it's not like you know
01:07:02.720 they're not getting 100% of the money but forgive me if I think that a man who was in a relationship
01:07:10.180 with a minor according to that minor is genuinely worried about the sexual exploitation of women and
01:07:16.280 girls. It's about control. It is about him being uncomfortable with women's sexual and economic
01:07:23.580 agency and autonomy being in the same place. And yeah, shout out to Sophia Renain, because I think
01:07:30.620 that sex workers have been involved in the labor rights movement, every fight for like body autonomy 0.57
01:07:36.420 and they're, they're instrumental to the fight for and conversations around things like economic
01:07:43.100 justice, right? Like, they organize, they advocate, they protect each other, they advocate for things
01:07:48.280 that end up protecting all of us. Meanwhile, politicians like Fishback are too busy not
01:07:54.220 following district safeguards with young girls. So, yeah, I'll just leave it at that.
01:08:02.120 Let's take a quick break.
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01:10:11.960 When I was 14 years old,
01:10:14.220 I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months.
01:10:17.720 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring
01:10:20.440 how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
01:10:24.180 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files. 0.70
01:10:27.720 I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear saying, shut up, don't say anything.
01:10:36.240 Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable.
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01:10:45.060 I started feeling that there was someone at the end of my bed, and I just started screaming.
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01:11:20.320 mike you know i'm excited because the oscar nominations dropped this week i want to can
01:11:27.580 we talk briefly about it because you know i'm the kind of person who waits for the oscar nominees to
01:11:32.680 drop watches a lot of the films has takes can can we can we talk a little bit about it yeah
01:11:38.760 absolutely i know that you love talking about the oscars i have even seen several of the movies
01:11:44.860 this year so i feel like i can contribute to the conversation and uh you know quite a few of them
01:11:50.880 i think are actually relevant to the stuff we talk about on the show so yeah what uh what do
01:11:55.800 you think about the oscar nominations bridget well first of all i have to say i think the reason why
01:12:03.440 you've seen more movies that are nominated than you usually would is the positive effects of my
01:12:08.440 bullying of being like no we you gotta see this movie or no we're gonna go see it let's let's see
01:12:12.460 it uh so let's see nerd yeah i'm taking credit for that uh y'all know i have i have said this
01:12:19.760 before my dream is to have like a movie culture podcast on the ringer a la the ringer where
01:12:28.160 it's tech culture meets movies kind of the way that on the ringer they talk about movies and tv
01:12:34.760 but their lens is really sports and i feel like my the lens through which i see the world is
01:12:39.340 technology that is that is my goal in life is this whole tech podcast thing is just an excuse
01:12:45.640 to talk about movies and television and culture so all things that are very important to me
01:12:51.040 yeah the nominees were about what i was expecting there are a couple of notable snubs i don't know
01:12:57.740 if you saw it was just an accident a little surprised to not see that get a shout out in
01:13:02.120 best picture sinners a movie that you and i saw together in the theater got the most nominations
01:13:08.160 of any movie ever with 16 nominations.
01:13:11.940 So this is not just the most nominations
01:13:13.960 of any movie nominated in this Oscars.
01:13:17.340 In the history of the Oscars,
01:13:18.720 no movie has ever been more nominated than Sinners.
01:13:22.300 Major shout out to Sinners cinematographer
01:13:24.880 Autumn Durald-Archipaugh,
01:13:26.800 who also made Oscars history
01:13:28.880 as the first ever woman of color
01:13:30.760 nominated in that category.
01:13:32.900 This is kind of wild.
01:13:34.180 In the history of the category,
01:13:36.960 No woman has ever won the Oscar for cinematography.
01:13:40.080 I have a feeling she might change that if she wins,
01:13:43.220 which I think she might. 1.00
01:13:44.500 And only three women ever, in general,
01:13:47.940 have been nominated.
01:13:49.180 Rachel Morrison for the 2018 film Mudbound,
01:13:52.740 Ari Wegner in the 2021 movie The Power of the Dog,
01:13:55.460 and Mandy Walker in 2022 for Elvis.
01:13:58.260 It's really one of those things where
01:14:00.360 I want to celebrate this as an achievement,
01:14:03.380 but also it's sort of bittersweet 1.00
01:14:05.660 because I can't help but hear the small handful of women
01:14:10.060 who have ever been nominated ever
01:14:11.520 and be like, it's unbelievable that it's taken this long.
01:14:14.740 It's unbelievable that it's 2026
01:14:16.320 when we have our first ever woman of color
01:14:18.360 nominated in this category.
01:14:20.740 That is wild to me.
01:14:22.460 Yeah, that is surprising. 1.00
01:14:24.560 I feel like it's a fact that women are underrepresented 1.00
01:14:31.860 just in cinematography across the board, 1.00
01:14:35.240 like as cinematographers.
01:14:37.120 Is that right?
01:14:37.760 Do you know if that's the case? 1.00
01:14:39.360 I mean, women are underrepresented 1.00
01:14:41.540 in filmmaking and all aspects 1.00
01:14:44.720 of entertainment writ large.
01:14:46.320 So it would not surprise me
01:14:47.280 to find that cinematography,
01:14:48.480 that is true for cinematography.
01:14:50.300 Of course, there are so many amazing 0.98
01:14:54.020 women cinematographers
01:14:55.800 and women filmmakers.
01:14:57.460 And I want to be very clear.
01:15:00.640 It is not that they don't exist
01:15:02.000 because they're there.
01:15:02.800 I could name off some.
01:15:04.300 But it is true that they don't often get the support, the representation, you know, the placement that they deserve.
01:15:12.560 Well, that makes Autumn Gerard Arquipa's nomination even more impressive then.
01:15:18.820 Exactly. So the best film nominees this year are Sinners, One Battle After Another, Begonia, Marty Supreme, F1, Frankenstein, Hamnet, The Secret Agent, Sentimental Value, and Train Dreams.
01:15:31.200 I have seen a lot of these films already, but not all of them.
01:15:34.860 I still have not seen Marty Supreme.
01:15:36.960 Mike, we had a conversation about this maybe a month ago.
01:15:40.720 I was trying to get you to come see it with me,
01:15:42.920 and you were like, oh, Marty Supreme, I've not heard of this movie.
01:15:45.400 What's it about?
01:15:45.980 And I said, it's like Rocky meets Uncut Gems,
01:15:50.960 but Ping Pong and Timothee Chalamet.
01:15:54.340 Surprise, surprise, you were not sold.
01:15:56.740 And then you were like, well, who is the director?
01:15:59.060 What's going on with this movie?
01:16:00.140 And I said, oh, it's a Softie Brothers movie. Do you remember when I watched the movie that was also directed by the Softie Brothers, Good Time, and I told you that I had to watch it while taking long breaks because it was such a stressful, stress-inducing movie experience that I genuinely thought I might have been having a panic attack and that I've never had a more physically uncomfortable movie-watching experience in my whole life.
01:16:24.700 and then you were like well how was the movie and i said great i loved it
01:16:28.280 it's like that basically i was not selling it didn't none of this was selling you on going
01:16:34.380 to see marty supreme with me no and multiple people have tried to talk to me about this movie
01:16:39.720 which i have not seen and they all do an equally terrible job of communicating to me why i should
01:16:48.140 watch it like i am sort of intrigued at this point just because it's like i clearly don't
01:16:54.980 understand what it's about like i was talking to a different friend the other day and she asked me
01:17:00.640 if i'd seen it i said no she was like oh i'd never seen a movie that i appreciated so much and enjoyed
01:17:07.820 so little i was like what does that mean like why why does every take on this movie inscrutable
01:17:16.340 i don't know i guess it does make me a little bit curious to see it i've since gleaned that
01:17:23.120 i guess part of the appeal is that it provokes a lot of anxiety in the viewer and i guess that's
01:17:33.360 supposed to be fun because it's cool to feel something for a change like is that part of it
01:17:38.360 uh that is a softy brothers vibe of making of making movies and shows that are so anxiety
01:17:48.500 provoking that the viewer the point is that the viewer becomes physically uncomfortable and
01:17:55.180 perhaps distraught that's that's how i would describe it and then afterward you're like what
01:17:59.780 a great experience that was i sure felt physically distraught yeah i mean i generally try to not
01:18:06.080 feel physically distraught. I did really enjoy Uncut Gems and Boa's Afraid, both of which are
01:18:11.740 movies that made me feel very, like, edgy. Boa's Afraid, I feel, was, like, kind of ridiculous and
01:18:19.220 silly in a way that allowed me to keep a little bit of emotional distance from the anxiety. 0.79
01:18:25.160 I guess I'm gonna have to watch Marty Supreme. Yeah, I think I would like to see it. I remember 0.84
01:18:32.220 inviting my friend Nico over to watch Showa,
01:18:36.140 which is the 10, if you haven't seen Showa,
01:18:37.880 it's like a 10-hour documentary about the Holocaust.
01:18:41.320 And after it was over, we watched all 10 hours.
01:18:44.280 When it was over, Nico turned to me and said,
01:18:46.380 they really did a great job of really making the viewer
01:18:50.120 feel like they were there.
01:18:51.620 Like you really feel what it must have been like.
01:18:54.580 Because the movie is like, it's long.
01:18:58.280 I love the documentary,
01:18:59.860 but some might describe it as torturous and that is not that that is very much with intention
01:19:05.520 so i say that to say movies where the viewer is meant to experience a challenging sensation or
01:19:13.280 some kind of discomfort are are mike or for whatever reason are my kind of movies you should
01:19:19.300 maybe investigate that.
01:19:24.740 Point taken.
01:19:26.320 Yeah. Okay.
01:19:27.560 So what else
01:19:29.180 was nominated? What else you got here?
01:19:31.200 I did want to shout out two of the noms for
01:19:33.400 Best Documentary.
01:19:35.160 One is Perfect Neighbor was
01:19:37.440 nominated for Best Documentary. We interviewed
01:19:39.600 Soledad O'Brien, one of the producers of
01:19:41.420 that film and a personal hero of mine,
01:19:43.120 for an episode that aired on November 25th.
01:19:45.440 It was around the Thanksgiving holiday, so folks
01:19:47.400 might have missed it. I will say
01:19:49.240 Perfect Neighbor is a bit of a controversial documentary. I was listening to The Ringer's
01:19:55.960 movie podcast, The Big Picture, where they were breaking down the Oscar noms, and one of the hosts
01:20:00.940 was talking about how he liked the documentary when he first saw it on Netflix, but then the
01:20:06.760 more he thought about it, the kind of queasier it made him. And Soledad O'Brien and I, in our
01:20:12.940 interview, that was one of the reasons I really wanted to talk to her, because the documentary,
01:20:16.660 If folks haven't seen it, it's about a horrible murder that happened in Florida where a woman killed her neighbor and tried to claim that she did so because she feared for her life to get protection under the state's stand-your-ground laws.
01:20:32.220 And so we the entire film is shot entirely through surveillance footage. So police footage and, you know, ring camera footage. And it's a pretty rough watch. There's like one scene in particular that is that is particularly hard to watch and controversial.
01:20:48.720 and so I understand the feeling of this is queasy you know should this have been air
01:20:55.440 what are the ethics of this and that's exactly the conversation that Soledad O'Brien and I had
01:21:00.120 in that interview we'll put the conversation in the show notes but it's a conversation that I'm
01:21:04.740 very proud of and Soledad O'Brien is just a very cool person and she's one of my my personal heroes
01:21:10.540 and so it was cool to talk to her about it on the podcast yeah I I did see that one and I also
01:21:17.160 really enjoyed listening to that interview
01:21:19.380 that you did with Soledad O'Brien.
01:21:21.480 You two talked about, I guess,
01:21:23.500 the controversy around the film
01:21:25.420 and the ethics of using surveillance footage
01:21:31.160 and the ethics of some other aspects
01:21:35.320 of what was included that I won't get into
01:21:37.160 because I don't want to spoil it for anybody.
01:21:39.720 And I thought you two had a really thoughtful,
01:21:43.520 interesting conversation about it.
01:21:45.360 I guess I personally feel like a lot of the sort of vague queasiness that people are expressing about it, I don't totally get.
01:21:57.360 Yeah, I guess I don't totally get it.
01:21:59.680 It feels a little avoidant to me.
01:22:03.200 So I get it.
01:22:04.360 When people are talking about why that movie makes them uncomfortable, I completely get it.
01:22:09.700 I just don't happen to agree.
01:22:10.940 You know, I also felt very uncomfortable with what we see in that documentary.
01:22:14.820 And if you haven't seen it, it's something specific. If you have seen it, you know exactly what I'm talking about. I understand, I experienced the same discomfort, the same queasiness, the same sort of going through the ethics of it. But, and especially after that conversation that I had with Soledad O'Brien about it, it is clear to me why the movie is the way it is.
01:22:35.580 It is clear to me why the team made the choices that they did ethically, editorially, visually, all of it, all of it, all of it is very clear to me. And I think folks should see the documentary if they haven't already. It's on Netflix. And they should listen to the conversation that Soledad O'Brien and I have about it, because to me, they pair very nicely. And I guess I'll just leave it there because I feel like we're talking about a movie that people are probably like, what are you talking about? But it is definitely a good documentary. And I think folks should check it out.
01:23:04.360 I also wanted to shout out another movie nominated for Best Documentary, Come See Me in the Good Light, which is a documentary produced by the comedian Tig Notaro about the life of the late Colorado Poet Laureate, Andrea Gibson, who was one of my favorite poets who died of ovarian cancer over the summer.
01:23:22.280 Mike, one of your favorite musicians, Brandi Carlile, who I know that you really like, wrote an original song for that film.
01:23:30.020 I know. It's great. I love it.
01:23:32.880 Oh, you're already, I'm not, you're like, tell me something I don't know.
01:23:37.300 No, I'm up to date on Brandi Carlile's work, yes.
01:23:41.620 Okay, here I thought I was going to be able to tell you something.
01:23:44.940 Listeners, y'all have no idea how into Brandi Carlile Mike is.
01:23:50.000 Honestly, though, if I can like embarrass you just for a moment,
01:23:52.940 people would be very surprised to look at Mike's Spotify.
01:23:55.580 i'll just say this if you are a woman with a guitar and like a like a wounded soul and a song 0.98
01:24:05.400 in your heart and a twang to you mike is fucking with it am i am i lying you're not lying no that's 0.95
01:24:13.240 uh a wounded soul and a guitar and a song in their heart yeah that's a person i want to listen to 0.94
01:24:19.680 That's what I want out of art.
01:24:21.840 Yes.
01:24:22.800 So I'm actually surprised that the Brandi Carlile song
01:24:25.580 was not nominated for Best Original Song.
01:24:28.540 I was surprised.
01:24:29.540 But this documentary,
01:24:31.180 I'm glad that the documentary got a nomination.
01:24:34.240 It's on Apple TV.
01:24:35.680 It is beautiful.
01:24:36.680 It'll make you cry.
01:24:38.240 Andrea Gibson was just one of those
01:24:41.400 uniquely talented people.
01:24:43.780 And we were so lucky to have them.
01:24:46.480 I feel personally lucky that Andrea Gibson
01:24:49.340 put their voice into the world
01:24:51.240 and their perspective into the world.
01:24:53.400 So it kind of was a sleeper film.
01:24:55.820 I really was surprised to see it on the nomination list,
01:24:57.980 like pleasantly surprised
01:24:58.800 because it didn't get a lot of press and attention
01:25:01.340 when it first came out.
01:25:03.620 Curious that it's a documentary from Tig Notaro.
01:25:06.780 I didn't know that Tig Notaro was making documentaries.
01:25:09.600 Oh, Tig Notaro, multi-hyphenate.
01:25:12.280 Also podcaster.
01:25:14.100 Really does it all.
01:25:19.340 okay so some of those are some of the high points for film in 2025 2026 are we going to go through
01:25:42.100 the low points well i just have to shout out you know our favorite so that if the oscars are out 0.99
01:25:47.960 That means the Razzies are out. The Razzies celebrate the opposite end of the spectrum. The worst movies. Guess what? Guess what movie snagged a nomination for worst movie of the year? 0.95
01:25:58.900 Oh, man. If they had an award for worst movie of the decade, I think it would be a strong contender.
01:26:05.240 war of the worlds which folks might remember we talked about it on the podcast i told producer
01:26:12.740 mike if i think it was at least five people wrote in and left comments saying that we that we should
01:26:19.280 do a rewatch episode of it we would do it five of y'all i don't know what was going on with you 0.63
01:26:26.620 all but five of you knuckleheads actually wrote in so we did it this is like a cursed monkey paw
01:26:32.240 version of your dream to have
01:26:34.300 a movie podcast on The Ringer
01:26:35.940 it's like you can have a movie podcast
01:26:37.840 but you only get to review War of the Worlds
01:26:40.560 I just, every day I
01:26:42.260 wake up and have to do, so in
01:26:44.260 this universe they keep making sequel after
01:26:46.220 sequel after sequel and I'm just like
01:26:47.660 Twilight Zone stuck in reviewing
01:26:50.180 it. Battle of the Worlds
01:26:51.860 Skirmish of the Worlds
01:26:53.680 War of the Planet
01:26:56.300 and it's all
01:26:58.200 the same footage
01:26:59.820 shot in front of a green screen
01:27:02.240 Oh, my God. What a masterpiece. Well, I mean, we'll put it in the show notes. That episode was actually, we've done a few movie rewatch episodes of the podcast that I force on you and all the listeners. That one was difficult because the movie just patently makes no sense.
01:27:21.840 And so usually when you're talking about a movie on a podcast, the plot follows a certain structure.
01:27:26.780 You can break it down for people, even if they haven't seen it.
01:27:29.620 Maybe it's maybe it's interesting to listen to. 0.99
01:27:32.800 War of the Worlds is like off the fucking charts. 0.95
01:27:35.100 Like I remember being like like the notes that we took looked like the Pepe, Sylvia, Always Sunny diagram. 0.99
01:27:44.200 It was so gnarly.
01:27:46.000 yeah i watched a video after the fact of somebody just putting together a composite of
01:27:53.680 ice cube just delivering takes to the camera and they were arguing i don't know if they had
01:28:00.200 evidence or not that this was actually what happened but it totally fits they were saying
01:28:04.620 that like he didn't even know what the script was gonna be he just like sat down in front of a
01:28:10.820 green screen and recorded a bunch of
01:28:12.800 takes of being like that's crazy
01:28:15.080 oh no
01:28:16.740 and then they
01:28:18.640 stitched that together and
01:28:20.300 called it a feature film
01:28:21.960 that's what they did
01:28:24.060 it's a wild approach
01:28:26.760 to making
01:28:28.800 movies or entertainment
01:28:30.500 and we watched it
01:28:32.540 and we sure did
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