There Are No Girls on the Internet - July 02, 2025


#SkinnyTok Was Banned from TikTok. So Why Is It Still Everywhere?

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00:01:54.160 I'm Bridget Todd, and this is There Are No Girls on the Internet.
00:02:03.140 Open TikTok, and it won't take long before you find it. 0.99
00:02:06.320 A perfect body.
00:02:07.940 A suspiciously low-calorie what I eat in a day.
00:02:11.280 A silent morning routine drenched in beige and discipline.
00:02:15.020 Welcome to Skinny Talk.
00:02:16.540 A world where thinness isn't just the goal, it's the ideology.
00:02:21.020 But this isn't just about diets or aesthetics.
00:02:23.100 it's about control. And it's about what our culture expects women to be. Small, quiet, 1.00
00:02:30.440 beautiful, and preoccupied with staying that way. And platforms like TikTok aren't just
00:02:36.000 reflecting those values, they're amplifying them. Journalist Kat Tenbarge of Spitfire News
00:02:42.040 has been reporting on how social media glorifies extreme thinness and how it harms women and girls. 1.00
00:02:47.820 But what sets her work apart is that she doesn't just cover the tech itself,
00:02:51.160 She looks at how people actually use it and what that reveals about the world we're building online.
00:02:57.420 Particularly when you report on technology, a lot of times it's coming from a male-centered perspective
00:03:03.420 and through a sort of male lens where the things that people are actually doing with the technology
00:03:08.960 are secondary to like the companies that are involved, the products they're releasing, like the technology itself.
00:03:15.360 And both sides are ultimately crucial to understanding the whole.
00:03:19.200 But too frequently, we leave out sort of the negative societal consequences of technology and Internet culture.
00:03:28.180 Kat's reporting sits at the intersection of gender, social media and technology.
00:03:33.020 She spent years digging into what women and girls are doing online, a beat that's often dismissed as not serious news.
00:03:39.940 But that underestimation has actually put her ahead of the curve, catching major cultural shifts before they hit the mainstream.
00:03:47.260 What drew you to reporting on this kind of stuff?
00:03:49.900 For me, I grew up in like fully the social media age.
00:03:54.940 So by the time that I was in high school, I was on YouTube, Tumblr, Snapchat, like all the time.
00:04:02.640 And I had aspirations of becoming a journalist, but I didn't initially think that I would be reporting on these types of topics.
00:04:10.340 I saw myself as more of a quote unquote like serious news reporter.
00:04:14.900 So like when I was in college studying journalism, I was really looking at covering politics
00:04:19.120 and like politics through a very traditional lens.
00:04:22.640 But over the course of my college career, I over time realized that I had all this knowledge
00:04:28.240 about like influencers and social media spaces and that that was becoming more and more important
00:04:34.280 to our wider cultural conversation and the way that we all live.
00:04:38.300 So when I graduated, I specifically pursued reporting on like the YouTube space and the
00:04:44.400 influencer space. And over the years, what's been really interesting is that space has become more
00:04:51.020 and more relevant to the sort of mainstream politics that I had originally thought I would
00:04:56.060 be reporting on. You kind of caught it early. Yeah, I feel like I was like kind of on this
00:05:02.120 wave and a lot of particularly women journalists who I looked up to at the time that I was in
00:05:07.600 college. Women like Taylor Lorenz has been a big mentor to me. And she was someone who was at these
00:05:13.000 major legacy institutions, like saying this stuff is really important. And it was really ahead of
00:05:18.840 the curve as to what we all now know, which is that this makes up so much of what our daily lives
00:05:24.420 are like. She's right. What's happening in online spaces like Skinny Talk says a lot about our
00:05:31.180 culture and our politics. Skinny Talk isn't an official category. It's a term used to describe
00:05:36.620 content that centers on extreme thinness, weight loss, and often glorifies disordered eating.
00:05:42.620 It's the kind of stuff that can quietly take over your feed, depending on what the algorithm
00:05:46.900 thinks you want to see. TikTok recently announced they were banning skinny talk.
00:05:51.640 Now if you search the hashtag, you'll be redirected to eating disorder resources
00:05:55.060 instead of videos. But this content is not just about weight. It reflects a deeper social message
00:06:01.340 that women shouldn't just be thin. 0.99
00:06:03.320 We should be thin, hot, quiet, 1.00
00:06:05.280 and constantly working to stay that way.
00:06:07.480 And while these ideas aren't really new,
00:06:10.100 algorithms are turbocharging them for a digital age.
00:06:15.240 Kat, you covered Skiddy Talk for Wired.
00:06:18.300 This kind of content is definitely connected
00:06:20.640 to the current political and social climate,
00:06:22.960 but it is also not new
00:06:24.520 because I remember it being all over Tumblr.
00:06:27.640 So what's changed about the way this kind of content
00:06:29.440 shows up on social media platforms like TikTok today?
00:06:32.800 What I saw happening last year
00:06:34.680 across a number of different
00:06:36.360 mainstream social media platforms,
00:06:38.260 one of them was X, formerly Twitter,
00:06:40.680 another one was TikTok,
00:06:42.000 and I've been seeing a lot on Instagram too,
00:06:45.020 is this corner of the internet
00:06:46.340 that was previously really niche,
00:06:48.320 this like pro-eating disorder part of the internet,
00:06:52.280 which like you said, it's been around for decades.
00:06:54.860 Even before social media, it was on forums.
00:06:57.480 Like from the time that the internet existed, there were communities of people who were sort of like when you go into these communities, what it is, is it's like a space for people who are experiencing eating disorders to connect.
00:07:10.580 But unfortunately, the culture that flourishes within them encourages and sort of promotes eating disorders.
00:07:17.260 And so what I saw happening last year is this culture had escaped containment from these niche community spaces and was being algorithmically pushed to almost everyone on these social media platforms.
00:07:30.120 I had people, multiple people reaching out to me being like, this pro eating disorder stuff is on my For You page.
00:07:36.580 to this pro-eating disorder stuff is right when I open up Twitter, it's the first tweet that I see
00:07:40.880 that's being pushed to me. And what I eventually figured out is that the social media platforms
00:07:46.360 in the process of developing new features like community tabs and tweaking their algorithms,
00:07:53.180 as well as some of these broader cultural changes that were happening, it was a perfect storm where
00:07:59.100 all of a sudden pro-eating disorder content went from something you had to seek out to something
00:08:04.360 you could no longer avoid. And so Skinny Talk is another iteration of this, where if you are a
00:08:10.820 TikTok user, even now, even they've recently banned the Skinny Talk hashtag in response to a lot of
00:08:16.940 this great reporting that's come out. But even now, when I open up TikTok, I cannot avoid, it is like
00:08:22.960 my feed is cluttered with all of these posts that are glorifying extreme thinness, influencing young
00:08:30.280 women in particular and girls to have an extreme calorie deficit. There's content for boys and men
00:08:36.100 that encourages them to lose a lot of weight really dramatically and drastically. And it's
00:08:41.140 like this toxic soup that I find to be like so harmful to people's mental health. It's actually
00:08:47.140 a disturbing kind of side effect of where we're at with social media. I have experienced the exact
00:08:53.500 same thing. As I said, I've been on the internet for a really long time. And only very, very
00:08:58.560 recently, like in the last few years, I knew that kind of content was out there, but this is the
00:09:03.240 first time that it's really been surfaced for me, right? I went my entire life never thinking about
00:09:10.220 whether or not a human is meant to have a flat stomach. It just never came up. And now it is
00:09:15.380 everywhere. Like, and I'm, I'm, I'm, I am not somebody who has, you know, struggled with
00:09:20.300 disordered eating and like real body image issues in my life. But only in the last few years have I
00:09:25.780 found myself thinking about this because it is all I am seeing on social media and I can only
00:09:30.940 imagine what that would be like if I wasn't an older person right if I'm if I'm 14 15 16 if the
00:09:37.980 way that it's impacting me as like a fully formed adult how is it impacting youth who are being
00:09:43.880 surfaced this kind of content on the regular I've talked to like at least half a dozen experts in
00:09:50.280 the eating disorder space people who work with treatment people who studied this from an academic
00:09:55.100 lens. And what I've heard is that over the course of the last few decades, eating disorders have
00:10:01.100 emerged as a phenomenon and they have skyrocketed alongside the proliferation of mass media.
00:10:08.120 So what that means is that when TV and magazines became much more commonplace in like the 20th
00:10:15.360 century, you started to see women and girls in particular, they were encountering like cover
00:10:21.780 images on magazines. They were encountering women in commercials and on TV and in movies
00:10:28.340 who fit this beauty standard that oftentimes was extreme thinness. And this beauty standard, 0.74
00:10:34.300 it comes from a lot of different places, but it's also a beauty standard that prioritizes 0.89
00:10:38.420 whiteness. It's a beauty standard that prioritizes these sort of conventional Eurocentric features.
00:10:44.360 And it's a beauty standard that really overemphasizes being thin. And you see diet
00:10:49.360 culture reflect this, you see the way that diet and exercise are incentivized and the way that
00:10:55.340 thinness is incentivized in sort of all walks of life, all contribute to sort of the social
00:11:01.720 factors that drive eating disorders. So here's something I keep noticing in content that flirts
00:11:08.240 with disordered eating. The people making it rarely think they're promoting anything harmful.
00:11:14.340 They say they're just being real and that life really is easier when you're thinner.
00:11:19.360 And the worst part is, they're not entirely wrong.
00:11:23.000 But calling that honesty doesn't do anything to challenge the system.
00:11:27.000 In fact, it only props it up.
00:11:29.440 It tells us this is just how the world works, so don't bother fighting it.
00:11:34.160 And that's the real damage.
00:11:36.260 One thing that I have heard from a lot of experts and other reporters in this field
00:11:40.740 is, like, it's not just a problem of it all being in your head
00:11:44.920 or even what you're seeing on TikTok.
00:11:46.980 it's like in quote-unquote real life in these offline settings women will report that they
00:11:53.560 are treated better if they are thinner people strangers will treat them better when you go to 0.98
00:12:00.040 a restaurant uh the wait staff will treat you nicer potential future romantic partners might
00:12:05.060 seek you out more or treat you nicer and you'll be given more opportunities professionally a lot 0.99
00:12:10.800 of times as a woman, the closer you adhere to the beauty standard. So this online culture, 0.77
00:12:17.020 it's not creating eating disorders. It's responding to this culture that already existed.
00:12:22.500 But what it's also doing is it's exponentially growing this culture. It's like it's becoming
00:12:29.060 something that's so inescapable and so unavoidable. And another interesting thing I picked up on
00:12:34.580 within my conversations with other reporters who have been writing about this is that when we look
00:12:39.480 this content for extended periods of time, when I watch dozens of skinny talk videos, when I spend
00:12:45.940 hundreds of hours in these pro eating disorder communities on platforms like X, I can feel the
00:12:52.080 effect. It's a very tangible, I can feel this and how bad it is for my mental health in a way that
00:12:59.400 I've reported on violent misogyny. I've reported on political extremism, disinformation. I've gone
00:13:07.440 into some of the darkest corners of the internet. But this stuff, it like it is affecting in a way
00:13:13.200 that I previously haven't experienced. Let's just say I can relate. I recently started making a few
00:13:21.820 changes to support my own health, including getting into weightlifting. And just from showing a very
00:13:27.600 casual interest in weightlifting online, my social feeds instantly got extreme. Suddenly, I was being
00:13:34.540 shown content of women with incredibly lean bodies and all of these intense routines that 1.00
00:13:40.140 they do to maintain those bodies. And honestly, I think it got in my head more than any kind of
00:13:46.020 content ever has before. Something that you point to in your piece that I have also seen
00:13:51.200 with this content is how a lot of the creators who are pushing it. Like, I don't think that they
00:13:57.380 would say, oh, this is pro eating disorder content or whatever. Sometimes they'll even say, well,
00:14:02.120 I'm just being honest.
00:14:03.120 You know, the culture that you just described where people who are thinner report or if you lose a lot of weight, you report, you know, being treated nicer by at work, being treated nicer by the staff at a restaurant, all of that.
00:14:15.020 What some of these creators are saying is I'm just not sugarcoating it.
00:14:18.380 I'm being honest with you.
00:14:19.780 I'm giving you the truth.
00:14:21.120 What do you say to that?
00:14:22.080 You know, that's a great point.
00:14:23.560 And this content does really fall on a spectrum because you have like the most extreme content that really is like explicitly glorifying and advocating for disordered eating.
00:14:33.920 And then you have this content like you just described that isn't saying like you should be you should be having an eating disorder.
00:14:41.460 It isn't saying you should be anorexic or you should be binging and purging.
00:14:44.480 So when you have these women and it is overwhelmingly women, like you see it with some male influencers, too. 0.93
00:14:50.800 And I think that's really interesting and also concerning.
00:14:53.560 But overwhelmingly, like the skinny talk influencer, the archetype is this is a woman who is blonde, white, extremely thin, conventionally attractive. 0.57
00:15:05.640 She lives in a beautiful apartment in New York City or another big city.
00:15:09.040 And she's sitting there and she's telling you, like, this is your path to winning and succeeding at life.
00:15:15.080 And it starts with you having a lot of times it's framed as self-control or being healthy.
00:15:20.720 And as long as you reach this sort of thin ideal, then other opportunities will open up for you and you'll be happier and you'll be healthier and you'll be freer.
00:15:30.100 And they may be starting at a point where like there's a kernel of truth to this, which is that then people are treated better in society.
00:15:38.940 But rather than confront that or seek to push back against that status quo, what they're doing is they're really reinforcing and perpetuating that status quo and saying that it's the right thing to do.
00:15:52.340 And a lot of times the way that you see this in the rhetoric that they share is they'll talk about how over the past decade or so, there has been a social movement to push back against the beauty standard and thinness and disordered eating.
00:16:07.600 And a lot of times that's called the body positivity movement or the body neutrality movement or like health at every size is another one of these movements.
00:16:16.220 And these skinny talk influencers will actually attack and undermine these movements directly.
00:16:21.340 And they'll say like it is unhealthy to be it is unhealthy to be obese.
00:16:26.500 These movements are promoting obesity.
00:16:28.200 They're promoting negative health outcomes.
00:16:30.960 And that's not true.
00:16:32.540 This carries into a misinformation, disinformation territory in which a lot of these creators are actively spreading very dangerous information around health.
00:16:43.720 Because it is true that you can be healthy at any size.
00:16:47.140 It is true that you don't need to adhere to the ultra-thin ideal to be healthy or happy.
00:16:53.100 And in fact, if you go too far along that pathway of losing weight, you are unhealthy.
00:16:58.520 It's sort of like this conversation and this reframing of thinness and health completely
00:17:03.080 loses out on the fact that eating disorders are incredibly dangerous and efforts to lose
00:17:09.260 weight and maintain that extreme thinness that these influencers are selling, for most
00:17:14.100 people that's actually going to be much more unhealthy and lead to worse outcomes than
00:17:19.920 if they maintained like their average weight or the weight that they feel most comfortable
00:17:23.980 at.
00:17:24.520 Is it the like mortality rate for eating disorders? It's like second highest of any mental issue you could experience.
00:17:33.260 Yes. After drug abuse and drug addiction like heroin.
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00:20:37.500 At our back.
00:20:40.620 An adult can survive on just 500
00:20:42.900 calories a day. Restrictive diets
00:20:45.200 are healthy. There's clean food
00:20:47.160 and dirty food. Having fat
00:20:49.220 on your body is always unhealthy.
00:20:51.440 These are all lies
00:20:53.080 that I see online all the time.
00:20:55.920 They're medical misinformation,
00:20:57.160 plain and simple. But because we live in a deeply fat phobic society, this kind of misinformation
00:21:02.820 is often tolerated, even normalized. It rarely gets treated with the same urgency or scrutiny
00:21:09.280 as other kinds of false health claims. And that is a very serious problem. A lot of my work is
00:21:16.260 grounded in the mis- and disinformation space. And when it comes to health information specifically,
00:21:21.460 so often it's like the conversation gets boiled down to like vaccine misinformation and things,
00:21:26.500 things that seem things that they are things that are kind of you can talk about them from a certain
00:21:31.480 specific kind of black white lens i feel less often are we talking about the way that content
00:21:38.140 that glorifies extreme thinness and disorder of eating is just like genuinely health mis and
00:21:44.080 disinformation right yes the idea that a grown adult could could have their caloric intake be
00:21:51.720 like 800 or 900 calories what a child would eat that's not true there's just like unless you are
00:21:58.700 in some rare situation where you are working with a doctor for them for the majority of people
00:22:04.280 that's simply false and if you're getting online and and spreading a false message about people's
00:22:10.360 health on the internet i don't understand why we don't see that as a clear-cut mis and
00:22:15.400 disinformation issue the way that we do with other kinds of health mis and disinformation does that
00:22:19.240 make sense? Absolutely. And one thing that's been really helpful for me over my reporting has been
00:22:24.320 talking to nutritionists about what the truth really is. And I think you have kind of like a
00:22:29.880 collapsing different degrees of failure at play here, because there is sort of a lack of
00:22:36.960 communication about what healthy eating and what a healthy body type is, generally speaking. I think
00:22:43.680 Most people in the public who are on platforms like TikTok or aren't even on platforms like TikTok have sort of a misguided understanding of what health and diet and exercise and beauty mean.
00:22:56.660 Because for so many of us, for the vast majority of us, our knowledge of these topics is based on what we hear from other people in our lives and what we hear through mass media.
00:23:07.720 And those formats spread misinformation and disinformation.
00:23:10.860 I look at how a lot of these like dieting and exercising tips, they are passed down from woman to woman through generations.
00:23:18.200 You hear it from your mother. You hear it from your grandmother.
00:23:21.160 You have the exact same slogans going viral on Skinny Talk today that were diet slogans being advertised to women in the 80s, decades ago.
00:23:30.420 It's just constantly recycling this same old messaging over and over again.
00:23:34.680 And ideally, social media platforms could be used to take real information coming from people like nutritionists and scientists and eating disorder providers, and you could take that and share that with the world.
00:23:49.860 And I do think we're starting to see a little bit of that turn.
00:23:53.820 When it comes to content that glorifies disordered eating, platforms like TikTok can be a double-edged sword.
00:23:59.700 On the one hand, they can surface harmful content to users who might not have sought it out.
00:24:04.680 But they can also be a source of support, a place where people struggling can find connection, resources, and real hope.
00:24:12.320 Creators like registered dietitian Michelle Pilipich used TikTok to share accessible, judgment-free content about building a sustainable, healthy lifestyle.
00:24:21.080 No diets or restrictions required.
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00:24:28.720 In your piece, you spoke to creators like Michelle Pilipich, who was a registered dietitian who makes kind of anti-skinny talk content, almost sort of to retrain folks as brains against that kind of thinking.
00:24:42.320 Do you see social media platforms almost as this double edged sword where there are folks showing up to use the platform to glorify disordered eating and extreme fitness and also folks there who are using those same platforms to sort of retrain folks to say like, hey, actually, this isn't healthy.
00:24:59.900 Actually, this is misinformation. Here's a better way to be thinking about it.
00:25:02.960 Exactly. And I think that a lot of times, and you see this with eating disorders in particular, there's a lot of legislation and a lot of activism happening right now that's against social media. And oftentimes, issues like eating disorders will be framed within this anti-social media activism as like, we shouldn't let kids use social media because eating disorders are rising at a scary rate among teenagers. And we think it's because of social media. So the answer here is to just never let them use TikTok.
00:25:31.760 But I really disagree with this because the way that I see it is that social media is a double-edged sword in the same way that it's been weaponized against progress.
00:25:42.520 It could, in fact, be used for progress.
00:25:45.140 And you see that with creators like Michelle, who, like you said, she's a nutritionist who I interviewed.
00:25:49.680 And she is so great.
00:25:50.840 And she's such a good example of this because what she did is she listened to her patients who were telling her about this messaging that they were hearing on platforms like TikTok.
00:26:00.520 And she went on TikTok and she started creating viral messaging in the opposite direction that was actually informing people about what healthy eating looks like, what health looks like, encouraging people to share things that helps them recover from eating disorders instead of what encouraged them to go down this path.
00:26:19.260 And her success, as well as other creators doing the same thing, looking at their success, the way that I see it is that we should actually be encouraging more speech around these topics on social media, rather than looking at how we can limit this sort of speech.
00:26:34.420 I think that putting more of it out there, giving people the information where they already are, reaching people where they are, I think is the way forward here.
00:26:43.360 And the flip side of sort of these attempts to censor social media or moderate social media is that time and time again, platforms like Tumblr, Reddit, Instagram, TikTok, all of them, they've all made attempts to just ban pro eating disorder content.
00:27:02.940 They've banned specific influencers. They've banned entire communities. They've targeted types of rhetoric. And what we've always seen happen is that it just migrates to another platform or just shapeshifts so that it can create a new form.
00:27:16.860 So these efforts to like stop this content in its tracks have not been successful.
00:27:22.420 What we are seeing some success with, I've spoken to some people who are young, who are on the pathway to recovery from eating disorders, who found this content on social media that actually helped them.
00:27:35.140 Trying to get social media platforms to curb this kind of content used to be my job.
00:27:39.440 We compile examples to paint a bigger portrait, essentially saying you all are not doing a good enough job keeping content that glorifies disordered eating off of your platform. 0.58
00:27:48.700 But what the leadership at these platforms often seemed to hear was just take down these specific bad posts.
00:27:55.440 They rarely engage with the deeper issue of why this kind of content keeps showing up in the first place or how to stop it long term.
00:28:02.260 It was incredibly frustrating.
00:28:05.000 So I want to talk about that a little bit.
00:28:06.880 in a former life, I worked in the sort of platform advocacy space. And so Skinny Talk,
00:28:12.720 I personally met with like leaders from TikTok to bring corners of Skinny Talk to their attention.
00:28:19.520 And what is interesting is I agree with you. I think that the leaders at these platforms
00:28:24.040 at least did tell me like, oh, we are interested in stamping out this kind of content. It goes
00:28:29.840 against our terms of service. They would ban the hashtag Skinny Talk. Sometimes within hours,
00:28:35.640 it would be like skinny talk but spelled out with ones or something or like like the way that
00:28:41.860 creators would find a way around whatever kind of fan or whatever kind of uh moderation these
00:28:48.860 platforms would roll out it it made me think i don't know if this is actually something that
00:28:53.920 they can that they can eradicate from their platforms and you're saying that like well maybe
00:28:57.660 they shouldn't even be focusing on that instead they should be focusing on bringing people who
00:29:01.840 are able to to make content around the other side of like what you know what actually is healthy
00:29:07.260 eating and like thinking about things a little bit differently that actually might be more effective
00:29:10.880 i think so and i think that you can have a little bit of both uh when i've done this reporting on
00:29:16.980 these really extreme pro eating disorder communities on platforms like x i do think
00:29:22.220 that there absolutely is a line where you do need to be moderating these communities and i think it's
00:29:27.360 a good thing that in response to some of my previous reporting, like X came in and shut down
00:29:32.480 some of these communities and they popped back up again and they started growing again. But I do
00:29:37.620 think that shutting down that community, that really toxic space, it was helpful because it
00:29:42.680 did at least stop the growth of some of these massive communities in their tracks. So I don't
00:29:48.320 think it is a complete like net negative or positive in one direction or the other. I do
00:29:53.780 think some moderation still needs to happen. But I think looking at sort of the longer term issue,
00:29:59.580 it's clear that we cannot solve this problem just by like trying to ignore it or stamp it out or
00:30:05.720 censor it. We have got to address it head on. And we have to make that connection between what is
00:30:11.120 happening in these online spaces and what happens offline. Because offline, the messaging is all too
00:30:18.520 familiar. When you are walking down the street in New York City and you see the billboards and you
00:30:23.340 see the people around you. You begin to understand that thinness and the types of things that are
00:30:29.640 preached about on Skinny Talk are not just an online issue. This is a reflection and a mirror
00:30:35.120 distortion of the world that we live in and have honestly lived in for quite some time.
00:30:41.440 We can't really talk about Skinny Talk without talking about Liv Schmidt. Before she was banned,
00:30:47.700 Liv built a massive following with TikTok videos that kind of looked like wellness.
00:30:51.980 You know, pastel smoothies, 4 a.m. workouts, tiny meals in perfect lighting.
00:30:58.320 But beneath that aesthetic was something darker, a steady stream of content that promoted disordered eating and a toxic obsession with thinness.
00:31:07.360 She became the poster child for a certain kind of that girl content, the kind the algorithm devours. 0.80
00:31:14.140 And she took it even further by creating a paid, subscriber-only platform called Skinny Society, 0.93
00:31:19.540 where women and girls, as young as high schoolers, traded restrictive eating tips and competed over restrictive eating practices. 0.85
00:31:27.180 When the backlash came, it wasn't the platform that stepped in first.
00:31:30.560 It was the users, calling out how content like Liv's pushed harmful ideals to millions, especially young women and girls.
00:31:38.700 After a critical piece in the cut, Liv's TikTok page was banned.
00:31:42.360 So she moved to Instagram, where her content has been demonetized.
00:31:46.640 Her account may be gone from TikTok, but her influence?
00:31:50.420 Well, that's still everywhere.
00:31:52.900 I know that comes harsh, but it's just, you're in charge of your lifestyle.
00:31:57.640 And it shows.
00:31:59.300 And so yeah, being skinny is like the literal new Birkin.
00:32:03.400 So, do you want to be a Birkin or do you want to be a thrift store back?
00:32:07.820 what do you make of the fact that people are able to monetize this make a business out of this
00:32:16.840 yes this to me is a really conserving sort of evolution of like the pro eating disorder space
00:32:24.540 is the ability for influencers to build these monetizable followings because that's something
00:32:31.180 that you didn't necessarily see on tumblr in like the late aughts or the early 2010s over the past
00:32:37.640 10 years, as social media has become so much more all-encompassing, as more people have spent more
00:32:43.580 time on social media, as it's wormed its way into every facet of our lives, you've also seen the
00:32:49.120 ability to make money from social media go grow exponentially. And so it's not a surprising trend
00:32:55.720 that you're seeing this in the eating disorder space, but I find these communities to be like
00:33:00.660 particularly concerning because when you're paying for something and when you're being put in these
00:33:06.640 now like more private spaces with like-minded people, that is such a strong conduit for more
00:33:12.880 and more and more extreme thought. And as a result of that reporting in the cut, Instagram
00:33:19.080 demonetized Liv Schmidt's like sort of page. But every time I go on Instagram, every time I go on
00:33:26.240 Instagram Reels, which is like a button on your page that you're going to hit accidentally, even
00:33:30.480 of you don't mean to go to it. I am bombarded with Liv Schmidt's content to this day. Every day.
00:33:38.080 And it's just like, it's unavoidable. It's inescapable. And there's something very
00:33:43.060 compelling about what she does, where it's like, I find myself almost unable to look away.
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00:36:48.740 Let's get right back into it.
00:36:50.220 well something that you said that really reminded me of live is how when folks are are kicked off
00:36:58.760 of one platform who are making this kind of content or demonetized or moderated in some way
00:37:03.900 they're like she will say things like oh i was banned from tiktok for spreading the truth about
00:37:10.000 you know but they don't want you to know like i'm just being honest and people can't handle it
00:37:14.060 She has made being moderated off of TikTok and having to like pop up on Instagram and
00:37:20.860 then being demonetized there almost like a like a branding thing of like, don't you
00:37:25.880 want to know what I'm saying that is too real for the Instagram censors?
00:37:30.640 Yes.
00:37:31.000 And it is like that kind of rhetoric is unmistakably like similar to what you see from like the
00:37:37.980 alt-right and what you see from conservatives who have similarly mastered these online
00:37:43.480 landscapes. They all use really similar rhetoric. And I think that part of the larger picture here
00:37:48.800 that I also think has been kind of unexplored is that it's no coincidence that you see rising
00:37:55.720 conservatism, dominating online spaces, and the offline world. You see rising authoritarianism
00:38:01.860 around the globe at the same time that you see this massive resurgence of pro-eating disorder 0.99
00:38:08.280 and just content that glorifies extreme thinness for women. These movements are connected. 0.91
00:38:13.480 And Michelle Pelovich, the nutritionist, actually recently did a post about this where she was like, if you are against Trump, like you and you are a woman and you oppose sort of the modern conservative party, you should be nourishing your body.
00:38:27.040 You should be eating enough food because the ultimate goal of these sort of conservative, very misogynistic spaces is that they want women to be small.
00:38:35.680 They want women to take up less space.
00:38:37.080 They want them to be frail, unable to help themselves, and they want them to be very preoccupied with their own appearance because it becomes an obsession that distracts from you being able to participate in democracy to the fullest extent. 0.88
00:38:50.920 It's a distraction that prevents women from being able to occupy the same positions that men do. 0.89
00:38:56.300 So this sort of pro-eating disorder content is part of this larger picture of women's oppression.
00:39:02.400 And it's just no coincidence that like the influencers in the alt-right spaces and the influencers in the skinny spaces are using the exact same types of strategies.
00:39:11.280 So I clock this all the time on social media and I feel like whenever someone says it out loud, just the comments are like, what are you talking about?
00:39:19.160 you're crazy and i mean i'll see content that's like you know glorifying it's not just being
00:39:27.780 thin it's thin blonde rich partnered sometimes like quiet and subservient like it's just like 0.99
00:39:34.960 like when you pull apart the kind of things that they're saying goes along with with like
00:39:39.520 the good life in scare quotes that will become available to you if you are first thin it really 0.99
00:39:45.540 is like it becomes very clear that this is about a very oppressive vision of the future where women 0.96
00:39:50.900 are quiet frail not really participating fully in public and civic life like it all goes together 0.99
00:39:59.120 it does it does and a lot of times when you have these skinny talk influencers they will talk
00:40:05.160 about like like libschmidt talks about this she's like you need to be having fun you need to be 0.69
00:40:09.680 living like a full fulfilling lifestyle but what she's modeling and what she's showing as the 0.72
00:40:15.180 example of that is that she is like a model. So she's telling women that they should aspire
00:40:20.400 to their currency and their worth and their value being their appearance. And part of the flip side 1.00
00:40:26.560 of this that's very unfortunate, both for Liv Schmidt as an individual and for all of the women
00:40:30.880 and girls who she's influencing, is that no matter how skinny you are, no matter how much you are
00:40:35.840 able to adhere to this beauty standard in your youth, you will age out. There's no future for 1.00
00:40:41.880 you if your entire worth and being is rooted in how you look as a young, conventionally
00:40:47.920 attractive person.
00:40:49.180 And that is really unfortunate because I think that along the way, women and girls are going
00:40:54.580 to learn that these types of expectations and these types of standards are built purposefully
00:41:00.560 to be something that can never be truly met and never truly last.
00:41:05.280 Is this such a productive way to think about what we were put on this planet to do?
00:41:11.880 Yeah, like obsess about our weight and the way that we look.
00:41:15.580 Yes, yes.
00:41:16.520 And you see this sort of rhetoric carry over into the obsession around anti-aging.
00:41:21.720 And you have like billionaires who are investing so much of their time and energy and money
00:41:27.240 into trying to literally stop the passage of time.
00:41:31.780 And it's like it's all connected because the modern conservative movement is rhetoric
00:41:36.020 that is about making a return to when America was quote unquote great, making a return to
00:41:41.260 your childhood, to sort of the American idealism that never truly existed, but you can just pretend
00:41:47.680 that it was in the past and it's something that we can go back to. And the beauty standard and
00:41:52.640 this ideal of thinness fits into that so perfectly because it's something that's sold as an attainable
00:41:58.980 ideal, but you can never actually truly get there. When you go down this path of self-optimization
00:42:04.440 or trying to stop aging or trying to constantly fit the ever-shifting beauty standard,
00:42:09.180 it's not something you can win no absolutely not and yeah i i agree with you i i don't think it's
00:42:16.920 a surprise that we have these rising influencers saying the best and you can be is hot rich thin
00:42:24.380 and mean and the rise of this like concern this new conservative uh ideology yes yes and people
00:42:31.980 want to create this distinction this differentiation between what they view as like capital p politics
00:42:38.780 very serious. What's happening in Congress? What are the actual policies? What's the bill of the
00:42:43.600 text, the text of the law? But in reality, what the vast majority of people are interested in
00:42:49.160 is not capital P politics, but rather capital C culture. And people on the right understand this.
00:42:55.780 I think it was Steve Bannon who said that politics is downstream of culture. And that
00:43:00.780 was part of the key to unlocking Trump's wider appeal, was creating this cultural image around
00:43:08.200 him that then became a totem that his voters could project their desires onto. And you see
00:43:14.160 the same thing happening within the influencer space, within the social media space, is that
00:43:19.260 conservatism, it doesn't have as much to do with who's in office or what they are doing in their
00:43:24.180 position as elected officials, as it has to do with what is the dominating culture? What is
00:43:30.280 everyone spending their time doing? What are the goals and the aspirations of the public? And this
00:43:36.740 has a powerful political connotation, and it's not frivolous at all. It translates over to how
00:43:42.500 people show up and how they vote in the ballot box at elections. Things like patriarchy and rigid
00:43:50.140 gender roles don't just harm women and girls. They hurt everyone. Online, young men are also 1.00
00:43:56.400 being fed pretty toxic messages about how they need to look to be successful. Many are being
00:44:01.380 pushed into a practice known as looks-maxing, a movement that encourages extreme physical
00:44:06.060 self-optimization in the name of male attractiveness. For folks who have never heard
00:44:11.300 that word before, what is looks-maxing? So looks-maxing is kind of like the male version 0.95
00:44:17.200 of this that I alluded to a little bit earlier. And I find this really interesting. And it's
00:44:21.980 really sad. I spoke to this young man named Steven Ima, who is a college student in Texas.
00:44:27.740 And he's this young black man who has since pivoted his content into like anti-looks-maxing
00:44:34.200 and anti-aging disorders, but he initially fell down the rabbit hole. And so what looks maxing 0.86
00:44:39.900 is, is it's a beauty standard for men that is being sold, again, as this like attainable thing
00:44:46.480 where if you just do these like facial exercises and if you just copy all of these like tips and
00:44:52.140 tricks, then you will be able to fit the male beauty ideal. You will be muscular. You will
00:44:58.240 have very defined like jawline and cheekbones and it looks really bizarre on the surface to
00:45:05.660 people who aren't familiar with this subculture and it gets mocked and made fun of a lot because
00:45:10.780 it will literally be like you have to suck in your cheeks so that you can have like the most
00:45:14.800 pronounced cheekbones possible or like there was an article about how some of the people in the
00:45:19.540 looks maxing communicate in the looks maxing community were advocating like hammering your
00:45:24.380 face into the position that you wanted it to be in it's it's it's alarming and i but what's
00:45:31.720 concerning about it to me also is that you see the exact same sort of behaviors within the extreme
00:45:37.980 pro eating disorder spaces like the extreme calorie deficits that's a mirror happening for
00:45:44.520 for boys and young men or for yeah for boys and men and when i talked to steven one thing that he
00:45:50.260 told me is like this community sold this like fake promise to him that if he just did all of
00:45:56.160 these things, he would have more success with women and he would be happier and his life would
00:46:01.200 be better. But when he got into that community as a young black man, he realized that it was
00:46:06.240 incredibly racist. And this was ultimately the thing that broke him out of it was he was like,
00:46:11.720 there's no place for me within this community if I'm not white. And that understanding unlocked
00:46:17.460 kind of like a new perspective where he was like, this whole thing is built on lies
00:46:21.480 and fabrications. And it's just about harming yourself. Ultimately, I think eating disorders
00:46:27.060 are kind of a form of self-harm. And so within the looks maxing community and within other parts of
00:46:32.480 this online culture, you see this desire to control and restrict and hurt yourself. And that's sold to
00:46:39.720 you as like how your life becomes better, how you become more disciplined, how you experience more
00:46:44.000 success. But for the people who are trapped within these communities, it is a very toxic cycle of
00:46:50.260 actually beating down their self-worth and actually feeling worse about how they look.
00:46:55.260 And maybe you think you've fixed some part of how you look, but now you've identified all of the
00:46:59.120 other things that need fixing. So it's really bad for self-esteem. And I think it also over time
00:47:05.180 produces worse outcomes in terms of healthy living. Do you see all of this getting better
00:47:11.580 or getting worse? What we often see when we pick up on these big cultural shifts is that things
00:47:18.720 get a little worse, but then ultimately they do get better. I think we're on the pathway for
00:47:23.840 things to continue getting worse as of right now. But the fact that you have people picking up on
00:47:29.700 this and realizing it is a sign that the pendulum will swing back. And I do believe that the
00:47:35.020 pendulum will swing back. But I think that it takes within this platform environment that these
00:47:40.440 social media companies have created for us to exist within, you have to build up so much momentum
00:47:46.640 for the algorithm to redirect itself in any new direction. And right now, all of that momentum
00:47:51.840 is being built up behind things like skinny talk. So it's going to take a lot of people speaking
00:47:57.460 out against this and making content in opposition for this before the major platform landscapes
00:48:03.340 begin to reflect sort of the opposition. But I do have faith that will get there.
00:48:07.640 yeah i just recently just i started weightlifting for the first time a couple years a couple months
00:48:13.340 ago and just like again i'm not i'm not interested in losing weight i'm not interested i'm just
00:48:19.020 interested in learning about weightlifting as a beginner weightlifter the way that my none of my
00:48:24.780 algorithms will ever be the same like like the stuff that the stuff that instagram now is convinced
00:48:30.600 that i want to see simply because i am interested in weightlifting is like oh suddenly you're anti
00:48:35.460 vex i'm like wait what like like the way like my algorithm will never be the same i know i know i'm
00:48:41.560 in the exact same boat i've spent so many months reporting on like eating disorders that every
00:48:46.620 social media platform is now convinced that i am part of this like rabbit hole cycle and that is
00:48:52.060 worrying to me because although the average social media user is not a journalist studying these
00:48:57.820 things for months at a time i feel like i'm living what someone who's being on the pathway to being
00:49:03.980 radicalized is seeing on their social media feeds. And if this is what a lot of people are seeing on
00:49:08.820 their social media feeds, that's so concerning because there's just nothing healthy about being
00:49:13.380 bombarded with hours worth of this content on a daily basis. And as we were talking about before,
00:49:19.720 if we are looking at this content with a critical eye and like and like it still gets me, I have I
00:49:25.520 have to like catch myself saying, actually, you don't want your body to look like this or like,
00:49:29.920 actually, that's not a reasonable amount of calories for an adult woman to be eating. Come on. 0.97
00:49:33.980 If that's how it's hitting me as somebody who is looking at this from a critical eye,
00:49:39.220 imagine somebody who is just scrolling or somebody who is very young.
00:49:42.660 Yes, yes.
00:49:43.600 If I, I can't even imagine having a kid in this current like social media landscape.
00:49:49.640 But if I did, I feel like if I were a parent, I would want to be having honestly like daily
00:49:55.300 conversations like with my child about this to try to push back against some of the narratives
00:50:00.160 that they will inevitably be hearing not only online, but in their classrooms, among their
00:50:06.340 friends and their peers, from older relatives or from people in their community. Like these
00:50:11.400 messages around thinness and weight and health and beauty are so pervasive and it takes so much
00:50:17.800 work to even begin to break through on a personal level and fight back against them.
00:50:22.960 Is that what you would suggest parents should be doing? Like really having conversations
00:50:28.420 intentionally with the young people in their life and maybe doing some internal recalibration of the
00:50:32.980 way that the way that they internally think about these issues? Yes, one million percent. I think one
00:50:38.200 of the biggest things is that when you are in a position of influencing someone else, whether
00:50:42.880 you're a parent, whether you're someone who does have a big social media following, or even just
00:50:47.040 in the way you interact with everyone around you, it's like you do have to do that self-introspection
00:50:51.320 to be like, what sort of negative and toxic and harmful ideologies do I have to work on? And what
00:50:58.860 am I projecting to the people around me? What am I modeling to the people around me? This can be
00:51:03.160 something as simple as when you grow up and your mom looks in the mirror and is like, I hate this
00:51:08.580 about myself. Or when your mother or when your parental figure is constantly talking about,
00:51:13.640 because dads do this too, constantly talking about like, I need to lose weight. I need to go on a
00:51:17.540 diet. I hate the way that I look. You're modeling to your kids and to the people who look up to you
00:51:23.640 and who are around you that you should constantly be self-critical and that you should constantly
00:51:28.200 be in this state of working on yourself. And I think that that is one of the most insidious
00:51:32.360 aspects of diet culture is that it occupies so much of our time, energy, attention, money,
00:51:38.900 and lifestyle to trying to reach this unattainable ideal. So I think that's something that we can
00:51:44.140 all do is sort of do that introspection about the ways that we carry diet culture into our lives
00:51:49.440 and how that might be affecting the people around us. If someone out there listening needs help with
00:51:54.340 all of this, what can they do? If you are struggling with this or if this content has
00:52:00.140 been having an effect on you, there are lots of resources out there. There are more mental health
00:52:05.440 professionals and supports out there than ever. So never think that you won't be able to get help
00:52:10.820 or that it's too late for you.
00:52:12.540 There are always resources
00:52:13.960 and things that you can do to make things better.
00:52:17.460 If you're looking for support,
00:52:18.620 check out Project Heal,
00:52:20.080 an organization with the mission
00:52:21.400 to break down systemic healthcare
00:52:23.120 and financial barriers to eating disorder healing.
00:52:26.000 Check them out at theprojectheal.org.
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