Under the Influence (with Jo Piazza) - December 11, 2023


An Update On Katie Sorenson From the Michael's Parking Lot

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00:00:00.000 how many of you remember the katie sorenson story maybe you don't remember the name but you might
00:00:13.580 remember the episode we did a couple of years ago about the mom influencer in the michaels craft
00:00:20.360 store parking lot who accused a couple of trying to kidnap her kids to get more viral attention
00:00:27.460 for her Instagram account. Yeah, this was a crazy, crazy-ass story back in the day. And now
00:00:36.440 it is being revisited in a new podcast by LAist called People vs. Karen. It's part of a series
00:00:45.780 called Imperfect Paradise, and the reporter Emily Guerin is diving back into the Katie Sorensen
00:00:52.480 story, to interview all of the people in it, and to shift the lens onto the couple that Katie
00:00:58.820 accused, Sadie and Eddie Martinez. Emily Guerin has been at Katie Sorensen's trial, which only 0.74
00:01:06.160 took place this year, and she's done extensive interviews with the people involved. Today's
00:01:11.540 podcast is a very special episode. It is an update on the mom who falsely accused a couple
00:01:16.500 of trying to kidnap her kids in a Michaels parking lot.
00:01:22.480 Well, for our listeners who don't remember Katie's story, can you give us the quick and dirty recap of who Katie Sorensen is and why is she even interesting?
00:01:38.400 Why do we want to talk about her?
00:01:39.980 Well, I actually think that the people she accused are more interesting.
00:01:43.880 And so I will get to that. 1.00
00:01:45.440 But Katie is now she's in her early 30s. 0.87
00:01:49.980 she is at the time when this happened in 2020, she was living in Sonoma, California, just north
00:01:55.720 of San Francisco. She was in Petaluma, right? Or she lived in Sonoma, but she was shopping in
00:02:00.720 Petaluma. And it was like deep COVID, as you recall, like it was like the surge, like that's
00:02:06.320 when tons of people were dying in California of COVID. And it was just before Christmas. And she
00:02:11.280 went to the Michael's craft store in Petaluma to go shopping. And I have to stop you because,
00:02:16.440 you know this is my favorite part of this story that it happened at michael's that it takes place
00:02:21.000 in the michael's craft store parking lot yeah yeah yeah so so according to katie and this is
00:02:27.500 what she later said at trial um she was extremely nervous that day because of just having like
00:02:34.380 heightened covid anxiety and she hadn't really been out shopping alone she hadn't really been
00:02:39.140 out alone with her kids she said during covid but there she was in michael's with her two kids in a
00:02:44.320 stroller. And she goes in the store and she just starts to feel like there are these people
00:02:49.380 following her around this couple. And she feels them behind her in the spray paint aisle. And
00:02:55.480 then she notices they're behind her in the checkout line. And I should say, I saw a surveillance
00:02:59.800 video of most of this. And it's true, the couple, Sadie and Eddie Martinez, were right behind her
00:03:04.820 in line. But it was also like the time of social distancing. So they were like six feet apart.
00:03:09.180 And Katie felt like they had followed her out into the parking lot.
00:03:14.720 She was loading her kids into her car and says that she said that the couple sort of doing sort of doing this strange dance where they kind of took a few steps towards her, a few steps away, a few steps, steps towards her.
00:03:30.400 And later on, she told the story a couple of different times.
00:03:33.600 She first told it to the police, but then she told it on Instagram.
00:03:36.140 And when she told that on Instagram, she said that the man had tried to grab her stroller and that she had yelled for help and this couple ran away.
00:03:44.640 So that's Katie's version of what she says happened.
00:03:48.740 I can tell you what the Martinez's version is of what happened.
00:03:52.360 Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:03:54.040 I'd love to hear that.
00:03:54.800 And I mean, I think that what made this so interesting in the beginning is that, yeah, she she decides to broadcast this to Instagram immediately.
00:04:05.740 That was her go to.
00:04:06.660 Her go to wasn't scream for help or call her husband.
00:04:10.780 It was let me talk about this on social media.
00:04:14.660 Yeah, well, she did.
00:04:15.440 So I guess I'll stick with Katie's story first and then we'll get to Sadie and Eddie.
00:04:18.280 But so Katie says after. So she actually says while she's walking out of Michael's, she's on the phone with her husband and she's telling it they have a code word for when they're in danger, but they don't want other people to know.
00:04:30.800 And she said she said ever reveal it. I don't know what her code word is, unfortunately, but she did say she watches a lot of true crime podcasts.
00:04:38.360 She told the police that. And that's where she'd gotten the idea. So she's on the phone with her husband telling him that she thinks these people are following her, saying her code word, getting increasingly scared as she sees them near her car while she's loading her kids into the car. Anyway, right. So she says she calls for help. And this older man and his caregiver like come over and see what happened. And they're like, you did the right thing. But the couple is gone.
00:05:00.940 So Katie later calls the police from her car and she says she that she was just at the Michael's parking lot and a couple tried to kidnap her kids. And she tells them the story. I guess the notable thing to me about this first call is that she the dispatcher asked her to describe them.
00:05:18.220 And she describes the man as maybe Hispanic wearing a Black Lives Matter hoodie. 0.71
00:05:23.580 They're both wearing face masks because it's COVID. 0.73
00:05:25.980 And then she describes a woman in this kind of funny way where she's like she had red hair, but it wasn't natural.
00:05:33.460 It looked like it was box dyed.
00:05:36.120 Oh, yeah.
00:05:37.360 And I didn't know that detail.
00:05:39.540 Yeah. And then she describes the woman as white.
00:05:42.220 And so Katie is told to go to the police station. 0.56
00:05:45.160 And she gets there and she has another interview in person with a police officer, like through her car window in the parking lot, because, again, this is COVID.
00:05:52.780 And at that point, she adds another detail.
00:05:55.180 She says, like, you know, they just seemed rough looking.
00:05:59.440 And the police officer is very baffled.
00:06:02.100 He's like, are you famous?
00:06:04.120 Like, why would anyone be trying to kidnap your kids?
00:06:06.980 And she sort of laughs.
00:06:07.940 She's like, I don't know.
00:06:08.540 My kids are very good looking.
00:06:09.640 But no, we're not famous.
00:06:11.140 Oh, dear.
00:06:11.840 Oh, oh, snap.
00:06:13.120 Yeah. These are these are all details I did not know about this case.
00:06:15.840 Well, this was all. Yeah, this was only because I went to the trial and they played all the body cam video and the the audio of her phone calls to the police.
00:06:24.620 And then I got the transcript. So, yeah, none of that. None of what she told the police was out there.
00:06:28.900 It was just her Instagram video was out there before this.
00:06:32.020 Wow. My kids are very good looking.
00:06:34.340 Yeah. So and the police officer is like, well, this is, you know, bizarre, but it doesn't really sound like an attempted kidnapping.
00:06:41.600 But, you know, nonetheless, we're going to search the parking lot and we'll tell you if we find anything. And they don't. They don't find anything. And so the police drop it, essentially. And and then a week later is when Katie uploads her Instagram video, which you have seen, in which she tells the story again, but adds a few new details.
00:07:01.080 And in her Instagram telling of the story, she says that the man tried that he reached for her stroller. She also says that she overheard the couple talking about like in detail about her kids appearance and how she must not care about her kids because they're not wearing masks and that would therefore make them easier to kidnap.
00:07:21.980 um and so she says this new stuff and her video goes viral as you know like four and a half
00:07:29.020 million people watch it and some of those people are police officers with the petaluma police
00:07:33.560 department and they um they're the man who watches it is the same officer who she spoke to a week ago
00:07:40.400 and he's like i don't remember some of these details like why would why would she be telling
00:07:44.000 instagram the guy tried to grab her stroller but she wouldn't tell me the police like that's a key
00:07:48.960 element of attempted kidnapping. This is strange. So they go to her house in Sonoma and they
00:07:54.340 question her about it. And she kind of goes back and forth between like really doubling down on
00:08:00.000 what happened. She's like, a hundred percent, I'm a hundred percent certain they reached for my
00:08:03.980 stroller. You know, I'm a hundred percent certain they said things they shouldn't have been saying
00:08:07.600 about my kids. But then she's also like, I don't know, I might be misremembering other parts of
00:08:13.800 the story. And the police are at that point are like, you know, we looked at surveillance video
00:08:18.780 and a lot of what you say on Instagram doesn't add up. And you can see her sort of start to like,
00:08:24.740 oh, well, that's really interesting. Thank you for telling me. Like, I'm so glad you're here
00:08:30.120 because, you know, yeah, of course I want to be sure. And so it's this whole like back and forth
00:08:35.280 where the police are like trying to figure out what exactly happened. And she's doubling down
00:08:40.420 on certain parts, but doubting her story in other places. Right, right. And so and I guess and I
00:08:48.420 would just say and then after that is when the police release this photo of this couple from
00:08:53.620 the surveillance video, because they're now trying to identify the couple because they think, well,
00:08:57.760 these people could be attempted kidnappers. And so that's when Sadie and Eddie Martinez enter the
00:09:01.720 story. And talk to me a little bit about Sadie and Eddie Martinez. You focus a lot on them
00:09:08.760 in the podcast, what do we need to know about them?
00:09:13.740 They are early 50s. They're born and bred in San Francisco. They met as teenagers.
00:09:20.220 They're just like really lovely, decent, hardworking people. They moved out of San
00:09:25.120 Francisco up to Petaluma because they wanted to give their kids a better life, even though 0.99
00:09:29.340 they always felt kind of out of place there because Petaluma is a mostly white town
00:09:33.220 and they're both Latino. But they were like, you know what, we don't want our kids to grow up where 1.00
00:09:37.740 we grew up, we want like something safer, something better. They have five kids. Eddie is a UPS driver.
00:09:44.180 He's been driving for UPS for almost 20 years. Sadie is a bookkeeper. And then she also is she's
00:09:49.840 a very crafty person. She does a lot of like balloon displays on the sides. And so that's why 1.00
00:09:55.040 they were in Michael's that day is that it was before Christmas and they weren't going to Sadie's
00:10:00.020 mom's house like normal because of COVID. So they needed to make their own nativity set at home and
00:10:05.080 they didn't have a little baby Jesus. So they went to Michael's to buy a little baby Jesus,
00:10:09.400 among other things. And while they were there, it was like a totally unmemorable trip. Like
00:10:14.540 Eddie wandered around. Oh, because Eddie had the day off from UPS for his birthday. So that's why
00:10:19.900 he went with her to the store. So it's Eddie's birthday. Yeah, it's like the day after his
00:10:25.220 birthday. But yeah. OK. And they're also buying a baby Jesus. Correct. You can't make this shit up.
00:10:29.800 I know. So they're wandering around. Eddie's wandering around because he doesn't go to 1.00
00:10:34.640 stores that much. So he's like, oh, what's in Michael's? And Sadie's like, I'm gonna go get the
00:10:38.160 Jesus and we're gonna check out. And they pay, they leave. It's like 1030 in the morning. They
00:10:44.380 really like trying new restaurants, like they're sort of self-described foodies. And there's this
00:10:48.220 Chinese place in the plaza they've never been to before. And Eddie's like, let's go try this
00:10:52.940 Chinese place. So they walk towards it. They realize it's closed. It's too early. Eddie's a 1.00
00:10:58.820 very emotional, like he's very emotive. He talks with his hands. And so he goes, ah, man. And he
00:11:04.260 makes this like big hand motion when he finds out the restaurant's closed. I will later learn that
00:11:09.520 coincidentally, he made this hand motion behind Katie Sorensen's car. Oh, OK. Yeah, because they
00:11:16.780 were walking past her car to get towards the Chinese restaurant. They find out it's closed.
00:11:20.840 Eddie's bummed. He goes, ah, man. And then they turn around and they go back to their car and
00:11:25.380 they like turn around again one more time. But really, they're just walking back to their car
00:11:29.280 and they leave and that is their day at michael's so they don't think anything of it until
00:11:37.000 a week later when um sadie's daughter who's 17 at the time shows her this surveillance photo that
00:11:46.220 the petaluma police department have sent out because everybody they got like a text alert
00:11:49.460 about it and her daughter's like mom i think this is you in the photo and sadie's like nah i don't
00:11:54.940 think so like that's ridiculous and she's like no no no really i think it's you so they go show
00:11:59.240 her dad eddie and eddie's like no i'm not that short you know like they have this whole thing
00:12:04.080 we don't look like those people those people are frumpy like that's not us um and uh but not long
00:12:10.420 after that sadie gets a facebook message from a petaluma police officer being like you have been
00:12:15.000 identified as persons of interest and this attempted kidnapping like please come talk to us 0.97
00:12:19.700 and they're all like oh shit and that's when it becomes very real that they've been accused of 0.75
00:12:24.480 this thing that they clearly have not done can you imagine can you imagine getting that phone call 0.99
00:12:30.180 like or yeah totally out of the blue right and that to for the police to say hey we think you
00:12:37.940 might be potential kidnappers we need to talk to you yeah and i think because like probably at that
00:12:43.380 point they did not even remember what they had done at michael's you know it was just such a like
00:12:47.320 normal thing to be like wait what even happened like what do we like i can't even remember what
00:12:52.760 I did that day. Like, can you remember what you did a week ago? Like, I can't. So anyway, yes,
00:12:57.780 I think it was very shocking. But at that point, they there's a one of one of Eddie's siblings is
00:13:03.520 a lawyer. And so they had her come or I guess his sister. They had her come to the meeting with the
00:13:08.560 police very smartly and basically told the police like this didn't happen. We don't even remember
00:13:13.920 seeing this woman. You know, we did not follow her around. We definitely didn't try to grab her
00:13:19.480 stroller. And fortunately for them, there was a lot of surveillance video that corroborated their
00:13:25.620 story and they were very quickly cleared of any wrongdoing. But that didn't mean that people out
00:13:31.640 in the world knew they were innocent. Do you know what I mean? Because here Katie is on Instagram,
00:13:36.060 like going off about this rough looking, not clean cut couple who tried to kidnap her kids. So
00:13:42.100 to the rest of the world, no one really knows that they didn't do it except, you know, them
00:13:46.680 and the police. Right, right. So talk to me a little bit. That's all the background, right?
00:13:52.400 Yes. Do you need to know any other background going into the podcast?
00:13:56.280 I guess just that, you know, Sadie, like she is the kind of person who really does something
00:14:02.820 about things that bother her. And this like really pissed her off. Like she just was like,
00:14:07.540 this was so obviously racial profiling. Like, I think it just like enraged her and it enraged
00:14:15.080 her to think about what would have happened if Katie had accused a different couple, like a couple
00:14:19.320 that didn't speak English or a couple who was undocumented or, you know, a couple with fewer 1.00
00:14:23.540 resources. And so she was like, I have to stand up and fight this on behalf of everyone else
00:14:29.780 who has ever been falsely accused, you know, every other person of color that's been falsely
00:14:33.500 accused. And so she held a press conference. And yeah, she just kind of was on a mission to have
00:14:39.420 Katie be actually prosecuted and held accountable.
00:14:44.880 How did the trial go? Because again, these things don't usually go to trial. So how did this end 0.97
00:14:51.480 up coming about? So no one ever told me this on the record. And by no one, I mean like the judge
00:14:57.720 and the district attorney wouldn't confirm this. But I always felt just by the kinds of the ways
00:15:03.340 that the various agencies were talking, that they felt a lot of pressure to prove they could be fair
00:15:08.040 to people of color. And this was also like six months after George Floyd was murdered. And so
00:15:12.180 I think the justice system was under a lot of scrutiny, like even more so than it normally is.
00:15:17.340 And here was a case where they could show they're taking a tough stand against racism,
00:15:22.440 basically against a white woman who had profiled this Latino couple. And so the police from the
00:15:29.620 beginning, you know, they were investigating Katie. The DA charged her with a crime. And then
00:15:36.120 the judge wouldn't let Katie's lawyer get the case dismissed. Like she wrote, you know, if this case 0.98
00:15:42.800 gets dismissed, people will lose faith in the justice system. And this case says a lot about,
00:15:47.560 you know, online, the real world effects of online bullying and, you know, the ramifications of false
00:15:53.960 accusations on people of color in our community. So she seemed to be thinking really big picture
00:15:57.780 about it and really wanted the case to go to trial. So I think that's all part of why it actually
00:16:02.920 made it to trial. Time for a quick break. Be right back.
00:16:19.000 Then for the podcast, you did you end up sitting in on the trial?
00:16:23.640 Yeah. Yeah, I went to every day of the trial. It was five days.
00:16:27.420 And so talk to me about what it was like in that courtroom and what you end up learning
00:16:31.720 that our listeners might not know? I think that the thing that I found most interesting was
00:16:37.360 the prosecutor did not bring up race really at all. He argued that Katie was an influencer who,
00:16:46.280 a wannabe influencer, who created this sensational story to go viral so she could,
00:16:50.740 you know, monetize her posts. And like, she had this online business called Motherhood Essentials, 0.76
00:16:56.420 Where she sold cosmetics and like supplements and essential oils and stuff. So he was like, you know, she wanted to direct more people to her business. And she also wanted to, I mean, Joe, you know more about this than me, but like be able to like make more money off of her sponsored content and ads and stuff.
00:17:11.780 um and that was his argument and so he did this like deep dive into her social media account he
00:17:17.800 pulled all these posts of her saying things like i just want some more money for my kids homeschooling
00:17:24.000 like i'm trying to be an eek influencer for clean living and mindful mothering and
00:17:29.420 i didn't see katie cry during the trial except during this deep dive into her social media
00:17:35.420 because it's so humiliating do you know what i mean like yeah yeah he's just showing these posts
00:17:40.180 of her like blowing flower petals at the camera and she's like sitting 10 feet away like being
00:17:46.500 charged with a crime it was it was very cringy um but that was his argument was she was an
00:17:51.940 influencer gone wrong and he would influencer gone wrong that could have been that could have been
00:17:56.920 the alternate title for this podcast that's true influencer gone wrong as an aside we decided to
00:18:03.920 title it People Versus Karen because the whole idea that Katie was a Karen was really the way
00:18:10.240 this incident was talked about online. Yeah, I remember that. You know, every time I see it,
00:18:16.120 I just, you know, I've got a lot of good Karens in my life. Got a lot of good Karens. And I feel
00:18:21.720 so bad for those good Karens because they... Oh, like women named Karen? 0.81
00:18:26.080 Women named, no, not like Karen in the quote unquote Karen way, but like just women named
00:18:30.440 Karen. Right. Well, some of whom are not white, but I feel bad for those. I feel bad for the 0.58
00:18:37.940 Karens. We actually got a lot of emails from people named Karen who were upset we called
00:18:42.720 the podcast that. So I feel that. I feel them. I feel them. Also feel bad for the Kyles. Feel
00:18:49.400 bad for the Kyles and the Karens in the world. Okay, that's fair. Just putting it out there. 1.00
00:18:54.360 Sorry, Karen. Sorry this happened to you. Yeah. So yeah, that was the prosecutor's argument,
00:18:59.240 And the defense's argument was that Katie now knew that no attempted kidnapping had ever occurred.
00:19:06.920 That was an interesting thing.
00:19:08.000 That was never in question.
00:19:09.280 Like from the beginning, both sides agreed this incident did not happen.
00:19:12.960 But Katie's defense said that, you know, at the time she like convinced herself.
00:19:19.040 What did he say?
00:19:19.640 There was this phrase.
00:19:20.440 He said it was a series of coincidental events that she.
00:19:24.980 No, this is what it was.
00:19:25.880 It was an odd series of coincidental events that she misinterpreted.
00:19:30.780 And she convinced herself that she was at risk and that people were trying to grab her kids, but in reality, they weren't.
00:19:36.960 And she now knows that she was wrong, but that at the time she really felt afraid.
00:19:41.060 And it was important for him to establish that because the whole trial came down to her feelings because the prosecutor had to prove that she did not truly feel afraid.
00:19:52.200 And then, in fact, she was lying to the police.
00:19:54.800 Right, right, right.
00:19:55.420 That can't be easy to prove.
00:19:57.300 No, super hard. And the defense had to prove that she did, in fact, truly feel afraid. So it was all like in her head, which was also fascinating, like a white woman's feelings were on trial.
00:20:07.740 So that part of it was really interesting.
00:20:10.040 And the fact that she could so, you know, wildly misinterpret Eddie Martinez's hand gesture when he's like bummed the Chinese restaurant is closed and she interprets that as him reaching for her stroller.
00:20:24.060 That was like one of the core arguments was that that was what she thought had happened. 0.90
00:20:28.040 this trial just seems gonzo bananas to me because first off yes a white will a white woman's
00:20:36.060 feelings on trial um and also you know it just seems like a war of how things are interpreted
00:20:43.340 which is so subjective now i have covered a lot of trials um i've actually covered i've covered a
00:20:52.140 lot of celebrity divorce trials. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. I famously did the Christy Brinkley
00:20:58.600 divorce from Peter Cook, which is a big scandal out on Long Island. I also did former New Jersey
00:21:05.980 Governor James McGreevy's divorce. Yeah. And so I have been in a lot of courtrooms where there is
00:21:13.960 a lot of he said, she said, and speculation. But in those cases, it felt just more tangible,
00:21:23.320 almost, whereas all of these things either seem to be happening in people's heads or on social
00:21:29.940 media. These seem like things that are not in the real world. I think the other thing that was
00:21:36.980 interesting, in addition to what you were just saying, is all the evidence was there. The charges
00:21:43.700 were based on Katie's three conversations with the police, all of which were recorded. And so
00:21:49.380 it wasn't like, you know, there was a robbery and there's no video of the person going into
00:21:54.720 the store or not. Like the charge was she lied to the police and you have the entire conversation
00:21:59.780 in which she allegedly lied to the police for the jury to listen to and decide. So that was
00:22:05.300 also an interesting thing, just as I don't know, just as like more and more of our lives are
00:22:09.500 documented. Like there weren't really any blind, you know, there weren't any parts of this trial
00:22:13.940 that where you had to guess, like, I don't really know what happened. Like you could tell what
00:22:17.860 happened and it was just about how you interpreted it. So what is the latest? You know what? I
00:22:24.760 haven't been following this story. I mean, it's actually shocking to me that it happened so long
00:22:29.240 ago and I haven't been following it in the past couple of years. What is the latest here?
00:22:35.660 So the trial was this past April. So it was about two and a half years after Katie's initial accusation. And she was found guilty of one count of false reporting of a crime, which is a misdemeanor. Basically, the jury did not convict her on her first two calls to the police, which were like the day of the incident.
00:22:56.640 They did convict her on the conversation she had with the police after her Instagram video came out, which is interesting. She was sentenced to 30 days in jail. She only served half of that because that's how California's sentencing guidelines work. And then she was on probation for nine months. And during that time, she also had some work release.
00:23:15.580 But during probation, she couldn't use social media. She had she had to do like social media ethics training, racial bias training, things like that. And her family has since moved to Montana that they have, which I should note, there's like a very long history of conservative white Californians moving to the northern Rockies when they feel like California is like, you know, not safe for them anymore.
00:23:38.300 So she moved to Montana. And the last I heard was she was before the trial. She was a preschool teacher. Although when I contacted the school where she worked, they took her bio and picture off the teacher page.
00:23:53.180 Oh, wow. Yeah. She really didn't want to be found.
00:23:56.180 Mm-hmm. Well, I understand that. I also, you know, there's many sides to every story, too. Do I think that what Katie Sorensen did was wrong? Yes.
00:24:11.640 Do I think it is terrible what the Martinez's had to go through? Yes. Do I think that someone deserves to be canceled and never have a happier, productive life for the rest of their life for making a series of mistakes like that? I don't know.
00:24:30.540 I mean, if Katie does want to work and be a productive member of society as a preschool teacher, which is a job that we desperately need more of, should she should she be able to do that?
00:24:45.120 There's a lot to think about here.
00:24:46.500 There's a lot to chew on.
00:24:48.040 Yeah.
00:24:49.260 Yeah, I think that to me, this case felt different than your sort of like run of the mill being canceled case where someone says something that, you know, some people interpret as offensive.
00:24:59.120 Other people are like, whatever. But like there's this huge Internet backlash to them. This felt to me like she pretty clearly made up a lot of things that didn't happen and accused a completely innocent couple of this thing that like upended their lives.
00:25:13.180 And I was like, yeah, you know that it made sense to me that she would be charged with a crime. I like it made sense to me she would be found guilty.
00:25:19.340 Like those are things that I think are like are punishable offenses. So to me, this wasn't really about being canceled. I think that the reaction online to Katie, like I talked to her mom briefly at the courthouse and her mom said that, you know, they got death threats and just like horrible emails and letters and phone calls. And I believe all that. I mean, we know how the Internet is. And so, yes, I think I don't have a terrible cesspool.
00:25:48.020 And like, I don't actually wish that on anyone. Like, I really don't. But to separate the online mob stuff from the justice stuff, like the justice stuff in this case seemed like right. I was like, yes, this is what should happen. Like being attacked online. I mean, I really don't wish that on anyone.
00:26:03.140 No, no, no. The justice stuff makes sense for me. It does. But in my mind, I also think, you know, people need to continue to be able to live in the world. And so, yeah, being attacked online is gross.
00:26:17.240 And I'm also curious, would there have been, and I ask this all the time when this happens with an influencer, would there have been this much interest in Katie if she weren't, you know, a, quote, traditionally attractive kind of sitcom looking white blonde woman, white blonde influencer? 0.62
00:26:36.660 Like this case got so much more interest than I think it would have gotten if that weren't who she is. 0.98
00:26:44.960 And I think, yes, her appearance for sure. And also just the way people would use the term mom influencer. I mean, even the prosecutor used it as this like dirty word in this way that felt kind of unfair, honestly. I mean, I'm not defending Katie. She was trying to make a living. She has three kids. She was trying to like build a business from home and like, whatever. Good for her. Like, I think everything she did after that is messed up. 0.97
00:27:09.180 But like it did feel like there was some amount of judgment of her for just being an influencer that felt sort of gross.
00:27:17.300 Yeah. No, I've thought that about this case.
00:27:19.160 And I think it about a lot of news stories that that impact influencers or that are about influencers, that the word influencer and especially mom influencer and especially mommy blogger.
00:27:31.220 Yeah.
00:27:31.460 Those are always used condescendingly by the media. 0.99
00:27:36.160 And that sucks. 1.00
00:27:37.600 It just sucks. 1.00
00:27:38.620 I mean, these are these are women trying to build a business. It's not easy to be a woman building a business. Again, what Katie did was terrible. But the media coverage of things like this, you know, we often see it when an influencer, you know, is harmed or an influencer passes away. 1.00
00:27:57.920 that the the term influencer is always used condescendingly. Yeah. Media and no other job
00:28:06.360 or or a man who happens to have a large Instagram following. No, the men are never condescended to
00:28:12.400 in that way. So, yeah, I do think that there was a lot of language and kind of a media circus
00:28:18.600 around Katie's story that would not have happened if, say, she were an accountant.
00:28:23.860 Yeah, I agree with that. I think the one thing I wanted to add is we were just talking about the like online mob vitriol that Katie received. Sadie and Annie Martinez also received that.
00:28:35.180 Tell me about that.
00:28:36.680 Well, I mean, they for them, it was kind of on many levels. Like they got messages on Facebook and Instagram. So did their kids. It was a lot of like subtle things that would happen in person. Like they would see a van parked outside their house and be like, what is that van? And before they never would have worried about it. You know, but now they're like, what is that? Someone following us? Or they would be shopping and people would be staring at them. And at one point, Sadie overheard some women be like, oh, those are the kidnappers.
00:29:06.200 And so they felt like it followed them around and it definitely it changed them in some pretty concrete ways.
00:29:12.640 Like Eddie, just he's always been kind of a homebody, but now he really prefers to just like go to work, come home.
00:29:20.220 He kind of looks down. He doesn't try to make eye contact with people.
00:29:23.100 He doesn't want to give anyone fuel for any kind of accusation like that ever again.
00:29:27.740 He's kind of afraid to be around kids who aren't his kids or his grandkids. 0.99
00:29:32.380 That sucks. 0.99
00:29:33.160 Yeah. And with Sadie, she was laid off during the pandemic, like so many of us. And it took her a really long time to find a new job. And she was convinced it was because people were Googling her and they were like seeing all the baggage, you know, even though she did nothing wrong. It's like, do we really want an employee who's been associated with this thing? And so it just took a long time. And they had trouble finding housing. They had to find a new place to live during all of this. And that took a long time, too. 0.99
00:29:58.920 So it just affected all of them in pretty tangible ways.
00:30:06.040 Time for a quick break. Be right back.
00:30:20.180 How much did you talk to the Martinez's for this podcast?
00:30:24.400 Quite a bit.
00:30:25.180 Um, I interviewed both of them, Sadie and Eddie, like before the trial, I saw them, you know, at the courthouse. They were both witnesses, which meant they couldn't be in court for the rest of the time. Right. But they had a good friend who was there every day. And I would often debrief with them or with their friend after court every day.
00:30:47.160 I mean, I talked to them right after the verdict, right after the sentencing.
00:30:51.620 And yeah, we have I mean, we've we've stayed in touch.
00:30:55.900 And it's funny.
00:30:57.000 I just asked Sadie for advice about potty training because she has five kids.
00:31:00.000 And I'm like, this woman is probably an expert.
00:31:03.080 Wait, what did she tell you?
00:31:04.420 Oh, she was just so chill about it.
00:31:06.020 She was just like, just like, you know, put him in pull ups and offer him the potty whenever it's around.
00:31:10.500 And I was like, truth, truth, that's all you do.
00:31:13.600 It really is.
00:31:14.360 Yeah. And also and also bribery bribery works. And I just give them a I actually just I this podcast always goes in a direction that we do not expect. I let them be naked and sit on the potty and give them a screen for a long time and then give them an M&M when they poop. 0.60
00:31:30.560 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I've definitely been using M&Ms. So but yeah, I mean, I think I I mean, personally, like as a reporter, like I like stories where it's not really clear, like who's the victim and who's the perpetrator. 0.95
00:31:46.500 And so this story was interesting because it actually was quite clear cut. Like there wasn't a lot of gray about what happens. But even within that, I thought I just thought Sadie was really interesting how she wanted to fight back and how she didn't take it standing sitting down and was like, no, like I'm going to go public and I'm going to go big.
00:32:04.880 And I want everyone to know what happened to us because our story needs to go viral, too.
00:32:09.040 Otherwise, no one will know we're innocent.
00:32:11.300 And she just seemed really Internet savvy in that way.
00:32:14.160 Like she kind of got it, you know, and I thought that was really interesting.
00:32:19.460 Do you think that she got the vindication that she wanted?
00:32:21.820 Do you think that her story has gone viral in a way that they have been vindicated?
00:32:27.900 Um.
00:32:29.780 I think I guess a couple of things, the fact that race didn't really come up at the trial.
00:32:34.460 initially bothered her because she was like, I feel so strongly this was racial profiling and
00:32:40.200 that just didn't come up. And but then I think she was she talked to the prosecution more and
00:32:45.020 she was like, well, they told me that they didn't need to prove racial bias in order to prove Katie
00:32:50.360 lied to the police. And in fact, it's pretty hard to prove racial bias in court, especially to a
00:32:54.880 jury of 11 white people and one Asian man, which is what the jury was. Yeah, that's really
00:33:00.800 interesting. Yeah. So I think the prosecution just was like, this is not going to be in our
00:33:05.240 favor. And so they didn't really go there. But she always has told me, like, I know it was racially
00:33:10.860 motivated. That's enough for me. I think the thing the thing that is complicated is that
00:33:17.260 Katie's mom has an Instagram account where she's essentially relitigating the case like trial by 0.98
00:33:23.700 Instagram. Oh, wow. On Instagram. This is so meta. Yeah. And she's posting, you know,
00:33:29.980 surveillance video pieces of evidence from the trial they are appealing and so she's doing both
00:33:36.880 they're doing both like the formal appeal through court and then also this instagram
00:33:40.780 kind of trying to rewrite the narrative to be katie was just a concerned mom and she called
00:33:47.220 the police to report her concerns and look what happened so think twice moms before you call the
00:33:52.340 police when you think your kids are in danger wow and what is this instagram account um i think it's
00:33:58.580 called sorry let me just double check it is called supporters with k sorry it's stand with katie
00:34:07.460 sorenson so the instagram account is stand with katie sorenson hold on i'm just looking it up
00:34:13.880 and it's created it it might be private now um no this is this is this is private now but uh yeah
00:34:20.580 the profile is described as the truth truth in all caps behind the mom who went to jail for her viral
00:34:26.300 Instagram video. Yeah. Okay. And that's how it's framed is, you know, this is the truth.
00:34:34.780 The way the media presented this is not the truth. Katie's mom does not like the fact that
00:34:41.740 people like me use the term Karen to describe her. Like she has a bunch of hashtags. Her name 0.88
00:34:46.540 is Katie, not Karen. And so, yeah, they're kind of trying to get a different outcome with a jury
00:34:54.680 of online followers. And this is very infuriating to Sadie, as you can imagine. So I think she feels
00:35:02.000 like she's not done yet because of this Instagram account and also because of the appeal, but
00:35:08.020 primarily because of this Instagram account. I mean, I don't have words. I don't actually have
00:35:16.580 words for this because there's just so many facets of this that can only exist in our social
00:35:23.840 media obsessed world right now. Yeah, the whole thing. I mean, that's another reason why I thought
00:35:30.620 this was interesting. The whole story felt to me like very much only could have taken place in late
00:35:35.840 2020. Like for sure. You know, like peak covid six months after George Floyd was murdered, like
00:35:43.900 everyone's at home. Well, not everyone, but most of us are like locked up at home. We're online
00:35:49.400 all the time. Conspiracy theories are rampant. And in this environment, you know, Katie and
00:35:55.640 Sadie and Eddie walk into the store. Eddie's wearing his Black Lives Matter hoodie. And,
00:36:01.740 you know, Katie just sort of takes it and goes with it. So I don't know. I found that part of
00:36:06.860 it really interesting to me. That sort of like commentary on that period in time.
00:36:11.100 Yeah. The most 2020 episode of all time.
00:36:14.520 Yeah. And one thing we haven't talked about is that the police, when they were going through
00:36:18.060 Katie's social media account, did find that she was, I think as they put it, like engaging with
00:36:24.060 QAnon and other child sex trafficking conspiracy content. Oh, wow. And so she takes it takes
00:36:30.800 another turn. Yeah. So she had posted a post of herself in summer 2020 holding the sign that says 0.99
00:36:38.000 like, let's be the generation that ends child sex trafficking. And she was at a rally sponsored by
00:36:43.760 this organization that's like a pretty controversial child sex trafficking organization that does all
00:36:49.540 these like rescue missions and to developing countries to like rescue child sex trafficking
00:36:54.280 victims. And if you recall, that summer was the summer of the like Wayfair conspiracy,
00:37:00.300 like when people were convinced that the furniture company Wayfair was like shipping children
00:37:05.660 in cabinets like they were trafficking kids in furniture. And this was like a real.
00:37:10.860 I do not remember this.
00:37:12.160 Oh, yeah. Look it up.
00:37:12.980 I'm also here for for this ridiculousness. OK, yeah. The conspiracy was called Save the Children, which is the name of this like very old established nonprofit that does work with children around the world. 0.85
00:37:24.160 Yes. And QAnon followers sort of appropriated the name to insinuate that like this cabal of global elites, you know, mostly Jewish, are like trafficking children because they're pedophiles and they want to like, you know, harvest this strain, this hormone in their blood that gives them strength. 0.75
00:37:44.840 and they're trafficking them through Wayfair 0.79
00:37:46.880 and through snatching them in Ikea and Target. 0.68
00:37:50.480 And, you know, it's white kids that are the victims. 0.62
00:37:54.640 And so a lot of the imagery that ended up in these memes
00:37:58.240 that were affiliated with Save the Children
00:37:59.600 were like a white girl with like a brown hand over her mouth.
00:38:03.080 Or there's like a white kid with like a, you know,
00:38:06.380 there's like shadowy figures in the background
00:38:08.040 who look darker skinned.
00:38:10.000 So Katie, one of her friends who I talked to, 0.94
00:38:12.960 told me that uh some of the mom groups they were in there was a lot of this like like mamas watch
00:38:18.440 out like there was just an attempted kidnapping and you know this part of california like people
00:38:23.060 were posting stuff like that in these groups so she thinks katie was kind of primed to see
00:38:27.280 kidnappers everywhere and that that was on her mind when she went to michael's so that's a whole
00:38:32.180 other layer of that story i mean that's a layer that i am also here for this i mean yeah we haven't
00:38:40.640 done an episode on q anon influencers oh my god you should oh i know it's just like my one of one
00:38:47.860 of my concerns about it is that they're so easily mobilized to come after you online that i'm like 0.93
00:38:55.940 oh that's true i don't really want your shit like i do i need the q anon people saying that i'm 0.97
00:39:02.180 i'm trafficking children by shipping them in crates of the sicilian inheritance i'm kind of 0.99
00:39:08.380 curious what the like new mom influencer conspiracy is because I don't that's not like my beat you
00:39:14.020 know but I it's funny because I also last last year the year before I did a podcast series about
00:39:20.960 a yoga teacher who kind of radicalized during the pandemic and became like a vaccine denier and
00:39:25.860 real like conspiracy theorist and um and so it just yeah I'm just sort of curious like what's
00:39:33.300 the latest because the last time I was checking in in that world, it was like, you know, Fauci
00:39:38.500 is part of the deep state and the vaccines are actually giving you COVID. And I'm just like,
00:39:43.280 well, what are they talking about now that the pandemic is sort of ending? Probably like
00:39:47.780 parental rights and school boards and stuff, but I don't know for sure.
00:39:51.400 But we don't know for sure. No, we have no idea. All right, cool. If any of our listeners know
00:39:56.180 what the latest influencing conspiracy theory is, shoot me a message and we'll jam on it.
00:40:06.280 Yes, that would be really, I would listen to that.
00:40:09.240 Yeah, me too. So tell people where they can listen and where they can find you.
00:40:14.580 So the show is called Imperfect Paradise, and this particular season is called People vs. Karen.
00:40:21.080 And you can look for Imperfect Paradise pretty much anywhere you get your podcasts. If you live
00:40:25.420 in Greater Los Angeles. It also airs at 7 p.m. on Sundays on 89.3, which is the local NPR station.
00:40:35.060 Amazing. Is there anything that I missed?
00:40:37.600 I guess I should just probably say, and you could put this in wherever, that
00:40:40.680 I did reach out to Katie's lawyer and she declined to talk to me.
00:40:45.960 Oh, yeah. That's what I was going to ask. So you never spoke to Katie?
00:40:49.060 No. I tried many times. I talked to her lawyer a lot and I talked to her mom,
00:40:53.580 but I never talked to Katie directly.
00:40:56.240 I only heard her, she was on the witness stand at the trial
00:40:59.100 but beyond that, I never heard from her directly.
00:41:03.280 What did Katie's mom have to say to you?
00:41:06.440 So her mom, her mom's name is Jill. 0.98
00:41:10.100 She didn't want to talk for most of the trial
00:41:12.420 and then right after the verdict,
00:41:14.460 I was standing outside the courtroom
00:41:16.000 with this other reporter 0.66
00:41:16.980 and she sort of like barged over to us
00:41:19.620 and was initially kind of combative.
00:41:21.740 Like, do you want a statement now?
00:41:23.580 And she just said that she felt that the evidence had not been portrayed properly.
00:41:29.880 Katie was clearly innocent.
00:41:31.340 It was totally reasonable of her to misinterpret Eddie Martinez's hand gesture as him trying to reach for her stroller.
00:41:39.260 And that Katie, she said, Katie has been as much a victim in this as the Martinez's have.
00:41:47.660 Oh, wow. Well done. 0.93
00:41:49.080 And I think that goes to the Instagram account, which is portraying Katie as a victim of this kind of rigged system that is, you know, California is out to get white conservatives. So that's a whole other wormhole there. But yeah, that's kind of their point of view.
00:42:07.900 California's got a lot of got a lot of shit wrong with it. 0.97
00:42:10.420 But that's not one of them. 0.99
00:42:11.900 It's not one of them.
00:42:13.820 Her husband's family is a longtime California family.
00:42:16.580 OK.
00:42:17.940 And yeah, they were all you could always tell who they were because they were all very put together.
00:42:22.860 Like, you know, wearing beige, rose, various pastels, light blues.
00:42:28.980 Yeah.
00:42:29.120 They just like looked really good.
00:42:31.280 And you're saying they were very Instagrammable even on trial.
00:42:34.180 Oh, yeah.
00:42:34.620 Yeah.
00:42:34.820 No, I mean, they you know, they knew.
00:42:36.820 I think they, yeah, they looked, they were just very put together compared to the rest of us.
00:42:42.960 I mean, if I'm ever on trial for anything, I will probably look like the Crypt Keeper.
00:42:46.720 So, yeah.
00:42:48.420 I mean, it's interesting to consider the fashion choices of people at trial, generally, I think.
00:42:53.000 I think about it all the time.
00:42:54.820 Right?
00:42:55.240 Yeah, I also covered, you know, a lot of Naomi Campbell after she'd thrown the phone at her assistant and when she was throwing, like, the temper tantrums. 0.93
00:43:04.000 And her fashion choices during that time period were fucking impeccable.
00:43:09.380 I think it is important as a woman. 0.99
00:43:11.460 I mean, and so Katie would wear, like I said, a lot of beiges. 0.68
00:43:13.900 She frequently had her tortoiseshell glasses on.
00:43:17.380 The day that she testified, the first thing she did was look at the jury, smile, and introduce herself as a mother, which was a really interesting strategic move.
00:43:29.400 That's a choice.
00:43:30.300 Yeah, for sure.
00:43:31.460 Yeah.
00:43:31.780 For sure.
00:43:31.980 and but in general she was no emotion stone-faced she only cried that one time
00:43:37.360 during the instagram presentation that's the perfect note to end on that's it
00:43:42.120 wow i mean that update really really just floored me i'm always happy to go back to
00:43:53.720 that michael's parking lot also the story is bananas i'm very happy that emily dove deeper
00:44:00.080 into Sadie and Eddie Martinez's story. So much of the media is just clickbait. These days,
00:44:06.000 we never examine who the real humans are behind it, and stories like this can damage people's
00:44:11.880 lives. So kudos to Emily and the entire Imperfect Paradise team for bringing this to people's ears.
00:44:19.420 I loved it. You can go listen to Imperfect Paradise wherever you get your podcasts,
00:44:24.220 give it a review. Give us a review. Reviews really help. I mean, yeah, I just, I hate saying it,
00:44:29.260 but I've got to keep saying it. Also, you know what I'm going to say next? Order the Sicilian
00:44:33.480 Inheritance so that I don't have to create some weird Sicilian Inheritance conspiracy with QAnon. 1.00
00:44:39.400 Because I will. Because I will. I'll pick a fight with QAnon if it means that we're going to sell 1.00
00:44:44.400 a gazillion copies of that book. That's how much I love it. That is how much I love it.
00:44:49.180 And I love you guys. You're amazing. Go have a wonderful day. You deserve it.
00:44:59.260 Thank you.