Under the Influence (with Jo Piazza) - December 11, 2025


Australia Just Banned Social Media for Teens. What Happens Next

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00:03:02.640 about something that I think is really, really interesting. Just last week, Australia became
00:03:07.860 the first country in the world to ban social media access for anyone under the age of 16.
00:03:14.320 Under the new law, major platforms, including TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, Snapchat,
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00:03:25.840 Anyway, under this new law, all of these major platforms must deactivate all accounts belonging
00:03:31.680 to under-16s, and block new registrations until users turn 16. I think this is a great idea. I 1.00
00:03:39.240 really do. I know there's a lot of young people in Australia who are upset about it. We're going
00:03:43.680 to talk about them today, but what I really want to talk about is why I think that laws like this
00:03:48.220 are so important. I think that someone has to be saying to these media companies,
00:03:52.280 we are watching and this matters. Today to talk to me all about it is the wonderful Nick Astor.
00:04:01.680 Hi, Nick Astor.
00:04:06.480 Hello, hello.
00:04:07.600 So I wanted to have you on today to talk about the social media ban for children that just took effect in Australia.
00:04:14.360 We have kids. This does not impact them yet because they're still really little.
00:04:19.120 But it's definitely something that I think all parents should be aware of.
00:04:23.200 And I think it's something we should be watching very closely, because it's the first country to put a social media ban like this into effect. And I think it is flawed in a lot of ways. But I also think it's really important. And it's a really big deal. And I don't think anyone is talking about this nearly enough.
00:04:45.420 Yeah, well, my first big question, and I guess this is for you as well as the world, is what does this even really mean?
00:04:51.980 I mean, what exactly has been banned?
00:04:54.120 And more importantly, how is this kind of thing going to be enforced?
00:04:56.400 Because it seems like the kind of thing that's immediately going to have blowback and kids will fake their age and some parents won't bother enforcing it and blah, blah, blah.
00:05:06.460 What does it even mean?
00:05:08.080 There is going to be blowback.
00:05:09.340 It is going to be difficult to enforce.
00:05:11.800 And a lot of kids are going to get around it.
00:05:14.780 Let's just say that right at the offset.
00:05:18.060 Despite all of the flaws, I still think that this matters.
00:05:23.220 In the same way that setting age limits for things like smoking and drinking actually matters,
00:05:31.840 people are going to get around it.
00:05:33.340 Enforcement is going to be hard.
00:05:34.740 It's going to be flawed.
00:05:36.300 And yet having the government step in and say, there should be an age limit on this.
00:05:41.600 This is dangerous.
00:05:42.700 That is a way to regulate companies that will not regulate themselves.
00:05:47.100 And for me, that's why this matters.
00:05:49.320 I mean, that's kind of my overarching view as we now dig into how flawed this is.
00:05:54.460 That sounds good.
00:05:56.060 That definitely sounds logical and good.
00:05:59.080 But yeah, I mean, let's dig into it.
00:06:00.640 What do we know about how this actually purports to be defined and enforced?
00:06:06.240 Yeah, and a lot of it is kind of a word salad.
00:06:08.700 A lot of it is very confusing.
00:06:09.920 What we know is that this measure, which was passed a year ago, requires the technology companies behind the various platforms, Facebook, Instagram, something called Kik, Reddit, Snapchat, Threads, TikTok, Twitch, X, and YouTube, all defined as social media companies.
00:06:30.720 It's unclear whether or not new companies can be introduced or what actually defines a social media company.
00:06:39.640 But these are the ones that are included right now.
00:06:42.320 They have to identify and disable the accounts of Australian users who are under 16.
00:06:49.600 So this is a full-on ban.
00:06:53.600 Right.
00:06:54.560 You're not allowed to be on the platform if you are under 16.
00:06:59.400 And under the law, the failure to take, quote, reasonable steps to remove underage users could lead to fines of up to $49.5 million Australian dollars, which is about $33 million, which, as we know, is actually nothing to these tech companies.
00:07:15.000 I mean, this is just absolutely no money to them whatsoever.
00:07:18.720 It's like buying a dollar scratch-off ticket.
00:07:21.700 Right.
00:07:22.220 I think everybody sort of vaguely thinks that less social media time is probably better for kids.
00:07:28.200 What's the motivation behind this?
00:07:29.640 Is this about keeping kids from disinformation?
00:07:32.780 Is it about porn?
00:07:34.500 Or is it just about them wasting their time?
00:07:37.400 This is about everything.
00:07:38.600 This is about everything that we truly do know about social media and the impact that it has on kids' brains.
00:07:45.520 And again, I think that's why this matters. The fact that the Australian government has had these conversations and has had these conversations in earnest about the toxic impact that these platforms can have on kids.
00:07:59.340 I think it shows that there is a problem here. And it also makes a lot of parents kind of wake up and say, oh, wow, you know, maybe maybe we should reconsider this as well.
00:08:10.380 It's because of the psychological impact that it has on kids, but also because there have been studies that say that kids who use social media get less sleep.
00:08:21.720 They are more anxious.
00:08:23.960 They are more prone to obesity.
00:08:27.820 There are just so many impacts on children that I think cannot be ignored.
00:08:36.140 So, yes, I think that this all makes sense.
00:08:40.380 So you said a lot of specific examples there. Presumably, there's enough evidence to have led the Australian government to do this. It all sounds good to me, but what's the best thing to do? I mean, do we sit back and wait a few years and watch what happens in Australia? And hopefully we have evidence that suggests, well, gee, we should do this here? Or is it time to take further action?
00:09:05.040 Well, I think it's absolutely time to take action in the United States. And I think it's time to take action because the technology platforms won't do this themselves. So just even having these conversations, just even having these potential fines, which like we said, is a drop in the bucket for tech companies, but having them exist will push the companies to at least be a little bit better.
00:09:29.280 And these companies, the goal is capitalism. It's capitalism to the end. And unless they're being pushed by anyone, by any kind of regulatory body, they are not going to do anything or at least not nearly enough to protect vulnerable people online.
00:09:46.200 And all of us are vulnerable on social media. We are. We should all be off of it more than we're on it. But I do want to go through a recent study in the Journal of Pediatrics, was just released this week on Monday, that found that children who had a smartphone by age 12 were at higher risk of depression, obesity, and insufficient sleep than those who did not have one.
00:10:09.420 children the younger that children under 12 were when they got their first smartphones
00:10:15.400 the study found and this was all published in the times i think yesterday the greater their risk of
00:10:20.680 obesity and poor sleep they also focused on a subset of children who hadn't received a phone
00:10:25.480 by age 12 and found that a year later those who had acquired one had more harmful mental health
00:10:31.420 symptoms and worse sleep than those who hadn't well i would argue that there's it sounds like
00:10:36.900 there's even bigger problems than, you know, a risk of obesity and some lost sleep.
00:10:43.440 What problems are you talking about?
00:10:46.200 I'm talking about misinformation. I'm talking about, you know, addiction to the device itself,
00:10:52.980 antisocial behavior, you know, and potential litany of things that could cascade into adulthood.
00:10:59.620 Yeah, I think that's absolutely true. The reason I think that this study is getting
00:11:04.140 getting so much attention right now is because they were things that are measurable.
00:11:08.780 And it's a lot more difficult to measure the impact of misinformation, the impact of
00:11:15.660 de-socialization on children, the impact of not existing in reality the way that we got to exist
00:11:22.680 in reality when we were kids. And these are things that are measurable. And I think that's a lot
00:11:27.880 easier to translate, especially when you're trying to convince lawmakers that something is bad or
00:11:33.760 unhealthy. It's interesting if in the US, if regulations like this did have to pass through
00:11:40.560 our health departments, of course, that is impossible because of who is in charge of our
00:11:45.280 health department. So in Australia, it's actually really interesting. The setup and enforcement of
00:11:50.440 age restrictions are left up to the companies, which is pretty much what they have to do,
00:11:56.300 because it's not like the government has any access to these apps. And that makes this really
00:12:02.400 tricky. We've interviewed a lot of folks that work with these companies or who have worked with these
00:12:08.200 companies on this podcast. And look, I also think there's a lot of really good people who work within
00:12:15.020 the companies who want to protect children. And then at the same time, it has to be difficult
00:12:20.800 to do that when the goals of the company are to make money to bring on more users and to keep
00:12:28.660 those users as addicted to these devices and these screens as possible. The motivations are
00:12:35.340 simply at odds. So this law is absolutely flawed in that it's leaving the regulation up to the
00:12:43.080 companies to put in place. So we're just going to have to see how that plays out. Like you said,
00:12:48.080 let's see what they do in Australia. The interesting thing to me is there is also
00:12:53.500 blowback from kids in Australia right now. And let's take a quick break and then dig into that.
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00:13:17.400 we're back that's exactly what i was going to say and this is not to be a contrarian on the
00:13:27.340 whole thing but inevitably you know when there's a draconian rule like this one explores contrary
00:13:33.480 points of view and of course there are kids uh that are on social media who are quote-unquote
00:13:39.020 influencers who are perhaps you know who are creating positive things under the guidance of
00:13:44.320 their parents or not, who are even making money off of this that we've discussed.
00:13:49.080 You know, what's the downside there?
00:13:52.640 I think that this is a tricky thing to talk about.
00:13:56.440 So one thing is that a blanket ban of saying, hey, all kids under 16, I don't think that's
00:14:05.920 the right kind of ban, but it's the easiest one because a 15, 16 year old is very different
00:14:12.860 from a 12-year-old is very different from an 8-year-old. And so as you said, there are a lot
00:14:21.900 of kids who use social media for positive things, who create content on there, who are building
00:14:28.060 their businesses, who are young entrepreneurs, who are successfully building businesses on these
00:14:33.120 platforms. And that does matter because as we know, the future of commerce is on social media
00:14:39.820 for better or worse. The train has left the station. I don't love it. That's where it exists.
00:14:44.560 And so in a way, we are training these kids to become the entrepreneurs of the future
00:14:50.300 by making themselves a brand on social media. Again, something I do not like,
00:14:55.140 but something that maybe feels a little bit inevitable.
00:14:59.240 Yeah. I mean, presumably there could be some kind of tool developed at some point where
00:15:04.700 are exceptions granted, you know, under some degree of guidance. I mean, it could be awfully
00:15:12.020 bureaucratic, but something like that, right? Perhaps. We honestly have no idea what's going
00:15:19.360 to happen. What we do know is that a lot of teenagers are speaking out saying this isn't
00:15:24.560 fair. And in fact, two Australian teenagers who were backed by an advocacy group filed a
00:15:29.740 constitutional challenge to the law in Australia's high court before it went into effect, arguing that
00:15:35.420 it infringes on their right to political communication, which I think that's a really
00:15:40.400 interesting way to approach this. I also think, and look, I don't think that I'm being alarmist
00:15:47.140 here, but we will see a lot of children being backed by advocacy groups who may also be backed
00:15:53.740 by these companies. These companies have so much political power. They have so much sway.
00:15:59.440 they are paying so many lobbyists that I do think we're going to see a lot of challenges to this
00:16:03.880 with children at the forefront who may be backed by advocacy groups that are being supported by
00:16:11.300 these tech companies. Advocacy groups motivated by the company, yeah. Well, yeah, that's troubling.
00:16:17.040 I mean, I think there's one thing that we're right on that everybody can agree, and that's
00:16:21.860 the motivation here i mean these these platforms have been designed to be addictive uh and to keep
00:16:30.500 people's attention and that is a an issue you know whether that is a catastrophic problem that
00:16:36.800 you know or whether that's something that society figures out how to handle and we grow out of i
00:16:41.380 don't know um but it's clearly an issue and i think that's kind of the fundamental thing because
00:16:46.060 that's particularly problematic with kids.
00:16:50.320 Well, exactly.
00:16:51.280 And I brought up alcohol and cigarettes
00:16:54.180 because I would put this in a similar category
00:16:58.000 of how addicting it can be
00:17:00.880 and how damaging to your health.
00:17:03.660 And so if we think about it like something
00:17:06.060 that is addicting, that is bad for your health,
00:17:09.160 it's just a healthier way for us as a society
00:17:13.300 to view this and to control it a little bit better. I think for parents to pay a little
00:17:18.940 bit more attention for kids to realize this isn't all fun and games. Someone is looking out for me
00:17:25.040 here. Someone is saying, hey, maybe just take a beat. Take a beat before you go on this. This
00:17:30.280 isn't necessarily healthy for you. And that's why I think this law truly matters. It's very easy to
00:17:35.140 poo-poo it, to say it's not enough, it's flawed, the kids are mad about it. But at the same time,
00:17:41.660 we do need regulations for things that are dangerous because human beings simply cannot
00:17:46.080 control themselves yeah exactly i mean there are you know libertarian perspectives on that which
00:17:53.440 have their own problems but um yeah i mean that's the conversation that needs to be had and i think
00:17:59.160 that we're doing the right thing in doing it i suppose we have a bit of a luxury to sort of sit
00:18:03.480 back and see what happens in australia and does it act is it actually effective um or not um what
00:18:10.340 What is happening here? I mean, is there any legislation that's been discussed in any real way, particularly given the current administration?
00:18:18.680 All of the legislation that is happening in the U.S. is happening at the state level right now.
00:18:23.720 And a lot of that has to do with children performing in these videos.
00:18:28.140 Do children have to be paid? There is some discussion of banning cell phones in schools, of social media bans.
00:18:36.500 But we don't have anything at all at this level, and also any restrictions that have been put into place in the U.S. are also incredibly difficult to enforce.
00:18:48.360 The problem here, truly, is that at the end of the day, so much of this is going to fall on the parents.
00:18:55.280 So much of this is going to fall on parents to say, no, I'm sorry, you can't have a cell phone.
00:18:59.600 No, I'm sorry, you can't have social media. And that will be hard because social media in some ways does allow kids to connect. It allows for some social connection and a sense of belonging, things which are very good for mental health.
00:19:15.080 I truly believe that it's actually better just to be in real life, just to be in person with humans more.
00:19:22.260 I think we are truly losing a lot of real social connection by how absorbed we are in screens.
00:19:28.960 But I will also say that I have made incredible connections with people online and then gotten to know them in real life, people that I never would have met otherwise.
00:19:38.460 I certainly used to feel that way about the Internet in general back when it was a burgeoning utopia.
00:19:45.280 But I have an idea. Bear with me here.
00:19:47.660 First of all, you know, getting smartphones out of schools, which a lot of schools have already done.
00:19:53.360 And I'm not even sure. Do we get any idea what the statistics are?
00:19:56.480 I mean, you know, how many schools allow you to walk around with a phone?
00:20:00.460 I have no idea. Do you?
00:20:01.580 The majority of schools still allow phones in them.
00:20:05.660 Actually, smartphone bans are pretty rare in schools, and this is actually often an incidence of helicopter parents who say, my kids have to have a phone.
00:20:17.200 I have to be able to reach them.
00:20:18.580 Oh, my God.
00:20:19.460 Like, it's danger dangerous if I can't reach them, which my argument back is we didn't have phones in the 80s and 90s.
00:20:27.780 That seems like a fixable problem.
00:20:29.180 I mean, broadcast the school's phone number.
00:20:31.940 Right?
00:20:32.760 We would just call Wendy at school.
00:20:34.920 That seems logical to me. I think that most people would say that's easy to enforce. It's logical for lots of reasons. And it seems like a good place to start.
00:20:45.440 It's a great place to start. And this is also something that we're seeing on the state level. A growing number of U.S. states have enacted laws or policies banning or at least restricting cell phone use in schools.
00:20:59.840 At least 32 states and D.C. currently require districts to implement some form of restriction. That form of restriction can vary, very widely.
00:21:09.680 I will tell you that these restrictions are very, very, very supported by teachers and
00:21:15.900 principals.
00:21:16.860 It is often the parents who are the most nervous about these things.
00:21:21.540 I think that's very ironic.
00:21:23.500 But here's a big idea.
00:21:25.620 We talked about this, you know, with some of your expertise in media, and we've talked
00:21:30.400 about this at the collegiate level.
00:21:32.240 But, you know, if we could do anything, you know, wouldn't it be awesome if there was
00:21:37.060 some kind of class about media literacy, about social media literacy, about technology that
00:21:46.340 age appropriate that kids took at school that simply discussed this. And it could be an amazing
00:21:55.160 part of evolving a solution. I fully believe that we should see media literacy in all schools
00:22:03.520 starting in kindergarten, because kids are seeing social media, they're seeing computers earlier and
00:22:10.520 earlier. And when it comes to the news, it isn't like the way it was when we grew up. When we saw
00:22:16.980 our parents read a newspaper, we saw the local news on TV, we saw the national nightly news
00:22:22.200 on TV, we saw news broadcast to us. And now we just see people staring at a screen glued to the
00:22:28.720 palm of their hand. We don't know what anyone is doing on it at any given time. And so our kids are
00:22:36.280 not seeing how news is given to us, how news is created. And then all of a sudden, when they get
00:22:42.220 their own devices, it's like the fire hose is turned on. And all of these things are coming
00:22:48.520 at them that may have not been in front of them at all the way that these things were in front of
00:22:54.180 us and we could just slowly take it all in. I've been saying this for years now. I actually wanted
00:23:00.640 to go back to school to maybe get a PhD to try to develop these kinds of programs. I was poo-pooed
00:23:06.120 by many people in academia who were like, we're already working on it. And I'm like, well,
00:23:11.320 I don't see it. So it's not fast enough, y'all. Our kids, we do a lot. We do a lot of media
00:23:18.300 illiteracy in our house. I think we can do it even more, to be honest. Let's take one more
00:23:24.240 quick break. I didn't like what you said, Odin pauses, about the future. This is the love story
00:23:31.760 of real hinge couple Odin and Edward, written and read by me, Curtis Garner. Listen to the free
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00:23:48.300 I don't think I can be your friend, Isabella said.
00:23:51.920 Rebecca's stomach flipped.
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00:24:07.660 Okay, we are back.
00:24:09.500 One of the things that I do with our kids these days is that I narrate out loud what I'm doing at any given point on a screen.
00:24:17.440 I say, okay, I'm texting your grandma right now to see if she can pick you up. Oh, now I'm reading
00:24:22.660 a news article from this news site. It's telling me this. Or, oh, now I'm on social media. This is
00:24:30.000 Instagram. I'm doing this, this, and this. And I mean, that's probably so boring to them, but I will
00:24:36.320 say, Charlie, our eight, almost nine-year-old, asks me a lot of questions about this. Yeah. I mean,
00:24:42.240 I think that the goal here, and let's say with our own kids, but also in some kind of hypothetical
00:24:47.780 learning environment, is to just get the kids to ask the question, you know, is what I'm seeing
00:24:54.980 real? Is what I'm seeing trying to get me to buy something? Is what I'm seeing, you know, pushing
00:25:00.440 my buttons in one way or another? If we could just get kids to at least think about that, we will
00:25:05.680 have made a huge amount of progress. It's not about saying, kids, this is bad. Because I think
00:25:09.840 if you just tell people black and white, this is good or bad, that that always backfires. It's just
00:25:15.480 it's not good or bad. It's a tool that can be extremely useful. It can also be problematic
00:25:22.060 and addictive. Absolutely right. I kind of think about media literacy in schools as the media
00:25:29.480 version of dare, kind of, you know, but without the bullshit Nancy Reagan of all of it. Because 0.99
00:25:35.860 I mean, I think Nancy Reagan just made more kids want to do drugs.
00:25:39.620 Yeah, I mean, with the war, well, yeah, the war on drugs, the drugs pretty much won that.
00:25:45.440 The drugs won.
00:25:46.220 The drugs won.
00:25:46.980 OK.
00:25:47.500 And but much like drugs and much like what the really good D.A.R.E. programs did do in schools is it raises the question.
00:25:54.640 OK, what is this?
00:25:56.920 How is this impacting me?
00:25:58.540 How does this make me feel?
00:26:00.740 And right now, and there's two parts of this.
00:26:03.500 There's the social media part of it. And then there's the news media part of it, which with misinformation and the fragmentation of media and media outlets, that may even be the bigger part of this going forward. Where are you getting information? Where are you getting good information? Who owns these companies and who's profiting off of you when you're giving your attention to these companies?
00:26:27.320 I think the ownership aspect is more important than ever.
00:26:31.100 We've always had billionaires owning media.
00:26:33.980 We've always had billionaires putting their stamp on media.
00:26:37.100 But I think that's getting even more intense.
00:26:39.900 And it's important to know who these people are.
00:26:43.360 What are their political views?
00:26:45.020 What agendas are they pushing?
00:26:47.860 And why, when you're getting information from them?
00:26:51.780 Because even with all of these mergers in entertainment that are happening right now,
00:26:55.520 everything with Paramount and Warner Brothers and Netflix, where we're getting our information,
00:27:02.180 where we're even getting our entertainment is now highly influenced by a small group of very
00:27:08.780 rich, mostly men in this country. Yeah, 100%. And of course, this, you know,
00:27:16.240 this evolves into adulthood as well. And, you know, I think you're absolutely right. I mean,
00:27:20.620 some aspect of this ought to start in kindergarten. It should start in kindergarten.
00:27:24.120 I mean, we have a kindergartner, right?
00:27:25.880 And kindergartners, they're so smart.
00:27:27.380 They have so many questions.
00:27:28.600 We just left our kindergartner's class because we went to go talk about our holiday tradition of feeding our Christmas tree to the goats.
00:27:36.900 And they had so many good questions, right?
00:27:39.340 They did.
00:27:40.040 They did.
00:27:41.300 This is a tangent.
00:27:43.100 But have you seen what the Curb app has now put by default in all taxis that talks to you when you get into the taxi?
00:27:51.360 No, I haven't.
00:27:52.680 This is a tangent.
00:27:53.240 Newsmax.
00:27:55.100 Newsmax is in Curbed, is in Autopsy now.
00:27:59.000 And it yells, and obviously Newsmax has paid to be there because it's essentially, you know, it's fake news to use the term du jour.
00:28:10.340 But yeah, I mean, speaking of that, and that's barking at people every time they get into a cab now in New York and Philly and everywhere.
00:28:16.640 Yeah, no, I had absolutely no idea. Because again, there's also no cohesive media reporting anymore, to be honest. And I'm saying this as a person who lived in the world of media reporting for a very long time when it was first, you know, popping up on the internet. You worked at Gawker in the early days. I was frequently a subject of Gawker in the early days.
00:28:40.480 there's not nearly enough reporting on this and or if there is it's really hard to break out of
00:28:47.840 all of the other salacious rage bait that is out there uh but that is that is fascinating great so
00:28:53.820 now we have newsmax yelling at people in the back of taxis it's funny because i think for a long time
00:28:57.460 we thought there couldn't be anything worse than fox news and we were just so naive it's amazing
00:29:01.300 it's amazing it is amazing so i mean one of my goals in the new year i want to keep covering
00:29:07.220 this Australia ban. I want to have some of these young people on. And I don't want to call them
00:29:13.280 kids either, because I don't think that's fair. A 16-year-old is still a child, is still legally
00:29:19.340 a child, but calling them kids is just so pejorative and so condescending. And I think
00:29:24.340 that they do have a right to have a voice and to talk about how social media and learning to use
00:29:29.340 social media is really important for them going forward, because it's important, sadly, in the
00:29:35.860 world. So I am hoping to have some of these young people on to hear their point of view. And we're
00:29:41.700 going to be covering this a lot more in the new year, because I think it's an important story
00:29:45.860 for us to focus on. We have to keep talking about all of this, because social media has,
00:29:50.980 it's just media now. And it has such a huge impact on us and on our children. And if we don't pay
00:29:56.080 attention, and if we don't set our own limits on it, it's just very easy to let it define us and
00:30:04.520 to let it really harm us. Yeah, totally. I agree. And you know what I think we would discover in
00:30:11.680 that process is that I think that there are a lot of 16-year-olds who are surprisingly articulate
00:30:16.540 and mature about this, you know, who would be strong evidence to defy the necessity of the
00:30:23.860 kinds of bans that we're talking about. However, it's a bit of a self-selecting group, and I'm not
00:30:28.720 sure the majority of 16-year-olds would be on that level. But again, you know, we're getting
00:30:33.400 into that complex gray area of, you know, does a blanket ban work at all?
00:30:39.540 Or does a blanket ban just send the right message, right?
00:30:42.300 Like we said before.
00:30:43.700 I actually, you know, for our Sunday Nice Things this Sunday, I'm going to drop an interview
00:30:48.200 that we did on this show about six months ago with a teenage influencer who was creating
00:30:53.880 and monetizing an influencer network, mostly to protect kids from predatory agents and
00:30:59.480 managers online.
00:31:00.780 And she was so smart and so fascinating.
00:31:03.600 I'm going to drop that into the feed on Sunday because I think it's a good reminder and I think it's a good starting point for this conversation.
00:31:10.720 That sounds terrific.
00:31:12.000 This is great.
00:31:13.460 I know we can sit we'll sit back and watch what happens in Australia, but it doesn't mean we can't continue to think about what's happening everywhere.
00:31:21.720 So there's a group here in the U.S. that I like a lot, that I follow, that I want to get a lot more involved with.
00:31:26.920 But, you know, I have zero time right now.
00:31:30.560 It's called Mama. It's Mothers Against Media Addiction. We've had their founder here on the podcast. And I'll drop her episode back in the feed as well as we're coming up against the holidays and we're resurfacing some older content.
00:31:44.300 But it's just it's an organization led by a mother who is also a journalist who is just determined to educate parents, get smartphones out of school and ensure that technology products just have basic safeguards like other consumer products.
00:31:59.940 right? It's just like, okay, can we make sure that this isn't harmful? Could someone be talking
00:32:03.860 about this? And they're a really good group to follow. They're doing a lot of the legal stuff
00:32:09.660 here in the US and a lot of the thought leadership. So I'm going to drop a link to them
00:32:13.840 in the show notes here. Awesome. Awesome. All right. Signing off. See you later, Nick Astor.
00:32:22.400 Bye-bye.
00:32:29.940 I don't think I can
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