Under the Influence (with Jo Piazza) - September 01, 2024


Sunday Nice Things: A Look Back at Wilder

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00:00:00.520 The 50th anniversary is coming on! That's going to be chaos!
00:00:09.020 Hi, Glennis. We are back after a year of Wilder finishing releasing all of its episodes.
00:00:17.060 Emily, we're back. It's been a year since Wilder was released into the wild,
00:00:22.780 and it's been two years since we were on the road,
00:00:24.660 And three weeks from now is the 50th anniversary of the television show premiering on NBC.
00:00:32.240 So we thought it would be a really fun time to reconnect and sort of look back on our
00:00:38.380 whole podcast making experience and reflect on it and also give you guys some of the outtakes
00:00:45.360 that didn't make it in to the final podcast.
00:00:54.660 Okay, so Emily.
00:00:59.160 Hi.
00:01:00.120 Hi.
00:01:00.880 This year, because the original premiere of Little House came out in March,
00:01:05.440 as you heard Allison say at the top of this show,
00:01:09.020 they're having cast reunions, you know, at all the different locations of the houses.
00:01:13.120 We felt left out.
00:01:14.260 We wanted to have our own little reunion.
00:01:15.900 And we're missing our fearless executive producer, Jo Piazza,
00:01:19.980 because she is off on her own other adventure or road trip or something.
00:01:23.860 Who knows what?
00:01:24.440 somewhere. But she does have a little message for you. So we just wanted to play that.
00:01:29.260 Hey, all. I miss you. I miss being on the road with you. I actually can't believe that it's been
00:01:37.380 a year since we made this podcast. And it's funny because I've been on the road again,
00:01:43.500 traveling on book tour for the Sicilian Inheritance. And every single place that I go
00:01:49.260 all over the country. People ask me about the Wilder podcast, and people have their own stories
00:01:56.320 of Laura Ingalls Wilder, and how much she touched them and how much she inspired them.
00:02:02.540 It just reminds me how big Laura looms in our collective American imaginations and our
00:02:12.960 mythologies. She's a force. Look, no one has forgotten Laura, but I do feel that we got to
00:02:21.560 kind of bring her back into the zeitgeist and get people talking about her, about the good,
00:02:27.020 the bad, the ugly, the inspirational, in a way that I really think she would have appreciated.
00:02:35.880 I miss it. I miss you guys. I'm going to go watch some Michael Landon taking off his shirt and
00:02:41.700 crying now it's funny on my phone in the last few weeks comes up the photo memories and can you
00:02:54.980 believe it was more than two years ago we were on the road for this podcast it keeps sending me
00:03:00.640 photos of us and just met South Dakota with you like with the mics and us standing in front of
00:03:05.780 the cottonwood trees and at the pageant. And I'm like, wow, it's already been a year. And then I
00:03:12.240 realized, no, it's already been two years. And then realizing the podcast has been out for over
00:03:19.460 a year, which is amazing because it feels like another lifetime that it came out. I don't know
00:03:26.200 if that's just the news cycle we've been living in America this year, but it feels
00:03:30.040 like wildly distant. And it was even though it was such a huge undertaking and such like a joyful
00:03:37.120 undertaking. I don't know. Does it feel like that to you? Yeah, it feels like there's two separate
00:03:42.020 timelines. And there was the the making of the podcast and then the releasing the podcast.
00:03:47.940 Everything we talked about has been so relevant in the past year with the crazy news cycle. I
00:03:52.720 it's like there's not really a day that goes by that I don't think about all of the things that
00:03:56.300 we saw and discussed in the entire show. I feel like the more distance we get from this podcast,
00:04:03.740 the prouder I am of it. It's such a monumental undertaking and how fortunate we were to drive
00:04:10.780 around the country and be in all those different places. So anyways, this is basically, we're doing
00:04:16.280 a 50th anniversary Little House on the Prairie TV show special episode and also just congratulating
00:04:22.020 ourselves on a podcast that we're really proud of. And on that note, just speaking of the road
00:04:30.120 and speaking of everything that initially surprised us, as you can imagine, listeners,
00:04:35.600 there is so, so many more hours of tape than what you actually heard go into the show. And I think
00:04:41.380 it's like, it's one of the sad parts when you're making this at some of your favorite characters
00:04:45.400 and your favorite places we went to or things that we learned just couldn't make it into the show.
00:04:51.520 I was always the one being like, can we slide this in? Can we slide that in? And you're like, this is one episode. It cannot be four hours long because, A, you recorded everything on the road. Like, it's not an easy thing to always have everything miked for hours every day.
00:05:07.500 but like we got so much good stuff but yeah i think first up i really wanted to do justice to
00:05:13.440 all of the people in the towns who are benefiting off of laura tourism whether that's being
00:05:19.400 dedicated to managing the houses or running the pageants or even just like the people who run the
00:05:25.300 restaurants and the cafes in in this town that yeah they owe a lot of the most of their revenue
00:05:31.760 in the summer probably to Laura Tourism and talking to them it always kind of astounded me
00:05:38.680 that they weren't sick of it and they weren't that you know you saw like these usually generations
00:05:44.600 of like mothers and children and you know family businesses of people that were just really
00:05:50.060 dedicated to the cause. I think there was one good example of that in Pepin Lake Pepin in Wisconsin
00:05:56.120 the town it just which is which was a cute little vacation town. Pepin was the first place where we
00:06:01.140 really began to understand that people who lived in these places but weren't necessarily working
00:06:05.260 directly with the houses all had positive feelings about Little House and Laura and what her legacy
00:06:12.040 had brought to the town, which I thought was interesting because I could see a possibility
00:06:15.920 of or the potential to be sort of resentful or tired of her. And meanwhile, I think everybody
00:06:21.460 loved it. Our very first stop was this amazing cafe. And that was where we learned to just start
00:06:26.180 asking everyone what they thought of Laura. This was one of our initial conversations with people
00:06:30.760 to just get a sense of how the books
00:06:33.360 and living in a place that where Laura lived
00:06:36.440 has impacted their lives and their business.
00:06:38.800 And the name of this cafe is the Homemade Cafe,
00:06:41.240 just to give them a shout out,
00:06:42.460 if you are ever in part of it.
00:06:43.760 They were the best.
00:06:44.020 They had great pie, amazing pie.
00:06:46.860 Oh, they had the best pie.
00:06:49.700 This is the best patty mouth I've ever had.
00:06:51.860 Well, good.
00:06:52.620 Oh, good. 1.00
00:06:53.840 Michelle's an awesome chef. 1.00
00:06:55.720 She's an awesome chef.
00:06:57.000 I'm just curious.
00:06:57.840 How many people come through here for the house, for the, do you get it a lot?
00:07:03.600 How do you even estimate that?
00:07:05.200 You couldn't.
00:07:05.660 It's a lot, yeah.
00:07:06.340 It's a lot.
00:07:07.020 They always have a sticker on, a green sticker that says I was at Laura's house or something like that.
00:07:11.660 And then they got that museum down here, so I said, you know, usually they'll go one or the other.
00:07:16.020 Have you been at the museum?
00:07:17.440 We're headed there.
00:07:18.380 We came here first.
00:07:19.420 That's awesome, too.
00:07:20.760 And I told them to go down by the lake.
00:07:23.080 Yeah, it's beautiful here.
00:07:24.540 Go down by the lake.
00:07:25.260 So did you grow up, like, surrounded by Laura?
00:07:26.900 like you were aware of her for ever forever I read those books I read all
00:07:31.820 I'm old yeah and I read them when I was young yeah yeah did you ever read them
00:07:35.960 no Kaden you better read those books and did you watch the TV show oh yeah I've
00:07:42.440 never missed it yeah you too yeah oh yeah my mom always watched it so and my
00:07:46.880 granddaughter it's all about Morgan's all about yeah and the people you get
00:07:51.440 here would like is it sort of an international crowd oh definitely yeah
00:07:55.880 Yes. Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:07:58.620 All over. I said a lot of them, you know, we have the wedding wedding venues here, too.
00:08:02.020 We have two big wedding venues, so I said we get from all over.
00:08:05.300 Really? Oh, yeah.
00:08:06.800 Is this like a vacation? Not a vacation, like a sort of...
00:08:08.800 It's more of a tourist kind of place. It kind of shuts down in the winter.
00:08:12.440 Yeah. Now it's a tourist destination. It never used to be.
00:08:15.680 Pepin? Pepin never used to be.
00:08:17.480 It is now. We have a tourism board.
00:08:19.520 What? Yes, yes.
00:08:21.000 Is that because of Laura, or...
00:08:22.660 Partly, I'm sure, in the wedding venues.
00:08:24.960 yeah did you guys like what did you love about Laura did you ever feel like
00:08:29.160 suffocated by her it's just sort of a real no no I loved it all of it I love
00:08:36.060 the books well I just like the whole thing how they made it through all those
00:08:40.620 tough times and you know and they were very close family yeah yeah you know
00:08:45.140 that's hard anymore you don't have that a lot anymore
00:08:48.060 does the Mississippi freezes pet Lake Pepin free yes it does cuz that's the
00:08:52.060 the end of the or the opening of White House in the Fair is they're going across the frozen water
00:08:55.860 and it cracks. Yes, it certainly does. Yeah, and when we were driving down, we were all remarking
00:08:59.380 on how much bigger Mississippi appears when you're driving beside it than maybe. It's huge. Yeah,
00:09:05.980 and pretty fast flowing, I think, right? Yeah. My dad used to drive across there with, yeah,
00:09:11.540 I'd be just petrified. Yeah, I'd be petrified. You used to drive across it? Sure, I would. I used to do
00:09:16.340 a pedacross from like here to Lake City. Thank you so much for speaking with us. I have a terrible
00:09:20.480 voice on anything. No, you have an amazing voice. Not when it's recorded. That's what I think,
00:09:26.980 and I've made a career of making podcasts. Yeah. Well, thank you. Thank you so much. We appreciate
00:09:32.800 it. Yes, yes, yes. You know, going to these pageants, we talked about them putting on these
00:09:39.660 big shows and like the kids from the town playing out scenes from the book and sometimes a mix
00:09:45.780 between the book and the tv show um but there was also uh like fun little communities that
00:09:52.020 we encountered like i mean we are just coming out of the olympics and my favorite thing in
00:09:56.040 the world is like the more niche sports like archery artistic swimming these things i would
00:10:01.000 say like the mansfield fiddle off was my delightful little like niche performance competition
00:10:07.620 of the road trip good morning to y'all and welcome out to the fiddle off contest here
00:10:13.540 It's going to make you hear out most of the day.
00:10:17.640 Remember in the fiddle competition, there was like the, there was the tiny category and then like the junior category and then the adults.
00:10:24.900 And I just remember it must have been like a eight or nine year old girl going up there and just slaying, just killing it.
00:10:31.640 Oh, just owned the whole competition.
00:10:34.200 And also people had driven, I mean, Mansfield's not that close to anything except Springfield.
00:10:39.080 But like people had driven distances to come there and compete.
00:10:42.400 These people were serious about their fiddle talents,
00:10:46.340 which they should be, they were incredible.
00:10:47.900 Mansfield was delightful.
00:10:49.840 When I chased that guy across the back to,
00:10:53.440 across the field who was carrying Pa's fiddle,
00:10:55.520 and I was like, oh my God,
00:10:56.640 what is it like to hold Pa's fiddle?
00:10:59.020 You're just wandering around with like
00:11:00.260 the most valuable instrument in a lot of people's lives
00:11:02.860 right now, I feel like that's a lot,
00:11:05.180 a lot of pressure.
00:11:06.620 What do you think it's worth?
00:11:08.520 Emotionally, priceless.
00:11:10.400 Yeah, no, that's definitely right.
00:11:11.500 I don't think you could put a price on hospital.
00:11:12.960 Oh, I do.
00:11:13.640 Yeah.
00:11:14.200 But I bet you could sell it.
00:11:16.200 That's a terrible, like, concept.
00:11:19.240 I can't even grasp.
00:11:20.360 Thank you for speaking.
00:11:21.080 I was also thinking of, remember when we were in Burr Oak, and they had the competition of the Laura and Almanzo competition, costume competition, but that people who won, it was almost like a Miss America setup.
00:11:34.660 Like, people who won had responsibilities of visiting schools.
00:11:38.160 like it was and burr oak isn't even it is so tiny it's not even incorporated like it's literally
00:11:43.980 like a postage stamp of a handful of buildings and they held this competition and had really
00:11:50.920 serious responsibilities to it and i just said yeah that should be in the olympics maybe we
00:11:55.080 should like if they're gonna put breakdance in the olympics we should just you know petition
00:11:59.000 the olympics to consider little house contests yeah yeah the other thing that i still can't get
00:12:06.400 over about the road trip is we covered so much ground just going from Wisconsin to Minnesota
00:12:12.420 to South Dakota. And then we ended up going over to Wyoming just to take in that stretch of the
00:12:18.880 Americana of it all. And that was the first time I had seen that part of the country. And besides
00:12:25.940 just being wowed by the Badlands, like I think I just said, wow, the entire time we were driving
00:12:31.900 through it yeah wow it was the first time that it really hit me that i had only seen mythology
00:12:40.940 of america like almost have only seen like the bastardization of it in old westerns and all of
00:12:48.020 that and i had never seen the actual thing and you realize why oh yeah that that is so amazing i get
00:12:55.440 why rich greedy white men just like wanted to destroy this place and make money off of it
00:13:00.920 But it is, and which is tragic because it is some of the most beautiful places I've ever seen. 0.72
00:13:06.380 America is incredible.
00:13:07.420 I mean, again, going back to driving across it, I think we, so many Americans and so many people around the world are sort of fed the postcard version of it.
00:13:18.300 that becomes so familiar and two-dimensional and sometimes a caricature that when you actually go
00:13:24.920 there to any of these places it is gobsmackingly beautiful and powerful and you're like oh
00:13:32.300 it is an incredible country and it is gobsmacking and breathtaking and
00:13:36.360 seeing it firsthand feels so necessary to me actually and smack dab in the middle of that
00:13:43.420 after you get out of the Badlands, you get like a little bit cartoonish Disneyland, Old West
00:13:48.860 location. Do you want to tell everyone about Waldrug, which is maybe by the thing that I'm
00:13:54.040 most disappointed couldn't make it into the show because there wasn't really a place for it.
00:13:58.480 I forgot that Waldrug didn't make it in. So the first time I went to Waldrug was,
00:14:02.360 the first time I went to Waldrug was in 2002 before the internet. And the way I came to it
00:14:09.640 was west to east and for wall drug there's all these hand-painted billboards for miles and miles
00:14:14.340 and miles saying like come to wall drug five cent coffee come to wall drug all these things and so
00:14:19.240 the build-up is so extraordinary and you pull in and it's just this like wild caricature of a wild
00:14:25.880 west town um with all these buildings and like kitschy stuff and that crazy dining room uh
00:14:33.240 And it's sort of the entryway to Rapid City, which has a bit of that same vibe to it, that very like Mount Rushmore kitschiness that is very, very, very American.
00:14:52.460 And also in all, it's the Las Vegas of, you know, the Wild West and with all the problems that come with that.
00:15:00.520 You're right. I mean, you go from wall drug, which it does feel like the Disneyland of rest stops. Like it literally has animatronics in if you go into the gift shop, there's a there's a glass wall and behind it is animatronics of just old like Western Western men just like playing banjo and singing a song.
00:15:20.940 When I say it's so American, it's like, it's both the, what we talk about, like the extreme breathtaking beauty and openness and possibility and history and also the worst of America in terms of the extermination, the attempted extermination of Native Americans, of Buffalo, of the natural wonders.
00:15:45.120 And also the overlayer of, you know, that that kitsch that sort of Las Vegas, but the West kitsch. And so it holds both of these things, which are both or all of these things, which are also American in the same place. And I think that is the real intensity and magic of it.
00:16:07.560 And I don't mean magic in sort of like a frivolous way.
00:16:10.140 I mean, like deep magic of being out there.
00:16:12.560 And to some extent, you know, I think speaks to the enduring appeal of Little House because she's holding all of those things in the book at the same time, too.
00:16:37.560 what are your feelings coming up on the 50th anniversary and your 50th birthday um i feel
00:16:57.880 great about turning 50 and there's something very charming for me and having the 50th anniversary
00:17:03.180 Like the show premiered one week after I was born. And so there's something delightful to me about having it. It's always existed, but like it's always been around. And I just think, oh, it's both a short period of time and such a long period of time.
00:17:19.580 I just had this memory of remember when we got to De Smet and we were in the B&B and I hadn't
00:17:24.580 watched the show like we've been so heavy in prep that I hadn't seen the show in a while
00:17:29.780 remember when we turned it on the tv when we were in the B&B and like we're immediately
00:17:34.260 engaged with it like immediately our heads whipped around and we were pulled in and it's just a
00:17:39.140 reminder like it was such a good show we talked about all the problems with it as problems with
00:17:44.500 everything but beyond the music paw one of the surprise takeaways for us anyway when we started
00:17:51.080 doing our interviews for this podcast which we did so many interviews before we went out on the road
00:17:55.280 was how many of the people who loved the book so much and had written about the book and were
00:18:01.200 scholars of the book disliked the tv show and primarily disliked michael landon which i thought
00:18:08.160 was fascinating because obviously we talked about this i loved both but michael landon in
00:18:14.220 particular seemed to be Pa, his version of Pa Ingalls seemed to be a flashpoint for a number
00:18:19.940 of people. I never liked the series ever because it didn't look right. You know, Michael Landon
00:18:28.140 obviously looks nothing like Pa. It was so clearly a ego project for him that I just never liked it.
00:18:37.140 I actually didn't like it because it was so different, Pa. I was like, who is this clean
00:18:42.800 shaven. I just found Michael Landon. I just could not relate to him. And plus, they never moved out
00:18:50.760 of Walnut Grove. They completely eliminated South Dakota. You know, he's such a kind of preening 0.59
00:18:56.760 presence in a way that I think would have been horrifying to Laura Ingalls Wilder. I think she
00:19:02.540 would have been dumbstruck at that portrayal of her beloved father.
00:19:12.800 love or hate what landon did with charles ingalls he like michael landon is is one of the main
00:19:19.200 reasons that everything still persists oh for sure the tv show gave the books in a whole new life
00:19:25.360 and continues to do so because it's on tv all the freaking time and um to to my to mine and our
00:19:31.920 delight yeah yeah why it's been on my mind is tim waltz the vp candidate with kamala uh
00:19:39.940 is he's not from man uh he's not from mankato but he spent he's from nebraska but he spent most of
00:19:47.700 his adult life in mankato before becoming governor uh which as people who listen to the podcast know
00:19:53.060 there's an entire episode where we're primarily in mankato and people who watch the television
00:19:57.560 show know that they're always going to mankato to buy something or sell something or whatever
00:20:01.860 and then the wagon falls off the side of the road and someone almost dies and like mary's glasses
00:20:06.300 set the whole place on fire. Like Mankato figures into this as a destination. But as I was thinking
00:20:12.680 about, you know, Rebecca Tracer, who was on the podcast, wrote a piece for New York Magazine
00:20:18.260 recently about the different versions of masculinity the Republicans are providing
00:20:23.800 and the Democrats are providing and talking about sort of the Tim Waltz masculinity.
00:20:29.220 And in some ways, it really reminded me of the Michael Landon version of masculinity. Not that
00:20:34.880 Tim Walz is taking off his shirt and like glossing up his pecs or whatever but like the masculinity
00:20:40.380 the the ability to be to to provide an idea of masculinity that also allows for emotion and
00:20:49.300 sensitivity and Michael Landon's Paw Ingalls was like as we know and have discussed was crying in
00:20:55.220 nearly every episode as like a show of strength and it really it's interesting because the show
00:21:02.780 itself i think appealed in its day to conservative groups and we know ronald reagan it was his
00:21:08.760 favorite show but we're obviously in a much different time of what who and what gets defined
00:21:13.740 as conservative and i was just like there's something a little tim waltzy about michael
00:21:18.080 landon's pa ingles and maybe vice versa and it seems like it just struck me as so interesting
00:21:23.820 especially with the like mankato connection someone should write that the mankato connection
00:21:29.620 of Charles, of Pa, of Michael Landon's Charles Ingalls
00:21:33.560 and Governor Tim Walz running for VP.
00:21:36.840 I think we've got our finger on the pulse with this one.
00:21:38.980 And I think with the anniversary of the TV show
00:21:41.280 and Tim Walz, maybe there's a whole other season here.
00:21:45.640 Six Degrees of Separation, just Mankato edition.
00:21:50.460 Well, in honor of the 50th anniversary,
00:21:53.060 we did just want to bring you some more snippets
00:21:56.000 of conversations we had with the cast
00:21:59.100 that all of them were completely amazing like exceeded all expectations also will shout out
00:22:05.660 all of their books if you have if you're a fan of the tv show even a little bit i recommend
00:22:10.780 especially allison arngrim's book and um but with allison arngrim i mean we talked to her for
00:22:16.860 well over an hour and if you're thinking of iconic nelly olsen episodes a big fan favorite
00:22:22.220 that we didn't really talk at all about
00:22:24.220 in our TV episode is Bunny.
00:22:27.440 Oh, that, I love that episode.
00:22:30.540 Oh, Bunny.
00:22:31.620 We did talk to Melissa and Allison
00:22:34.440 about the making of that episode
00:22:36.280 and people's reactions to it.
00:22:38.260 And we're going to play some of those clips side by side.
00:22:41.120 And I love hearing them talking about it
00:22:42.860 because that's where you can also hear
00:22:44.140 just their deep friendship come through.
00:22:46.260 Melissa Gilbert and Allison Arngrim.
00:22:48.400 Completely.
00:22:48.600 Despite being very believable, enemies on screen are the best of friends, and it delights me every time they talk about it.
00:22:59.240 What episode do you hear about the most, and what was your favorite episode of the show?
00:23:03.860 Bunny, where I go down the hill in the wheelchair.
00:23:06.020 I hear about Bunny in the race. People really dig the wheelchair pushed down the hill.
00:23:12.980 That's the only time my mother walked into the family room and said, Laura seems mean.
00:23:18.520 And I was like, Laura's amazing.
00:23:20.580 And my mother said, I don't think that was a nice thing to do.
00:23:23.040 And then exited the room. 0.98
00:23:25.720 Well, Laura was pushed to the brink.
00:23:28.720 But I did pretend to be paralyzed and ruin everyone's life. 0.99
00:23:32.560 In most episodes, Nellie does things to ruin Laura's life and make her miserable. 0.95
00:23:37.120 but in bunnies the only episode nelly's insane behavior actually impacts everyone so yeah she
00:23:46.240 has it coming she has it coming and i'll tell you um alison got her revenge um many years ago i had
00:23:54.500 to go in for a colonoscopy and um she took me and when it was over they wouldn't let me walk out of
00:24:01.960 the surgery center, I had to go out in a wheelchair and she pushed it. And she kept threatening to 0.97
00:24:07.460 shove me down a number of different hills that day. Even though I didn't, I said, I, you know,
00:24:13.240 it's not my fault. I didn't write it. Tell them to let me do that. The other thing I hear about
00:24:17.900 a lot too is the mud fight. People like a lot when Allison and I got physical. 1.00
00:24:24.940 We hear that from a lot of fans. And I think it was having girls express sort of like complicated
00:24:30.000 emotions to each other and that jealousy and competition, which felt very recognizable at
00:24:35.520 that age. I think the other thing that informed those performances and maybe the audience was
00:24:43.720 getting it subliminally was that we really loved each other dearly. And I've always said, you know,
00:24:50.760 you don't really have to necessarily get along all that well with someone you're doing a love
00:24:55.260 scene with, but boy, you have to love and trust the person you're doing a fight scene with.
00:24:58.900 we thought it was so funny because we bonded right away and then the idea that regularly
00:25:04.740 every few episodes we'd hit each other in the face was like awesome um so we got a fight scene
00:25:10.700 coming up and it was funny because like the very first fight scene they were very careful there was
00:25:14.800 a stunt girl to do one of the falls so i wouldn't hit my head and then but like after that they went
00:25:20.360 and we pretty much were choreographing our own fights um and they just didn't need stunts for
00:25:25.700 that uh the mud fight's all us they're just not that the famous mud fight they're like yeah you
00:25:30.920 guys got this whatever and they're just like do do do whatever the hell you want to do and we did
00:25:37.480 and we had so much fun and we thought it was so funny to play these mortal enemies and do all
00:25:43.020 this terrible stuff and then but it was weird because these scenes where i'd be saying things
00:25:47.520 and she's crying and we're going out for slurpees later my other favorite actor to just learn more
00:26:02.880 about her story was karen grassley and how yes her she as a person was so polar opposite of
00:26:10.160 caroline ingles and she was part part of the free sex movement she was in berkeley she was an actor
00:26:16.480 She was like doing all these things. And also, I think if you read her book, which which I highly recommend, she talks about her entire life.
00:26:24.560 And if you have any interest in, you know, 60s arts and counterculture, definitely read it.
00:26:30.180 Yeah, it was not progressive where Caroline Ingalls was. And I think it's interesting, though, because I don't know.
00:26:34.820 I mean, she played the character that was written for her on a show that was huge.
00:26:40.080 But, you know, the Waltons were on at the same time and the mother in the Waltons, that character was much more feminist, you know, she and so that is one of the major issues with Michael Landon was he was open minded in so many ways, but not about grown women.
00:26:58.120 It's just worth pointing that out because I think she was in a tough position of making those decisions as a working actor to get that show that sets you up for life and allows a lot of choices.
00:27:10.080 The little woman had never been my goal. And so there were times when the choices offered to Carolyn in the script rankled.
00:27:24.080 Let me give you an example. And this is not at all a criticism.
00:27:28.400 This is just an example of how Michael knew his vision, and he knew what he wanted, and in fact, was well connected to his audience.
00:27:42.300 early on this is. Carolyn has the scene in the morning of finishing those braids and getting
00:27:51.260 those scrambled eggs on and packing those lunches and rescuing the three-year-old who's climbing up
00:27:58.580 the stairs and keeping her from putting her hands by the fire and finally the girls have their coats
00:28:05.880 on and their little lunches and they're going out the door and my reaction was oh thank goodness
00:28:13.600 we did it and Michael said ah no you look out the door you watch them going and you smile
00:28:24.060 because they're so lovely and that's what we did so there were times when I couldn't influence
00:28:33.180 what I believed about the hard work that a mother does, 0.94
00:28:39.060 that a woman cooking on a fire does. 1.00
00:28:44.520 But as much as I could, 0.99
00:28:47.480 I tried to influence the way the writers would see her.
00:28:53.900 And I was happy that in the end,
00:28:58.860 many of them got it.
00:29:01.380 They got it.
00:29:02.260 What are your favorite episodes with respect to them getting it? 1.00
00:29:06.720 Well, Olsen versus Olsen, where the women all go on strike. That was our idea, a friend of mine and I, and she consequently became a staff writer on Little House. Yeah, I was very proud that Chris Abbott came on.
00:29:25.200 And then I think it was our very close to our final show, if not our final show, where Laura and I have a nice scene where we acknowledge our contribution and she says something like they couldn't have done it without us.
00:29:43.640 But, you know, I respect also this traditional role that women have played.
00:29:50.520 And, I mean, for God's sake, these women who helped settle the country, they were so strong.
00:30:00.400 When I read this book called Pioneer Women, it said that if a woman at that time lost her husband, she just went on.
00:30:11.960 But if a man lost his wife, he wrote immediately for a mail-order bribe because he simply could not handle it alone.
00:30:27.300 Someone that you might not expect was as badass in her day as she was because she's so perfect and loving and warm on the show is Charlotte Stewart, who was Miss Beetle.
00:30:37.500 And we got to meet her in Mansfield pretty much by accident.
00:30:41.540 We were in Mansfield during Wilder Days.
00:30:44.060 She was kind of the big guest that they had, and she was there to do signings and everything.
00:30:49.360 And we got invited to a little reception where we got to sit down and speak to her.
00:30:54.140 So that is why this tape might be a little noisy, the tape that we're about to play you.
00:30:58.500 She was delightful.
00:31:00.340 Alison Arngrim, you know, she is at all of the conventions and everything.
00:31:04.560 And when she first described to us people's reaction to Charlotte, she said it's in line.
00:31:10.700 It's men in Eraserhead T-shirts crying to her and telling them how much they loved her as this Beatle while they're in their full like David Lynch get up because she worked with David Lynch.
00:31:21.960 She was a favorite of David Lynch.
00:31:23.880 Yeah. 0.58
00:31:24.120 was it strange uh in the 70s to be cast as sort of a a very tradition in a very traditional female
00:31:39.160 role meanwhile i was smoking dope at home yes or and then in eraser the movie right am i right
00:31:45.480 about that eraser head yeah eraser head yeah well i i was doing it the same time as i did the episode
00:31:50.660 of the Waltons because David Lynch, as a student filmmaker, had no bounds on how late you worked.
00:31:59.820 You know, we used to shoot all night long. That's when he preferred to shoot. We'd show up at 11
00:32:04.200 o'clock at night and shoot all night. So I would finish at six in the morning, and if I had a job,
00:32:11.200 I would have to run home or change or something and get to the studio. So it happened to be I
00:32:17.140 was doing the Waltons at the time so I came staggering into Warner Brothers
00:32:22.540 where they were shooting and I watched it the other night it was on and I
00:32:27.140 watched it and I thought oh no that scene is coming on because I could not
00:32:32.140 remember my lines I was so tired and like playing what is you were saying
00:32:38.200 like playing like a traditional Miss Beatle is fairly traditional and then
00:32:43.540 But you were like a grown-up woman in the 70s, an actress in Hollywood.
00:32:48.080 I mean, that just feels like a sort of night and day.
00:32:52.540 I'll tell you, I was more connected with rock and roll than I was Hollywood.
00:32:57.380 I was never very popular in Hollywood.
00:32:59.580 At the time that I got the part, I had a clothing store called The Liquid Butterfly.
00:33:05.460 It was on Santa Monica Boulevard, and it was rock and roll.
00:33:09.680 So across the hall, I was in a building on La Cienga called the Pure Thoughts Building.
00:33:17.500 And it was the office of Elliot Roberts who managed Joni Mitchell, Neil Young, Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young, Jackson Brown.
00:33:26.940 So I was in the middle of rock and roll for a lot of that time because I was dating the agent that managed them all.
00:33:35.900 So I was backstage at rock and roll more than I was in Hollywood.
00:33:39.060 I never was in Hollywood.
00:33:40.300 I never got invited to any Hollywood parties, you know.
00:33:44.800 And then when I got Little House on the Prairie, it was like people in Hollywood went, what?
00:33:49.860 Little House on the what?
00:33:52.180 Oh, how boring.
00:33:54.000 Well, guess what?
00:33:54.880 We're still on the air.
00:33:56.160 Yeah.
00:33:58.120 How fun.
00:34:01.320 Yeah, we got put down a lot.
00:34:03.120 Really?
00:34:03.620 Oh, yeah.
00:34:04.540 We got put down a lot.
00:34:06.200 That's wonderful.
00:34:06.760 Well, we're also, because I mean, people still today are like, oh, that was so wholesome and a little too mushy, but like it's having some big issues.
00:34:13.780 And I meet people all the time who I remind them of when they used to watch the show with their grandparents, you know, and they get very emotional.
00:34:29.420 We drive to Memphis tomorrow evening, and then we're going to Gracely on Sunday.
00:34:34.680 It's a four-hour drive, but we fly.
00:34:36.060 It's hard. Getting flights back and forth to New York to this area is...
00:34:39.560 You know, I worked with Ellis.
00:34:41.580 No.
00:34:42.220 I did.
00:34:42.820 What was that like?
00:34:43.460 I did a movie called Speedway, and I have been a guest at Graceland.
00:34:48.820 It's pretty amazing. It was in the 60s.
00:34:50.620 I was expecting something totally different.
00:34:53.120 I thought he was going to be this, you know, look me up and down
00:34:56.460 and be with his guys, you know, his entourage.
00:34:59.760 Nobody was there.
00:35:01.740 He was by himself.
00:35:03.360 Colonel Parker wasn't even there.
00:35:04.800 so it was the director and me and a girl that was playing his girlfriend in the scene
00:35:09.640 um they're in a convertible they come to a drive-in and I wait I'm a waitress and I wait on them at
00:35:16.500 the drive-in and he's ordering all this special stuff and I burst into tears and I tell my
00:35:22.800 boyfriend you know my boyfriend it's he can't afford anything and I've you know anyway he ends
00:35:27.380 up paying for my wedding and he gives me a big wedding and all of that stuff so it was fun we
00:35:32.240 I always worked with him for two days.
00:35:34.260 And what he did was, when we broke from shooting the drive-in,
00:35:40.640 he went over and sat down.
00:35:43.140 And I don't know what happened to the girl.
00:35:44.220 She took off somewhere.
00:35:45.840 And he asked the assistant director to bring over another chair.
00:35:49.820 And he sat it down beside him.
00:35:51.620 And he said, come here.
00:35:52.900 And I sat down.
00:35:54.800 And he took my hand.
00:35:56.420 And he started telling me about his mother.
00:36:00.320 Whoa.
00:36:00.800 So, and I'm sitting there, I'm 20, 25 years old.
00:36:04.900 I'm, you know, young enough to remember him as a big, big, big deal.
00:36:09.940 And they told me about Gladys and when he went in the army and they wouldn't let him
00:36:15.000 come home to see her when she was sick. 0.98
00:36:17.720 And I was like, holy shit, Elvis is holding my hand. 0.99
00:36:24.100 He obviously needed someone to talk to in that moment. 0.99
00:36:26.760 Honestly, that was it.
00:36:29.260 And you were there.
00:36:29.960 I was there. Wow.
00:36:39.680 It was funny that we found out we had absolutely no clue she had ever worked with Elvis and we
00:36:45.020 were actually going to be on our way to Graceland like in the next day or so.
00:36:50.460 What do you think was your favorite part of doing this whole podcast? That's a big question
00:36:57.300 because this is a yeah I mean the road trip my favorite part was going to a random place even
00:37:03.520 the places that were a little more out of the way like past South Dakota or going from Missouri over
00:37:09.660 to Tennessee when we would just start having conversations with someone make sure in every
00:37:14.580 conversation to bring up Laurie Ingalls Wilder and usually someone did have a connection with her
00:37:18.780 it was the serendipitous thing of yeah she she is everywhere yeah I'm trying to think what my
00:37:25.360 favorite part was i think my favorite part was i think pepin surprised me the most and then our
00:37:31.400 drive from huron to buffalo wyoming because it's the emptiest part of the country and when ranger
00:37:37.780 tanya actually was one of my most favorite parts of our road trip because i think she was such a
00:37:43.580 surprise and such a delight and so that's the word i'm looking for reaffirming where i'd like
00:37:49.660 to begin where i'd love to begin is in 1492 columbus sails the ocean blew a 400 year resistance
00:37:56.080 up until this is like a bravery to the way she was you know talking about the history at the
00:38:03.740 battle of little bighorn site and she's just she was so delightful when she got on the podcast
00:38:08.040 with us so she was one of my favorite parts and then i think in the recording when we moved to
00:38:12.480 cdm studios in terms of like actual work experience and having such a high-end facility
00:38:18.440 and working with such kind people like I think it comes through on the podcast that we actually
00:38:23.380 in the recording of it we're having a lot of fun too and working with so many people who took
00:38:27.780 such great care to make sure that the product was high quality yeah I do want to give a big
00:38:34.720 shout out to all of our amazing producers and editors and mixers that worked on this because
00:38:39.400 I'll say it a million times podcasts are not easy to make especially this kind of podcast
00:38:44.780 And it takes it really does take a village. And yeah, coming into CDM and immediately getting more ears on things and more opinions is always a good thing.
00:38:55.500 It shows you where you're where you're coming through, not coming through, gives you validation that like, yeah, this isn't interesting.
00:39:00.760 It was such a team effort. And everyone on the team took such great care with the whole podcast. There's so much depth to all of the intelligence and attention to detail and determination to make this really good that came through in the final product that I just want to make sure that people are aware.
00:39:22.980 Like this, this was a huge undertaking and everybody involved in it was willing to go the distance with it, which is amazing because as Joe and I talked about endlessly, that degree of support, you know, is rare, not just in podcast world, but in like media, creative or otherwise in general.
00:39:44.900 And so we were so fortunate to be able to have that backing for this project, which needed it.
00:39:50.580 yeah yeah i'm so grateful that we got to make this and then it gives us a chance to sit here
00:39:55.640 and chat so thank you for chatting glennis this is delightful and thank you to everyone who
00:40:01.280 listened to this podcast and provided feedback positive or otherwise it's so gratifying to have
00:40:07.700 something you worked this hard on be engaged with and um we're so thankful that people have
00:40:17.240 taken the time to listen to it. This is not, this isn't, this podcast is an undertaking as a
00:40:22.520 listener too. So thank you everyone. We're just, we wanted to come back and follow up basically
00:40:27.340 to say that like, here's extra stuff. And also we're so grateful that it resonated.
00:40:40.500 Thanks everyone for listening. This episode was hosted by Glenis McNichol and me,
00:40:45.800 Emily Marinoff. It was produced by me, mixing and mastering done by Vahid Frazier.
00:41:15.800 Now is now. It can never be a long time ago. It's just two years ago.