00:07:06.900He plays music and then her feathers come off of her.0.93
00:07:09.700and her claws too and she becomes a human woman again not through brute force but through
00:07:15.900gentleness oh my god I love it so much I mean all I want right now is more books movies pieces of
00:07:23.160culture about strong ambitious fierce women and also just gentle caregiving men okay and I honestly
00:07:32.260think and you know if you spend a lot of time with different kinds of mythologies from all cultures
00:07:38.660you have so many stories like this but because it's been men writing them down for so long
00:07:44.720uh and and being the gatekeepers being allowed to pass them down then a lot of the stories of women
00:07:51.500empowering other women have been lost absolutely and what really surprised me about this one was
00:07:56.720how racy it was I was like wow we are prudish now um and then the other thing the main character was
00:08:02.360a woman and like her goal in life was not to find a man and settle down it was learn it was learning
00:08:08.180how to be human after being overcome with grief, which I think is something that, you know, when
00:08:14.360I think about mythology, you know, it's all about the wisdom that we pass down over generations.
00:08:20.560And I was like, this is a piece of wisdom that I will always hold close to my heart.
00:08:24.860Absolutely. And that is what good myths should be. They should teach us how to be in the world.
00:08:31.320They should teach us how to be more human and how to be more human. I think personally to each other
00:08:37.180when we were watching the odyssey and you know nick and i went to go see the odyssey
00:08:41.460at 10 30 in the morning because it was the only time we had to watch to watch a three-hour movie0.97
00:08:46.540without our children but it's so much men just behaving like very very stupidly okay they're0.93
00:08:53.920like we're gonna storm this beach again and then we're gonna barbecue these cows we're not supposed0.99
00:08:58.120that we were told that if we barbecue them we will all die but we want to barbecue and you're
00:09:04.280just like god like I'm literally learning I'm learning very little from this myth except that0.70
00:09:08.920women should rule the freaking world uh but like I want stories that tell me something genuine
00:09:15.600about the human condition and that's why I love this story oh me too and I think you know it also0.96
00:09:23.020tells me like it gives us a guidepost for how do you manage these massive emotions that you'll
00:09:28.420experience over the course of your life and it's like you do it first by allowing yourself to be0.98
00:09:33.420that big ass horrible bird that destroys everything like she rips out men's throats right like you get0.98
00:09:39.320to experience that you get to be vicious for a little while and then you get to come back to0.98
00:09:44.700yourself and there's no moralizing like nowhere in that story does they say do they say oh and0.99
00:09:50.160this mish lady she's a real bitch they're like no this is this is something that you have to go0.98
00:09:54.760through it's like a rite of passage there's actually a second part to the myth if you want1.00
00:09:58.580to hear and you don't know this part no i don't know so she ends up marrying this dude his name
00:10:02.300dove rush because of course like you do marry the the man that teaches you how to be human again
00:10:07.480or that helps you do it for yourself um and then later on he dies and she is obviously so distraught
00:10:15.040because at this point they're best friends but this time when he dies she doesn't become an
00:10:20.360enormous bird that terrorizes a town for 300 years she writes poetry and that's how she reminds
00:10:26.660herself that she's human again and so as i think about what this myth means to me as well it's like
00:10:31.800you know we discover who we are when we connect with our creative selves like that is how we
00:10:40.560manage these big experiences so yes we get to be the enormous bird for a little while that
00:10:44.660it destroys everyone and then later as we grow into that feeling we we learn better ways
00:10:50.120we do and there's a lot in this book about something I love plant magic the healing
00:10:58.800power of plants in our lives. I mean, guys, you know that I'm obsessed with this. I've told you
00:11:03.240one of my favorite books that I've read so far besides Siren Says is Understory by Chloe Benjamin,
00:11:08.740which is also how trees and other plants and fungal networks connect us all and also change
00:11:16.780the human condition. So why plant magic in this? Well, as I was thinking about magic, I thought,
00:11:23.880well, magic is something that's passed down over generations. And, and so that's where I started.
00:11:29.000And I thought, okay, well, if I want to do something that's passed down over generations,
00:11:33.320I thought, okay, what did I learn from my own mother? She was really into herbs and medicines.
00:11:38.820And she would say things like, you know, if your joints are hurting you, you need to eat joints,
00:11:43.380like you need to like boil some bones, right? You have all of these pieces of wisdom that are
00:11:47.640using the natural world as a way to guide us toward, you know, toward healing. And so I thought,
00:11:54.800okay, well, this is the wisdom that women are passing down anyway. And so what if we made that1.00
00:12:00.600wisdom through plants? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I love this book because I, I want a little bit of escape
00:12:07.280right now, guys. The world is, is a disaster. It was so crazy because I hate that I check out of
00:12:13.200the news as much as I do now as a person who used to like literally like make news uh and create
00:12:20.500like news platforms but frankly I don't think anyone's doing it that well right now but also
00:12:27.200the news is a gd dumpster fire when I was on the road for Parisian heist I had NPR on a lot more
00:12:36.280than usual and it's the same story over the same terrible story over and over again and so what I
00:12:41.860want right now is some escapism. I want some sparkle. I want some joy. I want some empowerment
00:12:48.960at the same time. And I just feel like Siren Says delivers on that so well. It's coming out at the
00:12:56.060end of summer. I think it's a beautiful book, you know, for people to start reading now and start
00:13:00.460talking about now as we go into spooky season. And as we start to retreat back into our homes
00:13:06.820and into our own witchiness our own i get more witchy in the fall do you get more absolutely
00:13:12.540more witchy in the fall i just spent the afternoon making spell jars with a bunch of book buyers
00:13:18.380it's true it's true yeah um at the book crawl today if you bought a copy of siren says then uh
00:13:25.560jenny would indeed help you make a spell for self-love and confidence that's right and you
00:13:33.620know what everybody loved it everybody really loved it and took it really seriously because
00:13:38.700you know there's something that was going around on the internet for a while it was something like
00:13:43.260you know the mystics um the mystics call it manifestation the religious folk call it the
00:13:51.180power of prayer the physicians the scientists call it the placebo effect but they all agree
00:13:58.480on the same point which is that belief matters and so putting your belief into something I think
00:14:03.920matters it totally matters I was talking about this the other day with someone the fact that
00:14:09.140I can still cure my nine-year-old's boo-boo with a kiss like is proof that that matters is proof
00:14:17.300that that is true and he had a real boo-boo because his sister I tell him not to play with
00:14:22.060sticks guys I tell them not to play with sticks and and do they listen they don't they don't uh
00:14:28.800and yeah so his sister his sister really really nailed him it's my fault because we were watching
00:14:35.220the princess bride the night before and so oh yeah yeah yeah so the next day obviously everyone
00:14:41.660is Inigo Montoya who will avenge their father uh but yeah but did I cure that really ghastly boo-boo
00:14:49.940with a kiss and some a lot of Neosporin and a band-aid a very large band-aid I sure did
00:14:57.020that's right and I think so much about being an adult is figuring out how to preserve that sense
00:15:01.520of belief because we're taught all of the time that it's ridiculous right it would be ridiculous0.66
00:15:06.140for your husband to be like Joe I have this boo-boo would you kiss it and make it feel better0.98
00:15:11.180right because you've lost the belief I would never have sex with him ever again0.88
00:15:15.040don't do that don't do that nick here's the thing nick's gonna edit this episode so he's gonna be
00:15:24.360like point taken piazza point taken but i do think that we need a little reminder that magic is real
00:15:33.920and sparkle is real and where we put our beliefs is very real absolutely all right y'all i'm doing
00:15:42.520this very special episode because i want you to go pick up siren says i love this book it is it's
00:15:48.600just it's everything that you want to read right now as we close out the summer and as those of
00:15:53.520you in philadelphia we send our children back to school this week but that said jenny's gonna pop
00:16:01.620up with me at a bunch of events for the bookcase so order your book now and you can pop up at any
00:16:07.980of them, and she will sign books with you, and we might also make some spells. I would love that.
00:16:14.900She got me home safely, despite a lot of crazy lane switching, and despite the fact that we had
00:16:20.220been on our feet chatting about books all day long. I'm going to do a giveaway of Siren Says
00:16:27.320on my Instagram. It's launching shortly. We will also be giving away these gorgeous crow candles.
00:16:33.860Crows play a really big part in the book, and I love crows, guys.
00:16:38.400I love them because, like me, they hold grudges for pretty much their entire life and also pass them on through the generations, which I think means that crows are Sicilian, okay?
00:16:52.320So I'm going to be putting up a giveaway of these beautiful little crow candles that Jenny's mom made, a set of Siren Says matches to go with the candles, and a signed copy of the book.
00:17:03.620that'll be on my Instagram shortly. So keep an eye out for it. Have a great day, guys.
00:17:09.240Do something nice for yourself. You deserve it.