00:08:36.580kind of what I went through and what I suffered through ended up helping a lot of others. And
00:08:41.100like, that is so exciting to me. And like, that is what I continue to aim for as I gain followers
00:08:45.900to reach as many people as possible. And I think that the very best part ultimately has been
00:08:51.680the connections I've gotten to make with other influencers that are my age as well.
00:09:01.060And how were your parents involved in all of this? Did they know what you were doing on social
00:09:06.180media? Were they nervous about it? Are they excited about it? Well, I think that at first
00:09:12.940they were a little bit nervous about it. That's for sure. I don't even know if they knew that I
00:09:18.140had TikTok, but they have always been pretty supportive of whatever I do. And as long as I
00:09:24.580take independence in it and I take control of it. So, you know, all the different sports I've did,
00:09:29.760the different activities I've had in speech and debate, they let me do it as long as I'm the one
00:09:34.040reaching out to the adults and I'm the one scheduling my coaching and I'm the one making
00:09:38.040it happen so that I'm not being forced into anything, but I'm doing it like out of my own
00:09:42.620passion and because I really want to. And so I think that they saw that it was something that
00:09:45.960I was passionate about and let me go from there. But definitely during those periods of time where
00:09:51.680I was struggling a little bit because of the like hate I was receiving, I remember my mom
00:09:59.520sitting me down and saying like you don't have to do this you know like if this is if this is
00:10:04.340something that's this hard on you then you should stop but you know I couldn't and I didn't and I'm
00:10:10.940glad that I didn't now but yeah I've luckily had them be pretty supportive with this and I think
00:10:15.160that like them supporting me instead of trying to force it away is really helpful because I do have
00:10:20.840a lot of friends that are creators and their parents don't know about it or their parents
00:10:25.680very recently found out and are mad at them and i think that like the parents need to be just as
00:10:31.200involved in like a teen social media journey because you know your teen is suddenly going
00:10:36.640to be offered things like contracts to join agencies that will take a percentage of your
00:10:41.260kids brand deals and just as much as the kids aren't experts in business like the parents aren't
00:10:48.840experts in the you know how social media marketing and business works as well like it's a totally
00:10:55.300foreign thing for so many people. And so it is definitely hard because even when parents are
00:11:00.660supportive, oftentimes the inexperience can get parents and their teens into pretty unfortunate
00:11:08.060situations with different brand deals and agencies that I definitely found myself in a few times
00:11:13.140throughout the years. Yeah. And I want to hear a little bit about that. When did you start getting
00:11:18.080offered money to do things and how did you navigate that? I mean, I find that hard to navigate
00:11:24.220as a 44-year-old woman. How did you navigate it as a teenager?
00:11:30.140Yeah, I think I had around 40 or 50,000 followers whenever I first started getting
00:11:38.100reached out just by brands privately. And I remember that I did a deal with a phone case
00:11:44.480app, and I'm pretty transparent about these numbers. And I remember that I got like a few
00:11:48.980thousand dollars to make one or two posts and that was wild to me obviously that's wild to anyone
00:11:55.500that is a lot of money and I was so shocked that I was worth so much like my content and my ability
00:12:03.280to reach people was very confusing and shortly after that I got reached out to by one of these
00:12:08.880talent agencies is what they're called that help coordinate brand deals and so I signed with them
00:12:15.400it was a year-long contract and I immediately was in contact with them I was on a like a private
00:12:22.840group chat without my mom in it that would just like two of the people that worked at the agency
00:12:27.860and myself and they would offer me brand deals and I would you know send the deliverables and
00:12:34.640I would do it but honestly I think I very quickly realized that it was not my thing it really wasn't
00:12:41.260I was given scripts by these brands and really strict requirements for the videos from the
00:12:48.260agency and they wouldn't be satisfied with certain ways that I did it and kind of took
00:12:53.480away what I think is like the most fun and exciting part of social media.
00:12:56.540And that is like the authentic relationship and trust that you have with your audience.
00:13:01.900And I remember the first time I got a comment that was saying, hey, didn't she just promote
00:13:07.180um a different lipstick thing like last week like she said that one was the best now she's saying
00:13:15.880this one was the best and that really alarmed me because I was like influencers entire job is built
00:13:22.440on the trust that they have with their followers and the more you throw products at them and the
00:13:29.180more you promise them things that you might you don't even believe in the less they trust you and
00:13:33.860the less you have and that was super alarming to me and I not only that but the agency was very
00:13:39.560unprofessional with me they would shame me if I wasn't willing to do brand deals with apps or
00:13:44.980brands that were not quality and compare me to other girls in the agency on things that I did
00:13:51.420my god but you're a kid I know and I I think that another aspect of it is like there's there's
00:13:58.080actually so many like strict guidelines and like legal rules around how you have to classify ads
00:14:03.640online and all the rules were completely disregarded by the agency. There are multiple
00:14:08.420times where I posted that they didn't even tell me to market as a paid promotion, which is
00:14:14.160literally illegal. And I was just like very alarmed by all of this. And it made me stop
00:14:20.560and eventually rescind the contract and just begin doing it for fun. And it was so unfortunate
00:14:28.220because I'd heard so many similar stories from other girls that were going through that same
00:14:32.080thing and i just think that it's pretty unfortunate that you get given this opportunity to reach
00:14:37.400people reach people at a scale that so many like business owners would pay so much money to do as
00:14:44.300so much money to do oh my gosh we have all this worth and all this value and
00:14:49.640these adult agencies come in and they exploit that and they limit your opportunities and
00:14:56.500They restrict you from working with people outside of them. And that is a why I have stopped recently doing brand deals with an agency and why I'm trying to start an incubator that kind of handles teams differently, not with this approach of like short term money and working inconsistently with all sorts of brands, but rather developing a message of your own so that you don't lose that influence and you become a permanent owner in the business space.
00:15:24.440And so my kind of goal is to help other teen creators, specifically girls, find what they're passionate about and really turn that influence into ownership because without ownership, it's temporary.
00:15:39.240and I and that's why I'm so excited about what I'm doing because I feel like I'm getting to
00:15:45.260help girls that are going through the exact same thing that I did and show them from a teen's
00:15:50.400perspective not from someone who was just trying to exploit them or limit their opportunities what
00:15:55.080they are capable of and what they can make out of this awesome opportunity that they have through
00:16:00.540the form of yeah absolutely absolutely
00:16:02.980Totally. All right. I want us to take a quick break. And when we get back, I want you to tell
00:16:09.960me a little bit about your big idea, about your goal to ensure that the next 20 billionaires
00:25:31.480And so I think that there is definitely a level of risk that can be hard to avoid.
00:25:36.040So you really have to be careful with who you trust and smart with the choices that you make.
00:25:40.640And I think that hopefully that's another thing that these girls will be able to gain
00:25:47.000from kind of the community aspect of what I'm doing.
00:25:49.640Like us, us kind of almost being like a girl group or a hype house, but focused on creating businesses because we'll be able to, you know, help each other through these circumstances and have support from different adults to ensure that we are as safe as possible.