Under the Influence (with Jo Piazza) - June 23, 2026


What Should We Be Watching Right Now? With Kate Casey

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00:00:00.000 hey y'all joe here and you are listening to under the influence we are just over a month out from
00:00:11.560 the publication of the parisian heist and guys i'm just freaking giddy i'm just giddy for this
00:00:16.220 book to be out in the world and to get to talk about it i've just i re-read it when i was at
00:00:21.240 the adriatic writers conference this week which is bananas to me because re-reading your own 0.99
00:00:26.820 writing is kind of like watching yourself have sex. I mean, it's true. It's true. It is. You're 0.99
00:00:33.100 like, oh my God, I sound like that. Anyway, I was rereading it and so much of this book is about
00:00:41.600 women choosing to be ambitious in the second part of their life, in choosing to build the kind of
00:00:49.740 life that you want for yourself despite all odds. And I just, I love that. I love that for Joe Van
00:00:55.920 go. And I love that for all of us. I truly do. So grab your copy of The Parisian Heist today.
00:01:02.200 Grab one for three or four of your friends and for a stranger. And then let's just let's talk
00:01:07.600 about it. Let's pour some lovely chilled French wine, order some French fries and chat all about
00:01:14.220 it come July. Today's episode is all about unscripted TV recommendations. I am a person
00:01:20.960 who is very, very overwhelmed by TV. Like Nick Astor and I don't have that much time to watch TV
00:01:26.720 because putting our children to bed is a three hour opera. And then afterwards, we usually look
00:01:32.180 at each other and then just retreat to our separate corners of our bed and pass out because
00:01:38.760 it's exhausting. But sometimes we have the energy and we did just finish watching both seasons of
00:01:44.900 the pit. Chef's kiss. I mean, my God. I just, I love Noah Wiley so much. I love him more now
00:01:51.280 than I did during ER. He has aged like a fine olive oil. He really has. But anyway, once we're
00:01:59.420 into a show we're in, but finding shows for me, there's just, there's too much content,
00:02:04.760 like way too much content out there. And I'm a little better with scripted shows. Not really.
00:02:09.000 And then I have no idea what is happening with Unscripted, with documentaries, with reality
00:02:14.920 television. So I want to talk to someone so much more knowledgeable and smarter than me on this
00:02:19.780 subject. And I decided to call my friend Kate Casey. Kate is a delight. She truly is. Kate
00:02:26.080 hosts one of the most successful television podcasts in the country. It's called Reality
00:02:30.440 Life with Kate Casey. And every week she interviews filmmakers, producers, journalists,
00:02:34.760 reality stars, investigators, like all the people behind the scenes of these things. And she watches
00:02:39.940 more TV than anyone I know and also still manages to read all of the books and be a great friend
00:02:46.180 and mom and all of the things. Like she really, it's like she has more hours in the day than all
00:02:52.380 of us. And she's just so smart. We might start talking about a Netflix documentary and then
00:02:57.580 three minutes later we're discussing the ins and outs of celebrity culture and how it relates to
00:03:03.300 this historical event from 150 years ago. So I brought Kate on to ask her a very simple question
00:03:10.420 and we dive right into it in this episode. You know, I just like, I asked the question and then
00:03:15.060 I hit record. So we're just like, there's no preamble here. What should we be watching right
00:03:20.240 now? Okay, so this is what you're going to watch. It's called The Crash. It's on Netflix. And I'm
00:03:25.900 just going to give you the scenario. It's Ohio. It's this small town called Strongsville. It's
00:03:31.680 just like a humble kind of town. And they have a graduation. And there's a group of friends in
00:03:40.100 this friend group. There's Davion. He was the running back for the football team. And he was
00:03:45.740 a foster child who was adopted at eight into this lovely family. And he's just very funny and
00:03:52.420 outgoing. Then there's Dom. Now, Dom is 20, but he's been dating one of their classmates by the
00:03:58.580 name of Mackenzie for I don't know three or four years okay so he's like the older guy he's the
00:04:03.680 older guy he's the older guy then there's Rosie who says that she's a model and I'm unsure what
00:04:09.940 she's modeling I think it's like one of those girls in high school who's like well I'm a model
00:04:14.520 because they don't have a job and it's like they take pictures and post them on Instagram yeah yeah
00:04:18.600 but I think anyone can be a model now that Instagram is a thing right okay then there's
00:04:23.560 mckenzie now mckenzie is uh somebody who openly loves the character of regina george so that's 0.77
00:04:33.180 already problematic yes she's known to be a notorious bully at school she's got she clearly 0.99
00:04:39.580 has an eating disorder because she has a body that if i were her parent i would be immensely 1.00
00:04:46.280 concerned just sort of like stick thin legs hip bones almost jutting out and wears outfits where 1.00
00:04:54.680 she wants you to know how skinny she is so clearly it's like okay okay yep yep and um again her 1.00
00:05:02.300 history of bullying kids at school her parents are the kind of parents that will show up to school 0.75
00:05:07.580 and hear that others have said that she's a bully and they go well that's not my child
00:05:12.360 so that's the we all know we all know that kid we all know all of these kids totally yeah well
00:05:18.120 mckenzie also says she wants to become a model but she's the kind of girl that when she went 0.97
00:05:23.400 to graduation she wore eyelash extensions that were far too long where they're like tarantulas 0.99
00:05:28.520 uh-huh uh-huh like they're gonna reach out and grab you and she's also got like fake nails and
00:05:34.000 her hair looks a little bit greasy so her idea of modeling in in the real world is not really uh
00:05:41.460 it's not syncing up she of course moves in with dom even though she's like 17 her parents mindset
00:05:51.800 is like well she seems mature and they've been together a long time when she moves in with dom
00:05:58.040 she's just smoking all day long vaping and smoking and she is the kind of girl that posts
00:06:03.400 on social media all the time and thinks she's like a model and fabulous but looks like a disaster
00:06:07.700 because she's very very small she her friends say well she's really into the organic route but it's
00:06:14.760 like then she's you know smoking all day long and she's also doing shrooms there's some social media
00:06:21.200 pictures and videos where she's like putting an actual mushroom like at the end of her tongue 0.87
00:06:25.280 so this brings us to one evening or i should say a morning she's in the car with her camry
00:06:32.400 inner camry and dom is the passenger and davian's davion is in the in the back seat so there is cct
00:06:41.140 footage of this car and it leaves a party and it's going down this long street and then as it turns
00:06:48.660 the corner it starts speeding up up to the point where it's a hundred miles per hour and it slams
00:06:55.420 straight into a wall. When the police show up, you have two dead on arrival. You have Dom and
00:07:03.080 Davion deceased. And Mackenzie is still alive. They pull her from the car. They take her to
00:07:09.920 the hospital. She has all these broken bones, but she survives. Okay. So the whole documentary is
00:07:16.200 about, was this actually an accident or was this premeditated? And so you go through the court case
00:07:23.120 and you get to see her interviewed at the end and you of course you get to they interview the
00:07:29.720 dom's family davion's family rosie people that knew her in high school so it's a question of
00:07:37.000 was this a remember she's like a regina george um evangelist right right right it was this
00:07:44.620 premeditated and by the way there was there they didn't find any drugs in her system that night
00:07:50.040 for that morning okay interesting important yep so that's what we're unraveling in the crash and
00:07:54.820 that's out friday and that's on netflix and then of course another good one is should i marry a
00:07:59.620 murderer which is a four-part doc series on netflix and that's about a girl who during covid
00:08:05.620 you know people in during covid we all made we all made questionable decisions okay exactly
00:08:11.200 yeah she goes online she meets a guy she lives in glasgow she is um a for what is she she's like
00:08:17.680 she does autopsies oh um so like a like a coroner examiner for examiner coroner yeah
00:08:25.100 she meets this guy he lives in the scottish highlands so he's got a nice property he's
00:08:31.140 cute he's rugged and he is a farmer so they start dating five weeks and they get engaged
00:08:36.900 okay she's like having so much time fun at one point she says to him like okay tell me everything
00:08:44.440 the good bad and the ugly and he goes all right well about three years ago my brother and i were
00:08:50.240 were drinking at a bar and we left and we hit a bicyclist and uh we buried him on the property
00:08:57.320 so no stop it stop this reads like this reads like a book i would want to write all right keep going
00:09:03.820 keep going so she tells the story in these four episodes of how for nine months she was collecting
00:09:12.580 information to give to the police but also on the flip side of it they didn't really take her that
00:09:17.860 seriously and she gets like a substance abuse issue and she's like going crazy because she's
00:09:23.860 basically trying to keep it from the sky that she's setting it up that that she can gather all
00:09:30.300 this evidence like at one point she convinces him to show her where the body would be buried
00:09:36.480 And she's got a Red Bull can and she plants the Red Bull can in the like on the ground, like stomps it in the ground.
00:09:43.780 So the investigators can go back to that exact location because it's the Scottish Highlands where, you know, like the traders is filmed.
00:09:49.620 It's like, you know, vast landscape.
00:09:53.600 Oh, I've been there.
00:09:54.380 So it's like a thriller because you're like, oh, my God, he's going to figure it out.
00:09:58.000 Of course, you know, you and I are like, OK, he's probably killed more people, obviously.
00:10:02.100 Right.
00:10:03.260 So it's it's that one's a nail biter.
00:10:06.360 Wow.
00:10:07.260 Okay.
00:10:08.560 And so when she, so she, does she immediately like make the decision that she's going to
00:10:12.560 try to turn him in or she's still kind of like, oh, I mean.
00:10:15.340 Well, she says that she makes that decision, but again, it's like her version of reality.
00:10:21.080 It's her version of it, right?
00:10:22.260 Our job is to watch what she says and then they interview the investigators and you're
00:10:28.440 kind of like, okay, were you so desperado that you're like, hmm, I don't know, maybe
00:10:35.420 I can make this work. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Wild. It was funny. I was telling my one friend
00:10:41.140 about this and they go, my friend from college, she said, oh my God, like, can you imagine faking
00:10:47.600 something for nine months just to gather evidence? And I go, we all do it every day. Yes. We will
00:10:53.800 pretend we are friends with somebody, that we think that they have a legit job, that there's
00:10:59.520 a teacher at school that is doing a good job because we are gathering evidence. Oh, we do it
00:11:04.520 all the time we do it all the time we do it all the time no i'm not surprised at all um okay that
00:11:09.680 one sounds so juicy yeah that one's a good one yeah okay what else okay the martin short documentary
00:11:16.400 i yeah i'm very furious about this he's my favorite celebrity of all time i mean i love him
00:11:21.280 i mean how could you not love that man i know and what you learn from it is that he is pure joy
00:11:27.360 and he has had a ton of grief his brother was killed in a car accident when he was 12 he comes
00:11:34.540 from he's a from a family with five kids god bless god bless and his oldest brother who he
00:11:40.040 worshipped dies in a car accident when he's 12 and then his father dies i believe at 17 and then
00:11:48.180 the mom dies at 20 the parents are like within three years yeah then his he he goes to toronto
00:11:55.300 to pursue a career in entertainment
00:11:57.400 and it's part of Godspell,
00:11:59.660 which is this famous musical
00:12:04.100 and specifically the cast
00:12:07.020 that was part of the Godspell
00:12:08.720 in the early 70s in Toronto.
00:12:11.220 All of the cast of characters
00:12:12.600 went on to become hugely famous.
00:12:14.740 There's actually an upcoming documentary
00:12:16.780 just about that.
00:12:18.500 So his serious girlfriend was Gilda Radner,
00:12:21.000 who is also like my heroine.
00:12:22.600 I know.
00:12:23.300 So, you know,
00:12:25.080 he's trying to make it work they're up and down up and down of course we all know that she ended up
00:12:29.100 dying years later and marrying gene wilder he starts dating her understudy and her name is
00:12:35.320 nancy dolman and that's who he ends up marrying and they have like the love story of the ages
00:12:40.420 like all of the celebrities that participate in this documentary say they had the marriage
00:12:46.000 everybody wanted laughing all the time there's at one point where she's trying she's trying to
00:12:52.740 get pregnant and she's going through the fertility like the IVF process and she's so frustrated one
00:12:58.240 night in the kitchen and he looks at her he goes you know what we're not gonna do this anymore
00:13:01.860 we're gonna adopt I'm not letting you do this to yourself we're gonna adopt and so they adopt
00:13:07.020 three kids they have this wonderful family and you see again all the celebrities that love him
00:13:13.280 they're like everybody would want to come to his house in Canada for vacation he's the best person
00:13:19.060 to be around he's so happy they interview all of his his siblings they love him and worship him
00:13:24.100 his wife is diagnosed with ovarian cancer after 30 years of marriage she passes away
00:13:30.760 and now we know that right after the project ended his daughter died by suicide so in some
00:13:40.100 of the media clips like tracy smith from cbs interviewed him and asked him about his daughter
00:13:44.740 And he said, you know, when my wife was diagnosed with a terminal illness, she got to the point where she said, Martin, just let me go.
00:13:51.720 And I think that mental health is also a disease.
00:13:56.420 And my daughter battled for so many years borderline personality disorder and depression.
00:14:03.220 And I think that she was asking me to let her go, too.
00:14:06.940 Oh, my God.
00:14:08.200 So when I tell you I cried, it was like I cried, I laughed, I cried, I cried some more, I laughed.
00:14:13.640 Like, you just walk away going, he is a superior human being.
00:14:18.220 Okay. All right. Adding to the list. I cannot wait. I cannot wait.
00:14:22.380 Okay, let's take one quick break. And when we get back, I have a very important question to ask you.
00:14:26.460 Okay.
00:14:34.880 Okay, we are back.
00:14:36.760 This is a question that I've been talking to a lot of people about lately.
00:14:41.220 Should we take Spencer Pratt seriously as a political candidate?
00:14:45.860 Well, I think you should take all candidates seriously because we live in a time where
00:14:51.620 anybody can run. And the way to win is really if you're a great marketer.
00:14:57.720 Yes, yes. Which we know better than anyone right now.
00:15:00.740 You're talking to somebody who studied political science, worked at the White House as an intern,
00:15:04.940 thought I would run for office, represented a lot of former senators that had gone back to
00:15:09.340 the law firm so i've studied politician politicians since i was not even in college i would say as a
00:15:17.660 child i would read newsweek and i was like i'm gonna run for office one day like i've been
00:15:21.860 studying politicians for a long time and they really are they kind of operate like reality
00:15:26.880 stars already so i'm not surprised i say this all the time yeah i say it's all kind of seem like
00:15:33.880 weaving in and out but in order to be a successful politician in our current
00:15:37.760 time you have to be a really good marketer and he is very good at it um i also feel like
00:15:46.560 if you were not voting in a specific city i don't know if anybody really cares about our opinion
00:15:52.840 like when mom don't i'm saying his name mom donning mom donning was running in new york
00:16:03.220 and people are like, why aren't you fired up and talking about it?
00:16:05.960 It's like, I'm not a voter there, so that's just adding noise.
00:16:11.100 And when I think that happens, you don't really get an accurate read
00:16:14.660 on how people are actually going to vote in a city
00:16:17.020 when everybody in the world is putting in their two cents.
00:16:21.120 So that kind of clouds, I think, what's really happening
00:16:26.700 in terms of who's actually going to vote someone into office.
00:16:29.460 it would be like me talking about the hungarian prime minister like i don't know so yeah yeah
00:16:37.140 that sort of i think all clouds it out makes it cloudy um i do live in orange county so i'm close
00:16:44.180 to la again i don't vote there exactly but i'm close enough to tell you that there are so many
00:16:50.740 people that have left la over the last several years because they're so frustrated there i think
00:16:58.140 that mirrors other cities in the country that feel like over time a city has been run to the ground
00:17:05.000 right so that doesn't surprise me either um that they may want to completely flip i think that's
00:17:10.160 kind of indicative of like the world we live in now it's like the pendulum will swing one way
00:17:16.100 and then all the way to the other whereas for like a good couple decades we were kind of moving
00:17:22.060 into a sort of a centrist vortex. And now the last couple, you know, like I would say like the
00:17:29.700 last 10 years, it's just the pendulum going way too much one way to the other. So all those things
00:17:36.340 doesn't really surprise me. The one upside I will say to all of this is that I think it might make
00:17:43.160 people who may have never considered running for office actually may think about it.
00:17:47.880 Oh, that's interesting. How so?
00:17:50.740 Well, you know, people, most people who run for office or who have run for office have a legal degree or they had a family legacy, like their dad was the mayor or the congressman or some sort of connection.
00:18:07.200 And so it's like it's going to be passed down.
00:18:09.400 I remember when I was in college, I would be so annoyed with the Bushes because it was like George P. Bush, who was the grandson.
00:18:15.640 Well, I'm going to run profits. Well, it's inevitable because you come from a ton of money and you're connected. And it felt like there was so much distance between a regular citizen and somebody who comes from a political dynasty.
00:18:32.340 And I think that's kind of going away now. And I think more people are getting so fired up about the direction of the country that we're seeing more people who come from different industries who are kind of rising up now and running for office. And that, to me, is a positive move forward.
00:18:50.700 Yeah, I agree with that. And I think that's really interesting, too. And I think there's another reality television impact there. I remember when shows like American Idol first started out, and all of a sudden, it's like anyone thought they could be a massive pop star or rock star, literally anyone, right?
00:19:10.740 And before that, it was it was much more gatekept. And so this suddenly opened up the possibility as reality television has generally opened up the possibility that anyone can be famous for just living their lives.
00:19:22.960 It's almost democratizing fame. And now we see that bleed into social media. Now everybody can be a singer.
00:19:30.040 Now everyone can be anything. Everybody can be anything. So that would obviously trickle down into politics.
00:19:34.800 Yeah. Well, and I say this constantly, like, you know, when I'm at book events and people are like, tell me about your career as a journalist and how did you get here? And I'm like, well, I covered celebrities. I was a gossip columnist. I covered the rise of reality television. And then I moved on to cover politics. And frankly, it's the same game, just better hair.
00:19:55.060 And then the two just melded into each other. Right. Where I mean, I used to cover Trump as a celebrity and then all of a sudden, look what happened. So I actually don't think that we can we can discount Spencer Pratt. I spent a lot of time interviewing Spencer, actually, for my book Celebrity Inc. I have a whole chapter on Spencer. It's a lot smarter than people give him credit for. Maybe I should put the Spencer Pratt chapter on the sub stack so people could read it.
00:20:23.800 Oh, I think you absolutely should.
00:20:26.120 I went to his house and interviewed him, the same house that burned down years and years ago.
00:20:33.180 Yeah, I don't know.
00:20:34.980 I think we live in a time where I think, again, the pendulum may go all the way back.
00:20:45.080 I don't know.
00:20:46.240 For some reason, as a futurist wannabe, I kind of see in a couple years a lot of military people running for office.
00:20:54.460 I think that's happening now, too, right?
00:20:56.180 That's going to be the switch.
00:20:56.720 We're starting to see a lot more vets.
00:20:58.600 Yeah, like I have a really great friend group that are all female Naval Academy graduates because I had a neighbor when I lived in Virginia Beach, and then I met all of her friends.
00:21:11.960 So I'm actually going to a huge birthday party in Texas for that group.
00:21:16.880 And they're all the most accomplished, ball-busting, get-it-done kind of women.
00:21:24.920 And their classmates are running for office.
00:21:30.200 And so I think you're going to see a lot of, like you just said, like a lot of veterans that are going to go out and run.
00:21:35.440 And I think that that is a great thing, too.
00:21:37.220 So that's who, by the way, they are the people that I trust most because the military requires you to have a thoughtful decision process when you're putting people's lives in jeopardy.
00:21:49.300 And I feel like anytime I talk to somebody who's in the military about what's going on in the world, they always kind of calm me down.
00:21:56.540 They're like, well, this could happen.
00:21:58.540 However, probably not.
00:22:00.380 And here's why.
00:22:01.120 So I think that that's what the kind of leadership that we need is specifically in this country are people that are thoughtful leaders. Also, the United States military is the most diverse workforce. It just is. So if you have somebody who is a high-ranking official in the military, they've already put that into practice.
00:22:21.800 working with people who have diverse opinions and again just being thoughtful in their decision
00:22:27.660 making process yeah yeah i agree i agree i think it's i mean i think the politics are about to get
00:22:35.560 even more interesting than they are right now and spencer pratt is honestly just the beginning of it
00:22:41.220 frankly i would like to see the left start pushing some people forward who are a little
00:22:45.860 more charismatic who know a little bit better how to be this kind of political character just
00:22:51.360 because we need the votes right now.
00:22:53.820 But yeah, it's very, it's interesting times.
00:22:57.840 And you just inspired me.
00:22:58.680 I'm putting the Spencer Pratt chapter on.
00:23:00.800 Absolutely, yeah.
00:23:02.020 Yeah, yeah, that's great.
00:23:03.900 Okay, one more quick break.
00:23:04.980 And when we get back,
00:23:05.940 I want you to tell me which reality shows
00:23:08.020 are really firing up this summer.
00:23:17.520 Okay, we are back.
00:23:18.900 Talk to me a little bit about reality television,
00:23:21.020 not just unscripted, but like the reality shows that we should maybe be watching this summer.
00:23:26.080 Well, if you watch Real Housewives, the only one that I think is really
00:23:29.360 quite good right now is The Real Housewives of Rhode Island. And the reason it's working is
00:23:34.700 because all of the women, with the exception of Ashley Iaconetti, who had been on The Bachelor
00:23:39.680 many years ago, all of the women are plucked from obscurity, which to me is the greatest
00:23:44.380 reality star. I want somebody that I've never seen before, I've never met before, 0.95
00:23:49.080 and somebody who has lived a very seemingly normal life so there's a group of women and 0.97
00:23:55.140 they all come with the same amount of social power which is none so when you watch other 0.81
00:24:02.640 Real Housewives it's like okay well this person's been on for eight seasons now they've like they're
00:24:06.760 over the million dollar a year salary mark and they've got 675,000 followers and they have brand
00:24:12.560 brand deals and then you have somebody who's new to the show who has who's been like relatively
00:24:18.520 unknown or or known in their own space and the power shift the power dynamics are all off
00:24:23.740 because the person who's new to the show they want to find the one person who has the most power on
00:24:29.220 the show and kind of buddy up to them and create an alliance with real housewives of rhode island
00:24:34.600 they don't have any alliances because they're all plucked from obscurity so that's why i think it's
00:24:40.860 great because you're getting a better sense of who I think they probably really are because they
00:24:47.820 don't, they haven't been on TV before. So we're all seeing them at kind of like at a ground level
00:24:54.060 and they have lives that absolutely intersect. They're really more women that live in like
00:25:00.960 Cranston, Rhode Island versus Providence. So they're more suburban. So it's more of a suburban 1.00
00:25:06.180 story. Oh, that's interesting. Most of them have known each other since they were kids.
00:25:10.860 And then they have these big giant families.
00:25:13.280 A lot of them are Italian. 1.00
00:25:14.580 So it's like one aunt went to school with the other uncle and they all know each other's dirty laundry. 0.73
00:25:23.780 So it'll be like a little bit like the first seasons.
00:25:26.720 Right.
00:25:27.280 Exactly.
00:25:27.980 Yeah.
00:25:28.200 Before they became these massive franchises.
00:25:31.140 So it feels like less reality TV where you're almost like it's almost like a doc series because they're they're so unaware of their celebrity yet.
00:25:40.180 which is kind of great so like one woman is married okay her name's rula she's married to
00:25:45.740 brian and then you find out that uh brian was previously married and rula was the mistress
00:25:52.060 and now brian has another mistress and she is getting really involved in their business
00:25:59.180 which like their their actual place of business and then you find out that brian has a tracker
00:26:04.800 on Rula's car which means like is she is she cheating or is this more like are they involved
00:26:11.620 in some shady business and they are afraid that the other person might tell on the other it's like
00:26:16.560 so complicated and intricate and then you get the sense that the other women know what's going down
00:26:23.800 and they're waiting for it to kind of all play out so it almost feels like godfather meets early
00:26:29.220 first season of like Real Housewives of New Jersey. Oh, I mean, yeah, that's exactly what
00:26:34.780 I want to watch. Speaking of Godfather, I just found out that my friend and one of my favorite
00:26:39.900 authors, Adriana Trigiani, is writing a new book, and it's The Godfather from Connie's perspective.
00:26:47.180 Oh, now that, see, now you're talking. Now that's interesting. Oh, that's good.
00:26:52.580 I know. I know. It's currently in the process of writing it.
00:26:55.720 It's coming. It's not coming out till 2027. I literally just saw it on my Instagram feed and I'm like, OK, I'll smash that preorder button right now because this concept is I didn't know we needed it. But of course we need this.
00:27:09.160 OK, so what I'm currently obsessed with, I want to write a piece about is I just did two episodes about the Martha Moxley case.
00:27:18.960 We don't know about the Martha Moxley case.
00:27:20.740 So Martha Moxley, in 1975, October 30th, 1975, this 15-year-old girl in Greenwich, Connecticut, which you know is like a tony, beautiful town.
00:27:31.740 So fancy, yeah.
00:27:32.760 She's at a neighbor's house, the Skakels, and she's last seen with one of the seven kids, which is, he's one of the six boys of the family of seven. 0.91
00:27:42.980 He's the 17-year-old, and they are last seen together.
00:27:45.700 The next day, she's found deceased in the backyard of her house, which is around the corner.
00:27:51.340 She's been bludgeoned to death with a golf club.
00:27:54.560 And so for the last 51 years, it's been a question of who did it. 0.92
00:27:59.900 And the one Skakel brother was convicted and then he was released from jail. 0.79
00:28:05.400 So it's like it was solved and then unsolved. 0.65
00:28:07.900 And what's most interesting is the Skakels are the first cousins of the Kennedys.
00:28:12.660 Oh, I knew their name sounded a little familiar.
00:28:16.240 Yes.
00:28:16.660 And I knew that Martha Moxley sounded familiar, too.
00:28:19.540 So I just did two episodes about it.
00:28:21.260 And I want to write an article where I, so when it went to trial, they used her diary entries.
00:28:28.680 And when I started to look back at it, every person that wrote about that case, you know, for the first 15 years, 20 years, were all men.
00:28:38.300 The ones who wrote books and articles.
00:28:40.420 The prosecution, the defense men, the judge men.
00:28:43.020 And I would love to relook at the diary entries and through the lens of the modern language that we now understand because of true crime, like coercive control and male entitlement and all of these things, just to see if we see it in a different way.
00:29:01.380 Oh, yeah. No, I think I need you to do that like ASAP.
00:29:05.280 I know I am. That's like I'll be working on that today.
00:29:08.040 And good, good, good. Yeah. No, that's great. That's so great. I mean, I think if we look back at any of these true crime stories from the 60s, 70s, 80s, and honestly, even 90s, that if we looked back from a female perspective or a female lens, we would have a totally different idea about them.
00:29:27.100 I agree. That's my mission right now. 0.80
00:29:29.300 Yep.
00:29:29.620 Yeah. That's a good mission.
00:29:31.000 So that's a good podcast episode to go back and listen. I did two episodes about it with a man who did a podcast series for NBC Studios. So the episodes are called The Murder of Martha Moxley. And it has been the case that I've been most obsessed with my entire life because I first read a book about it by Dominic Dunn, if you remember him.
00:29:52.480 Of course I remember Dominic Dunn. Yes.
00:29:54.500 The book is called A Season in Purgatory, and I recommend reading that.
00:29:57.880 And then my sister and I were just obsessed.
00:30:00.500 And so when I did that.
00:30:01.340 Was it like one of those paperbacks that you like found in your parents' house?
00:30:04.240 That's exactly right.
00:30:05.240 And then he wrote, he covered the trial extensively for Vanity Fair.
00:30:09.920 I remember that.
00:30:10.960 Well, I remember when Dominic was covering all the trials for Vanity Fair.
00:30:14.480 Oh, yeah.
00:30:15.140 Of course.
00:30:15.780 And he's related to Griffin Dunn and also Joan Didion, right?
00:30:19.240 That's right.
00:30:20.180 Yep.
00:30:20.540 Mm-hmm.
00:30:21.020 Mm-hmm.
00:30:21.940 Yeah.
00:30:22.200 Such a tiny little world.
00:30:24.500 this world of media and Hollywood and elite people and politicians.
00:30:29.300 In the other case, I'm trying to do a podcast episode about Chandra Levy,
00:30:34.940 but it's been hard for me.
00:30:36.400 The authors of the Chandra Levy book, they may be like,
00:30:39.500 I don't even want to talk about this anymore because they wrote it like 15 years ago.
00:30:42.960 But I saw a news story come out recently about Chandra Levy.
00:30:46.780 Because her parents now think that she knew something about UFOs and was killed because of it.
00:30:52.420 Seriously?
00:30:53.840 Yeah.
00:30:54.500 Oh.
00:30:55.540 But what you remember was so interesting was she had the affair with Gary Condit.
00:30:58.780 She had the affair with Gary Condit.
00:31:00.300 I mean, I always assumed it had to do with Gary Condit, right?
00:31:03.100 I mean, there's still a lot of reason to think that that's strange.
00:31:07.000 Do you remember his kids in the interview with Connie Chung, his son kept calling him Gary?
00:31:12.060 Yeah.
00:31:12.780 Yeah.
00:31:13.460 And you're like, what is up with this family?
00:31:15.360 What is up with your family?
00:31:16.620 Yeah, exactly.
00:31:17.700 That was, I mean, that was a case.
00:31:19.060 I remember it was huge, huge headlines.
00:31:21.140 And then it just was gone.
00:31:22.880 it wasn't because i yes i was in college when chandra levy disappeared same same and so we
00:31:30.720 were like don't go out in that deep because it was that by yourself and joyce chang she also
00:31:36.440 disappeared so i was like you you don't want to go out and then it all died because gary conant
00:31:43.000 did the interview on like maybe nine like september 10th right right and then the next day was 9 11
00:31:49.700 Right.
00:31:49.940 And then there was no more news.
00:31:51.840 Yeah.
00:31:52.500 And everybody forgot about Chandra Levy.
00:31:55.500 Yeah.
00:31:56.020 Yeah.
00:31:56.420 Exactly.
00:31:57.100 Exactly.
00:31:58.120 These are all good stories.
00:31:59.340 I'll have you back on to talk about all of them because, I mean, you know that I love
00:32:04.460 a good murder mystery.
00:32:06.000 Oh, man.
00:32:06.680 Do I know many?
00:32:08.480 I know. 0.99
00:32:09.320 Martha Moxley is a great obsession.
00:32:10.940 And also, this one other case, the Reinhardt murders, was in Philadelphia.
00:32:15.940 I think I don't know about this.
00:32:17.540 Do you know about this one?
00:32:18.300 No, tell me.
00:32:19.860 I believe HBO is working on a scripted series about this.
00:32:24.100 This was the other case that I've...
00:32:25.900 I was so obsessed with this, you will not be shocked by this.
00:32:28.380 I wrote an eighth grade book report on Echoes in the Darkness,
00:32:33.480 which was the book about the murders.
00:32:35.260 I'm not at all shocked by this.
00:32:37.600 And I became obsessed about it because my mom had like some connection
00:32:41.540 to the teacher that was murdered.
00:32:45.820 And the Valley Forge Church still to this day has a plaque.
00:32:49.660 In fact, my friend Emily, who just moved to Philly, went to Valley Forge to the chapel and was like, I went looking for the plaque because you mentioned it.
00:32:57.940 Stop. Okay. Yeah.
00:32:59.040 So Susan Reinhardt had these two children and she had a relationship with one of the teachers at school.
00:33:06.500 And she is found murdered and her kids to this day have never been found.
00:33:13.980 Wait, her kids are gone.
00:33:15.080 They were, like, obviously they were murdered, but no one knows where their bodies are.
00:33:19.480 Right, right, right. But they're just still gone.
00:33:20.520 They're still gone.
00:33:21.840 Nancy Dethry. Where is Nancy?
00:33:23.660 Exactly. And there's reason to believe, because the principal of the school, it was Lower Marion High School.
00:33:29.300 Oh, yeah, of course.
00:33:30.080 Upper Marion.
00:33:30.120 My friends went there.
00:33:30.960 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:33:31.220 Lower Marion, Upper Marion. 0.98
00:33:32.500 One of the Marys. 0.95
00:33:33.780 He seemed to have been working with the teacher she was having an affair with to maybe conspire to kill her and her kids and to get rid of the kids' bodies.
00:33:45.080 oh my god now i believe i can't i'm forgetting right now if it's lower marion or i think it's
00:33:50.280 lower marion what's crazy is that right around the time that this happened there was a new pool
00:33:57.000 put into the high school and people speculated that the kids bodies were thrown underneath the
00:34:03.960 cement when they put the pool in stop it i'm not kidding you so hbo apparently is making a series
00:34:11.440 about it that is the other great obsession of my life what happened to the children what happened
00:34:16.080 to the children what do you think where do you think nancy is um i think she was actually taken
00:34:21.980 probably not far from the house and she was probably killed right away or i think she had a
00:34:27.720 heart attack when she was taken out of the house and that because i interviewed an fbi expert and
00:34:34.360 they said this is like the this doesn't make any sense in terms of a kidnapping she's not
00:34:39.700 she has to take all this medication you don't you don't give yourself a lot of runway in terms of
00:34:45.380 like ransom right right i hate to say it but i just feel like her relatives savannah's relatives
00:34:51.840 are a little sketchy i mean look my this is a constant subject in one of my group texts with
00:35:00.280 the ladies that i went to paris with and you know it's just like you know once a week where's nancy
00:35:05.460 that that is a theory among among the group texts they're like something is off with the
00:35:11.360 i think something's off yeah something felt off something felt off i mean god bless savannah i
00:35:15.500 feel so terrible for her but also i wonder too if like human behavior is an interesting thing
00:35:21.500 and you and i study people all the time and i wonder if deep down inside when she goes to sleep
00:35:27.540 at night she knows something's weird too but just doesn't want to see it because you don't want you
00:35:31.920 wouldn't want to see something like that no no um i mean we're gonna see the where where's nancy
00:35:37.420 documentaries coming out at some point oh i'm sure i think people are going to be very interested in
00:35:43.060 because it's like you kind of follow the money right like weren't there any relatives that
00:35:48.260 who were in need of money money yes yes because this is what i want oh that's the other thing
00:35:53.660 the fbi experts it was like she lives in tucson it's not you know for example he said he's an
00:36:00.420 ex-FBI or ex-FBI agent and also was high ranking in the military. And now his job is he protects
00:36:08.320 CEOs from potential kidnappings. And he said, I have got clients who have mothers that live
00:36:17.660 like in the middle of the country in like a neighborhood without a, you know, a gate or
00:36:24.440 security system and they like ai ceos for example right and that would be a target because they'll
00:36:32.540 just they would pay the money because money yeah every time but this is he said just this doesn't
00:36:38.220 make sense like she's in tucson but she's you know a tv personality like a ai ceo nobody would know
00:36:46.840 it would just be like they're gonna pay the money and they're gonna pay the money no matter what
00:36:50.240 Yeah, no one would ever know.
00:36:51.600 And no one would ever know.
00:36:52.660 But this one, it's like you chose somebody who this is going to be on the news.
00:36:57.000 And because it's on the news, people are going to try to track you down.
00:37:00.260 Yes.
00:37:00.700 So none of it makes sense.
00:37:03.100 Oh, interesting.
00:37:04.700 Interesting.
00:37:05.960 All right.
00:37:06.340 To be continued, my love.
00:37:07.280 Will you tell everyone where they can find your show and all of your wonderful content?
00:37:11.100 So Reality Life with Kate Casey, wherever you listen to podcasts.
00:37:13.740 Also, if you go to katecasey.substack.com, you can not only just find my what to watch
00:37:19.980 list every week, which I tell you guys what to watch, but I have a lot of great articles
00:37:25.440 and I've written a lot.
00:37:27.380 So good.
00:37:27.760 One of my favorites.
00:37:28.180 I've written a lot about TV and you can get the backstory of my podcast too.
00:37:33.620 And then social media, you can find me on Instagram at katecaseyca, TikTok, it's katecasey,
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00:37:42.560 I love it.
00:37:43.040 Love it.
00:37:43.440 Or the La Crosse Field.
00:37:44.880 Or the La Crosse Field.
00:37:45.760 Or you'll be on the La Crosse Field.
00:37:46.620 I hope the Parisian Heist makes it to you before you go to the beach this weekend.
00:37:48.960 I'm going to check on it right now.
00:37:50.360 Awesome.
00:37:50.960 Thank you.
00:37:51.580 You're the best.
00:37:52.020 Bye, babe.
00:38:13.440 Thank you.