Unlearn16: Class is in Session - The One Where Ana Pac And I Disagree On Everything

00:00:00.000 classes in session all right welcome to unlearn 16 classes in session look today

00:00:08.320 i've managed to convince uh bribe beg uh anna pack to be on my podcast what's up everybody

00:00:16.560 hi honey and she's surrounded us with we have a christmas thing going on but what we're going to

00:00:22.080 do this podcast is um something a little different right here i think this gnome thing should be our

00:00:27.420 tradition just careful with this right i can lose an eye and just all right what we have here you

00:00:34.660 guys have very great actually way more than graciously sent us eight billion questions

00:00:42.500 so you're gonna have to be honest are you ready to be honest yeah fully no

00:00:47.160 all right i'm gonna you may get a lie look guys i'm gonna shuffle them because they're they're

00:00:57.000 in an order.

00:00:57.940 I'm going to try to say

00:00:58.700 who sent in each one

00:01:00.400 just as a little precursor.

00:01:03.360 Why are you mixing them?

00:01:04.000 I think it's funny.

00:01:04.820 I don't want to know

00:01:06.460 what order they're coming in.

00:01:08.400 It's like, you know,

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00:01:27.000 So guys, today we're going to ask Anna all the inappropriate questions 0.99

00:01:30.640 we can possibly think about right here from you guys.

00:01:34.380 So first question, you ready?

00:01:35.940 Anna.

00:01:37.140 Yes.

00:01:37.580 This is directed right to you.

00:01:38.680 Got it.

00:01:39.260 Will you make Joe dance at the wedding?

00:01:43.980 I'm thinking a line dance of some sort.

00:01:46.460 No, I don't think I'll make you do a choreograph. 1.00

00:01:48.640 Oaky poaky? 1.00

00:01:49.020 No, I won't make you do a choreograph something.

00:01:51.380 But I would like to do, I would like to have our first dance.

00:01:53.980 Hold on.

00:01:54.620 That's a thing.

00:01:55.520 People choreograph?

00:01:56.460 Yeah.

00:01:57.000 you have to take lessons for that well not if you'd be with me you'd take lessons with me

00:02:01.020 what about our like bridal party will they have to learn something no because that's the choreograph

00:02:07.360 so we're not doing no i just said so what do i have to do just dance with me just like a slow

00:02:12.020 dance yeah like a normal my hands on your hips your hands on my shoulders night like grade seven

00:02:17.380 slow dance yes all right i can handle that guys i can handle that i don't know why you guys uh

00:02:24.280 don't think that I can handle those kind of things all right oh that was from Big Red Disney

00:02:28.580 I like that name that was excellent all right Jules here we go pet peeve about each other

00:02:33.700 that was a lot of alliteration I'm sorry for the you know a lot of peas there pet peeve what is

00:02:38.540 your pet peeve you leave you're a tornado it's like you know you know when Joe's been in a room

00:02:44.640 because everything is just upside down and not in its place I look it's 100% true I think Anna

00:02:51.540 might err on the side of having some sort of organizational fixation i'm not going to clinically

00:02:58.740 diagnose but maybe we ask somebody in the professional world to i look i don't you can

00:03:05.400 definitely tell my side of the bathroom from your side of the bathroom my working space upstairs

00:03:10.360 my dance space your dance space what's that movie what's that from this is my dance space

00:03:16.280 your dance space oh there's my pet peeve folks i'm just it's so nice when she just carefully

00:03:24.080 illustrates my pet peeve she doesn't like any good movies and she still after watching seven

00:03:30.200 seasons hates buffy all right how soon did you move in this is from sip we waited about a year

00:03:40.400 oh she told me you think no no no we don't wait about a year we waited more than a year but anna

00:03:45.620 looked me dead in my face and said just so you know joe i'm not moving in before a year why was

00:03:51.260 that what was your i just feel like it made sense like it made sense yeah well i don't know it's

00:03:56.640 just rational just wait a minute wait a year yeah okay did you do you think you got to know me better

00:04:02.960 in like the latter six months and you're like no i feel comfortable now selling my blue couch yeah

00:04:07.820 i never felt comfortable selling my blue couch i don't know where that came from

00:04:12.000 i was definitely sad when we sold my couch guys if you don't know the story about the blue couch

00:04:18.140 we don't have time here we only have one episode um but it was a situation it is sold by the way

00:04:25.500 lovely couple lovely couple who bought it a lovely couple bought it yes it was true

00:04:32.280 oh same person skincare routines you guys already know i don't have one you spend a long time in

00:04:41.420 the bathroom love no you're doing in there i just i i moisturize and i wash my face with soap like

00:04:49.060 literal bar soap like i don't and how much what's the makeup i think what you have a makeup situation

00:04:54.320 that's a makeup routine skincare is like how you take care of it so you're like skincare takes like

00:04:59.180 37 seconds right it's the other hour soap and moisturizer what kind of soap i think people

00:05:04.880 would like to know um spring you put that on your face irish spring you put it right in your face

00:05:09.940 yeah i don't think you're supposed to put that are you do you guys think you're supposed to put

00:05:13.620 that on your i don't i don't think that's a face soap you don't have that soap my dad

00:05:19.220 i like it it's very interesting very interesting all right same person what jobs do you do singer

00:05:27.300 songwriter actor dancer dance teacher that's five jobs that's five jobs you know what else she does

00:05:34.980 guy she cleans up after me when she complains about what i've left places oh here we go mra

00:05:42.040 here we go anna yeah can you please can you please convince joe to run for prime minister

00:05:48.420 what are we thinking you talk a lot about it but then but then you also

00:05:54.640 but then you also say that you're not sure if you actually want to do that so i'll always like

00:06:03.780 you know support you and what you want to do but like I feel like you need to be sure

00:06:07.440 and you're not quite sure about that one could you imagine though if like I talk a lot about

00:06:13.160 look Ed and I don't agree on a lot but I talk a lot about politics a lot about social justice

00:06:19.580 and you're normally like oh hon but could you imagine if that were my gig

00:06:24.040 prime minister that's my gig and what would we talk about well you would talk I would just be 0.96

00:06:31.180 like you get a nice pair of headphones oh courtney's coming in with the harsh questions

00:06:38.540 courtney says thank you courtney this is a nice deep disturbing question have you ever cheated

00:06:43.960 on anyone no i have in all fairness though my first of all like we got to go back 25 it was

00:06:54.080 when i was like 25 it was a long time ago my first girlfriend but there was always a but

00:06:59.580 there's a but 0.99

00:07:01.020 she cheated first 1.00

00:07:03.920 alright but then 1.00

00:07:05.280 she cheated first and then I was

00:07:07.620 yeah I know I chose to stay

00:07:09.500 but I feel like I was like

00:07:11.420 that was my first girlfriend she took very

00:07:13.600 much advantage of my very love 0.81

00:07:15.200 and then

00:07:16.080 okay fine

00:07:18.860 we can't all be perfect guys

00:07:21.180 that's my imperfection

00:07:22.920 Carol just once

00:07:25.000 Carol

00:07:27.000 carol i don't even know if i have the story off the top god don't worry we're gonna come back

00:07:34.960 around to it she'll have i'll put this one over here you can hold on to that one if you come up

00:07:38.780 with something inspirational okay maybe you want to tell the piece of thing that got in your eye

00:07:43.220 today because that was riveting go ahead sure i went i went wait wait this one time this one time

00:07:50.600 i went to walmart and by this one time i mean like a couple hours ago i went to walmart and

00:07:54.600 i had something stuck in my eye but like i didn't really want to rub my eye because i was at walmart

00:07:58.680 fair i completely understand you withheld and so i just kind of did that thing where like my eye

00:08:03.640 hurts and then that thing uh it kind of went away for a minute and then when i got back home

00:08:08.260 we ate dinner and then after we ate dinner it came back and then it was back in my eye and what

00:08:14.660 about right now nope there you have it ladies and carol i just lost like 10 listeners on that story

00:08:23.080 just so you know all right oh that was a short one though but if you can understand there's not

00:08:28.820 really the natural arc to her story i think that you enjoy rising action climax no day you ma

00:08:35.660 you ever heard of that one no day you ma finishing action action denouement denouement

00:08:41.580 oh at least you know the french there we go you still don't use it when did you know that i was

00:08:50.340 the one or when did we know and how is it different from previous relationships you can go first i

00:08:59.100 don't think there was a specific moment when i knew that you were the one we were standing right

00:09:03.240 over there that's when i wanted to tell you that i loved you but that's right i knew it i wrote it

00:09:09.020 in my phone she did it's in my phone under a saved message and it says june 4th was it june 4th

00:09:15.880 june 4th by the way we got together in may june 4th whatever year it was i don't all the years

00:09:23.160 blend together june 4th whatever year and i looked at her i'm like oh she's about to tell 0.95

00:09:27.800 me she loves me and then the little bugger just swallowed it it was too soon guys um 0.96

00:09:37.240 how did you know then 0.98

00:09:38.120 that's that's yeah i'm gonna i'll answer i'll answer i think i knew you know what it's

00:09:47.380 progressive for me that's what i mean like it's not just one thing and i think that's a sign of

00:09:52.800 like a maybe going through stuff in life b maybe being a little bit more mature where you know

00:09:58.280 she's 93 and all so we've had a lot of experiences um and i think it it's more progressive now like

00:10:06.440 don't get me wrong in the beginning that beginning feelings not love everybody knows that that

00:10:11.220 beginning feelings not love that beginning feeling is infatuation is attraction is all of those

00:10:16.580 things but i think for me it i i felt every time i was with her i felt more like me and i know

00:10:27.440 that's very selfish to say like it seems like an asinine no it's like it's all about me but what

00:10:32.900 I realized is that you know everybody says that person balances you or they're the other half or 0.56

00:10:38.580 what I don't know if I buy into all of that what I realized like you guys know I have a crazy I do

00:10:44.900 all of this ridiculous stuff and all she ever did was like encourage me and push me and set up my

00:10:50.660 lighting and fix my video editing and all of those kind and then talk to me about school and then I'd

00:10:55.820 have to listen to 17 stories there's balance there's sometimes she asked me what I've done

00:11:01.740 of my day and i'm like oh it wasn't so much of a day and and i just i expect details and i just

00:11:07.800 expect to know everything guys the details are like or what everybody else just doesn't want

00:11:14.360 to hear so i do find it sweet and endearing but it's like her details would be you know well uh

00:11:20.420 after second period when my lunch bell goes i get up i walk into the cafeteria i get a water i go

00:11:27.360 into the little staff room and now i've decided to make sandwiches for this and like i'd like to

00:11:32.720 know that the whole process she wants to like to know that i don't none of these people want to

00:11:36.740 um i think it's maybe this isn't even the maybe i'm not even answering the question but i think

00:11:43.360 it's when i started to not i guess maybe realize is the word but that you're just very present in

00:11:52.920 in like present in wanting to support me or present in like you've never told me that before

00:12:05.440 what i don't understand present you know maybe maybe i'm using different words than from what

00:12:10.440 i told you but um i i don't know how to explain it but it's like you're just very much here and

00:12:17.440 you're very much wanting to be here like you're present what you mean as opposed to people that 0.93

00:12:24.700 are like i got something better i got a better place to be who are these asses that you dated

00:12:28.700 man that bar was low so i'd like to give a shout out to all anna's exes for setting the bar so so 0.92

00:12:35.580 low my exes get the same kind of shout out but nonetheless you mean just like just when i'm with

00:12:41.340 you you know that this is where i want to be yeah present just present in wanting to be a part of

00:12:46.240 what I'm a part of as well oh okay I see I see rather than you know but when I make fun of your

00:12:51.580 stories does that diminish that no because you listen to the story oh it's hard guys you get

00:12:57.040 there okay I get there how is it different than previous relationships you can't say the same

00:13:02.220 thing for me it's authenticity like and and it's authenticity for her and me for both of us and

00:13:12.400 I've never I don't think I've ever experienced that and and just talking about me as I just you

00:13:17.440 know I just said that that's I've never felt more myself what I started to realize is what

00:13:23.400 true authenticity looked like for me not just from I have a big mouth and I give you my opinions

00:13:30.280 because that's not what I'm talking about I've always been able to do that from three years old

00:13:33.920 the authenticity is and this is going to sound silly but like if you have to go to Walmart and

00:13:39.680 And I just can't swallow it today.

00:13:42.920 I know this is going to sound so silly.

00:13:44.640 I don't feel like I have to be with you

00:13:47.440 or else I'm not proving how much I love you.

00:13:50.080 Just for the record, my eye thing is back.

00:13:51.940 Oh my God.

00:13:55.180 Can the camera zoom in and we'll just blow on it?

00:13:58.060 No, that's what you're supposed to do.

00:13:59.560 No, it's not.

00:14:00.400 Guys, aren't you supposed to blow on it?

00:14:01.400 I'm supposed to open her eye and go .

00:14:03.800 Anyways, for me, it's the way that we connect.

00:14:09.680 I don't think we can talk about that on here.

00:14:13.360 Emotionally.

00:14:15.280 We do have great talks.

00:14:16.960 No, that's true.

00:14:17.720 I think we have, and I think this is a really important part about relationships.

00:14:21.620 I think we have very, very, very honest on both sides conversations.

00:14:28.780 And I don't think most people feel secure enough in themselves or in their partner to do that.

00:14:34.580 And that's not a lack of love for most people.

00:14:37.340 You know what I mean?

00:14:37.920 I think a lot of people love each other.

00:14:39.680 but you have to have a certain level of of security or faith or whatever you want to call it

00:14:45.980 in yourself in the other person in order to really throw it on the table good question good

00:14:53.780 question jewels here we go meditative says how did you keep my engagement a surprise well she

00:15:00.560 had my whole world lie to my face and here's the thing though i everything that i was doing

00:15:07.300 previously to that I also had to keep it a surprise so like making her ring and that had

00:15:14.120 to change a couple times because this one also changed her mind with the kind of I didn't know

00:15:18.520 that she didn't even know you're right you didn't know but it was just certain words that you would

00:15:22.540 say like oh I really like it when things look like kryptonite so then I was like I'm gonna put

00:15:27.820 a crystal that looks like kryptonite and then like three days before I finalized what we what

00:15:35.400 i was doing for your ring then you started saying things like you know what i really like the blue

00:15:41.840 crystal that we have up in the front room and she would kind of say it like it wasn't a one-time

00:15:46.560 thing it was very much like i really love that blue crystal and so then i had to go in and change

00:15:52.280 the plan that i had already so anyways i had to do all of that before we go over to that other part

00:15:56.760 because this is part guys you want to know where our root problem is the fact that she doesn't know 0.74

00:16:01.100 what kryptonite is and you would never put kryptonite in an engagement ring it's like

00:16:08.000 kryptonite is like the the i love kryptonite it's cool but in an engagement ring kryptonite's what

00:16:14.260 kills superman yeah but you're not you're not superman that's so rude okay continue anyway so

00:16:23.640 i had to keep that secret and figure out how to like get her ring done without her noticing

00:16:29.900 and then planning the whole thing with her friends

00:16:33.320 without her realizing that I was planning this.

00:16:37.220 All of my friends.

00:16:38.000 And then coming up.

00:16:38.340 Yep.

00:16:38.740 And your mom.

00:16:39.640 And my mom. 1.00

00:16:40.520 And my mom is usually a horrible liar and a horrible secret keeper, 0.99

00:16:44.580 so I don't understand. 0.99

00:16:45.880 You must have rolled her in at the end. 0.84

00:16:48.080 I did.

00:16:48.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:16:49.100 It was like the day, like three days before.

00:16:51.900 Oh, that's still a long time.

00:16:53.280 Good job, Ange.

00:16:55.860 So that's it.

00:16:57.020 Yeah, they all lied to me consistently.

00:16:58.500 the day before for those who don't know you can go check out my tiktok or anna's tiktok

00:17:03.360 she had me on a baseball diamond running the bases pretending that i i thought i was in a

00:17:08.740 video for a baseball video it was just the day before that's the day of no the sorry but the

00:17:14.040 day before i was doing all of this i was out shopping for baseball gear because my friend

00:17:17.780 convinced me that i needed a package of baseballs in october in in toronto nobody sells baseballs

00:17:24.140 So I'm going to sport check after sport check after sports check.

00:17:28.460 You know, I can't find it.

00:17:29.900 I'm buying a new outfit because I want, although you, you know, I should have known when something

00:17:33.840 was up because Anna's always trying to reel me in and like stop me from spending money 0.99

00:17:37.600 insanely.

00:17:38.980 And when I should have known is when I said, I'm going to, I'm buying a new outfit and

00:17:42.680 you're like, Oh, that's nice.

00:17:43.840 I mean, I should have been like, that's it right there.

00:17:47.320 You'd have been like, Hey, why are you spending?

00:17:49.220 We already have, we already have, cause you already have an outfit.

00:17:52.160 Of course I already have an outfit.

00:17:53.740 i just wanted a better one but you were good with that and this one kept telling me you're not going

00:17:58.700 to be in the video why would you be in the video and i kept saying she was getting ready in the

00:18:02.460 video fully gear i'm like you can't play baseball this is a baseball video that's a little rude

00:18:08.460 when you taught me how to hit some balls i think i did a pretty good job i love you so much

00:18:13.500 all right carol says who is the most likely to spend money on something frivolous

00:18:24.300 joanna except for like we have 30 000 gnomes every once in a while she'll buy in um okay

00:18:33.180 you bought that giant no but you love all these no i buy them to make you smile and i smile from

00:18:39.180 ear to ear but i did not buy them i bought the tiny little ones that we have all around look

00:18:45.580 she loves it we're going from canadian tire to canadian tire to canadian tire because they have

00:18:50.040 an excellent selection if anybody's looking for stuff we even got one gnome for the outside from

00:18:54.460 canadian tire we named him brian she named him i don't think brian is it a is a gnome kind of name

00:19:01.180 i think it is all right but i'll spend money on anything guys but it's funny because you have a

00:19:08.200 boatload of shoes some people would say frivolous you have a boatload of hats some people would say

00:19:13.320 frivolous i'm just more likely to spend more money on one thing i think like you might want a new

00:19:20.300 pair of shoes but you'll wait till they're like on sale it's 90 bucks whereas i just saw you know

00:19:25.020 stock x had the new dunks and i'm like 350 i'm good with that i i think it might just be a matter

00:19:32.100 of amount not necessarily because we have the same number of hats you have more shoes than me

00:19:37.580 yes but it's like you said i wait until they go on sale she is smart about it

00:19:43.260 who is most likely not to keep a secret

00:19:46.320 i feel like i'd tell you everything though yeah but like a you you think you wouldn't keep a

00:19:54.080 secret if somebody said shh don't tell joanna i mean i'm not very good unless it was like

00:19:58.640 a surprise then no i wouldn't tell you yeah but that's what a secret is do you know what a secret

00:20:04.080 is a secret is what somebody says listen don't tell joanna this is a surprise sure but if it

00:20:09.600 not like a secret like we're gonna kidnap her later that's what i meant like if it's a bad

00:20:13.660 thing or if it's just like an average thing or whatever what's an average thing i don't know

00:20:17.760 but i'm just saying like if it was a surprise then no i wouldn't donald's you keep that secret

00:20:21.900 you say joe don't eat all right thank you carol life 82 says how do we both get started on social

00:20:29.880 media social actually two of my students kept nagging me and they kept saying no anna you have

00:20:37.600 to go on tiktok you have to go on tiktok and then they kept showing it to me and i had absolutely no

00:20:42.020 interest in joining tiktok and then the amount of times that they told me to get it um then finally

00:20:48.560 one day i was like you know what fine i'll get it and then that's when and yours did yours did well

00:20:53.900 right away right away i started getting a whole bunch of views and i didn't even know what was

00:20:58.040 good and what was bad and i just had like my students keep telling me oh my god like your

00:21:02.220 tiktok is doing so good and i was like is it really like i don't really know and then they

00:21:06.520 kept saying like no keep doing it because your numbers are really good and then it exploded and

00:21:11.400 then it died it's such a sad story it really is and i don't know why something's broken on it i

00:21:17.620 don't know what happened i don't know anything all of a sudden i just wasn't getting this is how

00:21:22.160 weird her tiktok is some people will comment on her tiktoks and they don't show up on her page

00:21:27.740 and so i never see the comment and i can't reply to it so i feel like some people are commenting

00:21:31.920 and then just getting angry and then just being like why would she answer everybody else but me

00:21:35.480 she's so rude it's just because i can't so rude how did i get started well uh i went through a

00:21:41.300 traumatic life event then i got locked out of my house for three months in your house not out of

00:21:46.640 your house what did i say out of oh in my house definitely in my house teaching in my house living

00:21:52.280 to my house this is and by my it was it was not good times and before all of it I had students

00:21:59.880 just like you coming up to me saying look at this tiktok look at this talk tiktok and look my kids 0.83

00:22:04.160 would show me the most ridiculous asinine tiktoks I've ever seen I didn't understand the scope of

00:22:09.180 tiktok I just thought it was really inappropriate stuff and I'm like guys I'm not doing that I'm 0.86

00:22:14.680 not dancing what's wrong with you anyways and then I was in lockdown and my friend's son Charlie

00:22:21.220 Amy Tucker's son uh said come on I'll set you up so he he actually created my account for me

00:22:30.960 and then he walked me through how to use almost every feature and uh and then it sat there for

00:22:37.320 a while and then one day I think I took Presley to the vet one of the many days and I was waiting

00:22:42.820 for him in the parking lot which time which time and I I made my first my first when I look back

00:22:49.500 at my old ones like yours always looked bang on like your lighting was good your ankles were good

00:22:54.540 whereas me i'm like i can't even tell that's me my lighting so bad what when did i look at my first

00:23:00.240 don't go back looking at my tiktoks by the way but when did i film that watch it back and go

00:23:06.380 because you didn't know any better that's it that's what i'm gonna show to thousands of well

00:23:10.560 at the time it might have been hundreds of people whatever thank you life 82 how did we meet i love

00:23:17.000 this story and how long we've been together from katherine we i saw a tick tock that you posted

00:23:23.800 in the bathroom it was yeah it was a bathroom rant type thing and the rant had nothing to do 1.00

00:23:29.720 doesn't care about what i say guys absolutely nothing uh but she was wearing an outfit that

00:23:36.160 looked like an outfit that justin bieber had previously worn and i saw it and i was like

00:23:41.600 i'm gonna be sliding into her dms and then i did on my instagram though um so that's how we met

00:23:49.380 and we started we literally started talking maybe that night so i think like at 10 o'clock that night

00:23:54.680 i saw it yeah which is also weird because back then my my instagram was very quiet my tiktok

00:24:02.480 it's not like i had i might have been at 5 000 people so i i never looked at the messages on

00:24:09.920 instagram if you're not following somebody it comes in a different place and i never looked

00:24:13.280 at those because i just thought that was a little odd i'm like well stranger danger i don't know

00:24:17.040 first of all i say stranger danger all the time no i'm surprised you just just came out of my mouth

00:24:23.280 well your hands are freezing um so so then i i read it and then we just started messaging each

00:24:29.160 other back and forth and we talked was that the full night we were not the first night

00:24:33.480 just a little bit it was a couple nights after that because she said um why aren't we talking

00:24:40.860 on we were texting and she you said why aren't we talking on the phone because we were still 1.00

00:24:45.000 on instagram and i was waiting for you to ask me for my number and you never did this chick 1.00

00:24:49.400 slides into my dms and she can't say can i have your number i i think i asked you for your number 1.00

00:24:55.000 no you didn't because i was waiting for it so finally hard to get three days later she asks

00:25:02.480 but we talked like on text for a long yeah for a long time um all right the soundtrack to your

00:25:10.800 love story if you had to pick one song one song i know this is a hard one you're gonna pick a

00:25:17.920 justin bieber song no the actually the the first song that even just popped into my mind was how

00:25:24.440 sweet it is why i don't know but the that was like the oh that's so lovely that's like a good song

00:25:32.440 unlike a lot of the other you know what the song that pops into my head i don't know why it is

00:25:36.560 justin bieber it has to be justin bieber because let's be honest yeah holy yeah which is interesting

00:25:41.340 running to the what like attracts uh thank you that was uh joss all right hillary what's the

00:25:49.680 one thing that we can't agree on so we just don't bring it up anything we guys we we do bring it up

00:25:58.320 because it comes up in conversation i know exactly what it is go ahead the school education school

00:26:05.940 we fight about school well we tell you look here's the reality we fight about everything and i don't

00:26:13.480 mean fight we don't fight but we are on opposite sides of everything dirty dancing dirty dancing

00:26:20.780 havana nights um like i what was it oh the other night okay so i was asleep she was working 0.72

00:26:28.080 late i was in bed flat like absolutely 100 out she comes to bed at like one o'clock in the morning

00:26:33.780 she gets in bed and she's like right up on me and the cat's over here and i can't move i'm like

00:26:39.040 what's going on she says i'm so freezing i was a popsicle like my nose was gonna fall off it was

00:26:44.440 like hypothermia i was in the same house yep and and she says why is it so hot in here i'm sweating

00:26:51.680 i'm sweating guys i was sweating i had all the blankets off me i wanted to open the window

00:26:56.720 we're not just like mentally opposites you physically yeah because you came downstairs

00:27:02.800 and you had to bring up a blanket for me because i was hypothermic i was so cold and i wasn't using

00:27:08.240 a blanket i was just sleeping on top of the covers like in ghostbusters for crying out loud

00:27:13.200 do you know that scene no so sad all right jaw she's seen jaws first of all she doesn't like it

00:27:21.040 But nonetheless, which is my favorite movie.

00:27:22.780 Here's the question from TGZ Podcast.

00:27:26.640 Was Jaws the bad guy or just really hungry?

00:27:30.080 It's my favorite question.

00:27:31.640 I mean, I can relate to being really hungry, so.

00:27:34.700 I don't think you guys understand what that means.

00:27:36.500 And we will come to that question eventually, I think.

00:27:39.560 When she's really hungry, you know that Snickers commercial

00:27:42.080 where they, like, transform into somebody else?

00:27:44.960 Like, she's 37 pounds soaking wet, right?

00:27:48.300 but if she says she's hungry guys you got about 13 minutes that's the window 13 minutes

00:27:56.280 um i think we should have stayed out of the ocean i think we're playing in their backyard and then

00:28:02.380 we get all angry when they eat us i think it's fire i think it's absolutely fair it's why i've

00:28:07.880 always loved jaws all right this person's from called baby we're not that close but i'm gonna

00:28:14.360 to say your name anyway were we gonna get married destination or local we don't know yet yeah we

00:28:20.000 don't know yet i think it was it's a lovely idea if disney happens to be listening um getting

00:28:27.200 married in front of that castle is a lovely idea i'm waiting for disney to say hey you have a few

00:28:31.980 tiktok followers why don't you come down to disney and get married it'd be so great because to pay

00:28:36.700 for it i want to see it just just to actually have the ceremony in front of the castle it's like 30

00:28:43.200 grand and i guess that would be american which is like eight thousand eight you know eighty two

00:28:47.560 hundred eighty oh my god no i'm not it's like eighty two thousand dollars canadian i'm joking

00:28:53.180 it's not that bad but it's pretty bad but if if you were to go to any desert okay so beside disney

00:28:59.200 would you want to go somewhere or where would you want to get married i want to get married like

00:29:05.800 on a beach so like it doesn't matter where the beach is as long as it looks pretty

00:29:10.960 okay so a pretty beach all right so it doesn't matter really where on a lake

00:29:17.500 if it's a beach you don't need the ocean no no all right but all that is covid restrictive

00:29:25.500 and you know we got to make sure our families get there and all that kind of thing so

00:29:30.160 all right you ready l says is there anything either of you wouldn't give up

00:29:35.800 for each other like if i said baby you need to stop wearing hats that's rude but what if i said

00:29:44.920 that what if i said that um no i can't that's it hats i'm glad i've tapped into the quintessential

00:29:54.060 thing that's look i think like i think that if i smoked or if i did drugs and you're like look i

00:30:00.380 don't vibe with that then that would be a thing but we don't do any of that so we're really boring

00:30:04.600 guys it's true i can't think of we are boring but i i guess the question's kind of getting at like

00:30:11.220 you know what what are we likely to do for each other you know and i get that question but i would

00:30:18.740 never want like i don't know what i would want you to give up so it's kind of a weird yeah yeah

00:30:23.140 that's hard all right rat pack story of our first holiday this is a great story first holiday

00:30:29.300 together what was the first holiday together it's your favorite holiday it was canada day

00:30:35.480 and what did this lovely person do she made fun of me for saying that my favorite holiday like

00:30:42.720 was canada day not like christmas i still make fun of her for that not before not not it's not

00:30:47.980 past tense it's still hilarious i mean i like christmas but canada day is like a whole other

00:30:52.940 love she loves it um and our and uh we've only celebrated one canada day because the second

00:30:59.700 canada day was obviously after you know all of those um indigenous children were found so

00:31:05.080 that wasn't happening but the first one oh hi hi oh look she's covered in she was in the tree

00:31:12.440 oh there you go excellent um this is rip this is ripley honey that was very well timed

00:31:21.720 okay what do we do for first candidate you made an entire um hunt like uh i did it was she wrote

00:31:30.780 clues and we had to go all over brooklyn brooklyn was all outside to find different little trinkets

00:31:38.000 and little gifts and then what was the last name it was good my pandora thing yeah yeah the canada

00:31:44.660 it was this beautiful like for her bracelet it's a charm from pandora which was the maple leaf

00:31:50.200 she's covered look at her she's covered in glitter for those who she's covered in snow

00:31:55.340 from the tree well she's just gonna sit there that's nice for those who can't see it's our cat

00:32:01.300 oh yeah if you're listening i'm sorry ripley's made her spot on the edge of this couch and just

00:32:06.160 leaning on me uh what's your little miss says what's your taste in jewelry i don't quite

00:32:12.440 understand how to answer that my taste in jewelry i adore pandora i like pandora rings a lot

00:32:19.060 um but you like more delicate jewelry fine yeah i would never no i don't like to wear anything

00:32:25.980 that protrudes out because i feel like they get caught on things whereas i wear a lot of like

00:32:32.700 big guy watches i like these pendants i like but i like um you know like the the chunky ring that

00:32:42.380 anna had made for me when she proposed with the chunk of crystal in it i'd like a rough piece of

00:32:47.960 crystal like in a necklace i think that would be cool you like the i don't know industrial look

00:32:55.560 industrial that's what you're looking for i'm looking for the industrial i'm looking for it

00:32:59.740 can be used to fit in like a faucet or go around my finger that's the industrial look you don't

00:33:07.720 like a washer oh my goodness it was funnier in my head two things you love about each other medina

00:33:14.380 two things that was a long pause i'm gonna have to edit that out or something um ripley two things

00:33:24.580 no i just what are you covered in all of ripley um physical your hair i was just gonna say she's

00:33:32.200 gonna try to be deep ed whatever but really it's my hair and and um when you when you talk about

00:33:42.640 something that you're really passionate about in like a positive way so not like something where

00:33:48.680 you're trying to like change the world but something that's like already changed and you

00:33:54.240 love it so something along those lines you have this like i don't know like this presence this

00:34:02.780 openness like it's like the real you interesting i like seeing you in that stage so what do you

00:34:11.240 me not trying to change you mean when i'm not trying to be political and yell at people

00:34:15.100 yeah because you're you you're very passionate about she'd like to know the question ripley's

00:34:22.840 now put her hand on my lap for those who aren't you try to be you you try to educate people with

00:34:31.640 your your videos and you you want the world to change for the better yeah which is great and

00:34:37.660 you're definitely passionate about that but when you're passionate about something that is already

00:34:43.420 for the better and you're talking about that you change like your whole aura i'm fascinated

00:34:48.520 um for me 100 your smile physically and then it would authenticity and i think we've talked about

00:34:58.340 this before like the most authentic person no holds barred she is who she is um and and she's

00:35:07.360 she's super quiet as you guys can see like i definitely do most the talking it's not because

00:35:12.820 she's shy it's not because she doesn't have like a strong sense of self it's just that she doesn't

00:35:17.580 have much thanks for visiting she's done um it's it's that she just doesn't want to have that she

00:35:24.020 has nothing to add if she has nothing to add she's not filling space and probably because i fill so

00:35:28.540 much space i find that kind of like engaging because i'm like just being quiet for a second

00:35:34.400 like that bothered me just stop that was a lot that was a lot well we're also filming but

00:35:40.240 um all right worst wreck so annie used to be a short track speed skater on the olympic uh

00:35:48.220 sort of route uh and and larissa wants to know what was your worst wreck

00:35:54.720 i think i was maybe 14 i fell and at that time i was skating in a rink where it's a hockey rink

00:36:07.380 and you just put mats in front of the hard wall like the board and it was split for some reason

00:36:15.240 she hit the board and instead of hitting the mat i hit the board and so when i hit the board and i

00:36:20.120 was going pretty fast so when i hit the board um my two of my vertebraes were dislocated

00:36:27.600 my hip twisted my jaw was dislocated um yes at 14 and i think that was the the one that needed the

00:36:39.360 most recovery because of the vertebraes but i've also had five concussions she's a very soft head

00:36:45.940 folks now i do yeah so that one probably my two vertebrates i don't think you say vertebrates

00:36:53.500 or vertebrae but there's two is there an s on the end of that but there's two

00:36:58.280 oh i don't know i don't know larissa and carly are you ready no here we go we don't talk what was

00:37:11.080 the chicken argument in the store about we don't talk about the chicken incident

00:37:15.960 we just don't you're not gonna tell them no why we don't talk about the chicken incident it really

00:37:22.300 wasn't that bad like she's built it up to be this monument like this thing that we just don't talk

00:37:27.640 about these guys are gonna be very disappointed well sorry but guys it really i let me just

00:37:33.780 preface like let me round it out by saying it's not that bad i think that you just don't want to

00:37:41.200 tell the story because you know that i was right absolutely not and i think that's a hundred percent

00:37:46.580 in no way then maybe we should have the conversation no way shape or form were you

00:37:50.940 right that day yeah you guys can think about that amongst yourself what do you think why doesn't you

00:37:56.940 want to talk about monk says uh monogamous poly or open oh i don't share

00:38:03.020 monk anna doesn't share and let's be honest like to each his own have a good time i want

00:38:11.220 everybody to be happy but the idea of juggling more than one significant relationship to me

00:38:19.080 guys i'm old like i want to go to bed at a reasonable hour i don't well because when

00:38:25.480 if you have more than one girlfriend or whatever like that's a lot more you know things that you

00:38:30.880 have to do i'm sleeping i think you could just tell them you want to go to bed them but but

00:38:37.460 everybody uh anyways anyways uh the answer is no and it doesn't share and i i can't multitask

00:38:43.400 um if you could retire so you have all the money in the world so you don't need to be a dance

00:38:48.840 teacher anymore i don't need to be a teacher anymore what would you do paula asked this

00:38:54.460 question i would move to penticton without me apparently that's so funny because guys

00:39:04.180 i would ask you guys come we're like the opposite but you're it's not that you can retire in the

00:39:12.120 future like you're your age and you don't have to work you can retire from your job you have enough

00:39:17.980 money what do you do oh but i would still i would still like to sing i would there you go so what

00:39:23.120 would you do i would move to la move to la again and la and and give it a go yeah my singing career

00:39:31.380 yeah give it a go um i would i don't think i'd retire i don't think i'd want to give up teaching

00:39:37.580 i think what i would do is i would maybe cut back so instead of doing a full course load i might cut

00:39:43.660 back but i'd be doing exactly which is hilarious and amazing exactly what i'm doing now which is

00:39:49.760 try to build my ability on this podcast or and build it up to a ted talk and build it up to

00:39:57.220 educating on a different level and ripley's now found another spot on our couch all right anna

00:40:05.660 you ready anna it's very direct if you could dance with anyone who would it be with you oh baby okay

00:40:15.000 out the real answer no it is you because it drives me insane that you won't dance with me

00:40:19.960 i'm so bad i still want you to dance with me okay let's besides me like you get to dance you get to

00:40:26.960 be on stage with any dancer like not slow down like any dancer that you've like idolized or

00:40:34.020 dreamt of who is it paula abdul that's right that's right paula abdul um if you guys could

00:40:40.600 i'll message paula abdul but like i'm a little worried if she meets paula abdul well she's

00:40:46.080 really straight though right that's what you're saying she's really straight i think paula abdul 0.58

00:40:51.580 is like extra straight i wouldn't know don't message her if she has some tendencies i don't 0.65

00:40:56.760 want any part of that uh joe who would you have this is from jules who would you have dinner with

00:41:02.140 so who would i want to have a conversation with i'm assuming dead or alive 100 um da vinci i think

00:41:09.500 the dude do stuff he just knew stuff notice how she didn't say me i could no well you all you do

00:41:18.460 you just had dinner with me so maybe if i danced with you all the time you would have said me

00:41:23.020 i'd make you dinner every day okay so i'm gonna be paying for that that for later uh but yeah

00:41:29.260 probably da vinci um i mean i think da vinci code like i think he knew stuff i think great yeah i

00:41:37.120 think da vinci knew so like anything dodgy that's gone on i think it might have started there

00:41:42.260 i think he might be the beginning of the illuminati no i don't i was sorry question

00:41:46.960 sorry i was thinking of nostradamus oh the prediction that i would have had dinner with

00:41:52.760 him nostradamus different than nosferatu nosferatu is like the first is like the first vampire

00:42:00.980 i mean that's pretty cool too i thought you might say that too uh i used to say josh

00:42:07.000 wheat into that question but i can't say that anymore because you know he's gross all right

00:42:12.380 catholic schools publicly funded absolutely not and can you give teacher yeah of course people

00:42:18.980 ask me all the time if i can give teacher opinions i'll give you my teacher opinion even when it's

00:42:23.340 not solicited i just throw them out if you guys have any questions about teaching stuff feel free

00:42:29.340 to ask me uh deb would like to know can i come to your wedding why not absolutely um we'll send you

00:42:36.840 our registry the first thing we want is to get married in disney so if you could make that

00:42:42.760 happen you could be my maid of honor all right deb also asks how long did it take us to meet

00:42:49.680 after that first dm a week yeah a week it was about seven days this one says okay we're going

00:42:57.640 to divulge some stuff now and i understand that in this climate maybe it wasn't the most responsible

00:43:02.320 thing to do but this is in the first lockdown so what is that 30 years ago um in the first lockdown

00:43:09.760 we thought it was coming to an end so we started talking in the beginning well it was after your

00:43:14.600 birthday so the end of may right 21st or whatever so it was like into june that's way after my

00:43:20.300 birthday why did you bring my birthday up i don't know why i thought it was closer to your birthday

00:43:24.120 than that but was it the 21st of may that's when we started talking not when we met yeah so we

00:43:31.940 started talking then by the way if you guys want to go back to the earlier part of this conversation

00:43:36.920 when i said when did i know when do we say i love you oh i didn't finish that conversation we got

00:43:41.720 so i tracked remember june 4th may 21st was it june 4th it's in my phone i i can't get my phone

00:43:51.180 right now because we're on it right now yeah june 4th i'll show you the text after uh i never said

00:43:55.780 when i said i love you we never answered that question was that the question though or was

00:44:01.060 the question was when did you know when did you know right because i said it by accident but

00:44:06.420 whatever favorite thing to do together the crown i was going for something way better than that

00:44:15.860 once you see the crown guys the crown is really good we love that show you know what it's so rare

00:44:28.900 guys that we agree on anything and we both love tv and movies but it's so freaking rare that we

00:44:34.200 agree on a show that when we find one it's kind of like finding magic in a bottle um yeah no i i

00:44:42.560 laugh with this one more than i can possibly explain so and it and sometimes it's laughing at

00:44:49.120 but sometimes it's laughing with but like constantly so i don't know if that's my we've

00:44:55.000 been so restricted yeah you know what i like too though i like um dates where we're active so when

00:45:02.200 we used to go like in the summer rollerblading or on walks or like when we i quite enjoy that too

00:45:08.460 she made me hike thank you nancy i was hoping she was going to say something dodgy for this

00:45:15.180 podcast but whatever we're not dodgy people where i had to look at dodginess where did we both grow

00:45:20.860 up where'd you grow up mama of two montreal i grew up in whippy i grew up well i a little bit

00:45:26.920 all over the place but pretty much we live about 15 minutes from where i grew up even though we

00:45:32.060 both moved around all over the place anna have you watched mulan yet first of all it's mulan

00:45:39.300 i don't think you can call yourself a fan if you keep calling it mulan why because it's mulan

00:45:48.220 Maybe it's a hard A.

00:45:49.700 That was Elle Dunning.

00:45:51.240 Why haven't you watched this brilliant cinematic adventure?

00:45:54.700 I don't know.

00:45:55.140 It's not one of those Disney movies that has made me go,

00:45:59.580 I want to watch that.

00:46:01.000 I mean, don't get me wrong.

00:46:02.200 Maybe it's great.

00:46:02.900 I just haven't.

00:46:03.460 I'll make her watch it.

00:46:04.300 Don't worry about it.

00:46:05.020 I promise.

00:46:06.780 Ooh, how many hats do we have?

00:46:08.620 How many hats do you think we have?

00:46:10.840 A lot.

00:46:11.520 Did we count not too long ago?

00:46:12.920 I don't think.

00:46:13.620 Well, I didn't.

00:46:15.040 What, do you want to take a guess?

00:46:15.880 I'm going to guess.

00:46:16.540 I'd say I have about 20.

00:46:19.340 Oh, I have more than that.

00:46:20.560 I'd say about 40 for me. 1.00

00:46:22.920 We can't wear each other's hats because she has a little tiny hat.

00:46:27.400 And I don't look good with snapbacks.

00:46:31.080 So I only wear fullbacks.

00:46:32.980 So we can't share those hats.

00:46:34.120 Size 6 and 7 8 is hard to find.

00:46:36.800 I think that's why we don't have the same amount of hats.

00:46:39.040 Because I can never find my size. 0.83

00:46:40.760 Yeah, she'd have more hats for sure. 0.56

00:46:42.280 If you could buy more hats, you would.

00:46:44.020 yeah um what's joe's best attribute and why that's from want to be a beach bum i'd like to

00:46:50.760 be a beach bum it is attribute physical or is attribute personal i think you can take that

00:46:57.020 anywhere you want she's gonna say my hair well no because i've already answered both of those yeah

00:47:01.560 oh that's true yeah um your hair and but when it comes to your mind you're you're going with hair

00:47:07.760 right do yours oh do we see ourselves move sorry i didn't understand that question carol asked do

00:47:16.420 you see yourselves moving really guys and here's the bigger problem i'm like i a i like canada i

00:47:23.720 like toronto but b if i was going to move to the states want to know where my heart wants to move

00:47:27.860 i'll tell you the exact opposite place her heart wants to move because i like new york

00:47:33.200 it's okay we can fly back and forth sure yeah all right i think ryan seacrest does it all the time

00:47:39.200 so that's what i hear hardest working man in show business if you could be the fly on the

00:47:43.280 i think you'd like this i think i know who i want to talk about if you could be a fly on the wall

00:47:47.900 who would you listen in on like if you could be invisible in any room anywhere right now who's

00:47:55.300 probably um justin beaver when he's recording oh my god you you could have picked like you

00:48:04.660 could have picked the queen of england i'd still pick justin beaver when he's recording like when

00:48:09.380 he's trying to figure out what sounds he wants and all that kind of stuff like when he's in

00:48:14.360 production building a song oh my gosh yeah i don't think i i think i'd want to be in the queen

00:48:21.620 no i no if we're gonna if the illumina i i want to be in one of those secret meetings the secret

00:48:28.900 secret meetings you know where all those like little masters of the universe sit around

00:48:33.160 all the really rich old what you know i want to be in the meeting where elon musk has dinner

00:48:39.440 with jeff bezos and invites mark zuckerberg i want to see that club those little all those

00:48:46.200 little billionaires bill gates i don't know if they invite bill gates though i feel like

00:48:50.840 bill gates is the uncool billionaire that doesn't get invited

00:48:54.540 like i'm just saying i'd like to know what their plan is next is what i want to know because what

00:49:00.600 do you do with those hundreds of billions of dollars you send people to the space oh

00:49:04.840 so upsetting how do you keep your relationship fresh put in the fridge i was gonna say saran

00:49:12.380 rap sometimes our humor is equally crappy how do we keep it fresh um you know what we just we

00:49:22.760 i think it's just listen i think the idea of like keeping something fresh means that it needs to be

00:49:29.220 exciting you know what i love about us this is you want to know the biggest here it is i've just

00:49:34.260 figured it out what is it i've just figured it out go ahead we disagree on everything that's it

00:49:40.140 You know, we disagree on everything.

00:49:41.640 Like, I stand firmly opposed to so many people.

00:49:45.560 But what we both love, like love and it centers our soul, monotony.

00:49:54.800 We like things that are the same.

00:49:57.080 Do we?

00:49:57.500 We like...

00:49:58.480 She's just disagreeing with me now.

00:50:00.980 No, I want to know.

00:50:02.120 Wake up at the same time, you eat the same thing.

00:50:03.920 Sure.

00:50:04.340 You eat the same thing at three times a day.

00:50:05.980 You like everything that goes in its place.

00:50:08.000 the thing is we don't need we don't need like excitement and like not that we don't we can't

00:50:14.440 go on trips and do all that kind of stuff like we still do stuff it's not like we just never

00:50:18.740 it's true but what i'm saying is i think some people are filled or fueled by the excitement

00:50:25.340 and the spontaneity and the whatever and you're fueled by eating the exact same

00:50:29.720 oatmeal at 9 a.m every day and i love that because i'm fueled by eating mcdonald's at the exact time

00:50:37.680 every morning. I like that. Okay. All right. Mary asks, what's the biggest issue you've had as a

00:50:44.060 couple? I don't know. Look at this cat over here. I can't with this cat. Biggest issue. Um, we

00:50:53.420 haven't, you know, I came, I, for me, I came out, obviously everybody knows that I came out of a

00:51:01.020 a previous relationship and that caused a lot of like uh a lot of scrapes and bruises a few scars

00:51:09.180 and so i think for me healing from that um because we met so quickly thereafter she was pretty

00:51:18.060 amazing at giving me the space to heal from that and talking me through it and identifying some

00:51:23.780 things and so i think that was the question that has nothing to do with the question yeah the

00:51:30.800 biggest issue you've had as a couple i think i had to heal through that so that was a hard

00:51:34.520 that's a hard thing to have to go through in a new relationship having to deal with old past

00:51:39.800 garbage yeah i think so i think you dealt with a lot of it before we even met i did but it still

00:51:45.420 reared its head and i was still like you know maybe i'd have an overreaction or or whatever

00:51:51.700 to certain things you'd be like babe i don't think that's about me well what was that about

00:51:57.380 that i don't i don't think that was me anything for you the biggest issue

00:52:02.600 i don't know i can't think of there's the fact that you don't like any good movies

00:52:08.720 i just don't think you like good movies and then you just throw it on me but

00:52:13.220 awful we can do a poll right now i'm pretty sure i'll win stacy wants to know do we want children

00:52:18.360 yeah child we're gonna have twins i had a premonition she had a premonition the other day

00:52:25.560 that we were gonna have twins and guys i can't i can't do it she's carrying them i can't do exactly

00:52:35.220 exactly uh amy tucker asked i think that question's for you who's your bestest bestest friend

00:52:44.520 It's got to be Amy Tucker.

00:52:46.400 Really? 0.99

00:52:46.960 Who helped you move on the couches today? 1.00

00:52:48.820 I think Stacey could be a little bit mad.

00:52:50.520 Here's the thing, though.

00:52:51.380 Stacey Green Living and I have known each other and Lou.

00:52:54.840 Those three women are, like, amazing people to me. 0.97

00:52:58.940 But I have known Amy Tucker.

00:53:01.720 And she has been in my life, in and out, you know, since grade nine.

00:53:07.900 Look, I just don't want your other friends to be upset with you.

00:53:10.280 I'm just saying.

00:53:11.120 It's okay.

00:53:11.680 Stacey would never call me her best friend anyway.

00:53:13.400 snage and her best friend other girls are best all right okay um so amy tucker it is who's your

00:53:18.900 best friend um i would say probably kat from we went to school from pre-k all the way to grade

00:53:25.540 11 and it's one of those um where like we don't have to talk every day but when we do it's

00:53:30.500 hilarious and is that the girl when i we spoke to her and her husband and it was like because

00:53:34.960 i've never spoken to her before and it was like listening to you two was like like we were the

00:53:40.400 same the same person yeah the exact same person all right oh favorite memory of joe before we

00:53:47.660 actually so before you dm was it just the tiktok did you look at any of my other tiktoks you just

00:53:52.780 go nope that one's good check before i dm'd you i had only seen that just the one the one tiktok

00:53:59.740 and that was it yeah and then we started talking and you said something about um i think i may have

00:54:05.280 said something about like well why don't you dance or whatever and you said something like

00:54:08.540 no i did dance and on top of that i was wearing a justin beaver shirt when i did the dance and so

00:54:14.340 i went to look yeah yeah yeah and i i like that i quite enjoyed i did dance that's true why can't

00:54:20.760 you just live in that dancing tiktok because it wasn't with me guys that dancing tiktok if you

00:54:27.440 go far enough i found i found another dance and i'm gonna get her to do it what was that too

00:54:31.980 the lamborghini yeah yeah yeah so it was that let that lamborghini song and if you guys go

00:54:37.680 far enough back in my tiktok let me tell you that's like way that's way back there um but

00:54:43.860 i'm wearing a justin bieber shirt and that tick i was sweating that tiktok took me

00:54:49.360 hours like i did it once again and again and again and again and when you see it it's not

00:54:56.640 even very good you're gonna be like oh that took her 37 tries just so you know when i do my dances

00:55:02.240 tries it also takes me 37 tries oh my god but have you seen her guys go over watch her tap a little

00:55:08.720 bit and then you can see maybe the difference between me learning four moves anyway she just

00:55:13.960 gets frustrated when she has to do things over and over again but that's what it is like i do

00:55:18.360 things over and over and over again in order to get it right too so i get frustrated i still say

00:55:22.680 that people have a natural capacity to do things and for me it's like if you said can you sing me

00:55:29.140 a song look that's never gonna be good it's just never gonna be good so there are certain things

00:55:34.500 i just can't i can't do and i have to embrace it and whatever and dancing like i did that justin

00:55:41.920 song remember i did that justin song with stacy yep that was hard too that was really hard and i

00:55:48.640 and and this one sent me clips of teaching it to this next one will be easier well we're gonna do

00:55:53.520 guys she chose a seven minute seven minute song all right oh is this our last one nope not yet

00:56:00.340 who said i love you first okay um jordan jayden sorry jayden it was a mistake jayden

00:56:08.940 i didn't say i i'm gonna i'm gonna you know what i'm gonna explain the story and then i'm gonna

00:56:14.140 leave it up to you guys what you think did i really say it she said it this is how it goes

00:56:20.300 so earlier in our relationship you know after june 4th when i knew she wanted me to tell you

00:56:26.500 yeah it was after that okay because she says listen when you want to say i love you just

00:56:34.720 pump the brakes and let me say it first why did you what was that about i don't know okay

00:56:40.000 um let me say it first that's what she says right and i and i said okay yeah no problem

00:56:46.200 this girl thinking I'm gonna say I love you first whatever and pretty sure you wanted to

00:56:51.720 you June 4th I'm gonna post that I swear to god so we were sitting on the bed at her place and

00:57:00.120 we were having a discussion and she we were talking about like meeting her family and what

00:57:04.240 would that go like and what if there was problems people liking me and all of that kind of stuff

00:57:10.400 and you know she was just she wanted everything to go well and she didn't want you know she wanted

00:57:15.840 everybody to like me and to welcome me into the family and all those kinds of things even though

00:57:19.880 we weren't even at that point yet she was just nervous about when that happened she has a lovely

00:57:24.800 family and so I'm sitting there I'm like well you know I would sit down with your mom and I would

00:57:32.040 answer all of her questions and let her get to know me and make sure she knew that I loved her

00:57:38.100 daughter and I would do anything for her that was a fictitional future event that was she said she

00:57:45.560 loved me that was fictitionally in the future okay can you guys please in the comment section

00:57:51.980 or whatever let me know do you like was that really and i love you anna or was that more like

00:57:59.040 i'm gonna tell one day when i meet your mom you know we'll be at that point and i'll be able to

00:58:05.460 tell her how much i love you and how much i would do anything for you and that's in the future

00:58:11.540 that was a few that was an alternate ending that was an alternate ending do you guys hear

00:58:20.180 all the excuses and all the little possibilities she's throwing out you said it that's just that's

00:58:26.960 what it is it is what it is it is what it is all right guys that's the last of our questions

00:58:33.500 i think ripley's lying on one but i'm not going to take it up off of her uh thank you guys so

00:58:38.840 much for hanging out more question no that's your story did you ever think of one there is one more

00:58:45.020 oh there is one more question i have one more i forgot i saved it to the very end because i

00:58:51.600 thought it was hilarious and it hasn't i haven't shown it to you though are you ready yeah all

00:58:56.660 right so somebody wrote in and i'm sorry i didn't write your name down here but they said name your

00:59:02.560 favorite type of gift basket first of all i like i'm like a gift so right away something came to

00:59:11.680 my mind but i have no doubt and we're gonna do this on three i have no doubt i already know

00:59:17.980 that anna's will be the opposite in spirit in shape in essence to mine this is how we're gonna

00:59:26.780 prove to you how different we really are and i haven't even shown her this question yet

00:59:31.380 so on three what like after i'm gonna go one two three and then we say it got it

00:59:37.860 yeah now i kind of want this gift basket go what one two three meat socks

00:59:44.420 meat like pepperoni yeah pepperoni bunch of meats different in a basket yeah

00:59:53.300 i think that'd be a great gift well how are you gonna eat a whole basket of meat well you don't

01:00:01.120 eat it in one sitting but wouldn't that be lovely meat yes i thought for sure you were gonna say

01:00:09.060 justin bieber or something why would you say so what do you mean socks you can't you can't eat

01:00:13.460 that what well no i can't eat it but then i get to keep the socks and i could get like marvel's

01:00:20.620 socks star wars socks sesame street socks no i always thought gift baskets were food like chocolate

01:00:27.420 fruit gift basket doesn't have to be food anyways i'm still going with meat i i've seen gift basket

01:00:33.460 baskets of like candles uh soaps you get gift baskets from body shop all the time used to be 0.94

01:00:41.000 my go-to gift option for you know the older women in my family all right meat if anybody is thinking 1.00

01:00:48.820 about getting anna pack anything for christmas you heard it here first it would be meat

01:00:53.660 she really is easy to uh please guys solid pepperoni stick little prosciutto maybe some cheese

01:01:01.880 all right guys thank you so much for hanging out with us uh the gnomes thank you the cat

01:01:08.600 thanks you she's fast asleep over here right now thanks for having me put her to sleep

01:01:12.680 and you've sat you've talked this is probably the longest time you've ever talked

01:01:16.920 go check out my new song blast off on spotify thank you guys so much i will see you

01:01:22.800 next Tuesday. Same bat time, same bat channel. Dismissed.

Unlearn16: Class is in Session - November 30, 2021

The One Where Ana Pac And I Disagree On Everything

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