00:15:08.360I like the one about feeling the sun on your face, even if it's only in your mind.
00:15:16.540I really like that one because it's one of those things where even if in that moment,
00:15:22.920when things aren't going your way, you can still think about how you want it to go.
00:15:29.340and even just that thought is going to make you feel better. Because if you realize when you think
00:15:35.760about something, your mind can't tell whether it's real or it's not real. Like if you think
00:15:41.460of something sad and it really like affects you, it's not happening, but you're going to, you might
00:15:46.640feel something. So when I say feel the sun on your face, even if it's only in your mind,
00:15:51.660it's one of those things where it like trains you to think about the good thing and it'll put you
00:15:58.120in a good state of mind. That's one of my favorite lines. It goes back to the notion that, and I know
00:16:04.740Stacey Green Living loves to say this, that your thoughts control your emotions. And I think that's
00:16:10.340a super, super powerful idea, even though, and everybody that's listening to right now going,
00:16:15.860I feel like crap, stop telling me my thoughts control my emotions. I know, I get it 100%. And
00:16:20.800when Stacey used to tell me this all the time, I used to want to punch her through the phone too.
00:16:23.940however she's not well listen when you're deep in it guys but she's not wrong right and and the
00:16:31.640example she gave was so beautiful and i'm assuming it's example a lot of people give was the idea
00:16:37.180that you win the lottery and you have the lottery ticket but you have no money in your hand yet you
00:16:42.660just know you won that's it nothing in your life has changed it's about what you think is going to
00:16:49.360change you have that ticket nothing's changed but the thought of it changing is what gives you such
00:16:56.240a significant mood shift so we can control our thoughts then you can control emotional like then
00:17:04.240then you control the emotion associated with it because you don't if you can control the negative
00:17:09.040thought you can control the negative good job baby listen i it's not that i don't try to learn
00:17:15.360guys. It's just that I think in very practical ways and sometimes, actually all the time,
00:17:24.000I think that when we're talking about mental health and when we're talking about getting
00:17:30.480your mind right and we're talking about the right mindset and all of that kind of thing,
00:17:34.600it seems very abstract, right? There's not a lot of practicality to it. So when it feels so
00:17:41.500abstract i i can't tap into it i don't know how to access it especially when i feel the worst
00:17:51.340all the carpet it's okay we're going to go to home sense after this podcast and buy a new one
00:17:55.980all right baby um anything else you want to say about good vibes because we have a whole bunch
00:18:01.580of questions to get through that pertain to your song that pertain to us that pertain to
00:18:06.300some chicken not the chicken um no let's go let's hit the let's hit the questions are you sure yeah
00:18:12.140all right okay the first question i'm gonna need to um edit it because i try not to swear how do
00:18:19.340you deal with butt faces oh butt faces all right you and i you and i are very different we're super
00:18:30.540different go ahead how do you do because of so again because of the whole energy thing for me
00:18:38.780i know a lot of people say time is money or something that like what's the expression
00:18:43.100something like that time is money yeah that one um but for me time is money i think that
00:18:50.460now i can't now you've confused me i can't even remember but it has to do with my energy so
00:18:54.940my energy is, my energy is money, right? So I, I don't, I get what you're saying.
00:19:01.200Oh, good. No, you're saying that the time you're going to choose where your time goes because that
00:19:08.460is your energy. So if you're using this energy, we only have so much time in the day and you only
00:19:13.480have so much energy in the day, correct? Where you utilize it and where you fill it in has value to
00:19:20.000you. Throw money out the window because money will come with other things. But what you're saying is
00:19:24.700If I'm wasting my energy on things that aren't that aren't giving back in a significant way, it's a waste of my time.
00:19:32.400So if you have good vibes and good energy and you're like we're on the same playing field, I guess, of high vibrations, then I will answer you.
00:24:23.460i was just sticking a clip in there my my bad my bad uh all right why don't you tell the people
00:24:36.100how we met that was one of the questions i was scrolling through tiktok and joanna johnson on
00:24:42.680learn 16 appeared on my for you page and you were doing um a bathroom rant about your
00:24:49.300deal breakers deal breakers that was it do you remember my deal breakers not even a little um
00:24:54.100I just said she doesn't listen to me at all this one looks like Justin Bieber so I'm gonna slide
00:24:59.180into her dms and I did she doesn't listen to me at all guys like what do I what do I do about that
00:25:04.320I mean I have all of these rants perfectly done and this one over here is like yeah I don't I was
00:25:11.820talking about deal breakers I'll give you a couple number one the person that collapsed when the plane
00:25:15.220lands no uh number two anybody who says their favorite movie is grown-ups too dirty dancing
00:25:22.240i didn't even know that movie existed when i did my deal breaker um well it's clearly not because
00:25:30.820now you know so i'm still here you snuck in before that deal breaker did everybody hear her right
00:25:37.640let me rewind her dirty dancing wait for it havana nights so good go watch it if you haven't1.00
00:25:46.040like it's amazing guys she's really pretty um and a really good dancer and so when she said1.00
00:25:51.980havana nights sometimes you just have to let things go that's all i'm saying so she slid0.83
00:25:58.340into my dms and she said you're killing the tiktok game she gave me my first atta girls listen
00:26:04.580um it's my love language i don't even know if i knew and i did my love she didn't know i don't
00:26:10.000know if i do because i wasn't very self-aware that was my love language a good atta girl now
00:26:14.880the funny part at that moment in my tiktok world i was at like 5 000 followers she was at 40 000
00:26:21.820followers so when she said that to me um you know i felt yeah i have 5 000 followers and i looked at
00:26:29.580her page i went i'm not killing as much as you're killing the tiktok game and now you have 2.4
00:26:40.560million okay but why do you so i you liked my i wasn't you didn't even know i had good hair how
00:26:45.740did you know i had good hair because i was wearing a hat by the way the outfit in that video very
00:26:50.100justin bieber purple hoodie purple hat jean jacket over the top jeans on i don't even remember if i
00:26:56.160wearing shoes probably not because i put my foot up on the counter um how do you know what did you
00:27:00.640check my other tiktoks and see my hair first i don't remember you don't remember no i think i
00:27:06.320just i think i just saw that one and then i went sent you a message and then i probably would have
00:27:12.080come i don't it would be crazy for me to have not come back so yeah i probably did come back at that
00:27:17.120time uh okay next question you have the question i have the questions i was gonna ask you i didn't
00:27:23.600say next question like yes you did away mike um leave it in the comments below did she say
00:27:29.520next question next question it was a leading sentence it was to go somewhere else it's only
00:27:36.000one blue um what are you who are who your musical inspirations well justin bieber justin bieber for
00:27:44.640sure why he always specific okay he always makes music that even if it's like a ballad or something
00:27:51.440There's always something either in the beat or in some kind of the instrumental section that makes me want to dance.
00:28:00.760There's always a little like hit or a little vibe, a little something where I'm like, even if it's slow, even if it's a ballad, I can dance to this.
00:28:10.220And I absolutely love that, obviously, as a dancer.
00:28:13.240And then there was the movies that he came out with, which were like the documentaries.
00:28:18.100so like the first one was never say never and then the second one was believe i believe anyways
00:28:25.460those two were very like motivational so every time that i need motivation or inspiration i'll
00:28:31.920pop one of those two in and be like yeah so that was it any other musical influence and then now
00:28:37.340now more recently lizzo because lizzo is also on like this track about like also putting in
00:28:47.500positivity and acceptance and feeling good, which is this exact same message that I want to put out
00:28:54.220into the world. So I can definitely relate to that. And for, I don't know, two years,
00:29:00.940I would wake up every single morning. First thing I did was play the
00:29:06.860baby. How are you feeling? What was that? Good as hell. Check my nail. I did a whole video.
00:29:12.220i know but every morning as soon as i open my eyes play and then my day was brilliant it is a
00:29:19.800great song um question yes we want the chicken story i'll try again later no okay next one do
00:29:29.520you write the music or the words first um i will have a general idea of what i want to write
00:29:38.340so I'll have the story in my head I won't have like the lyrics yet but I'll I'll have like I
00:29:44.820want this song to be about whatever that'll be in my head first and then I'll think of like
00:29:51.960a beat or a style that I would want and then from that style then I'll start thinking about lyrics
00:29:59.380two new carpets all right um it's funny because so when you're listening to a song it's really
00:30:09.300the music you're listening to yeah yeah yeah i always of course listen to the lyrics
00:30:14.080would you ever consider a fade like mine
00:30:18.000i love your fade on you i really do you would never but short hair i love my hair i know that
00:30:26.280it's very i know it's it i like to have the option of if i feel like doing my hair that day
00:30:33.000i will and i also love wearing the sporting my bun yeah my valet always up nice she wears a bun
00:30:40.900sleeping that's true i just i like the option of if i wanted to i could how many how many in three
00:30:47.420years how many times have you straightened your hair do you think probably three yeah that's right
00:30:50.680uh when's the wedding we haven't you know that i have to ask her i don't we haven't picked a
00:30:56.260date yet there's gonna be a show coming out love lies in me that's when it's gonna be don't tell
00:31:04.520anybody you gotta follow along that story all right how did you come up with the title i think
00:31:10.240we kind of addressed this a good vibe i don't think actually no not a lot of people know this
00:31:14.300so origin well again listen that's just who i am swaying of the ocean am i on a boat you love the
00:31:21.160ocean you love i know but i can't but is there a work all around you're my orca you know how
00:31:26.620phoebe goes i'm your lobster no she doesn't say i'm your lobster she says you're each others he's
00:31:32.480your lobster i'm your orca you know how metaphors work do you guys know how metaphors work are you
00:31:42.060expecting an answer? She does not. Anyways. So when I originally wrote good vibes with the,
00:31:53.060with my team, cause I didn't write it by myself. I have a team that I work with and they're
00:31:56.380fantastic. Um, it, the way that it was done the first time around, like with the first demo that
00:32:05.160we did, because you you'll do multiple demos and then the song starts changing a little bit. And
00:32:09.680then the final version is like different from like the style and the whatever is still the same
00:32:16.660but by the time that you get to the final product stuff has changed around from the original demo
00:32:21.960so from the original demo um come come vibe was actually the predominant thing that was said
00:32:31.240and then once we got to the final track good vibes ended up being the predominant thing that
00:32:37.600is being said in the song oh so i see so calm vibe was the working title because that's what
00:32:44.860was being done in the first place and then we realized no good vibes is what it needs to be
00:32:50.260called interesting i did not know that answer um what's our favorite thing about each other
00:32:56.260it depends if it's physical like if you're asking physically why are you laughing because i know
00:33:02.080what you're going to say. I know what you're going to say, but okay. So if it's a physical thing,
00:33:07.860yes, it's your hair. It's my hair. If I choose a physical thing, it's your smile. Okay.
00:33:14.920Not physical. It's your heart. It's the way that you can, the way that you support and the way
00:33:25.520that you're just present in our relationship and not only just with me but the way that you're like
00:33:34.780passionate about the things that you do you lead with your heart so that's my favorite
00:33:40.400yours is my authenticity your authenticity
00:33:45.420i have never met a person who is more themselves in my entire life and the reason why that's so
00:33:56.800much so powerful for me is a that's something i i work to achieve um and and b and this sounds
00:34:05.900sort of i guess sort of selfish but the more authentic she is the more space i have to be truly
00:34:13.060so because I don't there's nothing to play there's nothing to perform at so to speak I just
00:34:22.320she's exactly who she is and she I know she accepts me exactly how I am and so by her leading
00:34:29.240that by her modeling that I guess it's allowed me to become more of who I am period like I I would
00:34:37.400never be doing this much TikTok stuff ever. I, it's, it's not that I'm, that wasn't me. I just
00:34:43.860wouldn't have figured it out without her because with you, well, if you go back far enough in my
00:34:50.360reel, you'll watch me do lip sync after lip sync that she's like, let's go. We got to get the
00:34:55.560outfit. We need this shot. We need this shot. That wasn't good, Joanna. Do it up again. I don't care
00:35:00.120what you feel like we got. Look, it was that. And it's like this thing that takes up so much of my
00:35:05.560life and and draws a lot of my attention and all of those things normally a partner might be like
00:35:12.420dude can you take a day like take a knee for a minute can we maybe have it whereas with this one
00:35:17.800she's she's because she gets that it's an extension of what i'm the most passionate about
00:35:23.640and she she only ever supports that which i love and i love her that's so nice um what's your
00:35:33.200favorite genre of music pop easy peasy lemon squeezy what would i guess but mine would be more
00:35:40.700like pop soul because i'm more of like really i was gonna say you were more pop punk because you
00:35:47.620love punk yeah it's not punk pop punk like it's got an edge to it yeah but i thought the edge was
00:35:54.180soul because pink means what she says that's what i'm drawn to i think soul is amanda marshall
00:35:59.660melissa ethridge share i don't think that soul soul is like r&b but i think they all have r&b
00:36:06.460vibes like aretha franklin yeah well not quite like aretha but yeah they have that soul can you
00:36:13.140guys say in the comments do you think i'm looking for it's soul in the lyric i need my lyric the
00:36:19.140reason why i would never say pop music is because i think pop music music sometimes is void of soul
00:36:25.080is void of the lyrics don't mean anything to me but a lyric that means though because lizzo has
00:36:32.120soul yeah that's what i'm saying that's pop soul to me that's that's putting like that kind of vibe
00:36:38.840and that kind of meaning behind your lyric if the lyric has no meaning then i'm just like i can't
00:36:45.000i it doesn't matter how great of a singer you are i i don't know i feel like nowadays like
00:36:50.040i feel like nowadays there's a lot of pop music where the lyrics hit that's what i'm saying i
00:36:55.240need the lyrics to hit i don't think it's a lot of nowadays but nonetheless how did you feel when
00:37:00.520you first solved your rubik's cube so satisfied every time she finds a new one and does it you
00:37:07.240have no idea i get it chucked at me there's some indentations here what that's not true
00:37:12.360uh where do we meet we met on tiktok where do we fall in love i'll tell the story can i tell the
00:37:20.920story sure she's so nervous right now listen we got together i was gonna say our anniversary
00:37:27.660is may 21st that's how we fell in love you fell in love with me on tiktok yeah probably
00:37:33.600you didn't even talk you were in love with me before we met
00:37:37.240love i understand that but that i know what you're gonna say but that was just the day where i was
00:37:43.840gonna say it but that's not when let me let me break it down for you guys we started dating may
00:37:50.82021st of 2020 right may 21st on june 4th i wish i could take this with me to where it happened
00:37:59.140we were standing in in the kitchen in front of the stove probably waiting for her microwave tea
00:38:06.420probably and she looked at me and there was like a 17 hour pause that we just stared at each other
00:38:12.840I'm like this is where she by the way let me preface she said listen when you feel if if you
00:38:18.480ever love me and you fall in love with me do not tell me first she wanted to be the one she proposed
00:38:27.080that's why when you say when you're getting married I said I don't ask obviously she said
00:38:32.640don't tell me you can't tell me that you love me just wait for me to tell you first i said okay
00:38:37.200and i'm like i don't know what what this is indicative of but you know red flags who cares
00:38:42.980well it was a lot of control what if i loved you right then well i just the only i didn't say
00:38:49.480stop loving me the only thing i said was don't tell me so we're standing there and i'm staring
00:38:55.340at her i'm like in this 17 hour span i'm like she's gonna tell me she's gonna tell me she's
00:39:00.000gonna tell she did not tell i did not she kissed me but i typed it in my phone june 4th there's no
00:39:08.060way you think you fell in love with me do you quicker than may 21st to june 4th do you think
00:39:14.260that i fell in love with you right that second though but that's when it happened no but here's
00:39:18.700what i think here's what i think it happens over time sure but in that moment did you or did you
00:39:24.940not she's very upset by the did you or did you not want to say it yes but i'm just saying that
00:39:29.760it wasn't like it doesn't just oh there it is no i get that but in that moment you felt compelled
00:39:36.320like little vampire diaries you felt compelled to tell me uh what made me wait question oh yeah
00:39:43.820sure oh this is a whole different sheet did you love me back in that moment yes or not yet you
00:39:48.440did of course i did okay well we all know that i accidentally said it before anyways it's true
00:39:52.200listen i didn't we don't know it's i did i i said i was explaining a futuristic story
00:39:59.720and i said something about in the future when i love you in the future i was explaining
00:40:08.240a story to some she said it first in the future i said in the future when i love you she didn't
00:40:17.060say one in the future all right next question uh what is the inspiration of your wardrobe of my
00:40:24.620wardrobe and where do we shop oh do you hear that crack i don't my wardrobe recently has changed
00:40:33.140and i think it was when i decided to wear overalls at my performance for pride and then ever since
00:40:41.140then I'm like no this is my look like this is it I loved it and for the most part um and I
00:40:48.300absolutely love wearing overalls so I've bought like so many I also like to wear the same color
00:40:55.900from head to toe chromatic yes um so it doesn't necessarily have to be overalls but I do like
00:41:02.220my parachute pants I don't know what you would call my style where do you get your stuff from
00:41:07.680um funky yeah where do you get your stuff from uh some of my overalls are from amazon forever 21
00:41:15.480each and them yeah but you got you also guys have to know that anna um like thinks long and hard
00:41:24.760about every purchase she will ever makes i am not allowed to buy her stuff for the most part
00:41:31.480this blue hat she's wearing my mom gave her money for her birthday to go shopping good go out with
00:41:38.920anna go shopping this hat was 14 she wanted to think about it i did and walk them all and then
00:41:46.740come back and come back to see if she still liked it it has to be worth it also i just want to point
00:41:53.220out i'm not wearing my um flat rims my fullback hat right now but i want to point out that you
00:42:01.320didn't start wearing your hats crooked like that to the side to the back until you saw me doing it
00:42:07.720because a lot of people always talk about your hats but it was me you think I bit your style
00:42:12.260I like that you wear it like that I'm just saying I could have that you used to always wear them
00:42:18.300like either straight forward or straight back but the back tilt that I do you stole that from me
00:42:23.800just saying i might have listen it's a sign of like what's it flattery is the biggest form of
00:42:31.340no imitation is the biggest form of flattery no it's called i mean yes you're right on that but
00:42:37.320i think it's uh mirroring like when you love someone you start mirroring them well why won't
00:42:42.560you start marrying me and watch more buffy the vampire slayer i don't love it i'm waiting for
00:42:48.940the mirroring coming the other way hi ripley they're ripping on this side now just give her a0.82
00:42:53.320second oh this is great how did you convince Ripley you were her number one mom let me tell
00:42:58.840you a story this one she's lying down right beside her right now purring um I used to be a dog person
00:43:04.860my entire life I wanted a dog my parents always said no but I would read and watch videos on like
00:43:10.280how to train dogs what they need like you name it and I'd be able to answer anything about dogs and
00:43:15.840never once did I have a dog and then I met you and then there was Ripley and I absolutely fell
00:43:21.720in love with Ripley, but I didn't know what cats needed at all whatsoever. Like I just wasn't a cat
00:43:26.840person. And so I would sit there on YouTube and I would listen to videos about what cats need,
00:43:32.380how they feel loved, how they communicate the whole thing. And so now I give her all the love
00:43:37.540that she needs. Listen, she, she's convinced me that Ripley, that cats say, I love you with a
00:43:43.960slow blink. They do. Have you ever tried to slow blink? So whenever, sometimes now it's just in my
00:43:49.320head. So when Ripley's close to me, looking at me, like she wants something that I can't quite
00:43:53.220provide, I give her the slow blink, which I find incredibly difficult to do, um, and wait for her
00:43:58.920to respond in kind. And she usually does, but go ahead while you're listening to this right now,
00:44:04.780well, look at yourself in the mirror, try to do a slow blink. Cause it's, it's not easy.
00:44:08.480It takes some skill. If you have a cat, we've just given you a play. She also will do anything
00:44:14.240ripley wants ripley used to not be vocal now it's because i talk to her so loud i talk to her all
00:44:20.420the time and now she's vocal now she's vocal now she's squeeze all the time round mostly around
00:44:27.000oh i don't know six a a.m um okay biggest musical influence we already said this
00:44:34.620um if you had a magic wand this is a lovely question okay like a harry potter wand or
00:44:42.020expecto patronum is that the bad one no oh what's the bad one that those little girls
00:44:48.480when i was a thing kept that little two-year-old yeah that's what the two-year-old kept i thought0.89
00:44:53.200it was cute until the kids behind me said that there she's trying to kill me with it
00:44:56.140so rude um if you had a magic wand where or what would come oh just kidding
00:45:01.940we're both in slytherin we're both in what were you answering i don't know oh we talked about
00:45:08.300magic wand so i figured i'd tell the people our houses if we actually if you had a magic wand
00:45:14.220what would you like to see let's say in the next five years like you're like ting and it all happens