Unlearn16: Class is in Session - May 16, 2023


The One Where I Feel Ana Pac's 'Good Vibes'

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00:00:00.000 class is in session hi everybody what you didn't let me do a welcome i'm sorry
00:00:07.620 god i don't even know can we cut that out i can't cut that out guys welcome to unlearn 16
00:00:13.720 this is gonna be long guys this is gonna be long look at us matching though how cute is that always
00:00:21.120 so everybody knows she hasn't introduced herself she just said hi this is the beautiful the talented
00:00:27.520 the amazing my fiancee Anna Pack. What's up everybody? And she's come on my podcast to
00:00:34.720 promote her latest song Good Vibes. Do you have a good vibe for me today? Oh wait I have something
00:00:41.900 for you before we start because I know that you don't really especially love this kind of thing
00:00:45.940 so I brought you a steep tea. Go right ahead. Is it? That's all yours to wake you up. Okay but
00:00:51.520 is does it have um half cold water yes steep tea black half cold water i have to shut down the
00:00:57.740 entire tim hortons to get this right but try it like you just just give it a go babe it just has
00:01:01.980 i need to explain why because it has to be lukewarm so that i'm not sitting here burning my
00:01:08.240 tongue and i could just you know drink it like like normally i hope you guys are ready for a
00:01:12.980 very long podcast how is it it's all right yeah it's all right people from tim hortons just
00:01:17.740 just ignore her it is perfect is what it is so guys we're going to talk about her new song
00:01:24.960 we're going to answer all of the questions that you guys have sent you guys a boatload of questions
00:01:30.660 chicken story no it's happening maybe it might happen uh but we're going to start the song good
00:01:38.140 vibes so what do you what do you want to share with this song number one good vibes is on spotify
00:01:43.800 it's on every streaming platform it's on youtube itunes amazon it's on here right here you go look
00:01:49.660 her up yeah uh any streaming platform whatever your favorite streaming platform that you listen
00:01:53.900 to music on it's going to be on there can the video that you filmed you filmed the entire thing
00:01:59.600 that's right and it's on youtube so you can go and by the way the whole thing's filmed in an
00:02:04.960 arcade and i actually got the manager to open up the machine you know with that big claw machine
00:02:10.700 and pulls out toys that noises the cat tearing up the carpet she wants to be in here too 0.86
00:02:16.140 uh i got her actually in there with that giant claw machine we didn't pick her up though because
00:02:22.140 i don't think it's strong enough it's a lot of fun though almost can you tell me so you're writing
00:02:27.840 this this song called good vibes did the title just come to you and then say i'm writing a song
00:02:32.040 how did that work no i i've always you guys are wondering we're going to record this this is going
00:02:39.600 to be the best podcast ever. I've always wanted to record a song about having good vibes because
00:02:46.620 when, for me, when I was little, I was always like, happy go lucky. Everything was just like
00:02:53.660 sunshines and rainbows and butterflies and the whole thing. And my mom always used to say,
00:02:58.500 every time that you go into a situation, go in it thinking positive thoughts, go in it being like,
00:03:05.440 everything is good everything's gonna work out and that's how my whole childhood was and then
00:03:10.660 you get to being an adult you grow up and then stuff happens like you know life happens and
00:03:17.720 sometimes it you know tears you down or whatever and I remember being in that moment and then just
00:03:24.440 thinking to myself no I have to find that joy and that happiness of when when I was a kid and I went
00:03:32.540 into everything with good vibes and stuff. So I had to relearn it and read books and just kind
00:03:39.180 of get back into that mindset, which took me a while, but I got there. And so this song is to
00:03:45.580 remind people that like, that is a part of life. Like you can find that again, if you've lost it
00:03:52.080 or whatever, it's just a reminder that you have that power. You have that choice to find the good
00:03:57.220 vibes. All right. I'm going to ask you a question. I think that's the longest. Are you ready? Are you
00:04:01.560 okay have some tea i have a question for you though in your childhood when did you
00:04:09.380 in your childhood what what is your oldest memory she's gonna hate this conversation
00:04:14.400 memory your oldest memory of losing that do you like what is what is a memory you can't talk about
00:04:22.260 like last week i want to know like you can't the chicken story you can't i want i want to know like
00:04:29.420 as a kid like when is your because a lot of my students will say things like my grade three
00:04:34.120 history teacher was horrible whatever it wasn't me I don't teach but I want to know when in your
00:04:38.980 childhood do you feel like you lost that good vibe do you feel like you lost that sort of
00:04:43.440 positive outlook that your mom tried to instill upon you what was the first time you felt up
00:04:48.060 against it and you're like oh this isn't a good feeling do you have that I don't know if it was
00:04:55.400 in childhood and that's why I said like for me my childhood was happy-go-lucky first moment then
00:05:01.800 yeah and so I think first moment was probably like realizing that I wasn't gonna make the
00:05:07.960 Olympics but but I was older then right so it's not like a kid thing yeah but you were you were
00:05:12.740 a teenager then no I was in my 20s you were in your 20s when you realized you weren't gonna get
00:05:17.640 that you're telling me you're telling me the first negative thought you had no in your life
00:05:24.400 was in your 20s no i'm not saying roses and puppy dogs over here roses and puppy i'm not saying that
00:05:31.800 it was the only negative one but it was one that would like stick right because there's been there's
00:05:39.240 obviously been negative moments in like childhood but it was like they kind of just it happened and
00:05:45.520 i it was easy to get over okay so this this not so for those who don't know um not only is she an
00:05:51.980 actress, singer, songwriter, tap dancer, hip hop dancer, but she was also on track to go to the
00:05:58.520 Olympics for short track speed skating. I always said, why not long track? It seems like you're
00:06:03.220 really cutting yourself short, but why, how, how did that hit when you, when you came to the point 0.98
00:06:08.940 where you're like, damn, like you, you worked at that for how many years? So many. Do you have a 0.98
00:06:14.520 number or were you saying so many people at home? So many years. Um, and at what point when you came
00:06:20.880 to the I guess you you you came close to qualifying right you almost broke the top 10 is that the
00:06:25.980 qualifying and you did no I didn't why did you know at that moment you're done was it your age
00:06:32.500 was it just your mentality it was oh it was my mentality the boards too many times no it was for
00:06:36.940 sure my mentality like it just wasn't there anymore like I just couldn't when you can't see
00:06:42.740 it anymore that's when when you can't see it anymore what do you think stopped you then
00:06:47.640 did you think like that year it's like this is the year i have to go to the olympics and then
00:06:53.400 when you didn't you're like now i'm done now now something has shifted and it could have been yeah
00:06:59.020 it could have been me just my own limitation being like oh this was it and now i couldn't
00:07:03.900 see it anymore it could have been i've never sat and thought about it i just remember not being
00:07:08.240 able to see it anymore and then that's when i was like do you think we should spend some time
00:07:12.160 going down this road I think I should take up a speed skating again
00:07:15.180 all right so but that's interesting because at that point in your life in your 20s you have to
00:07:23.700 shift you have to shift about what you thought you were going to do who you thought you were
00:07:29.960 and what you were going to be and you had to redesignate all of that and I know you're out
00:07:34.760 in Calgary you moved back to Toronto you started teaching dance and all of a sudden she's making
00:07:41.280 songs guys like out of the out of the blue we don't eat we lose no no just the one blue out of
00:07:48.080 the blues do fruit loops have taste yeah different colors of fruit loops have taste to you i know you
00:07:54.140 don't eat sugar but you used to that was a long time ago but i'm gonna assume yes no they don't
00:08:00.360 all the same they're all the same and it's only the one blue not blues anyways so at that point
00:08:07.140 um ripley's going to tear up the carpet through this entire podcast i don't know if it's her
00:08:12.020 communication style but i'm sure you guys can hear it because this mic is fantastic but nonetheless
00:08:18.100 just know that she wanted to be a part of this conversation that's all um okay so you switch
00:08:24.500 gears actress uh um you're you're a tap teacher a hip-hop teacher and all of a sudden your manager
00:08:31.380 that you will be your manager sits down and goes i know you're gonna be a pop star you're like cool
00:08:36.820 let's do that because that's only been happening really in this last three years yeah um you wrote
00:08:43.300 how many different songs four or five different songs so far down on my whip down on my whips
00:08:50.580 this is blast off blast off bite the rainbow bite the rainbow so this is five this is number five
00:08:56.740 good vibes go check out all of our other songs on every playlist is this your favorite oh
00:09:02.260 i want to say yes i want to say it because it's hard is it like babies you can't pick i don't
00:09:13.340 know yes you can i just i feel like good vibes all of them have a little bit of me in it i just
00:09:19.440 feel like good vibes probably has the most me in it because i live like i literally live by
00:09:26.600 the notion of you need to find the good like you need to make that effort to find the good
00:09:32.740 because things do happen and you have to switch that mentality to be like okay what I'm currently
00:09:39.160 thinking right now is not serving me like it's not going to change anything me continuing to
00:09:44.500 think this way so I need to switch gears in order to change it and that's like my life motto it
00:09:50.220 really is so I think that it's the most me that that's a lovely way of describing it I think um
00:09:56.580 um I think you're you know you're rocking quite a bit is this because you can't sit still because
00:10:01.420 I'm starting to feel seasick I probably can we can you you know it's funny because it's gonna
00:10:07.500 I'm not I can't really do it anymore my voice teacher my vocal coach tells me that every time
00:10:13.020 I sing I tend to do this so yeah it's very possible just just try to you know find your
00:10:18.260 inner core um so she's very right because we will be out anywhere and I don't necessarily
00:10:25.380 live by that model. You guys know, I can go into some deep Twitter, you know, diatribes. She said,
00:10:32.040 baby, are you angry tweeting? Or I could be on the road and I get frustrated with traffic or
00:10:37.320 whatever. And I can get in a mood where I'm like complaining. Right. And she'll say, babe,
00:10:42.140 cut it out. Babe, you got to change your mindset. Cause if you don't change your mindset,
00:10:45.860 all you're going to do is attract more of that. Now in that mindset, I don't particularly want
00:10:52.100 hear that kind of door having said it objectively when i'm not in that space i understand what
00:11:03.220 you're saying and it makes sense people always you know somebody said to me very recently you
00:11:10.100 want to be the thing you want to attract and in everything in every single way a lot of people
00:11:17.540 talk about when it comes to relationships and they're always like the partner that they're
00:11:21.300 attract because they're looking for something in their partner they aren't but if you start being
00:11:26.980 what you need to be period you'll start attracting what what you deserve and what you need to have in
00:11:33.620 your life so i think that's it's incredibly important on a i understand it more in an
00:11:40.500 interpersonal level you talk a lot more when you say good vibes you really talk you're speaking
00:11:47.700 on an energy level which again where are the crystals everywhere she's speaking on an energy
00:11:55.380 is why we have crystals everywhere in the house that i can't touch because i mess with the flow
00:11:59.220 i don't know why my energy is so bad but i didn't say i never said it was bad i just say i put the
00:12:04.980 intention that i want into the crystal so if you go in and you touch my crystal then my intention
00:12:10.420 might change your crystal so just don't touch my crystals that's rule of the day okay so but but
00:12:16.180 you talk on a like on this sort of metaphysical level on this energy level that i've never really
00:12:22.340 understood even though i've come to have a level of respect for because you talk about intelligently
00:12:29.700 and passionately and you know i've been in a crystal shop or two doesn't make me feel so good
00:12:34.100 there's something going on guys i don't know what it is she seems to know what it is i seem to say
00:12:39.860 it makes me feel a little nauseous and kind of dizzy um but i understand the idea of you
00:12:46.580 you put out what you get back and that's fundamentally what you're talking about
00:12:51.140 right i get it more with people because there's a play on that there's a there's a language a
00:12:58.820 body language a back and forth with people so i get that i just don't get how when i'm driving
00:13:05.140 my car and I'm in traffic and you say, babe, change your mind. I just don't get how that
00:13:10.800 energy is going to change traffic on the 401 coming home. The way that I explain it is if
00:13:17.540 you're listening to a radio station and you're listening to a specific radio station that let's
00:13:25.160 say plays, I don't know, heavy metal music. Well, that station is always playing heavy metal music
00:13:32.780 and that's your wavelength. That's what you're thinking right now, right? So that's what you're
00:13:36.620 getting. Now, if you want to get out of that, you can't just keep thinking the same thing. So you
00:13:42.640 can't stay on the same station because then you're just going to keep getting that. So if you change
00:13:48.280 the radio station to the, to what you want, so now you're changing your thoughts to what you want
00:13:54.280 country. Sure. Now you're, does that make sense? Like you have to change the radio station to get
00:14:02.400 You're giving me a physical when you're talking about a mental.
00:14:05.860 And I understand it's a metaphor.
00:14:08.160 My problem is, how does my mentality change traffic later on the 401?
00:14:14.960 It all has to do with vibrations.
00:14:17.760 And that's what I'm trying to tell you.
00:14:19.180 So changing the radio station, you have now changed frequencies.
00:14:23.100 You are on a different frequency, which then gives you something different.
00:14:27.280 So your thoughts create frequencies.
00:14:30.160 So now you're changing the frequencies that you're projecting out into the world, which then brings you what you want.
00:14:38.260 Guys, I'm going to need some lessons.
00:14:40.580 Ripley at any moment, just so we know, she's right here. 0.99
00:14:43.620 She's going to jump maybe on the microphone.
00:14:45.840 I'm not too sure, but she's definitely going to be in the image.
00:14:48.820 So if this goes awry, don't worry.
00:14:51.580 We'll pick the computer back up and set it down properly.
00:14:55.820 OK, you know what?
00:14:57.260 I have a lot of learning to do.
00:14:58.760 I have a lot of learning to do.
00:14:59.720 Can you tell me your favorite line from, my favorite line?
00:15:03.480 She has no many questions I'm going to ask her.
00:15:05.680 I don't.
00:15:06.540 Makes me happy.
00:15:08.360 I like the one about feeling the sun on your face, even if it's only in your mind.
00:15:16.540 I really like that one because it's one of those things where even if in that moment,
00:15:22.920 when things aren't going your way, you can still think about how you want it to go.
00:15:29.340 and even just that thought is going to make you feel better. Because if you realize when you think
00:15:35.760 about something, your mind can't tell whether it's real or it's not real. Like if you think
00:15:41.460 of something sad and it really like affects you, it's not happening, but you're going to, you might
00:15:46.640 feel something. So when I say feel the sun on your face, even if it's only in your mind,
00:15:51.660 it's one of those things where it like trains you to think about the good thing and it'll put you
00:15:58.120 in a good state of mind. That's one of my favorite lines. It goes back to the notion that, and I know
00:16:04.740 Stacey Green Living loves to say this, that your thoughts control your emotions. And I think that's
00:16:10.340 a super, super powerful idea, even though, and everybody that's listening to right now going,
00:16:15.860 I feel like crap, stop telling me my thoughts control my emotions. I know, I get it 100%. And
00:16:20.800 when Stacey used to tell me this all the time, I used to want to punch her through the phone too.
00:16:23.940 however she's not well listen when you're deep in it guys but she's not wrong right and and the
00:16:31.640 example she gave was so beautiful and i'm assuming it's example a lot of people give was the idea
00:16:37.180 that you win the lottery and you have the lottery ticket but you have no money in your hand yet you
00:16:42.660 just know you won that's it nothing in your life has changed it's about what you think is going to
00:16:49.360 change you have that ticket nothing's changed but the thought of it changing is what gives you such
00:16:56.240 a significant mood shift so we can control our thoughts then you can control emotional like then
00:17:04.240 then you control the emotion associated with it because you don't if you can control the negative
00:17:09.040 thought you can control the negative good job baby listen i it's not that i don't try to learn
00:17:15.360 guys. It's just that I think in very practical ways and sometimes, actually all the time,
00:17:24.000 I think that when we're talking about mental health and when we're talking about getting
00:17:30.480 your mind right and we're talking about the right mindset and all of that kind of thing,
00:17:34.600 it seems very abstract, right? There's not a lot of practicality to it. So when it feels so
00:17:41.500 abstract i i can't tap into it i don't know how to access it especially when i feel the worst
00:17:51.340 all the carpet it's okay we're going to go to home sense after this podcast and buy a new one
00:17:55.980 all right baby um anything else you want to say about good vibes because we have a whole bunch
00:18:01.580 of questions to get through that pertain to your song that pertain to us that pertain to
00:18:06.300 some chicken not the chicken um no let's go let's hit the let's hit the questions are you sure yeah
00:18:12.140 all right okay the first question i'm gonna need to um edit it because i try not to swear how do
00:18:19.340 you deal with butt faces oh butt faces all right you and i you and i are very different we're super
00:18:30.540 different go ahead how do you do because of so again because of the whole energy thing for me
00:18:38.780 i know a lot of people say time is money or something that like what's the expression
00:18:43.100 something like that time is money yeah that one um but for me time is money i think that
00:18:50.460 now i can't now you've confused me i can't even remember but it has to do with my energy so
00:18:54.940 my energy is, my energy is money, right? So I, I don't, I get what you're saying.
00:19:01.200 Oh, good. No, you're saying that the time you're going to choose where your time goes because that
00:19:08.460 is your energy. So if you're using this energy, we only have so much time in the day and you only
00:19:13.480 have so much energy in the day, correct? Where you utilize it and where you fill it in has value to
00:19:20.000 you. Throw money out the window because money will come with other things. But what you're saying is
00:19:24.700 If I'm wasting my energy on things that aren't that aren't giving back in a significant way, it's a waste of my time.
00:19:32.400 So if you have good vibes and good energy and you're like we're on the same playing field, I guess, of high vibrations, then I will answer you.
00:19:46.080 I will give you the time of day.
00:19:47.820 You'll get like if we're talking about like TikTok comments, I'll give an answer.
00:19:52.460 I'll give a like.
00:19:53.100 we can communicate like that if we're not on the same wavelength and same vibration and we're
00:19:59.680 getting some negativity i have no energy and no time to give to that so it gets ignored there's
00:20:07.100 no communication there's nothing that happens it's just there it can be there but you're not
00:20:13.340 getting any of my energy it just it passed thanks for coming and i on the other hand have built an
00:20:21.140 entire social media persona surrounding for a lot of that, responding to that. But what I think I
00:20:31.100 want everybody to understand about when I respond to that is this. It's funny because you think I'm
00:20:37.380 really responding to the negativity when in actuality, what I'm trying to do is because
00:20:44.760 there's so much negativity in this world, I'm trying to show how to respond to it to put good
00:20:50.740 back into this world for other people. When I respond to my TikToks or when I would talk on
00:20:55.340 podcast, it is never intended if somebody leaves a comment or whatever, it is never intended for
00:21:01.060 me to change that person's idea or that person's negativity or somehow tussle with them. It's all
00:21:07.500 about the 16 year old in Wyoming that's listening to it. And that has been said to them before,
00:21:15.380 or, you know, a person living in, I don't know, Tibet, it doesn't matter. I picked Wyoming and
00:21:20.860 Tibet, please don't before the Wyoming people come after. I'm just saying anywhere in this world 0.99
00:21:25.440 where they feel alone, where they feel attacked, where they feel like those, that negativity comes
00:21:30.220 at them. I try to carve a path where you can see what you can do with that to inspire other people
00:21:38.500 in order to handle that kind of onslaught. So in a way I get you, you know, when I'm negative
00:21:45.200 tweeting, it's, it's a lot of anger, but again, the reason why I do it is similar to yours.
00:21:52.200 I just don't feel that kind of negativity. I actually feel a positivity from that, from what
00:21:58.260 I do. It makes sense. We're, we're, we're completely like, we know, everybody knows this.
00:22:03.760 we're completely opposite in everything. But at the end of the day, me making music about being
00:22:09.500 positive and reminding people to be positive gets us to this point. And then you answering those
00:22:18.100 comments. I'm trying to get us to the same. And then we're kind of getting to the same spot. We're
00:22:22.940 just using different avenues to do so. Yeah. All right. Good job, baby. Good job. Next question.
00:22:30.400 are we ready let's do it what watches do i wear and you don't wear a watch i don't so it's just me
00:22:35.540 yeah although i did buy her a while you'll see our we we already know we got each other for
00:22:40.220 our anniversary that's coming up um i wear uh nixon and diesel predominantly i think those are
00:22:48.460 my watches of choice i don't i i try to put a cap on it i like a giant face and i like a metal band
00:22:54.640 that's about uh and i will do some throwbacks like i have one of those old calculator watches
00:22:59.700 and i have like old school timexes with like gold stretchy bands if it's a retro vibe i'll go retro
00:23:06.960 um but it has to be sort of like that but she won't i didn't get you a watch though you have
00:23:12.780 a bunch of stuff on your wrist i always wear my crystals so i have for those watching i've got
00:23:17.880 my beads and i've got some charms and stuff and again all of this has meaning even the charms
00:23:23.980 have meaning behind them and stuff um so that's what i wear but i'm trying to like if i were to
00:23:30.520 stylize uh an outfit or something i said i would give it a go with a watch to see what it would
00:23:36.100 look like so that was the that was babe it's 5 14 you're late you made me miss excuse me while i
00:23:43.720 post a tiktok but i she wasn't she's supposed to be on top of it i'm sorry but in the meantime
00:23:48.840 while she does that maybe i'll play a little good vibes uh you're gonna play good vibes
00:23:53.460 How are you going to do that?
00:23:55.040 You can't do that on here.
00:23:55.960 So come on in and give me.
00:23:58.860 Tell me some good vibes, good vibes.
00:24:00.560 Show me you believe in all of the magic.
00:24:02.800 Come and give me some good vibes, good vibes.
00:24:05.580 Come and give me some good vibes, good vibes.
00:24:08.600 Tell me everything.
00:24:08.980 Oh, are you done?
00:24:09.960 I'm almost done.
00:24:11.900 Are you going to put that in later?
00:24:13.020 I am.
00:24:14.340 I'm glad you talked through the whole thing.
00:24:18.480 She was going to edit it.
00:24:20.460 Okay, wait.
00:24:21.620 Pause.
00:24:23.460 i was just sticking a clip in there my my bad my bad uh all right why don't you tell the people
00:24:36.100 how we met that was one of the questions i was scrolling through tiktok and joanna johnson on
00:24:42.680 learn 16 appeared on my for you page and you were doing um a bathroom rant about your
00:24:49.300 deal breakers deal breakers that was it do you remember my deal breakers not even a little um
00:24:54.100 I just said she doesn't listen to me at all this one looks like Justin Bieber so I'm gonna slide
00:24:59.180 into her dms and I did she doesn't listen to me at all guys like what do I what do I do about that
00:25:04.320 I mean I have all of these rants perfectly done and this one over here is like yeah I don't I was
00:25:11.820 talking about deal breakers I'll give you a couple number one the person that collapsed when the plane
00:25:15.220 lands no uh number two anybody who says their favorite movie is grown-ups too dirty dancing
00:25:22.240 i didn't even know that movie existed when i did my deal breaker um well it's clearly not because
00:25:30.820 now you know so i'm still here you snuck in before that deal breaker did everybody hear her right
00:25:37.640 let me rewind her dirty dancing wait for it havana nights so good go watch it if you haven't 1.00
00:25:46.040 like it's amazing guys she's really pretty um and a really good dancer and so when she said 1.00
00:25:51.980 havana nights sometimes you just have to let things go that's all i'm saying so she slid 0.83
00:25:58.340 into my dms and she said you're killing the tiktok game she gave me my first atta girls listen
00:26:04.580 um it's my love language i don't even know if i knew and i did my love she didn't know i don't
00:26:10.000 know if i do because i wasn't very self-aware that was my love language a good atta girl now
00:26:14.880 the funny part at that moment in my tiktok world i was at like 5 000 followers she was at 40 000
00:26:21.820 followers so when she said that to me um you know i felt yeah i have 5 000 followers and i looked at
00:26:29.580 her page i went i'm not killing as much as you're killing the tiktok game and now you have 2.4
00:26:40.560 million okay but why do you so i you liked my i wasn't you didn't even know i had good hair how
00:26:45.740 did you know i had good hair because i was wearing a hat by the way the outfit in that video very
00:26:50.100 justin bieber purple hoodie purple hat jean jacket over the top jeans on i don't even remember if i
00:26:56.160 wearing shoes probably not because i put my foot up on the counter um how do you know what did you
00:27:00.640 check my other tiktoks and see my hair first i don't remember you don't remember no i think i
00:27:06.320 just i think i just saw that one and then i went sent you a message and then i probably would have
00:27:12.080 come i don't it would be crazy for me to have not come back so yeah i probably did come back at that
00:27:17.120 time uh okay next question you have the question i have the questions i was gonna ask you i didn't
00:27:23.600 say next question like yes you did away mike um leave it in the comments below did she say
00:27:29.520 next question next question it was a leading sentence it was to go somewhere else it's only
00:27:36.000 one blue um what are you who are who your musical inspirations well justin bieber justin bieber for
00:27:44.640 sure why he always specific okay he always makes music that even if it's like a ballad or something
00:27:51.440 There's always something either in the beat or in some kind of the instrumental section that makes me want to dance.
00:28:00.760 There's always a little like hit or a little vibe, a little something where I'm like, even if it's slow, even if it's a ballad, I can dance to this.
00:28:10.220 And I absolutely love that, obviously, as a dancer.
00:28:13.240 And then there was the movies that he came out with, which were like the documentaries.
00:28:18.100 so like the first one was never say never and then the second one was believe i believe anyways
00:28:25.460 those two were very like motivational so every time that i need motivation or inspiration i'll
00:28:31.920 pop one of those two in and be like yeah so that was it any other musical influence and then now
00:28:37.340 now more recently lizzo because lizzo is also on like this track about like also putting in
00:28:47.500 positivity and acceptance and feeling good, which is this exact same message that I want to put out
00:28:54.220 into the world. So I can definitely relate to that. And for, I don't know, two years,
00:29:00.940 I would wake up every single morning. First thing I did was play the
00:29:06.860 baby. How are you feeling? What was that? Good as hell. Check my nail. I did a whole video.
00:29:12.220 i know but every morning as soon as i open my eyes play and then my day was brilliant it is a
00:29:19.800 great song um question yes we want the chicken story i'll try again later no okay next one do
00:29:29.520 you write the music or the words first um i will have a general idea of what i want to write
00:29:38.340 so I'll have the story in my head I won't have like the lyrics yet but I'll I'll have like I
00:29:44.820 want this song to be about whatever that'll be in my head first and then I'll think of like
00:29:51.960 a beat or a style that I would want and then from that style then I'll start thinking about lyrics
00:29:59.380 two new carpets all right um it's funny because so when you're listening to a song it's really
00:30:09.300 the music you're listening to yeah yeah yeah i always of course listen to the lyrics
00:30:14.080 would you ever consider a fade like mine
00:30:18.000 i love your fade on you i really do you would never but short hair i love my hair i know that
00:30:26.280 it's very i know it's it i like to have the option of if i feel like doing my hair that day
00:30:33.000 i will and i also love wearing the sporting my bun yeah my valet always up nice she wears a bun
00:30:40.900 sleeping that's true i just i like the option of if i wanted to i could how many how many in three
00:30:47.420 years how many times have you straightened your hair do you think probably three yeah that's right
00:30:50.680 uh when's the wedding we haven't you know that i have to ask her i don't we haven't picked a
00:30:56.260 date yet there's gonna be a show coming out love lies in me that's when it's gonna be don't tell
00:31:04.520 anybody you gotta follow along that story all right how did you come up with the title i think
00:31:10.240 we kind of addressed this a good vibe i don't think actually no not a lot of people know this
00:31:14.300 so origin well again listen that's just who i am swaying of the ocean am i on a boat you love the
00:31:21.160 ocean you love i know but i can't but is there a work all around you're my orca you know how
00:31:26.620 phoebe goes i'm your lobster no she doesn't say i'm your lobster she says you're each others he's
00:31:32.480 your lobster i'm your orca you know how metaphors work do you guys know how metaphors work are you
00:31:42.060 expecting an answer? She does not. Anyways. So when I originally wrote good vibes with the,
00:31:53.060 with my team, cause I didn't write it by myself. I have a team that I work with and they're
00:31:56.380 fantastic. Um, it, the way that it was done the first time around, like with the first demo that
00:32:05.160 we did, because you you'll do multiple demos and then the song starts changing a little bit. And
00:32:09.680 then the final version is like different from like the style and the whatever is still the same
00:32:16.660 but by the time that you get to the final product stuff has changed around from the original demo
00:32:21.960 so from the original demo um come come vibe was actually the predominant thing that was said
00:32:31.240 and then once we got to the final track good vibes ended up being the predominant thing that
00:32:37.600 is being said in the song oh so i see so calm vibe was the working title because that's what
00:32:44.860 was being done in the first place and then we realized no good vibes is what it needs to be
00:32:50.260 called interesting i did not know that answer um what's our favorite thing about each other
00:32:56.260 it depends if it's physical like if you're asking physically why are you laughing because i know
00:33:02.080 what you're going to say. I know what you're going to say, but okay. So if it's a physical thing,
00:33:07.860 yes, it's your hair. It's my hair. If I choose a physical thing, it's your smile. Okay.
00:33:14.920 Not physical. It's your heart. It's the way that you can, the way that you support and the way
00:33:25.520 that you're just present in our relationship and not only just with me but the way that you're like
00:33:34.780 passionate about the things that you do you lead with your heart so that's my favorite
00:33:40.400 yours is my authenticity your authenticity
00:33:45.420 i have never met a person who is more themselves in my entire life and the reason why that's so
00:33:56.800 much so powerful for me is a that's something i i work to achieve um and and b and this sounds
00:34:05.900 sort of i guess sort of selfish but the more authentic she is the more space i have to be truly
00:34:13.060 so because I don't there's nothing to play there's nothing to perform at so to speak I just
00:34:22.320 she's exactly who she is and she I know she accepts me exactly how I am and so by her leading
00:34:29.240 that by her modeling that I guess it's allowed me to become more of who I am period like I I would
00:34:37.400 never be doing this much TikTok stuff ever. I, it's, it's not that I'm, that wasn't me. I just
00:34:43.860 wouldn't have figured it out without her because with you, well, if you go back far enough in my
00:34:50.360 reel, you'll watch me do lip sync after lip sync that she's like, let's go. We got to get the
00:34:55.560 outfit. We need this shot. We need this shot. That wasn't good, Joanna. Do it up again. I don't care
00:35:00.120 what you feel like we got. Look, it was that. And it's like this thing that takes up so much of my
00:35:05.560 life and and draws a lot of my attention and all of those things normally a partner might be like
00:35:12.420 dude can you take a day like take a knee for a minute can we maybe have it whereas with this one
00:35:17.800 she's she's because she gets that it's an extension of what i'm the most passionate about
00:35:23.640 and she she only ever supports that which i love and i love her that's so nice um what's your
00:35:33.200 favorite genre of music pop easy peasy lemon squeezy what would i guess but mine would be more
00:35:40.700 like pop soul because i'm more of like really i was gonna say you were more pop punk because you
00:35:47.620 love punk yeah it's not punk pop punk like it's got an edge to it yeah but i thought the edge was
00:35:54.180 soul because pink means what she says that's what i'm drawn to i think soul is amanda marshall
00:35:59.660 melissa ethridge share i don't think that soul soul is like r&b but i think they all have r&b
00:36:06.460 vibes like aretha franklin yeah well not quite like aretha but yeah they have that soul can you
00:36:13.140 guys say in the comments do you think i'm looking for it's soul in the lyric i need my lyric the
00:36:19.140 reason why i would never say pop music is because i think pop music music sometimes is void of soul
00:36:25.080 is void of the lyrics don't mean anything to me but a lyric that means though because lizzo has
00:36:32.120 soul yeah that's what i'm saying that's pop soul to me that's that's putting like that kind of vibe
00:36:38.840 and that kind of meaning behind your lyric if the lyric has no meaning then i'm just like i can't
00:36:45.000 i it doesn't matter how great of a singer you are i i don't know i feel like nowadays like
00:36:50.040 i feel like nowadays there's a lot of pop music where the lyrics hit that's what i'm saying i
00:36:55.240 need the lyrics to hit i don't think it's a lot of nowadays but nonetheless how did you feel when
00:37:00.520 you first solved your rubik's cube so satisfied every time she finds a new one and does it you
00:37:07.240 have no idea i get it chucked at me there's some indentations here what that's not true
00:37:12.360 uh where do we meet we met on tiktok where do we fall in love i'll tell the story can i tell the
00:37:20.920 story sure she's so nervous right now listen we got together i was gonna say our anniversary
00:37:27.660 is may 21st that's how we fell in love you fell in love with me on tiktok yeah probably
00:37:33.600 you didn't even talk you were in love with me before we met
00:37:37.240 love i understand that but that i know what you're gonna say but that was just the day where i was
00:37:43.840 gonna say it but that's not when let me let me break it down for you guys we started dating may
00:37:50.820 21st of 2020 right may 21st on june 4th i wish i could take this with me to where it happened
00:37:59.140 we were standing in in the kitchen in front of the stove probably waiting for her microwave tea
00:38:06.420 probably and she looked at me and there was like a 17 hour pause that we just stared at each other
00:38:12.840 I'm like this is where she by the way let me preface she said listen when you feel if if you
00:38:18.480 ever love me and you fall in love with me do not tell me first she wanted to be the one she proposed
00:38:27.080 that's why when you say when you're getting married I said I don't ask obviously she said
00:38:32.640 don't tell me you can't tell me that you love me just wait for me to tell you first i said okay
00:38:37.200 and i'm like i don't know what what this is indicative of but you know red flags who cares
00:38:42.980 well it was a lot of control what if i loved you right then well i just the only i didn't say
00:38:49.480 stop loving me the only thing i said was don't tell me so we're standing there and i'm staring
00:38:55.340 at her i'm like in this 17 hour span i'm like she's gonna tell me she's gonna tell me she's
00:39:00.000 gonna tell she did not tell i did not she kissed me but i typed it in my phone june 4th there's no
00:39:08.060 way you think you fell in love with me do you quicker than may 21st to june 4th do you think
00:39:14.260 that i fell in love with you right that second though but that's when it happened no but here's
00:39:18.700 what i think here's what i think it happens over time sure but in that moment did you or did you
00:39:24.940 not she's very upset by the did you or did you not want to say it yes but i'm just saying that
00:39:29.760 it wasn't like it doesn't just oh there it is no i get that but in that moment you felt compelled
00:39:36.320 like little vampire diaries you felt compelled to tell me uh what made me wait question oh yeah
00:39:43.820 sure oh this is a whole different sheet did you love me back in that moment yes or not yet you
00:39:48.440 did of course i did okay well we all know that i accidentally said it before anyways it's true
00:39:52.200 listen i didn't we don't know it's i did i i said i was explaining a futuristic story
00:39:59.720 and i said something about in the future when i love you in the future i was explaining
00:40:08.240 a story to some she said it first in the future i said in the future when i love you she didn't
00:40:17.060 say one in the future all right next question uh what is the inspiration of your wardrobe of my
00:40:24.620 wardrobe and where do we shop oh do you hear that crack i don't my wardrobe recently has changed
00:40:33.140 and i think it was when i decided to wear overalls at my performance for pride and then ever since
00:40:41.140 then I'm like no this is my look like this is it I loved it and for the most part um and I
00:40:48.300 absolutely love wearing overalls so I've bought like so many I also like to wear the same color
00:40:55.900 from head to toe chromatic yes um so it doesn't necessarily have to be overalls but I do like
00:41:02.220 my parachute pants I don't know what you would call my style where do you get your stuff from
00:41:07.680 um funky yeah where do you get your stuff from uh some of my overalls are from amazon forever 21
00:41:15.480 each and them yeah but you got you also guys have to know that anna um like thinks long and hard
00:41:24.760 about every purchase she will ever makes i am not allowed to buy her stuff for the most part
00:41:31.480 this blue hat she's wearing my mom gave her money for her birthday to go shopping good go out with
00:41:38.920 anna go shopping this hat was 14 she wanted to think about it i did and walk them all and then
00:41:46.740 come back and come back to see if she still liked it it has to be worth it also i just want to point
00:41:53.220 out i'm not wearing my um flat rims my fullback hat right now but i want to point out that you
00:42:01.320 didn't start wearing your hats crooked like that to the side to the back until you saw me doing it
00:42:07.720 because a lot of people always talk about your hats but it was me you think I bit your style
00:42:12.260 I like that you wear it like that I'm just saying I could have that you used to always wear them
00:42:18.300 like either straight forward or straight back but the back tilt that I do you stole that from me
00:42:23.800 just saying i might have listen it's a sign of like what's it flattery is the biggest form of
00:42:31.340 no imitation is the biggest form of flattery no it's called i mean yes you're right on that but
00:42:37.320 i think it's uh mirroring like when you love someone you start mirroring them well why won't
00:42:42.560 you start marrying me and watch more buffy the vampire slayer i don't love it i'm waiting for
00:42:48.940 the mirroring coming the other way hi ripley they're ripping on this side now just give her a 0.82
00:42:53.320 second oh this is great how did you convince Ripley you were her number one mom let me tell
00:42:58.840 you a story this one she's lying down right beside her right now purring um I used to be a dog person
00:43:04.860 my entire life I wanted a dog my parents always said no but I would read and watch videos on like
00:43:10.280 how to train dogs what they need like you name it and I'd be able to answer anything about dogs and
00:43:15.840 never once did I have a dog and then I met you and then there was Ripley and I absolutely fell
00:43:21.720 in love with Ripley, but I didn't know what cats needed at all whatsoever. Like I just wasn't a cat
00:43:26.840 person. And so I would sit there on YouTube and I would listen to videos about what cats need,
00:43:32.380 how they feel loved, how they communicate the whole thing. And so now I give her all the love
00:43:37.540 that she needs. Listen, she, she's convinced me that Ripley, that cats say, I love you with a
00:43:43.960 slow blink. They do. Have you ever tried to slow blink? So whenever, sometimes now it's just in my
00:43:49.320 head. So when Ripley's close to me, looking at me, like she wants something that I can't quite
00:43:53.220 provide, I give her the slow blink, which I find incredibly difficult to do, um, and wait for her
00:43:58.920 to respond in kind. And she usually does, but go ahead while you're listening to this right now,
00:44:04.780 well, look at yourself in the mirror, try to do a slow blink. Cause it's, it's not easy.
00:44:08.480 It takes some skill. If you have a cat, we've just given you a play. She also will do anything
00:44:14.240 ripley wants ripley used to not be vocal now it's because i talk to her so loud i talk to her all
00:44:20.420 the time and now she's vocal now she's vocal now she's squeeze all the time round mostly around
00:44:27.000 oh i don't know six a a.m um okay biggest musical influence we already said this
00:44:34.620 um if you had a magic wand this is a lovely question okay like a harry potter wand or
00:44:42.020 expecto patronum is that the bad one no oh what's the bad one that those little girls
00:44:48.480 when i was a thing kept that little two-year-old yeah that's what the two-year-old kept i thought 0.89
00:44:53.200 it was cute until the kids behind me said that there she's trying to kill me with it
00:44:56.140 so rude um if you had a magic wand where or what would come oh just kidding
00:45:01.940 we're both in slytherin we're both in what were you answering i don't know oh we talked about
00:45:08.300 magic wand so i figured i'd tell the people our houses if we actually if you had a magic wand
00:45:14.220 what would you like to see let's say in the next five years like you're like ting and it all happens
00:45:20.540 um
00:45:24.540 not constant but uh what do you call when it like always happens consistent consistent
00:45:31.420 consistent radio play i would love that your music yeah my music yep and um touring
00:45:38.300 So your goal would be to be a musical performer that's consistently touring.
00:45:46.780 That's your job.
00:45:47.640 That's all you're doing.
00:45:48.740 Radio.
00:45:49.560 Going all over the place.
00:45:53.400 Who's going to look after the cat? 0.99
00:45:54.960 She's coming with us.
00:45:56.080 All right.
00:45:56.660 Us.
00:45:57.440 You want me carrying your microphone?
00:46:00.260 No, you're going to be public speaking down the street.
00:46:02.380 Oh, okay.
00:46:02.820 So we're going to do things in tandem.
00:46:04.920 Yes.
00:46:05.380 She's going to be playing Madison Square Gardens.
00:46:07.100 I'm going to be talking about, like, unlearning at, I don't know, New York University?
00:46:14.320 Oh, I was thinking like a TikTok.
00:46:16.100 Yeah.
00:46:16.500 I like it.
00:46:18.580 Congrats.
00:46:19.180 Somebody said congrats, Anna.
00:46:20.420 Thank you.
00:46:21.100 Can we see you and Joe dance routine?
00:46:24.640 Oh, they want me to dance.
00:46:26.200 It'll be on a TikTok. 0.63
00:46:27.180 I will get her to do it.
00:46:29.160 Guys.
00:46:30.240 It's easy.
00:46:31.140 It's so easy.
00:46:31.820 You got this.
00:46:32.920 We're going to do it.
00:46:33.800 I'm sweating.
00:46:34.540 The answer is yes.
00:46:35.600 What's your favorite part of the song?
00:46:37.100 i i do enjoy the chorus i think it's very pumped up the chorus what's my favorite part of the song
00:46:44.720 the bridge it's always the bridge baby always the bridge i love the bridge do you even know
00:46:48.680 the words of the bridge i don't know but i'm pretty sure because you kind of say the bridge
00:46:52.380 i i'm just saying me i could have been a guest bridge you wanted to sing the bridge but not
00:47:00.700 sing it you just say it you want to speak the bridge i want to speak a bridge can we record
00:47:05.200 maybe another version with me speaking the bridge sure i'm just for those lists again let let with
00:47:11.420 some like yay joe speak the bridge yay she should be on your next maybe you guys can put that in the
00:47:17.500 comments i can send it to your management um listen whoever sent this question you guys can
00:47:26.020 get comfortable i'll make a second tea what i always feel like we're just pets for other intelligent
00:47:31.580 life thoughts i did i did have the thought that like when you look out to the stars it's like
00:47:42.120 you know when you were kids and you would like put bugs or whatever into a thing and then you
00:47:47.480 would put and then you'd poke holes up at the top what if what if that's us what if we're what if
00:47:55.240 we're a giant ant farm for who i don't know but what if think about it what if we're just a giant
00:48:05.560 ant farm i have a better question why does it matter that's a i honest to god that's an honest
00:48:12.760 to god question some people just like to know you know people like you're plugged into the matrix
00:48:16.920 okay but why does it matter did you did you watch my tiktok about being plugged in i can't i can't
00:48:22.460 talk about your and they're being in error too much stop it it's a little frightening it's it's
00:48:27.440 too much okay next question all right next oh i already read that one oh this is this is the last
00:48:32.480 question okay what good timing fantastic um and this is from um ryan who i actually have worked
00:48:39.600 for with at metro prep for 20 years hi ryan how do you know when it's when it's time to watch star
00:48:46.440 wars with joe how do you know um i guess it's just uh the force tells me listen star wars is
00:48:58.140 one of the few things we have actually in common i personally kind of would like to watch episode
00:49:06.320 two over and over again that would be my go-to episode episode two that's my favorite why do
00:49:15.360 you want to watch episode two over again because they it has a nice love story it's when they fall
00:49:21.000 i guys star wars fans who are listening to this if you're watching this on youtube or if you're
00:49:28.480 just listening can you run over to youtube please can every star wars fan please put in
00:49:34.600 their favorite episode of star wars not included like of the nine okay um i i i don't think there'll 0.76
00:49:44.940 be another number two unless it's tommy and he's just doing it to be a pain in my butt there's not
00:49:49.440 going to be another number two that's okay that's i said that's my favorite but but it's just the 0.93
00:49:54.860 word it's stop it right now it's the word i love it so much he doesn't like sand it gets everywhere
00:50:01.620 oh my god she just liked when they get married it's a nice love story who wouldn't hi baby
00:50:08.660 having said that does anybody i have on my um one of my my tattoo arm with all my movie
00:50:15.760 it's redundant um on the arm with all the movie quotes it says so this is how liberty dies with
00:50:26.380 thunderous applause i think isn't that from that episode two baby we're meant to be
00:50:35.040 i think it is i think i just came to when people ask what we have in common
00:50:40.260 i think that's it i never knew but this tattoo was long before her and her favorite episode was
00:50:47.760 two so when we say what's drawn us together i believe it is the force and i believe heaven
00:50:53.580 help me it was episode two all right well thank you very much baby for coming on thanks for having
00:50:59.460 me did you have fun i had a lot of fun have you rocked enough at this point do you need a nap
00:51:03.560 are you okay is this a lot of talking for you so much time you did exceptionally well thank
00:51:08.840 you i appreciate entertaining beautiful the whole nine yards oh oh and as we go out there's the cat
00:51:15.400 scratching at another carpet have a good day guys and we will see you next time same bat time same
00:51:22.360 Streambat station. Go stream good vibes. Say goodbye, baby. Bye, baby. Dismissed.