00:00:00.000classes in session. I'm back for another episode of Learn 16 classes in session. Listen, we both
00:00:10.840sat down here and we turned this on. We're obviously in our living room. We're not upstairs
00:00:14.220with the better lighting. Usually it's good lighting coming from out here, but I sat down.
00:00:18.220I'm like, why do I look so tired? She's like, this is horrible lighting. I look too old.
00:00:24.200but nonetheless i'm not changing the lighting i can't change the outdoor oh maybe the sun
00:00:30.660will come up and it'll give us a little bit of freshness tomorrow um i'm excited about that
00:00:36.700so maybe if we sit here long enough it'll get better did the silence make you uncomfortable
00:00:43.780no i was just wondering what you were doing waiting for the sun to come up guys it's rained
00:00:48.780so much here in the last like week i i'm gonna start just chipping away maybe building some type
00:00:54.480of arc my poor cat she's terrified of the rain and so she scurries into the closet or under our bed0.92
00:01:01.540um which i find offensive because she doesn't come to lie with us as though we wouldn't protect her
00:01:09.220i know i say it all the time it hurts my feelings like it's like we've got you i've protected you
00:01:14.400your whole life. Eight years. You never got outside, no animal. Presley's just maybe licked
00:01:22.320you a little too close. That's it. That's the hardship. So anyways, I'm in my fitness era0.99
00:01:29.980and I ran. She ran outside. I ran outside five kilometers, 30 minutes for two days straight.0.96
00:01:37.900it's insane i am what's the opposite of your fitness era your your sloth era
00:01:45.020i'm in my sloth era i'm so tired although maybe i should be in my fitness era because my face
00:01:54.640feels puffy um it looks like we look like we just woke up i feel like we did though we woke
00:01:59.820up early this morning i don't know why you woke up at like seven and then i had to go to the
00:02:04.800but then you said it's too early go back to sleep but i was sleeping no you asked me you talk do you
00:02:11.260remember talking i remember you the first time you said what are you doing no but i had to go
00:02:16.000the first time i just remember you saying go back to sleep it's too early but she'd already
00:02:20.640addressed me no i hadn't yeah you had no i don't think you know i wouldn't address you anyways i
00:02:27.140just like go back to sleep no but that's what i'm saying then i was asleep would you do turned on
00:02:32.260your phone. No. And then I tried to go back to sleep and then I couldn't. And then that's when
00:02:35.860I asked you what time it was, but I was sleeping when you said, go back to sleep. Guys, before we
00:02:40.680get in, we were going to talk about Inside Out, but I need to address this. Yesterday, and you
00:02:45.980guys are going to think it's lies. It's not lies. I said this on my live the other night. Like
00:02:49.800sometimes I want to, A, I want a camera on Anna at all times because it captures such authentically
00:02:57.820insane moments and then when i try to repeat them i feel like you guys think we're doing a bit we're
00:03:02.700not doing a bit this is actually what happened so she just likes making fun of me it's not true
00:03:08.220well i enjoy it see i do enjoy it but it's not because you get something wrong it's because
00:03:15.260you're so adamant in your wrongness it makes more sense that's why it's funny it's not funny because
00:03:21.180you got it you're like oh i thought you know no no no no no she digs in so let me tell you
00:03:25.900so i'm going to ireland today she's leaving me dressed in this isn't my full outfit you're gonna
00:03:31.260have to wait for my tick tock to see my full first day outfit i only will be wearing green
00:03:36.380in ireland now it's this kind of green not well i have a couple um if we wanted to click bait
00:03:41.660your thing could be i'm leaving anna i'm leaving i'm leaving anna for ireland um anyways so could
00:03:49.660you imagine people would lose they wouldn't even watch the thing though and i would get all these
00:03:53.980messages and it would just cause, um, anyway, she's going to Ireland for eight days and I'm
00:04:01.640not big on photos. She's not taking me. I'm taking 15 students. It's not like I'm leaving her for
00:04:09.040some Irish lady. I'm just me and Ryan. P.S. Ryan and I might be sharing a room. It's what it looks
00:04:14.700like on the agenda. Scandal. They promise me it's not what's happening, but you know, it is what it
00:04:19.580is he gets the floor um anyway so i'm going to ireland she says can you take touristy pictures
00:04:26.060i'm like what do you mean touristy pictures she's like whatever's important in ireland i want you to
00:04:30.700stand in front of it just take the you know you know what everybody does whatever and i and she's
00:04:35.740like you know like like go ahead say it i said like when you go to italy and you take a picture
00:04:43.180with the leaning tower of pizza and she says it dead ass straight face and i go did you just say
00:04:50.480the leaning tower of pizza yeah and she goes yeah i go babe it's not called the leaning tower of0.64
00:04:56.660pizza what what do you she's like yes it is i said no it's not it's the leaning tower of pizza
00:05:03.140with an s she's like you're lying i google because there it is there it is she looks at google and
00:05:10.220goes nah because first of all what is pizza like it's a city exactly so you're just gonna name
00:05:17.140a tower the tower of the city when when it literally looks like someone's carrying a whole
00:05:24.220bunch of pizza boxes and they're like falling over that's what she thought it was named after
00:05:27.800she thought it was named after leaning pizza boxes when you try to carry like 10 or 15 who's
00:05:34.080carrying 10 or 15 pizza boxes. Is that not that much cooler though?
00:05:39.100It's the leaning tower of the city. Listen. Yay. It's not. Snooze fest. It's not just that she
00:05:46.040gets it wrong. It's that she stands so firmly, so adamantly in her wrongness. And right now,
00:05:53.920there's about 20% of her that still doesn't believe me or Google or the town of Pisa.
00:05:58.140I believe it. I just think it's silly.0.82
00:06:02.980So I'm going to take all of the Leaning Tower of Pisa or pizza pictures, whatever comes first in Ireland.
00:06:10.860What we wanted to talk about today was the movie that we saw yesterday.
00:06:14.400Because I think those movies are probably two of the most beautifully written and sort of in a deep sense idea about sort of the formation of identity and personhood and all the things that go into it.
00:06:34.800And I think it's, I didn't realize that Inside Out, we're going to be reviewing Inside Out 2, I didn't realize that Inside Out was 10 years old.
00:06:41.360I didn't either until we were talking about it and we looked it up.
00:06:44.400that's how you know you're old when 10 years ago you thought that movie was on like four years ago
00:06:49.020um so the first one was the introduction of sadness that's what sadness yeah she never felt
00:06:56.380which is so so so the first movie she has like joy she has what else does she have anger fear
00:07:04.180joy anger fear so like elemental kind of is that the point then it's like when you're a kid you
00:07:09.560have like these Jungian elemental kind of id emotions. You know what your id is? It's like
00:07:16.600your inner being. It's like your animalistic self because kids are sort of animalistic,
00:07:20.960not in a bad sense. I'm not calling all your kids animals, maybe a little bit. I'm saying
00:07:24.660they can't articulate it yet. They haven't developed a stronger sense of emotion. So
00:07:28.680they're all reactive emotions. So when you develop sadness, why would you call it id?
00:07:35.020like id just call it id like your it's your id it it was
00:07:40.100freud you talked about your subconscious your id your ego does it stand for something
00:07:46.940your id yeah id okay continue but it's the idea there there are deep emotions
00:07:55.160it's gonna be it when you're freud is taken you do a lot of cocaine and become a famous
00:08:00.920psychologist then you can do that too do you know freud did so much cocaine i didn't even know
00:08:06.780that that he did that he became incontinent a continent incontinent not
00:08:12.040he became he became asia oh it's a talent incontinent means he can't control when he goes
00:08:23.720pee oh so he would have to time himself he would be out places and he would have to so i don't know
00:08:28.820if it's a psychological disorder or if it's because of all the massive drug use but he'd be
00:08:33.020out places and he oh no but here's the funny part this is the man this is the man we have
00:08:40.680premise now a lot of his stuff is debunked by now but this is the psychologist that we that is sort
00:08:45.880of the fundamental foundational reality of all psychology psychological analysis and this dude
00:08:54.880couldn't control his head well you're we all have our strengths
00:09:00.860some of them are in our urethra others other places okay so the old one was about finding
00:09:10.340sadness which is so so so well sad uh i should have watched inside out one before we went i
00:09:16.980should have been up on it a little bit more because what i remembered about the first one
00:09:21.000to be honest firmly ingrained in my memory is the fact she left that elephant somewhere
00:09:24.320bing bong his name is bing bong stop calling him an elephant he has a name
00:09:28.080obviously not an important one she he still doesn't have him
00:09:31.600no she she had him and then lost him because she had to let him go why because that was her
00:09:39.880imaginary friend why do you have to let go of your men why listen because then that would be
00:09:44.560schizophrenia no no if you were your imaginary friend would be schizophrenia and i believe it's
00:09:51.100called something else and there's a spider crawling down the window right there we go tiny
00:09:54.560just leave him ripley he lives here now ripley won't do anything so just watch him crawl
00:09:59.380okay here's question number one why do you think we have zero uh psychological training
00:10:07.180zero therapy training zero any of it we're just these are just an opinion show guys so before
00:10:13.660you're like don't be judging listen just talking about i also listen i also know nothing like i'm
00:10:19.400singer and a dancer and an actor there's nothing in here what fairly graduated grade 11 yeah
00:10:25.320fairly graduated grade 11. so anything i say it's probably wrong take it with a bucket of salt be
00:10:31.800reminded that i called it pizza so question why do you think kids because they don't really why
00:10:38.600do you think kids have an imaginary friend what's what's the what's the psychological purpose because
00:10:44.600a lot of kids do and it's obviously acceptable because i've never really looked up sometimes
00:10:51.480i'm gonna get real deep here but sometimes i do believe that the children don't have the veil
00:10:57.560that separates reality from not reality because everything's reality but you know what i mean
00:11:03.080the veil between the conscious and the unconscious i don't think that veil exists for them and some
00:11:08.120kids are more prone to being able to see people that have passed to the other side bing bong was
00:11:13.960good people no but i do think that some imagine some that we call imaginary friends as adult
00:11:20.180might be that that aside this my my cousin when she was real little my grandfather died when she
00:11:27.360was maybe like five and she used to say that she'd see my grandpa at the bottom of her bed all the
00:11:32.260time and she'd wake up and she'd say grandpa yeah i used to see spirits as a little do you remember
00:11:39.600you remember seeing them clear as day yeah were they kind of like wobbly or were they full people
00:11:46.840full people could you touch them did you ever try to touch them no i never got close enough i was
00:11:51.420scared did they say anything no quietly stood and stared at you yep why do you think they'd be so
00:11:56.660creepy uh my mom would say that they were protecting me so why why silently protecting me
00:12:01.100well i don't know maybe could you smell them
00:12:02.880okay so let's that aside that aside um what sometimes let's say they it's created like
00:12:12.460and and i would expect it subconsciously created or maybe not like you think they're conscious
00:12:19.080they're like that is my like do you really think they believe in that friend because i think they
00:12:24.800do something in my eye i don't know okay so why do you think they have it well i was gonna say
00:12:30.960it could have something to do with maybe in their actual reality, there isn't someone to fill that
00:12:36.620need. So their brain creates it. I kind of think like when you're young, you don't have the
00:12:43.620vocabulary, but you have sort of this intuitive sense, right? That's why kids and dogs can really
00:12:49.600sense good people. What does that have to do with an imaginary friend? Because if you only have more
00:12:54.440of an intuitive sense, you don't have the verbal ability even to interact with people the way you
00:12:59.000would want to. So you have an intuitive sense or the non-verbal ability to interact with something
00:13:05.180you've created because it can understand you and you can understand it. So it's like you create a
00:13:11.120language and a conversation and a way to connect with something else outside of yourself that you
00:13:19.340can understand. Because if you can't articulate, right? If you're that young and you're having
00:13:24.680problems articulating like that's the only time but like once you're six or seven you don't have
00:13:29.800an imaginary friend i don't know when the age limit of imaginary friends is but i do know that
00:13:36.560some people i can't remember but i do know that some kids talk like it's not just play talk it's
00:13:42.660like actual conversation so that's what i'm saying communicate well but they know how to communicate
00:13:47.900in their way, right? So maybe it's a very comfortable idea that they're going to use
00:13:56.020this particular method to... Look at us not knowing anything. I know nothing. I don't think
00:14:03.140anybody knows. Don't tell me, listen, don't tell me that somebody's like, I know why a kid creates
00:14:08.380an imaginary for, I don't know. It's all just guessing. There's no way you can know. All right.
00:14:13.460And then all of a sudden, why do you think that they stop?
00:14:18.140If they create it for a need, you're saying the need gets filled somewhere else?
00:14:24.480Because even kids who have actual friends, like in reality, some of them, obviously not all of them, but some kids still do have their imaginary friends.
00:14:33.280Even kids with people who give them the attention that a child needs and all that still do end up having an imaginary friend.
00:14:41.140So I think it's a subconscious thing that isn't being filled, which then is filled by the imaginary friend, which is why we don't know the reasoning for it, because it's subconscious to the kid.
00:14:51.860I think we should do some investigation.
00:15:05.420I feel like it's losing a level of creativity.
00:15:07.960I think as kids are full of creativity, they're full of new ideas, they're full of possibilities, they're full of all of this stuff, and we consistently tell them what they can't do and what they can't be, and eventually, I think we kill the elephant.
00:15:26.380it's so sad it's true it's that thing that i always say like people who are trying to manifest
00:15:33.760and think good good thoughts and things like that it's always think of it as like a tug of war right
00:15:38.980so you're trying to change your subconscious but your subconscious has been formed by everything
00:15:44.320that your conscious mind thinks so everything that has been put into your brain so it's like
00:15:49.420this tug unfair tug of war between changing the subconscious by changing the conscience and so
00:15:58.020it's like the reality of things is always like pulling unfairly one way but shouldn't reality
00:16:06.820pull one way not if you want to change your reality yeah but you're going to tell me well
00:16:13.880if you want to change your reality though maybe you still acknowledge the reality in which you're
00:16:17.760in no but it's like unlearning certain things that's a great name maybe i should use that
00:16:26.800do you realize that when we do these you always look at the camera and i always look at you
00:16:31.200i'd like somebody to do a statistical analysis of how much i look at her and listen to her when
00:16:35.360she talks and how much she just stares and looks pretty in the camera while i talk it but i'm also
00:16:39.360not looking at the camera like i'm not looking at the green dot i'm looking at myself to see how
00:16:43.360pretty okay so we jump into uh inside out two and when you jump in she's getting she's turning 13
00:16:53.440so she's hitting puberty so the first emotion that gets created in well there's three emotions
00:17:00.000right three new emotions but the very first one's anxiety well four the very first one's anxiety
00:17:06.160then it's embarrassment then it's on we he might be my favorite he doesn't have a backbone and he
00:17:12.480just slinks everywhere because he just doesn't care. Speaking of Henri, I was on TikTok and I
00:17:19.000was scrolling and it was like, your birthday matches this inside out emotion. And the both
00:17:24.900of us were on Henri. Me too? What's the fourth one? The fourth one was Envy. Envy. Interesting.
00:17:38.140And so all of those things are all about externalities.
00:19:53.740okay so all so i don't think they talk about how but i think that everything is heightened
00:20:03.060because of hormones right they i naming the hormone in this case i don't necessarily think
00:20:10.180was necessary but they did say that because they they did address everything that you just said
00:20:17.920just in a different way they didn't use the word hormone but they used the panel so remember when
00:20:22.800uh anger just came in and just pushed oh it was super reactive yeah and then the other one came
00:20:29.280in and was like oh my gosh what are you doing like you're doing it wrong let me fix it and then
00:20:32.880sadness came in and tried to fix it and it was just full so it was literally a push of a button
00:20:37.160and it and i think that's how they touched on it i just feel like that could have been
00:20:40.860you just had to pay attention no i know but i just don't think they they focused on it as much
00:20:46.080you know what I mean? But I guess there is a level of erraticism throughout the whole thing
00:20:51.520that I guess still is a callback to that. But explain how you felt about anxiety, which I find
00:20:58.300hilarious when anxiety first got introduced. Because when anxiety first gets introduced,
00:21:03.660I'm just like, see, that's why grade seven and eight matters on a different level. Grade seven
00:21:08.000and eight matters on a different level because that's not happening. This precise hormonal and
00:21:13.840identity shift is only happening at that you know obviously it's a bracket but at that age bracket
00:21:21.200and as teachers and educators we should be addressing that that should be part of the
00:21:26.160freaking curriculum because it's so that's why they made a movie about it it's so powerful
00:21:32.400and can really push kids down you know different and sometimes not the best paths but what was
00:21:38.720your ex i see anxiety i'm like that's everything that's wrong how do we address that you don't even
00:21:43.120see it as wrong i listen i was sitting there and for quite a while until anxiety got out of control
00:21:50.880like spun like yeah until that point or or maybe a little bit before the whole i don't really want
00:21:57.600to spoil it but the book part that's where i would have said okay now we're now we're off track but
00:22:03.360everything before that i was like anxiety is doing its job if you want riley to succeed like this is
00:22:12.160this isn't a bad thing and that's from a sport perspective yeah but see but that's my hold on a
00:22:17.760second but that's just because it's from it was in that moment related to a sport we all know that
00:22:23.120riley plays hockey and i was a speed skater but that it just depends what your interest is at
00:22:29.760that time in order for you to succeed in that because it could have literally been anything
00:22:33.360else that and and that's the same kind of motivation that you need like it could have been
00:22:38.800studies like if you're really into studying you also would have woken up you also would have done
00:22:45.760read more books done there's always an equivalent right it doesn't have to be sports it's just my
00:22:50.960experience was through sport and i was like everything that anxiety is doing right now
00:22:55.200is great this is what you need to succeed up until a certain point obviously but the funny part is
00:23:00.800if you've noticed that anxiety really worked over time about social validation not athletic
00:23:07.120accomplishment. That athletic accomplishment got her up one time. Everything else was about social
00:23:13.000validation and making the team and doing this and doing that. And I would argue that drive and
00:23:18.760determination, something that comes from inside, I think anxiety is an external emotion. You're
00:23:25.040worried about what they think, what they're doing, how I'm going to be perceived. But an internal
00:23:30.760drive to be successful at a sport, at a, at a course, at whatever that internal drive, that's
00:23:37.780not anxiety. That's something else. I don't know what that emotion is, but if my drive drive is to
00:23:43.840be, I love it and I want to be great at hockey. So I'm going to get up early in the morning and
00:23:48.100it has nothing to do with whether I make that team or has nothing to do with whether those girls like
00:23:53.700me, that's the better emotion. That's still a cool emotion that drives you. It just anxiety is
00:23:59.400there's always no but there's always but there's always a goal right like yes the external thing
00:24:05.860is making the team but if you don't make the team that you're not very good at what you do
00:24:09.600there's always a goal the same thing is like you can study all of whatever but if you at the end
00:24:14.920of the day you can't explain what you've just studied then do you really know what you've
00:24:19.360studied you know what i mean like you have to have a goal in order to be no but see the goal
00:24:24.660but if the goal is self-driven rather than externally, rather than driving for an external
00:24:30.460pat on the head and it's internally driven, meaning I just love history. I sit at home,
00:24:35.100I read books about history. I do history class. I like to study. I do this, I do that. I become
00:24:39.800great at history. Same with skating. I wake up at five o'clock in the morning. I go out and I skate
00:24:44.640and I skate and I skate. Not because, yes, I want to be on a team, but that's not my goal.
00:24:50.640my that's no no I don't think so that's the natural consequence of who I am in my most
00:24:58.960powerful self it has nothing to do with that and you will start to see great players that's
00:25:04.400great players is that that's absolutely not true just because you can have someone who passionately
00:25:10.780loves to skate who wakes up in the morning goes to the rink does all this stuff and has no desire
00:25:16.060to go to the Olympics, has no desire to be on that team. So that person is never, their goal
00:25:20.600is never going to be that. And they can be amazing and immaculate at it. But if that's not their
00:25:25.900goal, then they're never going to be driven towards that. So it's, it's too complete. You're
00:25:31.620having two completely different thoughts. It's just like dancing. There's people who absolutely
00:25:35.300love how to dance. They wake up in the morning. They want to be the best dancer. They love the
00:25:39.340way that it feels when they dance, but they do not want to dance in front of anybody. They do
00:25:43.700not want to be paid to dance. They don't want to be professional dancers. They just love to dance.
00:25:47.820Do you see the difference? But why wouldn't you? I disagree. I think that when you are doing
00:25:54.400something you are passionate about and that you are loved and that is a piece of you,
00:25:58.960the only reason you wouldn't want to make it your career if you possibly could, you wouldn't want
00:26:04.140to make it your world, you wouldn't want to make it sort of the foundational aspect of who you are
00:26:09.820is because of anxiety and you think you won't make the team that's not true i disagree
00:26:15.480i disagree i don't i don't think that you're in the um meteor well because it's funny that i just
00:26:25.220thought of the word in french instead of in english i know you're not in the environment of
00:26:30.560uh having both dealing with both um i deal with recreational kids and i deal with competitive kids
00:26:38.980And even on the competitive kit on the competitive team, there are kids who just love to be there.
00:26:44.640They just love to dance. They love whatever. And they will put their entire passion into it.
00:26:50.320They are fantastic. You're looking at them and you're going to I think you're going to be a professional, you know, dancer.
00:26:57.480You have so much potential. You love it. I see how much you love it. You tell me how much you love it.
00:27:01.480You put all the effort into it. And at the end of the day, they're like, yeah, but I want to go be an engineer.
00:27:05.940yeah but I want to know for those kids I think by the way I think it's quite possible to have
00:27:11.860more than one passion and more than one love so I think before everybody comes at me in the comments
00:27:16.100I think it's possible for a dancer to want to be an engineer I think it's more probable
00:27:19.860because I've seen it happen over 22 years that kid wants to be a dancer wants to be in the arts
00:27:25.980but everybody around them it says never going to happen you're never going to make money you're
00:27:29.400not going to be you're not going to be wealthy enough you're not going to be able to take care
00:27:32.800enough. So you're going to have to be an engineer. Listen, that I'm not saying that that doesn't
00:27:37.100happen. That's anxiety externally driven. It does happen. A hundred percent. It does happen.
00:27:41.420More often than not. Maybe. But what I'm saying is, is the, the example that I am also given right
00:27:47.120now also happens where parents are supportive. Everyone's supportive. Everybody around you is
00:27:52.200like, do it, whatever, blah, blah, blah. And at the end of the day, they don't want to, because
00:27:55.840they just wanted to be good at it and experience it in that moment. Sure. But then they have another
00:28:00.820passion is what i'm saying then they're only then then they have something else that's cool it's
00:28:06.980it's fine to have more than one passion and more than one drive in life i am saying that for the
00:28:13.460most like i watch kids i watch kids who are so good at art and so good at music and so good at
00:28:19.220drama yet they're going to be they're going into economics and i'm like and i don't say it because
00:28:27.220you know, I, I try to gently encourage them to keep doing both. That's the best that I can do
00:28:32.380in that scenario. But you know, parents will sit down and say, yeah, but how are they going to pay
00:28:36.360the bills? Like I said, that does happen. How are they going to pay the bills? For sure. How are
00:28:40.180they going to have a family? How are they going to do this? How are they going to do? Oh my God,
00:28:43.000they're going to move away from me and, and, and I'm not going to be able to control them. They
00:28:45.920want to go to LA without me. What a horrible like that. I'm not, there's a level. I'm not negating
00:28:51.260that that doesn't happen. But that's the vast majority, but it's not. I think it is. There's,
00:28:56.380there's a you're never sitting on the academic side you're you're not sitting on the academic
00:29:02.060side where you know fine you go to dance but all the parents like even the i even know some of the
00:29:09.100kids that you're that you're thinking about right now even in those instances um it still is a
00:29:14.780matter of well i still want to control parents and not out of a negative place by the way parents are
00:29:22.380so interested in making sure that they can control the environment in which by the way that's also
00:29:29.020driven by anxiety because this anxiety one is the worst emotion that we hold on to forever like you
00:29:37.820think it's the worst when you're angry you know 13 years old it's not it's not um my mom has been
00:29:44.780driven by what ifs like the worst case scenario and the funny part is you never prepare for it
00:29:52.380You keep, like, there's scenes in this movie that are so amazing where anxiety kind of plays out what could happen if A doesn't happen, then B, then C, then D, then E, then F, then all of a sudden I die alone and on a park bench.
00:30:10.520And I'm like, oh my God. And she does it so quickly. And A, it hasn't happened. B, it's
00:30:18.540rare, rare, rare to happen. But C, think about how many different externalities that you map
00:30:24.580out in your head. And you're like, what about this? What about this? What about this? They
00:30:27.860never happen. And you wasted all that time and all that energy trying to plan against it and
00:30:34.800then control your life and steer it away from it. What a waste of frigging time. That's true.0.98
00:30:41.300Like what an utter waste of time. And the worst part is, and if you're, you know, in the older
00:30:47.060years, you guys know that you plan for all these externalities and then you get smacked in your
00:30:52.540head by something. All I could think about is like Looney Tunes when the anvil lands on coyote,
00:31:03.440on the coyote it's just like he plans he plans he plans and all of a sudden bam hit with a
00:31:09.380sledgehammer like that's how life works and you think the more and this is why i think you get
00:31:14.360happier as you get older hopefully if you've learned lessons because you recognize you don't
00:31:20.340recognize you can't control the world you recognize you can control anything and you let it go and you
00:31:26.260stop. Yeah. And you stop caring about, or you care less. Um, I think we're just going to have
00:31:34.980to disagree on that other anxiety part. I find it interesting. I just think that anxiety,
00:31:39.800the way that emotion, I think, and maybe in the comments, people will be able to articulate it
00:31:44.560better. There's a healthier emotion that does what anxiety does in order to, in order to push
00:31:52.420you, in order to do things that scare you, in order to do things to their best, in order