Unlearn16: Class is in Session - November 13, 2024


The One Where You RESPECT My Body Will Always Be My Choice

The One Where I Watch The US Vote For Their President The One Where I Chose To Skip Perimenopause

Episode Stats


Length

21 minutes

Words per minute

120.74

Word count

2,536

Sentence count

133

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

sentences flagged

Hate speech

6

sentences flagged


Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 class is in session hey everybody and welcome to unlearn 16 class is in session just me today
00:00:10.560 in my office at school um after the day has been done um i i don't even know where to start today
00:00:20.160 because today took a bit of a turn at school and it's interesting sometimes i try to avoid topics
00:00:28.400 or I won't do certain TikToks because, well, because it makes me too angry. I try not to
00:00:35.220 do things when I'm angry. It's a very Incredible Hulk. So in that vein, following the whole Nick
00:00:43.520 Fuentes, you know, your body, my choice forever podcast, just travesty. I tried to let it go
00:00:53.920 for a minute, not forever, but I just try to put it down because let's be perfectly honest.
00:00:59.760 He obviously said what he said and the internet took care of that. Not that I advocate any of that,
00:01:06.740 but it's not about one person. I guess that's my point. And I sat on him making this comment
00:01:15.020 and I spend a little too much time sometimes on X, and you start to see the onslaught of comments
00:01:26.700 of hatred, of bigotry, of entitlement. To be honest, you start to see the onslaught of threats
00:01:36.580 against women in the United States on the heels of this comment. And even on this platform right
00:01:44.380 now, I have to be very careful, which I find hysterical, but I have to be very careful with
00:01:51.200 the words I use and the descriptors I go into in order to make it palatable, in order to make it
00:01:59.780 acceptable for people to talk about. And what I find hilarious about that is that we're constantly
00:02:08.720 shifting our language to things like S.A. rather than saying what it really is. You know, the word
00:02:17.580 people are saying grape. And I've always found it annoying and offensive that we've had to adjust
00:02:28.080 our language. Now, some people adjust their language so it doesn't trigger those who have 0.51
00:02:33.200 been victimized. That I understand. But I also, I mean, it's not like I know, oh, so many people
00:02:39.980 who have been victimized, but I know a lot. And the word doesn't bother them. You know what
00:02:47.960 bothers them? The lack of justice. That's what bothers them. And that's what should be bothering
00:02:55.520 us, the lack of accountability, the lack of justice. When you go on a platform like X
00:03:04.180 and you're making these horrific statements to women on the heels of abortion laws in the United
00:03:12.980 States, on the heels of state laws, trying to claw back rights of women, what they have over
00:03:21.460 their own body. The idea that a president can be elected, whether you like him or hate him,
00:03:28.060 I don't care. But on the tail of that, on the tail of that, rather than have people
00:03:35.520 excited about maybe a new page, excited about a new presidency, it seems as though
00:03:40.880 there's an entire group of people that are just excited to spread their vitriol because space
00:03:50.220 has been made available for them to do so. What? What? Now, I know some of you are going to say,
00:03:57.900 yeah, but guys like Nick and these absolute, you know, bucket heads of people have been kicked off
00:04:04.160 major platforms. Well, they still have access, guys. They still have access on different
00:04:09.600 platforms. My question is, why are we putting a leash on the justice system? Why are we putting 0.67
00:04:19.020 a leash on cyber police? Why are we putting a leash and a limitation on the other side? 0.72
00:04:29.100 If I'm going to be talking about SA, if I'm going to be talking about the real life statistics of
00:04:33.900 25% of women by the age of 21 have experienced a significant SA in their lifetime,
00:04:40.640 when I'm talking about that, why do I have to change my wording? To make it palatable for who?
00:04:49.020 So today it kind of, I shifted, right?
00:04:51.720 So today I was in my History 10 class and kids came in and were talking about things
00:05:01.260 like Nick's video and things like the reactions and what we are seeing being written on X
00:05:08.720 and the access, these anonymous, tiny little men, I would say boys, they're
00:05:19.020 the threats they are making in a world where there is no excuse, there is no reason, there is no
00:05:29.460 legitimate way that a woman can get access to bodily autonomy and healthcare in certain states 0.96
00:05:37.380 that have banned it, regardless of things like incest or essay. So you have men now typing out
00:05:45.020 things like, cool, I can just pick the mother of my kids, whether she wants to or not.
00:05:52.100 Guys, how is that not a threat? How is that not violence? Are we not all stipulating having an
00:06:02.040 opinion is one thing, but can we all agree that that's violent? Can we all agree that that's the
00:06:10.480 kind of threat it's not new you are not allowed to make threats against people and their person
00:06:21.680 it is illegal it is a crime how is it not being extended to this community
00:06:29.120 is it because they can't track them down i think they can especially on x
00:06:34.720 i think if you're going to have a social media platform it doesn't need to be published
00:06:38.400 that it's you and whatever, but it needs to be traced back to you. Absolutely. So if you say
00:06:46.140 something like this, if you break the law, it is very easy to hold you accountable.
00:06:52.960 I think if these little boys are going to say such things, they should say it with their full
00:06:56.500 chest, with their video camera on, in front of their boss, in front of their mother.
00:07:02.580 you know i had a room full of 15 year old girls and boys
00:07:09.820 talking about how could this be the case now
00:07:14.300 they talked about consent these kids they talked about about protecting women they talked about
00:07:23.400 educating men they talked you know sometimes roughly in the sense that they don't always
00:07:32.560 say the perfect thing they don't always know how to phrase it and they sometimes want to ask
00:07:38.960 questions that can come off as being flat out just i mean i don't want to say flat out wrong
00:07:51.520 i want to say they just come out rough right and my job is to answer them and to redirect and make
00:08:00.160 sure that they know how to have these big hard conversations without sounding accusatory without
00:08:06.720 sounding discriminatory without sounding aggressive in any way shape or form but
00:08:11.680 it's fair to ask the questions it is fair to have the conversation
00:08:19.520 you know i think i've lived through teaching for the last 22 years and i have over overseen many
00:08:27.200 many a debate about abortion, many a debate. You know what I oversee? Intelligent, educated young
00:08:37.720 people who have an opinion, but still carry themselves with respect and reverence to other
00:08:47.060 people in that room. And when you start weaponizing your beliefs, or you start weaponizing the law,
00:08:57.200 in order to put women in their place, in order to keep women down, in order to manipulate
00:09:05.420 the domestic growth of a population, you're now oppressing.
00:09:17.340 You're now enacting the very repressive things we have shed off years ago.
00:09:25.880 Now, let's be honest. It hasn't been that long, right? It really hasn't been that long that women's rights, full women's rights, haven't even been legally achieved.
00:09:39.900 property rights, voting rights, running for office rights, working rights, 0.79
00:09:49.560 maternity rights. Can you imagine a society that we don't make space for women to have, 1.00
00:09:57.260 or anybody actually, to have and bear life? Are we okay? Are we okay when we don't make space for
00:10:07.320 that? Are we okay when we don't make economic and social and, and cultural adjustments in order to
00:10:14.700 allow for those individuals to bring life in this world? You know, you can go into so many deep sort
00:10:23.560 of caverns of why, why is it controlled? Why, why externally? Why, why is, is women, their bodily
00:10:35.180 autonomy at such a high, high debate? Well, I think for a very long time, access and entitlement 0.79
00:10:42.700 was our culture. And to some degree, I think we're still there. I think very often we speak
00:10:52.620 very passionately about ending racism, about ending classism, about fighting for the environment,
00:11:01.020 about, you know, fighting anti-Semitism and Islamophobia.
00:11:07.080 And all of that is important.
00:11:09.020 But at some point, I feel like we've put down
00:11:12.200 the whole trying to eliminate and fight sexism thing.
00:11:18.160 We've said, well, we're done.
00:11:19.880 It's over, right? 1.00
00:11:22.360 Feminism has become a four-letter word. 1.00
00:11:26.320 The fight is over?
00:11:28.300 Is it, guys?
00:11:31.020 Spend 10 minutes on X. I don't think you think it is. Right. And I think I do understand that these anonymous men, and it's not all anonymous, to be honest with you, but the ones making horrific threats, they're anonymous, right?
00:11:52.560 um because with a blue check mark does come accountability so if you're going to make a
00:11:58.040 direct threat it's a much easier thing for the police to do this is a community that's sort of
00:12:04.240 grown but they are very very very loud and they're very loud because their content just like on any
00:12:11.280 other social media platform denotes constant interaction and the more interaction it gets
00:12:18.280 the higher up the platform it goes and the more views and the more controversy and the more and
00:12:23.860 the more and the more. So we have this unrealistic heightened, um, focus on this group of individuals.
00:12:36.420 But I don't think you guys understand, like I've taught young girls and guys
00:12:44.600 who have gone through some horrible things.
00:12:49.320 And now we're sitting at a time
00:12:51.520 in which we are finally starting to talk about it,
00:12:57.580 stand up against it,
00:12:58.900 and we are hit with this wave
00:13:03.620 of how do we control their bodies further?
00:13:09.920 my your body my choice
00:13:16.580 the empowerment of this individual to say that in public is my issue he's an absolute disaster
00:13:29.540 listen nobody is more broken than this kid to to be honest he should be evaluated by a medical
00:13:36.660 professional. One person isn't my fear. My fear is that he speaks for quite a few
00:13:46.260 and in a state of fear, desperation, anger, and rage, and in a new political environment
00:13:56.720 where this is allowed to be said under the guise of free speech,
00:14:06.660 We forget that when we don't hold people accountable,
00:14:11.460 when we don't make sure that they own what they've said,
00:14:14.620 when we don't put them in a room,
00:14:17.300 stand toe to toe and have them say it to our face,
00:14:21.040 they become emboldened.
00:14:22.540 And the more emboldened they become,
00:14:24.380 the more dangerous they are.
00:14:31.040 I will have as many conversations with my students as possible.
00:14:34.440 They are empathetic. They are intelligent. They sometimes can be messy, but they understand and
00:14:46.740 they believe in basic human rights afforded to everybody on this planet. And they're not going
00:14:54.980 to stand by while other people decide what makes them feel better and how they're allowed to
00:15:03.380 control others. There's no more important lesson that I will ever teach than that one. None.
00:15:15.360 I think that those conversations, having them in our educational institutions,
00:15:22.200 is perhaps the single most important thing we could ever do. Understanding what basic human
00:15:30.780 rights look like, understanding how to stand up for them, both in the classroom and out of the
00:15:34.800 classroom, understanding who you are as a person and how you walk through this world is an ethical
00:15:42.660 representation of you, your family, your education, of the system in which you live.
00:15:50.320 And watching this onslaught, watching this wave of misogyny, watching this wave of hatred and anger
00:15:59.540 is essential.
00:16:05.740 Don't you dare look away.
00:16:08.540 Don't you dare turn your head.
00:16:12.080 Don't you dare ignore
00:16:14.040 the damage that this could cause.
00:16:20.240 Now, in no way, shape, or form
00:16:21.800 am I sitting here saying that
00:16:23.040 everybody on one side of the aisle
00:16:25.000 wants to cause harm.
00:16:27.320 What I am saying is, when you hide behind the guise of free speech, and you allow anyone to say anything, even if it breaks the law, even if it threatens personal and physical safety, you are part of a situation, you are part of a problem that is creating a new culture that is incredibly dangerous.
00:16:56.040 because I'm also going to say this.
00:16:57.700 There's only so hard you can push those people.
00:17:03.640 Right?
00:17:04.860 You saw what happened to Nick's home.
00:17:08.080 Do I think that's right?
00:17:09.560 No, of course not.
00:17:11.020 Is it just escalating a problem?
00:17:12.620 Sure.
00:17:13.940 But here we go.
00:17:16.420 Here we go.
00:17:18.400 If we don't have rule of law,
00:17:20.760 if we don't have civility,
00:17:23.200 If we don't understand that threats of violence and control of people's body isn't at the root of all civil rights protests, you will escalate everything.
00:17:39.040 And you'll find out just how powerful that other side is.
00:17:45.040 In my opinion, the right should have disavowed these individuals a long time ago.
00:17:52.020 Right?
00:17:53.200 I'll tell you, if somebody was walking around with a hair shirt on, spouting, your body, my choice, you don't think she would disavow that?
00:18:10.140 And if she didn't, I hold no respect for them either.
00:18:15.900 Let's be really clear.
00:18:18.680 This is a bit of a movement, and it's been happening for a while. 0.98
00:18:23.200 And these incel boys who feel alienated from their jobs, from women, from their families, from friends, who sit in the basement playing video games their whole lives are angry, have no social skills, have no ways of communicating, no realistic, viable ways that make any sense. 0.90
00:18:46.940 and now you've given them a platform like X 0.99
00:18:50.240 where they can say anything that comes into their head
00:18:52.380 at any given moment notice
00:18:53.840 and sometimes they're met with rage and other times
00:18:56.500 and to be honest, a lot of the time now
00:18:58.320 they're being met with, yes, you go, guy.
00:19:03.600 Well, now we have a problem.
00:19:06.400 It's not something we can't solve.
00:19:08.220 It's not something that's so insurmountable
00:19:11.120 but I'll be damned if I sit quietly by.
00:19:13.840 I'll be damned if I turn my head.
00:19:16.940 and I'll be damned if I don't teach my students and have constant conversations with them
00:19:23.880 so that they feel empowered, they feel strong, and they know it is their job in this world to
00:19:31.100 make it better. Not just do right, not just speak right, but act right in this world when you see
00:19:39.360 wrong being done. That's what I'm demanding. That's what everybody should be demanding.
00:19:46.940 And the more we do that, the more we take our power back, the more we hold people actually accountable for the violence that they spew and they create and they muster, the more we will take this world back.
00:20:09.400 so
00:20:12.880 in closing
00:20:14.680 don't go knock on anybody's door
00:20:17.260 but in all fairness 1.00
00:20:22.160 a citizen shouldn't have
00:20:24.060 knocked it next door
00:20:25.620 the police
00:20:27.720 should have
00:20:28.760 and they should have arrested him
00:20:31.440 on the spot
00:20:32.980 for the kind of violence
00:20:36.160 hatred
00:20:37.260 and threats he has been making on the internet forever.
00:20:43.820 And the fact they didn't do their job
00:20:46.340 is actually the problem.
00:20:53.520 See you guys next week.
00:20:55.840 Same bat time, same bat channel.
00:20:59.360 Dismissed. 1.00