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00:00:00.000 Hello, and welcome to Vulgar History, a feminist women's history comedy podcast. My name is
00:00:15.400 Anne Foster, and this is a special episode. So last week, we were revisiting the 2020
00:00:24.120 episode from about Cleopatra. That was an episode from almost five years ago. It was,
00:00:31.780 it came out in February, 2020, just pre COVID. And it was one of the first episodes of Vulgar
00:00:39.440 History. And the score I gave to Cleopatra was maybe not what I would give her now. And it was
00:00:46.700 worth revisiting. And so I approached my friend, friend of the podcast, Gina Berry,
00:00:52.100 to see if she would come on to just like reassess Cleopatra in terms of the scoring. And I should
00:00:58.100 have known better by now. Um, when Gina and I get to talking, it's not just a quick five minute,
00:01:05.460 let's reassess our score. It became a whole episode of its own. And so I'm playing you.
00:01:10.360 It's kind of like our response, her response. She listened to the Cleopatra episode,
00:01:14.880 which she did help me with the research of back in, in 2020 as well. And so it's just kind of
00:01:20.300 conversation between her and I and talking about Cleopatra and in the context of of everything
00:01:26.120 everything just in the context of everything so it's myself Gina Berry who I know so many
00:01:32.900 listeners I get I never get as many kind messages and reviews of the podcast as when Gina is on I
00:01:41.260 know you all love her so I'm happy to bring her back on again talking about another Egyptian
00:01:46.160 queen. If you love this episode with Gina, go back and listen to, she was on before for very
00:01:51.840 lengthy episodes talking about Nefertiti and talking about Hatshepsut as well. And I'm sure
00:01:55.800 she'll be on numerous times in the future as well. But anyway, this is myself and Gina Barry,
00:02:00.620 just like talking about Cleopatra, Mark Anthony's thighs, just kind of like the whole,
00:02:08.120 the whole situation. And ultimately, ultimately at the end of it, reassessing where Cleopatra
00:02:12.680 lands on this podcast's Scandaliciousness Scale.
00:02:16.880 So enjoy.
00:02:21.880 So this is a re-evaluation of Cleopatra.
00:02:26.400 And I couldn't do that without Gina Berry,
00:02:28.820 who is, you're an expert of ancient Egypt,
00:02:33.520 but also Roman history.
00:02:34.700 And Cleopatra is like both.
00:02:37.360 So this is where, this is in your bones.
00:02:39.840 Like, you know this stuff.
00:02:40.820 So I had to bring you on.
00:02:41.840 i always say that i'm i'm really dangerous because i know a little about a lot and a lot
00:02:49.640 about a little so there's always going to be some random fact that's going to pop up in my head like
00:02:54.320 oh yeah but then so well no exactly it's like when the um that trailer came out for that new
00:03:00.160 show with julianne moore and you were like wait which king is this and i'm like oh this is where
00:03:04.780 I can help you.
00:03:06.240 Exactly.
00:03:07.320 I know a lot about this minutiae and this like random era.
00:03:11.800 Yeah, that's where I can step in.
00:03:13.160 But all the ancient Egypt stuff, I'm just like, oh my gosh, there's like, everyone is called Cleopatra.
00:03:18.240 When you're trying to read up about her ancestors, it's like, oh, they're all called Cleopatra and Ptolemy.
00:03:23.040 Just like, and it's like 300 years.
00:03:24.860 You know, at the same point, you've got in English history, you've got Mary, you've got Anne, you've got Catherine.
00:03:31.580 You know, they didn't vary too often.
00:03:33.900 It's a similar thing. I'll tell you, I've just started reading some stuff about like the American Revolution era. And I'm just like, thank you, because you've got like Theodosia and Hercules and just like everyone's got like a great name and I can tell them apart. And I appreciate that. Thank you, American history.
00:03:50.360 Yes, that is very helpful.
00:03:52.380 But yeah, so there's two major things that I really want to talk with you about for this recording.
00:03:57.280 So one of them is at the end of this, we're going to reevaluate Cleopatra's score because I messed up.
00:04:03.520 Like in my the only defense I have is that was like one of my earliest episodes.
00:04:09.900 And I didn't know kind of who would land where and what numbers people are going to get.
00:04:14.400 And now that I've done so many more, it's like, no, this is not where she belongs.
00:04:17.620 She what was I doing?
00:04:19.120 So you're here to help with that, to right that wrong. But also, also, and this is what you and I talk about all the time, you know, those reconstructions of like, here's what this person really looked like. And here's what this. And there was all of that discourse when the, um, the Netflix show about Cleopatra presenting her as a black woman came out. And so I really want to talk about that and what did she look like and that sort of stuff as well.
00:04:43.100 Because, you know, I always have ideas.
00:04:45.300 exactly exactly i think we were messaging a lot during that era but yeah that's the other thing
00:04:53.080 with my podcast i'm trying to be like have themes and like stick to it but i'm just like what about
00:04:57.900 this and i suddenly start reading about some i told him doing the american revolution right now
00:05:02.280 but i'm just like oh but what about if i read about this like biblical era like africa anyway
00:05:07.360 so i'm always reading about different things as my attention gets waivers and i was reading about
00:05:11.680 someone else i won't say who because i haven't done the episode yet but it was the it was a
00:05:15.900 they really explained how in like the bc era in the like zero and like before then and even after
00:05:26.000 then it wasn't so much about like there wasn't a race right there wasn't that wasn't a thing it
00:05:30.280 was more like are you from here or are you from there it's like what country are you from like
00:05:34.760 where are your people it's not about so to go back and to retroactively say like well
00:05:39.480 this person was a black person or whatever it's like or even a white person it's like no because
00:05:45.180 they didn't think like that they just thought like are you a royal are you important or are you like
00:05:50.760 a peasant in the fields and what are you from rome or like that was it they weren't there wasn't the
00:05:57.480 other thing that was the race so already right away to look at cleopatra through this lens is
00:06:02.620 like okay okay this is challenging and it's it's interesting you bring that up because if you think
00:06:07.840 about historians from Greece, from Rome, they were very detailed in how they recorded things.
00:06:15.900 Granted, we all know they wrote the history the way they wanted it to be remembered,
00:06:20.500 but they did pay attention to details. And no one that I know of ever talked about
00:06:28.740 the hue of her skin. And if that was really important to them, they would have, because,
00:06:35.440 I mean, they always wanted to go along the lines of, oh, she was this, she was that, she was something else.
00:06:39.620 If they really had an issue with the color of a person's skin, they would have used that to back their ideas of, oh, she was this, she was that, she was something else.
00:06:49.300 Because we all know that certain hues are viewed differently.
00:06:54.040 And so if they, I'm not saying she didn't have any pigment, because let's be honest.
00:06:59.280 um every every documentary you read even your previous podcast you talked about how it was
00:07:07.040 likely that um there was some actual egyptian dna mixed up in there and to think that there wasn't
00:07:14.160 you're just being naive that that's just that's not how it worked you know the royals did who
00:07:20.800 they wanted and there was going to be some egyptian women in there somewhere so it's
00:07:26.080 possibility she did have some Egyptian DNA. But just looking at the region that she lived in
00:07:32.040 alone, she's not going to be pale. She's underneath that blistering Egyptian sun all the time. Now
00:07:41.520 granted, she's not working in fields, so she wouldn't be as dark as someone like that, just 1.00
00:07:45.380 like American slavery. If you worked in the house, you were going to be lighter than someone that 1.00
00:07:50.280 worked in the field. She would be a little lighter than someone that was constantly out in the sun, 0.63
00:07:54.960 But she still lived in a region where she would have a little bit darker skin tone, not maybe as dark as even me.
00:08:01.780 And I'm not really that dark. But, you know, she she wouldn't have been like.
00:08:06.820 They wouldn't have never looked at her and thought, oh, she's a Nubian. 0.91
00:08:09.540 You could definitely tell she was Egyptian to a certain point, but she's not going to have pale skin, but she's not going to have dark skin.
00:08:16.220 Either way, if it was important to anyone, they would have mentioned it.
00:08:20.460 Caesar probably would have looked at her differently.
00:08:24.020 Antony probably would have looked at her differently.
00:08:25.580 Octavian absolutely would have used that to his advantage.
00:08:28.400 So it's all about region.
00:08:30.960 It's all about country. 0.69
00:08:32.580 It's all about, like you said, are you Roman?
00:08:35.720 Are you Assyrian?
00:08:37.740 Are you Egyptian?
00:08:39.600 Are you Greek?
00:08:40.680 That was it. 1.00
00:08:42.340 They didn't care about anything else.
00:08:43.640 Even within Roman society, they didn't necessarily look at, are you Jewish?
00:08:49.280 You know, they they didn't really care about that as much as are you an actual Roman citizen?
00:08:55.560 You can be a plebeian. You can be part of the upper echelon. Doesn't matter.
00:08:59.500 Are you an Egyptian citizen? If you are, this is how your life's going to go. 1.00
00:09:04.620 Whether you have money or not, they didn't care. He just wanted to know, are you a Roman citizen? 0.56
00:09:09.880 And it's kind of the same in Egypt, I think that they I mean, and this is just based off of.
00:09:16.640 not necessarily I study more further back in BC but at this point in BC it was more of are you
00:09:24.480 an Egyptian citizen or are you a Roman citizen they really looked at it the same way I think
00:09:28.900 but I'm probably getting ahead of myself about what I'm about to actually say so no I don't
00:09:33.620 think that I wouldn't say that by our standards we would call her a black woman based on how we view
00:09:40.280 skin tone um but i don't believe she would have been as pearly white as the romans that were 0.78
00:09:46.800 roaming around the streets either even given her greek heritage you know sorry yeah no well and 1.00
00:09:52.440 that's two things firstly like obviously you know you don't have 300 years of incestual
00:09:58.680 brother sister marriages and continue that family line like that family line is gonna die out if
00:10:04.400 you're not introducing someone else right but at the same point it's like if everyone i just
00:10:10.860 remember someone said this on like twitter or something when all the discourse was happening
00:10:14.640 like if any historical person that we can kind of know what their skin tone probably was it's
00:10:22.500 like cleopatra like the woman who's the result of 300 years of incest like even if there's some
00:10:29.340 and there had to have been like her father was illegitimate like there was some egyptian people
00:10:33.500 in there it's like yeah but every generation like her family tree is like a straight line
00:10:39.000 like there's not a really but like you said you know if whatever her skin tone was it didn't
00:10:46.220 that wasn't what was important to the haters like every record we have of hers from the roman men
00:10:51.500 who hated everything about her and they would have if that mattered to them they would have
00:10:56.520 said something so whether she had dark skin or how dark her skin was didn't matter in her life 0.99
00:11:03.480 time to the people who are trying to talk shit about her right so applying a modern lens to that 0.73
00:11:10.460 is i don't know like that's why it's worth talking about i think but also 0.52
00:11:15.520 and i didn't look into this of like why why people started thinking this and i don't know
00:11:21.960 if it's like egypt is part of africa like that was this series on netflix like queens of africa
00:11:27.280 and when it was first announced i'm like oh this is great like i can learn about some new people
00:11:30.980 like maybe i can do podcasts about them or something and egypt is part of africa but it's
00:11:35.060 often thought of more as like the middle east sort of thing right it's in africa but the historically 0.74
00:11:41.960 culturally i think and you would know better than i would the people who lived there weren't as dark
00:11:48.360 complexioned as people from like nubia and like other places further south you look at um so you
00:11:56.160 look at uh most of the you gotta look at the relation of how close do you live to the equator
00:12:02.400 really um you're going to be a little darker in the southern parts of wherever than you are going
00:12:09.320 to be in the northern parts like i said i'm not overly dark i was born and raised in minnesota
00:12:15.160 there's no sunlight in minnesota most of the time it's usually raining or snowing so i'm even if
00:12:22.360 Even if I wasn't of mixed race, I probably would have been a little bit lighter.
00:12:26.700 If I spent any amount of time in the south, I come back a whole shade darker.
00:12:31.040 That's just the way it is pertaining to how close you are to the equator.
00:12:35.700 Wherever you're going to be, where it's going to be warmer, you're going to be darker. 0.90
00:12:39.080 It's going to be warmer where Sudan, typically Nubia, was. 0.97
00:12:44.320 They're naturally going to be darker. 0.77
00:12:45.940 You're way further north in Egypt.
00:12:48.200 You're not getting as much sun.
00:12:49.980 You're going to naturally be lighter.
00:12:51.300 Plus, like you said, a lot of times people look at that more as a Middle East thing. And another thing that you got to kind of take into consideration, too, is Egypt was conquered by a number of people.
00:13:03.080 Yes. And ruled by said people for a number of years at each time.
00:13:10.160 Well, again, just like saying that there there's you'd have to be naive to think there wasn't some sort of Egyptian DNA in Cleopatra. 0.69
00:13:18.840 You'd have to be naive to think that there wasn't some cross mixing while they were or being occupied by whoever it was that came after them. 0.92
00:13:28.360 And typically, with the exception of when the Nubians took over, everyone that came and occupied them was a little bit lighter than they were. 0.98
00:13:37.480 So you're going to get that lightening of the skin. 0.94
00:13:40.820 So I think that has something to do, just personal theory, I think that has something to do with a little bit lighter tone in the Egyptian race because that one might have got watered down a little bit during some of these occupations. 0.85
00:13:55.100 Yeah. So Egypt, even today, is kind of almost looked at as its own entity. They really considered themselves that way back then. It's a fact. Ancient Egypt really surely believed that they were above everyone else around them.
00:14:15.880 And it's not just Egypt that thought that about themselves. Rome thought that about themselves. Greece thought that about themselves. So whoever has a larger populace is going to automatically think we're gods on earth.
00:14:28.260 So, over the years, I think people have started, kind of felt like they were looking at Egypt as really not necessarily being African, not necessarily being Middle Eastern, it's just Egypt. It's just Egypt.
00:14:45.720 And so I think that contributed to a lot of the discourse that happened when that show came out of them. 0.71
00:14:54.080 And the young lady they used for Cleopatra wasn't even that dark.
00:14:58.380 She's a little darker than me, but not really by much.
00:15:02.680 So they really didn't use, I mean, they could have had some, they could have used Viola Davis.
00:15:08.800 Then people would have really had an issue with that. 0.91
00:15:11.940 But the young lady they used wasn't even that dark. 1.00
00:15:14.600 But still, it turned into the way we view skin color, that's a Black woman. And that wasn't acceptable because it has always been thought that Cleopatra, being of Macedonian descent, would just automatically have no pigment. 0.95
00:15:34.420 I honestly don't really have I can't say that I believe she was black I can't say I believe she 0.95
00:15:42.340 was just white I I just think that she had the skin tone of the typical person that lived in 0.85
00:15:50.740 Egypt at that time just unless you're just full full blood Egyptian you're going to be a little 0.91
00:15:56.280 darker but I think she just had the skin tone of people at that time which is why again beside the 0.69
00:16:02.900 fact that they didn't really view skin tone as that important but i just think that's why they
00:16:07.200 didn't say anything about it i think that's why they just didn't use it to try to push any other
00:16:12.380 narrative because she just kind of blended in i think well and then i think it's so interesting
00:16:17.880 i think when i did this episode i sent you the link to the one about cleopatra's daughter
00:16:22.300 cleopatra selene and how she like she was taken in by rome and then she was married to like a
00:16:28.580 nubian prince and then they went to they went back to africa and like they clearly had children
00:16:35.160 like those would be mixed race children you know like that's technically yeah yeah like in terms 0.94
00:16:40.700 of skin tone she probably but um um little cleo would have been pretty light absolutely she probably 1.00
00:16:48.520 would not have had any sort of african features whatsoever um considering you know cleopatra 1.00
00:16:55.000 probably didn't have a whole lot and obviously Anthony wouldn't have any so Selene would have 1.00
00:17:01.140 would have just appeared to be I think Roman I think she just she just would have I mean if she 0.53
00:17:06.660 was walking in the streets of Rome she would have blended in perfectly I think that was the story
00:17:12.240 where um I found that's where it sort of cemented for me the fact that it was all about nationality
00:17:18.240 versus like skin tone or race like the fact that she was from Egypt and she was kind of looked down
00:17:23.280 upon because of her like cultural beliefs and stuff so then she kind of suppressed those
00:17:27.560 until she was able to come back to Egypt and so like to her being Egyptian wasn't about what she
00:17:32.740 looked like it was about architecture it was about just like the way that the city so and the fact
00:17:39.200 that the I forget which emperor was at that point Augustus I guess because he was there forever
00:17:43.840 who took in like this Nubian captive prince and then was like okay you're Roman now and everyone's
00:17:48.560 like okay he's Roman now and like and he was like a dark-skinned person and it's like yeah he's Roman
00:17:52.160 Like that was just that narrative kind of showed me like, OK, that this was not it was about where were you from?
00:17:58.740 What are your cultural beliefs? Not about what's your skin tone?
00:18:02.240 It's all about culture, girl. All about culture. And so that's the thing.
00:18:05.420 I think that's where as society started, I hate to even use the word progress because I don't think society has progressed.
00:18:13.380 But just as the years went on, it stopped being about culture.
00:18:16.920 Um, and I think that happened when, um, more and more people became ballsy and trying to move in
00:18:25.180 to conquer other areas. Um, you know, look at, um, the Norse people, they, they went, they went 0.99
00:18:34.060 and tried to conquer France. They, I mean, they did a whole lot of things. See, I told you, I know
00:18:37.780 a little bit or a lot. I think they went in and obviously they're going to bring their culture
00:18:44.200 with them. So when it comes time to people rising back up or after being oppressed for a while,
00:18:51.160 cultures probably start to blend. And that's why you don't have, you know, places like China and 0.62
00:18:58.720 Japan, they have very deep culture that goes back centuries. So because they weren't conquered like
00:19:06.200 that, they weren't forced to assimilate to any other culture. I think that's why culture has
00:19:13.480 stopped being so important to a lot of people is because there's just been so much intermingling
00:19:20.660 of cultures. How can you really say this specifically is my culture? Because I'm a
00:19:28.520 Black American and a mixed race Black American at that. So there are a number of people that are
00:19:35.740 African from whatever country within that continent that would not look at me as having
00:19:43.180 any kind of claim towards African culture, because they don't view me as African in any way.
00:19:51.180 I'm a mixed race, Black American. That's it. They're not claiming me. So for me to say, oh,
00:19:59.740 it's culture. What culture am I claiming? I mean, especially being of mixed race,
00:20:05.180 what culture am I claiming? And I think that happened to a lot of areas when they started
00:20:09.760 getting conquered is culture just kind of faded. And so it's interesting that Selene wanted to hold
00:20:17.580 on to that because the culture is what worked against her mother. The culture is what she 1.00
00:20:24.300 would have been basically harassed for growing up. And the culture is also something that she
00:20:31.280 hadn't been a part of in how many years? Because she was younger when she was taken from Egypt
00:20:36.440 and brought to live with Octavia.
00:20:39.640 So it was surprising to me when I heard about her,
00:20:44.420 you know, erecting some of the architecture
00:20:47.380 that resembled what was in Egypt and whatnot. 0.79
00:20:50.400 I mean, kudos to her for trying to hang on to her culture 0.90
00:20:53.980 because most people would have been like, 0.94
00:20:56.420 let me not do that because that's not worked well
00:20:59.700 for my family in the past. 0.89
00:21:01.820 Well, and that's the thing with Selene too.
00:21:03.860 I talked about it in that episode.
00:21:05.040 I'm just remembering like the woman who she wrote, it's the first ever biography ever
00:21:09.440 because no one's ever put all this stuff together.
00:21:11.380 But one of the reasons we don't know a lot about her is because she kept her head down.
00:21:15.660 Like she was sent off to this province of Rome and she was just like, 0.80
00:21:20.380 the fact that she's Cleopatra's daughter, I'm sure everybody was waiting for her to do something scandalous. 0.97
00:21:24.660 Oh yeah.
00:21:25.040 So the fact that we don't know anything when she would have been like micro observed constantly
00:21:29.940 just means like she learned from her mother.
00:21:31.820 It's like, okay, here's what I can get away with.
00:21:33.460 Here's what I can't get away with.
00:21:35.040 which just really shows that it's it's the sort of people in history where it's like, yeah,
00:21:39.500 we don't know a lot of details, but we know that she was like queen of this place for like
00:21:42.460 decades and decades. So clearly she was good. She's good enough that the Romans weren't like,
00:21:48.020 look at this mess, like Cleopatra, just like her mother or whatever. Like, 1.00
00:21:52.300 so that's so intriguing. And they would have, they would have done that quickly if she tried to
00:21:58.580 rise up in any way. Um, and I remember on your previous podcast, you mentioned Zenobia that 0.80
00:22:07.140 she wrecked shop with, with those Romans and it's, there's not a whole lot written about her.
00:22:14.780 And I, we all know how back in the day, um, if something happened in, in, in ancient Egypt and 0.94
00:22:22.380 they didn't like you they would literally chisel you off the walls so i mean like literally chisel 0.75
00:22:29.660 you off a wall and so i think that what happened with xenobia and probably even selene is things
00:22:36.120 that didn't look favorable for the roman empire were destroyed because i mean let's be honest it
00:22:42.440 was all written on scrolls and or able to be chiseled away yeah it wasn't the internet back
00:22:49.740 then where once it's on the internet, it's there forever. So it's really easy to erase someone or
00:22:54.940 something that they did from history. And I think that happened with those two young ladies.
00:23:00.380 And that's where someone like, why do you think Cleopatra's story, like the main Cleopatra,
00:23:07.640 who I was even surprised. I'm like, wait, Cleopatra the seventh or whatever. I'm like,
00:23:11.780 there was other Cleopatras. Anyway, why do you think she, why her story continues and has
00:23:18.140 always been so famous when she like is it like the Romans couldn't erase what she did because it was
00:23:25.060 so impactful because you'd think they would that would be the first name they'd want to chisel out 0.71
00:23:30.160 like this woman who like seduced two of our emperors and like raised an army against us 1.00
00:23:35.380 yet we know about her and we still care about her like why do you why do you think that is
00:23:40.300 So let's go back in time to the arrogance of men. I read a story once about a very young Caesar. I want to say he was maybe in his 20s at the time. So he was kind of up and coming in the ranks where he was captured by some pirates.
00:23:57.400 and the entire time that he was um captured by them he tormented them basically um treated them
00:24:05.120 like he had captured them it was only a matter of time before he got out of there and of course
00:24:10.420 you know they they demanded a ransom for him so and the i remember reading that um the the ransom 0.97
00:24:17.140 that they were going to demand he was like that's that's some bullshit that's way too low i'm worth 0.86
00:24:21.660 more than that demand this amount and then they sent the people back to rome to demand the amount 0.97
00:24:27.240 that Caesar felt he was actually worth. And the whole time he was with them, he observed them,
00:24:34.080 he treated them like they were his subordinates, so on and so forth, and ransom was paid, he was
00:24:39.600 released, he went back to Rome, he gathered up an army and a navy, he went back, he captured them,
00:24:47.260 brought them back to Rome, paraded them around, then crucified them all. This man's level of
00:24:53.500 Arrogance had no limit. He wasn't even popular at that time. Not too many people even knew who he
00:24:59.580 was, yet this is how he was conducting himself. So let's look at Octavian now. He grew up around
00:25:07.000 that arrogance. He grew up around this man who basically was larger than life in the Roman
00:25:13.960 society. He's the one that crossed the Rubicon. I mean, you name it, the man had balls the size 0.53
00:25:21.600 of god only knows what he he felt that he could get away with anything octavian grew up seeing 0.97
00:25:27.240 that octavian grew up thinking that about himself because he was part of the julian line and the
00:25:32.080 julian line thought that they were straight from the right hand of god anyways so you've got two 0.71
00:25:39.120 men that are considered to be the end all be all of the ultimate roman male they both and then of 0.74
00:25:47.520 Of course, you know, you got sexy ass Mark Antony in there. 0.93
00:25:50.740 I would really like to see what he actually looked like. 0.95
00:25:52.640 If I go back in time, I want to see if he was really as hot as they thought they were.
00:25:55.420 The way they wrote about him.
00:25:59.180 But you got all these men that are just they're in control and they have egos out of this world.
00:26:10.240 Octavian grew up with that.
00:26:11.420 So you've got all these men that are idolized by all the people in Rome that dealt with this one individual woman. How does she not become a big part of what they write about? Because you've got all these men that are considered to be the ultimate man's man dealing with this woman.
00:26:30.280 this woman has to be talked about because even if they thought that she was a witch or she was
00:26:38.540 using potions, whatever it is they thought about her, they deep down still had to respect the fact
00:26:45.520 that there's something about this woman that cannot be denied. And like you said, you also
00:26:52.480 have to include her because she was a huge part of a whole pivot in Roman society. So
00:27:01.180 there's the whole point in time where they were withholding the grain. So Rome was basically
00:27:08.260 starving because Cleopatra and Antony were holding back the grain shipments. So just her
00:27:15.300 existence had such a huge impact on the Roman society. There's no way that she couldn't be
00:27:21.000 considered important to their overall history there was just no way to ignore her you can try
00:27:28.000 to erase whatever you want but this woman was larger in life whether they wanted to admit it 1.00
00:27:32.560 or not and so fine we can't get rid of the bitch let's just write her the way we want her to be 1.00
00:27:37.500 kind of thing i think yeah but then what's funny about that is they're like this bitch and they're 0.99
00:27:43.120 talking about her and i think from a pretty early point people are like oh my god she sounds amazing 0.90
00:27:47.500 And they're like, no, no, no, no, no.
00:27:49.140 We're saying she's terrible.
00:27:50.220 We're saying she's like, that's not how I'm reading this.
00:27:53.980 Like the stuff that they're talking about.
00:27:55.780 I was like, that sounds great.
00:27:56.860 Everything you're talking about.
00:27:57.740 I'm like, good for her.
00:28:00.700 Yeah.
00:28:01.100 It's funny that she's, she's so well-known.
00:28:03.480 Like that's like, God, I forget who I was talking about.
00:28:06.780 But anyway, just like the young, young generation, if you'd say to them the name of like any
00:28:11.360 historical person, like, I don't know.
00:28:12.840 But if you say Cleopatra, like everyone knows Cleopatra.
00:28:15.600 Right.
00:28:15.720 because i study nefertiti a lot and um i say the name nefertiti either they have no idea who she is
00:28:24.160 or they only know oh isn't that that one statue oh my god it's not a statue it's a bust but do
00:28:30.620 you even know where it is yeah no okay so there are a lot of of quote-unquote popular women but
00:28:40.200 she is the one that has stood the test of time. And I think that's just because she is the one 1.00
00:28:48.500 the Romans wrote about the most. And I think that she just really gave them no other choice but to
00:28:53.160 write about her. They wrote about her in the way that they wanted to, but they still wrote about
00:28:56.880 her. And we all know, I believe back then, the language would have been Coptic in Egypt.
00:29:06.040 not a whole lot of people knew that language and it is really very scarcely used today um but latin
00:29:15.400 is what um rome used we can still speak latin we can read latin so we can read everything understand
00:29:22.800 everything that they talked about there might be some hieroglyphs somewhere that talk about
00:29:27.220 cleopatra because i know um i think i even the red or heard something that the egyptians didn't
00:29:33.060 really write about her. I think that there probably are some hieroglyphs somewhere that
00:29:38.340 exist somewhere because they wouldn't just go just not write about her at all. I mean, she was
00:29:45.000 pharaoh. There's just no way you don't write about this woman. I just either they don't understand
00:29:51.300 today's researchers don't understand what they're reading or they just haven't found it yet.
00:29:56.260 But I do think there is, again, personal theory, I do think there are some writings about her by the Egyptians, or maybe they were all in the library that burnt down, which I think was purposely burnt down.
00:30:12.540 But that's, again, my theory.
00:30:14.760 That sounds like an amazing podcast for another day. 0.98
00:30:19.300 But yeah, she's so famous. 0.99
00:30:20.900 She's so well known.
00:30:21.360 And then the other thing, and I talk about this in the podcast, but I want to get your take on it, too. 1.00
00:30:24.700 the whole thing about how the Romans, you know, like they were just being like, this bitch sucks. 1.00
00:30:29.420 She's so awful. Look at all these amazing things she did. But also they never wrote about her 1.00
00:30:34.720 being beautiful. But Cleopatra today is remembered as like the most beautiful woman ever. And what
00:30:42.420 are your thoughts about that whole thing? Going back to Nefertiti, the bust is freaking gorgeous.
00:30:49.780 You don't have any depictions of Cleopatra showing her being a beauty.
00:30:54.360 I've seen some coinage that's had her visage on it.
00:30:57.120 And I'm like, okay.
00:30:59.600 Yeah, yeah.
00:31:00.240 Without the charisma, you're just like, that's just some face.
00:31:03.380 Yeah.
00:31:04.460 And so I think that she was probably just a very average looking young lady because she was so well read. 0.98
00:31:14.900 You know, she could speak multiple languages. 0.68
00:31:16.460 I have no doubt she could write in them as well. She understood politics better than what they
00:31:23.660 thought women should back then. She understood strategy. I would never say that I thought it 0.99
00:31:29.620 was her looks that got her where she got to. It was her mind and her charisma, like you mentioned. 0.50
00:31:37.100 I really truly believe that she, I won't say she learned how to play the game. I want to say she
00:31:43.820 created a whole new section of the game i love that i love that yes and um the game she was
00:31:50.940 basically she was playing chess while everyone else was playing checkers i i think that she was
00:31:56.960 just she was on such a elevated level of intellect that these typical men couldn't help but fall for 0.91
00:32:07.980 it because they're like oh wait a woman that poses a challenge well let me see if i can conquer this
00:32:13.640 Because that's the way men are today. They think of women, they're like, oh, you're a challenge. They think they need to conquer you. Well, you know, when you send them crying with their tails tucked between their legs, they realize you're a bigger challenge than they could handle.
00:32:27.400 So I think the only reason why Cleopatra, not the only reason, two reasons why Cleopatra didn't win.
00:32:34.360 Number one, Caesar was killed.
00:32:36.680 And number two, Antony was a punk.
00:32:41.800 Because she was smarter than both those men put together.
00:32:45.780 Once she lost Caesar, she backed the wrong Roman.
00:32:49.540 But there really wasn't any other Romans for her to back because Octavian clearly was not going to be an option for her.
00:32:55.860 So the, and Lepidus, my God, I'm surprised he even made it into the, the history books because that was just a waste. So the only other option was Antony and Antony. And I remember you mentioning in your podcast that he probably had some sort of CTE or PTSD because of all the fighting that he was doing.
00:33:17.620 And that is very likely, very, very likely, because we all know that the man had mental breakdowns towards the end because he felt his walls closing in.
00:33:29.840 And it just and plus the man was drinking like it was water.
00:33:33.040 So I think that he had all those kind of issues going against him as well.
00:33:38.300 And then, you know, he just kept losing battles and Octavian just kept growing his ranks.
00:33:43.240 yeah cleopatra just backed the wrong roman and that was that was her ultimate downfall antony
00:33:50.000 was her downfall i won't say that it was her kids i won't say that it was her ambition i wouldn't say
00:33:56.460 it was the only mistake i think she made and i wouldn't even say it was a mistake that she killed
00:34:01.920 her brothers or her sister i wouldn't even say that was a mistake i think the only mistake
00:34:06.500 cleopatra made was antony that's what's interesting too about um i think just in terms of like the
00:34:14.320 average person not you and me but people who have like a normal amount of knowledge about history
00:34:19.420 um they're just like oh yeah cleopatra she's this like famous sexy woman maybe they've heard
00:34:25.100 about like cleopatra and antony is this like tragic love story like he's people remember
00:34:31.440 those two together more than her with caesar i think i think that's because um even though
00:34:38.780 and see that's the thing when when they talk about the history they they kind of talk about it like
00:34:44.060 a tv episode where it's like this happened and oh wait this happened but in actuality there were
00:34:50.100 five years in between when this happened compared to when this happened but they don't get into all
00:34:55.060 little details because they've only got a one hour episode so they they they pick and choose
00:35:01.140 the things that they thought were most important she spent a lot of time with Caesar but she spent 0.79
00:35:05.780 more time with Antony and I think that combined with the fact that Antony led to her downfall
00:35:12.060 which is what they all ultimately wanted was her downfall is why they talk about him the most
00:35:17.760 because um caesar did a lot of debaucherous things he just did most elite romans did male or female
00:35:27.620 so mostly the males though but because you know man hater but they're not gonna focus on that
00:35:35.900 with him they're gonna focus on all the the great accomplishments accomplishments that he did
00:35:41.060 When it comes to Antony, he became basically an enemy of Rome. Therefore, we're going to paint him as a sex addict, drinker, heathen, whatever. And that's all because of her, because they were so intertwined with one another. 0.97
00:35:57.740 and I think that's why they talk about that quote-unquote love story more than they do
00:36:02.620 the time she spent with Caesar because Caesar really even after death was still idolized
00:36:07.820 whereas Antony just he just kept going down on the famous meter no you're right and it's really
00:36:14.500 it's just sort of like making him like the scapegoat in that way it's just like Cleopatra
00:36:18.860 was there we have to talk about her but if you kind of tie those two together then it's like
00:36:23.200 oh these two people yeah i know and you're right because julius caesar is still remembered as this
00:36:28.900 like famous i think he's still to normal people a famous like a name that you might have heard of
00:36:34.500 julius caesar whereas mark antony is only ever really talked about in context of antony and
00:36:39.920 cleopatra like that's that's his whole thing even though he was a great general i mean he he started
00:36:47.520 falling off at the end, but you had to do good to get to the point that he did in the first place
00:36:53.480 because the Roman army was huge. There were a lot of surgeons and generals and whomever,
00:36:59.720 but he stood out above the rest. So he had to be good at what he did to get to the rank that he
00:37:06.080 did. But the only way you can bring someone like that down in their minds is to tie him to a woman
00:37:12.520 and tie him to a woman that they didn't agree with how she acted. 1.00
00:37:16.460 That's just how the patriarchy works.
00:37:19.700 It's all so contemporary.
00:37:22.660 You know, the thing is, it's that old saying,
00:37:25.640 there's nothing new under the sun.
00:37:27.020 And I say this to people a lot, and they're kind of like,
00:37:30.940 oh my God, here she goes again on one of her history tangents.
00:37:33.220 But if you really look at our society and ancient Roman society,
00:37:37.760 There are so many exacts and similarities. We are technically a democracy. We have a Senate. We have technically the checks and balances of how things are supposed to operate within our government.
00:37:57.800 It was the same in ancient Rome. You look at a lot of the federal buildings that were built years ago. You've got those columns that they had in ancient Roman architecture. And I don't know if they're still doing it or not, but it was a trend on social media over the summer where men think about ancient Rome a lot.
00:38:17.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:38:17.880 Well, they think about ancient Rome a lot because they really consider that to be one of the heights of their glory, of their control, of their assholery, I guess you'd say.
00:38:30.440 So, you know, that's why they look at Caesar the way they do is because he had so many triumphs and conquests.
00:38:38.480 And when I say triumphs, I actually mean parading down the street triumphs with his little parades.
00:38:45.360 But I think that our society really looks at the ancient Roman society as one of the ultimate elites.
00:38:55.760 And, you know, generals in World War II were looking at strategies from Caesar, you know, that they probably still do throw that in the computer, run the simulation on based on what Caesar did.
00:39:07.420 How can we make that work in our time? 0.98
00:39:10.400 So he's just he's always going to be revered no matter how much of a dick he was. 0.97
00:39:15.360 he's always going to be revered and to a certain point i think that he deserves that 0.96
00:39:20.160 and i i hate to say that because you know man hater but he he was pretty amazing and
00:39:28.920 his ego i think led to his ultimate downfall i think if he would have been a little bit more
00:39:36.700 humble about some of the things he did they wouldn't have turned him into a pin cushion
00:39:41.980 but you know he did what he did and the guys thought that the guys club thought that he was 0.97
00:39:50.640 stepping all over their egos so you know we got to take care of this um octavian went out hunted
00:39:57.000 them down because you know that was what the julian ego was supposed to do you gotta you gotta
00:40:04.020 avenge your family you gotta avenge what what you feel is yours so he went out hunted all these
00:40:11.960 guys down, along with Antony. But I don't think there's ever a time that's going to come that
00:40:20.820 Caesar's not going to be considered to be the ultimate. I don't see it happening.
00:40:27.500 I don't think there's ever going to be a time where Antony is given any kind of respect for
00:40:33.240 the type of general that he was. I don't think there's ever going to be a time where Cleopatra
00:40:37.840 is ever going to be given the respect she is just due period i don't see any of those three things
00:40:43.640 happening no the narratives are so established but just what you were saying it's just really
00:40:49.180 making me think like yeah you know julius caesar was assassinated like the roman empire did fall
00:40:55.900 like it failed but people only look at the glory of it and then cleopatra has always looked at like
00:41:02.140 oh yeah but then eventually she failed and then she killed herself where it's like but she did so
00:41:05.880 much stuff before that so we only look at her downfall and ancient rome it's like we're blinkers 0.96
00:41:12.080 on like we're only looking at when it was good allegedly and they man i mean um the barbarians
00:41:19.620 sacked rome what was it two times three times at least yeah and so it's like yeah rome was mighty
00:41:27.500 but they weren't perfect they overextended themselves because ego and they couldn't
00:41:35.000 protect the provinces they had they couldn't protect rome and they started pissing off a
00:41:40.020 whole lot of people they considered to be beneath them and those and i mean we even say it today
00:41:44.640 if the little people just banded together you can oust the big people that's what they did back then
00:41:52.260 they got tired of rome they ousted them bottom line look what happened in britain exactly but
00:41:59.660 we never like i say we i mean just be culturally societally we're like julius caesar was so smart
00:42:04.740 and he was so great it's like he was murdered he was by his best friends he was and that's the
00:42:11.840 thing that that that just gets me because how how jealous or how spiteful or how whatever do you have
00:42:23.860 to be to knife down someone you called friend for years someone that protected your city i mean he
00:42:34.020 went out on campaigns too he was out there fighting too he didn't he wasn't sitting up on
00:42:39.000 some throne somewhere dictating to other people how they were supposed to fight he was on the
00:42:43.460 battlefield he might not have always been out there with his sword but he was there he did all
00:42:50.120 of that for rome and then they turn around and kill him on the senate floor i mean that's the 1.00
00:42:56.440 most disrespectful thing you could possibly do to a man that had really i mean yeah he was a jerk 0.98
00:43:03.420 but he had given his life for Rome he had and they turn around and they do that to him and 0.98
00:43:09.740 call him this that and the other well let me see how that worked out for you it's and this is the
00:43:16.640 thing it's like even just going through like the story of Cleopatra there's so many um what happened
00:43:22.360 to Julius Caesar is such a part of her story and what happened to so much of her story and just
00:43:26.660 like I'm like and what her sisters did like her sisters were all trying to take over too it's just
00:43:30.980 like she like everyone it was such a dangerous situation for everyone to be in it was like i
00:43:37.640 think i said in it was in my notes i probably said in the podcast it's like you're not being
00:43:41.060 paranoid like if you're not being paranoid then you're going to be the one who's murdered next
00:43:44.200 because everyone is murdering everyone and the fact that she lasted as long as she did
00:43:48.780 and that she thrived for quite a while she made it to almost 40 years old number one that's a feat 0.99
00:43:56.580 in and of itself because people didn't live that long back then especially having babies like women
00:44:01.540 who are dying childbirth every day and she had three yeah she had four kids oh that's right yeah
00:44:06.220 yeah i forgot i always forget about philadelphus right yeah he he was just there you know poor
00:44:15.040 little guy but it's she just and you know it was funny because i never thought about this until i
00:44:21.640 watched the documentary on Netflix, the eunuchs, the advisors, think about their names. They were
00:44:31.320 Macedonian Greek names. These were people that were deeply rooted into basically,
00:44:37.940 fuck Egyptians, we're here, we're in charge. And I think the reason why they were always advising 1.00
00:44:44.700 brothers and sisters to go against Cleopatra is because she embraced the Egyptian culture. 0.99
00:44:51.260 Right. She's the only one who learned the language. Yeah. 0.84
00:44:53.500 Yep. Yeah. I'm pretty sure she went out in the streets pretty often, too, just to see how things were with people.
00:44:59.940 And that was shown in the documentary. And I actually thought about that before I saw the documentary.
00:45:03.720 But I'm like, you know what? I'm glad you put that in there because I really do believe that she actually went out amongst the people.
00:45:09.240 Because when we've talked about this before, the common people wouldn't know what the royal family looked like because we had no Internet.
00:45:17.640 We had no photos. We didn't have cell phones. So they wouldn't know it was her. As long as she was dressed like them, they wouldn't know it was her walking the streets. And I think she did that quite often just to be more immersed in it and to try to understand them better. And so I think that the advisors did not like that about her, which is why they were always in the ear of her siblings saying, you got to rise up against her because she's going to go against what we're trying to do here.
00:45:42.580 so and that's probably part of where this um conspiracy or suspicion that like she was maybe
00:45:49.820 part egyptian that she's some egyptian blood it's like well why else would she be like interested in 0.87
00:45:54.800 the like egyptian people and learn the language like maybe she learned that from her mother or 0.56
00:45:58.560 but it's like also maybe she was just a person who like culturally she was macedonian but she 0.98
00:46:05.320 just gave a shit like that's all she was inquisitive yeah i'd say that she wanted she's 0.98
00:46:09.800 one of those people because you know how we are about history we want to know as much as we can 0.99
00:46:13.300 our poor little brains can only handle so much but I think she was the same way she wanted to know
00:46:18.580 she just she wanted to know so she went out and she learned I think that that's why she was so
00:46:27.520 interesting to Caesar and Antony is because she she wanted to understand the world around her
00:46:36.960 and even though they didn't realize the world was as big as it was she it was still big to them
00:46:42.680 and for this woman to want to know about the world around her and to know as much as she actually did 0.91
00:46:50.960 there's no way they wouldn't fall for that no way because i if i run into someone that likes to talk 0.98
00:46:57.500 about history the way i do you're gonna know me for the rest of your damn life i'm not letting go 0.50
00:47:01.820 you this is why we're this is how we became friends and this is why we're still friends 0.57
00:47:06.380 it's just like oh oh you're like me and i think that that was that was the intrigue for them
00:47:13.140 i don't think that and you mentioned this in your your previous podcast that 1.00
00:47:18.000 she probably wasn't very well versed in in the sexual part of of being a woman because she
00:47:26.220 probably just wasn't exposed to it as much i don't think it was overly important to her
00:47:31.080 as much as it was learning so I wouldn't say that I I mean she was she was more experienced
00:47:38.460 by the time Antony came along but I don't think that that was it with Caesar yeah I don't think
00:47:43.220 she was experienced enough to try to to use her femininity against him I just I really think that
00:47:50.840 she realized this is a man like strategy he likes intelligence let me let me show him what I'm all
00:47:57.240 about. And you get to having a conversation, you know, you and I are probably going to be on this
00:48:01.880 podcast for the next five hours. You know, you find someone that you could have an intelligent
00:48:06.460 conversation with, you're not going to let that go. And he, I think, was just enthralled with
00:48:12.640 the knowledge this young lady had. And he didn't want to let it go. Anthony probably thought she
00:48:19.100 was pretty. I mean, I've seen some of the drawings or whatever you want to have of some of the
00:48:25.760 Roman woman so she probably did look better than some of the ladies he had to choose from
00:48:28.980 back home but I don't I think he was intrigued by her intelligence only to a certain extent 1.00
00:48:35.160 I think he was just a horny little asshole and just wanted in her pants or her dress whatever 0.99
00:48:41.560 it was she wore then but yeah but that's what's so like just I remember from when I was like 1.00
00:48:47.460 putting together that podcast in the first place and just thinking about Cleopatra again it's just
00:48:52.240 like it's so frustrating to me that she was so smart and so clever and so capable and society
00:49:02.420 is like she was sexy like she maybe she was but also you know like sometimes you see pictures of
00:49:09.620 people from like the victorian era like photographs of people and you're like that was the most
00:49:14.120 gorgeous courtesan in france you're like her but it's like yeah like it's intangible sometimes
00:49:21.280 like somebody could just look like the most plain person but their personality just elevates it to a
00:49:27.360 point where you're just like oh my gosh I'm dazzled and I think Cleopatra had that for sure
00:49:31.480 like I think she's like she's such a like I think when someone is curious that is so appealing to
00:49:38.600 everybody like someone who can have a conversation like you hear about I don't know who some of the
00:49:44.680 celebrities I was at a comic-con I met Jeff Goldblum I paid for the like picture and I was
00:49:49.540 just like oh my god like emanating from him he was like hi how are you he's like i like your
00:49:55.520 glasses i was like melt like just like that level and i'm sure lots of celebrities or politicians
00:50:03.460 have that power and i feel like if you when you if you're someone like that if you're mark anthony
00:50:08.220 or julius caesar someone you know you have that effect on other people then you meet someone who
00:50:12.020 has that effect on you then i think you're just like oh this is rare this is unusual yeah i went
00:50:18.900 to, uh, one of those conventions with my sons, um, before I left Minnesota and I got to meet,
00:50:24.880 um, Nichelle Nichols, um, who was obviously, uh, I just, I was a huge fan. She just, she's an idol
00:50:34.160 to me. And I sat down next to her. She was like, um, so what are we doing today? I said, I just
00:50:41.020 want to have a, I just want to be in a picture with you. That's, that's all I want. And she
00:50:45.200 looked at me. She said, what's your name? And I said, Gina. And I'm like, oh my God, she's talking
00:50:50.380 to me. And I said, Gina, she goes, you are really beautiful, Gina. I almost cried. I almost cried.
00:50:58.400 I said, thank you. Oh my gosh. And she's like, come on, let's take our picture. I was like,
00:51:04.280 yes, please. And so I get it. I get that when you meet someone that you view in such high regard
00:51:13.020 that they, I mean, obviously she was beautiful, but even if by society's standards, she wasn't,
00:51:20.480 I still would have been like on the verge of tears because this woman just, she was just it
00:51:27.680 for me, you know? And so I get what you're saying about how, you know, it didn't necessarily have
00:51:35.600 to be about her looks on why everyone was just like wow because she probably just emanated this
00:51:43.480 you're you're lucky to be around me kind of vibe and then if she started speaking and it was
00:51:50.480 considered to be intelligent and and well-informed how do you not gravitate towards that how do you
00:51:59.120 not want to just sit and just listen you know I would have loved I mean granted there was a line
00:52:03.200 so i couldn't sit and talk to miss nichols for very long but if i could have just sat and just
00:52:07.440 talked to her i would have been there for hours yeah picking her brain on everything yeah well 1.00
00:52:14.460 now i'm thinking too and you know more about this than i do but like roman society women were not 1.00
00:52:19.160 that highly educated in general right like they were taught to be like stay like to run the
00:52:23.600 household so like to julie season mark anthony it would be rare to meet a woman who is scholarly or 0.79
00:52:30.340 who is educated so that would just be unique and still running the house she was she was still
00:52:36.680 running the house too so yeah i just i think that based on how they thought of themselves
00:52:43.680 and based on how she presented herself to them they didn't stand a chance um i also think that
00:52:52.300 because of how the general male populace thought of themselves and how she presented herself that's
00:52:59.580 what made them dislike her the most because they i wouldn't say they weren't smart i would just say
00:53:06.520 that they they clearly were on a different level than caesar and anthony because they weren't in
00:53:11.280 charge caesar and anthony were they were just kind of like the background singers so sorry i always
00:53:18.380 go back to music with everything for some reason no i love i love i love picturing them in their
00:53:23.100 toga is just like as the right that's literally swaying back and forth literally it they are and
00:53:28.600 so they they considered themselves to be highly intelligent men because they were part of the
00:53:34.760 senate and they were writing poetry and they were writing soliloquies and they were doing this and 1.00
00:53:40.540 that and the other and they had villas here there and everywhere and this bitch little girl coming 1.00
00:53:46.720 in here talking about all this stuff that she shouldn't know anything about trying to act like 1.00
00:53:51.800 she's better than us trying to act like she's smarter than us well she probably was um they're
00:53:57.260 automatically not gonna like her because they aren't in a position of basically ultimate power
00:54:02.940 like Caesar was Caesar didn't feel like he had an equal he didn't feel like he had a rival really
00:54:10.060 he didn't really view them as rivals he viewed them as his subordinates so he meets someone that
00:54:16.080 male or female didn't matter he felt was more of an equal he's gonna want that in his life
00:54:23.000 that's men that's just that's always been men that's always gonna be men because some point
00:54:30.520 in history it was thought of that men really should be held at a higher level than women
00:54:39.260 And that has just continued through history and morphed and gotten bastardized somehow to the point to where we're supposed to be subordinate.
00:54:48.940 We broke out of that a little bit for a little while with the feminist movement.
00:54:53.600 But it looks like they're trying to shove us right back down in there.
00:54:56.420 I'm going to be the first one to say, don't make me take it to the streets because I submit to no one.
00:55:04.980 Ask my parents.
00:55:09.260 But it's just, I really do believe just ultimately she failed because she was great.
00:55:18.180 Yeah, I think the world couldn't allow that.
00:55:20.880 The men couldn't allow that.
00:55:21.860 It's just like the world wasn't ready for her.
00:55:24.940 They weren't. 0.90
00:55:25.340 They weren't ready for a lot of women in history because there were a number or there was like a handful, I'd say, of Egyptian queens that did so much better than their male counterparts. 0.95
00:55:38.340 counterparts when it came to the decisions they made for the overall country. And we'll get into
00:55:43.300 that on another podcast. But it's been like that with almost every culture throughout all of
00:55:51.220 history, where when a woman really truly shows that she knows her shit, and she's handling 1.00
00:55:57.960 business, men get butthurt, and they think they need to destroy that. Regardless of the fact that 0.99
00:56:04.400 it's actually helping them, what these women are doing, they cannot, their egos cannot let them
00:56:09.480 accept that this woman is doing better than a man would have done. And they've got to destroy it.
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00:59:16.280 and we're back i saw i'm always looking at you and i both are always looking at like quotes and
00:59:24.160 things and i know that because everything you post in your instagram story i'm like yes yes i feel
00:59:28.700 the same but i saw something that somebody was saying somewhere about like if traditionally if
00:59:35.280 like biologically if men were supposed to be in control of everything instead of women then why
00:59:40.800 would they keep having to make laws and rules and stopping women from doing stuff it's like 0.89
00:59:45.760 this is clear that's clearly not nature if you have to like create laws and like shame women 0.79
00:59:53.620 to stop doing things so why would women be doing them if it's not it's the whole thing it's like 0.60
00:59:57.760 oh this is natural it's like the hunter-gatherer or whatever it's like no it's like if it was then 1.00
01:00:04.140 we wouldn't need laws yeah I mean I'm a single mom I raised two boys I were there well they'd
01:00:11.360 hate if I call them boys because they're grown-ass men but you know how they are but I I never had
01:00:18.480 any problems out of them and they're very strong-willed young men I can imagine your sons
01:00:25.280 would be but I you know there was never getting in trouble at school there was there has never
01:00:32.640 been in trouble getting anything with the law. Nothing. They're law-abiding, productive members
01:00:39.860 of society. I'm a single mom. I did that. I didn't need a man to help me teach them how to be
01:00:48.880 a productive member of society. To say that it's natural for a man to, I'm not saying that it's
01:00:55.860 not good to have a two-parent home because obviously I would have liked that. That just
01:00:59.800 didn't quite work out between me and my ex-husband but to say that a woman can't do something 0.98
01:01:06.100 to say a woman couldn't go out there and shoot her own buffalo and skin it up and cook it for the
01:01:14.460 for the family to say a woman can't do something it's the man's place it's this the man's whatever 1.00
01:01:21.520 to be doing this, that's idiotic. Because even just put divorce aside, women that tragically 1.00
01:01:31.580 lose their husbands, they've had to do it on their own. And this has been throughout all of history
01:01:38.600 where a woman is going to have to do it on her own. Granted, most of the time they didn't want 1.00
01:01:42.800 to because the way society is set up saying that a woman can't do it by herself, she's got to have
01:01:47.200 a man to do it but the the thought process that men have that they need to be in charge of
01:01:53.760 everything they need to be taking care of everything women have proved time and time again 0.99
01:01:58.320 we don't need you we can do it our damn selves but they're just so they're they're holding on 0.97
01:02:06.380 to that one for dear life and i don't think they're ever going to give that one up it's the 0.96
01:02:12.880 sort of thing like there's some you can see in some people just like celebrities or whatever
01:02:17.440 politicians where it's or just people dumbasses on the internet who are just like saying something
01:02:23.000 where I'm just like oh like they have a core belief like if that's their core belief that 0.92
01:02:26.500 like men are so important and then so they could never change their mind about anything that
01:02:31.720 challenges that core belief because then the whole house of cards comes down and then what
01:02:36.100 do they have where it's like you can tell that someone thinking something is so vital to their
01:02:42.180 entire being where it's like you're never going to change this person's mind because you know
01:02:47.500 when people are like oh well if you call whatever it's like well if if that's sexual harassment
01:02:52.300 then i've been harassing women every day of my life and it's like maybe you have been but they
01:02:59.400 could never accept that you know because that that means recontextualizing wrong yeah exactly
01:03:04.780 exactly and that's what it often is it's just that yeah people who just can't be wrong i think
01:03:09.660 that that's um that's a lot of um what happened with with Caesar and and Antony where there might
01:03:17.420 have been obviously they they respected to a certain extent her intelligence but I think
01:03:23.280 there were some decisions that she made and how it ultimately made them look within Roman society 0.90
01:03:30.820 where they were like oh shit maybe maybe I was wrong for for sticking up for her like that just
01:03:37.780 like Caesar never publicly claimed Caesarian. I have no doubt that he actually liked the little 0.81
01:03:43.740 boy, because if he didn't, he would have had him killed, regardless of whatever power that
01:03:48.540 Cleopatra had. So I think he liked the little boy. He never claimed him because he realized that
01:03:55.420 that would have made him look even worse within Roman society. And it's all about appearances. 0.61
01:04:02.060 and in every big society it's always about appearances you know look at what ancient
01:04:08.660 Egyptians did they built all those big huge temples and look at their their tombs they're
01:04:13.300 huge underground tombs with vast amount of gold and jewelry and stuff in there it's all about
01:04:20.020 appearances and so a lot of times I think that they Antony and Caesar might have regretted some
01:04:26.540 of the things they did or they didn't regret the things they did but I think some of their actions
01:04:30.820 really revolved around, I can't, I can't look like a punk to, to the society because then I'm
01:04:37.360 going to, well, I mean, ultimately they viewed Caesar as a punk and they took him out, but he
01:04:41.940 tried to hold onto that as long as he could. And so he spread himself thin on who he was trying
01:04:48.320 to keep happy. He was trying to keep Cleopatra happy to a certain extent, but he was trying to
01:04:54.060 keep all of Roman society happy above and beyond everything because he was in charge of Rome and
01:05:02.220 that was what was most important to him. Cleopatra was important to him, but ultimately this is all
01:05:07.620 about Rome. I'm a Roman. I'm the head of Rome first and foremost. And so he had to keep up
01:05:15.720 the appearances and keep them happy, which is why if he had let her in, I think, this is another
01:05:21.940 a theory of mine. If he had let her in, given her a little bit more power, claimed Caesarian,
01:05:27.560 got the Egyptians as a whole kind of on his side, I don't think they would have got him on the Senate
01:05:33.520 floor. I mean, we've all heard the story that the reason why they were even able to get to him is 0.95
01:05:39.120 because Antony was called away at the last second. So he wasn't able, because they knew that he would
01:05:44.320 fight for him. They all knew that. So they had to get Antony away so they could take Caesar out.
01:05:49.400 I truly believe that if he had elevated everything the way he probably should have, she would have had some of her personal guards there always looking out for him.
01:05:58.900 And that would have protected him.
01:06:00.800 I love that as a theory.
01:06:04.020 Obviously, it's just a theory.
01:06:05.620 No, but it's like, I think that could be a good basis for some sort of like, I don't know, book or movie or something like, imagine, you know, people are always like, imagine, like, what if this side won the war?
01:06:15.120 It's like, well, imagine what if this had happened?
01:06:19.020 And if Caesar hadn't been killed, would, what would have happened to the Roman Empire?
01:06:22.380 Like, because then Octavian doesn't come in necessarily.
01:06:27.240 You don't have the golden age of his reign.
01:06:30.840 Then does America still model themselves after the Roman Empire or is it, I don't know. 0.80
01:06:36.240 Honestly, I think that Octavian wouldn't even been who he was if it wasn't for his, for two of his wives. 0.60
01:06:42.560 So he was married once.
01:06:44.580 I don't remember her name.
01:06:45.880 I don't know where she went.
01:06:46.940 But then he married someone called Scribina, I think was her name.
01:06:52.600 Don't really hear much about her because she was a proper Roman wife and didn't ruffle the favors.
01:06:58.620 But then after Caesar was killed and a lot of the elite that were remaining, they had to pick a side.
01:07:08.260 They had to pick, you know, who they wanted to back.
01:07:11.140 And if you picked the wrong person, you were going to be killed.
01:07:14.460 That's just the way it was.
01:07:15.920 That's when Livia came in to play.
01:07:18.260 Livia, she was the daughter of a very high-ranking socialite male in ancient Rome.
01:07:26.640 Very wealthy family.
01:07:28.900 He picked the wrong side to back after Caesar was killed, and he was killed for his riches.
01:07:35.160 Because that's what they did.
01:07:36.420 They went around and killed everyone that didn't go along with what they wanted, and they stole everything that they had.
01:07:42.140 Livia was livid because her family riches were taken. Her current husband, who she had a couple
01:07:49.640 of kids with, I want to say, was a dork and was never going to help her aspire to what she really 0.97
01:07:57.480 wanted to be in life. She set her sights on Octavian, who was also married to Scribina at the 0.81
01:08:04.860 time. This didn't stop anyone in ancient Rome. It was never an issue. Yeah. But she
01:08:11.720 He, from what I understand, was the one that really, truly pushed him to go after Antony. 0.96
01:08:19.280 And so I'm not saying that Octavian wasn't a pompous ass, but I think that her in his ear basically telling him, if you don't do this, you're a punk. 0.65
01:08:31.220 He probably took chances that he probably would not have taken if it wasn't for her pushing him to do it. 0.94
01:08:38.400 And from what I understand, he actually liked her because if he didn't, he would have got rid of her too. She was around until she passed, I believe. But I really think that even though men want to say that they're this, they're that, the other, I don't think that half of them would have done what they did in their lives if it wasn't for a strong woman in their ear pushing them to do these things.
01:09:03.360 Well, this is just reminding me of the Nefertiti discussion too.
01:09:06.320 i am not saying that akhenaten didn't want to do some of the things he did but he might have been 0.98
01:09:13.080 sort of iffy undoing them until she got in his ear and was like look i didn't marry a bitch so 1.00
01:09:19.900 you better get out there and handle your business because no woman wanted to be married to a bitch 0.99
01:09:26.680 So I honestly believe that Livia is the backbone of Octavian's audacity and some of the things that he was really willing to do because, you know, he went around gathering all the people that were supposed to be supporters of Egypt. 0.99
01:09:46.920 He went around gathering them to his side because he knew that even though Rome had a really good army, a very disciplined army, he was going to need more.
01:09:57.960 So he took away what she had, put it on his side, and used that to be able to conquer her.
01:10:06.040 And see, I won't say that he was necessarily trying to be shady.
01:10:09.020 I mean, that's just the nature of the game.
01:10:10.820 You got to do what you got to do to win.
01:10:12.080 But if he didn't do that, I'm not sure he would have won.
01:10:16.920 you know if those different um i don't know necessarily want to say they were provinces
01:10:22.860 they're just allies of egypt if they remained allies of egypt our history would look a lot
01:10:28.080 different it was a lot of um like just between octavian but also julius caesar mc anthony
01:10:34.240 cleopatra it was a lot of people who were playing at like a really high level of strategy and that's
01:10:40.300 kind of satisfying in a way to read about because sometimes just one side just decimates the other
01:10:46.760 side and you're like well that wasn't very interesting but this is like it really could
01:10:50.000 have gone in any which way it could one wrong move on on the victor's side and we could be
01:10:57.140 having a completely different conversation right now yeah and that's the thing i i'm not taking
01:11:02.840 away from anyone else anyone's intelligence as far as those three main players go because they
01:11:08.140 were all clearly highly intelligent very good strategists but i do believe that um to a certain
01:11:15.360 extent, their advisors deserve some of the credit because no one person is going to think of
01:11:21.160 everything. That's just not human nature. I'm not going to think of everything to talk about
01:11:27.260 in a podcast that you might think to talk about. I really believe that the advisors should have,
01:11:35.360 they should have had a good retirement because I think that even if they didn't give a very
01:11:39.600 specific, you need to do this, they would have said something that would have made it click
01:11:44.180 in Caesar's head or an Octavian's head or someone's head. Oh, wait, maybe I should do this.
01:11:50.440 So I really, truly believe that, you know, with the exception of the conniving eunuchs that were
01:11:55.360 around, I think, I think the advisors actually deserve some of the credit on these victories.
01:12:01.560 Definitely. You know what? It's the same as like, right now there's like the Academy Awards or
01:12:05.340 whatever. And it's like, everyone's out there campaigning, but you know that they have their
01:12:08.380 teams behind them. Like they're deciding what outfits they're going to wear on the red carpet.
01:12:11.640 they're deciding what stories are they going to tell in their interviews it's like the person
01:12:15.740 gets the academy award but it's like there's a whole team of people strategizing and that's
01:12:20.860 my ridiculous comparison to ancient roman warfare but it's the same it's like one person nowhere no
01:12:26.900 one has to have one person who does this all themselves like you have to throw ideas back
01:12:31.200 and forth with somebody you don't just figure this out in your head like that's not yeah and
01:12:36.060 it's often it's these unsung advisors or like livia like you know your wife in the background
01:12:41.180 or whoever yeah or you know it's funny because there have been times where i'd be talking with
01:12:47.940 my younger son and i call him younger even though he's 23 and we'll be talking about whatever and
01:12:54.020 he'll say something and i'm like damn i never even thought about it that way yeah and and you're
01:12:59.020 thinking i'm so much older than you i know so much more than you but a different perspective 0.99
01:13:03.900 you know he's he's that asshole gen z that doesn't give a damn about anything so it's just always 0.99
01:13:10.400 going to be like this is what i think screw all the rest of you i try to be a little bit more 0.99
01:13:15.660 diplomatic about the things i do but might not always come out that way but he has made me view 0.95
01:13:21.780 things in totally different ways at times i'm like damn i just my brain's just not wired like that
01:13:28.420 and so um i i i think and it's been portrayed like this and i i can actually see it happening
01:13:36.760 is Cleopatra really did consider herself the reincarnation of ISIS. She considered herself
01:13:42.780 to be the end all be all when it came to making decisions. You know, if you didn't like what she
01:13:47.620 said, off with your head kind of thing. So I really believe that in the end, people might
01:13:54.980 have been trying to advise her about things, but she was so stuck on, I know what the fuck I'm 0.93
01:14:00.320 doing get away from me that she might have made some bad decisions here and there that could have
01:14:08.180 helped her we don't know everything that happened in the background we only know like the battle of
01:14:11.740 actium and all that kind of stuff we know we know the big stuff that happened we don't know all the
01:14:15.820 small stuff that built up to some of these these big occurrences so she could have possibly made
01:14:20.920 some smaller bad decisions that led up to the downfall and some of these bigger things that
01:14:29.020 we know about because she i think i'm not saying she was as arrogant as maybe caesar anthony but
01:14:35.500 she really did consider herself to be above the people that were around her she might have made 0.99
01:14:40.680 some bad decisions well like you said well like you know she created a new whatever you said it
01:14:45.200 was so smart like playing the game she like created a new game or whatever but it's like
01:14:49.380 she created the game she was playing and no one else understood the rules so who could advise her
01:14:54.140 when that's true when no one else is playing at that level yeah that is definitely true but it
01:15:00.100 from everything that i've read and seen um she did um hold her two her two ladies um in high regard
01:15:08.760 so i think that um if they would have the two ladies that um that she committed suicide with
01:15:15.500 um her two aides i i do believe that she would have listened to what they said faster than she
01:15:21.720 would someone else. In her younger years, I'm sure she listened to pretty much everything that
01:15:26.280 her advisors told her. Because as a young person, you should realize you don't know everything.
01:15:33.420 You got to learn from these older folks that have been there and done that. So I think she did take
01:15:38.040 under consideration a lot of what she was told in her younger years. But by the time she got
01:15:43.040 to the Anthony portion of her life, I think that she was just like, no, I got this one.
01:15:48.860 but thanks anyways no exactly like she's been through enough i could see why she would have
01:15:53.540 that confidence but also it's like there's no book there's no guidebook she's doing stuff like
01:15:57.180 that no one's ever done before so all she could do is just be like her instincts have helped her
01:16:01.500 this far so like just keep going with her instincts i guess and one thing that people
01:16:06.380 don't really ever talk about because um they're they aren't talked about a lot in in the writings
01:16:13.380 but not only was she trying to protect her country and her standing she was trying to protect her
01:16:21.160 kids and as a parent i can understand how you would take your kids into consideration on some
01:16:31.320 of the decisions that you make she did send them away at one point um but to my knowledge they were
01:16:38.180 pretty much always there in the palace. And so she would always have that reminder of,
01:16:44.280 I got to take care of my kids. I got to try to keep my position for my kids because my kids 0.76
01:16:48.540 deserve to inherit that after I'm gone. That was just the mindset of everyone that was in power
01:16:53.860 back then. You got to make sure your errors are taken care of. And so, yeah, she might have been
01:17:00.280 the baddest bitch, but she was still a woman. And women are going to view their kids differently 1.00
01:17:05.360 than men most of the time. And they're going to be a little bit softer about how, how they view
01:17:10.920 them and what they do for them. And I think that her kids might've played a part in some of the
01:17:16.240 decisions she made as well. I think they must have. And also way back at the beginning of
01:17:21.320 this conversation, we were talking about culture and stuff and her kids were half Egyptian, half
01:17:27.020 Roman. So the fact that she's like queen of Egypt going in war against Rome, that would also to her,
01:17:33.860 she's like what what does this mean for my children like where are they are they gonna
01:17:37.120 are they gonna be safe after this if i win are they gonna be safe if they win like where are
01:17:41.460 they gonna live like yeah and because it's like her son is like the son of caesar like
01:17:45.980 what's gonna happen to him yeah but like i said had caesar just done what he should have done
01:17:52.580 in the first place that conversation would be going differently so um she i don't know i
01:17:59.600 obviously we don't know um but like just speaking as a parent i know that i have made some decisions
01:18:06.600 that might not necessarily helped me on what i thought i wanted at the time but it was more for
01:18:12.780 them um ultimately it was the right decision in the end but i just i think that a lot of her a lot
01:18:21.520 of her actions towards the end might have been skewed a bit by by what you just said on you know
01:18:28.160 does anyone really win in this situation you know because they're from both places it was too much 0.97
01:18:35.120 for one young lady to have to to deal with i think because she was juggling a lot of balls
01:18:39.840 you know um you're you're literally in charge of an entire country how do you handle that i mean
01:18:48.360 how does that not at some point feel overwhelming where you are responsible for an entire country
01:18:55.160 however many people were in that country you're in charge of an entire country you are responsible
01:18:59.860 for your children you are responsible for your household she had so much responsibility and
01:19:07.040 really no support ever the opposite everyone was trying to murder her all the time she was exactly 1.00
01:19:13.960 so you have you she really had no one in her corner and so you know even though i know she 0.99
01:19:24.140 would have put on a brave face when she was out in public and she would have put her foot down on 0.99
01:19:29.460 who who's in charge that woman had to be in a corner breaking down here and there because
01:19:34.900 there's gonna come a point where it's just gonna be too much it just it just is I don't I'm not
01:19:41.320 in charge of a country I'm in charge of my one little house with my regular little kids that's
01:19:46.780 it and sometimes it feels overwhelming for me so how is it not overwhelming at a young age to be
01:19:53.320 in charge of so much that's going to make you make a bad decision at some point too and everything
01:19:59.160 she all the decisions she was making at a very young age were all like literal like do or die
01:20:04.880 it's like this is it's not i'm sure it's challenging to be in charge of a country
01:20:11.460 full stop in general but like a country that's like at war okay that's like a war and everything's
01:20:17.300 Chaos. And see, that's probably where a lot of she probably could have built up some
01:20:25.960 phantom support with the Roman women had she not been so far outside of what their society 1.00
01:20:36.340 told them women were supposed to be. Now, I know there had to have been a fair amount of women in 1.00
01:20:42.580 Rome. It was like, good for her, you know, stick it to the patriarchy. But for the most part, 1.00
01:20:47.940 you have all these snooty ass rich women, like, well, she's just not acting like a proper woman. 1.00
01:20:53.960 So whatever happens to her, she deserves. And they're going to be saying that to their husbands 1.00
01:20:58.800 who are part of Senate, who are making the decisions on what shouldn't be happening
01:21:03.500 within the Roman society. So you got that whole snowball effect going on there that
01:21:07.880 if she just would have been a proper woman and stayed in her place, none of this would be 0.98
01:21:14.520 happening. A lot of people had that thought, men and women, they were probably even teaching it to 0.99
01:21:20.000 their kids because you're going to be raised to do what society tells you you're supposed to do.
01:21:25.680 So I think that just because she was just such a strong woman, she just didn't have the amount
01:21:31.920 of support she could have had if she had a husband that was in charge making the decisions 1.00
01:21:37.500 then they would be like oh she's just the poor woman that has to follow along with what her
01:21:41.500 husband's saying i support her because she's going through a lot she was the one making the decisions 1.00
01:21:46.440 so the other women were like well fuck that bitch because she's stepping out of line she needs to 1.00
01:21:51.020 get herself figured out and stop trying to come after our men so i just i think she lost a lot 1.00
01:21:56.360 of support because she we've talked about before she was just going against societal norms well
01:22:01.560 that's the same thing like what i was saying a minute ago but just like if somebody has this
01:22:06.440 ingrained belief and if you start questioning that about yourself then like what do you believe in
01:22:12.260 and these women were raised to think like women are the goal for a woman is your name is written
01:22:16.960 down twice it's like when you're born and when you die like you don't want you don't want anyone
01:22:22.480 to talk about you ever and they're like that is what women's role and then Cleopatra comes in and 0.68
01:22:26.440 it's like wait if she gets away with this then that means everything that they've ever believed
01:22:30.340 or been taught is a lie and then what does that mean and then that like challenges all of society
01:22:35.880 So it's like, if she got away with this, then like Rome and what women did in Rome, if they're like, she got away with this.
01:22:42.940 So then like, why do we have to follow different rules? 0.74
01:22:45.940 Yeah.
01:22:46.420 And the level of opulence that she always had around her, what she traveled in.
01:22:52.260 I know you mentioned about the purple sail.
01:22:55.060 And the like silver oars.
01:22:56.940 And the, yeah.
01:22:58.000 And, you know, the funny thing is, is since I can remember my favorite color has always been purple.
01:23:03.100 And not just any shade of purple.
01:23:05.020 it has to be the deep royal purple that is me anyone that truly knows me knows if you're going
01:23:12.260 to get me something get it in purple because i mean you should see my office right now everything
01:23:17.260 my mouse is purple my mouse pad is purple my desk pad is purple my phone yeah my phone stand
01:23:24.780 everything is purple my my phone case purple everything is purple and so i was like oh my god
01:23:32.020 that's how you travel you have big ass purple sails on your boat she was romans liked splendor
01:23:42.320 they did they they had excess of everything you know wine food jewelry they had all of that 1.00
01:23:50.320 she had so much more that's gonna make those roman women jealous as hell because she had 0.99
01:23:58.200 even more than the men had she had more than rome had basically and so to always be in their eyes 1.00
01:24:08.200 flaunting that that's gonna get you a lot of hate she gets a little mad respect from me because 1.00
01:24:14.080 i will float in your boat anytime with those purple ass sails that was that moment i she had 1.00
01:24:22.300 like her entrances her the drama that thing when she had that big parade declaring herself and
01:24:29.060 mark antony like we're gods and our children are also gods it's just like i love that just like
01:24:36.040 the audacity it's it's more than that it's just like the glamour and the drama and she's just 0.93
01:24:41.780 like fuck you i'm cleopatra and i'm like i love that energy but that is that's the um major sign 0.95
01:24:49.500 of a monarchy, really. I mean, you go back in time in all of Egypt, and it was always about 0.99
01:24:56.800 showing how much you had. You look at the royal family today, rolling around in a gold carriage.
01:25:05.040 It's about showing what you stole from people nowadays. But back then, it was what you had.
01:25:10.420 It was what you mined out of your whatever. And you had that built for you to show,
01:25:15.900 I have this and so she just she had that mindset she had that mindset of I need to always show 0.99
01:25:23.860 people how how much of a big baller I am and and she was you know she had all of that if she didn't 0.91
01:25:31.980 have as much as she did Octavian would not have given a rat's ass about her but she had what he 0.88
01:25:38.920 wanted she had riches she had crops he wanted those things so that's why he paid attention to 0.99
01:25:47.460 her if it was any other person mark anthony ran off to be with this woman he'd be like man fuck 1.00
01:25:53.040 you go i got wrong yeah deuces but that's she had what he wanted and because she was a lowly female 0.99
01:26:00.940 he felt he needed to go and take it from her okay we're gonna get into the scoring
01:26:06.000 slash reparations section of this podcast.
01:26:11.300 So there's four categories.
01:26:13.420 I should have sent this to you before, but I didn't.
01:26:15.660 But we're good.
01:26:16.840 So the first, they're all out of 10.
01:26:18.500 And so the first category is scandalousness, the scandal.
01:26:23.180 How did people of her era view her?
01:26:26.460 Did they see her as a scandalous person? 0.99
01:26:28.440 But also, did she do anything that was especially scandalous? 1.00
01:26:32.580 I honestly, I don't think she would rank super high on that because I think that she just acted the way it was expected for someone in her position to act.
01:26:42.800 I think in Egypt, it's kind of like, yeah, that's what a pharaoh does.
01:26:46.160 I think in Rome, they're all like, what? A woman is talking? 1.00
01:26:49.200 I don't think she didn't ever feel like she was doing something outside of what was her right, you know?
01:26:56.320 and i don't think that i mean with the exception of the egyptians not liking her because she was
01:27:02.060 part of the family that um came and conquered them overall i don't think they really saw anything
01:27:07.820 wrong with anything that she was ever doing um i within the family no one really ever viewed
01:27:12.940 anything wrong with what she was doing because it was just natural to kill each other anyway it's
01:27:17.760 like oh you just killed your sister well your sister killed your other sister like that's not 0.52
01:27:22.320 scandalous to them so it's right yeah it's weird to think on the on the egypt side she wasn't
01:27:27.900 scandalous at all she was just she was just going about her daily business on the roman side
01:27:33.300 they would probably rank her at like uh between an eight and a ten that i i they would think that 1.00
01:27:40.500 she was just that was not right we could average that a lot and do like a five maybe does that
01:27:47.140 i keep seeing cat tail yeah my my cat is she's excited about the scoring
01:27:51.020 i've got this new like you can't see i have this like microphone stand so it's like elevated
01:27:59.800 so she can just like walk back and forth now which thank god because i used to just have 1.00
01:28:04.940 my microphone on a pile of books and she would try to walk back and forth and topple over all 1.00
01:28:08.800 the books so she likes to be involved yeah are you okay with a five for scandalousness because 1.00
01:28:15.080 it's like yes because i don't think that she was she was just she was just day-to-day business for
01:28:21.480 her yeah it's which is so funny but also that's why i like to judge it based on the the culture 0.67
01:28:26.700 that she's in and in egypt they're just like oh yeah she killed her she married her brother she
01:28:30.240 killed her sister it's like yeah no it's just another tuesday in ancient egypt but you also
01:28:34.540 have to understand that how many of the actual just regular egyptian people even knew that was
01:28:39.600 happening and none of them would none of them would yeah they're just busy like farming and
01:28:43.960 whatever and just trying to survive just trying to keep their own kids alive and give a damn about
01:28:48.200 what's happening in that palace i i guarantee you 90 of the overall society in egypt had no clue any
01:28:56.280 of those people really existed they knew there was a pharaoh but that was it all they know they know
01:29:01.240 that he's called ptolemy but it's like for the last 300 years has been a pharaoh called ptolemy
01:29:06.560 has it been the same guy i don't know who cares but versus yeah i think rome was just like oh my
01:29:11.620 god it's a woman and she's educated and has thoughts anyway so i think of five just to
01:29:17.200 balance out she's shocking in one place and not in the other place i agree okay um the next category 0.88
01:29:21.840 is the scheminess how and i think she's gonna score high here because like she's always
01:29:28.280 the scheminess you need to thrive and not be murdered in her family exactly i you know what
01:29:37.040 I honestly, honestly, if she wasn't as scheming as she was, we wouldn't know she had even existed in history at all.
01:29:47.320 She wouldn't have gotten to where she was.
01:29:49.100 I got to give her a nine on that, honestly. 1.00
01:29:52.240 I would honestly give her sister a 10 because her sister seems like she was quite the rival. 0.99
01:29:57.120 Her sisters were great.
01:29:58.240 It was just kind of like, yeah, all of her sisters were great.
01:30:02.700 um but yeah i think the scheminess like just to survive egypt but then also her schemes like i'm
01:30:08.220 going to team up with julius caesar oh no he's dead who am i going to choose mark anthony like
01:30:12.700 she was always she always had an angle she always had a plan and they basically all the plans that
01:30:18.780 she made she did like yeah yeah and you know that's the thing if if she didn't really feel
01:30:25.580 confident in these these plans she had again we probably wouldn't even know she existed because 0.67
01:30:30.980 she would have failed the first time and Rome would have taken over and that would have been
01:30:35.820 it so I think that she has to she has to rank high on that one because she she not only came
01:30:42.740 up with the scheme but she 100% believed in herself when it came to those schemes and that's
01:30:48.840 got to rank her at least a nine at least I think I think I could go higher than nine I'm just you
01:30:54.260 think she can get a 10 9.5 let's do 9.5 I'm just thinking about like because all of her plans were
01:31:00.740 great and in scheming it's like i include other you know military plans or whatever and like
01:31:05.220 those are all great but i'm just picturing this scheming of just sneaking around that palace to
01:31:10.340 make the plan to usurp the power from her like siblings just all those eunuchs are around and
01:31:18.140 they're just like stirring the pot like who do you trust and who do you not trust and i don't know
01:31:22.880 i just think like how did she even ever get in and sleep i would be afraid to close my eyes honestly
01:31:28.560 how do you i don't know even if there's a guard a guard outside your door it's like well how do
01:31:33.740 you trust him like maybe you could trust him this morning but now he's changed his mind at lunchtime
01:31:38.300 like how do you ever close your eyes i would just be completely on edge at all times i think she
01:31:45.600 just like grew up in that scheming environment seeing what her sisters were doing um and that
01:31:51.340 just really gave her those tools for when she became queen to just kind of take it to the next
01:31:55.760 level and plus it doesn't seem like her brothers were very bright they're all called ptolemy and
01:32:01.400 it's like good because none of them are different from each other they're all just the same person
01:32:05.240 it's like oh she just married her new like young taller aged brother ptolemy great like
01:32:10.400 this is not ptolemy like who cares which is crazy not crazy but it's just like the fact that like
01:32:16.860 the whole dynasty started with alexander the great's friend ptolemy and but then like the
01:32:21.920 most famous monarch of this whole dynasty is this woman none of the ptolemies 300 years later it's
01:32:28.680 the woman that stand in the test of time no one remembers any of the ptolemies i couldn't tell
01:32:33.200 you anything about them and if you can't you can't okay the next one is her significance
01:32:42.320 and this would be significant this is where i think i fell down initially but i think her
01:32:46.320 significance to modern people but her significance in the time how she affected people knew about her
01:32:54.240 did her actions have how important were they like where would you put her for significance
01:32:59.120 to be honest with you in significance in egypt i would say probably would rank a little lower 0.89
01:33:05.640 exactly because she yeah she was just the pharaoh that probably people didn't even realize ptolemy
01:33:11.880 had died however many years before that. It was just, I don't think she held a lot of significance
01:33:17.860 with the overall Egypt. I think she had uber amount of significance in Roman society because
01:33:26.520 of the hidden love and very shown hate that that whole society had for her. There was, you know,
01:33:36.520 some people that secretly probably seriously respected her because of the intellect that she
01:33:42.460 had. Cicero would not have been one of those people that would have openly said that he
01:33:46.860 he respected her. But I think he did have to have a certain respect for her because he respected
01:33:52.480 intelligence above all else. And so I think that he did have some maybe even slight jealousy of
01:33:59.100 her. I don't know. But I think she held a huge amount of significance in Rome, offset by no one
01:34:06.260 giving a damn in egypt such a funny thing as well but yeah it's like yeah just the way that a person
01:34:11.880 can make a country or a republic so obsessed the parallel i'm gonna make is just like the way the
01:34:18.860 great britain can't let go of megan merkel that woman didn't do anything to any of them cleopatra
01:34:28.200 didn't do anything to rome when she first appeared she slept with caesar well honestly who didn't i
01:34:35.400 I mean, come on.
01:34:37.180 So she didn't do anything to any of those people, but they automatically built up in their minds how they needed to view her because she wasn't Roman. 0.71
01:34:47.980 Britain had built up in their minds how they had to view Megan because she's not white.
01:34:53.800 Even though she's way lighter than me and can pass for white probably in most places, they didn't like her because she wasn't, in their eyes, pure.
01:35:04.400 so that's that is that's been just kind of human nature apparently that if you don't fit exactly
01:35:13.420 what someone thinks you're supposed to they're going to villainize you for the remainder of
01:35:17.400 their lives and in whatever history books they can write for it so that's why i think that she
01:35:22.780 would rank so high on on the scale of rome and i don't even want to say that i want offset it with
01:35:29.340 i don't think i would i think that she was so significant to rome and the same way lots of
01:35:33.620 people are born in one place but they're significant somewhere else but then also the
01:35:37.260 significance every year it's like in the spirit halloween it's like cleopatra costume it's like
01:35:42.260 she's it's a name that everyone knows like she's got how many movies how many tv shows yeah i mean
01:35:49.460 i've even seen her as a character on cartoons so you know you don't see that with caesar you don't
01:35:55.300 see that with anthony no uh you don't see it with ptolemy one two three four five six seven
01:36:00.180 You don't see that, but you see it with her.
01:36:04.380 You don't even see it with any of the previous Cleopatras.
01:36:07.780 You don't see it with anybody but her.
01:36:11.580 So I would have to actually, honestly, I would give her a 10 on that because of how she has stood the test of time and significance overall around the world.
01:36:20.940 Yeah.
01:36:22.060 When honestly, just thinking about like, I'm looking at my fridge because I've got these like heroes of women's history, like magnets or whatever.
01:36:28.500 And Cleopatra is one of them always.
01:36:30.180 Because whenever you get those sorts of things, Cleopatra is always there.
01:36:33.940 But she's the one who's I don't know if there's another woman in history who is that mainstream, well-known, really, unless you talk about like Queen Victoria or something, but not even.
01:36:49.140 I'm thinking about like your sons, although they're they're in your house.
01:36:53.820 So I'm sure they've heard lots of Egyptian names and lots of historical names.
01:36:56.740 Oh, they have. Yeah.
01:36:58.020 And that's when I get the eye roll and the walk away.
01:37:00.180 So if we think about just the average, you know, 22 year old person in the world, they've heard of Cleopatra. What other women from history have they even heard of? I don't know.
01:37:10.760 And, you know, I did that before I started really digging into Nefertiti and writing about her. I was around a lot of young people for a while there. And so I was like, you know what, I want to see what they know. I want to see what they're being taught in their history classes beyond just straight American history.
01:37:26.640 And I would ask all these little individual kids that range from probably like 12 to 16, like, do you know who Akhenaten is? Never heard it. Do you know who Nefertiti is? Let's say out of 10 people, I'd have maybe two that knew. You ask them, do you know who King Tut is? Oh, yeah. Well, yeah, because that's the one that gets talked about all the time.
01:37:48.540 So if you ask them, you know, anything about anybody else in history of Egypt, they're not going to know. But you say Cleopatra, every single one of them knows. Everyone, whether they've got a history geek like me for a mom or not, you're going to know Cleopatra for some reason or another.
01:38:10.420 And that is just amazing to me that this person that was considered to be an insignificant temptress to them, we don't even, you probably wrote something about her, you Roman scholar dude.
01:38:27.100 And your scrolls burnt up somewhere.
01:38:30.440 No one knows you existed, but guess what? 1.00
01:38:32.900 That little bitch that you didn't like, we're still talking about her today. 0.99
01:38:36.440 I love how angry that would make Octavian. 0.99
01:38:41.900 You know, if you could go back in time and tell some of the people how some of these things have worked out, they, they, oh, God.
01:38:48.280 They're like, she, out of this whole situation and all the names we've just said, like the only two that Cleopatra, I think almost everyone has heard of.
01:38:57.680 Julius Caesar, like maybe a bit less, but still Octavian, no.
01:39:03.380 Like, no.
01:39:05.120 Cicero, no.
01:39:06.040 No.
01:39:06.440 I know my dad is not into studying anything but the Bible.
01:39:12.340 You know, he's a reverend.
01:39:13.760 I'm a pastor's kid.
01:39:15.060 That religion is all there is to existence, apparently.
01:39:19.360 And I could name off all these people.
01:39:21.800 He'd be like, I don't know who that is.
01:39:23.040 But if I said Cleopatra, my dad would know who that was.
01:39:27.420 Yeah.
01:39:28.280 You cannot, it's just virtually impossible not to know the name Cleopatra.
01:39:32.380 You might not know a whole lot about her, but you're going to know the name.
01:39:35.640 and it's you know the thing at the very beginning you were saying you know in ancient egypt if they
01:39:39.940 didn't like you they would chisel your name off or whatever and that was isn't that partly because
01:39:44.460 like then no one will remember your name like no one will talk about you so the fact that cleopatra's
01:39:49.480 memory is still alive like in some aspect like her spirit is still alive or something like that
01:39:56.380 where it's just like as long as people talk about you you're never forgotten and she's never not
01:40:01.380 been talked about. And I, you know, the funny thing is, this is just me being me. Um, I really
01:40:07.840 feel bad that she didn't get to have a traditional Egyptian burial that she never got to use the
01:40:15.600 tomb that she had started building. Um, I, cause she really did, she really did consider herself
01:40:22.380 Egyptian. I mean, if she didn't, she wouldn't have fought so hard for the country. Um, and I,
01:40:28.620 i feel bad that i i don't really know what they did with her i highly doubt they actually buried
01:40:34.640 her they probably did what they did in rome and you know built a pile and burned her and
01:40:40.460 had a parade of her bones or something yeah but i i really she deserved it i think she deserved
01:40:47.780 to have a traditional egyptian burial and we deserve to discover her tomb with all her riches
01:40:54.420 and her sarcophagus but i i just i hate that she didn't get to have that yeah because she earned
01:41:00.820 that well and then i what i do i agree entirely and i love that her daughter selene kept up the
01:41:08.840 those religious beliefs like that culture like that so she was kind of honoring her mother in
01:41:13.840 that way too just by like not setting that all aside and being like i'm roman now please don't
01:41:18.940 kill me but the fact that she knew that this was important to her mother and then she continued it
01:41:22.760 I think that's nice. 0.96
01:41:24.320 Because, you know, when you're a young woman and you see women around you being strong
01:41:30.040 and in a world where you're basically being told the whole time you're growing up that
01:41:34.400 you're not supposed to be that, but you see this woman who also happens to be your mother
01:41:39.200 being strong and defiant and successful, that's going to have a deep impression on you.
01:41:48.200 And even though she was young when her mother died, she had all of that lifespan to have that imprint on her to understand the importance of her mother and understand the importance of the traditions that she was surrounded by.
01:42:04.960 And so I'm I'm really glad that she didn't just give that up and just be like, oh, you know, I don't I don't want to suffer that kind of fate.
01:42:12.120 You know, whatever you guys say, I'm really glad she held on to that.
01:42:15.400 unfortunately it didn't go any further than that but the fact that she asserted her strength
01:42:22.240 enough to not let go of that and to let people see that she hadn't let go of that
01:42:27.340 you gotta admire that well and i think it's a big thing to live with in the aftermath of
01:42:34.760 everything that just happened with cleopatra and to be her daughter and to be also named cleopatra
01:42:40.380 it's just like oh god okay i can't there's no escaping it you know you're labeled that for
01:42:45.940 the rest of your life knows who you are yeah yeah and what happened and what you come from
01:42:51.680 so you know then it's a matter of you have to make the choice of who are you going to be what
01:42:58.140 are you going to show the people around you like are you going to own that i think she picked a
01:43:00.820 really good mix yeah she picked a really good mix of it yeah she wasn't like i'm going to change my
01:43:05.260 name to Livia and be quiet. And yeah, she, I don't know. So I am really happy that that biography
01:43:13.480 exists of her Cleopatra's daughter. Um, okay. The last category is so the sexism bonus, and this is
01:43:20.280 like from zero to 10, how much did sexism get in the way of her living and thriving and doing the 1.00
01:43:26.720 things she wanted to do? Now that one, I can say equally affected her on both sides, the Egyptian 1.00
01:43:33.360 and the roman because she was never until she got rid of all her little gangly little brothers 1.00
01:43:39.320 she was never allowed to rule on her own right because it always had to be like a man woman 1.00
01:43:44.360 or like a woman toddler parent like you had to have a boy that's the thing that's that's the 0.99
01:43:50.420 that's the whole egyptian thing of they they believed in ultimate balance that was that was
01:43:55.400 a major part of of egyptian society everything had to have a balance that's why you had osiris
01:44:00.820 in ISIS. You always had to have the male-female balance in everything. So I can kind of understand 0.56
01:44:08.460 that to a certain point, but she clearly proved herself to be a better leader than those stupid 1.00
01:44:13.720 little boys. So to make her always be paired up with one, that is sexism on a 100 level that you 1.00
01:44:23.240 can't just let this intelligent young lady just handle business. You got to put her with this 1.00
01:44:27.540 snot nose yeah you gotta be like oh you can't just be queen even though you've been doing it
01:44:31.440 for years it's like yeah right you need to have like a man with you and by a man i mean your two
01:44:36.200 year old brother like right exactly it just yeah so i really say that those two rank the same
01:44:42.620 because she she got it from both sides um probably more from the romans but because it was just kind
01:44:50.620 of just royal Egyptian history. That's just the way it was done in Egypt, whereas they just kind
01:44:58.980 of took it to a whole nother level. But, you know, she was still allowed to learn. She was still
01:45:03.840 allowed to learn languages, learn how to read or how to write. They didn't let them really do that
01:45:08.960 in Rome. So sexism was on steroids there. So she definitely got it worse from the Romans than she 1.00
01:45:16.260 did the Egyptians but she she needs to get a serious serious bonus for that one because she 1.00
01:45:21.760 just had it coming from all sides she did she had and that's what I always think about like 0.69
01:45:25.760 in this category like it's just specifically sexism but anyone who has so much talent and 0.95
01:45:31.800 skill and they need to waste their time dealing with this bullshit instead of just like getting 0.69
01:45:36.780 to go out and excel and what they want to do yeah it's just it comes up time and time again 0.99
01:45:42.660 And sometimes it's sexism and sometimes it's sexism and also racism.
01:45:46.680 And sometimes, you know, it's just like there's so many people who like could be doing great stuff if they didn't have to spend half their life being like, no, I can do this.
01:45:53.820 Yep. I think that I've been corporate America since I was 16.
01:45:58.600 I've always worked in an office.
01:46:00.580 And once COVID hit, we all had to start working from home.
01:46:03.740 And I just never went back to the office.
01:46:05.600 I work from home. And I can say that I am a million times more productive, not having to
01:46:10.760 deal with all the microaggressions that I was dealing with in the office. I don't have to deal
01:46:15.020 with people looking at me crazy, talking to me crazy. I don't have to deal with any of that.
01:46:20.280 I can just focus and do my job. And so you're right. If she had just been left the hell alone
01:46:27.580 and just allowed to rule the country, things would have been different.
01:46:32.260 yeah just this i'm like i'm comfortable with a 10 for that i am too yeah because you're and
01:46:39.220 especially because it's coming from both directions so this gives our girl cleo 34.5
01:46:46.440 out of 40 which is i mean her score before was ridiculous i forget it was like 28 or something 1.00
01:46:55.160 like it wasn't even over 30 i'm just putting her into this scale here to see where where does she
01:46:59.880 go actually i'm looking to see where did we put nefertiti nefertiti was a 31.5 cleopatra 34.5
01:47:08.120 i think that's fair because i don't think that um nefertiti had to face a lot of the the sexism
01:47:16.640 and the microaggressions that that uh that cleopatra did she didn't have to put up with um
01:47:23.920 Rome no you know and the thing is is you know with how she was elevated by Akhenaten as far as 0.57
01:47:32.380 the the level of queen that she was she just didn't have to deal with the stuff that Cleopatra did
01:47:37.780 yeah she like she had her own bullshit to do with Nefertiti but not to the same extent 0.89
01:47:43.400 as Cleopatra who is just every day it's just like can I just do my job 0.96
01:47:48.220 no that's wonderful thank you i'm much more comfortable with her being that
01:47:56.620 but yeah 28 it was it's ridiculous i'm scrolling through she was on like page two
01:48:00.760 of the list it's just like no she's cleopatra but thank you thank you she's she's where she 1.00
01:48:09.080 deserves to be in the higher echelon you know i'm always willing to talk about a badass woman 1.00
01:48:14.000 well and here we got like we got to get into the rome of it all which i know is your like other
01:48:20.120 major knowledge yeah i've done a lot of reading there so um it's just that it's people think
01:48:30.080 about individual societies they don't really ever think about how these individual societies
01:48:36.780 affected other individual societies.
01:48:41.740 And Egypt and Rome,
01:48:44.080 Rome period,
01:48:45.900 so deeply intertwined
01:48:48.400 with so many other societies.
01:48:50.560 And either they were working with them
01:48:52.900 or they were trying to conquer them.
01:48:54.760 And, you know,
01:48:55.920 Alexander was a menace.
01:48:59.860 You know, he was going out
01:49:00.820 trying to claim everything for himself.
01:49:03.040 But that just,
01:49:03.860 that mentality has always been around where everyone always wants to have everything for
01:49:09.180 themselves. So, you know, we talk about Egypt individually. We talk about Assyria individually.
01:49:15.880 We talk about Mitanni individually. We talk about Nubia individually. We talk about all
01:49:21.820 that individually, but they all had such a major role in everybody else's lives. And if you really
01:49:29.340 look at at it in that way i'm i'm honestly surprised that humanity has lasted as long as it
01:49:37.880 has it's baffling i know yeah because there's there's been good things about merging but
01:49:45.820 there's been way more bad things about merging and so it's just it's weird how anyone has ever
01:49:51.800 survived some of this stuff because even though some of it any anyone that conquers is not doing
01:49:57.720 it in a peaceful way, but some of them have been just so brutal, so brutal. How did anyone survive
01:50:05.340 that? And so Rome is one of them where they were so brutal on a lot of the places that they took
01:50:11.600 over. How did the areas that they were conquering, how did they survive that in any way to be able
01:50:18.340 to rise up and fight back against Rome? It's just, it's amazing to me how society exists today
01:50:24.920 because you would have thought they would all just kill each other
01:50:27.920 because they all thought that they had a right to everything.
01:50:32.240 And, you know, no, you don't.
01:50:35.460 And it just keeps happening over and over in history.
01:50:39.000 There's some new, like, whatever, it's like Napoleon or whoever.
01:50:42.020 Like, somebody just comes up to be like, you know what I'm going to do?
01:50:43.900 Take over everything.
01:50:45.320 It's like that never works out.
01:50:49.160 And that's the thing.
01:50:50.220 You know, they're trying to get rid of this, that, and the other
01:50:52.680 on what's being taught in history classes and schools and stuff but it's like you know that's 1.00
01:50:57.140 why you dumbasses keep doing the same stupid shit over and over because you are not paying 1.00
01:51:02.520 attention to how that did not work out the last time someone tried it but you know what you do 1.00
01:51:10.000 you i guess and the thing is these people are making it has been like this forever the people
01:51:16.280 that consider themselves to be in control are the ones that are making the decisions and going out 0.99
01:51:20.100 and doing these dumb ass things. 0.99
01:51:22.040 And then it's the people under them 1.00
01:51:23.560 that are suffering from it,
01:51:25.440 but the people under them,
01:51:26.480 for whatever reason,
01:51:27.500 don't make them stop.
01:51:29.080 And that's another thing
01:51:30.120 that keeps happening time and time again
01:51:32.020 is the leaders are the ones
01:51:35.380 that are out there doing all this stuff
01:51:37.220 and everyone else is suffering from it.
01:51:38.720 The ones that are suffering,
01:51:40.320 do something about it.
01:51:41.660 And that never happened throughout history.
01:51:45.020 Well, I won't say never,
01:51:46.280 but it rarely happened throughout history
01:51:48.240 where the people that were suffering rose up and said you're not doing a good job we got to get
01:51:53.940 rid of you yeah and it's happened so few times successfully that you can list them it's like
01:52:02.000 the Haitian revolution like that happened like I'm trying to think there's it's so rare and so
01:52:08.520 unusual and I think part of it is like when we're thinking about like an ancient Egypt times like
01:52:12.460 you know these farmers were pictured they're like I don't know who the pharaoh is whatever I'm just
01:52:15.640 like doing my job it's like they're doing this backbreaking work and they're so tired at the end
01:52:19.080 of the day like how are they going to go to a meeting how are they going to like learn they
01:52:24.440 have rights how are they going to organize and it's and that benefits the the elites to keep
01:52:30.980 them exhausted so that they can't organize and and that's still the case today it is it's happened
01:52:37.280 to every society throughout history and you know fine so you don't want to teach about the uprisings
01:52:44.460 But, you know, you need to teach about your defeats because your defeats are going to keep happening because you only want to focus on one small area where you might have been in power.
01:52:57.960 But that's not quite how it is now.
01:53:00.420 So good luck to you, because I'm waiting to see what's going to happen in the next 15 years, where if they keep trying, if society keeps trying to suppress this, that and the other.
01:53:13.080 You know, who's going to get fed up? Yeah. You know, that was the whole point of the civil rights movement. Black folks got fed up. They had someone that stepped up and said, you know what, let's get this organized. They rallied behind those individuals and they got what they were working for to a certain extent.
01:53:31.420 what's going to happen in the next 15 years you guys going to keep trying to suppress society
01:53:35.340 well you know in today's world we have way too much information available to us
01:53:39.800 back in the day like in ancient egypt they had no information available to them on what was
01:53:44.540 happening like i said they were out there working their butts off in those fields and all they
01:53:48.560 wanted to do is go home eat go to bed you know and there's no way to like spread information back
01:53:53.240 then either it's like there was a newspaper written on a papyrus scroll that you can
01:53:58.740 that someone's riding on a horse to bring this stuff to you because they most of them probably
01:54:03.520 hadn't even seen horses they all had cattle yeah so it's like you know it's just things happened
01:54:10.000 the way they did back then and they probably had to happen that way because just the difference in
01:54:17.860 advancements in everything you know that you just didn't have it back then and there weren't as many
01:54:23.500 people back then either so you know just in general there's running the human population
01:54:29.760 just wasn't as large so people just focused on this is my world that's yeah that's it you know
01:54:36.760 it's not like that now but they're trying to make it like that now and that's one thing you're not
01:54:43.240 going to be able to go back on because yeah we've got too much available well no and especially i
01:54:47.460 think too, so much of it has to do with education. Like Cleopatra, she learned these languages,
01:54:54.400 she went out on the streets, like, you know, she saw what was going on and that helped her
01:54:57.580 understand things. Versus if somebody's not educated, then they don't know what is happening.
01:55:03.840 They don't know that there's other possibilities. They don't know that there's other countries where
01:55:06.740 things are different. But now, and so now like the overall standard of education is higher now
01:55:12.060 than then. But then you see this stuff where it's like, oh, let's stop teaching this and this and
01:55:15.620 this. It's like, you want to keep people ignorant because then they don't know any better.
01:55:19.820 But you know, you cannot claim ignorance. Back then they could claim ignorance because the 0.64
01:55:23.960 information wasn't available. We've got so much information available to us and too many ways to
01:55:28.280 get to it. You can't claim ignorance anymore. I mean, show me a 12 year old author that doesn't
01:55:35.200 have a damn cell phone. Well, last time I checked, unless your parents just completely locked that 0.98
01:55:40.920 phone down you're gonna be able to find whatever you want using that cell phone or get on the
01:55:47.160 internet on your laptop i mean i don't think there's any parent on this earth that can lock
01:55:51.240 their stuff down enough for a kid can't find what they're looking for the point of like let's ban
01:55:55.840 books it's like who reads a book at that age anymore they look at what's that gonna do like
01:56:02.680 okay they can't get a book but they have their phone like they have the internet
01:56:06.660 And I think that that's a major thing to think about when you had downfalls back in the ancient time is they just have lack of information and they have lack of ability to get that information out there.
01:56:22.300 So, you know, someone could have heard something about someone five years ago and they haven't heard an update on it since then.
01:56:30.280 Well, then all of a sudden they hear that person's name began like, oh, well, they did such and such.
01:56:34.460 So I'm going to fight against them. Or they could have completely changed it to somebody completely different five years later. But with that lack of information, lack of ability to get it out there, I think contributed to a lot of losing battles, a lot of not making the right decisions on different political stances on things, because the information just wasn't available.
01:57:02.180 it just it just it wasn't possible and so I don't know how much that would have affected Cleopatra
01:57:08.180 because she seemed to have a pretty good system of spies to get the information to her however
01:57:14.140 it's not like someone could pick up the phone and tell her so if someone was in Rome and they saw
01:57:19.600 something happen they write it down on a scroll and it takes five months to get it back to her
01:57:26.040 well what's what's happened in that five months since that scroll was written no exactly and
01:57:30.840 that's what's so impressive to me about her but i will say about like the others you know julius 0.94
01:57:37.460 caesar etc and the men like to be able to do a good job of staying on top of your shit when 0.86
01:57:45.880 it takes months to get information from place to place like yep and and if it was if you were 0.99
01:57:53.800 landlocked okay fine so put someone on a horse um they get to the next camp they hold hand it off
01:57:59.620 someone with a fresh horse to get it to the next but you had you could not get to egypt without
01:58:05.020 sailing there so how long did it really take for them to get information about stuff to make
01:58:11.840 informed decisions this yeah that would have made that would have made warfare back then
01:58:18.220 extremely difficult um because you could never really keep up exactly with what was happening
01:58:23.380 with things and in a way you have to feel sorry for them because you know they're trying to they're
01:58:28.840 trying to make real-time decisions based on old information and so that's always going to work
01:58:33.860 against you and so i think cleopatra as someone in today's world would be the ultimate queen of
01:58:41.720 everything yes i think i think if she didn't have well i mean just imagine like if she didn't have 0.62
01:58:48.660 to deal with like the patriarchy and stuff but if also there wasn't war going on like what would 0.62
01:58:54.220 she she might have been like a scholar or she might have you know like what would she have done 0.88
01:58:57.880 if she didn't have to spend all her time just like dealing with Rome like and murderous
01:59:03.560 kept her pretty busy that in and of itself is a full-time job no that's true but yeah I agree
01:59:12.800 I think if she's around today I think she'd be like CEO but also just like I don't know I agree
01:59:18.600 I think she'd be doing all the things and she'd be excelling because if she has this like charisma 0.72
01:59:22.380 like she's gonna get those investors she's gonna get people to support her she's gonna get people 0.69
01:59:27.780 to follow her like yeah yeah it would be it would be interesting to be able to bring some people
01:59:33.920 from the past to today's world and just have them just automatically caught up with how society
01:59:41.400 works today don't be stuck in how things were back then and just see how they would thrive 0.99
01:59:46.000 because if you could thrive back then good lord oh my god the the like whatever she was what 40
01:59:53.760 or something when she died it's just like good job like that's a long time to survive with all
02:00:01.320 the stuff she had going on around her i just yeah i can't imagine i can't see anyone else
02:00:06.860 in that situation doing any better than she did basically agreed agreed um based on what she had
02:00:14.920 to work with the information she got whenever she got it i i honestly don't think anyone could
02:00:21.940 have done any better. Yeah. Cleopatra, a real one. Thank you so much, Gina. And I just want
02:00:27.680 the listeners to know that you are going to be coming back soon. We're going to be talking
02:00:31.840 in another extended Anne and Gina-length episode. It might have a part one, part two. We'll see.
02:00:39.880 Oh, I'm down for part three if needed. I'm going to blog off the whole day and we'll just see how
02:00:47.740 it goes but yeah we can't say what it's about but yeah it's um it's about one of the things that you
02:00:52.800 know a lot about oh and i am greatly looking forward to that conversation i i always love
02:00:57.000 geeking out with you it's so much fun and then it's funny and then i post it i'm like oh god
02:01:01.240 people listen to that um sorry folks i don't mean to drone on all right thank you thank you so much
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