00:02:59.360Really well. I think that it's been nice to go to bookstores in other cities and meet a lot of
00:03:07.120people who are feeling the same way, which is that we're constantly told that people get more
00:03:12.120conservative as they age. And I am the exact opposite. And I have so many things that I want
00:03:20.640to change that I hope will change. Yeah. Let's see. We have so many great questions. And I just
00:03:27.700want to say that like we would, there are very few people who I would trust to have like fantastic
00:03:33.940answers for all of these but you are one of the most like sometimes I think people say well-read
00:03:40.640and they mean it as like I don't know it's like a snobby like you're like that person's so well-read
00:03:46.000I don't know you don't want to be friends with that person you are a person who's well-read that
00:03:49.500I want to be friends with thank you that's really lovely um you know I have not mastered the
00:03:54.980classics all of them but I am pretty up on what's out right now and uh that's been fun
00:04:01.160And also, we should have put some of your CV here. How did you become a person who talks about books?
00:04:08.200I thought I was going to be a book editor. In my 20s, I worked at Simon & Schuster. That's the way I thought of myself. That's how I identified. And then I switched companies and was abruptly laid off.
00:04:22.540and the rest of my career has been kind of like trying to be in and around books as much as I can
00:04:30.800so I was the editorial director of book of the month for a while I was the publishing outreach
00:04:37.500lead at kickstarter and I've just been I've been freelance writing about books for a long time now
00:04:43.060I feel like there are so many problems in the world and so many problems specifically in book
00:04:48.680publishing. And yet the books are still good and they're coming a mile a minute. And that's
00:04:55.080weird and wonderful. Yeah, that's such a great way of thinking about it. You also have a really
00:05:00.740wonderful newsletter that is always giving me ideas. So we will link that prominently in the
00:05:06.140show notes. Thank you. What have you learned about people's reading habits or even about like
00:05:12.100how to make effective recommendations for people? Yeah, I think challenging them a little bit.
00:05:18.680is really, really great. I think people get stuck in their comfort zones. And I think that's lovely.
00:05:26.520We should all have comfort zones that we can escape to when we need to. But I think that
00:05:33.020the way that your world really widens is by trying something just a little bit new.
00:05:39.620Yeah. Yeah, totally. And like also watching your discomfort too and being like, hmm,
00:05:45.620Why am I reacting this way to this? Like, is it because of the style? Is it because of the content? Is it because like the emotions that it's inciting? Like, all of that, I think is really interesting. And sometimes if we react with repulsion instead of curiosity, or confusion, like, the curiosity, I think, keeps us in a book. And it's like, well, I'm going to see like how I feel about this moving forward.
00:06:08.760And that's like a good life strategy, too, just to be, you know, totally, totally. What have you been reading lately?
00:06:16.360Oh, OK. So I am reading right now. I'm reading Joe Piazza's new book.
00:06:22.940Everyone is reading this. It is so fun and delightful. And she's a member of my writing group.
00:06:31.400And so really glad she's having this moment.
00:06:34.580I'm also halfway through The Parisian by Isabella Hamad, who I have I loved her last two books and I never read her debut.
00:06:43.780And it's big. It's one of these like real epic kind of books.
00:06:50.680OK, so today we're going to do something slightly different, but it's basically a concierge where people have written in with a couple of books that they love.
00:06:59.240and the style of book that they're looking for.
00:07:02.100And then we're going to give them recommendations and challenges.
00:07:24.100Or I used to read a lot and I feel like my brain doesn't work anymore.
00:07:26.880we are going to have an Ask Anne Anything segment that Maris is going to join me for
00:07:31.860to address that. So stay tuned. And by the way, you're about to hear like eight million book
00:07:38.500titles, and we're going to list all of them in the Substack post for this episode. So you don't
00:07:44.540have to worry about writing them down right now. Let's hear from our first listener, Lauren.
00:07:49.620I've been in a reading rut for months, only able to plow through romance novels. I'm looking for
00:07:55.220fiction that I won't be able to put down. Recent books that made me feel this way were Eleanor
00:08:00.040Catton's Burnham Wood, Marie Helene Bertino's Beautyland, Rachel Kong's Real Americans,
00:08:06.160and Rita Bullwinkle's Headshot. Okay. I didn't put a recommendation down for this one because
00:08:11.540I was like, I'm going to come back to it because this is, I think this is at the heart of like
00:08:15.000half of our recommendations was I want a literary book that I can't put down.
00:08:19.180Yeah. And what I'm seeing as the commonality here, like Burnham Wood, very propulsive, real Americans, like the first, I would say, third of real Americans is like addictive.
00:09:35.400And it does something really interesting as the book goes on.
00:09:40.180This is all I'll say, because I don't want to spoil it.
00:09:41.900Yeah. I really loved also just talking about the book, which is something that like some people are like, oh, I just like did not do it for me. And other people were addicted to it. And I think actually Burnham Wood is similar.
00:09:54.240And I think the other book that's like that right now, which I loved, is Audition by Katie Kitamura.
00:10:01.380Katie's book really did remind me of Susan Choi's book in the best kind of way. So yes, if you're into that kind of thing.
00:10:09.000And then another one that has been very discussed in Culture Study Comments the last, like, month is Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaughey.
00:10:18.480And I got totally wrapped into that book.
00:10:22.600Like, when Charlie read it, he was like, this is, like, the propulsiveness of reading, like, God of the Woods or something.
00:10:36.080especially as an, so I, this isn't, it hasn't completely run along these lines, but I think
00:10:42.380whether or not you have kids or your feelings about motherhood just generally
00:10:47.520dictates some of your reactions. Okay. Well, if you liked it, I'll like it probably.
00:10:53.320Well, I liked the book and then I hated the ending. So now you're going to have to decide
00:10:57.500what you feel about it. Yeah. Okay. So we got those. And again, we'll put all of these
00:11:02.160recommendations in the show notes. And then I should say that I have a couple of
00:11:05.960all-time favorites that are a little further back but eat the document by dana spiota what's that
00:11:13.520about it's about a former radical who's been in hiding but it's not even like it's uh it takes
00:11:21.320place yeah in the 70s um and it's just that it's so quick and there's so much good dialogue and
00:11:27.880the descriptions are so wonderful and it really grabs you right away yeah say um and then also
00:11:34.520Boy Snowbird by Helen Oyemi. I think it's one of her, she does a lot of experimental stuff. And I
00:11:41.240think this is one of her most accessible and it's really quick and breezy, but there's a lot there
00:11:47.740to mull over. Yeah. The other one I might suggest is something that we're going to talk about a
00:11:53.400little bit later, or at least someone referenced this as one of their favorites, which is The
00:11:57.200trees by percival everett oh which like i mean that's my favorite book is it really it's one of
00:12:05.280my favorites i like it a lot more than james i will really wow oh i like them both so much and
00:12:12.020for different reasons like the trees the first time i read it i think i read it in two nights
00:12:16.340like i read half because it reads almost like a play right it really does and it's so biting
00:12:23.000Truly. And you just, you don't expect it to go where it goes.
00:12:27.740Exactly. So, okay, that's our other recommendation then. Okay, next up, we have a question from Amy.
00:12:33.800I grew up very evangelical, which is its own unique and huge publishing culture. Through those evangelical publishers, I fell in love with historical fiction and romance novels, especially those set in the American West.
00:12:47.660But now that I'm no longer religious, I have no idea where to look for this kind of novel anymore that's not full of prayer and colonialism.
00:13:01.100I have so many recommendations on this because I have gone through, like, I was very into Western lit, not like cowboy lit, but like literature set in the American West at various points of my life.
00:13:14.160But the first one that came to mind is actually Debra Magpie Earlene's Permared, which is a classic in Montana.
00:13:21.640Like every person has heard of this book, read this book.
00:13:25.420And it's written by a woman who is a professor at University of Montana.
00:13:30.120And it's about a native woman growing up on the Flathead Reservation.
00:15:01.800But it's like, remember the character that's played by Haley, what's her name, in True Grit?
00:15:10.780It's like, what if that girl, what if like, yeah, yeah, it's just, and it's also beautiful, like an incredible sense of voice and immersion, and just like a romp.
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00:21:09.280Okay, another romance-related question, and this one comes from Monica.
00:21:13.120I like contemporary romance because it's so fast to read,
00:21:15.960and I like literary fiction sometimes because it can be so intriguing and interesting to think
00:21:21.280about. I especially like it when these two areas intersect. Books I really like include Free Food
00:21:26.440for Millionaires by Min Jin Lee, Nora Goes Off Script by Annabelle Moynihan, and De-Transition
00:21:32.040Baby by Tori Peters. Generally, I found that Sally Rooney's books fall into this Venn diagram,
00:21:37.920but I could not get into her most recent book. Okay, this is a struggle for me because I don't
00:21:44.080read a lot of contemporary romance like all of the romances i love are all historical and i'm
00:21:49.680not i'm talking about like romance romance and also like romance literary romance except for
00:21:56.680sally rooney oh well i this is one of my favorite categories okay okay tell me one of my favorite
00:22:04.720books of the year so far is liquid a love story by mariam rahmani and it's about a young persian
00:22:13.380woman who is very smart. She's getting her PhD. Like she sounds like she's maybe you, Annie.
00:22:21.020She knows so much about pop culture. And she's like really studying the romance genre,
00:22:27.420the rom-com in particular, to figure out how to live her life. And then stuff goes wrong,
00:22:34.340I'll say. And it gets a little bit more serious, but it's so smart and such a good deconstruction
00:22:44.120of the rom-com that I think it's, I think it's so fun. Oh, you know, this actually, okay. There
00:22:50.020are some contemporary romances I read. I thought the Rachel incident was both very funny. That was
00:22:55.500also on my list. That's by Caroline O'Donohue, also a guest on this podcast. Very funny. And
00:23:04.120it like the love story is so lived in and lovely I just it's and funny and good I don't know it's
00:23:11.420juicy and real juicy and there's just that little element of of cringe always in the background
00:23:19.960because it's set in 2008 2009 so it's very much like hearkening back to I don't know a period when
00:23:28.120i was certainly embarrassing um the other one i thought of that is not like my favorite lily king
00:23:34.680but other people love it so much is writers and lovers yes that's great it's great and that's
00:23:42.520set in the late 90s in boston yeah and it's about like basically like figuring out your life and
00:23:52.360there's a nice little love story in there yeah beautifully written one of my favorite books of
00:23:58.560all time is the giant's house by elizabeth mccracken oh yes and that is just the ideal to
00:24:08.120me it's about a librarian who falls in love with a so-called giant like a man who is is very large
00:24:15.980due to gigantism, I think. And their love is so pure, and aspirational, and beautiful and
00:24:27.180complicated. And it's great. I would also say, read Laurie Colwyn, if you like a romance that's
00:24:36.860really well written, happy all the time is delightful. All of her books are really fun
00:25:37.040Oh, the other one that maybe, I don't know, maybe this is too old, but it's short stories.
00:25:42.220but Cowboys Are My Weakness and this would be a recommendation this would be a recommendation
00:25:46.920to the previous person as well. Cowboys Are My Weakness is a collection of short stories
00:25:50.680by Pam Houston who I also love deeply fell in love with in 1992 and I got to meet her
00:25:57.900when I was doing a profile of a different writer of Tommy Orange and Therese Mallett a couple years
00:26:05.000ago and I like I like it took everything in me like I had to like very quietly be like
00:26:10.100that ways of my weakness is a very important book to me like it was so embarrassing but all of my
00:26:16.080friends too and like we all read this book it was one of those books in college where you like
00:26:20.960it passed through every single person in the friend group yes and you can like remember vivid
00:26:26.280things about it like there's a story about ice camping with a guy and like but I think really
00:26:32.840lovely too to just kind of revisit that feeling of like falling deeply in love but then also
00:26:39.160realizing that that that's not enough always right yeah yeah I think um a similar book for me
00:26:48.080is the dot avocado by Elaine Dundee oh yeah which is an NYRB book so it's really beautiful but it's
00:26:55.220about a an American girl I'm gonna call her a girl because she's 19 but she's girlish um who
00:27:03.480goes to Paris and has adventures and falls in love many times. And it is delightful.
00:27:10.560That's a very NYRB book. Can you describe for listeners what an NYRB book is, like these
00:27:16.400reissues? Yeah, there's a publisher that makes, first of all, all their books are beautiful and
00:27:22.940all of their spines line up together to make a beautiful little stack on your bookshelf.
00:27:29.200very pleasing it's very pleasing and what they've done is they've taken lost classics from
00:27:36.660mostly from the last century but some from before um and kind of reintroduce them as a little bit
00:27:44.740more like i think that myrb is great curation oh yeah new york review of books yeah it's so good
00:27:55.440at curation that you also know that if they're doing the reissue of that book it's worth a read
00:28:02.080yeah and it doesn't mean like highfalutin necessarily yeah no it's stuff that like
00:28:09.120i'm trying to like a version of like a book that was like very celebrated and everyone read it
00:28:15.420in like 1932 right yeah and then like it just kind of got lost in that like you know the maze
00:28:22.880of the decades right because it wasn't it didn't become like a classic for all time right but it
00:28:27.460was like a classic of that moment um okay next question from cheney i love ann tyler she does0.84
00:28:35.680an amazing job at writing complex family dramas from dinner at the homesick restaurant to searching
00:28:40.840for caleb to french braid her work is prolific and nuanced i've found two other authors who have
00:28:48.040some similar talent for family dramas, Jamie Attenberg and Claire Lombardo. Now that I've
00:28:53.940finished all of their works, I'm looking for another author with good family dramas. I asked
00:28:59.760ChatGPT, but the author it suggested, Elizabeth Stroup, doesn't capture the nuanced and multifaceted
00:29:06.020nature of families like the other three. Any suggestions? I love this question. I love like
00:29:12.940chat gbt don't listen to chat no never go ask your bookseller what they would recommend so i have i
00:29:21.080have an unexpected recommendation perhaps okay but he blurbed jamie attenberg's most famous book
00:29:31.160the middle steens yes um and it's jonathan franzen i was just gonna say jonathan we're on the same
00:29:39.080page another my note my note to myself here was unfortunately i'm going to have to suggest
00:29:45.160yeah he's he's he's good at it multiple points of view all family members struggling like freedom
00:29:56.440is so freaking good like i remember when i was reading it and i was like god damn it this is so
00:30:01.940good like you really can't go wrong i mean the corrections so good exquisite like yeah i haven't
00:30:09.740read crossroads but charlie read it and really liked it i enjoyed it a lot yeah it's and they're
00:30:15.080also like very similar to what she's describing like they're enveloping you're like i am very
00:30:20.080invested in this family and there is a lot of complication going on and a lot of understanding
00:30:25.700of like the complexity of human relationships with like all of it i would also mention another man
00:30:31.800we're really um you might know kevin wilson from now is not the time to panic and a couple of other
00:30:39.400books but his first book is perfect and it's called the family fang and it's about the fang
00:30:45.660family and how messed up they are and it is so funny and poignant uh i highly recommend1.00
00:30:52.900he is so funny he's just like i'm always surprised by how much i laugh when i when i read his books
00:30:59.160And then the other person I was going to recommend is Louise Erdrich, because all of her books, they're all connected in some tenuous ways, like either by place, but oftentimes by actual family.
00:31:12.480If you can deal with short stories, some people like they're just allergic to them.
00:31:17.120I understand why, but maybe challenge yourself and read Love Medicine, which is like the classic of all of her many classics.
00:31:28.000But then, like, a lot of her recent ones, too, are really telling the story of various families and how, like, their weird relationship with one another.
00:40:10.100just just the group yeah so the group is so well known and so great and so big and like so elaborate
00:40:17.880and then the company she keeps is short stories and they're like they're my understanding if i'm
00:40:24.140remembering this correctly is that they're loosely based on some parts of her own life but they i
00:40:29.740like all of that wit that you associate with mary mccarthy like reflected a little bit more back
00:40:34.420onto herself i thought was very interesting and then the other one that i have been recently
00:40:39.700talking about in various threads on culture study is olivia wolfgang smith's mutual interest
00:40:44.820which i think has that same incredible snappiness so witty and fun um and there is a friendship
00:40:54.460an unexpected friendship that really is at the root of it um and and various love stories too
00:41:01.480but like we'll give you that same sort of like that dialogue that sharpness for lack of a better
00:41:08.800much about smells oh yes totally and candles and like yeah really great really great do you have
00:41:17.740other recommendations here i do um one of my favorite recent books i think it came out a few
00:41:24.380years ago is we ride upon sticks by quam berry and it's about a field hockey team in the 80s
00:41:33.340everyone has a distinctive character and the way they interact is just so fun and it's really all
00:41:41.820about figuring out who you are um the other one i wanted to mention was help wanted by adele
00:41:47.660waldman um yeah this is about a group of workers at basically what is meant to be assumed to be a
00:41:57.180target and, um, how they all work together to, uh, get one of their enemies out of management,
00:42:08.900but also just like, it's a little bit more mundane. It's not about rich people,
00:42:14.040but it's really, really good and, um, really reflects, I think the country we live in.
00:42:22.020And I also was thinking about not too on the nose that this person wants books that have friendship and striving at their heart. But this book called My Friends by Sean Mattar is about basically like, okay, what happens when you are essentially exiled from your country, from Libya in this case, starting when you are 18 and like have to figure out with other exiles, like who you are?
00:42:51.020Are you Libyan? Are you British? What is your future? Can you ever return? What it's going to be like if and when some people in your group return. And it's not a big bombastic book. It is a book that is at its heart about friendship and identity formation.
00:43:08.040And I learned so much about everything that happened over the course of the last 30 years in Libya and really loved it.