In Bed With The Right - November 18, 2025


Episode 107 -- Did Women Ruin Everything?

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00:00:00.000 The most important sex difference in group dynamics is attitude to conflict. 0.74
00:00:03.540 In short, men wage conflict openly while women covertly undermine or ostracize their enemies. 0.75
00:00:10.000 Well, you'll be happy to hear, Helen, that we are currently waging open conflict
00:00:14.660 and Maura is not interested in covertly undermining or ostracizing you. 1.00
00:00:18.960 You suck. 1.00
00:00:19.640 I will, you know, in my feminine nature, suggest and attempt to persuade Helen Andrews to go fuck herself. 1.00
00:00:30.000 Hello, I'm Adrienne Dobb. 1.00
00:00:35.000 And I'm Moira Donegan.
00:00:36.140 And whether we like it or not, we're in bed with the right.
00:00:39.940 So, Adrienne, first things first.
00:00:42.960 Our listeners have to come hang out with us in San Francisco.
00:00:47.300 This episode is going to come out on Tuesday, November 18th.
00:00:52.740 Our live show is Thursday, November 20th at the Swedish American Hall on Market Street at San Francisco.
00:01:00.000 There's still a few tickets left.
00:01:01.920 Come hang out.
00:01:02.620 It's going to be really fun.
00:01:04.060 So literally run, don't walk.
00:01:05.340 If you walk, it's going to be too late.
00:01:07.560 Yeah, if you walk, it'll be Thursday.
00:01:09.800 Come hang out with us. 0.96
00:01:10.920 We're going to have a really good time because we're going to be talking about something a little like what we're talking about today, which just drove me so fucking nuts, Adrian.
00:01:23.980 Like I had, as I think I was supposed to, a little bit of a meltdown and we weren't totally sure what we were going to do for this week's episode.
00:01:34.340 And then, whoops, I wrote 11 pages in this document.
00:01:38.180 So you're coming with me on this sick, sad journey.
00:01:41.400 Yeah, when this headline dropped, my first thought was like, is this bait?
00:01:45.200 Are they just baiting Moira at this point?
00:01:47.500 And when we told our producer, Margaret Izumi, what we were recording on, he immediately clocked what this was going to be about too.
00:01:53.560 She was like, oh, yeah, that article or that podcast episode, I guess. 0.96
00:01:56.640 It was meant for people like us to respond to and fuck it, here we go, right? 1.00
00:02:01.880 Yeah, here's your slop, piggies. 0.99
00:02:03.820 This is me speaking to Helen Andrews, who I am going to be talking about in like ad hominem terms that undermine my own professionalism. 1.00
00:02:13.460 Just to give you guys a little trigger warning.
00:02:15.660 Because today we are talking about the reality that I know has been bothering all of us for a long time. 1.00
00:02:22.600 the fact that women have ruined the world. 1.00
00:02:26.360 You heard it here. 1.00
00:02:27.160 Well, you did not hear it here first.
00:02:29.380 You read it in the New York Times.
00:02:30.960 You heard it on the New York Times.
00:02:32.660 You read it in the American Conservative.
00:02:34.120 You read it in Compact Magazine.
00:02:36.680 You've probably heard it from J.D. Vance
00:02:39.020 on various podcast appearances.
00:02:40.880 You've heard it from Peter Thiel. 1.00
00:02:42.240 Yes, women ruined the world. 1.00
00:02:44.220 This is the thesis of a lecture and essay 1.00
00:02:47.120 that have gone viral on the far right
00:02:49.500 and now increasingly in the American mainstream.
00:02:53.460 And it states plainly what a lot of right-wing political commentators
00:02:58.060 have been alluding to sort of strategically
00:03:00.920 or trying to say without saying,
00:03:03.880 this is the piece that goes for it,
00:03:07.220 which is the growing conservative sentiment,
00:03:10.120 particularly acute in those post-liberal and anti-democracy circles
00:03:14.860 that now have considerable sway over members of the Trump inner circle. 1.00
00:03:19.500 that women's presence in public life is responsible for ruining American institutions 1.00
00:03:24.800 and poses an existential threat to Western civilization. 1.00
00:03:29.600 That's right, folks.
00:03:31.020 Today, we're talking about Helen Andrews' The Great Feminization.
00:03:35.580 A.K.A. Women Be Ruining Things. 1.00
00:03:38.300 So, Adrian, what do you know about The Great Feminization? 1.00
00:03:41.600 Yeah, full disclosure, I'm not a huge compact magazine reader.
00:03:44.860 Oh, I'm shocked.
00:03:45.460 Because I value my sanity and eyeballs.
00:03:48.220 So it came first to my attention the way it comes to any Normie Libs' attention.
00:03:53.120 An episode of Interesting Times, where Ross Douthat interviewed two guests, Helen Andrews and Leah Libresco Sargent.
00:03:59.980 This whole thing was designed as just catnip for, yeah, people like us.
00:04:05.080 It first went viral for the headline, which was quite striking.
00:04:08.860 And which then, in its habitual pusillanimous fashion, the New York Times changed bit by bit to really more distort the meaning.
00:04:20.460 Remind me what the initial one said. 1.00
00:04:22.300 Did women ruin the workplace, right? 1.00
00:04:24.380 Question mark? 1.00
00:04:25.320 Yeah.
00:04:25.700 Question mark.
00:04:26.060 It was a question mark. 1.00
00:04:30.060 And then they changed it to, did liberal feminism ruin the workplace? 1.00
00:04:35.480 Yeah. 1.00
00:04:36.500 It's a telling substitution.
00:04:37.860 substitution. In some way, the cover-up is almost worse than the crime, but the crime
00:04:41.420 also worse than the cover-up. So I don't really know.
00:04:43.900 This podcast episode was pitched as a debate between Helen Andrews and Leah Labresco Sargent,
00:04:53.320 who pitches herself as a conservative feminist. You know, I keep thinking of that line in
00:04:58.200 Princess Bride where Mandy Patinkin is like, you keep using that word. I don't think it means what
00:05:03.060 you think it means it speaks to the like sort of evacuation of all meaning from the term feminism 0.99
00:05:09.320 that labresco sargent refers to herself as a feminist because what she really is is kind of a 1.00
00:05:15.040 um condescending and paternalistic style of misogynist right she's advocating for a like 0.99
00:05:24.520 kinder gentler misogyny that treats women as children as opposed to helen andrews sort of 1.00
00:05:31.140 like volatile, violent, contemptuous misogyny that treats them as sort of like a human disease,
00:05:35.780 you know. Those are about the two poles of the spectrum at the New York Times.
00:05:39.920 The new headline was really slathering lipstick on the proverbial pig because 0.85
00:05:43.860 Andrews essentially argued, as I understood it, that the presence of women in the workplace
00:05:47.640 had caused, quote, all the ways that our institutions seem very clearly and self-evidently 1.00
00:05:52.360 broken and not working. So you might also think like, well, I know some institutions that aren't
00:05:57.100 working. What does she mean? Well, wait till you find out what those ways are. It's wokeness. It's
00:06:02.680 just wokeness, but whatever. And then Sargent arguing that basically being dependent on men
00:06:08.700 is good, actually. Sargent is also shilling a book called The Dignity of Dependence. I hope we can
00:06:16.020 link in the show notes to what I thought was a very smart and devastating review by Becca Rothfeld
00:06:23.460 of the Washington Post, which skewers Sargent's claims about women as sort of uniquely dependent
00:06:31.220 and uniquely primed to what Sargent considers the virtues of dependence. I think Rothfeld,
00:06:37.760 who is quite a bit smarter than Sargent is, not that that's a high bar, deals with this very
00:06:42.780 adeptly. These are two far-right conservatives, but today we're really mostly dealing with Andrews
00:06:49.460 Because it's Andrews whose piece has gone viral, I think, because it's sort of expressing a right-wing id.
00:06:56.720 She has her finger on the pulse much more of the American right than Sargent does.
00:07:03.120 Can I ask you about Compact magazine very briefly?
00:07:05.540 Because I sort of am aware of it as kind of a left, far right, weird, diagonalist magazine.
00:07:12.780 But this piece, which admittedly is the first I've read of theirs in quite a while, not particularly diagonalist.
00:07:21.120 It's about as diagonalist as like Jerry Falwell.
00:07:23.700 So I'm like, are they just openly a right-wing magazine now?
00:07:27.280 Or is this just like, oh, we print all kinds of people.
00:07:30.200 We are free speech absolutists and we only just happen to always platform people who want women to be broodmares or whatever.
00:07:36.720 Or is this also a sign of a shift within Compaq magazine?
00:07:40.380 Compaq is a little bit of a sticky widget.
00:07:42.140 You know, I actually went to graduate school with one of the founders.
00:07:45.820 Oh, which one?
00:07:46.380 A guy named Edwin Aponte, who is the nominal leftist.
00:07:49.700 Oh my God, he was insufferable.
00:07:51.740 He like, he was the worst guy in grad school, which is a high bar, right?
00:07:57.080 Like you don't get an MFA unless you are a personally insufferable person.
00:08:01.600 I can say this as somebody who has one, right?
00:08:03.340 It's like, it's not an activity pursued by the non-annoying, 0.57
00:08:06.780 But he would like divert every workshop to be a discussion of his own psychosexual hangups in this relentlessly consistent way.
00:08:18.200 And it wasn't really shocking to me that he, a few years after our cohort finished and got our little graduate degree, is that he went on to form this magazine along with like two far-right conservatives.
00:08:31.480 It was a online magazine that had a big sort of press rollout when it launched in which they were, you know, very cagey about who was bankrolling it.
00:08:44.520 They said they had a like large scale but anonymous funder and it was meant to be this kind of like left brown alliance magazine, an intellectual rag for this like anti elite sentiment that was supposed to merge sort of right wing social views with more generous or like welfare forward economic, like a welfare chauvinist or like welfare white racism kind of vision, kind of like what's being peddled by Josh Hawley.
00:09:14.520 What happened was that Aponte, like, left pretty quickly.
00:09:19.220 He was their one nominal leftist, and he bounced, like, immediately.
00:09:23.620 And, you know, they, from the outset, were mostly publishing arguments for ways to, like, roll back the social movements of the 20th century.
00:09:36.000 In particular, they've always been really kind of leaning into anti-gay and anti-feminist, like, kind of slop, right?
00:09:44.460 Maybe we'll mention a couple of people who've written for them over the years. 0.96
00:09:47.100 One of their nominal leftists is Slavoj Zizek, who will write for anyone,
00:09:49.960 basically, if you provide him with, you know, the requisite mountain of Peruvian marching powder.
00:09:55.760 But they also have people like, I think people like Adrian Vermeule, right?
00:10:00.680 Glenn Greenwald, totally nominally on the left still.
00:10:04.200 Michael Tracy, the guy who got clocked by who?
00:10:06.900 Oh, wasn't it Maxine Waters?
00:10:08.260 Maxine Waters, yeah.
00:10:09.260 Who's like a million years old? Yeah, like a tiny old lady. 1.00
00:10:12.080 Patrick Deneen. The leftism of it really feels pretty attenuated at this point, I have to say. I guess that's what I was asking.
00:10:18.680 I think if you like look for leftism and compact, you have to do a lot of intellectual work to sort of stretch their content over a frame of leftist principles. If you assume that they are like culture war misogynists and homophobes, a lot of what they're doing will make a lot more sense.
00:10:40.080 It's a shorter trip to get to that conclusion.
00:10:43.140 You know what I mean?
00:10:43.780 I was going to say, either it's the intellectual labor of trying to figure out how just because it's anti-liberal makes it somehow leftism.
00:10:48.740 The other option is just to put a plastic bag over your head and right before you black out, it'll briefly make sense in some wonderful flash of like, oh, Mabel.
00:10:59.700 Yeah.
00:11:00.380 So, you know, Andrew's piece ran in compact in mid-October.
00:11:05.520 I think they published it October 16th.
00:11:07.440 That was something Compact did to ride a wave of virality that Andrews was already like cresting on.
00:11:16.160 Because before her piece was published in Compact, she delivered it as an address at the National Conservatism Conference.
00:11:25.700 I didn't know this part.
00:11:27.380 Yes.
00:11:27.780 In early September of this year, it was in D.C. this year.
00:11:31.420 Yeah, yeah.
00:11:32.160 She delivered this as a speech at the National Conservatism Conference. 0.96
00:11:35.840 Do you want to give our listeners a gloss on this gathering of odious nerds and racist losers that happens every year? 0.97
00:11:43.880 Well, you stole my description. 0.99
00:11:45.460 It's a gathering of odious nerds and racist losers that happens every year. 1.00
00:11:49.320 It's sometimes abbreviated as NatCon if you're a complete douchebag. 0.99
00:11:54.140 I think it was sort of started by Yoram Hazoni, the Israeli-American thinker.
00:11:59.820 And it's basically a far-right sort of conclave with, you know, intellectual aspirations. 0.85
00:12:08.080 And it very regularly features some of the worst thinkers you've ever heard of and some of the most odious politicians you've ever heard of.
00:12:16.240 I mean, I know Farage has spoken there, Eric Zemmour, the guy who was further to the right from Marine Le Pen.
00:12:22.300 Honestly, like the National Conservatism Conference used to be this fringe right gathering of like nationalists, anti-feminists, like anti-anti-racist, politely putting it, sort of anti-gay, anti-immigration like thinkers.
00:12:40.020 And those were more fringe before, but now they have become more mainstream just because American politics and international politics have shifted so far to the right.
00:12:49.960 This conference is not a little deal, right?
00:12:53.340 And Helen Andrews' speech on the great feminization, which did not get top billing, but it was far and away the most popular presentation at the conference.
00:13:03.380 It was a tremendous hit among the audience there, and it went lightly viral on the right-wing internet.
00:13:10.240 It now has a time of recording.
00:13:12.620 It's got over a quarter million views on YouTube, which is a pretty big deal for like a political speech.
00:13:18.740 and it has been memed and recommended
00:13:23.800 and written about in this like viral way
00:13:26.820 on the online far right.
00:13:28.920 And so I think that should bring us
00:13:30.800 to our next question.
00:13:32.880 Yeah.
00:13:33.360 Who is Helen Andrews? 0.94
00:13:34.380 Who the hell? 0.93
00:13:35.540 Have you ever heard of this woman before? 0.99
00:13:37.480 No, no.
00:13:37.840 Okay, I actually had,
00:13:39.320 but only because I am...
00:13:41.380 A sicko?
00:13:43.320 Yeah, I'm online in a way
00:13:45.040 that damages my sanity and my character.
00:13:48.740 right? Well, I spent 3,500 words with Ms. Andrews and my sanity was definitely like
00:13:55.040 imperiled about halfway. And I'm like, am I not getting enough oxygen? What is happening right
00:13:59.520 now? It's not that long a piece and it manages to do shockingly little, even for its relatively
00:14:07.340 low word count. So Helen Andrews, she is basically like a pretty low rent, like middle of the pack 0.79
00:14:15.000 right-wing hack. She is now, with this great feminization, meeting what is far and away
00:14:22.860 her greatest success and kind of her first success as an outrage monger, right? This lean into good 0.86
00:14:29.880 or misogyny has done amazing things for her career over the past couple of months. So she's about 40.
00:14:36.000 I think she's like 39 or 40. She graduated with a BA in religion from Yale in 2008. She has spent, you know, like an undistinguished career as a middling staffer in editorial departments of right wing media outlets. Right.
00:14:53.060 So she was briefly at the National Review.
00:14:56.660 She was even more briefly at the Washington Examiner.
00:15:00.360 And she's been now at the American Conservative, where she's a senior editor, since 2020, right?
00:15:07.500 So she's put out one book in the course of this career, which was a 2021 volume, 0.78
00:15:12.680 arguing that the baby boomers are bad because they were all liberals during the new left era.
00:15:18.480 And that book flopped, right? 0.63
00:15:20.480 But still, congratulations to Ms. Andrews for what I'm sure will be a book forthcoming in 2027 from either Sentinel or Basic Liberty called The Great Feminization, right?
00:15:31.180 Oh, I think they'll get it out faster than that.
00:15:32.820 They're going to try and ride this wave pretty quick. 1.00
00:15:35.080 Andrews' misogynist turn has been an absolute sea change for her career over the past two months, right? 0.98
00:15:40.840 For like 10 years, more than 10 years, she's been languishing as this minor, professionally under-distinguished kind of character.
00:15:49.740 and now she's doing the interview circuit
00:15:52.440 and now she's appearing on all these panels
00:15:54.400 and podcasts and YouTube shows
00:15:56.300 and finally Roth do that show at the New York Times 1.00
00:15:59.720 to promote her idea that the world has been ruined by women. 1.00
00:16:03.140 This has been an amazing meal ticket for her 1.00
00:16:05.240 and it's the greatest success her career has ever had. 0.67
00:16:08.920 So what is the great feminization?
00:16:11.640 What is Helen Andrews' argument? 1.00
00:16:14.740 She like can't be said to have one.
00:16:16.640 And as prep for this recording, like sometimes one of us will do all the research, but I 0.97
00:16:23.400 was like, Adrian, I'm sorry, I need you to fucking read this thing. 0.87
00:16:28.800 And I did. 0.97
00:16:29.380 And you did. 1.00
00:16:30.600 And it sucked. 0.98
00:16:32.760 It's shocking how little the right has to have an argument, how low the intellectual 0.96
00:16:37.780 standards are for right-wing thought in general.
00:16:40.220 And I think really anti-feminism in particular, it's like, it's astounding.
00:16:43.940 The whole thing just felt almost ostentatiously, I don't know, diffident, right? The whole mode of argumentation, as far as I can tell, is just like, I read this thing and it made me think of this other thing. And isn't it also really this third thing, right? It's interesting to me that this started at a conference, although not an academic conference, because it really has the feeling of like, I wrote this on the plane, you know?
00:17:04.620 I mean, it's, yeah, it's a vibe-based piece.
00:17:09.980 She never defines her terms.
00:17:12.400 She argues throughout the entire piece in, like, these big generalities, in inferences, in assumptions that she doesn't justify.
00:17:22.900 She makes these, like, sweeping pronouncements about the character and behavior of fully half the human race.
00:17:31.020 And she doesn't feel the need to offer any evidence or any anecdote even.
00:17:37.880 It's kind of shocking how intently and insistently she remains in the sort of vague posturing in the general.
00:17:46.400 And she doesn't have to like have any sort of backing of data because she just keeps saying we all know this.
00:17:53.460 This is another characteristic of anti-feminist and right-wing writing is the sense of like smug certainty that is so self-assured that it pretends to not even like require recourse to evidence or to like more reasoned forms of argument that I don't think a feminist would ever get away with simply discarding, right?
00:18:15.380 So she's just evoking these vague, capacious terms for, like, values and social phenomena like wokeness, which she refused to define on the Ross Douthat show. 0.98
00:18:26.420 She never defines her terms.
00:18:28.440 It's actually nuts.
00:18:29.740 So, like, she doesn't define her terms.
00:18:31.380 But then isn't the entire argument essentially a correlation versus causation problem?
00:18:36.800 Her argument seems to be, look at what's happening to our institutions, namely wokeness.
00:18:42.120 Let's say we grant that for a second.
00:18:43.900 Let's say, like, I think it's wrong, but, like, let's say the diagnosis of American institutions was right and what ails them. 0.86
00:18:49.240 Her argument is to tag her arbitrary measures of decline to women attaining a majority in certain fields and institutions. 0.76
00:18:57.540 Like, even if that were true, which, again, I don't think it is, that would be a correlation.
00:19:02.500 That would be a potentially suggestive correlation, although one of many, right?
00:19:06.100 Cell phone use has also increased during that time.
00:19:08.940 Is it about the cell phones?
00:19:10.560 There's no theory of the case here as to what causally connects this.
00:19:14.320 There's no attempt to do it.
00:19:15.440 It's just like, these two things I don't like exist.
00:19:19.780 Wouldn't it stand to reason that they cause each other?
00:19:21.980 It's like, no, man.
00:19:23.500 Philosophers warn against that fallacy for a reason.
00:19:25.540 That's a pretty basic mistake to make.
00:19:27.140 See, we're already doing Andrews so many favors
00:19:30.440 because I do want to walk our listeners through her nominal argument
00:19:36.300 so that they don't have to inflict this essay on themselves.
00:19:38.820 But, like, in order to argue against her, you have to reconstruct an argument on her behalf and then argue against that, right? 1.00
00:19:50.580 Because she evokes vibes instead of data and channels this, like, imprecise sense of grievance instead of articulating any actual harms inflicted by women's presence in public life. 0.94
00:20:01.560 What I had to do in writing the notes for this episode is go in and insert law history and science into her argument in order to give me something coherent that I can argue against. 1.00
00:20:16.420 Helen Andrews just wrote like a vibes manifesto.
00:20:19.920 There is – there's no there there, right?
00:20:22.040 So what we are doing today is a project of steel manning.
00:20:25.740 But I think what you're getting at, Adrian, is that like Helen Andrews is relying really heavily on a longstanding and increasingly pervasive rhetorical association of liberalism with femininity and conservatism with masculinity, right?
00:20:45.080 Yeah. And if that assumption, which is like, again, not really borne out, if that assumption weren't in place, people would be asking questions like, is this correlation or is this causation? What is your source for this claim? And because it is there, she can just lean back on this vibe and not have to make an actual argument.
00:21:06.380 This is where, for me, in reading this, I guess I should have clocked that this was given at NatCon. 0.99
00:21:11.680 It makes sense as a text when someone comes in with all these priors, which, yeah, if you'd sat through all the other panels that day, you probably would readily stipulate to because these people all are busy, sorry, but sucking each other's dicks. 0.92
00:21:23.260 So it does make some sense that this text is ultimately not trying to draw anyone in. 0.94
00:21:30.300 And, you know, as lawyers would say, presume facts, not in evidence.
00:21:33.420 I mean, it's not really trying to persuade.
00:21:36.000 What it's trying to do is rally the troops by saying the thing that has been sort of an inchoate feature underlying a lot of right-wing grievances, right?
00:21:46.120 My guess is the fact that then Douthat picks it up, probably suggests what they really want is for the outrage occasioned by these kinds of theses to become a kind of justification for promulgating these theses all the more because we're being canceled, we're being silenced, this isn't being debated, why can't I go to a college campus and talk to people about this, why can't I, da-da-da-da-da, right?
00:22:08.180 I'm being silenced, you say, right into the microphone, you know?
00:22:11.400 Right, of the New York Times.
00:22:12.980 Yeah.
00:22:13.340 But the New York Times has a long-ass history of being like, oh, interesting.
00:22:18.100 Say more about that.
00:22:19.440 It's like, would you want a Marr booking?
00:22:20.580 We'll get you a Marr booking.
00:22:21.720 Yeah, like, is this white nationalist dapper? 1.00
00:22:25.000 So if the great feminization can be said to have a thesis, it's this, that women have 0.96
00:22:31.720 taken over the world and ruined it inevitably as they always were going to with wokeness. 1.00
00:22:39.160 Yeah. So Andrews supposes that women have now achieved parity or supremacy in numbers in many prestigious fields, which is a claim I would like a fucking fact check on. 1.00
00:22:50.780 She claims that men and women are naturally biologically different in their habits, their tendencies and their behaviors. 0.96
00:22:58.680 And that women are concerned with cooperation and compassion, but that we are also somehow like really vindictive and unforgiving and catty.
00:23:06.960 Meanwhile, men are somehow both jocular and rambunctious, but also more focused on, like, the substantive accomplishment of tasks.
00:23:17.540 So she summarizes it this way.
00:23:20.380 Do you want to read this, Adrian?
00:23:22.000 Sure.
00:23:22.800 Sure, why not?
00:23:24.200 So this is quoting.
00:23:25.260 I'm quoting here from The Great Feminization. 1.00
00:23:29.220 Female group dynamics favor consensus and cooperation. 0.98
00:23:32.880 Citation needed. 0.99
00:23:33.980 Men order each other around, but women can only suggest and persuade. 1.00
00:23:37.760 Okay. 0.99
00:23:38.580 Any criticism or negative sentiment, if it absolutely must be expressed,
00:23:41.840 needs to be buried in layers of compliments.
00:23:43.820 The outcome of a discussion is less important than the fact that a discussion was held
00:23:47.660 and everyone participated in it.
00:23:50.100 Oh, we got the participation trophy in there. Great.
00:23:52.780 The most important sex difference in group dynamics is attitude to conflict.
00:23:56.260 In short, men wage conflict openly, 0.72
00:23:58.540 while women covertly undermine or ostracize their enemies. 0.72
00:24:02.540 Well, you'll be happy to hear, Helen, that we are currently waging open conflict 0.99
00:24:07.200 and Maura is not interested in covertly undermining or ostracizing you. 1.00
00:24:11.520 You suck. 1.00
00:24:12.100 I will, you know, in my feminine nature, suggest and attempt to persuade Helen Andrews to go fuck herself. 1.00
00:24:20.600 To jump up her own ass. 1.00
00:24:22.000 So how does Andrew justify this claim, you might ask? 0.99
00:24:26.580 Why she does not.
00:24:27.980 And she later makes a brief and like kind of embarrassed reference to primatology.
00:24:34.480 The refuge of everyone who's not a total intellectual scoundrel.
00:24:38.220 She like speculates in a citation-free manner about evolutionary psychology.
00:24:45.400 Of course. 1.00
00:24:46.080 But mostly she just asserts this shit. 0.99
00:24:48.520 Like she just kind of blithely assumes that her audience will necessarily agree and believe her when she makes these sweeping claims about all the behavior of all of humanity. 0.99
00:25:02.340 So she doesn't have to offer evidence. And I think this is a moment to pause for a minute and zoom out to think about right wing attitudes towards what we might say are like observed differences between the behavior of men and women.
00:25:21.100 Right. Because, you know, me, I'm a I'm from a radical feminist tradition with like a pretty aggressive like social constructionist lens. Right.
00:25:29.920 So I am thinking about differences in men and women's aggregate behavior with an eye towards like history, with a sense that these differences might be, you know, people responding to different sets of incentives that they are presented with.
00:25:49.380 Like if women are on the whole, if we're talking vibes, if we're zooming out to the whole human race, if you want to say women are on the whole more conciliatory and less willing to engage in conflict, even if I grant you that, which I'm not sure I would, it's likely because they have experienced more acute consequences for straying from a narrow range of prescribed gender behaviors, right?
00:26:15.400 So, like, if women don't want to scream at somebody who pisses them off, it's probably because they have a little less social permission to be angry without incurring consequences that are significant, right?
00:26:27.820 And if men behave a little bit differently, it might be because they are offered a different, perhaps wider range of acceptable responses to, say, anger, right?
00:26:38.740 And they have a different set of incentives.
00:26:41.280 so this social constructionist view is one that like presumes that people can be changed
00:26:49.100 in their habits and their preferences and their behaviors like by their environment by their
00:26:54.220 historical context right it's uh something that says you know human nature is not fixed it's not
00:27:01.900 this set thing where your body becomes a destiny of your character right biology is not moral
00:27:08.140 destiny we are in fact shaped by the worlds that we encounter and by our experiences in them
00:27:14.200 and andrews and the right more broadly like completely reject this they eschew all theories
00:27:21.960 of social construction as like kind of delusional cope right and they assert that difference is
00:27:28.520 pre-social natural pre-ordained by either god or evolution depending on who's talking
00:27:35.360 Their baseline is that things cannot be otherwise.
00:27:38.800 Yeah. 0.66
00:27:39.240 Well, except until they are otherwise, and then it's those perverted leftists doing it, right? 0.96
00:27:44.140 Right.
00:27:44.400 That's the funny thing, that they're like, they're perfectly willing to grant social construction and things they don't like.
00:27:49.560 It's just in hierarchies that they approve of.
00:27:51.960 You're giving us a very strong social constructivist account.
00:27:55.800 It's also worth noting that one could even split the difference and say, we don't know, right?
00:28:00.960 Could it be that these sex differences are socially constructed?
00:28:06.060 Could it be that they are natural?
00:28:08.100 Well, the idea that we can't say for sure, this would be the sort of Butlerian argument,
00:28:13.640 whether one thing or the other, suggests that we use policy and interventions to change them
00:28:19.660 to whatever extent we can mitigate them.
00:28:21.780 The conservatives really have to take the strong view and say, no, social construction cannot be true, right?
00:28:27.540 And so even if one doesn't want to take Moira's strong position, even if you say it's possibly it's partly socially constructed, well, okay, then still intervention seems like a pretty smart and pretty doable thing.
00:28:40.240 The only way those are all, as you say, liberal cope is if you want to make the maximalist argument that it's all biology all the way down or destiny is identical with the biology.
00:28:50.360 And I think they can't even believe that.
00:28:52.400 I mean, I think that their theory of biology as destiny is sort of undermined by their anti-feminist complaint, right? Like if women are naturally stupid and weak and conflict averse and unable to function, then why are they all graduating from college? 1.00
00:29:11.140 Why are they getting all these jobs that you don't think that they should have? 1.00
00:29:14.680 Why are they succeeding in entering into public life?
00:29:18.580 They are complaining about the falseness or the usurpation of an order that they declare to be natural and inevitable.
00:29:26.340 But if it was natural and inevitable, they wouldn't have to work so hard to enforce it.
00:29:29.360 You know what I mean?
00:29:29.960 That's right.
00:29:30.440 As a German historian, I will point out that this idea that there are natural hierarchies and orders, but certain groups have figured out ways to pervert those orders.
00:29:40.640 you know, substitute women for Jewish people. 0.82
00:29:43.360 And this is textbook antisemitism, right? 0.78
00:29:45.760 Antisemitism has exactly that problem, 0.98
00:29:47.520 that for the antisemite, the Jew is weak 0.99
00:29:49.580 and can only survive through cunning and mimicry, 0.99
00:29:53.360 blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00
00:29:54.080 At the same time, the Jew is also in control 1.00
00:29:56.380 and manages all our destinies. 1.00
00:29:58.740 And like, well, gee, which one is it?
00:30:00.040 It's like, well, no, those two do go together
00:30:02.240 in a sense that like there is a conspiracy theory, right?
00:30:05.160 Like you have to offer a conspiracy theory.
00:30:07.040 And I don't think we have to look very far
00:30:08.860 from where these people are getting it.
00:30:10.100 If you want to, like, take this natural differences idea,
00:30:16.040 you will then conclude, I think, like, pretty inevitably, 1.00
00:30:20.240 that gender hierarchy is natural, 0.96
00:30:22.280 that it flows inevitably and spontaneously 0.88
00:30:24.900 from this difference from our bodies,
00:30:27.460 that any attempts to change it by raising women's status
00:30:30.220 or securing women's freedom are foolhardy and doomed at best,
00:30:34.120 if not outright, like, counterproductive and perverse at worst, right? 0.99
00:30:37.380 Right. But I also wonder why this natural differences argument appeals so much to the right wing base.
00:30:47.640 And I think to like men kind of broadly. Right. With the caveat, not all men, if you're like a like old retired professor who wants to yell at me and not all men on the comments of this, like, let me fucking save you the time.
00:30:59.440 I think men on the whole are much more interested or much more credulous towards this idea of inherent differences between men and women.
00:31:09.740 And that's for a couple of reasons, right?
00:31:11.560 Like it flatters male chauvinism, for one thing.
00:31:13.900 The notion that, no, you're at the top of this hierarchy because you're just inherently better is flattering.
00:31:20.400 And, you know, egotism can be a pretty strong motivator for people to believe in things that they don't actually have evidence for.
00:31:27.980 But also, and this kind of breaks my heart,
00:31:30.340 I think men just really seem to believe
00:31:33.060 or want to believe
00:31:35.020 that they are fundamentally different from women. 1.00
00:31:38.100 That like women don't think like they do, 0.83
00:31:39.860 don't feel the same emotions that they do, 1.00
00:31:42.220 don't respond the way they do to incentives, right? 1.00
00:31:44.760 That women do not on the whole experience humanity 0.93
00:31:49.200 and the first line of consciousness the way that men do. 0.89
00:31:51.980 I am told they're from Venus and men are from Mars. 0.77
00:31:56.820 So like women have to think about men as people, right? Women don't have the luxury of imagining men as these like non-player characters. Trust me, I've tried.
00:32:06.040 because like men have always been presented to women as the default of humanity right and they've
00:32:14.980 also typically been in positions of power over us our whole lives in our families in our marriages
00:32:21.060 in the institutions where we work and go to school men are everywhere and they're able to control
00:32:26.360 outcomes for us right so we have to understand their thinking we have to put ourselves in their
00:32:31.340 shoes in order to navigate and survive their power. And men don't really experience this
00:32:37.820 with women in the reverse as often, right? They have often not been compelled by circumstance
00:32:44.320 or self-interest to try and empathize with women. And so I think this is like really out of fashion
00:32:50.280 now, but I think part of the appeal to men of dumb ideas, like the ones that Andrews is putting 0.88
00:32:55.760 forward and their persistence can be explained with a recourse to standpoint epistemology, 0.97
00:33:01.560 right? 0.99
00:33:01.760 Men believe dumb shit about gender because their social position at the top of the gender 1.00
00:33:06.460 hierarchy has never required them to think very hard about gender. 1.00
00:33:11.520 I always think about something that Aubrey Gordon always talks about over on maintenance
00:33:14.920 phase, which is that anti-fat bias, for instance, is a lot about taking something that is given
00:33:20.580 to you by genetic accident, what your body is shaped like.
00:33:24.740 And part of what fatphobia does is it gives you a sense that that's actually a moral accomplishment.
00:33:30.340 And I think that the fact that people get their particular role in the lottery of birth reflected back to them as moral choices,
00:33:39.200 it becomes an ingrained part of your personality.
00:33:41.000 And I think being told that, well, you just got lucky, it eats at the substance of how a lot of people conceive of their own lives.
00:33:47.880 So Andrews argues that women's large scale entry into fields from which they were once excluded over sort of like the back half of the 20th century has transformed the culture of those institutions from ones of hardheaded practicality in which men admirably work together to get things done.
00:34:07.900 also something I would like a fact check about, into now these soothing factories of good feelings
00:34:15.460 in which women compel everyone to sing kumbaya and state their preferred pronouns instead of 0.99
00:34:21.800 working, right? This is what she seems to refer to as wokeness, this vibe shift towards greater 0.95
00:34:29.060 sensitivity. She writes, everything you think of as wokeness involves prioritizing the feminine
00:34:35.920 over the masculine, empathy over rationality, safety over risk, cohesion over competition.
00:34:43.780 The most famous line from her piece, which is getting like retweeted and memed a lot,
00:34:49.780 is this one. Adrian, can you read this for me? And I'm quoting again. Women can sue their bosses
00:34:55.400 for running a workplace that feels like a fraternity house, but men can't sue when their 0.74
00:34:59.320 workplace feels like a Montessori kindergarten. Written by someone who I'm guessing has not had
00:35:04.920 a job is is that the background here like i mean all of her jobs have been at like conservative 1.00
00:35:10.060 rags that are like functionally just like daycare for these idiots where that you think you can't 0.98
00:35:15.500 get fired right you can't get fired you'll never run out of money it's not a real job we're not 0.99
00:35:20.040 fact-checking any of this right i mean it gets just it's so dumb so she describes wokeness as 0.98
00:35:26.960 a scourge that has arisen from women's you know supposedly dominant place in institutions do you 0.94
00:35:33.620 Remember that line in The Royal Tenenbaums? 1.00
00:35:35.520 Like, everyone knows that Custer died at Little Bighorn.
00:35:37.840 What this novel supposes it, what if he didn't?
00:35:40.440 I know.
00:35:40.760 It's like, everyone knows that men are in charge of 99% of American institutions.
00:35:45.720 What this little essay imagines is, what if it didn't?
00:35:49.060 Right.
00:35:49.400 This is part of something I've, like, noticed more generally is that part of right-wing populism requires an assumption that, like, management is women. 0.56
00:36:00.540 Like, management is female, right?
00:36:02.300 Wow. 1.00
00:36:02.480 Like the corporate overlords, the ones who are screwing you, those are all girls. 1.00
00:36:07.140 It does really mimic the sort of socialism of fools of anti-Semitism, right? 0.99
00:36:11.420 And that is completely unfactual. 0.96
00:36:13.660 Actually, men are something like 82% of all like corporate board members or executives. 0.99
00:36:21.440 I'm pulling this statistic out of my ass and we should fact check it. 0.98
00:36:23.720 Now I can put that in the show notes. 0.99
00:36:25.140 But it's disproportionately men in corporate leadership, right?
00:36:28.480 So the terrible job you have that is exploiting you and making you feel impotent in your ability to like get into the middle class, those decisions are probably being made by a man, but you're supposed to understand that role of domination and exploitation over you as being sort of feminized or being controlled by women or if not women directly by a feminine ethos, right?
00:36:55.760 So it's like the feminization of capital.
00:36:58.280 So she says a wokeness is a scourge that has arisen from women's supposedly dominant place in institutions. 0.99
00:37:04.080 And then she argues that wokeness is nothing but female or feminine. 0.99
00:37:09.700 Again, define your terms, traits at scale, right? 1.00
00:37:13.940 I thought wokeness was also super aggressive and in your face and like scary. 0.99
00:37:18.420 And we have to like shoot them or whatever. 1.00
00:37:21.180 Like, should we just pick a lane here or we just, I mean, again, like the, oh, they're so feminine. 1.00
00:37:25.700 but also so masculine, they're so scary and also so weak.
00:37:28.880 This is just like gutter antisemitism all the way down, isn't it?
00:37:31.800 And, you know, I really wanted to talk to you about this
00:37:33.980 because wokeness is not defined.
00:37:37.740 It can take on all these different forms, as you say.
00:37:40.400 And that also means that it's like not a bounded term, right?
00:37:45.120 It's not something that has like discrete definitions or applications.
00:37:50.540 and therefore like wokeness as this indeterminate unbounded like all powerfully maligned force that
00:37:57.520 can mean anything you know then when you make wokeness into a synonym for women basically
00:38:04.640 anything in the world can be women's fault right there's no social problem under these terms that
00:38:11.440 can't be blamed on like the failure to oppress women sufficiently right i really want to emphasize
00:38:17.580 to our listeners who haven't read this piece,
00:38:19.500 we are doing so much work
00:38:21.660 to try and construct something coherent
00:38:24.960 and excavate her point for her 0.96
00:38:27.660 because this is a really sloppy, slashed-ass piece.
00:38:31.900 I think I can sort of see where the confusion comes from.
00:38:34.680 I'm guessing that the audience
00:38:36.120 at the National Conservative Conference
00:38:38.260 probably put two things together, right?
00:38:41.320 There's this idea of wokeness as being newly dominant
00:38:44.720 and particularly entrenched through HR practices, right? 0.99
00:38:49.300 So you have things like land acknowledgement shit 0.95
00:38:51.780 or the diversity statements 0.88
00:38:53.220 or, you know, the pronouns and bio, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:38:56.480 Then you have this argument
00:38:57.780 that is ostensibly left-wing about woke capitalism, right?
00:39:01.540 That's very popular sort of on the French right.
00:39:04.040 It's very popular, I think,
00:39:06.000 among sort of compact magazine writers as well,
00:39:08.760 which tends to argue
00:39:10.400 not that capitalism itself has gone woke,
00:39:12.880 but that like wokeness and capital have sort of entered into certain alliances there's a left
00:39:17.260 wing version of that that alufemi taiwo sort of argues but the point there is is like well it's
00:39:22.280 really distortion of course of what social justice causes are but if you basically assume that those
00:39:26.600 two things are absolutely identical that there's an object called wokeness in the world that you
00:39:30.400 can point to and that migrates around and just finds like different host bodies to invade or
00:39:34.900 whatever that's how this argument comes about it just it doesn't make any freaking sense once you
00:39:39.280 hold it up to, yeah, empirical reality. Who dominates these industries? Why is a language
00:39:46.960 of wokeness deployed by HR departments within some of those companies? And has the entrance
00:39:53.480 of women into those workplaces in any way coincided with the development of these different 0.71
00:39:57.600 practices? No, it has not, I think is the answer to all these questions.
00:40:01.260 She's using a lot of bad thinking and reflexive misogyny to try and unite some different grievances, right? 0.92
00:40:11.700 The sort of like knee jerk misogyny and grievance against women that a lot of people have with this sort of like nascent populist anti-elite sentiment that she has now managed to like recast as, you know, the feminized elites who are bringing you down.
00:40:28.740 And that way you don't have to fight against capital. 0.88
00:40:30.960 You can just oppress women, right? 0.60
00:40:32.660 It's a very like neat little bait and switch.
00:40:36.060 But the other thing to note is that according to Helen Andrews herself, this isn't even her idea.
00:40:44.340 The Great Feminization was originally coined in 2019 by an anonymous right-wing blogger going by the pseudonym J. Stone.
00:40:53.480 It's not even the first time this idea has been expanded into a greater piece.
00:40:58.740 Because Stone, in fact, later self-published a book, and it's really a pamphlet, it's like 100 pages, with this thesis, The Great Feminization, The Women as Drivers of Modern Social Change.
00:41:10.740 I put a picture of it in the doc, the cover is pink.
00:41:14.440 It's highly self-published.
00:41:16.180 Yes, you can see the Microsoft Word proprietary font.
00:41:22.020 And it's just got this image of Marilyn Monroe, the most womanly woman that there has ever been.
00:41:28.740 Nobody's ever been more a woman than Marilyn Monroe.
00:41:31.640 Or more woke.
00:41:34.040 Actually, kind of. 1.00
00:41:35.240 She had like discernibly left-wing politics. 0.99
00:41:37.540 Yeah, that's true.
00:41:38.300 We're not here to talk about Marilyn Monroe.
00:41:39.880 Yeah, we got it.
00:41:41.260 But all of which is to say that to be totally fair to Helen Andrews, 1.00
00:41:46.820 this stupid idea isn't even her stupid fucking idea. 1.00
00:41:50.340 By her own account, it's a stupid idea that she stole from somebody else. 1.00
00:41:54.060 And just as a little Easter egg for people who've been with this podcast 0.99
00:41:57.920 from like episode five or something like that.
00:42:00.440 This feminization argument is also one
00:42:02.560 that is raised around religion a whole lot.
00:42:04.860 We talked about this very early on the podcast
00:42:06.700 about the feminization of Christianity
00:42:08.360 and this idea of like, where did we go wrong?
00:42:10.740 It's a very pervasive argument in Christian spaces,
00:42:13.800 Catholic and Protestant alike.
00:42:15.320 And there too, a lot of church historians,
00:42:17.400 a lot of theologians are like,
00:42:19.180 oh my God, none of this data holds up.
00:42:21.780 It's all vibes, it's all vibes.
00:42:23.860 Churches contain multitudes and this kind of,
00:42:26.600 we need to re-sualify the church argument.
00:42:29.980 It seems like something that is practiced first
00:42:31.860 in religious spaces and now sort of being applied
00:42:34.300 to society at large, doesn't it?
00:42:36.540 Yeah, this is really reminiscent
00:42:38.100 of what Christine Kolb-Zoume has articulated
00:42:40.320 in her book, Jesus and John Wayne,
00:42:42.020 which I think is excellent,
00:42:43.220 on strains of male supremacy in American Christianity.
00:42:48.320 And she talks about, you know,
00:42:49.780 historically in the sort of the first half
00:42:51.820 of the 20th century,
00:42:53.160 the beginnings of this effort
00:42:54.300 to masculinize Christianity and the sense that Christianity had become too feminine because
00:43:01.520 Jesus wasn't doing enough push-ups or whatever. I will say, though, to Andrew's credit, I think
00:43:07.360 she has kind of put her finger on the right-wing zeitgeist because male supremacy and misogyny have
00:43:14.800 a renewed political usefulness for conservatives. This November's elections that happened just like
00:43:21.380 a week and a half ago they've changed the calculus on this a little bit but there was a big swing of
00:43:27.520 young men towards the republican party in the november 2024 elections that was real and the
00:43:32.580 gains that republicans were making with basically all non-white groups were confined to men in those
00:43:40.460 groups and add that to what you have over the past few years as like the really stratospheric rise
00:43:46.720 of the manosphere media ecosystem and all these like public opinion surveys showing these like
00:43:53.500 big degrees of hostile sexism among young men and wildly divergent and widening political views
00:44:01.680 between men and women especially relating to gender issues and like sex and family issues
00:44:07.080 these have all led a lot of conservatives to believe like you know what we can build
00:44:12.580 a multiracial coalition around male supremacy, around woman-hating, right? You see this kind of
00:44:20.400 all over the right-wing discursive space. It's in growing calls supported by the likes of Pete
00:44:27.040 Hegseth to repeal the 19th Amendment. You see it in the pro-natalism push. You see it in all of
00:44:33.920 J.D. Vance's like weird repeated disparagement of childless cat ladies, right? What Andrews is doing
00:44:40.560 is furthering this line of inchoate grievance
00:44:43.720 and sort of like distilling it into a specific demand, right? 1.00
00:44:47.220 There are too many women in public life 1.00
00:44:49.060 and there need to be fewer. 1.00
00:44:50.760 We need to push them out.
00:44:52.380 So we kind of alluded to this earlier,
00:44:54.380 but I really think that the key to Andrews pulling this off
00:44:57.500 is to merge this like growing commitment
00:45:01.480 to ideological misogyny and the post-liberal right
00:45:04.580 with the MAGA movements like populist pretenses, right?
00:45:08.600 So they have to make hating women seem like it's synonymous with hating the elite.
00:45:13.600 They have to make it seem like it's punching up.
00:45:16.580 And in this, Andrews and a lot of her fellow travelers have found a scapegoat.
00:45:22.120 They found HR.
00:45:24.100 Yeah. 1.00
00:45:24.580 They found this female-dominated sector affiliated formally with management in basically every workplace that nobody likes. 1.00
00:45:35.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:45:35.320 Nobody is willing to defend HR.
00:45:37.260 And it's like it's hated by civil rights advocates specifically for its role in actually minimizing what companies have to do to comply with civil rights law and to avoid liability.
00:45:49.560 But it's become in the right wing rhetoric like Andrews, the embodiments of those civil rights activism movements and of those civil rights laws.
00:45:59.300 Right. So she's been able to make women in management this like sort of boogeyman that she is able to then collapse into the identical association with civil rights protections themselves and with anti-discrimination law itself. 0.99
00:46:17.040 But that's pretty much what Chris Ruffo did with CRT, what Richard Hernania did in his book about this stuff, right? The idea of getting at the Civil Rights Act of 1964 through that HR training you really hated is a pretty standard move now on the Republican right.
00:46:34.420 Yeah, it's not really innovative, but it's, I think, a necessity of their grievance machine is they have to look like when they are, like, reaffirming their own status and punching downward on a hierarchy that what they're actually doing is defying the corrupt elites and sort of vindicating workers against management.
00:46:55.700 Right.
00:46:55.980 So this is also kind of one of those moments where I'm steelmanning Andrews because she never explicitly links wokeness in civil rights law.
00:47:05.160 And that's either because she's evil and knows that saying what she really means, which is we must repeal the 1964 Civil Rights Act, would make a lot of Americans like distrust her. 0.97
00:47:15.520 Or it's because she's so fucking historically illiterate and such a cretin that she has never read a book in her life. 0.96
00:47:21.240 Either way, she prefers to speak in these like vague terms about a cultural climate that induces this like quasi-spiritual dissatisfaction among men, right? 0.99
00:47:32.720 She never names a statute.
00:47:35.560 She never names a policy change. 1.00
00:47:37.820 She merely states anti-discrimination law requires that every workplace be feminized.
00:47:43.540 I think she's not saying the workplace has been feminized because you're dealing with women.
00:47:50.080 The traffic between men has likewise been feminized by civil rights law.
00:47:54.660 I mean, it's in there, you're right, that she's saying,
00:47:57.260 oh, you can't call your secretary toots anymore or whatever.
00:48:00.240 But there is also this element that like, no,
00:48:02.960 the relationships between men have been feminized unduly by HR departments.
00:48:07.520 And there I would say like, while yes, I would hate to be a woman in an American company in 1910,
00:48:12.200 I also think it's really interesting to think that like she thinks that before HR showed up,
00:48:17.360 that men related to each other in these workplaces in properly masculine ways.
00:48:22.460 Like there is just something disciplining about showing up to a workplace,
00:48:25.460 which kind of limits what you can do to and say to each other, right?
00:48:29.260 Well, like this speaks to her like wild generalizations about masculine and feminine character.
00:48:35.580 It's not just that she considers women sort of incompetent and childlike, 0.78
00:48:40.820 but at the same time, like scheming and malicious. 0.95
00:48:43.000 Yeah.
00:48:43.160 She also considers men sort of like blithely comfortable with conflict.
00:48:49.500 She's like they're able to just like, you know, accept that they didn't win an argument and then go back to work.
00:48:54.380 And I'm like, I'm sorry, have you encountered anybody?
00:48:57.920 And she also assumes that men are comfortable being treated badly, which is not the case.
00:49:05.960 Why do we have unions? 0.88
00:49:06.960 If we can name what Helen Andrews won't name, I think specifically she's talking about Title VII of the 1964 Civil Rights Act.
00:49:14.740 Yeah, seems right. 0.91
00:49:15.260 Which, among other things, prohibits discrimination in employment on the basis of sex.
00:49:20.600 So, Adrian, do you want to give us like a primer on Title VII?
00:49:23.640 The titles are amendments technically to the 1964 Civil Rights Act.
00:49:27.840 So, Title VII prohibits discrimination by any employers on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, or national origin.
00:49:36.560 Almost as a joke, a right-wing congressman slipped the sex qualification in among those race, national origin, religion, protected statuses, in part because he thought that doing so would help sink the 1964 Civil Rights Act, right?
00:49:52.840 That everybody would think it was ridiculous to say you couldn't discriminate on the basis of sex in who you're hiring to work for you and how you treat your employees.
00:50:01.200 But it got taken up by women in Congress at the time and became a big pillar of the second wave legal battles trying to extend women's access to the public sphere.
00:50:15.720 So in interviews with people like the conservative sort of like ex-feminist Megan Dahm, Andrews has said that the wokeness she is fighting is nothing at all like the second wave feminism that people imagine she opposes.
00:50:28.660 And that is a lie because, in fact, what Andrews is arguing against is precisely the result of the legal victories of that second wave liberal movement, namely the enactment of anti-discrimination legislation that prohibits employers from discriminating against women because they are women.
00:50:48.840 And she is in particular arguing against this succession of legal victories that were won personally by Catherine McKinnon, who first developed and then got recognized into federal law, the theory that sexual harassment is sex discrimination and hence illegal, right?
00:51:06.700 So the substance, such as it is, of Andrew's claim is that the legal ban on sexual harassment is an unjust and intolerable infringement of men's very nature and must be undone.
00:51:18.840 So she writes that women entering the workforce has subjected men to the inability to sexually harass them and driven them out of fields.
00:51:29.360 Adrian, could you read this for me?
00:51:30.760 So I'm again quoting. 0.97
00:51:32.740 That does not look like women outperforming men. 1.00
00:51:35.140 It looks like women driving men away by imposing feminine norms on previously male institutions.
00:51:40.620 What man wants to work in a field where his traits are not welcome? 0.91
00:51:44.300 What self-respecting male graduate student would pursue a career in academia when his peers will ostracize him for stating his disagreements too bluntly or espousing a controversial opinion?
00:51:53.760 I hate to tell you this, Helen, but most of my colleagues are men.
00:51:57.420 Academia is heavily male-dominated.
00:51:59.600 We may all be soy boys to you, but trust me, there's a lot of toxic masculinity in academia.
00:52:04.660 And it's remarkable that she doesn't seem to think that that's a problem here, right?
00:52:08.920 Like, what self-respecting male graduate student would pursue a career in academia?
00:52:11.960 And you're like, well, they still get most of the jobs.
00:52:14.240 Why wouldn't they? 0.73
00:52:15.260 I don't know about self-respect, but certainly narcissistic ones do it all the time.
00:52:18.980 Yeah, also, it's true.
00:52:20.200 Self-respecting male graduate students, there are no self-respecting graduate students.
00:52:23.900 So, like, you lost me there, but let's take that out of it.
00:52:27.760 What male graduate students, like, yeah, plenty of them, plenty.
00:52:30.480 I had this conversation with Andy Zeisler, who writes for Salon, the other day.
00:52:35.400 and she pointed out that you know not only is this vision of men being incapable of not sexually
00:52:43.240 harassing people very distressing to men but she was also like you know nobody ever says that about
00:52:47.600 men but women men are never like the ones coming out here being like actually i find this kind of
00:52:53.440 degrading to me to say that i am this like boorish animal with no intellect or self-control
00:53:01.740 who is like, if I can't grope, that's like an affront to my soul.
00:53:05.800 Like, I do think that that's kind of insulting to men, 1.00
00:53:08.320 but it seems to be an argument mostly women make. 1.00
00:53:11.420 It's interesting also that line about how men won't be able to work in feminized environments
00:53:15.340 without losing their self-respect.
00:53:17.540 She's clearly thinking of stuff like the landmark civil rights case from 1991
00:53:21.620 in which a woman sued because the men at her job were putting up pictures
00:53:25.020 from porn magazines on the walls.
00:53:27.340 The idea being like having a workplace where that is standard and accepted behavior is a better and more effective workplace at a more functional institution.
00:53:38.980 Like, I don't know, even if, let's say, we removed the entire question of sexual harassment from this conversation, most of these harassment cases are about people retaliating or trying to bully each other.
00:53:51.360 These are toxic workplaces where nothing much gets done, right?
00:53:55.420 Like, if you show me a workplace with porn magazines taped to the cubicles and one without, I'm going to go ahead and say that I think the one without probably is a more effective workplace, right? 0.96
00:54:06.600 Do you want to get work done or do you want to preserve a realm of exclusive male inhabitants where women are not welcome, right? 0.75
00:54:15.160 I think it depends on what you're being effective at is, I think, another question. 1.00
00:54:18.940 Right, that's a good point.
00:54:20.080 Like, it's the same way that people, like, excuse, like, work interactions as locker room talk.
00:54:23.500 Really, your metaphor is a place where famously nothing gets done 0.99
00:54:26.620 except people's asses hit with jockstraps. 0.98
00:54:29.480 Like, this insurance company should be run more like a locker room? 1.00
00:54:34.080 This is ridiculous, right? 0.89
00:54:35.700 Like, no, no, no, no, no. 0.95
00:54:36.800 I don't want to get my appendix out in a hospital
00:54:39.180 that is run like a locker room. 0.97
00:54:41.200 These people should not be smacking each other's butts. 1.00
00:54:43.200 They should be busy on my fucking appendix. 1.00
00:54:45.420 No, no, no. 1.00
00:54:45.820 They have to express their masculine natures, Adrian.
00:54:48.900 Yeah, they're like, I'm sorry you bled out, Professor Dobb,
00:54:50.920 But we really had to do a chest bumping contest.
00:54:54.580 And I'm like, I really would like the transfusion now, guys.
00:54:58.660 It might be worth noting here that sexual harassment has actually only been illegal under federal law since 1986.
00:55:07.960 That's right.
00:55:08.260 So more or less all of Andrew's life, but a relatively short duration in actual historical terms. 0.62
00:55:14.800 And the incursion of women into workplaces that she's describing happens before that.
00:55:19.700 The historical sequence here is way off.
00:55:22.020 But she like really takes a lot of offense to civil rights law that protects against sexual harassment.
00:55:28.780 And the closest she gets to articulating an actual change in workplaces that has occurred as a result of like women's entry into them, this quote unquote feminization, is the sense that like, OK, well, now sexual harassment is illegal.
00:55:44.200 And in her essay, Andrews uses two examples of quote-unquote wokeness run amok under women's influence that are both basically about Title VII complaints.
00:55:55.180 The first example is a story I think you might be best able to tell, Adrienne, about a wee little economist, former Treasury Secretary, and frequent Jeffrey Epstein pen pal. 0.70
00:56:11.760 Ah, you stepped on my punchline.
00:56:14.200 A gentleman who used to be the president of Harvard, Mr. Larry Summers.
00:56:19.260 Yes.
00:56:19.560 What happened to Larry Summers that Helen Andrews finds so atrocious?
00:56:25.060 You may remember Larry Summers from such things as when he told a bunch of donors and Harvard faculty that women were less suited to do science and math biologically.
00:56:36.120 With a bunch of world-class Harvard women doing science and math in the room who were like, say what now?
00:56:41.940 And you may also remember him from such headlines as Jeffrey Epstein and Larry Summers' exchange
00:56:47.420 depict relationship as confidants, emails reveal, as appeared in The Guardian today.
00:56:53.740 So, you know, again, apparently we're no longer doing correlation and causation.
00:56:58.560 So, like, there you have it.
00:56:59.840 So, Larry Summers got fired as the president of Harvard in 2005. 0.97
00:57:05.320 Yeah, because he said women are naturally worth that science.
00:57:09.440 So this is a, I have to emphasize, 20-year-old controversy that occurred when Andrews herself would have been about 20 years old.
00:57:20.380 That's the thing, Moira, about these anti-woke pundits.
00:57:23.140 Time is a flat circle for them.
00:57:25.440 Yasha Mung, Thomas Chatterton Williams love things that happened like 20 years ago.
00:57:30.660 And we're like, there's now this change in the air.
00:57:32.820 And it's real bad, you guys.
00:57:34.320 Does it matter that like Will and Grace was on the air when this happened?
00:57:38.360 Does it matter that people were also freaking out about Janet Jackson's nipple while this was going on?
00:57:43.660 I mean, maybe their preoccupation with the past is why they just keep writing the same column over and over and over again.
00:57:50.060 They're stuck in Groundhog Day.
00:57:51.800 They just keep on churning out the same Atlantic piece.
00:57:54.380 So the notion in Andrew's piece, in her characterization of the Larry Summers incident,
00:58:00.140 is that it is so self-evident that women are men's natural inferiors. 0.92
00:58:04.360 inferiors, that this is such an obvious truth, that Summers getting fired for espousing it
00:58:09.820 represents, in fact, a frightening new order in which women's feelings are given greater weight
00:58:15.700 than men's practical access to fact. And what's the second example? The second example is from 0.57
00:58:23.560 that famous sexual harassment case. She doesn't name it, but I will. It is called Robinson versus
00:58:29.380 Jacksonville shipyards from 1991 and this is a case that established that sexual harassment
00:58:34.820 could take the form not just of a quid pro quo demand for sex in exchange for employment
00:58:40.580 but also the form of a hostile work environment wherein like pervasive gender-based you know
00:58:47.740 humiliation or antagonism is seen to violate women's full access to employment and hence to
00:58:54.180 violate the law. So in this lawsuit, the underlying facts are like really, really gross. So Lois
00:59:01.000 Robinson, I think she was a steel worker. I think she was like a welder. She was a woman in the 0.99
00:59:06.600 trades, right? And she gets a job at this almost totally male shipyard, Jacksonville shipyards in
00:59:14.160 Florida. And when she starts, she is subjected to lewd graffiti, to porn posted up around her 0.87
00:59:22.540 workstation and throughout the workplace and to excessive like verbal harassment and jeers
00:59:28.460 and sexual comments from her colleagues including members of management so she was never asked for
00:59:36.160 sex but she was subjected to pornography in the workplace which was intended and understood by
00:59:42.480 her co-workers to demean and humiliate her on the basis of her being a woman right a court found this 1.00
00:59:49.320 illegal. And now, to Helen Andrews' great distress, you can't pin porn up over your desk at work
00:59:55.040 anymore. Adrian, I am so sorry that this oppressive feminine nature pervading public life cannot 1.00
01:00:02.320 handle the expression of your manly nature in this way. I know, me and Clarence Thomas are 1.00
01:00:07.280 going to have a call about that later. So the defendants in Jacksonville shipyards, the shipyards
01:00:13.500 itself, they made the case that their conduct was protected by the First Amendment and that making
01:00:20.460 them stop putting porn up around at work would unfairly suppress their freedom of expression.
01:00:26.740 Andrews kind of agrees, right? She calls the ruling an unjust principle that has come to
01:00:32.220 suppress many forms of masculine conduct. But like, let's talk about what she is describing
01:00:37.240 as essential to the male nature, right? Because this is how Catherine McKinnon described the case
01:00:42.560 and the conduct that Andrews feels is essential to men's characters.
01:00:46.520 I'll read it again, and this time I'm happy to be quoting.
01:00:49.040 For once, in a case involving pornography as sexual harassment,
01:00:53.040 the employer argued that pornography at work was protected expression,
01:00:56.400 something the workers at Jacksonville shipyards wanted to say
01:00:59.140 to first-class welder Lois Robinson.
01:01:01.920 Their opinions about women and sex, 0.97
01:01:03.940 their views included naked women supposedly having sex with each other, 1.00
01:01:08.140 a woman masturbating herself with a towel. 0.99
01:01:10.340 Now I'm kind of unhappy that I agreed to read this. 1.00
01:01:13.660 A nude woman on a heater control box with fluid coming out of her vaginal area. 1.00
01:01:17.880 A woman with long blonde hair like Lois, wearing only high heels and holding a whip. 0.98
01:01:22.280 And countless women in full labial display. 0.51
01:01:24.740 When Lois Robinson protested, the men engaged in more of what the ACLU briefed against her termed speech by posting a sign stating men only. 0.97
01:01:33.480 Suddenly, because Lois Robinson's sexual harassment complaint centered on pornography, her sexual harassment claim invoked the First Amendment, at least so far as relief was concerned.
01:01:44.380 Yeah, we can talk about the ACLU's defenses of sexual harassment and things like, you know, revenge and child pornography on another episode. 1.00
01:01:52.760 That is not a topic for today, although it is something that Kitty McKinnon absolutely will work into everything she ever writes. 0.99
01:01:59.800 Right. 1.00
01:02:00.040 It's like, fuck the ACLU, by the way, for this. 0.99
01:02:03.480 So, you know, I don't think that putting porn up at work is a natural expression of some metaphysical manly essence. 1.00
01:02:12.200 I'm going to go out of fucking limb here. 0.97
01:02:14.100 She says that men are more rational than women, but she's curiously denying them the capacity for reason here. 0.99
01:02:20.180 Right. These men were not compelled to put porn up on the walls of their workplace by something essential and true in the very core of their being.
01:02:30.340 Those men at Jepsonville's shipyards
01:02:32.400 put porn up on the walls deliberately 0.77
01:02:34.740 because they did not like working with a woman
01:02:37.040 and they wanted to humiliate her into quitting. 0.91
01:02:39.320 It's as protected as having a burning cross picture 1.00
01:02:42.800 on the desk of a black employee, right? 1.00
01:02:45.380 It's trying to say someone like you is not welcome here 1.00
01:02:48.300 and we want you to leave.
01:02:49.820 Sexual harassment is not this like whoopsie.
01:02:52.620 It's not this like accident or overflow
01:02:54.960 of masculine vitality 0.93
01:02:57.740 that women just aren't tough enough to handle. 0.99
01:02:59.900 It's harassment. It is deliberate, conscious intimidation. 1.00
01:03:04.440 Yeah, it's an attempt to exclude someone from the normal functioning of a particular workplace or educational institution, right?
01:03:11.620 To make it impossible for them to partake as is their right as citizens in this job they've chosen or this university they've accepted an offer from, etc., etc., right?
01:03:22.040 Yeah, it's about access to the public sphere. It's about the ability to support yourself.
01:03:25.380 and this is something that Helen Andrews thinks that men should be entitled and in fact require
01:03:30.940 the entitlement to like violently intimidate women out of being able to do and I want to zoom out
01:03:36.680 here for a minute and Adrian you might cut this I looked ahead and I might Helen Andrews has her 1.00
01:03:47.780 very specific approach to her own gender right she looks like somebody made a fraggle rock 1.00
01:03:56.560 muppet out of leather she's underweight but she's also like weirdly fleshy her face is very pale 1.00
01:04:03.400 but she has these like rolls of excess skin on her head she has a massive forehead beady little eyes 1.00
01:04:11.760 kind of transparent skin and the flaccid like thinning hair of people who aren't eating enough 1.00
01:04:18.180 like she looks unhealthy and she also looks like frankly a little bit inbred she's got this like 1.00
01:04:22.500 Habsburg chin and I don't say this just to demean and insult Helen Andrews although to be clear she
01:04:30.100 does deserve it I say this because I think her appearance shows us a lot about how she relates 1.00
01:04:35.520 to her own gender so it is conspicuous now on the american right to see a woman rise to prominence 0.94
01:04:43.760 in those circles who has not invested a lot of time and money and physical discomfort into 1.00
01:04:50.620 elaborate often disfiguring like cosmetic interventions right we did i think a really
01:04:55.500 good episode on this with just that i'm really proud of yeah with the beauty critic justofino
01:04:59.940 we called it republican makeup but like honestly makeup is kind of a misnomer for what these
01:05:04.860 interventions really are, which are a series of like highly invasive, full figure body
01:05:10.740 modifications and style choices, which are especially conspicuous on women, but also
01:05:16.200 becoming more common on men.
01:05:18.640 Andrus is not doing that, right?
01:05:20.820 She is positioning herself as differently gendered and she's positioning herself as
01:05:26.320 more serious by not making these physically demanding accommodations to sexuality, right? 0.90
01:05:34.860 She is somebody who doesn't wear makeup, I think, like maybe ever.
01:05:38.840 She's also very clearly never had any work done.
01:05:40.940 I actually respect this about her, to be clear. 1.00
01:05:43.520 She's ugly in public, which is always hard for women, 1.00
01:05:46.940 and I think particularly hard for a woman conservative. 0.96
01:05:49.280 But I don't think she's doing that as like a principled statement
01:05:54.900 about how those interventions degrade women's dignity.
01:05:57.840 I think she's doing it as a statement about her own personal individual dignity
01:06:03.140 and indeed about her gendered exceptionalism.
01:06:06.380 It's a statement about the kind of woman she is
01:06:09.420 and how she understands herself in relation to other women
01:06:13.300 and particularly other women in her movement.
01:06:15.120 Yeah. 0.98
01:06:15.720 Because what you really need to know about the great feminization
01:06:18.580 is that it is a long wind-up to an ending 0.60
01:06:22.700 that explains how Helen Andrews is not like other girls.
01:06:26.900 I love this part.
01:06:29.200 Like, the piece is not that long.
01:06:30.820 It's less than 3,500 words. 0.99
01:06:32.700 And it spends the first 3,000 words with this long explanation of how awful women are. 1.00
01:06:39.300 She says that they're ruining society. 1.00
01:06:41.560 She says that women working is a threat to the rule of law. 0.97
01:06:45.880 But why does Andrews care so much?
01:06:47.960 Because really, she's more like a man.
01:06:50.560 Adrienne, would you read this last?
01:06:51.780 I think this is our last quote.
01:06:53.200 And again, I'm quoting here.
01:06:54.820 Because after all, I'm not just a woman.
01:06:56.800 I'm also someone with a lot of disagreeable opinions.
01:06:58.980 who will find it hard to flourish if society becomes more conflict-averse and consensus-driven.
01:07:03.700 I'm the mother of sons who will never reach their full potential 0.85
01:07:06.240 if they have to grow up in a feminized world. 0.58
01:07:08.680 Boy, mom. 1.00
01:07:09.440 Sorry.
01:07:10.120 I am.
01:07:10.860 We all are dependent on institutions like the legal system,
01:07:14.060 scientific research, and democratic politics that support the American way of life
01:07:17.760 and will all suffer if they cease to perform the tasks they were designed to do.
01:07:23.480 You hear it at her first, folks.
01:07:25.120 She's one of the good women.
01:07:26.080 The one who should be granted an exception from misogyny because of how special, different, and exceptional she is. 1.00
01:07:32.240 She only hates other women because she can see how much she is unlike them. 0.95
01:07:37.800 And now, surely, you'll let her into your club of mutual male recognition and respect. 0.98
01:07:45.280 Definitely going to happen. 0.99
01:07:47.180 It always works.
01:07:49.220 Yeah.
01:07:49.960 Paging Otto Weininger. 0.61
01:07:51.120 So, you know, it's common to call misogynist women hypocrites, but I don't think Andrews is. I think her argument is based around her own exceptionalism. So the notion that she is personally different from and superior to other women is not a moment of hypocrisy. It is foundational to her project. 0.80
01:08:10.660 Yeah. And I mean, we might think of other conservative groups where this is true, namely black conservatives, right?
01:08:18.320 Gay conservatives. Yeah. 0.94
01:08:19.640 Yeah. I'm sure like you could find a trans woman doing this, maybe Caitlyn Jenner. 0.99
01:08:23.560 Probably. I don't listen when she talks. 1.00
01:08:25.600 I'm not like those other ones. I'm a good one. And I'm in fact so good, I'm going to demonstrate how I'm good by being the most perfect bigot against my own in-group, right?
01:08:38.100 Yeah.
01:08:38.400 So this might bring us nicely, I think, to Helen Andrews' prescription, right?
01:08:43.620 I always love the prescription parts on these pieces that are like, the sky is falling.
01:08:48.380 And then dissolution is like, maybe we should have a seminar?
01:08:52.960 Well, I mean, like she does call to end what she says is the workplace's discrimination against men's nature, right?
01:08:59.420 Right.
01:08:59.780 And I think, again, we have to read more into this because she is so vague, but I think we can read that as a call to end sexual harassment protections.
01:09:07.700 I think that's a reasonable conclusion.
01:09:10.220 And that's not actually a modest proposal, to be clear.
01:09:12.780 It would undo decades of legal precedent. 1.00
01:09:15.720 It would push large numbers of women out of the workforce and into dependency. 0.98
01:09:19.600 And it would, you know, subject those who stayed in the workforce to massive hostility, violence, and humiliation that will absolutely curtail their ability to earn and provide for themselves.
01:09:30.900 But at the same time, it is also noticeable how comparatively modest that solution is when you consider what Andrews has claimed the purported stakes of this thing are, right?
01:09:40.760 Right. Like, Andrews claims that women's entry into public life is a threat to Western civilization. 0.56
01:09:46.980 Western civilization. 1.00
01:09:48.320 She says the rule of law will not survive.
01:09:50.560 The rule of law.
01:09:51.680 And if she really believes that, then what her claim mandates is a wholesale immediate removal of women from work, from education, from public office, like a Taliban-style gender segregation that would involve necessarily tremendous amounts of violence to put in place, right?
01:10:10.040 Yeah, she's basically calling for a certain Hulu show to happen in real life.
01:10:13.920 Yeah, and that what she formally calls for, what she'll cop to calling for, is merely a changed civil rights law, shows that she doesn't have the courage of her convictions.
01:10:24.600 She makes a maximalist case and then offers this like pissant little solution.
01:10:29.540 I think it's cowardly, it's dishonest, and candidly it's kind of transparent. 0.99
01:10:33.480 So I'm going to talk directly to Helen and say, sweetheart, if you want to be a man so badly, then you should grow a pair of balls and say what you mean. 0.98
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