In Bed With The Right - January 06, 2026


Episode 115 [PATREON PREVIEW] -- Olivia Nuzzi's American Canto with Michael Hobbes

Episode 114 -- Project 1933, Part X: December 1 - December 31 Episode 116 -- A Murder in Minneapolis

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00:00:00.000 Hi, everyone, and Happy New Year. To start 2026 off, Moira and I had a big plan, a three-part
00:00:06.340 series on the rights love of education and educational grifting, ranging from Peter Thiel's
00:00:13.400 Antichrist lectures to, you know, various YouTube universities with heavy, heavy quotation marks,
00:00:20.260 to the actual scam universities that right-wingers from Donald Trump to Barry Weiss are so fond of.
00:00:27.620 Well, we did record two and a half hours of material for this series,
00:00:32.000 and we just felt it wasn't quite up to snuff yet.
00:00:35.740 We're going to rerecord.
00:00:37.000 We're going to do this series for sure.
00:00:38.840 But for now, what we decided to do was to give you a little bit of a teaser
00:00:42.420 of an episode that went up on our Patreon just last week.
00:00:45.560 It's an in-depth discussion of Olivia Nuzzi's American Canto,
00:00:49.400 which has been burning up the worst-of-year lists across 2025.
00:00:54.640 Michael was kind enough to stop by and talk to us about this book.
00:00:57.840 We all three read it, and now we're inflicting it on you.
00:01:01.660 So this is going to be the first 15 minutes of our Patreon conversation.
00:01:05.100 If you want to hear the rest of it, please subscribe to our Patreon.
00:01:07.660 It really helps us do this kind of show.
00:01:09.820 And while we're obviously a little bit embarrassed to have recorded two and a half hours and
00:01:14.940 then listened to it and be like, yeah, we can't inflict this on people, your support
00:01:18.920 through Patreon does make that possible, that we can just sort of say, look, this isn't
00:01:23.340 good enough we edited it we listened to it we didn't think it was quite up to snuff we're going
00:01:28.480 to go back to the drawing board and do a new version of this episode talk to some experts
00:01:32.240 maybe get some guests and figure out how to tell this story right that takes time and honestly it
00:01:37.800 takes some money as well so yeah it kind of feels right to inaugurate 2026 with a plea for our
00:01:46.520 patreon and for your support if you can't do it if you can't make it don't worry about it we totally
00:01:51.800 get it. But you do really make it possible for us to do this show at the level at which we're
00:01:57.000 doing it by supporting us on Patreon. And you get to hear us snark about L'Affaire Olivier,
00:02:03.760 as Maura calls it in the episode, all the way through. 0.98
00:02:08.660 It's going to be so hard not to just read fucking excerpts of this book constantly 1.00
00:02:12.100 and be like, damn. 0.99
00:02:14.620 So here it goes. Here's something new for him, but with the writer, poetry reading. 0.99
00:02:18.180 the politician communicates an acid message through the intermediary there are lemon trees
00:02:23.860 in the yard i did not plant them there is a fist in my chest it is not mine i imagine a lemon
00:02:29.340 sliced through bled dry the fist squeezes the fruit but there is nothing left and the fruit
00:02:34.540 heaves pits and the pits lodge in my throat what may nutre it may destroy it what nourishes me
00:02:40.120 destroys me a like constant of this book is these like tortured extended metaphors that i sit there
00:02:51.180 trying to figure out just logistically i'm like wait you're eating a lemon it's not clearly she
00:02:57.520 knows how metaphors work she has the whole thing of like i was born on january 6th the same day as
00:03:02.640 the riots or whatever and you're like okay that's a weird coincidence but i don't think it means
00:03:07.960 anything first page is like when you think about it i am just like john benay ramsey 0.96
00:03:15.660 that john benay ramsey stuff why and the weird 9-11 stuff the britney spears stuff the fucking 0.77
00:03:23.180 manta ray no it's so good dude i looked in this a 300 page book the word sun appears 68 times 0.95
00:03:31.640 because of how many times she's like standing on a cliff and staring at the sunset and you're like
00:03:35.640 i don't i don't need this i don't need a description of the sunset again did you know
00:03:39.960 how california has like weird sunlight wow it's nice she has like the new york versus la thing
00:03:44.620 too she's like people in la are like this and people in new york i'm like no one cares even
00:03:48.700 people in la and new york don't fucking care about this this is not interesting to listen to at all 0.76
00:03:52.660 i'm sorry and first of hello i'm adrian dob and i'm way we're gone again and whether you like it 0.94
00:04:04.280 You're in the middle of the taping of Embed with the right with the one and only Michael Hobbs.
00:04:09.260 If Olivia can do this to us, we're going to do it to you.
00:04:11.620 Now you have to hear it.
00:04:13.140 You may have figured out by now that today we are discussing La Faire d'Olivia
00:04:19.700 and Miss Nozzi's autobiography, American Canto, which we actually read for you people.
00:04:30.200 The things we do for $4 a month.
00:04:31.680 Hours of my life that I will never get back.
00:04:34.220 Unbelievable.
00:04:34.840 I mean, given that we already talked about how Olivia Nuzzi doesn't seem to know how Metaphor works, 0.62
00:04:40.140 I'm going to preview my big takeaway from this book.
00:04:42.680 It hit me this morning at 4 a.m. 1.00
00:04:44.900 I'm jet lagged as shit. 0.99
00:04:46.340 And it is Olivia Nuzzi is Thomas Chatterton Williams. 1.00
00:04:49.880 She's like somehow worse. 0.62
00:04:51.400 I did not think that you could hit the ground and keep digging, but here we are.
00:04:55.300 I think, like, I mean, I read bad nonfiction books for a living.
00:04:58.800 I think this is the worst nonfiction book I've ever read.
00:05:00.980 Not even, like, for the show, but this was absolute torture to get through.
00:05:05.740 And also a book that is 300 pages long and says nothing.
00:05:09.180 It says nothing about the story at the heart of it about her and RFK.
00:05:12.320 Very little.
00:05:12.680 It says nothing about American politics.
00:05:14.600 Yeah.
00:05:14.780 It says nothing about, like, her as a person.
00:05:17.240 There's no, like, basic biographical information in this book.
00:05:20.260 It has, like, speaking of horrible metaphors, in the New York Times I mentioned, like, she wrote a lot of it on the Notes app while she was hiking.
00:05:27.600 And you really get the sense she's like—
00:05:29.540 Yeah, you can kind of tell.
00:05:30.660 She's like, I came across a rattlesnake on the trail and it made me think of how truth and lies are wrapped up with each other like a rattlesnake. And you're like, this doesn't do anything. This isn't smart. You're just like coming across random things and then trying to make it a metaphor. But it's like you have to actually say something for this to be useful.
00:05:49.120 So this book is Olivia Nuzzi's autobiographical account really of her time as a journalist over the past 10 years of the Trump era and then sort of most notably of her affair with a man she calls the politician.
00:06:07.780 Who could guess? Who could even guess who it is?
00:06:09.420 RFK Jr., the current health and human services secretary who is destroying America's health infrastructure.
00:06:15.860 The only clue to his identity she gives us is his uncle was JFK.
00:06:19.540 How would you know who that is?
00:06:20.800 Could be anyone.
00:06:22.420 Wow.
00:06:22.640 Could be me.
00:06:23.480 Mythical figures you're speaking of here.
00:06:25.960 And, you know, it's not exactly structured around, like, a plot or an argument.
00:06:31.140 It is a meditative, meandering journey through Nuzi's memories, through her impressions.
00:06:39.120 The vacation she took to Hawaii once.
00:06:41.220 The Britney Spears concert she went to once.
00:06:43.340 written in like very self-consciously like faux literary oh my god like really overwritten it's
00:06:53.380 stylistically very different from what she was doing for a long time at like new york magazine
00:06:58.440 as a political reporter and commentator there and it is an attempt at a career pivot so before we
00:07:09.840 get too much into the book itself can we like i actually do think this is a little bit media
00:07:15.260 inside baseball-y i think if you are not terminally online or like employed as somebody who writes
00:07:22.320 about american politics or or works for one of the you know two remaining magazines you might
00:07:28.260 not know who this woman is or why there was so much press around her book so does anybody want
00:07:34.120 Like, give us, like, the 10,000-foot summary, executive summary of Olivia Nuzzi.
00:07:40.000 I feel like you're the only one of us who's ever been, like, a real journalist.
00:07:42.700 So I feel like you know this better than we do.
00:07:44.340 Well, this is a very generous interpretation of my career.
00:07:50.540 I have, like, no actual, like, insight into any of this.
00:07:54.100 Adrian, you do it.
00:07:55.720 So I was aware of her as a byline.
00:07:58.120 And I knew that she was working, I believe, at New York Magazine.
00:08:01.540 And that's pretty much all I knew.
00:08:03.260 You know, she was sort of a name that I would come across, and sometimes I liked what she wrote.
00:08:07.980 Sometimes I didn't like what she wrote.
00:08:09.480 It was a kind of journalism I didn't spend a ton of time on.
00:08:13.180 She was a campaign journalist, and that's often something that, like, you know, I read the first three paragraphs, and then, like, my eyes glaze over.
00:08:19.520 I'm like, okay, you followed Chris Christie to a Waffle House in Canton, Ohio.
00:08:26.360 I'm going to check out, honestly.
00:08:28.000 Like, life is short.
00:08:29.720 But it wasn't bad.
00:08:30.620 The thing that really set her apart was the fact that, like, she clearly sort of had a hand in shaping the narratives around the 2024 election, which then made it pretty spicy to find out that she was sexting RFK the entire time.
00:08:44.580 And then, yeah, and then everyone was clowning on this book.
00:08:48.560 The rituals around this book have been quite interesting.
00:08:50.800 I mean, it's fair to say that it has gone over like a turd in a hot tub, is I think the way I'd put it, since we're sticking with metaphors.
00:09:02.280 If the Thomas Chatterton Williams book was greeted with a collective shrug, that has not been true of this.
00:09:07.640 Yeah, this was like epic hack for the entire U.S. media system.
00:09:11.200 Yeah.
00:09:11.700 What's so interesting about it, too, is that it was totally accepted by kind of the literary establishment before it came out, right?
00:09:17.760 She got an excerpt published in Vanity Fair, which is extremely prestigious.
00:09:20.220 She had a job as the West Coast editor, whatever the fuck that means of entity fair before this came out. The New York Times wrote a like slobbering profile of her before this came out where the author in the comments was like, she's such a brilliant person and a brilliant writer, just totally glazing her.
00:09:34.280 The minute people like ordinary people see the text of the book, there's like, this is fucking gibberish. Nobody wants this at all. It was like only people who run magazines who seem to think that this woman is a talented writer or has anything interesting to say. 0.59
00:09:47.360 And to me, that feels like that's really what the story is about, is that this person, like, whose journalism I do not think yielded any interesting insight. She had access to people like Chris Christie, Rudy Giuliani. Like, she goes to lunch with these people and she hangs out with them, but she doesn't have any insights about policy. She's just like, oh, when you shake his hand, Donald Trump's hands are, like, wet and slimy. Okay, but that doesn't really tell me anything.
00:10:09.880 So soft it's almost wet.
00:10:11.960 Yeah.
00:10:12.360 Almost wet.
00:10:13.460 Like, this doesn't, like, I guess I'm supposed to be marveling at how much access to these people you have. 0.97
00:10:17.780 But also, I didn't fucking learn anything about American politics. 0.94
00:10:20.140 I don't respect this kind of work. 0.97
00:10:21.780 And then she comes out with this book that is, like, even more vapid than the kind of work she produces when she's being overseen by editors.
00:10:28.140 And the whole country, I mean, you guys saw it only sold something like 1,200 copies the first week.
00:10:32.840 I'm sure that's tapered off even more.
00:10:34.700 I think basically everybody who read this book reviewed it or talked about it on a podcast.
00:10:39.080 There's been 1,200 podcast episodes about it.
00:10:41.440 You're like, hmm, that's suspicious.
00:10:44.260 Lines up exactly. 0.56
00:10:46.300 Olivia Nuzzi was, I think she was originally at the Daily Beast very early in her career. 0.86
00:10:50.740 Super. 0.99
00:10:51.160 She was like 22.
00:10:51.960 Yeah, she was very, very young.
00:10:53.680 And they like invented a job for her, which New York Magazine did. 0.99
00:10:56.020 Like this happens again and again where high level people at the top of these organizations invent roles for Olivia Nuzzi because they believe she is so talented that we have to carve out a special job for her.
00:11:06.280 And then she produces work that is not interesting. 0.99
00:11:08.060 Or because she's having sex with somebody powerful who gets her a job. I think that might be a little bit more of a shortcut to like explanation of how she got to cover presidential politics at the Daily Beast as her first journalism job, which does seem to be what she did.
00:11:23.020 I cannot say that. You can say that. As a feminist, you can say that. I'm not going to say that. It sounds too bad.
00:11:27.680 Well, I mean, like, I am a person with a little bit of experience thinking about the way that women are treated in the media. 0.99
00:11:36.860 And it is not that people with no talent get handed jobs because they're fucking some old guy. 0.96
00:11:45.540 It's that there's a million people with talent. 0.98
00:11:49.580 Yeah. 0.95
00:11:50.040 And the one who wind up fucking some old guy is often the one who gets, you know, the nice email when they apply for the job. 1.00
00:11:55.100 Like, hey, look out for this young lady I just happened to know. 0.99
00:11:58.220 Although I will say there is no direct evidence. 0.93
00:12:00.060 No, there's no direct evidence of quid pro quo in her career.
00:12:03.440 It is remarkable how young she had these very high level jobs at magazines, but there is no evidence of any sort of impropriety.
00:12:11.580 So she had what sounds like a pretty tumultuous childhood in a like standard middle class home in suburban New Jersey.
00:12:21.020 And she got plucked out of that tumultuous childhood home by Keith Olderman.
00:12:29.100 Olderman.
00:12:30.180 Olderman.
00:12:31.380 Oh, are you doing a thing?
00:12:32.460 I keep saying Keith Olderman.
00:12:34.120 No, it's literally the only way I can remember his name.
00:12:36.460 I don't know this guy.
00:12:37.700 He's a million years old.
00:12:38.940 I do not know his work.
00:12:39.940 Other people close to me know that's his work.
00:12:42.240 Oh, my God.
00:12:42.840 He's like a sports commentator.
00:12:43.960 You're too young.
00:12:44.600 Obermann started as a sports commentator and then reinvented himself as a kind of anti-Bush truth teller during the Bush administration.
00:12:54.120 Very annoying, very sanctimonious, and then kind of disappeared.
00:12:59.240 He does the thing that men always do when they're very confident that nothing that they've done is wrong, which is emphasize that she was 18.
00:13:08.020 He really repeatedly returns to the claim that she was 18 when he moved her out of her, you know, alcoholic tragedy, laid in a childhood home in New Jersey, installed her in an apartment in Manhattan, bought her a bunch of fancy clothes and started paying her tuition to go to college.
00:13:28.220 So she was, at a very young age, completely financially dependent on a dramatically older man who was expecting sex from her.
00:13:38.880 So that's, like, not quite.
00:13:39.940 And she was 19.
00:13:40.700 He was 53, I think, at the time.
00:13:43.160 Although what's weird about the book is, like, there's many missed opportunities about this book.
00:13:46.320 But she doesn't, like, talk about this at all.
00:13:48.480 I would have liked just, like, some basic biographical details.
00:13:50.940 Her home life really does sound awful.
00:13:52.660 I mean, her mother had schizophrenia and was an alcoholic.
00:13:55.240 Her dad was working, like, three or four jobs.
00:13:57.140 her brother is much older than her. So basically it was just her alone in the house with her
00:14:00.980 extremely troubled mom for like most of her childhood. It seems like, yeah, like really,
00:14:05.000 really awful way to grow up. And then it seems like she's sort of rescued or like what she
00:14:09.120 perceived as being rescued at age 19 by this older wealthy man. She moves to Manhattan. She
00:14:13.780 has said nothing whatsoever about this. She talks around it in the book. In interviews, I've seen
00:14:17.880 people ask her more or less directly about it. And she's just like, I went to college and then
00:14:21.540 I became a journalist. And she doesn't say anything about like this four year relationship
00:14:25.700 with this guy who's, like, way older than her.
00:14:28.260 Olderman does not have that kind of reticence. 0.99
00:14:31.060 He is very willing to talk shit about her in public 0.99
00:14:33.480 in this, like, very scorned man kind of a way. 0.99
00:14:35.820 It's like, oh, she was crazy when I dated her when she was 19.
00:14:38.660 Like, yeah, wow, you look really great in this scenario.
00:14:40.720 Yeah, I don't know.
00:14:41.800 I don't think the one who looks bad in this story is her.
00:14:44.840 Yeah. 0.99
00:14:45.400 She very quickly gets a job covering the presidential race,
00:14:49.860 basically as her first job, and she is immediately covering Trump.
00:14:53.360 And her career sort of does really begin at the moment that he comes onto the national stage.
00:14:59.220 Oh, I didn't know that.
00:14:59.820 She then spends a big chunk.
00:15:02.100 She moves to New York Magazine and spends a big chunk of her career at New York Magazine where she's writing, as you guys have alluded to, these kind of like more atmospheric takes on the Trump administration.
00:15:13.260 She is legitimately very well sourced in the Trump one White House.
00:15:19.500 And she is very good at pumping out these, like, long-form, chatty magazine articles that give you a sense of what the social life and vibe and sort of ethos of the Trump White House is.
00:15:33.320 What she's not really good at doing is being like, they're going to, you know, do this with the Ukrainian aid, right?
00:15:39.080 She's not breaking news.
00:15:40.440 Yeah, there's no policy.
00:15:41.060 There's no policy in any of her work, ever.
00:15:43.420 She's not breaking news.
00:15:44.400 She's not analyzing policy.
00:15:45.780 That's not really what she does.
00:15:47.520 what she does is try to like evoke their characters and she's like she's kind of funny
00:15:52.340 she is like snide and knowing that is her affect even when she's very young and she's she was also
00:15:59.100 very funny on twitter she's clearly very smart she's very funny on twitter exactly none of which
00:16:03.460 makes it onto the pages of this book we should say it's a big pivot yeah it's a big pivot from
00:16:07.820 the book if you're if you're familiar with what she was doing at new york magazine as i am
00:16:12.820 the stylistic and the sort of like posture that she takes in the book is very very different yeah
00:16:20.460 at some point she leaves older man behind and pivots to another older man ryan liza around the
00:16:28.180 time he gets fired from the new yorker allegedly allegedly allegedly because of it inappropriate
00:16:35.100 appropriate to like borderline harassing sexual relationship he had there so he gets fired from
00:16:43.100 the new yorker for being some kind of sex pest yeah we have zero details on that all we have is
00:16:46.760 like some sort of sexual misconduct he denies it new yorker investigated and said it was worth 0.52
00:16:51.120 firing and that's like literally all the information that's in the public that's all
00:16:53.720 they're saying yeah so he did something that the new yorker considered fireable and he won't say
00:16:59.840 anything and she's not saying anything about what it was lisa now reports that she like took his
00:17:04.300 side during this you know me too witch hunt thing yeah she she says that too she's she i watched an
00:17:08.940 interview with her where she says i i still think it's a false allegation basically yeah yeah um i
00:17:13.060 don't i don't think it was a false allegation against ryan lisa he also i believe was like
00:17:17.720 married with kids at the time takes off from that relationship and sets it starts playing house with
00:17:24.060 olivia nazi in dc right so like now and another older media man is her like patron and partner
00:17:31.940 And they stay together for like a decade.
00:17:34.400 Yeah.
00:17:34.900 And, you know, she is a little less well-sourced in the Biden administration.
00:17:40.080 She's not really doing so many of the like splashy long form takes.
00:17:44.760 But in 2024, pretty quickly after that disastrous debate of Joe Biden, Olivia Nuzzi comes out with this article where she talks about how old Biden is.
00:17:56.200 and suggests that his aides are trying to cover up his infirmity from the public.
00:18:04.440 And that does open the floodgates of people sort of like, 0.98
00:18:07.600 there's like a lot of like cover your ass journalism about Biden's age
00:18:10.840 in the summer of 2024 and spring of 2024, 0.97
00:18:13.460 especially after that debate where he was like so ostentatiously incompetent.
00:18:18.940 And then later that summer, it comes out, you know,
00:18:22.800 Meanwhile, like, Nuzi is continuing to cover the 2024 presidential campaign, not just Biden, but she writes a profile of RFK Jr. for New York Magazine, which is weird because New York Magazine had already published a profile of RFK Jr.
00:18:38.260 They had commissioned Rebecca Tracer, a very talented, like, more analytical political writer, to do a profile of RFK, which she did.
00:18:46.520 And they published, I think they put it on the cover.
00:18:48.220 But then apparently, like, Nuzi lobbied for this other profile.
00:18:51.200 Yeah, yeah.
00:18:51.800 And according to her, that's when her personal relationship with RFK begins.
00:18:57.640 Yeah, that was late 2023 when that came out.
00:19:00.120 And he's running for president at the time and he drops out.
00:19:02.920 And around the time he's getting ready to drop out, the rumor goes somewhat public.
00:19:10.560 I think it was like a media industry newsletter.
00:19:13.860 Yeah, yeah. 0.96
00:19:14.380 That Nuzzi has been having this relationship with him and that New York Magazine knows about it and is investigating. 1.00
00:19:20.920 I got, Michael, I got text messages from people I had not talked about in years. 1.00
00:19:28.100 This was a piece of gossip that really, like, lit up the media world with, like, schadenfreude.
00:19:34.720 It is a huge story.
00:19:36.360 Like, a prominent national-level political journalist is having a sexual relationship with one of the candidates as they're negotiating a role in the Trump administration.
00:19:45.000 Like, it's a genuine, like, I know this kind of gets covered as a gossip thing, and I think the tabloids covered it as, like, a sex thing.
00:19:50.560 But it's like a huge journalistic ethics story.
00:19:52.900 It's like one of the biggest ones since Stephen Glass.
00:19:54.800 It's like a huge deal that has happened.
00:19:57.060 And it's also coming at a moment where, like, first of all, I think there wouldn't have been quite as much emotional investment in Nozzi's downfall if people didn't really kind of suspect that she was a little bit conservative-leading anyway.
00:20:10.580 Yeah, yeah.
00:20:10.940 The fact that she was very, very well-sourced in the first Trump administration and much less sourced in the Biden administration implied, I think, to a lot of people that she was more at ease with Republicans.
00:20:19.780 And she wrote a very glowing profile of Trump in November of 2024, right before the election. I mean, she wrote this, like, humanizing profile. And when she posted it, she was like, people say we shouldn't be humanizing him, but I think it's important to humanize him. So she openly was saying, like, I'm going to try to make Trump a three-dimensional person a month before the fucking election where he wins and her essentially boyfriend gets installed in his administration.
00:20:43.200 Like, to me, the whole kind of ethics angle has all been about, like, was she trying to help RFK's campaign, which I think he was always going to drop out.
00:20:50.580 But, like, she was helping Trump's campaign at a time when he was negotiating for a role in the administration.
00:20:56.360 Her boyfriend would have been unemployed if Trump didn't win, and he would have been employed if Trump won.
00:21:01.120 And so just the extremely basic incentives of her as a campaign journalist at that time were really clear, and she totally admits to this in the book.
00:21:08.240 She's like helping him negotiate his role in the Trump administration while she's writing this piece, Humanizing Trump.
00:21:14.900 I think that's fair. And I also think that part of what is so sticky about the Nuzzi story is that we're in a moment where there's like a big distrust of media and a big distrust of elites. 0.79
00:21:26.500 Like this is, in fact, like the trend in American life that brought Donald Trump to power and is now sort of like turning on him and the sort of corruption of elites, their indifference to morality, their incestuous relationships. 0.75
00:21:42.460 Like, this is also what animates a lot of outrage at the Epstein stuff, I think, even more than the, like, actual trafficking of children in that story is, like, people are really mad at how corrupt the rich are and how corrupt the powerful are and how they're all fucking friends with each other in ways that create these conflicts of interest.
00:22:00.860 Yeah.
00:22:01.240 And they circle the wagons to defend each other.
00:22:03.180 Like, people are circling the wagons to defend Newtzi.
00:22:05.220 Like, oh, haven't we all slept with our sources?
00:22:07.280 Like, no.
00:22:08.220 Yeah, no, we haven't.
00:22:09.140 No.
00:22:09.360 It really crystallizes in metaphor something that people sort of understand in spirit, just like, oh, my God, they're all in bed together, right?
00:22:19.240 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:22:20.080 There's no commitment to principle among these people.
00:22:23.500 There's like a commitment to self-interest and to protecting their friends and to like maintaining their status within this club.
00:22:32.100 And also it is a very sexist trope, like the journalist who sleeps with her sources.
00:22:35.720 Like, it happens to be true in this case. But also the fact that it was like a ready narrative for people to draw on was also kind of helped because it's just like it's an archetype that, you know, even if in general that archetype is false, it just happens to be true in this case.
00:22:49.180 Yeah, no, she made other female journalists look really, really bad. 0.99
00:22:51.740 Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah. 1.00
00:22:52.680 And now, like, gender critiques of this story have focused on defending Nuzi from sexism in the critiques of her, right?
00:23:00.960 And, like, there's this kind of simplistic reductive thing.
00:23:02.940 It's like, well, either sexism is a real presence in this discourse and therefore she didn't do anything wrong or she did something wrong and therefore none of the criticisms of her contain sexism.
00:23:15.180 I think that's kind of a false dichotomy.
00:23:16.440 I think sexism can inflect the discourses or the thinking or the language of people who have, like, legitimate grievances, and I don't think you have to be a good person to be victimized by sexism.
00:23:31.720 I think, like, sexism is wielded at bad people, bad women, like, all the time.
00:23:36.720 But, like, there's kind of one that's like, oh, don't go after the woman for the sexual transgression that is sexist. 0.99
00:23:43.800 I think that's kind of dumb. 0.95
00:23:45.620 That's, like, what Lisa Taddeo did in, like, Air Mail. 0.98
00:23:48.720 She's like, haven't we all been overcome by Eros?
00:23:52.500 It's like, well, not like this.
00:23:53.920 Not with the anti-vax guy.
00:23:55.480 Well, yeah, we've all loved too hard.
00:23:57.380 Like, oh, she fell in love. 0.99
00:23:58.480 Like, what are you, fucking 12 years old? 1.00
00:23:59.900 No, exactly. 0.99
00:24:00.160 Like, no, she didn't, first of all. 0.99
00:24:01.640 No, she fucking didn't. 0.99
00:24:03.120 Also, I think the way the tabloids covered it, too, if you read the old, like, New York Post coverage, especially, like, right after the scandal broke, a lot of it was just people being scandalized by the fact that a grown woman was sexting. 0.99
00:24:12.980 it's like she was sending nudes and like that's extremely common behavior these days just 0.97
00:24:18.300 descriptively it's common i think sexting is fun and wholesome i don't really give a shit that she 0.96
00:24:22.340 was sexting i care about who she was sexting what she was getting in exchange like there was all 0.97
00:24:26.900 this also this weird parsing of like did they have sex did they not have sex i don't care i think
00:24:30.960 they were clearly carrying on an emotional and sexual relationship whatever form that took and
00:24:35.120 so the fact that she was having a sexual relationship with one of the candidates while
00:24:38.100 covering the campaign is just kind of like i don't necessarily need to know the details about that but
00:24:42.140 But, like, the scandalous part is not that, like, a grown woman was sexting. 0.99
00:24:45.380 I really don't give a shit about that. 0.99
00:24:46.880 It's like— 0.99
00:24:47.460 Sexting is not wrong.
00:24:48.820 Yeah, it's fine.
00:24:49.700 Like, I don't care about sexting in isolation.
00:24:51.960 I think sexting RFK Jr. is always wrong. 1.00
00:24:53.940 Yeah, he's a huge piece of shit. 1.00
00:24:55.100 There's also that aspect of it. 1.00
00:24:57.540 Nobody is sexting RFK Jr. who either respects themselves or deserves mine, you know?
00:25:02.320 And I think also, like, sexting your sources as a journalist who's supposed to be holding these people to account is wrong.
00:25:08.760 But, like, this brings me back to the other gendered aspect of this, which is that, like, it's scab behavior, right? To, like, trade sex for professional advancement, the way that, like, Nozzy seems to have been doing, at least in this episode, puts other women in your field in a position where that is presumed acceptable, like an acceptable thing to demand of them or something that other people are going to suspect them of doing.
00:25:32.740 It's like, it's scab shit, right? You have a degree of responsibility to other women to not trade on your own sex and gender in ways that enable the further degradation of other women based on sex and gender lines, right? And like, I think she failed that responsibility to us. 0.98
00:25:52.340 It makes sexters look bad. It's making all of us out here, you know, just standing up for people who sexed appropriately with appropriate people. Don't throw me under the bus.
00:25:59.880 Yes, the female and horny communities are both victimized here, yeah. 0.99
00:26:05.680 But with RFK Jr., you also never know, are you sexting him or are you sexting the brain worm, man? 0.99
00:26:11.520 You look so slithery, what? 0.91
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