In Bed With The Right - September 29, 2026


Episode 156 -- Dolly Parton

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00:00:00.000 Hello, I'm Adrienne Dobb.
00:00:07.320 And I'm Moira Donnegan.
00:00:08.360 And whether we like it or not, this is In Search of Lost Time.
00:00:14.080 Listeners, Adrienne opened the doc in which I wrote my notes for this episode today and
00:00:19.140 then started giving me one of these very gentle, like, okay, so, you know, I do sometimes
00:00:25.600 think that our intros go a little long.
00:00:28.440 It's like, it's 13 pages.
00:00:30.000 I think my exact words were, oh.
00:00:33.860 The look of, like, shocked terror and disappointment in Adrian's face every time we record one of my episodes.
00:00:41.040 No, I mean, look, this is a worthy subject, and I'm glad we're getting into it in all the detail it deserves.
00:00:47.180 And I guess I knew the amount of detail it deserved, but seeing the amount of detail it deserves up close in a Google Doc of 5,800 words.
00:01:00.980 It's a different thing.
00:01:02.080 Like I was having a somatic reaction.
00:01:04.140 Like, whoa, that is a big block.
00:01:06.000 Let it never be said that I don't work hard for the podcast.
00:01:08.460 You work so hard.
00:01:09.140 Listen, there has been so much written about Dolly Parton because Dolly Parton is a way into so many very, very big topics.
00:01:20.480 whiteness in America, the imagination of rural America, the reality of rural America,
00:01:27.160 country music and its racial connotations. And then, of course, what is our bread and butter,
00:01:33.420 and I think something very, very interesting for Dolly, femininity and its contradictions.
00:01:38.900 So this is somebody who's not just a country music superstar. She really became this sort of
00:01:44.840 like institution of American celebrity, right? She had this very, very long career. But over that
00:01:51.020 long career, she also developed this seemingly universal appeal. You cannot find anybody with
00:01:58.620 anything bad to say about Dolly Parton. And it's not because there's nothing in there that's a
00:02:03.560 little iffy. And like, please don't come for me. I'm not trying to cancel Dolly. I love Dolly.
00:02:08.560 I'm not saying you don't get to love Dolly. But it's weird. And we're going to go through her
00:02:13.620 career here and her history, it's weird that none of these things that in the hands of somebody
00:02:21.680 else would have been scandals or would have been cancellations or would have been stains. Like,
00:02:27.920 none of them stick to her. She's got this sort of, like, Teflon quality. And in that sense, 0.94
00:02:36.200 she also kind of defies my own assumptions. Coming from a radical feminist perspective, 1.00
00:02:42.260 coming from a perspective that looks at mass media 0.98
00:02:45.600 and mass audiences' perceptions of women,
00:02:48.640 I have never encountered anybody else
00:02:52.160 who was able to do what she was able to do,
00:02:55.420 which is maintain a positive public perception 0.98
00:02:58.700 and basically uniform affection from an American public
00:03:05.840 over a career that was like 50 years long.
00:03:10.080 Yeah. I've become really good at identifying the incentives and like unconscious desires that cause people to dislike famous women. And I've become really good at learning how audiences can distort a woman's actual words and actions and qualities in their own minds in order to make her seem more powerful than she really is, more flawed than she really is, more nefarious than she really is.
00:03:37.460 And like worthy of punishment. But that's kind of the opposite of what happens with Dolly. Instead of everybody seeing this famous woman and finding something to hate about her, this is a famous woman who everybody sees and finds something to love about her. 0.94
00:03:52.880 And that is because Dolly Parton did this thing that should be impossible, which is that she pulled off this balancing act where she was always suspended between the contradictions of American womanhood and American celebrity in this very, very particular way.
00:04:09.040 And I think as we're going to see, she did that through an extremely careful and deliberate and I think sometimes like militantly careful and deliberate sort of high wire act.
00:04:19.780 And that's what we're going to try and look at today.
00:04:21.760 Very cool.
00:04:22.880 So by the time that Dolly Parton died in August, she had taken on this kind of like statesman-like role, right?
00:04:31.480 She was beloved across the political spectrum by these red state, like more traditional country audiences, and by the coastal country audiences at a time of really profound and high stakes political division.
00:04:46.520 Yeah, she's the kind of inverse of Ed Sheeran.
00:04:49.160 He also does bring the country together.
00:04:53.860 He does, yeah.
00:04:54.540 But she did that in part by becoming a stand-in for this imagined set of American values, right?
00:05:03.420 Like decency, humor.
00:05:05.720 I think she's known really for being quite funny.
00:05:08.700 And like really this hardscrabble optimism.
00:05:10.940 She was almost like relentlessly positive.
00:05:13.860 Always upbeat.
00:05:14.840 Yeah.
00:05:15.100 Very critical of the way society works and of her own place in it in some ways, but always with a smile, always with this kind of Energizer Bunny energy that suggested, hey, like, we can work through this.
00:05:27.860 We're going to get somewhere better.
00:05:29.280 Right. 1.00
00:05:29.460 It rolled right off her back. 0.99
00:05:31.080 Yeah.
00:05:31.580 And so all that means that when she died, it was like this pop cultural earthquake.
00:05:37.100 We're recording now about like a month after Dolly's death.
00:05:41.860 I really took my time on this episode and I really wrote quite a lot.
00:05:45.100 But it was this big media deal because suddenly everybody was rushing to claim Dolly, to wield her for their own interests, to, like, make these statements about who she was and what she meant.
00:05:57.520 It was like George Washington had died or like we lost the last bald eagle or something like this, like this icon of American kitsch and this great symbol was brought back into our attention at the moment of her dying.
00:06:12.060 And now the actual human being who inhabited that iconography is gone, but this sort of like symbolism remains, right?
00:06:21.180 So today on In Bed with the Right, we're going to go down a couple of different discursive paths with Dolly.
00:06:27.660 We're going to talk about like who was this real actual living human being, Dolly Parton, and what relationship does she bear to this quote unquote Dolly Parton character that emerged as a symbol of America's better angels.
00:06:40.880 We're going to try and figure out what did this human being do that created this national mascot?
00:06:49.240 And centrally, for our purposes, we're going to ask what Dolly's performance of her signature style of really exaggerated, really campy, hyper real form of femininity did for her as she built her career and as she built her persona.
00:07:05.160 How did she deploy gender to try and become this sort of universally beloved figure?
00:07:12.220 So a couple of things about this.
00:07:13.840 I love the fact that you're reaching for the word hyperreal to describe a person who, to me, like, also was one of those incredible icons for how the 80s were never ending, right?
00:07:24.060 I wonder if Jean Baudrillard ever wrote about Dolly Parton, because it is a kind of a simulacral quality there where, like, it's a self-referential universe and she mostly just stands in for herself.
00:07:34.440 But it also makes me realize that as we're saying goodbye to her, it's really hard to say what period she is actually of, right?
00:07:42.540 She's a relic of something, but I'm not sure what she's a relic of.
00:07:45.260 So, like, while I'm a big Dolly fan, that's what I'm excited about, to sort of get history returned to this icon a little bit and get, like, she is of a time, but which time is that?
00:07:55.300 Yeah, in her like outfits, in her look, in her self-mythologizing efforts, in like her theme park.
00:08:04.700 We are going to be talking a lot about Dollywood.
00:08:06.720 Oh, yeah.
00:08:07.700 She was always sort of trying to evoke a past, but the actual like time referent of the past is sort of unclear.
00:08:16.580 It's just sort of old timiness.
00:08:18.280 And there are moments when that could go wrong.
00:08:19.840 I mean, I hope I'm not spoiling anything, but there are moments when that could go wrong.
00:08:23.280 Oh, boy, it does.
00:08:24.300 in that there were sort of Confederate things mixed in with it.
00:08:27.660 But it was always just like the past was a grab bag.
00:08:31.200 Yeah, old-timiness, exactly.
00:08:32.820 So that is one sort of trail we're going to take.
00:08:36.080 But first, I just kind of want to get into the eras of Dolly's career.
00:08:40.380 Because for the first several decades of her musical working life,
00:08:45.700 she was already a major icon in what we might simplistically term
00:08:48.760 Red America, right?
00:08:49.940 Like the traditional country music markets, 0.73
00:08:52.100 mostly white, mostly Christian listeners in the South, Midwest, and Mountain West.
00:08:58.160 We talk about like Dali as sort of always evoking this kind of imprecisely imagined past.
00:09:02.860 And I think one thing that's really interesting about country music as a genre
00:09:05.740 is that it really took off commercially when people were leaving the country
00:09:09.760 in like the post-war era of the 20th century when a lot of people were moving
00:09:15.000 out of those rural areas into the cities when they didn't live in the country anymore.
00:09:19.940 Those people really started buying a lot of country records and like listening to country music stations, it totally exploded.
00:09:25.920 And Dolly was very much part of that transition for the genre.
00:09:29.500 And I don't want to underestimate that in like the first part of her career, when she was a kind of straightforward country star, she was huge.
00:09:38.660 She was one of the major country stars throughout the 1970s.
00:09:42.960 But by the time that Dolly died, the nature of her celebrity had really expanded, and that was in part because she had also become beloved in what we might call blue America, right?
00:09:55.620 Like, she had this whole other market that she got access to of people who, like, you know, love gay abortions, et cetera.
00:10:03.880 You can just say our listeners.
00:10:05.100 I don't have to, like, why are we beating around the bush here? 1.00
00:10:06.900 but like she got this kind of revival in the last like 15 20 years of her life where these white
00:10:16.500 urban liberals got into her like black audiences appreciated her in a new way people who were like
00:10:24.100 not those traditional country fans loved dolly parton in a way that they don't love a ton of
00:10:29.480 other of these like crossover country artists because we should say like in that first transition
00:10:35.180 from kind of culturally bound celebrity to a more national celebrity.
00:10:40.520 That's true for a lot of Southern-coded entertainment
00:10:43.300 at the end of the 1970s, at the beginning of the 1980s.
00:10:46.120 Burt Reynolds movies are sort of exploitation movies for quite a while.
00:10:49.640 She was, in fact, in a movie opposite Burt Reynolds.
00:10:52.440 That's right. Best Little Whorehouse in Texas. 1.00
00:10:53.840 Best Little Whorehouse in Texas. Yeah, I think it was 1982. 0.96
00:10:57.280 Yeah. I mean, there is a moment when Burt Reynolds is making movies
00:11:01.520 for the southern market,
00:11:03.840 and then that stuff,
00:11:05.520 like I think with Smokey and the Bandit
00:11:07.140 and whatever, it goes sort of national.
00:11:09.460 But of course, with Burt Reynolds,
00:11:11.120 I'm not even hardly sure whether he's alive or not.
00:11:13.260 He clearly does not have the iconic status
00:11:14.960 that Dolly Parton has.
00:11:16.320 So the transition point she shares with others,
00:11:18.920 but where she ends up is totally her own.
00:11:21.260 Right, right.
00:11:22.260 So I want to talk about Dolly's specific path
00:11:26.020 to sort of crossover fame into a career revival.
00:11:30.900 And Adrian, have you ever heard of Hannah Montana?
00:11:35.300 Yes.
00:11:36.320 Okay, can you like watch Hannah Montana for us?
00:11:38.740 Okay, yes.
00:11:40.460 As I recall, Hannah Montana, of which I have never seen a single episode,
00:11:45.420 was a sitcom that ran on the Disney Channel, I believe, sometime in the later aughts,
00:11:53.320 given how old Miley Cyrus is, who was the star.
00:11:56.560 She played a teen named Miley, who was just a normal teen.
00:12:01.060 But wait, is she just a normal teen? 0.72
00:12:03.260 No, she is also the pop icon Hannah Montana. 0.98
00:12:06.320 Yes. 1.00
00:12:06.480 Which was just her in a wig. 1.00
00:12:08.080 Right. 0.99
00:12:09.380 So on Hannah Montana, Dolly Parton had a recurring role as the beloved Aunt Dolly, 0.99
00:12:16.740 Hannah Montana's godmother.
00:12:18.240 And Parton is, in fact, Miley Cyrus's real-life godmother.
00:12:22.820 So that was on from 2006 to 2011.
00:12:26.040 And it was huge for Dolly standing among this new generation, right?
00:12:30.760 The kind of listeners who were born when Parton was sort of like already in middle age or past it.
00:12:37.300 People were born in the aughts, people were born in the 2000s.
00:12:40.680 These little girls who watched Hannah Montana during that five-year run are women in their 20s and 30s now.
00:12:48.720 That can't possibly be right, Moira.
00:12:50.340 I'd like you to fact check that.
00:12:51.920 they came to see Parton in the role she played on the show, right,
00:12:57.780 as this maternally patient, wise figure.
00:13:02.460 So Dolly was already big, but Hannah Montana made her, like, crossover big in this new way, 0.93
00:13:08.800 and it coincided with the pop feminism of the 2010s,
00:13:14.360 which had that kind of ironic appreciation for Embaracana and Camp
00:13:20.100 that also allowed a new generation of women's consumers 0.97
00:13:23.580 to take to Dolly's music and to her image
00:13:26.520 with this kind of, like, ironic distance a little bit.
00:13:29.580 This is what I call, like, the prayer candolification of Dolly Parton. 0.97
00:13:34.500 Still, it's a testament to her immense charm
00:13:36.600 because I think Billy Ray Cyrus was also on Hannah Montana,
00:13:39.200 and the more exposure one had to him, the more one was like,
00:13:42.120 ooh, like, how is everyone else in your family
00:13:44.800 so much more talented than you, bro?
00:13:46.740 Oh, no, if you haven't heard of some of Miley Cyrus's siblings singing,
00:13:50.540 You would not say that.
00:13:51.800 Oh, okay.
00:13:52.320 I guess I was going by Miley.
00:13:55.600 So this is all by way of saying that, like, the Hannah Montana audience spawned a popular revival of Dolly's career.
00:14:03.140 It put her into this new market, and it really extended her career because it recruited a new generation of fans for her, right?
00:14:12.640 This is also something Dolly has as, like, a transgenerational appeal.
00:14:15.860 And I also think now is probably a good time when we should pause and really make explicit something we've been dancing around a little bit, which is Dolly's performance of gender.
00:14:26.040 Adrian, could you just tell our listeners, maybe those who have been living under a rock, what does Dolly Parton look like?
00:14:31.240 Big, big, big. 1.00
00:14:33.320 She has a body that is characterized by excess. 1.00
00:14:37.300 She's dressed in ways that are characterized by excess, right? 1.00
00:14:40.680 rhinestones, jewelry, hair that you'd think would, like, touch the ceiling of whatever room 0.99
00:14:45.880 she's in. She has a voice that is both extremely powerful and kind of cartoonish. She is pure,
00:14:53.700 unadulterated camp in certain ways. And she's someone who, at least for much of her career,
00:14:59.800 was very in on the joke, was very in on the fact that this was kind of an excessive performance
00:15:06.380 and leaned into it as much as she could.
00:15:09.500 Yeah, you know, like rhinestones, bright colors. 1.00
00:15:13.620 There's a lot of, like, artifice and exaggeration in Dolly's look. 0.94
00:15:16.780 She's got these really big doe eyes. 0.99
00:15:19.000 She always had big hair. 1.00
00:15:20.260 And, of course, she has huge tits, just massive. 1.00
00:15:23.880 They look like she, you know, shoved two balloons into her shirt, right? 1.00
00:15:27.140 And for a long time, Dolly's breasts were the subject of pretty demeaning jokes. 0.89
00:15:35.140 jokes. There was one appearance 1.00
00:15:37.220 she did on the Johnny Carson show
00:15:39.060 in January of 1977.
00:15:41.200 It actually happened to be taped on her 31st
00:15:43.100 birthday. And Carson
00:15:45.160 said to Dolly, I'm going to just read
00:15:47.120 this quote here, I'll tell you
00:15:49.100 what, these are my, I
00:15:51.080 have certain guidelines on the show, but I would
00:15:53.000 give about a year's pay to peek under there.
00:15:55.160 I can't tell you how tacky I feel
00:15:56.980 right now for saying that, but I had
00:15:58.960 to get it out. He felt so tacky, and yet he
00:16:00.920 did say it. Yeah, yet you
00:16:02.460 blazed right through it. Great, Johnny Carson. And you know,
00:16:04.940 Dolly did what she always did, which is sort of like make herself be in on the joke, right?
00:16:09.740 She goes, oh, she said something to the effect of like, oh, I paid good money for those.
00:16:12.580 You know what I mean?
00:16:13.200 There was always this really aggressive self-deprecation about it from Dolly.
00:16:19.940 She was asked about her look and she said, you know, when I was growing up, I thought the prettiest thing in the world was a town tramp, right?
00:16:24.700 So she's referencing, you know, like pretty explicitly sex workers.
00:16:29.900 she's referencing an exaggerated sex appeal i think this is interesting because like her actual
00:16:37.260 song lyrics are pretty pg there's not a lot of sexually explicit material in her song lyrics
00:16:44.620 which is not true of the like bluegrass blues and country genres from which she is taking
00:16:52.300 inspiration when she writes songs like those can often be quite dirty not dolly dolly is like very
00:16:58.200 PG. But I wanted to like allude to this sort of position where Dolly is not entirely robust or
00:17:09.860 sincere in her own taste, right? Like her look is a distinctive look. It is a consistent look.
00:17:16.580 She actually changed like kind of shockingly little over the years. It is always nostalgic.
00:17:23.580 Like I think, you know, in the 80s, she was wearing wigs that were clearly supposed to look
00:17:27.880 sort of like the 60s. And then by the time she died, the wigs were supposed to look like the
00:17:31.600 80s, you know. But it's not exactly a vow. There's sort of a like a self-conscious distance to it,
00:17:39.700 right? So this reminded me, of course, of Notes on Camp, in which Susan Sontag writes about
00:17:48.520 gender's role in this quality she's describing as camp. And she says,
00:17:53.500 Allied to the camp taste for the androgynous is something that seems quite different but isn't
00:17:58.680 a relish for the exaggeration of sexual characteristics and personality mannerisms
00:18:03.280 for obvious reasons the best examples that can be cited are movie stars the corny flamboyant
00:18:09.120 femaleness of jane mansfield gina lolo brigida jane russell virginia mayo the exaggerated he
00:18:15.360 manness of steve reeves victor mature camp sees everything in quotation marks it's not a lamp but
00:18:22.180 a lamp not a woman but a woman to perceive camp in objects and persons is to understand being as
00:18:29.300 playing a role is the farthest extension insensibility of the metaphor of life as theater
00:18:35.060 so this is i think where i got to baudrillard right and the concept of hyper reality because
00:18:41.600 well this is like you know dolly is always kind of winking right um i think like sontag would say
00:18:51.120 that most camp is a little less self-conscious than Dolly is.
00:18:54.780 Like, Dolly is very self-aware.
00:18:56.320 Dolly is very self-referential.
00:18:58.020 But she's clearly sort of imitating.
00:19:00.180 I think Jane Mansfield is a huge influence on Dolly Parton's look, right?
00:19:04.340 This exaggeration-ness, this almost parodied sort of mishmash
00:19:10.380 of references to the concept of woman
00:19:12.680 is something that's really conspicuous.
00:19:15.300 Like, drag artists love doing Dolly Parton impersonations. 0.96
00:19:21.120 For a reason, right? Because she's already in drag. And this is where I think like the kind of set of reference in Dolly's personal look connects to the sort of incohate set of references in her self mythologization, right? 1.00
00:19:37.560 There's like woman in quotation marks in the way Dolly like dresses herself and makes herself up.
00:19:43.140 And then there's sort of like America in quotation marks in the lyrics she writes, in the sort of world she creates at Dollywood, in the sense of down hominess that she's always trying to evoke for her audience.
00:19:56.520 Yeah.
00:19:56.820 Both are like parodically imprecise, but like very much evoke a sensation.
00:20:02.740 Yeah.
00:20:03.440 No, I mean, this is why I'm glad that we're involving Monsieur B here, because there is a kind of an element of, right, it's about sex, but not in a straightforward way.
00:20:12.200 It's about the unconscious, but in a way that feels extremely flat and like, right, everything's just kind of out on the surface, right?
00:20:19.940 Like when you have Johnny Carson just being like, I'd like to see your boobs, it's like, wow, this is not a whole lot of sublimation going on around Dolly Parton, right?
00:20:27.420 It's like he's just like va-va-voom, and you're like, okay, I'm watching this on TV now, what the hell.
00:20:32.800 The relation to the past, the relationship to class, it's hyper-real, right?
00:20:37.580 It's there, but it's a relationship between reference.
00:20:41.620 She's not drawing on anything very, very specific, or she's not either expressing something that preexists or repressing or hiding something that preexists.
00:20:53.680 And I think that's, for Baudrillard, very important in terms of the simulacrum.
00:20:56.520 It is a thing that attains what he calls the precession of simulacra, where basically the simulacrum kind of moves and develops a logic of its own that really doesn't have anything to do with what we would think would be underneath the sign, right?
00:21:12.540 Yeah. And I think the sense of like, there's nothing really being concealed, right?
00:21:17.420 There's no truth that you're going to pull off like a mask at the end of a Scooby-Doo episode to Dolly Parton.
00:21:23.220 Yeah.
00:21:23.400 I think that brings us maybe pretty nicely to the word that got bandied around a lot during Dolly's 2010s revival era, which is the F word, feminism.
00:21:36.440 So a question that a lot of the late Dolly Parton reconsiderations all asked was one that I just honestly kind of want to get out of the way, which is, was Dolly Parton a feminist? 0.97
00:21:49.440 And Adrian, I fucking hate this question. 0.87
00:21:51.060 I don't just hate this question about Dolly Parton. 0.99
00:21:54.640 I kind of hate it in general, right?
00:21:56.180 I'm just not sure what it accomplishes.
00:21:58.300 Yeah.
00:21:58.800 I don't think it's asking an interesting question
00:22:01.720 that often helps us know more about its subject.
00:22:04.980 I think it's often asking if we can fit the subject
00:22:08.040 into a box of acceptability, right?
00:22:10.080 Oh, I was thinking it also becomes an easy warning against,
00:22:14.560 oh, you better not attack this person or critique this person 1.00
00:22:16.740 because then it's intra-feminist violence.
00:22:18.440 I'm like, how could you, right? 0.99
00:22:20.300 And I've rarely ever seen like, oh, but isn't this person in her own way a feminist? 0.96
00:22:26.780 Is it something other than a ramp up to like, and how dare you be mean to her, right?
00:22:30.980 You know, could you easily unearth some resonances between like nine to five and like a feminist project? 1.00
00:22:36.440 Like, yeah, obviously.
00:22:38.260 But it seems like the question, was she or is she a feminist icon, is like, is asking something different.
00:22:44.620 Yeah, it's usually a question that serves polemic rather than descriptive ends, right?
00:22:49.640 I think it can sometimes get us farther away from understanding something rather than closer to it. 0.98
00:22:55.800 And I'm somebody with a lot of investment in what the word feminism means, right?
00:23:01.920 I'm about to say something that also just kind of contradicts what I just said, though, because like the answer to is Dolly Parton a feminist is no.
00:23:10.820 And this is not my assessment.
00:23:13.220 This is Dolly Parton's assessment.
00:23:15.140 I'm on the record as fighting a very losing battle here because I believe that the word feminism should refer to, you know, the political movement by women to end the oppression that they face because they are women.
00:23:25.880 I know that's like a hashtag unpopular opinion.
00:23:29.280 But by that measure, it just doesn't make sense to call Dolly Parton a feminist. 1.00
00:23:32.180 That's simply not what her project is. 0.99
00:23:34.060 She's doing something else, and that's okay.
00:23:37.820 Yeah, I mean, I don't know if you've read Sarah Smarr's book on Dolly from 2020.
00:23:41.420 Yes, it's excellent, yes.
00:23:42.620 She comes by it naturally, and she sort of, it's been six years, but she sort of says every time, like, well, Dolly has this feminism that is the feminism of the women I grew up with, right?
00:23:53.920 And you're like, well, okay, so that feels to me, right, like where it's a project about problematizing how women are being put on display, but also not shrinking away from that, thinking about how class and gender interact in rural America, et cetera, et cetera.
00:24:09.100 I think what Smarsh is doing, which is very, very clever, is to sort of say like, well, it's a form of gendered critique that Dolly Parton comes out of.
00:24:19.660 And you can call that feminist if you want, but you can also say like, well, it's not explicitly linked to that political project.
00:24:25.680 The other reason that I say that Dolly Parton is not a feminist is because Dolly Parton said that Dolly Parton was not a feminist.
00:24:32.040 Seems pretty dispositive, yeah. 0.71
00:24:33.640 Yeah. Like in this 2019 podcast interview, a radio journalist asked her this question directly and she said no. He in fact said that when he asked her this, she seemed to kind of recoil. Right. And so there's like kind of a tendency to sort of correct women who say that they're not feminist to be like, oh, no, no, no. It just means equality or like to emphasize their own, you know, independence.
00:24:58.540 No, no, no. I get that impulse, but I think it's kind of patronizing. Like Dolly knew, I think, what feminism means and she rejected it. I don't think she rejected it out of ignorance. I think she rejected it out of commitment. So if we're going to like take her seriously, as I think we should, as a writer, as a wielder of public attention, as somebody who thought intelligently about gender, I think we have to take her seriously on this point too and say, okay, she's not a feminist.
00:25:23.460 What she was instead, I think, was, and I say this with like some admiration, like an auteur of femininity, which is something very different and very fascinating in its own right, aside from being like a quote unquote feminist, right?
00:25:37.780 But one thing I think is really fascinating about Dali is she wasn't even a uncomplicatedly enthusiastic practitioner of femininity.
00:25:48.320 Clearly she took a lot of joy in her own gender performance
00:25:50.900 and she certainly never deviated from it in public. 1.00
00:25:54.260 Like if you see a picture of Dolly Parton 1.00
00:25:56.940 that's supposedly like without makeup or without her wigs, 1.00
00:25:59.820 that shit is AI. 1.00
00:26:00.720 That is photoshopped because she never was photographed 1.00
00:26:04.720 without that full glam.
00:26:07.280 But she also did something really kind of interesting,
00:26:09.160 which is that she complained about it in public a lot.
00:26:11.920 She complained about her costuming,
00:26:13.560 about her ornamentation, like all the time.
00:26:16.680 and she always talked about it with this kind of like self-mocking humor but sometimes there's
00:26:22.160 also like a hint of anger in it so dolly once talked about how when she was interviewed she
00:26:27.600 was always try to make a joke about her own appearance first or failing that she would try
00:26:34.680 to make one as soon as her interviewer did right like she would like try to beat them to the punch
00:26:38.020 on this a little bit and she described it as like so we can get that off our chest so to speak
00:26:43.760 which I think is a cute little pun.
00:26:45.720 Yeah, it's good.
00:26:46.260 And then once that's out of the way,
00:26:48.000 she thought then they can talk more substantially about the music.
00:26:50.860 One of her famous quips, of which, of course, she had a lot,
00:26:53.560 was it takes a lot of money to look this cheap.
00:26:55.420 You know, when I talk about making money, I said,
00:26:57.180 you know, I need to make a lot of money
00:26:58.720 because it would amaze you to know how much it costs
00:27:01.480 to make a person look this cheap.
00:27:05.640 And of course, that's like genius and hilarious.
00:27:07.920 It sort of like tips her hat to her own wealth 1.00
00:27:12.520 in this interesting way that sort of preserves her lower-class origins
00:27:16.460 and her, like, working-class authenticity in this really elegant way.
00:27:20.420 But it also reflects a kind of exhaustion
00:27:22.500 at the contrast between the effort she expends on femininity, 0.97
00:27:26.760 the, like, it costs a lot of money part,
00:27:28.480 and the mockery and subordination that that femininity often provoked in her life, 1.00
00:27:32.880 like the look-in-cheap part, right?
00:27:34.460 Yeah, yeah.
00:27:34.960 So there's this tension here.
00:27:36.080 So when she died, one of the prepared statements that her family put out was,
00:27:41.960 Oh, she said she wanted to be buried in cotton so that after a lifetime of wearing rhinestones, she could finally be comfortable.
00:27:49.000 Oh, wow.
00:27:49.720 And like she made these kinds of jokes so often that I almost wonder how much she was joking, right?
00:27:55.640 My friend Brooke said she was, she was complaining about her dating life.
00:27:59.800 She's like a cis straight woman.
00:28:01.320 And she was like, Moira, it's exhausting to pretend to be a girl all the time. 0.54
00:28:05.040 And that's something that kind of reminds me of Dolly a little bit.
00:28:09.000 There's these big hair. 1.00
00:28:10.240 There's these big tits. 1.00
00:28:11.200 There's a lot of like frills and bows. And all of this was a hook for attention or maybe like a shield for self-protection. But it was also something that gets lightly resented and something that keeps the full seriousness of sincerity sort of at bay. 1.00
00:28:28.000 And I think when feminists are doing this kind of analysis of ambivalence, particularly with things like femininity, there's this effort to sort of rush past that ambivalence or to like resolve it, right? 1.00
00:28:42.580 Yeah.
00:28:42.740 It's a tendency, like a discursive tendency you notice if you spend a lot of time reading feminist writing, feminist theory, feminist commentary, as I do for my J-O-B. 0.89
00:28:51.180 Like on the one hand, the pleasures of, say, you know, makeup or shaving or high heels, those pleasures exist alongside like the very real contributions of those like imageries and practices to women's own lower status.
00:29:08.400 That's like a genuine contradiction.
00:29:11.180 And I think people sort of rush to be like, okay, it's all false consciousness and the pleasure doesn't count.
00:29:17.480 Or they rush to be like, oh, the pleasure sort of negates or subverts the contribution to a status.
00:29:24.460 Yeah.
00:29:24.720 And so the degradation doesn't count.
00:29:26.180 And like neither one of those are like honest.
00:29:28.160 Yeah, it's particularly strange around gender.
00:29:29.800 It's like, oh, you're deconstructing the gender performance by overdoing it.
00:29:34.540 And I mean, like on some level, sure. 0.99
00:29:36.420 But on the other hand, the reason Carson and people like that reacted the way they did to Dolly was they understood they were being catered to, which they were by, yeah, her enormous boobs, by the good ass she also claimed to have. 0.99
00:29:50.420 I must admit I've not paid any attention to that. 0.95
00:29:53.140 But, yeah, there is an element of like, OK, so the form of subversion is full on catering to something like it's a complicated, it's a vexed place, right?
00:30:02.040 Yeah, I kind of, I land sort of more on like the master's tools won't dismantle the master's house with this kind of stuff. But I think like the feminist question is like, okay, well, to what extent do you like judge or condemn this complicity, which like, honestly, I just don't have the fucking energy to do. Like who could fucking be bothered? 0.84
00:30:19.020 um it's like it's pretty low stakes in terms of all the different kinds of ways that women 1.00
00:30:25.040 participate in patriarchy i'm just like not that hung up on the false eyelashes but this is
00:30:29.040 something i do want us to sit with this like unresolved ambiguity it's a both and quality
00:30:34.800 and i would ask our listeners when we're thinking about dolly and maybe when we're thinking about
00:30:39.640 like our whole lives to try and not put it into one camp or the other to try and not make a
00:30:44.760 conclusion? Like, ask the question and then be willing to not have the answer. Probably good
00:30:51.780 advice in general. Yeah, yeah. Okay, so who was this actual woman? What do you know about Dolly
00:30:58.420 Parton's early life? Not that much, except she's from Pigeon Forge, Tennessee, today dominated by
00:31:05.320 her image and her wood, her Dollywood,
00:31:09.940 born into genuinely, I think, hardscrabble background.
00:31:15.860 Like, Dollywood is where it is
00:31:17.340 because she was trying to create a job engine
00:31:19.420 for an area she grew up in,
00:31:22.240 which was an area that was deeply bereft
00:31:25.540 of job opportunities at the time.
00:31:27.920 When was she actually born?
00:31:29.180 I'm trying to remember.
00:31:30.580 1946.
00:31:31.140 1946, so she's a post-war baby.
00:31:35.320 But I think in an area that sort of didn't end up, like it's not the New South, right?
00:31:40.580 She's definitely not sort of, she's not from Atlanta, Georgia or something like that.
00:31:43.780 She's from an area that I think, at least in her own telling, was sort of left behind a little bit.
00:31:50.020 Yeah, she's born in the hills of rural East Tennessee.
00:31:54.360 You ever been to the Smoky Mountains, Adrian?
00:31:56.500 Well, yeah. 0.97
00:31:57.060 Oh, it's fucking beautiful. 0.99
00:31:58.860 It's like stunning. 0.99
00:31:59.640 Gorgeous, yeah.
00:32:00.020 And yes, extremely poor.
00:32:03.400 Was then, still is now. 0.83
00:32:05.560 And Dolly was born into, like, genuinely brutal abject poverty.
00:32:09.560 Didn't she have, like, 11 siblings or something like that?
00:32:11.780 Her father was an illiterate sharecropper, 1.00
00:32:15.880 and her mother did not work,
00:32:18.200 but she gave birth 12 times by the time she was 35,
00:32:23.260 and one of those babies did die.
00:32:25.160 So Dolly's mother, Avey,
00:32:28.140 seems to have been pretty sickly during Dolly's childhood.
00:32:31.560 Could be because of the 12 pregnancies, but I'm no expert. 0.91
00:32:35.120 Right. I mean, combined with the fact that the family did not have much in the way of access to medical care or doctors in abject poverty in rural nowhere, Tennessee.
00:32:46.100 Yeah, the Great Smokies are, as Maura's saying, gorgeous, but they feel remote even today.
00:32:51.660 Like, I don't know if I'd want to step onto a nail in Bigeon Forge, Tennessee today.
00:32:55.940 Like, it's going to be a while to the hospital. 0.89
00:32:58.060 Well, Dolly liked to tell a story where she was, in fact, delivered when her mom gave birth to her.
00:33:03.780 She was delivered by a local missionary.
00:33:06.240 And her father paid the man with a bag of cornmeal.
00:33:10.680 But then another story features Dolly as a child cutting her foot on broken glass that was, like, in the backwoods behind their home, which was, by the way, a two-room cabin.
00:33:21.460 and her mother disinfected the wound with kerosene
00:33:25.560 and then sewed it shut with her like sewing kit.
00:33:29.120 So this is poverty.
00:33:30.220 This is real poverty.
00:33:31.260 And am I right to remember that I've been to this shack?
00:33:33.700 It is in Dollywood today, right?
00:33:35.460 There's a replica in Dollywood.
00:33:37.540 Ah, okay.
00:33:38.020 There is a real shack, the actual shack.
00:33:41.060 Dolly bought it in the 80s and refurbished it
00:33:43.660 and it's like a family retreat.
00:33:46.220 But the one you go to at Dollywood is a replica, yeah.
00:33:49.600 You're telling me like the Titanic,
00:33:51.000 they have in Pigeon Forge.
00:33:53.260 It's not the real thing.
00:33:55.140 Right, but like the deprivation and fear
00:33:57.860 that we're clearly a part of this life.
00:34:00.460 You're not this poor without suffering tremendously, right? 0.99
00:34:03.700 Dolly Parton does not talk about suffering.
00:34:06.320 She depicts this very poor, 0.96
00:34:08.680 very rural white childhood 0.96
00:34:10.440 in like absolutely idyllic terms.
00:34:14.280 You ever heard the Code of Many Colors?
00:34:16.060 Of course.
00:34:16.700 The Dolly Parton song.
00:34:17.380 It's one of my favorite Dolly Parton song.
00:34:17.920 I heard it yesterday.
00:34:18.380 They played it at River School.
00:34:19.620 It's so good.
00:34:20.100 Although we had no money
00:34:22.940 While I was rich as I could be
00:34:25.680 In my coat of many colors
00:34:28.480 My mama made for me
00:34:31.180 It's so good.
00:34:32.120 Which is where the coat of many colors
00:34:33.860 alternates from being this biblical image
00:34:36.240 of being kind of blessed, really.
00:34:38.600 But it's very clearly also that
00:34:40.040 it's just a very stitched together garment
00:34:41.560 when the singer is describing it, right?
00:34:44.120 Yeah, Dolly's songs, like country songs in general,
00:34:46.360 are a narrative.
00:34:46.940 They have a beginning, middle, and end.
00:34:48.500 They've got a moral lesson.
00:34:50.100 And in this one, this is a pretty early song of Dolly's.
00:34:52.960 It's sung from Dolly's perspective as a very poor young child who needs a winter coat.
00:34:58.900 So her mom takes this bag of donated rags and stitches together a coat made of rags.
00:35:06.240 And Dolly is made fun of by the other school children for her coat, for her evident poverty.
00:35:12.960 And then there's like a refusal of shame.
00:35:14.840 It's like, OK, I am loved so much by my mother that she made me this as opposed to I am so deprived that I need to wear a coat made of literal rags.
00:35:26.240 Yeah.
00:35:26.620 And Dolly like describes her childhood basically like that.
00:35:31.260 She also has a song, My Tennessee Mountain Home, which is very famous and like partakes of a lot of the same nostalgia.
00:35:38.060 And, you know, she talks about her childhood saying that even though her mom was always sick, her mom was always singing.
00:35:44.420 So Dolly very much traces her own musical development from her mother.
00:35:51.740 She performed at an early age.
00:35:53.600 Her maternal grandfather was this like Pentecostal preacher and she performed at his church a lot.
00:35:59.660 She also had a maternal uncle who became very involved in her musical career when she was very young.
00:36:06.380 And that guy took her, they like saved money to take her to a real recording studio when she was 12.
00:36:14.520 And that's where she recorded for the first time.
00:36:16.720 They went all the way to Louisiana.
00:36:18.760 So this legend, and it has to be said that Dolly really leans into this.
00:36:24.000 She's done a lot very purposely to cultivate this legend.
00:36:28.080 The legend is that the day after Dolly graduated high school, she boarded a bus to Nashville,
00:36:33.020 determined to sort of like make her way
00:36:35.500 in the country music industry.
00:36:37.620 And that's like the late 1960s.
00:36:39.740 Wow.
00:36:40.240 So basically immediately when she gets to Nashville,
00:36:43.020 she meets and marries a man named Carl Dean.
00:36:47.140 Do you know anything about Carl Dean?
00:36:48.640 No.
00:36:49.460 Yeah, nobody does.
00:36:50.800 Carl Dean was Dolly's husband from their marriage,
00:36:54.720 I believe in like 1967, don't quote me on that,
00:36:57.700 until his death in 2025.
00:37:00.280 and the story she tells about meeting Carl Dean like I don't know if this is the kind of thing
00:37:07.540 where like I just don't understand how people used to meet people they dated or if this is a
00:37:11.880 transparent lie but it reminds me of like me having this conversation with a woman at a bar
00:37:18.440 late one night and I asked her where she met her date and she said I met him at a Starbucks 0.98
00:37:23.240 and then later in the evening my own date was like Moira that's a prostitute like you were 1.00
00:37:28.620 You were chit-chatting with a prostitute. 0.98
00:37:29.980 She met the man who was hiring her probably through, like, an ad. 0.91
00:37:33.940 But then they may have met at the Starbucks.
00:37:35.500 They may have met up at the Starbucks.
00:37:37.460 But, like, the way she tells the story is, like, a little too cute for me to be real.
00:37:41.100 But, like, the version that Dolly put out is that they met when Dolly was, like, it was one of her first days in Nashville.
00:37:50.300 She's, like, 18, and she takes her laundry to the laundromat to try and clean it.
00:37:54.480 and a man who just happens to be passing by,
00:37:57.480 like, leans out the side of his car and is like,
00:37:59.200 well, boy, aren't you purdy?
00:38:01.240 And they get married, like, almost immediately.
00:38:04.500 I don't know.
00:38:05.220 It's a little too cute for me.
00:38:06.160 I mean, I agree that it sounds sus, 0.97
00:38:06.860 but are we assuming that Carl Dean is a prostitute? 0.99
00:38:10.760 Is that what we're saying? 0.98
00:38:11.660 I just want to be on the same page here.
00:38:13.320 I just feel like life is more complicated than this.
00:38:17.020 But maybe Dolly's isn't.
00:38:18.100 I don't know.
00:38:18.420 But I think it's important for Dolly's career 0.69
00:38:21.220 that she is married
00:38:23.000 and that her husband is basically invisible.
00:38:25.260 Yeah.
00:38:25.760 I think that's very important for her public persona 0.99
00:38:27.980 because she does not have to feign virginal innocence. 0.95
00:38:32.280 Right, availability at all.
00:38:34.040 Yeah, like Britney Spears in 1998, right?
00:38:36.180 Like that was a real weird tightrope 0.99
00:38:37.980 and Dolly didn't have to do it.
00:38:39.680 But she's also not available, right?
00:38:41.460 She's claimed she's spoken for by this absent man,
00:38:45.200 which makes her outward sexuality
00:38:47.440 and the like intense sexuality of her appearance less threatening.
00:38:51.560 There's a man she belongs to,
00:38:53.000 You never had to see or think about him.
00:38:55.460 It's like kind of an ideal situation for a celebrity.
00:38:57.820 He lives in Canada.
00:38:58.560 You wouldn't know him.
00:39:01.140 That said, she had some kind of like lean years when she first gets to Nashville.
00:39:05.200 She starts working not as a performer, but as a songwriter.
00:39:09.080 So she's like writing songs and selling them for other people to perform.
00:39:12.700 Apparently she was extremely prolific.
00:39:15.300 She would write like a couple new songs every single week.
00:39:17.960 But she wasn't seen as very viable as a singer. 0.99
00:39:20.820 because record labels thought that she sang too high.
00:39:25.480 Oh, wow.
00:39:26.060 And I think like if you're listening to a lot of country music,
00:39:29.560 it is a genre that rewards like deeper, richer female voices in particular.
00:39:34.840 For my money, I think that the record labels were kind of right here.
00:39:38.480 Like they were clearly like proven wrong, but I understand how they got there.
00:39:41.940 Like Parton is genius as a songwriter.
00:39:45.140 She's very talented as a guitar player and she's okay as a singer.
00:39:48.640 and what moves you in her songs
00:39:50.480 or what moves me in her songs at least
00:39:52.080 is the strength of her charisma
00:39:53.220 and like the pathos of her writing.
00:39:55.260 I can tell already people are going to be like yelling at me.
00:39:57.520 I was like, we're going to get so many calls. 1.00
00:40:00.760 Fuck. 1.00
00:40:01.620 She's better than me. 1.00
00:40:03.200 But like she really wanted to.
00:40:04.700 She's no Ed Sheeran, you guys.
00:40:07.720 They were like, okay, why don't you be a rock musician?
00:40:11.040 Why don't you be like a bubblegum pop musician?
00:40:12.820 She really wanted to be a country musician.
00:40:15.380 So for a while, it doesn't really look like
00:40:17.720 it's going to happen for her.
00:40:19.340 She's kind of struggling to stand out from the crowd.
00:40:22.480 This all changes when she is 21
00:40:26.080 and she gets a meeting to try and sell a song
00:40:31.380 to a guy named Porter Wagoner.
00:40:33.660 Do you know who Porter Wagoner is?
00:40:35.760 I think the only thing I know about him
00:40:37.580 is that I believe he's the addressee of
00:40:39.360 I Will Always Love You.
00:40:40.340 Is that correct?
00:40:41.100 That is correct.
00:40:41.980 If I close my eyes,
00:40:42.820 I don't know if I can picture Porter Wagoner.
00:40:44.660 Well, I put a picture in the doc for you.
00:40:46.760 Well, okay.
00:40:47.720 I don't know what I was expecting, but no, I guess it was this.
00:40:51.700 But he's still very much more than what I was expecting.
00:40:54.720 Doesn't he look like something you'd find under your shoe?
00:40:57.180 He's like not a good looking man.
00:40:58.740 Or like in a David Lynch movie, right before something deeply upsetting happens.
00:41:04.740 He is, just describe this image to our listeners.
00:41:07.520 So let me describe this man.
00:41:11.680 He has the face of an actor where David Lynch would be like, you're in the movie.
00:41:16.060 It's a very creepy smile, like a malignant smile.
00:41:19.140 So Christopher Lee in Wicker Man sort of thing.
00:41:22.100 The hair sort of poofed back in a way that I can only describe as alarming.
00:41:26.720 Buffant-ish.
00:41:27.680 There's clearly a lot of product involved in this hairstyle.
00:41:30.240 He's not like an underdressed man.
00:41:32.440 I want you to talk about the suit.
00:41:34.860 The suit is wild, just wild.
00:41:37.660 Red, blue, like he's wearing a bolo tie, these like weird wagon wheels all over.
00:41:44.040 Oh, because of Wagoner, I get it.
00:41:46.060 And the suit is a kind of blue—so some of this might be the degradation of the physical image over time, but, like, it's also blue in a way that suits are not really supposed to be blue unless, you know, you're starting in one of the Leisure Suit Larry games, basically.
00:41:59.820 This feels, to me, that would be a hard pass if I found that at Bloomingdale's, I've got to be honest.
00:42:05.480 And about how old does he look to you?
00:42:07.540 I mean, today I would put him at a 60, which probably in the 1970s put him at 40.
00:42:13.300 So, Porter Wagoner was a very, very famous country music singer and songwriter.
00:42:21.660 He was about 20 years Dolly's senior.
00:42:25.380 So, you know, she was about 21 when they met.
00:42:28.140 He was in his early 40s.
00:42:29.540 Again, people, he doesn't look a day over 75.
00:42:32.860 Jesus, what did people eat?
00:42:34.940 He is wearing what was called a nudie suit.
00:42:38.480 Apparently the guy who made them was nicknamed Nudie.
00:42:41.160 And it's like a suit in a bright color with very flashy embroidery of, like, Western themes.
00:42:49.940 I can see, like, a cigarro cactus, a wagon wheel.
00:42:52.780 Like, some of these are really impressive.
00:42:55.580 He was not the only person who—
00:42:56.320 I thought those were tentacles.
00:42:58.000 Shows what I know.
00:42:59.840 Oh, and that's a cactus.
00:43:00.820 You're right.
00:43:01.240 There's a cactus on his sleeve.
00:43:02.580 Yes. 0.84
00:43:02.820 He's like a skinny white guy with blonde hair and a really, like, creepy, creepy face.
00:43:08.760 Hey, there are dozens of us, okay? 0.98
00:43:11.160 I feel like there's a lot of hate coming our way as part of the tall, creepy white community. 0.92
00:43:15.480 I think of you as a redhead, Adrian. 0.98
00:43:17.340 No, I'm not.
00:43:18.780 I don't think. 1.00
00:43:19.320 You're blonde. 0.97
00:43:19.880 I think I'm blonde.
00:43:21.100 Well, he was one of the biggest things in country music.
00:43:24.940 So he had been this, like, big radio success when Dolly was growing up.
00:43:28.800 And then in 1960, he started a television show, which got syndicated around the country.
00:43:34.680 It was on for 21 years.
00:43:36.060 I had never heard of this.
00:43:37.560 The Porter Wagoner Show.
00:43:39.200 Direct from Nashville, Tennessee, Showbiz presents America's number one country music program, The Porter Wagner Show.
00:43:50.620 It reminds me of, like, 1970s country music, like, TRL.
00:43:56.800 Did you ever, I guess you weren't, like, an American child in 2002, but I spent a lot of time watching, like, Carson Daly.
00:44:04.100 I'm familiar with Carson Daly, yeah.
00:44:06.100 And so this was a show that he would have like live performances.
00:44:11.080 He would perform like new songs, classic songs, and then they would have musical guests on.
00:44:17.260 It was very formulaic.
00:44:18.800 And he always had a sidekick throughout the show with a couple of different people.
00:44:24.100 There was a role that Porter Wagner called the girl singer.
00:44:28.120 So this guy takes a meeting with a 21-year-old, very blonde, very doe-eyed songwriter named Dolly Parton.
00:44:40.040 And he says, would you like to be my girl singer? 0.94
00:44:44.220 Not only will I buy your song, I want to give you a permanent job.
00:44:47.780 Wow.
00:44:48.160 Was her reply, that's so great.
00:44:50.320 Can I ask what happened to the previous girl singer?
00:44:52.140 Yeah.
00:44:52.400 Yeah, so from 1960 to 1967, when he meets Dolly, Porter Wagoner's girl singer had been a woman named Norma Jean.
00:45:02.800 And in 1967, she had just abruptly quit the show.
00:45:06.300 Oh, one of those mysteries.
00:45:07.760 Yeah, having been in an American workplace before, I have a suspicion as to what might be behind that.
00:45:15.300 Yes.
00:45:15.580 Yes, the rumor then and the rumor now was that they had been sleeping together.
00:45:19.300 it had gone sour
00:45:20.880 and she and not he
00:45:22.460 had had to leave the job
00:45:23.500 right 1.00
00:45:23.720 the story that Dolly tells
00:45:25.420 is that she came into 0.93
00:45:26.400 Porter's office
00:45:27.000 to play the song
00:45:27.860 that she wrote
00:45:28.560 that she wanted to sell him
00:45:30.240 to maybe perform on the show
00:45:31.600 or perform elsewhere
00:45:32.420 whatever
00:45:32.860 and that Porter offered her
00:45:35.540 the girl singer job
00:45:36.640 like on the spot 0.99
00:45:37.700 so the other thing
00:45:39.580 that had just happened
00:45:40.440 this is 1967
00:45:41.340 the show had just started
00:45:43.260 to be filmed
00:45:44.020 in color
00:45:45.060 so it had been
00:45:46.660 in black and white
00:45:47.480 now it's in color
00:45:49.040 which means that Dolly and her full glory can really shine on the screen. 0.77
00:45:53.840 And she stays on that show as the girl singer for the next seven years.
00:45:58.460 So wait, he'd been wearing these nudie suits in front of a camera
00:46:01.460 that couldn't even appreciate the pure alarming color palette?
00:46:05.140 It really does go to waste, right?
00:46:07.120 In black and white.
00:46:08.520 Like, look at this picture.
00:46:09.740 Yeah.
00:46:10.560 Dolly is in a very late 1960s, like, kind of brocade set. 1.00
00:46:15.680 She's got a big, big wig. 0.99
00:46:18.660 She looks cute as a button. 1.00
00:46:20.200 Yeah.
00:46:20.420 And then she's standing next to this, like, weird desiccated corpse of a man.
00:46:24.740 Although he looks younger in this one than in the previous picture.
00:46:28.680 Yeah.
00:46:29.000 He looks a little bit like John Mulaney in this.
00:46:31.360 He does kind of.
00:46:32.200 Yeah, I see it.
00:46:32.860 It's a chin.
00:46:33.600 He's got the big chin.
00:46:34.720 And I have to say, it's interesting.
00:46:36.580 I mean, given that you sort of pointed to the function of the invisible husband behind all this in terms of making her both alluring and kind of a little off limits.
00:46:46.700 Like, she's aged up a little bit.
00:46:49.120 Like, I mean, again, like, it's the 1970s. 1.00
00:46:51.560 Everyone looked fucking old as shit. 0.99
00:46:53.080 When I see pictures of my parents, I'm like, how the fuck were you 19 or whatever? 1.00
00:46:56.580 But you don't wear this brocade looking to look your age if you're 21. 0.95
00:47:00.600 You are looking to be, like, she could be anywhere between 20 and 40, right?
00:47:06.100 Right. She's kind of both a very specific kind of allure, but she's also a little bit of an every girl here.
00:47:14.180 Yeah, yeah.
00:47:14.500 So I want to say it is unquestionable what Porter Wagoner did for Dolly's career, right?
00:47:21.060 During the time that they are performing together on the show, they record a ton of duets together.
00:47:26.520 And these are her first major hits.
00:47:28.300 She had been struggling.
00:47:29.780 He rockets her to the top of the charts.
00:47:32.680 And in the beginning, he was also a big champion of her solo career, right?
00:47:37.400 So he's not, at least at the start, he's not saying, this is my sidekick.
00:47:43.500 He's saying, this is a talented musician.
00:47:46.240 Let's, like, push her to write more music.
00:47:49.300 Apparently, she was writing really in the kind of, like, sad country tradition at first.
00:47:54.180 And he was like, if you want to be big, you have to...
00:47:56.860 Be poppy. Be fun.
00:47:58.120 Yeah, well, like, just start writing something fucking happy. 0.90
00:48:00.780 And he gets her to record a version of this old standard called the Mule Skinner Blues, 0.94
00:48:06.960 which is, like, very up-tempo.
00:48:08.540 Do you need another Mule Skinner? 0.69
00:48:13.160 Like Mule Skinner. 0.82
00:48:20.180 Doesn't that sound disgusting? 0.82
00:48:21.500 That sounds rough.
00:48:22.180 But that's her first, like, big hit.
00:48:24.000 It's one of her first up-tempo songs.
00:48:26.080 But their relationship goes really downhill.
00:48:29.940 And this is where we have to be very delicate.
00:48:32.560 Less delicate because everybody involved is dead.
00:48:35.340 But, like, people always assumed 0.99
00:48:37.560 that Dolly and Border Waggoner were fucking. 0.98
00:48:40.260 Both of them were always very evasive on this question, 0.99
00:48:43.900 including later when their relationship becomes, like, publicly acrimonious.
00:48:48.740 But if you, like, kind of assume that Porter Wagoner was having an affair with Dolly Parton,
00:48:53.900 then it would also fit the pattern established by his rumored affair with Norma Jean, right?
00:48:57.820 Her predecessor on the show.
00:48:59.660 And, like, let me tell you, I would be a very rich woman if I had a nickel 1.00
00:49:03.420 for every time I heard about a workplace where a woman has to leave
00:49:05.880 because her sexual relationship with her boss turns kind of sour.
00:49:09.640 It's very standard, you know?
00:49:11.160 But it also could be that, I mean, it sounds like he was a big promoter of a career, and that's lovely. 0.99
00:49:17.140 At the same time, stoking rumors or at least not discouraging rumors that someone got to where she is because she's fucking you 0.98
00:49:25.780 is also a way that men undercut and undermine the women around them as well, 0.98
00:49:30.580 even if that woman has had zero contact with you and no interest in you whatsoever.
00:49:34.800 And this is something I kind of want to talk about that happens a lot in the careers of, like, ambitious young women, because I call it, like, the bad mentor.
00:49:43.220 Yeah. 0.99
00:49:43.820 Let's follow my little bit of speculation here and grant that they were having an affair.
00:49:49.240 Or, like, even that just, like, it had that charge to it, their relationship, say.
00:49:52.780 He was interested, she strung him along, something like that.
00:49:55.380 Something like that.
00:49:56.120 Or, you know, he offered some kind of quid pro quo, whatever.
00:49:59.440 They met when Dolly was in her early 20s and Wagoner was in his 40s.
00:50:04.120 And at a moment when she was very talented and ambitious, like sort of young entree into an industry, and he was already firmly established in that industry.
00:50:13.220 Like, sorry, that's a pattern.
00:50:14.460 That is something I see basically every workplace, every industry, every sector, every state in the country, and probably every nation in the world. 0.89
00:50:22.840 When you look at the early careers of these ambitious women, there's often a figure like this at the beginning.
00:50:30.060 This older man whose professional mentorship and his sort of like paternalism comes with this kind of like sexual interest and expectation.
00:50:40.040 Misogynists call this women sleeping their way to the top.
00:50:42.560 I call it making sex a condition of women's professional success because young men do get this kind of mentorship from men, but it usually doesn't come with that price.
00:50:52.840 right? Yeah. Men get it by servicing the narcissism of older men, right? Like,
00:50:56.840 oh, I recognize myself in you. And you're like, okay, cool. Great. Can you write the letter
00:51:01.280 of recommendation now? Or are we not doing this? So I'm talking about exploitation in this
00:51:05.460 relationship. And I think that's like the framework that you kind of need to understand them. Like
00:51:10.640 there's an asymmetry of age and worldliness and professional power that creates this imbalance.
00:51:18.280 It's like genuinely ethically problematic to me.
00:51:20.860 I'm not trying to start like hashtag age gap discourse, but I do think this is a real ethical thorniness in these kinds of couplings.
00:51:29.400 That doesn't mean that the relationships are not, strictly speaking, consensual.
00:51:33.960 It doesn't mean that they never contain sincere affection or genuinely formative like pedagogical interventions, right?
00:51:42.380 It's not that it's like sexual exploitation or an actually useful professional opportunity.
00:51:47.280 like the injustice is exactly that it's both, right?
00:51:49.880 That they're melded together and entangled in such a way
00:51:52.820 that no one can actually come to any kind of conclusion
00:51:55.220 about which one it is.
00:51:56.420 Exactly.
00:51:57.380 So like, to be clear, we do not know that Porter Wagoner 0.99
00:51:59.720 and Dolly Parton were fucking. 0.97
00:52:01.620 But as is often the case in the kind of situation 1.00
00:52:04.920 where people are fucking, 1.00
00:52:06.040 Porter Wagoner really did level up her career. 0.99
00:52:09.920 And then she kind of started to surpass him.
00:52:12.540 She had solo records.
00:52:13.660 Her solo records started doing well.
00:52:15.940 She, like, became in demand.
00:52:18.200 She was a lot younger than him.
00:52:19.940 She was a newer face where he was kind of, like, old hat.
00:52:23.960 And she starts to have these opportunities outside the show,
00:52:26.840 and she wants to pursue them, right?
00:52:29.780 And Porter, who had initially been this big cheerleader of her solo career,
00:52:33.520 starts to be like, no, no, no, no, no.
00:52:35.220 Like, you have to stay here, keep making the show with me,
00:52:38.020 and not go do the solo stuff.
00:52:40.580 So I think he was kind of angered at his own fading star, so to speak,
00:52:44.420 and, like, jealous of her rising star.
00:52:47.280 And he suspected that he now kind of needed her
00:52:51.280 to keep his own show a success.
00:52:54.120 And that's where we come into this other feature
00:52:56.300 of the bad mentor relationship,
00:52:57.840 which is the exploitative contract,
00:52:59.580 like another feature of a lot of young, 1.00
00:53:02.740 ambitious women's early careers.
00:53:04.120 Because by now, in the early 1970s, 0.96
00:53:06.840 Dolly is a little more worldly.
00:53:08.140 She's been around the block a little bit.
00:53:10.060 And her success as a singer and songwriter
00:53:12.180 has been matched with an increasing sense
00:53:14.060 of what she's worth, but that wasn't the case when she first met Wagoner back in the 1960s.
00:53:19.320 She signed this contract when she met him that gave him these insane rights to her career,
00:53:24.860 like well beyond whenever she left the show. So she's like kind of trapped, right? He's got
00:53:29.840 rights to manage her. He has rights to profit from all of her solo records.
00:53:35.400 She like can't break with him. So what she does is in 1974, she breaks the contract.
00:53:41.500 She leaves the show and she says that she told him she was leaving in the scene that like, again, it's so good that it seems kind of not true because it like exactly mirrors the story she tells about how she got the job, which is that she goes into his office with her guitar and plays him a song she wrote about how she needs to leave.
00:54:02.680 And Adrian, can you guess what that song was?
00:54:05.040 Does it start, if I should stay, I would only be in your way.
00:54:07.800 Exactly.
00:54:11.500 I will always love you, one of her biggest hits ever. 0.95
00:54:25.280 And one that, as a piece of rhetoric, kind of deftly sidesteps the question, were they fucking, right? 0.52
00:54:33.880 Because it's like, you could imagine that song being sung to a mentor and being like, well, that's pretty intense. 0.98
00:54:38.920 That's a pretty intense mentorship relationship.
00:54:40.580 or to a lover, but like the way the relationship in that song is being recollected
00:54:46.920 is such that it's unclear whether this is a sexual relationship.
00:54:51.040 And so she maintains the ambiguity and sort of turns it against him,
00:54:54.540 it seems like almost, saying like, I will miss you in one way,
00:54:57.760 but what I'm missing, I will leave pretty unspelled out.
00:55:01.300 Yeah, it's very deft. It's very Dolly.
00:55:04.260 So what does Porter do?
00:55:05.940 Well, in the story Dolly tells, he, you know, is sad, but understanding and he lets her go.
00:55:12.600 In reality, he actually sued her and goes on this kind of like press tour, bad mouthing her.
00:55:19.160 The litigation drags on for years.
00:55:22.140 He asked for a million dollars.
00:55:23.920 She like has to settle.
00:55:25.660 She says it takes her like years and years to pay him back.
00:55:28.240 And he's like just really kind of poisoning the well for a long time.
00:55:31.960 And this is the other thing about the bad mentor figure is that like sex is never the only thing they demand.
00:55:38.060 Yeah.
00:55:38.480 The relationship is.
00:55:39.500 Fealty, yeah.
00:55:40.260 Yeah, it's like one of ego gratification for the older man.
00:55:43.280 There's also a price to be paid in dignity. 0.98
00:55:46.320 And when women try to leave, that price can be really steep, right? 0.97
00:55:50.920 You don't get to just have this like free independent role as yourself where you're not the subordinate sidekick.
00:55:55.980 you have to be kept in a role that feeds his ego
00:56:01.340 often at great personal cost.
00:56:03.040 So it's like an Oedipal generational struggle
00:56:05.140 layered on top of this like sexual relationship.
00:56:08.960 Yeah. 1.00
00:56:09.500 So she leaves and she embarks on a career as a solo artist
00:56:12.780 and that's kind of what we know her for today.
00:56:14.840 Yeah. 1.00
00:56:15.200 So she's out from under Wagoner.
00:56:17.600 She starts directing her music and writing her music
00:56:21.100 more for like a mainstream pop audience.
00:56:23.540 And this is like the first part of her crossover status.
00:56:27.540 A lot of her songs are getting covered around this time.
00:56:30.540 She also starts covering songs from other genres.
00:56:33.760 She does like a, I think, a pretty cute version of The Temptations, My Girl.
00:56:36.960 And this really starts to pay off in the end of the 1970s when she starts having these top charting singles on the pop charts, like not just the country charts, right?
00:56:46.660 So she's like sort of reaching this crossover success.
00:56:50.700 And because of the experience with Wagner, she was pretty hard-nosed about making sure that anytime she wrote a song for someone else, she got a lot of the royalties, right?
00:57:00.900 This is also the beginning of Dolly Parton, just like extremely rich businesswoman.
00:57:06.640 She became a really savvy negotiator, a strategic businesswoman. 1.00
00:57:13.500 This was a woman who is about her coin.
00:57:15.960 You know, she was all about making money and did so very, very successfully.
00:57:20.000 I'm going to be really honest, and I'm going to get yelled at again for this.
00:57:22.360 I think the Whitney Houston version of I Will Always Love You is better than the Dolly Parton version.
00:57:26.880 I like Dolly version better.
00:57:28.420 You like the Dolly version? 0.57
00:57:29.040 I think Whitney's voice is just so massive and powerful that she takes it to this totally other place.
00:57:37.060 I agree with that, but I think I prefer Parton for that.
00:57:39.960 I think for the song, which has this weird restraint about where it's not quite saying what it's about.
00:57:45.200 I think a smaller voice, I mean smaller by comparison, right, like to the Titanic Whitney Houston, but it kind of works for it.
00:57:52.860 That you're like, whoa, I've gotten a glimpse into someone's soul, but there are limits to that.
00:57:58.180 There's a curtain that's not coming up.
00:58:00.740 Whitney Houston had a lot of personal vulnerability that she could bring out as a performer.
00:58:05.100 It's not in that rendition of that song, right? 0.99
00:58:07.260 In that rendition of that song, she's fucking powerful. 0.98
00:58:09.420 And Dolly is vulnerable in her version. 0.98
00:58:11.300 But this is all to say that Dolly Parton was never like, I'm getting outshined by Whitney Houston in my own song.
00:58:18.580 She's always like, I'm getting a huge check.
00:58:21.400 And she's on record loving that version.
00:58:22.980 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:58:23.520 She loved being covered. 0.99
00:58:24.660 She would never talk shit about Whitney Houston. 0.99
00:58:27.700 She's way too smart for that. 0.99
00:58:28.940 Even if she hated it, we would never know.
00:58:31.220 But like, here's the thing.
00:58:32.000 She's super prolific.
00:58:34.200 She is putting out so many albums.
00:58:36.440 She released almost 50 albums over the course of her career.
00:58:39.560 I saw that in one of the obituaries and I was like, I guess that's a number that makes sense now that I'm hearing it, but it's still staggering.
00:58:46.800 And in 1980, she gets this new, different kind of opportunity when she gets a call from Jane Fonda's people.
00:58:56.100 Adrian, what do you know about the movie 9 to 5?
00:59:01.340 We have to play the song.
00:59:02.960 Mark.
00:59:04.300 I'm not going to sing the song.
00:59:09.560 It is a classic 80s movie in that the song is way better than the movie, if I can be totally honest with you.
00:59:22.800 Yeah, the movie is, like, weird and, like, not actually that good.
00:59:28.420 It's, like, one of a couple of movies.
00:59:31.900 I think the best one is, like, Working Girl with Melanie Griffith, which Dolly Parton is not in,
00:59:35.940 that, like, sort of dramatize the post-war mass entrance of women into the white-collar workforce.
00:59:43.840 Yeah.
00:59:44.660 And just in case someone hasn't seen it, it's Jane Fonda, Lily Tomlin, and Dolly Parton 1.00
00:59:48.920 who basically scheme to get revenge on their horrible and sexist boss played by...
00:59:57.280 I do not remember. 0.90
00:59:58.160 He's a non-entity. 1.00
00:59:59.320 He's just an asshole in the movie. 1.00
01:00:00.500 They, like, kidnap him by accident. 1.00
01:00:02.600 There's a weird, like, kind of dream sequence.
01:00:05.920 Now, something that is interesting is that 9to5 is a women's labor organization.
01:00:12.220 They started off as basically like a secretary's union back in the 1970s.
01:00:17.180 Now, they've got a much broader purview for like working women's rights.
01:00:20.300 I thought that 9to5, the organization, named themselves after the movie.
01:00:26.200 It's the other way around.
01:00:27.640 Oh.
01:00:28.140 The movie.
01:00:28.820 I don't think I knew that either, yeah.
01:00:29.880 The movie was conceived of as, and I say this with great affection, propaganda for the union.
01:00:35.240 This is a weird sort of like relic of the 1970s and 80s is that for a while, Jane Fonda was operating as a go-between between like the radical left and like the new left movements and Hollywood.
01:00:50.180 When Jane Fonda dies, it's going to be for me what Bob Dylan dying is going to be for like straight white men, you know?
01:00:55.960 Like it's just going to be my like personal 9-11.
01:00:58.780 I love her so much.
01:01:00.080 She's great.
01:01:01.400 She dreams up this like, okay, we'll make a movie.
01:01:03.820 part of the reason why the writing in the movie is kind of bad
01:01:06.340 is because it seems to have been written sort of by committee
01:01:08.260 where they were like trying to get a lot of working women's grievances
01:01:12.020 from their like constituent groups written into the script. 1.00
01:01:15.580 Oh. 0.73
01:01:16.020 And Dolly is the sexual harassment victim, right?
01:01:19.420 Yeah, yeah.
01:01:20.220 So part of her contract, Dolly's contract,
01:01:22.400 something that she negotiates in 0.99
01:01:23.880 is that she gets to write the theme song for the movie 0.99
01:01:25.660 and she writes 9 to 5, which is such a good fucking song. 0.99
01:01:29.580 Great song. 0.99
01:01:30.160 And I will say politicians love this song.
01:01:34.660 Troy Jackson, who is running as the Democrat for Senate in Maine right now, apparently uses this song.
01:01:40.900 Elizabeth Warren used this song during her ill-fated presidential campaign in 2020.
01:01:45.460 Hillary Clinton uses this song.
01:01:47.040 Like, people love using this song because it is a song about the indignity of the hierarchical workplace that also has this sort of investment, like, cheerful investment in ambition and, like, the dignity of work, right?
01:02:06.180 There is a real lean-in quality to that song.
01:02:09.020 Yes.
01:02:09.380 There's that line, they just use your mind and they never give you credit, which I think is, like, basically, I'm like, whoa, like, it's just Marxism right there.
01:02:17.040 But then the next line is, it's enough to drive you crazy if you let it, right?
01:02:21.480 The trademark Parton optimism still seeps through, right?
01:02:25.760 It's like, oh, like, don't let it drive you under, you know?
01:02:28.500 Right, yeah.
01:02:29.640 No, no, no.
01:02:30.540 The word you were looking for is revolution.
01:02:33.020 Right, like, be chipper.
01:02:34.800 Do not, like, get the guillotine out.
01:02:36.920 Yeah, the cheerfulness of it and the catchiness of it is a major driver of the film's success.
01:02:44.320 And this is a turning point for Dolly.
01:02:46.260 It's her entrance into film and acting. 0.97
01:02:50.540 The movie was, like, more than just a little obliquely feminist. 0.99
01:02:53.760 Like, Dolly is this, like, cartoon pin-up figure. 1.00
01:02:57.600 And in the movie, that makes her the target of sexual harassment.
01:03:01.300 And she, like, trivializes it as her character, but she also, like, righteously resents it.
01:03:05.960 But the film is, like, pretty explicitly pro-worker and pro-union.
01:03:10.140 And that is weird for the Dolly that we know in 2026. 0.97
01:03:14.540 The Dolly we know in 2026 is militantly apolitical, does not talk about politics, does not express her opinion, did not say jack shit about Donald Trump, like, ever. 0.95
01:03:27.560 And so that's interesting to me, right? 0.94
01:03:29.240 Because, like, when those politicians, Elizabeth Warren, Hillary Clinton, like, started using 9 to 5 at their campaigns, apparently, like, the Dolly camp, like, sent cease and desist.
01:03:39.940 Oh, really?
01:03:40.240 They're like, this looks bad for us.
01:03:41.720 They're like, we don't accept any requests from political campaigns, right?
01:03:45.420 So it's like, where does Dolly stand politically while she very deliberately stands nowhere?
01:03:50.980 And that, I think, is something interesting because I'm not totally sure that 9 to 5 was exactly a contradiction.
01:03:58.020 Dolly doesn't come out in 1980 with any kind of particular politics after she does this movie.
01:04:03.560 In fact, like one of the things that Jane Fonda says is that they recruited her in part because they thought it would help with middle American audiences, right?
01:04:09.420 Who might not be, like, as amenable to, like, a union propaganda movie.
01:04:14.880 It's just her and Warren Beatty trying to figure out who they can rope into their, like, communist Ajit prop.
01:04:20.500 It's not nothing for Dali to be in a movie with Jane Fonda. 0.73
01:04:23.280 This is still the Hanoi Jane era. 0.93
01:04:25.000 Right.
01:04:25.520 Not the monster-in-law era.
01:04:27.160 But, like, you don't have to really be a leftist in America to be pro-union.
01:04:33.320 Yeah.
01:04:33.620 Because of the unique cultural position of workers' rights politics in the U.S.
01:04:38.320 It's like you can be for the workers and against the bosses in this kind of like righteously populist way and still be either for the political right or the political left.
01:04:48.560 Like you don't actually totally have to take a side.
01:04:50.620 I think like this is not a position that I think is correct.
01:04:53.720 I don't think it's analytically defensible, but it is something that is true in sort of the American political imagination, right?
01:04:59.440 And it's particularly true in 1980.
01:05:01.400 I mean, as you know, in my other life, I'm writing this book on cars, and I did a lot of work on the Trucker film, which is likewise pretty right-wing coded.
01:05:11.660 You know, it sort of often stars country stars.
01:05:14.360 It's very much from Red America, what we would today call Red America.
01:05:18.120 But they're also implicitly, of course, sort of pro-Union pictures, even though the union never shows up.
01:05:24.100 It's always like the boss is riding us, and we got to get this beer from Texas, Arcana to Atlanta, and they're giving us no time to do it.
01:05:30.020 And, you know, they're going to foreclose my house, et cetera.
01:05:32.060 And in that inchoate way that, like, so much of, like, 80s comedy is sort of, like, the bad guys were real estate developers, the owners of, like, large companies that needed things shipped across the United States but didn't want to pay a fair wage for it.
01:05:45.060 Like, it has this kind of populist anti-capitalism where you're like, well, obviously this movie wouldn't happen if Burt Reynolds or whoever was in a union, right?
01:05:54.120 So, like, it's not just that the contradiction is more attenuated in the United States, it's that it was particularly blunted at that moment in U.S. history, I would say.
01:06:03.780 And Dolly very much takes advantage of that, right?
01:06:07.220 She can gesture to populism, evoke her own sort of rural poor origins and get the authenticity points from that. 0.99
01:06:14.820 But she doesn't have to throw her gauntlet down on either side.
01:06:17.800 And she never does, not until she dies.
01:06:19.960 So after 9 to 5, her first movie, she does a few others.
01:06:24.300 To my mind, the best one is still Magnolia's, which she's very good in.
01:06:27.440 Yeah. 1.00
01:06:27.960 Followed kind of distantly by Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, which is not very good. 0.99
01:06:32.000 It's cute.
01:06:32.660 It's funny.
01:06:32.980 It's cute.
01:06:33.300 But it's not like, it's not going to change your life. 0.95
01:06:35.100 But if Dolly is a genius songwriter and a very talented instrumentalist and a pretty good singer,
01:06:41.740 she is, I would say, like, not a very good actor.
01:06:44.420 She's not as good an actress as she is a singer.
01:06:46.880 Because that's okay.
01:06:47.640 Like, nobody is casting Dolly Parton to do what they're casting, like, Cate Blanchett or Meryl Streep to do, right?
01:06:53.880 They're casting her to play Dolly Parton.
01:06:56.140 Yeah. 1.00
01:06:56.460 And she really uses these films to enhance her own myth.
01:07:01.440 And that, like, self-myth-making project, I think, brings us nicely to 1986 when she opens Dollywood.
01:07:10.900 Adrian, what do you know about Dollywood?
01:07:12.600 I know I'm no longer welcome there.
01:07:15.180 No, I'm kidding.
01:07:16.120 No, I have been to Dollywood.
01:07:21.020 You've been to Dollywood?
01:07:22.300 Of course.
01:07:23.060 I've never been to Dollywood. 0.94
01:07:24.140 What self-respecting gay man doesn't go to Dollywood? 0.91
01:07:26.460 Well, many. 0.97
01:07:27.480 We're going to get there.
01:07:28.240 I am banned from a go-kart rink right outside Dollywood because it turns out you're not
01:07:33.820 supposed to ride inebriated.
01:07:35.120 But, you know, live and learn.
01:07:37.220 Yeah, it's a Dolly Parton theme park in Pigeon Forge, which is what, like 30 miles down from
01:07:43.240 Knoxville.
01:07:43.980 It's outside of Knoxville.
01:07:44.840 Yeah.
01:07:45.040 Yeah, it's like it's beyond the suburbs.
01:07:47.200 It's pretty out there.
01:07:48.460 Yeah. 0.99
01:07:48.980 And it's an exercise in Appalachian kitsch.
01:07:52.940 It's surprisingly topical in some parts.
01:07:56.800 There are rides that sort of draw on the local industries, lumber and mining above all.
01:08:04.240 There's also like more poverty than at your average Legoland or, you know, Universal Resorts Florida.
01:08:10.800 Yeah, it's very strange.
01:08:12.780 We were talking about Baudrillard earlier and the hyper-real.
01:08:15.460 It's less hyper-real than a theme park ordinarily is, but it's still a theme park.
01:08:20.920 So it's kind of hyper-real.
01:08:23.060 But it's talking about the actual history of this place and the actual poverty of the people who live in it.
01:08:30.320 It was a fun and campy experience, but I'd be lying if I said that there wasn't a certain frisson also.
01:08:37.820 Yeah, it's weird that it is kind of like Disneyland where the theme is poverty, right?
01:08:43.500 Yeah.
01:08:44.400 I think like this is mitigated a little in terms of its political ethical weirdness by the fact that it's kind of a regional park.
01:08:54.000 Like a lot of the people who patronize this are from Tennessee and environs in the upper south, right?
01:09:00.420 Right, right.
01:09:00.820 I'm not looking to judge exactly here, but I do think it's like a little strange.
01:09:04.460 And, you know, there's various attractions.
01:09:06.080 There's like a logging theme ride.
01:09:08.020 There's a mineshaft ride.
01:09:10.000 Not that mineshaft, Feli. 0.97
01:09:13.040 Well, that might bring us nicely to the Gay Days at Dollywood,
01:09:18.380 this annual event that was held from 2003 to 2008.
01:09:23.820 Have you ever heard of the Gay Day at Dollywood controversy? 0.99
01:09:26.740 I know there is one, yes.
01:09:28.740 Gay Days were these group outings organized by gay Dolly Parton fans at Dollywood
01:09:35.900 based on something that apparently happens at Disney World. 0.99
01:09:39.840 You know, like, if you're the kind of gay
01:09:41.500 who really loves to go to Disney World, 0.87
01:09:43.400 you can come and you can bring your kid.
01:09:44.900 It's like a way that the park sort of, you know,
01:09:47.340 turns a marginalized community into a revenue stream, 0.73
01:09:49.740 which makes good business sense
01:09:51.380 if it's not, like, robustly politically encouraging. 0.58
01:09:54.300 Dolly has a lot of gay fans, right?
01:09:56.040 And a couple of them tried to organize 0.69
01:09:58.040 these gay day outings at Dollywood,
01:10:01.140 and it did not go well.
01:10:04.200 This was from 2003 to 2008.
01:10:08.060 So they only did this for a couple of years.
01:10:09.720 And they did it sort of like at the peak of the anti-gay marriage political movement.
01:10:14.120 The park's lawyers threatened to sue them.
01:10:16.620 The park cops tried to shoo them out. 0.80
01:10:19.020 There was a Klan rally outside Dollywood to try and prevent gay fans from congregating there.
01:10:27.140 For a long time, even outside of the gay days in particular, it was park policy at Dollywood to make anybody who is wearing like a gay T-shirt or a slogan that said like gay is okay, to take it off and turn it inside out to conceal the message you weren't allowed to be gay at Dollywood, right?
01:10:45.560 I was.
01:10:46.520 I didn't know I was breaking the law. 1.00
01:10:48.360 And we should say that the gay days are not, right? 0.99
01:10:51.500 This is a frequent cultural flashpoint.
01:10:53.900 I mean, gay days are almost never organized by the parks.
01:10:58.180 They're organized by fans and they're sometimes encouraged by the parks because it gets more people in the door.
01:11:04.560 But this is, yeah, this is pretty extraordinary. 0.93
01:11:07.040 Yeah, you could not be gay at Dollywood. 0.88
01:11:09.000 A lesbian wore a pro-gay marriage T-shirt to Dollywood in 2011 and was made to turn it inside out 2011. 0.85
01:11:17.720 By 2011, gay marriage was not like an outlier position anymore, right? 0.72
01:11:21.840 And she was made to, you know, take it off and turn it inside out. 0.92
01:11:24.480 And Dolly had to apologize.
01:11:25.720 That's how big the controversy was.
01:11:27.960 You know, the park had a mission statement that says that it operates in a manner consistent with Christian values and ethics.
01:11:35.360 So, like, after the Klan protested against the gay day at Dollywood, a lot of Dolly Parton's gay fans, of which she has many, hoped that she would say something, and she didn't. 0.52
01:11:45.520 And, like, this is the other side of Dolly.
01:11:47.500 Dolly maintained that universal appeal, that sort of, like, bipartisan affection by not taking any stand, including not standing up for stuff that's right. 0.85
01:11:59.920 And I think that, like, really does suck, right? 0.95
01:12:02.600 But I think also it's interesting to think about Dolly as a gay icon. 0.99
01:12:06.420 Like, because in part, because of her gender performance and all of that, like, self-conscious, deliberate artificiality in it, 0.58
01:12:13.840 And she was just a huge gay icon for, like, most of her career. 0.99
01:12:18.660 Also a woman who's taken some shit in her life, who was under the thumb of an older, abusive older man. 0.99
01:12:25.260 Like, this is just catnip for the gay community. 1.00
01:12:27.180 Oh, yeah, they love it.
01:12:28.100 And, like, people who are a lot smarter than me have written about gay men's relationships with these, like, female stars.
01:12:35.240 And the way that some women become cultural currency within gay communities.
01:12:40.220 I think for Dolly, it's really her gender performance. 0.91
01:12:42.600 Like this winking quality, especially her self-awareness and her humor about it. 1.00
01:12:47.120 Like her insistence on always being in on the jokes. 0.99
01:12:49.340 It reminds me a little bit of some of the ways you'll see gay men deal with homophobia by adopting self-mockery. 0.91
01:12:55.860 This beat them to the joke kind of thing. 0.96
01:12:58.340 And there's like a woundedness in there.
01:13:00.700 But also there's a defiance in there.
01:13:02.640 And I think that's like Dolly Parton being made fun of for being too girly and sort of making herself the author of that joke, defeating the mockery with humor. 0.88
01:13:16.140 I think that's like a very gay thing. 0.58
01:13:18.140 What she isn't is tragic, right?
01:13:20.140 That makes her different from, like, a Jane Mansfield, who's also a kind of gay icon, but, like, you know, just a horrible, horrible story, or Marilyn Monroe, right, where basically the martyrdom is part of the identification. 0.64
01:13:33.860 But Dolly is the opposite. 0.94
01:13:35.060 Dolly is the person who takes her marginality, takes her liabilities, and turns them into strengths, and gets fucking rich and shows everyone. 0.92
01:13:45.840 Dolly is a survivor, and she is a winner.
01:13:48.260 And something I want to say about her final years is that Dolly's final illness,
01:13:52.280 the illness that ended with her death in August, it was not brief.
01:13:55.820 She was sick for a long time.
01:13:57.760 She had been in declining health for many years.
01:14:00.400 Over the past five years or so, if you look at like the last pictures of Dolly,
01:14:04.660 for like the last couple years of her life, she's always wearing gloves.
01:14:07.300 She'll wear these like rhinestone gloves.
01:14:09.800 And that's because her health had deteriorated in such a way
01:14:13.040 that it had created some sort of like discoloration on her hands
01:14:16.380 that she wanted to cover up.
01:14:17.940 You know, like Marilyn Monroe, again, 1.00
01:14:20.120 she had had pretty brutal endometriosis
01:14:22.580 when she was younger.
01:14:23.780 I didn't realize that. 1.00
01:14:25.040 Yeah, she had a hysterectomy in her late 30s. 0.96
01:14:27.240 But even as her health faltered, 0.95
01:14:29.440 she basically never stopped working.
01:14:32.160 Her last solo album came out in 2023.
01:14:34.880 She had a group collaborative album in 2024.
01:14:37.280 That's not that long ago, right?
01:14:38.740 Yeah. 0.60
01:14:39.340 She was doing public appearances 1.00
01:14:40.400 until like shockingly recently. 0.91
01:14:42.840 Yeah. 0.76
01:14:43.060 I have to say her later work is not that good. 0.86
01:14:46.380 She sort of exhausted her material, but she didn't exhaust her energy.
01:14:52.520 She kept going.
01:14:54.060 But, like, mostly she was known towards the end of her life for her persona, for Dolly the character.
01:14:59.880 Yeah, yeah.
01:15:00.440 And she seems to have tried to really, like, genuinely use that character in the public interest.
01:15:05.300 And this is something I do admire her.
01:15:06.720 She did tremendous amounts of philanthropy.
01:15:09.580 Like, a lot of young people now first heard of Dolly Parton because they got her donated books for her, like, big children's literacy initiative.
01:15:18.840 Yes.
01:15:19.320 That she did to especially, like, rural and underfunded schools.
01:15:22.520 And I think people forget about this. 0.97
01:15:24.760 Dolly Parton was one of the first people in America to get the COVID vaccine.
01:15:28.720 Yeah. 0.99
01:15:29.160 Didn't she fund it partly? 1.00
01:15:30.660 She fucking personally gave Moderna a million dollars. 1.00
01:15:34.220 And then she got it on live TV literally in like March 2021 when it was just rolling out. 0.97
01:15:41.480 And this was to try and encourage people to get the vaccine, to not be vaccine hesitant, right?
01:15:46.200 And that's interesting to me because that actually was doing something.
01:15:49.760 It became more controversial later, but that was taking a stand.
01:15:52.560 That was taking a risk.
01:15:53.380 And she was kind of the perfect ambassador for something controversial because, you know,
01:15:59.940 if you're trying to get a lot of different people on board for something,
01:16:02.480 You have to find something that all Americans can agree on, and maybe the one thing all Americans can agree on is Dolly Parton.
01:16:10.180 So that's what I got. That's where we're going to leave it.
01:16:12.060 Thank you for coming on this massive journey with me, Adrian. You're a real trooper.
01:16:15.540 Well, if you'd done a short one, if we did a short one, I think the listeners would have been offended and I would have been offended.
01:16:20.160 No, this is exactly as long as it needs to be.
01:16:22.480 Thank you for taking me on the journey.
01:16:24.320 And yes, if there's one thing we can all agree on, it is Dolly Parton.
01:16:27.860 Although I am now thinking, like, did someone reply to the announcement of her passing with Vaxxed? 1.00
01:16:35.620 You can just imagine, like, that one piece of shit. 1.00
01:16:37.580 She definitely was. 1.00
01:16:38.640 Like, everyone agrees on this in America, except for you, sir. 0.99
01:16:41.840 You are the worst.
01:16:43.580 Not our listeners. 0.97
01:16:44.560 Not our listeners.
01:16:45.460 You're the best.
01:16:46.080 Thank you, Adrian.
01:16:46.840 And thank you, listener.
01:16:48.080 We'll see you next time.
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