00:00:24.280welcome to maintenance phase the podcast that would never take you out of where you're comfortable
00:00:30.720and make you feel bad about yourself oh i like it because we're nice we are nice uh i'm abri
00:00:37.400gordon i'm michael hobbs this month if you join our patreon your bonus episode will be our first
00:00:44.920ever annual grifty awards where we are giving awards for the best and mostly worst of health
00:00:52.980and wellness in 2021. Gwyneth gets involved. Nicki Minaj's Cousins Balls get involved.
00:00:59.340It is a romp of a time. But today, we are talking about... No, no, no, no. I'm not gonna do the
00:01:05.120whole thing again. Fat camps. We are talking about fat camps. Mike, tell me what you know
00:01:11.380about fat camps. Very little, actually. A couple years ago, I had an idea to do an article on fat
00:01:18.440camps the idea was i was going to go to a fat camp and live there but once i started reaching
00:01:23.800out to fat camps perhaps unsurprisingly they like didn't want me to go nobody would acquiesce to
00:01:29.280having this random journalist going there asking kids questions and like doing archery so it didn't
00:01:35.320get very far but it always seemed like a huge tragedy to me because when you hear the phrase
00:01:41.380fat camps you think of something like a normal summer camp but like with fat kids like a place
00:01:47.780where they can feel comfortable with themselves we know that weight is the number one reason that
00:01:52.300kids are bullied and so the idea of somewhere that actually helps to heal that a little bit
00:01:57.900and form a community and create some solidarity between fat people always seem like something
00:02:02.460that has the potential to be really lovely but the problem is is that they're not fat camps they're
00:02:08.080not camps of fat people yeah weight loss camps they're boot camps for children yeah uh what is0.87
00:02:13.220your experience i don't know if you and i've talked about this i went to a fat camp shut up0.84
00:02:17.680So I went to a fat camp that was a day camp. So it was not a sleepaway camp, which means that I was spared a lot of the worst of it. And we will talk about some of the worst of it. I went when I was in grade school, and it was a fucking shame factory.
00:02:36.220When I was researching the book, I tracked down the workbook from the fat camp that I went to to see if I wanted to write about it. The workbook had all of these stories in it, which were mostly just like, Clara, this fat girl, gets teased at school for being fat. And she has a conversation with a magical cookie jar. And the magical cookie jar tells her that she needs to just stop eating as much and she needs to lose some weight and then other kids will ease up on her.0.98
00:03:05.660oh no so it was like overwhelmingly there were stories about physical solutions to social
00:03:11.620problems right the problem was never like you need to ask that person to treat you better you
00:03:16.220need to get an adult involved it was always like that will stop when you lose weight that cookie
00:03:21.180jar now has an instagram account it's just thinspo hashtag stop eating part of why i thought it would
00:03:28.700be interesting to talk about fat camps is it does feel very illustrative when we allow bullying of
00:03:35.400kids right like when are we willing to excuse bullying of children it's bad unless they deserve
00:03:41.800it yeah exactly my understanding of the general ideology yes correct and because there is this
00:03:47.400belief that you and i have talked about extensively that is pretty well debunked that like weight is
00:03:53.420entirely within an individual's control we sort of extrapolate that and apply it to children
00:03:59.660and extend the same kind of logic of this sort of idea of an adult responsibility to maintain your
00:04:07.040weight then gets projected onto kids. Which is super fucked up because kids are not responsible0.98
00:04:12.240for anything. They're not responsible for their parents' incomes. They're not responsible for0.99
00:04:16.500their parents' education or food choices. They're not responsible for their school lunches.
00:04:20.840Yes. And the flip side of that is that people will also talk about this, is that people will
00:04:24.780project that onto parents as well and be like, well, okay, then it's the parents' individual
00:04:29.000responsibility yeah that's also not great there's a lot of bad moralizing around parenting often
00:04:34.760from extremely limited information yeah you'll hear people say like i saw a mom at the grocery
00:04:39.740store and she was buying soda for her kids and it's like okay well that's literally the only
00:04:44.200thing that you know about that person so yes there were so many dead ends in this research
00:04:49.800and content wise oh this i'm thinking of the biggest content note yeah imaginable right now
00:04:57.880So we're going to be talking about calorie counts and weights today.
00:05:01.120You kind of can't talk about fat camp without talking about those things.
00:05:04.300So take care if those are going to be hard for you to hear.
00:05:06.720There will also be a couple of mentions of sexual assault.
00:05:10.660We are talking about some pretty distressing treatment of children throughout this episode.
00:14:45.140Even if you hate fat people, even if you are like proudly fat phobic, this is not the solution.
00:14:51.760Totally. So on the one hand, we've got this idea that like, if a kid is in a loving home, but they're fat, then that is insufficient parenting. But if they're fat and in a strict home that punishes them for being fat, that's somehow better and more responsible of the parents, right?
00:15:10.380i wanted to take a look at uh this is from a documentary in the uk we're going to watch a
00:15:17.340little clip about kids getting ready to go to fat camp we are going to watch a couple of minutes of
00:15:24.420this so apologies slash get ready we've been to the dietician we've been through the hospital
00:15:31.120we've been to the doctors i know how to cook we fry nothing we don't use fat for cooking we eat
00:15:37.680a reasonably healthy diet. So why does she gain the weight? And I think it comes down0.96
00:15:43.800to a lot of lack of exercise. If she was to do a little bit, even, you know, Stephanie0.53
00:15:48.660said, game of tennis, up the park, game of netball with the girls, she'd burn a bit off.
00:15:52.440She has to be badgered, otherwise she would be lazier than what she is. So that's what0.91
00:15:59.980we're here for. We're here to persecute her. And sometimes, unfortunately, it goes a little
00:16:04.320bit too far, didn't it, for you? Yeah. Because you get a bit upset. You have your moments
00:16:09.420of hating me. You're lazy, that's what you are. My dad's just learnt to put up with him0.99
00:16:16.940now, but he does sometimes, he gets, I really get annoyed with him because he goes on and
00:16:22.200on about it. What sort of things does he say? No, it's just that all I ever do is sit down
00:16:29.200and I never go out and I haven't got any friends
00:16:32.040and I can't do anything and stuff like that.
00:26:01.460That's also, I mean, that's such an interesting point, too, because you could imagine, I mean, for fuck's sake, never a fat camp, but you could imagine some sort of intervention being effective at improving health habits if you did some sort of diagnosis beforehand.0.97
00:26:52.820One of those kids is type 1 diabetic and she's being homeschooled because the side effects of her medication are so intense.
00:27:01.140which means she hasn't been around other kids and she's sort of like a little bit mystified
00:27:05.460by the social dynamics because she hasn't been in them in a couple of years.0.99
00:27:09.220Everyone is fucking horrible to her.0.95
00:27:12.160And I'm going to this was not going to be part of the episode, but now it is because0.99
00:27:15.320now I'm talking about it and I'm so fucking mad.
00:27:18.380There are also two people who date and they dated last year at fat camp and then they0.98
00:27:22.820both come back and the dude in the couple keeps being like, oh, look at how fucking0.88
00:27:28.180fat Marissa got like, oh, I can't even look at her anymore.
00:27:31.140But then we'll also give her letters that are like, I'm still in love with you and I still have feelings for you.
00:27:35.860And any mean things that I say are just because I'm sad that I'm not with you anymore.0.98
00:27:39.760And then she takes those fucking notes and reads them aloud to her friends and they make fun of them.0.99
00:27:46.200And she outs him as being bipolar.1.00
00:27:48.640Like these documentarians, no fucking joke.0.99
00:27:51.740We're like, how can I show these teenagers at their worst?0.98
00:27:54.620But in particular, so one of the fattest campers at Fat Camp in this documentary is this girl named Diane. There was a review in the Washington Post of this documentary, and they were basically like, it's great, you should watch it.
00:28:10.700The way that the reviewer describes the fattest camper is, quote, there's also Diane, whose mother works at the camp, who tends to deal with most problems by weeping profusely and who bears an unfortunate resemblance to serial killer John Wayne Gacy.0.99
00:42:52.060he's not doing other things they agree but in pretty short order selma seems to get cold feet
00:42:59.640or have second thoughts or whatever and she files a lawsuit to invalidate the earlier agreement so
00:43:06.560she is suing her son that's like a good first date weed him out question like how many legal
00:43:11.740actions are you in the middle of against your children sue your kids two okay so david ended
00:43:19.360up buying the camp from his parents for 1.2 million dollars in 1991 so this whole court
00:43:26.060battle drags out over several years in the end the courts upheld the sale and david became the0.98
00:43:32.500owner outright of camp shane but that did not stop selma from having huge fucking feelings
00:43:39.620and resentment about that in 2000 the irs started investigating camp shane's financials and david's0.75
00:43:48.540financials in particular oh my god both of the kids both of selma's kids david and leslie the
00:43:54.900other daughter believe that their mother reported them to the irs dude it's weird to start a
00:44:00.800business and then sell it to your son and then try to ruin it yeah it's like a foundational
00:44:06.520principle it's a little weird so as all of this is happening camp shane just keeps growing wow
00:44:16.140In 2002, the camp was featured on that MTV show, True Life. The year after that airs, the summer after that airs, there are 500 campers at Camp Shane. It's their highest number of enrollees yet. As all of this is happening, as the camp is growing, in 2006, David decides to go national, and that's when he opens up these campuses in all of these other states.
00:44:38.680This is also like the height of childhood obesity panic.0.99
00:44:42.580oh yeah dr phil probably send him some kids one of those boot camp episodes fuck man there is also0.96
00:44:48.580i will say i am a dedicated top chef viewer and there is an episode from one of the early seasons0.71
00:44:55.380where the chefs are like challenged to like make foods that fit within restricted calories for kids
00:45:01.540at a fat camp that's dark it's so dark so the camp is growing and growing and growing
00:45:10.000Selma's sort of like physically out of the picture. But inside the camp, things were really fucking rough. So in 2011, a camp counselor talks about what her job was. And here's what Bloomberg has to say about it.0.98
00:45:29.380Quote, her job was to run arts and crafts, but she spent much of her time comforting kids.
00:45:35.740Within the span of a few hours one day, she had a crying girl admit that she'd been cutting herself, found another purging in the bathroom, and consoled a sobbing camper who'd lost, quote, only 10 pounds that week.
00:46:23.640There were also reports from other former employees that say that David, the owner, instructed them to write positive Yelp reviews of Camp Shane under pseudonyms.
00:46:34.920According to these former employees, if they didn't, he said he would dock their pay.0.96
00:46:39.360I can't believe that the person who's shitty to children is also shitty in every other aspect.0.93
00:46:44.260It doesn't stop when they become teenagers.0.99
00:56:47.160Like we do things because of what is around us on a daily basis, not what was around us
00:56:52.680five weeks ago when some random guy I've never met before yelled at me.
00:56:56.760That's not going to have a lasting effect on behavior.
00:56:59.240Yeah, I mean, there are some fat camps now that have been operating more recently that
00:57:03.800incorporate more sort of accept and celebrate your body kind of stuff, but also are still
00:57:10.160focused on weight loss right i actually read a great book about more recent fat camps written
00:57:16.480by a sociology professor named laura backstrom it's called weighty problems a number of the
00:57:21.900campers that she talked to this book came out in 2019 so presumably this was like pretty recent
00:57:26.140spoke really highly of their time at fat camp and she also was like but also they are sort of being
00:57:32.780taught these deeply conflicting messages about like appreciate your body and embrace it as it is
00:57:37.820but also change it as much as possible right now yeah it's a little bit of like an adapt to keep
00:57:42.360with the times kind of thing but without really reckoning with the like inherent deep contradictions
00:57:48.360in those messages that's a lot of cognitive dissonance to have between kayaking and archery
00:57:53.620totally essentially her sort of primary critique she was like so now they're just getting conflicting
00:58:00.320messages before the instruction was clear it was impossible but it was clear and her argument was
00:58:06.980She was like, I actually think these conflicting messages can be as damaging or more so because you're supposed to both love your body and change it and hate it and reject it.
00:58:17.520But also act like you love it, because if you don't, then there's going to be weird social consequences for that.
00:58:23.120Right. Like, yeah, it feels like the bottom line of all of this is just like adults have anxieties about kids' bodies.
00:58:29.520They project them onto kids and then they make kids solve their own fucking anxiety.0.93
00:58:34.720save that cognitive dissonance for goop.com don't bring it to children leave it on the0.99
00:58:39.640internet for adults yeah lose weight with your whatever vaginal eggs yeah exactly use vaginal0.52
00:58:46.100eggs mom you're a consenting adult on some level to that stuff maintenance phase do's and don'ts
00:58:52.120don't go to fat camp do use jade eggs up your business