Missing Witches - September 22, 2022


Mabon 2022: Breaking Bread With The Moon w Melissa Madara and Sarah Robinson

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00:00:17.160 Oh, thanks for being here. 0.98
00:00:19.260 It's so, I don't know, my bun is one that gets me in my bones.
00:00:24.000 i think we we live in places where we feel a seasonal change right now um
00:00:32.620 it's like it's a fall day here there's red on the leaves the lake is like blowing with
00:00:40.760 mist in the morning i begin to feel in my bones the need to like make comfort things and build
00:00:49.680 up stores and prepare myself for the sleeping and the dark season um and so it felt so right
00:01:01.800 to get to reach out to these witches we admire so much we followed your writing and your classes
00:01:11.100 your teaching about this intersection between food and magic food and craft these places where
00:01:18.900 this knowledge has been stored for thousands of years and you've both done such exciting work to
00:01:26.660 kind of carry that little flame of that story forward so we're so honored and excited that
00:01:33.180 you're here. Thank you so much for having us it's good to be here. Yes thank you so much I'm a huge
00:01:39.940 fan of both Missing Witches and Melissa so I was almost aghast that anyone would want to hang out
00:01:46.400 with me in this grouping it seems beyond my wildest dreams so fantastic I'm a fan of you
00:01:51.860 I'm your fan oh my god mutual author love
00:01:55.860 I feel the flames of love kindling it feels so good on a chilly fall morning
00:02:05.900 Amy did you want to open us up with um a reading we can I do which is um this is something that
00:02:16.000 Risa and I do all the time where we get so excited to talk to people that we don't actually say their
00:02:20.640 names or who they are so we just dive into conversations like we're just friends on the
00:02:28.800 phone which is great and it feels great but sometimes you know listeners want to know who
00:02:33.120 we're actually talking to so we'll get there but we do want to welcome Melissa Madara and
00:02:41.600 Sarah Robinson as Risa said you know it's Mabon it's a harvest festival so we are talking about
00:02:48.700 kitchen witchery and especially Melissa we'll get into this with you a cooking beyond food
00:02:54.360 all the things that we can cook that aren't necessarily edible that can be but aren't
00:02:59.560 necessarily but I want to open there's a there's a Mabon section in Sarah's book
00:03:04.780 kitchen witch and for mabon i thought we'd start here so thank you sarah for this contribution
00:03:11.800 it is time to relish and celebrate the harvest whilst readying ourselves storing what we need
00:03:20.180 and preparing the ground for the winter and the dark to come the light of the sun in the wheel
00:03:26.340 of the year stands in the west where the sun sets this is a time of farewell and gratitude
00:03:34.120 for the summer that has been enjoying the rewards of labor and respect for the land
00:03:40.260 mabon like it's opposite on the wheel ostara is a time of balance now instead of looking to expand
00:03:48.980 outward into summer we begin drawing inward preparing ourselves for winter for the winter
00:03:56.220 to come so maybe we'll turn first to Sarah and ask like about your particular
00:04:04.380 interaction with Mabon in your kitchen outside of your kitchen in your writing
00:04:10.880 in your world and also please introduce yourself wonderful all those things firstly Amy thank you
00:04:17.840 that was beautiful you said that so much better than I ever have so that's perfect it's lovely to
00:04:22.780 to hear your beautiful voice say the words um I'm an autumn baby I was born just a few days
00:04:29.740 before Samhain so September October really feels like my my time as Risa said it's that beautiful
00:04:38.700 drawing in and kind of settling and that beautiful sense of really really savoring
00:04:45.140 this opportunity to kind of gather in you know the harvest and
00:04:50.280 sorry I have a terrible tendency to start talking and completely forget what the question
00:04:54.900 was but I'll just go with the idea of the harvest especially you know with the kitchen which
00:05:01.480 is this lovely idea of sort of maybe going out and gathering enjoying the natural world but then
00:05:07.620 you can kind of bring those things back home so you can maybe do a little foraging and bring some
00:05:13.860 beautiful nourishing things back home with you or you can feel inspired by the things that you see
00:05:19.820 and and be reminded by what's happening in nature about what we might kind of mirror in our in our
00:05:27.240 own energy so yeah completely forgotten the question but hopefully that's something
00:05:32.400 I mean first of all feel free to forget the question and go off on whatever your brain
00:05:38.140 and your mouth connect on wanting to say but can you give us an example of this mirroring can you
00:05:43.520 talk a little bit about mirroring nature sure um so out in the there's allotments just near me i
00:05:54.240 i think it's allotments in america isn't it you know when you have these little patches of
00:05:58.320 growing things we usually call them community gardens community gardens as a big that's
00:06:04.940 actually better as a big fan of coronation street i have picked up the word allotment and
00:06:10.260 spread it around to my Canadian friends perfect so we have these beautiful community gardens around
00:06:18.000 um where I live and uh it's beautiful to see this kind of transition time of
00:06:27.720 drawing in the harvest that has been grown and then that that being a reminder that we can bring
00:06:33.540 home with us both to take time to nourish ourselves because this is a time of change and
00:06:39.940 change is never necessarily a simple or easy thing so it's that idea of nourishing ourselves
00:06:46.080 moving with this slightly different energy of the year so that you know the days at least here in
00:06:53.960 England they're getting colder and darker and the rain is rolling in so it's that that change
00:07:01.380 that kind of using the cycle of nature to kind of inspire what our change might be and
00:07:08.840 yeah taking inspiration I suppose from this idea of what seeds have we planted what might we need
00:07:18.440 to tend and nurture and nourish in this time and yeah how can we physically nourish ourselves by
00:07:25.000 the things we've grown whether that be a pumpkin or a project or anything that might help us on this
00:07:33.000 this journey and just kind of enjoying each each stage of the wheel for what it is you know it's
00:07:39.300 its own special magic and that change and that difference and how that can be embraced
00:07:45.620 it's perfect how about melissa do you have any particular connection to the fall equinox
00:07:52.660 not a ton in my personal practice also would you like me to introduce myself
00:07:56.960 hi everybody my name is melissa madara my pronouns are they them i am tuning in from
00:08:13.240 new york city uh i am the co-owner at catland books here so many people probably know me
00:08:17.660 through that i'm also the author of the witch's feast which is my first book ever my first cook
00:08:22.300 book that just got released last year from Watkins. Super pleased about that. I also run a
00:08:27.980 small apothecary called Moon Cult Herbs, where I get to share a lot of my herbal work, which forms
00:08:32.360 a lot of my practice. And I teach at a number of different places throughout the country in the U.S.
00:08:37.040 You might find me at House Witch. You might find me at Ritual Craft. You might find me at Witch Lab
00:08:40.540 or Catland all the time. So I'm a triple air sign. So I'm always doing a lot. I like to stay in
00:08:47.480 motion. But that's it for about me. As far as Mabon goes, it's not a huge part of my personal
00:08:53.820 practice because Mabon's a tradition that's pretty much rooted in the British Isles, right? And
00:08:58.040 so much of my kitchen witchcraft stuff is trying to find historical roots for a lot of what we do.
00:09:04.760 And when we look at a lot of the traditions that we now associate with Mabon, those are, you know,
00:09:09.560 mostly centered in the last like 200 years. And they're located in the British Isles. So they're
00:09:14.960 actually a really narrow scope of what is practiced. Most of my personal practice is
00:09:19.880 rooted in the Mediterranean, where my family's from. Most of it takes the shape of what looks 0.99
00:09:24.520 like ancient Greek religion and magic. But at the same time, you know, we're all experiencing
00:09:29.100 harvest season, at least in the northern hemispheres, you know, here. And that is a season
00:09:33.960 that's particularly suited to the kitchen witch, right? You know, if we're planting seeds in spring, 0.66
00:09:38.760 if spring is the season of the gardener, then fall is definitely the season of the kitchen
00:09:42.940 witch when the earth's just coughing up all these useful tools right um not necessarily tools but
00:09:47.860 materia magica um which is what food is to witches uh not necessarily to other people or what food
00:09:53.340 is the kitchen witches i should say um really the season where like the knife becomes the magic wand
00:09:58.880 and where the the work is really taking the stuff that we've we've gotten out of our harvest what
00:10:04.240 we've grown over the year and turning it into medicine into nutrition into magic and things
00:10:08.880 that it can really sustain us through the next, you know, few months. And it's a season that's
00:10:14.580 suited to particular kinds of magic in my practice. I feel like everyone relates to this, even if
00:10:19.360 you're not part of the Mabon tradition or traditions that celebrate it. It's a season where there's
00:10:24.860 that potent liminality where you really feel like you're on the threshold of that death current.
00:10:29.440 You know, you're really seeing a lot of, especially if you're a witch who works with plants and works
00:10:33.500 with the natural world, you're seeing a lot of those allies go underground. And so it's a really
00:10:37.720 like you're heading into a very lean time. So it's a time for protection magic. It's a time
00:10:42.400 for ancestral worship. It's a time for divination. And I feel like the Kitchen Witch, because they're 0.84
00:10:47.440 so rooted in the hearth, is so naturally suited to a lot of these forms of magic. So fall time
00:10:52.600 is Kitchen Witch time for me, even though Mabon's not a part of my personal practice. 0.95
00:10:57.800 Right. And I think that's what we love so much about sort of using the celestial patterns as
00:11:04.240 our markers is that like whether you listening whether you call it Mabon whether you strictly
00:11:09.300 are thinking of it in terms of autumn equinox you know it's a it's a thing it's a celestial event
00:11:15.200 that's happening for all of us regardless of what we call it I do want to put a fine point on
00:11:20.980 the point of year where the knife becomes a magic wand I just kind of want to underscore that before
00:11:26.800 we thank you yeah we move farther away I mean Risa did a bunch of writing for our next book about
00:11:33.200 the blade is a magical tool. And I think that that really sums it up. It's like,
00:11:38.080 this is the moment where it really becomes a life sustaining, you know, we can no longer
00:11:43.140 necessarily like, you know, pick the strawberry and pop it in our mouth.
00:11:47.400 Right. It's the season to defend yourself and needing to protect yourself for sure. But also
00:11:51.800 the knife is a tool of getting that nutrition out. So it's, it's not just like the pointy
00:11:56.760 adversarial tool. It's also the thing that helps us, you know, get nutrients out of the earth.
00:12:01.400 iron is the knife but it's also the plow that pulls the vegetables up right so uh there's there's
00:12:06.600 that sort of like two-handed nature to it if that makes sense yes yeah totally i think the knife
00:12:14.040 makes me feel the concretely that double edginess of every tool like it has the knife edge of every
00:12:21.160 tool in it in the most clear way you know that it's our practices and our choices that will
00:12:27.080 determine whether this will be for violence for protection oh there's an Ani DeFranco quote about
00:12:33.300 that I think she says that every tool is a weapon if you hold it right yeah um yeah I love that very
00:12:39.200 much uh and and I feel like the two-handedness is sort of part of the witch archetype too right
00:12:44.520 which is cure and they curse they hex and they heal they do both uh and there is no sort of moral
00:12:50.720 constraint on that archetype that's like part of the archetype is that they break the boundary of
00:12:55.160 that constraint every time um so yeah it's cool to see that uh you know at least in the symbols
00:13:00.680 that we're using as well yeah I think it's an important piece of the witch archetype that like
00:13:04.640 doesn't get honored enough in the modern world that double-handedness uh nice to see that that
00:13:10.040 present in kitchen witchcraft yeah so let's dig into this idea of the kitchen witch period like
00:13:18.400 tell us a little bit about how you came to really be so connected to that part of the of the witch
00:13:26.260 to that that life of the witch to that role um why did you write a book about the witch's feasts
00:13:33.700 like what is it about food and the kitchen and the hearth that for you is like here is a source of
00:13:39.100 my magic or something I want to write about you know um my answer is probably not going to be
00:13:44.540 what you expect. I like to cook, but that's only part of it. I like to do lots of other things too.
00:13:49.420 I like to paint, but I'm not researching magical painting. You know what I mean? I think what's
00:13:53.840 interesting for me about kitchen witchcraft, first of all, it's incredibly dismissed as a
00:13:59.900 form of magic. When you talk to people about serious forms of magic, no one is talking about
00:14:04.660 kitchen witchcraft. And I think that's because for the bulk of human history, kitchen work has
00:14:09.060 been the work of women. It's been work of the poor. It's been the work of marginalized groups 1.00
00:14:13.900 of people whose work doesn't get written down, which makes the research super frustrating,
00:14:18.220 but still possible because in every culture that eats food, we find kitchen magic, right?
00:14:24.980 So it's still ubiquitous, even though it's very dismissed and very suppressed, for lack
00:14:30.780 of a better word.
00:14:31.460 I don't think intentionally, but I think it's just sort of marginalized and dismissed as
00:14:35.600 something not serious in the way that like ritual magic can be considered serious.
00:14:39.660 and whenever I see that that makes me want to go deeper I'm like what are we not looking at here
00:14:46.860 and the more I got into it the more I realized like there is something substantive here and no
00:14:52.180 one's looking at it how frustrating is that and so that's why I wrote the book because I was like
00:14:56.140 more people need to look at this and this is the stuff that you know when I was looking up
00:15:00.660 kitchen witchcraft years ago that I wanted to find there's a lot of we'll talk about modern
00:15:06.120 witchcraft, kitchen witchcraft books and all that in a little bit. But, um, I think the other thing
00:15:11.040 that's interesting about cooking is you get a chance to interact with the, uh, non-physical
00:15:17.560 world, by which I mean to say, you get to interact with chemistry, you get to interact with, uh,
00:15:22.100 molecular stuff in a way that you don't really have access to in, you know, your normal life.
00:15:26.940 Uh, and if you're paying attention to it, it can be really interesting to watch this sort of, uh,
00:15:31.980 transformation of the ingredients and watch them change from something gross into something
00:15:36.280 delicious, you know, uh, so much of magical work works that way. And I feel like cooking and magic
00:15:42.400 both originate from the generative part of the mind. So they operate within a similar channel
00:15:47.560 and they both operate on manipulating the hidden world, the occulted world. And so there's this
00:15:52.220 like similarity of technology between the two. Um, and that's what makes it really interesting
00:15:56.380 for me yeah yeah let's get into a little bit of interaction between the two of you and your works
00:16:04.440 I want to read something um Melissa from your book and then Sarah I would like for you to respond to
00:16:10.520 it if that's okay yeah here we go I try and hold it in my mind because I'm an air sign as well and
00:16:16.240 honestly I can't hold a question uh you know I can't hold things in my head at all so I'll try
00:16:22.020 and I'll try and listen and I'll make a note and try to come up with something sensible
00:16:25.980 pick pick a single word and focus on it if you like i'm sure there will be something in here
00:16:31.720 that you will absolutely like like soul relate to um so this is from melissa's book
00:16:39.520 i've always had a keen interest in chemistry and science as methods for understanding the
00:16:47.060 invisible world the unseen microscopic machinations of reality which are hidden
00:16:54.160 from all experience and yet influence every aspect of our entire lives. From the beginning,
00:17:00.800 cooking captivated me in this way, offering an opportunity for tactile engagement with the
00:17:07.280 mysteries of chemical flux and the transformative power of fire, avenues of exploration which are
00:17:14.300 too often denied to young femmes like myself. But more than the metamorphic possibility of
00:17:22.300 transforming ingredients into delicious dishes it was the playful and somatic nature of cooking
00:17:29.780 that placed my early practice on the powerful liminal ground between science magic and art
00:17:38.600 so beautiful I'm a huge fan of Melissa's book so here I love that book um yeah
00:17:47.280 pause and take a breath thank you um certainly the you know the element of fire is so present
00:17:59.120 within this world of the kitchen and the hearth fire and there's that again that beautiful
00:18:05.200 jewel or in fact many more faceted nature of fire that it can kind of draw us in and we're kind of
00:18:13.640 comforted by it but it's also it's powerful there's a danger there's a a sense that you'll
00:18:19.840 get drawn in and transformed into something completely new in this kind of alchemical way
00:18:25.100 which is is enchanting and captivating and features a lot in you know various uh various
00:18:34.660 fairy and folk tales an idea of the fire and particularly the fire in the kind of the hands
00:18:42.020 of the witch you know that's when she's really gonna she's gonna draw you in and it might be
00:18:47.520 that you come out transformed it might be that you come out as her dinner but uh such is such
00:18:53.100 is the wonder you know it's uh the multifaceted element of the fire I suppose is very much like
00:18:59.940 the witches they are so many things that uh it's it's why they are so constantly amazing to us I
00:19:08.000 think is that uh yeah treat them with disrespect and you might end up as dinner or you might learn
00:19:14.400 something really important or be completely transformed let's talk about the cauldron
00:19:22.000 let's talk about sarah one of the things i love in your book is these sort of journeys into the
00:19:29.700 folk tales and into the goddesses and the trickster figures that are associated with this
00:19:36.080 with the kitchen or the tools of the kitchen can you can you tell us some of those that come to
00:19:41.340 mind around the cauldron and then let's do like leonora carrington's narrator does in the hearing
00:19:49.220 trumpet and crawl inside crawl inside so sorry to go back like 25 minutes when i was supposed to say
00:19:57.040 this my name is sarah and i wrote a book called kitchen witch food folklore and fairy tales and
00:20:02.620 uh it's an honor to be here i'm a huge fan of both the missing witches book and melissa's uh
00:20:11.200 witches feast so um apologies for just jumping back in time to get that in first and now
00:20:17.280 leaping forwards to the cauldron and again the the many symbols of the cauldron and
00:20:24.220 one of the many joys of of of exploring the history of the kitchen
00:20:29.760 in the book was going back to some amazing stories of i'm i think of uh the
00:20:39.200 the hymn to ninkazi that i kind of put near the beginning of the book which is
00:20:46.160 in ancient mesopotamia the the priestesses would circle around these great cauldrons and
00:20:51.120 and brew beer and it was this kind of amazing both magical and completely mundane thing that
00:20:58.380 happened every day everybody drank beer it was both nourishment and and liquid and it was just 0.69
00:21:05.140 this uh very everyday kind of magic and that idea of kind of these women standing over the cauldron
00:21:12.180 I mean isn't that an image that's just so powerful it's traveled through just centuries stories folk 0.58
00:21:19.740 fairy superstition you know all kinds of tales and you know obviously filtered into
00:21:26.680 what you might call the real world as well through through history and and stories from
00:21:33.180 the witch hunts as well so that amazing power of this image still of people kind of hovering over
00:21:41.500 the cauldron and just the amazing potential is is always fascinating I can see a couple of mugs
00:21:48.580 that are cauldron shaped as well so I mean we're still here we're still here circling around
00:21:52.360 cauldrons as we speak so it isn't that beautiful um so yeah from from ancient mesopotamia through
00:22:00.260 to the medieval english alewives again we're back with beer uh which is always interesting um
00:22:07.480 so the alewives you know shakespeare saw the the women around the the cauldron you know the
00:22:15.720 hubble bubble telling macbeth what's what's what and uh it's just an image that is so powerful
00:22:22.060 it's kind of just permeated so much which is is fascinating and
00:22:26.480 yes
00:22:29.480 I mean it's so scary to me in a way that this core practice of feeding our communities
00:22:41.580 gathering our people feeding them you know using our knowledge to ferment to store
00:22:51.420 to nourish and to keep our secrets about how we understand the land that so often
00:23:00.660 makes us a target but it's this very act of gathering and feeding that is seen as
00:23:07.780 seditious or dangerous or dangerous we spoke of that kind of duality of things and it's that
00:23:15.040 everything that was done in the kitchen you know the feeding the fueling the nourishing the caring
00:23:22.040 for infants uh it all got just just flipped on its head didn't it you know the you know feeding
00:23:30.220 the community in a cauldron became brewing you know malevolent magic caring for infants became
00:23:36.780 killing babies and eating them and you know smearing their blood so that we can fly and you
00:23:41.880 know everything just got twisted in that strangest kind of way and
00:23:45.360 just that it's part of that whole story of these things being devalued or undervalued or
00:23:56.820 twisted into things that they were never intended to be that is both both fascinating and horrifying
00:24:06.240 and again there's a strange double edge of things being distorted yeah melissa you're in the united
00:24:14.000 states where that twisting is happening in a different way than in canada and the uk how do
00:24:20.340 you how do you feel about that these days what twisting do you mean specifically um i the the way
00:24:27.540 that women and queer people and trans people become the enemy or become held up in a Christian
00:24:37.240 language as witches you know the way that the way that our our uniqueness and our magic and
00:24:44.520 our refusal to be a part of an existing system makes us targets again and again and how do we
00:24:50.660 how do we survive and resist and can the kitchen help us it's a huge question take us there
00:24:54.780 i'm gonna come up with the answer that fixes it uh well here's what i'll say um i mean it's 0.98
00:25:01.360 i mean if anybody could do it it's you so take this big fucking question 0.83
00:25:04.700 okay um here's what i'll say uh it's been the same technology used to suppress people again 0.98
00:25:11.840 and again and again what we're looking at is someone who's outside the dominant you know
00:25:16.340 social class or social grouping has knowledge which is essential for the survival of the
00:25:23.000 community. Whether we're talking about food, whether we're talking about the knowledge of
00:25:26.320 how to relate, whether we're talking about the knowledge of allowing, like the knowledge to
00:25:31.120 know yourself enough to know who you are and what you want is actually very radical in the society
00:25:36.180 that tells you you're only allowed to be a couple of things. And so, you know, it's because it's
00:25:41.580 essential to society that it gets attacked, but it's because it's essential to society that it
00:25:46.500 will never actually be snuffed out. Any attempts to suppress the queer, the magical, the feminine,
00:25:53.060 all that stuff doesn't actually succeed in eradicating much because these things are
00:25:58.500 actually so important to upholding society, to making people happy that they don't go anywhere.
00:26:04.940 So all the attempts to squash it, just remember that they're futile. All these years, women 1.00
00:26:09.400 haven't gone anywhere. All these years, queer people haven't gone anywhere. You go underground 1.00
00:26:14.320 like the mycelium of a mushroom, you know, but you're still there. Um, and so my, it doesn't
00:26:20.520 actually feel in my world, like we have this tension, you know what I mean? I live in a world
00:26:25.260 where queer people are centered, where trans people are centered, where, uh, women's voices
00:26:29.520 are centered and all that stuff. And it's just, um, it doesn't feel that way in, in my, in the
00:26:35.220 America that I live in, uh, it doesn't feel that way. It really feels like I'm in a, an area where
00:26:41.120 there's a lot of mushrooms to go back to the mycelial, you know, uh, metaphor. I'm in an
00:26:45.580 area where there's a lot of people above the ground. Uh, and that is a good thing. Um, I never
00:26:50.640 worry that it's gone. I'm just really, really pleased to be where the mushrooms are. If that
00:26:54.800 makes sense. It does. And, you know, we, we recently spoke to, uh, Ialosa Akalatunde who,
00:27:01.860 who said the same thing, like they've been trying for thousands of years and we're still here. So
00:27:07.260 like don't worry yeah don't worry too much about it I do want to go back to this sort of notion
00:27:13.200 of misunderstanding that I think demonizes witches a lot like um Sarah you mentioned
00:27:20.080 Macbeth's witches and you know one of the lines there is eye of newt and so you think of like
00:27:25.100 you know witches like harvesting you know eyes from you know lizards or whatever and it's like
00:27:30.960 horrifying and grotesque but eye of newt is like mustard seed so it's like people will say you're
00:27:37.900 this because you used eye of newt in your spell or in your cauldron but it's just freaking mustard 0.92
00:27:45.360 seed and to me like that's so much of what witchcraft is it's like oh you're a witch it's
00:27:50.700 like yeah i just like i stir my pot in in the direction that i want like there's not that much
00:27:56.600 danger to it except for this which I also I had to look it up because um it's from um
00:28:04.360 the Portland chapter of WITCH so Witch PDX and their manifesto says a single witch is a dangerous
00:28:13.840 outlier a coven is a force to be reckoned with an international circle of witches is unstoppable
00:28:21.520 And I think that that's the scary thing about the gathering is the gathering.
00:28:28.620 When there's more than one witch, the more witches there are around a cauldron, the scarier it is for those who would like to keep the status quo in place.
00:28:40.580 So, yeah, I think that that's what's terrifying to the status quo is not the gathering of witches, but like the gathering period, the gathering of dissidents.
00:28:48.140 the knowing that when we work together we're stronger than when we're working separately
00:28:53.160 does anyone want to talk to like the kitchen as like the meeting place we think the living room
00:28:58.900 maybe is but we always end up in the kitchen everybody who's ever been to a party knows that
00:29:03.740 we always end up in the kitchen so can we talk about like gathering and being a dangerous force
00:29:09.080 to be reckoned with while we're doing these domestic I'm using scare quotes here sort of
00:29:15.280 domestic tasks? I'm going to be super short because I do have something to say on this one.
00:29:20.580 I love the way that you put this, that it doesn't matter what the witches are doing around the
00:29:25.180 cauldron. It doesn't matter what you're brewing. You're terrifying just by virtue of being there.
00:29:30.040 So, okay. So what's scary about that, right? It doesn't matter what we're doing. We could be
00:29:33.900 making flower crowns, but what's scary about that is the knowledge that's in the brain.
00:29:37.980 it's it's what we possess in a hidden sense that makes us scary that's why the cauldron's also
00:29:45.340 terrifying because that's also in another occulted thing you never know what's in the
00:29:49.020 cauldron it's just bubbling and you're hoping it's a good thing in there and there's just someone
00:29:53.420 stirring what's terrifying is not what could possibly be in the cauldron it's the knowledge
00:29:57.300 that person possesses the cauldron largely exists as a symbol for a lot of us in the modern world
00:30:02.000 you don't have a cauldron you don't have a cauldron i don't have a cauldron uh and so it exists as a
00:30:07.180 subconscious symbol for us. And I think what that symbolizes for us as witches is the hiddenness
00:30:12.760 of the knowledge that we possess. You mentioned the eye of Newt thing, like that comes from the
00:30:18.860 PGM, right? From ancient Greek stuff. A lot of times in the PGM documents, they would write the
00:30:24.420 names of their herbs in these hidden herbal codes. This exists as a fence. The purpose for this
00:30:29.740 is to keep people who are not part of the in-group from being able to read the documents.
00:30:34.400 and whenever you have knowledge that is again essential to the running of the community but
00:30:39.900 you're not sharing it with the people in socio-political power you're a threat you're
00:30:45.240 basically someone who possesses like top secret information and isn't giving it up and that is 1.00
00:30:51.540 for a bulk of human history the only power that women and the poor had was I can take care of 0.97
00:30:57.900 myself I can take care of the community and I'm not going to tell you how to do it and so it is
00:31:03.360 the part of us that gets demonized it's also our strengths it's also our ace card that we can play
00:31:08.620 any time against the oppressor right so that's that's an important thing i think to note um just
00:31:13.680 wanted to touch on that quick yeah beautifully said absolutely it's that idea that uh those in
00:31:19.960 power love to demonize the very thing that you know terrifies them so much which is the power
00:31:26.660 of you know the other the hidden the kind of the downtrodden um and just you know whenever looking
00:31:34.300 back into the kind of the history of witchcraft it's like just any book ever that was written
00:31:38.760 probably by a man about witchcraft just take it with just the most huge pinch of salt because
00:31:44.720 it's just all just basically complete crap but it's you know it tells us something about what
00:31:51.060 they thought and and how they they saw and feared these these people and these women but uh 0.86
00:31:57.080 yeah it's it's it's always fascinating you know even now you know when you talk about
00:32:02.200 the stories of witches people they think of the cauldras they think of the the uh flying on
00:32:08.060 broomsticks and things and it's uh fascinating to see the stories and the fears that have endured
00:32:14.180 for various reasons yes i love that you brought up the grain of salt too because um melissa maybe
00:32:20.240 you can speak to this this is an ancient um and a latin saying that it comes from a cum granis
00:32:27.680 solwis so we've been saying like take it with a grain of salt for thousands and thousands and
00:32:32.780 thousands of years and and again this is like this um this symbolic act it's it's food but we're not
00:32:39.660 talking about food we're not talking about like actually putting salt in a book before you read
00:32:44.360 or something like that but um this notion of flavoring things differently so that we interpret
00:32:51.300 them differently I love it I don't have a question attached to that I just got really excited about
00:32:56.740 this notion of adding salt to things metaphorically to like be cautious and maybe like you know keep
00:33:05.080 your keep your critical awareness with you yeah be mindful it's going to be imperfect when it
00:33:11.360 arrives to you is kind of how I think of the salt thing. And I like that it kind of infers
00:33:17.740 that truth isn't static, right? The truth isn't one thing. And that even partially diluted,
00:33:22.400 it can still be useful to us. So much of, I mean, so much of your book, Sarah, is the mythology
00:33:27.840 and the folklore. And even though that stuff is not like literally true, it is still incredibly
00:33:33.660 valuable. So much of witchcraft and the witch archetype exists within that like, that storytelling
00:33:38.880 telling place between true and untrue. And so I like that part of the take it with a grain of salt
00:33:44.260 too. Yeah. I like too that both in folk stories and in recipes, these are places where we hide
00:33:53.920 in plain sight, right? We put our knowledge into places where we can kind of slip below the radar
00:34:01.720 a little bit um with that in mind can we talk about recipes can we talk about like things
00:34:09.580 we make or can make or ways we can make that um maybe gather people or that help our own
00:34:16.740 friends mutations at this time what are recipes you do that make you feel your magic and and
00:34:23.300 before you answer that I want to just mention a tweet I read recently where the person was like
00:34:28.280 my most prized possession is my grandmother's handwritten collection of recipes they are
00:34:35.060 terrible I love this notion of like whether the recipes are good or not it's like it's part of
00:34:43.700 your history you know we we maybe all make our you know spaghetti sauce the way our mom made it
00:34:49.520 whether that's right or good even whether it even tastes good so um back to Risa's question but also
00:34:57.160 with this mind of like keeping our our histories and our genealogies through this method of cooking
00:35:03.880 I think you know following any any recipe that has been passed to you whether it be from family
00:35:09.480 or friends you know that is an ancestor magic in itself so whether whether the recipe is rubbish
00:35:15.920 or whether you follow it exactly it's already something to just be to be passed on a recipe
00:35:21.800 and that it's a story in a sense you know so that story has been passed on which is beautiful and
00:35:26.740 for me personally I am absolutely shocking at following recipes I've never managed to follow
00:35:32.740 a recipe precisely but I'm okay with that I have accepted such a thing but for me it's the magic
00:35:39.560 of bringing people together so I come from a long line of feeders that's just what we do you know
00:35:46.740 we want to make sure everyone is very well fed so for me it's it's the magic of just bringing
00:35:52.380 people around a kitchen table and and the kind of a little bit of the kind of history of that
00:35:59.620 i suppose like celebrating uh reminiscing telling the stories remembering people um
00:36:05.180 so recipes can be awesome but also they can also they don't have to be the whole of the magic
00:36:13.460 for for me for my autumn equinox ritual i think i i don't know if i say this in the book
00:36:19.540 specifically, because I do talk about my autumn equinox rituals there. I've got one specific
00:36:24.560 recipe that I think is useful for sharing that other people might like. One of the things that
00:36:29.140 I do for the autumn equinox, again, because I don't really celebrate Mabon in the traditional
00:36:33.000 way, is I do so much magical work involving the forest that's near where I live. I live in New
00:36:38.240 York City, but there's actually old growth forest like a block from my house. So I'm in like the
00:36:41.840 best part of the city for witches to be in. And I'll never tell you where that is because I don't
00:36:47.100 want anyone to find out. But so, so much of my work is walking through the woods and engaging
00:36:53.980 with the spirits that are there, the spirits of the land. And I'm about to enter into the time
00:36:57.740 of the year when they all go away and they all go underground, which is what that they do. That's
00:37:02.760 the lives that they live. And I'm stuck here by myself and it sucks. So fall time and the autumn 0.99
00:37:08.860 equinox is kind of like one of my last chances to get out there and make my offerings and to really
00:37:14.780 be among those spirits while they're in like the last bits of their potency and their power when
00:37:19.280 they're really available. Um, they're probably gone like after Halloween, you know, once like
00:37:23.920 the earth is really cold. Um, and so I have a recipe in my book for, uh, they're like little
00:37:29.960 apple cheddar, rosemary hand pies. Um, they're so easy to make. And I was thinking about offerings
00:37:35.980 that are like traditionally always accepted. Like, uh, when you look at different time periods,
00:37:40.940 apples are usually always good because they're they're very nutritionally beneficial they're
00:37:45.760 delicious and it's generally believed that spirits like stuff that we like um rosemary is also a
00:37:51.220 plant that i've never seen it recorded to have a negative use it's one of those plants that's so
00:37:56.060 medicinal that people see it as a helpful plant and who doesn't like cheese um cheese has been
00:38:01.900 used as an offering for spirits since the ancient world everyone loves cheese even gods and goddesses
00:38:07.020 love cheese so that's that's the idea behind those and these are little things that you can
00:38:11.460 like slip in a tree hole you can bury them underground you can uh do whatever it is you
00:38:16.520 normally do with your offerings uh you can also like share them with your coven in ceremony you
00:38:21.260 can have them you know you can bury half eat half share it with the earth literally like there's a
00:38:26.280 lot that can be done with them uh it's it's offering technology so that takes the shape of
00:38:29.800 your practice but it's a recipe that i think is like cut and paste anyone can use this uh in any
00:38:35.240 way that works for you, especially because we're at the time of the year where reconnecting with
00:38:38.780 those spirits is going to be important. I love the classic ones that you know that
00:38:44.000 every spirit is going to be stoked, especially the apple. I think that that's so true in our
00:38:49.280 experience. Amy wrote a beautiful ritual about an apple that was like core in me, just playing
00:38:54.500 with that magic and in healing from a shitty, shitty experience. So I always remember the
00:39:00.480 feeling of that apple and eating it and burying it and it's like one of those moments where magic
00:39:05.720 became so real and rooted in healing from something and I think yeah kitchen witchcraft
00:39:11.400 is so much of that it's where magic really becomes tangible and you can actually you can do
00:39:16.000 like physical healing and magical healing simultaneously I mean like people will say
00:39:22.300 that you can do that with reiki and other stuff but like you can feel it happening in kitchen
00:39:26.140 witchcraft you can like trace it chemically in kitchen witchcraft which is pretty neat
00:39:30.080 um so so yeah that's that's one of the unique things about this discipline is it can do both
00:39:34.600 yes and we live so much inside that space of like the practical and the magical in one action and
00:39:41.640 that was kind of the thrust of the apple spell was this idea of like processing some using square
00:39:46.860 quotes again processing something and then letting it go you know we think of that as like events
00:39:51.580 traumas what relationships but when you eat something that's exactly what you're doing so
00:39:58.020 So this apple spell was like a symbolic act of processing something with our bodies and then literally letting it go.
00:40:05.260 I mean, I won't get into the gory details of how our bodies do that, but we do.
00:40:09.160 We let go of the parts that we don't need and our bodies keep the parts that we do need.
00:40:15.880 And I think that that's just such a wonderful symbol of how we can go about our lives.
00:40:20.760 yeah and that's ancient magic right the macrocosm microcosm thing where the ritual is you playing
00:40:26.340 out something that you want to happen in the macro that's old time magic I mean exactly yeah that's
00:40:31.820 good stuff yeah so Sarah as a yogi um can you talk about this like the relationship between yoga
00:40:40.480 and kitchen witchcraft obviously the body is probably the meeting point there but can you
00:40:46.060 get into like how these two disciplines sort of came together for you good question good question
00:40:55.380 but the very first book uh i wrote was it was a yoga book it was called yoga for witches and
00:41:00.540 there was just a kind of a tiny little section in it about kitchen witchcraft um and many years
00:41:08.280 later my publisher would be like oh hey should we explore kitchen witchcraft a bit more and and
00:41:12.840 thus was the beginning of Kitchen Witch that became this you know I thought it was just going
00:41:16.860 to be a book of you know a few recipes and stuff and then quite suddenly I was hit with this fact
00:41:22.160 that you know there is a whole kind of history to magic in the kitchen that I just you know
00:41:28.260 had not seen a book about so kind of to go back and uh and then me and Melissa did it like at the
00:41:33.860 same time we were like bam let's follow these lines so that was that was awesome that was a
00:41:37.900 good a good you know beginning of the year when like both the books came out was awesome um
00:41:41.960 I've digressed slightly um so going back to part of the philosophy of yoga and it is a mini
00:41:49.780 a mini branched path uh you know just a small part of it is kind of what you see on Instagram
00:41:54.760 which is you know lycra clad bodies doing something fancy on a beach um which is a great
00:42:00.200 part of yoga but you know it's not all of it um but a lot of it is uh about kind of listening
00:42:04.860 to the body and respecting the body and there are other beautiful ancient Indian practices such as
00:42:12.180 Ayurveda and kind of seeing the body as a whole and looking at you know your energy and your spirit
00:42:20.840 and we are more than just our physical bodies and how can we honor that in in what we consume
00:42:27.380 um so ayurvedic medicine is is one of the oldest um ancient practices of of medicine that we kind
00:42:35.780 of still listen to today but um just in the kind of very day-to-day sense of kind of following the
00:42:43.460 ideas of yoga with food it's that idea of listening to your body nourishing your body and uh and being
00:42:51.000 kind to your body um which it seems like such a simple premise but especially you know today in
00:42:59.020 today's world where it's you know intermittent fasting and get beach body ready and lose those
00:43:06.420 pounds just the idea of being nourished being fed you know it just feeds that hungry witch within us
00:43:14.660 you know it's like we are we are furious and we are cranky when we are hungry so let's just
00:43:21.280 nourish and feed ourselves and then maybe we can go out and be and take flight in whatever way that
00:43:26.880 means for us so it feels like a little a little tiny rebellion just to uh to feed and fuel
00:43:32.020 ourselves properly um so that's magic in itself um and I fear I haven't really answered the 0.99
00:43:41.120 question I've gone off on one a little bit there but uh just just eat food and fuck diets and 0.96
00:43:47.500 that's magic so let's do that uh you know I've got kind of a I've got a question for you Sarah 0.98
00:43:55.380 and I hope it's okay if I ask kind of a bitchy question oh ask me a bitchy question it's about 0.80
00:44:01.060 not about you at all um a salty question I believe is how the Americans say yeah that's kinder 0.68
00:44:06.640 something salty I'm a lot of Gemini placements here so I unfortunately can't stop myself but
00:44:12.260 was any part of your book inspired by how bad the other kitchen witchcraft books are
00:44:19.260 it's a good salty oh it's a good salty question was any part of because that was such a an
00:44:26.920 inspiration for me and I wonder if that's the case for you because I'm glad to see more depth
00:44:32.180 given to this subject uh i've there was a lot of it was pretty a famine out here of information on
00:44:40.040 kitchen witchcraft before new authors started writing and uh i wonder if you uh felt that
00:44:46.500 frustration as well in your research it's a really good way of putting it um the famine of uh i think
00:44:52.700 what it was is that just i started that idea of like okay i'm gonna i'm gonna write a book about
00:44:57.820 kitchen witchcraft where the hell do I start and just I had this collection of books and I was like
00:45:02.540 they're kind of all the same like and they were all I mean them suck but they were very much 0.57
00:45:10.380 similar in the fact that they were following the Wiccan specifically the Wiccan wheel of the year 0.53
00:45:14.720 which is fine but it's a very you know very specific wheel um and it was recipes and there
00:45:19.900 was nothing digging down into the roots of like yeah kitchen kitchen which is a it's quite a
00:45:26.720 positive association a little bit maybe it has these kind of quite twee and cutesy connotations
00:45:33.160 you know cinnamon cookies and pretty aprons and things and you know the little actual charm that
00:45:37.900 kind of hangs in people's kitchens so there was kind of it was lovely that oh hey here is an
00:45:43.560 archetype of the witch that isn't you know mean and cruel and ugly um but where did this come
00:45:49.560 from and then actually the joy was really diving deep into just a sumptuous history of food magic
00:45:57.400 that runs back to you know our earliest feasting time so it was an excellent opportunity and it
00:46:03.060 really pushed me into that I can't write another recipe book you know that's just a recipe book
00:46:08.380 because it's been done it's been done a lot so I think we were kind of we were pushed into doing
00:46:13.280 something more and I think ultimately that was awesome otherwise you know so that's good
00:46:18.540 yeah follow-up question um oh I'm sorry did you have something to say no I just wanted to say
00:46:23.240 like the first kitchen wit I'll use scare quotes again the first kitchen witch book that I got this
00:46:27.840 was years before we started the missing witches project I opened it up and it was like hot dog
00:46:33.040 casserole something which I'm you know I'm not above you know using what you have and doing what
00:46:38.920 you have but I was like hot dog casserole and then a whole section of the book I guess it just hadn't
00:46:43.620 been bound properly fell out and hit me in the foot and it actually really hurt
00:46:48.860 bad kitchen witch books I was like oh because I put it on the shelf and never
00:46:55.860 opened it again I was like this book is clearly out to get me
00:46:59.460 it just popped into my head when you're like bad kitchen witch books I was like oh
00:47:06.960 i guess what i mean when i say bad i mean like overly simplistic right they do all kind of say
00:47:15.320 the same thing and and none of them there's no historicity provided there's no root well and so
00:47:21.480 here's my follow-up question for you sarah because this was definitely true for me and i want to see
00:47:25.100 if it's true for you i'm just comparing our research process cool when you were done with
00:47:29.300 your research and when you were actually writing the book did you find that kitchen witchcraft was
00:47:33.320 something different than you thought it was yes absolutely I started off with it you know I started
00:47:38.600 off writing a book with something completely different in my head and it about halfway through
00:47:43.520 I think I was just writing and this happens with a lot of my books I'm kind of writing
00:47:46.420 I'm halfway through and there's something like oh shit that's what this is all about like I
00:47:51.360 suddenly it is kind of revealed to me what this journey was all about and it was you know it was 0.97
00:47:56.460 that whole you know the hidden history of women you know the stories of the the witches that were
00:48:01.780 just kind of forgotten and the massive undervaluing of those who nurture and feed and so yeah absolutely
00:48:09.580 it you know came to be something completely different that I started off with and you know
00:48:14.680 just a few minor breakdowns when it was just like the weight of all that and the fact that it hadn't
00:48:19.680 really been done before I was just like yeah there's so much how am I ever going to do this
00:48:24.780 all justice like how am I going to tell all these stories because they need to be told and you know
00:48:31.680 so it i had my moments when i was just like it's just too much i can't believe the weight of this
00:48:37.700 and it's because no one else has like really written about it from this perspective before
00:48:41.920 i was also like am i doing it right like is this is this what people want uh or should i just put
00:48:48.880 the apron back on and do the cosplays thermite versions kind of yeah i think a lot of the a lot
00:48:54.860 of the books are like this food you know food folklore has really been dismissed for many years
00:48:59.160 and now academics are you know finally taking it seriously but who not yeah exactly who are these
00:49:04.780 people because i haven't found no one so when they say finally it's like just now literally right now
00:49:11.340 it's becoming a thing but um yeah i mean someone's got to start somewhere so we
00:49:16.720 got in there and started the started the groove if you were planting seeds with future researchers
00:49:23.960 in this field imagine there are people who will listen to this who are all over the world some of
00:49:30.480 them are like little mycelia like not safe for them to be out where they are at all there's a
00:49:37.780 lot of people in our coven who have that experience there are people um but who are like incredibly
00:49:43.140 wise incredibly educated in their way um ready to contribute to this great work that we are all a
00:49:50.980 part of what what are the seeds you would plant what are the questions you would be like can you
00:49:55.200 help us investigate this can you tell us about this from your perspective can you help us research
00:49:59.200 this like what are the questions that you were left with after writing these books go ahead
00:50:02.860 melissa to start well um i'd be like if there are any traditions of culinary magic in your family
00:50:10.240 in your religion in whatever small sect you practice put them out there in the world please
00:50:16.700 contact someone needs to be researching this in a serious way and actually getting these specific
00:50:21.860 spells down so that we can do more than say witches for thousands of years have stirred
00:50:26.340 cauldrons um because that sentence doesn't really have any information in it you know what i mean
00:50:30.000 uh it's more useful to be like you know in 154 bc they use bread to curse the government here's
00:50:34.840 the specific spell that's the kind of stuff that research is what i want more people to be doing
00:50:39.280 i don't know about you sarah but it felt like i was just in there with like a pick like just going
00:50:44.860 through every grimoire being like, just mention food once, please. And they do, but they're just
00:50:50.200 so hidden in the back and nobody talks about it at all. So I would like for other researchers to
00:50:57.040 be assisting with this because it doesn't feel like there's a lot of other people doing this
00:51:00.560 work. And it is so important because it's something that shows up in every culture where there's food,
00:51:05.700 because it's something that shows up time and time again in history. It's weird that it's not
00:51:10.280 taken seriously? But I think you said it yourself, like the image is frilly aprons and we're going
00:51:16.080 to make biscuits. You know what I mean? Why would that be taken seriously by a male-dominated world?
00:51:20.940 When we think of magic, we think of ritual magic, which is so exciting. You're summoning spirits
00:51:25.440 and you're doing all the real magic stuff. Who's usually doing that stuff? Who's writing those
00:51:29.820 books? Men. Rich men with money to publish. Not us. And it almost feels like the tools of 1.00
00:51:37.120 kitchen witchcraft are too crude to be taken seriously, you know, in a world that really
00:51:41.200 just wants the spectral spirits and, and, you know, other, I don't know, it might seem a little
00:51:46.680 less exciting on paper, but it's not like, I was reading a spell the other day from ancient Greece
00:51:51.960 where you make a bread and you feed it to someone who lied to you. And if they did lie, they'll
00:51:55.460 choke on it. Like, that's pretty cool. You know, and there's just, there's not a lot of people
00:52:01.680 looking at the guts of it like that. And so I know it seems like we're just making biscuits,
00:52:06.500 right and I think that when we are able to peel back the cottagecore motif uh that like I think
00:52:12.560 a lot of neo-paganism gave us and we're able to actually look at a corpus of history of kitchen
00:52:18.120 witchcraft we're going to really see that knife as a magic wand more than anything else you know
00:52:22.680 what I mean and we're going to see that this is one of the only places in history where we gave 0.85
00:52:26.220 women weapons and didn't supervise them uh the kitchen is where women have been armed and the 0.96
00:52:32.380 only place they've been allowed to be armed for thousands and thousands of years and poor people 1.00
00:52:36.320 and, and other folks who are dismissed in history, not just women. Uh, so I think that when we get
00:52:41.580 more research, we're going to see the pointy end of kitchen witchcraft, which is what I want the
00:52:45.300 world to see. I love that your description of the ceremonial magic so much, that was so much
00:52:51.620 our experience that drew us into doing this work was that we, we were just like young, like young,
00:52:58.360 we were old but we were baby witches we were curious we were trying to find this history
00:53:03.500 and we just kept finding these rich white dudes who had self-published and called themselves like
00:53:09.160 the mother of witchcraft or whatever we were like what is happening but then you know I also kind of
00:53:16.120 love it because because of again this idea of hiding in plain sight right like go for it get
00:53:22.700 your furry capes on and do what swing your scepters off you go just leave me and the girls 1.00
00:53:34.440 and the queers to do our shit over here go ahead put on they're always doing swinging the 1.00
00:53:40.640 attract who's attracted to that leave us be yeah no question just to like 0.99
00:53:52.760 do you do you wanna um i don't remember the question just to totally second what melissa
00:54:00.720 said yes so beautifully um but yeah the the stories the songs you know i spoke earlier about
00:54:09.640 the Hympton Inkasi which is this beautiful song that priestesses sung but it was also kind of the
00:54:14.520 recipe of the making the beer and when I read that I was like oh fantastic I'm gonna I'll do
00:54:20.020 a whole section on amazing kind of songs that women sung around food and things and obviously 0.96
00:54:25.260 I was completely deluded because they just didn't exist so I was like well shit there goes that
00:54:29.280 amazing plan I had for that you know chapter because you know they weren't written down and 0.94
00:54:34.200 Actually, you know, the Hempton and Kazi was kind of an outlier, you know, joyful that it still exists.
00:54:40.840 But so it, you know, it's going to be much more asking the questions of families, of ancestors, of grandmothers, great grandmothers, you know, people that work with the food and things to to kind of uncover and draw out because yet that these things weren't written down. 1.00
00:54:59.360 so um the work to kind of pull it out is going to be uh a big thing but exciting so yes just
00:55:08.040 basically seconding everything Melissa just said what everyone I've found in the research kind of
00:55:13.260 like innately knows a little kitchen witchcraft I don't know if you found this but when I was
00:55:17.080 asking around because I did need to ask around I was like help me this research is hard no one
00:55:22.540 apparently ever wrote this down and I'm the first person to go looking for it so which is not true
00:55:27.780 uh but it felt that way uh and everyone I asked like all the occult friends were like oh I know
00:55:33.700 an alchemical candy recipe or oh did you know there's a hummus recipe in the Picatrix or you
00:55:39.280 know oh and so there's this little hidden stuff everywhere it's ferreted away it's in everything
00:55:45.160 and everyone already knows about it but no one is collating it and talking about it isn't that
00:55:51.420 weird it's I suppose it's in a way it's very fitting because it is you know it's drawn from
00:55:57.140 these ancient oral histories where people didn't write these things down but uh now we want to so
00:56:03.640 but even now no one's talking about it you know what I mean like even if yeah when you ask them
00:56:08.360 they've got it they're like yeah yeah my grandmother used to make a mint tea or you know
00:56:12.100 she used to make me this specific recipe when I was feeling unwell so everyone kind of knows it
00:56:16.340 but maybe you have to ask the right questions to kind of draw it out of people or you know yeah
00:56:22.060 because no one is contextualizing it as kitchen witchcraft or witchcraft at all everyone's like
00:56:26.720 oh it's a folk charm and is it just because of the mundanity of food is that really it like
00:56:32.760 because herbs are mundane candles are mundane but we don't seem to think of those as too mundane
00:56:38.940 to be magical for some reason food is just on the other side of that line where people are eating
00:56:44.380 soup it's just too boring so that's every day to be magical like when you're a witch nothing is
00:56:51.260 mundane first of all when you become when you claim the identity of which you relinquish the
00:56:55.600 mundane. There is no mundane. There's only the magical world. Everything that exists that was
00:57:00.600 mundane before now has the magical perspective overlaid it because it's coming out of your
00:57:04.980 eyeballs. So I don't know, like, it's just weird to me that magical people, even still in today's
00:57:10.540 world are still marginalizing kitchen witchcraft. We think of this as something of the past where
00:57:14.740 women are much more oppressed than they are and much more marginalized than they are. 0.96
00:57:18.460 We're still, we're still doing that. We're still marginalizing kitchen witchcraft as mundane, 0.81
00:57:22.460 as every day as the work of the home which is not where magic lives that needs to be in our ritual
00:57:27.420 container and you know whatever we think magic's supposed to be um kitchen witchcraft kind of
00:57:31.860 rebels against that all the time right it tells us magic isn't what you think it is it's actually
00:57:36.380 everywhere all at once constantly like you know so well said i think it exists in a lot of places
00:57:45.000 in a lot of cultures in a different language framing too right where we're not going to call
00:57:49.660 it magic like i just in our book we talk about uh there's one of two traditional sake brewers
00:57:58.680 in japan that are left out of the hundreds and they're doing it the same way for 500 years
00:58:04.120 and a core piece of the process is the song they sing to the fermentation as a part of keeping
00:58:11.620 everyone it's the recipe but it's also gratitude it's also singing to the microbes it's also
00:58:18.160 it's also animism it's also part of under like every piece that is alive in that process and
00:58:24.020 it's not um thought of as magic or witchcraft but it is in an ancient animist tradition which is
00:58:31.520 so core to what we feel too looking around that nothing is mundane everything is alive and
00:58:36.720 everything is we could call it magic they might call it holy or something else but
00:58:40.900 what are those places where it's hiding yeah there there's so much of our i mean from agriculture
00:58:47.880 to you know um cooking everything so much has been co-opted by capitalism which i think has a 0.88
00:58:54.540 lot to do with this sort of um demeaning of diy you know and even all of our as we go around the 0.90
00:59:02.100 year there are certain things that we have to have food wise like um new year's eve is champagne 1.00
00:59:09.460 and easter is a cadbury cream egg and valentine's day is a heart-shaped box of chocolates and
00:59:16.240 and these are things that we buy these these aren't things that we make and so I think that
00:59:21.140 there's always that push to like just buy it and witchcraft again is like the antithesis of just
00:59:27.640 buy it it's like the DIYist so I mean why do we I mean I know why but I'm gonna ask anyway like
00:59:34.840 why does capitalism demean so much of what we do in our homes or devalue do you want to take
00:59:44.700 it's when Sarah or me um I could start off and then you can uh we'll see how we go um I'm trying
00:59:53.220 to think now of I was putting I had like a spare collection of fairy tales um from the book that I
00:59:59.660 was going to put into kind of a little kind of Christmas kind of things a lot of them were kind
01:00:03.160 of like about winter which is not that's damn cool um and it just it was lovely how these kind
01:00:10.080 of stories kind of captured a little bit of the kind of enchantment and again that idea of kind
01:00:16.040 of drawing around the hearth fire and telling our stories and and how the the magic of the season
01:00:21.060 was nothing to do with something that you were buying something that you were gifting to people
01:00:26.600 it was much more about um you know coming home to the hearth fire connecting to your family and
01:00:33.560 your friends and um yeah the art the art of storytelling I guess is kind of a remnant to
01:00:39.900 that idea that there is there is more to these festivals whichever ones it is that we are
01:00:45.320 celebrating there's more to them in terms of gratitude and celebration and abundance and
01:00:52.480 joy than than anything that we might be able to purchase at this time so um but again that's kind
01:01:00.880 of uh to many people you know it's dismissed as sort of oh it's a bit rural it's a bit kind of um
01:01:07.240 scrappy it's you know kind of uh this kind of uh rustic way of doing things um which is
01:01:17.260 interesting because that makes it kind of sound lesser when in fact it's like well maybe
01:01:20.540 I value this festival in a way that's not about buying something particularly so yes
01:01:27.340 I love that and that's completely true yeah um I'm thinking a lot about the writing from
01:01:33.620 Sylvia Federici and also um Sarah Lyons is one of my colleagues here in New York she also writes a
01:01:38.960 lot about capitalism and witchcraft together she put out revolutionary witchcraft a few years ago
01:01:43.300 I don't know if you guys read that one it's so good and she's got a new one coming out which
01:01:46.800 talks about this quite a bit talks about the history of magic quite a bit and both of those
01:01:50.780 authors in Caliban and the Witch from Sylvia and Sarah's books talk about how uh the subjugation
01:01:56.340 of women and the rise of capitalism go hand in hand. And also particularly the marginalization 0.92
01:02:01.520 of the domestic sphere is a direct result of the origins of capitalism. So we don't have capitalism
01:02:07.660 without the marginalization of the domestic and the marginalization of any work that does not
01:02:13.360 directly bring capital into the home. So when we talk about DIY and you making your own soap and
01:02:18.900 you taking care of yourself, it might save you money, but it's not bringing capital in. And so
01:02:22.800 it's not important and so the work of women doesn't bring capital in it just takes care of 1.00
01:02:28.300 the house and keeps it running and is essential to its function but it doesn't bring in capital 0.97
01:02:32.180 and so it's easy to marginalize and that's been that way for hundreds of years starting in europe
01:02:37.480 and unfortunately sweeping across the entire globe uh so that's that's my idea of why um and
01:02:44.020 and so like especially now that witchcraft is kind of in the not the mainstream but like the
01:02:50.740 B-list mainstream. Vogue is writing about witchcraft. New York Times is writing about
01:02:56.020 witchcraft, but it hasn't really had a day in the sun. And we now see witch fluencers and stuff 0.89
01:03:03.860 pop up everywhere. And even scam business is trying to capitalize on this. That's what I'm
01:03:07.820 trying to get at. There's a lot of trying to capitalize on witchcraft now, even though it's
01:03:12.900 something that resists capitalization. We now have people trying to sell us magic more than we ever
01:03:19.660 have in the decades that I've been doing it. Um, and so to make your own stuff for most of human
01:03:25.780 history, but especially right now to be doing DIY, to be doing kitchen witchcraft, to be doing stuff
01:03:31.600 where you're not paying money for someone else's expertise all the time. Like I understand it's
01:03:36.580 beneficial to take classes and to trust people who know more than you, but when you never trust
01:03:40.760 yourself enough to make your own tools and to make your own decisions, um, being able to do that now
01:03:46.400 is much is very revolutionary I guess that's what I'm trying to say as revolutionary as it has been
01:03:50.640 throughout history because we're still dealing with capitalism we're still dealing with the
01:03:54.060 marginalization of the domestic um so it's important for us to be doing that now even not
01:03:59.520 as witches but as anti-capitalists you know yes I think that yeah that I mean that's that's kind
01:04:06.140 of what we're doing it's 2022 you know I I personally grew up in the 80s where DIY was I
01:04:12.700 mean you didn't really have a choice you know you they we didn't have dollarama didn't exist you had
01:04:18.860 to go to a specific craft store even to get the felt that you wanted to make your hand puppet or
01:04:24.240 whatever but now click click it's literally two clicks and in two days you can have anything you
01:04:30.960 ever dreamed of arrive like in wrapped in plastic at your door so I think that in 2022 it's like
01:04:38.540 almost like the witch's objective to like try and fail and and make bad recipes
01:04:44.580 exactly what you're talking about how many people try to shortcut that failure and just buy the
01:04:51.660 thing so they never have to confront being bad at making it even if it makes more sense for their
01:04:57.020 life to make it themselves even if they want to make it themselves if they want to try uh not
01:05:01.320 doing that shortcuts all the feeling bad stuff uh in our world you don't have to feel negative
01:05:06.160 emotions if you don't want to, right? You can always buy happiness somewhere else. Uh, so I
01:05:10.980 don't know. I feel like that's also part of the witch archetype, right? That confrontation with
01:05:15.600 Jung's idea of the shadow. I mean, there's no historical witchcraft shadow magic, right? But
01:05:19.580 there is, we have this now, uh, and I feel like the witch lives in confrontation with the shadow
01:05:24.020 or constant integration and reintegration with the shadow. Um, so we need that stuff too. We need
01:05:29.240 negative side as well um yeah i mean yes to all of this um but i that's some of the things i'm
01:05:38.280 going to hold with me from this conversation especially because i do keep our our listeners
01:05:42.200 in mind who've told us that they aren't in safe places where they can be out as witches i think
01:05:47.000 that this is some of the things that have really been like sparks for me from this conversation
01:05:52.600 or about how we magic happens even in the the the fucked up recipe that magic happens even
01:06:01.320 in the gathering of people you know that you don't have to you don't have to you can wear 0.60
01:06:06.540 masks that are comfortable to you you don't have to you don't have to take on the word witch but
01:06:13.740 just in gathering your people in feeding your people in and in making the mistakes of like
01:06:20.680 trying and failing that those things are going to bring you closer and building communities around
01:06:25.800 diy building communities with men with queer people build your communities around trying to 0.97
01:06:32.120 learn how to do stuff um but those are places i think where we can have very fertile magic without
01:06:38.360 being out and that i think change comes from that um are there things that you can offer you often
01:06:46.040 sometimes at the end of these conversations we ask is there a ritual is there is there something
01:06:51.940 you're doing in your life is there something that listeners can carry from you going forward from
01:06:57.900 today especially knowing they're listening at the equinox i'll give that one to you sarah i have to
01:07:03.660 think oh oh thanks uh give that one to me because we can insert melodic pause here but yeah
01:07:11.020 um so something to take away with us i guess um for the kind of coming season
01:07:18.860 or if we could improvise a ritual between us we can take it that way too but if there's
01:07:24.060 something that comes to mind okay i've got one oh no sorry you go for it no go go go
01:07:29.820 have that brain synchronicity today um okay i've got one uh i talk about this a little bit in the
01:07:36.500 autumn equinox entry for my book but i don't really go deep on it i'm not going to go super
01:07:40.780 deep on it today because everyone's practice is going to look different. I'll just tell you how
01:07:43.840 I do it. To me, this is a really important time of the year to be making spirit packs and to be
01:07:50.880 reaffirming our spirit packs. If you don't work with spirits, maybe we can talk about this as
01:07:55.380 making packs with the lamp. Maybe find something you do believe in, even if it's something like
01:07:59.540 the moon. And even if you don't know what you mean by that belief, maybe you're very green like that
01:08:04.320 and you're drawn to it, but not enough to really know why. That too is wisdom and information.
01:08:09.960 Follow that. And what I would suggest as a ritual going forward through the lean season, so make a commitment, maybe from the autumn equinox to the winter solstice, to have a regular practice where you make offerings.
01:08:23.720 that's it it doesn't require more of you show up say hello and break bread share a meal with
01:08:31.500 the moon with the forest with the gods that you actually know their names of with your ancestors
01:08:35.680 do it regularly whether that's on a particular lunar phase whether that's a particular day of
01:08:40.480 the week something like that and commit to it i find that regular practice helps you go deeper
01:08:47.220 and if we don't maintain the regularity and the schedule we can't get as deep as we ordinarily
01:08:52.100 would. So make a short-term commitment. I, as a Gemini, you know, need a short-term commitment.
01:08:57.900 So I relate to that and see if what that gives to your practice, what information you get out
01:09:03.880 of that exchange, like what gnosis you receive through that. And that even in the simplicity
01:09:08.280 of it is a kitchen witchcraft practice because it's organized around the food as the modality
01:09:13.480 for magic. The food is how you are communicating with the spirit. There might also be orational
01:09:18.900 stuff but the primary modality is through snacks um so that would be the ritual that i would give
01:09:24.180 to people i think that that can really be assistive in reframing what you think kitchen witchcraft is
01:09:28.980 um and should also get you somewhere with your magic yes i i love this notion of um you know
01:09:37.200 breaking bread with the moon i absolutely am going to do that um especially because we talk
01:09:43.220 of it all the time like we talked about the autumn equinox like you can believe whatever
01:09:48.100 you know there there's a philosopher maybe ortega who said that we don't choose our beliefs our
01:09:54.060 beliefs choose us so we're leaving that unknown country open you know some maybe we're not even
01:10:01.180 choosing what we believe maybe we're being chosen but we know that the moon exists yes regardless
01:10:07.260 of what we believe or are forced to believe we know that the moon exists and so i i love this
01:10:11.980 Like, even if you don't know what it means to you, like you said, like, you know that it exists.
01:10:16.920 Investigative.
01:10:17.480 This could be the process when you find out.
01:10:19.420 Yeah.
01:10:19.700 And for me, you know, Sarah said recipes are stories.
01:10:24.720 And I love that.
01:10:26.020 There's a beginning, a middle, and an end.
01:10:28.340 And then adding the epilogue of the sharing.
01:10:31.820 I know for me, like, my kitchen witchery, the last step in the spell is to, you know, take it to my neighbor or share it.
01:10:39.460 Or even, you know, my spouse, like, make this and then, you know, lay a plate in front of my spouse.
01:10:45.680 That's always, like, the ending of the spell for me.
01:10:49.380 But I love expanding this outside of sharing with humanity.
01:10:52.920 You know, if you don't do ancestor magic, a lot of us leave offerings for ancestors.
01:10:57.440 But we could even just, like, leave an apple for the bugs.
01:11:01.060 Or, again, like, share bread with the moon.
01:11:05.780 I love this notion.
01:11:06.860 and i i love the idea of expanding our stories that recipes are stories and we can keep that
01:11:14.200 story we can turn them into novels you know they don't necessarily have to be poems but they can
01:11:19.820 be novels that we expand as we keep up with a practice i love this notion sarah do you have any
01:11:28.220 did you say no no i said beautiful sorry sarah do you have any i heard no
01:11:36.080 beautiful beautiful and yeah just uh while we're kind of carry on with that idea of
01:11:44.320 things that money can't buy and that kind of acceptance that everything you need is already
01:11:49.500 within you um you know feel free just you know in just the simplest you know of kind of what
01:11:57.500 you might call a ritual just to to allow yourself to be nourished by nature you know go out and walk
01:12:02.240 amongst the trees see the change of seasons and and let that be your wheel of the year it doesn't
01:12:08.180 you don't have to call it anything you don't have to call yourself anything you don't have to call
01:12:11.760 your path anything you can just be amongst the trees and i mean you can be nourished by the air
01:12:17.460 around you you can be nourished by what you see um you can forage if you like if you want to bring
01:12:23.800 you know nuts or um safely identified mushrooms back with you you know you can you can make that
01:12:30.520 part of the practice um and that's yeah that's just a beautiful way of it just uh 0.95
01:12:37.720 yeah being in nature where you know the trees don't give a shit what you call yourself or you
01:12:43.160 know what what you're calling the festival they're just you know so you can kind of hang out with
01:12:47.560 them and be like okay I can see I can feel that's that's magic and it doesn't have to have a name
01:12:53.460 and I don't have to buy anything to be part of this I can just be here so nourish by nature hang
01:12:58.960 out with the trees and then come and hang out at your half fire and warm up I love that so much
01:13:07.120 we we've started identifying as many of the plants as we can in the woods around here and have just
01:13:12.140 been bowled over by how much is edible how much is safe how much is okay you know like even the
01:13:20.300 just the tiny bits of like almost every species of evergreen that's around you the little ends
01:13:26.800 you can take and chew they're rich in vitamin c they're weird you know they're clunky but there's
01:13:32.540 so much love in that that almost everything around you is is safe for you and if it's not then it's
01:13:39.520 like what's to be learned in that like learn about what the lesson is in that in that poison what's 0.81
01:13:44.540 not not everything is fucking for you also so that's okay too you know those are lessons that 0.67
01:13:50.720 are okay to learn from where you are and there's there's empowerment in that like i can go out and 0.94
01:13:55.920 I can I can nourish myself and my ancestors way back when would have known this and you know
01:14:01.800 how can I know it now and uh and that's yeah that's that's pretty exciting in in terms of
01:14:09.140 just kind of connection and remembering and uh and finding our way with it you know I also really
01:14:15.160 like this idea so much of our our uh nourishment through cooking comes through plants right comes
01:14:20.660 through the the vegetables and fruits we get to eat and all the vitamins there um but I think
01:14:25.320 that your idea of cultivating spirit relationships with the plants as being important to the kitchen
01:14:30.640 witchcraft practice or just to the magical practice in general is i think super important um i think
01:14:36.360 it's how kissed this dementia i forget what book it was but she wrote in one of her books that
01:14:40.360 spirit relationships are a lot like interspecies relationships in the way that like you learn to
01:14:44.960 communicate with your cat or your dog even though you don't speak the same language and you guys
01:14:49.140 barely understand each other and yet something is communicated we can do that with other living
01:14:54.380 creatures and other species, like plants as well, something can be communicated through that
01:14:58.380 relationship. And I think that those kinds of partnerships set us up well for understanding
01:15:03.220 spirit relationships. It can be sort of like a nice gateway drug. You do the interspecies
01:15:07.140 relationship with things you can see, and then the interspecies relationship with stuff you can't.
01:15:12.920 And I love that, especially working with the plants in that way, as spirited individuals,
01:15:19.320 as allies and co-conspirators with the witch working towards similar kinds of magic.
01:15:24.380 that perspective being important for not just kitchen witchcraft but witchcraft in general
01:15:28.760 um love that yeah I want to take it like a little bit political before we um sign off because there
01:15:37.140 are so many people especially over the past few years we're really starting to consider uh food
01:15:42.700 security and I think that we are in the modern day which is aside so alienated from nature
01:15:51.420 that we don't even conceive of the forest as being a source of food um can you talk about
01:15:58.040 besides foraging like how we can use witchcraft to assure food security for not only ourselves
01:16:06.780 but for marginalized people who live in food deserts is it just a question of a conversation
01:16:13.420 is a spell of protection or is there something in the kitchen which that can help us
01:16:18.800 assess, track food security
01:16:24.280 into the world that we live in?
01:16:27.340 Well, I think part of that's going to come
01:16:28.560 from the magical perspective
01:16:29.660 that you're now looking at food through, right?
01:16:31.840 When you start to work with food in a different way,
01:16:34.200 you start to think about it in a different way.
01:16:35.840 And other people's food insecurity
01:16:37.480 might become personal for you
01:16:38.900 through the work of like food as materia magica,
01:16:41.920 as something that has a divine component,
01:16:45.160 for lack of a better word.
01:16:46.420 So I think the definition that works for everybody, I hope.
01:16:48.800 Um, so maybe it's going to become an important part of your practice to make food offerings
01:16:54.040 to your community.
01:16:55.080 I'm talking about like community fridges.
01:16:57.020 Um, I've got a friend in Philly who part of her Kitchen Witchcraft practice is once a 0.88
01:17:00.680 week, she makes a meal to donate.
01:17:02.580 Um, maybe that's something that you take on personally.
01:17:05.500 Um, maybe you become more invested in the growing of food in your city now that you
01:17:10.080 want to make sure that ingredients are local and made with, um, made ethically, uh, made,
01:17:15.100 you know, not with chemicals and stuff like that, made healthy for the community.
01:17:18.800 Maybe that's work that you become involved with.
01:17:20.780 I guess what I'm trying to say is when you become,
01:17:22.680 when you accept the mantle of Kitchen Witch specifically,
01:17:25.700 food becomes something different for you.
01:17:27.520 And it's, I have found through that,
01:17:30.380 that it's made food very personal to me.
01:17:32.140 And that now those causes are things
01:17:34.520 that I'm personally involved with.
01:17:36.180 My political work with food security
01:17:38.040 isn't necessarily part of my magical practice.
01:17:41.120 Like, as in it doesn't have a magical face,
01:17:42.700 but it comes from there.
01:17:43.840 That's where its root originates.
01:17:45.420 That's where my passion for these projects come from.
01:17:47.700 even though my my answer to the problem isn't magical um my passion for it is does that make
01:17:53.280 sense yeah absolutely and you know just the that idea of just holding all the food we have you know
01:18:01.660 in gratitude you know it's a relatively recent thing to have just so much abundance of food like
01:18:07.660 that's relatively new in the kind of the grand scheme of things and you know things like food
01:18:12.740 waste and just kind of uh understanding what it is we really need as opposed to just all this stuff
01:18:18.500 we can buy um is part of kind of again a part of remembering i suppose so to to be more mindful
01:18:24.940 about how lucky we are to have food and to to treat it as precious and sacred and not to be
01:18:32.440 wasteful and whether that means learning what to do with food scraps or sharing with others or you
01:18:38.740 know using you know windfall apples to make something to share with your community so it's
01:18:45.960 that food is sacred all food is sacred you know and just uh yeah sharing it sharing the magic around
01:18:54.560 i can never summarize my thoughts very well so it's like yes so that really and like that idea
01:19:04.060 of the sharing of the magic around as being part of the magical tech, there's historical precedence
01:19:09.820 for that. I'm thinking about like the Michael Moss bread from the Carmina Gadalica, where the
01:19:14.160 ritual isn't over when the bread is baked. The ritual is over after you give away more than half
01:19:18.980 the loaves to the people in your community. That's when it's over. That to me, like there's
01:19:25.520 precedence for this. It's not like some wishy, again, it's this idea of it being cutesy and
01:19:29.820 this idea of like, we're doing this nice thing,
01:19:32.380 how good it is to connect with our food
01:19:34.480 and to put warm food in our tummies.
01:19:36.240 And I'm like, actually, this is old magic
01:19:38.720 that keeps communities alive. 1.00
01:19:41.180 This is not wishy-washy kinky shit. 0.99
01:19:43.540 This is important. 0.99
01:19:44.500 This turns the wheel of society.
01:19:47.000 And the fact that you don't see that
01:19:48.600 means that capitalism and patriarchy
01:19:50.280 live deep in your brain
01:19:51.740 and you need to speak to someone about that. 1.00
01:19:59.820 uh speak to your local witch about that yeah we can remove the worms from your brain 0.99
01:20:05.780 that's what the knives are for sorry no no 0.92
01:20:12.240 yeah go ahead kalika so random question really nothing to do with politics i was just like
01:20:24.340 thinking about the history of kitchen witchery in my own family and just a real random aside
01:20:33.820 anytime my mother was mad her food tasted awful 0.57
01:20:39.000 it was foul like almost inedible anytime she was angry and she cooked 1.00
01:20:49.600 i almost wonder if that was on purpose she was like you shitty kids and my rotten husband here 0.99
01:20:56.360 eat this but that's probably not what you were looking for so i'm gonna mute it but the same 0.95
01:21:01.840 thing happens for me i've noticed if i'm angry my food is not as good as if i'm like going to
01:21:08.280 the kitchen with a better attitude about cooking if i go in there and i'm just like my food tastes
01:21:17.320 awful. I mean, I'm not surprised. Like, you know, if you're angry, you're not paying attention.
01:21:23.700 Your mind is elsewhere, right? You're not, you're not cooking with intentionality. You're not
01:21:27.280 thinking, will this taste good to people? You're like, I'm going to turn out something and these
01:21:30.880 fuckers are going to eat it. And if they don't like it, they can cry. Um, and they will, they 1.00
01:21:36.400 very untasty but I feel like that's true like um cooking mundane cooking requires a level of
01:21:47.600 magical intentionality that the rest of mundane life does not require right uh so even before we
01:21:54.300 get to magical stuff uh when you're not able to be present for it really is an act of love to
01:22:00.180 create food for another person to give life chemicals to another person when you're not
01:22:05.260 present for that it's easy for that to be palpable shall I say and one of the first things my mom
01:22:13.300 told me when I moved out of my house I needed my own little kitchen witch because that was my mom
01:22:18.240 never called herself a kitchen witch like she never like my mom was catholic so the word witch 0.84
01:22:23.240 is horrible but she had a little kitchen witch in her kitchen and she told me it was to keep
01:22:29.780 fires out of the kitchen and she like impressed on me i had to have that's like one of the first
01:22:37.720 things i needed to buy for my kitchen was a kitchen witch to protect from fires that's ancient
01:22:45.300 roman magic that comes from the feast of fornicalia uh fornax was the goddess who's the 0.93
01:22:49.460 personification of the oven and if she was mad at you she would literally burn your bread or burn
01:22:53.200 your house down uh she specifically was the one who made the oven stop making fires in the rest
01:22:59.260 of the house uh so the idea of the kitchen witch at the altar specifically to control fire that's
01:23:05.340 fornax um yeah i have mine she said that's so cool i've never heard someone talk about it
01:23:10.880 specifically for the fires that's wild yeah i have mine sitting in i have like an old style
01:23:17.560 hanging basket and that's where mine is sitting by my door of my kitchen it's amazing that history
01:23:23.620 kind of traveled away through to like like in the 1960s and 70s it was so popular in england to have
01:23:29.500 these little you know poppets of of witches to hang and yet to to stop your red from burning
01:23:35.460 to stop uh you know the pots from bubbling over to to stop fires so it's again it's that amazing
01:23:41.520 thing of these kind of what we think of kind of modern charms and stories and they're kind of
01:23:45.920 how far these things go back it's you know always fascinating yeah and the funny time the one time
01:23:52.740 I've never had a kitchen witch in my house was the one time I burnt a goose and I say magic is real
01:24:02.660 it works you know I I just um want to give a shout out to your mom Kalika who is a good 0.50
01:24:09.620 Catholic woman who would never call herself a witch but it made me think of the Ipsita Roy
01:24:14.000 Chakravarti quote um every strong woman is a witch um and I love that there are all of these even you
01:24:21.760 know among our our catholic mothers our christian mothers are variously you know prim and proper 0.94
01:24:29.580 women in our lives that there is a witch there is a witch somewhere it might be in the kitchen 1.00
01:24:36.460 maybe it's in the bedroom maybe it's in the bathroom maybe it's in her heart but there is
01:24:42.260 like a little witch in all of us even those of us who would deny it for you know religious or
01:24:47.480 political reasons. I love that story of your mom being so insistent, you know, despite being a good
01:24:54.400 Catholic woman, that she is so insistent that you have a witch in your kitchen, otherwise your house 0.78
01:24:59.300 is for sure going to burn down. I love that. I love that. And I think, you know, I'm so happy to 1.00
01:25:05.520 have you two authors in this room together. We all are because that's sort of the spectrum, right?
01:25:10.680 like um the witch's feast is like science and history and fact and then you know um the kitchen
01:25:19.080 witch is like fable and storytelling but both of you are on this spectrum where you know if you're
01:25:23.840 red and blue you're both very much bleeding into purple and and i love that i love that even even
01:25:30.680 the kitchen can be this place of history and imagination and science and invention um yeah
01:25:41.560 i'm just so happy and we're so happy to have had you both in this room together to talk about all
01:25:47.120 of these how thrilling how thrilling and i i hope you'll keep in touch with each other and keep this
01:25:55.280 keep this feast a cooking shall we say
01:25:58.320 thank you so much for having me uh and for having me part of this discussion with Sarah this has
01:26:05.140 been a super stimulating conversation uh lots to chew on after this for sure for sure it's yeah
01:26:10.560 it's been a real honor so thank you thank you all so once again can you let's start with uh Melissa
01:26:17.820 tell us the name of your book also um how our guests can find you uh I know you teach classes
01:26:24.760 if you want to plug those. Go, go, go. Yeah. So if you're interested in my scholarship and
01:26:30.600 learning from me, I do have some of my classes available as downloads on my Etsy. So you can
01:26:34.660 actually get a lot of my kitchen witchcraft classes right from there, including the occult
01:26:38.560 history of bread, which has that choking spell that I mentioned with the ancient Greece. Don't
01:26:43.100 lie to me, spell. You can also find a lot of my recipes and my writing on my website, which is
01:26:49.000 thewitchesfeast.com, just the title of my book. And if you want to follow along with what I'm
01:26:53.180 doing and get class updates you can follow me on instagram it's the only social media that i
01:26:57.440 will tolerate anymore uh and i am at uh saint jane it's saint dot j-a-y-n-e which is my middle name
01:27:03.720 uh and you can find me there awesome uh so my book uh kitchen rich food folklore fairy tale
01:27:12.880 is available from all the usual online places that you buy books from uh and you can get it
01:27:17.520 direct from my publisher as well woman craft publishing they're very awesome and it's a great
01:27:22.680 website of just a beautiful array of books on the divine feminine witches and all such delights
01:27:28.180 um yeah instagram is kind of my main platform too and i'm there as uh at yoga for witches which is
01:27:35.640 my first book um so come and hang out with me on instagram if you so wish and uh that's it i think
01:27:42.440 i want to um just send extra love to lucy from womencraft what a brilliant thinker and we were
01:27:51.880 so blown away by her vulnerability and insights in our conversation about uh neurodivergence and
01:28:00.460 magic she's she is a constant and total inspiration and yeah just somewhere every time I'm writing a
01:28:08.600 book and she's editing I'm thinking how is this how has this happened how is this amazing woman
01:28:14.180 seen potential in the in the crap that I'm putting together and uh how does she transform it into a
01:28:19.860 book she is a a witch of words and a wise woman indeed so we love you lucy yeah and i'm sure she 0.64
01:28:27.200 would insert a great deal of love and awe for you as well she doesn't she doesn't uh she doesn't
01:28:34.840 work with people out of pity she works with people that is true that is serious love and
01:28:40.660 awe so every time we have a meeting on zoom i just kind of sign off with like thanks lucy i love you
01:28:45.460 yeah i love you tell her i love her every time we have some sort of professional meetings like
01:28:49.160 i love you very much yeah so let's uh raise a glass listeners wherever you are um here's to
01:28:58.360 breaking bread with the moon here's to crawling through the cauldron together here's to all the
01:29:05.840 witches around us hiding in plain sight and all the ways that we sporulate our ideas send our 0.99
01:29:13.640 mycelia into the ground survive the lean times uh and save the fucking world yes cheers 1.00
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