Missing Witches - October 19, 2023


WF Nadra Nittle on bell hooks: We Can Create Our Own Spirituality

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MW Mary Kawena Pukui + Morrnah Simeona: A Unified and Unifying Force Hilma af Klint + Anna Cassel: Life Is A Farce If A Person Does Not Serve Truth.

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00:01:36.040 I just dragged a rubber pipe off the mountain that I found up there while I was on a hike.
00:01:44.140 I've been sick for a week and the asthma is a pressure on me and it sort of feels like the sorrows of the world are symbolized by the rubber pipe I dragged out of the mountains today.
00:01:54.880 but I'm so excited I feel like when we get to have a guest come back on the podcast
00:02:01.720 it's a sign that we're doing something right that they're willing to come back and talk to us again
00:02:06.960 and I love Nadra Niddle's writing and research so much I think it's such a gift the work that
00:02:14.980 you do the incredibly thorough work that you do to position these luminaries into their context
00:02:21.000 and so I'm just thrilled that you're here. It's fun to get to talk again about your writing and
00:02:28.840 your work. I wondered if you could start, maybe do your reintroduction for the folks who didn't
00:02:35.120 meet you last time when you came to talk about Toni Morrison and your book. And also I'm so
00:02:41.140 curious about this idea. Now you have two books about spiritual visions. I wonder about that
00:02:48.440 project for you. We can talk more about it. Hi and welcome back. Thank you. Thanks for having me
00:02:55.280 and thanks for your kind words. I really appreciate it and for having me back. So yes, I've written
00:03:02.960 two books about two different Black women's spiritual vision. So the first one was Toni
00:03:09.600 Morrison's spiritual vision. And this one is on bell hooks, spiritual vision. So the late
00:03:17.360 feminist scholar, cultural critic bell hooks, who sadly died about two years ago, it'll be two years
00:03:25.480 ago in December. And I got started on this project because a magazine editor reached out to me and
00:03:33.960 asked me if I would be willing to write about spirituality in Toni Morrison's books. That year
00:03:40.820 it was the 30th anniversary of Beloved and the 40th anniversary of Song of Solomon. And so in
00:03:50.440 light of those anniversaries, they asked me to look at spirituality in those books and in Toni
00:03:57.080 Morrison's life. Well, I think about two years after that, a publisher, Fortress Press, reached
00:04:04.120 out to me and asked if I would be willing to write a whole book about Toni Morrison's spiritual
00:04:08.680 vision. And after that book came out two years ago, they wanted to know if I wanted to do a
00:04:15.780 follow-up. And they had some suggestions of various men, but I wanted to do another woman.
00:04:23.360 And Bell Hooks had just died, and I thought she would be a good person because I knew
00:04:29.260 that she was a Buddhist, and that played a big part in her work.
00:04:33.840 And she was also a Christian.
00:04:35.480 She identified as a Buddhist Christian.
00:04:37.540 And so that's what this book is about.
00:04:39.240 The full title is Bell Hooks Spiritual Vision, Buddhist, Christian, and Feminist.
00:04:44.980 What the subtitle doesn't get at is that Bell Hooks was also a little witchy. 1.00
00:04:49.640 She didn't identify as a witch, but she she believed in magic and she did do some witchy things.
00:04:56.620 It's interesting to write these works at the invitation of someone else.
00:05:00.080 So you're sort of being like called in in a way, right?
00:05:03.640 Like, come tell us this story.
00:05:06.800 And there's, you know, there's the assertion from you, like, let's not let's not deviate and do a man just yet.
00:05:12.480 Like, let's do another. Let's do another woman. 0.63
00:05:15.140 but also what do you think about a spiritual vision like why does it matter that someone had
00:05:23.280 a spiritual vision I think it's because spirituality is often downplayed like Toni
00:05:30.780 Morrison for example was a Catholic and I don't think that many people knew that she was a Catholic
00:05:35.400 and what role that played in her work but once you start reading her work through that lens you
00:05:41.260 see a lot of Catholicism. I also think Toni Morrison, right, was also a little witchy and
00:05:47.500 her family believed in ghosts. She was told ghost stories when she was growing up. And some of those
00:05:53.720 stories make their way into her books and the same thing with dreams. And I think Bell Hooks is
00:05:59.420 actually pretty similar. I don't know so much about the ghost stories, but in terms of African
00:06:05.580 American folk magic, hoodoo. There's a part in the book I talk about how, you know, they believe
00:06:11.120 that hair had magical powers and you had to be careful about who had access to your hair. She
00:06:19.040 worked in her aunt's salon and her aunt was just a very kind of by the book Christian and didn't
00:06:25.660 believe in folk magic or who didn't thought it was all nonsense. The Belvets and her siblings
00:06:32.240 were like no we believe magic is real and our customers want to make sure that our hair is
00:06:38.620 either swept up and like burned or otherwise like can't you know out of the way from potential
00:06:45.960 enemies and so she had a unique spiritual vision and just in her upbringing she was also as a young
00:06:54.680 child, you know, a pretty devote, devoted Christian. But because she thought, you know,
00:07:01.740 the Christianity, especially of her church was very patriarchal. And the word she also used was
00:07:06.900 fundamentalist. She was drawn to Buddhism because she thought that there were more, I guess, roles
00:07:14.300 for women. And she also with Christianity, she was drawn. I know you just recently had a had
00:07:20.480 someone, Christina Cleveland, who's really into the Black Madonna. So Belle Hutz was also really
00:07:26.500 moved by the Black Madonna. So she really was interested in the divine feminine. And I think
00:07:33.340 that played a role not just in her life and upbringing, but in her work. Like when she was
00:07:38.680 writing, she believed that kind of, you know, her ancestors were guiding her. They were guiding her
00:07:45.200 words. So I think it's important not to overlook spirituality. Right. I mean, and I love so much
00:07:53.420 you describe that moment, students coming into her office like brokenhearted and her feeling like,
00:08:00.060 I have to tell the truth. Like, I have to tell the truth about what gives me strength. Can you
00:08:05.760 Give us more insight into how she combined spirituality in a way that gave her some
00:08:13.560 liberatory strength that helped her express this like powerful vision of love that she had that
00:08:21.920 was love in action. Right. And that the way she drew on multiple faiths to ground that in activism
00:08:28.020 is something I think we need to learn a lot more about from her. Right. Yeah. I mean, she was not
00:08:34.920 just interested in religion for religion's sake she believed that you know religion or spirituality
00:08:41.180 had to go hand in hand with social action and if the social action piece was missing she wasn't
00:08:48.920 really interested in it so in terms of christianity she was really in addition to the black madonna
00:08:54.920 she was really influenced by the reverend martin luther king jr and how he right obviously he was
00:09:02.260 like leader in the civil rights movement and he you know wedded his his beliefs with social action
00:09:11.440 on the buddhist side dick not han the the leader she was really drawn to him as well he was 0.96
00:09:19.740 outspoken against the vietnamese war and actually martin luther king and dick not han 0.87
00:09:25.260 you know actually met up at one point so her spiritual influences met each other and ik not
00:09:33.200 han got martin luther king to come out publicly against the vietnam war which was not a you know
00:09:40.280 a popular position and created a backlash and so she was she was drawn um to those men but she was
00:09:49.220 also um one part of one version of the book it needs to be updated that i don't have but her
00:09:55.800 original the reason she became drawn to buddhism is because she met a few buddhist nuns and she
00:10:03.680 was really drawn to them and so that is what made her interested in becoming a buddhist so i do think
00:10:11.740 women you know played a role in um her her becoming a buddhist and i think in terms of
00:10:18.560 Christianity. She grew up in Kentucky where she had an aunt and grandparents who were really
00:10:26.400 practicing African-American traditions derived from West African spirituality. And they kind of
00:10:35.860 mixed that with Christianity. And some of her elders, they didn't go to church. They weren't
00:10:42.100 church-going Christians. They thought the church was kind of hypocritical. So all of this kind of 0.98
00:10:46.980 played a role, you know, in who she was, her work, and what she believed in. I think the other thing
00:10:55.280 really quick I forgot to say is that, you know, she was born in the early 1950s. So she was,
00:11:01.580 she lived through desegregation of schools. She was part of the first group of students who had
00:11:07.740 integrated her high school, and it was a very painful experience. So I do think her social
00:11:12.460 activism. It dates back to that experience. And in terms of her church, she was really offended
00:11:19.020 by the fact that girls were told that they could not cross the pulpit, but boys could. And she
00:11:25.700 called that like an early induction into sexism. So that and, you know, girls should wear dresses 1.00
00:11:33.800 and other things that she learned in the church made her come out against sexism, capitalism, 1.00
00:11:39.060 et cetera. Can you talk more about liberation theology, like what that means and what that
00:11:46.540 meant to her? Yeah. So, I mean, liberation theology, I think, is a way for different
00:11:54.440 oppressed people to kind of find themselves. Specifically, liberation theology is usually
00:12:00.440 discussed in terms of Christianity. So if you're a woman, for example, there's a feminist theology 0.82
00:12:08.740 And it gives you a way to look at Christianity through a feminist lens, as opposed to looking
00:12:17.340 just at the men in the Bible or looking just at Jesus. 0.99
00:12:20.760 You would look at the many different women who've played a role in these religions.
00:12:26.340 And, you know, Bell Hooks herself, she was really influenced by Julian of Norwich, who
00:12:32.960 is believed to have ridden.
00:12:34.420 she was around in the 1300s and she's believed to be the first woman to have written a book
00:12:40.180 in English. And in that book, which is, which is a Christian book, she talks about God as being,
00:12:48.200 you know, our mother instead of our father. And so when Bellix read that, I think she might've
00:12:54.580 read that for the first time as a teenager or just, you know, very young woman. And she was
00:13:00.040 really moved you know to hear God referenced as a mother as opposed to a father which is what she
00:13:07.440 had grown up with so and it's not and I think in addition to just like looking at Christianity
00:13:13.400 through the lens of the oppressed whether it's women whether it's black women you know it could 0.82
00:13:19.080 be Latinas children there's child liberation theology which I write about and there's queer
00:13:25.640 liberation theology um so it's a way for oppressed people really to see themselves in christianity
00:13:32.440 but it also is saying i think what bell hooks did which is that christianity needs to serve to
00:13:41.640 liberate the oppressed so if you're a christian that should be part of your faith is it's helping
00:13:49.700 other people get free essentially and i forgot to mention i guess one of the biggest liberation
00:13:55.400 theology which is catholic liberation theology and that played a role you know people were using
00:14:01.420 that like in latin america and revolutions and different countries so yeah it's it's a pretty
00:14:08.740 serious look at like basically saying you have to you have to fight you have to fight to get
00:14:15.440 other people free it's not enough just to have faith i find really like i don't know reassuring
00:14:22.400 and electric that that it was not just okay we'll find our way through christianity not just through
00:14:29.860 this particular paradigm and set of rules that will just like concede the ground like this is
00:14:35.560 the true access to god but i can find liberation through this but also to say it's not just this
00:14:42.980 one path like she said she wanted people and especially black women to have all the paths
00:14:48.780 that you could have Buddhism, you could have paganism, you could have animism. Can you talk
00:14:54.280 more about how she reconciled these really different worldviews or she did? Yeah, I mean,
00:15:00.680 I think she was just kind of a maverick and she just kind of, you know, defined the rules really
00:15:07.320 early on. Because I think now in the 21st century, you have lots of people kind of doing what she
00:15:13.160 recommended. I think she mentioned this in a book that came out in the 90s, you know, and now we have
00:15:19.040 people saying, I'm a Christian witch, I'm a Jewish witch, you know, like just mixing things together
00:15:24.740 and that's fine. But I think 30 years ago, that wasn't so fine. And I think even today, if you 0.76
00:15:30.840 were to say, you know, I'm a Christian witch, some people might, you know, be offended by that. 0.88
00:15:37.080 But right now, we're in this moment where the Pew Research Center does say the fastest group of people, they identify as spiritual and not religious.
00:15:48.520 And so people are kind of defining religion on their own terms.
00:15:53.740 And Bell Hooks was a trendsetter. 0.99
00:15:55.960 She was trying to, you know, heal herself. 0.98
00:15:59.100 She had a pretty traumatic childhood.
00:16:01.280 And I talk about kind of the corporal punishment that she experienced as a young child just for, you know, for being different.
00:16:09.840 She was kind of the scapegoat of her family.
00:16:12.700 And so she wasn't affirmed as a child.
00:16:16.980 And so I think she was interested in how Christianity could heal her, how Buddhism could heal her, how aspects of paganism could heal her,
00:16:26.600 as well as, I would say, humanistic psychology.
00:16:31.400 So some of my book looks at that as well.
00:16:34.380 I mean, she was definitely into psychology and self-help.
00:16:38.240 I think she thought Black women had been so burdened
00:16:42.560 with taking care of other people, you know,
00:16:45.060 and focused on work and just survival,
00:16:48.540 that spirituality was not the focus.
00:16:51.180 And I think she thought for Black women to heal,
00:16:53.500 They had to engage spirituality and not patriarchal or fundamentalist Christianity, but, you know, a healing spirituality. And if that meant someone thought, hey, you know, I think Judaism is healing for me, that that was fine.
00:17:13.360 She didn't want people to be boxed in, and she didn't box in herself.
00:17:18.420 So I think that was really radical. 0.88
00:17:20.140 I mean, she was a radical feminist.
00:17:22.080 I think her approach to spirituality and religion kind of reflects how radical she was.
00:17:28.560 Because you think about the Black church, which Bell Hooks did criticize for it being
00:17:34.560 patriarchal, and she thought that some Black women felt like they couldn't go outside of
00:17:41.200 the Black church.
00:17:42.100 both she and you actually in this book like criticize or bring theory or bring critique
00:17:49.500 as though it's part of the love do you know what i mean like she she she's like she's willing to
00:17:57.120 talk about beyonce for example and like things that are powerful and magical and radical about
00:18:04.000 beyonce and also like there's well you know you are the one who brings this to the conversation
00:18:09.280 but like that there's a lot of capitalism and like a lot of love and glorification of money in
00:18:14.800 some of those songs and then she sort of talks about violence like she's such a committed
00:18:19.860 non-violent writer thinker activist she's not willing to just sort of look past the moment that
00:18:27.480 Beyonce embraces violence feeling that like maybe power that comes from smashing things she's not
00:18:33.980 willing to look past that she's like I love you but let's talk about it can you talk about love
00:18:37.940 in telling the truth, love and critique? Yeah. So Bell Hooks believed that critique was a form
00:18:44.380 of love that she critiqued in love, even if it enraged people. And her critique of Beyonce
00:18:51.760 at different parts in the last decade of her life really led to this long lasting backlash
00:18:59.260 that was brought up right after she died. And even today, there are people who are still very angry
00:19:05.360 that she criticized Beyonce and just to give listeners a little more context she she critiqued
00:19:12.900 Beyonce for two different things but one was Lemonade the visual album if you've seen that 0.98
00:19:20.620 there is one scene where Beyonce is wearing this yellow designer gown she's a woman scorned in this 0.80
00:19:29.340 video and she's walked around with the baseball bat and she's bashing cars bell hooks criticized 0.99
00:19:36.240 i guess that version of feminism is not being liberatory because as a buddhist and even as a 1.00
00:19:44.300 christian right the two men that she was influenced by were dedicated you know pacifists and she was 0.81
00:19:51.140 a pacifist as well she looked at violence as the form of patriarchy she sees that as a woman kind
00:19:57.380 of embracing patriarchy in that moment. And she didn't believe that patriarchy or dominance, 0.92
00:20:04.220 another word she used a lot, was going to free us. You know, it was not going to free humanity.
00:20:10.580 It was not going to free Black women and men in particular. And so she criticized Beyonce for that. 0.97
00:20:18.020 Now, she also said a lot of positive things about lemonade, but I feel like that got overlooked
00:20:24.620 because of her critique i should point out and i say in the book that bell hooks referred to
00:20:31.180 beyonce and lemonade as beyonce the character so she wasn't going after like beyonce the human
00:20:39.360 being but the character in lemonade and then her other critique was of beyonce was on a time 0.86
00:20:47.360 magazine cover you know the title was that she was one of the most powerful or influential women
00:20:53.440 in the world but bell hooks didn't like the cover because beyonce's on the cover kind of looking 0.96
00:21:00.120 like doe wide or eyes glazed over emotionless and she's kind of like either wearing it's hard to
00:21:08.280 tell that a bikini or underwear it's been described as both and she did not think that that was like 0.97
00:21:15.520 an image of a powerful woman. And so at that time, she said that she felt that young girls were
00:21:24.200 really being assaulted by images she thought were problematic. And she used the word terrorist when
00:21:31.060 describing Beyonce, like saying these sorts of images are terrorizing young girls. And she never
00:21:38.260 lived that down. Now, I have to say in Bell Hooks's defense, she used the word terrorist a lot,
00:21:44.500 Not the way that you and I would use the word.
00:21:47.340 When she was talking about, you know, say being in a dysfunctional relationship with
00:21:51.740 the man, you know, she would describe like certain men as intimate terrorists.
00:21:56.800 She had a scholarly approach to that word that I don't think translated, you know, to
00:22:02.040 the general public. 0.68
00:22:03.100 So maybe she could have done some code switching there. 0.97
00:22:06.600 And I think she might have avoided some of that backlash.
00:22:11.700 But yeah, she wasn't afraid to go there.
00:22:13.980 I talk about her critique of Beyonce, but she criticized, you know, Spike Lee and Malcolm X, which in the 90s was a huge film.
00:22:23.600 She criticized like family films like Home Alone.
00:22:27.300 She criticized Emma Watson's role in Harry Potter, and she was friends with Emma Watson.
00:22:34.920 And so I really do think she did critique and love.
00:22:38.480 she actually said that if there was something she really hated or really disliked she actually
00:22:46.080 wouldn't critique something so she had to like it to a certain extent to be willing to critique it
00:22:53.780 and so I hope that provides more context but I understand that you know diehard Beyonce fans
00:23:01.040 may not have forgiven her yet and I am a I listen to Beyonce multiple times a week
00:23:08.700 her critique of Beyonce is not necessarily my critique but I did want to add additional context
00:23:16.180 it made me so sad in your book to think that that haunted bell hooks or that somehow that
00:23:24.920 she was sad about that toward the end of her life and and also the idea that she was afraid of of
00:23:30.520 dying alone, of being another one of these great black women philosopher thinkers who died too
00:23:36.660 early and who died without hearing how important they were. Is that something that you thought
00:23:41.880 about when writing the book? Yeah, I mean, I thought that was sad as well. I quote one of
00:23:47.540 her friends saying that, you know, this was one of the reasons Bell Hooks died of a broken heart
00:23:55.260 was this Beyonce backlash so it is it is very sad to know that no she didn't die alone she
00:24:03.200 died surrounded by you know friends and loved ones she had a community of people around her
00:24:10.180 but I think I mean you know she was a single woman and so I think in the pandemic she died
00:24:17.940 in late 2021 and so many people especially she had health problems she died of kidney failure
00:24:23.800 Of course, you know, a lot of people, especially with health conditions, spend a lot of time alone to avoid getting COVID.
00:24:31.500 But, you know, on the last week of her life, many people were there.
00:24:37.960 Some people were singing Buddhist chants.
00:24:39.900 Some people were singing, you know, Christian spirituals and gospel songs.
00:24:45.280 So she was she was surrounded by a community.
00:24:48.740 But I think your point stands.
00:24:50.340 I mean, she was afraid of having her works excavated is the word that her friend used and just kind of being forgotten about, like having her ideas being used by other people who are exploited, but having she herself, you know, just forgotten about.
00:25:08.300 But one of the things she did in life to prevent that from happening is she created the Bell Hook Center at Berea College in her native Kentucky.
00:25:18.920 So that's one way that she's remembered.
00:25:21.820 I think she wrote so much that she is not going to be forgotten.
00:25:26.820 She wrote three dozen books and she's touched so many people.
00:25:30.800 I think the other reason she remains really popular is because of her book, All About Love, which before she died, she wrote it in 2000 or it was published in 2000, but it continues to be one of her bestselling books.
00:25:45.800 And it appeared on the New York Times bestseller list the year that she died.
00:25:51.280 And I think that book, you see people from all like ages, all backgrounds, different
00:25:57.200 professions, you know, models, writers, poets, filmmakers.
00:26:01.880 Like I talk about how Sofia Coppola said that book was a huge influence on her.
00:26:08.760 People you wouldn't think about are huge fans of that All About Love book.
00:26:13.120 I think she she had such range. And I think that is going to make her relevant for years to come.
00:26:21.340 Can you talk more about what she teaches us about love?
00:26:26.500 Yes. So what she teaches us about love, one major thing is that, you know, love is not a feeling.
00:26:35.740 love is an absent just how she believes spirituality right you you had to work you
00:26:42.720 know for your own personal liberation and to liberate other people she believed that love
00:26:47.800 was essentially someone working towards their own spiritual growth or another person's spiritual
00:26:55.440 growth and she got that concept from m scott peck who wrote the road less traveled in the 1970s
00:27:03.100 that's how he defined love and when she saw that that definition of love really resonated with her
00:27:09.500 she believed that there was too much emphasis on romantic love she also really challenged
00:27:17.840 parent-child relationships as well you know she didn't believe that her father loved her and i
00:27:26.120 should say we haven't mentioned it yet but i i met bell hooks once so when i was a teenager bell
00:27:31.660 came to my school and I met her. And I remember this is one of the things that she talked about
00:27:36.760 is that not feeling that her father loved her. She also wrote about it in her books and in essays.
00:27:43.720 But I think that's really taboo, right? To say, you know, my parents, they don't love me. She
00:27:50.240 was willing to go there and she was willing to get people to really think about it. Did your parents
00:27:56.640 actually love you they may have cared for you in certain ways but does it really fit
00:28:02.540 the definition of love being someone who prioritized your spiritual growth is that
00:28:10.000 what your parents did for you and she also talks about friends as well and the importance of
00:28:16.020 friendships and chosen family and how she had grown up to put romantic relationships above
00:28:24.800 friendships and she ended up in an abusive relationship for years and one of the reasons
00:28:31.300 she said she found it hard to leave is because she didn't really have any friends anymore
00:28:37.980 because she had valued her romantic relationship over her friendships and it made it that much
00:28:43.620 harder to leave and after she got out of that relationship um she never did that again and
00:28:50.380 that was that's one of the things she talks about in all about love is that well love may take
00:28:55.380 different forms depending on if it's like parent child romantic partner or friendship it's all
00:29:03.360 equal it doesn't become less because it's a friend instead of a partner for example so I think
00:29:10.520 that's one of the reasons the book resonated I know the novelist Emily St. John Mandel who wrote
00:29:17.820 Station Eleven said that that book made her think differently about friendships.
00:29:23.120 So I think that's also, you know, really radical.
00:29:26.760 We don't think about, okay, my husband and my friends should be equal in my life.
00:29:33.720 I think for many people that that was a radical concept.
00:29:36.840 I think she was ahead of the curve being willing to go there over 20 years ago.
00:29:43.740 You know, I'm struggling.
00:29:45.620 I can feel so enraged the way the world is right now, you know, like I can feel like I want to be Beyonce with the baseball bat, like so many, you know, so many things make me so angry.
00:29:57.680 And I connected so much with philosophies of nonviolence when I was a kid, like that just made everything make sense to me.
00:30:05.920 I was not really a Christian anymore, but like those people who really put nonviolence at the
00:30:13.820 heart of their work, I was like, okay, I understand everything. Everything makes sense if people are
00:30:21.220 saying that this is what we have to do. But it's so hard to keep coming back to when you feel so
00:30:26.340 angry at the injustice of the world. But how does centering a definition of a love that is
00:30:34.160 helping another person achieve their spiritual growth or spiritual vision how does that get us
00:30:41.920 there do you know what i mean like how does that help save the world like how does how does a
00:30:47.380 version of love that is helping us have spiritual growth become the type of love that that helps us
00:30:54.540 when the world is monstrously unjust yeah i think i mean and that's a hard question but i think
00:31:02.980 You know, as a Buddhist, and one of the goals, maybe the major goal of Buddhism is to liberate oneself, right? To reach enlightenment. If we have more people, you know, reaching enlightenment or really trying to work as hard as possible to get there, whether that's through prayer and meditation, reflecting and pondering life.
00:31:27.960 hopefully we have fewer people acting out in unjust ways. I think that's one of the ways I
00:31:36.260 think spiritual growth can help people that can hopefully counteract how many people are hurting
00:31:43.160 and acting out in ways that are either self-destructive or destructive to other people
00:31:50.420 or to our environment, society as a whole. I think it also gives people hope. Like you mentioned,
00:31:57.280 Bell Hooks was a professor at an Ivy League institution and she was so shocked that so many
00:32:03.360 of her students who she thought, you know, they were young and beautiful and gifted and so many
00:32:08.240 of them were in pain. They come to her office and she find out how depressed and hopeless
00:32:13.900 some of these students felt. And I think she shared her spiritual faith with them to give
00:32:22.220 those students hope, to help them think about the ancestors or the universe or, you know, just
00:32:29.740 something outside of our immediate circumstances. She thought that that was a way to give people
00:32:36.200 hope. She struggled with depression and suicidal ideation, but she still turned to Buddhism and
00:32:45.560 Christianity. She had different Buddha statues and other religious figures in her home as a way
00:32:52.560 to help her believe that there was something else, that there was something bigger. She believed her
00:32:59.480 great aunt and not just her, I guess the community believed this great aunt had a lot of spiritual
00:33:04.460 power and that through that spiritual power that they could kind of transcend white supremacy.
00:33:11.460 They could transcend injustice. There was a way to tap into something greater. Patriarchy, white supremacy, capitalism, that by tapping into our spiritual gifts, that was a way to overcome.
00:33:26.300 And nature, too. She talks about her grandmother and other relatives gardening and growing food and being self-sufficient. And that white supremacy may have kept Black people down in different ways, but they could not fully dominate nature.
00:33:45.600 That was one thing where all humanity was kind of equal.
00:33:49.980 So her seeing relatives, you know, who could grow, who could sustain themselves without
00:33:56.000 buying things, for example, that that was a way to do that.
00:34:01.200 So I answered your question.
00:34:03.520 But oh, I mean, yes.
00:34:04.900 And also so many more good things to think about with a writer like that.
00:34:09.940 Every everything you say, I'm like, I have 17 more questions.
00:34:12.740 Which direction do I go?
00:34:13.760 I want to hear you talk about her altars, the way she thought about and wrote about altars.
00:34:19.920 Yeah, she wrote this book, and it's a very well-read book, but it's called Homegrown.
00:34:25.700 The book is a conversation between her and this Mexican-American artist named Amalia Mesa Bain,
00:34:33.640 and they talk about altars, that altars were a form of resistance, right?
00:34:39.180 that both, you know, the indigenous people of the Americas and Black people were colonized,
00:34:46.420 and that includes by religion, and told that their ancestral practices were wrong.
00:34:52.640 Altars were a way to practice those spiritual traditions that honor the ancestors, and people
00:35:01.720 could have altars, and she also talks about yard shrines, in ways that their white oppressors
00:35:07.920 maybe didn't recognize, especially in West African spirituality, whether you say ancestor
00:35:13.260 worship or honoring the ancestors is a huge part of West African spirituality. And African
00:35:19.460 Americans didn't lose that. They continue to do that by, she talks about placing stones in certain 0.98
00:35:26.020 ways that a slaveholder wouldn't have understood. She talks about going into people's homes. And
00:35:32.240 this is true of some of my family members as well. And having all these photos of different
00:35:38.220 ancestors arranged, usually in like a central part of the house, also a way of kind of having
00:35:44.520 an altar, maybe not an altar where you have candles and herbs and things like that. But it
00:35:50.380 was still a way to kind of pay tribute to the ancestors and to help kind of people across
00:35:55.200 different generations know who their ancestors were, who their, you know, great, great grandparents
00:36:01.360 her aunts and uncles were. And so she believed that it was a form of resistance that both Black
00:36:06.940 people and Latinx people engaged in. And she talks about this artist that I had the opportunity to
00:36:13.840 interview a couple of years ago, Betty Saar, who does a lot of work with alters and with kind of
00:36:20.580 ways of honoring elders and ancestors. It's another way also to think about how, like, the ties with
00:36:29.780 Africa were not fully severed, you know, or really severed at all in some ways. She talks about to the
00:36:37.820 altar of sacrifice. So she's in that way. She's kind of talking about like the Buddhist, right,
00:36:44.820 who sets themselves on fire for a social cause. And she believes whether, you know, it was Buddhist
00:36:52.140 monks and nuns who were doing that or people like Martin Luther King and Malcolm X who were
00:36:57.540 assassinated for what they believed in so that's another way the altar is sacrifice how do you feel
00:37:04.300 like spending so much time with these incredible thinkers and try to piece out what really their
00:37:12.420 their spiritual vision was how do you feel like that's affected your own spiritual vision
00:37:16.460 yeah i mean i think i really take to heart some of bell hooks is advice she talks about in this
00:37:25.240 one book is called sisters of the gam that i cite a little bit you know doing things like paying
00:37:31.640 attention to one's dreams this is sisters of the gam she's really speaking to black women in
00:37:37.120 particular some of her books are more broad she's speaking to everyone but that book is written with
00:37:42.560 black women in mind and she talks about the importance of that so i've been trying to pay
00:37:46.740 more attention to my dreams for example i'm consciously remembering telling my husband
00:37:52.560 what I dreamt about and like even trying to work on analyzing them when she was a child
00:37:58.580 her grandmother would analyze her dreams so that's one thing Bell Hick I was trying to honor her and
00:38:05.860 she was really on my mind obviously the whole time that I think in a way she talks about remembering
00:38:12.940 as a way of keeping someone who's departed the earth keeping them alive and I there were times
00:38:19.740 I was so deeply embedded in her work, not just reading her books.
00:38:25.900 My book pretty much cites, there's about 10 books that my book analyzes of bell hooks.
00:38:31.940 But I also was listening to like radio interviews, watching YouTube videos.
00:38:38.000 And so she really felt alive to me.
00:38:41.460 Like I had to remind myself, she had actually passed away.
00:38:45.320 In some ways, her spirit just felt very alive when I was writing the book.
00:38:49.740 And the one thing that I was really touched by is that, so there are five people who endorsed
00:38:55.980 the book and three of those people actually knew bell hooks. Like really, like one was there
00:39:02.580 singing when I mentioned people singing gospel songs to her. One of them who endorsed it was
00:39:08.180 one of those people. And so it made me feel like, you know, those three people doing it was short
00:39:14.360 of like having bell hooks herself kind of you know endorse this book there's so much to learn
00:39:20.360 from her in terms of her critiques of of capitalism i'm i'm not a buddhist but i also
00:39:26.780 think like writing the book has made me more interested in buddhism yeah she's so ahead of
00:39:34.400 her time too in insisting on looking at the interconnectedness of oppression you know i think
00:39:40.880 we get that phrase from her like imperialist white supremacist capitalist patriarchy like
00:39:47.200 let's acknowledge how all of these things form a web of oppression that pushes on us in so many
00:39:55.760 layered ways that just pulling out one aspect of that can mean that we miss some of the complexities
00:40:01.960 of oppression i that's something i'm really thankful to her for because we need to be able
00:40:08.240 to see it in all its dimensions, I think, to talk about it. Yes, yes. And thinking about that term,
00:40:15.640 it also turns like intersectionality. So I'm an education reporter. That's my nine to five job.
00:40:22.260 But Bell Hooks, her books, Kimberly Crenshaw's books, they've been targets of book bans in
00:40:28.600 Florida and other places. And so, you know, imperialist, white supremacist, capitalist,
00:40:34.500 This patriarchy, you know, that phrase itself is apparently, you know, a threat that people want, you know, to wipe out or don't want young people to know about it.
00:40:44.980 This year, that's been kind of disturbing to know that her works have been targeted in that way.
00:40:51.560 Yeah. Yeah. It's sort of such a strange tension between like the joy at her being on the top of the New York Times list 20 years after writing a book.
00:41:02.080 And also, you know, the the more the more we celebrate how important and visionary she was, the more that fascists are motivated to try to make sure we don't have access to her.
00:41:14.620 Yeah. Yeah. And again, this is something she also predicted, really. She talked about that in Homegrown, which I think was published in 2006. She talked about book banning and affirmative action in like all these things that we've seen this year. She was concerned about them so long ago.
00:41:34.320 she knew what do you think what do you think she would want us to walk away with today like
00:41:41.240 not armed with because the language of violence isn't quite correct in this case but
00:41:46.960 what do you think she would want us to walk away with rooted in or lifted up by
00:41:52.940 i think the idea that we can create our own spirituality i think there are so many people
00:42:01.300 who are doing this now but i think there's still people who are kind of you know afraid to practice
00:42:08.180 syncretism in some way so whether that's like hey i'm a christian but i'm also gonna honor
00:42:14.180 my ancestral practices there's still a lot of fear around people you know doing that but i think she
00:42:22.520 would want people to feel that they can practice their spirituality in whatever way most benefited
00:42:34.420 them and in whatever way they felt healed them um because i think her writing her spirituality
00:42:44.280 it was essentially about healing and so when she talks about a liberatory spirituality or love as
00:42:52.300 liberation i think healing is her goal whatever heals you is the faith path you should follow
00:42:59.880 i love that and i'm gonna keep to and and be loud about the idea that like
00:43:07.020 to love something is also to tell the truth about what isn't right in it to have a version
00:43:15.800 of a religion that doesn't let you ask questions about it that only wants to take 10 of your
00:43:21.400 income every year and build a megachurch. I, you know, that's not the kind of faith that I think
00:43:28.000 is coming to save us. I want that knowledge from her to be writ loud. Yes. Yes. You know,
00:43:35.960 I don't want to let you go without talking about children centering child liberation. Can you,
00:43:42.120 can you talk about that a little bit? Yeah. I mean, I think that she, she really felt that a,
00:43:49.240 that jesus or other religious figures but especially she's talking about jesus because
00:43:56.120 that's when she was a child she was exposed to you know saw the value in little children but i
00:44:03.480 think when she was growing up she felt that she had no rights and on top of that as a black child
00:44:09.580 as a girl child she really had no rights and she wanted children to feel that they were loved
00:44:18.660 that they had value. And she had some adults in her life who were all different in some ways,
00:44:26.780 kind of outcast in some ways, who did value her. And he did encourage her in ways that her nuclear
00:44:34.100 family in which she was the scapegoat did not. And she tried to be that sort of person for other
00:44:41.980 children. She believed that adults, whenever you were around a child, you should try to find
00:44:47.540 some way to affirm them, to affirm their talents, beauty, et cetera. And so when she went to my
00:44:54.620 school, there was someone I was friends with after she met Bell Hicks. She was like, Bell Hicks said
00:45:01.920 that I was beautiful and that I should have my hair natural. And at the time she was chemically 1.00
00:45:07.820 straightening her hair. And so she listened to Bell Hicks. She stopped straightening her hair
00:45:15.520 And she was so excited and she went around telling all of us,
00:45:20.540 Bell Hook said, I was beautiful.
00:45:22.420 And I mentioned that in the book.
00:45:24.620 Just share, hey, from what I know, she really did practice what she preached
00:45:30.980 in terms of affirming children and especially Black children.
00:45:35.100 She wrote books for Black children to try to affirm them
00:45:40.540 before white supremacy or colonization made them feel bad about themselves.
00:45:46.780 She really believed in the value of the extended family
00:45:50.260 because she felt like that child would have access to more people
00:45:54.140 who might affirm them in ways that maybe their parents did not.
00:45:57.540 Maybe they were unloving.
00:45:59.340 Maybe the father was a patriarch in the way that her father was.
00:46:03.640 She wanted more people around the village to raise the child.
00:46:08.940 She was really influenced by Toni Morrison's The Bluest Eye, which came out when she was a teenager. And that book is about a Black child who's worth it to question because she's dark-skinned and she's poor and her own family does not see the value in her. And so I think uplifting children, seeing their divinity was another way that she was radical.
00:46:37.400 such a good way to remember the the radical power that each of us has in the world is to stop
00:46:42.960 thinking about it abstractly and just think about how one thing you say to a small kid
00:46:48.200 can spin their whole lives in a direction you know and child liberation theology the people
00:46:55.560 who believe in that are arguing look Jesus was a child he he experienced childhood and he was
00:47:03.800 divine as a child like he was divine as an adult and so we need to look at children as as being
00:47:11.880 divine they don't have to reach adulthood to be valuable humans i felt was very anti-corporal
00:47:20.220 punishment as well and so when she was talking about children's rights that i don't know how
00:47:27.640 much she knew she influenced that movement but some of the pastors and other religious people
00:47:33.540 involved in that movement, they directly cite her. She wasn't a mother herself, but she really
00:47:39.760 valued children. I think it's important, given so many current political contexts, to also
00:47:46.540 highlight that children aren't property either. Parents don't get to determine their identities.
00:47:55.020 Yeah, and I think that's also part of her capitalist critique as well. In a capitalist 0.90
00:48:00.820 society, we learn to look at children as our property. And when you start to unpack capitalism,
00:48:09.000 you start to see that children are not something you own. They are not objects. She believed that
00:48:15.400 fathers played a huge role and could play a huge role in making those families functional by
00:48:21.660 child rearing, by taking care, by being equal parents. She felt taking care of children,
00:48:28.120 caregiving teaches men important lessons and so she wanted men to be very involved in raising
00:48:36.500 their children just makes sense right yes do you think we could finish with would you read us a bit
00:48:43.840 or talk to us a bit about her witch poem oh sure sure so in addition to everything else she was
00:48:53.820 also a poet and she has a book called Appalachian Elegy. In this book, she talks about the way that
00:49:01.740 she and her friends try to honor the legacy of her mother, her recently departed mother,
00:49:09.320 Rosa Bell. Hooks did not publicly identify as a neo-pagan, but her writing suggests that she too
00:49:16.820 was influenced by both that movement and possibly by spiritualism. And the introduction to Appalachian
00:49:23.680 Elegy, her 2012 book of poems, Hooks discusses partaking in a ritual to commune with her late
00:49:30.400 mother's spirit in the Kentucky Hills. In the Buddhist tradition, she started the ritual by
00:49:35.960 chanting, but then she and a group of eco-feminist friends, quote, called forth the ancestors,
00:49:42.980 spread sage, planted trees, and dug holes for blossoming rose bushes in the name of our mother, 1.00
00:49:50.220 Rosabelle. Hooks and her eco-feminist friends operate very much like a coven, an argument 1.00
00:49:56.940 strengthened by a poem in Appalachian Elodie that honors the witch, the woman with the quote
00:50:02.320 wilderness within. In the poem, the wild woman is an aging crone, wise hag, who not only holds
00:50:11.360 mystery, but can stir the cauldron, tend the flames, and carry messages from the future.
00:50:18.500 This crone sounds very much like Hook's maternal grandmother, Saru, a woman more comfortable
00:50:24.740 outdoors and indoors, and who prophesied by interpreting dreams.
00:50:29.720 But the poem may also be an ode to the witch generally.
00:50:32.440 For Hook's view, the Salem witch trials is, quote, an extreme expression of patriarchal
00:50:38.640 society's persecution of women, and a message to all women that unless they remain within
00:50:45.120 passive subordinate roles, they would be punished, even put to death, end quote.
00:50:52.760 I mean, I like that poem so much that it could possibly be about her grandmother,
00:50:58.080 the witch generally, and that, yeah, that it was moved to comment on the Salem witch trials and
00:51:04.100 what they signified about women. And even today, what happens when women, you know, 1.00
00:51:09.460 get out of line quote unquote such a powerful way for us all to remember 1.00
00:51:16.140 that one that that message has been there for so long so loud that if we step out of line we'll be
00:51:23.580 punished but also that like those those wild ants those those women who were more comfortable
00:51:31.580 outside you know those women who talked to their distant mothers that they've been there too
00:51:39.440 for a long time and that even these like icons of a feminism that can seem very militant and
00:51:49.620 anti-spiritual sometimes that they had at their heart a knowledge of those grandmothers and a
00:51:55.640 respect for a non-violent christianity and a liberatory radical buddhism you know that those
00:52:03.320 those strains were there and that they want us to have them too as we continue that work so
00:52:08.140 thank you so much for your work and your incredible research oh thank you yeah i i i 0.78
00:52:16.180 love reading your your books because it's like nadra read all the fucking things that was not 0.59
00:52:22.800 googling you know nadra read all the books yes i i appreciate it and i hope you feel better by the 0.94
00:52:35.800 way oh yeah thanks i'm fine my my kids you know at that age where she gets everything so we get
00:52:41.460 everything so we're fine we're fine it's all fine just carry on right yes yes yeah yeah thanks so
00:52:50.700 much for your time today i know writing about the the spiritual visions of people takes an
00:52:58.420 enormous amount of reading and work and doesn't make us rich so i hope that you know that that
00:53:05.560 work is incredibly transformative that rescuing and tracing together and weaving together those
00:53:11.180 insights and making sure that that part of that thinker's story is told it's like she said like
00:53:18.680 someone told her that she had the god voice you're like carrying through that god voice in her and
00:53:24.640 that i think is is transformative work so i hope that you know we appreciate you and thanks for 0.85
00:53:30.080 coming on the podcast again and bless it fucking me and thank you so much for having me 0.99
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