Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - October 17, 2023


Ask Three, Then Me

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53 minutes

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8,711

Sentence count

863

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33

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71

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32

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00:02:39.400 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.
00:02:40.880 I'm Jacqueline Novak.
00:02:41.940 And this is Poog, an ongoing conversation about wellness between two obsessive friends.
00:02:46.660 Two untamable intellects.
00:02:48.520 This is our hobby. 0.97
00:02:49.360 This is our hell.
00:02:50.220 This is our naked desire for free products.
00:02:52.540 This is Hoog.
00:02:53.900 Today's topic, loosely speaking,
00:02:55.780 microfiche, nonstick, bigger than a bread box.
00:03:02.820 Good morning.
00:03:04.160 By the way, here I am.
00:03:05.540 Ding dong, here I am in my cup.
00:03:07.640 This is not coffee.
00:03:08.860 It's Broto Bone Broth.
00:03:10.280 That looks like Le Creuset.
00:03:12.120 What's Le Creuset? 0.99
00:03:13.980 I've got Broto Bone Broth.
00:03:15.120 Kate, it's Le. 0.91
00:03:16.460 Le.
00:03:16.860 What'd I say?
00:03:17.480 Lou?
00:03:18.280 You said le, le, le.
00:03:19.960 Le.
00:03:20.540 Le.
00:03:20.920 You know I don't do French.
00:03:22.240 Le Cousé.
00:03:22.960 Yeah, you do.
00:03:23.500 And I've got Broto, turmeric, ginger, bone broth in here with half a lemon, Himalayan
00:03:28.900 salt.
00:03:29.220 Okay, wow.
00:03:29.980 Wait, lemon in the bone broth.
00:03:31.160 Interesting.
00:03:32.000 You like to tang it up?
00:03:33.900 Lemon?
00:03:34.160 I like half a lemon, if not a full lemon in the bone broth.
00:03:38.040 So here's the question.
00:03:38.940 You see what's happening, right?
00:03:40.280 What?
00:03:41.060 I'm applying mascara, right?
00:03:42.920 Yeah.
00:03:43.160 And I'm really, I'm now using the tip of the brush, the very end where like, you know, extra goop acquires.
00:03:52.120 Totally.
00:03:52.860 To really try to get it to show up on this camera. 0.55
00:03:56.420 And this, all to say, this mascara might be too natural.
00:04:03.220 Yeah, totally.
00:04:04.380 Well, your face is almost entirely obscured by the mic.
00:04:06.640 So I'll be honest.
00:04:07.940 Yeah, but both eyelashes are dead ass clear. 0.99
00:04:10.140 Yeah.
00:04:10.580 All right.
00:04:10.840 Um, wait, well, hey, want to see the, can I read the headline?
00:04:15.940 I'm going to read you the subject line of the email I received last night, late.
00:04:20.640 Welcome to the Breville community.
00:04:22.880 Okay.
00:04:23.260 Okay.
00:04:23.660 Okay.
00:04:23.920 Last night, last night, I was like, okay, I got to get on that site.
00:04:28.220 Yeah.
00:04:28.920 Okay.
00:04:29.860 And, but I'm starting to do that thing where just because it's 40% off doesn't mean I can
00:04:37.340 afford it.
00:04:38.340 No, no, Jacqueline, here's the thing.
00:04:39.640 You know, I have been...
00:04:40.840 obsessing as you know for months now about the bambino i've been obsessing about a juicer
00:04:45.660 and when i was in london i was like that's gonna be my gift to myself after the london run
00:04:50.080 my my bambino oh celsius cracked open still worried about you i had three yesterday jacqueline
00:04:59.060 now the first two were on purpose the third was handed to me
00:05:03.100 whoa okay and i was curious about the flavor okay wait go on i'm bubbling over with excitement
00:05:09.280 no no i just um yeah a part of the breville community i don't have to say and it was exciting
00:05:15.740 because i um you know sometimes a big purchase welcome to the breville community it takes a long
00:05:20.920 time or it's like i'm in there and i'm going okay add to cart boom add to cart boom checkout boom
00:05:27.920 pay now boom when you're doing when you're hitting it in a purchase you're not stalling
00:05:35.220 You're not going back, okay, well, let me make sure.
00:05:36.640 There were two discount codes, okay?
00:05:38.140 40% off.
00:05:39.100 40% off.
00:05:39.720 Let's call it what it is.
00:05:40.420 50.
00:05:41.120 This is called half off.
00:05:42.000 Right, right.
00:05:42.960 Emotionally, it's half off.
00:05:43.580 And let's not call it 30.
00:05:45.320 30% I go, sharp inhale.
00:05:48.680 40% off.
00:05:50.320 Oh.
00:05:51.000 40% off.
00:05:52.800 I mean.
00:05:53.780 40% off.
00:05:54.660 I'm checking my list.
00:05:55.940 I'm counting it twice.
00:05:57.020 That's not what it is.
00:05:57.960 I'm checking my list.
00:05:59.000 I'm marking it twice.
00:06:00.040 What is it?
00:06:00.560 I'm going to find out who's naughty or nice.
00:06:02.200 I think Santa's doing the list in that scenario.
00:06:04.440 I don't think that's.
00:06:05.220 I think it's about...
00:06:06.440 I'm Santa on the Breville website going,
00:06:08.320 oh, is this Santa?
00:06:09.320 Which child?
00:06:09.700 I have something to say about this.
00:06:11.460 Santa ultimately did not.
00:06:14.300 Santa baby.
00:06:17.020 I know.
00:06:18.100 Halloween, let's call it what it is.
00:06:19.720 It's Christmas time almost.
00:06:21.080 Anyway, but...
00:06:22.620 Well, we've now called two things like they are.
00:06:25.260 What?
00:06:26.400 No, I'm saying you've now called two things like they are.
00:06:30.120 Like, you're like, let's call it what it is, 50.
00:06:32.260 And then moments later,
00:06:33.480 You're calling like it is Christmas time.
00:06:35.400 It's Christmas time.
00:06:35.900 You're in an ad to cart, non-hesitation, pay now, you know, pay now.
00:06:42.820 So I was seduced, really, really seduced this morning by a small, you know, four in one,
00:06:55.380 does it all countertop oven slash air fryer slash.
00:06:59.600 I saw reference to steam.
00:07:01.200 To be clear, you texted it to me and I go, I want.
00:07:04.540 Yeah.
00:07:05.060 And here we go.
00:07:06.980 It's from Our Place.
00:07:08.300 Now, Our Place, some may know the pan from Instagram, direct to consumer.
00:07:13.380 Okay.
00:07:13.640 And I do have that pan.
00:07:15.100 Okay.
00:07:15.620 You purchased out of pocket?
00:07:17.300 Yeah.
00:07:17.780 During quarantine.
00:07:21.080 And I went for it.
00:07:22.460 And I've since moved and it no longer-
00:07:24.920 Is it ceramic?
00:07:25.520 Matches the kitchen.
00:07:27.980 I don't mean match.
00:07:29.100 I mean, it almost looks sickly against the current color.
00:07:33.360 Okay, got it.
00:07:33.840 That's something I do.
00:07:34.380 I repaint the walls.
00:07:36.560 But anyway, I have a sort of peachy color that's interesting.
00:07:40.760 Is it ceramic though?
00:07:42.000 It has to be.
00:07:43.460 Well...
00:07:43.780 For me, stainless steel.
00:07:45.260 It's like...
00:07:46.100 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:07:47.960 All clad.
00:07:49.640 I would like a full set from All Clad if they're listening. 0.56
00:07:52.680 That'd make me horny.
00:07:53.920 I don't know if you've ever seen what those are not cheap.
00:07:56.460 Oh, honey.
00:07:57.100 Strolling through the Bed Bath & Beyond.
00:07:57.960 I know they're not cheap.
00:07:59.100 Hence, a direct plea.
00:08:01.700 So, I believe it's ceramic, okay?
00:08:06.420 Okay.
00:08:06.980 I would think so too at this point.
00:08:08.180 But, because they're all about whatever.
00:08:13.260 I need some new baking sheets.
00:08:14.940 They're non-stick, so to speak, okay?
00:08:17.540 The way they achieve non-stick is through sand and water somehow, okay?
00:08:22.840 What?
00:08:23.180 So I watched a whole video about, you know, no PFAs, PFAS, PFAS, PFAS.
00:08:30.860 PFAS.
00:08:32.140 I have a PFA in dying.
00:08:34.320 Right.
00:08:34.640 P-F-A.
00:08:36.140 Yeah. 0.63
00:08:36.460 Is the S part of it or is the S the plural?
00:08:39.200 Plural, I think.
00:08:39.880 Is it PFASs?
00:08:41.200 Oh.
00:08:41.820 See what I'm saying?
00:08:42.600 Right, right, right.
00:08:43.420 Yeah, I couldn't tell you.
00:08:44.940 Couldn't tell you, but I'll pay through nose to avoid it.
00:08:47.280 I know.
00:08:48.260 Oh my God.
00:08:50.940 Teflon, I mean.
00:08:51.580 So.
00:08:52.460 Yeah.
00:08:52.820 So, so, so, yeah, I've already been questioning, you know, realized my air fryer is, it's
00:08:59.880 Worried about that.
00:09:00.740 It's got the nonstick.
00:09:02.320 Yeah, we got to, we got to be careful with that.
00:09:04.720 So.
00:09:04.800 We really got to be careful with that.
00:09:06.040 I saw, again, Instagram, of course, feeding me.
00:09:07.960 But you need to see this oven.
00:09:09.240 Ooh, I'm going to look it up right now.
00:09:10.220 Because you're going to be seduced. 0.96
00:09:11.060 Look it up.
00:09:11.960 Our place.
00:09:13.060 We're like 1950s, like Tupperware salesman.
00:09:17.740 I know.
00:09:18.420 I mean, it's really shocking.
00:09:19.720 It's like, it's like we've become everything.
00:09:21.700 Like literally.
00:09:22.380 like we've come back around
00:09:24.660 like we're just like
00:09:25.360 and this Tupperware
00:09:26.840 it looks fun
00:09:27.820 I'll tell you that much
00:09:28.700 it looks very fun
00:09:30.640 it looks fun
00:09:31.140 oh you know what I'm seeing
00:09:32.280 and there is a
00:09:33.040 limited edition lavender
00:09:34.320 what
00:09:35.360 limited edition
00:09:36.420 there's a limited edition lavender
00:09:37.460 actually I'm even afraid
00:09:38.340 to talk about it
00:09:38.980 because
00:09:39.360 like
00:09:40.300 the community's gonna
00:09:41.900 sell them out
00:09:42.780 it's gonna be sold out
00:09:44.140 oh by the way
00:09:44.780 I sent you a
00:09:45.920 I sent you a screen grab
00:09:46.920 what
00:09:47.320 I sent you a screen grab
00:09:48.080 oh wait
00:09:48.380 a whole chicken in there
00:09:49.100 wait how much is it by the way
00:09:50.140 by the way
00:09:50.600 it's $200
00:09:51.880 That's very affordable.
00:09:53.160 Is it $200?
00:09:53.920 Is it $175?
00:09:54.900 You're trying to call it like it is?
00:09:56.120 It's $195, which is almost nerve-wracking.
00:09:59.660 Really cheap.
00:10:01.720 Suspicious.
00:10:03.120 Suspiciously cheap.
00:10:03.820 Well, I think they're not wrong to...
00:10:06.260 Let's see here.
00:10:07.160 I wonder how small it is.
00:10:08.480 Maybe it's like one of those illusions.
00:10:10.500 Let's see.
00:10:11.100 Care and use details.
00:10:12.000 By which I mean no context clues are given visually.
00:10:16.220 I'm seeing chromed steel is the air fryer basket.
00:10:19.900 So that looks good.
00:10:21.400 Wait, to be clear, when I was talking about the PFAs and the air fry, I was talking about
00:10:25.840 my previous one.
00:10:27.080 No, no, I know.
00:10:27.860 No, no, I'm clear.
00:10:29.000 I didn't want to dishonor the brand just before running to bed.
00:10:31.680 Okay, interesting.
00:10:32.740 Bake tray made with toxin and PFA-free nonstick.
00:10:35.780 Again, we're going to have to go closer than just what they're saying on the website.
00:10:38.720 I'm going to need third-party evaluation here.
00:10:42.020 Well, I really do think that's what their whole brand is about.
00:10:45.220 So, I just would be surprised if they weren't going the distance.
00:10:50.720 like if it wasn't
00:10:51.520 no I hear you
00:10:52.400 if they were doing like 0.84
00:10:53.720 the half-assed
00:10:54.580 greenwashing
00:10:55.620 I'm laughing at myself
00:10:57.960 right now
00:10:58.420 because you know what 0.99
00:10:59.020 I'm about to fucking 0.99
00:10:59.720 maybe do 0.99
00:11:00.320 buy some fucking 1.00
00:11:01.520 buy it 1.00
00:11:01.940 baking sheets
00:11:02.720 my baking sheets are like
00:11:04.980 destroyed
00:11:07.000 what you baking
00:11:08.440 uh
00:11:10.620 well you know
00:11:11.760 things are going in there
00:11:12.500 fall silent
00:11:13.220 well I baked up
00:11:15.140 butternut squash
00:11:16.020 the other day
00:11:16.780 I haven't been cooking
00:11:18.440 for years
00:11:19.040 because it was so
00:11:19.720 triggering
00:11:20.220 um but i'm getting back into it i mean incredible just like i mean how deep you want to go
00:11:28.900 wait i i was feeling grinding using the lima to grind the bone too jesus um okay go on no i just
00:11:39.760 it was i mean just like pandemic like cooking being up at dawn roasting vegetables i made
00:11:44.880 It's muffins, it's 8 a.m., you know, like all of that.
00:11:46.680 I just couldn't do that anymore, traveling.
00:11:51.420 But now, now cooking is coming back to me.
00:11:55.420 It's exciting.
00:11:56.000 Particularly as the holidays.
00:11:58.880 Oh, yeah.
00:11:59.340 I mean, Halloween is here, you know, even the slightest chill in the air.
00:12:03.920 The instinct to hibernate begins.
00:12:06.520 I got home.
00:12:07.560 It was hot out.
00:12:08.740 I still fired up the oven and roasted a squash just because of what the calendar said.
00:12:12.600 And then my house was, of course, overheating to the point of horror.
00:12:16.400 Well, this is why I'm interested in countertop.
00:12:20.080 I can't bring myself to my big, you know, just oven.
00:12:26.160 It's like, I don't know, a behemoth that it's just, I don't know, turning on the oven, creating the big oven.
00:12:36.540 Oh, it's huge.
00:12:37.680 In a minuscule kitchen.
00:12:39.020 I know.
00:12:39.460 It just feels like too much right now.
00:12:43.240 I want to look it up.
00:12:44.140 But then I was on the site and I started seeing other things I wanted.
00:12:52.680 Add-ons to my, I mean, this is, you know, option fatigue.
00:12:56.960 It's almost like interesting.
00:12:58.200 Like when they only had a pan, I bought it.
00:13:01.280 Right, right, right.
00:13:01.940 Now they have so much stuff.
00:13:04.240 Well, I would like the air fryer.
00:13:06.180 Yeah.
00:13:06.740 So there we go.
00:13:09.460 what color honestly don't be don't be annoyed but just like the simple like oat one like the
00:13:15.780 kind of disappear one no that one is beautiful i'm not annoyed at all like i'm a little embarrassed
00:13:22.980 that i'm sort of like sucked in by the lavender yeah you know what i mean no but wait let me just
00:13:28.520 see it after selling out in less than a week oh oh i sent you a screen grab this morning
00:13:34.060 because you sent me
00:13:36.420 oh yeah
00:13:36.800 you know
00:13:37.420 into a panic
00:13:38.860 what canola oil
00:13:40.380 on your new favorite bread
00:13:41.060 no you didn't send me
00:13:41.860 into a panic actually
00:13:42.700 I was completely committed
00:13:43.720 to continuing to
00:13:44.500 to eat the bread
00:13:45.540 but
00:13:46.020 I thought given
00:13:47.460 your disparagement
00:13:48.440 I ordered to the brand
00:13:49.760 to send a DM
00:13:50.860 and say hey
00:13:51.420 what's the
00:13:52.440 because I didn't see it
00:13:53.520 on the side
00:13:53.940 yeah
00:13:54.380 I had this teacher
00:13:55.980 in 7th grade
00:13:56.640 ask 3 then me
00:13:58.060 she was like
00:13:59.080 ooh
00:13:59.720 your co-students
00:14:01.580 probably know the answer
00:14:02.720 that's
00:14:03.580 versus you like
00:14:03.980 marching up to the desk ask three then me wow yeah it's interesting i believe it so so i asked
00:14:13.040 three before going to the dm and i go hey and i am you know and the laugh was i had to adopt the
00:14:19.620 character of someone really concerned about information yeah like i didn't feel like whatever
00:14:24.800 um so um i go hey i go could you tell me how much canola oil is in a single serving of
00:14:36.500 one of your bread products or i may have said roughly yeah you know because i didn't want them
00:14:41.680 running away not giving me the answer because lack of precision but but and then i go i generally
00:14:47.040 try to avoid canola oil because it can be inflammatory you're trying nothing just repeating
00:14:52.420 what you said yeah yeah and no carcinogen but i love your bread but i love your bread
00:14:58.280 and they wrote back let's see what they said canola's cheaper so we're gonna be
00:15:04.660 no they didn't no i know i'm just kidding i'm just kidding i'm here to restore them
00:15:09.840 from your doubts okay it's so like weird adopting like i'm like question exclamation point like
00:15:18.340 do you know what I mean like try just I don't know I know the tried to submit via online
00:15:23.140 oh no I'm I'm a huge bitch so I did try to submit via online they're like ask us a question there
00:15:31.140 was no email address then I was like it was like ask us a question they've gone under the form 0.93
00:15:34.640 yeah the form was literal hell it had minimum 15 requirements that you had to add in it was like
00:15:40.580 you know like you couldn't move forward without giving your address and like all this stuff
00:15:44.960 So, hi. Oh, wait, that's them. Question. Tried to submit via online, but too many requirements
00:15:51.520 in the form. It was so egregious that I felt confident saying that. Dot, dot, dot. Can you
00:15:57.940 tell me roughly how much canola oil is in a serving of your bread, rolls, tortillas, et cetera?
00:16:02.640 I avoid canola oil because it can be inflammatory, but I all caps love your bread.
00:16:07.680 Hi, Jacqueline. Thanks for your question. Wow. They're right there.
00:16:10.880 Our bread, yeah. Our bread contains less than 0.01 of canola oil per serving. Sorry, 0.01 grams of canola oil per serving. So that's 1% of a gram. 1% of a gram. Kate.
00:16:29.580 What's 1% of a gram? Tell them to speak English next time. Yeah. Give me tablespoons.
00:16:35.900 Well, I think a milliliter of water, a gram of water, a millimeter of water.
00:16:47.440 It's not water to be clear.
00:16:49.360 It's obviously heavier, but oh, I looked.
00:16:51.040 So I looked up millimeter of olive oil because I was like, someone's asking about that.
00:16:56.260 Speaking of olive oil, that's a viral drink I'm curious about trying out.
00:16:59.360 Really?
00:17:00.660 And again, I deleted Instagram last night and let's just say my day is already better.
00:17:05.000 but i um yeah this is one of these viral drinks blend it blending up a lemon obviously true to
00:17:11.660 our hearts olive oil ginger have you seen this no you're not gonna like this honey a little honey
00:17:18.420 in there um yeah then you strain it i mean other people can do it you know of course of course
00:17:26.140 other people can and there are real medicinal properties of certain kinds of honey um
00:17:31.180 Anyway, I've been thinking about trying that out
00:17:34.820 I mean, once the Breville
00:17:35.980 Once the Breville juicer gets here
00:17:37.480 Juice POOG is going to pop off
00:17:39.480 Well, you've been talking about juicer for two years
00:17:41.560 I know
00:17:42.100 And I've always been smoothie, smoothie, keep the fiber
00:17:44.540 But once again, I'm referring to green juice
00:17:47.300 I want to do ginger shots
00:17:48.580 I'm thinking about ginger, herbs
00:17:50.920 No, yeah
00:17:51.500 It's a grind of an herb
00:17:53.480 What?
00:17:56.140 You can still smoothie an herb
00:17:57.880 No, no, but I like a cilantro shot 0.99
00:18:00.080 Like I want to make like a jalapeno, like cilantro, fucking, I don't even know. 0.98
00:18:05.740 I see what you're saying. 0.99
00:18:06.600 You don't want fiber.
00:18:08.820 I do.
00:18:10.180 But I also want to do shots.
00:18:11.180 Oh, by the way, super gut.
00:18:12.660 Came.
00:18:13.560 Have you started it?
00:18:14.520 And I've had six bars and one protein smoothie from them.
00:18:18.760 There are bars in there. 1.00
00:18:19.880 Oh, fuck. 1.00
00:18:21.200 How is it? 1.00
00:18:21.720 Yeah.
00:18:22.500 Delicious.
00:18:23.260 Oh my God.
00:18:23.820 Exciting.
00:18:24.420 They really sent us a big box.
00:18:26.200 It was really just, you know, where you go, this brand gets it. 0.99
00:18:29.120 They fucking get it. 0.99
00:18:30.220 Thanks, SuperGut. 0.99
00:18:32.240 You like that?
00:18:32.920 You like the ad space, guys?
00:18:34.240 Well, let's get it going.
00:18:35.160 Let's get the air fryer in the mail.
00:18:36.480 Let's make sure that it's bigger than a bread box, as I always say.
00:18:39.740 You know, is it bigger than a bread box?
00:18:40.980 Remember that in those guessing games?
00:18:42.160 So it's like bigger than a bread box from the brand.
00:18:45.200 Yeah.
00:18:54.340 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.
00:18:57.720 It was many and many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea.
00:19:03.740 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor, disappeared from a commune.
00:19:07.460 It was hard to wrap your head around.
00:19:08.800 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.
00:19:12.440 No, I am not your guru.
00:19:16.200 And back then, I lied to my parents.
00:19:18.840 I lied to police.
00:19:20.160 I lied to everybody.
00:19:21.100 There were years right where I could not say your name.
00:19:24.060 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California,
00:19:26.500 to interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists, whomever I can to try to find out
00:19:31.480 what actually happened. Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods
00:19:35.840 and not the obvious boyfriend? They have had this case for 30 years. I'll teach you sons of
00:19:41.500 to come around here and my wife. Boom, boom. This is The Red Weather. Listen to The Red Weather 1.00
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00:20:35.660 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,
00:20:37.600 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.
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00:22:30.020 Goop just sent us a nice box.
00:22:32.460 Oh yeah, I secured that for us.
00:22:33.500 Goop has been very generous. Thank you.
00:22:35.340 Love Goop. Love the products.
00:22:37.100 I used the entire bottle of the peptide serum and they sent us another one.
00:22:40.480 Yeah. 0.77
00:22:41.080 I want to look at the price of that right now to get horny. 0.87
00:22:43.140 Oh, Air Angel. 0.98
00:22:44.180 Air Angel came.
00:22:45.440 Oh, yes.
00:22:46.400 From Deux.
00:22:47.340 Deux.
00:22:47.720 We love Deux. 1.00
00:22:48.720 Holy shit. 0.99
00:22:49.300 Are you sitting down? 1.00
00:22:50.860 Oh.
00:22:52.140 I'm scared.
00:22:52.500 Oh, God.
00:22:52.740 This is erotic.
00:22:54.460 Oh, the goop.
00:22:55.640 Peptide serum is 150 USD.
00:22:58.740 No. 1.00
00:22:58.960 Oh, fuck. 1.00
00:23:02.360 Damn. 1.00
00:23:03.480 Well, you know what I asked for? 0.99
00:23:04.860 There just can't be some alone.
00:23:09.180 Wait, there's something.
00:23:10.680 Well, you know what is the biggest,
00:23:12.820 like kind of maybe the biggest thing that I,
00:23:15.740 I mean, don't be rude.
00:23:18.120 What?
00:23:18.480 I shouldn't say the biggest thing.
00:23:19.500 I shouldn't compare.
00:23:20.680 But a big deal waiting in your inbox.
00:23:23.200 Yeah.
00:23:24.840 Lima.
00:23:26.260 Oh.
00:23:27.180 Skincare. 1.00
00:23:27.640 Don't.
00:23:28.200 It's coming? 1.00
00:23:29.280 Bitch. 1.00
00:23:29.820 It should have arrived. 1.00
00:23:31.260 Don't go.
00:23:32.660 Don't go playing with my heart.
00:23:33.500 You need to know why.
00:23:34.680 I've got a pile there in the corner.
00:23:38.600 By the way, it has to be Lima October because I completely fell off.
00:23:42.840 Yeah.
00:23:43.380 I still want it.
00:23:44.480 And wait, here's a question because I wanted to beg for, but you own it, the Pure Lift,
00:23:48.580 but you're not using it, the Skin Gym Pure Lift.
00:23:50.240 I paid for it.
00:23:50.880 Yeah, but you're not using it?
00:23:52.160 I actually moved it into the shower as an experiment to see if I could get on it.
00:23:56.260 Are you supposed to have that in the shower?
00:23:57.820 I'm a little worried suddenly.
00:23:59.760 Well, battery-operated things.
00:24:02.480 It's not about that.
00:24:03.480 It's not about the battery.
00:24:04.080 closed loop. I mean, am I
00:24:06.140 wrong? I would look it up.
00:24:08.840 I'm looking up pure left in the shower.
00:24:09.940 It might not be great for the thing, but
00:24:11.480 some say it's not great for my iPhone.
00:24:14.120 But here's my question. Are you using it?
00:24:17.740 I've
00:24:18.220 fallen off a bit due to...
00:24:21.580 Wait,
00:24:22.540 hold on. I just want to tell you.
00:24:23.940 I want to explain why I'm personally
00:24:25.920 excited about Lima Skin Care.
00:24:28.920 About Lima Skin Care?
00:24:29.860 The only unpaid brand shills.
00:24:33.000 Okay.
00:24:33.880 I know.
00:24:34.420 The only not-nad brand shills left in this business is us.
00:24:38.120 Okay, you ready?
00:24:39.480 Yes.
00:24:40.320 Let's see.
00:24:40.900 Okay, okay, okay. 1.00
00:24:42.060 You're going to die. 0.99
00:24:42.760 Okay. 0.99
00:24:43.420 Oh, my God.
00:24:44.100 Now, and by the way, absolutely, I mean, absolutely unaffordable.
00:24:48.820 I have one chance to use it the free that they got.
00:24:51.600 Yeah, we want to be clear.
00:24:52.640 Never again.
00:24:52.840 Yeah.
00:24:53.300 Never again. 1.00
00:24:54.740 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:24:54.880 I mean, I cannot buy it. 1.00
00:24:56.660 Yeah.
00:24:57.520 Because it's, well, similar to Bader.
00:25:01.020 Like, I got it from my mom.
00:25:02.700 Bader's really, I have to say, Bader, and I'll say this because they never sent.
00:25:06.580 Yeah. 1.00
00:25:07.300 It's bullshit, honey. 1.00
00:25:08.840 Everyone knows. 1.00
00:25:09.900 Oh, sweetie, everyone knows.
00:25:12.360 I'll laugh at you.
00:25:13.620 You didn't send.
00:25:14.320 I received the box.
00:25:15.600 I wouldn't be doing this.
00:25:16.500 But we laugh at you because everyone's been debunking Bader.
00:25:19.300 Remember when I debunked Bader early?
00:25:21.340 It's when you revealed it as Nivea.
00:25:23.160 That the TCM complex. 0.99
00:25:24.480 It's Nivea with a shot of semen in it. 0.90
00:25:26.240 So that's not totally true. 0.95
00:25:27.040 That was a, that was a, you wish.
00:25:30.960 Okay.
00:25:31.300 Some peptides.
00:25:32.460 Okay.
00:25:32.700 Like, no, no, the T, my, my, what's suspicious that the TCM, you know, 8476 complex, which
00:25:40.160 is the ingredient that makes it that the rest of the products, that the rest of the ingredients
00:25:44.380 are carrying like the true active or the thing that isn't in other skincare that like if
00:25:50.720 the Bader has, you know, squalane and da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, plus TCM, like
00:25:56.800 there are other moisturizers that have all those other things.
00:25:59.300 So the TCM is in theory what you're paying for.
00:26:01.100 Okay.
00:26:01.360 Got it.
00:26:01.680 Got it.
00:26:01.980 are you googling it no do you want me to okay no so so I tried to find out what's the TCM
00:26:10.040 complex okay and I thought it was going to be some kind of technological breakthrough some
00:26:15.680 kind of biochemistry breakthrough and because as we all know you know Bader came about from burn
00:26:23.680 burn victims right I'd like to look I don't need to be at the library I mean that was the thing
00:26:28.420 microfiche looking at the history of this and making sure this is adequate
00:26:31.880 or accurate rather yeah so you're late at night the library's closing you turn over your shoulder
00:26:38.700 you got to go ma'am but i'm so close to solving the case all right yeah um your husband taking
00:26:45.620 the taking the uh taking the kids to my mom's yeah yeah because you've become consumed with
00:26:50.540 the case they've been firebombing our house because oh it's so you know so many movies all
00:26:54.660 Right. So I think it's me spinning around the chair.
00:26:59.540 Take the kids to my mother's.
00:27:00.980 Right.
00:27:01.760 Knowing that I know I was trying to invert.
00:27:03.700 I was trying to invert because it's always the man hero who's really lost in the case.
00:27:09.300 And then, well, by the way, it's like, I'm taking the kids to my mom's.
00:27:12.180 It's not safe here anymore.
00:27:13.260 You're gone, Jerry.
00:27:14.680 Yeah, totally.
00:27:16.080 You're here, but you're not here.
00:27:17.720 Yeah.
00:27:18.980 It's like, well, duh.
00:27:20.020 join the club so wait take me back because i know i was rabidly excited about something
00:27:26.320 tcm all right so it was like it was like they broke it down and it was like a series of ingredients
00:27:33.060 just being called tcm you know what i mean this is how they get you so so it's sort of like where's
00:27:40.360 the where's the wonder item okay so and my mom was like and i've gotten her beta a few times right
00:27:48.100 but not every month
00:27:50.320 you know
00:27:51.260 sure
00:27:51.820 Jesus 1.00
00:27:52.380 and she's like 0.69
00:27:53.100 and she was like
00:27:53.680 do you have any recommendations
00:27:54.660 for moisturizers
00:27:55.600 other than the Bader
00:27:56.420 like 0.95
00:27:56.740 I was like
00:27:58.240 and I was trying to
00:27:59.820 I mean
00:28:00.180 check
00:28:00.540 because I was just
00:28:01.700 immediately tempted
00:28:02.640 to just send it
00:28:03.460 yeah
00:28:03.780 right
00:28:04.300 drugstore
00:28:06.360 beauty
00:28:06.800 she goes 1.00
00:28:08.460 and then she's like
00:28:09.220 there's actually not as much
00:28:10.340 in the bottle
00:28:10.820 as it looks like
00:28:11.580 and there it is
00:28:13.080 there it is
00:28:13.680 six pumps
00:28:14.340 you're done
00:28:15.100 so
00:28:16.800 right ladies
00:28:18.080 sounds like my friday night all right so i've heard i um wait but do you want to hear about
00:28:27.140 lima yeah go ahead so we can only hope that lima will be like the vcr of the 80s yeah okay
00:28:36.340 spent insanely expensive at first now you can buy it by trading in a lollipop
00:28:42.060 and i don't mean because the tech is gone i mean once they became cheap you know what i mean they
00:28:46.720 We can only pray, but let me just tell you why I'm seduced by it.
00:28:52.000 All right, let's see.
00:28:52.680 Let's see.
00:28:53.360 Okay.
00:28:55.440 All right.
00:29:01.440 This pause stays.
00:29:04.340 All right, hold on, hold on.
00:29:05.560 All right, let me just find the...
00:29:06.400 Wait, while you're finding... 0.99
00:29:07.780 What the fuck are they going to say? 0.97
00:29:09.420 Wait, why is there like... 0.99
00:29:10.480 I have been using one skin...
00:29:11.880 Of how it works.
00:29:12.500 One skin, which is a beautiful product.
00:29:14.320 And by the way, my friend knows this woman, like a gorgeous woman in her 50s, who loves it and apparently re-ups constantly. 1.00
00:29:22.780 She's French, Jacqueline. 0.95
00:29:24.440 Okay, interesting.
00:29:25.100 Because usually they're just like wine and oil or whatever. 0.84
00:29:28.960 Yeah, she was sublime. 1.00
00:29:30.540 She uses it. 1.00
00:29:31.600 Really? 0.58
00:29:32.000 Now that, God, the goop serum being 150, it's amazing what that does to my genital area. 0.54
00:29:38.940 All right, are you ready?
00:29:39.960 Are you ready?
00:29:40.640 Yeah.
00:29:41.080 Wait.
00:29:42.140 Okay.
00:29:42.580 Okay. I'm trying to find the thing that blew me away, which was that... So it comes, it's a serum
00:29:49.880 and a cream. And... Oh, here we go. What does? The Bader? No. Sorry. The Lima that I'm excited
00:29:56.180 about. Oh, sorry. I have one month to use. Oh, can't wait. Okay. And it's here in my house.
00:30:00.220 I'm going to start crying. I believe it is. Yeah. Oh my God. Christmas.
00:30:04.300 So I'm starting to prepare for Christmas now. Well, who isn't? I mean... I know. Wake up.
00:30:10.860 It's coming.
00:30:11.880 Actually, once again, two nights in a row.
00:30:14.340 No, actually, I had the dream, you know, my most recurring dream.
00:30:18.480 This one was even worse than usual.
00:30:20.240 This one was, it was already Christmas morning and I'd forgotten to get gifts for most of my family or I hadn't gotten them yet.
00:30:26.640 And so I was like racing around trying to like figure out whether to just come clean and say, guys, I finally did it.
00:30:36.580 Like my greatest fear, my dream has finally come true.
00:30:39.140 anyway so
00:30:41.620 so here's
00:30:44.020 here's what's killing me all right okay
00:30:45.680 the thing I'm trying to look for
00:30:48.020 the fact that I'm remembering
00:30:49.860 I'm trying to look for is that what's in
00:30:52.020 the bottle is
00:30:53.680 80%
00:30:55.240 active
00:30:56.420 okay
00:30:59.000 most are like 1.00
00:31:01.460 2% this is a good
00:31:03.400 oh Lima here we go
00:31:05.200 oh here we go
00:31:07.480 Are you ready for the, okay, so let me see here.
00:31:15.000 It came with a book about it and I read the book, sat on my couch and read the book.
00:31:23.400 So we've got, can't find any information I need, but the claim is epigenetic skincare.
00:31:33.180 Sounds scary.
00:31:35.880 As in epigenetic modifying how the gene turns on or turns off the different things on the gene.
00:31:47.500 Okay, that's epigenetics that you can have the gene, but whether it turns on or turns off expresses itself.
00:31:53.840 Oh, Christ. So scary.
00:31:55.040 No, it's great though.
00:31:56.580 That's good, but that's what's scary about the bad stuff.
00:31:58.660 like something that's dormant and then you like a wind catches you in the wrong direction one
00:32:03.400 afternoon instant flare-up never the same a bad pina colada and your life's over no i don't think
00:32:10.520 that's how the genes are turned on okay great it's so first skin science to disrupt the ages
00:32:17.640 the skin's aging process by aiding dna methylation and regulating gene expression that's where i was
00:32:23.040 looking for gene expression.
00:32:24.780 Delivers measurable results
00:32:25.980 in short and long term.
00:32:27.400 I'd like to express my genes this fall.
00:32:30.680 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:32:32.560 Instead of dying off in greater numbers,
00:32:34.340 cells are empowered and regenerated
00:32:35.720 for long-term disruption
00:32:36.760 of the aging process.
00:32:38.120 Okay.
00:32:38.780 Now.
00:32:40.320 Talk to me, wait.
00:32:41.140 A serum and a cream.
00:32:42.380 Yeah.
00:32:42.660 So I want to talk to you really quick.
00:32:43.700 How long will it take?
00:32:44.580 Let's see.
00:32:45.120 Days?
00:32:45.700 Yeah.
00:32:46.000 Okay.
00:32:46.440 Days, the bioactive protocol
00:32:47.820 is engineered to empower
00:32:48.900 all layers of skin simultaneously.
00:32:51.720 I want to break in to say 1.00
00:32:52.880 that we got an email from a poog hag god bless urging us not to look into thermage i had been 1.00
00:32:58.140 talking about thermage and someone said don't do it and i was actually it made me humiliated that 0.99
00:33:03.700 i am of the mind that that i was just like yeah kate wants it i know like we want it hello i
00:33:09.140 texted like three like three women i was like thermage heard of it i want it this is how it
00:33:14.120 starts but um no i i really do think most of those procedures they do more harm like dermatologists 0.98
00:33:22.860 should take the fucking oath do no harm because they fucking don't they're out to harm do they 0.99
00:33:28.340 take that oath they should have over over their over the doctor said i will harm you for cash 1.00
00:33:33.520 that's what i should say when you go into a dermatologist because some of these places
00:33:37.000 i mean i believe in a hydrofacial love that okay uh-huh but like i mean trust me i told you i was
00:33:44.080 looking in the mirror i go oh maybe i will get botox right i thought because again i don't i
00:33:48.800 I don't demonize or criminalize Botox, but I've avoided it.
00:33:53.740 I'm scared, right?
00:33:55.800 But I really, but here's the thing.
00:33:57.400 I haven't been lima-ing, have I?
00:33:59.400 No, I haven't been.
00:34:01.180 Are you ready for this?
00:34:01.960 I have a beauty wellness comedy podcast, so I'm told.
00:34:06.020 I don't use retinoid.
00:34:07.400 I've heard that as well.
00:34:08.560 Devastating news.
00:34:09.000 I don't use a retinol.
00:34:10.680 Neither do I. 0.99
00:34:11.100 What the fuck am I doing? 0.98
00:34:12.460 I don't know. 1.00
00:34:13.220 I've gotten it prescribed.
00:34:14.820 It sits there.
00:34:16.060 I fell off vitamin C.
00:34:17.660 I know I have a bottle.
00:34:18.280 And today, I put vitamin C on today.
00:34:21.420 I fell off.
00:34:22.340 Vitamin C, by the way, I was hearing vitamin C though.
00:34:26.480 Potentially a big scam in terms of just that it's more that you're more,
00:34:31.900 the vitamin C that you really need for your skin is actually-
00:34:34.880 If I hear internal-
00:34:35.860 You ingest it, ingesting it.
00:34:37.320 Yeah.
00:34:37.600 I knew it was coming.
00:34:39.400 I think that's the scam.
00:34:41.020 You're kidding.
00:34:41.960 Well, the whole like drinking collagen is going to end up-
00:34:44.680 Don't you remember this whole thing?
00:34:45.880 the hydration from the inside out is a lie.
00:34:49.380 I have heard that.
00:34:50.220 Yes, don't be dehydrated.
00:34:51.480 But no, you need to...
00:34:54.280 Topical.
00:34:54.580 No, of course.
00:34:55.200 But the vitamin C, it's a great...
00:34:57.000 By the way, I think there's also Lima supplements,
00:34:59.860 a one to three month thing going.
00:35:03.020 So we're committing to the Lima line.
00:35:05.480 You do the serum.
00:35:06.520 What else are you adding in?
00:35:07.320 That was my question for you.
00:35:08.200 Well, here's what I'm trying to figure out.
00:35:09.700 So I will not be able to afford...
00:35:11.960 Not to limit my manifestation.
00:35:13.960 okay but i currently uh choose not to or or let's say okay we've got the laser i want to see what
00:35:25.460 this laser does alone yeah right because this is a massive massive massive this is the most massive
00:35:31.920 expense you could where if you decided to say okay you have 300 cream monthly shell out for that
00:35:38.600 take that out of rent money yeah okay then i'm committing to pay that out over the next two
00:35:43.640 years, whatever. That's a serious commitment. So it's like, I kind of want to see what the
00:35:49.620 lima does, right? Next up, the supplements, another thing. And then third, the serum and
00:35:55.920 the cream. So I was like, I forget what I asked, but I forget if I said something, but they were
00:36:04.880 like, they're designed to all work together. Of course they are, right? But no one... That's not
00:36:11.660 true some people can i don't want to try them all have miraculous results and then and then be have
00:36:18.620 to use them all sure welcome to my antidepressant cocktail yeah you know what i mean yeah too afraid
00:36:23.440 to remove one because you never know totally because the three have worked for 20 years yeah
00:36:28.700 why would you except for the occasional listeners know by the way i'm leaving right now obviously
00:36:36.580 you can see i have to get back on the lima i have to get back on the lima i missed my my dennis
00:36:40.580 gross light mask my zipping i did bring the zip with me for acne it's unbelievable interesting
00:36:45.980 that you you chose to don't get me started i i was laying in bed the other night going the lima is
00:36:53.520 small you could have been limaing you could have been limaing the whole trip i was pretty surprised
00:36:58.520 you didn't take it i can't talk about it you know what i've almost started doing what and i'm pretty
00:37:02.920 close to it taking it to the movies okay because you can't i don't think that's polite to the 0.95
00:37:10.420 other moviegoers you bitch i'm the most polite moviegoer there's ever been okay i look over i 0.99
00:37:16.960 see a light no you won't actually right you're right you won't fucking see it you know you know 0.99
00:37:20.560 why but jacklyn after first of all after 45 minutes the the result like you're not doing 0.89
00:37:25.380 anything i actually recall reading that more is more no up until a point honey i think i said the
00:37:31.640 yeah where are you getting that the lima's information pamphlet honey i believe oh here
00:37:39.740 I think they go up to 45 minutes after that.
00:37:42.300 No like perceivable at that point until like you do it.
00:37:45.920 It's not going to hurt you,
00:37:46.960 but it's like the 45 minute mark is like,
00:37:49.100 whoa,
00:37:49.580 max.
00:37:50.060 And then after that,
00:37:50.820 like,
00:37:51.040 it's kind of like,
00:37:51.680 you're kind of just waving that thing around for no reason.
00:37:54.860 I,
00:37:55.140 I,
00:37:55.640 I'm not sure.
00:37:56.920 I'm pretty sure I saw a thing.
00:37:58.580 I read it cover to cover.
00:38:00.180 It's dog-eared and spine is broken.
00:38:02.200 By the way,
00:38:02.600 when they,
00:38:03.040 cause when you get your Lima folks,
00:38:04.340 this is a top shelf,
00:38:05.760 top shelf item,
00:38:06.840 a bound book with skin information.
00:38:08.800 Yeah.
00:38:09.740 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.
00:38:21.880 It was many and many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea.
00:38:27.200 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor, disappeared from a commune.
00:38:31.080 It was hard to wrap your head around.
00:38:32.420 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.
00:38:35.700 So no, I am not your guru.
00:38:39.740 And back then, I lied to my parents, I lied to police, I lied to everybody.
00:38:44.720 There were years, writer, where I could not say your name.
00:38:47.700 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California, interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists, whomever I can, to try to find out what actually happened.
00:38:56.540 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods and not the obvious boyfriend?
00:39:01.120 They have had this case for 30 years. 0.95
00:39:04.060 I'll teach you sons of a** to come around here and my wife. 0.90
00:39:07.100 Boom, boom. 0.97
00:39:08.160 This is The Red Weather.
00:39:11.240 Listen to The Red Weather on the iHeartRadio app,
00:39:13.980 Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:39:19.000 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield, from The Girlfriends,
00:39:22.500 the number one hit true crime show
00:39:24.820 that puts women right in the center of their own stories.
00:39:28.680 I'm back with more one-off interviews 1.00
00:39:31.080 with some truly kick-ass women on The Girlfriends Spotlight. 1.00
00:39:36.080 I want to introduce you to Sylvia.
00:39:38.520 I'm going to climb this.
00:39:40.940 And then there's Vaisaka.
00:39:43.020 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.
00:39:47.120 Leila dared to ask the question.
00:39:49.600 Is badness hereditary?
00:39:51.620 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.
00:39:53.760 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,
00:39:56.580 she wouldn't have died on that fatal night.
00:39:59.500 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,
00:40:01.220 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.
00:40:03.920 I'm not too intimidated by her.
00:40:05.680 What are you talking about? 1.00
00:40:08.560 Listen to The Girlfriend Spotlight on the iHeartRadio app, 1.00
00:40:12.040 Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:40:20.020 Crook and Chase Nashville chats with the true-life adventures
00:40:23.040 of hot new country star Hudson Westbrook.
00:40:25.000 Early in his career, he shocked his mom more than once,
00:40:28.200 and we even shocked him on what we had to do to get to visit with him.
00:40:32.660 I've seen some people do some crazy things, but nothing like that.
00:40:35.720 Plus, what Hudson almost had in common with Billy Bob Thornton.
00:40:39.620 Crook and Chase Nashville Chats with Hudson Westbrook.
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00:40:48.500 Ever feel like you're being chased by the marriage police?
00:40:52.500 Welcome to Boys and Girls, the podcast where dating isn't dating.
00:40:56.340 It's a full-on love triathlon.
00:40:58.220 A morning what if, an evening maybe, and a 3pm chai with a could this please be the one.
00:41:05.880 Because in the arranged marriage universe, you're basically on a sushi conveyor belt.
00:41:10.040 And like raw fish, you've got a shelf life.
00:41:13.620 And the wild part? You're not just looking for someone you like.
00:41:16.980 You're casting for a mythical hero your entire family approves of.
00:41:20.680 A saint, a demigod, a unicorn.
00:41:23.000 I know because years ago, I sacrificed myself to this chaotic, soul-crushing tradition, hoping to find love the correct way. 1.00
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00:41:37.640 finally giving you the validation and healing you deserve. 0.94
00:41:41.920 Listen to Boys and Girls starting February 19th on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:41:53.000 I almost caved and bought an Equinox membership 0.99
00:41:56.140 because these fuckers were pushing so many ads on me on Instagram 1.00
00:41:59.880 that goes, zero initiation fee. 0.99
00:42:01.940 Have I talked about on Poo before how I got out of my Equinox membership
00:42:05.800 in my 20s, early 20s?
00:42:07.980 Did you claim what it was?
00:42:11.700 I signed up for Equinox.
00:42:13.260 I got some crazy deal when I was like 23 or something.
00:42:17.080 I was Equinoxing.
00:42:18.160 It was fun.
00:42:19.260 And then I go, I can't afford this.
00:42:20.820 I can't do this anymore in New York City.
00:42:22.120 That West Village location?
00:42:24.020 Honey Soho.
00:42:25.080 Can you imagine?
00:42:25.680 I was there with like the cast of SVU.
00:42:27.840 It made no sense.
00:42:28.840 No, no, no, no, no.
00:42:29.760 I remember when that opened.
00:42:31.220 Like I remember the feeling of like-
00:42:32.940 The eucalyptus, I can still smell it.
00:42:34.880 The eucalyptus steam.
00:42:35.780 Because-
00:42:36.520 Dousing myself in the Kiehl's products.
00:42:38.700 Because never before had there been-
00:42:41.120 A sanctuary.
00:42:42.960 A spa-like gym.
00:42:44.360 No.
00:42:46.220 So-
00:42:46.640 When someone creates something to want,
00:42:48.180 it's like life improved.
00:42:49.420 I never had a membership, okay?
00:42:50.800 I only I've never have I been inside an equinox you know like just trying to think and yet guess
00:42:57.100 what I might start begging my life for Christmas but I want to I want a membership equinox though
00:43:02.980 this is this is what I'm doing equinox membership for us for Christmas let's let's go you want to
00:43:08.080 tell me you can't afford it we know you can yeah year long I want all branches I looked it up we're
00:43:14.320 We're looking at $270 a month for all branches in Southern California.
00:43:20.000 So listen, but okay, really quick.
00:43:21.960 When I was in my 20s.
00:43:23.060 Wait, what are you saying?
00:43:24.000 You're begging, right?
00:43:26.260 I mean, first of all, first of all, you know, you and me at Equinox together.
00:43:32.960 Yeah, I'm begging.
00:43:34.300 The video content.
00:43:35.680 Are you trying to promote your gym?
00:43:37.740 We will get up when TikTok takes off.
00:43:41.020 Oh, yeah.
00:43:42.100 When it takes flight.
00:43:43.420 Equinox.
00:43:43.820 guess what poog tiktok still taxing still taxing waiting for takeoff we're at the we're still the
00:43:50.220 jet bridge all right no no no no us by the way takes off are you are you kidding us naked in 0.94
00:43:55.660 the steam room it will be us yeah in the steam room equinox showing out the product tits out 0.96
00:44:00.960 like equinox you better run you better they should be literally right now there should be
00:44:07.640 someone at equinox marketing shaking they're trying to send the email to gift to gift it
00:44:13.160 poogpodcast.gmail.com
00:44:15.120 poogpodcast.gmail.com
00:44:17.200 they keep misspelling it
00:44:18.280 I can't get it fast enough
00:44:19.680 poogpodcast.gmail.com
00:44:21.060 they keep misspelling it terrified
00:44:23.780 I hope corporate doesn't like this
00:44:26.480 is year long enough or do we need to start with
00:44:28.680 five year minimum
00:44:29.380 or is it year long
00:44:34.200 see how the partnership works out
00:44:35.980 yeah so the point is though
00:44:38.740 I would like to be at the Equinox
00:44:40.860 I would like to be experiencing the group classes
00:44:42.940 I would like to be experiencing this team room.
00:44:45.020 I would like to be walking the floors.
00:44:47.180 So Equinox, we would like the memberships.
00:44:51.320 And there's one pretty near me, I got to say.
00:44:53.480 Of course.
00:44:54.740 Although I will say this location, the one I walked by,
00:45:00.620 I mean, it actually suggests that what we really need is a tour.
00:45:04.180 Okay.
00:45:04.560 We need to change the conversation.
00:45:06.720 We're interviewing you.
00:45:10.000 Okay.
00:45:10.840 How's this Equinox?
00:45:12.180 Because if you give us the memberships, we will do a tour on the POOG Instagram account.
00:45:17.600 This is huge.
00:45:18.980 Yeah, I'm not kidding.
00:45:19.960 TikTok, Kate.
00:45:20.740 TikTok.
00:45:21.820 Okay, we'll reach the kids.
00:45:23.920 I think TikTok is...
00:45:25.020 Not just the elderly community on Instagram.
00:45:27.460 Yeah.
00:45:27.760 Yeah.
00:45:28.280 Where we can really just be like, here's a lotion and that's enough.
00:45:35.380 I think over on Instagram, it's about content from the apps.
00:45:41.260 Although we are, we are posting TikTok only, um, TikTok only video content or we're attempting to.
00:45:48.240 What spray is that?
00:45:49.140 I'm stating that I want that.
00:45:50.500 What spray is that?
00:45:51.800 Oh God, I've spaced out and been, been treating it like it's nothing.
00:45:54.900 What is it?
00:45:55.420 It's Lima.
00:45:56.200 It's the oxygenating mist.
00:45:58.420 But I feel like I can, I can sub that in.
00:46:01.560 Wait, wait, but wait, wait, Equinox, wait.
00:46:03.800 Oh, but I walked by one location and I must say.
00:46:07.160 Say it.
00:46:08.040 There are windows.
00:46:09.140 Uh-oh.
00:46:10.280 Big windows.
00:46:11.260 And it was sort of like an office building looking location.
00:46:15.340 And I just saw treadmill, treadmills, like Stairmasters, ellipticals.
00:46:20.700 And I saw some overhead lighting that was not what I associated with the Equinox front.
00:46:25.360 Like I was like, that looks like a nightmare.
00:46:28.080 Now, maybe you get in there in the steam and the scent and the whole thing.
00:46:31.420 Yeah.
00:46:31.840 So I'm excited to explore Hollywood and Pasadena.
00:46:36.140 I dare Equinox.
00:46:38.260 To prove us wrong.
00:46:39.040 To prove me wrong.
00:46:39.780 Totally.
00:46:40.360 Take us on the tour.
00:46:41.600 Yeah.
00:46:42.380 Ooh, we've got a challenge here.
00:46:43.760 One-year membership.
00:46:44.700 Well, it's definitely one-year men.
00:46:47.780 Okay, that's a big, big, that's a big, big we've got in the, we've got, I want the new
00:46:52.820 zip, I want an Equinox membership.
00:46:55.900 Yeah.
00:46:56.840 Those are the big items right now.
00:46:58.020 I want, I mean, I wonder if our place, so does our place understand, it's easier to
00:47:02.780 just, instead of composing emails, you need to just say it here and send us the time code.
00:47:06.400 Am I right?
00:47:07.540 It's like, it's like.
00:47:09.780 I have gone down a new path of, you know, the algorithm has told me to be afraid of forever plastics and I do what the algorithm says.
00:47:21.020 And so now I'm interested in replacing my air fryer with a top of the counter, perhaps lavender.
00:47:30.560 I think I want lavender.
00:47:31.560 We like what we see. We're excited by it.
00:47:33.080 It'll blend into my pink kitchen.
00:47:34.880 And I also want the steamer baskets to go to my traditional hour place.
00:47:38.900 I would love to have fun with the air fryer this fall.
00:47:43.980 That's all I'll say.
00:47:44.960 Well, you toss broccolini with olive oil, salt and pepper, throw it in.
00:47:52.440 It's crazy.
00:47:53.560 Five minutes later, it comes out just like ready.
00:47:54.820 That's crazy what I'm hearing.
00:47:56.480 I can't believe this.
00:47:57.600 I've seen the recipes.
00:47:58.600 You know what I saw someone do?
00:48:00.080 They're like the best way to make nachos is in an air fryer.
00:48:02.800 Imagine.
00:48:03.300 Oh, I've been served that as well.
00:48:06.160 It's like a tower.
00:48:07.400 Yeah.
00:48:07.600 Yeah.
00:48:08.900 We still have to do keto nacho night.
00:48:11.700 Well, we're in a whole new world.
00:48:14.800 I mean, I'm very excited about this bread,
00:48:17.860 particularly now that I know it's 0.01 canola.
00:48:20.860 Oh, no, I never finished it.
00:48:22.480 Wait, wait, this is key.
00:48:23.920 Okay.
00:48:25.040 This is huge.
00:48:26.780 It blew me away.
00:48:28.520 Are you ready?
00:48:29.300 So the end of their thing.
00:48:30.220 So Hydrala contains less than 0.01 of canola per serving.
00:48:35.220 Are you ready for this?
00:48:36.280 I'm feeling like the prick of tears.
00:48:38.260 You know what I mean?
00:48:38.740 that feeling.
00:48:40.420 Okay.
00:48:41.480 Okay, you ready?
00:48:42.180 Additionally,
00:48:42.760 we've received a lot of feedback
00:48:44.040 from our customers
00:48:44.800 about our use of canola oil.
00:48:46.240 So we are actively
00:48:47.560 looking into alternatives.
00:48:49.420 Stay tuned for updates.
00:48:50.520 How about avocado oil?
00:48:51.880 How about coconut oil?
00:48:53.100 How about ghee? 1.00
00:48:55.020 Fuck, I'll take olive oil. 1.00
00:48:55.940 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:48:57.020 Yeah.
00:48:57.340 Isn't that really impresses me
00:48:59.260 versus the scared
00:49:00.500 defensive reaction
00:49:01.640 you see from 1.00
00:49:02.220 Actually, bitch. 1.00
00:49:03.480 Yeah. 1.00
00:49:03.940 Yeah.
00:49:04.520 Our in-house scientist,
00:49:06.480 doctor,
00:49:06.800 couldn't improvise a last name there rusty you know let's just call it like like we see it the
00:49:15.600 ability to improvise a last name has the lovest form of comedy yeah held a held held it too long
00:49:23.880 been lauded in the comedy community as a skill yeah dr armra okay um i have to go i have to get
00:49:31.720 in my car i have been needing these are the kind of things that crush me i have been needing
00:49:36.400 windshield wiper fluid
00:49:39.000 for about three months.
00:49:40.960 I've gone to two gas stations. They go,
00:49:42.660 we don't have that here. What?
00:49:44.560 How am I supposed to live? Here comes a sneeze.
00:49:48.540 Here comes a sneeze. It's mounting.
00:49:50.720 It's mounting.
00:49:51.360 See what that is?
00:49:52.600 It's us, baby.
00:49:54.700 Yeah, I have a personal poster.
00:49:56.340 So cute.
00:49:57.700 I bet the fans will be interested
00:49:59.740 and sign one of those.
00:50:01.560 I have to run out
00:50:03.560 so I'm not late to my meeting.
00:50:06.400 Okay, love you.
00:50:07.680 Bye, love you.
00:50:08.600 Bye.
00:50:11.740 That was POOG.
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00:50:17.860 If not, we will press charges.
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00:50:28.320 the host of The Girlfriends.
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00:50:41.300 Let's see how we can stop killing
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00:50:45.860 What are you talking about? 1.00
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00:50:56.520 Crook and Chase Nashville chats
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00:51:03.100 of hot new country star Hudson Westbrook
00:51:05.020 Early in his career
00:51:06.000 he shocked his mom more than once
00:51:08.140 and we even shocked him
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00:51:12.140 visit with him. I've seen some people do some crazy
00:51:14.100 things, but nothing like that. Plus
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