Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - August 15, 2023


Piano-playing Baby

Topics
leaf blower
P Double O G Give Me 7 Days

Episode Stats


Length

54 minutes

Words per minute

171.09

Word count

9,321

Sentence count

560

Harmful content

Misogyny

28

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Toxicity

127

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Hate speech

63

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Transcript

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00:00:34.560 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.
00:00:38.180 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Traynor, disappeared from a commune.
00:00:42.080 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.
00:00:45.900 No, I am not your guru.
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00:01:42.260 I feel sometimes that I'm not listened to.
00:01:44.960 I would just want you to listen to me more often and evaluate situations with me and lead me towards success.
00:01:51.680 Listening is a form of love.
00:01:53.300 Find resources to help you support your kids and their emotional well-being at SoundItOutTogether.org.
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00:02:35.440 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.
00:02:36.900 I'm Jacqueline Novak.
00:02:38.000 And this is POOG,
00:02:39.160 an ongoing conversation about wellness
00:02:41.060 between two obsessive friends.
00:02:42.720 Two untamable intellects.
00:02:44.520 This is our hobby. 0.97
00:02:45.360 This is our hell.
00:02:46.220 This is our naked desire for free products.
00:02:48.500 This is POOG.
00:02:49.920 Today's topic, loosely speaking,
00:02:51.700 rabbit's trough.
00:02:53.020 Don't stare.
00:02:54.500 Over plucked.
00:02:59.120 Hello.
00:03:00.320 Nice halter shaped tank top.
00:03:02.780 Always a good look.
00:03:04.280 It's actually a dress.
00:03:05.600 Sounded false, but.
00:03:07.360 Oh, wow.
00:03:08.300 It's an Eckhaus Lada dress.
00:03:10.080 Excuse me?
00:03:11.200 Shout out.
00:03:12.180 Wow.
00:03:13.000 It was a gift.
00:03:13.920 I think I.
00:03:14.460 From the designers.
00:03:15.200 Would want one too.
00:03:17.640 No, I don't.
00:03:18.440 I don't mean that I could get one in this way.
00:03:20.480 I just.
00:03:21.440 I'm sure you could.
00:03:22.280 Yeah, it looks really.
00:03:23.020 like a nice
00:03:23.760 Zoe Lada 0.99
00:03:24.300 is a poo guy 0.99
00:03:25.020 it's actually one of the 1.00
00:03:25.860 greatest necklines on me
00:03:27.060 the one that's
00:03:27.820 draped across you
00:03:28.640 right now 0.63
00:03:29.200 yeah
00:03:29.720 no I know
00:03:30.260 it's really
00:03:30.780 it's perfect for summer
00:03:31.940 I just
00:03:32.400 it's like
00:03:33.200 it's so fucking hot out
00:03:34.460 I just want to wear 1.00
00:03:35.100 like whore 1.00
00:03:35.880 rags 1.00
00:03:36.940 that you can just
00:03:38.140 like sweat in
00:03:39.120 and then wash
00:03:41.440 and sweat in again
00:03:42.760 sorry
00:03:43.760 I just
00:03:44.720 I'm literally looking
00:03:45.760 to see if I can get
00:03:46.480 some Celsius delivered
00:03:47.620 stat
00:03:48.480 really
00:03:49.300 I ran out
00:03:50.220 I ran out
00:03:50.960 and I just want
00:03:52.120 something cold
00:03:52.860 crisp and refreshing. I could do a Celsius right now. I'm feeling my, well, here's what I've been
00:03:57.600 experiencing. Record dehydration, record temperatures, seating. I haven't had water
00:04:01.200 in weeks. Yeah. I've just somehow, it really is true. The less water you drink, the less you crave
00:04:07.480 it. It's just the truth. Interesting. I was up till 5.30. I was waiting till dawn to go to sleep
00:04:14.640 because- Oh, I know you texted me. It was so sweet to get that text from you. That was two nights ago.
00:04:19.040 That was two nights ago. 1.00
00:04:20.180 Fuck. 1.00
00:04:20.760 Last night was even worse. 1.00
00:04:21.900 I waited till dawn because I saw a roach the other night.
00:04:25.680 No.
00:04:26.100 A palmetto bug, a water bug, some will call it.
00:04:29.180 I don't know.
00:04:29.700 And I sink in the bathroom and I was not amused.
00:04:37.340 Okay.
00:04:38.180 What'd you do?
00:04:39.220 So you walk in, you see it.
00:04:41.120 Walk in.
00:04:41.860 No.
00:04:42.600 You freeze.
00:04:43.020 It's massive.
00:04:43.960 It's the size of a young pig. 0.62
00:04:47.440 Okay. 0.79
00:04:47.960 It's.
00:04:48.480 now those are actually not that concerning because it's like
00:04:52.320 those are the kind that come in from outside just like they roll on in they're not like a 0.91
00:04:56.800 fucking whatever i'm not going to go down the roach conversation but yeah still okay because 0.89
00:05:01.920 i've i've had windows open and whatever and normally i'd scream for chris yeah i gave it 0.98
00:05:09.400 out of town and i was like jesus fucking christ and i i had to um you know when i'm looking for 0.90
00:05:15.980 something to kill a bug with suddenly every bottle i have is a concave on the bottom do 0.97
00:05:22.060 you know i'm talking about yeah like i'm like what how about this and then it's like concave
00:05:26.200 or even has like the tiniest bit where you know you stamp it down so i'm looking for stuff i'm
00:05:33.060 like you know it's just disgust and and fear and it's really fear of disgust it's like you know
00:05:41.120 gonna slap they're gonna kill it or try to kill it and it's gonna scamper you know you know
00:05:45.440 yeah and I sort of have to scream my way through it I have to um like like ah you know what I mean 0.95
00:05:54.700 like yeah and what did I try to do I it's always a risk to leave and come back exactly to leave to
00:06:01.260 look for the instrument of death and you know in the interim it can escape to freedom I mean
00:06:06.920 the one good thing I read you know those porcelain they're often found in the tub or the sink because
00:06:13.000 those porcelain smooth surfaces they can't crawl up i forget which one the american cockroach or
00:06:17.740 the german cockroach or whatever and the bathroom is so cleaned out right now i will say uh where
00:06:23.860 there's you know nothing in it but grime yeah yeah no products other than you know like it's
00:06:29.060 a cleared out but like permanent grout i just whatever and and so it has nowhere to hide in
00:06:35.240 there so i knew i was safe in that way yeah so i went i look for an instrument and i go in and it's
00:06:41.700 just the only experience i want to have is instant death you know what i mean yeah of course like it
00:06:49.120 has to be swift i don't want to feel anything crunching and that's why my bug catcher you
00:06:54.260 have to get a little close to it certain bugs it's always hard yeah to kill you know it's like
00:06:59.560 it's not the vacuum catcher right no i'll post yours is almost like for children that are
00:07:05.280 interested it's actually it's a toy for children who are interested in insects yeah which i am i
00:07:10.260 of course love observing the item
00:07:12.160 the cause of terror up close
00:07:14.080 right
00:07:14.440 like it's a shocking I didn't watch beheading videos
00:07:17.860 as a teenager
00:07:18.600 but it's like that sort of one of your most brilliant
00:07:21.980 jokes of all time
00:07:24.120 or when you talk about
00:07:25.740 you talk about
00:07:26.740 I think you talk about in Poog
00:07:29.320 your invention of a book filled with
00:07:32.060 the most horrifying things you're not supposed to stare at
00:07:33.920 so you can just stare at it
00:07:35.120 oh yeah that's like from
00:07:38.000 like early days
00:07:39.760 yeah yeah yeah the book of horror which by the way it exists like meaning like encyclopedia
00:07:44.680 as a child you know you go like as a child is sort of this like you know that sort of don't
00:07:49.280 stare mentality like i know no it's just about anything that is whatever so it's it's um yeah
00:07:55.460 it's a very get a good look very 2006 joke it's you know what i mean like yeah but but it's it's
00:08:03.320 sort of, I don't know. It's one of those
00:08:05.400 like, whatever.
00:08:07.020 Are you cracking open a Celsius?
00:08:08.780 I wish. I'm literally having a LaCroix
00:08:11.520 in desperation to pretend
00:08:13.160 How does a Celsius hit now for you?
00:08:15.200 Is it like you take a couple sips and you're on a rocket
00:08:17.300 ship? I wish.
00:08:19.060 I think nothing touches me anymore.
00:08:20.900 I feel caffeine isn't really doing it for me lately.
00:08:23.180 It's like napping after six
00:08:25.340 espresso shots in a Celsius.
00:08:28.220 Last night I was
00:08:29.200 very aware of
00:08:30.680 deeply unwell.
00:08:33.320 i am as a person i miss you come over i'm gonna pick you up i was like i was like i don't know
00:08:41.960 you you know you can get to that thing where you're like i'm insane but so is everyone aren't
00:08:45.920 i yeah yeah and then you neutralize the like whatever i've slipped into a voice again why
00:08:52.660 do i do this it's too much i will not i will not say anchored in your voice say anchored in your
00:08:59.960 i mean yeah i guess the simple way to say it is up till 5 30 i'm right i mean that's all there is
00:09:07.560 to say that's really no that's a simple way to say it that sucks so hard and waiting for dawn
00:09:12.340 because i was i was just afraid it turns and then you're just waiting for dawn no i mean actively
00:09:17.880 waiting for dawn because i was afraid of seeing another palmetto bug so i was like oh i see like
00:09:23.000 i can't sleep till dawn i just i have fear of them being in the bedroom crawling all over your face 1.00
00:09:26.820 into your vagina, out of your mouth, 1.00
00:09:29.020 and then back to the vagina and kind of circling. 1.00
00:09:32.280 That doesn't even offend me the most. 0.97
00:09:34.060 I think it's more like it's scampering across a limb somehow.
00:09:37.340 If it can get inside, it's done.
00:09:39.040 I know.
00:09:39.520 Yeah, yes.
00:09:41.360 I used to, as a younger person,
00:09:43.660 I identified the fear of the bug
00:09:45.380 as being related to orifice
00:09:48.660 in the sense of,
00:09:50.860 okay, if I were in a hazmat suit, right?
00:09:53.400 Yeah.
00:09:54.240 Well, frankly, if I could feel it,
00:09:56.820 scamper then actually I wouldn't be scamper across the hazmat even that's too much yeah
00:10:02.360 last night I was on my deck not to brag and there are spiders that gather you know it's like that
00:10:09.060 certain hour the little freaks it's like eight o'clock they get horny and they come out and they
00:10:13.080 start doing their little dances and it was like a thing where I was really fascinated watching one
00:10:18.260 again from a safe distance yeah and then I was gonna go down underneath the deck for reasons
00:10:23.660 that are personal turning off a light and i almost walked directly into one you're saying
00:10:29.840 the bug was going down for reasons that were personal okay it was like to know that i could
00:10:36.680 have so easily walked the spider directly yeah at face level in the hair well the hair is the
00:10:44.140 other thing i mean the hair getting caught this much hair it's like in the mop yeah and then it
00:10:49.420 Weasels in there, lays eggs overnight and wake up.
00:10:52.380 I can't go there.
00:10:53.340 I can't go there, please.
00:10:54.220 To a necklace of bites.
00:10:56.160 I'm starting to itch. 0.93
00:10:56.780 A pearl necklace, but instead of cum or pearls, it's spider eggs. 0.96
00:11:01.520 Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.
00:11:04.660 Yesterday, yesterday.
00:11:06.060 This is a good app.
00:11:07.540 Yeah.
00:11:08.400 We're rocking. 1.00
00:11:09.920 I've already said cum and vagina. 0.99
00:11:14.640 And we're only, what, 10 minutes? 0.99
00:11:16.100 Okay, keep going.
00:11:16.460 And I've already stated that I'm unwell.
00:11:19.100 deeply yeah this is great i'm fine i'm a peach i think it's really fun to say i'm a peach
00:11:25.060 i've been saying it recently what does that mean like and look like i like i know i've been a
00:11:30.940 but generally speaking i'm a peach i mean come on oh yeah yeah you know like yeah if i'm not a
00:11:36.100 peach i don't know who is well that's the truth like in certain circumstances you know what i 0.88
00:11:41.900 mean where i'm like i'm like you know whatever like someone's doing something fucked up and 0.89
00:11:46.500 i've been nothing but a peach is what i'm talking about that kind of shit yeah where i'm like no 0.92
00:11:51.280 you know it's like it's like me saying like my partner you know i mean being like 0.93
00:11:54.860 being like about like someone else like being like i'm sorry like i'm a peach
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00:15:14.280 So we asked kids, what do you want your parents to hear?
00:15:18.240 I feel sometimes that I'm not listened to.
00:15:20.540 I would just want you to listen to me more often and evaluate situations with me and lead me towards success.
00:15:27.300 Listening is a form of love.
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00:15:45.920 Yesterday, all launched by the roach,
00:15:50.920 I started Googling and then reading about how I need to clear out brush,
00:15:53.860 any brush, anything like that that's around foliage,
00:15:58.120 like dead foliage near your door might be luring them in or something.
00:16:01.800 And so I went out, I started sweeping everything out.
00:16:04.260 I borrowed the neighbor's blower.
00:16:06.340 I don't know if you've ever used one.
00:16:07.960 This came up last night because my deck that's covered.
00:16:11.640 Yeah.
00:16:12.140 Somebody was mentioning I should get a leaf blower because it's like,
00:16:14.680 there's this tree over my deck.
00:16:16.700 Horrible landscape design to the previous owners.
00:16:20.080 Again, I rent.
00:16:21.680 But these little hard balls fall, cascade constantly on the deck.
00:16:26.960 Yeah.
00:16:27.260 So it's like, oh, you just sweep the deck every day or else it's unlivable.
00:16:31.760 Yeah.
00:16:32.160 So of course I just don't sweep it and don't go out there.
00:16:34.340 If I were you, I'd have the blower, you know,
00:16:36.080 charged and then just sitting next to a
00:16:38.060 next to the chair and you just grab
00:16:40.260 it. I'm going to do that. Like, here's a question.
00:16:42.340 Putting away the vacuum.
00:16:44.240 Putting away the vacuum.
00:16:46.240 What is this? Right.
00:16:48.000 It's just you're standing free in the middle of the room.
00:16:50.440 For years, right? Because
00:16:52.060 I'm trying to encourage regular
00:16:54.020 use. Putting it in
00:16:56.100 a closet. Actually, you know
00:16:58.080 what I did? I snaked the
00:17:00.240 cord from the plug
00:17:02.100 into the closet
00:17:03.920 and I put my vacuum in there.
00:17:05.840 So it's charging and that's the real issue.
00:17:08.100 So it's charging in the closet.
00:17:10.940 That changed the game.
00:17:12.200 Yeah.
00:17:12.360 Having them an appliance uncharged.
00:17:15.680 I got to get back on the Lima.
00:17:17.240 It's been a while.
00:17:18.060 I ran for the Lima the last couple of nights and it's all I had.
00:17:22.500 Well, I had something.
00:17:24.020 It's a nice piece of equipment.
00:17:24.840 I'm sitting on the couch.
00:17:25.220 It's a boat.
00:17:25.900 I feel safe on the couch.
00:17:27.040 It's a boat. 0.99
00:17:27.700 I've never seen like a fucking roach or something crawl up on it. 0.99
00:17:31.060 Yeah. 0.99
00:17:31.780 It's more like I'm on it and I see it scamper across the kitchen.
00:17:35.040 and so
00:17:36.120 I'm there with my Lima
00:17:37.920 just stuck to my neck
00:17:39.680 but wait you're saying there's a new zip
00:17:42.260 which we did ask for but we're now putting
00:17:44.580 formal asks in
00:17:45.840 I've got a knock
00:17:46.580 just one second
00:17:48.060 use this time to order some Celsius
00:17:52.260 I think
00:17:55.580 maybe I won't
00:17:56.920 maybe I'll
00:17:57.560 this is concerning
00:18:00.440 live unboxing
00:18:02.660 oh my god
00:18:05.540 is it something
00:18:06.820 uh
00:18:07.260 poop related
00:18:07.980 I don't know what it is
00:18:09.340 ugh
00:18:11.640 it's getting in here
00:18:13.060 ah 1.00
00:18:13.980 fuck 1.00
00:18:14.440 wait okay 1.00
00:18:19.940 oh this is a personal thing
00:18:21.860 nevermind
00:18:22.300 oh
00:18:22.920 okay
00:18:23.340 I'll have to ask about that later
00:18:25.380 I guess
00:18:25.840 anyway
00:18:26.220 uh
00:18:26.860 uh
00:18:27.960 wait
00:18:29.760 I want to tell you
00:18:30.820 that I took a leaf blower
00:18:32.640 and I blew away the cobwebs
00:18:34.100 and I blew away the leaves.
00:18:35.160 Now, where is the question?
00:18:36.320 Basically sort of onto the yard space.
00:18:39.060 And then I got locked out.
00:18:41.860 That's always fun.
00:18:43.560 What do you do with that?
00:18:44.440 You have a neighbor who gets you back in?
00:18:46.420 No, I call the apartment maintenance, whatever,
00:18:50.020 and they send out a thing and charge you 50 bucks. 0.99
00:18:52.740 Damn, it seems to be. 0.99
00:18:53.960 Then I did it again this morning. 0.99
00:18:55.340 No.
00:18:55.620 This time I was able to crawl through the window.
00:18:58.660 Oh, thank God.
00:18:59.500 That's fun.
00:19:00.460 Actually, I didn't crawl through the window. 0.99
00:19:01.620 actually I would have been an idiot to crawl through the window 0.97
00:19:03.480 I was about to crawl through the window 0.99
00:19:04.680 and I just remembered
00:19:06.500 I just remembered as a memory
00:19:08.920 the image of earlier
00:19:11.380 that I had as a future idea
00:19:13.120 which was I'm about to crawl through this window
00:19:14.680 and now I'm remembering I didn't
00:19:16.380 do you see what I'm saying? 0.99
00:19:17.800 I would have been a fool 0.98
00:19:19.680 because I was right next to the door 0.98
00:19:21.020 and so I was about to crawl in the window
00:19:22.540 and I realized wait I can reach the doorknob
00:19:24.320 and unlock it
00:19:27.040 through it I understand
00:19:28.660 okay I got it
00:19:29.440 I got it.
00:19:31.520 Can you believe this?
00:19:32.580 My neighbor dropped off eggs from her chickens.
00:19:37.540 Oh my God.
00:19:38.340 Buccal chickens and fresh mint. 0.99
00:19:40.400 Neighbor chickens?
00:19:41.260 Like they're living right over next to you?
00:19:43.400 Yeah.
00:19:44.180 Breathing in the toxic fumes.
00:19:45.760 Yeah.
00:19:46.540 That I breathe in.
00:19:47.780 Are they well sheltered?
00:19:50.440 Don't know.
00:19:50.880 I'm just afraid of coyotes for them.
00:19:53.600 Oh yeah.
00:19:54.140 No, that's sweet.
00:19:55.160 I can imagine that it could be, there could be trouble.
00:19:57.540 um yeah i feel uh just so lost without without a caffeinated drink in my side right now knowing
00:20:04.320 there's something missing i need something i need to start doubling up the matchas the afternoon
00:20:09.000 matchas aren't hitting as hard i think it is is it the the summer months the brutality of the heat
00:20:14.040 i need to do and i've been having a little fun playing with pistachio milk and i think
00:20:19.580 pistachio milk probably loaded with guar gums and such you know i did see the lesson yeah who cares
00:20:27.080 I've never been afraid of car gum
00:20:28.800 and I refuse to
00:20:29.860 I mean there's worse things
00:20:30.840 going on in our lives
00:20:31.880 like not taking a walk
00:20:32.800 I know truly
00:20:33.440 we know this though
00:20:34.280 we have seven years left
00:20:35.580 max
00:20:36.420 circling inside of
00:20:37.720 so enjoy the lectins folks 0.98
00:20:39.540 I think it's lecithin
00:20:40.940 you keep making it lectin
00:20:42.520 because
00:20:43.040 oh yeah lectin something else
00:20:44.220 lectin is a chemical in the body
00:20:45.840 or whatever
00:20:46.260 related to
00:20:47.180 something
00:20:47.540 as we've discussed
00:20:49.320 even forcing it to be lectins
00:20:51.260 hey remember we were going to focus
00:20:52.600 around some
00:20:53.120 products
00:20:54.460 some items
00:20:55.000 so you know what we're going to do
00:20:55.880 poo rapid fire
00:20:56.780 because there's no easy way to say this.
00:20:58.380 I got to be off here in 20.
00:20:59.640 So we're going to do a rapid fire.
00:21:00.940 Here are some products.
00:21:02.220 So I'm going to start quickly with this
00:21:03.740 because I think I've mentioned this so many times
00:21:05.960 that maybe it's almost annoying for the listener,
00:21:07.680 which is the Dew Skin Instant Angel Lipid Rich Moisturizer.
00:21:12.060 I love this.
00:21:12.820 Comes in a metal tube, fabulous for travel.
00:21:15.040 It is just so hydrating, folks.
00:21:18.860 And there's no fragrance in here.
00:21:20.260 Wait, is it hydrating?
00:21:21.560 It just feels so clean. 0.99
00:21:22.220 It feels French.
00:21:22.900 I think you mean moisturizing.
00:21:24.980 Moisturizing.
00:21:25.460 Right?
00:21:26.060 Right, right, right.
00:21:26.540 it's not a serum hydration white cream yeah hydration it's an emollient or something yeah
00:21:32.940 and it's just simply it's just simple i can't explain it it just feels we're under makeup
00:21:40.400 makeup doesn't pill i'm putting it on the morning i'm putting on the night i think it's my third
00:21:44.400 tube you know i you know i could use a fourth i actually also really liked their serum okay i
00:21:49.460 talked about them a lot so but hey let's um make sure to add them in the instagram because let's
00:21:55.120 make sure we're getting very serious about this oh you better be noting um every brand mentioned
00:22:01.040 in begging because that's needs to be put in the description formally begging every week
00:22:06.160 i will not be called upon to remember what i want and then this is an item this is a high
00:22:13.320 ticket item that i've paid for let's see this is the second bottle of it this is the skin
00:22:16.940 ceuticals ce ferulic yeah vitamin c dropper which i do think is real and yes high price i've owned
00:22:24.640 to that it smells like cured meat i mean i mean not that one in particular all the ferulic does
00:22:29.480 yeah it does yeah it's not great but dropping this on the face oh by the way ilia does stink
00:22:34.060 without a doubt what smells like i kept i kept almost figuring it out it smells like
00:22:38.780 what did i figure it out it's like um like it smells like something really specific like the
00:22:45.780 shavings at the bottom of like a of like a rabbit's ew home or something it's something 0.99
00:22:52.600 If my face smells like a rabbit's trough, I'm fucked because of the- 0.99
00:22:55.980 You wish it was the trough. 1.00
00:22:56.840 I open the bottle and it smells fine.
00:22:58.720 And we all know the Ilea Skin Serum, I'm completely obsessed with.
00:23:01.920 I continue to use it.
00:23:03.020 I continue to use it.
00:23:04.280 It's fabulous.
00:23:05.140 I just want to know if it's a bad batch and I don't want to bring it into Credo and make them smell it.
00:23:09.600 It's not a bad batch because-
00:23:10.720 Stare at me going like,
00:23:12.020 People have been saying this.
00:23:13.740 What?
00:23:14.200 Yeah.
00:23:15.040 Yeah.
00:23:16.420 And then I would like to lift up Josh Rosebrook, this Daily Acid Toner,
00:23:20.960 which he's talked about as kind of a natural alternative to the walk to,
00:23:27.000 you know what I'm saying?
00:23:27.500 The P50 biologique. 0.98
00:23:29.680 So if you're pregnant,
00:23:31.680 nursing or plan to nurse natural alternative,
00:23:34.120 because what P50 is not safe for that phenol biologique recherche has the
00:23:41.260 phenol in it,
00:23:42.100 which I guess makes it gorgeous.
00:23:43.760 I really don't fear toxins.
00:23:45.080 I guess when it comes down to it on the face,
00:23:47.580 I go,
00:23:48.100 come on,
00:23:49.080 I'm not putting it all over my body.
00:23:50.500 i think toxins on the face if it's worth it a little toxins a few toxins up there what are we
00:23:56.500 you know what are we gonna do live like monks i've completely neglected air quality i've stopped
00:24:00.740 turning on my air purifier yeah due to boredom and a fear of that the filter is not cleaned and
00:24:07.220 i cannot mobilize to find out and to do that work so i'm just kind of breathing in the toxic air
00:24:12.320 yeah no toxin how about it i don't know yeah it's like i don't know just don't really worry
00:24:18.340 about toxins okay great great because if they kill you you don't really know do you yeah right
00:24:25.400 right where are you with cleaning products blueland i've been using they sent they sent
00:24:32.360 um i think a long time ago they're an ad branch basics i like the blueland stuff we have to
00:24:39.360 completely eliminate the toxins right like the we can't be using clorox okay here's something i want
00:24:45.420 understand well somebody fucking explained to me the white vinegar thing about cleaning with 0.99
00:24:48.760 vinegar because guess what your house then smells like shit which I don't love but I saw this was 0.99
00:24:55.920 an Instagram thing that I saw and I thought I'm gonna do that my life's gonna change which is an 0.99
00:24:59.540 all-purpose home cleaner that's Dr. Bronner's like peppermint or any Dr. Bronner's like just
00:25:04.200 or simple just castile soap mixed with baking soda and you make a paste and it like apparently
00:25:08.880 will change your life or whatever the way that you just said baking soda like like it was
00:25:13.640 like it wasn't
00:25:15.640 the only thing
00:25:17.000 that's ever been
00:25:17.580 recommended
00:25:18.080 in every single
00:25:19.380 article
00:25:19.840 I know
00:25:20.420 slash
00:25:20.900 Instagram post
00:25:22.040 slash
00:25:22.820 everything
00:25:23.580 is
00:25:24.260 what is it
00:25:24.820 astonishing
00:25:25.480 it just foams it up
00:25:27.500 it's
00:25:27.760 I mean yeah
00:25:28.520 it's a classic 1.00
00:25:29.600 you mean it's bullshit 0.99
00:25:30.500 well you do remember 0.99
00:25:33.060 a couple months back
00:25:33.940 when I did the whole thing
00:25:34.960 through the baking soda
00:25:36.280 along the grout
00:25:37.620 through the vinegar
00:25:38.560 I watched it bubble up
00:25:39.700 and nothing
00:25:41.180 and nothing happened
00:25:42.560 wow
00:25:43.660 I mean, something happened.
00:25:44.560 Because I watched a little Instagram video of some woman scraping her grout
00:25:48.680 with this baking soda, Dr. Bronner's combo, and it looked so satisfying.
00:25:53.720 I have to say, it got me, I became intrigued.
00:25:55.260 Yeah, but did you see a before and after, or did you just see the action taking place?
00:25:59.020 No, I just saw her sudsing up. 0.93
00:26:00.840 Yeah. 1.00
00:26:01.100 Could be total bullshit. 1.00
00:26:01.840 I just saw the action. 1.00
00:26:03.640 You know, it was, a neighbor asked me about a light inside my, okay, it's worse than that.
00:26:12.020 I'm just trying to decide if there's any reason not to share this so that I'm not, I think it's fine.
00:26:18.140 So I'll say it.
00:26:18.740 And if later I doubt it, then we'll pull it.
00:26:21.180 But literally, hey, I like, you know, not even a neighbor, but someone like across the way, kind of like, like across the like good hundred feet away.
00:26:30.560 Okay.
00:26:30.760 But, you know, you see them regularly because they're always outside.
00:26:33.720 I'm outside.
00:26:35.060 I locked myself out.
00:26:36.680 This is the third lockout story.
00:26:38.640 I locked myself out
00:26:40.440 headed to
00:26:41.260 of the
00:26:41.800 of the courtyard
00:26:42.740 essentially
00:26:43.200 headed to
00:26:44.200 the dumpster
00:26:45.300 and
00:26:45.920 so I had to say
00:26:47.200 excuse me
00:26:47.960 okay and someone
00:26:48.600 who I've never spoken to
00:26:49.620 basically
00:26:50.040 but is across the way
00:26:52.000 had to let me in
00:26:53.700 okay
00:26:54.300 and he used it
00:26:55.360 as an opportunity
00:26:56.180 okay
00:26:57.340 so he lets me in
00:26:58.300 I keep it polite
00:26:59.040 friendly
00:26:59.420 keep it moving
00:27:00.000 like thanks
00:27:00.600 and uh
00:27:01.620 and then
00:27:02.280 and then
00:27:03.000 oh actually
00:27:03.720 I meant to ask you something
00:27:04.920 I hear
00:27:05.540 okay
00:27:07.320 And then I hear
00:27:09.460 I see you do your yoga
00:27:11.440 With the ring light
00:27:12.560 You make your videos
00:27:14.200 I also make videos for
00:27:16.220 I forgot how we said it
00:27:18.400 Influencer videos
00:27:20.240 And I'm looking to purchase
00:27:22.420 I see everyone has these good
00:27:24.660 Lighting
00:27:25.420 And they say shoot it on your iPhone 0.59
00:27:27.440 And I shoot it on my phone 1.00
00:27:28.320 It looks like shit 1.00
00:27:28.980 Oh wow 1.00
00:27:33.280 What do you do?
00:27:35.980 did you start
00:27:37.680 it's so
00:27:38.700 what's going on
00:27:39.980 it's so
00:27:40.360 actually
00:27:41.200 massively
00:27:42.160 upsetting
00:27:43.400 because
00:27:45.080 on
00:27:45.500 basically
00:27:46.180 hey I've been seeing you 0.99
00:27:47.220 jerk off in your house 1.00
00:27:48.680 when you come 0.99
00:27:50.020 is it
00:27:50.620 because sometimes
00:27:54.060 you take longer
00:27:54.900 and I'm wondering
00:27:55.560 is that
00:27:56.280 yeah like
00:27:57.040 actually he needs to
00:27:58.100 really process this
00:27:59.160 because what was so
00:28:00.140 what was
00:28:00.560 it reminded me of
00:28:01.960 Gavin DeBecker's book
00:28:03.180 The Gift of Fear
00:28:04.020 okay
00:28:04.540 uh and and talking about these these men like um you know specific ways of communicate like it was
00:28:15.200 this example of this you know psychopath bullying his way into a woman's home uh to hold her
00:28:22.480 captive etc and him uh doing this whole thing like a series of things that in the moment like
00:28:29.040 were socialized almost not to react to and then one by one like now they're in your apartment you
00:28:35.740 know like yeah like here let me help you with those groceries that cat's not going to feed
00:28:39.120 itself like i don't know weird little things like outside of it you would never anyway what
00:28:44.120 was so disturbing was that i i was just taken with this i was um didn't know how to respond because
00:28:51.700 he's given me something to respond about that isn't the fact that um he's revealed that he can
00:29:02.740 see me up in my second floor window doing my workouts okay i am and so oh wow i am beaten
00:29:12.340 down and i just go yeah it's just a cheap ring light they they sent me i don't know the brand 0.89
00:29:19.640 i just start talking about the fucking ring light yeah of course what do you do what do you do 0.89
00:29:25.180 instead of a reframe of the conversation which is please don't look in my window 0.98
00:29:33.100 or or you know i guess what it is is really like yeah he's across the way so what is he supposed
00:29:40.840 to avert his eyes no but here's what it is if if i've accidentally you know had a light on when
00:29:48.620 I'm working out and didn't fucking close my blinds. 0.70
00:29:52.440 Please don't comment on it. 0.51
00:29:53.680 That was a mistake.
00:29:54.500 Please don't comment on it.
00:29:55.300 Well, commenting on it is wild. 1.00
00:29:56.820 I see your peach ass illuminated by your ring light. 1.00
00:30:00.700 And I wanted to know. 1.00
00:30:01.920 Yeah.
00:30:02.560 I have my ring light going in here literally as a light to live by.
00:30:09.320 First of all, the vile assumption that I'm making content in there, of course.
00:30:14.680 Of course, of course.
00:30:15.740 And he thinks that because I'm making content in there, it's as if he's walked by one of those news studios in New York that you can see through the window of them shooting.
00:30:26.640 So it's like, I'm already public facing in those moments.
00:30:30.900 But I was using my ring light for these late night workouts because I don't really have anything.
00:30:36.740 And I would hit it off the wall so it would kind of be diffuse lighting.
00:30:42.260 and then I would also have my
00:30:43.760 phone on the ground recording myself to review
00:30:46.380 my form after as you know big part of
00:30:48.360 the Tracy movement of course
00:30:49.760 he did not see this was not a tripod
00:30:52.320 up in the window situation
00:30:53.480 and I
00:30:56.160 am not happy that
00:30:58.680 I
00:30:59.440 that I didn't have the whatever to 0.98
00:31:02.240 fucking say something 0.97
00:31:03.180 I know but what are you even going to say I understand 1.00
00:31:06.440 other than just laugh in his face
00:31:08.340 and go Jesus
00:31:09.060 like
00:31:10.240 because that would be too
00:31:13.680 like to be like
00:31:15.160 to joke
00:31:16.000 or even be like
00:31:17.160 even be like repulsed
00:31:18.840 like introduces an intimacy
00:31:20.480 you know
00:31:21.100 totally
00:31:21.780 and now I'm like
00:31:23.460 do I you know
00:31:24.140 and then he starts
00:31:24.620 sharpening his knives
00:31:25.100 he's got a full family
00:31:25.920 he's got a family
00:31:26.900 a guy
00:31:27.860 you know there's a baby
00:31:29.420 that plays out in the courtyard
00:31:30.300 whatever
00:31:30.600 they seem like
00:31:31.640 nice friendly people
00:31:32.880 the baby playing piano
00:31:33.900 on the front lawn
00:31:35.000 your baby plays
00:31:39.180 incredible piano and the joke is the piano is not even not even small no it's an adult sized
00:31:46.100 piano and your baby lays across the top it's cute you brought it out onto the front lawn so everyone
00:31:50.860 in the neighborhood can enjoy and we think you're not a murderer because what kind of murderer would
00:31:54.180 have a piano playing baby have a baby and a wife have a baby and a wife what kind of murderer would
00:32:00.080 have a small you know those miniature chairs that look like adult chairs a full adult chair that's
00:32:08.220 But there's specific ones that look like an outside patio chair.
00:32:12.180 Like they just, they look like the sort of classic,
00:32:14.500 like you can buy at the supermarket, molded plastic, like whatever.
00:32:18.260 Anyway, there's like a small one sitting out there.
00:32:21.220 And so now I'm kind of like, you know, one, there's the self-blame 0.99
00:32:26.060 that I got sloppy with my fucking blinds because these blinds are fucked up 0.98
00:32:31.300 and the thing that you use to turn them classic. 0.99
00:32:34.280 uh well it's the constant thing of like neighbors when you're living because sometimes I hear my
00:32:40.240 neighbors and I'm like well they can't hear me you just have to shut that part down yeah
00:32:44.220 like I hear I hear I go I can hear her moaning but she can't it's like you like you have to and
00:32:55.420 this is like the apartment building next to me 1987 word I think and then you use it all the 0.99
00:33:00.880 time and it's just it's like that's why it's so like sensual and shocking oh fuck 0.91
00:33:10.420 moaning uh like it sounds like yeah 80s pop song kind of yeah kind of moaning is is no no longer 0.93
00:33:23.600 like culture the way it used to be that's for sure yeah i mean i guess it became a joke right
00:33:28.860 And how could it not, you know?
00:33:30.920 Of course.
00:33:31.540 Any version of it.
00:33:33.940 Well, jokes are real.
00:33:36.060 Moaning in pain.
00:33:37.280 Moaning in pain is funny.
00:33:48.280 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield from The Girlfriends,
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00:34:22.660 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,
00:34:25.600 She wouldn't have died on that fatal night.
00:34:28.760 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,
00:34:30.480 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.
00:34:33.520 I'm not too intimidated by her.
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00:35:09.640 And like raw fish, you've got a shelf life.
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00:35:50.540 called the red weather it was many and many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea in 1995 my neighbor
00:35:59.300 and a trainer disappeared from a commune it was hard to wrap your head around it was nature and
00:36:04.300 trees and praying and drugs no i am not your guru and back then i lied to my parents i lied to police
00:36:13.840 i lied to everybody there were years right where i could not say your name i've decided to go back
00:36:19.020 to my hometown in Northern California,
00:36:20.820 interview my friends, family,
00:36:22.220 talk to police, journalists,
00:36:23.640 whomever I can to try to find out
00:36:25.560 what actually happened.
00:36:26.980 Isn't it a little bit weird
00:36:28.180 that they obsess over hippies in the woods
00:36:29.900 and not the obvious boyfriend?
00:36:31.580 They have had this case for 30 years.
00:36:34.500 I'll teach you sons of a** 0.95
00:36:35.820 to come around here and my wife. 1.00
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00:37:23.940 So imagine if I got a brow lift.
00:37:26.240 Is that what a brow lift is? 0.96
00:37:27.360 So my mother, I'll include this in the Poog Instagram. 0.99
00:37:30.200 My mother, my mom will often send me photos,
00:37:33.140 old photos of me, just close up.
00:37:35.180 Like she's screened, she's zoomed in, closed up,
00:37:37.540 screen grabbed it.
00:37:38.780 And she's like, gorgeous photo.
00:37:40.020 I'm like, well, it's from 10 years ago.
00:37:41.480 you know what I mean she sent me a photo of me probably a little under 10 years ago you sent me
00:37:48.120 a brow photo yeah from her she sent me she sent me a photo of myself maybe eight years ago seven
00:37:53.700 years ago something like that and she goes great brows no and it's like back when I would like 0.99
00:37:59.760 pluck them a lot oh and I was like uh-huh you bitch I love you but fuck it's like and I was 1.00
00:38:08.220 like yeah they're over plucked yeah yeah she was like haha over plucked like funny word I'm like 1.00
00:38:13.860 yeah no yeah you better try to backpedal sweetheart because because she and because 1.00
00:38:18.660 what if my eyebrows were like okay this is actually you better backpedal over plucked
00:38:23.180 what a funny word is really says a lot you calling that a backpedal is genius because
00:38:28.340 it is yeah over plucked haha well it's also great is my current appearance it's also over
00:38:35.900 plucked what a funny word almost suggests that it's a questioning of the concept at all right
00:38:42.420 right right right like can something can an eyebrow really be over plucked or is that called
00:38:47.480 being a woman daughter right you know that kind of thing in line yeah yeah over plucked and by
00:38:56.420 the way i looked at the picture i go my brows do look fucking good but those haven't been my brows 0.70
00:39:01.340 in so long. 0.84
00:39:02.540 Yeah, great brows.
00:39:03.640 Now, and also,
00:39:04.320 was this,
00:39:04.660 here's a question,
00:39:05.240 was this,
00:39:05.720 was this like two days after,
00:39:07.720 or a day after you,
00:39:09.060 like, did you have dinner
00:39:09.860 with her or something?
00:39:10.920 Oh my God, terrifying.
00:39:11.560 Have you seen your parents
00:39:12.260 the day before?
00:39:13.280 Because if so.
00:39:14.060 Oh no, oh no,
00:39:15.220 that's really insulting. 0.99
00:39:17.140 She's privately.
00:39:17.760 If so, she saw you,
00:39:18.920 sitting across the table
00:39:19.880 going, she's gone,
00:39:21.420 she's like, let go.
00:39:22.160 Wow, Kate's really going,
00:39:23.740 moving in that direction.
00:39:25.200 Yeah.
00:39:25.460 And then thought,
00:39:27.280 gotta remind her.
00:39:28.040 How do I.
00:39:29.320 Subtly.
00:39:29.880 Communicate this.
00:39:30.660 Yeah.
00:39:30.820 And then it's like, oh, how'd you come across that photo?
00:39:36.540 Oh, well, I searched through the archives desperately for the daughter you once had.
00:39:41.640 Yeah.
00:39:42.880 Well, I stand by my current brows.
00:39:44.920 Yeah.
00:39:45.320 And I see Jimena Garcia, one of the most lauded eyebrow artists in the world once a year.
00:39:53.380 so i'm pretty sure her hand at my brow better than my 20 you know 23 year old trembling
00:40:01.640 tweezer mr tweezer hand terrible just checking out mine you know that butter everyone talks 0.99
00:40:09.180 about it's worth it no what butter a golden hockey puck the beer they have fucking whatever 0.92
00:40:14.800 it's like anthony burdin used to talk about it oh oh i thought it was an eyebrow butter 0.97
00:40:19.260 A puck of butter.
00:40:20.440 No, this is butter you put on bread.
00:40:23.100 It's worth it.
00:40:24.020 It's worth it.
00:40:24.440 How so?
00:40:25.040 I mean, I'm talking about the price.
00:40:26.240 What's good?
00:40:26.720 It's just like, it's like cheese, but it's butter.
00:40:29.680 And listen, you want to entertain?
00:40:31.280 This is what you do.
00:40:32.780 I put out last night, hockey puck.
00:40:35.880 I will let listeners know that I was invited.
00:40:38.360 Yeah, of course you were.
00:40:39.900 This thing of butter, heaven, cold butter with a tin of fishwife, very fancy top shelf anchovies.
00:40:48.640 Yes.
00:40:49.000 And then those are not cheap, if I recall correctly. 0.99
00:40:51.880 No, they fucking are. 0.98
00:40:53.060 Were we sent those? 0.99
00:40:53.880 Their tinned fish are really good.
00:40:55.180 Yeah.
00:40:55.520 I love their fish.
00:40:56.040 And then I think I bought them in a minibar.
00:40:58.180 Oh, yeah.
00:40:58.660 They're doing quite well.
00:40:59.560 I bought them at a store near the Hotel San Cecilia because I believe they were also in the minibar.
00:41:07.520 And I think, oh, get it cheaper at the store.
00:41:09.960 No, I ate them in the minibar.
00:41:11.100 I decided I'll pick more up when I came across them in the store.
00:41:13.720 And they were basically as expensive, which was impressive that the hotel wasn't marking up.
00:41:20.160 Very. They couldn't.
00:41:21.140 They could have like a Szechuan spiced tuna in the can. All of it. It's really, really good.
00:41:25.380 I love eating tuna fish.
00:41:26.680 Anyway, and then a pepper, like a brined, extra brined, spicy pepper. You put that out, baguette.
00:41:34.760 People, you can put the cold butter on the baguette with the anchovy.
00:41:39.080 Look at you, entertaining.
00:41:40.440 it. Unbelievable. I did some incredible work last night. It was simple and my life's changed.
00:41:45.420 Did you prepare a cocktail? Yes. Listen to this. And were you like, I'm going to do this weekly.
00:41:48.460 I'm going to do this weekly. I'm going to do this weekly. Oh, you have no idea. White knuckle grip
00:41:51.500 the whole time. This is it. This is it. So listen to this. You know, you have a party. It's
00:41:56.820 overwhelming, right? Oh no, people, what do you do? You start, I invite them. I have to invite
00:42:00.200 them. And then you spider out into chaos, right? Yeah. Seven people, tightly curated,
00:42:07.680 tightly curated group of seven
00:42:10.180 listen to this
00:42:12.260 I think that's the one actual thing
00:42:13.960 I've never done this in my life though Jacqueline
00:42:15.820 I think if you want to level up
00:42:17.320 socially
00:42:18.720 I think that's the one 0.99
00:42:22.160 sort of tight anus of your 0.99
00:42:24.440 what? 1.00
00:42:26.040 of your so called sensual 1.00
00:42:28.600 love of whatever the fuck 1.00
00:42:30.820 any of this is 0.98
00:42:31.960 is the curation
00:42:34.620 but Jacqueline I've never done
00:42:36.840 a seven-person curated aperitif.
00:42:39.540 No, I know.
00:42:40.200 This is more of a prediction
00:42:41.200 because you just said highly curated.
00:42:43.300 It sounded lovely.
00:42:43.920 And they said highly curated.
00:42:45.580 Okay, and that's where I hear the,
00:42:48.000 it's like this tight knob
00:42:50.060 at the center of the butter.
00:42:52.980 It's like,
00:42:54.200 it's like once you get in the door,
00:42:56.020 you can relax now
00:42:57.100 because you've been,
00:42:58.060 I don't know.
00:42:58.660 You have to,
00:42:59.840 it's the one part I think that.
00:43:01.780 No, but I push against it.
00:43:03.980 I'm not saying open up the party.
00:43:05.520 I'm not saying open it up to a big thing, but just, I just, I don't know if someone's
00:43:11.940 going to, if someone wants to bring their one friend, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no friends.
00:43:18.480 I don't, I don't believe what I'm saying.
00:43:19.960 I don't believe what I'm saying yet.
00:43:21.200 It's not, it's not about the one friend.
00:43:23.140 I guess what it is, is you know what it is?
00:43:26.340 It's like when you are one of someone's curation.
00:43:29.720 Okay.
00:43:30.860 It's like, you feel like you've been brutalized into objectified.
00:43:34.660 Yeah.
00:43:35.520 maybe but i don't think it's that it's more like i feel the cruelty to the rest of the world somehow
00:43:41.540 not that you should invite anyone else well no me too here's the thing and this was very maybe 0.94
00:43:45.580 here's why super last minute these people some of them don't even know each other it was a fucking 0.92
00:43:52.880 mixer i'm sitting down people going you two are two friends of mine you've never met yeah you're 0.97
00:43:58.640 out of town do you know what i mean yeah and and by the way you had oh knock on my door one second
00:44:04.700 We can wrap up.
00:44:05.640 Hang on.
00:44:20.820 Truly, truly.
00:44:21.800 Just like five minutes.
00:44:22.960 Make yourself.
00:44:23.640 Do whatever.
00:44:24.460 You don't have to.
00:44:25.320 You don't have to hide in the other room.
00:44:26.940 Okay.
00:44:27.580 Sorry, guys.
00:44:28.140 We're wrapping up at five.
00:44:29.040 Okay.
00:44:29.300 So, yeah, we heard you tell your guest.
00:44:32.060 What?
00:44:33.540 She's like, truly, truly.
00:44:34.600 I'll be done in five. 1.00
00:44:35.880 For this shit. 1.00
00:44:38.820 Listen to this, bitch. 1.00
00:44:41.060 Tight curation is the only answer. 1.00
00:44:43.660 And here's why.
00:44:44.300 Also.
00:44:44.800 I have, no, I know it is, but I haven't identified what it is that's pissing me off about it.
00:44:48.660 I'm trying to, not pissing me off.
00:44:50.440 It's rude.
00:44:52.020 It's that simple.
00:44:52.860 Because you're not inviting everyone.
00:44:55.060 And here's the thing.
00:44:56.200 It's not, oh, I don't love this person.
00:44:57.560 This person wouldn't be great.
00:44:59.320 It's an experiment in restriction.
00:45:01.340 It's an experiment in going.
00:45:03.300 I dare you call it experiment.
00:45:04.600 we can't do it all
00:45:06.160 because here's the thing
00:45:07.720 of course all that's true
00:45:09.420 that's not what I'm responding to
00:45:11.000 all that's true 0.97
00:45:11.960 that's not what I'm fucking responding to 0.93
00:45:13.820 okay what is it 0.96
00:45:14.560 something else Kate
00:45:15.160 it's something else
00:45:16.100 it's
00:45:16.620 I don't know
00:45:18.100 I'll move on it over the week
00:45:19.180 it's
00:45:20.600 it has something to do with
00:45:24.280 like this double-edged sword
00:45:26.040 of being
00:45:26.520 of being chosen
00:45:27.720 yeah
00:45:29.060 and dance
00:45:29.840 reminds you
00:45:30.380 that you're in a
00:45:31.680 in a tyrant's
00:45:33.120 trip
00:45:33.560 like
00:45:34.940 like you've been lifted over the fire
00:45:37.860 and into the warmth you could be
00:45:40.000 dropped or something it's like
00:45:41.720 it's like
00:45:42.720 it's cruel
00:45:45.020 all social interactions have like a threat
00:45:47.940 underneath them there's a cruelty to the love 0.99
00:45:50.060 yeah fuck because it's 1.00
00:45:52.140 you know 1.00
00:45:53.840 it was achieved I don't know
00:45:55.480 I'm not it's like 0.99
00:45:56.700 it's like those fucking 0.99
00:45:59.120 like murder mystery like 0.98
00:46:01.280 you know you've all been invited here i i don't i don't know i i'm not i i'm digging because i'm
00:46:08.720 i don't know exactly no no but i'm not you are you're hitting there's something inherently sick
00:46:13.520 you shouldn't you shouldn't i think what it is okay because of course invite who you want don't
00:46:19.120 never be pressured i've never invited a single person to my home okay so i'm not of course i'm
00:46:24.920 not like someone who believes like open it up or whatever if a friend wants to bring a friend let
00:46:31.100 none of this I stand by this isn't it it's I think it's just when I hear you say highly curated
00:46:38.000 what's disgusting
00:46:40.020 that's why it's an absolute heinous curation and it's an unsavory suggestion right curation of the
00:46:48.580 human right well no because here's what here's what it conjures thought leaders I have someone
00:46:54.080 from all these different I've got someone from science we've got someone from agriculture we
00:46:58.660 have a movie star we have someone who's inventing the new kind of um psyllium-based leather that's
00:47:04.520 gonna you know or my psyllium rather based leather that's gonna transform entire our ecosystem
00:47:09.280 that's because it conjures that which is very much in the air and it's like a prevalent way
00:47:16.020 to organize people into social i wish it conjured that i'm talking you know why it's yours is worse
00:47:21.740 okay i wish it conjured that yours is worse yours is like i don't like them
00:47:25.940 no no uh yours is ultimate social judgment it is like it is it is like it is like no no they're 0.93
00:47:40.860 like fucking cool actually like the thing is like you think they wouldn't but they're like 0.99
00:47:43.820 fucking cool that's like shit i've heard you say okay okay which is like shit everyone says 0.99
00:47:52.120 everyone's whatever you know but it's not even like i'm not even saying it's not even like you 1.00
00:47:58.540 form hard judgments on people i don't even know what this is i i don't know what this is and it's
00:48:03.220 and i'm trying to figure out why when i am the recipient of the of your absolute love
00:48:10.320 in a real way but then also the love of yeah but also this sort of curational love where you would
00:48:16.800 you would you know i think you know place me at a dinner right i'm trying to figure out why
00:48:22.560 yeah there's something in it that feels unsafe no i i understand i think i think that's actually
00:48:33.400 dropped i don't know here's the thing here's my new lifestyle is it is it to be chosen means
00:48:38.200 you could be unchosen yeah i think that's probably scary for sure rotating the highly curated
00:48:43.820 for the rest of my life
00:48:45.960 so everyone
00:48:47.880 wait that's your plan you just said?
00:48:49.440 everyone comes
00:48:50.180 yeah but at different times
00:48:51.840 first class all the way to the back
00:48:53.020 it's overwhelming as a host
00:48:55.760 to have 10 people
00:48:57.060 15 people
00:48:57.740 20 people
00:48:58.320 before you know it
00:48:59.380 you know
00:48:59.740 yeah
00:49:00.060 seven
00:49:00.900 seven people
00:49:02.920 every other week
00:49:04.500 for the rest of your life
00:49:05.420 sure
00:49:06.640 I mean yeah
00:49:07.320 this sounds good
00:49:08.640 I mean
00:49:09.120 maybe
00:49:11.380 is it this?
00:49:12.460 is it
00:49:12.780 i'm taking myself out of it i'm trying to is it am i reading or feeling your anxiety okay
00:49:21.400 and that it's probably it's a like it's a this is a funny idea but like that like i don't think
00:49:29.240 this is true but it would be a funny idea like oh cocktails at kate's you mean a um
00:49:33.000 you mean like an expedition in in like assuaging for yet for another week like kate's fears of
00:49:42.680 i don't know what you know what i'm saying but like like fears that like well here's what it is
00:49:47.940 here's what i resent i resent the performance of ease that a lot of people are forced to 0.80
00:49:54.240 undergo when hosting or hey come over it's not a big deal meanwhile you're in hell you're
00:50:00.300 terrified yeah of course you spent 14k and these people like and so i actually it soothes me to 0.77
00:50:10.900 embrace the fear and to go it's seven people you better fucking bring it yeah no this is all great 0.97
00:50:21.580 i'm in a bad mood okay and i just want to want to pick at your bones like a vulture i don't feel 0.99
00:50:28.640 criticized no there's something here that you you are you are touching on something that is
00:50:32.920 interesting and is there like it's almost like if you're like um like yeah i don't know what i don't
00:50:40.380 I can't quite land
00:50:43.640 and I don't need to
00:50:44.840 because I'm not
00:50:46.340 I don't know man
00:50:47.880 I'm sorry
00:50:49.220 I feel like I'm just sort of being
00:50:53.500 abusive or something
00:50:54.680 but you love to be analyzed
00:50:57.360 by me I'll say to the eavesdropper
00:50:59.700 you love it
00:51:00.500 it's an honor to have you do the forensics
00:51:03.660 on me
00:51:04.180 one of our greatest minds
00:51:06.520 it's true
00:51:08.800 the insights you've provided me
00:51:11.620 about myself
00:51:12.380 carry them dearly
00:51:14.820 alright well there's no
00:51:19.580 easy way to say this
00:51:20.420 I'm dying to come over for
00:51:22.620 one of these aperitifs
00:51:24.640 and enjoy a butter
00:51:26.840 and I just I can't wait because you always gather
00:51:29.420 it's a great group
00:51:30.840 it's always so fun to go over to your house
00:51:33.220 and just
00:51:34.660 no one does it anymore
00:51:36.260 I can't wait to come over and just
00:51:38.360 you know talk to someone i've never talked to and talk to someone i have talked to frankly
00:51:41.720 there you go yeah curation is everything cadence over content it is
00:51:48.480 cadence over content at all costs um great sorry about the mood i hope you get your celsius your
00:51:57.180 mood's fine did you paint your wall black or has it been painted black like that for a long time
00:52:02.160 Maybe this whole time.
00:52:04.200 Okay, got it.
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