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00:02:39.300 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.

00:02:40.780 I'm Jacqueline Novak.

00:02:41.900 And this is Poogh, an ongoing conversation about wellness between two obsessive friends.

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00:02:52.140 This is FOOG. Today's topic, loosely speaking, NASA Live, a woman and her spatula. Holy cow. 0.99

00:03:03.080 Hi. Hi. Well, by the way, breaking in with a huge moment, which is I just did Melissa Wood

00:03:09.180 Health in my house for the first time in probably almost a year.

00:03:13.440 That's really interesting considering I got a text message earlier this morning saying that

00:03:17.100 you were going to be preparing to come to Tracy with me by doing a Tracy at home.

00:03:20.980 I was preparing to do Tracy at home, but I truly only had 15 minutes where I could do anything because it's an insane morning. So I was like, either I freeze and do nothing or I force myself to do a 15 minute flow.

00:03:32.460 I mean, look, I'll never, I'll never say it's wrong to move your body. Okay.

00:03:36.920 No. So I did the forced 15 minute flow. The loss of strength was shocking. And I had that moment where I go, all right, this is what people talk about. Like you work out for the first time in a long time and it's hard and you want to die. And you go, well, I'm never going to work out again.

00:03:49.120 because you can't imagine that the improvements could come.

00:03:51.940 You can't imagine improvements could come.

00:03:53.340 Why don't we ever imagine that improvements would come?

00:03:55.780 I know.

00:03:57.240 Cumulative has like no meaning to me. 1.00

00:03:59.240 So I'm back on Lima all the time while Poog. 1.00

00:04:03.200 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:04:03.840 I should have done that.

00:04:05.180 My Hunger for the Pro, the new one that's like five times the size.

00:04:09.180 I know, I can't believe it.

00:04:10.060 I think they only give it to like Emily Blunt.

00:04:12.300 It's like the size of a fourth of your head.

00:04:13.700 You have to be A-list to get it.

00:04:15.180 Well, no, it's that it's in London.

00:04:17.720 I mean, it's not approved here yet or something.

00:04:20.020 Speaking of Emily Blunt, Dune 2.

00:04:20.880 I know she's not in it, but she's a huge movie star and Dune 2 is a huge movie.

00:04:24.520 Okay.

00:04:24.920 Went to see Dune 2.

00:04:26.040 Haven't seen Dune 1.

00:04:28.300 Gripped.

00:04:29.280 Wow.

00:04:29.620 Start to finish.

00:04:31.200 Oh my God.

00:04:32.200 I was like, this is movie magic. 1.00

00:04:34.120 Thank God someone still gives a shit. 0.99

00:04:36.940 Thank God someone still thinks, let's get the people in the theater with the popcorn and let's take them away. 0.99

00:04:41.820 went to the lemley went to the seats that are so deluxe that you're they're remote control or you

00:04:48.760 know like electronic you can like go back yeah feet rest go up i was in ecstasy i was like oh

00:04:57.540 my god this is what you do you bring in because i was going you could smuggle candy in here you

00:05:01.320 could smuggle a high noon in here you know yes i had i sent you my picture of me with lilies you

00:05:06.900 were blown away yes it was genius you were you were blown to pieces by the sight of not

00:05:11.780 believe the fun of it and i just and by the way so he's gripped by dune it's like three hours long

00:05:19.880 i i was like i have to pee like i knew this would happen i was terrified i was it was limiting water

00:05:24.560 intake before about halfway through i go i'm just i'm picking a moment i can't and i'm literally

00:05:29.440 have to pee i'm going i can't leave the scene i can't leave the scene then i see a scene okay

00:05:33.300 i'm gonna do it i book it you go i think i know what's going on here in the back row there's a 0.99

00:05:36.880 guy there with his girl he's just scrolling instagram that's disgusting you are sick that's 1.00

00:05:43.400 vile fuck i i truly wanted to slap the back of his head on the way to the bathroom it was just 1.00

00:05:49.440 leave him at home if he's gonna do that because scrolling i mean thank god he's in the background 1.00

00:05:53.440 thank god he's in the background well but he's scrolling and i just i'm running to the bathroom

00:05:58.780 and by the way i had a moment where i came out by the way for anyone who hasn't heard the movie

00:06:03.640 episode movie epiphanies i think it is our pulitzer prize episode and we won't even go down

00:06:09.540 the path i came out thing where i because i i just don't go to the movies anymore the way i used to

00:06:13.820 so i'm spewed out into the the corridor right searching for the bathroom and i one of the guys

00:06:19.260 who works there kind of sees me searching i go bathroom's this way i go i go i don't want to

00:06:22.640 miss a second i do too buddy i kind of had a moment with him i go i go the best i'm doing too

00:06:26.900 i don't want to miss the ride i'm in there peeing rapid fire in the privacy of the bathroom stall

00:06:31.900 Grinning like a child

00:06:33.760 Like a treasured cat

00:06:34.840 So filled with the joy of cinema

00:06:36.200 So filled with just

00:06:37.300 Because I just was like

00:06:38.540 I want to go

00:06:39.260 I was like

00:06:39.600 I need to eject my body

00:06:41.720 Like it was like

00:06:42.280 I don't want to

00:06:43.140 That was what propelled me

00:06:44.280 To go to Dune 2

00:06:44.860 It was like

00:06:45.320 What do I do?

00:06:46.360 I don't know

00:06:46.920 You literally want it to be

00:06:47.720 Taken away by the cinema

00:06:49.420 It's called the movies

00:06:50.300 Take me away

00:06:51.420 It is no small gift

00:06:53.140 When they take you away

00:06:53.920 I'm sorry cinema

00:06:54.140 May be all we have

00:06:55.160 Okay

00:06:55.420 When you think about the fact

00:06:56.760 That we figured out

00:06:57.500 How to get those images moving

00:06:58.800 Okay

00:06:59.180 Like not that long ago

00:07:00.560 Like a hundred years ago

00:07:01.400 whatever 100 120 depends on on what you actually can sob okay and be like not only look at all

00:07:09.740 we've done it's like like when i went to that technical awards it was the oscars but it's the

00:07:15.580 technical awards okay oh yeah i was at this thing and it was like real winners it was like this

00:07:19.880 yeah they were it was movie magic it was about like how they you know this thing that goes on

00:07:24.680 top of a car that for filming inside the car with letting the actors like do do what they must and

00:07:29.460 this other thing it was just like a cable cutter literally a huge award so that you could drop a

00:07:34.640 bus off a bridge you know but in one swift cable cut like it's just a clean cut it goes so you know

00:07:40.520 what i mean and it was like it was the the engineering you know like behind like that kind

00:07:46.440 of stuff like when engineering when math is brought to art to serve art thank god you could

00:07:53.480 sob you could sob because

00:07:55.320 well the torque

00:07:57.080 and you're like the stunts

00:07:59.560 all of it I just was

00:08:01.340 and there isn't giving anything away but there's a

00:08:03.460 segment that's like kind of visually

00:08:05.460 almost like black and white and I was like

00:08:07.440 agape I was like it's Kurosawa

00:08:09.200 folks you know I was like people I was like this

00:08:11.540 and in case anyone's confused

00:08:13.700 like in case like

00:08:15.340 people are like do they understand this is yeah

00:08:17.320 yeah and

00:08:18.780 full body chills at one point

00:08:21.480 there's a romantic moment between

00:08:23.180 Chalamet and Zendaya

00:08:25.020 not to be confused with the incorrect

00:08:27.340 yet popularized pronunciation

00:08:29.280 Zendaya and

00:08:30.980 I couldn't believe it just full body 0.59

00:08:33.400 chills tip of the toes to the head

00:08:35.360 I was overwhelmed

00:08:37.360 at this point fame being that huge

00:08:39.220 and we still can't have the name locked in

00:08:41.160 I know it is pretty shocking

00:08:43.280 wild I mean I guess there's something

00:08:45.300 so quaint about it I only know about Rihanna's

00:08:47.520 the fact that someone can be

00:08:49.000 still as big as the moon

00:08:50.560 and then

00:08:51.660 well just about the crowd

00:08:52.580 the crowd cannibalizes

00:08:53.700 the crowd decides who you are

00:08:55.040 the crowd gives you your name

00:08:56.380 I actually had a huge realization

00:08:57.960 about celebrity

00:08:58.820 last night

00:09:00.980 and it was

00:09:01.560 I felt it was so genius

00:09:02.800 that I had to stop

00:09:03.620 and like alert

00:09:04.340 my own genius

00:09:05.280 be like

00:09:05.580 did you hear what I just said

00:09:06.680 no it's just

00:09:07.720 okay so it's like

00:09:08.680 why is it

00:09:10.240 like you know

00:09:11.420 why is it

00:09:12.560 what is it in us

00:09:13.640 that even

00:09:14.080 we know there are people

00:09:15.100 okay

00:09:15.560 yeah

00:09:15.940 but

00:09:16.840 but we don't

00:09:17.840 that you just experience

00:09:19.800 There's something insane about, let's just say, I don't know, the most famous person in the world, right?

00:09:24.320 It's like, what are you feeling when, I don't know, if they walk into a corridor, a hallway, okay?

00:09:30.160 And you're in it and you're alone in the hallway, right?

00:09:32.500 Because to me, it's like, okay, what is celebrity, okay?

00:09:38.280 It is, you are aware of someone that you know, like the rest of the world is aware of, kind of, okay?

00:09:44.760 you have seen an image of someone a movie whatever it is a live performance like like

00:09:51.820 on television okay okay you've seen it you've watched it often at the same time as other people

00:09:57.260 okay so it actually they are much like the moon okay or the sun okay or the sky okay you've you've

00:10:05.860 looked at them knowing that millions are also looking at them for them to suddenly then be

00:10:12.700 in a hallway with you it is as if the moon has come down and it's inside your house yeah you're

00:10:19.320 looking at it going right now i'm seeing the thing that usually i only see amongst the crowd

00:10:25.020 you know with the crowd and oh and oh my god it's almost like you're seeing something you

00:10:29.500 shouldn't be seeing it is it's it's in that way it's almost sacred it is and they're in i don't

00:10:36.020 know it's the moon in your house that's the moon in your house is great and it's also very i don't

00:10:39.400 is it Baudrillard or Baudelaire? No, no, it has to be Baudrillard. His whole thing is,

00:10:44.260 obviously it's Baudrillard. Yeah, he's old school, but Baudrillard famously said celebrities are

00:10:51.540 beyond death. And that's another reason why we, you know, we attach to them so much meaning and

00:10:57.460 gravitas. And also the thing about the ultra famous is that you think by being near them,

00:11:04.000 it's almost like you think your life's going to change or that somehow your life has changed

00:11:08.080 just by the proximity like my mom talks about what is that like in the 60s being in an elevator with

00:11:14.720 mick jagger like height of you know yeah and he walks in and my mom was like you almost feel like

00:11:21.100 well here's the moment my life changes right mick jagger's gonna turn to you and go sorry what's

00:11:25.860 your name and then you're suddenly in paris like you know and so completely because one of my shocked

00:11:31.140 i think i've talked about this didn't happen for your mother i know in that moment well kevin

00:11:35.040 costner did ask her out several times in her youth um and by youth i mean you know 38 yeah um

00:11:40.980 but uh by the way i might have to post them to poog i have to send them to you i found photos

00:11:45.680 of my mother pregnant with me she's you know at the time 42 41 she they're unbelievable they're

00:11:52.040 like it's insane she's like in an eggplant unitard didn't i send it to you no shocking beauty sounds

00:11:58.280 familiar yeah shocking sensuality yeah i was amazed anyway but um there you were i was in

00:12:04.660 side i was in there but bathing in the chemicals of plant unitard was i gonna say um oh well i've

00:12:13.580 talked about a baudrillard how or just how um it's really interesting you and i of course have

00:12:20.360 been in situations where we are around celebrities and one of the most fascinating things to watch

00:12:26.300 i'm fascinated by the close and i put this in quotes the close friends in quotes of the ultra

00:12:32.640 famous and how that's the devastating thing when you reach a certain level of fame you will never 0.78

00:12:37.220 have friendship again like that is i hate to fucking break it to you you think without any 0.91

00:12:43.540 doubt unless it's really old if it's old friend oh no no old friend uh you're gonna get go to the 0.97

00:12:49.560 tumbler you're gonna go to the wash it's gonna transform completely but that's the sacrifice

00:12:53.880 right when you reach for the high fame you permanently cut the cord of true life or reality

00:13:00.960 rather right and by the way some people go cut the cord some people go i don't want it i'm not

00:13:04.800 saying you can't connect right because you and i of course i've made huge connections with the

00:13:08.720 ultra famous but i'm just saying but i'm just saying like i'm talking by the way i'm talking

00:13:12.420 about like tom cruise okay i'm talking about i'm not talking about someone who's like a darling

00:13:16.560 on vulture.com okay no i got no i would never i'm not going to degrade to tell someone they

00:13:21.460 i'm talking about like the ultra famous which the other thing is that yes in the current culture

00:13:26.400 That is an extinct species.

00:13:28.840 There are, and that's the real devastating thing about today and being alive today and trying to, you know, make work today is that, you know, the celebrity itself has transformed so much where now who are the big, you know, who gets paid.

00:13:43.260 If you're talking about who's getting paid, you know, as we all know, TikTok, whatever, it's like YouTube people.

00:13:47.800 Oh, them.

00:13:48.480 But it's people that don't actually have the classic associations with being a huge star.

00:13:54.040 Well, that's why astronomy is back.

00:13:55.780 astronomy we need the real moon again okay yeah now now which now i just reminds me i was to tell

00:14:01.780 you about this okay it happens to be a segue if you can imagine okay so i realized about 25 minutes

00:14:08.960 before the eclipse was happening that i know what i'm in los angeles i know it's not like we're not

00:14:16.560 in the path of totality we're not going to have darkness okay but i had a moment where there were

00:14:24.200 people watching it from the top of whatever with glasses whatever griffith you know something okay

00:14:29.960 and you and i i i was coming out of a class okay and i was at air one i'll say it and i was like

00:14:39.580 oh my god okay and i i had to really wrestle internally with vast grief okay i know i had

00:14:47.940 not made an eclipse plan okay now i was comforted that so so so i'm i'm outside air one like a piece

00:14:55.480 of you know a piece of trash a piece of of uh coconut discarded coconut meat okay okay a specific

00:15:02.420 kind and i am i am i'm like i have you know when you have a sadness so great like you just have to

00:15:07.720 like i was just like chris i just need to understand like right now i am like i don't

00:15:11.660 know if we try to book it somewhere like i know last minute desperate move i'm looking around

00:15:16.900 going where could we even get glasses okay like this panic like he's like the public library like

00:15:22.100 i don't you know like smart yeah so i'm like i'm like okay you know we look at like a glasses store

00:15:28.260 we're like the irony i bet they don't even have them okay yeah yeah i'm like whatever whatever i

00:15:32.960 start to be like all right all right it's fine okay i start wildly googling on my phone when the

00:15:36.840 next one is i'm comforted to know no it's not so bad it's not as bad as it seems because you know

00:15:42.220 they're like not until 20 24 or something or they go huh 24 that sounds huh that sounds like now

00:15:47.140 no 24 or something okay I'm gonna go huh but then I go I go and I'm looking at this chart and I go

00:15:53.080 and then it's like it's like um like chili like in 2026 so if I decide so I was calm knowing if I

00:16:00.840 must experience path of totality darkness and eclipse you'll go to chili I could go to chili

00:16:06.460 go to whatever there's there's places to go in the next couple years so that helps a lot

00:16:09.820 I sat there in the parking lot of everyone with Chris.

00:16:12.580 We loaded up the NASA YouTube live.

00:16:16.180 Great.

00:16:16.400 And I was great.

00:16:17.220 Now it actually turned and I was weeping.

00:16:19.800 So moved.

00:16:20.880 Okay.

00:16:21.040 I have to watch it.

00:16:22.080 I didn't, I had to go.

00:16:23.460 Okay.

00:16:23.880 So, so, so.

00:16:25.220 Here I am going.

00:16:26.300 I didn't watch the NASA live, but obviously I can find out.

00:16:28.980 I know.

00:16:29.420 I know.

00:16:30.040 I know.

00:16:30.460 Thank God I had the NASA live.

00:16:31.900 Okay.

00:16:32.500 So I'm sitting there in the car and.

00:16:34.340 Were you weeping?

00:16:35.380 I almost, I was weeping.

00:16:36.980 and hearing the excitement of the NASA commentators,

00:16:40.400 the two women experiencing it last.

00:16:41.060 I just got chills up the spine, by the way.

00:16:42.940 I know, okay?

00:16:44.280 And then, I don't know if I could,

00:16:45.940 I literally, every time I tried to bring this up

00:16:47.800 later that day, I had to cry again.

00:16:49.480 Okay, I love it, I love it.

00:16:50.100 Let me see if I can get it.

00:16:50.980 So, first of all, the first thing

00:16:52.600 that really moves the shit out of me, okay, 0.83

00:16:55.000 is that when it happened. 0.83

00:16:57.740 Yes.

00:16:58.180 Okay, the crowd, the crowd, they cheered.

00:17:04.120 By the way, I feel it.

00:17:05.260 Just this massive crowd.

00:17:06.280 cheering for

00:17:08.800 like as though the sun

00:17:11.120 again the moon crossing it

00:17:12.880 was like an artist or something

00:17:15.340 like it was

00:17:17.280 doing it

00:17:17.820 an entire crowd unable to control

00:17:21.220 itself

00:17:21.480 it's so

00:17:25.240 cute

00:17:25.820 for celestial bodies

00:17:28.640 and then Kate I literally

00:17:31.440 heard I don't know where it came from

00:17:32.860 I literally heard holy cow

00:17:35.660 some little voice emerged from the crowd going holy cow okay and i was like

00:17:44.620 this is all we you know this is all we have of course okay but i but i control it oh you know

00:17:50.460 what else he told myself i thought you like this i was like just because i'm not watching it

00:17:54.160 with the glasses whatever i was like i was like the mayans didn't have glasses and then i was

00:17:59.400 like oh they probably did a pinhole you know whatever okay but i was like but but i was like

00:18:03.880 i was like if it's celestial energetic whatever i'm on earth and it's still happening to my body

00:18:11.480 even if i'm not you know what i mean if there's that and then my dad was explaining to me he's

00:18:15.680 like the synchronicity that that our moon is at the specific distance that it's at the that it

00:18:23.020 completely can cover the sun like it's not it didn't have to be that way so it's actually like

00:18:29.340 kind of wild. It's like, no, totally. It is a design. So I love that. So I'll tell you what

00:18:35.960 happened to me on the eclipse day, which is that waking up, I felt, I think that was the day I was

00:18:41.500 like, Oh, it took a little of my throat. Am I getting sick? Whatever. You know, I was like,

00:18:45.060 I've been sick in years. And then, and by the way, the day before I felt mentally insane. I mean,

00:18:50.080 again, you go, Oh, it's life events. Like it makes sense that I'm like feeling so intensely,

00:18:53.740 but I was like, it's more, you know, so a similar thing happened where I woke up my, um, like my

00:19:00.140 family friend texted me and was like, what's your, like, are you watching the eclipse? Like I have

00:19:04.880 two pairs of extra glasses if you want to like come over here and get them. So I also was hit

00:19:10.280 with the grief. I'm looking at the clock. Okay. My, my partner and I had like slept in, we're

00:19:14.940 like luxuriously having coffee. I'm like, we get in the car right now. We can book it to Mount

00:19:18.320 Washington. She has, you know, she has the glasses for us. And it was like, okay, no, let's like

00:19:22.500 relax but i started to also fail oh god oh no so then i like i give it up well by the way like an

00:19:29.700 hour earlier i've been talking about the eclipse and i was like can't you kind of just take a peek

00:19:33.840 at it like you're not going to stare at it but can't you just kind of take a peek a glance is a

00:19:38.180 glance and then i was looking at everyone's like no don't do it i was like okay sure i'm not going

00:19:41.500 to stare at it but i just kind of was like come on you know but i was like no we all were i think

00:19:45.800 a quick glance is fine so here's what happened so then we decide we're like let's go on a walk

00:19:49.840 Cause I was like, I have to get out.

00:19:50.940 So we're going on a walk and I'll tell you what happened.

00:19:53.740 So you decided you're not flailing and running to Mount Washington.

00:19:55.800 I decided exactly to not flail.

00:19:57.340 And you're like, we're fine.

00:19:58.500 And I go, you know what?

00:19:59.060 Let's just go out.

00:19:59.540 Let's just be under it.

00:20:00.420 Let's just like go out into the world and kind of treat it like any other day.

00:20:02.920 Experience it.

00:20:03.260 This thing's happening, whatever.

00:20:04.240 So we're walking.

00:20:05.940 And so I get out of the car and then I become fixated with, do we look at the sun?

00:20:10.700 When do we look at like, of course we don't look at the sun, but you see the sun, right?

00:20:13.440 Like you look at it kind of like it's there.

00:20:15.500 So I do this thing where I just kind of tilt my head up for a second.

00:20:18.940 i'm not even staring at it i'm talking about a fraction of a second it just kind of passes my

00:20:23.800 vision and then i got a little scared or something i just barely looked at it i didn't even can't

00:20:27.500 even say i looked at it so we're walking where we're and then yeah unbelievable ran into two

00:20:31.360 people that we know they go you want to look at the glass hand us the paper glasses there we are

00:20:34.980 looking up we see it this happened yeah yeah so then look at my jealousy that you got a glimpse

00:20:42.740 so so got a glimpse so you're looking through the glasses and it is like this kind of surreal

00:20:46.380 shape like you're kind of and was it happening at the time where it wasn't the moment of the huge

00:20:50.780 thing but it still was like it was crossing over it yes yeah yeah it was still like interrupted

00:20:56.200 like the sun was still interrupted oh my god it was a crazy shape so i was like wow you got to

00:21:00.820 see so i'm looking at it for like five seconds community saves i guess community saves then

00:21:05.580 we're walking come home looking at the cool shadows on the floor you know whatever come home

00:21:11.320 i i have a zoom meeting i get off the zoom and i go my eyes kind of hurt and i go hmm i go

00:21:16.180 oh no okay is it from and i start to just oh so gently spiral i go well you know i was looking at

00:21:21.940 the computer screen like no no that can't be it like oh my god and it starts to trickle in

00:21:27.700 and i do i text i text um my partner i was like my eyes kind of hurt like looking for reassurance

00:21:35.280 you know just a little gentle and they're like me too don't worry about it like you're fine i was

00:21:39.400 like uh-huh yeah so then i and then i'm like no no also were you like who are these friends and

00:21:43.680 Were those glasses legit?

00:21:45.100 Did that pass your mind?

00:21:46.380 A hundred percent.

00:21:47.740 I go there for me, like community acquaintances.

00:21:50.700 I was like, community kills, community kills.

00:21:52.980 I was like, oh my God, paper flimsy.

00:21:55.880 I'm like, I know that is what people say,

00:21:57.540 but I'm trusting them with my life.

00:22:00.420 And I start to spiral.

00:22:01.320 I go, cool.

00:22:02.680 I'm glad you risked your vision.

00:22:04.340 Arguably one of the most.

00:22:06.040 I start Googling, which as we know you shouldn't do.

00:22:09.060 I watch an interview with a woman who looked at the eclipse

00:22:11.720 in 2017 or whatever, permanent.

00:22:15.040 Are you serious?

00:22:15.560 And she's like, I just try to raise awareness about this

00:22:17.540 because what they don't know is that the eclipse,

00:22:19.800 the sun is, you're extra not supposed to look at it

00:22:22.200 during the eclipse.

00:22:22.880 Right.

00:22:23.100 You'd think like the mind's like,

00:22:24.380 oh, it's covered.

00:22:24.860 You feel safe.

00:22:26.000 It's more dangerous.

00:22:28.540 Right.

00:22:28.620 But even that messaging didn't reach me.

00:22:31.380 Okay, right.

00:22:31.840 Because normally you can't do it.

00:22:33.980 Your eyes close automatically.

00:22:35.140 And you don't want to look at it, of course,

00:22:36.760 but it's like-

00:22:37.140 It stops.

00:22:38.240 Okay.

00:22:38.600 So this-

00:22:39.140 But then when it's protecting,

00:22:40.480 you're like yeah it's like you don't feel that you're being burned totally well that's exactly

00:22:45.240 why it's so dangerous i need to hear this woman this broad no it's upsetting because she's like

00:22:49.260 yeah i stared at it for i'd say maybe 15 seconds didn't feel any pain because you don't feel pain

00:22:53.540 she hadn't heard because you don't feel does she know the eclipse was happening yes no i mean like

00:22:57.940 who hasn't heard like don't look at it she knew enough to know the eclipse was happening but

00:23:02.240 hadn't heard don't look at it this is what i'm trying to like don't look at it but she probably 0.89

00:23:05.280 was like i'm fine it's not hurting she fucking stared at it for like 15 seconds felt normal 0.58

00:23:09.400 because that's what's so scary you don't feel it happening to you as it's happening which is of 0.91

00:23:12.700 course always the most terrifying idea so then she goes to sleep wakes up and is like whole fields of

00:23:19.400 her vision are just like gone like spotted they still are yep like if you look at it long enough

00:23:24.320 permanent because they they like kill cells that can never come back and then there's like a

00:23:29.380 gradient so i'm reading this leave cells and i'm doing deep i'm doing deep breathing and i'm going

00:23:33.420 yeah and then i'm like can you imagine anything funny like oh yeah kate like me walking in blind

00:23:37.600 like me with my stick and it's like she looked at the eclipse yeah a little too long like holy

00:23:43.740 shit so then i'm like there is a little bit of a headache and then but it kind of goes away and

00:23:47.640 then i was engaged in like an exciting creative conversation for an hour no pain came out of it 0.96

00:23:51.860 and then was like hey guys i wasn't thinking about the thing and then i'm fine the next next day i

00:23:55.960 wake up fine and then of course saw on instagram all this all these articles like if your eyes

00:24:00.480 hurt a little bit today like that's okay that's common after looking at the eclipse and so i made

00:24:04.560 i made the final decision i'm never looking again even through the glasses anything i'm never doing

00:24:09.840 it again because because why risk because i texted a couple people like a friend of mine drove to

00:24:14.440 texas to like to go see it get in the path of totality yeah she like drove it was like i mean

00:24:19.340 a hero like her and her dog like in the car side of the road like so cool watching it you know so

00:24:23.700 cool um did the dog have glasses the dog freaked out which is wild i couldn't believe it oh yeah

00:24:31.220 I don't think about it.

00:24:31.840 The dog can't study its vision on the eclipse.

00:24:33.440 You can only,

00:24:34.780 when you're spreading lip on cheek. 0.93

00:24:36.900 Classic. 0.99

00:24:37.800 But she was like,

00:24:40.440 oh yeah, I remember I looked like

00:24:42.220 when I was looking at it with the glasses in 2017,

00:24:44.700 like I had a headache the next day.

00:24:46.060 I don't want to look at it ever again.

00:24:48.340 And then I heard something,

00:24:49.700 you know, there's whatever.

00:24:51.300 The point is I wasn't blinded, thank God.

00:24:54.320 Vision wasn't disturbed,

00:24:55.240 but it was scary.

00:24:56.260 And I was doing the thing of reassurance seeking

00:24:58.620 where I was texting.

00:24:59.740 You had an eclipse experience.

00:25:00.580 I was texting like, LOL, eyes hurt a little bit, huh?

00:25:03.580 I kind of looked at it there for a second, didn't I?

00:25:05.580 And they're saying to me, you didn't, I was with you.

00:25:07.280 You weren't looking at it.

00:25:08.460 I was like that moment before we got the glasses

00:25:10.240 that kind of passed my field of vision.

00:25:11.960 I was completely, I was fixated.

00:25:14.200 And also, yeah, yeah.

00:25:15.920 I mean, that's funny.

00:25:18.200 But then, you know, like I have a friend who went,

00:25:20.380 drove like to Buffalo or something to be in the path totality.

00:25:23.980 And then like, there was a lot of worry about cloud cover.

00:25:26.360 Okay, like cloud cover, you know, and then like, yeah.

00:25:29.420 But cloud cover, I say this, you are not responsible for the clouds and thus you did your part.

00:25:35.660 The clouds covered for you.

00:25:36.100 Yeah, totally.

00:25:36.620 You showed up.

00:25:37.200 You know, and so like to me, the only true hell is, you know, like for another sky element

00:25:44.240 to interrupt your viewing of the eclipse, like that's, you're still part of nature's

00:25:49.420 miracle there.

00:25:50.120 Completely, completely.

00:25:51.740 But yeah, I was like, maybe I'm going to become a chaser. 1.00

00:25:54.320 Like hearing those women though.

00:25:57.300 Oh, it's so sweet.

00:25:58.080 And they're like, the corona, okay?

00:26:00.020 And they're like, there's the diamond ring!

00:26:01.780 Okay, which is like when it's moving across

00:26:03.660 and it looks like a diamond ring.

00:26:05.200 And then they're like, the corona, the corona.

00:26:06.540 And I was like, what?

00:26:07.380 And it's like, normally you can't see the corona of the sun

00:26:10.320 just because...

00:26:11.820 I've got to watch the YouTube.

00:26:12.800 I want to go on the NASA YouTube.

00:26:14.220 Like, that'll get my rocks off. 1.00

00:26:15.220 You need to hear the little holy cow.

00:26:17.420 Now I'm like questioning if it was holy cow or holy moly.

00:26:21.260 It really makes you understand why they thought,

00:26:23.500 why they think the new landing was fake.

00:26:26.240 You know what I mean?

00:26:27.060 Because how the hell?

00:26:28.420 Yeah, how the hell? 0.52

00:26:29.800 It's like they're out there.

00:26:30.880 It's like they're making a little play on the moon.

00:26:33.020 Yeah.

00:26:33.380 It's like he's out there putting the fog in.

00:26:36.580 Like it is impossible to find him.

00:26:39.520 Andy Blitz, comedian Andy Blitz, had a really funny joke about,

00:26:42.560 he's like, you know how you can tell like the footage is fake?

00:26:45.520 He's like in the back, in the background in the sky, full moon.

00:26:48.700 Oh, that's funny.

00:26:50.660 It really makes me laugh.

00:26:54.860 He's funny.

00:26:56.140 Yeah, very.

00:26:57.060 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

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00:29:35.940 Ever feel like you're being chased by the marriage police?

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00:30:41.600 Well, this is a huge thing.

00:30:42.960 My mother said casually on text

00:30:44.460 that now I'm like, I'm nailing this to my wall.

00:30:46.860 Oh my God. 0.64

00:30:47.360 Because I feel like, and by the way, the Chani app, you got to get on it.

00:30:51.320 Chani, the astrologer.

00:30:52.840 Oh.

00:30:53.280 It's like a hundred bucks a year.

00:30:54.740 And you get like daily readings based on your rising sign. 1.00

00:30:59.080 You plug in all your shit. 1.00

00:31:00.160 Just rising? 1.00

00:31:01.100 Oh no, rising.

00:31:01.860 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 0.99

00:31:02.600 You plug in all your shit and it's like weekly, like every week. 0.98

00:31:05.280 She's like, so for years, this is what's going to come up this week. 1.00

00:31:07.500 And like, she's on, she's right.

00:31:09.580 So often it's like eerie.

00:31:11.480 And then, you know, it's kind of like, can't do harm.

00:31:13.200 You're finding it meaningful.

00:31:14.220 Helps.

00:31:14.580 Yeah.

00:31:15.240 Anyway, but she was just really right about me this week.

00:31:17.360 And, you know, it's like, oh, like big life decisions, things like, you know, just like, like kind of like hell executive, like functioning decisions.

00:31:26.320 Yes.

00:31:26.940 All of that.

00:31:28.900 Cool.

00:31:29.400 Lost the thread entirely.

00:31:30.600 Oh, but I was struggling over some of these decisions and my mom and then I like made one.

00:31:35.840 Oh, right. 0.98

00:31:36.480 And my mom was like, yes, decisions, life itself like happens through decisions or something like or fuck, I have to find it. 0.97

00:31:44.580 But I was like, oh, right, because it's someone who chronically struggles with indecision 0.98

00:31:47.760 and whatever.

00:31:48.220 It's like, that's the Tony Soprano thing.

00:31:50.620 More is lost by indecision than the wrong decision.

00:31:54.480 And then another friend says-

00:31:55.340 Do you remember?

00:31:56.180 What?

00:31:57.400 One of my greatest personal mottos I developed.

00:32:01.320 Yeah.

00:32:02.400 Okay.

00:32:02.860 That I know will never get credit to me because it's actually too great a human truth.

00:32:07.440 I'm sure others have said it before, but I arrived at it independently.

00:32:11.360 There's no such thing as a right decision.

00:32:12.720 you make a decision and then you make it the right one yeah yeah totally no I remember that

00:32:17.720 it's huge well the other decision then you make it the right one well it's just like or it is the

00:32:21.680 wrong one and then you're fine it's not like agency well right agency doesn't end the moment

00:32:26.060 that one decision is made yeah yeah and then my friend said something that her dad said to her

00:32:31.900 which I was like that's good which is do the obvious sooner which obviously is a huge breakup

00:32:37.620 mantra so I'll send that to anyone right now who's listening who's like should I break up yeah

00:32:41.860 you know do the obvious sooner i thought that was really that was really good let me think

00:32:47.700 about that one that's like so for example for example if it's like me dealing with like just

00:32:53.260 like admin stuff right it's like oh i know i have to do that but like uh it's just like

00:32:57.400 it's scary or i don't know i'm scared of making the wrongs just yeah right just you're gonna do

00:33:03.120 it do the obvious thing that you have to do sooner don't delay don't wait forever and kick

00:33:08.260 it down the road versus no right just do it no kettle because you're researching kettles of

00:33:12.980 course is the consumer well researching kettles that's perfect and then you have no tea yeah

00:33:18.020 and so i'm in the business of researching kettles but just listen to poor tea

00:33:23.300 and i just meant toothless like um like courageless you know yeah yeah um wait i just

00:33:30.560 wait i i i tell you what anastasia beauty fascia moves or whatever no i started following i think

00:33:36.000 i send it to you oh i think so um maybe i did did i show you though did i do a live demonstration

00:33:40.360 of the eyebrow lifting no all right i wonder if i can do it right now i feel like it's gonna work

00:33:44.500 are you ready okay let's take a look they look about the same right yours yes yeah like the

00:33:50.880 brow so one of her things is um freeing these muscles okay and so you hold down the nose kind 0.69

00:33:57.780 of here good and you massage like this for a little while and she's like you do it dry you 0.86

00:34:02.520 do it dry okay she's like no like slipping around we're trying to move deep tissue okay

00:34:06.580 whoa so you're doing that for a little while okay i find that even if i do a quick version

00:34:12.400 it happens like i start with that then i do three i mean then you do your middle fingers kind of

00:34:18.980 like strong okay and you push push push up and then you sort of so you're sculpting at the end

00:34:25.660 for those who can't see which is everyone you're sculpting you're basically gua shying with your

00:34:31.440 fingers yeah up and away and there's a wiggle that happens okay yeah oh guess what you're gonna

00:34:37.720 be excited about this can't wait i'm going to see a quote healer look wait i swear to god i see a 0.94

00:34:44.420 difference well yeah it's massive wait what what the fuck that was a quickie that was a drop over

00:34:52.420 the course of the next 20 minutes yeah probably okay but but i think you keep by the way facial 0.83

00:34:57.000 I do agree

00:34:58.100 It's real

00:34:58.420 That this is the future

00:34:59.540 Facial massage

00:35:00.340 I'm going to sign up 1.00

00:35:01.760 For Beauty Shaman's 0.97

00:35:02.480 Two week trial 1.00

00:35:02.980 I'm just going to fucking do it 0.98

00:35:04.040 I'm going to see how much it is 0.99

00:35:04.920 But

00:35:05.120 And

00:35:06.220 Okay

00:35:06.860 So you can see obviously

00:35:07.800 One is

00:35:08.200 Soaring

00:35:09.060 Eyes wide open

00:35:10.700 This is not like

00:35:11.420 I'm not lifting one

00:35:12.240 Okay

00:35:12.460 And then

00:35:13.260 We can see one's much higher

00:35:14.720 I'll do the other one

00:35:15.400 Casually now

00:35:16.000 And it'll match it

00:35:17.480 I bet

00:35:17.760 Okay

00:35:18.240 Okay

00:35:19.400 I mean that's shocking

00:35:20.800 That's crazy

00:35:21.460 No I believe it

00:35:22.500 Okay

00:35:23.100 Wait you'll love this

00:35:23.940 So I'm like

00:35:24.900 Really excited about her

00:35:25.760 Go on

00:35:26.320 well no I was um fine I'll say it knee deep in my colonic yes having a great time very bonded

00:35:34.180 with her I really believe in that very bonded with her at this point and she we're talking about

00:35:38.520 because by the way not that I'm like oh I need a healer or whatever but it's like she just was

00:35:42.540 like well there's this guy what everyone talks about oh really and she was like he's really I'm

00:35:48.340 gonna yeah she was like he's like the real deal whatever she was like you text his wife and then

00:35:53.920 she like books it books it so i was like you know what like sure you need to you need to lock you

00:36:00.020 need to hold it down over here okay so i'm massaging the eyebrows you're actually pulling

00:36:03.660 this away okay okay and then and then i text her a couple days by like thank you for your patience

00:36:09.720 like here's his next availability it's in like a month and a half and i was like oh i forgot to ask

00:36:14.200 like his rate ha ha ha and she's like he works on a sliding scale oh she decided when you go there

00:36:20.920 I was like, this is amazing.

00:36:22.860 Can you give me a cap?

00:36:24.700 I know, I know, I know, totally.

00:36:26.840 But I'll go in there, you know, head hung.

00:36:28.860 It's been hard with the strikes and I, I don't, yeah, you know.

00:36:33.840 Just like a billboard goes by with your face on it.

00:36:38.580 Yeah.

00:36:40.360 Okay, hold on.

00:36:41.360 So I'm, so I'm not even doing this.

00:36:43.360 And then the other thing is like, ungluing the skin from the cranium.

00:36:48.140 Okay.

00:36:48.420 She said

00:36:49.260 She's like if you get wrinkles

00:36:50.360 If you see wrinkles here

00:36:51.420 When you're massaging upwards

00:36:53.220 Yeah

00:36:53.540 She's like that's because

00:36:54.280 This is all stuck

00:36:55.160 So she has this other thing

00:36:56.240 Where 0.98

00:36:56.540 Oh look

00:36:57.140 I almost did this one better

00:36:58.180 Look

00:36:58.480 Whoa

00:36:59.120 Okay by the way

00:37:00.100 For those who can't see

00:37:01.060 Again which is everyone 0.96

00:37:01.980 Now they're both

00:37:02.440 Being radio

00:37:02.960 Soaring

00:37:03.340 Her eyebrows are fully 1.00

00:37:04.620 Fucking lifted 0.99

00:37:05.180 It's actually shocking 0.99

00:37:05.960 What I want to do

00:37:07.540 Is I want to track

00:37:08.180 I want to get a NASA level

00:37:09.880 Camera and track

00:37:11.140 Does it just fall down again

00:37:12.780 Yeah

00:37:13.860 I want to cheek exercises

00:37:15.660 Again I believe

00:37:16.800 It is the future

00:37:17.540 you got a bulk in the cheek

00:37:19.640 I've been neglecting my neck

00:37:21.160 for months

00:37:22.540 in which sense

00:37:23.260 product

00:37:24.200 well

00:37:25.480 because you know what

00:37:26.100 it's me being cheap

00:37:26.880 and going

00:37:27.200 I'm not putting this sear 1.00

00:37:28.040 on my fucking neck 1.00

00:37:29.140 right 1.00

00:37:29.580 are you serious

00:37:30.220 Kate

00:37:30.580 the neck

00:37:31.240 no no no I know

00:37:32.240 it always says

00:37:32.940 apply to face the neck

00:37:33.780 and I go

00:37:34.180 I'm cutting corners

00:37:35.660 in the worst way

00:37:36.700 you cannot

00:37:37.420 you're the one who said

00:37:39.240 debut the neck

00:37:39.980 I know I know

00:37:40.980 70

00:37:41.540 cover and protect

00:37:43.700 and then

00:37:44.080 debut the decollette

00:37:45.820 yeah

00:37:46.080 yeah no I know completely I'm going I'm going into next stuff I swear to god this is the week

00:37:52.540 I'm going to fucking do it I'm going mandatory 20 minutes of exercise a day Jacqueline that might

00:37:57.280 be all I can commit to 20 minutes a day once you're there though once you're there and you're 0.98

00:38:01.140 sweating it's like no I'm not talking about Tracy I want to go to Tracy and do it but I just mean

00:38:04.600 like in your home well yeah it's just like it's like going zero to 100 you know don't you know

00:38:08.520 perfect is the enemy of good I'm not going to suddenly go to Tracy every day just not realistically

00:38:11.560 for me sometimes extreme is the only way in otherwise just can't get excited well guess

00:38:19.260 what i'm gonna do i've never been able to get excited about like 25 minutes three times a week

00:38:23.420 it's like no no i have to believe that i'm gonna make it my whole life no i know i just mean like

00:38:27.720 no i know recommendations here's what i'm gonna do i am gonna watch the tracy i'm gonna come in

00:38:31.740 also i've been um forcing myself to uh go grocery shopping and cook food again oh right because you

00:38:39.840 were like enough of the dinners just like not not suggesting but i'm just but but i guess what

00:38:45.860 my new fun salad is that i'm doing and i can't wait for everyone to hear and maybe i've already

00:38:49.300 said it um wait have you let me think probably have the microchop shaved oh no you're chopping

00:38:55.580 broccoli sprouts no so imagine this no so imagine this i'm finding that i can really enjoy my salads

00:39:01.860 more when they're chopped really tiny so for example take a ruba chop chop chop chop really

00:39:05.840 really tiny yeah castle vetrano pitted olives chop chop chop chop really tiny huge part of my

00:39:11.360 lifestyle generally speaking red onion chop chop chop super super tiny parsley chopped tiny mint

00:39:17.900 chopped tiny pistachios right herbs right oh right that's why you brought salted roasted pistachios

00:39:24.060 chopped tiny right i can't have those yeah but you could do chop them away you could do chopped um

00:39:29.360 i don't need my salad i love a crunch i love a crunch yeah i mean the crunch for me takes

00:39:35.240 This is the next level.

00:39:36.020 There's other ways.

00:39:36.960 A crunchy caper.

00:39:38.240 And then simple.

00:39:38.980 Very true.

00:39:39.520 To do with the goop kitchen.

00:39:40.840 Oh, I still haven't done goop kitchen.

00:39:42.800 Calling out to goop kitchen.

00:39:43.820 Hello, please help.

00:39:44.860 And then simply olive oil, lemon salt.

00:39:47.620 This is like, I'm moaning.

00:39:49.740 Okay.

00:39:50.800 Wait, simply lemon, olive oil.

00:39:52.760 And salt.

00:39:53.140 Are you currently enjoying an olive oil that was sent to us?

00:39:56.000 I feel like we got sent one.

00:39:57.400 I think I already burned through that.

00:39:59.500 Went through it. 0.98

00:40:00.100 I'm doing the literal Instagram olive oil and it's fucking good. 0.98

00:40:03.180 Sorry. 0.95

00:40:03.340 The drizzle one

00:40:04.180 They do in the squeeze bottle 0.99

00:40:05.480 It's fucking fantastic 0.99

00:40:06.740 Wait 0.99

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00:40:13.840 You've definitely seen it

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00:44:45.260 By the way, neck stretching, okay, warming up the muscles, the platysma, everything is, okay, all-

00:44:54.560 I've heard that. The neck drags down your face. The neck drags down your face.

00:44:59.760 So Anastasia, fascia, beauty moves, whatever, right?

00:45:04.060 I did her thing and it's like, I was like determined I'm going to do it nightly, but you start low, okay?

00:45:08.700 You start moving down, like at the sternum, you start moving things around, you unglue things.

00:45:15.260 Are you looking at Graza?

00:45:16.600 I was just looking at the website.

00:45:17.580 No, but anything interesting?

00:45:18.880 Well, I was like, oh, okay, you can get-

00:45:20.000 But is the olive oil good?

00:45:21.620 That's what I'm telling you, Jacqueline.

00:45:22.880 The olive oil is delicious.

00:45:24.140 And why is it good?

00:45:24.520 As a finishing olive oil.

00:45:25.480 Because you know what I like.

00:45:26.280 I'm eating it raw.

00:45:27.520 Oh God, I've already forgotten their name.

00:45:29.260 This is like a gift of mine.

00:45:30.540 I like to give people this gift.

00:45:32.140 What is it?

00:45:32.780 It's this special olive oil.

00:45:33.720 I've also fully moved on to cooking with avocado oil.

00:45:36.080 We have to do avocado oil when we're roasting.

00:45:37.980 I know.

00:45:38.520 You cannot cook with, it has to be avocado,

00:45:40.820 which I've actually started and someone did send us,

00:45:42.960 and it's pure.

00:45:44.260 Oh yeah.

00:45:44.660 And it's spray, but there's nothing else in it.

00:45:46.520 So it's like, wait, what's my olive oil that I like?

00:45:49.360 We need to be using avocado.

00:45:51.140 Oh, Nouveau.

00:45:52.240 And we need to- 0.99

00:45:53.200 Olive Oil Brothers.

00:45:53.580 I get their like-

00:45:54.340 By the way, I want to again-

00:45:55.800 I forget how I learned about them, but they became-

00:45:57.660 Thank Great Jones Carraway for sending things.

00:46:01.920 I purchased out of pocket a Carraway cutting board set.

00:46:06.420 Out of pocket purchased.

00:46:07.420 I know you mentioned it.

00:46:08.400 Okay.

00:46:08.620 A couple of weeks ago, I out of pocket purchased for my mother.

00:46:11.720 Okay.

00:46:12.240 Okay.

00:46:12.600 The Carraway.

00:46:14.600 So did I.

00:46:15.380 Tupperware.

00:46:15.860 Yes.

00:46:16.560 After we discussed it.

00:46:17.460 I texted my mom.

00:46:17.900 That was her big Christmas gift.

00:46:19.320 I go,

00:46:19.760 Oh, that's why I was inspired.

00:46:21.420 Yeah.

00:46:21.460 And then I truly woke up in a cold sweat the other day. 0.98

00:46:23.400 Where the fuck is the caraway set? 0.98

00:46:25.040 I know. 0.99

00:46:25.560 And I texted her.

00:46:26.340 I go,

00:46:26.840 where's your Christmas,

00:46:27.720 your Christmas Tupperware set?

00:46:28.900 She goes,

00:46:29.380 I know exactly where it is. 0.60

00:46:30.560 No, no, no.

00:46:31.300 Not where is it?

00:46:32.000 Why haven't I seen it?

00:46:32.600 Why haven't you been integrating?

00:46:33.940 Yeah.

00:46:34.320 But it's hard to integrate.

00:46:35.320 That's why I just got my mom,

00:46:36.560 I think two containers.

00:46:38.060 Like I'm,

00:46:38.640 so you're not,

00:46:39.200 it's not a complete overwhelm.

00:46:40.720 Yeah.

00:46:43.640 Because they are, they are very, I also use my caraway pan.

00:46:50.480 I use my Great Jones paint pot.

00:46:52.720 I did something horrible, which is that I scraped.

00:46:55.620 We got a Great Jones pan that was gorgeous.

00:46:57.720 It's like a nonstick.

00:46:59.000 Something happened.

00:46:59.780 I'm not going to blame my partner.

00:47:01.360 But something happened.

00:47:03.340 Somebody did something. 0.99

00:47:04.540 Where there's just a scratch on the bottom now and you really can't use it once the shit is scratched. 0.98

00:47:08.780 one time my friend's mom subtly accused me and my boyfriend, Chris, of damaging a random spatula 0.98

00:47:18.960 in her home. Okay. She couldn't find her spatula. Okay. Became convinced that while we stayed at

00:47:23.560 You don't want to get in front of a woman who can't find her spatula. Yeah. Okay. Became convinced. 1.00

00:47:28.220 Perhaps Jackie and Chris, okay, they damaged the spatula and then tried to hide the evidence.

00:47:35.240 amazing right

00:47:36.660 wild

00:47:37.440 isn't it funny

00:47:38.020 how one can spiral

00:47:39.380 I love it

00:47:40.180 and then there was

00:47:41.200 something about

00:47:41.760 us being in league

00:47:42.940 which I also really like

00:47:44.080 you know

00:47:44.300 like to be in league

00:47:45.120 oh they're in league

00:47:45.980 against us

00:47:47.000 like

00:47:47.220 to be like

00:47:48.440 plotting

00:47:49.020 yeah

00:47:49.500 I like being accused

00:47:50.260 of being in league

00:47:51.120 sure

00:47:51.580 oh there's a great jones

00:47:53.300 times

00:47:53.900 that's how I think

00:47:54.720 of it in my head

00:47:55.380 yeah

00:47:55.820 x laura

00:47:56.860 can you believe it

00:47:57.520 times

00:47:57.900 okay

00:47:58.180 times laura

00:47:59.560 shotan

00:48:00.260 dutch baby

00:48:00.960 okay 0.65

00:48:01.740 it's a dutch baby

00:48:02.520 from great jones

00:48:03.220 and there's a design on it

00:48:04.440 Well, this, by the way, last week we were talking about like, you know, as people know,

00:48:08.060 and by the way, some of the recs have come in, the requests for templates and things

00:48:11.760 and products.

00:48:13.400 Okay, here we go.

00:48:14.280 Okay.

00:48:14.600 Here we go.

00:48:15.660 And by the way, and forever, because the cooking, the bringing it back to home cooking is here,

00:48:22.340 folks.

00:48:22.700 So continue.

00:48:23.480 Oh, please.

00:48:24.380 Okay.

00:48:24.900 I'm using the Great Jones baking sheets.

00:48:27.460 Loving them.

00:48:27.900 Beautiful, deep green.

00:48:29.860 I didn't have the courage.

00:48:31.200 I was afraid that I wouldn't bake.

00:48:33.640 we all were

00:48:34.520 and so I just said

00:48:35.080 I'm not gonna beg for it

00:48:36.500 and

00:48:37.400 well guess what I've been doing

00:48:38.900 no bake

00:48:39.860 frozen treats

00:48:41.120 raspberry bark

00:48:42.660 raspberries

00:48:43.680 crammed together

00:48:44.460 with melted chocolate on top

00:48:45.900 on the baking sheets

00:48:47.340 is that what you used

00:48:48.300 yeah

00:48:48.760 cause you're like

00:48:49.720 these are safe in the freezer

00:48:50.580 and they're just pretty

00:48:51.600 what color blue

00:48:53.500 green

00:48:54.280 deep green actually

00:48:55.460 that's

00:48:56.660 it's very pretty

00:48:57.620 I have to leave

00:48:58.300 but I also have to do

00:48:59.080 I have to do like a profound send off

00:49:00.780 which is that

00:49:01.580 as we all know

00:49:02.740 or not all of us, but I talked about my dad having Alzheimer's last week because I was really

00:49:06.720 reaching somewhat of a breaking point and have been so overwhelmed. I'm not going to cry now

00:49:12.180 about it because I've cried so much about it. I've been so overwhelmed by the outreach and

00:49:16.380 the messages that I've received. Obviously feel free to continue. Yeah, of course. People who

00:49:20.340 are going through this, it means so much to me. So thank you to everyone who reached out. It really

00:49:26.040 is so overwhelming how many people are dealing with this, but it really does. It's like massive

00:49:31.000 solidarity and it's just

00:49:32.860 it really helped me and I hope

00:49:35.060 yeah so thank you to everyone

00:49:36.920 I can't respond to everyone

00:49:38.380 no but the emails

00:49:41.160 have been passed along from the

00:49:42.580 account they've been passed along and

00:49:44.780 there's really some

00:49:47.000 useful information I'm reading all of them

00:49:48.760 I want everyone to know I'm reading all of them and as you can imagine

00:49:51.060 as am I

00:49:51.680 I'm getting all of them

00:49:53.940 and you can't imagine how it's made

00:49:57.020 me feel and I've shared them with my mom and it's just

00:49:59.060 it means like truly means everything 0.51

00:50:00.900 yeah and everyone who's going through it fucking yeah i love you it's so hard um i had someone i

00:50:07.440 was like this like opened the floodgates for me because somebody was reaching out who like lost 0.81

00:50:11.140 their dad to it and they were like you know it's okay to they were like it's okay to break down

00:50:15.740 you know or just like it's okay to like not hold it together someday something you know like really

00:50:20.200 helps so like truly break down when you need to because you fucking have to and um yeah i love 0.87

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00:50:38.000 the laser hair removal. Wait, laser hair removal? Yeah. Why don't you just take me along? I can't

00:50:43.340 manage my own appointments. Take me. Because for a while ago, I go, oh, you know, so because I was

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00:50:59.360 It's like, I made the decision to start doing it

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00:51:06.140 I can't bring it up.

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00:51:12.720 No, no, sorry. 1.00

00:51:13.480 You're going the other way?

00:51:14.000 Or you're still trying to keep it?

00:51:14.880 So what I mean is that I'm getting the,

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00:52:44.960 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

00:52:48.440 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Traynor, disappeared from a commune.

00:52:52.800 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:52:56.640 No, I am not your guru.

00:53:00.280 Back then, I lied to everybody.

00:53:02.600 They have had this case for 30 years.

00:53:05.540 I'm going back to my hometown to uncover the truth.

00:53:09.300 Listen to The Red Weather on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:53:15.520 You know Roald Dahl.

00:53:16.760 he thought up Willy Wonka and the BFG.

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00:53:28.620 You probably won't believe it either.

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00:53:32.060 It must have been.

00:53:33.400 Okay, I don't think that's true.

00:53:35.440 I'm telling you, the guy was a spy.

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Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - April 23, 2024

The Moon in Your House

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