There Are No Girls on the Internet - November 02, 2022


DongleGate: The Online Harassment Campaign Against Adria Richards

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00:01:21.000 This is Bridget Todd, and you're listening to Internet Hate Machine, and I am here with my lovely producer, Sophie.
00:01:27.980 Sophie, how are you?
00:01:29.040 I'm doing well, Bridget. How are you?
00:01:31.220 I'm doing good, and I am so excited for the first official episode of Internet Hate Machine,
00:01:38.140 because we're talking about a topic that I kind of think about a lot, and that is the saga of Adria Richards.
00:01:45.440 And I know that you know a little bit about this story.
00:01:47.640 One of my favorite named topics on the internet, dongle gate. But, you know, I only really know the surface level, so I'm really looking forward to hearing more about this from you and more about Adria as a person.
00:02:02.640 Yeah, we're going to be using the word dongle a lot in this episode just to level set.
00:02:07.900 Love that. 0.97
00:02:08.580 One of the reasons I wanted to start with Adria Richards is because I think that she really represents an early situation where bad actors were able to completely hijack a sensitive, complicated situation in ways that they are still doing to this very day. 0.89
00:02:24.220 And I think it's a really great early example of how when a black woman is being harassed and attacked online, people watching will essentially sit back and say, she probably deserved it.
00:02:37.000 So let's get into it. 0.99
00:02:39.180 Let's start at the beginning.
00:02:40.380 Who is Adria Richards? 1.00
00:02:41.700 Well, Adria Richards is a Black woman who has been working as an engineer since about 1998. 0.98
00:02:47.420 She first got her start in technology as a network administrator and started volunteering
00:02:51.280 teaching tech skills in her spare time.
00:02:53.940 And while she started working her way up in these successful tech startups, she also kind
00:02:59.480 of became this visible Black woman in tech.
00:03:02.340 You know, she was doing a lot of media. 1.00
00:03:04.520 She had a pretty big YouTube channel with a healthy number of subscribers.
00:03:09.040 She celebrated 10,000 subscribers in 2011, where she does these accessible tech tutorials
00:03:15.840 mixed with kind of everyday, I guess, lifestyle content, like dating advice.
00:03:20.900 And she does a lot of content where she is calling out examples of sexism in tech.
00:03:27.920 That's kind of, I guess, her brand or her thing,
00:03:31.100 is these explorations of gender and technology and the way that they intersect.
00:03:36.720 Like her personal website where she has her blog is called butyoureagirl.com.
00:03:41.800 So you can sort of get a sense of she's someone who is really interested in shaking up the status quo in technology.
00:03:49.620 She travels to speak at these pretty big deal tech conferences
00:03:54.160 where she often is talking about things like diversity in tech and inclusion in tech.
00:03:58.720 Here's a little clip of her speaking at one of those conferences.
00:04:02.420 Any startup you're going to work at, it's not going to be all one gender.
00:04:06.300 If you're a woman, it's very unlikely. 0.99
00:04:08.400 So you're going to need to work with guys. 0.99
00:04:09.760 So you should be going to events that have guys.
00:04:12.640 And it's not that guys don't want to help, but we have to give them opportunities for them to be allies.
00:04:18.860 So that was just a quick little clip that I think speaks to a little bit about what happened with her.
00:04:25.020 Side note, she's somebody we would totally be friends with.
00:04:28.300 Oh, absolutely.
00:04:29.480 She's the coolest. 0.78
00:04:30.820 No question.
00:04:32.120 So when I was doing research for this episode,
00:04:34.820 I really kind of enjoyed going back in time
00:04:38.000 and looking at Adria's digital life
00:04:40.440 before what went down went down 0.62
00:04:42.560 because honestly, she kind of just gives off vibes 1.00
00:04:45.660 of a Black woman who is killing it. 1.00
00:04:48.640 Like she's really hit her stride 1.00
00:04:50.120 watching her talk about technology.
00:04:53.220 She comes off as really confident and happy
00:04:56.180 and, like, she's in, like, really walking in her power.
00:04:59.060 And it was exciting to watch, but it kind of made me sad
00:05:02.440 knowing a little bit about what happens next.
00:05:05.840 So you might be asking, what happened to Adria Richards? 0.98
00:05:09.680 Adria starts working as a developer evangelist,
00:05:11.920 which is basically, if you don't know what that is,
00:05:13.800 it's someone whose role it is to work with developers,
00:05:16.860 help them solve problems, help them level up in their career.
00:05:20.040 She gets the job as a developer evangelist
00:05:22.080 for the email vendor SendGrid.
00:05:23.820 And in 2013, she goes to PyCon, a conference for Python users.
00:05:29.300 And while she's there, she is sitting in the main conference room during a keynote talk.
00:05:35.800 And she turns around to have a conversation with some attendees behind her, having a normal talk about some of the presentations they've seen when she overhears a pair of male attendees who are also developers making a crass joke while seated behind her.
00:05:53.480 Now, the actual nature of the joke is somewhat in dispute.
00:05:57.560 A little bit more on that later.
00:05:59.020 But essentially, the crux of the joke is that they're talking about dongles because they work in tech.
00:06:04.240 And the crux of the joke is that dongle is a funny sounding word that kind of sounds like dong.
00:06:09.800 Wow, brave.
00:06:11.100 Such as just transport me back to, you know, the seventh grade.
00:06:16.300 Cool, cool, cool.
00:06:18.520 Yeah, I mean, it's it's crass and it's immature.
00:06:21.320 and it's like a it's like like I said it's like very middle school it is very middle school
00:06:28.300 it takes me back to a lot of tech spaces I've been in where that is the love that it just
00:06:34.720 it is the level of humor that you kind of are asked to smile through and be like ha ha this
00:06:41.180 isn't 100% I Bridget I actually don't know if you know that like one of my first jobs out of
00:06:47.880 college I worked in tech for several years and I don't think on mic or off mic we've talked about
00:06:53.220 this at all but yeah I definitely know exactly what you're talking about in those in those scenes
00:06:57.980 especially when there's very few women around the the nature of the jokes can sometimes be a little
00:07:05.840 bit off-putting to say the least yes exactly and I think that's exactly where Adria was at as well
00:07:14.320 So she didn't say anything in the moment.
00:07:16.760 She didn't say that this bothered her.
00:07:18.760 And she explains that choice in her blog.
00:07:21.560 She writes, I didn't want to be heckled or have my experience denied, which I also really,
00:07:26.920 and I'm sure you do, having worked in tech, I know what she's talking about. 0.79
00:07:30.360 She probably didn't want to have that vibe of, oh, she's crazy. 1.00
00:07:34.560 She's oversensitive. 0.67
00:07:37.080 You know, you kind of have a sense of maybe it's not going to go that well if you take
00:07:41.800 the route of saying, hey guys, knock it off. Yeah. Oh my God. She's so emotional. She's in
00:07:46.720 her feelings. Oh, why can't we just, why can't we just be ourselves? It's like, all right, dudes.
00:07:53.940 Exactly. So rather than saying something to them in the moment, she takes out her phone,
00:07:59.240 takes their picture and tweets it. Tweeting, quote, not cool. Jokes about forking repose
00:08:06.340 in a sexual way and big dongles right behind me. Hashtag PyCon. She goes on to tweet,
00:08:13.940 can someone talk to these guys about their conduct? I'm in lightning talks, top right,
00:08:17.980 near stage, 10 rows back, hashtag PyCon. And then she tweets the code of conduct for the conference,
00:08:23.800 which in part says, quote, offensive jokes are not appropriate for PyCon.
00:08:28.680 So initially, Adria had said that she was wanted to ignore this, but in her blog,
00:08:33.240 but I'm a girl, Adri explained what triggered her to send that tweet. She writes,
00:09:03.240 She talks about how her company was a sponsor for this event, and when she heard them talking about dongles, she felt flustered.
00:09:13.620 And she writes, then it happened, the trigger.
00:09:17.360 She's watching somebody on the main stage, and he's talking about this Young Coders workshop that Adria volunteered at.
00:09:23.760 He was mentioning that the Pi Ladies auction had raised $10,000 in a single night for funds that were going to be used to support this Young Coders workshop initiative.
00:09:33.240 I saw a photo on the main stage of a little girl who had been in the Young Coders workshop.
00:09:38.260 I realized I had to do something because she would never have the chance to learn and love programming 0.97
00:09:43.520 because the ass clowns behind me would make it impossible for her to do so. 0.96
00:09:48.200 So I remember reading this when the whole situation was going down and I was very moved by what she had written. 0.98
00:09:55.540 I think it's fair.
00:09:56.520 If you're listening to this and thinking, that seems a little overdone, fine, sure.
00:10:03.240 But I guess I'm saying that I understand where she's sort of coming from when she wrote that.
00:10:10.460 Yeah, I mean, like, I definitely have empathy for the way that she's feeling here.
00:10:15.220 I feel like that happens to a lot of people in the business world and specifically within the tech space where you're in a situation where you're like, well, I could say nothing.
00:10:25.740 but you know that would be very disappointing to child me or to my niece to my nephew to my
00:10:36.280 daughter to my son the inner child in me where where I'm like okay you know I could while this
00:10:44.200 might seem small to some who's to say that many small things if you let it go this time you might
00:10:51.440 let it go the next 10 times. And then it's just a habit. And then it's a pattern. And then you're
00:10:56.580 enabling. So that's exactly what she says. In her blog, she writes about how this incident was
00:11:02.300 actually not the first time that she had heard a sexualizing joke at that particular conference.
00:11:07.960 She describes how earlier during that event in a hallway, a guy had made a crass joke about
00:11:12.820 looking under the skirt of a table and, you know, he made some crass longing about it not like,
00:11:20.380 Like, oh, it doesn't have pubic hair, just like I like it.
00:11:23.080 But because this happened in a hallway, I know that that joke is really not great.
00:11:30.080 But she says that because this happened in a hallway and not like at a seated, you know, main stage event while somebody's on stage talking, she actually did feel comfortable speaking up to whoever made that joke.
00:11:42.460 And I think it's exactly what you were saying, Sophie.
00:11:44.560 It sounds like this was death by a thousand cuts for her, where it was laugh it off, laugh it off, say something, say something.
00:11:54.340 And eventually she just couldn't anymore. 0.98
00:11:58.120 Like, I've been there where you just hit your limit of shit that you are willing to smile through or giggle through or brush off to the point where you just can't anymore. 0.96
00:12:10.020 So the conference staff talked to the guys who end up being developers who made the joke. 0.98
00:12:15.540 For their part, it sounds like these guys handled it very well.
00:12:20.360 PyCon put out a statement saying, quote,
00:12:22.440 An incident occurred involving some inappropriate comments made during a crowded plenary session.
00:12:28.160 Per the stated guidelines for the attendees and staff, the issue was reported to PyCon 2013 staff and resolved privately.
00:12:34.800 Both parties were met with in private.
00:12:36.520 The comments that were made were in poor taste, and the individuals involved agreed, apologized, and no further action were taken by the staff of PyCon 2013.
00:12:45.560 No individuals were removed from a conference.
00:12:48.240 No sanctions were levied.
00:12:49.920 And so honestly, it sounds like it truly could have ended there.
00:12:53.840 You know, these developers who were making this crass joke, they seemed like they legitimately felt bad.
00:13:01.300 they apologized. Picon staff, it sounds like they acted quickly and it was resolved. It truly could
00:13:08.760 have been there. And honestly, throughout the entire situation, Adria is clear, both in her
00:13:13.960 writing and in her actions, that she does not want these men fired. You know, she is not calling
00:13:18.660 for any consequences for them beyond just being talked to about appropriate conduct by the Picon
00:13:26.180 staff, which they were. So this truly could have just been the end of it.
00:13:29.640 Yeah, it sounds like all she really wanted to do was, come on, guys, not the time or place. Do better. That's it.
00:13:35.740 it's easy for me to have a lot of empathy for all of the individuals involved in the situation.
00:13:42.380 Like those guys shouldn't have been making that joke. It does sound like it was crass and stupid. 1.00
00:13:47.300 It does sound like it was against the rules of what happened. It's easy for me to, just because 0.99
00:13:53.180 I'm someone who says things without thinking a lot, it's easy for me to put myself in their
00:13:58.340 shoes of like, oh yeah, certainly I've said things where it comes out of my mouth and boy,
00:14:02.960 I wish it hadn't, you know?
00:14:04.320 For sure.
00:14:05.780 As somebody who's on a lot of podcasts, can relate.
00:14:09.180 Can relate.
00:14:11.380 Yeah, so I'm not saying that these guys are like the worst guys ever.
00:14:14.640 And they handled it very well.
00:14:16.420 Both men worked for a company called Playhaven, which was a sponsor for PyCon, the event.
00:14:21.540 And this incident led to one, but not both, of the men being fired.
00:14:28.520 Playhaven CEO Andy Yang acknowledged the firing, writing, quote,
00:14:32.960 Playhaven had an employee who was identified as making inappropriate comments at PyCon,
00:14:37.740 and as a company that is dedicated to gender equality and values honorable behavior,
00:14:41.820 we conducted a thorough investigation.
00:14:44.160 The result of this investigation led to the unfortunate outcome of having to let this
00:14:47.860 employee go.
00:14:48.960 We believe in the importance of discussing sensitive topics such as gender and conduct,
00:14:53.080 and we hope to move forward with a civil dialogue based on the facts, which unfortunately did
00:14:57.740 not happen.
00:14:58.140 But, you know, and you might be asking yourself, well, HVF photographed and pointed out two men who worked at Playhaven who were having this inappropriate conversation.
00:15:08.880 So you might be asking, why was only one man fired and not the other?
00:15:13.100 Playhaven went on to say in their statement that they would not comment on all the factors that contributed to our parting ways with the one developer.
00:15:20.800 So it's not totally clear, you know, what is actually happening, if the decision was entirely about what happened at PyCon or if something else contributed to it.
00:15:31.340 Right. This could have been a noted behavior from this person or some other reason.
00:15:39.180 Yeah, that's interesting. And kind of, I would say CEO Andy Yang actually taking action is kind of rare, I would say.
00:15:50.800 especially at that time so that's that's interesting to note here as well but yeah I
00:15:56.200 totally see what you're saying like there could have been other things there that we just don't
00:16:00.960 know and we'll never know but yeah what happened oh I know what happened I'm bummed yeah it's it's
00:16:09.020 not great and and honestly like I I mean I I don't know I don't have any kind of special insight but
00:16:14.920 But I would be willing to bet, just from what I know about how tech companies work, that Playhaven, that there was some sort of information that maybe we're not privy to, that Playhaven, like maybe this was a pattern, maybe there were other factors at play.
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00:19:17.700 So after Adria's tweet, everyone kind of starts responding to what happened.
00:19:23.500 Now, I absolutely do not think that Adria thought that this was going to blow up the way that it did with so many people beyond the tech conference weighing in.
00:19:33.860 Some people are supportive of Adria. Others are supportive of the developers. And I have to say, just to be really clear, not all the people who were not on Adria's side are men. I saw a lot of women weighing in and saying that they felt like Adria was making it harder for them as women in tech by being so oversensitive or not just talking directly to the men.
00:19:55.320 So it's certainly not a clear-cut men-on-one-side, women-on-the-other-side issue when people were just sort of talking about it and expressing their take on it.
00:20:06.180 The Fyre developer posted on Hacker News, and I have to say his post, which is still up, is actually pretty civil.
00:20:14.140 In my opinion, I do not think that the Fyre developer was interested or intended to whip up a hate mob around Adria.
00:20:22.840 I think that that was not a consequence that he was expecting or was welcoming in any way.
00:20:29.660 He apologized, saying, quote,
00:20:32.000 First, I'd like to say I'm sorry.
00:20:34.020 I really did not mean to offend anyone, and I really do regret the comment and how it made Adria feel.
00:20:38.700 She had every right to report me to staff, and I defend her position.
00:20:41.880 Which I think is, like, pretty gracious.
00:20:44.100 Yeah.
00:20:44.500 That's decent, yeah.
00:20:45.720 He also clarified her characterization of part of his comments.
00:20:50.000 He says, while I did make a big dongle joke about a fictional piece of hardware that identified as a male, no sexual jokes were made about forking.
00:20:59.700 My friends and I had decided that forking someone's repo is a new form of flattery, and we were excited about one of the presenter's projects.
00:21:07.800 A friend said, I would fork that guy's repo.
00:21:10.860 The sexual context was applied by Adria, not us.
00:21:14.580 and I you know I wasn't there so I can't speak to whether or not the forking part of that joke
00:21:21.160 was sexual or not I will say that with jokes oftentimes you know there's nuance and context
00:21:26.860 between friends that maybe can be easily missed when you're overhearing it I have no idea I don't
00:21:32.720 know if whether I don't know what he's I can't read into what he's saying uh sure yeah what do
00:21:39.240 think i'm like forking dongle if the shoe fits um but but sure sir yeah it's like it's hard it's
00:21:49.080 hard and what's what's funny is that after what i'm sure was like a well-intentioned clarification
00:21:55.700 of course people on the internet ran with that and they were like totally adria lied about what
00:22:01.880 he said and it's like well i could even if even if he is correct and she misrepresent or like
00:22:07.400 misunderstood it it's not really a lie like that nuance is completely stripped from the conversation
00:22:13.360 when bad actors on the internet get involved absolutely i mean we're out here analyzing
00:22:18.380 somebody's really bad middle school joke about dongles yeah and it's like i know what happens
00:22:24.460 next and it's like don't just like don't defend your bad joke i don't know like i'm if you meant
00:22:31.680 it that way or not putting the blame on adria just i don't think that was cool like i'm not i'm not
00:22:37.080 I'm not thrilled with that.
00:22:40.200 So this is something that I do have to take issue with.
00:22:43.280 In his post on Hacker News, he kind of implies that Adria personally taking his photo and tweeting it is the reason why he got fired.
00:22:51.960 He writes,
00:22:52.920 Adria has an audience and is a successful person of the media.
00:22:56.640 Just check out her webpage linked in her Twitter account.
00:22:59.260 Her hard work and social activism speaks for itself.
00:23:02.080 With that great power and reach comes responsibility.
00:23:04.540 As a result of the picture she took, I was let go from my job today, which sucks because I have three kids and I really liked that job.
00:23:12.820 She gave me no warning.
00:23:14.000 She smiled while she snapped my picture and sealed my fate.
00:23:18.000 Let this serve as a message to everyone.
00:23:20.360 Our actions and words, big or small, can have serious impact.
00:23:25.220 I have a question.
00:23:26.900 Well, sure.
00:23:27.200 I looked up Adria again on Twitter before we started doing this episode, and I'm sure it's changed since then.
00:23:34.060 But, you know, at the time, do we know what her bio was?
00:23:37.800 Do we know how many followers she had?
00:23:39.080 Anything like that?
00:23:39.700 Just as like a side note.
00:23:41.680 Yeah, I don't.
00:23:42.460 It's not super clear.
00:23:43.740 I think that when he said media, I don't think that he was saying it does actually relate.
00:23:49.640 I was going to put this in, but I didn't know how to say it.
00:23:52.660 I think that he was saying not that she is a member of the media, which, God, we know
00:23:57.380 members of the media are always attacked and maligned.
00:23:59.880 For sure.
00:24:00.200 I think that he was saying that she is a successful person of the media. Like, she gets glowing media attention. Because at the time, that was kind of her thing. I think that basically, I guess if I'm going to keep it real, this is just my opinion, I think he was trying to sort of imply that she is someone who is good at using the media and good at getting her perspective and her name in the media for her causes.
00:24:28.700 And I think that he was kind of trying to imply that in tweeting about his joke at this conference, that she was perhaps intending to get media on her side because she has a she's skilled at using media.
00:24:45.460 She's, you know, she's a YouTuber.
00:24:47.720 She's someone who, like, has a name for herself and is very visible.
00:24:51.720 So I think that he's making a nod toward her visibility, which is sort of incumbent on media and her ability to be a person in media.
00:25:01.040 That's what I think.
00:25:01.660 This is my opinion.
00:25:02.660 Yeah, it just comes off as, like, weird, weird, jealous vibes.
00:25:07.160 It's just the phrasing in what he said, it just comes off very, well, she's fake news.
00:25:14.560 and um why would you believe her when she knows like clearly she knows what she's doing here it
00:25:22.240 just reads very oh god it just reads witch hunt I hate it yeah you're absolutely right and I I
00:25:29.200 really struggled with how to deal with this nuance in the episode because I do genuinely think this
00:25:36.100 fire developer is trying to his best to be civil through a tough situation but I also think that
00:25:42.580 Like he is using a couple of key phrases that the audience definitely picked up on as, oh, she was trying to like use him and what he said to bolster her own career and to boost her own profile.
00:25:57.900 and the conversation around how adria richards handled this was very much steeped in she was 0.98
00:26:07.320 really calculated and she was doing this because she thought it was going to you know empower her
00:26:12.820 and boost her own profile and it was very like self-motivated i honestly think she just tweeted
00:26:17.860 it and didn't think much of it and it blew up in her face if i'm being honest just my perspective
00:26:22.160 But the way that he writes his statement, people, what you're calling out, people definitely picked up on and ran with it, that she is untrustworthy, that she is calculating and conniving and that she did this in a calculated, intentional move to clout chase and they're going to punish her for it.
00:26:43.500 How did she respond to his post?
00:26:45.720 So that is a great question.
00:26:47.000 So she writes to his post on Hacker News, she replies, I'm sorry to hear your employer decided not to work with you on this, and I hope they reconsider, bring you back and deal with it constructively.
00:26:58.620 So, again, she wasn't calling for him to be fired.
00:27:01.380 If she was, she could have easily, you know, said, like, this was on you.
00:27:06.180 You did this.
00:27:07.540 You agreed that you did it.
00:27:08.560 You should be fired.
00:27:09.280 She didn't say any of that.
00:27:10.120 She was like, oh, sorry to hear.
00:27:11.880 Not what I had in mind.
00:27:13.480 I hope they reconsider.
00:27:14.300 In my book, those are not the words of somebody who is gleefully watching the takedown of somebody they're hoping to clout build by tearing down.
00:27:23.640 No, not at all.
00:27:25.320 And I think this is one of those, it's part of the nuance of the conversation because I think you could argue that the men should not have been making these kinds of jokes at the conference.
00:27:35.080 And I also think that it's within the realm of possibility that you could take issue with the fact that Adria took a picture of these guys and tweeted it.
00:27:43.520 I am a big, I think that taking pictures of people, unless they're committing an act of
00:27:49.360 violence against you, I think taking and tweeting pictures of people without their consent is like
00:27:53.440 a no-no in my book, just personally. I think you could argue that she shouldn't have done that.
00:27:58.000 Side note, after the incident, PyCon updated its attendee procedure for handling harassment
00:28:02.900 to encourage conference attendees to report behavior privately and not to tweet about them
00:28:08.480 publicly like Adria did. And so their new procedures say public shaming can be counterproductive to
00:28:14.300 building a strong community. PyCon does not condone nor participate in such actions out of
00:28:19.460 respect. I mean, I think the word public shaming is such a loaded term. And it is interesting to
00:28:27.600 me that that is the language that they chose to update their procedures. They said, we don't want
00:28:32.260 bad pr so let's keep these things quiet they didn't say they didn't what they didn't say is
00:28:38.460 i mean like i guess they said it prior where they're like we don't condone this type of thing
00:28:42.180 but they made a public policy change that points the finger again at adria she's consistently
00:28:53.660 getting the finger pointed at her yeah public and and dare i say public shaming by python maybe a 1.00
00:29:01.200 little bit? I mean, I want to get into that, but absolutely. And it's so funny that you bring up
00:29:06.100 this idea of how people attending a conference should handle conflict. I am a longtime political
00:29:14.020 organizer. I go to a lot of like lefty, progressive political conferences. At the conferences that I
00:29:19.260 go to, they will call your ass out. Almost every single time I go to a conference, like a Netroots 0.99
00:29:26.320 or something, there is some elected official who's being booed or bird dogged or tweeted
00:29:32.160 at.
00:29:32.620 You know, I think Biden spoke there a couple of years ago and everybody was tweeting at
00:29:36.880 the conference and using the conference hashtag like, oh, why don't you go deport some people
00:29:41.060 or like, like, like I came up in a conference scene where it was expect, I totally expected
00:29:48.840 that you were going to handle whatever conflict you had entirely publicly.
00:29:53.820 So it is a little telling to me that they're like, oh, no, part of our code of conduct is if you have a problem with somebody, keep it on the hush hush.
00:30:01.220 Because it's like, well, I don't know.
00:30:03.420 I guess I feel like it shouldn't be up to the conference to decide how I feel is best to handle my conflict.
00:30:09.460 Like, I feel like that's almost like a personal choice.
00:30:12.560 It's a weird micromanagement by the conference.
00:30:16.500 I don't know.
00:30:17.980 Yeah, you definitely are somebody who spends more time at conferences than I do.
00:30:23.820 But unfortunately, I was like, I was like, I follow you on social media. And if you don't follow Bridget, follow Bridget. But yeah, that's weird. Anytime somebody's like, let's do this behind closed doors. I'm like, oh, red flag.
00:30:39.600 Yeah, I just feel like having that as a rule that you have to agree to in the Code of Conduct, just in general, I am not a big fan of a power structure telling me that I can't be public about something that I've experienced.
00:30:53.120 I guess let's put it that way.
00:30:54.480 Totally.
00:30:55.480 And so even if you think that Adria should not have taken the picture of these guys and tweeted it, Adria Richards does not handle HR decisions at Playhaven, right?
00:31:05.820 And they are the ones who decided to part ways with this developer.
00:31:09.600 Again, I have no evidence for this, but I suspect that there might have been other reasons why this developer was let go,
00:31:15.660 particularly because that they only fired the one developer and not the other, even when two men were photographed.
00:31:21.460 And it is really interesting to me how Playhaven just allowed Adria to become this very public scapegoat for their hiring and firing decisions. 0.50
00:31:31.380 They didn't speak up and say, hey, Adria doesn't work at Playhaven and did not force our hand. We made this decision. It's just interesting to me how they didn't take the flack publicly. This visible Black woman in technology was the one who got all of the negative attention for their decision.
00:31:51.800 And I guess I think, you know, companies back then certainly did not, and I would argue still do not, know how to handle it when there is a big public outcry happening around one of their employees.
00:32:06.440 Had Playhaven said, we're aware of the issue and we're taking the appropriate action, blah, blah, blah, you know, release some statement that says like, we know what's going on and we're going to handle it.
00:32:16.300 None of this would have happened.
00:32:17.260 You know, if people are mad that this developer was fired, they should be mad at Playhaven, not Adria. 0.99
00:32:23.760 But Adria is a Black woman, she's very visible, and she represents all of the different trigger points that make people mad.
00:32:30.880 She's Black, she's outspoken, she's a woman. 0.66
00:32:33.340 And she's very actively trying to shake up the status quo in technology as being this white male bros club.
00:32:40.880 All of which makes her an easy target when the actual decision makers are Playhaven.
00:32:45.980 And it seems like people were not just angry about the firing of this one developer.
00:32:51.440 What they were angry about is Adria Richards and what she represents in technology.
00:32:56.880 She represents technology and technology spaces becoming more accommodating to women and marginalized people. 0.84
00:33:02.680 She represents women and marginalized people having meaningful power in those spaces and feeling like they can actually take up space in those spaces.
00:33:11.040 And with that comes all the people who currently had power in those spaces feeling threatened,
00:33:18.120 feeling like the order that they're used to, where they're on the top and have the power,
00:33:22.220 might actually be upset and that they might actually have to make room for people who
00:33:26.940 traditionally have not had a lot of institutional power in technology spaces. 0.86
00:33:31.240 That's what she represents.
00:33:33.220 A good example of what I mean is the fact that when this all was going down, 0.98
00:33:37.280 three Redditors launched what they called the Feminist Defense Fund,
00:33:41.300 where they took donations in Bitcoin for the Fyre developer.
00:33:45.420 And in their plea for donations, they write, 0.98
00:33:47.740 Feminism has caused some serious changes to our culture, to our society, and to our lives.
00:33:52.380 We focus on some that are affected more than others, and we give back.
00:33:56.200 Our goal is to encourage men to speak out, to be men,
00:33:59.460 to not fear oppression, and to enjoy their freedom of speech.
00:34:03.860 Unfortunately, in today's climate,
00:34:05.560 being a man has become a financial liability.
00:34:08.060 Say the wrong thing in the wrong place
00:34:09.800 and you can find your entire life ruined, destroyed. 1.00
00:34:13.760 Feminists fought for equality, 1.00
00:34:15.680 but now they're out for our rights. 1.00
00:34:17.840 They're destroying us financially.
00:34:19.380 They're trying to tear apart our families.
00:34:21.420 We're saying that enough is enough.
00:34:23.160 No longer should men fear masculinity.
00:34:25.380 No longer should speaking up risk that man,
00:34:27.920 a job, a career, or a family.
00:34:30.120 It is time to rise up against the tyranny.
00:34:31.820 It is time to tell men it is okay to speak up.
00:34:34.280 We're here for you. 1.00
00:34:35.420 This is the Feminist Victims Fund. 1.00
00:34:39.680 It's so obvious what they're pissed about. 1.00
00:34:42.440 Oh, God.
00:34:43.420 Cry, cry, cry.
00:34:45.940 Oh, God.
00:34:46.800 That was great.
00:34:48.680 Man, read the room, my guy.
00:34:51.260 Yeah.
00:34:51.880 And it's like, it's so clear that they are using this as a proxy to fight these larger
00:34:58.100 kind of culture wars issue.
00:35:00.000 They don't care about this developer. 0.99
00:35:02.520 They don't care that even he agrees that joke that he made was stupid and inappropriate for the setting. 0.99
00:35:08.660 That's not what they care about. 0.99
00:35:10.000 They care about women, and in this case, specifically a Black woman, shaking up the status quo in technology and threatening what they see as the way that the world and society should work. 1.00
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00:37:58.960 Let's get into the fallout of what happened with all of this.
00:38:02.700 So, speaking of companies being really cowardly and caving to a mob, that is pretty much what happened to Adria Richards.
00:38:10.360 So after the developer gets fired, the internet, or more specifically 4chan,
00:38:14.640 really turned on Adria and her employer, SendGrid.
00:38:18.300 Adria, I have to say, is horribly, horribly harassed.
00:38:22.300 Her website gets a DOS attack, which is, if you don't know what that is,
00:38:25.360 it's a denial-of-service attack where essentially attackers flood a website
00:38:30.280 with more traffic than it can handle to shut it down.
00:38:33.060 What happened to Adria wasn't just people tweeting that they disagreed with her,
00:38:36.440 Nor was it just a few mean tweets or mean comments online, which, side note, funnily enough, a lot of the garden-variety mean tweets directed at Adria are still up as we speak.
00:38:47.420 You know, tweets like, quote,
00:38:49.640 Whore cost two men their jobs in this economy. You just made two families poor. I hope you feel good, hypocritical bitch. 1.00
00:38:56.540 Or, little did they know they were sitting behind some cunt. 1.00
00:38:59.900 Or, good job at being a picture book feminist bitch. 1.00
00:39:03.040 Or, why are you such a cunt? 1.00
00:39:04.340 You know, so definitely not nice stuff, but those are not even the tweets and messages and comments that I'm talking about. 1.00
00:39:11.660 The harassment that Adria Richards got was heinous, and worse, it was coordinated. 0.77
00:39:16.940 I personally witnessed many, many, many death and rape threats that she got. 0.98
00:39:21.520 Some of the worst people on the internet were telling her, en masse, that she deserved to die by suicide.
00:39:27.940 They doxed and publicized her home address and phone number to the point where she had to flee from her own home for her own safety.
00:39:35.800 Oh, cool. They're doxing her. That's scary stuff.
00:39:40.640 That's so scary. Yeah, it's terrifying.
00:39:43.820 4chan circulates a Change.org petition calling for Adria to be fired from SendGrid.
00:39:48.880 Meanwhile, a pastebin document claims that Anonymous has SendGrid's client list and that they're harassing their customers
00:39:55.000 and will continue to do so if they don't fire her.
00:39:58.000 Here's a bit from that post.
00:39:59.840 They say, 1.00
00:40:00.460 Adria Richards engaged in malicious conduct 0.66
00:40:02.960 to destroy another individual's professional career 1.00
00:40:05.540 due to what she perceived as an affront
00:40:07.680 to her own extremist views
00:40:09.160 from a comment that was not directed at her,
00:40:11.800 not meant for her to hear,
00:40:12.800 and certainly not for her to provide unwarranted input on.
00:40:15.780 As such, she should have her professional career
00:40:18.480 destroyed just like her victim
00:40:20.720 in order for justice to be rendered
00:40:22.540 and for balance to be restored in the universe.
00:40:25.000 The hive mind's judgment is final.
00:40:27.080 There is no appeal, no forgiveness, no forgetting, remember?
00:40:31.520 Real-life harassment is an escalation that comes into play
00:40:34.940 based on how long the situation is allowed to play out.
00:40:38.580 It is not affected by the effectiveness of previous forms of harassment.
00:40:42.360 Even if your customers and financial backers are dropping like flies,
00:40:45.920 this will still happen if anonymous maintains an interest in the situation.
00:40:50.220 Boxing is a term used to define the discovery and dissemination of all personal information,
00:40:54.220 included but not limited to home address, phone numbers, credit card numbers, your medical records,
00:40:59.600 what brand of toothpaste you buy, etc. If some of the more talented members of Anonymous take
00:41:04.400 interest into this, every employee of SendGrid becomes a target, starting at the top. For your
00:41:10.180 reference, this is already happening to Ms. Richards, as per standard protocol. So basically,
00:41:16.620 that's like a clear threat. Like this is, you know, whether this is legit or not, this is someone
00:41:22.500 basically trying to scare this major tech company.
00:41:28.840 So the attacks on SendGrid worsen.
00:41:32.260 SendGrid acknowledged that they had suffered a denial of service attack.
00:41:36.680 And so, you know, this is a major company and their website traffic is essentially shut down.
00:41:41.580 They're not able to have people go to their website, which is a pretty big deal.
00:41:45.100 And so I guess I feel like if I was running a big company, I would not cave to a mob that is outright threatening me.
00:41:55.400 But that's exactly what Syngrid did.
00:41:57.820 Syngrid eventually caved to this mob and fired Adria. 0.97
00:42:02.680 And they fired her publicly. 0.98
00:42:05.840 Cowards. 1.00
00:42:06.820 Fucking coward shit. 1.00
00:42:08.680 It's so cowardly. 1.00
00:42:10.180 And so they write on Facebook,
00:42:12.860 A few hours later, SendGrid CEO Jim Franklin
00:42:31.940 expanded on the company's reasons for firing Adria,
00:42:36.040 writing,
00:42:37.060 Syngren supports the right to report an appropriate behavior whenever and wherever it occurs.
00:42:42.760 What we do not support was how she reported the conduct.
00:42:46.480 Her decision to tweet the comments and photographs of the people who made the comments crossed the line.
00:42:51.380 Publicly shaming the offenders and bystanders was not the appropriate way to handle the situation. 0.63
00:42:58.300 And the aftermath of all of this was that Adria had to literally go into hiding.
00:43:04.960 And she was someone who had this big voice online and this big online footprint.
00:43:11.300 And she essentially stopped tweeting and stopped making videos and stopped putting her perspective out into the world after this happened.
00:43:19.140 And so, you know, I feel like so many people, for example, the men's rights activists who were raising money for the fired engineer, will talk so much about things like free speech, free speech.
00:43:31.400 But they almost never talk about the fact that somebody like Adria, who was someone who really did a lot of putting her voice out into the world, was effectively silenced when this harassment campaign against her began.
00:43:45.060 So she wasn't continuing to, you know, speak up.
00:43:48.220 And so when we talk about whose free speech is being threatened, it's almost never the marginalized people who have to stop speaking and are silenced when they become the targets of harassment campaigns like Adria was.
00:44:02.240 So that's basically what happened with Adria Richards.
00:44:05.820 And so there are so many takeaways here and so many things I think that we can learn from this situation.
00:44:12.200 One is that I believe that Adrian Richards' situation really ushered in this new understanding of situations that are complicated and involving real people being treated like tit for tat, you know, these culture wars and identity wars, point scoring, where our guy got fired so their guy has to get fired.
00:44:33.840 Or this happened, so that happened.
00:44:36.940 You know, they made a Black Ariel in The Little Mermaid. 0.62
00:44:40.120 So now they need to make a Malcolm X movie where Malcolm X is white. 0.72
00:44:44.200 Yeah, go ahead, bro. 0.80
00:44:45.620 Try that one.
00:44:47.080 Go ahead.
00:44:48.160 Yeah, it's a completely reductive and unhelpful thing that I think that Donglegate really ushered in.
00:44:56.480 You know, the big rallying cry in Donglegate was that because the Playhaven developer was fired,
00:45:02.980 that Adria needed to be fired just like he was.
00:45:06.340 You know, as that poster put it, 0.78
00:45:07.920 she should have to have her professional career destroyed 0.99
00:45:10.120 just like her victim in order for justice to be rendered
00:45:13.580 and for balance to be restored to the universe.
00:45:16.240 But in the real world of complexity and nuance and adults,
00:45:21.400 it's really just not helpful to have these situations
00:45:24.120 be viewed through this incredibly simple
00:45:27.560 black and white binary lens.
00:45:30.040 And when you do, you are creating the conditions
00:45:32.480 that are prime for bad actors to exploit.
00:45:36.520 And that brings me to my next takeaway, 1.00
00:45:38.620 which is bad actors, those fuckers ruin everything. 1.00
00:45:42.620 And I feel like this situation is a great example 1.00
00:45:45.500 because even though Donglegate was obviously very gendered,
00:45:49.980 I don't want to give the impression
00:45:51.200 that it was that all of the men
00:45:53.420 who did not agree with Adria
00:45:55.260 taking a picture of these guys,
00:45:57.460 it's not like all of them had joined in
00:45:59.580 on this harassment campaign against Adria. 0.69
00:46:02.480 And there were certainly women in tech who did not agree with Adria's actions. 0.70
00:46:07.100 One of them, Amanda Blum, who was a developer who worked with Adria IRL when she invited Adria to speak at a conference that she organized.
00:46:15.280 She writes in her blog post about how she did not have a great interaction with Adria.
00:46:19.260 She was like, oh, I don't really like her.
00:46:21.000 But that doesn't mean that this kind of harassment campaign against her is good.
00:46:26.360 You know, her piece, which we'll link to in the show notes, is this very measured piece about what went down and basically pointed out that she felt like everyone lost here.
00:46:35.360 It was just a loss for everyone.
00:46:37.360 And so I think that reasonable people could agree or disagree with what Adria did.
00:46:43.160 And they did agree or disagree.
00:46:45.720 There was a lot of substantive conversation online about what it means to be a woman in tech, how men can be allies to women in tech.
00:46:54.520 are men going to be, you know, afraid of making whatever joke or speaking up if they're working
00:47:00.420 with women? How can women and men and everybody all work together in these spaces? There was a
00:47:05.000 lot of really meaty, meaningful conversation that I think was sparked from Donglegate.
00:47:11.760 But what people remember was not the meaningful conversation or people like Amanda writing
00:47:18.160 measured takes about the situation. They remember the hateful mob, right? They don't remember any
00:47:23.040 of that meaningful conversation. So I believe that the kind of behavior like these coordinated
00:47:28.400 attacks that we saw from 4chan actually drown out debate and discourse. They don't make us
00:47:34.300 more thoughtful. They don't push us forward on all of the issues that we need to make progress on.
00:47:39.540 They keep us all polarized and enraged and frankly stuck having these silly circular debates about,
00:47:47.120 well, he got fired, so she should get fired, that don't help or serve anybody.
00:47:52.220 You know, an online mob like 4chan getting involved in this situation didn't make it 0.91
00:47:56.660 more clear.
00:47:57.200 It just inflamed it and polarized it. 0.98
00:47:59.280 And these situations already exist at tension points between things like race and gender
00:48:05.140 and conversations around inclusion in tech that we know are kind of heated.
00:48:09.540 You know, this predated that Google employee who kind of became an alt-right martyr after
00:48:14.480 he wrote that memo blasting diversity in tech, you know? So like, these are conversations that
00:48:20.000 are hot, that are tense. And, you know, as someone who works in combating myths and
00:48:27.120 disinformation, this is a textbook tactic of bad actors to purposely inflame conversations that are
00:48:33.840 rooted in these things that are legitimate tension and pressure points, and to hijack
00:48:39.300 those conversations and to weaponize them so that pretty much it ensures we can never
00:48:44.220 get anywhere on them.
00:48:46.040 And I think the sad part about all of this is that it sounds like from all public accounts
00:48:51.020 that Adria and the Fyre developer seemed like people who were being used as proxies in a
00:48:57.120 larger kind of identity culture war fight.
00:48:59.880 In that hacker news back and forth that they had, they seemed like two people who were
00:49:04.980 genuinely interested in coming to some kind of a conclusion with one another.
00:49:08.420 But that is simply not possible when bad actors, with an axe to grind, hijack conversations and are really invested in making those conversations as polarized as possible.
00:49:19.620 Yeah, I was going to say the comments section definitely wasn't looking to find a solution here.
00:49:25.060 They were just looking to cause more chaos and make things worse for everybody.
00:49:31.260 in the fire developers post there are people who are like when he apologizes for his comments
00:49:37.780 don't apologize how is that helpful if somebody has taken a look inward at their own behavior
00:49:42.520 and feels the need to apologize and this goes for pretty much all conversations if a celebrity is
00:49:48.240 saying something on the internet there's always and they apologize for something there's always
00:49:51.940 going to be that one stan in the comments who's like queen don't apologize like we love you you
00:49:57.520 know what I mean? I certainly do. Another takeaway from this is that companies and institutions
00:50:06.660 just didn't know how to deal with mobs back then. And frankly, I don't think they've gotten much
00:50:12.600 better today. You know, as fucked up as 4chan shitheads were here, my real beef is actually 0.99
00:50:19.200 with Playhaven and SendGrid. This was happening back in 2013, and maybe none of us, and by 0.98
00:50:25.160 extension, the people who run companies didn't know how to handle it when a mob swarmed around
00:50:29.880 one of their employees. You know, Playhaven was ultimately the decider in deciding to fire that
00:50:34.940 developer that Adria photographed. They didn't have to do that. And they certainly did not have
00:50:40.240 to let Adria take the fall for what was entirely their decision and no one else's. And to that
00:50:46.820 point, they didn't even if this was somebody that that deserved to be fired for reasons we don't
00:50:52.120 know about. They didn't need to make it public and therefore point that mob towards Adria. 0.73
00:51:01.460 And then just sit back and say nothing as this mob tore her apart as she had to flee her home 0.98
00:51:08.160 and lock down her entire online presence that she had been building forever, you know?
00:51:12.860 Totally. Completely. Yeah.
00:51:14.700 And looking at Syngrid, I'm sure that Syngrid as a big tech company 0.86
00:51:19.020 loved having a visible Black woman in tech when Adria was making their company look very inclusive 0.97
00:51:25.600 and forward-looking. But when that same employee was facing racialized harassment, 1.00
00:51:30.340 they did not support her. And this is sort of a side note pet peeve of mine.
00:51:35.880 People are so fond of saying things like, oh, support Black women, champion Black women,
00:51:41.140 support their leadership, without acknowledging that part of supporting the leadership of Black
00:51:47.700 women is also being honest about the climate that a lot of Black women will be coming into.
00:51:52.920 You know, if you're a visible Black woman coming into a pretty white, pretty male field, 1.00
00:51:58.300 you might have a little bit of a tougher time. And ignoring it and pretending that is not the case 0.97
00:52:03.580 is not actually supporting Black women. And so I always say, don't just support Black women.
00:52:08.640 Also work to create the conditions where Black women can actually have an equal playing field 0.95
00:52:12.860 and thrive in the work that you want to support them in. 0.99
00:52:17.100 SendGrid also did not have to cave
00:52:19.700 to these coordinated 4chan mob attacks
00:52:22.240 that were threatening their business
00:52:24.260 via harassment and denial of service attacks.
00:52:26.680 You know, SendGrid, if I had been running SendGrid,
00:52:29.060 I would have said, you know,
00:52:30.780 hey, people who are angry, we hear you,
00:52:33.540 but our personnel decisions are our private business
00:52:35.940 and we will handle this privately.
00:52:38.080 Even if they felt like Adria deserved to be reprimanded,
00:52:41.400 I think it's pretty rich that in their statement, public statement on Facebook about her firing, that they say that, oh, we're against public shaming and Adria publicly shamed these men and then said nothing as Adria was harassed publicly with rape and death threats and racial slurs and then fire her in public, completely inflaming the very public shaming that she was going through.
00:53:05.660 It's just cowardly.
00:53:07.780 And these are the exact same kind of tactics that would go on to fuel Gamergate, you know,
00:53:12.260 coordinating on message boards like 4chan to avenge some perceived grievance around
00:53:16.600 women and feminists and marginalized people claiming power in a tech space. 0.97
00:53:20.840 You know, in the case of Gamergate, video games. 0.51
00:53:23.220 I would argue that if we had done some real collective analysis after Donglegate, we might
00:53:28.640 not then have allowed bad actors to basically do the exact same thing a year later with
00:53:33.900 Gamergate.
00:53:34.420 I think things would have gone very differently had we had some kind of public accounting for what actually happened, who were the major players, and what decisions allowed those tactics to be weaponized in that way.
00:53:45.400 And I feel like today, you know, the targets may have changed, but the tactics are pretty much the same.
00:53:51.280 You know, we still see the same kind of thing play out.
00:53:54.240 A small handful of bad actors have pretty much used this playbook to get their way, and I think they're going to continue doing it until we do something.
00:54:02.960 For example, by now I think that most folks listening know that just this last week,
00:54:07.480 there was a violent attack on Nancy Pelosi's husband, Paul Pelosi,
00:54:11.500 who was attacked with a hammer to the head while he was sleeping
00:54:14.580 by an assailant who claimed that he wanted to break Nancy Pelosi's knees
00:54:18.740 to send a message of fear to other Democrats.
00:54:22.420 And per the writings of the accused attacker online,
00:54:25.400 it was Gamergate that, you know, for lack of a better word, radicalized him,
00:54:29.900 And that he described Gamergate as the turning point in his own trajectory, politically.
00:54:35.160 Now, I have a ton to say about this.
00:54:37.580 We're going to do a whole other episode later this week all about this.
00:54:41.480 But I'll just say right now that Gamergate provided this connection between the cultural and the political. 1.00
00:54:47.260 You know, you're angry about women taking up space in technology and gaming, so you use these tactics to harass and attack them and take away their power.
00:54:54.820 and it really created a blueprint
00:54:56.700 for how those same tactics
00:54:58.580 could be weaponized politically as well
00:55:00.600 which I think is exactly
00:55:02.360 what we're seeing right now
00:55:03.420 and maybe if when all of this
00:55:05.800 was happening with Adria Richards
00:55:07.080 if the takeaway hadn't been
00:55:08.820 to just blame her
00:55:09.840 for her own harassment
00:55:10.880 and to think a little bit more clearly 0.95
00:55:12.960 about how these same tactics
00:55:14.660 might be perfected
00:55:16.240 and abused and weaponized
00:55:17.620 on larger and larger scales
00:55:19.320 targeting more and more people
00:55:20.660 maybe these Gamergate tactics
00:55:22.800 would not be happening
00:55:24.040 as part and parcel of our current political and social landscape now.
00:55:27.920 You know, things like people coordinating on Facebook pages
00:55:31.040 to flood schools with calls about teachers who they suspect of being LGBTQ
00:55:35.420 or, you know, they suspect of teaching something that they don't like in schools,
00:55:40.120 which happened to a Georgia schoolteacher, Cecilia Lewis,
00:55:43.860 who we'll talk about in a later episode of this podcast.
00:55:46.100 You know, that's definitely a tactic that I see
00:55:48.580 that was really refined in Donglegate and Gamergate
00:55:53.620 And rather than taking some kind of action to have that not be a tactic that is so easily weaponized against people who are marginalized, now it's just a tactic that we all have to live with, whether you're marginalized or not.
00:56:06.440 Now it's just part of our political and social landscape that, unfortunately, I worry is not going to go away.
00:56:13.940 In fact, is going to become worse.
00:56:15.620 It also happened recently to a woman named Nina Jankowicz, who was the former head of the Biden administration's disinformation governance board, who eventually had to resign and go into hiding after a right wing smear campaign against her.
00:56:29.020 You know, I think it doesn't take that many people to really disrupt and shut down institutions if those institutions do not know how to handle it when one of their employees is being attacked in this coordinated way like these women have been.
00:56:45.780 And it also is one of the reasons why, and I know this is perhaps a bit of an unpopular opinion, why I think that it's not great when the Internet rallies together to like call someone's boss to get them fired, even if I ostensibly agree with like that person needs to be fired.
00:57:06.780 I definitely have seen situations on the Internet where I'm like, oh, well, that person should not hold the office that they hold.
00:57:13.820 But I just don't think that the tactic of coordinating people to call someone's an employer or to disrupt their work or their life is a good one because companies are cowardly and we know that they will cave to mobs.
00:57:27.600 And I just think it turns into an easily gamified numbers game that I know the worst people on the internet can definitely coordinate to get a flood of angry emails or tweets to give the impression that there is a broad consensus where really there is none.
00:57:43.560 And I'm certainly not going to act like I don't find it cathartic when I'm seeing a video of a racist in public lose their jobs. 1.00
00:57:51.940 I fucking love that shit. 1.00
00:57:53.020 Who doesn't? 1.00
00:57:53.680 I'm not going to say that I...
00:57:55.060 It's a good time.
00:57:56.560 It's a good time.
00:57:57.460 I'm not going to say that I'm like above that, but I just know that that tactic is so easily weaponized by bad actors coordinating for bad.
00:58:08.480 And so I just think it's something that as good stewards of the Internet, we have to really be careful when we traffic in tactics like that, because it is a tactic that is well worn by bad actors.
00:58:20.860 And I don't think it's getting us to a place that is better on the Internet.
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