Park Mom Birthday Cake Drama, DeSantis Campaign Deep Fakes, Amazon’s Spy Ring, YouTube Disinfo Is Back, Facebook Still Awful, New Twitter CEO — NEWS ROUNDUP
00:05:17.820Like, it definitely paints a larger portrait of negligence.
00:05:21.060You know, this is all part of a push by the FTC to regulate big tech and hold companies
00:05:25.420accountable to putting profit above privacy.
00:05:27.960Now, I have said this probably a hundred times on this show.
00:05:32.040I get why someone would want a Ring camera for their safety or to feel secure in their homes, but I would never allow one of these devices in my home.
00:05:41.120You know, not that I would ever break any laws myself, but people should be aware that police can and have accessed your Ring footage without your consent and without a warrant because Ring partners with police departments.
00:05:54.400And it sounds like even after having to pay out millions of dollars for these violations around spying and privacy, Amazon is still not admitting wrongdoing, saying in a statement that they disagree with how these instances were framed by the FTC, but they did pay these fines.
00:06:09.500And so it just goes to show like these companies don't care. They don't care about your security. They don't care about your privacy. And they're callously preying on and fostering a climate of fear, fear around crime, fear around your neighbors, and tricking us into thinking that it is a safe choice to have their devices in your home while all the while they are out here putting us in danger.
00:06:31.100I completely get a lot of us feel vulnerable right now, feel scared right now. I totally get it. But I believe that Amazon is inflaming and exploiting and taking advantage of this vulnerability that we might feel to sell us technology that ultimately harms us.
00:06:46.880Yeah, and like you mentioned, this story happens to be about Amazon, but it could just as well be a story about Google, who we talked about last week, or Tesla, who a few months ago was in the news because their engineers similarly had unfettered access to the cameras inside people's cars, and they were using that to share videos of each other of like, hey, look at this guy picking his nose in his car.
00:07:10.500LOL. But, you know, it could be Facebook, could be any of these big companies, because this is
00:07:16.620just the sort of thing that we get in surveillance capitalism when we bring these devices into our
00:07:23.220homes, where privacy is just an afterthought. And the commodification of our personal data
00:07:29.500is a gold rush for these companies, so much so that, you know, a few million dollars in fines
00:07:35.320here and there is well worth it to them uh and so in this case you know it's not like the amazon
00:07:41.200executives were getting in on the creeping i assume uh it was just greg and maybe some of his
00:07:47.180buddies but i feel like i'm using greg as a stand-in for the creepy employee because i've
00:07:53.780have been binge watching succession so i'm like oh someone was doing something creepy
00:07:57.880has to be greg just like a name on the top of my mind that i'm associating with like
00:08:03.560lecherous creeps no offense to any gregs out there listening you're not all bad0.98
00:08:08.280no just the one who's a member of the disgusting brothers0.64
00:08:11.680but yeah they i mean yeah so they you know greg's the one creeping but it's the executives at the
00:08:19.980top that allowed it to happen with these lax security controls when they i would or you had
00:08:25.420a responsibility to limit access in a way that would protect people's privacy um but they they
00:08:31.900didn't, because why would they willingly put road bumps in the way of unfettered access to all of
00:08:40.380the data just to feed back into their profits and helping them make more sales? And without
00:08:48.280regulation, that's just going to keep happening. And I just don't think that, what, like $30
00:08:52.700million is an amount that a company like Amazon is really going to feel. To me, I mean, I am happy
00:08:58.940that they're having to have some kind of a show of accountability to how they have wronged the
00:09:03.520public. But I don't think this is an amount of money that they are going to feel. And just the
00:09:08.160fact that before 2017, anybody, a ring employee and their vast network of contractors could just
00:09:16.000look at anybody from their ring cameras they wanted is just the scale of harm is so much
00:09:24.180bigger than the amount that they have to pay in punishment that I cannot imagine this is going to
00:09:29.180be something that they that like gives them pause in terms of how they're harming people in the
00:09:33.480future. And, you know, I didn't even know about the fact that Tesla was using people's cameras to0.99
00:09:38.860like share jokes with each other. Think about the grossest, longest car trip that you've ever taken1.00
00:09:45.820where there's just Wendy's bags and used Kleenex on the ground and you're driving barefoot and0.98
00:09:52.120you're disgusting. Imagine that video being used in Greg's Slack channel just to have a laugh.
00:18:34.580YouTube, which is owned by Google, will no longer remove videos falsely claiming that the 2020 presidential election in the United States was stolen, reversing a policy put in place after the 2020 vote.
00:18:45.280In a blog post, the company says, quote,
00:18:47.480It will stop removing content that advances false claims that widespread fraud, errors, or glitches occurred in 2020 and other past U.S. presidential elections because things have changed.
00:18:58.000Well, what's changed? Why are they doing this?
00:19:00.220According to YouTube, because free speech.
00:19:05.140In the current environment, we find that while removing this content does curb some misinformation, it could also have the unintended effect of curtailing political speech without meaningfully reducing the risk of violence and other real-world harm.
00:19:17.480I just want to jump in there real quick to break down that quote that you just read, because it's so telling.
00:19:22.500They say, we find that while removing this content does curb some misinformation, it could have the unintended effect of curtailing political speech.
00:19:32.800Right. So they're on the one hand, they're acknowledging that it does curb misinformation.
00:19:38.160it is actively today preventing harm from being done. And yet they are going to remove those
00:19:45.820protections out of potential maybe fear about something that could potentially occur in the
00:19:54.680future. And it's so backwards and silly and infuriating. Yeah, it's like the Gettysburg0.97
00:20:00.520address of kowtowing tech PR bullshit speak where they say we are we acknowledge that what we are
00:20:08.540doing will has prevented harm but what if it could increase free speech question mark let's find out
00:20:15.800right and I gotta say like I feel a little bit personally invested in this because getting
00:20:21.100Google to agree to take down this kind of misinformation is something that I personally
00:20:25.960worked on and my platform accountability work. This has definitely been, I mean, I've tried not
00:20:31.040to dwell on it too much because what does that get you? But this has definitely been the year
00:20:36.100of a lot of policies that did verifiable good and verifiably made platforms safer in clear ways.
00:20:45.980This has been the year of seeing those policies be walked back, be changed. So it's a little
00:20:52.040personally distressing to me, but that's neither here nor there. They do say that they will
00:20:58.000continue to take down content that misleads voters about when, where, and how to vote,
00:21:02.640and claims that discourage voting, and content that encourages others to interfere with the
00:21:07.160democratic process. But knowing a little bit about this, that's just not how it works, right?
00:21:12.800Donald Trump didn't go on television and say, I think people should go to polls and harass
00:21:19.600poll workers. I don't think he explicitly said that, but that was how that message was interpreted
00:21:24.720and filtered down. And so this really flies in the face with what we know about how election
00:21:33.640disinformation and misinformation works. People don't go on TV and say, do X, Y, Z in an explicit
00:21:40.240way. It's very roundabout. It's very the implication. And so saying like, oh, well,
00:21:46.240we definitely understand that misleading people about how to vote, content that encourages people
00:21:52.140to interfere with the democratic process, saying that that is content that you will take down
00:21:56.660because you recognize that as harmful and dangerous, it doesn't make sense that you
00:22:01.080would think that that is dangerous, but that is not how it really works. Bad actors are really
00:22:06.800good at staying just on the right side of not needing to have their content removed. That is
00:22:12.360like something that they are very good at. It is their bread and butter. And so saying that someone
00:22:16.160will have to meet this very specific threshold to have their content removed by YouTube is just
00:22:22.220inviting people to make content that stays just a hair on that side of plausible deniability
00:22:28.140that essentially encourages just that, you know? Yeah, that's right. And it's a moving,
00:22:36.240shifting target and to really meaningfully address it or moderate that content or remove
00:22:43.600that sort of content that is sneakily just on the the just a hair shy of being over the line
00:22:51.300you know it it's a tough problem and i can understand why platforms like google really
00:22:57.860just want to punt on it. But it's also super important for our democracy and the cohesion of
00:23:06.960society. And also, let's just talk about this BS. Oh, it could threaten free speech. Literally
00:23:13.580this morning, I saw a post from Trump on Truth Social that said that the 2020 election was
00:23:20.380stolen. It's not as if there are no places in society or on the internet that one could say
00:23:26.080those lies if they wanted to. Trump does it literally every day and has been for the last
00:23:32.020few years, right? And so what I am saying is that there is no reason for a company like YouTube
00:23:37.080to allow that on their platform. Not being able to say it on YouTube doesn't mean that people
00:23:42.520aren't able to say it. People say it all the time, right? It's just like, it's such an abdication
00:23:46.360of responsibility and leadership. And I should say that this is actually one of the last planks
00:23:51.980of post-insurrection digital infrastructure
00:23:55.400that was put in place after the violent insurrection.
00:23:58.480YouTube was actually one of the last platforms
00:24:00.680to have a policy against 2020 election denial.
00:24:03.900Twitter started adding labeling of false claims
00:24:07.640about the 2020 election early last year,
00:24:20.380The decisions of these platforms about what sort of content they're going to allow and what sort of lying, disingenuous, dangerous content they might prohibit, that's not a free speech issue, right?
00:24:34.100That is a business decision by these companies of how they want to operate and what role they want to play in a pluralistic society.
00:24:46.340And I think it really shows, it's just like another plank in how these platforms are, I guess I'll use the word preparing, but really it's the opposite of preparing for the upcoming election.
00:24:56.080Like YouTube restored Trump's account back in March so that users could, quote, hear equally from major national candidates.
00:25:02.920You know, I think it really shows that platforms and also media outlets like CNN, who platform Trump to just like lie and smear and slander people for an hour.
00:25:13.020I think that these platforms have really learned nothing from the last few years.
00:25:18.380You know, verifiable lies about our democratic process and our elections is not discourse.
00:25:32.520By now, platforms should have a game plan about how they're going to deal with verifiable
00:25:37.400lies about our democratic process in a way that is ethical and responsible, or at least
00:25:41.900more ethical and more responsible than just like, let anybody lie, because that's what free speech
00:25:46.920is. Yeah, I mean, they just want that sweet, sweet engagement. They know that Trumpy outrage
00:25:53.800drives clicks and eyeballs, and they want a piece of the action. You know, Google's business is
00:25:58.940selling ads, and integrity and responsibility really have nothing to do with it. And it's
00:26:06.820tragic and dangerous because YouTube is so powerful and has such a large impact on our
00:26:13.920discourse, on our democracy, that they should feel a sense of responsibility for the content
00:26:19.460that they amplify and promote. But they've just demonstrated time and again that they don't and
00:26:25.120that they're going to choose outraged engagement and selling ads every time. Platforms, huh?
00:26:32.040Yeah, let's talk about another platform that is generating a bit of outrage, and that is Reddit.
00:26:37.820So popular platform Reddit announced some changes this week, and users are not happy, to say the least.
00:26:44.280So if you don't know what Reddit is, I love Reddit.
00:26:47.040It's kind of known as the front page of the internet to a point where if you need to answer a question
00:26:52.540or you need some real, human-vetted, reliable information, it is a common practice to search whatever you need,
00:26:58.940plus Reddit, to quickly get to an actual answer.
00:27:01.420I once heard somebody say that, like, if they were in a fire, the last thing Googled on their phone would be, like, how to fight fires plus Reddit.
00:27:09.980Like, I died trying to get the answer from Reddit.
00:27:12.820And Bridget, didn't you used to be, like, a power moderator on Reddit, like, years ago?
00:27:37.340But if you log on on your phone, the app, the Reddit app is very janky.
00:27:42.080And it's also full of ads to the point that it, I would say that it's, like, I won't say unusable, but it's not a pleasant user experience.
00:27:49.220It's, like, almost unusable, the amount of ads that pop up when you're trying to use it.
00:27:54.220So to get around that, a lot of folks who use Reddit on mobile use third-party apps like Apollo.
00:27:59.400And these apps only work because Reddit allowed those third-party apps to have access to their API, basically have access to their backends.
00:28:07.100And all of that is changing because now Reddit announced that they're going to start charging those third-party apps a pretty high price for the access that they've always had.
00:28:17.060You might remember that Twitter did something pretty recently, too.
00:28:19.600So pretty much every third-party app that relies on Twitter's API has announced that they will not be able to operate if Reddit continues with this plan to charge them the amount that they're asking to be charged to continue to have access to the back end.
00:28:35.220Well, this is like such a surprising trend for platforms to make because I think I was reading like a Tom Friedman book a while ago.
00:28:47.860Tom Friedman yeah it was a uh I don't remember why I think it was like in an airport and it felt
00:28:54.480like the right thing to do or something but he was he was talking about like after the the 90s
00:29:00.420and the dot-com boom how like APIs were the big thing that enabled the internet to like take off
00:29:06.480and flourish because you had all this interoperability and uh and I think he was right
00:29:10.920about that. He was wrong about a lot of other stuff, but, uh, but yeah, like APIs were a great
00:29:19.220invention, right. And allowed platform, arguably, you know, these, all the third party apps that
00:29:27.080allow people to interact with Reddit, uh, in ways that are better than Reddit's native app
00:29:36.500makes available, help people use it, help grow their user base. And it's so surprising to see
00:29:43.860platforms like Reddit and Twitter clamping down on the very thing that helped them grow.
00:29:52.880Well, so one of my favorite third-party apps for Twitter, BlockParty, which is a great tool to
00:29:59.880mass block people who are like harassers or bad actors on Twitter, they announced that they're
00:30:05.980taking an indefinite hiatus because of this change where they're now charging for Twitter,
00:30:11.000access to Twitter's API. Now, Reddit did walk this back a little bit, kind of along the lines
00:30:15.680of exactly what you were saying, saying that these new API terms would carve out an exception
00:30:20.740for accessibility apps, which allow users who are blind or visually impaired to browse Reddit,
00:30:25.780because I guess Reddit does not have a way for people who are visually impaired to browse it.
00:30:29.860And so exactly what you were saying, that these third-party apps via API access are able to create a more inclusive experience to include more users, which Reddit has not done.0.54
00:30:41.580So really, like, I'm no expert on this, but in my book, it's like Reddit should really be paying the people who it's like, oh, well, you've just completely shut out blind users.0.96
00:30:50.660Luckily, we have found a workaround to include them.1.00
00:30:55.740Yeah, and that is an interesting note here, right?
00:30:58.920Like Reddit is pretty different than Twitter in a lot of ways, right?
00:31:04.660Like Reddit, to my understanding, really survives and thrives on the active participation of its users.
00:31:13.080And I would imagine that some of them, particularly like you just mentioned, those who are blind, who rely on these third party apps to use it.
00:31:23.340I would imagine that some of those users might not love this change.
00:31:28.920Well, they certainly do not. And in fact, the Reddit community is very vocal and they do not
00:31:33.300take stuff like this without a fight. So they are organizing to fight back. The platform relies on
00:31:38.780an army of unpaid moderators. I used to be one of them. And honestly, Reddit would not function
00:31:44.080without these moderators giving a lot of their free time and labor to keep Reddit subreddits,
00:31:50.980which are like the different communities on Reddit, going. They all signed an open letter
00:31:56.900to Reddit saying that oftentimes third-party tools offer better moderation tools than the
00:32:02.020ones that Reddit does. They say, many of us rely on third-party apps to manage our communities
00:32:06.700effectively. The potential loss of these services due to the pricing change would significantly
00:32:11.080impact our ability to moderate efficiently, thus negatively affecting the experience for users
00:32:15.900in our communities and for us as mods and users ourselves. It honestly sounds like these
00:32:21.100moderators are just generally fed up with what they feel is a lack of communication and transparency0.99
00:32:25.440from redder higher-ups to Reddit moderators who, again, basically their unpaid labor is the reason
00:32:31.800why this site is able to function. On June 12th, much of the site's subreddits are planning a
00:32:36.740blackout, which means that individual subreddits will lock into private mode, meaning that anybody
00:32:41.020who is not already a follower of these subreddits will not be able to access them during that time
00:32:45.260or see that content. So if you don't use Reddit and you're thinking, who cares, what's the big
00:32:50.200deal? We're talking about millions of people, right? Some of these big subreddits that are
00:32:54.500going dark in protests have upwards of like three or four million people on them. And I think it does
00:33:00.520kind of come back to what you were saying, Mike, about how, I mean, I don't want to give Thomas
00:33:05.520Friedman too much credit, but this idea of APIs and opening things up and having it be a more
00:33:10.380inclusive experience, I really see this Reddit thing. And the reason that I wanted to talk about
00:33:15.400it here, I really see it as a part of a larger fight about the internet and who the internet is
00:33:21.060for and what it is for, right? There is this great piece in Wired about the inshittification of the
00:33:27.100internet, which kind of posits that this is how platforms die. First, they are good to their
00:33:31.800users. Then they abuse their users to make things better for their business customers. Finally,
00:33:37.280they abuse those business customers to claw back all the value for themselves, and then they die.
00:33:43.600I totally agree with this, and I feel it everywhere. Not even just on social media
00:33:50.140platforms, just everywhere. I feel like everything online eventually has to, whatever little joy or
00:33:57.640life or love, it has to just bleed it to make a little bit more money for people who are already
00:34:04.960rich. You know, Instagram, 10 years ago, Instagram felt fun and cool. Like I remember when Instagram
00:34:11.720first was a thing, I didn't, I wasn't on Instagram because I didn't feel cool enough. I was like,
00:34:16.160oh, there's nothing cool in my life to show.
00:34:17.700Everybody is, like, putting sepia filters on their pictures.
00:35:37.520A huge part of the bad vibes you feel everywhere these days is because every single aspect of our lives is being squeezed by companies shaking us down.
00:36:04.640I think I'm there where it feels like every little bit of joy is being squeezed and mined for whatever little capital can be taken from it to make some rich guy who was already rich a little bit more rich.
00:36:17.500And I think I'm really yearning for online spaces that felt like they felt when I was a bit younger, you know, that felt like connection and community building and joy.
00:36:25.240And it feels like we are ceding more and more of the Internet solely to people who want to make money, right?
00:36:30.640Whether it's capital for wealthy investors or people who want to sell you something or outright scams.
00:36:37.180Yeah, we got to bring the weird, joyful internet back.
00:36:41.160Yeah, I want to see, like, I don't want to date myself, but I want to see more weird internet spaces that are just like, here's my weird cartoon website.
00:36:52.900Here's my big spoon or my salad fingers or my teen girl squad.
00:36:58.780all those are real are real things look them up kids they're very funny yeah there was like funny
00:37:05.120stuff there was joyful stuff i feel like it's out there too right like there is still the
00:37:09.820infrastructure to create the those things and maybe the problem is that we're all spending our
00:37:14.560time on the big platforms because everybody else is there maybe we gotta get off i don't know i'm
00:37:20.140just like speculating and losing the thread here so that's i mean it's it's pretty messed up and
00:37:25.680dark and i have to we have to talk about this like speaking of dark messed up stuff online
00:37:30.740we gotta talk about this i know we i don't want to spend too much time on it because it like
00:37:35.160genuinely nauseates me but we have to talk about this new wall street journal report about instagram
00:37:39.620um trigger warning here about uh abuse of children it is horrific the wall street journal
00:37:47.480just published an expose showing that instagram has been algorithmically promoting a vast trade
00:37:52.700of child sexual exploitation material.
00:37:55.520The journal said that it conducted an investigation
00:37:57.060into child sexual exploitation material on Instagram
00:38:00.180in collaboration with researchers at Stanford
00:38:02.140and the University of Massachusetts Amherst.
00:38:04.600They found that pedophiles have long used the internet,
00:38:07.340but unlike forums and file transfer services
00:38:09.800that cater to people who have interest in illicit content,
00:38:12.780Instagram does not merely host these activities.
00:43:43.840I actually could kind of see her being the kind of person who thinks that if you follow mainstream journalists, that means that you also have to follow accounts like libs of TikTok to sort of represent both sides and have balance.
00:43:57.380Like I was like, I probably I could easily see her being the kind of person that feels this way.
00:44:02.820Now, her coming on as CEO does not necessarily signal big changes at Twitter.
00:44:07.640Musk is staying on as the owner and he says that he wants to focus more on like tech issues.
00:44:12.860Media Matters reported that Twitter's lawyers told a court that hiring her as the new CEO
00:44:17.500will not result in different content moderation strategies.
00:44:21.140So if you had, you know, high hopes for new content moderation strategies that maybe don't
00:44:26.800allow for things like hate speech, attacks on trans folks, crypto scams, and porn bots,
00:46:18.180I saw a pretty interesting piece in BBC about how with Yacanero's background working with
00:46:23.840advertisers, Musk was basically trying to purchase trust to woo advertisers back.
00:46:29.620Maybe she'll be less, like, chaotic than Musk? Maybe?0.94
00:46:36.600So if you're thinking that she sounds like she might be a grown-up in the room, might be somebody
00:46:41.360who can sort of steer the ship in a better direction than Musk has, that is a well-worn
00:46:49.140phenomena in business. There is this theory in business called the glass cliff, where
00:46:53.480women are basically brought in to clean up the messes made by terrible men in power.1.00
00:46:59.560A good example of the glass cliff was after the gaming company Blizzard had a massive1.00
00:47:03.900gender discrimination and harassment lawsuit.0.71
00:47:06.880They hired in 2021 Jen O'Neill, who was the first female lead of the company, right, who0.99
00:47:11.540was sort of like brought in seemingly to kind of clean up this mess.1.00
00:47:16.100Now, I absolutely do think that that is what some of what's going on here, that a woman0.94
00:47:20.860is being brought in to clean up this mess made by a man.
00:47:23.260and the sort of signal that a grown-up is in charge and that it's no longer like a frat boy in charge.
00:47:30.160But I also think that she is kind of being set up to fail in a lot of ways.
00:47:36.720You know, it's tough to be such a high-profile hire, one, have to appease a demagogue, which we know Elon Musk is, too,
00:47:46.840And then have to handle that, navigate that, while also signaling to advertisers that big changes are coming to woo them back.
00:47:57.120You know, it's this very difficult dance.
00:48:00.700I would say it's like an impossible dance to have to dance.
00:48:03.520The way that people are talking about her background really signals to me that she is being set up to have to accomplish something that seems at least very difficult, if not impossible.
00:48:12.960People have described her as someone who really likes to be a superwoman and someone who would see a mess of a company and voluntarily want to go in and feel like they can fix things.
00:48:25.680By the way, I hate this framing. I can't even really verbalize why I hate this. There's just something about it that feels very much like women have to be super women to be in the room.
00:48:40.260that they have to be, they can't just be included from the jump. They have to be super women who are
00:48:46.420not just able, but excited to clean up a mess that was just clearly made by a man who had too1.00
00:48:53.840much power and didn't know how to handle it, you know? Yeah. And if you think about the mess that
00:48:58.460is Twitter, it really all started when Elon took over, right? Like, I guess it had financial
00:49:08.500problems before then but it wasn't the chaotic toxic place that it is now where uh i mean among
00:49:20.300my friends i don't know too many people that really spend much time there at all anymore he
00:49:26.000he's really i don't know tank the brand however you want to say it it'll be interesting to see
00:49:32.600how bringing on this new ceo will be for twitter there was a very interesting piece about the glass
00:49:38.500cliff phenomena and wired, to which Yaconero responded on Twitter, quote, as someone used to
00:49:43.380wearing foreign cheels, let's be crystal clear, I don't teeter. Which, okay, I'll give it to her.
00:49:48.300Kind of a good line. I'm not going to lie. But it's clear, like, we need to be clear,
00:49:52.680Musk is staying on at Twitter. So even with a new CEO, this is still his company. He's not going
00:49:57.440away. And Musk does not have a great track record when it comes to working alongside women.0.96
00:50:03.400I believe that Musk is a misogynist. You don't even have to look very far to see the ways in
00:50:08.420which he is a misogynist either. There are like a hundred different examples that I could give
00:50:12.580you off the top of my head that immediately come to mind. If we listed all of the ways that Trump
00:50:16.580or Trump, oh my God. He's also a misogynist. No, keep that shit in. They're both misogynists.0.98
00:50:24.340They actually remind me of each other. It's not surprising to me that I can use one for the other.
00:50:28.560So, you know, if we listed all the different examples that come to the top of my head,
00:50:32.500we'd be here all night. He tweeted a crass joke about wanting to start a university called
00:50:37.360the Texas Institute of Technology and Science, aka TITS as the acronym. Side note, it's never
00:50:44.840even a good sexist joke, right? Like I hate misogyny and sexism, but I love humor. And if
00:50:52.960a sexist joke was legitimately funny, I would acknowledge it. This isn't even a good joke.
00:50:58.760It's not even good misogyny. If you're going to be a CEO that is this powerful and tell
00:51:05.280misogynistic jokes don't give the joke that a million of us have heard in the frat a thousand
00:51:10.680different times you know it's a bad joke like it's it's like a beavis and butthead level joke
00:51:15.920uh but like not even good enough to actually be on beavis and butthead uh which is a excellent show0.99
00:51:22.780uh including the reboot like i am someone who deeply appreciates stupid jokes and stupid humor0.98
00:51:29.460And this is not even like, I can't even appreciate it.0.99
00:51:32.480So the day after he tweeted this, Tesla became the subject of a gender discrimination lawsuit0.75
00:51:58.260Yeah, an acronym that spells out tits, which is a body part that is sometimes found on female anatomy. Oh my god, like, get this, get this guy a Mark Twain award, somebody.1.00
00:52:10.180So according to a report from Business Insider, Musk secretly fathered twins with Siobhan
00:52:15.120Zills, a female executive at his company Neuralink.
00:52:17.860So we don't know much about their relationship, but if you're the head of a company and you're0.85
00:52:22.420having sex with your underlings and your staff, I feel comfortable saying that at the very0.69
00:56:54.200so i know that this has been a little dark but i do have a little bit of good news would you like
00:57:03.020to hear it yes please so it's gonna start with some bad news but trust me it'll get good stick
00:57:08.600with me i probably don't need to tell y'all that book bans are on the rise in the u.s with books
00:57:14.360that center lgbtq voices accounting for about 41 percent of challenged books this is according to
00:57:19.960America. Attempted book bans at school and public libraries set a record high in 2022.
00:57:25.620This is according to information from the American Library Association.
00:57:28.800Obviously, that is terrible. But here's the good news. At a White House Pride event yesterday,
00:57:34.360Biden announced a slate of actions aimed at curbing discrimination against LGBTQ communities,
00:57:39.060including the appointment of a new point person who will serve as a coordinator
00:57:42.800at the education department to address the increase in book bans. That's good. I like to
00:57:48.380see that. But here's a little bit more positive news. Despite all of those bans and all of those
00:57:53.680restrictions and all of those attempted attacks by extremists to challenge and ban books about
00:57:59.220LGBTQ people, people still really, really want to read about queer folks and are going out of
00:58:05.620their way to do so. Sales of LGBTQ plus books soared to record highs in 2022, even as a small
00:58:12.380but vocal army of extremists try to ban queer-themed titles and attack inclusive education
00:58:16.960across the country. U.S. readers bought 6.1 million LGBTQ plus fiction titles over the past
00:58:23.300year ending in May 2023. This is according to a new report put out on Tuesday by consumer
00:58:27.940analyst group Circana. That marks an 11% jump in growth since last year when around 5 million
00:58:34.580total units were sold and a massive 173% explosion since 2019 before the COVID-19 pandemic.
00:58:41.640Yeah, this is a really important context. The growth in LGBTQ fiction has outpaced the overall market for fiction sales, including adult, kids, and young adult fiction combined, which remained relatively flat.
00:58:54.040This is from Kristen McLean, a book industry analyst.0.99
00:58:56.960So it just goes to show you can try to ban queerness and transness and gayness out of existence.0.99
00:59:03.300People still want to see it represented. People will go out of their way to get that inclusion because that is what people want.0.76
00:59:09.460the extremists who are trying to ban and legislate that out of existence are out of step with the
00:59:16.600desires of the majority of the country, I believe. They are a small but vocal group of extremists,
00:59:22.800and there are more of us than there are of them. And I think that is great news.
00:59:27.300That is good news. Thank you for sharing that. It's good to be reminded that the right-wing
00:59:34.060bigots are a minority and they are freaking out because they know it and they know that they are
00:59:42.180going to go extinct so i've got a little bit of bonus good news for you uh two different good
00:59:49.680news stories in one episode i don't know it's not really good news exactly but the good news is that
00:59:56.500one of my favorite things in the world is low stakes online internet drama where there are no
01:00:02.320clear like good guys to root for and the entire internet is like weighing in on what they think
01:00:07.080and some of that happened and so it's good news for me personally Bridget. So here's what went
01:00:13.780down. There's two moms. Let's call one Park Mom and the other Birthday Cake Mom. So Park Mom gets1.00
01:00:21.180on TikTok and explains the situation. She says that she took her kid to a public park and there
01:00:25.620was another family there who was having a birthday party for their kid. Her kid basically starts
01:00:30.700playing with this other family, having this party. It's time to sing happy birthday and do cake.
01:00:36.820So Park Mom is watching her kid. It sounds like from the other side of the playground.
01:00:41.440Park Mom says that she watches her kid get a plate, sing happy birthday, and clearly have
01:00:47.460the intention that they're going to have birthday cake. That is when birthday cake mom takes the
01:00:53.720plate away from the kid and says, you're not going to have a piece of cake. These are not
01:00:59.540your friends this is not your party where is your mother devastating so park mom in her tiktok says0.99
01:01:08.060basically am i the asshole park mom is horrified she cannot believe that birthday cake mom would0.99
01:01:16.080speak to a kid this way she cannot believe that birthday cake mom who had a what she describes as0.99
01:01:21.680a big sheet cake with lots and lots of cake to go around plenty of cake for her kid would deny1.00
01:01:26.760her kid a slice of cake. She asks the internet on TikTok, is she wrong? So this is why I love
01:01:35.800this drama so much. It's one of those things where there is no clear right answer and everybody is
01:01:43.200weighing in and what people weigh in with actually says more about them than it does about the
01:01:50.320situation. Because the situation, we actually don't have a lot of information. How old are
01:01:54.080these kids. You know, some people were like, oh, well, I wouldn't give food to someone else's kid
01:02:00.080that I didn't know. Like, what if they have an allergy? Other people were like, well, who's
01:02:03.340allergic to birthday cake? That seems like a weird thing to just suggest that maybe they're
01:02:07.320allergic to birthday cake. Read every comment, love every minute of it. You know, it sounds to
01:02:14.380me like, if I'm being honest, it sounds to me like Park Mom just kind of let her kid join this other
01:02:22.000family and never went over and introduced herself or said like, hey, I'm whoever. Is it cool if my
01:02:28.000kid hangs out? Let me know if they get annoying. Just assume that it was fine. Kind of a point
01:02:32.740against Park Mom. Also, I feel like snatching a plate from a kid and saying, these are not your
01:02:38.660friends, a little bit harsh. I probably wouldn't do that. But I'm like, I don't know who is in the
01:02:45.380right here. I just love that it's low stakes. There's no clear, correct answer. Everyone on
01:02:51.000the internet is weighing in and their weigh in says more about who they are and what their values
01:02:57.020are and you know who they are as people in the world than it does about the actual situation
01:03:02.42010 out of 10 love this kind of low stakes internet drama yes please it is nice that it's so low
01:03:10.460stakes you know no like i feel for the kid who didn't get the cake it sounds like park mom was
01:03:16.640also pretty upset uh yeah so upset or entitled mike yeah well you know i'm trying to refrain
01:03:26.540from sharing my my thoughts here no you what do you what if you have you have a take like what's0.96
01:03:31.880like who do you think is in the wrong well i mean just give the kids some damn cake like what the0.96
01:03:38.040hell like one person's an adult the other person is a kid who wanted who like came to sing the0.98
01:03:45.700birthday song and like play with some other kids and like have some cake like regardless of who's
01:03:51.280like truly morally in the right or like violating someone else's personal property or whatever like
01:03:58.540one of them is a kid who sang the birthday song and wanted a piece of cake the other one's an adult
01:04:04.060well so i saw a lot of people on the internet being like this kid the birthday cake mom probably
01:04:10.040was annoyed by this kid the whole time and was probably like where's your mom to come get you
01:04:14.440Not to excuse her behavior, but was in one of those situations where you're getting more and more and more annoyed.
01:04:22.500And then you're just like, now it's coming out at an outburst that doesn't really make sense.
01:04:26.660It is kind of at the wrong person, which I know very well in my personal life.
01:04:34.800I think if I had been Park Mom, I probably would have – I find it frankly unfathomable that someone could watch their kid playing with another family.
01:04:43.940And it wouldn't occur to them at some point to go up to them and be like, hey, like, I'm Sally. This is my kid. Like, is this fine? You're cool with this? I think it's surprising to me that a mom wouldn't, you know, do that. I think that's probably what I would do. Probably, honestly, would have, like, solved this whole thing.
01:05:02.240It also was surprising to me that a grown woman would be, like, snatching a plate from a child.
01:05:06.440That's why it's so good, because everybody but this kid has done something that I would not suggest adults do.
01:05:13.960Everybody's behavior is a little bit off.
01:05:16.160Maybe that's part of what makes this so satisfying.0.99
01:05:18.280It's almost like reality TV, where, like, am I the asshole?1.00
01:05:21.520Like, actually, everyone's the asshole.1.00
01:05:23.700You know, Park Mom probably should have been keeping a better eye on her kid.1.00
01:05:27.640Birthday Mom probably could have given the kid some cake.
01:05:30.500I guess I do want to give birthday mom a little bit of grace here because like I've thrown a party in my life, you know, a couple of times and it's stressful and it kind of makes me a bit of a head case.
01:05:44.980i like to think that i would still be like kind to a child but you know it's a high pressure thing
01:05:52.980maybe she had trouble tracking down the sheet cake and like the kids keep running around and
01:05:58.360yelling and like where's birthday dad is he helping i don't hear anything about him in this story
01:06:03.540it makes it better than it's two moms i feel yeah it actually i think i think i was telling
01:06:10.200you about this that it reminds me so you and i had very i know that you and i had a very different
01:06:14.640upbringing, says children. I grew up in the suburbs. You grew up on a farm and like in a
01:06:19.720very rural community. So this was not something that you really knew about. But when I was a kid,
01:06:25.140I have visceral memories of in the summertime going out to play on our street with other kids.
01:06:32.220One of the other kids would be like, hey, you want to come back to my house? I would say, sure.
01:06:36.520I would go back to this kid's house like a couple blocks away. I would get there. Their mom would be
01:06:41.960there. So it'll be like, oh, you are now expected to keep an eye on this stranger kid from down
01:06:48.900the street. And half the time, I think we would expect food. So it's like, oh, hi, mom. It's not
01:06:54.520just me, the kid that you are caring for. It's a stranger's kid that you don't even know. And she
01:07:02.720expects lunch. I think there is something kind of entitled about sending your kids with strangers