00:01:30.720There Are No Girls on the Internet is a production of iHeartRadio and Unbossed Creative.
00:01:38.820I'm Bridget Todd, and this is There Are No Girls on the Internet.
00:01:44.400People who engage in sex work face hostility online.0.94
00:01:47.780But they're also the ones who remain at the forefront of understanding technology, the Internet, and the role that it plays in all of our lives.
00:01:54.080From increased online surveillance and legislation like SESTA-FOSTA, it's people who engage in sex work who are often sounding the alarm about how online harms might start by targeting one community like sex workers, but will later manifest for all of us.
00:02:09.800So, in conversations about the future of the internet and technology, it's critical that all marginalized voices, including sex workers, are included.
00:02:17.860My name is Olivia Snow. I am a dominatrix and a research fellow at UCLA's Center for Critical Internet Inquiry.
00:02:26.360Olivia studies sex work, technology, and policy, and writes about it on the internet.0.92
00:02:31.220She's been doxxed and harassed online for it, too.0.99
00:02:33.780But that hasn't stopped her from centering sex workers in conversations about the internet and technology.
00:02:39.840So something that I love about your work is that you really like lean into and interrogate this intersection of sex work and technology in the Internet.
00:02:50.740Like, why do you think it is so important for people who care about the Internet and technology to understand how sex workers show up on the Internet, how sex workers use technology?
00:03:01.380And how has that been sort of prescient about where we're headed next?0.90
00:03:05.440I feel like sex workers are sort of like, they know what the fuck is happening on the internet and where we're going.0.99
00:03:10.980Shit that, like, it's like they are constantly calling stuff correctly.1.00
00:05:13.380Is there a vibe that you feel where it's like a constant kind of, I told you so, or a constant
00:05:18.980kind of like I hate to be right all the time where folks engaged in sex work are like constantly
00:05:24.360talking about these increased levels of surveillance and digital judgment um and have been kind of for
00:05:29.100a while oh absolutely and like you know I used to really love being like I told you so because I'm0.87
00:05:34.800like an kind of an asshole but like I don't love it now I hate it um I'm working on an article right
00:05:41.700now where like canary in the coal mine is the metaphor that's usually used but like that depends1.00
00:05:47.360on the minor actually listening to the canary and getting the fuck out of mine it doesn't happen
00:05:50.880it's more of a like cassandra kind of situation where we're like god like and you know people
00:05:56.600think we're making it up um so like i got banned from doordash about a year ago
00:06:01.180and i tweeted about it went like semi-viral um and a bunch of sex workers were in my replies like
00:06:07.800oh my god this happened to me like what the fuck and then a bunch of uh non-sex workers were like0.90
00:06:12.780well i i don't know how are you sure like maybe it was something else like did you violate terms0.99
00:06:21.120of service or whatever um and you know like it was abundantly obvious to me because i've also
00:06:29.320been you know i've been kicked off that mod i've been kicked off cash up i've been kicked off
00:06:32.440field which is weird because that's like a kink site i'm like really really i've been kicked off
00:06:38.020tinder um and you know it's it's a tiktok like a bunch i'm my tiktok account has been suspended
00:06:44.460like i think twice and i've never even posted anything on tiktok ever like at all um so it's
00:06:50.720clear to me that there's some type of data sharing happening whether it's um you know that you're
00:06:55.320on the same device whether you know other whatever details i don't know i'm not that kind of doctor
00:07:00.780but um um you know an algorithmic sweep of high-risk accounts then sex workers are going
00:07:07.720to get caught up in it um which like i mean also i feel like responses at least my personally
00:07:14.220losing doordash was kind of like like oh well i'll make you a new account or like how can i0.95
00:07:19.300send you a sandwich and i'm like no that's not the point point is that like fucking doordash0.70
00:07:25.580is like somehow privy to this information it's frustrating i guess to i mean and i i don't know0.92
00:07:34.060if it's necessarily gaslighting because like I guess people really do believe that I'm you know
00:07:41.020making it up or whatever or like this can't be true you know DoorDash isn't well actually no
00:07:45.940DoorDash I remember when this went viral and the New York Post reached out to DoorDash they were
00:07:49.600like no we would never so that's gaslighting but um yeah I don't know it's it's yeah it's frustrating
00:07:56.900it's one of those things that people really have to listen to and center marginalized people sex
00:08:03.460workers very much included when you're thinking about the future of the internet and so much of
00:08:07.200your work is like speaks to that and looks to that and like you know when we're thinking about
00:08:12.060the kind of internet that we want to have making sure that those voices are centered like you know
00:08:16.720when we have legislation like the kids online safety act that you know has so much bipartisan
00:08:23.040support when you hear things like oh this is a law to legislate the internet in order to protect
00:08:30.940kids protect kids what goes through your mind like what do you think when you hear stuff like
00:08:34.000that i mean you know if you'd asked me that question six years ago i'd be like we should0.97
00:08:40.300protect kids like literally nobody at least nobody in congress gives a single shit about0.73
00:08:46.560protecting kids i'm like half these people were on like the epstein book what like they0.80
00:08:51.580they do not care um it's clearly like a smoke screen for increased surveillance to me like
00:08:59.720that's all i think at this point i do not believe anyone i mean i won't i mean we've seen it you
00:09:03.880know in other sectors like the like rising homophobia that i personally haven't seen since
00:09:09.680like 2004 um that's also you know protecting kids from like groomers or whatever the fuck
00:09:15.980um you know it's just i i i don't even think that that people making those claims at this point are
00:09:23.400doing it like i don't i don't think they're doing in good faith period you know this is always and
00:09:28.340you know it's not necessarily about sex workers but yeah this is always about increased surveillance
00:09:32.100they do not care about kids if they cared about kids they'd be working on guns are they working
00:09:36.520on guns no so like that's yeah it's and it keeps working like also like i mean i know i'm like
00:09:49.720relatively quite privileged like i'm a white woman with a phd like that's pretty high up there
00:09:56.660um and i often get pushback that's like like you're a privileged white woman because i'm like
00:10:03.540well yeah exactly and you're still not listening like
00:10:07.120like i mean imagine if i if i weren't like then we wouldn't even be having this argument because
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00:12:18.520Roe vs. Wade was overturned almost a year ago.
00:12:21.600And since then, we've all had to navigate what online privacy really means
00:12:26.540when simply accessing information online about abortion
00:12:29.380can be used as evidence to put people behind bars.
00:12:32.960Now, this is something that sex workers know all too well.
00:12:35.520That same vast network of online surveillance and criminalization used to target sex workers also threatens people who need abortions.
00:12:44.200In a piece for Wired called Are You Ready to Be Surveiled Like a Sex Worker?
00:12:48.540Olivia points out that this post-Roe world is simply the next step in a larger campaign to expand state surveillance and erode the right to privacy, a campaign that sex workers have been fighting for decades.
00:12:59.900do you see a connection between sex work and abortion rights as it pertains to the internet
00:13:05.080and the way it's legislated oh yeah um i mean just like the ways that they're tracked like okay so
00:13:10.560this is going to be an underground economy you're going to have to use cash they're also going to be
00:13:14.720monitoring how you use cash um you know your your like geolocation will be weaponized um
00:13:22.260you know like facial uh recognition technology at like traffic stops might be used to identify you0.90
00:13:29.380like shit that you thought was private isn't in a lot of the same ways um not like almost1.00
00:13:37.560all of the same ways um and i mean it's all just you know uh trying to restrict what women do with0.98
00:13:46.720their bodies you know and like regardless of if that you know is the actual outcome i think that's
00:13:52.460the intent uh on one hand on the other hand i'm like i don't i also don't care what the intent is
00:13:58.920because, like, I don't want to waste my time being like,
00:36:55.180just like all the micro regressions inherent in all of this shit um and you know i'm thinking i
00:37:00.860was asked a few months ago to give a talk on like how to have a safer internet and i remember being0.95
00:37:06.760like what that is a ridiculous question because you cannot have a safer internet until we have
00:37:10.920a safer society because the internet is just a reflection of that then intensified so like sure
00:37:16.580you can create some kind of ai to identify and take down like child sexual exploitation material
00:37:23.580but is that going to keep kids safe? No. Like, not at all. You know, like, I, yeah.
00:37:30.640And it's funny because, you know, your experience with Lensa, with them saying,
00:37:34.660well, you could be facing, you know, some sort of punishment. And it's like,
00:37:40.880even if Lensa, the app, even if the tool has a rule against uploading pictures of children,
00:37:46.900if there's no safeguard, if you're allowed, if you're able to do it, in what way is it really
00:37:50.940a rule, right? If you can just do it and still get those images, how is it a rule if there's no
00:37:56.540safeguards? Right. And with them, I was like, I'm not writing this to embarrass you. It's not like
00:38:03.420a gotcha. It's like, hey, this is violent. Maybe you should work on making it less violent. And
00:38:10.400of course, the response is like, let's be more violent. I'm not trying to ruin your business
00:38:17.780model i'm trying to be like hey guys this is actually really dangerous this is really dangerous
00:38:22.980maybe we should work on making it less dangerous um and just you know i i i get being defensive
00:38:29.000you know i i'm like i've certainly been accused of being like you know a trafficker or whatever0.98
00:38:34.420on twitter because everyone's a fucking idiot um like no one likes getting that you know pointed0.99
00:38:39.560out to them especially in a public forum but like uh you're like missing the forest of the trees1.00
00:38:46.380here yeah are you concerned about things like ai generated deep fakes and like a marketplace for
00:38:51.640oh yeah oh yeah the only thing that makes me that gives me some faint horrifying glimmer of hope is
00:39:00.660that um that technology is just becoming more and more widely available and i wonder if like
00:39:08.600deep fake revenge porn will just become so ubiquitous that the like first response will
00:39:15.800be like oh that's deepfake revenge porn instead of like oh that's real right yeah it's oh absolutely
00:39:22.000and i mean it's already become a problem see i remember in that once a piece i wrote something
00:39:27.020like like you know what like in four to six months deepfake revenge porn is going to be
00:39:32.200everywhere and i'm like lo and behold four months later they're like streamers and shit um just
00:39:37.960getting harassed with this um and you know it's revenge porn is interesting too and i think this0.99
00:39:43.960goes back to like why people like fucking with sex workers and just like marginalized people0.97
00:39:47.760in general is that like it's not necessary it's not physically violent you're not like0.98
00:39:53.400punching someone in the face you're you're you know but you are i mean and even beyond like
00:40:01.080damaging their reputation and damaging their career the like psychological warfare of some0.99
00:40:05.820of this shit where it's just a constant environment of fear um not even of what you're actually doing0.92
00:40:13.380But not even what you could be perceived as doing. I mean, I see very little benefit to AI, if any, considering its potential for harm.0.99
00:40:27.260Yeah. I personally have a little bit of trouble wrapping my head around all the different conversations about AI. What is PR? What is true? What is like doomism? What is marketing? Where do you think, how do you think AI is going to shape the experience of marginalized people 10 years down the line?
00:40:46.240i mean i think that like there are some things ai is like actually good at and it's like stupid
00:40:51.220mundane office shit like i need to come up with a course description for a class i've just and i've
00:40:56.600been meaning to just get on chat gpt and be like hi chat gpt you give me a course description for0.93
00:41:02.800blah blah blah and then you know like tweak it or whatever but like you know writing like mundane
00:41:07.040emails and shit like i i can't even imagine the number of hours i spent in grad school thinking0.93
00:41:13.020like should i sign it with best or sincerely like that kind of shit you know ai i think is is good0.97
00:41:20.600for but you know i cannot imagine without um without restriction what well like i i maybe i0.66
00:41:34.080could but i like don't want to you know like um you know i don't think that ai i know ai is not
00:41:40.420sentient i think that's a ridiculous argument um but the way that some of this gets coded gives
00:41:47.200ai not the agency but like doesn't restrict it from doing like wildly harmful shit um0.97
00:41:54.840and you know i i really can't see a functioning society if ai continues at the pace that it is
00:42:01.760i mean and of course that like rests on the assumption that we're currently in a functioning
00:42:05.760society which like is questionable um i know i i really can't um think of how that could possibly
00:42:17.920be a reality that anyone could live in i mean we're in this very weird moment in technology
00:42:25.380right now platforms feel weird the future of platforms feel weird all this ai stuff0.99
00:42:31.300fuck elon musk fuck elon musk forever what the fuck i know it is it is bad i mean and i'm just0.99
00:42:39.800like the people i know personally who worked at twitter who had like their entire lives upended1.00
00:42:43.460and like lots of livelihoods i mean you know that which is such a like minor piece of the puzzle of
00:42:48.820like how he has fucked up the entire fucking internet yeah it's yeah i mean when we're0.54
00:42:54.620thinking about going forward like why do you feel it's so important to include like why is it so0.98
00:42:59.240important to make sure that the voices of sex workers are, like, really at the forefront when
00:43:05.000we're thinking about the future of the internet and the future of tech? Well, I mean, so sex
00:43:09.600workers, A, have to be on top of tech because we're, like, one of the first things in any
00:43:15.900terms of service is, you know, no sex-adjacent anything. Like, thanks, FOSA SESTA. You know,
00:43:23.620we're going to fight prostitution or whatever by making sure that, like, you know, a dominatrix1.00
00:43:28.520can't get a burrito right yeah good job yeah so we already have to you know like sex workers
00:43:35.440on the whole are a lot more familiar with like internet privacy and like how to use vpn and how
00:43:41.620to use like cryptocurrencies and shit um so like i mean that that's the the one but the other0.96
00:43:49.100b being like sex workers are consistently the most loathed and dehumanized people like0.98
00:43:56.480period you know like i think of like like no humans involved what that has referred to0.98
00:44:04.560it's been what what was it how did sylvia winter put it i think it was like black boys without jobs
00:44:11.140um undocumented people i want to say and and sex workers um and we are we're so consistently
00:44:20.400dehumanized we're not seen as people if we are seen as people that it's only for like sadistic
00:44:24.960purposes that we are seen as such um and we are you know constant we're perceived as a safety
00:44:31.580threat um so to keep ourselves safe we have to you know be take these i want to say like see
00:44:39.660almost bizarre measures um to like stay safe in an environment that perceives our existence as a
00:44:47.960threat um and you know i think what i think is unique to sex workers in that respect is having
00:44:55.760to be like a step ahead of the curve and that like or like actually being specifically prohibited
00:45:01.900by policy because you know there are all kinds of demographics that are fully dehumanized but
00:45:08.240um you know sex workers aren't seen as like i guess like a demographic you know i've been trying
00:45:14.960to like theorize this where like the internet kind of makes sex work like a fixed identity
00:45:19.680like even if you're not doing sex work you're still a sex worker um and you know especially
00:45:25.920with the way that um that like search engines and shit go are you know i i don't know if i0.98
00:45:32.640would still be in sex work if i hadn't been doxed by my full name which is ethnic as shit i'm the0.96
00:45:37.640only one on the planet with this goofy ass polish name i don't know if i'd still be doing it but at0.98
00:45:43.020this point I'm like it's kind of a waste if you know why would I be applying for academic jobs0.98
00:45:47.720in fucking literature when they're going to google me and find out that you know I was a dominatrix0.97
00:45:52.080in 2019 I might as well be making money off of that because you know now I'm always going to be0.99
00:45:58.760a dominatrix like that is always going to be online the way that like sex workers work too
00:46:03.460has been kind of like misunderstood and misapplied which you know sex workers work means that or
00:46:08.740should mean that sex workers deserve labor protections like any other worker or workplace
00:46:12.980safety protections um or like sex workers should you know who experienced violence
00:46:18.480should be able to you know report them to be protected for it um or from it um but instead
00:46:26.040this like i feel like the popular view is like sex work is just another job like working at um
00:46:32.740like the mall which means i can treat sex workers as terribly as i treat other low-wage workers
00:46:38.600no that is not it like no yeah and like well why didn't you just get another job and like
00:46:44.780that's not what you know and I get like I think it's hard to to communicate that you know like
00:46:55.380whore phobia is kind of like an amalgamation of all these other um like biases or like
00:47:03.520matrices of oppression um and that like the stigma is so bad that in almost every scenario
00:47:11.260you're not going to turn to sex work unless you have exhausted every other option um which is why
00:47:17.360you know sex workers are usually like working class or poor or women of color or trans people0.85
00:47:24.920think that sex work or like whore phobia is something you can like opt out of or like you0.70
00:47:30.240could just quit being a sex worker versus like i can't quit being like a jewish woman um but like0.97
00:47:36.280no you can't actually like even if i wanted to no one will let me um and i don't i think that
00:47:46.040that kind of nebulousness of sex worker as an identity also makes us such like a ripe um0.95
00:47:55.800a test population i guess for this kind of shit i saw this headline maybe like a week or so ago0.98
00:48:03.640and it was like the fbi or the you know secret service or whatever misused some surveillance0.99
00:48:10.260technology that was supposed to identify january 6 writers which side note was my worst birthday
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