There Are No Girls on the Internet - November 29, 2023


Sam Altman’s OpenAI CEO drama shows the shortcomings of male leadership in tech

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00:01:32.360 You've probably heard of OpenAI, the company that makes ChatGPT.
00:01:37.360 Last week, OpenAI had major drama and a major board shakeup.
00:01:42.720 Now, there's been no shortage of coverage of what happened.
00:01:45.620 We'll get into the broad strokes in this episode.
00:01:47.540 But even before all of this, the truth is that OpenAI,
00:01:51.600 this company that has taken up so much space and conversations
00:01:54.740 about what kind of future we're going to have, 0.52
00:01:57.080 was already very white and very male.
00:01:59.580 And that's even more true after this week's board shakeup.
00:02:04.000 So, what does all of this say about gender and identity in tech and beyond?
00:02:08.280 And what does it mean for the rest of us?
00:02:11.300 Dr. Misty Hagenis, associate professor in the School of Public Affairs and Administration 1.00
00:02:15.620 at University of Kansas, studies how gender plays out in places like tech company boardrooms. 1.00
00:02:21.320 How did you come to be somebody who cares about how women show up in workplaces,
00:02:25.720 in the economy and in data? Well, I am a woman who lives in this society and tries to thrive
00:02:34.560 in this economy. And so, you know, I guess I'll just say I came by it naturally. You know, I'm
00:02:43.980 a data nerd. I'm an economist by training. I've always been interested and driven to really try
00:02:55.100 to understand kind of how we can all live our best lives and to figure out what are the barriers
00:03:02.000 and challenges that hold people back. So last week, Misty and I both watched the OpenAI CEO
00:03:09.060 drama unfold. There are lots of AI companies and organizations out there, but OpenAI and their CEO,
00:03:16.500 Sam Altman, have kind of become the face of AI right now. And pretty unexpectedly, OpenAI's
00:03:23.320 board voted to terminate Sam Altman as the CEO last week. In a statement, the kind of statement
00:03:28.800 that seems to be signaling that the ousted person did something bad, the board said Altman, quote,
00:03:34.820 was not consistently candid in his communications with the board, hindering its ability to exercise
00:03:39.980 its responsibilities. To this day, we still don't know what communications he was not candid about
00:03:45.460 specifically. But this was just the start. So as someone who cares about the way that women show up
00:03:52.000 in places like boardrooms, I have to know your thoughts on the open AI CEO drama. When I watched
00:03:58.480 it unfold, all I could think was like, wow, these men really do not feel like competent, stable
00:04:03.960 leaders to me. What were your initial thoughts? Same. Misty is an economist, and she specifically
00:04:11.100 studies high-skilled workers, like the kind who staff tech companies like open AI. Her work doesn't
00:04:17.260 have a specific AI focus. But she saw the ways the OpenAI saga wasn't just a story about who
00:04:23.460 runs this company. It's a story about gender. In an op-ed for Fast Company called How the OpenAI
00:04:29.840 Saga Illustrates Tech's Toxic Masculinity Problem, she breaks down what the entire thing says about
00:04:35.360 male leadership in tech and beyond. You know, there's a story here about the women, but there's 0.99
00:04:40.920 perhaps even a more interesting story about the men. And I just couldn't get over the feelings
00:04:47.500 that I was having of the way in which male privilege and this ability to refuse to back
00:04:57.960 down when told no was really showing up in this story. And the gender piece was so glaring for me
00:05:06.300 that I just couldn't not see it.
00:05:09.680 And I think that was happening for a lot of us.
00:05:12.740 I completely agree.
00:05:14.260 And what's funny is that I think it took a while
00:05:16.980 for that narrative to sort of like become the conversation.
00:05:21.000 I think early on the conversation was,
00:05:23.460 look at these powerful men
00:05:25.480 like disagreeing with each other in public,
00:05:27.600 like what's going on?
00:05:29.080 But I think after a while, people were like,
00:05:31.700 hey, this is a conversation about gender,
00:05:33.660 about the dynamics at play with male leadership.
00:05:38.840 And we should be paying attention to that.
00:05:40.480 I think that a lot of people might have you believe
00:05:42.960 that when you're only talking largely about men,
00:05:46.600 there are no gender dynamics at play.
00:05:48.440 Like this is something that I've often thought
00:05:49.860 that like, you know, when it's all men,
00:05:53.560 like for there to be a gender dynamic at play,
00:05:55.980 there has to be someone who's not a man.
00:05:57.820 And so we've just sort of like accepted maleness 0.82
00:06:01.540 as the default gender in a way that I think invites people to not see when there are very
00:06:06.480 obvious gender dynamics shaping what's happening.
00:06:09.680 Totally.
00:06:10.340 I will tell you that, you know, a couple of the men around me when I started thinking
00:06:15.560 about this opinion piece were really like the reaction was, well, what does this have
00:06:22.160 to do with gender?
00:06:23.280 Like they just didn't get it.
00:06:24.580 And I think this is where the crux of the conversation needs to happen because we all
00:06:29.840 live together in this society. You know, we all show up in spaces and, you know, have our own
00:06:37.880 realities. And what ends up happening is, you know, I think what ends up happening is people
00:06:45.280 who have been given privilege, either through their own knowledge or not, in the way that
00:06:52.300 they live their lives, it's really hard for them to see beyond that, to understand what's going on
00:07:00.740 with the person across from them, across the table from them, who perhaps doesn't have that
00:07:05.940 same level of privilege. So I searched up Sam Altman, you know, I Wikipedia'd him, if you will.
00:07:13.780 And, you know, here's a guy who, if I was to look at his CV and not know anything about how he's
00:07:19.980 been tromping around the globe and trying to, you know, really accrue funding for this, this
00:07:27.100 venture and, and, and, you know, this innovative space, like, I'm not sure that I would be too
00:07:32.440 impressed with his CV. And he, you know, has hopped around a lot. And I just couldn't help
00:07:39.520 but think, you know, if his gender was different, there's some assumption that happened in the
00:07:46.000 media, you know, that this guy was ousted out of this business. And we couldn't let that happen.
00:07:54.920 Like the world would crumble if that happened. And I feel like that's kind of the attitude that
00:07:59.260 he and his colleagues took as well. Like the world will crumble if I don't get to stay on top here.
00:08:04.420 And, you know, women rarely, if ever, are given, you know, are allowed to
00:08:11.680 portray themselves in that light and um I just I think we can't like it would be a lost opportunity
00:08:21.960 if we got through this whole saga and we're no more aware of how gender plays a role in this
00:08:31.340 space than than previously and so I think you know that's why I wrote the opinion piece that's
00:08:36.440 why you know for me it was really important to kind of name some of this behavior that we were
00:08:45.500 seeing for what it actually was which was just you know somebody had enough privilege and enough
00:08:54.200 gumption to to believe that they should be there no matter what and they were gonna fight for it
00:08:58.940 in whatever way possible and in a very visible way and you know documenting all of it on x or
00:09:04.400 Twitter. And, you know, women would never get away with that. She's right. Can you imagine if 1.00
00:09:11.780 everyone at OpenAI was a woman or a person of color? How differently the entire thing would
00:09:16.880 have been reported and framed? Misty says the entire saga provides context for how identity
00:09:22.640 shapes decisions and how they get made at tech companies like OpenAI, and thus will impact us
00:09:28.300 all. She writes, this story went from palace intrigue to gossip girl, all in the span of 48
00:09:34.120 hours, and made it clear that the men of today are not okay. The shock and awe quickly turned
00:09:40.080 into a sad case of the state of male leadership. The kind where hot-headed frustration and anger
00:09:45.360 drives impulsive decision-making, and where society bends over backward to accommodate
00:09:50.180 the male ego as it oozes privilege. That line, I was like, yes, double-click,
00:09:57.200 Like, underline, plus, plus, plus, snap, snap, snap.
00:10:00.140 What do you, so, like, given this open AI saga as a template, but also, like, it's about open AI, but it's also not about open AI.
00:10:09.100 Like, it's about, like, as someone who covers tech, I think this is Taylor's oldest time.
00:10:14.060 You know, sole young white male leader who has been able to spin up, whether earned or unearned, this attitude around him that he is a genius.
00:10:26.060 He is a singular savior.
00:10:27.880 We all need him if like he and only he is the key to all of this not falling apart and really getting the media to sort of go along with it.
00:10:36.800 Like it's really a clever trick they pulled.
00:10:39.160 And so, yeah, I'm wondering, like, what do you see as the state of male leadership today and how it's impacting what's going on and how we're thinking about it?
00:10:49.720 Yeah, you know, and it's not only convincing the media to go along with it, but also convincing, you know, funders and donors, right?
00:10:58.620 Like Microsoft was 100% ready to go to bat.
00:11:03.220 You know, like they were willing to accept the change until they weren't, right?
00:11:08.160 Until I'm assuming there was some like, you know, behind the curtain conversation, phone calls between like, you know, Sam and his folks at Microsoft.
00:11:20.540 So here's what happened after the announcement that Sam Altman had been fired as CEO of OpenAI.
00:11:26.360 Microsoft, OpenAI's largest investor,
00:11:29.340 immediately announced that they were hiring Altman to lead their AI shop,
00:11:33.720 along with former OpenAI president Greg Brockman,
00:11:36.740 who resigned in protest after Altman was canned.
00:11:40.160 The remaining OpenAI staff was very vocally against Altman's firing.
00:11:44.500 Almost all of them, over 700 staffers,
00:11:47.660 signed a letter demanding the board that osted him resign themselves
00:11:51.380 and for Altman to be reinstated.
00:11:54.000 The letter reads,
00:11:54.800 Your actions made it obvious that you are incapable of overseeing OpenAI.
00:11:59.340 We are unable to work for or with people that lack competence, judgment, and care for our mission and employees.
00:12:05.520 Investors and funders threatened to pull out, too.
00:12:08.600 Mira Marati, OpenAI's chief technology officer, was appointed interim CEO in Sam's absence.
00:12:15.160 That is, until negotiations, when Sam Altman was brought back and reinstated as CEO of OpenAI, with a new board in tow, too.
00:12:22.780 Like an episode of Succession meets Silicon Valley, the whole thing was dizzying to watch. 0.93
00:12:29.000 Women know that this happens, right? 0.99
00:12:31.060 You can think about this in terms of gender, but you can also think about it in terms of race and ethnicity or sexuality. 0.59
00:12:36.920 Or there's like lots of different demographic ways in which we can think about, if you will, the people who are allowed to live in ignorant bliss.
00:12:47.960 and then like the rest of us who, who see these things happening. And I, and I think what in this
00:12:55.320 space, like if we're to learn anything, I think what, what I would want us to learn is I would
00:13:00.800 want more men to take accountability for their actions and to call out this behavior.
00:13:09.120 uh I you know it's it's really amazing to me that you have a board that was constructed in
00:13:18.040 certain way with rules and these rules are followed and somebody gets ousted
00:13:22.960 refuses to follow the rules of being ousted and you know kind of in some sense
00:13:31.040 bullies his way back in and I don't know if he bullied but like you know getting the staff to
00:13:37.820 go along with him getting you know the funders to go along to kind of get back into that space
00:13:43.560 it's like an unwillingness to accept the reality and then the rest of us are watching
00:13:50.340 and you know after the reality becomes just so unreal somehow the stories that are coming out
00:14:01.300 are justifying the craziness and you know or just saying like oh now it'll be all okay and it's like
00:14:08.800 no I mean I don't know if I'm not watching the same drama as others are but um it's really not
00:14:18.200 okay what happened yes innovation is cool yes you know venture capital projects and like pushing
00:14:26.820 the envelope. I mean, I study high-skilled workforce. I, you know, study innovation and
00:14:32.200 all of these things. And they're great, but we need to hold people accountable. And I think in
00:14:39.700 this instance, and again, I don't know any of the dynamics of what happened and whether it was
00:14:44.860 justified or not. I only know that there were certain rules that the company and the board had
00:14:50.680 And that those were followed, you know, until they weren't, you know, or until exceptions were made. And I think we need to critically ask ourselves, why did that play out the way it did?
00:15:08.460 Why are we not calling out this insistence on not accepting the reality? And where are we making that normative in a culture, in an environment that is already struggles to keep women, you know, like engaged in the industry?
00:15:32.520 Tech is already a field where people who are not white cisgender men don't always feel represented, don't always feel included. And so when you are projecting that like, oh, no, it's OK for this person to not follow the rules, you are sort of sending a message that there's a rule book for one kind of person and then a different rule book for another.
00:15:55.200 Because as you pointed out in your piece, if I if I was if I was Sam Altman and I was a black woman, certainly this kind of behavior would be framed very differently.
00:16:04.880 I'll just say that. I think that's a given.
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00:18:04.540 at our back. The double standard for what kind of behavior is acceptable for men versus people
00:18:14.800 who are not men in workplaces is real. And this is something Misty knows all too well.
00:18:20.340 She's had to navigate these tensions in her own career. So I worked in a federal statistical
00:18:25.680 agency for over a decade. And I can tell you that when I was kind of in an upper level management
00:18:33.880 position. If I asked things of people, like I once had a junior to me who was male on my team,
00:18:43.060 come on my team. And I asked him to schedule forward the rest of the team meetings. And
00:18:48.280 it wasn't even 24 hours. His supervisor was at my desk. Why are you asking him to do that?
00:18:56.460 That's your job. If I was a man, that would have never happened. And so I think this is where
00:19:03.860 the rubber hits the road. This is where I would like, like, if we're going to learn anything from
00:19:07.680 this experience, can we learn that not everybody can get away with everything, but certain people
00:19:15.540 can? And then what are we going to do to, you know, specifically in this instance, in my head,
00:19:24.440 I'm like, what are men going to do to fix this, you know, environment for the women around them?
00:19:31.140 I mean, I am honestly worried about the women in OpenAI, like, what is going to happen to them?
00:19:38.760 You know, are others going to want to come and join?
00:19:42.180 You know, I think we need to be having these conversations.
00:19:45.220 And, you know, I think there's some folks who need to really eat some humble pie, like, really, a lot of it.
00:19:53.600 The entire OpenAI shakeup left a bad taste in the mouths of anybody who cares about things like gender representation and inclusion in tech.
00:20:01.500 The OpenAI board, who voted to sack Altman, included two women, Helen Toner and Tasha McCauley.
00:20:08.500 But after bringing Altman back to the company, only one member of the board who voted to oust him remained, Adam D'Angelo.
00:20:15.380 So that means the only two women on the board are gone, replaced by men.
00:20:19.340 Men like Larry Summers, economist and former Obama administration secretary of the Treasury, and who you might recall was kind of pressured into resigning as the president of Harvard University after a pretty poorly received talk that speculated that innate gender differences might be why so few women are represented in STEM.
00:20:38.700 And Meera Maradi, that former OpenAI chief technology officer who was named interim CEO,
00:20:44.420 she was only CEO for just a few days until Altman was reinstated,
00:20:48.380 and she publicly signaled support for his return. 0.81
00:20:51.500 It's like women are being shuffled around to make room for more men.
00:20:56.160 Once Sam Altman was back at the helm and a new board was in place,
00:21:00.060 Greg Brockman, OpenAI's former president now reinstated,
00:21:03.800 tweeted a picture of the team, captioned,
00:21:06.100 We are so back.
00:21:07.840 And a quick glance tells you all you need to know about the demographics.
00:21:11.780 This was my reaction when my producer first showed it to me on Twitter.
00:21:16.580 Okay, so it is definitely mostly white men.
00:21:22.320 Let's talk about that because, you know, we know now that the only two women on OpenAI's board are now gone.
00:21:28.880 They brought in men like Larry Summers, who we know was famously forced to resign as president of Harvard for making like deeply misogynistic and sexist remarks about women in STEM.
00:21:39.860 I get the sense that like you don't necessarily feel like people are really looking out for the women at these companies.
00:21:45.100 And I do think like or do you think there's a dynamic in some of these tech companies that just see women as support or like pieces to be moved along a game board to further support the leadership of the men in the space?
00:22:01.120 Yeah. So, you know, again, I don't know the details behind the screen of what happened, but it seems to me like Mira was one of those pawns, right?
00:22:09.180 Like she was just asked to be temporary CEO. She lasted, you know.
00:22:14.460 like a weekend like such a short amount of time you know and then I mean and then she you know
00:22:20.920 through the reporting you could see like she had Sam's back you know and that's one of the reasons
00:22:25.620 why what so like all the saga but I am just really worried about um all of the housekeeping that she
00:22:34.660 has been having to do over the past handful of weeks dealing with these egos like you know how 0.99
00:22:41.200 is she managing? And we're not hearing from her. You know, I think the board that was put in place
00:22:47.620 is honestly laughable in terms of giving any sort of confidence that they're actually
00:22:55.500 thinking about these issues. I know that there were statements put out after the fact, after this
00:23:01.220 like three board member, you know, and by the way, the men survived, right? So the women on the board
00:23:07.420 were out the men survived in different roles or you know one of them kept their role on the board
00:23:12.400 um but um I know there were statements put out after it came out like Larry Summers and these
00:23:18.420 other people um where it was like well we're we're not done we're not done filling the board yet we're
00:23:24.880 you know we'll put women on it's like the damage is already done you know if you're thinking about
00:23:32.020 women as an afterthought, if you're thinking about women as like a way to salvage your reputation,
00:23:39.400 like that is exactly backwards. And I think the current board gives even less confidence
00:23:45.740 that it's a good environment for women to thrive. You know, I personally don't have any confidence
00:23:51.440 in that. I mean, I, you know, Larry, you know, has a very big name in the field of economics,
00:23:57.720 but it's not clear to me that he understands
00:24:01.040 any of these gender dynamics
00:24:02.920 and he's a very privileged person himself.
00:24:06.260 So I'm just, I worry about that.
00:24:08.760 And, you know, I'm just shocked.
00:24:10.700 It just like shocks me the way this all unfolded.
00:24:14.300 I just, I don't even know.
00:24:15.720 I'm like at a loss of words.
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00:26:11.640 let's get right back into it men like sam altman are being put in charge of building and ushering
00:26:23.800 in the future for all of us and we're being told they're all geniuses so smart and so visionary
00:26:29.580 that we can trust them to be in charge and i bet that now sam altman is more empowered than ever
00:26:35.680 they tried to get rid of him we still don't even really know why they couldn't and now he's back
00:26:41.580 He has got to believe that there is no line that he could cross that would lead to him actually being successfully ousted.
00:26:48.600 A blank check endorsement for his own leadership, deserved or not.
00:26:53.340 So what does that mean for the rest of us who are kind of along for the ride?
00:26:56.960 It is shocking.
00:26:58.000 And I guess what is shocking to me, and maybe it shouldn't be, is how you have this incredibly clumsy, I would be embarrassed, I guess I'll say that, and then to still be told, no, no, these are the smartest guys around, these are the men that you can trust with safely architecting the future for all of us, you're in good hands.
00:27:24.500 It's like, I can't, like, those two things, like, I can't square that circle.
00:27:28.080 The math's not mathing.
00:27:29.380 I don't, I can't watch something like this unfold and then be like, oh, I trust these,
00:27:33.280 I wouldn't trust these guys to, like, drive the first leg of a long car trip.
00:27:38.020 You know what I mean?
00:27:38.560 Let alone be ushering in this, like, incredibly important tech-enabled future for all of us.
00:27:44.880 It's just, like, it's just a lot.
00:27:46.640 Yeah, it's just a lot to be asked to swallow.
00:27:49.920 Totally.
00:27:50.620 It totally is.
00:27:51.560 And, you know, I think the big question that I have right now is like, what's going on
00:27:57.520 with the funders?
00:27:58.760 Like what, you know, so, I mean, who's pushing, you know, who's pushing against this grain?
00:28:05.060 I'm starting to wonder about the composition, demographic composition of funders.
00:28:10.020 You live in a society where change moves at a glacial pace.
00:28:16.820 And, you know, lots of times it feels like two steps forward, one step back.
00:28:20.880 sometimes it feels like one step forward two steps back you know like there's just and then
00:28:25.980 something like this happens and it kind of in some sense makes you feel like a total loss for all of
00:28:34.620 humanity that you know this can be so played out so blatantly you know in such a public way and
00:28:44.140 that there are still investors and still people who have hope or belief that the clowns leading
00:28:52.000 the show are going to really like be able to salvage trust and confidence in the company.
00:29:03.420 Again, you know, loss of words for trying to figure out why this isn't more of an issue
00:29:11.160 that's being talked about on a broader national level.
00:29:16.180 Like why, you know, I think when everything first played out,
00:29:20.600 there was like this shock and awe.
00:29:22.800 And then, you know, and I said it in my piece
00:29:24.400 and then it turned into like, you know, Gossip Girl.
00:29:28.160 Like what is this craziness?
00:29:30.120 Like, you know, this company cannot survive
00:29:32.280 because of the behavior of their ousted leader
00:29:36.000 doing all these shenanigans,
00:29:37.620 trying to like squirm his way back in
00:29:40.680 And, you know, and then here we are.
00:29:42.980 And I've seen pieces come out that are like, oh, you know, it's all good now.
00:29:49.820 And, you know, Sam's reputation is better than it's ever been.
00:29:54.400 Because that's what we really care about.
00:29:56.240 I can't figure out, you know, there's a lot of goofiness happening here.
00:30:03.520 And somebody needs to take accountability for it.
00:30:06.300 And I don't know whether it's like the investors or the leaders of this company or, you know, us as a society for like not being louder about, you know, our intolerance or tolerance for these shenanigans.
00:30:27.320 I just don't know.
00:30:28.520 I think it's a sad state of affairs what happened with that company. And it's a sad state of it. It demonstrates a lot of the really core issues of what happens in the tech industry and what happens in innovative spaces.
00:30:43.360 You know, when you have people who haven't been trained in how to appropriately manage and how to appropriately lead a diverse workforce, you know, you're left with these type of situations, which is unfortunate.
00:31:02.180 Yeah, and I think you really ground it in something that I think is important to repeat, which is that this really matters, right? Like, we are all having these conversations about the way that AI is poised to perhaps deeply change our world and change the way that we work, change the way that we do a lot of things.
00:31:20.820 And so if the people who are leading in that change are not able to do so in a way where they are effectively managing inclusive and diverse workforces to do that, I think it hurts all of us.
00:31:32.740 Like, I know that you're not necessarily like an AI person, but I did want to get your thoughts on this.
00:31:38.080 So Lynette Mukami is a social search and analytics editor at Kenya's Nation Media Group, and she argues that conversations around AI has, up until now, really centered around things like power, profit, and efficiencies, with little focus on its potential for social good.
00:31:54.140 She says a lot of this has to do with who is leading the conversation, which is it's white men.
00:31:58.840 So it's all the perspectives of white men.
00:32:01.140 And if we had more female techies and thought leaders in that conversation, we might see different AI solutions.
00:32:07.060 So I guess, do you think that the way that we are centering the voices of white men in these conversations are really just leaving us all having like limited insights and views and perspectives because we're just reflecting a very specific kind of mindset? 0.70
00:32:25.900 I 100 percent agree. So, again, not in the AI space, but I am in the statistics space and the official statistics, you know, national statistics space. 0.83
00:32:35.600 And so I have done a lot of thinking and writing and research on the idea of, you know, the stories that we know, the stories that we tell about who we are, are very much reflected by the voice of people in power.
00:32:53.720 And one example of that, which I think overlays this idea of whose story is AI telling, think
00:33:03.320 about economic statistics, right?
00:33:04.980 And you think about how we capture economic statistics.
00:33:09.580 At the end of the day, you know, economics is really about doing something that produces
00:33:15.500 a good or produces a benefit or produces something for somebody else or something for
00:33:19.700 yourself. 1.00
00:33:20.120 Women have been extremely economically active throughout the entire existence of humans.
00:33:29.980 And yet when you look at economic statistics like labor force participation, you see a really big gap between women and men's labor force participation.
00:33:41.900 And it's partly because the only type of economic activity who captures the type of economic activity that historically has been done by men.
00:33:49.280 We just completely ignore all the economic activity that women do in their homes for their families, etc. You know, all the unpaid work. And so, you know, part of like what I've been trying to do in the field of economics is really kind of force this reckoning of an awareness that we need to stop telling the economic stories of women through the lenses of men. 0.60
00:34:15.560 And we need to start telling the economic stories of women through the lenses of women.
00:34:20.820 And that means we need to stop tying ourselves to these storylines that men have built.
00:34:26.320 And I think that the same is true in AI.
00:34:29.660 Like, you know, to the extent that it's using training data that's historical and was built 0.79
00:34:35.600 to describe, you know, the world in which white men live, like that is what it's going 0.69
00:34:42.260 to start predicting back out to us.
00:34:44.440 And, you know, that's not OK. And we need to be thinking harder about that.
00:34:49.120 And I'll just say this current turn of events at OpenAI gives me zero confidence in the company's ability to take those things seriously.
00:34:59.620 We need people from more backgrounds and identities making decisions about technology like AI, not just because it's nice or it's good to have diversity, but because it is critical to making technology that safely and effectively serves the most people.
00:35:13.960 Those voices are out there, too.
00:35:16.020 On Mozilla's podcast IRL, the other podcast I host,
00:35:19.500 we talk to them and about their work asking who has the power in AI.
00:35:23.780 But these same voices are often at best ignored or at worst punished
00:35:28.320 when they speak up about ethics and technology like AI.
00:35:31.320 And it hurts all of us.
00:35:32.640 For instance, when Jeffrey Hinton, sometimes called the godfather of AI,
00:35:38.560 recently spoke out about his fears around AI, technology he helped build,
00:35:42.640 He was championed.
00:35:44.700 Meanwhile, women and women of color like Timnet Gabru, who was pushed out of Google for being critical about the risks associated with AI, are punished for it.
00:35:53.740 Shutting already traditionally marginalized people out of the rooms where decisions are being made and power is being held is not just bad because, like, it's not nice or, like, just like, yay, diversity.
00:36:04.800 It's as I've seen men joking about on Twitter, like if you search open AI and women on Twitter, you have men, some of whom like work in tech and like have the place that they work in their bio.
00:36:16.680 When people are complaining that like, oh, the women are pushed out of the board, they're like, oh, it's not a bad.
00:36:21.640 Open AI is not a battered women's shelter, it turns out, like things like that.
00:36:25.500 And it's like, you really don't get it because it harms us all when technology and economic decisions that are connected to that technology are made by just not enough kinds of people.
00:36:38.700 Like, it's actually dangerous.
00:36:40.340 It makes technology, like, we've already seen all the different ways that technology harms people of color, harms non-native English speakers, harms women, or, you know, at best doesn't see us, at worst harms us.
00:36:50.860 And so it's not just something to do because it's nice.
00:36:55.120 It actually matters for all of us that we are included in a meaningful way.
00:37:00.460 And I think the fact that so many men are just unable to see that, they still think it's like, we got to have women on the board because it looks good or because it's nice or because it's diversity and it's woke in 2023, as opposed to really not seeing the way that it truly does matter for everybody, them included, really does not fill me with confidence.
00:37:22.840 Yeah, I agree.
00:37:52.840 the dynamic or how women can be disadvantaged by the world we live in is to really for them to see 1.00
00:38:02.280 it through the eyes of their children, through the eyes of their daughters. Like, is this the 1.00
00:38:07.440 legacy that they want to leave for their children? Is this, you know, the stifled opportunities that
00:38:13.800 women often have or, you know, the additional challenges that women experience in engaging
00:38:20.240 in leadership roles? Like, is that the legacy that they want to leave for the next generation 1.00
00:38:25.460 and for their own daughters? And, you know, hopefully the answer would be no, but maybe it
00:38:30.320 would be yes. I mean, you know, part of the problem is that when people have power, you know,
00:38:35.120 they rarely want to give it away. So it's like, you know, that's right there is the core of this
00:38:43.500 struggle is like, how do we get people to understand that by being more inclusive, you're
00:38:49.400 not actually giving your power away. You're actually strengthening your power because you're
00:38:54.420 allowing for more diverse voices to be heard, which allows you to improve whatever it is that
00:39:02.140 you're doing. Like, I think a lot of people just don't get that. We have this idea that there's
00:39:08.360 only a certain amount of the pie. And, you know, if I have to share any of my pie with somebody
00:39:15.980 else, that's going to be less for me. And I think that's a really short-sighted perspective to have.
00:39:24.720 Yeah. I mean, it's true and it doesn't always feel good to talk about. It's like kind of heavy
00:39:32.320 and grim, but I have to say like reading your work, you actually strike me as somebody who is,
00:39:39.940 despite all of that dark stuff, is actually kind of like positive and hopeful when it comes to
00:39:45.580 women and our place in economics. Bonus question, what does Taylor Swift tell us about women and 1.00
00:39:54.620 our place in the economy right now? I mean, people can't see because this is a podcast, but
00:39:58.640 I assume you're in your office and there's a Taylor Swift Eras tour poster behind you.
00:40:05.240 Yes. What is Swiftinomics and what does it tell us about where we are as women right now?
00:40:11.760 Yeah, I'm so glad you asked this question. So, you know, I lived the first portion of my life, like I said, feeling very frustrated that the struggle was real for women and that it was, you know, we had to think more, we had to process more in terms of like leadership and how we wanted to present ourselves because people would react to us in a different way.
00:40:36.640 I finally got to a point where I was just tired of being frustrated. And so I thought, you know,
00:40:44.140 can we flip the storyline here? Men have enormous amounts of privilege in, you know, our nation,
00:40:52.240 but also across the globe. And they have a lot of men have something that I call care privilege,
00:40:57.880 meaning that they have other people taking care of their care needs. I don't have anybody taking
00:41:03.780 care of my care needs. And I have two children and a spouse, an aging mom. So I am always having
00:41:13.220 to give care. And that means that the way that I present myself at my job and at work looks
00:41:17.660 different. And I'm tired of feeling frustrated about that inequality. And so I just have decided
00:41:25.260 that it's time to flip the script. And I'm tired of living in a man's world. And I just want to 1.00
00:41:30.640 live in my own and my own world looks different and represents itself differently. And, you know,
00:41:35.840 I can't feel bad about that anymore. And, you know, the Swiftinomics, my book that's coming out
00:41:41.380 is really about celebrating the ways in which even though adversity confronts all of us in
00:41:49.800 different ways, it's really about thriving through that adversity. It's about celebrating
00:41:57.820 reinvention. And so we all know Taylor Swift is essentially my muse for the book because she is
00:42:03.900 the queen of reinvention, if you know anything about her story and how she survived. And so
00:42:09.340 it's really, I think we need to give ourselves more credit and we need to create a space for
00:42:16.800 ourselves just mentally and emotionally where we can stop feeling like we need to fight the struggle
00:42:25.900 and just start living the life that we want to live
00:42:29.840 in whatever form that takes place. 0.99
00:42:32.740 And yeah, calling people out on their bullshit, 0.99
00:42:35.140 you know, never going to stop doing that. 0.99
00:42:36.880 But I just really want women to appreciate,
00:42:43.020 even through all the difficulties,
00:42:44.520 all the amazingness that we give out to the world
00:42:48.400 and that we, you know, all of our successes,
00:42:51.540 I think we need to celebrate that more.
00:42:53.540 So ultimately, would you say it's a love story?
00:42:57.520 That's meant to be a Taylor Swift joke.
00:42:59.400 I don't know.
00:43:00.040 I was like, I got to end on a Taylor Swift joke, but I was like, that one might be too
00:43:03.340 like.
00:43:04.480 I love it.
00:43:05.380 I love it.
00:43:06.020 Yes.
00:43:06.480 I'll try another one. 1.00
00:43:07.440 You're asking women to live their wildest dreams. 1.00
00:43:11.820 That's right.
00:43:12.460 Oh my God, you're so good.
00:43:14.020 I'm actually looking at a list of Taylor Swift songs as we speak.
00:43:18.340 I love it.
00:43:19.340 Misty, thank you so much for being here.
00:43:20.860 Is there anything that I did not ask that you want to make sure gets included in this conversation?
00:43:26.080 No, I just want to say thank you for inviting me.
00:43:28.800 This is such an important topic.
00:43:30.640 And I really hope that as we move forward, things get better and not worse in this space.
00:43:39.280 And I hope that more people start calling out kind of the inequalities that we're seeing take place before our very eyes in a very juvenile fashion.
00:43:50.080 Listeners, y'all heard it here. 0.99
00:43:51.320 Your homework from this episode is call somebody out on their bullshit today. 1.00
00:43:55.960 That's right. 0.98
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