There Are No Girls on the Internet - November 26, 2025


Soledad O'Brien Explores Stand Your Ground in Netflix True Crime Documentary The Perfect Neighbor

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00:02:49.520 Do we want a world where a killer can walk free?
00:02:53.080 The Perfect Neighbor, now on Netflix, forces us to face that question.
00:02:58.100 The documentary tells the tragic story of A.J. Owens
00:03:01.140 and examines the legal and systemic failures that almost allowed for her death to go unpunished.
00:03:07.040 Journalist Soledad O'Brien has built her career on stories like this one,
00:03:10.520 stories that hit hard and stick with you.
00:03:13.380 And this project is exactly that.
00:03:16.120 Executive produced by O'Brien with director Gita Gondbeer,
00:03:20.180 The Perfect Neighbor dives into A.J. Owen's shocking death and the systems that failed her.
00:03:26.420 I am so honored that you're here today, Soledad.
00:03:29.460 I'm such a huge fan.
00:03:30.980 If my parents were alive to see me talking to you, they would be so excited.
00:03:34.940 You have no idea.
00:03:35.960 Thank you. Thank you. That's so sweet. I appreciate that.
00:03:38.320 Now, you may know Soledad O'Brien as an iconic journalist who has earned multiple Emmys and Peabody Awards for her coverage ranging from Hurricane Katrina to the BP oil spill.
00:03:49.480 But my earliest memory of her goes back even further to a short-lived but way ahead of its time tech news show about the emerging Internet revolution.
00:03:59.340 It was called The Sight, and it aired on the early days of MSNBC, a network I would later go on to work for myself, in no small part inspired by Soledad O'Brien.
00:04:11.540 Now, if you didn't catch the show, it was truly something.
00:04:15.700 Soledad's co-host was a virtual reality character named Dev Null, voiced by real-life tech journalist Leo Laporte.
00:04:23.860 And they would sit around in an animated espresso bar talking about the internet.
00:04:28.620 Now, in case you can't tell, this was the 90s, 1996 to be exact,
00:04:33.160 long before newsrooms were covering the internet the way they do now.
00:04:37.220 Soledad became one of the earliest mainstream voices,
00:04:40.240 explaining this new digital world just as it was also taking shape.
00:04:44.020 And for 12-year-old Bridget, just beginning to explore the internet, it was a very big deal.
00:04:50.900 I was talking to my producer as I was prepping for this, and he was like,
00:04:54.320 I don't know that I've ever seen you nervous to speak to anybody before.
00:04:57.260 what's going on. And I thought back and I realized I had a memory of watching one of your early shows
00:05:04.160 with my parents who were big news junkies. Do you remember the show that you did, The Sight,
00:05:08.820 on MSNBC? Yes. Were you one of the six people who watched that show? Thank you. I'm going to send
00:05:13.820 you a fruit basket. Yes, thank you. My parents were the kind of people who always had MSNBC
00:05:18.100 on in the background. And I loved that you had like a, you know, I was young when it was on,
00:05:23.140 But I loved that there was like a virtual host.
00:05:26.560 And so that was a show that I remember very clearly watching.
00:05:29.560 And part of me wonders if I'd even be doing tech media, tech journalism today, if not
00:05:33.640 for these memories of watching that show when I was young.
00:05:36.280 Isn't that so crazy?
00:05:37.320 When we did that, that was Leo Laporte, who was basically in a, I don't even know what
00:05:42.300 you would call it, a suit that you basically had stickers, right?
00:05:45.860 You would capture a motion capture suit.
00:05:47.560 And then part of the show, the six people who watched it would know that we would do a Q&A.
00:05:54.540 And then we always had to do Retraction Monday because you'd get stuff so wrong.
00:05:57.980 We'd be like, and it's Retraction Monday where we have to take back some of the stuff Deb Null was the name of the character got wrong. 0.54
00:06:06.840 And and then he would just he was just ridiculous.
00:06:09.560 We often had to like I just had to like unplug him all the time.
00:06:12.000 It was a really fun show to do.
00:06:13.140 the site really was on the cutting edge of so much in tech and media even in the way that the
00:06:19.880 show came to an end when princess diana died a night that i vividly remember because my mother
00:06:26.140 was obsessed with her the show was preempted for live breaking coverage of her death this was
00:06:32.300 before the news looked and functioned the way it does now with 24-hour rolling updates and constant
00:06:38.060 on-air coverage. In that moment, the network recognized that continuous live coverage was
00:06:43.960 the direction news and media was heading, and the site quietly slipped off the air as that new era
00:06:48.800 began. The site, very much cutting edge, right, on MSNBC in an era before cable news became round
00:06:56.720 the clock breaking. The minute Princess Diana died, that's when the switch happened, where
00:07:01.920 suddenly everybody wanted updates really by the minute. They needed to have rolling news all the
00:07:07.900 time when there was a breaking news story. And that's not really how cable had been, which is
00:07:11.400 kind of interesting. And so the site launched with MSNBC in 1996. But we only lasted about a year and
00:07:19.760 a bit because, you know, with just the format, which was taped, which it took us, you know,
00:07:25.780 we were using modems, right? 58 a.m. to do a tech show. So sometimes we have to like let stuff
00:07:32.780 download and go out to lunch. And it would take us an entire day to shoot a one hour show. And I
00:07:38.680 remember when people said, you know, can you do six days a week of shows? I was like, oh my God,
00:07:43.320 I don't think so. Like, I just do not think so. But of course, you look back now and you think
00:07:47.700 technology, of course, so much to report on, so much to talk about. And yeah, I think we did get
00:07:51.940 a lot of people and hopefully a lot of women and young women kind of interested in tech because
00:07:56.520 my approach was that I'm not a technologist. I'm just like a person and I was interested in
00:08:02.160 leveraging it for my use. And I thought that was kind of an interesting POV versus other folks who
00:08:07.780 were very into, you know, they were coders, they were computer science majors, they really knew a
00:08:12.820 lot about tech. They wrote a lot about tech. And I was just like, I would just like this to enhance
00:08:17.540 my life. I would like to figure out how to use a website. I would like to figure out how to build
00:08:21.640 a website. I would like to connect with ancestry.com and find long-last relatives. And it
00:08:27.340 was a little more news you could use, I think. That's exactly the sort of orientation that we
00:08:32.180 come at with our show, There Are No Girls on the Internet. So much tech reporting and tech media 1.00
00:08:37.600 either focuses on people who are super techie, right? Like, I know the latest. I have the latest.
00:08:42.740 I'm already totally in that world. Or it's kind of coming at it from a business perspective. What
00:08:47.840 are these companies doing? What is OpenAI doing? What is X doing? And it really leaves out this
00:08:52.920 big group of people who are using tech every day are probably tech literate digital natives,
00:08:59.260 but there's not really tech media and tech stories that are really aimed at them if they
00:09:04.460 don't consider themselves techies, if they didn't, you know, get an engineering degree or something
00:09:08.340 like that. And I do think that we should be making tech media and all kinds of media that
00:09:13.760 really gets at that group and says, hey, even if you're not a techie, even if you're not a coder,
00:09:18.260 you still have a story to tell about how technology shapes and shows up in your life.
00:09:22.300 And this is the bulk of the people, right? I mean, the thing, if you're looking at like a pie chart, these are most of the people are not coders and they're not people who are going to be investing in AI startups, right? These are people who are going to try to figure out how it's going to impact them and how they're going to use it. So I completely agree with you on that. And I think the news sometimes falls short. A lot of news coverage of tech, right? Is your child cheating with AI versus, you know, what are the really interesting things that you can do with AI?
00:09:50.620 And so I feel like the news doesn't really go far enough. So I love that you do this show, because I do think you need a lane for people who want to kind of embrace the technology, but don't necessarily understand it fully.
00:10:03.200 Soledad is the executive producer of the documentary The Perfect Neighbor, which tells the story of the tragic death of A.J. Owens, a devoted mother of four in Ocala, Florida, who was shot and killed by her neighbor, Susan Lawrence.
00:10:16.220 Susan was that kind of neighbor, the one everyone in the community knew to avoid.
00:10:22.700 She called 911 over and over again to file complaints about the neighborhood kids, including AJs,
00:10:29.020 who were simply playing or maybe being a bit loud in the grassy shared space near all of their homes.
00:10:35.780 Susan would hurl slurs at the children and even throw objects at them.
00:10:40.560 Police officers would show up, talk quietly amongst themselves,
00:10:44.060 and leave with the impression that something was off about Susan.
00:10:47.660 But even after all those visits, nothing really changed.
00:10:51.940 Everything escalated when AJ knocked on Susan's door to confront her about taking her son's iPad.
00:10:58.620 Susan fired a gun through her locked steel door, killing AJ,
00:11:02.460 and would later claim that she feared for her life.
00:11:06.480 The Perfect Neighbor has sparked widespread discussion online,
00:11:09.800 and renewed scrutiny of so-called stand your ground laws, how they function in practice,
00:11:14.700 and the real impact they have on communities. I've wanted to talk to you for the longest,
00:11:20.420 for most of my life, but the thing that made me want to reach out to you was watching
00:11:25.920 the new documentary on Netflix that you made with director Gita Gondwir, The Perfect Neighbor.
00:11:31.960 I don't know that I've, one, had a reaction to a documentary like this before, and two,
00:11:37.300 seen a reaction to a documentary like this before, and I watch a lot of documentaries.
00:11:41.960 I know this is a story that you've been following since it first happened.
00:11:45.380 What was it about this story that you were drawn to?
00:11:47.560 Yeah, from our perspective, I mean, as a journalist, right, that's a story that crosses
00:11:51.280 what we would say the wires, although they're not really wires, but you read about it and
00:11:55.540 you just think, oh, my gosh, this is a horrible stand your ground case.
00:11:58.620 I've covered a lot of those stand your ground case in Ocala, Florida, which is about four
00:12:02.480 hours from where I am right now.
00:12:03.900 So for Gita, it turned out that her husband's family was was friendly with the woman who was the victim.
00:12:13.200 Wow. So A.J. Owens was was, you know, one of those such a close friend, almost considered like family.
00:12:18.960 We're all family. And so I think what she has said is that when this happened, she was just like, what do we do?
00:12:26.000 You know, she's a filmmaker. We're journalists.
00:12:28.520 Rose R.C. is my producer and I. So we're big in, you just go, go, just send someone, go,
00:12:35.140 start covering it. And so I think once that police body cam footage became something that
00:12:43.320 had been gathered from the lawyers, right? This became, it was a criminal case, became gathered
00:12:47.900 from the lawyers. Suddenly you realize like this could be a really interesting vehicle to tell the
00:12:54.000 story. The editor is a young woman named Viridiana Lieberman, and she's fantastic. And Gita laughs
00:13:01.220 about how at one point, you know, in the film, when you have everybody coming to the scene of
00:13:05.760 the ultimate crime, there's like 20 police. So keep in mind, everyone has a body cam, 20 body
00:13:12.580 cams. No one's actually shooting, right? They're just capturing. And the editor has to sort of
00:13:17.840 sort through off of a giant disc or all this has just been dropped and figure out what matches
00:13:23.440 with what? How do you put it together to tell a story? So it's really a tremendous feat. I mean,
00:13:29.120 Gita obviously is a fantastic editor and just everything she does is fabulous. And Viri,
00:13:35.060 as the director, also just really fantastic work. So The Perfect Neighbor is not your typical
00:13:42.440 documentary. There are no talking heads, no narrator guiding you through the story. Instead,
00:13:48.480 everything unfolds through raw surveillance, police body cam video, security footage,
00:13:54.540 interrogation room recordings. It creates this unsettling, unblinking view of the case,
00:14:00.660 showing everything from the immediate aftermath of the murder itself to the disturbing reality
00:14:05.440 of AJ's killer simply living her life and moving in with family instead of being arrested.
00:14:11.400 We aren't told what happened. We see it. And that makes it all the more chilling.
00:14:17.120 Do you have any sense of how the decision was made that the film was going to be almost entirely constructed through that kind of surveillance footage, whether it's body cam footage or the ring camera footage that we see?
00:14:29.060 Yeah, I think generally you always start with, well, so how do we do this?
00:14:31.800 And I think for Geeta, and she's talked about this, that, you know, once it became clear that you could almost do it as a thriller, right?
00:14:39.640 It actually reads as a true crime story.
00:14:43.340 You watch it unfold.
00:14:44.320 And even though you start with the ending and then you backtrack, you actually it unfolds like a thriller.
00:14:51.560 And Gita is also an editor herself. That's how she got her start.
00:14:55.600 So I think she really saw it that way. And once you had the body cam footage, I think it really helped to do something that as reporters we never do.
00:15:04.280 Right. Whenever there's a stand your ground case and I've covered a handful of them, you go in the aftermath.
00:15:10.220 Right. You interview people in the aftermath and you pick and choose who when it's the police POV. It's not my POV. It's not Gita's POV. It's not Mary's POV. Right. This is just from body cam. And so I think it gives you a really interesting perspective that a lot of people have said to me they felt like it was much more true that they didn't they didn't doubt like, oh, is this a spin?
00:15:33.040 because the police were not shooting for us or anybody.
00:15:37.940 They're just wearing body cams.
00:15:39.080 And so I think it's a really interesting look
00:15:41.080 at a story that unfolds in a terrible, terrible, deadly way.
00:15:46.420 And you can see step by step,
00:15:47.920 because of course the police have been called
00:15:49.440 for basically two years of these terrible interactions
00:15:53.380 and minor interactions, right? 1.00
00:15:54.640 Some kind of, in a lot of ways, stupid interactions 1.00
00:15:57.080 that just escalated and escalated 1.00
00:16:00.600 until Suzy Lawrence shot her neighbor through her locked door.
00:16:05.580 So when we think about these Stand Your Ground cases,
00:16:08.580 so much of them, and especially, you know, in the lead up to
00:16:12.480 and then after the Trayvon Martin incident,
00:16:15.840 so many of them are these sensationalized headlines
00:16:19.780 that really kind of, the conversation just felt,
00:16:23.320 feels very incendiary to me, right?
00:16:25.060 It's just this splashy headline.
00:16:26.840 You might get right-wing talking heads on TV,
00:16:29.560 But the film really, to me, kind of demonstrates what it would actually look like.
00:16:35.580 All of the heartbreaking, horrifying details of what these cases would actually look like.
00:16:41.300 And I wonder, do you feel that that was an argument that was trying to be made in this film of like, oh, people think that you should be able to stand your ground.
00:16:49.020 And if you feel threatened, you should be able to shoot anybody through a closed door.
00:16:53.460 This is what it would actually look like if that was the case.
00:16:55.680 I think it's always important to show things as they are, right? I mean, for me, documentaries are about getting in there and saying, this is actually what it is. This is how it unfolded. This is the ridiculously small incident that really kept spiraling and spiraling and spiraling, right?
00:17:12.240 It's it's this is this is what exactly happened and you can see it.
00:17:17.720 And so to me, I think that's really important.
00:17:20.540 It allows you to sort of help people, again, see not in the aftermath, but is unfolding what exactly is happening.
00:17:27.340 And I don't think people really, you know, I don't.
00:17:29.600 Someone's asked me the other day, you know, do you think you'll help people change their mind on Stand Your Ground?
00:17:33.800 I was like, I think most people don't really even know what Stand Your Ground really is.
00:17:37.340 They don't necessarily know it's a law, you know, but it's different in different states.
00:17:41.580 But most people don't really know exactly what it is. And so for me, I think it's a really helpful way to understand that this woman is not arrested, right, after there is a shooting. She kills her neighbor. She shoots through her locked door. There's no guess about who did it, right? There's nobody trying to figure out, oh my God, who was the perpetrator? And yet, she gets picked up by her family and she goes away. She's not in jail.
00:18:07.060 Why is that?
00:18:08.300 Stand your ground, right?
00:18:09.540 Allows them to do an investigation to see, you know, did she actually fear for her life?
00:18:14.020 And Susan certainly has had enough training, if you will, right?
00:18:18.060 Googling to know that one of the things you claim and stand your ground is I feared for my life.
00:18:23.220 I feel for my life.
00:18:24.160 I felt unsafe.
00:18:24.880 I feared for my life.
00:18:25.700 So I think all of that is a really fascinating insight into, as you say, right?
00:18:31.120 How these things actually unfold in real time.
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00:20:44.400 When I was 14 years old,
00:20:46.660 I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months.
00:20:50.180 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring
00:20:52.860 how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
00:20:56.440 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files. 0.70
00:21:00.160 I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear saying, shut up, don't say anything.
00:21:08.680 Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable.
00:21:12.940 I knew if he woke up, without a doubt, he was going to hurt me.
00:21:17.500 I started feeling that there was someone at the end of my bed, and I just started screaming.
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00:21:32.360 They're stories about what it takes to make it out alive.
00:21:35.980 Listen to The Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:21:44.420 Hey, this is Hayes Davenport.
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00:22:03.820 The definition of what is a movie has kind of changed anyway, too, right?
00:22:07.260 What do you think it is now?
00:22:08.500 It's images and words being spoken, captured by some sort of technology.
00:22:14.980 Danny McBride.
00:22:15.740 He loves Boba.
00:22:16.720 Oh, that's fantastic.
00:22:17.820 And you make it on, you make your own.
00:22:19.640 That's great.
00:22:20.400 I call him Tarot Reed.
00:22:21.740 that's a good name they're all named after cast members of american pie yeah i call i don't i
00:22:30.160 never looked up if she was in this but i call him lychee sobieski yeah i don't think she was
00:22:35.080 an american pie but i haven't looked it up yeah she was prominent around the same time yeah then
00:22:40.300 mary steenburgen why are you guys talking to me like i'm worried why are you talking so down to
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00:22:59.640 edward back i don't even really know how to ask this but in watching the movie i it the community
00:23:15.040 reminded me of the neighborhood where I grew up, right? A bunch of kids running around all the
00:23:19.920 time, probably also being loud and obnoxious. I'll own that myself. A lot of adults who all look out
00:23:25.620 for the kids and that's just the community that you have. And having grown up in a community like
00:23:29.800 that, I know that it's like a precious thing. It's like I'm able to look back so fondly on my youth
00:23:36.340 because that's where I was, the kind of community I was lucky enough to grow up in. I don't even
00:23:40.480 know how to word it. I think that one of the things Susan was actually mad at was that she 0.99
00:23:45.560 lived in a place where it was a multiracial community where folks got along and folks looked 0.99
00:23:50.680 out for each other. And there was something about that that drove her that she could not stand. 0.98
00:23:56.020 What do you think about this? Yeah, no, I don't think you're wrong. I mean, clearly, right, she
00:23:59.980 would, you know, use racial slurs with small children. So there was some major issue that she
00:24:05.220 had around her neighbors, around race. Yeah. You know what I thought was so interesting is that
00:24:10.100 you often hear like, this is a calm, quiet neighborhood, multiracial community. But to
00:24:15.140 see it, right, to see how the police interact with the kids, to see how the police are dapping
00:24:21.280 the dad and the white mom when they ask, so which, you know, which kids are yours? And she says,
00:24:26.780 well, they're all mine. And she's not kidding. And she's like, in this neighborhood, we all kind of
00:24:32.000 take care of everybody and then to see that collapse right after the shooting that sense of
00:24:38.560 togetherness that sense of hey the police are working with the community and everybody gets
00:24:44.320 along it's pretty much gone because they had something good that is like rare and hard to
00:24:50.520 find they really had something good something great i would argue right and and again i think
00:24:55.840 the things that surprised me were like oh this is a community where everybody's just hanging out
00:25:00.580 getting along number one number two here's a community where the police are constantly trying
00:25:05.320 to figure out yeah we actually think this lady's a little bit of a you know crackpot but we got to 0.99
00:25:11.040 tell you guys you know try to keep it down a little bit but on the other end they're kids 1.00
00:25:14.020 they're doing kids things it could be much worse they're just playing at one point the little girl
00:25:18.480 who says you know we're 11 you know because like yes they're small children and and we know that
00:25:25.380 you know especially kids of color are often perceived to be older and more dangerous and
00:25:29.580 more worldly, et cetera, et cetera. So I think there is a sense you really see like kids playing
00:25:35.260 in the neighborhood a lot. So yeah, you just, all those things surprised me when I first saw the
00:25:42.040 video. I was like, oh, I, I don't know what I thought the police would be doing. I don't know
00:25:46.460 how young they were, how willing they were to go back and forth and try to kind of maintain the
00:25:52.160 peace, if you will. Susan would call the police constantly, but you know, the neighbors never
00:25:56.440 called the police on Susan. Never. Never once. You know, it was obvious to everybody that Susan
00:26:03.440 was a big problem. There are so many red flags. And the way that the police talk about her
00:26:08.840 among each other, where they're like, oh, it's her again. She's crazy. Is there a sense from 1.00
00:26:14.560 the neighbors? Do you think that? I mean, I'm not even sure legally if there was anything to be done,
00:26:20.300 but frivolous call after frivolous call, I do get a sense of I'm happy that the police were
00:26:25.660 so cool with the kids and the families.
00:26:30.080 But at a certain point, part of me is like,
00:26:31.460 if they had done something to let Susan know
00:26:34.580 that this behavior wasn't okay,
00:26:36.300 perhaps we wouldn't even be having this conversation right now.
00:26:38.940 Yeah, it's really an interesting question.
00:26:40.700 I have had this discussion a lot, right?
00:26:43.120 Where people say the police should have done something.
00:26:45.280 And I think the rejoinder to that is
00:26:47.120 no one ever called the police on Susan, right?
00:26:50.620 I mean, not one, no one even said, 0.61
00:26:52.160 listen, I'm sick of her calling the police on us.
00:26:53.920 This is not okay. 1.00
00:26:54.620 she's obviously a problem. Do they just go and arrest people? Are the calls really frivolous?
00:27:00.160 They go, they talk, they, you know, there's clearly some kind of a dispute. They break it up for the
00:27:04.900 most part. They move on. Yeah, it would be amazing if the police had said, we see this problem. And
00:27:10.860 I think it really underscores the point of what's being discussed with the Stand Your Ground laws,
00:27:16.180 right? Like, how does a person who absolutely positively is a living, breathing red flag get 0.73
00:27:22.600 access to three guns, right? How is that possible? How is it possible that no one says, you know,
00:27:28.120 this lady has a lot of guns. Maybe we should rethink the fact, right? No, never happens.
00:27:34.120 And so I think it is a classic sense of, you know, the person who is the perpetrator is the
00:27:38.640 one who's constantly calling the police. The other people who will end up being the victims never
00:27:42.600 call the police. And the people who really suffer at the end of the day are those folks who always
00:27:48.920 suffer in stand your ground laws, the people who are victimized. Susan shot and killed AJ through
00:27:55.620 a locked steel door while AJ's young son stood beside her. And afterward, Susan was not immediately
00:28:02.020 arrested. She claimed protection under Florida's stand your ground law, which allows a person to
00:28:07.700 use force, even deadly force, if they reasonably believe that they're facing an imminent threat
00:28:12.700 without any duty to retreat.
00:28:15.380 Investigators later discovered that Susan had Googled Stand Your Ground laws before the shooting,
00:28:21.360 suggesting that she wasn't actually fearing for her life,
00:28:24.540 but rather setting up the killing by researching exactly how to frame her defense.
00:28:30.720 What do you think about the conversation that we're currently having about things like Stand Your Ground laws?
00:28:35.220 Just recently, there was that horrible situation in Indiana where a cleaner came to the wrong house,
00:28:40.620 knocked on the door and when she knocked on it a man shot and killed her through the shut door
00:28:45.760 and the case was expected to test stand your ground laws in indiana but ultimately that man
00:28:50.800 was charged because prosecutors were like listen shooting somebody through a shut door simply
00:28:55.360 because they knocked on it does not meet the requirements for stand your ground even if that
00:28:59.920 person thought well i'm defending my home because this person knocked on my door and i don't know
00:29:05.300 I just think that the conversation around crime has gotten so out of control that when these things happen, frankly, I don't expect people to take a step back and say, well, wait a minute.
00:29:15.980 Should we have a culture where it's normalized and OK to just shoot through a door and ask questions later?
00:29:22.240 It's crazy. And again, there have been so many of these stories, right?
00:29:25.140 You and I could tick off probably just off the top of our heads without even having to Google it.
00:29:29.640 five or six recent cases where someone's been shot or killed or both, you know, because of
00:29:36.400 someone claiming stand your ground. And I think that person who does it feels justified, right?
00:29:42.360 They feel like I can protect my home. And if I feel even slightly afraid, even if it's just
00:29:46.740 someone pulling into the wrong driveway, even if it's someone looking for the wrong house,
00:29:50.460 even if it's someone who's just gone to the wrong place accidentally, I am justified in 0.99
00:29:55.120 shooting that person and killing that person. So yeah, it's bizarre, right? I think it's crazy 0.98
00:29:59.800 that we've gotten here and what you really see. And there's a slide at the end of the documentary
00:30:03.840 that points out, you know, the people who really suffer from stranger ground laws are people of
00:30:08.480 color. You know, those are the people who, I don't have any proof for this, but I am very confident 1.00
00:30:14.900 that if Susan had been a black woman and she had shot a white lady through her locked door, 0.92
00:30:20.400 she would have been arrested on the spot right there was good there was no question who did it
00:30:25.600 they weren't looking for the shooter the idea that she was able to be free is obviously you
00:30:31.280 see in the film what sets everybody and just uh you know off and and and makes them very angry
00:30:36.960 about what potentially could happen and so the family and the neighbors have to really start
00:30:41.460 marching and calling attention to the crime because it could just like others you know
00:30:46.900 become that salacious talking head football that at some point stops being focused on the case and
00:30:55.160 starts being focused on the chaos. The reaction to the film has been intense. One moment that's
00:31:02.200 been particularly talked about online is a harrowing scene where AJ's children break down
00:31:07.340 after learning that their mother has been killed. Honestly, it is one of the most gut-wrenching
00:31:12.520 things I have ever seen on screen. It was a tragedy. And the way AJ's family has responded
00:31:18.760 echoes the tragedy of Emmett Till. In 1955, 14-year-old Emmett Till was falsely accused
00:31:25.940 of whistling at a white woman while visiting family in Mississippi. He was lynched and brutally
00:31:31.540 mutilated. His mother, Mamie Till, made the courageous and history-altering decision to hold
00:31:38.280 an open casket funeral, saying that she wanted the world to see what had happened for themselves,
00:31:43.940 saying, there was just no way I could describe what was in that box. No way. And I just wanted
00:31:49.740 the world to see. Photos of Emmett Till's body were published in Black publications like Jet
00:31:54.900 and the Chicago Defender, sparking national and international outrage. One photograph from Jet
00:32:01.600 showing Mamie Till at the funeral, standing over her son's mutilated corpse, was named by Time as
00:32:07.380 one of the 100 most influential images of all time. It ran with the caption, quote,
00:32:13.380 for almost a century, African Americans were lynched with regularity and impunity. 0.98
00:32:18.240 Now, thanks to a mother's determination to expose the barbarousness of this crime, 0.99
00:32:23.560 the public could no longer pretend to ignore what they couldn't see.
00:32:27.560 So while the scene of AJ's children learning about their mother's murder is deeply harrowing,
00:32:32.700 it was included because AJ's family wanted the truth to be told.
00:32:36.300 for everyone to see for themselves, just like Mamie Till.
00:32:41.240 The scene that, I don't know if I'll ever stop thinking about it,
00:32:46.020 the scene when we see AJ's children being informed that their mom has been killed.
00:32:51.620 I mean, I had to stop the movie to sob because I was unable to continue watching.
00:32:58.400 I've never seen a scene quite like that.
00:33:01.060 I've seen some folks say, like, oh, this was too much.
00:33:03.620 we as the audience should not have been led into a moment like that?
00:33:06.640 What do you think about that?
00:33:08.300 I would say two things.
00:33:09.600 The first is what Gita has said in her conversations,
00:33:12.540 and we've spent a lot of time with AJ's mom, Pamela Diaz,
00:33:16.220 who's in the film as well, but has also been,
00:33:18.700 I've been on lots of panels with her,
00:33:20.360 and she's done a lot of sort of traveling with the doc
00:33:23.180 as you go to various film festivals.
00:33:24.980 And she very clearly has said she wanted to,
00:33:27.460 she saw this sort of as a Mamie Till moment, right?
00:33:30.640 Like that there was this opportunity to show the actual horror of a horrible thing.
00:33:36.680 So that's one thing.
00:33:38.160 So it really did come with the permission, if you will, of the family.
00:33:42.760 Number two, I think that off of that, this is a documentary about a killing.
00:33:49.640 And I don't think it's fair to do a documentary about a killing and then say, but actually, we're not going to get to the killing.
00:33:55.780 I just think the way A.J. died was horrible.
00:34:00.180 And I think the audience needs to understand the impact on her children, on the community, on everything is palpable.
00:34:08.320 And I think people have to understand that. And I don't know that it's it's a good thing to clean that up, to say this part's kind of hard to watch.
00:34:16.660 So, you know what? We're just going to clean this up for you. I don't I don't think so.
00:34:21.520 I don't. This doc is about a killing and about a really terrible policy that causes great harm to people of color.
00:34:28.400 And I think that the being the general public being really removed from what this policy actually translates into the real world harm on children, on moms, on communities, on families.
00:34:42.080 I think people do need to see that to understand.
00:34:45.780 Like it is a public policy decision or conversation in addition to being like a like a personal conversation.
00:34:53.340 Absolutely. And also it's this is a documentary about a killing.
00:34:57.240 a horrible killing and we get to see the before the middle and the after and the aftermath and so
00:35:05.140 i think it would be a very weird decision to sort of say no no no this part we're not going to show
00:35:11.280 yeah and as you said i think it should be made clear that the family wants this story told the
00:35:17.420 family is out there they they they her surviving family members are adamant about this story being
00:35:23.840 told. And I don't know, part of me feels like it's a way like honoring their wishes is important.
00:35:29.200 Honoring that legacy is important. Yeah, I think it'd be very different if they said, oh, absolutely.
00:35:34.280 You know, please don't. I think that would lead to very challenging conversations, frankly. Right.
00:35:40.700 I think you'd have people who said, listen, we should honor the family. Other people say, hey,
00:35:43.800 this is a story about a killing and try to figure it out. But no, the family was very much, I think,
00:35:49.360 on board with the idea of like people need to see how horrible this is. They need to see the
00:35:53.280 impact. There's also an impact campaign. It's called Standing in the Gap. I don't know if you've
00:35:56.720 known about that. And, you know, because, again, something people don't realize. Once the press
00:36:01.240 goes, once the pastors go, once the lawyers go, you have families that are hurting, that actually
00:36:07.740 need support, right? They're just left. And so I think, like, being very clear and true and accurate
00:36:16.600 about that is very important. And keeping the conversation going, you know, once the film
00:36:23.180 is no longer, you know, the thing everyone is talking about, making sure that that conversation
00:36:28.320 can continue and that we continue to educate folks on what these laws actually look like and the way
00:36:34.080 that they actually impact people. Right. And who they impact the most. You know, you used to be
00:36:39.080 this journalist who was really known for anchoring mainstream news outlets like CNN. But more
00:36:44.940 recently, you're making these important documentaries through your production company and the production
00:36:49.460 companies of others like Gita's, do you feel like you have more freedom to tell stories in a
00:36:55.480 different way, the way that you maybe, you know, couldn't if you were still anchoring mainstream
00:37:00.360 news outlets? I think the real difference is that you just get a lot of time. So if you're able to
00:37:07.580 sell a doc and you get a buyer and you have a good story and you, you know, you're sort of
00:37:11.220 able to go ahead and produce the doc, you know, you get to really kind of wrap a lot of time
00:37:17.860 around a story. Whereas in daily news, as you know, you know, you're just nonstop talking,
00:37:24.400 talking, talking, talking. You might have a little bit of time to kind of give some context,
00:37:27.520 but often you don't, especially in live cable news. And so I, what I've liked, I mean,
00:37:32.560 I love doing cable news, but I really have liked the time. You know, you're not giving people a
00:37:37.220 10 second soundbite and saying, you know, here, let me explain the story to you. Here's their
00:37:41.240 soundbite. They're, they're giving that right. We get to tell the entire story over a fairly
00:37:46.620 long period of time. So you really understand the context. And I think in cases where as people
00:37:52.980 don't trust journalists as much, you know, day after day, we're looking at a Pew research study
00:37:58.560 that I said something like 44% of Americans say they don't trust journalists, a terrible number.
00:38:04.640 I like the idea of being out of it. Just, you know, like we're not in it. There's no, I'm not
00:38:11.760 in the middle of it saying, here's my perspective on this story. And I met with these people,
00:38:15.260 right? It's just, this is how it went down with the police who were called to the scene.
00:38:20.340 And so I think that's actually really part of the reason the film is doing so well is that
00:38:24.900 people believe it. You know, they just don't think there's an agenda. There's no, here's how I feel
00:38:30.940 about it. Here's how Gita feels about it. Here's how message pictures feels about it, right? It's,
00:38:35.640 this is what happened and we're going to show it to you fully. So I think that's a real plus.
00:38:41.580 And it goes back to what you were saying about the choice to use a lot of or mostly police surveillance footage and ring camera footage and interrogation footage that those the facts speak for themselves.
00:38:52.940 Right. We see you. You weren't it's not like Gita was there on the site with cameras filming a story for a certain perspective.
00:39:01.340 It's just what happened. And there's not really no one can say like, ah, this seems like women of color were biased for a certain perspective here.
00:39:10.500 It's just what happened.
00:39:11.920 Yes.
00:39:13.760 Case in point, one of Soledad's latest projects is a new short documentary called The Devil is Busy, now streaming on HBO Max.
00:39:22.040 The film follows a day in the life of Tracy, the head of security at a Georgia abortion clinic, and the relentless work that she does to keep the clinic operating safely.
00:39:32.820 We watched Tracy begin her day at the clinic with a prayer,
00:39:36.380 navigate confrontations with anti-abortion protesters 0.77
00:39:39.060 who are such a constant presence at the clinic
00:39:41.920 that Tracy knows them all by name,
00:39:44.180 and support the clinic's clients,
00:39:46.240 many of whom have traveled overnight from out of state
00:39:48.760 due to increasingly restrictive abortion laws.
00:39:52.080 The documentary offers a powerful, ground-level, humanizing view
00:39:55.900 of the challenges faced by those working to provide
00:39:58.400 reproductive health care in our current landscape.
00:40:01.900 we kind of had the similar strategy with the devil is busy gita is um one of the directors
00:40:08.720 on that doc as well um because she's amazing so uh you know same thing right no one's in it
00:40:14.500 directing the traffic no one's picking i'm gonna pick this person and we're gonna lead with this 0.94
00:40:18.760 you know it is the story of woman's day a woman who's kind of complicated and contradictory and
00:40:25.640 an interesting character that you don't see a lot right a deeply religious woman who's the security 1.00
00:40:30.940 guard at an abortion clinic. Usually the deeply religious people are the people who are the 1.00
00:40:35.280 protesters out kind of on the street making all the noise. And so we really like that. We just,
00:40:41.520 you know, we're looking at this story through her eyes. Tracy's journey is what tells us what
00:40:47.460 happens. I'm not interviewing anybody. The director of that, along with Gita, is Krystal
00:40:52.760 and Hampton, who we do tons of projects with. And again, I guess what I would also point out
00:40:57.460 was a complete sidebar, but it will be interesting to you. So often in TV news and journalism and
00:41:03.700 even film of any kind, there's this idea of like, if we could only just find the black people,
00:41:08.460 if we could just find the people of color, you know, and I just want to say as I'm naming them,
00:41:13.040 I'm like a woman of color, black director, you know, Sam Pollard, black executive. Like there's,
00:41:19.500 it's just when you're really intentional, it's not that hard. So that's a complete sidebar to
00:41:25.060 what we're talking about. But for me, every project we've done, we've been so intentional
00:41:29.400 about finding and centering directors. And Gita is just a really, she's a kind of an amazing mentor
00:41:37.140 because what she does is she takes people and she sort of grows them. And then she'll say,
00:41:41.700 okay, now you're ready to be the director on this, or you're ready. So we're starting another
00:41:45.260 project with another one of the young women. That's anybody who's younger than me, young women
00:41:50.460 who, you know, will be directing this project for us, right?
00:41:54.020 But really was kind of grown up, if you will, under Gita.
00:41:57.180 And I just love people who are so aggressive
00:41:59.820 about not just mentoring and saying,
00:42:02.120 I'm going to give you some, you go girl,
00:42:04.120 going to give you some good words of advice.
00:42:05.600 But like, now we slot you here.
00:42:07.620 Now you need experience doing this.
00:42:09.380 Now you actually need this.
00:42:10.880 Now you're going to do this.
00:42:11.920 And she's very intentional about it.
00:42:13.740 And I have always really appreciated that
00:42:15.640 because a lot of people talk about it,
00:42:17.500 but very few people actually do it, as you know.
00:42:20.460 How did you and Gita start working together?
00:42:23.020 Gita, that's such a good question.
00:42:24.780 It's been such a long time.
00:42:26.200 But I'm sure I'm going to get our origin story wrong.
00:42:29.600 I don't remember the real story,
00:42:31.580 but we were working on a couple of other projects before this one.
00:42:34.700 And she just has an amazing track record.
00:42:37.720 You Google her CV and you'll be blown away.
00:42:41.740 I think this year she's got three projects that are all up for awards.
00:42:44.820 I mean, she's remarkable.
00:42:46.680 But again, I think she can do that because she has a lot of support
00:42:49.520 and a lot of people who are working on these projects with her who she trusts implicitly.
00:42:54.020 But we started working on a project actually about young people who are hungry in college.
00:42:58.220 We had met this woman, a friend who ran the journalism department at a school,
00:43:04.160 and she said, you know, some of the students are sleeping in the journalism office.
00:43:09.980 And she thought they were just kind of like crashing there on a late night,
00:43:12.840 but they actually had no housing, that they were hungry. 0.70
00:43:15.700 And another woman did a study. She's kind of the center of our doc, Sarah Goldgraab. And she was saying that, you know, originally when she did her study, she thought it was kind of like the sad story of a handful of students who are just in a terrible 50 percent, five zero percent of students have had food insecurity in college.
00:43:37.160 Like, that's insane. And so we decided to do that project. And I think Gita's strategy in telling that story was it just it just made for a beautiful, beautiful doc.
00:43:46.700 So, you know, every single thing that we have done together has just been a home run.
00:43:51.880 I don't know. Thinking about some of the projects that I know that you all have worked on together, I've obviously seen The Perfect Neighbor.
00:43:57.520 I've seen The Devil is Busy. It strikes me as the kind of topics that are so important that definitely impact traditionally marginalized people.
00:44:05.840 So subsequently, they're not told, you know, the way that they maybe should be.
00:44:10.760 We don't run into a lot of people.
00:44:12.340 Yeah, I used to say that all the time.
00:44:14.480 Someone would say to me, you know, when we started doing our Black in America documentaries for CNN, we done for about nine, nine or 10 years.
00:44:20.920 And I would just say, you know, what I liked about it was you just didn't run into people.
00:44:24.580 You know, that that JonBenet Ramsey, it was me and 99 other reporters, you know, doing the 10 year anniversary of the murder of this poor little girl.
00:44:33.100 But when it comes to these complicated social issues, you know, often you're just out there alone reporting them, which is unfortunate because I think they're really important.
00:44:45.920 More after a quick break.
00:44:57.500 Let's get right back into it. 1.00
00:44:58.940 soledad makes documentaries about important issues like stand your ground and reproductive
00:45:05.700 justice topics that many people are probably used to seeing addressed in quick segments on the news
00:45:11.800 but documentary filmmaking allows for a deeper exploration not just of the issues themselves
00:45:17.560 but the real people at their center do you think there are stories that lend themselves very well
00:45:23.260 to documentary like actually telling someone's story and then you see them and you hear them
00:45:27.920 in their own words?
00:45:29.360 Yeah, I mean, I do,
00:45:30.340 but I almost could argue that
00:45:31.500 for every story, right?
00:45:33.120 If you have a good character, right?
00:45:34.760 The thing, I hate the word character
00:45:35.920 because it makes it seem very fake.
00:45:37.340 But if you have a good central person
00:45:39.700 that you're following, right?
00:45:40.980 That you have access to that story
00:45:43.220 and you have a really compelling person,
00:45:45.660 then you've got a great doc
00:45:47.140 or even a great short story.
00:45:48.800 I mean, I just think you just need,
00:45:50.440 you need those elements
00:45:51.400 to be pretty amazing.
00:45:53.400 And then, yeah,
00:45:54.120 I think people can speak for themselves.
00:45:56.140 It's why I love documentaries.
00:45:57.920 But I like a lot of forums. I like podcasts a lot. I love 60 Minutes. I love, you know, I just like, I like news. Sometimes I feel a little unfulfilled because I think, you know, giving people a minute 20 on a story that really needs a lot more context is sometimes frustrating. But I like all sorts of platforms.
00:46:19.340 Side note, I loved your iHeart podcast about JFK.
00:46:24.260 Yep, Soledad likes podcasts so much that she also makes those too.
00:46:27.920 She did a 10-part series exploring who killed JFK with Rob Reiner.
00:46:33.100 Yes, that Rob Reiner, who first came to prominence as the son-in-law on the 70s CBS sitcom All in the Family,
00:46:39.660 and went on to make truly iconic films like This is Spinal Tap, Stand By Me, The Princess Bride, When Harry Met Sally,
00:46:47.060 and my personal favorite, The First Wives Club, and pretty much every other movie that you probably liked in the 80s and 90s.
00:46:53.820 It was really well done.
00:46:54.780 Thank you. Wasn't that a great podcast?
00:46:56.520 Yeah.
00:46:56.800 Oh, my God. Plus, I love Rob Reiner. He was amazing.
00:46:59.920 You two should like, I don't know.
00:47:01.680 Take the show on the road, right? That's what I got.
00:47:03.860 I got to call him and tell him that.
00:47:05.200 Too bad he's got this other gig that the movie director thing he does.
00:47:09.120 I guess he's working on Spinal Tap 2, which will be amazing, of course, because Spinal Tap 1 was amazing.
00:47:14.040 But yeah, that was a great project.
00:47:16.420 But I have to tell you something. He was awesome.
00:47:20.020 Like he just is the kindest night.
00:47:21.920 He was just so complimentary, wonderful to work with the nicest human being to everybody. 1.00
00:47:27.220 As you know, sometimes people come in and, you know, if they're a big mucky muck, they might not be the nicest to, you know, somebody who's, you know, who's who's recording them or if something's going wrong and we can't figure it out, you know, and it's taking a little time. 0.97
00:47:41.400 He just you could not ask for a cooler, nicer, more wonderful human being than Rob Reiter. 0.99
00:47:48.060 It was such a pleasure to work with him.
00:47:49.740 I literally enjoyed every moment of it that makes me so happy to hear you know they say don't meet
00:47:55.320 your heroes but I'm happy sold out of Ryan Rob Reiner very nice people I've got some other names
00:48:00.440 for you that I'll tell you not to meet but Rob Reiner is amazing he was amazing and I just I
00:48:05.080 don't know I just love watching people who are kind to the person who's taking in his audio
00:48:09.900 who's amazing to the AP who's great to the PA who's like anybody need water I just love that
00:48:17.260 you know because often people uh as you know in this business are really not and so it was amazing
00:48:22.160 and i did i loved him and he was my hero my dad he was my dad's favorite character of course you
00:48:26.760 know we watched all in the family so i like when you talked about you know your mom if your mom
00:48:32.420 was still alive she'd be impressed by our interview my dad that my dad would be done
00:48:36.680 if he were still alive and he knew that i was doing a project with rob like that would be it
00:48:40.540 He'd be like, now, now I can die because she's made it.
00:48:46.440 My baby went to Harvard.
00:48:47.620 She's been on TV.
00:48:48.500 But now this is it.
00:48:50.200 Doesn't care.
00:48:50.900 Doesn't care.
00:48:51.400 Doesn't care.
00:48:52.400 Now.
00:48:53.580 Yeah.
00:48:54.540 Oh, you know, I want to wrap up here.
00:48:58.720 I was reading your comments to Variety about just the state of journalism and media.
00:49:05.600 And one of the things that we focus on here at the podcast is especially things like mis
00:49:09.480 and disinformation.
00:49:10.080 And I feel like, I don't know, part of me, I jokingly have said, I feel like we have lost the fight.
00:49:16.140 You know, we gave it a good shot. We got to take the L.
00:49:18.680 Sometimes people ask me, like, so what do you do? And I'm like, I honestly don't know.
00:49:23.000 I don't I look at I mean, I used to spend a lot of time on Twitter, but I find it really scary to forward videos and things because I just don't can't verify if they're true.
00:49:33.400 AI is so good and can be so deceptive, frankly, that it's just, I don't, you know, there's so
00:49:39.840 many things that I just don't know. And there's so much information coming across the trance. So
00:49:43.820 it's really hard to, to follow. So I try not to weigh in on things that I haven't specifically
00:49:49.020 covered and spent time on because I, I don't want to be that person who passes along things that
00:49:54.000 are inappropriate and, you know, and, and just untrue. But it is a crazy time and it is, I don't
00:50:00.960 see, I don't see a near future where it improves. I mean, I was going to ask if you, when you think
00:50:07.600 about the future of journalism and media, are you hopeful about where we might be going? It sounds
00:50:12.220 like maybe not so much. No, I mean, I think disinformation and misinformation is a different
00:50:17.120 category and journalism generally, which is also struggling at this moment, as you well know. But
00:50:21.380 yeah, I think the history of journalism has been like this, right? We've had really highs and lows.
00:50:27.220 And so I think there's lots of, I think there are great journalists out there who are doing really good work.
00:50:31.940 I think it's a very challenging time for a host of reasons and with a host of people they're trying to interview and people they're working for and people they're trying to put on TV.
00:50:41.500 So I think it's a bad time for journalists, but I do think there's always these ups and downs, you know, where people love journalism right now.
00:50:49.460 People love their local news.
00:50:50.600 They trust their local news. And yet local news stations and papers are dropping every day. Every day, they disappear. So we have to solve a bunch of problems, including monetization, before we can say, yes, journalism is going to be saved.
00:51:07.780 because, frankly, a lot of the garbage is very, you know, worth it.
00:51:16.480 You know, it's just not expensive. It's cheap. 0.80
00:51:18.560 And to do good reporting is expensive.
00:51:20.300 And so, you know, I understand why people pick the cheap talking heads
00:51:24.740 yelling at each other version.
00:51:26.780 It's easier and it's cheaper.
00:51:29.720 And I think it speaks to the model that you were just talking about
00:51:32.960 with documentary where you can spend a long time telling a story.
00:51:36.800 You can tell a story over an hour and change or two hours and people are going to rock with you.
00:51:41.820 You can you can. I mean, I love documentary.
00:51:44.340 A weekend spent watching documentaries is a good weekend for me.
00:51:47.660 But I know not everybody feels that way.
00:51:49.900 But the fact that you told a story about Stand Your Ground laws and it was that everybody was talking about it.
00:51:56.400 It was the thing that people were talking about.
00:51:58.620 I don't necessarily see news stories on the news where people are moved in that way.
00:52:02.360 So I do. I do think it's it's the last time I saw that.
00:52:05.420 I would say Katrina, right?
00:52:06.860 Like if you could think of a time
00:52:07.980 where everybody was talking about a thing,
00:52:10.060 was Hurricane Katrina.
00:52:10.940 And it was a time, 0.89
00:52:11.740 I was telling someone yesterday
00:52:12.960 that we were coming back,
00:52:14.760 when I was covering Katrina,
00:52:15.880 we'd spend a month in New Orleans
00:52:17.720 and a month out, you know, back and forth.
00:52:20.040 My co-anchor would go in and back and forth.
00:52:22.300 And I remember we were coming
00:52:26.320 through the Baton Rouge airport.
00:52:27.500 So I'm leaving at the end of my month
00:52:29.140 and we hadn't showered
00:52:32.240 because of course there was no showers
00:52:33.580 and we're all really dirty,
00:52:35.400 although my hair does get better, the dirtier it is.
00:52:37.520 So I was actually fine on that front,
00:52:40.400 but we're just gross.
00:52:41.660 And I remember I had my CNN cap on 0.77
00:52:43.560 because of course everything was gross.
00:52:45.340 And we got a standing ovation.
00:52:47.320 We got a standing ovation in the Baton Rouge,
00:52:49.760 Deep South Airport, CNN.
00:52:52.440 And I just remember thinking like,
00:52:54.000 that's because we are doing the thing
00:52:55.660 that we're supposed to do, right?
00:52:57.500 We're getting a standing ovation,
00:52:59.240 not for me or any of the people.
00:53:00.860 We're getting a standing ovation
00:53:01.580 because they feel like, yes,
00:53:02.640 that was what we needed you to do yes that and i think the same thing with perfect neighbor right
00:53:07.420 it's like yes thank you thank you for helping us understand this story thank you i hate the way
00:53:13.400 that journalists are demonized today but that i think that story people do actually want to have
00:53:19.680 their story told authentically and thoughtfully and truthfully people do want to hear these stories
00:53:25.100 i don't know i think it's it's very easy for me personally to get caught up in i'm so angry about
00:53:30.660 the way that people trash journalists. And I I feel that way, but not not buying into it that
00:53:36.260 everybody feels that way because people do. There is trust when when stories are told well and
00:53:40.660 authentically, there is trust. Listen, when we were doing Black in America for CNN, the number
00:53:44.860 of people like, well, why would we do this? You guys never come here. You never come to our 0.99
00:53:49.500 neighborhood, you know, and it was a lot of work to get people to understand. Here's what we're
00:53:53.580 trying to do. It's a documentary six out, you know, but I get it. So, I mean, some of the
00:53:58.940 the lack of trust is earned, right? It's earned. And when people say to me, so how do you get back
00:54:04.380 trust? I always say that it's like the bad boyfriend theory. You know, there's no baby,
00:54:09.580 you got to trust me, right? It's, it's, it is, you have to be trustworthy, right? You got to show up
00:54:13.660 again and again and again and be trustworthy. Like there's no other way to get people's trust
00:54:18.960 than to do that. And so I really think that that, you know, that's what's going to happen. So to
00:54:24.720 some degree, you know, journalism has made some big errors and lost some trust. I mean, I remember
00:54:30.820 when I worked again at CNN, which is a long time ago now, it's probably been almost a dozen years.
00:54:35.100 I don't know if you remember this. They had this breaking news, you know, it was when they had the
00:54:38.540 app and you had the free and and you get the app and it was Britney Spears had cut her hair.
00:54:42.360 I remember that breaking news, the breaking news app. That's Britney Spears had cut her hair.
00:54:48.340 You're just like, do you realize how much you undermine when you're doing other news about how
00:54:54.060 there has been a tsunami or there has been a hurricane or there has been a shoot, right?
00:55:00.860 Like you realize when you put Britney in this thing, God bless her. 0.98
00:55:04.980 She seems like a lovely person, but it is not breaking news that she cut her hair.
00:55:09.100 And so I think to some degree, right, we have lots of examples of how we have undermined
00:55:14.300 ourselves, frankly.
00:55:16.020 And it trains your audience to tune out, you know, it's like, oh, I don't need to, I get
00:55:20.160 a million of these notifications.
00:55:21.380 Who cares?
00:55:22.040 You know?
00:55:22.460 Exactly.
00:55:23.060 Exactly.
00:55:23.780 Exactly.
00:55:24.640 One of my last questions for you is just, what does it feel like to see the response to the work that you've helped put out into the world?
00:55:34.460 I mean, the response has been huge.
00:55:36.880 What is that like?
00:55:38.100 You know, it's really, really nice.
00:55:41.000 But I will say that sometimes you do great projects that nobody really sees.
00:55:45.860 You started talking about the site.
00:55:47.440 The site was a great show.
00:55:48.780 We literally had six viewers.
00:55:50.700 We were in hash marks, which means it didn't have enough viewers to like actually count them.
00:55:55.400 I love doing that show. That was a great show. Right. So ahead of its time.
00:55:59.080 But but no one watched it. And it's so, you know, I I guess it's always great when the work that you've done and you're you're associated with a scene because that's awesome.
00:56:10.220 You just want people to see it, especially in documentaries. You want people to see it.
00:56:13.360 So it's it's amazing. It feels great. But also, I think there's just a zillion other projects.
00:56:17.920 Of course, since it's award season for docs, you you end up watching everybody else's doc, too.
00:56:23.440 So all I do is watch docs all the time. There's a zillion fantastic projects out there, a zillion.
00:56:29.820 And so I would say people should be more like you and learn to love docs, maybe more than watching a lot of talking heads rotating through every half hour.
00:56:38.900 Oh, my gosh. There is no I've said it on the show before.
00:56:40.960 there's no truer, better medium, things like actual stories that have been told and happened
00:56:47.660 will always be more interesting, more layered, more complex than anything anybody could come up
00:56:52.880 with. Documentary is where it's at. Yep. Yep. I agree. From your mouth to God's ears, let me say.
00:57:00.200 Soledad O'Brien, I'm completely geeked out. Thank you so much for being here.
00:57:05.240 It's an honor. I have chills. Where can people follow you? What do you've got?
00:57:10.520 like how can people keep in touch we always have projects we're doing so we um obviously we are on
00:57:16.660 the um award circuit now which means we're doing a lot of screenings etc etc it's been really fun
00:57:22.260 to go to some of these awards shows because i'm getting to pull out some old gowns and you know
00:57:27.260 squeezing on um uh so so uh if anything that you want to follow around that kind of stuff uh i'm
00:57:34.000 on instagram of course at soledad o'brien one word i don't do a lot on x people sometimes reach out
00:57:39.660 So every, every four weeks I go in and respond to a million people who I've ignored.
00:57:44.480 So apologies to anybody who's reaching out to me on X, but it's just, I, it's a little 0.93
00:57:48.500 bit, I feel like it's everything you post to post later becomes something about white
00:57:53.920 supremacy.
00:57:54.760 So I had to, I finally like for my own sanity, I was like, you know what?
00:57:58.320 I cannot do this consistently.
00:58:00.140 So I hop in and out.
00:58:02.280 And, and yeah, we follow me on Instagram.
00:58:06.380 You'll see a lot of what we're doing.
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