There Are No Girls on the Internet - August 03, 2022


The legacy of Nichelle Nichols and Star Trek - Best of TANGOTI

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00:01:59.020 There are Black people in the future, and I'm sad to say that last week, we lost somebody who helped us all visualize it.
00:02:06.620 Michelle Nichols died at age 89, and she is and always will be an icon.
00:02:11.900 She lovingly portrayed Lieutenant Uhura on Star Trek.
00:02:15.300 Now, there is so much to love about her.
00:02:18.260 She was smart, capable, gorgeous, stylish.
00:02:21.220 She rocked a Bluetooth on Star Trek even before that was really a thing.
00:02:25.400 She had it all.
00:02:27.400 But Nichelle did a lot offscreen as well.
00:02:30.620 In the 70s, Nichelle toured around the country visiting different colleges and professional organizations 0.95
00:02:35.540 to encourage women and people of color scientists, engineers, and mathematicians to apply to become astronauts. 0.99
00:02:42.600 And a lot of them actually did.
00:02:44.340 According to the New York Times, Charles Bolden, a former Marine Corps major general who flew on four space shuttle missions and became NASA's administrator for eight years, credited Nichelle Nichols visiting his college with giving him the idea to apply in the first place.
00:02:59.200 And Mae Jemison, the first Black woman astronaut, has often publicly cited Nichelle Nichols as her inspiration.
00:03:05.960 To honor the out-of-this-world woman that allowed so many of us nerds to see ourselves in different timelines and universes,
00:03:13.340 we're revisiting our episode about Star Trek with Star Trek superfan Blair Imani.
00:03:19.940 When you think of the future, what does it look like?
00:03:23.380 In 1966, Star Trek creator Gene Roddenberry imagined a future where the multiracial crew of the USS Enterprise worked together to explore the wonders of space.
00:03:33.120 and while they were at it they also explored race disability and gender star trek has long
00:03:40.680 been a vessel for people to imagine themselves in the future when nichelle nichols who played
00:03:45.700 a horror wanted to quit the show to pursue a career on broadway it was martin luther king
00:03:50.680 a trekkie himself who convinced her to stay on so the world could see a black woman as 0.98
00:03:56.060 commanding and capable here's nichols describing the historic encounter and i'm looking at dr
00:04:02.540 Martin Luther King. He said, you can't. And I couldn't. And I've never regretted it.
00:04:12.680 I didn't leave. I couldn't leave. The rest is history.
00:04:19.540 Is it any surprise that MLK was a Star Trek fan? In order to be an activist,
00:04:24.520 you have to be able to imagine a future that's better than the current reality and believe in
00:04:30.540 and the promise that the future includes people like you.
00:04:34.040 Blair Armani is an activist, historian, and author. 0.84
00:04:37.980 Like MLK before her, she's a huge Trekkie,
00:04:40.560 and the show helped her imagine a future
00:04:42.120 where people like her aren't just included,
00:04:44.720 but where they can also live long and prosper.
00:04:47.540 Last year, Blair went to Comic-Con in California.
00:04:50.340 She cosplayed as Geordie LaForge,
00:04:52.460 the Enterprise's chief engineer played by LeVar Burton.
00:04:56.120 The character was a nod to George LaForge,
00:04:58.660 a quadriplegic fan of the show.
00:05:00.980 Jordi is blind, and a device called a visor
00:05:03.560 gives him the ability to see.
00:05:05.160 And if you're anything like me,
00:05:06.360 you spent your childhood mimicking the device
00:05:08.280 with a headband on your face.
00:05:10.960 Blair wanted to dress as Jordi, 1.00
00:05:12.500 but also add her own spin to it.
00:05:15.360 I have always believed that Jordi LaForge of Star Trek
00:05:18.820 is a Muslim because he's born,
00:05:21.740 I think on February 16th, 2335,
00:05:24.140 not I think, I know, in Mogadishu, Somalia,
00:05:27.400 which is a Muslim majority country. And in 300 years, it'll probably still be a Muslim majority
00:05:32.300 country. So odds are that Geordi La Forge is a black Muslim. So I thought, oh, how fun and 0.97
00:05:37.060 wholesome it will be for me to bring my religiosity and myself to this space. I did not anticipate
00:05:42.720 it would go super viral. I did not anticipate pissing off Islamophobes. I mean, I kind of
00:05:48.380 always anticipate that, but not in the Star Trek fandom. So it kind of turned into like some fun
00:05:53.540 thing I could do. And of course, like most things, it became a political statement. You can find a
00:05:58.720 link to Blair's outfit in the show notes, and I definitely suggest checking it out. Her feminized,
00:06:04.420 Islamicized take on Jordi LaForge with the hijab went viral. I had this beautiful robe from Elhoffer 0.60
00:06:11.000 Design, which is based in Los Angeles, created by Katie Elhoffer. So woman-owned business, love that.
00:06:15.980 I had the Jordi LaForge visor, which is his seeing device because Jordi LaForge is not sighted. He's
00:06:22.640 blind, but he uses this vision device, visor device in order to be able to see. So I had that
00:06:27.700 and then I put a nice black hijab on top of it. Blair said only three people asked her about
00:06:32.880 cosplaying as a version of Jordi who presents as a woman, but it was the addition of the hijab
00:06:37.980 that really riled people up. Some of the responses were really pedantic, like one Twitter user who
00:06:44.300 said a hijab would violate the Starfleet's dress code. So Blair, what was the reaction like online?
00:06:49.540 you would have thought that i had like i don't know lit a holy book on fire the way some people
00:06:55.340 were reacting so you have the one group of folks who um well actually i wouldn't have even
00:07:00.600 photographed it if it wasn't for my friend kaylin borowski who like he's my photographer like
00:07:06.200 primarily and he was like you need to get photographs of this and i was like okay fine
00:07:09.920 let's do it before i go to comic-con and i just posted it for juma which is you know friday uh
00:07:15.040 Friday prayer day and I was like you know Juba Mubarak to all the Muslims across the galaxy and
00:07:19.700 the pictures came out super iconic and so I posted them and it was wild because cast of the Star Trek
00:07:26.660 franchise like Will Wheaton and uh you know LeVar Burton himself and Michael Dorn and Brent Spinner
00:07:34.220 saw the post and started sharing it themselves which was like super duper validating I was like
00:07:38.920 on top of the world um and then of course the fans started to see it and then of course StarTrek.com
00:07:44.000 itself started to see it um and so there was like this outpouring of like what is this
00:07:48.340 the the the most exciting and kind of like I guess surprising aspect was that people thought
00:07:55.100 I was a new character on the show Picard and I still get emails from people who are like when
00:08:00.280 is your episode coming out I'm so excited so some people really liked it and some people really
00:08:07.520 hated it but Blair couldn't understand why her using Star Trek to affirm that the future includes
00:08:12.880 Black Muslims like her was so shocking, particularly given that Star Trek was meant to
00:08:17.700 show a vision of the future that includes everybody. It was really polarizing. On the one 1.00
00:08:22.480 hand, as far as like social media went, it was like folks who were really excited or thought
00:08:27.260 that I was a new character. Then you had folks saying things like, Gene Roddenberry didn't intend
00:08:32.220 for Muslims to be in space. Muslims aren't in Star Trek. And I'm like, first of all, 0.98
00:08:36.820 Star Trek is fictional. Second of all, yeah, he did because, you know, Gene Roddenberry,
00:08:41.420 he believed in infinite diversity and infinite combinations and star trek was a beloved show of
00:08:47.040 dr martin luther king jr who actually encouraged um you know uhura you know the woman who plays
00:08:53.480 uhura to like continue on the show um and nichelle nichols and so like not only is gene roddenberry
00:09:01.060 not this like you know like anti-diversity anti-pc dude he was the reason there was the
00:09:08.440 first interracial kiss on television between Captain Kirk and Lieutenant Uhura. And so that's
00:09:14.340 huge, you know? So when people are saying there's no Muslims in space, I'm like, actually, I have
00:09:19.160 evidence to back it up. But also, this isn't even a real universe. If you hate Muslims so much, 0.65
00:09:23.280 maybe you should just say that instead of trying to use either, you know, your own fandom or 0.96
00:09:28.920 something else to hide behind that. There's a rich tradition of activists finding inspiration
00:09:34.080 and being able to see themselves in fictional worlds.
00:09:36.980 It's one of the reasons why MLK wanted Nichelle Nichols 0.93
00:09:40.140 to keep showing that kind of representation.
00:09:43.120 Civil rights icon John Lewis was one of my heroes.
00:09:47.080 And my favorite fact about him is that during Comic-Con,
00:09:50.420 he cosplayed as his own younger self,
00:09:53.380 crossing the Edmund Pettus Bridge in Selma
00:09:55.960 during the Civil Rights Movement.
00:09:58.060 At Comic-Con 2016, he wore the same coat
00:10:01.200 and carried the same backpack
00:10:02.920 that contained the same things he brought with him
00:10:05.280 back on that fateful day in 1965.
00:10:08.560 An apple, a toothbrush, and a comic book.
00:10:12.000 All the things you need to survive a night in jail.
00:10:15.200 At the convention, dressed as his own younger self,
00:10:18.720 Lewis led kids on a little march around the convention
00:10:20.700 to help them visualize that anyone could be a hero, even them.
00:10:25.240 He was there to promote his own comic book,
00:10:27.300 a graphic novel retelling of the March on Selma called March.
00:10:31.720 Here is the late John Lewis at Comic-Con 2016, advocating for a new generation to create good trouble.
00:10:39.120 The march, book one, but also book two.
00:10:44.700 And when book three comes out, it will inspire another generation of young people and people not so young to stand up, to speak up and speak up and get in good trouble.
00:10:57.220 It might sound strange for a civil rights icon to be talking about comics at a convention,
00:11:02.500 but John Lewis says that he was first inspired to join the civil rights movement
00:11:06.200 from reading a comic book about MLK called Dr. King, Martin Luther King and the Montgomery Story.
00:11:15.740 I think it really shows that civil rights leaders and activists are real people with real interests.
00:11:22.940 They're not just sort of like someone that you read about in February for Black History Month or like a picture in a book.
00:11:29.020 They're real multifaceted people.
00:11:32.200 And I do think there's this connection to science fiction and other nerdy interests and civil rights and activism.
00:11:39.400 Because you have to be able to sort of imagine and dream that different worlds are possible to be an activist and to fight for the kind of change that you fight for.
00:11:47.920 I keep making the connections between religion and, you know, sci-fi because it is the idea of a different world.
00:11:54.380 Like, you know, Dr. King spoke about the mountaintop, but we can also look at that as, you know, imagining Afrofuturism and imagining ourselves in a different realm.
00:12:03.120 And this whole idea that we have to get beyond the limitations of our own imagination.
00:12:07.560 And sometimes for, you know, religious folks such as myself, it means trusting that, you know, Allah or God or Yahweh has the ultimate plan.
00:12:14.780 And that is beyond our own understanding because we have a finite, you know, ability to understand in our current system.
00:12:21.440 Or it could be to use, you know, graphics and art and illustration and comics and books and video and film in podcasts to, you know, imagine what that looks like and transport us to a different place as a reprieve from the difficulties of the world.
00:12:36.840 But it's also crucial to understand that, you know, these are tools used to transport us, but they're still being created by people. And because of that, there's going to be limitations.
00:12:47.620 I mean, the example I keep giving is that, you know, in Star Trek, they have people giving painful, you know, traditional birth, you know, via the birth canal. And I'm like, okay, well, if you can like zap somebody healthy with like a laser gun, then why can't you just like teleport the baby out of the womb?
00:13:05.060 You know, like there's the limitations, you know, or the idea that we haven't surpassed this idea of, you know, pain during childbirth, et cetera, or just, you know, is there an incubation pod?
00:13:16.280 Like, you know, because Star Trek The Next Generation was created at a specific time in history, even the things that they make as a futuristic interpretation of a current technology, it's going to be based on that current technology.
00:13:29.600 But the other cool thing is that so many technologies are then based on, you know, the imaginings of previous sci-fi writers, even like Jules Verne, you know, people, as they imagine, are also limited by the imaginings of each other.
00:13:44.260 And so with John Lewis, I was actually able to meet him while he was on tour during the first March book created by himself and Andrew Aiden and Nate Powell.
00:13:56.380 And I spoke to him about why he decided to do this format.
00:13:59.700 And it was because he wanted to reach as many people as possible.
00:14:03.380 And so Andrew Aiden and John Lewis, they both love comic books.
00:14:07.440 And that comic book that you refer to is called Dr. King, Martin Luther King in the Montgomery
00:14:13.180 Story.
00:14:14.000 And it's beautiful because it shows how much of a Superman Dr. King was made to be.
00:14:22.420 Not only is it an educational tool, but these are representational materials of things that
00:14:27.360 are happening in the present moment.
00:14:29.500 I think today we get caught up in conversations about this activism is performative.
00:14:34.740 You know, if you have an outfit to show up to a protest, you're being a shallow activist, completely ignoring the fact that like the Black Panther Party didn't just wake up with perfectly symmetrical afros, excellently tailored slacks and turtlenecks and berets.
00:14:48.840 They didn't just roll out of bed like that. It was all intentional and performance and art and illustration and the conveyance of information requires intentionality.
00:15:00.120 And that's going to deal with aesthetics. So it's not to say we have to choose one. It's not to say one should overcome the other, but that we can have both of these things in tandem. And that sometimes we limit ourselves. We being kind of like the broader community or, you know, people who just, you know, we as a people often limit ourselves in what tools we grab onto.
00:15:21.880 Because if you've only seen tweets or TikToks that cover surface level, you know, material, if the only way you've come into contact with sci fi has been at the surface level way, then you're probably not going to understand the fact that, you know, during the time of a crack epidemic, the the Star Trek universe decided to tackle addiction.
00:15:41.060 You might not understand that, you know, TikTok is being used to educate young people and people across literacy and language.
00:15:48.800 And so it's all about how we use the tools. And that's why I find, you know, comics and film and TV so exciting because, yeah, it's a different world.
00:16:00.040 Yeah, it's not real life, but it can totally be a proxy for our real life and it can be a reprieve from our world.
00:16:05.620 but then it's also very important to make sure that we check our own biases when creating that
00:16:11.040 work. Fiction, comic books, cartoons, TV shows, all of them can be tools to help us better
00:16:16.640 understand ourselves and the world around us. Blair is also an author. Her books, Modern Herstory
00:16:23.380 and Making Our Way Home, use colorful illustrations to help introduce audiences
00:16:27.860 to the concept that marginalized people of the past weren't just two-dimensional historical
00:16:33.200 figures. They were complex. And the cover of both of her books kind of looked like comics.
00:16:39.160 Fun fact, full circle story, is the reason why I'm an author is because of LeVar Burton.
00:16:44.180 So one, LeVar Burton made me an enthusiastic reader via Reading Rainbow. And two, I thanked
00:16:49.320 him for that. He started following me. And when I was trying to get a publisher for the book,
00:16:53.580 he shouted me out and literally said, somebody published this woman's book. And like,
00:16:58.180 out to 2 million people who are probably in literacy to some extent. And that paved the
00:17:03.800 way for me, not only getting my first book deal, but my second one with the same publishing house.
00:17:08.320 So LeVar Burton's amazing. And so I, you know, couldn't relish the fact that I, that, you know,
00:17:15.500 imagery and things like TV and film shaped my own understanding as a reader and as, you know,
00:17:20.700 an informed person. Like you might remember Jimmy Neutron, like they actually snuck in a lot of
00:17:26.400 very important scientific and, you know, engineering information into that show. Like
00:17:31.600 even SpongeBob talks about things that like make sense in real life. And so, and the fact that
00:17:37.460 Steve Hillenburg who created SpongeBob was a marine biologist and wanted to convey that education to
00:17:43.060 young people through his work. So I was definitely informed by that. And I think growing up in like
00:17:47.860 the golden era of animation really helped me to kind of connect those two things. But I also like
00:17:53.820 the idea of somebody picking up my book because it looks like a good coffee table book. It looks
00:17:57.640 like a light read. And I do make my books accessible at a fifth grade level because most
00:18:01.760 folks read at a fifth grade level and most magazines are written at a fifth grade level. 0.86
00:18:05.660 But I like the idea of some sweet grandma who might have, you know, conservative politics 1.00
00:18:10.560 picking up the book because it looks friendly on the front cover, giving it to her, you know, 0.98
00:18:15.260 offspring. And surprise, they're getting radicalized. They're getting educated about 1.00
00:18:20.040 things that are complex and intricate in a way that is family friendly and, you know, age
00:18:24.600 appropriate, but things that might not be covered until they get to college because of the limitations
00:18:28.980 of the educational system. So especially with my second book, Making Our Way Home, even though
00:18:34.680 there's a gay couple on the front cover in the form of my uncle Lester and a partner we imagined
00:18:38.920 for him, I still get emails from people saying, I didn't know this book was going to be queer
00:18:43.980 affirming. Of course, they don't say it like that. But I'm like, I didn't hide anything. But because
00:18:48.900 it's presented in a certain way. It doesn't detract from people who are already seeking
00:18:54.440 that material, but it also invites people in who might not have otherwise engaged with something
00:18:59.660 like the Great Migration or Black history that covers everything from the period of enslavement
00:19:06.520 to the creation of hip hop. So I try to use imagery to sneak my way in, and it's pretty effective. 0.84
00:19:13.740 So we know there are Black folks, queer folks, and Muslim folks in the future.
00:19:18.640 Did Star Trek help you be able to visualize that kind of world?
00:19:22.680 Yeah, and it's funny, like, so much.
00:19:24.900 You know, Star Trek has really helped me envision what the future looks like.
00:19:28.340 So often when we look at sci-fi, it's, you know, aliens from a different universe who have a completely different molecular structure.
00:19:35.700 But for some reason, they have a British accent, like WTF, you know, like white supremacy goes hard, I guess, even in sci-fi.
00:19:41.300 and so I'm definitely not like under any delusions about why you know certain biases exist it's
00:19:48.080 because it's the limitations of our own imagination as people but it's not only helped me understand
00:19:52.420 diversity it's helped me understand how I discuss religion at large as a historian and so often that
00:19:58.980 means looking back in time it's a really exciting thing to also look at sci-fi as a step towards the
00:20:04.640 future Star Trek has been fundamental in the identity formation of myself as a black woman
00:20:09.980 and as a Muslim woman and it's helped me speak about religion just to see how something as
00:20:15.580 secular and something as you know low stakes I guess as Star Trek can be imbued with the same
00:20:21.880 type of passion and vitriol but also beauty that comes with religious debates and I was actually
00:20:28.200 at the School of Divinity at Princeton giving a talk and I was talking about canon and you know
00:20:34.420 today we talk about canon like your fan your fan canon your head canon things that you know to be
00:20:39.060 true but maybe aren't canonical to the actual franchise you know say things like maybe you
00:20:45.060 believe all pikachus are related in pokemon but you don't actually have a basis for things like
00:20:48.840 that and so i was talking about how in my head canon for um star trek geordie laforge is a black
00:20:56.360 muslim and of course that's influenced by my own you know skin in the game i would also love there
00:21:01.020 to be a black muslim in my favorite show and my favorite character to be one so of course i'm
00:21:05.160 going to imbue that but there's also a basis in the fact that he's born in Mogadishu Somalia which
00:21:09.560 is canonical to the text and I was talking about this in the context of religion and how you know
00:21:14.560 we can all read the same religious scripture and come to completely different theological
00:21:21.060 interpretations and people tend to grasp that but I was talking about how of course that happens like
00:21:27.200 I think some people get confused like how can we all read the same story of Genesis and you know
00:21:32.720 well we're not even reading the same story we're reading different interpretations different
00:21:36.600 translations centuries old differences we're reading uh people imbuing their own biases while
00:21:42.940 they translate all these different things and it was so great because i was talking to this group
00:21:47.340 at this very you know like fancy institution uh princeton talking about how star trek is a case
00:21:53.560 study into why there's so much religious turmoil because if something is like i said low stakes of
00:21:59.340 Star Trek can start a virtual flame war over what religion is or is not in Star Trek, then of course
00:22:07.180 something as high stakes as our eternal souls is going to, you know, spark a bunch of debate. And
00:22:12.720 I tell people this and I think it helps them understand everything from why, you know, I feel
00:22:17.120 comfortable being a queer Muslim and owning that and owning God's love to things like why fandoms
00:22:23.620 can be so fraught and disconnected and, you know, just chaotic. But the really cool thing to see
00:22:31.640 is how people will use the scripture or in this case, the fandom or, you know, the original source
00:22:37.380 material from the creator, in this case, Gene Roddenberry and not God. Well, you know, to use
00:22:44.640 that to protect and preserve other people, because it was so cool seeing like, you know, Trekkies
00:22:51.660 and trekkers which are also trekkies but they use their own terminology which we respect um
00:22:56.760 kind of defending me basing this in like not only star trek the next generation but deep space nine
00:23:02.920 the movies the animated series all showing a basis for religion in star trek from episodes
00:23:07.880 in the original series where there's a christmas tree to episodes in deep space nine where they
00:23:12.960 totally get into religion to episodes in the next generation itself and i just felt so warm in that
00:23:18.600 Like it was like a virtual hug from all these different strangers who were like, we're not only going to protect her as a Muslim woman, but her ability to belong in this fandom.
00:23:27.920 And that's the thing about being a girl or a woman on the Internet is that you constantly have to defend yourself.
00:23:34.640 And it's a relief when other people step in to do it on your behalf.
00:23:38.360 Definitely. That's something that I love.
00:23:40.720 Like one thing I love about being somebody who is like a woman online is people will ride for you.
00:23:45.520 People will fight for you. They'll speak up for you.
00:23:47.620 they'll show they'll shake tables for you they'll make sure that your voice is included and amplified
00:23:51.700 and in those moments just saying yes to that trust falling into your community that has your back
00:23:58.080 those have been my favorite times online oh 100 like i think that when you go to comic con or you
00:24:05.040 go to a convention or any space where you're taking virtual connections and putting it into
00:24:09.640 the physical realm there's always that concern of am i going to be rejected and that really goes with
00:24:13.940 anything you know just like the first day at school your first day on the job am I going to
00:24:18.180 be rejected and then also being in a fandom space and a geek or a nerd space it's that constant
00:24:23.900 feeling of do you even know the material well enough like oh oh you like like you know you
00:24:31.280 like Beyonce name all of her freckles that type of thing you know and it's like come on now like
00:24:36.520 we can all enjoy things at our different levels but just the whole feeling that we don't know our
00:24:41.500 stuff enough as women and that's not just like I said it's not just with Star Trek like you know
00:24:46.320 the assumption that I don't know every character off the top of my head even though I totally bombed
00:24:50.400 at Star Trek trivia recently but it's also the implication that we as professionals as women in
00:24:57.560 the world don't know what we're talking about so that could be anything that you do like I was in
00:25:02.060 the communications field when we worked at Planned Parenthood and yeah I would constantly have people
00:25:07.380 telling me not their like you know thank goodness but I'd have reporters constantly questioning how
00:25:12.000 I was so young and doing what I was doing how I was doing this and doing what I was doing
00:25:15.620 and so it's exhausting to then deal with that in a leisurely space a recreational space but it is
00:25:21.240 that beautiful thing where people will just go for you like even when you're making an inside joke
00:25:25.200 amongst friends and you're ragging on each other on the internet and somebody who doesn't know that
00:25:29.460 your friends are like hey leave Blair alone it's like hey actually we're cool but thanks for having
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00:27:33.260 When I was 14 years old,
00:27:35.540 I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months.
00:27:39.060 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring
00:27:41.760 how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
00:27:45.360 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files.
00:27:48.980 I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear
00:27:53.880 saying shut up don't say anything every week i'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable
00:28:01.000 i knew if he woke up without a doubt he was going to hurt me i started feeling that there was
00:28:08.820 someone at the end of my bed and i just started screaming they are abducted stalked controlled
00:28:16.320 and nearly silenced but these aren't stories about what's taken from them they're stories
00:28:21.920 about what it takes to make it out alive.
00:28:24.880 Listen to The Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart
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00:28:37.420 The future will be intersectional.
00:28:40.220 There will be Black people, queer people, and Muslim people,
00:28:43.400 and people like Blair who exist at these intersections.
00:28:46.500 But on social media, people tell Blair
00:28:48.940 there's no such thing as a queer Muslim,
00:28:50.640 so she can't possibly exist yet here she is existing what's it like to have so many people 0.62
00:28:57.800 online essentially saying that because you're a queer muslim you can't possibly exist it's funny
00:29:03.240 to me and honestly you know i'm so grateful that i've gotten to a place in my heart and in my like 0.77
00:29:09.620 own personal journey where i can laugh at it because like in my family if we can laugh at it
00:29:14.300 no matter how messed up it is we've moved on or at least we were able to like view it in a way
00:29:19.100 that's healthy. You know, in Islam, at least we don't believe that a human being can then tell
00:29:24.500 another human being what their salvation is going to look like, not even the prophet,
00:29:28.260 peace be upon him. It's this idea that, you know, Allah is Allah, you know, deities are deities and
00:29:33.660 humans are humans. And so I can be very comfortable in saying when somebody says you can't be Muslim,
00:29:38.740 I'm like, oh, my goodness, I did not know that Allah used Instagram. How are you doing? You know,
00:29:43.880 or I have people who say things like the devil called, they're waiting for you in hell. And I'm
00:29:47.660 just like, oh, my goodness, you have the devil's direct line. That sounds like a problem, you know,
00:29:52.300 so I can really have fun with it. But at the same time, it's really breaking down the fact that
00:29:56.380 in my belief, you know, Islam, faith, you know, regardless of the faith that you come from,
00:30:02.740 those things are so deeply personal. And yes, they have, you know, accompaniments like religious
00:30:08.260 texts, the Quran, you have hadiths, which are, you know, stories passed down from the prophet's
00:30:13.220 time and from other leaders. And it is up to you how you walk into that. And so for myself,
00:30:19.700 I will never let another human being tell me what Allah believes about myself because
00:30:25.160 as human beings, yes, we can communicate to God through prayer, but it is again through
00:30:30.460 the limitations of our own understandings and our own biases. So I own up to that. But then I also
00:30:37.020 encourage others to think of that as well. Not to say this is how you should do Islam. This is how 0.99
00:30:42.260 you should not do Islam, but to say what speaks to you. And so it used to really bother me. I think
00:30:48.400 also what used to bother me was being told that I wasn't a black woman because I, you know, am
00:30:52.500 lighter skinned. And what's so frustrating to me is that I so often see lighter skinned black women 0.51
00:30:57.660 using that as a reason to perpetuate and continue being colorist instead of grasping the fact that 0.87
00:31:02.960 colorism isn't the same as getting made fun of for being lighter skinned. It's not the same as
00:31:08.740 getting made fun of for having a sunburn. It means that as a lighter skinned black woman, 0.98
00:31:13.040 I have enjoyed the benefits and the privilege that are unearned of living in a society that
00:31:18.440 calls me beautiful at the peril of my darker skinned siblings. And, you know, then understanding
00:31:26.400 that your feelings shouldn't get in the way of you dismantling that. Your feelings, yeah,
00:31:30.720 those are valid, but they should not get in the way or step on the necks of the people who are
00:31:35.540 already being harmed by those systems. So I'm constantly thinking about systems of oppression
00:31:39.720 and systems of privilege and making sure that I'm quickly and easily discerning when something is
00:31:47.320 from the self-serving interest or input of an individual who wants to do me harm versus when
00:31:53.780 it's something that's worth listening to and being called in. Things like my religion, those are
00:31:57.680 non-negotiable. But of course, I'm going to be, you know, I'm always going to understand things
00:32:03.640 like privilege, class privilege, abled privilege, and be receptive to those conversations. But it
00:32:09.320 is a line to walk between when people are trying to hurt you and when people are calling you on
00:32:15.480 your BS. In 2017, Blair went on Tucker Carlson's Fox News show to discuss the surveillance of
00:32:21.680 Muslim communities. Carlson clumsily tries to call her out for trying to speak on behalf of the
00:32:27.380 Muslim, and LGBTQ community.
00:32:30.440 Again, the underlying assumption being that Blair couldn't possibly be both Muslim and queer. 0.97
00:32:36.280 And that's how she ended up coming out in front of millions of people on Fox News.
00:32:40.980 Have you noticed that all identity politics kind of converges in the end?
00:32:44.140 So it's not just about Muslims, it's about the LBGT community, it's about Black Lives Matter.
00:32:47.200 It's like, you know, at some point...
00:32:49.460 Well, some of us, like myself, exist in all of those communities.
00:32:52.520 This is not identity politics when it's your life.
00:32:54.940 So, okay.
00:32:55.680 Okay, fun story. I was just feeling really coffee because I had spent the previous year working at Planned Parenthood, you know, educating folks in all parts of the country about abortion and abortion stigma and doing it to like solid effect, where I would have conversations with people where they would come at me and say things like, y'all are the devil. And at the end, they'd be like, oh, maybe I can take my daughter to Planned Parenthood for sex ed.
00:33:17.500 so I was feeling on top of the world my talking points were working messaging was working
00:33:21.160 I get an inquiry from this guy it's my last month working at Planned Parenthood because my grant was
00:33:26.360 over um and so I was like yeah I can do this who is this guy I was not thinking about like oh maybe
00:33:31.920 I should do some counter intel figure out who he is I'm gonna plan to come out on national tv not
00:33:36.960 thinking about that I still have friends who are in the comms and like PR field who just think I'm
00:33:41.560 a genius who orchestrated the whole thing not true I would like to claim that but no I was just
00:33:46.260 correcting him. I forgot that we were on stage. It got to this point where I was so fed up with
00:33:50.920 him dancing around it and, and really trying to erase me and pull it, poke and prod at me
00:33:56.020 that I just snapped back in a very eloquent way. And I said, well, actually, in addition to being
00:34:00.800 a Muslim woman, I'm a black queer person. And, uh, then I immediately realized I came out on TV
00:34:06.000 and I could feel my phone vibrating in my pocket and I could, you know, my partner was actually
00:34:12.820 on set with me because it was remote. So I've never breathed the same air as Tucker Carlson,
00:34:16.920 Alhamdulillah, praise God. But my partner is like standing there looking at me and I can't
00:34:22.440 totally look off camera because, you know, you got to hold a face and I have a pretty good poker
00:34:26.480 face. But if you watch it with that knowledge, then it kind of becomes apparent that like,
00:34:31.280 then when I stumbled over my words, it was because I had just come out on national TV.
00:34:35.300 And so everything changed immediately. People who were homophobic, but in my life and then found
00:34:41.120 who I was or, you know, am removed themselves, which I consider to be a blessing, but it still
00:34:46.320 was hard. Sarah Kate Ellis, the president and CEO of GLAAD reached out. And that was awesome because
00:34:53.840 GLAAD basically scooped me up and they will do this anytime somebody comes out publicly,
00:34:58.120 they make themselves a resource. They help you tell your story. If you want to do press,
00:35:02.580 they'll make sure that you get connected. And I really just felt scooped up and embraced by
00:35:06.660 the community. And it was just like a really beautiful thing. For a year after that, I felt
00:35:11.280 like I was like the bell of the queer ball in the same way that I felt like that about Star Trek. I 0.77
00:35:14.940 was like, oh, look at this. You know, I feel popular. And I felt like that after I converted
00:35:19.220 to Islam as well. It was kind of this feeling of being new in a community and being exciting.
00:35:25.300 And I also learned as I was dealing with, you know, experiencing those beautiful euphoric things,
00:35:31.160 that privilege was showing up because I had the privilege of growing up in a context where
00:35:36.760 I can be myself. Now, it's not to say that these things should be a privilege. You should be able
00:35:41.720 to be yourself in your sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, regardless of the
00:35:47.040 religious or cultural context you come from. But that is not the case. Blair didn't want to be
00:35:51.720 the Black queer Muslim. She didn't want her story to obscure the stories of other marginalized people
00:35:57.020 who didn't have the ability to come out like she did.
00:35:59.660 So I wasn't realizing that, you know, people were calling me the queer Muslim,
00:36:05.840 that people were looking at me as the queer Muslim.
00:36:08.500 You know, I was becoming very tokenized.
00:36:10.760 And so once I became awake to that, then I started to really immerse myself
00:36:13.920 within other queer Muslim contexts and start to use my profile
00:36:18.840 or increasingly large profile to help fundraise for organizations like Hedaya,
00:36:23.680 LGBTQ both in the UK and the US Muslims for progressive values and start to feel that this
00:36:29.920 wasn't just me on you know like the Blair show but a responsibility that I had to use um this
00:36:36.600 newly found visibility for the upliftment of others because as I was telling stories that
00:36:42.080 are authentic to myself and that's important to do I wasn't realizing how it was harming other
00:36:46.340 people like you know I was talking about how I've never second-guessed myself for being queer in my
00:36:52.460 whole life but I'm not trying to tell that story in a way that makes others feel bad for going
00:36:58.540 through a homophobic you know queer phobic existence that's not what I'm called to do
00:37:03.980 that's not what my role should be and so now um and I don't think it's completely shifted I've
00:37:09.620 always tried to be very responsible in how I tell my story but it's this increased responsibility
00:37:13.380 so when I have young people reach out to me and they're like Blair how can I be out like you
00:37:17.720 I first explain to them and remind them of the context of the world that we live in
00:37:22.320 and that that's something you have to decide for yourself and that whether you're out or whether
00:37:27.480 you're not, you're valid. Your queerness is valid and you're not lying to anyone just because you're
00:37:33.380 unable to share your truth with people because it is incumbent on our society and on the people
00:37:38.300 that love you to be able to make space for you. And if they don't do that, that's not your fault.
00:37:43.080 And so I've really shifted from this idea of, you know, come out, have a rainbow flag,
00:37:47.660 all types of beautiful things. Those are important, but that's not all queerness is.
00:37:51.340 the people who are living closeted, the people who can't come out, those stories are important.
00:37:56.400 And if I can help to shed light on those or ease the lives of those people, then I'm absolutely
00:38:01.880 going to do that. So, you know, your books are really about archiving and preserving all of the
00:38:08.140 ways that women and non-binary people and Black women in particular, you know, the contributions
00:38:13.080 that we really have made to history and society and to culture. Why is preserving that so important
00:38:18.240 to you? And what can we do to make sure that these voices and these stories don't get overlooked or
00:38:23.060 erased or lost? That is the biggest, most terrifying thing for me, the idea that we will only remember
00:38:30.320 people through the lens of those who remember them. Because, you know, we see it happen often,
00:38:36.240 unfortunately, where we'll have someone who was being critical and calling, you know,
00:38:41.640 representative john lewis all types of you know besmirching names then post a you know a beautiful 0.99
00:38:48.280 eulogy or you have you know idiots like marco rubio posting the incorrect black person with him 0.99
00:38:54.000 while also claiming to honor his memory if you can't even tell us apart then no i'm not going 0.99
00:38:59.380 to trust that you remember us for the work that we did um and we saw it when elijah cummings passed
00:39:04.820 and people thought that john lewis it's just so frustrating that we are constantly collapsed so
00:39:09.700 no, I do not trust the institutions that collapse us into one monolith or, you know, sanitize our
00:39:16.540 legacies like what we see with Dr. King. I do not trust those institutions to do us justice.
00:39:21.940 So, you know, I had made a joke, I think, probably a couple of years ago that I was going to write my
00:39:25.900 own eulogy. But I also started to think about how that opportunity is denied to so many people.
00:39:30.860 And that's constantly happening to us as Black people, as Black women, as, you know, Black non-men,
00:39:36.120 non-binary folks etc um and so it's fighting against all of that and really trying to go
00:39:42.440 back to the original text you know like I was able to pore over some of the um you know handwritten
00:39:48.800 letters that my partner's grandmother had um that she corresponded with her husband and finding
00:39:56.620 those first-hand accounts there's all types of things there's pop culture references there's
00:40:00.860 mentions of just so many minute yet infinitely important things that might get glazed over 0.96
00:40:07.860 because, you know, whatever white historian didn't give a shit or whatever, you know, academic 0.96
00:40:13.800 historian couldn't be bothered with because they, you know, viewed it as not important. And because 0.98
00:40:20.740 they didn't view it was important, it gets erased, which is terrifying because, you know,
00:40:26.480 it is so we have so little power as a people as black people in this country because of things
00:40:31.700 like enslavement reconstruction the new deal being a you know same old same old deal that
00:40:37.540 you know really shafted black folks just i could go on and on but just all of this equality and
00:40:42.160 equality in the country and not only do we not learn about those things but that just makes our
00:40:47.860 condition worse because we are blamed for what we have endured uh instead of praised for getting
00:40:52.740 through it while also being held down by centuries and centuries of weight. But we then have to do
00:41:00.680 this whole mind, mental gymnastics of figuring out why our conditions are so poor, while we also see
00:41:08.020 model minorities and white folks uplifted as evidence that the system works, but we're just
00:41:13.280 not trying hard enough instead of actually learning the context. So it's one of those things where
00:41:18.160 it's a cycle and the only way we can break it is by elevating the truth and by changing who
00:41:25.200 is telling that truth because people are going to tell the truth that's important to them and
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00:42:35.500 When I was 14 years old, I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months.
00:42:41.420 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
00:42:47.780 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files.
00:42:51.480 I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear saying, 0.96
00:42:56.920 shut up, don't say anything.
00:42:59.560 Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable. 0.98
00:43:04.100 I knew if he woke up, without a doubt, he was going to hurt me.
00:43:08.680 I started feeling that there was someone at the end of my bed, and I just started screaming.
00:43:16.100 They are abducted, stalked, controlled, and nearly silenced.
00:43:20.060 But these aren't stories about what's taken from them.
00:43:23.500 They're stories about what it takes to make it out alive.
00:43:26.640 Listen to The Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:43:35.600 If your bookshelf and your For You page are equally important to your personality, welcome home.
00:43:41.540 This is Prose Society, the weekly podcast that's part book club, part group chat for thought daughters, pop culture obsessives, and anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse.
00:43:54.020 I'm Eli Rallo, and every week we're connecting the dots between books, the internet, and the conversations everyone can't stop having.
00:44:01.140 I'm going to have to look up this story. I'm obsessed. I'm obsessed.
00:44:04.720 From best-selling authors and your favorite book talk creators to the latest pop culture moments, nothing is off the table.
00:44:10.660 It's like if you can hide some real messages inside compelling characters, then that is a Trojan horse.
00:44:18.120 Whether you're looking for literary deep dives, smart pop culture conversations, or a community of readers who love to think a little too much, you're in the right place.
00:44:27.740 Listen to Pro Society on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:44:33.680 See you between the pages.
00:44:38.040 Let's get right back to it.
00:44:40.100 If Blair has anything to say about it, the future of history won't be nameless or faceless.
00:44:45.940 She's building a future where our stories aren't told carelessly.
00:44:50.160 One of your life mottos is to boldly go, you know, from Star Trek.
00:44:54.680 What is your vision for a bold, queer, Black, Muslim future look like?
00:44:59.740 Man, I mean, it would be great if we didn't have to get surveilled.
00:45:03.720 You know, just basic things.
00:45:05.200 I think, you know, one of the most basic things of, you know, being a marginalized person or historically marginalized person
00:45:14.040 is the ability to direct your own future
00:45:17.680 and to have the resources and abilities to do that.
00:45:20.420 Just basic things like having, you know,
00:45:22.340 Gil Scott-Heron says like, you know,
00:45:24.200 I just want a family and a wife and a food and the children
00:45:26.800 and, you know, some food to feed them every night.
00:45:29.880 And it's just those basic things.
00:45:32.000 The fact that there's premiums on water and healthcare
00:45:34.360 and, you know, the fact that Black maternal mortality
00:45:37.280 is egregious. 0.99
00:45:38.500 And it's not just because Black women can't give birth. 1.00
00:45:40.860 It's because of the medical system and medical racism. 1.00
00:45:43.380 the fact that the Tuskegee syphilis experiments went on well beyond there was a cure for syphilis
00:45:48.500 and these people went untreated until they were called out in the New York Times in 1972.
00:45:53.440 It's so many of those things. And, you know, it's nothing's going to, you know,
00:45:59.500 let me not limit myself in my own imaginations. There could be something that changes everything
00:46:03.920 overnight, but there's going to be so many things that need to change. And that the whole goal,
00:46:08.160 I think, is that we can determine our own futures, not that we have to, you know,
00:46:12.180 endure racelessness or lose our identities, but that our identities and who we are doesn't,
00:46:17.780 because of the systems we live in, inhibit us from living our full futures. It doesn't mean
00:46:21.960 that I want to suddenly live my life as a white Christian woman. No, I like being who I am. I
00:46:26.640 would just like to be able to be who I am without the consequences of oppressive systems and what
00:46:31.380 those systems put onto me. What do you think of when you think of the future? Who does it include?
00:46:37.680 Who feels safe there?
00:46:39.260 Who's supported there?
00:46:41.140 Star Trek helped a generation of activists like MLK and Blair
00:46:44.220 imagine a future that included them.
00:46:47.060 And imagine a future where they could break out of the oppressive systems
00:46:50.840 that keep us all from being free.
00:46:52.640 And that is a future worth fighting for.
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