00:04:25.060I think the pop culture and like celebrity culture
00:04:27.540in general is dismissed as like just frivolous nonsense,
00:04:31.000even though it is like one of the more popular topics
00:04:35.120of conversation across like all people and so the way that you can get a gauge on society from how
00:04:42.800they talk about like moments in pop culture like you can see like the swing towards you know
00:04:50.080trad wife like the diminishing of women's rights like in the amber herd johnny depp case like there
00:04:55.240are so many things that you can watch it happen in the way people talk about women in pop culture
00:05:00.080and people in in like the celebrity sphere and I think that the books are such an interesting
00:05:05.760look at all of it because I think it's so interesting to look at the way people present
00:05:11.560themselves in that space and like whether or not they acknowledge the way that like they contribute
00:05:16.600to like the way people look at the world and I think the way that they like don't mention certain
00:05:25.000things or the way they think things come up completely normal is such a like fascinating
00:05:28.800look at our society and then again the way that people will like let them get away with it based
00:05:33.600on how generally likable someone is is so fascinating I also think when you read these
00:05:39.520memoirs and get get the whole story versus when you're living through it and seeing the headlines
00:05:45.160it helps you remember that there is like a cohesive story going on and I mean in this
00:05:51.640world of clickbait hot moments you have to constantly fight yourself to not just like
00:05:57.580take the headline and run with it, but try to understand the larger narrative at play.
00:06:02.700I feel like the amount of times like a woman has been absolutely demolished by the public
00:06:08.160because of a bad night out. And then you look at what was happening in her life and she's like,
00:06:12.480well, my dad just died and my husband just divorced me and I was postpartum and I was
00:06:16.340being forced to work. And you're like, oh, OK. So she was like going through it.
00:06:21.800Women really going through it memoirs are one of my favorites of the genre.
00:06:25.660For instance, the tech book everyone was talking about this year, Careless People, is basically a woman-going-through-some-stuff memoir.
00:06:34.520Even if you haven't read Careless People, the memoir by Sarah Wynne Williams, former director of public policy at Facebook, you've probably seen the headlines.
00:06:45.260Stories about Facebook's Sheryl Sandberg buying her female staff lingerie and even sharing beds with them on work trips.
00:06:52.820But those viral moments, as wild as they are, overshadowed stories that were much more disturbing, like Wynne Williams' first-hand account of Facebook's complicity in global harm, including the company's admitted role in the genocide of the Rohingya people in Myanmar.
00:07:09.160We just read the Facebook book, Careless People, that memoir.
00:07:12.320It's less celebrity, but more like Facebook is a celebrity.
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00:32:33.660Let's get right back into it. I've listened to a lot of Celebrity Memoir Book Club,
00:32:39.400like almost every episode. So I've heard Ashley and Claire break down hundreds of celebrity
00:32:44.060memoirs. And let's be real, some of them do not age well. There are books that read less like
00:32:50.320life stories and more like a string of casual racism dressed up as insight. The kind of stuff
00:32:55.380that screams of an era and not in a good way. So memoirs, especially of this era, what do you
00:33:02.500think separates the ones that just sound so dated from the ones that like have staying power or like
00:33:08.380don't really seem as dated or that you can really connect with even reading them years later?
00:33:12.840I mean, I think it has to be like a sincere story you want to tell. Because I mean, human stories
00:33:18.280have been true since the dawn of time like you read the odyssey and you can connect to it because
00:33:23.080it's like there've only been so many human experiences and emotions and you can tap into
00:33:29.060that good example is like i you saw the picture of dorian gray on broadway so i reread it and
00:33:35.100there was so much in it that i was like oh my god this is about like influencers and so
00:33:41.220So I think that then you take these books that came from like Twitter virality specifically, which in the time had a very specific like tone of snarkiness.
00:33:53.680Like Claire said, it was just like dripping in snark.
00:33:57.440And then you take this like pseudo vulnerability that's actually just snarkiness and turn that into a book like there is nothing that's going to stick.
00:34:05.500i also think it really has to do with how vulnerable you'll be because those that twitter
00:34:10.460virality from 2014 specifically was very much light-hearted punching down i wouldn't say anybody0.97
00:34:16.220was being out and out cruel but there is this is like these girls above me are dumb chrissy tegan's0.98
00:34:21.240calling some poor teen mama slut like there is a lot of punching down happening where you got to0.99
00:34:26.300just be like what i'm just saying it and something that happens is top like that kind of humor gets0.99
00:34:31.780dated because who in society is allowed to be the butt of a joke changes. And I think a good
00:34:36.580example is Tina Fey. When you look back at like how she deals with like racial jokes in 30 Rock,
00:34:43.740the joke she makes like with Tracy Morgan versus Jenna Maroney being like, what's harder, black
00:34:48.920man, white woman. Those are done, I feel like with an awareness, whereas Asian people are like just1.00
00:34:55.240straight up a punchline. Like whether or not you find her jokes funny, like you could be like, oh,1.00
00:34:59.960But like there's clearly the joke is racism, whereas like the Asian jokes are racist.
00:43:05.700It really does go to show money isn't everything, because what if your dad was Aaron Spelling and you came out like it's weird to watch someone and be like, how do you have a worse life than me?
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