There Are No Girls on the Internet - September 27, 2022


Who is driving Meghan Markle hate online? STUFF MOM NEVER TOLD YOU

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00:01:43.740 I'm Bridget Todd, and this is There Are No Girls on the Internet.
00:01:46.440 when the queen died earlier this month the internet exploded not just with tributes to her legacy or 0.99
00:01:55.380 opinions about the monarchy but also in conspiracy theories and racist sexist attacks on Meghan
00:02:01.680 Markle now this is something I spend a lot of time thinking about the ways that our internet
00:02:07.600 landscape make it really easy to amplify attacks on women and women of color but what is really
00:02:14.020 interesting to me is what happens when you dig into the actual numbers of who exactly is spreading
00:02:19.700 all this hate. According to research from their No Girls on the Internet guest, Christopher Bouset
00:02:24.860 of Bot Sentinel, it actually takes a lot less people than you might think to gamify our social
00:02:31.000 media platforms and dominate online discourse about someone like Meghan Markle. And I joined
00:02:36.960 my friends, Samantha and Annie, at the podcast Stuff Mom Never Told You to talk all about it.
00:02:44.020 This is kind of a convoluted segue,
00:02:50.920 but I wanted to bring it up because it does bring me joy
00:02:53.120 to remember me and my old Neo's Angel email
00:02:55.620 receiving these things.
00:02:58.120 But also, I do think it kind of tangentially relates
00:03:03.860 to what we're talking about today
00:03:05.540 and that there seems to be these messages coming from
00:03:08.680 we're not sure where.
00:03:10.800 So I'm very eager to learn more about this.
00:03:14.960 That was a really, I gotta say, podcaster to podcaster, that was a masterful transition.
00:03:19.940 Thank you.
00:03:21.680 Thank you.
00:03:22.800 But yes, I'm very eager to learn more about this.
00:03:25.600 Can you tell us what we're going to be discussing today?
00:03:28.260 Yeah, so as you just said, Annie, it is sort of related about this idea of who is able to really control conversations on the internet about one specific subject.
00:03:40.880 And so today, that topic is going to be Meghan Markle.
00:03:45.200 As you all, I'm sure by now probably know, the Queen died last week.
00:03:50.000 I'm curious, do you two have any strong connection to the royal family, the monarchy?
00:03:54.840 Like, is this something that you followed or are you like, could not care less, have not followed it, don't know anything about it?
00:04:00.640 I personally could not care less.
00:04:03.960 I, it's, it's been, it's impossible to escape, I will say right now.
00:04:09.120 But I don't have any real feeling about it.
00:04:12.740 I have some friends who do.
00:04:15.080 I did go through a period where I was really into like, entertainment from the UK and specifically like I was in love with the idea of moving to London.
00:04:24.840 but I've never been into their royal family.
00:04:29.100 That's never made sense to me personally
00:04:31.060 but I have friends who are
00:04:33.500 so I guess I get it through them.
00:04:35.920 So I'm old enough to remember
00:04:37.880 like vividly remember
00:04:40.680 instead of just being like
00:04:41.420 kind of like yeah I was a kid I remember this
00:04:43.100 the death of Diana, Princess Diana
00:04:44.720 and also the love for William, Prince William
00:04:48.460 who is I think a couple years younger than me.
00:04:50.060 So of course like that era of
00:04:52.760 trying to figure out watching these young princes grow up and following their stories.
00:04:59.440 So not necessarily that I was caught up in the royal lifestyle or family, but I do remember
00:05:06.140 that offset of seeing the huge controversies amongst the family at that point in time.
00:05:15.260 Of course, as recently as everything has happened in the past 10 years with Meghan Markle,
00:05:20.700 even Prince William getting married and all the different things, I have an understanding of what's
00:05:27.280 going on, kind of like you, as well as the fact that I have understood my group of people that
00:05:32.920 I follow have very strong opinions of colonialism. And I'm like, ah, yeah, okay, this tracks. So
00:05:38.940 that's kind of where I stand in this mix. Totally. So I'm somewhere in the middle.
00:05:43.540 I have to say right up front, I am not a careful follower of the royal family. I kind of
00:05:49.660 bounce between like ambivalent to like, oh, I know about this. So I know that there are people
00:05:55.700 who are obsessively following royal family and monarchy culture. And if I say anything that's
00:06:00.560 incorrect, that is because I am not a careful follower of the royal family. But kind of like
00:06:06.640 you, like I have a lot of friends who are really into it. I do have a theory that older moms,
00:06:13.800 specifically like older Black moms, have a real affinity for Diana. 0.82
00:06:17.960 So growing up, my mom loved Diana, cried when Diana died,
00:06:22.520 still has People magazines from that time with like, you know,
00:06:26.080 what was it, The People's Princess and all of that.
00:06:28.540 So definitely got a little bit of secondhand royal family engagement from that.
00:06:33.940 But I've never really been somebody who followed it carefully.
00:06:37.480 Obviously, when Meghan Markle came on the scene, I loved that.
00:06:40.580 I was definitely like, oh, Black princess.
00:06:43.020 I know she's not a princess, but that was what we said when she came on the scene.
00:06:47.540 But yeah, and I think one of the reasons I'm so fascinated by,
00:06:51.580 even as someone who doesn't really know about the monarchy,
00:06:53.980 why I'm so fascinated about this issue is that Meghan Markle and the way that people talk about her,
00:06:59.360 I think gives us a very interesting lens into how women, particularly Black women and women of color,
00:07:06.200 how our online experience is shaped by other people.
00:07:11.940 And Meghan Markle is not even on social media anymore.
00:07:14.660 Neither is Prince Harry.
00:07:15.660 And yet she is a constant focal point on social media.
00:07:19.140 And I think that we really saw that
00:07:21.780 with the death of the queen.
00:07:22.720 And even though the queen was born back in 1926
00:07:25.420 and there was no such thing as social media back then,
00:07:28.200 when she, by the time she died last week,
00:07:30.700 social media played a huge overwhelming role
00:07:33.920 in the way that the royal family considered her death.
00:07:36.780 You know, the news itself was first announced to the public
00:07:39.240 on the royal family Twitter before any place else.
00:07:42.040 And, you know, a lot of the immediate next steps
00:07:44.340 and actions that the royal family took
00:07:45.980 were circulated around social media.
00:07:48.840 So, like, halting government social media accounts
00:07:51.200 and saying, like, oh, official government accounts
00:07:53.500 are only going to tweet, you know, essential information,
00:07:56.320 no non-essential posts,
00:07:57.500 and, like, changing the royal family website
00:07:59.620 to be, like, a mourning, you know, in-memoriam kind of thing.
00:08:03.920 And in addition to the way that social media has shaped the way the royals, you know, present to the public, we have seen that it also presents this place for Meghan Markle to be faced with pretty intense criticisms, but also things like outright lies, conspiracy theories, racist, sexist smears and stereotypes about who she is.
00:08:23.720 And it really is not the first time, like, we have seen this kind of stuff going on with Meghan Markle before the Queen's death, obviously.
00:08:31.720 And it's so interesting to me that this event, the Queen's death, was used not just as a way to, like, memorialize her or, like, critique her reign or anything like that.
00:08:42.920 It was also used as a way to further slam Meghan Markle on social media.
00:08:48.880 Yes. Yes. 1.00
00:08:50.680 And as someone who, as I said, like, I'm not, I don't follow this a lot.
00:08:56.400 I don't get on Twitter a lot.
00:08:58.400 Even I was aware that this was happening.
00:09:00.540 Like, I saw it trending on, like, my brief, like, what's going on on Twitter.
00:09:05.300 And I had enough knowledge to be like, I bet this is coming from a really terrible racist place when I saw, like, Meghan Markle go home trending.
00:09:17.140 So yeah, can you explain what all of that was?
00:09:21.300 What was the social media response?
00:09:23.520 Yeah, I mean, it's almost exactly like you said.
00:09:25.760 And I once interviewed somebody
00:09:27.440 who writes about fandoms and fan culture.
00:09:29.900 And she described it, interestingly,
00:09:31.580 she described it as an anti-fandom,
00:09:33.620 which I had never heard before.
00:09:34.840 And so it's just like what you think of a fandom,
00:09:37.460 but in the opposite direction.
00:09:39.120 So like people who their whole thing is,
00:09:42.300 I love to hate this one person.
00:09:44.360 I love to create content about how much I don't like them.
00:09:47.240 That's my thing.
00:09:48.020 And so that kind of messaging was in full effect.
00:09:51.620 After the Queen died, as you said, the hashtag Meghan Markle go home started trending on Twitter.
00:09:56.260 And basically what I found so interesting about that is that first people were picking on her because she did not go to England with Harry, her husband, after the Queen died.
00:10:09.040 And again, I'm no expert here, but it sounds like she just was not invited and so not going wasn't anything bad.
00:10:16.320 And then when she actually did go, everybody was like, oh, go home, go home.
00:10:21.040 So it's interesting how it kind of doesn't matter what she does.
00:10:24.660 If she doesn't go, that's bad.
00:10:26.760 If she does go, that's also bad.
00:10:28.980 And I think it really illustrates how, yeah, it's like this impossible tightrope where it's clearly not really about her actions and what she actually does or says.
00:10:38.780 it's just about her it's about her existence her presence that is threatening that is not okay with
00:10:44.520 the people that hate her and ultimately it's like an impossible situation to walk um there was this
00:10:50.300 like very fascinating instance where she was videoed and somebody in a crowd handed her some
00:10:57.180 flowers and an aide seems to walk up to her and is like oh i'll take those for you and she says
00:11:01.880 she mouths something to him that's like seems to be oh i got it don't worry about it thank you
00:11:06.620 And you would, the way that people talked about this on the internet, you would think that she punched this aide. And it's like, actually, she's just like calmly standing there saying a sentence, smiling, and then like clearly saying thank you. And it's like a 30 second interaction. People were dissecting it like the JFK Zapruder film. Like, people became like overnight body language experts and lip readers. And it was wild.
00:11:31.880 mm-hmm yeah yeah I I want to return to that idea of anti-fandom for sure because I think
00:11:42.140 as someone who is like a fan of a lot of stuff I've seen this before and it just becomes like
00:11:48.280 this where people feel justified in hating someone and here's the proof and I yeah I'm a body
00:11:55.380 language expert and i can tell you why um but all it is is like they just want to hate that person
00:12:02.960 who usually they feel is encroaching on their territory and very heavy clothes like as someone
00:12:10.820 who is interested in a lot of like star wars stuff nerdy stuff fandom stuff i'm sure you've
00:12:16.820 seen this a lot yes oh i cannot wait uh to talk about it once we get more in depth about what
00:12:24.300 might be going on here because yeah it's just like it becomes i think i've said to samantha
00:12:31.380 before it's like this anti-find-up thing is ringing so true with me because i'm like well
00:12:35.400 you're not a fan anymore you're just all about the hate of this you're a hater you just are unhappy
00:12:40.900 so i don't know why you're here right it's to make everyone else feel unhappy and to like
00:12:48.580 assert your what you think is your power and dominance in the space but you're not a fan
00:12:54.820 if you hate this much of it just go just go along it's it's gonna be okay
00:13:02.240 oh yeah and i mean they're like the levels people will go the things they'll do to scare
00:13:13.540 usually women, marginalized people
00:13:18.680 off the internet is wild to me. 1.00
00:13:22.740 And then unfortunately, very often successful,
00:13:25.480 but like they will come up with all of these things.
00:13:28.400 And you brought this example of like a conspiracy theory, right?
00:13:31.880 Where they were like,
00:13:33.400 this, something is wrong here with Meghan Markle.
00:13:37.120 Yeah. So like, I mean, the amount of wild conspiracy theory,
00:13:41.300 Like people, it's clearly a lot of like projection where people already have a negative association with someone and then any little thing will be used as proof to stack that thinking, right?
00:13:55.920 And so one of the big conspiracies that came out of the Queen's funeral was that Meghan attended the funeral wearing a hidden recording device under her dress.
00:14:05.120 and the reason why people thought this is because she was photographed
00:14:07.480 and in one of the pictures
00:14:09.760 there's like a wrinkle
00:14:11.400 or a bump on her thigh and people 0.61
00:14:13.580 were like how like 1.00
00:14:15.240 the gall she's going to be what is
00:14:17.540 she recording this for her podcast or for some 1.00
00:14:19.520 Netflix special so shameless
00:14:21.460 and it's like yo I have worn
00:14:23.780 those kinds of recording
00:14:25.580 devices in my clothing they are so 0.66
00:14:27.520 bulky also don't you if that was her
00:14:29.540 plan don't you think she would have worn an
00:14:31.460 outfit that was more conducive 1.00
00:14:33.540 Like she wouldn't have worn a dress that is like clings to that part of her body. 1.00
00:14:37.140 She might have worn something with pockets like, you know, she might have.
00:14:40.500 Don't you think that if that's what she was doing, she would have done it better?
00:14:44.040 And isn't it more possible that like humans who wear clothing and stand while wearing that clothing sometimes experience wrinkles?
00:14:50.320 Like, isn't that more of a better explanation for what's going on?
00:14:54.720 I think you're being too logical, Bridget.
00:14:57.800 How dare you be sensible?
00:14:59.040 this whole conversation is so odd to me because
00:15:03.120 Meghan Markle just being being present marrying a man has caused this huge controversy and of
00:15:11.160 course a lot of conversations and comparisons to Princess Diana and Meghan Markle of course
00:15:16.300 those same people who probably uh were degrading and or criticizing uh Princess Diana would now
00:15:23.420 call her an angel and then saying that Meghan Markle's the one that's, you know, disrespecting 0.87
00:15:29.140 the name of Princess Diana. And everyone's like, wait, what? You are the ones who are number one
00:15:33.000 in criticisms. But also just like the fact that Meghan Markle has nothing honestly to gain in this
00:15:39.640 entirety of this conversation, of these controversies to record any of these things,
00:15:45.320 to try, as they say, that she's trying to make money off these things. She's not. She's literally 0.61
00:15:49.500 doing a podcast about her own life, bringing in guests to talk about marginalized issues
00:15:54.000 that has nothing to do with the throne in general, as well as the fact Prince Harry's not that close.
00:16:00.380 None of his family is not close to the lineage to become king or queen or whatever or whatnot.
00:16:05.580 We have already seen the graphs that happen. So my mind is just reeling of like, why? Why take
00:16:10.940 this effort to bring this conspiracy other than hey she's uh she is not white so therefore we hate
00:16:19.600 her yeah and you you touched on something this is a little bit of a tangent but you touched on
00:16:24.640 something that i think about all the time is how you know i i was young when before princess diana
00:16:31.340 died but even i know as like a child living in the united states even i knew the way the press
00:16:36.880 talked about her even as a kid and so the press really tore her down and then when she died
00:16:42.520 she's an angel we've always loved her it's like and I I see that so often and I do think it's
00:16:48.680 like as bad as the media in the United States is I do feel like in the UK and in England it's like
00:16:54.160 work can be worse like like a little bit like um more vicious and I think about like Amy Winehouse
00:17:02.180 is the figure because I'm a was a huge Amy Winehouse fan Amy Winehouse is the figure that 0.98
00:17:05.840 I think about a lot where the press and the media loved to villainize her and really make fun of her
00:17:12.600 in these like cruel ways and ways that I hope that when people are struggling with substance
00:17:18.900 issues now, I hope that we've gotten to a place where like we don't cruelly mock them for it.
00:17:24.140 But then when she died, the way that that same press rushed to lionize her, rushed to act as if
00:17:30.660 they had always loved her. And it's just, it's hard to see. And, you know, it's kind of breaks
00:17:35.440 my heart but there's this video clip of harry talking about this and he's like basically feels
00:17:41.720 very emphatically that the press is responsible for the death of his mother and that when when
00:17:47.300 there was a time when megan was open about experiencing uh you know feelings of self-harm
00:17:53.640 and he talked about how he felt like he was watching the press do the same thing to his
00:18:00.160 new wife that they that he had to watch them do to his mom and i something about that clip really
00:18:05.700 sticks with me of like i don't know i i don't think i'll ever be able to understand what that
00:18:10.240 must feel like to have watched that as a child and be so powerless and then watch it again and
00:18:15.860 be like no i'm not letting this happen again yeah and compounding that with the fact that this is a
00:18:21.480 racist uh attack on a woman for just being in love with a man point blank um but you know i
00:18:29.320 found it interesting because for me, I actually didn't know much about this hashtag. As much as
00:18:36.280 I'm on Twitter and saying things again, like I said, my friends have very strong feelings of
00:18:41.160 the queen and her responsibility and colonialism in itself. So I had a whole different take
00:18:47.340 on this conversation. So I'm kind of surprised to know that this is happening. And I'm really
00:18:51.940 wondering, where did they all come from? So this is a great question. So I have to say,
00:18:56.620 I am probably in a similar digital pocket that you are because my timeline when the queen died was like very much black Twitter and like Irish Twitter and like Jamaican Twitter all coming together.
00:19:11.300 I know that people have 0.52
00:19:13.180 how can I put this
00:19:14.620 I came
00:19:16.240 so when the queen died
00:19:17.420 I don't think I realized
00:19:19.140 that
00:19:20.080 I knew people
00:19:21.820 that had
00:19:22.520 a lot
00:19:23.680 had
00:19:23.980 I was surprised by how much reverence
00:19:26.400 my friends in the United States
00:19:27.880 had for her
00:19:28.760 so I was like
00:19:29.100 okay she's definitely like a
00:19:30.360 I have friends that think of her 1.00
00:19:31.860 as like a feminist figure 0.91
00:19:33.200 I was like okay
00:19:33.720 like I was a little
00:19:34.880 again this is not to like
00:19:36.700 I don't want to say
00:19:38.220 I don't want to say
00:19:38.680 like I realized
00:19:40.040 I was like
00:19:40.520 oh, people have complex feelings about her.
00:19:43.660 And it kind of almost became like a Rorschach test
00:19:46.180 of where people were at.
00:19:48.180 And I was just like very surprised to see that.
00:19:50.020 It had not occurred to me
00:19:51.100 that that was going to be the way that it was.
00:19:53.000 I'll put it that way.
00:19:54.660 Me either.
00:19:56.120 But yeah, like I said,
00:19:57.240 so that's pocket I'm in.
00:19:58.540 So I'm out of the loop on this one.
00:20:00.260 I don't know.
00:20:01.040 It's interesting to me.
00:20:03.080 I think that Meghan Markle,
00:20:05.560 and we should talk about it
00:20:06.520 because I do think Meghan Markle
00:20:07.860 evokes a reaction in a certain type of person,
00:20:11.920 just her presence, just her being around
00:20:14.360 is threatening and, like, deeply,
00:20:20.020 I think it can, like, deeply challenge
00:20:23.160 a lot of people's preconceived notions, right?
00:20:26.220 So I think that, like, I also think that Meghan Markle
00:20:28.120 at this point carries herself in a kind of way
00:20:30.120 that, frankly, I think a lot of, like,
00:20:32.540 white people might have a problem with.
00:20:34.700 Not surprising. 0.98
00:20:35.920 Yeah, but that's the thing.
00:20:36.760 So that's the only thing I have seen.
00:20:39.360 So I'm trying to figure out where all these conversations are coming from,
00:20:42.580 and is it actually reflective of the rest of society,
00:20:46.960 the rest of the peoples in Twitters?
00:20:48.920 Well, so that is a very, very interesting question.
00:20:51.920 Christopher Bouzet, who is a CEO of a company called Bot Sentinel,
00:20:55.160 which is an organization that analyzes Twitter data to determine, you know,
00:20:58.960 where conversations are coming from, who is generating them,
00:21:01.780 if it's real people, if it's bots.
00:21:03.740 He did an entire analysis of Meghan Markle in October of 2021.
00:21:08.400 And basically, you would be surprised that a lot of the hate thrown at Meghan Markle is being driven by a lot fewer people on social media than you might suspect.
00:21:18.080 Yeah.
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00:22:16.520 When I was 14 years old, I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months.
00:22:22.320 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
00:22:28.880 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are The Survivor Files.
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00:24:22.060 So this I'm excited to talk about because I remember forever ago, Bridget,
00:24:27.040 when you and I did that episode on Star Wars feminism,
00:24:29.600 there was a similar thing about Star Wars, about the hate the actors received.
00:24:36.260 Oh my God, that's right.
00:24:37.740 Yes. And I was shocked.
00:24:39.300 And I always try to make the point, believe me, 0.97
00:24:42.640 I know there are terrible, racist, sexist fans.
00:24:46.980 Believe me, I know that.
00:24:48.700 But the data that came out was like,
00:24:50.940 it's way less posting about it.
00:24:52.900 I'm not going to say it's way, way less.
00:24:54.940 But it's way less actually posting about it.
00:24:57.600 And still, the perception I got
00:25:01.840 was there was this huge sect on Twitter
00:25:07.900 that was tearing down these actors
00:25:11.200 and was causing Rotten Tomatoes to, like, review bomb.
00:25:14.280 And the report we talked about was, like,
00:25:16.200 it's actually a lot of bots.
00:25:19.240 And still it has this huge impact
00:25:21.580 that changed Rotten Tomatoes and their policy.
00:25:25.660 And it changes how people perceive.
00:25:28.140 Like, Disney made creative decisions, 0.92
00:25:33.500 because they're cowards, based on this. 0.96
00:25:37.180 Like... 0.97
00:25:37.540 I'm so glad you brought that up.
00:25:40.180 That's such a good point.
00:25:41.100 And I think it really goes to show that, like, A, a pretty small minority of very motivated, very vocal, coordinated, I guess, in a nice way to put it, passionate people can really change discourse.
00:25:59.380 They can really change, like, they can really make an impact.
00:26:02.340 And so I would also, I would argue then that, like, there is a problem with our social media platforms and our digital platforms if a small handful, a relatively small handful of dedicated trolls and people to people like haters can really impact and change discourse.
00:26:20.620 Like, I would argue that that means that something is broken, something is flawed.
00:26:24.340 And I also think that, you know, when you have a small handful of people dictating the conversation and making, creating the impression that everybody hates this new person on Star Wars or everybody hates Meghan Markle, it's so much easier for somebody who is just a casual viewer of this to get the idea that, like, oh, well, everybody hates so-and-so.
00:26:46.060 So like, I'm not going to chime in with like, I like so-and-so or that I'm ambivalent about so-and-so. If I'm going to chime in, it kind of poisons the well and it makes it so that we can't actually have honest conversations rooted in what people actually feel because it just like creates an ecosystem where the hate is what's dictating the conversation.
00:27:05.300 And so, yeah, I would argue that that means that our ecosystems are not healthy and not, you know, functioning properly if hate is able to dictate the conversation, even if it's a small minority of people who feel that way.
00:27:17.400 Absolutely. Absolutely. Because I was under the impression, I was totally under the impression like, oh, this must be a much bigger group of people than I thought, even if I was like, they're wrong and they're full of hate.
00:27:26.980 still thought it was way bigger. And the numbers you brought about Meghan Markle kind of shocked
00:27:34.540 me with like how much smaller they were based on what I have seen as a casual viewer of this.
00:27:43.060 Absolutely. So let's dig into some of those numbers. So from this Bot Sentinel report,
00:27:46.840 they found that only 83 accounts on Twitter generate 70% of Meghan Markle hate content
00:27:54.580 on Twitter. They estimate that these 83 accounts have a potential combined reach of 17 million
00:28:01.620 users. So they broke it down. They found that 55, what we call single purpose anti-Meghan
00:28:07.640 Markle hate accounts. And so a single purpose hate account is that account that like it only
00:28:12.420 exists to hate on one person like that, like they're not like primarily like that's what
00:28:16.980 they're doing. So 55 of those accounts were these like primary hate accounts. And then another 28
00:28:23.940 secondary accounts that like mainly amplified them and so those 28 accounts they might post
00:28:29.900 about like the royals more generally but that their real function is to boost and amplify when
00:28:36.440 those that when those other primary accounts put out anti-Meghan Markle hate and so that that's
00:28:42.980 really it like they are generating a lot of the hate online it is not organic conversation and
00:28:49.280 And it's certainly not a reflection of how just everybody feels on social media because these accounts have such a big reach and such a big ability to control the conversation about Meghan Markle.
00:29:01.180 Yeah, yeah. And that's something that you've come on and you've talked about a lot on here is this, the responsibility of social media platforms, but also that kind of manipulation towards these hateful accounts when it comes to the algorithm.
00:29:18.380 and like what people see and what gets like more traction, right?
00:29:22.840 Yeah, exactly.
00:29:23.620 And so I have a little bit of a different opinion
00:29:27.320 than a lot of my colleagues in the platform accountability
00:29:30.380 and disinformation space.
00:29:31.520 A lot of people would say single-use hate accounts
00:29:34.360 should be banned from the internet.
00:29:35.800 Like if you are someone who is running an account
00:29:37.460 and that account only exists to hate on one specific person,
00:29:42.700 it should be banned.
00:29:44.100 I can understand that view,
00:29:46.060 but I think that the most important thing
00:29:47.660 is that platforms should not be amplifying it.
00:29:51.000 They shouldn't be recommending those accounts to people.
00:29:53.500 When you search Meghan Markle information,
00:29:56.000 those accounts should not be the ones that are prioritized
00:29:58.360 and that users see first.
00:30:00.320 What users see first should be thoughtful, honest information
00:30:03.400 from sites that do not exist
00:30:06.280 only to spread hate about this one person.
00:30:08.360 And so it is interesting that on a platform like Twitter,
00:30:13.260 these 83 accounts that are driving most of the conversation
00:30:16.000 around, the negative conversation around Meghan Markle, they kind of blatantly violate Twitter's
00:30:21.660 rules. Like one of Twitter's rules is that accounts cannot coordinate to dogpile on people to harass
00:30:27.880 them or to like spread negativity around them. Well, these accounts do just that, right? And they
00:30:32.900 do so in like a pretty sophisticated coordination with each other. And yeah, I think it's one of
00:30:40.620 those things where platforms really need to understand what's at stake when this is allowed,
00:30:47.440 when like a small handful of accounts are able to bypass the rules that you have set for your
00:30:53.140 platform in order to artificially control the discourse about one subject. That's not great.
00:31:00.260 No. No, it's not. And it's kind of frightening, to be honest. And you had a quote, Buzet,
00:31:06.660 talked about this, like making the
00:31:08.960 clarification that
00:31:10.120 we can't just blame bots.
00:31:14.020 Correct? Yes. So I find
00:31:15.160 this super interesting because
00:31:16.320 we often, when it comes to
00:31:18.800 online discourse, talk about like, well,
00:31:21.800 is it bots? Is it people?
00:31:23.300 And I feel like the
00:31:24.080 over-focus, like talking
00:31:26.980 about bots is serious and we should be doing that,
00:31:29.240 but when we focus on that
00:31:31.180 and don't also bring into the
00:31:33.060 conversation that sometimes it is real people,
00:31:35.360 I feel like the conversation can be not as useful
00:31:39.080 because it obscures the fact that like,
00:31:40.520 well, it isn't all bots.
00:31:41.800 Some of it is like real people.
00:31:43.060 And so in an interview with BuzzFeed,
00:31:45.680 Buze said, this campaign comes from people
00:31:48.100 who know how to manipulate the algorithms,
00:31:50.500 manipulate Twitter, stay under the wire
00:31:52.320 to avoid detection and suspension.
00:31:54.220 This level of complexity comes from people
00:31:56.360 who know how to do this stuff
00:31:57.720 and who are paid to do this stuff.
00:31:59.540 And so, yeah, I think especially
00:32:01.140 when you think about the fact that
00:32:02.300 people can profit from this,
00:32:06.100 I think it really should behoove these platforms
00:32:08.160 to make a change.
00:32:09.960 I mean, that's the big conversation
00:32:11.020 is that people are making money
00:32:12.600 and can make a living off of this.
00:32:14.260 And why is this something that is profitable?
00:32:17.020 So it's not just they're making money,
00:32:18.420 but they're profiting and literally off of hate.
00:32:22.320 Because over here,
00:32:23.800 I have at least four times the amount of the bots following me
00:32:28.260 and I can only get three people to look at my tweets.
00:32:30.100 I mean, how? Come on.
00:32:31.380 Right. That is an outrage.
00:32:34.160 That's an outrage.
00:32:35.840 You're right.
00:32:37.520 But I find that interesting that we have had this continuous talk and we have these prime examples of what is happening on Twitter specifically.
00:32:47.460 We talked recently about one of the Canadian women who is currently working with Bumble in making sure that there's safety for the women and those who are on their app.
00:32:58.960 And that one of her big things were that she was bringing out the reports showing how Twitter does not help or defend or make Twitter safe for women and marginalized people.
00:33:09.620 And Ipsos just recently came out with a big research data showing that women are still being heavily targeted and are not being helped at all by platforms in general.
00:33:20.960 And that the fact of the matter is people are once again profiting, have become aware of, oh, so we can make money by essentially on women and women of color and doing so in a way that not only can we get away with it, not only can we make money,
00:33:38.120 but it's making a difference in people's reaction to this.
00:33:42.000 Yeah, I mean, like, and so you're exactly right.
00:33:45.140 Like, the research is, it completely jives with what you're saying.
00:33:49.620 You are exactly, exactly right.
00:33:51.320 And as bad as that is, right, so, like, platforms are, like,
00:33:56.080 I would argue that this kind of negative engagement
00:33:59.400 and harassment and abuse of women of color on these platforms,
00:34:02.960 I would argue that is built into these business models.
00:34:06.060 Like, Twitter, when somebody tweets something that is, like, crapping on Meghan Markle and it's getting lots of engagement, it is in Twitter's best financial interest to boost that and amplify that because it's like, oh, this is clicky.
00:34:19.920 People are paying attention to this.
00:34:21.880 That's a problem.
00:34:22.980 And I also think that, you know, we're talking about Meghan Markle, who is a public figure, but she's not a political figure necessarily.
00:34:29.040 We're talking about, you know, Star Wars and, like, fandom.
00:34:31.720 think about how that, like as bad as that is, apply that to democracy. Apply that to women 1.00
00:34:39.120 and women of color who are trying to run for office. Apply that to women and women of color
00:34:44.180 and other marginalized people who are trying to engage in our democracy and be part of civic and
00:34:50.080 public life, right? And so the implications really become clear. If it's this bad for conversations
00:34:56.140 that are, you know, about pop culture and like celebrities,
00:35:00.340 imagine how big the stakes are
00:35:03.280 when that same dynamic is applied to people
00:35:05.780 who are just trying to run for office
00:35:07.140 or just trying to make their voices heard
00:35:08.580 and participate fully in our democracy.
00:35:10.660 Right, and the one report we were talking about,
00:35:12.480 they were specifically focusing on journalists
00:35:14.780 and talking about this is a part of their job description.
00:35:17.140 And I think about that all the time.
00:35:18.180 I'm like, oh my God,
00:35:19.220 because technically it's a part of our job description
00:35:20.840 and I hate it.
00:35:21.720 I hate it so much
00:35:22.580 because I don't want to become a focal point at any point.
00:35:25.100 Not that we are, thank God.
00:35:26.140 Because we go under the radar as well.
00:35:27.580 Like I said, two people like my tweets.
00:35:29.480 It's fine.
00:35:30.500 But we go under the radar enough that, you know, we don't have to deal with that.
00:35:34.740 But for someone who's being told, if you don't get your views up, you're not going to get paid or you're not going to stay in this job, I couldn't imagine that level.
00:35:43.960 So I actually literally just left a summit all about this as it pertains to journalism.
00:35:50.160 And when I was a kid, I wanted to be a journalist, right?
00:35:53.660 Like, I was obsessed with April O'Neil from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.
00:35:58.060 I, like, wanted to be a journalist.
00:36:00.220 Like, that was, like, the career that I wanted to go into. 0.86
00:36:02.340 And today, the fact that young women, like, who are younger go into journalism, like, 0.97
00:36:11.340 willingly, it surprises me.
00:36:13.640 Because I think a lot of women have, women are smart enough to realize if I'm going,
00:36:18.860 If the cost of doing this job is dealing with online abuse, online harassment, online violence, and my male counterparts are not dealing with it the same way that I am.
00:36:30.460 So it's just like an extra woman tax or, you know, marginalization tax in the workplace.
00:36:36.760 And institutions largely do not know how to support women who are going through this and dealing with this.
00:36:43.320 And so it's, like, just their problem, there's an assumption that the person who is the focal point of harassment and abuse, that they've done something to warrant it, and that completely is not how it works.
00:36:54.060 Like, oftentimes, the thing that they're doing is, like, existing as a woman.
00:36:58.540 And so think about what we are asking women to deal with. 0.99
00:37:04.300 It's just completely unfair, and we're asking them to deal with it and not even talk about the issue, right? 1.00
00:37:10.520 And so it's completely, it sets up a completely unfair dynamic.
00:37:13.740 When I think about how many people have either just given up on this as a career,
00:37:18.820 they're just like, I'm not going to get on social media.
00:37:20.680 It's not worth it. 1.00
00:37:21.640 It has the ability to suppress women from being involved in public and civic life.
00:37:26.640 And the worst part is, is like we were just now talking about it.
00:37:29.760 We're so late in bringing it up.
00:37:31.840 Right.
00:37:32.140 And that's in fact, these reports are specific to Twitter, but it's been happening.
00:37:36.100 It's been happening on bigger platforms and other social medias, right?
00:37:39.560 Oh, absolutely.
00:37:40.160 I don't want to give the impression that it is just Twitter because that is not the case.
00:37:44.560 So Bot Sentinel also analyzed YouTube accounts.
00:37:47.620 And they found that because of YouTube monetization, trashing Meghan Markle is actually big, lucrative business.
00:37:54.620 They found that 25 YouTube channels earned around $3.5 million from ad revenue.
00:38:00.820 And that three of the most successful anti-Meghan Markle accounts generated almost $500,000 during their existence.
00:38:07.240 And these videos are like, it's not like they're filming, you know, I know, like they're low quality videos that basically just traffic in conspiracy theories and outright lies and like racist stereotypes and tropes.
00:38:27.460 And so some of the claims that they'll make is like, oh, Meghan Markle, she faked her pregnancy. She used a surrogate. It's things that are completely baseless lies. And I think that if you are able to make half a million dollars almost trafficking in baseless lies and conjecture and racism and sexism, you shouldn't be able to, if you're able to make that kind of money from that, something is wrong. Like something is really broken.
00:38:53.720 Yeah. Yeah. I mean, agreed. Because it's like, not that this always works, but there's been attempts to crack down on like medical misinformation. Like you can't make money off of that. It's been hit or miss.
00:39:11.200 but there have been attempts and it seems like if there's just something flatly untrue you should
00:39:16.140 not be making millions of dollars from it by saying that it is true and then just like the
00:39:25.100 the spreading of that um and how harmful that is on these platforms and we've seen it and like we
00:39:34.180 said like the trickle effect of people believing that this is the discourse and so therefore 0.99
00:39:39.960 women have it hard enough already like in the public office like I just don't like her there's 1.00
00:39:45.660 something about her and to have like just this overwhelming discourse of like no no one likes her 1.00
00:39:52.640 and so it just it just seems so toxic and that people are making money from it is
00:39:58.080 a very frustrating and I definitely agree that means something is wrong here yeah and I want
00:40:04.980 to be clear like I didn't really have strong feelings about Meghan Markle I like that she's a 0.96
00:40:09.260 black princess, but, or was a black princess. And yeah, I know she wasn't really princess, 0.81
00:40:13.500 but whatever. But like, if you don't like Meghan Markle, that's fine. It's totally within your
00:40:20.400 right to be like, I don't like her. Robbins me the wrong way. Whatever. We all have people that
00:40:24.940 we don't like, but that is very different than, you know, I am going to spearhead a coordinated
00:40:32.460 campaign to make it seem like everybody doesn't like her. And that campaign is going to be built
00:40:39.180 on racism, sexism, and lies about who she is.
00:40:42.840 And I say that because when you do that,
00:40:46.940 you're making us all less safe.
00:40:49.200 It truly does threaten our democracy
00:40:51.160 when you're able to tell those kinds of inflammatory lies
00:40:55.460 and have them take up so much space in the room.
00:40:58.060 It makes all of us that much less safe, 1.00
00:41:00.700 particularly women and women of color. 1.00
00:41:02.080 It makes it so much harder for us to thrive
00:41:04.140 in environments where we can be judged on our character,
00:41:06.820 things that we actually do and actually say, not made-up conspiracy theories about us putting
00:41:12.480 microphones in our panties, right? Like, we need to have a discourse where honest, thoughtful,
00:41:20.760 accurate conversation about who we are as marginalized people dominates, and crap like 0.96
00:41:26.140 that does not. Yeah. Yeah. I remember very vividly this essay I read a while back that was like, 0.96
00:41:33.760 you know if a woman stands up in town square and is saying something is wrong here and a thousand
00:41:38.940 men threaten her with violence and are screaming over her whose like freedom of speech is being
00:41:44.420 threatened here because it feels like that because like you said so many people leave
00:41:49.260 so many marginalized people and women leave because they're facing this what they feel
00:41:55.840 what what is this like shouting hateful vitriol that makes you feel unsafe in this space and it
00:42:03.580 makes it impossible for us to have these healthy conversations that are necessary and needed
00:42:07.300 for a democracy. Absolutely. I would also argue that it's by design. It's meant to gum up the
00:42:13.500 works. It's meant to have people who are interested in actual discussion and dialogue to check out
00:42:17.780 and be like, no thanks, don't want to risk it by putting my thoughts out there. And it's meant to
00:42:23.020 make sure that we can't find unity, that we can't come together, that we can't make progress on all
00:42:28.340 the issues that are impacting us and have the conversations that we need to have that might
00:42:32.720 and move us forward on those issues.
00:42:34.500 Right, right.
00:42:35.860 Well, Bridget, has there been any changes?
00:42:39.420 Is there any hope to discuss?
00:42:41.060 There is a little bit of hope, right?
00:42:42.580 So earlier, so I mentioned how on YouTube,
00:42:45.640 people are able to make big money
00:42:47.220 basically just running single purpose hate accounts 0.99
00:42:50.860 against Meghan Markle.
00:42:52.060 Not anymore.
00:42:53.160 Earlier this year, YouTube made a big change.
00:42:55.020 They de-ranked anti-Meghan Markle results
00:42:57.340 from their search.
00:42:58.300 And a really great BuzzFeed piece by Ellie Hall,
00:43:00.940 which, shout out to Ellie Hall,
00:43:02.060 While she has done some fantastic reporting on Meghan Markle and race and culture and what it all means,
00:43:08.380 Ellie Hall writes,
00:43:10.140 But now you'll only find videos from verified accounts and news outlets in the YouTube search results for Meghan Markle.
00:43:16.300 And first recommendations in the sidebar,
00:43:18.540 even if you explicitly searched for and started watching videos that accuse Meghan Markle of being a narcissist
00:43:24.500 or videos claiming that she wore a fake belly to make herself look pregnant,
00:43:28.140 YouTube's recommendation sidebar 0.80
00:43:29.680 won't initially serve you similar videos.
00:43:32.520 And so I do think that that is a step
00:43:35.960 in the right direction.
00:43:37.020 Like I got to give it to YouTube
00:43:37.980 that that was a good call
00:43:39.680 because yeah, when you search any topic,
00:43:43.820 but let's use Meghan Markle as an example,
00:43:46.860 it should not be in YouTube's best interest
00:43:49.580 for the first search results,
00:43:51.440 for the things that they're promoting,
00:43:52.660 for the recommended videos
00:43:54.160 that they're surfacing to you
00:43:55.120 to be videos from people whose whole thing is hating on that one thing, right?
00:44:00.700 It should be honest, accurate content.
00:44:03.980 I would love to throw in thoughtful in there,
00:44:06.440 but I think if we can just get accurate, that would be great.
00:44:09.720 That would be a great start.
00:44:11.200 Bars are so low for just do this because it's gotten so off the rails.
00:44:16.600 It's just like, just be true. 0.77
00:44:18.300 At least if you're going to say Meghan Markle is married to Prince Harry,
00:44:22.140 just say that.
00:44:22.720 Just end it with that.
00:44:23.680 I'm watching that over anything else.
00:44:25.120 Let's just kind of be accurate.
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00:47:30.660 This is the biggest conversation.
00:47:32.360 Like, why is it significant?
00:47:34.200 When people talk about Meghan Markle knew what she was coming into.
00:47:36.920 who, again, it's just one of those places of like, but she just got married, but that's the end. 0.99
00:47:41.700 She didn't want to be a princess because so many accusations came at her. They were like, 0.84
00:47:46.480 you know what? We're leaving this royal family stuff. We're done. We're done because we're
00:47:49.720 getting attacked from every circle, whether it's she's a gold digger slash, I guess, a royalty
00:47:55.060 digger. Is that a name? Is that something? Or versus to her want to disrupt the family,
00:48:01.520 all of these things that what just happened was they got set up. They are famous. She wasn't that
00:48:07.240 famous. She just, she was an actress. She was good at her job. She could have kept going. 0.99
00:48:11.600 She met him, got married, and that's it. She's not trying to be political. She's not trying to
00:48:16.320 be royalty. She just wants to be a part of our family, has some really good, good relationship 1.00
00:48:20.800 with her mother, bad relationship with father, just being that. And because of that, she's getting
00:48:26.180 all this vitriol being compared to the other royalties uh we we know what this is we know
00:48:31.560 what this looks like and for her who is not even on social media who continues to be attacked
00:48:37.260 it's just one of those parts of like she doesn't deserve this there's nothing that she did that
00:48:41.960 deserves this there's no conversation where we think that this is earned and she she put herself
00:48:49.200 out there she's not a politician taking a stance on anything she's just being like that's
00:48:54.940 That's it. 1.00
00:48:57.080 Yeah.
00:48:58.260 Something that you said, I hadn't even really thought about this,
00:49:01.020 but I think that people's reactions to Meghan Markle
00:49:03.980 really demonstrate how women of color especially
00:49:07.520 are really not allowed to publicly be multifaceted, complex humans.
00:49:14.120 It's like the fact that, like, oh, she has a, you know,
00:49:18.020 complicated relationship with her father. 0.94
00:49:19.700 Who f***ing doesn't, right? 0.68
00:49:20.880 Like, they use these incredibly human things where it's like, 0.80
00:49:24.140 yeah welcome to being a human in relationships with other humans sometimes these things happen
00:49:29.400 like they find these incredibly human things that we all experience and they they use it or they
00:49:36.700 frame it as like a negative against her in these ways that i just think are just completely
00:49:40.940 transparent and it's so obvious what's happening and the way that they talk about her with this
00:49:45.480 like i'm gonna say this they're quite good at talking about her with this plausible deniability
00:49:51.780 of like, oh, I didn't mean
00:49:53.380 that racially. When I called her Compton 0.53
00:49:55.780 Kate, even though she's not from Compton,
00:49:58.280 I didn't mean anything
00:49:59.320 racially, I didn't say
00:50:01.760 anything racially motivated there. I was just saying
00:50:03.740 she's from California, and Compton
00:50:05.920 is also a city in California.
00:50:07.880 Hmm. You know what I mean?
00:50:09.140 It also exists.
00:50:14.160 Yeah.
00:50:15.340 Yeah, I mean, this is, again,
00:50:17.560 I feel like we need a new segment, Bridget,
00:50:19.360 where you come on and we do like rants.
00:50:21.020 but I feel like this
00:50:22.820 there's so much of this that is like
00:50:24.740 questioning 0.87
00:50:25.380 women's ambition
00:50:28.680 and it still seems to be in this 1.00
00:50:30.660 very like old system of royalty
00:50:32.940 like oh she's just 1.00
00:50:34.720 trying to marry into the royal family 0.94
00:50:36.620 we can't trust anything she does 0.99
00:50:38.880 and she's trying to ruin this 1.00
00:50:40.560 tradition by being her 1.00
00:50:42.720 and like just constantly
00:50:44.880 questioning
00:50:45.720 and calling out
00:50:48.160 what women's 0.95
00:50:50.520 intentions are and they're almost always evil i guess it's funny because like i find myself 0.96
00:50:56.760 having i mean these systems are so ingrained that i'm not immune to it like i when i read articles
00:51:04.380 about ambitious women like i have to really check myself internally and be like well are you really 0.94
00:51:11.160 just like adding this like sexist trope on to this woman that assumes that she must be you know
00:51:17.580 misleading this like simple childlike man who doesn't know any better? And oftentimes the
00:51:24.060 answer is yes. And I have to step back and be like, well, let's unpack why your assumption
00:51:27.660 was that this woman who is ambitious and powerful must be, you know, calling the shots and misleading 1.00
00:51:34.640 this like dullard of a man. Isn't that kind of insulting to both of them? But yeah, it just goes 0.99
00:51:39.800 to show like how ingrained these systems are and how insidious they are and the work that each
00:51:46.320 individual needs to do to unpack them and myself very much included right yeah me all of us i think
00:51:52.800 we all have these things that we just didn't realize had we'd internalized so much and um
00:51:59.220 something like this you know the royal family megan markle can seem kind of frivolous it's not
00:52:08.020 but it can kind of feel that way because celebrity culture kind of incites that a lot but as we've
00:52:13.680 been alluding to a lot throughout this, it does matter, right?
00:52:18.140 Oh, it matters hugely.
00:52:19.520 Like, I would say that the reaction to Meghan Markle really shows how easy it is for a relatively
00:52:23.840 small amount of people to create an effective negative echo chamber that can be fueled by
00:52:29.300 things like racism and sexism.
00:52:31.320 You know, again, if 83 accounts are able to generate the majority of negative chatter
00:52:36.340 about one person and create the impression inorganically that that is the overall sentiment
00:52:42.140 of that person, it kind of means that our digital landscape and our platforms might not be so
00:52:47.060 healthy. Yes. Yes. And I don't think we went over this, but there were those, the people who are
00:52:54.080 doing this, who are running these accounts know what they're doing. They know how to manipulate
00:52:57.440 the system. We talked about that, but they have like very specific ways. So if there's, if we are
00:53:01.960 on working in these systems where there's 83, these 83 people can just manipulate these rules
00:53:08.340 and kind of skate being banned
00:53:10.400 and these, what some people
00:53:13.140 who are maybe casual Twitter users
00:53:15.240 or what have you users assume like,
00:53:17.320 oh, Twitter has these rules
00:53:18.340 and they'll kick people off.
00:53:19.860 But that's not working either, right?
00:53:23.060 No, it's not working, right?
00:53:24.440 And so I would say the fact that platforms
00:53:26.460 still allow this largely is a big problem, right?
00:53:29.980 The fact that it's profitable,
00:53:31.660 that you can make money from it,
00:53:32.660 and I think it's incentivized.
00:53:34.100 And so again, like we,
00:53:35.620 It's these 83 people are bad actors, but also more institutionally, platforms need to do something to make sure that a relatively small handful of people can't hijack an entire conversation about a subject.
00:53:49.040 And again, I know that a lot of people that I respect would say that the answer is to ban single issue hate accounts or single person hate accounts, that we should be banning those.
00:53:57.980 And I, again, I think that there's always going to be people who their thing is hating on other public figures.
00:54:04.840 And so I don't necessarily think that, like, those people should not be able to do that.
00:54:10.140 Like, I don't love it.
00:54:10.980 And, like, I wouldn't recommend it.
00:54:12.040 And I would never be friends with somebody who would do that.
00:54:13.860 And I would never do that.
00:54:15.220 But I feel like there's always going to be people who are hell-bent on hating on others.
00:54:20.520 And I think that's just, like, a reality of the world that we live in.
00:54:23.700 But even so, platforms don't have to make money off of it, profit off of it, amplify it, normalize it.
00:54:30.620 You know, like, they can take some accountability.
00:54:32.780 And so, I don't know.
00:54:34.460 I think that the real, for me at least, the real problem here is what happens when platforms just
00:54:41.300 allow this and it becomes the norm. Because I really have seen the way that this same dynamic
00:54:46.120 can be applied to political leaders, women running for office, women journalists. And
00:54:50.860 I think the implications when you apply it that way really become clear. They're quite dire.
00:54:56.940 And yeah, people can make money off of it. The fact that we're looking at Forbes magazine
00:55:02.060 with TikTok stars talking about how the number one stars make it almost 20 million dollars per
00:55:08.380 year. It's kind of like, what? Wait, what? And the realization is literally TikTok, the platform
00:55:14.460 helped elevate these individuals and have made them a household market and have made them
00:55:19.820 profitable and have created a new genre of celebrities. Is that a thing? Yeah, like a new
00:55:26.540 marketplace right i mean the fact is they have a lot of power whether we want to admit it or not
00:55:34.040 and it plays into obviously as you were talking about star wars it plays into movies it's played
00:55:39.420 into what's being created it plays into what's being pulled it's played into who ends up being
00:55:44.420 on uh who ends up becoming leaders it absolutely affects everything and when it's specifically
00:55:51.520 targeted to silence marginalized individuals like what has happened with Meghan Markle that she
00:55:57.260 got off of social media we've seen many teen celebrities young girls get off social media
00:56:02.360 because it's the constant berating constant trolling that it becomes a thing we've seen
00:56:06.880 individuals being terrorized for making a comment about someone's favorite
00:56:11.280 musician it's the whole level of like what is happening and the fact that this has allowed to
00:56:17.340 happen. And there's no one who seemingly controls it, even though it's under a platform that is a
00:56:22.820 private company. Exactly. I mean, I couldn't have put it better myself. And when I think about the
00:56:27.300 ways that, you know, the younger generation, the generation coming up behind me, they're largely
00:56:32.800 like, you know, an online generation. And so they're learning about politics and the world
00:56:38.660 around them and civic engagement from the internet. The ways that they exert that power and those
00:56:43.840 voices are largely online, if our online systems are so toxic that people don't even want to be
00:56:49.580 part of them, that is an entire generation of marginalized young people who early on have just
00:56:55.760 checked out. And that is a huge problem. Yeah. Yeah. And on top of that, I think of
00:57:01.600 kind of the toxic messaging we get from a very young age as women. And so you internalize some 0.80
00:57:10.620 of this stuff and then if you are exposed
00:57:12.440 to these social platforms that are just
00:57:14.400 reinforcing all that toxic messaging
00:57:16.200 that's not good
00:57:18.020 that's very very bad
00:57:20.680 yes
00:57:22.440 yeah it's bad and I guess
00:57:24.440 like I just strongly feel
00:57:26.600 that we all deserve better
00:57:28.520 like we can have better
00:57:30.560 the reason why things
00:57:32.540 are not better I would argue or because it's
00:57:34.520 lining the pockets of mostly
00:57:36.720 white straight cis men 0.59
00:57:38.440 who build these systems and profit from them 1.00
00:57:40.420 and f**k them. 1.00
00:57:41.980 We deserve better. 1.00
00:57:43.220 I don't care if they all go bankrupt
00:57:44.480 if it means that we can have something better
00:57:45.960 for the rest of us.
00:57:47.400 Yes.
00:57:47.800 Eat the rich.
00:57:48.440 I like it.
00:57:51.280 I love it.
00:57:53.380 Well, thank you so much as always, Bridget.
00:57:55.440 It was a delight to have you.
00:57:57.840 Every time we have these,
00:57:59.120 I'm like, well, we got to talk about this.
00:58:00.300 We got to talk about this.
00:58:00.980 We got to talk about this.
00:58:01.620 So are there any resources you want to shout out
00:58:06.200 or where can the listeners find you both?
00:58:08.800 Well, I definitely recommend checking out Bot Sentinel's work.
00:58:11.820 They put out research briefings that are so fascinating.
00:58:14.760 And Christopher Bouzet has done such a good job of really helping me understand what's happening on the internet.
00:58:20.160 So definitely check them out.
00:58:21.760 You can follow me on Twitter at Bridget Marie or on Instagram at Bridget Marie in DC. 0.57
00:58:26.240 And check out my podcast, There Are No Girls on the Internet. 0.80
00:58:28.940 Yes. 0.95
00:58:29.860 Yes, yes, yes.
00:58:30.440 Absolutely do that, listeners, if you have not already.
00:58:32.760 Thank you again, Bridget, for being here.
00:58:34.860 Cannot wait until the next time.
00:58:36.780 Me too.
00:58:37.560 Thanks for having me.
00:58:38.500 Yes, absolutely. Always a wonderful, a wonderful pleasure. And listeners, if you would like to
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