Under the Influence (with Jo Piazza) - September 12, 2024


We've Got Issues

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00:00:00.000 Hey, y'all. It's Joe Piazza, and you are listening to Under the Influence. Today is
00:00:13.500 my 44th birthday. Yeah, 44. The big 4-4. And I gotta tell you, I feel pretty amazing. I
00:00:25.200 genuinely believe that it is a myth that women's lives get worse the older we get. It is a myth
00:00:34.620 and a story that has been created by men who were pretty much probably just afraid of our power
00:00:43.140 and afraid of how awesome we get with age. We are like a fine wine or a cheese in one of those
00:00:50.840 cheese caves that's been injected with something delicious and just gets tastier, tastier and more
00:00:58.000 just more delicious over time. We are. I mean, I feel I feel more creative. I feel sexier. I feel
00:01:07.380 more powerful. I love 44. And Glynnis told me the same thing about 50 last week. I think there is so
00:01:16.800 much to look forward to. I'm just psyched. I am. A lot of you have asked me what I want for my
00:01:24.560 birthday. Honestly, no stuff. I want people to come to my house and take stuff out of my house,
00:01:30.260 if that is possible. That would be lovely. Lovely. Also, you can definitely, definitely
00:01:37.680 buy a copy of The Sicilian Inheritance for one of your friends for my birthday and just say,
00:01:43.520 hey, I'm giving this to you for Joe Piazza Day. I think that would be lovely. That is exactly,
00:01:50.600 exactly what I want. Over on the Substack, I made a list of 44 things that I've learned
00:01:57.920 in 44 years. I'm not going to go through all of them here because there's a lot.
00:02:03.140 I'm just going to mention a couple of my favorites. One of them is to stop measuring
00:02:07.560 your daily success in terms of work productivity. I still do this. I've been doing this my
00:02:14.600 entire adult life, but I really think that it just bites you in the ass. And if for some reason 1.00
00:02:20.820 you didn't cross off all of the things on your work to-do list, it's just going to make you 1.00
00:02:25.460 feel like crap and bite you in the ass. And I wish that we lived in a world where we measured 1.00
00:02:31.240 our daily success in chatting with our friends, in hugging our kids, in walking around outside,
00:02:38.640 in laughing, in how much cheese we've eaten. These things are important, which leads me to
00:02:45.580 my second piece of advice, which is that impromptu dance parties are also important,
00:02:51.160 and they should be encouraged and nurtured whenever possible. We went out to dinner for
00:02:57.340 for Glynessa's birthday last week. And we took over that restaurant. 11 women in their 40s and
00:03:07.440 50s and 60s. We just got up and we danced. And our wonderful server not only danced with us,
00:03:17.180 but he just got our vibe. And all of a sudden, all of the next songs were Whitney Houston and
00:03:23.320 Spice Girls and Tina Turner and other people that were there having dinner also got up and
00:03:30.760 danced. Pure magic, friends. Pure freaking magic. Also, red lipstick is an outfit. It's just an
00:03:38.240 outfit. I got a really great new red lipstick. It's like a red lipstick balm from the French
00:03:42.860 pharmacy the other day. And yeah, I mean, I can wake up in some ratty pajamas, throw on some
00:03:48.980 some red lipstick and be like, this was all on purpose. This was all on purpose.
00:03:54.760 I'm not going to bore you with the rest of my list. It's over on my sub stack,
00:03:58.600 which is called Over the Influence. And today I'm actually going to drop an episode of a new
00:04:04.860 podcast in this feed. It's a podcast that I just started making with our friend Emily Amick of the
00:04:11.820 at Emily in your phone Instagram account. It is indeed about politics. It's called We've Got
00:04:18.260 issues. And the goal of it is to dissect everything that is going on in this crazy,
00:04:24.820 crazy world right now, and also to give you a safe space to feel a little bit of hope again.
00:04:33.260 Emily is the former counsel to the Senate Dems. She worked with Chuck Schumer. She's very
00:04:40.000 informative. I weirdly bring many, many years of political journalism experience. Not that you'd
00:04:46.540 know it now, my friends, but I do. And we just want to make the news a little easier to digest
00:04:53.860 because so many women that I know have a lot of anxiety around what's going on. And we want to
00:05:01.100 talk about all of this in a hopeful and excited way. And also without a lot of the BS to give you
00:05:09.340 ways to start conversations that I think are going to be important for the next two months.
00:05:14.040 But do not worry. Do not worry if politics are not your jam, okay? You do not need to subscribe
00:05:20.960 to We've Got Issues right now because we have a lot more in the influencer world coming up.
00:05:26.960 Did you realize that Ballerina Farm and Nara Smith just had brunch together? It's like the
00:05:34.980 streams crossing in Ghostbusters, my friends. I'm going to talk about a lot of that next week with
00:05:41.300 our friend Sarah Peterson and what this means for their brands, because the two brands collaborating
00:05:48.000 really only made them stronger. And I think that it was genuinely, genuinely on purpose.
00:05:54.680 We are also doing many, many, many episodes on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which is now
00:06:01.980 on Hulu, which I finally watched. And look, I've got, I've got thoughts. I have so many thoughts
00:06:08.300 on this, including the surprising feminism of Mormon mom talk. And also, I'm trying to figure 0.88
00:06:17.420 out what the hell the Mormon church thinks about this. I've called them about 15 times at this
00:06:22.300 point. The show genuinely feels like a takedown of the Mormon church and the ways that they treat 1.00
00:06:28.880 women and a takedown of the patriarchy. So this is going to be, it's probably going to take up 0.63
00:06:35.380 about six episodes, but they're going to be juicy episodes. I'm trying to get the women on the show. 1.00
00:06:40.560 So don't worry. We will be going down all of the influencer rabbit holes very, very soon. But for 0.99
00:06:47.020 right now, I just I want to drop this episode of We've Got Issues in your feed. It's about IVF and
00:06:54.340 how Trump and the Republicans will definitely block it and what all of the talk around this
00:07:00.140 means for you and the women that you love. So without further ado, here is We've Got Issues.
00:07:07.340 It is available on Apple Podcasts right now. It is available on Apple Podcasts right now
00:07:13.200 and soon to be on all the platforms once we once we figure that shit out. 0.93
00:07:30.140 Hi, I'm Emily Amick. 0.98
00:07:33.480 And I'm Jo Piazza.
00:07:34.960 And we've got issues.
00:07:36.620 And so do you.
00:07:37.640 We all do.
00:07:39.380 And our country certainly does.
00:07:41.200 And that's why we are here.
00:07:43.200 We're here to give you a weekly dose of the news you need to know
00:07:46.440 without cringe, the exaggeration, or the hype.
00:07:50.180 We're here to keep you informed, but also to give you hope,
00:07:53.180 because we all deserve hope.
00:07:54.940 Each episode will take one or two topics and help you break it all down.
00:07:59.720 We're going to tell you what it means for you, what it means for your friends, what
00:08:02.760 it means for your community, and all without the BS.
00:08:06.600 And we're going to always end on a happy note.
00:08:08.620 Always.
00:08:09.740 Always.
00:08:11.320 So here we go.
00:08:13.760 Let's do this, Emily.
00:08:14.860 Let's do this.
00:08:16.180 Let's talk about IVF.
00:08:18.160 Let's talk about IVF.
00:08:19.200 I've got questions for you.
00:08:20.500 I do.
00:08:20.820 I do.
00:08:21.220 Because I saw, you know, in my news feeds, on the social medias, that Trump claimed some
00:08:28.460 things about IVF that really, really surprised me this week and last week. Trump said that if he
00:08:37.020 was president, he would have mandated insurance coverage for IVF. And it's very clear why he's
00:08:44.280 saying this. 86% of Americans think IVF should be legal. It's a very highly supported policy
00:08:51.960 in the United States. Is mandated insurance coverage a highly supported policy? Not so sure.
00:09:00.100 I highly doubt that the Republicans who have been clamoring to repeal the Affordable Care Act
00:09:04.540 for all these years are going to support an $8 billion entitlement program. But, you know,
00:09:09.580 Trump does this, right? He just says things, he throws spaghetti at the wall. But there's actually
00:09:16.120 a reason he's trying to backslide here. And it's because of the Republican assault on IVF that
00:09:22.100 we've seen over the last couple of years. Right, right, of course. Because what I couldn't tell,
00:09:26.860 is this an instance of Trump just be lying again? Is it because he knows that IVF is something
00:09:34.780 that likely will impact at least some of the swing voters out there, a lot of whom we know
00:09:41.820 are suburban women uh many of whom i are either you know want to use ivf themselves or perhaps
00:09:49.900 have a daughter a friend or other family member who wants to use ivf so i'm just i want to parse
00:09:56.820 the language because that's what you were talking about and it's he's not coming out in full support
00:10:03.920 of ivf he's also you know saying essentially that you know insurance will hit will pay for it but
00:10:10.300 We don't have a country and we likely will not have a legislature which will, you know, support universal insurance for everyone.
00:10:17.880 So it just feels like so much smoke and mirrors just to be able to say the word IVF in a positive way in a speech.
00:10:25.400 Yeah, I think that you really hit it on the nose there.
00:10:28.540 It's just a thing to say.
00:10:30.640 And I want to take one step backwards to the first part of your question, which is why is Trump doing this?
00:10:35.460 So number one, this election is going to be decided by 6% of voters in six states, right? Like it's a very small group of people that the Harris and Trump campaigns are fighting over. And one of the things we are seeing is that this election is becoming boys versus girls, like in a very serious way.
00:10:54.560 The men and boys, young men, are really moving towards Trump, and women are moving towards
00:11:02.820 Harris.
00:11:03.780 And lots of different polling is showing this.
00:11:06.400 And so Trump is realizing he's got to get some of these women to vote for him.
00:11:11.940 And IVF is super popular.
00:11:13.840 And so he's thinking, how can I just say I like IVF without really addressing the underlying
00:11:19.780 issue, which is whether there should be a right to IVF?
00:11:23.380 Because an insurance mandate, which, by the way, a whole other conversation, would it even last if he tried to do it? I don't think so. But, you know, an insurance mandate in a world in which IVF is functionally impossible to access is irrelevant.
00:11:39.200 Right, right.
00:11:40.320 And I think that's the tricky language part of this.
00:11:44.980 I want to dig into that in a little bit, but I want to pull out something you just said, too, that this election is becoming kind of boys versus the girls.
00:11:53.600 And I think that's really interesting because I haven't heard enough about that.
00:11:59.220 It makes sense to me.
00:12:02.180 We could have our first female president. 1.00
00:12:04.760 But what are you seeing when it comes to those kinds of numbers? 1.00
00:12:08.100 and that kind of information.
00:12:10.080 Yeah, we should do a whole podcast on this
00:12:11.960 because it is really interesting.
00:12:14.620 You know, when you are thinking,
00:12:15.980 when you're running a campaign,
00:12:17.200 you really segment down the demographics.
00:12:19.760 They're not sitting there just like running on fives.
00:12:22.480 They're running on a lot of data,
00:12:24.640 a lot of information and deeply segmenting populations
00:12:27.460 and trying to figure out how to reach out
00:12:29.880 to those populations. 0.87
00:12:31.360 What policies do they care about?
00:12:33.120 What influencers do they care about?
00:12:35.220 Where are they located and all those things?
00:12:37.420 and what we are seeing is the way like the groups of people who are segmenting out on each side
00:12:45.360 for example there was this group called the double haters oh tell me more about it i mean
00:12:51.480 that sounds like something out of harry potter like tell me about the double haters the double
00:12:55.540 haters in when it was a biden trump matchup there was this huge group of people double haters who
00:13:01.320 didn't like trump and they didn't like biden and everyone was like what are these people gonna do
00:13:05.500 are they going to not vote or are they going to choose the side they hate less? Those people are
00:13:10.640 to a significant degree disappearing, right? They either are going with Harris or they hate women. 0.78
00:13:16.780 And so they're going with Trump fundamentally. That's my opinion. But they are very much
00:13:24.620 disappearing. And now we are starting to see these smaller segments of people who are being
00:13:29.740 going from side to side but especially in young people gen z in particular the gender breakdown
00:13:36.740 is an increasingly large chasm okay okay yeah no it it makes sense and i actually i think it's only
00:13:44.360 only gonna get more intense over over the next couple months so all right yeah let's do a whole
00:13:51.260 episode on on boys versus girls there's so much we can unpack there but now i want to talk about
00:13:57.960 insurance. And, you know, what are the barriers to having IVF covered by insurance under a Trump
00:14:08.540 administration? So there's two conceivable ways this would happen. One is Trump would get the
00:14:16.620 administration to do it. This would be an executive decision. And the other way would be he would get
00:14:20.900 Congress to do it. If Republicans take over Congress, right now, the Senate, it's going to
00:14:27.260 be 50 50 it is so so so close so there is a very viable world in which republicans win the congress
00:14:34.400 um and so if he gets congress is congress one you know speaker mike johnson is he going to
00:14:43.340 endorse um an insurance mandate no these are people who have been running on cutting government
00:14:50.120 costs running on cutting entitlement programs and running on cutting government coverage of uh
00:14:55.920 insurance. So you're putting that aside. That's not going to happen. So the other way it would
00:15:00.900 happen is he would have HHS, Health and Human Services, issue a mandate that IVF coverage
00:15:06.520 should be included in this. Now, let's look at what Republicans, what conservatives have been
00:15:10.620 doing the last couple of years. We have a group of conservatives who have been suing because they
00:15:15.420 say a mandate for coverage of HIV prevention medication violates their religious liberties.
00:15:20.960 They say a mandate for coverage of contraception violates their religious liberties, right?
00:15:26.820 Those people would most definitely sue about this, because if there's one thing we know,
00:15:31.620 it's that the religious right in America does not like IVF.
00:15:35.000 We heard from all of the leaders when Trump said this, they came out really, really strong,
00:15:40.000 really angry about this statement.
00:15:42.000 And I think that a lot of people think that the religious right should be okay with IVF,
00:15:47.780 but because they like babies, but there's a lot of reasons that they don't. And it very much
00:15:54.120 tracks for them to be totally, totally against it. They view a fertilized egg as a human being
00:15:59.500 and everything, they consider IVF a medical experiment. And there's lots like in a very
00:16:05.420 serious way. And, and so if Trump were to have HHS do this, the other thing is the Supreme Court,
00:16:13.420 because of a decision they made this summer called Loper Bright,
00:16:16.740 which overturned the Chevron Doctrine, which, like, lawyers lost it.
00:16:21.320 Yeah, remind me of the Chevron Doctrine because, you know,
00:16:23.640 sometimes I love you so much, but sometimes you get me in the weeds.
00:16:27.460 So this is one of those things that, like, when the decision came down in July,
00:16:32.360 all the lawyers were losing their minds, and everyone was like,
00:16:35.200 this is so arcane, this is irrelevant.
00:16:39.580 The Chevron Doctrine is this idea, it's this old case from the 80s,
00:16:43.340 that says the court system needs to defer to the administrative state. So when an administrative
00:16:48.620 agency makes a decision using the expertise that they have, because they're an agency,
00:16:54.260 the court should be like, those guys know what's up. And we're going to defer to them and say,
00:16:58.460 like, they probably made this decision out of their expertise. We don't know more.
00:17:02.200 And it's, you know, in the world of judicial decision making, there's all of these structures
00:17:07.920 that really constrain the power of the court. And what we've seen with this conservative court
00:17:12.880 it's that they've been trying to like throw off their chains so they can do whatever they want
00:17:17.280 and overturning the chevron doctrine was a major major step forward for them because what it means
00:17:22.740 is they no longer have to defer to administrative agencies they can say like we know better right
00:17:29.140 and so uh the you know in a world in which hhs says ivf coverage needs to be mandated as part
00:17:37.600 of insurance coverage in this country the supreme court could just say no it shouldn't they can make
00:17:44.160 up a reason and they could say and we don't have to defer to you because we know better
00:17:47.480 uh and and that is what this overturning of the chevron doctrine allowed right it's why this like
00:17:54.360 very arc arcane thing uh you heard a lot of lawyers say like it's the destruction of the
00:17:59.800 administrative state uh which is a meaningless statement but what it really means is we have
00:18:05.840 we have a way our government runs right now which is we have all of these agencies which are endowed
00:18:11.360 with powers to move along as society moves along to like take new situations to take new issues
00:18:18.700 and create ways for the government to address them and we we trust that they know what they're
00:18:24.780 doing and now the supreme court just gets to like parachute in whenever they want and go bloop
00:18:30.900 I don't think so.
00:18:33.580 Oh, I hate a Supreme Court that bloops.
00:18:37.940 I do.
00:18:38.920 I do.
00:18:39.240 I mean, at least one is not blooping in my direction.
00:18:41.580 Yeah.
00:18:42.160 I mean, do you think that people understand that IVF has haters?
00:18:50.960 Um, you know what?
00:18:52.980 Let's get back to that after a quick break, because I think it's complicated.
00:18:58.360 Because we've got issues, Emily.
00:19:00.400 we've got issues.
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00:19:40.960 Okay, we are back from a break.
00:19:44.400 You asked me if I thought that most people understand if IVF has haters.
00:19:49.360 And I think that the majority of people do not because of certain bubbles and echo chambers that we live in.
00:19:56.580 I mean, even my husband, if we're going back to the boys versus girls thing, when I bring
00:20:01.940 this up, he's like, no, no.
00:20:03.300 He's like, that's not even true.
00:20:04.860 They wouldn't even take away IVF.
00:20:07.560 And I'm like, it's absolutely true.
00:20:10.740 And so I do think there are a lot of people out there, particularly those who are probably
00:20:16.080 not as impacted by it.
00:20:17.600 I mean, one, Nick's a man.
00:20:19.420 And two, he's a man with a vasectomy and three children already who think that this is not
00:20:25.580 as big of an issue as it is you know and i think when alabama um made ivf functionally inaccessible
00:20:34.560 for a short period of time it it it was a big wake-up call for people but a lot of people
00:20:40.240 seem to have forgotten it um well people let's remind let's remind ourselves let's remind ourselves
00:20:45.720 that people have short memories they have short memories and i think that the republicans had
00:20:52.060 pushed a little too hard, and they realized they had to go slower. And one of the things they've
00:20:56.320 done with abortion is, you know, it's been 50 years that they have been working to curtail
00:21:01.020 access to abortion. They moved really slowly, and they waited for the culture. And they have built
00:21:07.100 up this massive power legal infrastructure. And they tried to move too quickly with IVF. And I
00:21:12.800 think that was the lesson of Alabama. But the underlying legal issue, it's an this is another
00:21:18.820 like very term of art thing, which is fetal personhood. And when you look at fetal personhood
00:21:26.100 advocacy, which is what led to IVF becoming inaccessible in Alabama, it's still happening
00:21:32.560 all across the country and nationally. And it's actually part of the Republican national platform.
00:21:38.580 And so it's frankly the Lulu to think that like, this isn't the plan going forward, right? And
00:21:45.860 going back to something we said at the very beginning, Trump didn't say he opposes fetal
00:21:50.920 personhood. He didn't say he wants a right to contraception. He didn't say he wants a right
00:21:56.000 to IVF. He just said this one random thing that could coexist with these other things, right?
00:22:03.460 You could have an insurance mandate and for IVF to be functionally illegal.
00:22:09.200 and you know that's what i think is so important to remember that it was just one random thing
00:22:17.640 to kind of assuage people that were thinking about maybe going the other way uh because of
00:22:23.720 ivf were like no no it's fine it's fine it's fine he said this thing but no one really knows what he
00:22:26.780 says um and again because he's very very good with messing around with language and branding
00:22:34.480 one thing i want to talk about before because we're gonna we are gonna end this episode with
00:22:38.120 good news because you all deserve hope. At the end of every episode, every single day, we will
00:22:44.140 end with good news. I want to talk about his running mate for a minute because I don't think
00:22:49.900 that J.D. Vance cloaks this at all. I mean, what's he been saying about IVF? Yeah. Well, J.D. Vance
00:22:56.320 has said very little, including skipping the vote on the right to IVF bill, right? And J.D. talks a
00:23:03.200 lot about family, weirdly a lot about family and women's roles, burying children and caring for
00:23:10.480 children. He's weird, like very oddly obsessed with this. And so the fact, you know, they say
00:23:17.920 things like we support IVF, IVF is important, family is important, right? But he's also very
00:23:24.280 supportive of many extremist Christian nationalist opinions. And I haven't heard anyone talk about
00:23:30.500 if he thinks Yale educated lawyer JD thinks that, you know, fertilized eggs should be included in
00:23:37.700 the 14th Amendment's definition of a person. I don't, I don't think he's been asked that
00:23:42.080 question. And again, it's, it's, where's the next JD Vance rally? Let's go ask him. I mean,
00:23:48.840 why isn't anyone just directly asking him this? It's in the Republican national platform. Right.
00:23:54.080 And I, and I say this again, because sometimes people are like, they don't really think that,
00:23:56.980 no they definitely do like no they do yeah yeah and i mean i think that's a really great talking
00:24:02.880 point too um you know right now there's so much confusing and misinformation out there
00:24:09.980 that just having a talking point when when you're talking to friends about this stuff if someone
00:24:15.140 says they don't really believe that to say no it's in their platform their official platform
00:24:19.620 and you know just you know in with your expert hat can you explain to us what the platform is
00:24:25.180 Yeah. So when like these parties get together over the summer and they plan their conventions, one of the things that they do is they they write this platform, which is like the top line things that we believe in, that we stand for as a political party.
00:24:40.600 Because at the end of the day, political parties are coalitions and there's like lots of different on the Democratic side, a lot more, but lots of different interest groups that fit under it.
00:24:50.160 And then they vote on it during the convention and then everyone agrees this is what we as a party stand for.
00:24:55.180 And it's a written document.
00:24:56.960 And one of the things I think, you know, Project 2025 is something that we've seen a lot of
00:25:02.960 people talk about.
00:25:04.140 And I think what people like so much about it is that it's a written document because
00:25:07.760 there's so much like spin zone going on in politics these days and so many like TikTok
00:25:14.120 takes that are seemingly disconnected from the actual stance of politicians that, you
00:25:21.100 know, Project 2025, it's like very much in writing what these people are planning. And
00:25:28.680 when it comes to IVF and the Statement of Fetal Personhood, it's pretty much the same in both
00:25:34.320 documents. They're saying, actually, the Republican national platform is slightly stronger,
00:25:38.740 which is not only does it say that we think that human life begins at conception, right? There's
00:25:44.600 also a House bill that's called the Life at Conception Act that I think has 127 co-sponsors,
00:25:50.760 including the Speaker of the House, but it says that the 14th Amendment says so.
00:25:55.180 And as a lawyer, and I keep repeating it because it's the thing that sends the most chills through
00:26:00.820 my body, because constitutional fetal personhood is like the ultimate bell that can't be unrung.
00:26:08.280 Yeah, explain what that means. What does that mean?
00:26:11.920 So the 14th Amendment, right, talks about life, liberty, pursuit of happiness,
00:26:16.400 just life liberty but um what does it mean to be a person who has liberty in this country
00:26:22.460 right now what does it mean to be a person who has rights and freedom right that makes sense
00:26:27.480 yeah who gets to like you know you can't murder them you can't take away their rights you can't
00:26:34.840 take away their rights to due process most saliently um do there used to be other types
00:26:40.800 of people who didn't have those rights i do think i do think there did used to be other types of
00:26:45.760 people who didn't have rights in this country um and what they are saying is that a fertilized egg
00:26:51.160 should be considered a person for the purpose of the 14th amendment and that person you know in
00:26:56.460 that egg fertilized egg embryo because it's not sometimes under the alabama law it wasn't even it
00:27:03.400 didn't even have to be an embryo it just had to be a fertilized egg and there's yeah and there's
00:27:07.340 a difference there's a there is um you know a little bit of a difference without a distinction
00:27:12.820 but like it's it's wild it's not even because right life at conception what does that mean
00:27:18.260 theoretically implantation but now they're saying nope just fertilized egg because it's out of you
00:27:23.920 know out of a woman's body and in a test tube in an IVF studio that is a person and so if a supreme
00:27:32.700 court were to decide that that a fertilized egg is a person then all of the legal regime that goes
00:27:41.380 around everything related to reproduction changes. Right, right. Because then then a
00:27:47.720 fertilized egg has the exact same rights as a full blown human being, right? Yeah. And you
00:27:54.700 couldn't write, you know, the process of IVF is is a process that involves a lot of loss of eggs
00:28:02.260 and embryos. Yes. Because it takes, you know, 20 eggs, I've heard to get to one baby. And I mean,
00:28:09.620 I think, yeah, the spectrum, the spectrum is so wide.
00:28:12.780 I mean, we both have so many friends who have gone through IVF successfully and unsuccessfully.
00:28:20.820 I mean, yeah, there is a lot that is happening there that would be completely curtailed by this.
00:28:28.540 Then every single time a fertility doctor was implanting multiple embryos into a woman,
00:28:37.080 could that woman be held responsible for murder if some don't get implanted? Could the doctor 0.98
00:28:42.020 have civil liability for, you know, killing children? It seems it, that's what happened
00:28:50.140 in Alabama. It wasn't about criminal liability. It was about civil liability. So it was about the
00:28:54.420 fact that like, there's no business model when you're constantly at risk for being sued for
00:28:59.320 millions of dollars. And like everything we exist in a capitalist system, these fertility doctors
00:29:04.620 need to be able to make money and survive. But that's like, the thing about constitutional
00:29:09.300 determinations is they're very hard to overturn. It's why conservatives spent 50 years working to
00:29:14.700 overturn Roe, right? It's a very, very hard thing to do. And it's one of the reasons I've always
00:29:20.980 said, I don't think it would have been a good idea for Democrats to codify Roe before it was
00:29:25.460 overturned, because having it as a constitutionally protected right was a much more secure status.
00:29:31.880 Things have changed now with the Supreme Court, but, you know, it would be a terrible, terrible thing. And it's most absolutely definitely what Republicans and the Republican Party specifically are working towards.
00:29:44.740 Yeah, it's terrifying. It's terrifying. I want to give people just a couple of talking points, a couple of conversation starters here when they're talking to their friends who are either undecided about voting, who are thinking maybe they won't vote at all.
00:30:02.780 You know, what are what are just a couple of things that people should take away from this conversation this week?
00:30:09.180 Yeah. So, number one, it's always important to just start a conversation with asking someone about what they care about and their issues.
00:30:16.560 So if there's someone, you know, especially who has experience with IVF, I actually have a friend who has been talking to one of her friends who's an IVF mama about this for months and months and months.
00:30:27.720 That person was a Republican voter and is going to be voting for Kamala Harris this cycle because of the issue of IVF.
00:30:35.140 And so once you learn that they care about these issues and want to talk about the politics of it, be like, did you know that the Republican national platform, you know, it includes this idea of fetal personhood, which would make IVF illegal?
00:30:50.880 Yeah.
00:30:51.820 Yeah.
00:30:52.540 Yeah.
00:30:53.120 No, I think that's a great, great starter.
00:30:55.040 It really is.
00:30:55.680 I'm not joking.
00:30:57.080 I mean it.
00:30:57.720 um you know and I think a lot of people don't want to use the word fetal personhood well because
00:31:01.780 that's also that's also like it's just it's weird language right we say all the time I'm like
00:31:06.940 language matters but like fetal personhood is such a strange it doesn't trip off the tongue it
00:31:12.880 does you know and we can think about rebranding but it's actually you know a conservative legal
00:31:18.240 theory right they came up with it we're using their terminology which we so often do I know
00:31:23.100 We so often use their terminology and I wish that we didn't.
00:31:26.800 I think it's more about saying, you know, IVF, you can ask someone about how many embryos
00:31:34.180 they had to create and all of this stuff.
00:31:36.440 You know, there's all different types of questions I talk about with my friends who are going
00:31:39.820 through it.
00:31:40.640 And if the person wants to talk about it and you can say, like, imagine how different this
00:31:45.460 would be if each of those, if your doctor had legal liability for each one of those
00:31:51.440 embryos and could get sued for murder. Yes. And I think that one of the places this often ends up
00:31:58.280 is like, they'll never go there. They'll never go there. And one of the things we have started
00:32:05.600 to have with abortion is stories of how they will go there, of 10-year-old girls who can't access
00:32:12.280 abortion services, of women who are bleeding out in emergency rooms and unable to access care. I
00:32:19.520 I mean, I keep going back to the Idaho Supreme Court case where they said bleeding out and losing a uterus is not a sufficient risk that justifies getting an abortion.
00:32:32.580 You have to be bleeding out and about to die to be able to qualify for getting an abortion.
00:32:37.380 And that was their argument at the Supreme Court of the United States.
00:32:40.980 It wasn't this isn't like some fringe person.
00:32:44.560 Right.
00:32:44.960 And it's an argument they made that they think that an agent of the state made that argument.
00:32:50.200 And so I think we're starting to have more and more arguments for why.
00:32:54.380 And I'll say the Alabama Supreme Court, their opinion hasn't changed.
00:32:59.920 What happened in Alabama was the legislature said IVF is an okay form of murder.
00:33:07.080 That's the legislation.
00:33:08.660 And that legislation could change any minute, right?
00:33:11.820 Like it's a it's a bell that they rang that they can unring. It's an easy control Z. In the same way it was easy for them to do it, it's easy for them to undo it. And it's created a ton of inability to to know what the future is. Right. I know someone in Alabama who her fertility doctor is still not working.
00:33:32.200 She's not able to get any fertility care right now because they're like worried that the law is going to change and they're going to be able to get retroactively sued.
00:33:41.100 We're seeing in places like Louisiana, they are having lots of problems.
00:33:46.180 They have to transfer all of the embryos out of state.
00:33:49.240 Right. It's starting.
00:33:51.580 And the question is, do you want to only get concerned once it's already happening or do you want to try to prevent it?
00:33:58.500 I want to try to prevent it.
00:33:59.860 That's what I would like to do.
00:34:01.360 literally right now. What can we do? What can we do to prevent this?
00:34:05.320 You know, the most important thing is talking to your friends about this issue. And why,
00:34:10.260 you know, we are starting this podcast with the issue of IVF is because it is something that
00:34:15.340 matters. We talked about how this election is going to be decided by 6% of voters in six states.
00:34:19.880 But there's also lots and lots, there's over 100 really, really close battleground races
00:34:25.060 at the federal level in this country this year. And all of those races, these moderate women, 1.00
00:34:31.360 these former Republican women, they are probably going to be the deciders. And so it's about
00:34:35.700 talking to them and convincing them to vote for their own reproductive autonomy and their own
00:34:41.480 reproductive futures and the reproductive futures of their friends and family.
00:34:46.080 Yep. Yep. And yep. All right. We just, we gave you guys something to talk about this week,
00:34:50.560 every week. We know we got something, we got something to talk about.
00:34:53.320 And we're going to now pivot to some good news. Cause I think that was a lot,
00:34:57.760 that was a deep dive and into misery just a miserable deep dive this is why i never get
00:35:04.060 invited to parties so joe i invited you to my house you sat on my porch okay and i also invited
00:35:11.340 you to a friend's house which is a big deal because i didn't know what you were gonna say
00:35:15.060 i did not uh bring up ivf i don't think that's not true it's not true actually you did
00:35:21.660 you said fetal personhood three times um i was counting i was counting i was counting yeah
00:35:31.000 do you have any good news to share with the class i i do i i you know i had a conversation
00:35:37.300 during an interview that i was doing for my other podcast for under the influence this week
00:35:41.320 that made me cry happy tears and i just want to share it because it was so great i was talking to
00:35:47.680 the substacker and cookbook author, Carolyn Chambers, who's also a mom of three, about the
00:35:53.960 same age as my kids. And she was just going on book tour for her new book, What to Cook When You
00:35:59.480 Don't Feel Like Cooking, which is great. And, you know, feeling all of like the gnarled guilt and
00:36:04.620 shame about it. And her son's preschool teacher came up to her and was like, when are you leaving?
00:36:09.720 And she's like, tomorrow. And the teacher was like, don't worry, you've got this. You're doing
00:36:14.360 you're doing all of the right things you're like showing your kid that you're getting out there
00:36:19.080 and you're living your best life and you're you're like really successful at your career
00:36:23.380 and we've got him while you're gone like we are going to give him extra cuddles we don't want you
00:36:28.460 to worry about a thing and I just I mean I got chills and I'm going to tear up again just even
00:36:31.680 talking about it because one teachers are the best and they deserve to be paid a hundred thousand
00:36:36.820 dollar plus, or like a million dollars, really. And two, I mean, what great messaging for women 1.00
00:36:46.020 who do feel guilt and shame about leaving their kids for their careers. Like, your village can
00:36:52.060 also have them. Your village can support you. I wish that we had government systemic support,
00:36:58.500 more of it. But it was just, it was such a beautiful example of a village coming together
00:37:03.780 to to support a woman and a mother and look I just I get chills when I talk about it
00:37:08.880 um so I have two pieces of good news one is that the Harris campaign is giving 25 million dollars
00:37:18.680 to down ballot races and that is not what you see when you have the Trump campaign is using
00:37:24.920 their money to spend on his personal legal bills and you know and the thing about one of the things
00:37:32.860 that excites me about social media is getting more and more people excited and engaged not just in
00:37:38.140 top of the ticket but in these down ballot races which are absolutely critical as i said like
00:37:42.040 the senate's gonna be 50 50 and if you want uh regulation of of guns if you want uh a right to
00:37:50.560 contraception or right to ivf like all of these things we need a democratic congress and a
00:37:54.400 filibuster proof democratic congress a topic for another day but uh just one just one wow it's just
00:38:02.600 like all right so you're saying the show is just gonna go daily like it's just a font of never
00:38:06.740 yeah um so you know it's really exciting it's exciting to see the campaign moving money
00:38:13.920 downwards i mean they have been racking in more cash than some other campaigns people are so
00:38:21.560 high on the combo vibes and it's exciting and it's good to see them sharing the wealth
00:38:26.280 um my other my other story my other good news is one of my friends was out door knocking
00:38:33.420 and i hate door knocking i'm just gonna say it i hate door knocking i do i do i mean i do it but
00:38:39.940 i hate it door knocking is like you are going up to strangers and knocking on the door and trying 0.58
00:38:45.980 to talk to them about the election and what's on the ballot um and she ended up talking to this
00:38:51.180 woman who's a veteran who has three kids and she just talked about how excited she was that Kamala
00:38:57.540 Harris is the candidate and she talked about you know how she fought for this country and she fought
00:39:04.000 for freedom and she's like gonna keep fighting and it was so wonderful to hear because I think
00:39:10.280 so much of the political discourse is just so negative and it's especially if you're like super
00:39:16.100 online it's very very hard to not get caught up in the negative discourse and you know we just did
00:39:22.420 a whole very stressful solid 30 but um it is I I do think that the Harris campaign has very very
00:39:30.180 much been about the future and forward and I am like very excited for this vision of a future
00:39:37.560 of America without like Trump breathing down our throats and when we can just go back to talking
00:39:43.400 about boring people and their efforts to make ibf illegal boring people all those boring people
00:39:49.780 exactly exactly love it i love it all right well you know what i really liked our first episode
00:39:54.760 and we have so many ideas for another for the next 50 episodes that you guys are you guys are
00:40:00.740 going to have a lot in your ears and you know what sometimes like you know sometimes we'll just do
00:40:04.940 a solid 12 of something really depressing and we can spend the rest time rest of the time talking
00:40:09.520 about the ben and jennifer breakup if you want yeah we got it yeah we're giving you stuff we're
00:40:13.840 giving we're giving you what you want we're gonna try we're gonna try we're gonna try all right
00:40:18.420 all right and and for now we've still got issues but we're a little bit better
00:40:39.520 Thank you.