Unlearn16: Class is in Session - The One Where I Give Away All My Dating Secrets

00:00:00.000 classes in session hey you're doing welcome to unlearn 16 classes in session today i have

00:00:07.760 tori back with me and guys we're gonna have some fun today so get some popcorn get a get a coffee

00:00:14.480 get something because we're gonna have a good time tori and i were talking about tori how are you

00:00:18.880 doing i'm sorry i didn't even i'm good how are you i'm doing well i'm doing well um we were

00:00:25.040 talking about that beginning stage of a relationship where you text incessantly uh back and forth and

00:00:30.880 you ask all of those sort of deep introspective questions and for me i judge but i think those

00:00:38.480 you judge but if let's be honest if the person's hot enough you're like oh your favorite movie is 0.99

00:00:43.680 what uh i'm trying to think of a crappy movie like your your favorite movie is dumb and dumber oh 0.98

00:00:49.040 okay i still love it of course i like it because you're wicked hot but we tend to judge of these 0.96

00:00:55.500 questions so tori and i are going to go back and forth we're gonna we're gonna get into some of

00:01:01.660 those typical sort of pre-date or as you're starting to date questions tori can say how'd

00:01:09.640 she judge i feel like tori you're probably a lot less judgmental than i i feel like you're more

00:01:14.860 like to each their own where i'm like your movie choice says a lot about your soul i you know what

00:01:23.500 i i'll only judge if if they don't like harry potter oh awesome we can fight about harry potter

00:01:30.940 in a second because i would do we're gonna come to harry potter because i do i saw did you ever

00:01:35.020 see that tick tock where the guy did the perfect thing about harry potter and he goes it's just

00:01:41.020 star wars with did you see that tick tock i'm going to try to know and i'm i'm offended look

00:01:47.820 at my water bottles of course you'd be offended harry potter i'm obsessed have you been to florida

00:01:53.100 have you been to universal and gone and seen it like that whole no and look i'm not even a big

00:01:58.700 because i'm older than you right i'm about that amount older than you where harry potter

00:02:02.380 cool for you and i grew up with it yeah of course what what informs our childhood

00:02:10.060 i think just i mean i'm surrounded by crap i've re-bought because our childhood holds

00:02:16.780 such awesome innocence to it that we think everything we experienced in that time

00:02:22.540 is the best right right just because we have the the innocence yes it's the perspective right yeah

00:02:29.900 uh all right so you start dating somebody you're in your text do you want to go first you want me

00:02:36.480 to go first me go first what's the first tori you start dating you know whoever whatever lucky lady

00:02:45.680 you're you're texting back and forth what is the first question the very first question you will

00:02:51.860 ask i'm going to answer it and then we can talk about why you asked that question the first

00:02:57.060 question all right well i tend to like i get deep but you get deep right away i come out the gate

00:03:03.860 like i come in like a wrecking ball but i'm not today it's the cancerian in me but we're both

00:03:12.260 cancers that's funny you're a cancer can you say cancerian is that a word yeah cancerian i say

00:03:20.340 cancerian anytime i say cancerian in me because i don't want to say there's cancer in me you know 0.83

00:03:25.060 know what i mean it's fair that's fair i don't like the way it sounds it's true um when's your

00:03:29.760 birthday july 16th okay okay all right yeah that's after this after you listen to this podcast you're

00:03:36.260 gonna go over to tori's uh podcast and we're gonna do a whole astrology tarot card cancerian thing

00:03:45.200 oh god i don't even know what that looks like because that's not my thing but tori's got it

00:03:49.220 unlock okay first question to be honest ask the deep question what's the deep question you would

00:03:55.860 ask um oh man how do i even do i ask a question i would ask know somebody i would probably ask like

00:04:09.860 um about their beliefs like what they believe in like i would try to like fish to see if they

00:04:15.380 they were spiritual or something like that interesting okay so right off the hook with that

00:04:20.180 see that makes sense because it is important to you now what if it was you know obviously i'm not

00:04:26.660 you know people ask me all the time are you spiritual and i say no and they say you know

00:04:32.760 whether it's religious or whether it's like anna loves the crystals and all of the vibration levels

00:04:37.720 and stuff like that the secret and like i have friends that are like into astrology and that

00:04:43.180 kind of thing and all people like okay so you're not spiritual at all and I'm like I don't think

00:04:48.980 about it I don't know it doesn't even enter and I don't know what that says about me it doesn't

00:04:54.760 enter into my consciousness like people are like well don't you care what happens when we die I

00:04:59.180 said no I I why would I care about something I can't possibly come to terms with you you know

00:05:08.200 what you would probably like and you probably already know about it since you know you're very

00:05:12.760 educated human you'd probably like stoic philosophy philosophy sure yeah yeah philosophy is about now

00:05:20.920 and here right yeah yeah yeah i don't know why i said those words backwards that sounds really

00:05:25.080 weird when you don't like use them in the proper you know it's here now yeah but we love to never

00:05:30.120 see now and here i like now and here though all right i'm gonna start using that now it's gonna

00:05:35.880 be a hard shift okay so you right away ask that is deep you i asked nothing deep i would i would

00:05:43.800 ask if they're into crystals that's how i would fish so it's not it's not like yeah i'm not i'm

00:05:49.880 not out here like so where do you think we go when we die but i'm just like so are you like

00:05:55.800 are you into crystals like are you into all of that stuff and then like you know they're hidden

00:06:03.000 all over my house and it moved in and there's crystals everywhere so like and and i'll just

00:06:09.400 find them randomly i'm like oh there's some in that windowsill okay oh there's some under my

00:06:13.720 bed what's this beside my bed why is this under my why is this in my pillowcase they're all over

00:06:19.000 the place now um i'm not against it uh and what so if somebody says to you i'm not really into it

00:06:26.120 is that like you're uh okay well then we're not gonna we're not gonna be on the same wavelength

00:06:31.080 there you're like no um i would just ask out of curiosity it's not like a deal breaker for me

00:06:38.440 um you know what's a deal breaker for me hit me if you're if if english is your first language

00:06:47.000 and you don't know the right you're you're there there there that that's a deal breaker like

00:06:56.120 literally lost half your tick tock following by saying that by the way

00:07:01.720 i've made video i've made videos about it too but i'm not trying to offend anybody but like

00:07:06.520 cheat on me beat me up but i draw the line at your grammar but say well when when they're

00:07:14.840 speaking you know you're you have no idea right so it's it's only when they're gonna type that

00:07:19.160 stuff out yeah you know what the one sits bad on me is when they say uh what's what's that word

00:07:25.320 doesn't even exist uh supposedly oh irregard yes joey yeah irregardless i'm like irregardless

00:07:34.920 supposedly i'm gonna have to walk away i feel like supposedly though was put in our head by joey i

00:07:40.360 don't know if i'm gonna hate all that as much because i feel pop culture now has it's even

00:07:46.360 funny when i say it it makes me laugh when i say supposedly because i remember that episode

00:07:52.440 all right here's my first question hands down getting to know somebody but but again you know

00:07:59.100 they could have a really they have could have horrible movie taste but their level of hotness

00:08:04.300 really carries them through a whole round of questions uh favorite movie favorite movie of

00:08:10.220 all time and that doesn't mean because i'm so tired of hearing people say like shawshank redemption

00:08:14.980 like okay listen yeah we all love a good movie right your favorite you're you're sitting on a

00:08:21.680 sunday afternoon and you're gonna pop in a movie seen 8 000 times you're gonna do 8001 what movie

00:08:27.560 is it me yep harry potter you know my cat sitting what do you mean you me i thought it was the

00:08:35.880 spirit my spirit guides you were asking um no yeah it's harry pot i have three favorite there's eight

00:08:42.800 of them isn't there nine oh oh i'm sitting down for like 12 hours and watching them all

00:08:48.400 but you have a favorite i do one which one it is the half-blood prince that's is that three

00:08:56.840 no that uh that one is um prisoner of azkaban uh three what number is yours mine is uh i think

00:09:04.460 it's six okay so question this would be my follow-up question because i can't distinguish

00:09:09.480 between harry potter movies and see i'm not immediately against harry potter because i

00:09:14.500 like the mythology I like the vibe of the movies I don't love them the way people grew up on them

00:09:19.780 love them but like I don't I don't dislike them I don't think they're bad movies but what about

00:09:24.900 that particular episode it's climaxing it is like you know what it is the movies go from

00:09:36.260 so light-hearted and like uppity and then literally they get darker and darker and the 0.98

00:09:43.040 six one is just when like the shit fucking hits the fan i can curse right that's right okay sorry 0.99

00:09:49.840 it's not tick tock right right i made a video about misogyny have you been seeing the lock 0.99

00:09:58.280 and key argument that people are that the men are making about women no go ahead i'm on misogynist

00:10:05.260 talk we just how did that happen see you can't get too angry at here's also the interesting

00:10:10.720 thinking about TikTok if you get it's just kind of like maybe a metaphor of life actually you'll

00:10:15.080 appreciate this because it must be all about vibration and all of that kind of stuff what

00:10:19.280 you think about draws it in because the minute you get too worked up even in anger like about

00:10:25.620 something it just is everywhere like you're in it like I personally in my soul uh really dislike

00:10:33.000 I don't like using hate Jordan Peterson I don't know if you've heard of this man he's a Canadian

00:10:37.080 but he's just i agree everything about it right and i if i don't see him every place i go now

00:10:45.420 anyway i try to avoid him like um covid anyway lock and key well i'm not on misogyny talk i'm

00:10:55.540 on combating misogyny talk no fair but that means you meet a lot of misogyny yes

00:11:00.860 right i see it and then i see the people combating it but either way um there are men who are

00:11:09.420 equating men they're saying men are like locks i mean men are like keys and women are like locks

00:11:16.560 and so they kind of use that analogy to basically say how women shouldn't sleep around but men are

00:11:22.140 allowed to because they say if you have a master key and it opens up every lock it's a good key

00:11:28.780 but if you have a lock that is opened by any key it's a bad lock and they equate that to sexuality

00:11:36.660 between men and women right what if that key might open the lock but slowly starts to disintegrate 0.94

00:11:44.780 the lock because it's a bad key my argument and tiktok kept fucking chat oh excuse me again

00:11:51.760 yeah they were shadow banning me um my argument was just because the key goes in and fits doesn't 0.52

00:12:00.840 mean it unlocks anything like true yeah slow your roll there's a lot of every key goes in

00:12:06.680 but to actually turn and open the door you're right right it takes that that's only that's

00:12:12.040 only one key this idea of a master key it's ridiculous who has that power right so anyway

00:12:19.360 that was so you like so harry potter's your jam um you like that it gets dark is it because it's

00:12:26.560 spiritual in a way um it's spiritual it's emotional it brings out like emotions for me um

00:12:35.600 it's just i don't know it's just climactic and i love it it is it's intense yeah all right your

00:12:45.800 question hit me i'm trying to think let's see um well wait i want to know your favorite movie what

00:12:53.400 the hell everybody knows my favorite movie i talk about it incessantly jaws jaws hands down okay

00:13:00.680 it's been my favorite forever initially made me terrified of the ocean the reason why i would say

00:13:05.080 it's my favorite is because it initially made me terrified of the ocean and pools um and eventually

00:13:10.760 it made me like we just never freaking know and eventually it made me fascinated with the ocean

00:13:17.000 and i got my scuba diving license and i want to dive with sharks and i dove with sharks anyways

00:13:21.400 so i i it's it's an interesting combination or transition from fear to fascination i also think

00:13:29.560 it's the perfect movie i think when i really because i've watched it a lot it is the perfect

00:13:36.120 sort of obviously man against nature but even the music like i can't when they're rolling that boat

00:13:44.000 out to find the shark and they're playing that nice little light like out to you're like

00:13:49.720 coming from you're like they're gonna go try to kill a shark but there's this happy kind of vibe

00:13:57.020 in the air and i like the 70s vibe i like all of it the whole thing is just enjoyable i haven't seen it

00:14:06.120 uh okay so we're gonna pause the podcast and then cory's gonna go watch one of the most

00:14:12.220 important movies of all time the reason why i asked the question though it's so funny because

00:14:16.660 a lot of people do i judge sometimes if somebody says something really deep and moving and

00:14:21.500 meaningful i'm like like i don't know if i'm buying it i don't know i'm not saying that

00:14:30.220 somebody's favorite movie isn't like Casablanca or Shawshank or like the, you know, just typical

00:14:38.420 American history X. Well, I'm running from that one. If that's your favorite, if that's your go,

00:14:43.920 it's a good movie, but if that's your go-to on a Sunday afternoon, we gotta, we gotta talk about

00:14:48.860 that. Right. Yeah. That's yeah. I like an answer. That's what I like. You know what I mean? I don't

00:14:55.540 even care you come back and you say the rookie at least you got something in your you have a sense

00:15:02.620 of self and I think with that question that's what I'm looking for I'm not necessarily looking

00:15:08.800 for a movie even though I might make fun of your choice but um I'm really looking for a strong

00:15:14.700 sense of self like Anna's favorite movie and you know we're engaged is um Dirty Dancing Havana

00:15:22.060 of nights oh oh she gets she's spicy okay that ain't spicy that i i couldn't believe it but

00:15:33.740 man will this girl stand behind that movie come and that's what i respect right you that's the

00:15:39.700 part i don't care about somebody being different than i am i care about their authenticity

00:15:45.640 and their self-awareness you know what i mean to stand yeah if you can stand next to

00:15:51.900 dirty dancing havana night you you got something about yourself that nobody else you know what i

00:15:58.860 mean you got you're standing in all of that wrong powerfully i'm i'm blown away by it so i like it

00:16:06.500 i'm trying to think like i feel like horror movies for me like i i can't i particularly

00:16:15.520 not that i can't date a girl that likes horror movies i can't date a girl that's obsessed with

00:16:23.200 horror movies i will judge if your obsession you mean like obsessed like all they want to watch

00:16:30.840 are horror movies or obsess like they've seen a lot all they want to watch is horror movies like

00:16:37.140 i get nervous about anybody who can't diversify from i i don't like one track people in general

00:16:43.360 and i know some people might think i'm one track considering how much i talk about politics

00:16:47.440 but i really don't i don't like just just one road makes me uncomfortable it's that kind of

00:16:53.820 obsession that it makes me but i do i love all horror movies though right but i grew up again

00:16:59.660 i'm a bit older than you i grew up in the in the golden age of horror movies right 80 slasher films

00:17:05.900 there ain't nothing like it those are yeah right they there's something you know freddy and jason

00:17:14.520 you can't and michael you don't you can't step up to that anymore and they just keep trying to

00:17:19.920 remake it badly but there's something about that era that i and i can watch a cheesy horror movie

00:17:26.520 but like hills have eyes i mean i've seen i've watched horror movies i've dated women who love

00:17:35.320 horror movies it's just not my cup like horror is just not my cup of tea but yeah that's true

00:17:42.840 and i won't watch a horror movie i'm all excited to see scream 5 what is it 37. i'll be sitting

00:17:48.360 there by myself what's gonna happen i'm going to see scream 168. i love it i've never

00:17:56.520 never seen the scream movies i've seen all the saw movies what a weird why would you do that why would

00:18:03.160 you go from i don't like horror to let's watch some of the most gruesome and grotesque mind

00:18:10.600 mess of a movie right so it was at the expense of my mental health i'm not gonna lie on a scale of

00:18:20.360 one to 10 how hot was she we're talking she was my first girlfriend well there we go that's the 0.91

00:18:27.540 answer exactly i watched dirty dancing havana nights that's the power that's the power of

00:18:34.340 hotness you watched all saw and i watched her yep we'll do we'll do anything i also watched roswell

00:18:42.340 but we don't need to talk about that okay oh um next question what do you got so

00:18:47.380 my next question would probably be

00:18:51.940 it's so funny that i mean i do ask these questions though what your favorite like type of

00:18:59.620 like genre of music that's a solid question somebody asked me that they asked me a lot

00:19:05.700 like what like you'd say genre so you'd be like are you pop are you alternative are you country

00:19:11.620 is that what you're looking for there yeah like what do you listen to normally yeah yeah

00:19:15.860 because i'll judge i'll judge a i won't judge a woman but i want to know that we're on the

00:19:22.320 same wavelength like a hundred percent this is where i lose a lot of friendships i'm not gonna

00:19:26.660 lie you ready um my musical taste tends to like well okay if i was gonna pop something in to make

00:19:35.460 me feel good or to sing a bunch of stuff to it'd probably be like an amanda marshall or melissa

00:19:41.240 etheridge or a pink or nani defranco even though she's very angry all the time i still enjoy it

00:19:47.800 those are my kind of go-to's but i pretty much only like music that's going to make me feel good

00:19:55.880 so like anything that has a good energy to you know what i mean and i and i like to badly sing

00:20:02.760 badly and i'm a lyrics driven person so if i like the lyrics if i can associate with even

00:20:11.480 it's not that i never listen to a sad song but i i recognize about myself i'm i'm very

00:20:17.120 you know top 40 i i don't i don't diverge and go try to find new kinds of i'm not that's not me i

00:20:25.220 also don't really care about the music per se because again i can't hear it like i'm not you

00:20:32.280 what i mean i don't care are you using a bass guitar who cares i don't know is this three

00:20:38.040 fourths time i don't even know who cares about the instrument listen to the music i listen for

00:20:44.040 the lyrics do i like the words do they mean something to me can i sing about them but i

00:20:48.600 mean that doesn't mean that they all have to be deep like right treating the waves walking on

00:20:53.800 sunshine put that song on try not to have a small you know that's a good right right there's this

00:20:59.720 there's a song by like will.im it's called be nice it's literally just it's a good song you know i

00:21:07.400 like that kind of somebody gets in my car and puts on like anything i feel like i'm being yelled at

00:21:16.440 i'm just not i'm just not into i'm not into sad like like i love adele

00:21:24.920 yeah exactly but she makes me flat out cry i can't be having that i'm not which i skip her

00:21:30.440 i love adele as a human and i love her music amazing right her her artistry i respect it

00:21:37.480 and she's amazing and talented and i i see that but i will not put on her album and listen to it

00:21:44.920 because i will get depressed what's her last song where he's like i was too young didn't be is it

00:21:53.000 go easy on me is it go easy on me i think i don't know if that's the name yeah i was still a child

00:22:00.200 didn't get the chance i'm right now i feel a little nauseous i can't

00:22:06.680 it's too much adele it's giving me a pit yeah her is if somebody's really into music obviously my

00:22:17.240 you know my future wife here is it's constant right but what i really like it's constant

00:22:23.000 and right now stand by we're in lockdown so she's tapping in the house sorry

00:22:32.040 go eat i'm gonna play a podcast from the tap room um but you know what's funny is like because i

00:22:40.280 watch her passion in it like i love watching her teach like because i watch her passion in it

00:22:45.800 i'm in like i'm like you know and and she has such an authenticity about her that i'll have music

00:22:52.120 she'll be like let's put music on and she she likes music i hate she'll be like i know what

00:22:56.840 i'm gonna put on barry manilow play and i'm like i love barry man you don't like barry manilow i mean

00:23:02.920 am i gonna put barry sorry if he's listening listen am i gonna throw him on maybe copacabana

00:23:10.120 once in a while but it's not it is not my go-to you know what i mean and i'm not necessarily a huge

00:23:19.480 current pop person because i'm old i mean honestly i only know songs from tick tock and like nowadays

00:23:32.280 in today's world back in my day but like now all the popular songs are the tick tock songs

00:23:39.320 so if you go on your phone and you're like hey siri play today's hits yeah she'll play every

00:23:46.200 tick tock song yeah so it's brilliant because that's how the studios know they're gonna make

00:23:52.120 money hell yeah throw it out on tick tock does it become famous great we'll throw some money in it

00:23:56.840 it really is this lovely little testing ground yeah okay so what would be your genre of music

00:24:02.280 i love anything that i could dance to so like what about like that techno you got to wear

00:24:11.440 something fluorescent around your neck you know it's not my go-to but i dig it yeah you're into

00:24:17.320 anything you can like yeah i love um honestly i love live music like i love i love salsa i love

00:24:27.420 merengue um i love bachata like i love doing those dances it's just you can do that see maybe

00:24:34.220 that's my problem dude i cannot i will get you a water but i don't think i don't think like i don't

00:24:43.880 have that i don't have those hips i don't have it's all it's all in the hips and i don't have

00:24:48.680 that soul i don't think um you know we all get things in our lives i just don't think that's it

00:24:54.240 for me i remember going into um downtown way back when uh into a club and it was a bollywood club

00:25:04.160 which i i am very much drawn i love listening to it right and a friend of mine who happens to be

00:25:10.640 very much into it took me and the beat of this music is so different and i walked into this

00:25:19.760 place and i watch people dance and i'm like oh um i can't even think there there's no

00:25:27.840 there's no faking i don't know i'm just gonna be over here do you have do you have rhythm i mean

00:25:37.520 i i maybe i i think i can hear it but there's something about bollywood music i feel like

00:25:43.440 it's different when i watch people either who are just into it or you know that that is their

00:25:49.600 culture that is their they hear it differently it's like almost like a secondary beat they're

00:25:55.240 dancing to and i'm watching them i'm like that's not where i think the beat is i but your room

00:26:00.560 seems to agree with you so i'll say um i uh i love you know i love doing all the the latin dances

00:26:11.300 and stuff and i was at a party for like my friend is dating a colombian girl and her family

00:26:19.480 was throwing a party and like you know the big the the big fish in a little pond or whatever like

00:26:25.180 when i'm with my normal like crew most of them are not hispanic i have a couple of hispanic friends

00:26:33.040 but most of them are not and even some of the hispanic friends like i can outdance them i walk

00:26:40.260 into this house and i'm dancing with them and like i could keep up but watching them i'm like

00:26:48.140 oh my god bro like yeah i got some practicing to do you know like you know the thing about dancing

00:26:56.860 this is interesting and you know a lot of people ask you know some people say to me you know how

00:27:02.220 are you so confident with your opinion i'm like well because i give it all the time it's constant

00:27:06.540 right since i was five so i've had lots of practice with that and i feel very comfortable with that

00:27:13.420 but what i find very true of people who can dance there's a freedom of their soul that i admire

00:27:21.660 right that i would love to have i don't i am super self-conscious well kind of so

00:27:28.220 you know enough self-conscious where i can't let go in that space and i think it's something that

00:27:33.820 i have to work on obviously because there's something about it that even if you're bad

00:27:38.300 but if you feel it you're good you know what i mean like and you just have to let that go and i

00:27:43.980 think that's a cool question to ask a partner if that's what you're into you know what i mean

00:27:48.700 is like do you will you go dancing yes that is exactly it because i another deal breaker for me 0.99

00:27:57.500 is i cannot be with a and this is so stupid but i cannot be with a woman who can't dance 0.98

00:28:06.300 and doesn't like dancing because when i picture my life like living in my house i picture myself 1.00

00:28:12.700 blessed in music throughout the house and dancing throughout the house with my wife

00:28:16.300 and like if we have kids like that's how i picture my life yeah yeah yeah and like going out and

00:28:21.100 having fun there's something sensual and like passionate about it that i enjoy if a if a woman

00:28:28.940 tells me she does not dance or doesn't like to dance i'm questioning the i'm questioning the

00:28:33.820 connection at the end of the day well first of all okay i i still say at the end of the day it's a

00:28:39.260 confidence thing and and it's an interesting it's an interesting thing to notice because again you

00:28:45.500 don't need to be good to like it right but you need to be free you need to not care you know and

00:28:53.340 and everybody you know i i dress the way i dress or i look whatever it is i do in my life there's

00:28:59.100 still places that i care or that i'm very self-aware and it's very hard which is why i

00:29:04.540 think by the way so many people drink heavily and then go dance because they just need to remove

00:29:09.020 those inhibitions right yeah i don't drink so i'm i'm flying like you know pretty pretty straight

00:29:16.140 and narrow through that which can be uncomfortable but i think it's i do think it says a lot about a

00:29:23.420 person absolutely yeah yes i don't uh yeah i think uh i've had more music and ann is dying like we

00:29:31.560 haven't been allowed we haven't bars and like that hasn't really been open yet and she's like when

00:29:37.100 it's open we're gonna go and i'm like oh my god you're a dancer i'm like not like we couldn't be

00:29:45.640 more you know but i'll go i'll go i'll do the typical guy standing i was just about to say

00:29:52.540 still all you got to do is just stand there and let her do her thing anyway

00:29:56.740 so exactly we love that you ready i'm ready favorite word

00:30:05.160 i asked i'm gonna tell a story so you can think about it because you're like just so everybody

00:30:11.340 knows at home i already know obviously tori and i haven't prepped any of this i'm just throwing

00:30:16.360 it out she's throwing it out uh-huh i'll tell you a story before you give me yours uh i saw a

00:30:22.240 for about 10 minutes who said her favorite word, and I'm not lying, was OMG. I got that text message

00:30:33.860 and I looked at it. Wait, this is a true story? This is a flat out true story. I looked at it

00:30:41.220 and I went, well, then that's it. That's it. We're done here. You're done. Wrap it up.

00:30:50.020 we're done and i took a screenshot i said it to my friends i go guys and my friends because they

00:30:55.800 know me and my my friends wouldn't but like they're like oh that's so bad she was cute i'm

00:31:00.600 like yeah but cute's not over playing that does she know that's not a word not only is it if she 0.93

00:31:07.980 said oh my god no i'd be i'm honestly i'm on the same page that's not a fucking word 0.91

00:31:17.060 it's not a word it's three take a minute take a minute pretend you didn't see the text message 0.96

00:31:21.980 take a minute go find a word you don't need to respond right away just pretend like you lost

00:31:31.480 your phone for a second just for a second sorry my house is on fire i don't know something like

00:31:37.160 think about your answers before you're answering like you know what i mean be mindful but i guess

00:31:42.260 look if that was her genuine z and this goes to show you authenticity isn't maybe my first sell

00:31:49.380 because if your authentically favorite word is omg no she's just then authenticity i don't you 0.98

00:31:59.460 know i'm trying not to put negativity out there but that's authentic that's authentically stupid 0.97

00:32:04.900 i can't stand behind it no i can't we never spoke again i i don't even know did you just leave it 0.81

00:32:14.920 there well she lived far like she lived up north somewhere like in ontario north so god knows i

00:32:23.060 don't want to drive i wasn't gonna drive far anyways but uh and so i didn't know but like

00:32:28.220 at that point it was just kind of like we're just gonna roll this out like i i have never really i

00:32:33.040 think i've ever ghosted any like just stop talking because i think that's brutal like i just would

00:32:38.400 answer a little later and a little later and you know just gradually dipped out i don't i gave her

00:32:46.080 my word she probably didn't understand it she didn't like me any more than i liked her i think

00:32:50.720 what's your word well tell me yours first and then i'll tell you mine i feel like we should write it

00:32:56.640 down i we should have played like you know we can try that in another podcast that'd be funny where

00:33:01.360 i'm so down for that favorite word i i feel the judgment but my favorite word is

00:33:17.040 it's my favorite word it's my favorite thing to do like it's got you know like it's got

00:33:24.800 it's close to my heart what about all that it does have power i don't think that's very cancerarian

00:33:33.280 of you i think i think that's more i think that's more scorpio than than anything yeah yeah you're

00:33:42.320 right actually you know what it has but it kind of goes with you because it is it is a very blunt but

00:33:49.760 very passionately driven you're going to use that word one of two ways and both ways are going to

00:33:55.920 have all passion built up in it so it's it's packing it i mean on a deep and meaningful i

00:34:03.360 don't know where i'm putting that corey no no yeah no right but it's fair i think it's my

00:34:09.840 it's my favorite word to use all right in on a daily basis there are better words and i recognize

00:34:18.000 that that there are so many more meaningful deeper like like words that empower but like my

00:34:29.840 word is all right then all right i think you should really rope that into some sort of merch

00:34:37.520 i did actually my favorite word is yeah i have a shirt i have a line of sweatshirts and i play off

00:34:44.640 of my initials tori franco like with a couple of my designs and i have a shirt that says the 0.98

00:34:50.560 fuck like you know like the fuck is good yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah so i like it yeah uh my favorite 0.99

00:34:57.600 word is uh serendipity and it's kind of funny because it sounds so fruity like i mean nothing 1.00

00:35:04.080 could be more gay than my love of the word serendipity tell me you're gay without telling

00:35:08.480 me you're gay you love the word serendipity and it's funny also because we were just talking like

00:35:13.280 i'm not spiritual i don't necessarily it's not like i think about any of that but i find a beauty

00:35:20.620 in the way the word sounds and in the meaning uh whether or not i believe in it i don't know

00:35:27.860 i still find a a beauty in that word and i think that's why i like it so much you know what that

00:35:34.460 word reminds me of that i like and i use a lot uh synchronicity very similar right well yeah i guess

00:35:41.320 that's in that's meaning you're in the sort of same headspace same vibration level right yeah and

00:35:47.500 i think i like that word when i saw the movie serendipity do you remember the movie serendipity

00:35:52.480 with john cusack yeah okay i wrote his number or the girl wrote a number in the book i don't

00:35:58.700 remember how it worked and then she and then she sold the book or something and it was all about

00:36:04.000 the book finding its way back to the person yeah i kind of you know bought into that there's there's

00:36:10.340 a lot of hopeless romantic in my in my you're a cancerian or cancer it's a lot me too though like

00:36:18.700 i love that word and i love that the meaning of it and i love that movie yeah i do and it wasn't

00:36:27.160 like it was a particularly amazing movie but thematically i do like it like i love movies that

00:36:34.640 um that show you different characters and then eventually show how they all interconnect and

00:36:40.880 they all impact each other and make each other move in better ways that's kind of my my wheelhouse

00:36:46.920 that's why oh and i have another question so you're i was just going to say my other question

00:36:50.560 but i'm waiting you're waiting are you sure are you sure your go i just went like my go okay all

00:36:57.760 right all right i'm gonna i'm gonna find one from here because i can't even think off the top of my

00:37:02.900 head i think that um while you're looking i think that uh it's also the idea like some people are

00:37:10.600 like i've never thought about that and that's okay so then you think about it i don't think

00:37:13.760 ever everybody needs to be sitting at home with this list um but i like it when people it's just

00:37:19.980 what comes to their heart right like what comes to your mind it doesn't need to be perfect and

00:37:23.800 it's not forever guess what just because you tell me your favorite movie today doesn't mean you're

00:37:28.740 tied to it to the day you die right you can change your mind my my favorite movie used to be a bronx

00:37:35.140 tale when i was little you would think you would think it would flip because harry potter is more

00:37:41.620 of like childlike in a bronx tip but yeah that's yeah no that's true i have a lot i mean i have a

00:37:47.460 lot of movies that i love but right all right you got a question dogs or cats

00:37:52.260 i get so much trouble i'm gonna go cat because you're going cats all right here's why because

00:38:02.620 walking a dog in ontario is an exercise in insanity in the middle of the winter like i just

00:38:13.600 you know and you need a certain lifestyle for a dog you need a certain you know what i mean

00:38:20.800 Now, I've always been, I always had had cats, always, always, always, but I'll tell you a story about a dog in a second. I've always had cats, but my mom has a British bulldog whom I'm helped take care of. And he got really sick. And I sat, I literally tore out the, the living room. So there was no furniture in it. And we like lived on the floor together for two full weeks while he healed.

00:38:42.000 and so in that i mean there's a bond with a dog but here's my problem if anything happens to this

00:38:49.200 dog tour i'll die like i didn't want that no i don't i don't want that kind of that is too

00:38:57.620 much and i've avoided it my whole life obviously because i've had cats and don't get me wrong i've

00:39:03.660 had cats that are very much like dogs that have almost killed me but there is something about a

00:39:08.640 dog and that connection that I never knew until I took care of him for those two weeks. And I swear

00:39:14.400 to God, if anything happens to this dog, that'll be that. And so I'm not into it. I'd like to

00:39:21.520 protect my heart a little bit. And I'm going to land with cats. But again, if somebody said,

00:39:27.440 I really want to have a dog, it's not like I'd say no. Also, I do have dog limitations.

00:39:33.440 what like how big they should be or yeah see i'm gonna offend so many people but i feel like i

00:39:40.980 should be honest um i i'm not a huge fan of little dogs i think if you're gonna have a little dog

00:39:48.380 you should just have a cat i if i was gonna choose a dog now presley's short but he's a bulldog right

00:39:56.440 the thing is like a 50 pound bowling ball and he doesn't have little dog personality you know what

00:40:00.920 mean like he thinks he's you know ginormous but like i like great danes or weimaraners or huskies

00:40:07.880 or like dogs those but the bigger the dog the shorter the legs no the bigger the

00:40:17.320 listen the fact that i don't i've picked up so much poop in the last two years

00:40:25.000 all right i don't it doesn't even it doesn't phase me anymore i don't mind the picking up

00:40:29.560 i mind the seven hours looking for a spot looking for a what spot like presley spot

00:40:38.280 i don't understand what's going on there that's a that's a pain that's a lot can we just walk out

00:40:44.920 get it done like everybody's like oh because it's all snowed here so presley can't walk in the snow

00:40:50.200 and like he'll sink and it's just horrible and he's like there's no way so yes he's on the

00:40:55.000 sidewalk and trying to go to the bathroom on a on a mound of snow but i'm like when there isn't he

00:41:02.200 takes forever and they're like shovel out your backyard i'm like he's not going there he needs

00:41:08.760 to walk seven hours before he decides like that's not right okay so cat or dog for you for me it's

00:41:16.280 dog hands down what kind of a dog i just say a shih tzu and then then we're gonna have problems

00:41:23.240 no no we had um a maltese poodle but i'm not not that i'm not a fan i love all of god's creations um

00:41:35.960 but

00:41:39.960 i really do like i can't kill bugs i get really upset you have a preference

00:41:45.480 oh i do yeah uh french bulldog 100 french bulldog interesting oh my god it's such

00:41:52.440 personality in in those dogs but i also want a great dane of like eventually in life i i don't

00:41:59.480 like the bigger the dog the shorter their lifespan yeah something like that gives me palpitations

00:42:04.360 you know what i mean but i love how great danes are scared of kittens like their personality i

00:42:10.200 feel like i'm if i was to choose a dog it's like a great dane person it's like he's this big dog

00:42:15.880 but gets scared by little things and i just think it's the funniest thing they're like how elephants

00:42:20.520 are afraid of mice you know i just i love that they're like doofy like the bigger the dog the

00:42:25.800 doofier yeah and i love i love pit bulls um i would definitely i want a pit bull american bulldogs

00:42:34.520 are love them i love dogs like that i'll tell you what i can't watch there's so much of tick

00:42:41.720 tock now that's like guys rescuing dogs from like either the dog meat trade or or rescuing them and

00:42:49.960 finding them homes in you know um wherever in like shelters and stuff like that and and i can't

00:42:58.420 handle it like i'm like i can't if i watch this and there's a sad dog and thank god tiktok it's

00:43:04.140 all about the quick end like you give me a happy ending real quick right right it's just too much

00:43:10.540 for me i can't yeah no i can't watch any of it anymore without feeling like i'm going to you

00:43:17.380 know explode in tears it's just too much blubbering blubbering like a it's true with dogs like because 0.99

00:43:22.540 they're just so cats although i love and they're beautiful and they're assholes they're assholes 0.99

00:43:28.380 they just don't care as much right they're just like man whatever you know what i mean like i'll 0.99

00:43:32.280 be fine we domesticated you when i need you i'll come see you right um which i don't mind

00:43:38.500 but like yeah the dog situation I'll tell you the story though so right um it was in a quite a few

00:43:48.060 relationships ago I bought a house my very first house years and years ago with a partner at the

00:43:56.060 time and we'd been living there for 10 minutes and she says I want a dog and I'm like we had two cats

00:44:02.200 And I'm like, I don't want a dog.

00:44:04.220 I don't want this.

00:44:04.840 It made me so happy.

00:44:06.300 It's all I wanted.

00:44:07.640 Yeah. 1.00

00:44:08.140 Was she hot? 1.00

00:44:10.440 Apparently.

00:44:11.120 And I said, okay, fine.

00:44:13.340 Okay, let's go.

00:44:14.340 And we saw this beautiful puppy who was like a mix.

00:44:16.980 He had a little bit of a Dalmatian, a little bit of a German short-haired pointer.

00:44:19.960 He's a beautiful dog.

00:44:22.040 This is how much it stressed me out.

00:44:23.740 I went to walk him.

00:44:25.520 And as a puppy, he got worms.

00:44:27.300 He got, you know, all the gross things puppies get.

00:44:29.280 And at some point, she's cleaning.

00:44:30.840 I'm going to clean the whole house, wash the floors. Can you take the dog out for a walk?

00:44:34.920 But this was just puppy stage where you're up every 10 minutes, where he's peeing everywhere.

00:44:39.540 It's just, you know, every time we try to train him and he wakes up and you're awake on the

00:44:44.680 whatever. And I take him out and I'm standing on the front porch and I shut the door behind me.

00:44:50.100 And I feel so overwhelmingly anxious. Tori, I'm not lying. A single stream of blood

00:44:56.580 comes right down my nose i had worked myself up into into a if somebody could have tested my

00:45:05.720 blood pressure at that particular moment i would have been on the i gave myself a bleeding nose

00:45:10.300 that's what happened just standing there poor k because i it was just too much i'd never had a

00:45:16.700 dog before by the way we broke up about seven minutes later so maybe the relationship was a

00:45:24.060 problem as well but it was just like oh my god we literally broke up seven minutes later um

00:45:30.260 and i just i don't it was just a lot it was a lot you want to know something that reminds me of like

00:45:38.260 i was in a a relationship with a woman and um i i don't know why this story is even coming up but

00:45:49.880 here we go i saved up 10 grand for a ring an engagement ring and then two minutes after i

00:46:00.680 hit 10 grand in my bank account uh we broke up listen that story could have gone a lot worse

00:46:10.040 right that's right you know it's sad but that's a good story that's thank you that's like divide

00:46:17.320 if i believe the divine intervention it happened right then before you dropped 10 grand yes that's

00:46:23.480 exactly it is that how much you spend on a ring i feel like that's why you kind of went what like

00:46:30.280 i'm i'm ridiculous like a car right like what's the average ring cost it doesn't need to be that

00:46:38.360 much it really doesn't um i'm just saying right like for my next relationship when i get to that

00:46:47.400 point we don't have a discussion because like if i could cut that in half and and spend like five

00:46:54.040 we're cool you know what i'm saying but i just don't i just that much on ju it depends where

00:47:00.920 you are in life, let me say, like you have your, I just feel like this, this has been created by

00:47:08.680 the way, by somebody external to tell you how much you love that person. And in actuality, like I

00:47:16.480 don't, it's just, I, I just never see it. Anybody being authentic. Like I really need a four carat.

00:47:24.900 right that's just love to you know what i mean i'm just like anybody who would say that i'm immediately

00:47:33.280 like red flag i'm not in i'm just i'm not into it right and that's cool she can be into it 0.79

00:47:41.340 but i'm not into it i'm into uh down payment on a house or you know gay women we got we need some 0.53

00:47:49.380 money for babies to have like to even get them yeah i don't know for somebody to say that and 0.60

00:47:55.740 that's their and you know that that's their pinnacle you know like i don't know any girls

00:48:00.980 like that to be honest she wasn't she wasn't like that but at the same time like her grandfather

00:48:08.720 was a jeweler and so she she knew a nice diamond when she saw one so i i wanted it was it was more

00:48:18.680 of a me thing. Like I wanted to like really, she was the only, she was the only woman that I dated

00:48:24.700 that I could foresee marriage with. So I was like, if I'm going to do it, I'm going to go all out,

00:48:29.980 you know? So, but that's great. How long ago was that? That was six years ago. Oh, wow. Yeah.

00:48:41.060 interesting yeah um yeah i think that yeah and i think we get roped into a lot of that i think

00:48:49.820 the older you get the more you can recognize just sort of what's authentic you know what i mean like

00:48:56.100 for you and for them and and what matters and what doesn't matter you know but i think you know

00:49:03.400 it's important well did you just ask that question or did i oh you asked that question i did yeah

00:49:07.460 yeah all right well we have a couple more by the way um if whoever's listening right now what i

00:49:13.460 would love is you to throw a bunch of questions in the comments yeah and then tori and i will

00:49:18.980 come back and do part two and i would love them to be like getting to know you questions

00:49:24.980 that you might think are important yeah you're on a first date with us first date yeah what are

00:49:32.500 your first date questions like you know all of that um this is so funny it's like we're all we

00:49:40.720 all like long walks until we get together with a person nobody nobody likes hiking

00:49:45.960 i'm not a hiker we are like i'm a hiker like like going in you know who was it reese witherspoon

00:49:54.260 into the wild throws the boot if you're that person no not me but i need to know if it's

00:49:59.900 legitimate like i'll be a hiker you know do you want to go for a walk sure because we're getting

00:50:05.580 to know each other but after that i probably not unless we're walking through somewhere

00:50:11.420 after that like again wrap it up no i'm not i'm not into it i'm not i would rather do like

00:50:18.300 adventurous stuff you know yeah yeah hiking purpose right but if there's fun to me hiking's

00:50:26.700 not fun like if we're gonna go kayaking water activities i'm in that's fun you want to go

00:50:36.860 i'm not interested in carrying the boat kayaking a lot is a lot harder than you think it is

00:50:41.180 it's way more work it looks calm they sell calm i went i went to arizona my ex lives in arizona

00:50:50.060 and we kayaked down this river i mean it was a river so i mean there were a little bit of like

00:50:56.220 you have to have current where are you going where there's no current right kayak the lake

00:51:04.780 but i'm telling you it yeah it was work but it was fun work yeah yeah well if you're in the right

00:51:12.060 atmosphere too in the right vibe yeah yeah yeah like i go kayaking and i'd work super hard if

00:51:18.780 you said we're gonna go kayak with orcas i'm in hell yeah i'm 100 in now i'm more likely to jump

00:51:25.900 in the water because i think i should swim with them just a little it kind of scares me a little

00:51:33.900 bit i love it i it would be a real danger zone for me especially if i wasn't in like a restrained

00:51:40.140 kind of boat scenario if my if they're right there i'm definitely touching him 100 i want to

00:51:46.700 touch it yeah 100 absolutely definitely petting him a stingray i'm touching you i'm touching it

00:51:53.020 it's true all of it i there's nothing humpback whales there's this um uh well let me ask you

00:52:00.940 the question actually oh god if you could go somewhere favorite vacation idea spot something

00:52:08.940 what would it be unlimited amounts of money go crazy take that ten thousand dollars you're 1.00

00:52:14.700 You're saving up for that stupid diamond and go. 1.00

00:52:18.880 Where are you going? 1.00

00:52:22.840 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:52:24.680 Barcelona. 1.00

00:52:25.600 I'm going to Santorini, Greece.

00:52:30.540 I'm going.

00:52:31.340 There's a couple of places I want to go to.

00:52:32.860 I'm going to Bora Bora.

00:52:36.280 See, well, wait a minute.

00:52:37.240 Now you're just picking all the places.

00:52:38.900 You get one.

00:52:39.880 Like we're not.

00:52:40.580 It's not a world tour.

00:52:42.280 Well, all right.

00:52:42.860 What vibe?

00:52:43.440 am i going with my significant other sure i don't whatever then we're going to bora bora because 1.00

00:52:49.360 why you want to have one of those little huts that the kardashians live in i want to have sex 1.00

00:52:53.600 in a bungalow yep yep that's a fantasy i want to have sex in a bungalow you can do that here 1.00

00:53:04.400 there's some bungalows down the danforth you can rent it out for the weekend you'll be good to go 0.91

00:53:09.680 um just joking uh my vacation hand like for sure would be free diving with humpback whales off the

00:53:19.440 coast of tonga they have a humpback whale sanctuary that's like out and you go on a

00:53:25.600 boat for two weeks and you get to free dive three times a day no no scuba gear just free diving

00:53:33.120 three times a day with possibility of humpback whales raging from babies to full grown you'd

00:53:41.740 be this far away from them i'm in it costs like four thousand dollars or something to be on that

00:53:48.080 boat that sounds um that sounds pretty tits i'm in i'm in 100 that sounds really awesome i'll give

00:53:55.940 you one more do you have any more questions uh here i have one more for you you have one more

00:54:02.300 for me i do okay do you want me to give it to you now or wait till you come up with one

00:54:07.740 what hobbies are you interested in that's my last one oh i don't understand that question

00:54:14.700 what are you passionate about what lights you up on the inside

00:54:19.420 talking politics i guess like i love movies like people ask my hobbies and i feel like i'm void

00:54:25.660 of of some sort of deeper level like i don't know what a hobby means like painting do i

00:54:31.260 no not really i mean i like to draw like i like to create art stuff i'm not good at it but i like

00:54:37.100 that but i don't really do that very often i love movies but that's not a hobby watching tv is not

00:54:41.980 a hobby although i feel like i engage in a lot the definition of a hobby it's just an activity

00:54:50.220 done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure i did well then tv tv tv tv is my hobby tv and

00:55:00.460 movies uh was my hobby you like reading i should say yes because i'm a teacher when i was a kid

00:55:09.660 i'm gonna say i was a little dyslexic when i was a teenager and i never like i read stuff but if

00:55:15.340 you gave me a big paragraph i'd skip over it because i i think i was i would get mixed up

00:55:20.780 in retrospect i was never diagnosed with anything and as i was a t when i went to university um

00:55:26.700 i took a i don't even know why i took an english fiction course and we read 25 books i don't even

00:55:33.420 know why i took it because i was never good at it i never liked it we read 25 y'all read 25 books

00:55:41.100 in how many would have been a semester so would have been in four months like it felt like we read

00:55:50.220 things from i have never got a better education we i read a bunch of bronte sisters like a whole

00:55:58.140 charlotte emily like the whole spectrum i read dickens i read homer like i read the odyssey and

00:56:04.140 the iliad and i liked it in less than a week well yeah because you're just having now sometimes he

00:56:11.020 would pull sections so you wouldn't read the whole thing sometimes he would say this is the section

00:56:15.180 especially in books like that but i read like um dickens i read mary shelley's frankenstein

00:56:22.460 it was all literature and all of a sudden i loved it yeah i absolutely loved it and then i just

00:56:29.820 loved literature and every because i just i don't think i would pick up a book in my free time

00:56:36.380 on purpose because i would turn on the tv i'm a look i'm a kid of the 80s it the tv was never off

00:56:43.040 right but um and this is going to come to our our next question but my favorite book

00:56:50.160 because i wanted to know your favorite book uh my favorite book is woman on the edge of time by

00:56:54.460 marge piercey and again i was forced to read it in a third year political science course and it

00:57:00.340 talked about this kind of dystopian future in which gender wasn't an issue but it was a bit

00:57:05.740 of a time travel so it kept going back to this woman who was in our time who was battling

00:57:11.280 misogyny and gender roles and all of this violence against women and people from the future would

00:57:18.460 sort of connect with her and you'd have to read the book and they would say listen what you're

00:57:22.280 doing now in this place you have to struggle through it you have to fight through it because

00:57:27.060 if you don't struggle we don't happen oh shit right shit that's deep it is a great book and i

00:57:34.920 just yesterday actually uh because i want her on my podcast she's in her at least 70s maybe early 0.97

00:57:40.960 80s um and just yesterday there was another book that uh actually i started reading i'm like why

00:57:47.460 have i never even looked up other books i love this book and i started picking up she's a poet

00:57:52.500 as well and i picked up another book that sort of takes place in the in her version of the french

00:57:58.260 revolution where she speaks about issues about the beginnings of feminism and the beginnings

00:58:02.940 like the real like simone de beauvoir and she speaks about the right and the left being created

00:58:08.600 and all of these sort of, sort of very dramatic, I know.

00:58:13.480 So I'm very, so that's like, that's like educational art.

00:58:17.340 That's what I like.

00:58:18.280 I think that's what I'm drawn to, right?

00:58:20.660 Like, I liked Robertson Davies, who is Canadian, Graham Swift.

00:58:25.320 I like stories of those interconnections where you can show that my relationship with him,

00:58:31.880 her, him, her, somehow all formulated into where I am right now.

00:58:37.320 I love those stories. 0.92

00:58:38.060 yeah i love that okay hobby what was your hobby oh my god i have so i have so fucking uh yeah

00:58:44.820 it's a hard question for me i'm like a hobbyist i don't even know um i would say i mean i get paid

00:58:50.960 for tarot so i don't know if that's necessarily a hobby anymore but but it's an interest writing

00:58:58.720 oh yeah you sing you write your own music yeah um uh reading reading is definitely a hobby of mine

00:59:07.480 And I would say, I mean, is podcasting considered a hobby?

00:59:12.300 A hundred percent. Absolutely. I think it's like, and I would even say TikTok, like TikTok and

00:59:18.280 podcasting mean they're all different ways to connect and talk through things and have

00:59:24.080 conversation of anything else. Right. So what would your favorite book be? We can end on your

00:59:28.900 favorite book. And then my favorite book, um, it changes because I'm constantly reading, but

00:59:37.480 Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

00:59:42.900 I like a lot of, obviously, spirituality, self-help,

00:59:47.360 and business books, too.

00:59:49.320 I love Gary Vaynerchuk.

00:59:50.340 I have all of Gary Vaynerchuk's books.

00:59:53.920 But it's a book about four agreements that you should make to yourself

00:59:57.140 to live a better life.

01:00:00.120 It's simple.

01:00:01.040 It's quick.

01:00:02.000 It's not woo-woo or anything like that.

01:00:05.520 What was that?

01:00:06.700 It's not what?

01:00:07.480 woo woo so like yeah like in spirituality some people i'm very grounded in my spirituality

01:00:16.100 like even when it comes to tarot i'm still skeptical with things i know i've i've felt

01:00:21.580 things and i've experienced things that like can't be coincidental but at the same time

01:00:28.560 i'm still a healthy skeptic so woo woo is like when somebody's like way out there you know

01:00:36.900 right like it's it's not like you know i don't i don't really delve into that everything is a sign

01:00:42.900 everything is like some sort of external force active okay fair enough all right yeah all right

01:00:49.620 guys so what i need all of the listeners to do right now if you're listening to me on all of

01:00:54.420 those platforms that you just listen come to my youtube page so you can fill out or give me your

01:01:01.700 question you would ask when you're dating why it matters kind of question and tori and i are

01:01:06.340 are going to do part two of this and we're going to go through all of those right i'm so in i'm

01:01:12.740 100 in amazing so we will see you guys next tuesday same bat time same bat station have a

01:01:22.120 good night guys thank you so much tori you've been amazing thank you as always love you love you

01:01:28.420 dismissed

Unlearn16: Class is in Session - January 25, 2022

The One Where I Give Away All My Dating Secrets

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