00:16:33.440i could think this is directed toward me or i could just think that they have absolutely no
00:16:43.120idea of any space around them and now they're going to pass off all right fascinating absolutely
00:16:52.820fascinating nonetheless emancipation proclamation act of 1863 here's how it works oh that was
00:16:59.680really cute i think one guy was dropping off his friend at his house now he's parking his bike
00:17:08.200that's what that was one old guy dropped another old guy off like they were riding bikes together
00:17:14.440and dropped him off and now he's parking his bike going inside that's so nice okay so emancipation
00:17:21.780Proclamation Act of 1863, doesn't free all the slaves. It frees slaves in areas of rebellion,
00:17:30.100which means the South, because the South was rebelling, as long as they fought for the Union.
00:17:36.220Take that in for a second. It freed the slaves in areas of rebellion, as long as the freed slave
00:17:46.600fought for the union equity based on necessity one of lincoln's favorite famous lines and one
00:17:57.600of the lines that i i think is probably one of my most used out of historical text is i'd like to
00:18:05.180have god on my side but i must have kentucky equity based on necessity meaning he didn't
00:18:12.780free all the slaves on the front end. Why? Because there were border states like Maryland and Kentucky
00:18:19.040fighting on the side of the Union. You want proof that that war wasn't initially just designed to
00:18:26.420fight and eradicate slavery? Understand that Maryland and Kentucky, both slave states,
00:18:32.340fought on the side of the union. I digress. Necessity and equity based on necessity.
00:18:42.080So we go back to my baseball days, right? And over the years, I had to prove myself again and again
00:18:49.980and again and again to kids that wanted to charge me at home plate and they accidentally tripped
00:18:55.760over my leg, broke their collarbone. Sometimes karma instantaneous. Again and again and again,
00:19:05.160guys that pitched a little too hard high on the inside just to test my boundaries again and again
00:19:11.140and again. And what I think that did for me, again, subconsciously, because I think if anybody
00:19:18.540had articulated this roadblock, this obstacle, it would have felt insurmountable. Do you know
00:19:25.740know what I mean by that? And I'm going to get to teaching in a second, because I think sometimes
00:19:30.760we tell kids the things they are facing, the things they are up against, and we talk about
00:19:38.340them so much that we give the obstacle more power than the individual to overcome it.
00:19:45.480And that can be true in athletics. That can be true in academics. That can be true with learning
00:19:51.460disabilities or different learning abilities. That can be true in your workplace. That can be
00:19:57.920true with the money that you make. All of these things are ways of saying, there's the obstacle
00:20:03.440dead ahead, whatever that is. And whether it's because of discrimination and oppression, whether
00:20:10.900that's because of stereotype, whether that's an economic barrier, whether that's a socially
00:20:16.120constructed barrier, whatever the reason is, that thing has a lot of power. And if we give that too
00:20:23.420much power, we don't even try to climb it. So as a kid, I wasn't aware. I really wasn't. I was aware
00:20:30.720of the fact that I wanted to play baseball. That's it. I was aware that, and just out of curiosity,
00:20:40.520side note, these onion rings taste funny. I think I should probably stop eating them.
00:20:44.200maybe old Greece but I was aware I wasn't aware that it was this insurmountable obstacle I just0.89
00:20:51.560wanted to play baseball and I had a mom and I had a dad my dad also came to every single baseball0.52
00:20:57.820game now funnily enough every time I finished a game with my dad um he'd see every game he'd sit
00:21:03.840I'd sit in the car he'd drive me home even if my mom went as well he'd always give me Wrigley's
00:21:09.140uh peppermint gum no spearmint what's the green one so i have a very specific memory
00:21:17.300receptor for that kind of smell of gum he usually got me the double pack and all the way home he
00:21:21.780told me all the ways i could have played the game better which hilarious but nonetheless so
00:21:29.300when i was playing baseball all i could think of was being a good baseball player and playing with
00:21:36.420the people i was playing with i didn't think about it being an insurmountable obstacle my mom never
00:21:42.580made me feel that way my dad as hell didn't make me feel that way at all because it was never he
00:21:48.100never compared me to a single other person which was also interesting he never said that guy hit
00:21:52.820better than you or that guy did something you didn't do or whatever you he it was always about
00:21:57.300me you know lower your left shoulder when you're hitting or you pulled your head up off the ball
00:22:03.140or when you threw you didn't put your hips whatever whatever the case may be he made it
00:22:07.940very me specific so when i had these support systems and and subtle support systems that
00:22:14.260didn't highlight the obstacle just highlighted my capacity and their expectation of me guess what
00:22:20.820i just continued to play and then i started thinking about how we have to face and how kids
00:22:28.360today in the classroom, whether it be athletics, because I am a coach, or whether it be in the
00:22:33.640classroom, and how kids face obstacle after obstacle. You can't not, okay? I faced one
00:22:43.540because of my sex, because I was a girl playing baseball. But you can't not face those obstacles.
00:22:51.480But if you put so much power in the obstacle itself, and you make it impenetrable, you make it impossible to overcome, these kids will just put down the bat, put down the ball, and go home.
00:23:08.440Now, I do think when it comes to the world of academics, kids can face bigger obstacles, let's say, than the levels of sexism I faced within baseball.
00:23:18.480but let's not undervalue before we get to the academic limitations our education system has
00:23:27.280historically been racist sexist classist right there are these external factors we call on boys
00:23:37.380more girls fit the system more guys have adhd more so we kick them out of class um if you're working
00:23:43.720a part-time job you get lower marks but yet you still are putting in the same effort nobody's
00:23:48.320gauging all of those differences right so all of those affect a kid before they can even decide
00:23:56.360before they can even see what their math mark would have been right and then you add on the
00:24:03.920other layer the extra obstacle of learning differences because every kid will learn
00:24:09.620differently every kid will have their obstacle and I think what the education system has done
00:24:14.540with the best of intent, but I think to a worse end game is they've gotten really good at
00:24:24.540identifying the obstacle and trying not to make the kid feel bad for having to carry that obstacle
00:24:31.580with them, right? Let's say they find out you're dyslexic. Okay. I think our educational system
00:24:38.260has done a lot better at saying and having tests and pointing out, okay, that's your thing. You
00:24:43.700have that thing he's going out with his friends some more but what they also want to point out
00:24:53.780they have that thing but what they they also want to put out point out is all these different
00:24:59.540modifications we can make to curriculum in the classroom to not make you feel bad about your
00:25:04.580thing about your limitation right we don't want to make you feel bad about dyslexia i'm with them
00:25:10.820i don't want anybody to feel bad about the things that they need to overcome here's my problem
00:25:16.100i don't think a lot of educational systems um and and some of this well most of it has nothing to
00:25:21.940do with the teachers in the classroom has to do is throwing 35 kids in a public school classroom
00:25:25.700and expecting them to teach to 10 different ieps individual education plans i think the problem is
00:25:32.660instead of figuring out ways for them to overcome we figured out ways to modify the curriculum
00:25:40.820So they never have to climb the wall at all.