00:12:14.800there's a reason this was like such a strong episode.0.96
00:12:17.000that moment where where the guy slaps her butt you guys know what i'm talking about yep she0.98
00:12:23.360slaps her butt you think that's it she's gonna take her no i don't think any single moment1.00
00:12:29.200showed how much she had made herself small than that and i was just like oh she's gonna take off0.99
00:12:36.320his head and what does she do nothing she just walks away from it and takes it i'm just like
00:12:41.000it's amazing to me because then you start thinking of all the applications it's it's amazing to me
00:12:46.440Now, she did go through some torment. Let's be honest. She had to kill the love of her life, having said that. It's interesting to me how from something that traumatic or that horrible that happens in your life and how easily then we can, as people, make ourselves, we have a choice, right? And the and shows it. We can make ourselves small. We can make ourselves non-existent.
00:13:11.480we can you know give up any big aspirations of anything because it's too hard and it's too much
00:13:17.900risk and it hurts too much or you know you put your hand in and you go play another you know you
00:13:24.120go play another game and i think that's the powerful part about buffy because it happens
00:13:28.720again and again and again and again so many different ways and i do have to say oh sorry
00:13:34.240well i was just saying the thing i also really enjoy is that we're never going to touch on it
00:13:38.440again just because it's an angel reference now but i love that um chanterelle turned lily then
00:13:43.880anne does continue her growth and storyline in angel as the the leader of a health um a youth
00:13:51.040center and then in season five i believe it's in not fade away which is the very last episode of
00:13:55.280angel she still makes an appearance fighting the good fight and it's all because of what
00:14:00.080buffy did for her and anne and i i just and what buffy did for her and lie to me so i just
00:14:04.340i love that subtle uh just little update on her it was really fun it was really cool i just i think
00:14:11.740but that's the best part about it is the fact that whereas buffy used the name and to be weak
00:14:18.380and small she was able to give and to to lily to be brave and to be the powerful woman lily wanted
00:14:27.640and saw in buffy so buffy kept her powerful name in buffy and she was able to pass on that power to
00:14:33.980to Lily um I think with Dead Men's Party I'm going to agree to disagree with you about their
00:14:42.480fights being very fast I do agree that usually in these seasons they are but I would say the
00:14:48.460fight with Xander um and that sort of um his resentment toward Buffy and her her um romantic
00:14:59.420interest continues from there like it doesn't stop and it actually is something where this is
00:15:06.960the episode I really started like I was like oh Xander like what is going on because like even
00:15:12.560the conversations he has where he's like throwing out a bunch of stuff about Joyce in the middle of
00:15:18.100a party in front of all of her classmates I was like what are we doing like you're not part of
00:15:23.320the family you can be mad at her as a friend but what you're talking about really doesn't concern
00:15:28.340you you're not a white knight here to save all of us and make sure we all feel heard um and
00:15:34.820and in revelations i'm sorry like i am on the i hate xander train at least for season three
00:15:40.900because his his nonsense about angel and buffy and how much he just he will turn on her on a dime if
00:15:47.780it has anything to do with angel in this season and it is so exhausting to the point where then faith0.77
00:15:52.340goes and tries to take out angel because of xander it's just on ridiculous like i just uh and then
00:16:00.640he just but then he's like oh sorry guys i guess i didn't this is also the season where in in the
00:16:06.380entire scooby gang's mind he is the reason that oz murdered someone like there is a point where
00:16:13.340i might be wrong but i believe it's this season where oh it is it's um oh uh it was these yes
00:34:50.940Basically, it's an allegory for an abusive relationship where the monster of this man who clearly doesn't love this woman, it's more about ownership of her, ends up in a supernatural way.
00:35:11.740it's because of the potion it's because it's all that stuff and it's also with buffy um
00:35:18.300the beast mean angel comes back from hell and seems to be feral and she can't decide whether
00:35:25.320or not um he is the one he is the one who is uh beating these people to death and she leaves him0.98
00:35:35.940she she she chains him up so for everybody so angel comes when she stabs him he goes to hell
00:35:42.620he goes to hell for we don't know how long an eternity he somehow gets spit back out we find0.77
00:35:47.240out way later and he comes back incapable of words in like growls and that's about all he has
00:35:55.160and at the same time you have this girl's boyfriend beating the heck out of her and
00:36:01.100killing other people because he's amping himself up. Um, and all the while Buffy's hiding
00:36:07.540what she, cause she thinks Angel's doing it. She's pretty sure he's doing it actually,
00:36:13.540but she's still, I'm going to protect him. I'm going to protect him. Um, I think that's
00:36:19.020interesting. I think it's interesting speaking of an abusive relationship. I mean, we can also
00:36:24.300look at angel and buffy symbolically being that right we isn't it in this episode where she talks
00:36:33.140to the guidance counselor yeah yeah yeah remember because debbie was using the same one yeah and he
00:36:40.180makes the comparison when she's kind of talking about angel he's like he wasn't the person you
00:36:45.000thought he was anymore right and she's saying these things and he's analyzing her without all
00:36:50.880the supernatural, and you're going, without the supernatural, it is an abusive relationship.
00:36:57.460It is. Actually, talking to an angel is more of a perfect abusive relationship allegory than this
00:37:04.180other couple, right? Because the height of his evil and the height of his love
00:37:10.680is equally passionate. And we're going to get to that in a second. It drives him without reason.
00:37:18.020and i think i think that's a really cool comparison because at the end of this all
00:37:23.880when they solve it and they find out it's the guy and he takes she takes care of him
00:37:27.420everybody's like well he was a monster and and she says something to the effect of no he was
00:37:32.600just a man he was just a man who chose this um another line episode yeah and then another line
00:37:41.960that really stuck with me is when debbie's sort of like um uh pacing on the floor and she's like
00:37:47.700he loves me he loves me and willow says i think we broke her and buffy says she was already broken
00:37:52.660there we go yeah because every time he came back to his senses he apologized and she took him back
00:37:58.180even though she's gotten a beaten and i think that was yeah it was it was a really strong
00:38:02.160because you're right buffy and angel had a very at the start had a very abusive relationship if
00:38:08.780you really think about it without the theatricals and the supernatural but here we finally see it
00:38:13.620happening to another couple and I'm sure a lot of the audience took note you know well it's funny
00:38:21.040because when you're sitting outside of it and they're all sitting outside going that relation's
00:38:24.960awful and we're going to come back to Xander for a second because Xander's the one that's like0.98
00:38:28.440angel's garbage angel's garbage he's always been garbage and you're just wondering if he could see0.99
00:38:34.080he was jealous and he had all those things but if he was outside of the relationship when you're not0.99
00:38:38.820drawn into the relationship and you don't feel that build and then that letdown but then that
00:38:44.180build again you're in that trauma with them and you bought in we bought in you know the dude is
00:38:50.500240 years old she's 16. yeah weird it's it does it and i guess now even like older because he was
00:38:59.140in that hell dimension for like a hundred some years yeah well what is he now 500 yeah we don't
00:39:03.680yeah also we're introduced to scott hope i forgot about him um oh yeah oh yeah i like scott
00:39:11.140he's so cute he could have dated xander he could have though he could have dated xander and i think
00:39:18.640that's the most interesting thing is that that character we had for three episodes and it
00:39:23.280basically was like a series of events that basically buffy was unable to date him everything
00:39:31.780always been wrong and she ends up breaking this his heart um you never see him again though also
00:39:40.900i really do think that he was um a great character but he couldn't play the gay character because
00:39:46.420he played a gay character in the original queerest folk he was justin's boyfriend after
00:39:51.540because he was born and raised in toronto toronto yeah oh we got to get him
00:39:56.740him on the podcast um no you're totally right and i think it's interesting because you again
00:40:04.440he was if you could have flipped those things if we if we look at the parallels between that
00:40:11.060broken couple and and buffy and angel he's the one that looked at her at some point and said
00:40:15.640you're broken yeah you're not you're not okay you're broken and it's like him saying that and
00:40:22.420all of a sudden everybody's like oh and he walked away from her like she broke his heart but he's
00:40:27.420like no you're not okay and it's like the rest of us just think oh no but she's just it's because
00:40:33.380he was in a hell dimension and he's allowed also the realization in this episode where um oh sorry
00:40:42.680it wasn't this episode it was in um i think it was revelations where uh when they find out that
00:40:48.960angel is around and the conversation that giles has with buffy because again just feeding into
00:40:56.200the abusive relationship she's so she's so hypnotized by her love for him that giles says
00:41:02.780to her he tortured me with a smile on his face for hours you have no respect for me or what i do
00:41:08.880get out of my way well there we go i was just like wow because like that was painful because
00:41:14.420for all intents and purposes giles is the father figure in in buffy's life and one of the most
00:41:19.880stable figures in her life and will be until season seven where you know things happen
00:41:25.720it's it's really really hard to see that that break between them but then it coming back
00:41:34.900for her birthday um when she's helpless in that episode well no he leaves in like season
00:41:39.900Really fun, very interesting episode was Helpless.
00:41:42.620I mean, probably my least favorite of the season, but still very good.
00:41:47.620Stu, I don't know what's – Stefan's mic is kind of having problems here.
00:42:03.720Stu, I'm going to talk about Homecoming a little bit,
00:42:06.760and uh and then we can yeah he'll come back in in a second so homecoming's just a one-off anyways
00:42:14.000but it's yeah come on slayer fest slayer fest is great i want t-shirts to say slayer fest
00:42:20.360there he is stephen we're just talking about slayer fest we're talking about homecoming as
00:42:25.920a one-off like i want t-shirts and candy i mean these are um still good episodes but they're
00:42:32.600definitely I get what Stu's saying in the sense that there's there's some one-offs like it's a
00:42:37.820bit of a throwback to having these one-offs like Slayer Fest was highly enjoyable but what I liked
00:42:43.380about Slayer Fest was Cordelia's strength you saw her start to transform you saw her kind of going
00:42:50.740you have no idea who the real queen is and you're like oh I like that I like that you know so you
00:42:58.240You saw glimmers of who she was going to become later.
01:06:25.640Because if I make people afraid enough and I point to something that never happened, but I convinced them that did, right, then they will, because people will literally do everything and anything to protect their kids.
01:06:42.260And that episode should be played right now.
01:06:44.840And we should CGI that politician's face right onto that creature.
01:06:50.320And the moniker, the storyline is perfect.
01:06:54.180I'm just waiting for somebody to bend over and ask if they got him.