00:13:37.800that her husband kind of wins the competition
00:13:39.240But Sextus, who is the son of the king, is so overwhelmed by a jealousy and a desire to destroy, essentially by the fact that she is so perfect and she's so modest and she's so honorable that he comes back another night and he sneaks into her bedroom while she is asleep.
00:14:00.300and then he rapes her but specifically he will not take her by force he tries to persuade her0.98
00:14:09.400to allow him or to have sex with him willingly and when she won't he says that he will kill her1.00
00:14:15.640and then kill an enslaved person and um he will place them in the bed next to each other and he1.00
00:14:21.700will tell everybody that he caught her committing adultery with an enslaved person and killed her1.00
00:14:25.860and therefore destroy her honor so either she can live with a destroyed honor or she can die0.99
00:14:30.220with a destroyed honor um and she chooses to allow him to rape her and then the next day she0.99
00:14:35.580tells her family what has happened and then she kills herself saying that um she will not allow0.92
00:14:41.840um any other woman to live using lucretia as an example as a dishonored woman so she kind of0.99
00:14:48.560reclaims her honor and then takes her own life and then a guy who just comes out of nowhere1.00
00:14:53.580called brutus who just happens to be there essentially uh takes her body displays it in
00:14:58.960the roman forum and tells everybody that the king has become a tyrant and this is what's happening
00:15:05.100and like all of these other terrible things have been happening in rome but now even our wives
00:15:10.600aren't safe and so as a result they overthrow the kings and that's the end of the kingdom and the
00:15:18.280beginning of the republic and it's this huge story in roman mythology about themselves and
00:15:24.100in the foundation of the Republic and in what a woman is supposed to be and how a wife is supposed
00:15:29.400to be and in how everything they do is supposed to be about preventing one person from becoming
00:15:34.720too powerful and it's one of those stories that's just completely there's no way of reading it the
00:15:40.660way the Romans tell it that's not horrifying because they always put themselves kind of
00:15:45.200behind the eyes of Sextus who is like creeping about being a rapist and they always consider
00:15:51.960lucretia to be kind of at best she is very heroic for one scene essentially and then brutus takes
00:15:59.680over and kind of takes the story and in the book i basically i'm explicitly compare her to the0.99
00:16:04.240fridged women of comic books she's a woman in the refrigerator in that her purpose is to die1.00
00:16:09.360so that um brutus can save everybody and the republic can start and men can take over properly0.93
00:16:15.780which she is in almost all retellings but there is also a kind of way of looking at her
00:16:21.760as a woman who is part of a lineage of other women in Roman myth
00:16:27.640because this is all Roman myth about themselves, basically.
00:31:04.460The grit, the doubt, the moments nobody sees.
00:31:07.660and everything they learned getting there it's yours for the taking repping find us wherever0.97
00:31:14.660you listen go get it now and we're back yes the sex worker who brings down an entire italian italy0.99
00:31:25.500wide conspiracy the sex worker whistleblower of this murder cult sex orgy organization uh-huh0.99
00:31:35.200Yes, she is. So Hispalia is back to 186 BCE now. And this is like a big thing for the Romans, which is the revelation of the Bacchanalia and that this cult of Bacchus exists in Rome that is single handedly going to bring down the Republic because people are murdering each other and having sex with one another and doing dodgy deals all at the same time.0.95
00:32:01.760And it's this amazing story from Livy that begins with a formerly enslaved sex worker who is Hispalia, who is what's called a freed woman.
00:32:13.840So she lived at least part of her life under slavery.
00:32:17.740And during that time, she was an enslaved sex worker.
00:32:20.360And then she had been freed somehow, either because her mistress died or just emancipated her.
00:32:29.260and um she had continued working as a sex worker by herself and livy calls her yeah livy calls her0.98
00:32:35.860um a celebrated whore which is a great term he like she is uh he's pretty clear that she's not0.95
00:32:43.840like a high-class courtesan like he uses a bad word for her but he basically literally calls her0.98
00:32:48.600a whore and she is working in the nice area of rome and she has a boyfriend who lives next door0.80
00:32:55.900who is a bit younger than her and has not yet reached the age of majority which is 21 in Rome0.99
00:33:01.920so he's 20 and he lives with his mum and his stepdad and they love each other very much and
00:33:07.540it's all very sweet until one day he says oh I can't come around for the next couple of weeks
00:33:12.640because mum says that she has to that she's promised that she'll introduce me to the cult
00:33:19.300of Bacchus and I have to be celibate for 10 days before that so I can't come over because obviously1.00
00:33:23.960all shag so i i'm i just won't be around for a bit but i'll see you when i get back and she0.98
00:33:28.740absolutely loses her mind and barricades him into a room until he promises that he will not join the0.84
00:33:35.320cult of bacchus because she says i've been there i was forcibly initiated it's a terrible place it
00:33:39.860will ruin your honor um they'll probably murder you um and she reveals all this stuff that it's1.00
00:33:45.440a sex cult full of sex people and they're going to um rape him and possibly murder him and they1.00
00:33:52.400love murdering people who are under 20 but at the very worst they're going to introduce him to1.00
00:33:56.780a like a conspiracy that is men engaging in like poisoning one another and like forging wills and
00:34:08.180undermining evidence in court cases which just feel like two very opposed things like one is
00:34:14.040paperwork and the other one is sex murders but okay and he goes no no no my mom would never do
00:34:19.620that to me and goes home and says um okay his failure says something dodgy is going on and it
00:34:25.540turns out that um his mom and stepdad have spent all of his inheritance from his dad they instead
00:34:32.220of telling him they were going to send him to the sex cult in order to have him murdered ideally
00:34:38.700and that's why they were initiating him into the cult so he runs away runs away to his aunt who
00:34:46.860tells her what's going on and his aunt then starts some kind of backroom diplomacy with other women
00:34:53.500in the palatine until news gets to the consul he's like the head man in rome and that there
00:34:59.240is a sex cult happening in rome this is my favorite part it revealed like there's this
00:35:04.840potted history of it where it's like five times a month people are getting together in a grove in
00:35:10.880the middle of rome and doing sex murders and screaming and wailing and there's machinery
00:35:16.600and there's people on fire walking into rivers and everyone like it's a tobacco ritual you know
00:35:24.160it's donna tart and um the consul just goes huh i just thought that was normal noises
00:35:29.720which i just think is very funny um so he gets a spallier in and says what's going on eventually
00:35:36.720she tells him that this is happening that there is like a second society occurring in rome that's
00:35:43.120going to undermine the republic and he promises that he will end it and then kind of then it
00:35:48.240becomes political and he initiates a decree and says that it's now banned in all of italy
00:35:52.640and you're not allowed to get together at night because like night rituals are considered to be
00:35:57.020very bad and men definitely aren't allowed to be involved and it's all very dodgy and we need to0.69
00:36:02.820get back to proper roman religion and proper roman ways and we know that this definitely happened0.89
00:36:06.840because we have the copies of the decree for it would pop up all over italy which say specifically
00:36:13.080like you can't you can't get together in groups of more than however many people and you can't
00:36:17.660worship bacchus in these ways and you have to behave yourself and be good proper romans and
00:36:22.480hispelia then gets given the rights of an actual free woman and some cash which is nice um as a0.95
00:36:29.220result but she um yeah by attempting to save her boyfriend from a from a bad situation she1.00
00:36:37.300inadvertently exposes this massive sex cult which is allegedly happening five times a month in rome
00:36:43.100that everybody is powerfully unaware of and the story is a great exaggeration but it's very very
00:36:50.500fun no one really knows where that version of the story comes from or why even livy includes it
00:36:55.900possibly he just enjoys the soap proper of it like i do but i'm really glad that he did
00:37:00.600there's so many details i love about that story i mean firstly the fact like the fact that his
00:37:07.120belly is like oh no don't do it it's so dangerous and he's like and then the reveal that actually
00:37:11.380oh it is that dangerous in fact his mother is sending him to so he would die
00:37:16.520yeah but actually she's not his nice mom she is because he's like no no no my mom would never
00:37:26.780try to hurt me like that and then it turns out that she's trying to cover up her own crime
00:37:31.180it's very agatha christie it's very agatha christie and he's giving me just this really
00:37:36.620sort of himbo energy of just like oh i'm sure it's fine i'm sure there's nothing mysterious
00:37:40.860going on. And Hispaglia is like, listen. No, you don't. He's like a floppy haired
00:37:47.420eaten boy. And she's like, no, you need to pay attention and do not get involved in this lesson.
00:37:54.900But in just the concept that there is this like five times a month, this like screaming
00:37:59.980murder ritual happens like in the middle of Rome. And the officials are just like,
00:38:04.560we did. Well, I do hear screaming about five times a month, but I just thought that was just normal,
00:38:09.180normal screams i just really thought that was just i mean people do disappear a lot
00:38:14.360but i just really just assume they were on holiday i don't really but then but then and
00:38:20.320you mentioned this too but it's also you really draw a line under in the book like the thing that
00:38:24.260the like men the like consuls were most concerned about they're like wait they're doing illicit
00:38:28.940paperwork they're doing paperwork five times a month like that was the crime that was what they
00:38:34.660were most distressed about yeah that is the crime so the all of the like official decrees and stuff
00:38:42.020and then once it gets to the senate and they're talking about it um they are completely uninterested
00:38:47.360in the sex murder parts um like the fact that men are having sex with men and women are having sex
00:38:52.260with men no interest in the idea that women might be having sex with women but all of that just the
00:38:58.000there's this description of men being dragged away by machinery into caves in a um an imitation of
00:39:06.020the gods snatching men off of the earth and not interested what they're interested in is people
00:39:11.660secretly agreeing to give false testimony in court like that's the the sex murder is fine sure who
00:39:18.440hasn't done a sex murder but yeah false testimony like the vibe is kind of like al capone being
00:39:23.760caught for tax evasion where it's just like well yeah the only actual crime is this yeah yeah
00:39:30.840yeah yeah we couldn't get you for the rest of it but if you were just doing the sex murders we
00:39:37.700would probably not worry so much but we really do have to it's worth noting that the first law that
00:39:42.920they ever wrote down in the 12 tables as far as we can tell is um if you are called to court you
00:39:49.140have to come and you have to tell the truth like the thing romans love court so much and it's very
00:39:56.580important to them like law courts don't you can't mess with law courts you can mess with virtually
00:40:01.820anything else but law courts they will get very pearl clutchy about and this is part of what's
00:40:06.820interesting about about your book and just sort of the wide variety of people you're talking about
00:40:11.380like to me like again a person who does not think about the roman empire much at all ever how often
00:40:16.860to think about tutor england another question but um i like when i think about the roman empire like
00:40:23.280when that that meme was going around about it it's like i don't you know like marcus aurelius
00:40:28.140and like the stoics and i'm just like of course i don't think about that that's just boring like
00:40:32.160who cares but your book is just being like but what about all of these interesting things that
00:40:37.560actually were happening yeah because there's so much more interesting things than marcus aurelius
00:40:43.280writing affirmations to himself this is what i find that the fact that marcus aurelius is so
00:40:47.700popular really really funny because um it's now kind of like publicized by a certain kind of
00:40:53.840manosphere person as being like oh yeah that you know strong marcus aurelius being strong
00:40:59.740but the they're written as affirmations to him like everything's going to be okay marcus we can
00:41:06.800do this like you're going to be all right it's like today i'm not going to let people upset me
00:41:13.000um and they're just they're not really like i am a great strong man they are i feel scared but
00:41:19.460everything's gonna be okay that whole thing mystifies me i'm it's not a sphere that i'm
00:41:25.300involved with um but just i work i work for the for the public library here and there's suddenly
00:41:30.940like so many holds on like these books about stoicism and marcus aurelius and i'm like what
00:41:36.780is happening like why are and it's he's it's really this is joe rogan's fear is got really
00:41:45.820into stoicism and there's this guy called ryan holliday you've probably come across he writes
00:41:49.920all these books about yeah um about how if you don't have feelings then it's okay um and yeah
00:41:56.700no it's really linked to that whole kind of manosphere reclaiming your masculinity in a
00:42:02.700world of feminism kind of thing it's very sad really it genuinely is but um i'm actually right
00:42:09.480got right thing tomorrow about this um for uh about how like when all of these men are saying
00:42:16.300i think about the roman empire and then their girlfriends say why why what are you thinking
00:42:20.540about they all say marcus aurelius or they conquered so much stuff with a um third thing
00:42:28.180which is it's the foundation of our civilization and you're like all right stoicism and conquering
00:42:32.020should not be the foundation of what you think civilization is um that is bad um and that is like
00:42:39.980weird amount of sphere stuff i blame joe rogan for all of it joe rogan the joe rogan connection
00:42:45.620i did not realize but that is sort of like where it's coming from that makes total sense to me
00:42:50.500but that's where yeah well and the way that the romans and this is where i really love this book
00:42:55.380because it's people be like the roman empire and it's like you said earlier in this podcast it's
00:42:59.780like it's not just like these 10 guys sitting around being stoic together it's like a whole
00:43:05.300bunch of people from a whole bunch of cultures like over a whole bunch of years like living
00:43:10.220all kinds of different lives it's not just that all the time yeah it's not just the point where
00:43:16.420like where like people from one city in Italy were expanding outwards and conquering and
00:43:21.660conquering i think people think of like julius caesar on a horse like fighting gauls and like
00:43:28.360european men on chariots whatever fighting barbarians but once they did that those quote
00:43:37.320unquote barbarians were then folded into the roman empire and in 227 every single person in the
00:43:44.240empire was given roman citizenship which makes every african every asian person everybody in
00:43:50.660Syria and Libya and Turkey and Greece and like all the way up to Hungary and France and Belgium
00:43:58.740and you know outside of Western Europe huge amounts of people are Roman in both name and
00:44:05.720practice but they will never be enfolded in the modern conception of Roman and like this is why
00:44:11.460I included so many Syrian women in the book because Syrian women are never included in the1.00
00:44:17.680idea of roman but they are they rule rome for like 50 years and there are millions of women
00:44:25.440in and and men all over the arab world and the african world who are roman and who live roman
00:44:32.200lives and fight for and live for the emperor and are consuls and and empresses and they should be
00:44:41.160included under that umbrella of the roman empire not just marcus aurelius twirling around in a
00:44:48.080chair saying i'm so good at not having feelings well and also what i think of too when i previously
00:44:56.500when i thought about the roman empire is just kind of like i claudius just like patrick stewart
00:45:00.160in a cardboard room yeah wearing a toga yeah no extras no money for extra shoebox sets but um
00:45:10.060yeah so it's it's such a that's such an important thing I think to in this moment we're in you know
00:45:16.340what congratulations your book is coming out when like everybody's talking about the Roman Empire
00:45:19.920timing is great I could not have engineered this better like thinking about the Roman Empire well
00:45:28.100here's another book yeah here's a way to think about it in a more interesting way than and a
00:45:33.940way that will hopefully engage more people that also find conquering and stoicism boring well
00:45:40.040Well, OK, so speaking of like the expanse of the Roman Empire and also speaking of not
00:45:44.920conquering, but just like regular people, can you talk about the husband and wife who
00:45:48.620were in Wales, I think, or were they in England?
00:45:52.060Yeah, Solpica Lepidina and her husband, Serialis, they are Bavarian.
00:45:57.320So they're from Germany, basically a kind of Germany-Netherlands border, where he is
00:46:02.420the leader of an auxiliary cohort who go to Britain.
00:46:06.260And they live on the very northern tip of the Roman Empire, near and off the Hadrian's Wall, which is in northern Britain, at a fort which is called Vindolanda.
00:46:18.320and we know about them because in the 1970s uncovered were lots and lots of bureaucratic
00:46:24.860documents and personal letters that were written on slivers of uh slivers of wood almost like
00:46:33.020postcard thin wood that's folded um and most famously is one from a woman called claudia
00:46:40.760who writes to solpica and says i'm having a birthday party and i would really really like
00:46:47.880it if you would come um and invites her to the birthday party she's having at brigo which is a
00:46:53.340nearby fort and from that and from various other letters for between the two women
00:46:58.920is revealed this entire domestic situation whereby the two leaders um of the forts and
00:47:07.780their wives and their children are living in the fort happily domestically going backwards and
00:47:15.360forwards having parties celebrating new year together celebrating saturnalia together there
00:47:21.260are like writing exercises which come out um where it's clear that a child is being taught
00:47:28.300to write the aeneid out and then somebody has written that their writing is lazy um so there's
00:47:34.720also tutors there the letters which like the personal letters are written in two hands so
00:47:41.400one is a kind of very professional neat hand and then what happens is you write the kind of
00:47:46.540proper letter and then you fold them over and then claudia herself has written kind of words
00:47:53.360of endearment on the front so she has written in a very bad handwriting that suggests she's not
00:47:57.620very used to it like to my like my most beloved sister severina so there's also enslaved people
00:48:06.140probably or freed people who are acting as secretaries for them and through the whole
00:48:12.040the archaeology of Vindolanda and other northern forts in kind of Germany and the Netherlands and
00:48:18.780Belgium and the like you see them as spaces that are not kind of hard spartan big man areas of
00:48:27.460deprivation and misery like I think they're kind of imagined and that they're very often portrayed
00:48:32.840as like if you've seen what's that Channing Tatum film about the last eagle um like they're always
00:48:38.360portrayed as like really spartan places they're miserable and have nothing in them but we have
00:48:44.400for example a list of everything that they brought with them that Ciri Alice and his wife brought
00:48:49.700with them which includes egg cups and bronze cups and bronze plates like cushions and curtains which
00:48:58.620are dyed scarlet and purple which is expensive in the roman empire like you have to spend money
00:49:05.420so and they have all of these leather shoes that come out as well hundreds of shoes that come out
00:49:11.280of bendolanda which are women's shoes they're beautiful shoes they are children's shoes all
00:49:15.980over not just in the quarters of the the elite but also in the general barracks there are women
00:49:23.000living there because although technically Roman soldiers were not allowed to marry most places
00:49:29.220are not filled with Roman soldiers they're filled with auxiliaries who are taken from places that
00:49:33.980the Romans had conquered and are kind of conscripted but not officially citizens and so they totally
00:49:39.540are allowed to marry or they were married before and they brought their wife with them which is
00:49:43.100what Cerealis did and so there are tons of women and children in these spaces and they are really0.92
00:49:50.060domestic spaces and they're actually quite soft spaces at least in part with cushions and0.58
00:49:56.080luxurious items um and there are places where you can also have parties and yeah have a little
00:50:02.880birthday party and invite your friends that there's something so genuine like that the birthday
00:50:09.060party invitation it reminds me i mean that and then like julia felix being like space for rent
00:50:13.800where it's just like people people have always just been people like i i often still think about
00:50:19.760people in the past as being like they are in films being very sort of formal and speaking
00:50:24.180with this sort of British accent and just being like we are from we are from the oldie times but
00:50:29.660it's like no people are just people yeah and that's always like whenever I find a story about
00:50:35.680somebody falling over and that's always the most endearing thing to me because I fall over all the
00:50:40.000time and like something that I like to think about a lot is people in the past like stubbing their
00:50:44.860toes on on tables and or banging their elbows on doors or trying to fold a curtain and getting
00:50:52.460tangled up in it like just there because they are people and they feel basically the same that we
00:50:58.280feel which is like grumpy most of the time and tired very often and and if you're even if you're
00:51:05.600talking about especially when you're talking about royals and if you're talking about like
00:51:09.540roman royals most of the time they're wearing two meters of wool and so they're probably0.96
00:51:13.580uncomfortable and if you read medical texts like they don't have antibiotics or pain killers they're
00:51:18.740doing things like rubbing puppy brain in their eye um like they're probably just uncomfortable
00:51:23.600all the time and like yeah the being people and being embodied people part of the past is the
00:51:31.560part that I love the most so this idea of like Claudia writing that she really wants her to come
00:51:37.800and it will make her really happy if she can come to her birthday party and then her getting in a0.79
00:51:41.980little carriage and riding over there in order to have whatever version of roman birthday cake there
00:51:47.680was is just so lovely to me but also speaking of roman people and happenings in in the uk area so
00:51:57.700you have a chapter where you talk about um do you say bodica or budica budica budica so you talk
00:52:05.140about her you know fairly well known i have done an episode about her on this podcast but then you
00:52:10.180contrast her you sort of put in parallel this other queen can you talk about i i keep asking
00:52:15.360you i'm like what was the names and here's the thing i can't pronounce any of the names and
00:52:19.400secondly it's all the same name every story you have it's like well the mother had this name and
00:52:24.520she had this name and her sister had the same name and then he married it's just like the names are
00:52:28.260like i can't i can't yeah no if in doubt just assume they're called julia because they probably
00:52:34.820they're either julia or claudius this one is not because she is uh british and she is from
00:52:40.820yorkshire so she's called carter mandua she exists at the same time as buddhika carter
00:52:45.800mandua and everybody knows the story of buddhika kind of the uprising and leading an army against
00:52:50.420the romans and burning down london and st albans and all the other places but at the exact same
00:52:56.720time carter mandua was a client queen who lives in yorkshire so i'm kind of across the top of
00:53:03.820England she rules a group called the Brigantes which is probably the biggest kingdom such as it
00:53:10.500is in England at the time and she immediately capitulates to the Romans when they turn up0.83
00:53:15.600when Claudius turns up she's just like yep sure fine okay can't fight you not interested
00:53:20.960and agrees perfectly like reasonably that she will continue as she is and in exchange she will
00:53:31.680basically keep everybody paying roman taxes so you pay tribute to the romans and you pay whatever tax
00:53:37.960um and hope that the romans leave you alone which they do um and then she endears herself to them
00:53:45.080completely she really like collaborates with the romans she's like a proper quizling um from the
00:53:51.800kind of rebel perspective because the the pre-boudicca big rebel is called caraticus
00:53:59.220and he fights claudius and then continues fighting for like a decade and a half afterwards
00:54:05.140until he loses a big battle in wales and flees to yorkshire he turns up on carter mandua's doorstep
00:54:13.340and she immediately turns him over to the romans like she takes him in locks him in a room and
00:54:19.620immediately sends people down to uh colchester where the romans are and says uh i've got him
00:54:26.000do you want to come and get him and they do they take him back to rome they parade him as a kind
00:54:30.880of great hero that they have conquered and as a result carter mandua becomes like their favorite
00:54:35.720client queen in britain and she gets given all kinds of privileges she gets reductions in what
00:54:40.920she has to pay she gets left alone almost completely because now she has proved her
00:54:46.000total devotion to the roman empire like if you have proven that hard that you are willing to0.74
00:54:51.640do anything for them then they will leave you to do whatever you want they come and rescue her when
00:54:56.460her husband rebels against her because her husband is very unhappy about the fact that she has turned
00:55:01.200in keraticus and he goes off to become the new leader of the rebellion essentially and they
00:55:06.960rescue her whenever he comes and fights her she is very silent during the buddhika uprising buddhika
00:55:13.460uprising is in 60 only lasts about a year and she is just extremely quiet during the whole thing
00:55:18.620like had she joined in then it would have been really problematic for the romans because they
00:55:23.300she would have been coming down from the north and with budica from the south it would have been a
00:55:26.840real like actually might have forced the romans out and that's an alternate history there that
00:55:32.140somebody can write but she absolutely did not she stayed where she was and eventually she only lost
00:55:38.080her throne because um the romans couldn't fight her husband basically and so there because there
00:55:44.860was a um there was the year of the four emperors going on and they didn't have the strength to do
00:55:49.300it so they just rescue her and move her to rome um in order to save her life and then because they
00:55:57.000no longer have a client king or a client ruler in the brigantes area as soon as there is stability
00:56:03.700again in britain they crush it um and uh destroy it as a an independent kingdom and cover it um
00:56:11.600absolutely blanket it in roman forts and that is the area where that became kind of the top of the
00:56:16.440roman empire um and it like along there is where hadrian's wall is so she managed to hold off the
00:56:23.580romans by collaborating and kind of protecting her kingdom from the the kind of the brutal reality of0.55
00:56:31.060what roman invasion was which is that they would come through burn down all your houses and enslave0.99
00:56:35.760anybody that they could see within a 10 mile radius and then put them to work somewhere1.00
00:56:40.300for a really long time. It's like not until the end of the sixties. So she holds them off for like
00:56:46.48020 years and then a man comes along and ruins everything. Typical, typical. That's the tea.
00:56:54.220So your book is, so A Room of One's Own. First of all, congratulations on that title. That's a great
00:56:59.840title. Thank you. I have to give full credit to my friend Fiona for that one, but it's fantastic.
00:57:06.380It's great. And it really sets the tone because the book is fun and funny and different from
00:57:11.840other history books. And I really want to emphasize that to the listeners who maybe
00:57:15.020haven't read your stuff before. It's similar to what I do when I'm doing a biography episode of
00:57:20.660my podcast. I'm giving the facts, but I'm also making silly jokes. And that's what your book
00:57:25.720is like as well. Yeah, because I think that history is really funny. That's the reason that
00:57:30.180i like it so i just want other people to realize that history is not just a kind of dry litany of
00:57:35.860things that happened and dates that it is actually history is people and if you like people or even
00:57:42.160think that people are slightly funny i think if you like watching youtube vlogs then you should
00:57:46.640like history because it's just youtube vlogs in the past like it's just and there's also a lot of
00:57:53.700really fun scandal in your book there's a lot of oh my gosh there's like we talked about the
00:57:59.820the with the bacchanalia cult and stuff but there's other there's other sexy scandals as
00:58:04.660well in this book so it's funny and it's also sexy so you know everyone should read it but
00:58:10.120can you let everybody know who are now fans of you if they weren't already where they can hear
00:58:15.600you on your own podcast and where they can find you on social media and things
00:58:20.500so um you can find everything at emma southern.com um you can listen to my podcast which is called
00:58:27.820history is sexy because history is sexy unless your browser or workplace internet blocks the
00:58:34.900word sexy because apparently it sometimes does in which case just go to emma southern.com
00:58:38.320and i am nuclear teeth on instagram so you can find me in those places what can you share
01:01:42.660So again, just the title is memorable, but I'll say it again. A Rome of One's Own by Emma Southern
01:01:48.680is available now in North America. In the UK, it's been out for a few months under the title,
01:01:53.520A History of the Roman Empire in 21 Women. And you can find all the links to Emma's everything,
01:01:58.900her podcast, her social media, links to buy the book and stuff is all at emmasouthern.com.
01:02:04.420And, you know, I'm going to tell you about a thing that I like to tell you about every so often, which is our brand partner, Common Era Jewelry, which really connects with today's episode, actually, because this is a 100% woman-owned business using 100% recycled gold, and they make jewelry, fine jewelry, inspired by women from the classical world.
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01:03:04.520no waste. Like when you order something, they like, I don't know what the word is. They like
01:03:07.600smelt it for you right away. So I chose to work with this brand partner because everything she's
01:03:14.920doing is just vibes with me completely. Pieces are also made entirely in New York City. Everyone
01:03:19.660involved has healthcare and good wages. Even the packaging is made by a little family-owned
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01:03:38.840from Greek mythology, the muses. I have a necklace with Medusa on it, which like so far when I'm
01:03:44.780wearing it. I have not yet turned men into stone, but one day maybe I will. I'm not making that
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