00:32:51.140um when you were looking through the reddit posts and uh did this research uh
00:32:58.160no i think before before i talk about that i want to jump off something you said at the beginning
00:33:04.000there and i know that you mentioned here in the in the intro but i really want to make sure that i
00:33:08.700shout out amelia sandow who is the other the lead author on this paper um and who is a young woman
00:33:16.860who is a teacher who is doing really excellent master's work at the University of Toronto right
00:33:22.920now and actually when we started this project was an undergraduate summer research student
00:33:28.500who has done really really excellent work and I really want to shout her out she's traveling right
00:33:34.840now or she would have been able to join us but she I mean she did really really excellent work
00:33:41.680here and i don't want to be uh misconstrued as sort of making myself the face of this work that
00:33:48.240we really did together no we wanted amelia to be here folks but she's traveling unfortunately
00:33:53.920so but yeah you did incredible work here yes i absolutely thank you that could not i couldn't
00:34:00.880have articulated it better myself um and i mean an important thing to you know sort of give credit
00:34:07.600where it's due and not to be the the shiny-headed white guy taking the credit for this work um
00:34:16.000i think the thing honestly the thing as we went through this um and i mean we were sort of talking
00:34:22.960before the recording about how there's a lot of things that i do and because of what you cover
00:34:27.760that you do where we go uh-huh yeah that's a thing um or we go oh that's really interesting
00:34:33.040but in a really sort of dark kind of a way so there wasn't anything that like really surprised
00:34:38.640me um except that we had teachers talking about how their male students were making like deeply
00:34:48.160sexualized comments to their faces right so you had young women teachers so teachers generally
00:34:56.960when they were talking about this is sort of young women identified teachers in like sort
00:35:01.600sort of their mid 20s teaching boys in the like 14 to 17, 18 range where those boys were saying0.99
00:35:11.820like some creepy shit to like deeply sexualized stuff. And there's, I mean, there's at least one0.90
00:35:20.260example in the paper, but this is an occasion where Amelia and I in discussion were like,
00:35:27.560which one of these is a good example without being like over the top I mean it is an academic
00:35:35.800paper after all right like do you really want to like throw the gnarliest stuff at people
00:35:41.360um but that that I found probably most most disturbing in it because like I was young0.86
00:35:50.900once i can't imagine myself or anybody i knew saying this kind of shit to a teacher yeah right0.80
00:36:00.260it's really boggling to me and that i mean that says a lot of things about like the content0.98
00:36:07.080they're consuming and what they think that means and perhaps how that's reinforced in the home we
00:36:12.180definitely saw that have seen that in some of our data because we we did this study and it was some
00:36:17.320groundwork for some really interesting work that I got to do with some colleagues in New Zealand
00:36:20.980and then we're just finishing up two studies with Canadian teachers all the teachers are saying the
00:36:26.540same thing this is happening in class this is the kind of stuff that's happening to me um um there's
00:36:32.780a uh there was just a story on CBC that I was quoted in um and then the text version they have
00:36:39.900some great quotes from a teacher in Nova Scotia that the the wonderful reporter on that talked to
00:36:45.040who has some, I mean, that story leads with two good examples of like real stuff that happened
00:36:49.420to her. And so I think that that is really something. And you brought up something really,
00:36:54.600really, really, really important about all of this, about the way that we see and understand
00:36:59.920teachers culturally. And this is not just Canada, certainly in the United States, in a lot of other
00:37:06.500places in the world, where we see teaching as care work. And teaching as when we see teaching
00:37:12.360as care work and people go yeah that makes sense but when we see teaching as care work it does
00:37:15.800something really really important to it socially uh and so something that that Amelia brought to
00:37:21.640this as a teacher herself and and studying at OISE at U of T um that teaching is not
00:37:28.600professionalized in the way that we think it is across the country so it is a sort of a certified
00:37:33.880profession in Ontario but not in every province in Canada right and this and we're talking about
00:37:39.720canada yeah and so so when we when we are unwilling to recognize teaching as a profession in the same
00:37:47.240way that we might recognize other professions uh and we see it as care work it allows us to devalue
00:37:53.160it in really important ways and and you highlighted there's a section in the paper where we talk about
00:37:57.720sort of the history of teaching as care work and why it's this way and why historically more
00:38:02.600administrators have remained men even though the the vast majority of teachers have been women
00:38:07.800um and why in the teaching context we might say oh well they're qualified to do this but they're
00:38:14.200probably not qualified to do this or um it's okay for me to send my kid there all day every day but
00:38:21.160i also want to control what that teacher is communicating to them because i don't think that
00:38:25.320they're in the right position to be able to do that even though they have at the bare minimum
00:38:30.680now six years of education post-secondary education in order to do that um and so it lumps it into the
00:38:36.680same ways that we uh might talk about nursing or um allied health professions for example so
00:38:44.840uh in particular i'm thinking about psws uh dsw's developmental support workers um
00:38:52.760even uh recreation therapists you know sort of these allied health professions that are mostly0.97
00:38:58.600done by women and paid for the skill set and the kinds of jobs they have to do in a way that1.00
00:39:05.320doesn't really compensate them right like these are people that are keeping other people alive0.63
00:39:11.000and it is a race to the bottom for how much we pay them um and so i mean teaching i think through
00:39:19.240really powerful collective action in canada and in ontario is a great example and a lot of people
00:39:25.080want to lament sort of the the what teachers make and the teachers union in ontario but it's a
00:39:31.480really powerful example of how collective action can both professionalize and advance a profession
00:39:38.040that's seen as care work and is done mostly by women and so teachers in ontario have a really
00:39:43.560powerful lobby and a lot of people are afraid of that for a variety of reasons that this podcast
00:39:49.000is not about um but it it but it is something it's something really important because i mean
00:39:56.280yeah teachers are carers but they're also the people who for the vast majority of us uh bring
00:40:02.760us up in really important ways as we grow up and so it's it's complicated and to see this kind of
00:40:09.240stuff happen is like it's really disheartening and i think it's a little bit scary and the
00:40:15.000teachers are saying it's scary yeah well it's sort of also i think that um school is the first um
00:40:22.680you know community outside the home that you know young people really like significantly0.99
00:40:29.480engage in and build and so to see that that's how the female sort of authority figures are0.87
00:40:36.760being treated in that setting um carries lessons and warnings for broader society within it as
00:40:43.720these boys continue to grow up and continue to internalize the messaging that they're currently
00:40:48.200internalizing um you know and it struck me as i was reading the paper that the teachers don't
00:40:53.800really seem to know and i can't blame them for this because i don't know but they they don't
00:40:59.080really seem to know what to do about this there were a number of different approaches that were
00:41:03.720explored um some better than others like the you know that the boys will be boys line that one's0.93
00:41:09.480stuffed ass but no uh no consensus about what definitively works emerged um there was a lot of0.76
00:41:17.560like very differing opinions about how to handle this um i i wanted to ask you like on the one hand0.97
00:41:25.000what you think we need to do to help educators navigate this environment but also how those
00:41:31.720lessons can be applied to broader society and the sort of warnings and learnings that they carry for
00:41:38.360all of us so big big questions uh and the very the very first thing i'll do which is
00:41:47.000like the most academic thing which is to go like solutions are very complex and i don't have
00:41:54.440i don't have the answer um we know there are some things that that don't work and we know there are
00:42:00.520some things that maybe can help but i you know i don't have the the answer um the very first thing
00:42:07.720that we need to do socially and like Canada-wide within individual schools, school boards globally
00:42:17.160is acknowledge that this is a thing. This is a thing that's happening and evidence is mounting.
00:42:22.680There's some out of Australia. There's some out of the UK. It's coming in the US. There's
00:42:27.960like work happening here. We've got a couple of studies. We're hoping to have some reports
00:42:32.040out by the end of the summer on um but like it's it's happening and we have to acknowledge the fact
00:42:39.560that this is happening and also that it's bad yeah and i can't i cannot for the life of me having read
00:42:47.800you know thousands of pages of content in this area think of a convincing argument that it's
00:42:56.520that it's okay that any of this is happening right like it's it's it's happening and it's bad
00:43:02.180and we can't do anything until we acknowledge that and i said early boys argument um that0.98
00:43:07.840solutions out we're not going to do the boys that is the biggest crock of shit it's i can't even0.99
00:43:16.260boys will be that is a thing that dudes that want to do sexual violence say right like that's0.99
00:43:23.220it's such a bullshit it's such a bullshit excuse right it's the same thing that people say when0.99
00:43:31.140they want to defend sexual predators it's like like oh well it's too hard for boys to learn about1.00
00:43:38.100consent no it's not no it's that's stupid stupid you can't tell us that while you're also telling1.00
00:43:45.220us that men are like better at everything than women and then tell us that they're not smart1.00
00:43:49.140enough to learn consent but they are smarter than us and deserve to be paid more and deserve to be1.00
00:43:53.460promoted more and you know they but they're very stupid when it comes to this one thing it's just1.00
00:43:57.540their it's their yeah well no they're just not they're just not wired that way it's their it's1.00
00:44:02.180their it's their primeval needs get out of here that's and that's so insulting to men frankly
00:44:08.580like right it's so it is so um reductionist in the way that we understand like really if you
00:44:17.540boil it down i mean you have this right it's so reductionist in the way that we even understand
00:44:21.140the like cognitive capacity of men so don't tell me that men are better at everything but they
00:44:25.460don't understand yes or no yeah like come on oh well like oh i don't i don't really understand
00:44:32.260how consent works yeah you do yeah yeah you do because if somebody was doing those things to you
00:44:39.300you would know pretty quick what consent means right and so like all of this boys will be boys0.88
00:44:45.140all of this is just like a bullshit excuse for we don't want to do the work0.76
00:44:49.300yeah or i'm fine with this so if as a teacher teachers if you're listening and you go to your0.95
00:44:56.020administrator because some of this is happening in your class and they're like oh i don't know
00:44:59.860it's just boys will be boys that's an excuse it means one of two things one i don't want to help0.92
00:45:04.420you and i don't want to do the work because i'm lazy as shit or two i agree with them and i think0.54
00:45:09.540they should be able to do these weird creepy things to you both of those answers are wrong0.71
00:45:14.100and that person shouldn't have their job anymore that's it it's that simple so that part of it
00:45:18.820is that simple that's not the question you asked me but you got me all fired up yeah no i got
00:45:23.460fired up too but um because i can't look it doesn't work that's the solution that does that doesn't
00:45:30.580work well it's not even a solution right like i think it gives it too much credit to be like this
00:45:34.740is a solution no it's not yeah um so the first thing we have to do is to acknowledge that this
00:45:40.580is a thing and that it's bad. And then we have to start doing something about it. And I want to be
00:45:46.340really clear about what I say next. I am not pointing my finger at parents to say that,
00:45:51.460parents, this is your fault. But parents have a really important role to play here.
00:45:57.300And so parents, you have to be willing to understand what kind of content your children
00:46:03.700are consuming, whether they are 11. If you're like, my 11-year-old's not getting this stuff,
00:46:07.860we have evidence in this study that says yeah 11 year olds are getting this content and we're not
00:46:13.540the only study that's saying that um so like you have to be willing to understand or know what your
00:46:20.580kids are engaging with and you have to be willing to talk to them about it and you have to be willing
00:46:24.260to tell them that it's bad when it's bad right so like work out to get a hard body or make your bed
00:46:30.500clean your room okay yeah okay but also sexual violence not okay right like these are really
00:46:37.460simple things that we need to do as parents and the reason i'm not being like it's parents fault
00:46:42.260because it's not the internet is really complicated understanding our own understand the digital
00:46:48.340digital literacy of what's happening in social media platforms etc it's really really really
00:46:52.980complicated so parents you need to spend some time learning about that stuff so that you can
00:46:58.660help your kids navigate it because i think that really is few and far between the people that are
00:47:05.380like oh i'm actually fine with my kid says like sexualized and derogatory things to their teacher
00:47:12.260right i don't think there's actually a lot of people out there that if you you like did a poll
00:47:16.180on the street and we're like how do you feel about that they'd be like no that's fine right
00:47:20.180and so like let's let's get to it a little bit here as parents that digital literacy piece though
00:47:25.540that's a that's an educational policy piece that's a school and school board and government
00:47:31.540thing that also needs to happen. Educational policy is abysmally slow. Just by all accounts,
00:47:39.300takes a really long time to get educational policy happening. And then when we do make good
00:47:44.740progressive decisions, we can roll them right back. The sex ed curriculum in Ontario is a great
00:47:51.620example. And so if we're not willing to engage with it at the school and educational policy level,
00:47:58.100then where else can we go? Are the tech companies gonna do work on this area? Clearly not.
00:48:06.020And so the solution then becomes even more complicated because where do we go for support?
00:48:11.940There are some great Canadian politicians who are sort of working in this direction,
00:48:16.660there are great academics who are hoping to highlight these issues that hopefully change
00:48:23.060is going to happen but i mean does it lie then as a kind of citizens initiative to say well this is
00:48:31.700unacceptable in our school spaces um and so you know teachers my heart goes out to you it's really
00:48:39.060hard super your job is hard no matter what um they got they have such a super hard job um but to be
00:48:47.300able to create a space in your classroom where you can say actually no and then you know having
00:48:54.660administrators that those teachers can rely on to support them in those things is really important
00:49:00.260um and so i presumably some of your listeners will be like that was a very unsatisfying answer
00:49:06.180because he didn't tell me what we can do because i can't there's a great example in the paper
00:49:11.620of a teacher who is like i didn't know what to do so i just told the girls to tell the boys why
00:49:18.020they were wrong and the girls did that and then i've never heard about andrew tate again since
00:49:23.220and that's great for that teacher in that classroom with those students and for some
00:49:29.220teachers that might work but there are other teachers other classrooms other spaces where
00:49:33.380that's not going to work and so um one of the things that teachers are telling us is
00:49:38.580there are no resources even for us to be able to work in this direction and it's not about
00:49:47.100showing giving a resource that's like being a toxic man is bad because i'll tell you a young
00:49:52.380man when you're like we're gonna have a workshop about how being a toxic man is bad they've already
00:49:56.620stopped listening to me yeah so it's about creating a resource that can up our digital
00:50:02.780literacy up our ability to understand our impact on others empathy etc it's really complicated but
00:50:09.020there are some great folks working in this in this direction um right now uh and my my research team
00:50:16.460at the canadian institute for far-right studies um as well as some other folks out of new zealand
00:50:20.860in particular and the christchurch call continue to work on these things to try and get resources
00:50:26.300into the hands of people that need them yeah you know it's one thing that's striking me as
00:50:32.860we're having this whole conversation is just i feel like you and i are talking as we're standing
00:50:40.060like to use a metaphor we're standing on a beach right now talking about the fact that the
00:50:45.900shoreline is receding an abnormal amount which usually suggests there's a tsunami coming
00:50:52.940and you know that is what's freaking me out about this is that you know not to diminish the very
00:50:59.180real and present impact on educators teachers because that is a crisis in its own right that
00:51:05.660deserves full response and full conversation but i'm terrified for when these kids grow up
00:51:12.360you know like this this is a fairly recent phenomenon um and not in general like the the
00:51:17.980themes, but the specific Andrew Tates and these guys are more of a product of the last like five
00:51:25.180years. And it scares me to think about these boys becoming men and entering the world and what
00:51:32.020that's going to mean. So it's it's kind of like all the solutions that we're discussing are things
00:51:38.080that need to be eventually will have to be broadly applied, you know, having people resources for
00:51:45.540women impacted by this having you know it's uh having authority figures um who are higher up
00:51:51.660that would take these issues seriously they're all um issues that are playing out right now in
00:51:56.620schools that at some point will play out in broader society and i'm sure already are in a lot of ways
00:52:02.780but um it's very unnerving it feels like we're on the precipice but i want to tell you my thing oh
00:52:08.320yeah did you have something you wanted to no it's just really dark but also really but also super
00:52:13.780truth yeah yeah it's scary um yeah do you know what's one thing that i like to do i had um our
00:52:20.980friend of the show kat abu who's uh currently running for congress in the states which is
00:52:26.340incredibly cool um but uh she deals with a lot of trolls online and one thing that she and i0.79
00:52:34.260talked about a fair bit because we both kind of deal with the same jerks um was the uh efficacy0.58
00:52:43.460of taking away the power from the figureheads in the form of kind of cutting them down a peg you0.97
00:52:51.620know like it the thing is is i think that one thing that draws a lot of people to these men
00:52:56.420is they view them as cool they view them as these like powerful badass cool dudes and i think that's
00:53:02.020why that one example of the teacher who had the girls you know tell the boys why andrew tate sucked
00:53:07.780worked well because Andrew Tate is telling these boys, girls love me. But then they had girls
00:53:13.380directly say, no, he's a loser. Like we would never date anyone who listens to him. And so0.99
00:53:19.820I think that actually a hilariously effective tool is just making fun of their kings, these0.99
00:53:28.440losers, like the figureheads. And I'm not talking about the individual people who are being sucked0.98
00:53:33.200in. I'm talking about, because often those are people who have a lot of mental health issues,
00:53:37.300who are struggling in a lot of ways and i don't think it's necessarily helpful to you know hurt
00:53:42.020them more um but not to excuse the behavior but you know just to just try to have some some
00:53:49.940understanding of the underlying causes but the men who are profiting and grifting and at the top
00:53:55.140levels of these things i think it's good to to mock them a little and that's why i love things
00:54:00.500like as we talked about before we started filming the golem ass picture of andrew tate the you know0.98
00:54:06.260all of these moments where you can just point out that the guy's the guy's a loser he really is0.92
00:54:10.820like to his core um so the last thing i wanted to ask you before we wrap things up is like
00:54:16.660do you have a favorite insult regarding andrew tate um so like part of me is like even his
00:54:25.700nicknames are just so cringe that i mean they're like a they're like a self-owned sometimes they
00:54:32.660are um but like my favorite one is actually um references him but is about sort of content and
00:54:40.020it going uh and so there's a in our data there's a teacher that talks about his followers as tater
00:54:47.780tots yeah um and uh just deep in my soul uh that makes me laugh uh in a way that is so necessary
00:54:57.620because a lot of the work that I do is just kind of filled with with a kind of darkness uh because
00:55:03.560I spend a lot of time reading this content uh unfortunately uh but some somebody should uh
00:55:09.940that isn't that isn't sort of part of the community and so um just thinking about them
00:55:15.420as tater tots and for some reason that makes me think of him as just like a big tater tot with
00:55:20.120arms I love that uh which which I mean and that's just a funny that's a funny picture in my head
00:55:26.760uh and sometimes i mean that to like sometimes so oh that's good yeah but i really like that one
00:55:34.100too because i think it also cuts down to the core of what is so exploitative about him right because
00:55:39.680he's he is fundamentally an exploitative person he's exploiting women in his life and he's
00:55:45.020exploiting the young men who listen to to him and you know um taking advantage of the fact that
00:55:50.380they're vulnerable to fill their heads with stuff that is only going to make their lives worse
00:55:56.000and so you know the taut analogy like it's like a little kid is like that's kind of it shows like
00:56:02.000what a predator um he is in the sense that he's targeting people who are vulnerable so it's like
00:56:07.720both cutting in the sense that he's a giant potato with arms um but also cutting in the sense that it
00:56:13.740it belies the reality of what he's doing so i love that yeah and i mean the grift the grift is
00:56:20.800like it's an mlm right it's the same sort of sort of thing as an mlm it's really um
00:56:27.940nothing there's nothing new going on here he just has found the right angle at the right time yeah
00:56:35.380i think that yeah yeah i like that one of my biggest through lines with the um extremism
00:56:43.200coverage that i've done has been the fact that i really do think they're all like pyramid schemes
00:56:48.380finding vulnerable people you know because that's what happens like who ends up selling the mary k
00:56:54.240or the monate or you know whatever else is uh an mlm sorry these guys are really sensitive about
00:56:59.560being called pyramid schemes um they really are they really are so to be clear um mlms um but you
00:57:06.140know they they seek out like uh uh mothers who are working at home uh who are you know don't have a
00:57:14.220huge social circle and are feeling really isolated and want to feel like they're contributing want to
00:57:17.860like they have a community and one of the things that makes it so hard to leave is the fact that
00:57:21.140they get that community but it is contingent on the toxicity or the you know in that case sales
00:57:27.780but in this case that we're discussing in this episode it's misogyny so that makes it really
00:57:32.740hard to kick it and i and i think that um you know it's really powerful to think of them as pyramid
00:57:38.580schemes or as uh mlms because that's what is happening to these people so oh yeah yeah absolutely
00:57:46.340And I think that the way that you describe those sort of two things as, you know, sort of same, same, but different is absolutely, absolutely right.
00:57:57.560Well, Luke, I could honestly talk to you about this all day long because I think it's so interesting in a horrifying way, like we were talking about earlier.