00:13:49.020Yeah, I don't know if I want to support it. Why do we always come back to boyfriends? But I've seen a few things online of people whose parents don't speak English, wanting to see something from their culture, and then they can't watch it because there's no Chinese subtitles. I think that's awful to exclude a whole group of people like that. But yeah, I haven't researched enough to say too much on this. But yeah, we'll have to see what happens with it.
00:14:14.100yeah and especially um growing up there's not much east asian representation in the media she's0.91
00:14:22.440like mulan is literally all we've got you know please don't ruin the only thing we've got
00:14:27.380i literally watched the youtube video for reflection the song and i cried it's like a
00:14:32.700two-minute song and it's like crying and then like if you look at my search history it's kind
00:14:36.960of funny because it's like reflection mulan karaoke lower key because it's so high i'm like
00:14:43.020I want to sing it, but you know, it's kind of hard. Also, this podcast I've been listening to,
00:14:49.000which I'm really liking, it's called Stop Everything. And it's an ABC podcast with
00:14:53.700Benjamin Law and Beverly Wang. It's kind of like a pop culture current affairs podcast as well.
00:14:59.100And they chatted about Mulan this week as well. Beverly watched it. And one quote that she
00:15:05.900described it as was, it felt like an external adventure movie that happens to have a lot of
00:15:11.860Chinese people in it. Somebody else on the podcast described it as a Chinese Lord of the Rings,
00:15:17.520which I found funny. They played a soundbite from the movie and it just sounded really
00:15:23.860Westernized. It still felt like a Western lens placed on Chinese culture, which I think is
00:15:30.140telling of who was working behind the scene. So with all the information that you've researched,
00:15:35.320do you think that you will still watch the movie? I mean, I'm not going to lie. I think when it
00:15:41.420comes to Disney plus without any extra fees in December I'll probably give it a watch like I'm
00:15:47.220not desperate and I'm not that excited but I think I might also what's with the Disney remakes like
00:15:52.860why can't they just make new movies I know I would enjoy if for the 2024 Oscars with all these
00:16:00.820diversity measures they could start telling new stories I think that would be really fun and
00:16:04.580exciting to have new stories for a new decade rather than just remaking all the movies from
00:16:10.080the 90s. Our main topic today is kind of a newsy one, and it is one of the craziest news stories
00:16:23.740of 2020, one of. As many people will know, sadly, there have been a number of wildfires burning on
00:16:30.480the west coast of the US. The worst affected states are California, Oregon, and Washington.
00:16:35.780Sadly, 23 people have been confirmed dead so far, with many more missing.
00:16:41.000But one in particular has caught a lot of news and media attention this week,
00:16:46.180as it wasn't started by lightning or backburning, but instead it was a gender reveal party.
00:16:53.180So last Saturday, so only eight days ago, an expectant couple trekked to El Ranch Dorado Park in California
00:16:59.920to document a gender reveal of their unborn baby.
00:17:02.680They used a smoke generating pyrotechnic device to blast either pink or blue smoke into the air and they had their children around and someone there to record it on a smartphone and then the spark from that device lit up the grass around them that was 1.2 meters tall.
00:17:21.560There's footage of them running back to their car to try and grab water bottles trying to put it out but it got out of control really really quickly due to the dry conditions and the heat wave that was going on.
00:17:31.440The last news article I saw relating to this particular fire, because now there's so many fires burning all across the West Coast, but this particular one, it has been reported by CNN that this gender reveal fire has burnt 13,592 acres and 20,000 people have been evacuated from their homes because of it, according to the ABC.
00:17:54.340see. Like, how does this sound real? You know, I think seeing photos of the actual area that has
00:18:01.440been burnt and like the bright orange sky accompanying it, it just so feels something
00:18:07.580so dystopian and I can't wrap my head around it. And all from a gender reveal party, I find it0.93
00:18:13.680quite, I don't even know the word. It's the pictures of the sky in like San Francisco and
00:18:19.680Oregon and stuff looks like Blade Runner it just seems like it's a movie and I can't actually
00:18:24.980fathom that that's real that the sky actually looks like that and it's not fake and yeah so
00:18:30.860this is just one fire though it hasn't caused all of them across the west coast but it's definitely
00:18:37.600done a lot of damage the couple could be charged with violations of public resources codes and
00:18:43.340arson they could also be jails because arson or forest can mean a maximum of three years
00:18:48.420and it goes up to six if the fire causes bodily injury sadly this is not the first time that a0.83
00:18:55.340gender reveal party has caused such a massive fire in 2018 a couple set 47 000 acres of forest
00:19:01.400alight in a similar way the man who lit it was charged with five years probation and ordered to0.91
00:19:06.1008 million 8 million us dollars in restitution i just find the idea of gender reveal parties
00:19:12.280so outdated, even though they're a relatively new invention. So I'm 21. I don't know like anybody
00:19:19.760who's had a baby. And definitely when I was born around that time, I don't think that was happening,
00:19:26.380especially not in the Chinese community, at least. Like definitely, I don't think my parents know
00:19:30.460what it is. The woman that's associated with creating gender reveal parties actually made1.00
00:19:36.100this statement this week didn't she yeah so she's spoken out about it um a couple of times because
00:19:42.180whenever something like a fire or there was another um instance in the u.s last year where
00:19:49.120this couple set off a bomb it was meant to be a similar thing of like it releases smoke into the
00:19:54.460air and it actually like blew up and shrapnel hit this grandma and she died on impact so every time
00:20:00.440there's a really bad you know incident like that she speaks out and she's just like begging people
00:20:05.520to stop her name is jenna myers carvenitis and she is a u.s blogger she created the first one
00:20:13.500in 2008 and she i don't think she meant for it to become this like global thing she just
00:20:22.000apparently made a cake and cut into it and the cake was pink and then because she was a blogger
00:20:26.860the it just took off and it became a kind of trend thing her statement this week was actually
00:20:33.500really funny even though the situation isn't funny we'll just read a bit of it out but she said0.97
00:20:39.440stop it stop having these stupid parties for the love of god stop burning things down to tell0.99
00:20:45.040everyone about your kid's penis no one cares but you it was 116 degrees in pasadena yesterday and1.00
00:20:51.460this tool thought it would be smart to light a fire about his kid's dick toxic masculinity is1.00
00:20:56.860men thinking they need to explode something because simply enjoying a baby party is for sissies0.99
00:21:01.460oh and of course I'm getting hate messages excuse me for having a cake for my family in 20080.97
00:21:06.840just because I'm the gender reveal inventor doesn't mean I think people should burn down
00:21:11.500their communities stop I think she's handling it really well because she would be getting
00:21:16.540so many horrible death threats and messages I feel like from right-wing and left-wing people
00:21:22.440for creating something like this even though yeah like she just mentioned like you just mentioned
00:21:27.160she just baked a cake with pink on the inside. And now she's got mixed feelings about gender0.74
00:21:33.180reveal parties. So she kind of commented last year on how much the world has changed even in
00:21:39.24010, 12 years in regards to gender and social norms. And she said, I did it at the time because
00:21:47.220we didn't live in 2019 and didn't know what we know now. That assigning focus on gender at birth
00:21:53.540leaves out so much of their potential and talents that have nothing to do with what's between their
00:21:57.780legs who cares what gender the baby is plot twist the world's first gender reveal party baby is a
00:22:04.340girl who wears suits and i love that so much and obviously the girl is what 12 and she i saw a
00:22:10.660picture of her she's like this really cool like androgynous looking gal young young woman and um
00:22:18.180i think that's really cool is that she was considered like the first gender reveal baby0.95
00:22:22.460and she's like subverting the gender norms by wearing a suit at 12 years old and like cutting
00:22:27.400her hair short and stuff. Yeah I feel like gender reveal parties would do more harm than good.1.00
00:22:33.140You found a study that talked about that. Do you want to tell us about it? A study published in
00:22:38.3202017 by Carly Giesler characterized the harms of the gender reveal party as allowing adults to
00:22:45.680recuperate what they have learned from their own gendered constructions, re-inscribing expectations
00:22:51.040and assumptions onto the unwritten body of the unborn and repelling these ideals into the digital,
00:22:57.340social and public world. So my question to us today is, does this massive wildfire in America
00:23:05.320mark the end of gender reveal parties or is it just going to continue and get worse and worse?
00:23:11.540Well, yeah, to be cynical, I don't think it's going to end it. When you were telling that story
00:23:15.960about how the grandmother got killed I remember another one and I think it involved like a dirt
00:23:21.820bike or something like that and I'm pretty sure the father got killed well you know there's so
00:23:26.480many tragedies associated with this even just beyond restricting your child to rigid gender
00:23:32.440norms there's literally been fatalities and they're still going and I don't know because again
00:23:39.680I'm not at the age of having people around me have kids but I feel like people love celebrations
00:23:45.480and, you know, with marriages and baby showers and bachelorettes and engagement parties. Like
00:23:52.740there's so many different things that I feel like people want an excuse to celebrate things. I don't
00:23:59.200even think they care about the gender aspect. It's just an excuse to have a party or something.1.00
00:24:05.360Yeah. Maybe it'll still increase because, you know, after this year, everyone will want to
00:24:09.940celebrate everything, which is really beautiful. I think that the original idea of them of just
00:24:14.880having a simple cake or having your friends and family over and telling them, surprising
00:24:19.420them, whatever, is actually a very nice idea of like community.
00:24:25.380I think we place too much importance on gender in our society because gender is a construct0.92
00:34:08.240So there were some points where I was like, oh my God, I can't, I can't.
00:34:11.960But the topic was interesting enough for me to keep listening.
00:34:15.660and i feel like i learned a little bit about american culture and how much nepotism really
00:34:22.320does influence everything so if you're looking for kind of a fun easy to listen to while you're
00:34:27.960trying to get to sleep podcast i would recommend that i'm curious to see what other areas they get
00:34:34.220into because it's going to be seven more episodes about um nepotism so there you go that's my
00:34:39.900recommendation for the week i think i'll probably listen to it i like american accents so
00:34:45.620any american listeners out there at least half of this podcast is on your side i'm just trying
00:34:51.360to rally them up i went to america last year so you know gotta stay on their good side
00:34:55.720um but yeah i'll probably give that a listen i actually listen to a lot of your recommendations
00:35:01.480and like i'm probably gonna start i hate suzy soon as well so i'm your biggest fan thanks yes i
00:35:10.180I don't know what to say to that thank you and with that awkward compliment shall we end today's
00:35:17.720episode yes it is Sunday night here so I'm about to go and have a bath I'm very excited and then
00:35:24.880I'm going to cook some I'm going to bake a chocolate cake what about you what are you
00:35:28.800going to do that is so wholesome I have no plans I'm going to wash my hair very exciting stuff but
00:35:36.280Yeah, we'll chat next week and see everyone else on Instagram during the week.
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00:35:48.240Thank you so much for listening to this week's episode and we will catch you next week.