Culture Study Podcast - October 16, 2024


Why Are We So Weird About Cancer?


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00:00:00.000 This is the Culture Study Podcast, and I'm Anne Helen Peterson.
00:00:10.180 And I'm Stacey Wentworth, a board-certified radiation oncologist.
00:00:14.280 I write a substat called Cancer Culture, and I host the new podcast, Less Radical.
00:00:19.980 Amazing.
00:00:20.720 So one of the reasons that we wanted to have you on the show today is that you have a new
00:00:24.800 podcast out that is produced with Melody.
00:00:28.620 And I feel like she's like the proud mom with like her two daughters watching us right now, you know.
00:00:35.780 So we both love Melody.
00:00:37.820 But I also just I've heard so much about the show as it's gone through development.
00:00:41.740 And it came out a couple weeks ago.
00:00:43.600 So please tell us about the show.
00:00:46.260 Sure.
00:00:46.980 So, of course, Melody is a visionary and really helped us bring this idea together.
00:00:53.520 So the podcast is about a hidden figure.
00:00:58.380 His name is Dr. Bernard Fisher.
00:01:00.600 He was a Jewish surgeon from Pittsburgh who revolutionized cancer treatment and specifically
00:01:07.200 breast cancer treatment.
00:01:08.540 So he was the first person really to upend centuries of thought that cancer had one direction
00:01:18.180 and it was out from the cancer to the lymph nodes.
00:01:21.400 And the thought at the time, and sometimes patients still ask me this today, is there's a moment in time when you can capture all the cancer cells.
00:01:32.760 So up until Dr. Fisher, people thought that cancer failed because the surgery wasn't big enough.
00:01:39.700 So you just didn't go big enough.
00:01:41.460 So there were these radical and super radical surgeries.
00:01:45.200 In breast cancer, they were talking about amputating women's arms.
00:01:48.560 and if they could just figure out the direct pathway that cancer spread to their legs that
00:01:54.020 they could amputate their femurs. So it was just this surgical thought. And in those surgeons
00:01:59.220 defenses, really the only thing they had was the knife. And Dr. Fisher was a surgeon and sort of
00:02:06.180 took on the medical establishment and said, hey, why don't we understand the behavior of cancer
00:02:12.100 first, see what these cancer cells are doing, and then we can be less radical and more specific on
00:02:19.780 our treatment. So then a very vindictive NCI director, as well as some misguided congressional
00:02:26.980 hearings, took him down at the height of his career and really brought shame to him and to
00:02:34.240 his legacy in a very mean-spirited way. And that experience haunted him for the rest of his life
00:02:42.120 and clouded his legacy. So there's a reason nobody's heard about him. And we are so excited
00:02:47.400 to be telling this story. So I think that it's only relatively recent that people have thought
00:02:53.700 of diseases as like a culture of a disease. I'm thinking specifically of people talking about like
00:02:59.320 how dental care is cultural, how the way that we have thought about mental illness has changed
00:03:07.180 with time according to the way that like mental illness is conceived within the culture at a
00:03:12.260 specific moment. But I think that outside of mental illness, that there hasn't been a lot
00:03:18.500 of understanding of how like afflictions of the rest of the body, like the discourse around them
00:03:25.000 has shifted significantly over time. And it's really interesting to dig into how that discourse
00:03:31.260 has shifted. So that seems to me to be a huge part of the work that you're doing. And also,
00:03:36.460 the title of your sub stack is Cancer Culture. Yes, it's a great crossover, for sure. It is
00:03:42.600 the culture around cancer. And I will tell you, and the reason I started this podcast is,
00:03:48.060 and the reason I started my sub stack, is that I've been practicing for 20 years. And I heard
00:03:53.200 the same things over and over from my patients. And it was this gap between what the world thinks
00:03:59.780 cancer is, and what the experience of cancer is. And patients who are diagnosed with cancer,
00:04:06.920 who either have successful treatment and go on to be cancer survivors, or are going to live and
00:04:15.240 then die from cancer, or in this new wave of cancer survivors live with cancer as a chronic disease,
00:04:22.200 they really go through the looking glass if you will and they're living in a different reality
00:04:28.220 and they look around and say hey this is a lot different than i thought but trying to explain
00:04:34.860 i had one patient who explained to me that being diagnosed with cancer is like they got sucked up
00:04:40.320 by a spaceship and like the aliens were all very friendly and everyone was trying they had to
00:04:46.040 repeat their their name and date of birth about a million times but then they just got beamed down
00:04:52.080 after being in this cancer spaceship and looked around and we're trying to tell everyone.
00:04:59.260 And no one, A, really understands and also no one wants to hear about it because cancer
00:05:06.880 survivors not only carry the weight of being diagnosed with cancer and of hearing that
00:05:12.080 diagnosis, but also become the explainers in chief of their disease and really are responsible
00:05:17.940 for being the, I guess, the depository of a lot of people's fears about cancer. Because if it can
00:05:25.520 happen to you, then by gosh, it can happen to me. We're releasing this episode in October,
00:05:31.680 which is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. And I think in the last few years, maybe the last decade,
00:05:37.240 there has been some tension about the public understanding of this month, like what it means
00:05:42.000 to like, put pink on like, I don't know, on your car dealership, do you know what I mean? And just
00:05:49.300 pink washing. So can you explain what this is and why there is tension around this phenomenon?
00:05:56.360 Yes. So women drive healthcare decisions. So in many boardrooms that I've been in, 1.00
00:06:04.860 in many meetings that I've been in, the focus really is marketing to women. So if you can keep 0.99
00:06:11.020 women within a healthcare system, you can really keep the whole family in the healthcare system. 0.98
00:06:16.440 And women really develop the trust in the healthcare system and in their doctors, and then 0.96
00:06:21.440 bring the children, bring their spouses and partners into the healthcare system. So 0.94
00:06:26.580 that capturing something that also makes us feel good, that we are working with capitalism,
00:06:34.940 But it can't just be capitalism because, hey, when you buy that car or go for that test drive, they're going to give $100 to some unknown charity.
00:06:46.700 Or if I have a choice when I'm in the freezer aisle or the yogurt aisle, this always cracks me up with yogurt.
00:06:53.220 It's always yogurt.
00:06:54.660 Yes. 1.00
00:06:55.520 It's very female driven products. 0.98
00:06:58.180 Yeah. And you it's really to drive that decision when you're holding two things in your hand. 1.00
00:07:05.700 If one, you feel good that it might be helping someone, then you're going to choose that product
00:07:12.040 is sort of where the marketing term goes. But I was just talking to a survivor the other day,
00:07:17.180 and she is a breast cancer survivor and gets so frustrated by October because she said my work
00:07:23.620 is around the clock, which is prevention and screening. And so I want women to be diagnosed
00:07:28.500 earlier. And the fact that this just wave comes in and then goes out is just so frustrating,
00:07:34.160 because it doesn't really talk about what you need to do. It's just this wave of quote,
00:07:40.260 unquote, breast cancer awareness. And I think women want to move past awareness to action.
00:07:46.660 But I think as a society, we might be a little bit stuck on the awareness part.
00:07:49.820 So you've gotten really involved in what happens to patients after treatment has concluded.
00:07:57.320 And, you know, you talked about like the the beaming down process and how it feels like people are responsible for like narrativizing their disease and that sort of thing.
00:08:06.980 But I also think that there's and we'll get into this in the questions like there seems to be such an emphasis on like, oh, you beat cancer.
00:08:15.420 Now, are you a normal person? Right.
00:08:17.420 Like, you don't need, there's no follow up, you never need to have any conversations about
00:08:21.940 what that was like, and medical trauma and all that sort of thing, too.
00:08:25.740 Yeah, it's the stiff upper lip bootstraps approach to cancer treatment, we desperately 0.91
00:08:32.140 want, especially women to be normal.
00:08:35.640 And I work a lot with prostate cancer survivors as well.
00:08:39.000 And their disease is usually not as apparent.
00:08:42.260 So rarely does prostate cancer cause you to lose your hair.
00:08:45.680 but their reluctance to discuss some of the side effects that can happen after prostate cancer
00:08:52.700 treatment specifically as it relates to erectile dysfunction can really be limiting and spreading
00:08:58.720 the word about I have had prostate cancer treatment this is what happened to me and these
00:09:05.000 are the results of my treatment and that secrecy and shame is something that we as a society
00:09:13.580 I mean, we institutionalize our sick, right? So they don't live among us. And when patients come
00:09:20.760 in the first time, and we're seeing them in a multidisciplinary setting where they meet with
00:09:24.780 all the doctors who are going to be taking care of them. One of the first questions women ask is, 0.94
00:09:29.980 am I going to lose my hair? And I think that is because we are still very animalistic in our 1.00
00:09:37.140 culture that we see different as bad or different as somebody who needs our help. And I can't tell
00:09:45.000 you the number of times that I have been in a group setting where someone has announced that
00:09:51.220 his or her wife or sister or friend has been diagnosed with breast cancer. And the immediate
00:09:56.660 words out of a very well-meaning kind person's mouth are, oh, well, so-and-so got cancer and
00:10:03.320 died like two days later, like crazy, or even worse, like so-and-so's brother's girlfriend's
00:10:09.700 aunt's dog got cancer. And, you know, they gave him one treatment and they died before the
00:10:14.340 treatment was over. And it's a very knee jerk reaction, but it just goes to show that in these
00:10:25.720 patients, when you hear the word cancer, patients are now responsible for not only input of the
00:10:32.860 information that we as I mean, they're trying to learn a whole new medical language for anyone
00:10:36.980 who's been in the hospital and heard doctors speak, like trying to figure out what we're saying
00:10:40.660 half the time. And then they asked, do you have any questions is like, can you start at the
00:10:45.000 beginning? So these patients are not only learning this new language of cancer, but then they're
00:10:50.040 fending off people's reactions to cancer or explaining reactions to cancer. I've been in
00:10:56.940 in grocery stores where I've seen someone walk up to a woman who has a bald head, clearly from 1.00
00:11:02.220 chemotherapy. And it could be from a variety, it could be from alopecia, not even related to cancer
00:11:07.860 and say, you know, I went through cancer treatment and this XYZ supplement helped me.
00:11:13.920 Here's the information about it. No. Yeah. Oh yeah. If you look around, it's similar, I think,
00:11:20.180 to my friends. I've never had children of my own, but it's my friends who are pregnant.
00:11:24.000 And it's that pregnant belly that sort of like tells people what's going on in your lives. And
00:11:28.200 people think that's like an invitation to come in and like tell their worst birth story the way
00:11:33.460 that people respond to cancer news to me is always more indicative of this weird vacuum that we have
00:11:40.200 and also that the focus on hair it reminds me of like little women how when um who who is it who
00:11:49.740 loses her hair joe right and they're like and one of amy says like joe you're one beauty right it's
00:11:56.520 like this you're this prospect of losing your identity as a woman through like one of the
00:12:02.060 primary signifiers of femininity but also I saw this in the discourse after the release of Kate
00:12:09.200 Middleton's post-chemo video I saw it in the comments to our own newsletter so many people
00:12:15.060 saying well what's going on with the hair like why are they focusing on the hair and I again
00:12:20.820 these people are were not malicious. It was more a confusion, right? Or I didn't understand that
00:12:26.860 you don't always lose your hair. And also people have all sorts of ways that they deal with hair
00:12:32.720 loss. And I just think it's a response to not knowing how to respond. 100%. If I could do a PSA
00:12:41.700 right after the how to buckle yourself into an airplane seat and, you know, get the oxygen mask
00:12:48.380 down and put yours on before helping a person next to you, it would be appropriate ways to
00:12:54.060 respond to someone who announces that they have cancer. And it does not include the words.
00:12:59.460 So listeners, write these down and like banish them from your vocabulary. God never gives you
00:13:06.500 more than you can handle. No, things happen for a reason. Everything happens for a reason. Great,
00:13:12.640 great book by Kate Bowler, who's a divinity professor here in North Carolina at Duke
00:13:17.960 University, and great podcaster. She really talks about, I'm sorry, can you please talk to me about
00:13:24.660 what is good about being a 30-ish year old mother with metastatic colon cancer? Please.
00:13:30.580 And I'm a divinity scholar, so I would love to know God's purpose. But again, I think you're
00:13:36.320 right. And we just, we don't know what to say. And in the absence of that, I really have tried
00:13:42.360 hard to tell patients that depending on how snarky you want to be, that you could just say,
00:13:49.200 thank you for caring and try as much as you can just to understand that that person, even if
00:13:56.200 they're trying to shove, like, I don't know, asparagus juice at you, like in the gallons.
00:14:01.680 Gross.
00:14:01.960 Just, yeah, there was a whole thing about asparagus a couple of years ago, and so many
00:14:06.160 patients were coming in, like, how much asparagus can I eat?
00:14:09.640 I'm like, well, I guess as much as you can tolerate, but so it goes, it goes around.
00:14:17.140 It's the same to sugar feed cancer.
00:14:19.500 So there's, there's all this information that's coming at patients and everybody wants the
00:14:25.240 best for you.
00:14:26.180 And, you know, it's wonderful because you don't want somebody to be like, oh, so what?
00:14:30.540 You have cancer.
00:14:31.160 best of luck to you it's good like they want to help you but sifting through those reactions
00:14:37.340 which are a lot out of fear again because yep many patients now are diagnosed with asymptomatic
00:14:45.980 cancer so quote unquote i felt fine and then i was diagnosed with the big c uh so they walk among us
00:14:53.540 and it's also a fear of this could happen to me and wow I really care about you and I don't know
00:15:04.200 how to tell you I care about you we're really bad about telling people I care about you and
00:15:08.180 you're going through something hard we just want to go in and fix it and as we'll talk about I'm
00:15:12.820 sure in our questions like people in the U.S. specifically are very bad at talking about death
00:15:17.840 And so the panic talking is one way that we don't talk about death.
00:15:24.180 For sure. I have a good friend whose daughter recently died of a rare cancer. And she has
00:15:33.020 entered the space where no one knows what to say. And all she desperately wants to do is talk about
00:15:41.240 her daughter. And yet everyone feels like they don't want to bring it up because they don't
00:15:46.820 want to talk about her. They don't want to bring up these hard feelings. And she's like, I've got
00:15:50.560 a hole in my chest the size of the universe. You can't, we underestimate how much we can fill that
00:15:58.220 hole of sadness and of loss. And we just start throwing things in, hoping that that hole will
00:16:04.680 close. But really, all of us have experienced loss. And it's just really hard to do. And it's
00:16:10.080 not on us. So it's very complicated. Okay, so let's talk about our questions, which are
00:16:16.560 very good and very complicated. This first one comes from Heather.
00:16:21.420 Where does the prevailing language of battle about cancer come from and when?
00:16:25.900 People die after a long battle with cancer, etc. I have cancer, multiple myeloma, and I never use
00:16:32.940 this terminology. I much prefer imagining I am in a new sort of dialogue or conversation with my
00:16:39.140 body rather than in a battle with it or with its disease. So when does this first start popping up?
00:16:46.560 Americans love a war metaphor. We love a war on drugs, a war on poverty. In 1971, Nixon declared
00:16:56.840 a war on cancer. And it really also, we love a hero. We love a hero story. I mean, it's a hero's
00:17:06.440 quest, right? That's so pervasive in modern writing and literature and culture and in the
00:17:11.520 past as well. In America, the concept of a war on cancer really started in the intra-war period in
00:17:19.000 the 20s and 30s. And the precursor to the American Cancer Society was called the American Society
00:17:24.760 for Control of Cancer. And they formed what was called a Women's Field Army in 1936. And the 0.97
00:17:32.000 stated goal of the Women's Field Army was to promote trench warfare, this is a quote, 1.00
00:17:37.480 promote trench warfare with a vengeance against a ruthless killer so for a dollar women joined 0.99
00:17:45.640 they got a brown uniform and there was a vertical organization structure where they were given a rank
00:17:51.260 in this field army they had a little insignia with their rank on their chest and by 1945 there
00:17:58.380 were somewhere between 500 and 700 000 members across america and the goal was to educate white
00:18:04.920 middle class women on how they can prevent and detect early cancers. So most cancer was thought
00:18:13.240 to affect women because we didn't know about prostate cancer. And we didn't, we weren't
00:18:17.480 really invading into bodies yet to do things like colon cancer. So the visible cancers were female 0.99
00:18:23.140 cancers, breast cancer, and uterine and cervical cancer. And this pervasive notion really caught
00:18:33.240 the American psyche because we just won World War II. And we were just obsessed with, we wanted to
00:18:40.400 fight something. And so this war mentality really started at that point. And I think, in a way,
00:18:48.960 it's difficult to extract it from the cancer experience, because cancer has always been with us.
00:18:55.020 Unlike diseases that come and go like HIV or COVID or polio or tuberculosis, even type 2 diabetes, cancer has been with us since the ancient Egyptians and even further back in ancient China, we're documenting cases of cancer.
00:19:13.540 So how we deal with this pervasive presence in our lives is really dictated by the culture surrounding when we start to pay attention.
00:19:24.180 So that's, I think, where the war on cancer started.
00:19:28.080 And at that point, we had all these surgeons returning from the war who had seen horrific
00:19:33.440 injuries.
00:19:34.400 But we had trained a bunch of war-tested surgeons, and we'd also discovered things
00:19:39.360 like antibiotics.
00:19:40.580 And we could now put people to sleep with anesthesia.
00:19:43.140 So we could do heroic surgeries and people could survive.
00:19:47.060 So if you put it against a war, then you also train the psyche of the culture to accept
00:19:54.160 these very radical, disfiguring, and awful treatments. And I think somewhat that despite
00:20:04.060 the fact that cancer treatment has become much, much less radical, and through the development
00:20:10.060 of supportive care tools like anti-nausea medications and IV fluids and that sort of thing
00:20:14.700 has become somewhat more palatable in some diseases, that battle hero duality continues.
00:20:22.980 it also strikes me that like there's something about the like how chemo is paced or radiation
00:20:31.040 treatment is paced it's like okay it's like running a marathon right you're like you have
00:20:35.660 it on your calendar and like on this day i go into this battle and then i have recovery from
00:20:40.380 that battle and my team is there to support me you know people talk about their cancer team yes
00:20:45.600 in terms of both their doctors but also their support system like it is like a 100k race
00:20:51.500 it's even long it's much longer than a marathon and what it does to the body too
00:20:56.140 yes and we again it doesn't give space to recovery and living with cancer so that for
00:21:05.820 this person from heather with a disease like multiple myeloma that's living with cancer and
00:21:11.380 that's a whole new concept that is sometimes hard for people to discuss and hard to educate their
00:21:18.740 friends and family around because people want you to either be cured or dead yes yes what do you
00:21:26.400 well which are you well you still have cancer but you look fine and you're going to work and that
00:21:31.840 our minds really haven't wrapped around this new state of living with cancer it doesn't fit well in
00:21:37.420 this uh war mentality i've been educated a lot by a friend of mine who's been living with stage four
00:21:43.460 for four years now. And she actually just recently mapped out because so many people
00:21:49.180 had asked her, she was like, okay, I'm going to map out everything in my Instagram stories and
00:21:52.540 save it as a pin story. The dozens of rounds of chemo that she has been through, like right now
00:21:59.780 she's off chemo in order to get her tumors large enough so that she can be considered as part of
00:22:05.360 a study. But like what it means to take a chemo break and why you have to do that. And essentially
00:22:11.040 just like what is the reality of trying to live as long as I possibly can and enjoy my life too
00:22:16.600 right I don't she's like I'm I don't want to be in battle all the time who wants to live their
00:22:22.300 life that way that's very true and the enemy changes right so that's why we change treatments
00:22:29.020 is this thing that we call cancer I mean if you think cancer you know comes from the word crab
00:22:35.640 that it's really like invading into our bodies in a very terrible way. But really, it's these
00:22:43.580 cells that are part of us floating through our bodies, and really have turned, have become
00:22:50.680 radicalized against us. And so those cells are not one treatment will knock down, you know,
00:22:58.380 if we don't cure the disease, one treatment knocks down all the dumb cells, and then all
00:23:02.840 the smart cells are left, and then they grow. And then we knock down the smart cells, but then
00:23:06.780 there's even smarter cells. So that's why our treatments have to become usually progressively
00:23:12.060 more invasive and aggressive, because we're still trapped in a mentality that started in the 1970s,
00:23:21.540 which is where the podcast starts as well, which is finding the magic bullet to cancer. Again,
00:23:26.120 And going back to the vaccines, we found penicillin.
00:23:30.220 I mean, we can cure polio.
00:23:31.640 We can, you know, prevent people from dying of infections.
00:23:35.020 Cancer, please, we'll have that done, you know, in 10 years.
00:23:38.480 And we really got into a cul-de-sac with the amazing and early success of the cure of childhood leukemia and adult lymphomas, which are only about 15 to 20% of cancers.
00:23:52.260 And unfortunately, for the past 50 years, instead of understanding what makes these cells that are a part of us different, we've just been trying to find the perfect poison.
00:24:01.120 So how much poison can we give the human that doesn't kill the human, but kills these cells that come from the human?
00:24:06.740 And titrating that has really been, I think, led us to this place where people are frustrated and we're just opening the door to a different.
00:24:17.840 This is the hope is that I really have for this next generation as we're finally opening
00:24:22.520 the door to more specific treatments for cancer.
00:24:26.040 Okay, this is actually a great setup for our next question.
00:24:28.600 And it's about the way that, again, we talk about cancer.
00:24:31.840 This is from Anjali.
00:24:33.880 I hate that we speak about cancer as a single entity.
00:24:37.060 I'm thinking of Biden talking about ending cancer, which isn't really possible, first
00:24:41.520 of all, because gene mutations happen all the time, but also because not all cancers
00:24:45.660 are the same, either medically or socially.
00:24:47.840 As someone who had a relatively chill cancer, common among young women, pretty easily resolved with surgery, asymptomatic and discovered by chance, whose treatment was actually more disruptive than the cancer itself, surgery on my neck, super visible scar, lifelong medication to supplement the hormones I need but no longer make enough of, susceptible to a host of other medical problems now, etc.
00:25:11.320 I have never felt like I can claim being a cancer survivor. It's like I didn't suffer in the way we
00:25:17.840 expect people who have cancer to suffer. When I hear stats about how common cancer is among younger
00:25:23.720 people, it takes me a few minutes to remember that I am included in that stat. I guess I'm
00:25:29.480 more curious about how we think about the unacknowledged hierarchies in cancer and
00:25:33.300 disability in general, the politics of visible suffering, and what that compels others to do
00:25:38.580 or not do in terms of offering care. Like my health is actually worse after the treatment
00:25:43.440 than before. Most people in my life don't see that. And I wonder how much of that is related
00:25:48.540 to the fact that I didn't have a stereotypical illness journey. I didn't inhabit the sick role
00:25:54.260 in ways people expect. So now the longer tale of illness is obscured.
00:26:00.040 All right. There's a lot there and I'm really glad we have this question. So let's start with
00:26:04.740 the first part, which is about ending cancer or finding a cure. So what does that kind of
00:26:11.020 thinking just misunderstand? So President Biden is not the first person to use the word cancer
00:26:17.600 moonshot. That was actually a term coined by Mary Lasker, who was a amazing philanthropist
00:26:24.480 and New York socialite. I had a guest post by Judy Pearson, who wrote her biography recently
00:26:29.720 on cancer culture. And she was very frustrated in the 1970s, because she felt like there was too
00:26:36.920 much going into the basic understanding of cancer. She said, I don't want Petri dishes,
00:26:42.020 I want pills. And so she really swung the American Cancer Society, as well as the whole
00:26:47.620 of government into finding a cure for cancer. And that really has been the trajectory where
00:26:52.180 that we have been on until recently. So the frustration in that the mindset of cancer is a
00:27:02.260 solitary disease really comes from the past 50 years of how we understood it. I think that now
00:27:09.080 we are understanding with CRISPR technology and more work on the different mutations and the
00:27:16.820 targeting of mutations that are different for each cancer, as well as learning, you know,
00:27:23.040 why does my grandmother smoke two packs a day and ate, you know, bacon, eggs, and three pieces
00:27:28.340 of toast with butter and lived till she was 100, never got cancer, whereas someone who never smoked 0.99
00:27:34.260 dies of lung cancer. Why is that? And what we understand is there's host factors, there's
00:27:39.940 environmental factors. And that in combination with the cancer cells, really determines how
00:27:48.400 cancer forms and how we should treat it. And to understand that cancer is a disease of an organism,
00:27:54.780 as well as a disease of a community and a system is really important.
00:27:59.660 So okay, second part of the question, where Anjali says, like, she doesn't feel like she
00:28:04.440 can claim being a cancer survivor, because she didn't have like the legible suffering
00:28:08.680 that matches societal expectations. Do you hear this a lot?
00:28:13.620 I do. Yeah, especially from young people with cancer. And Anjali, this is Dr. Wentworth. I'm
00:28:19.140 hereby giving you your cancer card. So you can just say, if anybody questions your cancer cred,
00:28:24.640 you can say, I got my cancer card from Dr. Wentworth. I wrote one of my first posts on
00:28:30.380 cancer culture was right after the Barbie movie came out. And if you remember that scene at the
00:28:36.180 beginning where she's dancing and the music screeches to a halt because she says do you guys
00:28:40.600 ever think about death and we yeah we and the other Barbies and even the DJ knows that Barbie's
00:28:48.160 not supposed to be asking that question that's how Barbie's supposed to act so and again getting
00:28:53.720 back to Kate Middleton and that gauzy video of a cancer survivor we really have this concept of 0.87
00:29:01.300 what a cancer survivor is supposed to look like. And we really want everyone to fit in that
00:29:07.520 description of what we think is a cancer survivor. A little bit, you know, you're too healthy to have
00:29:12.500 cancer. You don't fit into my expectation of what a cancer survivor looks like. I'll tell you,
00:29:18.640 I've been living in the 1970s as part of this podcast. And in the early 1970s, there were three
00:29:25.340 movies that were released right in a row that depicted cancer. The first was called Love Story,
00:29:30.560 and it starred oh yeah do you know this of course are you are you crying right now are you yes it's
00:29:37.980 like our yes it means like the the hold of that movie on an entire generation cannot be overstated
00:29:44.400 correct but did you know and in that movie the words cancer and leukemia are never mentioned
00:29:51.540 even though that even though that's what ali mcgraw dies of oh my god really yeah second
00:29:58.900 movie robert de niro in bang the drum slowly he plays a baseball player who hides his diagnosis
00:30:05.820 from his teammates who actually hire a private investigator to see where he's going he also
00:30:10.660 dies in that movie he has hodgkin's lymphoma and then of course the uh abc movie of the week
00:30:18.240 brian's song where a dying brian piccolo holds his wife's hand and while breathlessly repeating
00:30:25.080 who'd you believe it joy who'd ever believe it when in actuality if you talk to his wife his
00:30:31.620 death was miserable and horrifying and painful and terrible and there was an esquire magazine article
00:30:38.200 that interviewed the president of the american cancer society right after all these movies came
00:30:43.780 out and this is the quote that i love and he said if you portray cancer on the screen with all its
00:30:50.060 degradation and pain you have in a prayer if these people ever walked into a cancer ward they'd run 0.98
00:30:55.980 away so fast and we want people to stop running around from this goddamn disease so basically like 0.94
00:31:02.440 if we make cancer look like not a big deal then people will get treated if they think they have 0.97
00:31:07.140 cancer i instead i think that at least in my life like people all the time are like do i have cancer
00:31:14.300 right because like they have no understanding of like like anything that feels off with their body
00:31:20.040 like oh no i have cancer just like manically going down google bad rabbit holes and like i i
00:31:26.860 definitely have cancer right 100 and it's so if you even look at our modern movies uh stepmom
00:31:33.400 the bucket list yes the fault in our stars what's the one that i was that i was just thinking of it
00:31:39.080 has uh my life uh it has uh nicole kidman and michael keaton and i watched that at like i don't
00:31:47.580 know i was in seventh or eighth grade and i cried so hard and i was like this is what happens this
00:31:53.540 is this is what cancer does right like and that's how it cements these narratives in our heads
00:31:57.980 but it's necessary in all of those stories that people die yes they suffer they die
00:32:05.840 and their loved ones are left to grieve and walk to remember sorry just walk oh yes also yes
00:32:14.200 you can go on forever well it's melodrama right like you have to have that narrative of suffering
00:32:20.640 and then like a death that then clarifies things for the people who lived and it has to mean
00:32:27.420 something like cancer has to mean something totally and if you didn't suffer enough
00:32:33.540 according to our culture and this is again this is how we come to these feelings and the great
00:32:39.640 thing is we can change it because we created the culture yeah and i think that's sort of where
00:32:45.760 angeli is coming from is this you are you are feeling the correct feelings that the culture
00:32:52.920 is feeding you we want we expect cancer to mean something and of course nothing means anything
00:33:01.320 unless you've really suffered and, in the case of Hollywood, died.
00:33:06.380 Well, and if you haven't been beatified through the process of cancer,
00:33:12.500 if it hasn't made you into a saint, then somehow you did cancer wrong.
00:33:16.240 100%.
00:33:16.840 I had another patient I was talking to, and patients will always apologize.
00:33:23.080 They'll start crying in the exam room, and they will say,
00:33:25.400 oh, my gosh, I'm so sorry for crying.
00:33:27.020 And I'm like, what?
00:33:27.760 I don't care.
00:33:28.740 You're paying me to sit here.
00:33:29.800 You can cry.
00:33:30.640 This is a safe place to cry. 1.00
00:33:31.880 Also, this sucks. 0.99
00:33:33.340 You don't have to be, quote unquote, strong for me. 0.97
00:33:38.540 I mean, you may have to for what you face and what people need you to do outside this
00:33:42.320 exam room. 1.00
00:33:43.360 But girls, sit here and cry. 1.00
00:33:45.240 Like, here's some tissues, like completely lose it. 1.00
00:33:48.580 Let me call like one of our social workers or one of our counselors who can help you
00:33:52.140 kind of work through this grief that you're feeling, which is completely normal.
00:33:57.660 But this is normal.
00:33:58.940 Step down off the pedestal.
00:34:00.120 It's not very fun up there. Come down off the pedestal, just like Barbie, you know, her feet flattened. Like, what would happen if we flattened the feet of all of our cancer survivors and let them kind of just be broken people for a while?
00:34:13.400 Yes.
00:34:13.980 I think it'd be okay.
00:34:15.380 Yeah. Well, and the other thing, I mean, this is something that always happens with narrative, right, is it ends, right? So, like, you don't get to see what happens to the family two years after the death of this loved one, right?
00:34:27.800 unless it's like a very slight coda and what Anjali is pointing to is like actually like my
00:34:34.220 life after this treatment is much more difficult than during it she points to the the overlap with
00:34:42.040 some discussions that we have about disability and like how people are ill-equipped to talk about
00:34:47.520 essentially like this is a chronic illness that she's going to manage for the rest of her life
00:34:51.400 even though the cancer itself is gone yeah there was a recent uh there's just a paper that's been
00:34:57.360 out. I haven't even had a chance to read it yet. But the through line or the main takeaway was that
00:35:03.540 40% of cancer patients have chronic disabilities as a result of their cancer treatment. And they
00:35:09.040 also have a higher rate of non-cancer death because of the side effects of the treatments
00:35:14.040 that we give them. So higher rates of heart disease and lung disease and all this other stuff,
00:35:18.680 as well as secondary cancers caused by our treatments. So there's also a big return to
00:35:24.180 work movement. So often patients will say, like, when should I return to work? And, you know,
00:35:30.900 disability, long term and short term disability only provides a certain percentage of salary,
00:35:35.480 if you're even fortunate enough to have a job that offers that. I've had many patients return
00:35:41.720 to work and suddenly their position is terminated. Everyone was very happy to support them,
00:35:47.640 quote unquote, when they got cancer. But now you've been gone just a little bit too long,
00:35:51.340 and we hired so and so, you know. So first of all, I always tell patients, take advantage of
00:35:57.180 any FMLA, I will fill out any paper, I will sign, you know, any form that documents your illness,
00:36:03.500 because it is really important to have the protection. Everyone, I think you'd have to be
00:36:09.340 a real jerk to be mean to someone diagnosed with cancer. But that feeling tends to fade over time. 0.99
00:36:16.720 and I've just seen patients burn too many times.
00:36:19.400 So taking advantage of the protections
00:36:21.240 that we fought so hard to provide
00:36:23.100 for people going through illness in our society,
00:36:26.440 if you have them, talk to human resources
00:36:28.780 and take advantage of them.
00:36:30.900 Yeah, this next question goes
00:36:32.660 in a very different direction,
00:36:34.560 but I think it's gonna allow us to talk
00:36:36.600 about some interesting things.
00:36:38.580 So this is about the specific kind of help
00:36:41.020 and resources that people are seeking out.
00:36:43.540 This comes from Caitlin.
00:36:44.320 Why are cancer support Facebook groups so insane? Is it desperation? Is it an older generation not knowing how to vet information from the internet? I've found they're full of quackery and desperate people seeking impossible cures.
00:36:57.600 oh well to me this is just like lack of faith in the medical establishment also just distrust of
00:37:07.080 like um like there's a lot of medical anxiety just it's it's much more cultural than just like
00:37:14.560 cancer groups like this is in all sorts of groups for people who are dealing with
00:37:19.320 with illness yes as the culture expert would you like to talk about facebook in general ann
00:37:26.260 well you know like I just think that like a Facebook group is a place where you have this
00:37:33.940 sense of intimacy because you are spending time there but also removed so even if though it's
00:37:40.180 your real name or something close to your real name it still is with people that you haven't met
00:37:45.800 but people who are often you know a lot of these Facebook groups are pretty granular like a specific
00:37:50.680 type of cancer or you're a parent to someone with a specific type of cancer or a partner
00:37:54.780 and so what do you do with all of the fear and anxiety that you can't express to with other
00:38:03.060 people in your life maybe with the person who has the cancer maybe like you have the cancer and you
00:38:07.840 just feel like you're burdening everyone else all of that excess goes into the Facebook group
00:38:14.120 so it is just a space of excess emotion to me it's a it is an indication not that people are crazy
00:38:22.340 it's an indication that people are suffering. That's perfectly said. And I think it's easily
00:38:28.100 accessible. And when we don't allow these conversations to happen in public, and we don't
00:38:32.860 allow people to be broken in public, then humans are going to find community. And I will say for
00:38:38.980 patients with rare diseases, I have not seen any successful implementation for support for people
00:38:45.300 with rare diseases like these Facebook groups. And for patients with really, really rare cancers,
00:38:50.920 they have just told me over and over again, and often are educating us because they're
00:38:56.220 communicating with people that have been around the world for different second opinions.
00:39:01.840 That has been such a powerful positive. I will. So I'll kind of again, couch this and how this
00:39:09.220 culture was created. If you think back to the 1800s, the gap between what I mean, I'm going
00:39:17.100 of call them physicians, but really they were kind of like the local healer kind of, the gap
00:39:21.660 between what that person knew and the patient knew was very narrow. So everybody knew, quote unquote,
00:39:29.960 that hemlock was a treatment for many things or leeches were a treatment for many things. So you
00:39:35.060 just went down to the local river, picked some hemlock and got some leeches. And it was a very
00:39:41.300 narrow gap. But then, again, with the invention of antiseptic technique, of antibiotics, of
00:39:47.640 microscopes, of anesthesia, the gap between the patient and the mostly all knowing male physician
00:39:55.980 became wider. And then, you know, we started to see things like the thalidomide scandal, and
00:40:03.960 And the trust in that all-knowing healer really started to degrade.
00:40:10.520 And with the democratization of information with the internet, I think the information
00:40:15.500 is there.
00:40:16.260 It's just the application of that information.
00:40:18.920 So what do you do with the information?
00:40:22.040 And in patients that are desperately looking for answers, I think they have the information,
00:40:27.040 but what to do with that information is sort of where medicine comes back in.
00:40:31.720 Not again as an all-knowing healer, but just a, hey, I have training to help you make a decision on what your best course of action, given this particular narrow diagnosis is.
00:40:45.320 Yeah. I also think there's so much complication in talking about placebo, because if something works for someone and makes them feel better, it can be really insulting to be like, oh, that's the placebo effect, right?
00:40:58.480 yeah like you're just making that up in your head that that makes you feel better
00:41:02.960 but also that's often you know people are using this as like this will also work for you because
00:41:08.460 it worked for me when it's probably a complicated melange of psychosomatic stuff going on and maybe
00:41:17.500 stuff with your body too and maybe stuff with like how what's working in your body at a certain
00:41:22.240 moment but that we just haven't we're so ill-equipped to talk about that in any good way
00:41:26.360 We also are looking for trusted sources. And when you're diagnosed with cancer, you rally. I've seen amazing things happen, you know, families come back together. I've seen the opposite. But a lot of times you rally, everybody rallies around someone who is diagnosed with cancer. And those are your trusted people. Like my mom thinks I'm a wonderful doctor, but like the person walking in for the first time is like doesn't know me from Adam's house cat, you know.
00:41:54.980 So physicians undergo four years of college, this is me, four years of college, four years
00:42:01.320 of medical school, and five years of training.
00:42:03.440 So I was in training for 13 years.
00:42:05.980 Each hospital I apply to privileges for, I have to list every hospital I've ever worked
00:42:10.520 at.
00:42:10.940 I have to give my case numbers for the past three to five years.
00:42:13.880 I have to have a report from my malpractice carrier, three to six letters of reference
00:42:18.700 from friends, co-workers, other physicians.
00:42:21.300 and that's why it's called privileges because it's a privilege to care for patients so I think
00:42:27.700 when you're looking for sources of information there's people who care about you and then there's
00:42:32.260 expertise and taking those two equally important sources of information and lining up what you can
00:42:42.560 look in the mirror and say is the right treatment for you is really the best way to proceed forward
00:42:47.000 with your care. Yeah. We could talk about this for like another hour, but we should go on to
00:42:52.400 the next question. So I write so much about friendship and community. And we often talk
00:42:58.220 about like, how can you actually help someone who is going through a crisis? Like, how can you show
00:43:04.000 up for someone? And this is going to be our AAA segment today. So if you want advice on showing
00:43:09.800 up for a friend in crisis, head over to culturestudypod.substack.com and become a paid
00:43:15.000 subscriber. Okay, so where can people find you on the internet if they want to hear more from you?
00:43:20.480 Sure. Well, first of all, subscribe to Less Radical. You can do that on any podcast platform
00:43:25.320 or via my sub stack, which is Cancer Culture. Awesome. Thank you so much for being on the
00:43:30.820 show today. This was like just such a pleasure. I loved it. Thanks, Anne. Longtime follower.
00:43:37.460 So impressed. So honored to be with you, Anne.