Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - Bad Moon

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00:02:35.440 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.

00:02:36.920 I'm Jacqueline Novak.

00:02:38.000 And this is POOG, an ongoing conversation about wellness between two obsessive friends.

00:02:42.780 Two untamable intellects.

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00:02:46.220 This is our naked desire for free products.

00:02:48.500 This is POOG.

00:02:49.940 Today's topic, loosely speaking, minerals.

00:02:53.020 Amino acids. Banana bag.

00:03:02.980 Ugly poog. 0.91

00:03:06.400 Did you say ugly poog? 1.00

00:03:09.040 Yeah, it's making me laugh.

00:03:12.460 Calling the episode ugly poog. 1.00

00:03:16.560 I don't know why it's like barely funny, but it's making me laugh. 1.00

00:03:20.360 My emotions are certainly...

00:03:22.200 kate i've changed oh my emotions are all i can say is kate i've changed what do you mean

00:03:27.160 i'm just not the same person i was a couple weeks ago i mean or more than that at this point me

00:03:33.400 neither but we have to clap all right but that should go in tweety one two three

00:03:39.340 another high octane poog another high octane poog i'm a different person too really so so there 0.99

00:03:50.360 well first of all i don't know if it was a strawberry moon oh fuck the strawberry 0.99

00:03:56.920 first of all i'm gonna do it missed missed it as usual apparently i did too much bathing under 0.98

00:04:04.580 the moon that was like the bad moon there was like a month there was a moon like a few what

00:04:08.580 was it was this hyper eclipse and it was crazy and then i heard later someone was like oh yeah

00:04:14.100 you don't want to be standing under that moon that's like waiting like that's the moment that

00:04:18.020 That's when the devil gets in.

00:04:20.380 That's the devil's one chance.

00:04:22.920 Exactly.

00:04:23.440 That's like when like the devil got in too deep.

00:04:26.420 To get through the moon.

00:04:28.620 Normally you're bathing in mother's moon milk.

00:04:33.040 You stripped down.

00:04:35.520 Oh my God.

00:04:36.200 By the way, I haven't laughed in years.

00:04:37.740 Truly the relief I feel.

00:04:38.660 I texted Jacqueline.

00:04:40.740 I was on a walk.

00:04:41.440 I was like, I'm furious.

00:04:43.000 She's like, what?

00:04:43.620 I was like, everything, everyone.

00:04:45.800 Rage.

00:04:46.260 Like a life or work.

00:04:47.120 Churning.

00:04:48.020 and thank god we're doing poo today i was honestly impressed with myself that i even

00:04:52.460 called the two two different things i was about to go well we all know work is life

00:04:57.660 i was like life or work and then i was like well i want to say one thing i'm going to start at the

00:05:03.840 top with a product thing and i want them to send it for free the soda recess you see this in health

00:05:09.960 food stores it's oh yeah it's adaptogen magnesium didn't they send oh no i'm confusing them with

00:05:15.620 low carb. No, so rude. Kin sent us like mother load level of all of their flavors. And it's

00:05:22.680 sitting there in my fridge cause I've been away. Kin sent us some of the finest. Kin sent us a

00:05:28.140 major haul. A haul. A major haul. And I'll say one of the haul and one of the bottles was so 0.61

00:05:34.600 beautiful. I took it to a dinner party. Wait a second. There it is. Cause you say it like that

00:05:40.260 wait, hold on. Cause I remember, I remember a little differently. Okay. You're like, wow,

00:05:44.480 six pack after six pack right well i what a haul and you were like and then you were like almost

00:05:51.340 like be good to bring to a dinner party like and then i started in with like you know you cheap 0.96

00:05:58.160 bastard although i do think i do think that like pulling like in the in the tradition of and we'll 0.78

00:06:04.640 get back to it but the tradition of bringing alcohol to someone's thing right i feel like

00:06:09.500 taking something from your own seller so to speak right is absolutely within bounds that's not

00:06:15.700 re-gifting that's not pulling from the seller this yeah it's pulling from the internal seller

00:06:21.900 yeah even if it just barely even got down to the seller even if it was just sent by a company

00:06:27.100 mere minutes earlier well i was excited to but again i just want to say recess this soda has

00:06:32.900 become something that i'm reaching for in times of stress and i feel like it does take the edge off

00:06:38.400 are you serious what does it do what does it claim so i would like i would like a palette

00:06:42.520 of recess sent to my house instantly what does it do not tired not why it's on palette based

00:06:48.380 diy furniture because it's a trend all right what it's a trend about three i mean three years ago

00:06:54.960 this really popped off on apartment therapy again but we'll get to that in a minute give me that what

00:06:58.700 what are the key uh what are the actives what are the key ingredients here a sparkling water for

00:07:03.000 mood and stress. And I'm waiting for the reason to believe. Because we've got, we've got, what do

00:07:09.420 we have in here? We've got magnesium. So there you go. Okay. Okay. Okay. L-thoronate. Oh, I have

00:07:15.700 an announcement, which is I need to do a deep dive and I need to circle the goddamn wagons. 0.98

00:07:20.420 I need full fire alarms on minerals. We need to talk about minerals. I need to learn about 0.95

00:07:27.000 minerals. I'm absolutely, I'm drowning in information. Well, I know this is a four fire.

00:07:33.240 This is a four engine alarm. This is a four year project. I'm humiliated. This is a four engine

00:07:38.680 fire. Okay. In a two horse town. Okay. Because, because I too have just been sleeping on,

00:07:49.340 on minerals. Just, just, I mean, I mean, to be clear, I don't mean sleeping on the crystals

00:07:52.900 that i do do it's everything look look at me it's it's everything it's minerals it's i mean i'm

00:08:00.880 humiliated has the word mineral even passed our lips on this show more than three times

00:08:08.680 i need to remineralize now or die i'm humiliated for us it's it's humiliating by the way i don't

00:08:16.700 want to scare everyone i'm not a doctor apparently you have to stop taking d3 i repeat stop taking 0.78

00:08:22.560 d3 and again i don't have any more information i heard half a fragment wait hold on falling asleep

00:08:27.300 on some podcast and i went you're gonna lock it i haven't taken d3 nope so you know this idea i

00:08:33.640 thought that wait i thought the d3 was in our athletic greens as the booster that comes with

00:08:37.940 it a little dropper isn't that d3 correct correct correct correct instant terror well well here we

00:08:43.120 go folks here we go dropping the d3 in there and maybe it's fine so okay i have a two-pronged

00:08:48.880 request one prong actually like six prongs but by the way when kate makes a request it's a request

00:08:56.020 for both of us okay i will not get any emails saying you know oh kate kate asked about this

00:09:01.080 so we want to send her a thing i need my mother's calling me okay i need i need need need full blood

00:09:08.280 panel i need to send in my shit to a lab i need everything studied i need a hair i'm gonna need

00:09:14.100 hair pulled out of my head that's usually how to test for minerals is hair follicle i need full 0.73

00:09:19.740 panel realistically i'm not going to be able to do this until the winter full panel the palette 0.64

00:09:24.580 i need full blood panel shit panel okay god there's too much all right here no here's what

00:09:32.480 i'm soaring between help me okay first of all i finally got one of those ivs we were questioning 0.98

00:09:37.560 a few weeks back remember hello ivs ding dong yeah one of the ivs you were worrying about

00:09:43.320 oh my god one of the okay yeah you got a vitamin flush yeah so i got a flush is that the term i

00:09:51.700 don't know i was calling it a flush they flush your system flood the system nothing was flushed

00:09:57.060 out right now i got a vitamin or i got a um an iv infusion speak for yourself what and how was it

00:10:06.060 were you high were you soaring no but i still believe okay so so i i went to restore hyper

00:10:12.560 wellness you know and i'll say their name despite obviously having paid full price i went in

00:10:17.940 desperate as i said i've changed you know i've depleted like never before and yeah i went in

00:10:24.740 and i said and i said i'm gonna do it and the woman by the way is a nurse real nurse okay now

00:10:30.480 she's like retired from the hospital and taking it easy now she's sticking people with it with 0.70

00:10:35.220 the iv is over at um so that's a dream come true she went from the emergency room to me

00:10:40.340 and um into the vein it goes that kind of a weird angle where it was interesting and then um

00:10:46.840 so i sort of felt it like you know like usually once the once the needle's in you don't feel it

00:10:51.740 anymore they tape it at the right angle i felt like it was a slight angle where it hurt the

00:10:55.800 whole time like sort of pulling okay so this nurse needs to go back to the er and get some

00:11:01.440 shifts under her belt no it's so rude it's so rude no she was a dream i'm serious did you say

00:11:08.300 no it was already in and i was basically fine with it well doesn't sound that way so so anyway

00:11:15.960 i decided to pick off the menu get the the wonder juice okay uh which is like because even warriors

00:11:21.940 need a boost something along those lines and you know the key ingredients were glutathione i believe

00:11:27.560 i was like glutathione glutamine which magnesium did go into it uh they were like they were like

00:11:34.900 you'll get the best sleepier in life if tonight if you take the you do the magnesium i was like

00:11:38.860 great up all night just suffering okay anyway but maybe that was the b vitamin complex that

00:11:45.260 was in there and you know those send you through the roof oh yeah the b that'll send you through 0.92

00:11:48.940 the fucking roof through the glass yeah so so whatever but i liked sitting in the chair oh 0.76

00:11:56.420 but the most appealing part probably for me was watching the bag of fluids the fluids themselves 0.98

00:12:03.260 helps you know what i'm saying go in yeah like you know like at a hospital like they call them

00:12:08.900 the banana bag yeah oh she was saying at the hospital they call the banana bag because it's

00:12:13.240 it's the multivitamin part it's like yellow piss it looks yellow yes it looks yellow and then

00:12:19.340 you know when something's explained and you just go oh even though it doesn't clarify she's like

00:12:24.540 you know why we call it the banana bag because we give this to the drunks and i was like at the at

00:12:28.820 the emergency room and i was like is banana an old term for like an old drunk like a like i was a

00:12:34.980 stumble bum you know yeah so i was just like but it was yellow so it was very like okay and i got

00:12:43.300 that in the same session i got red light therapy you know we obviously have our incredible units

00:12:47.940 from um light path led right which i have light path to wellness but this was the equivalent of

00:12:54.240 that it was similar but it was you know it was like 10 of those vertically stacked oh yeah you

00:13:00.040 sent me a picture back so I got in there for about 12 minutes I got that and then I did a

00:13:05.980 hydrofacial it was a big it was a big day oh that sounds so nice yeah it was a lot and then um I

00:13:14.100 don't know if if uh those nutrients were able to penetrate to penetrate I don't know I'm not I'm

00:13:19.740 not back up but who knows what I would have been without which is you know the case was so much

00:13:23.300 okay well i've always wanted if anyone notices kate not reacting it's because she had frozen

00:13:28.640 yeah if i didn't react to whatever jacqueline said it's because it was frozen okay for once

00:13:33.940 there's a reason so i just want to again come back at you i want to come back at you with

00:13:38.760 with the gratitude for poop today because my mood is already elevating i was in a fit of rage

00:13:44.740 earlier and trying to do the thing of well don't suppress it right don't push it down ask the rage

00:13:49.100 what it is um of course say hi you know this tactic too it's like the feeling you add it's

00:13:55.020 like a certain version of yourself at a certain age like sometimes it's you as a baby it's you

00:13:58.700 as a teenager it's you you know so it's like what whose anger is that is that the 16 yeah

00:14:03.520 yeah yeah so i was feeling but i was feeling the rage it's real yeah and um i'm better now okay

00:14:10.960 were you able to locate was it 12 year old just taking a guess i don't know it felt more i know

00:14:16.700 it felt more teenage it felt more like okay hormonal teenage like uh but uh i did chug the

00:14:22.320 recess is it the ac the recess or we're talking to you wait did you finish reading the ingredients

00:14:28.060 because i heard magnesium and i heard oh so then i got i got thrown off into minerals because

00:14:34.340 amino acids are the other thing i have to plunge into it's like okay the l whatever's what yes

00:14:39.960 because the amino acids were recently recommended to me by a very very very trusted source okay

00:14:45.800 was it does the name start with an m yes yeah but we're not saying because i can't have people

00:14:53.160 running for them okay no no okay okay we were recommended people finding our gurus and our

00:15:03.800 practitioners okay okay some gurus are just for us yeah okay so so amino acids have been recommended

00:15:11.620 um from a trusted source and but i have to say after the day after the trusted source

00:15:17.000 recommend i have to say this felt like god it was like the day after she was like oh yeah you

00:15:21.080 need amino acids l whatever whatever those things are i was with a friend of mine and she

00:15:26.320 i'm in a hotel the one hotel once again go on go on no discount so i won't be doing too much

00:15:33.460 i was with my friend and she took out wow sorry she took out this thing she starts chewing i go

00:15:39.780 what's that she goes it's tranquilant tranquilant it's this like amino acid like relaxation

00:15:46.140 chewable tablet gum no it's chewable dissolves in your mouth sorry i crunched down on that thing

00:15:53.600 placebo or not i was relaxed hold on a second i'm sorry something has happened

00:15:58.640 emma you didn't order something right are you getting a gift yes who's walking in who's there

00:16:06.220 That's Chris

00:16:07.240 But there was someone at the door

00:16:08.520 There's a fruit plate

00:16:09.440 Thank you so much for coming back

00:16:12.860 It's probably because you've already stayed

00:16:13.920 You've stayed at that hotel before

00:16:15.080 There's a kombucha

00:16:16.440 Okay, it's Leaning Poog now

00:16:18.380 What does it say?

00:16:20.700 Read it live

00:16:21.400 Congratulations on your shows

00:16:24.300 Oh, it's Leaning Poog at the Bell House this weekend

00:16:27.140 We hope this is a little something to sweeten your stay

00:16:30.100 The one hotel team

00:16:32.840 Oh, wow

00:16:34.920 And I'll have you know, this note is plantable, folks.

00:16:38.300 This has a seed.

00:16:39.500 I'm eating a strawberry.

00:16:40.680 God, I don't know if we can include this.

00:16:43.040 It's too, my life's too good.

00:16:45.940 What?

00:16:47.380 No, it stays.

00:16:48.800 It absolutely stays.

00:16:50.440 That's exciting.

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00:16:58.000 It was many and many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea.

00:17:03.620 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor, disappeared from a commune.

00:17:07.740 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:17:09.080 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:17:12.720 No, I am not your guru.

00:17:16.480 And back then, I lied to my parents, I lied to police, I lied to everybody.

00:17:21.380 There were years right where I could not say your name.

00:17:24.140 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California,

00:17:27.040 interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists,

00:17:29.840 whomever I can to try to find out what actually happened.

00:17:33.200 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods and not the obvious boyfriend?

00:17:37.780 They have had this case for 30 years. 1.00

00:17:40.720 I'll teach you sons of bitches to come around here and my wife. 1.00

00:17:43.740 Boom, boom. 1.00

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00:17:58.440 So we asked kids, what do you want your parents to hear?

00:18:02.500 I feel sometimes that I'm not listened to.

00:18:05.220 I would just want you to listen to me more often and evaluate situations with me and lead me towards success.

00:18:11.900 Listening is a form of love.

00:18:14.140 Find resources to help you support your kids and their emotional well-being at SoundItOutTogether.org.

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00:18:32.340 Keith Urban helped make him a global sensation last year,

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00:18:38.060 and launched a fun and difficult conversation about lovers who cheat and lie.

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00:20:30.800 I didn't even tell you about my, um, my hotel trauma, but it's going to be okay.

00:20:36.220 But I went to, I went to Two Bunch Palms with some friends.

00:20:40.000 You may recall from Pratt's Poog. 0.81

00:20:42.840 This is hysterical.

00:20:43.940 and i um was really upset in the past episode about the manager's um attitude on the phone

00:20:52.260 and then i was i found myself on the grounds terrified of the angry manager

00:20:58.420 they're the manager and i was like oh no this is why yeah because i don't yeah like i got scared

00:21:04.400 it was bold of you they have to say though speak of them and then go you know

00:21:09.240 No, the reservation fully under my name. Anyway. Hey, it's me. The point is I have to say they

00:21:18.540 messed up and I, and I even, I'll just, I'm going to run you quickly through what happened,

00:21:23.320 but it was a room, it was a room where, um, courage again. I'm terrified right now.

00:21:28.580 I'll just say, I'm going to run it through you really quickly. Two beds, two big beds that

00:21:32.940 sleeps four. I thought that's fun. Four gals, kind of a sleepover, you know, a little cramped

00:21:36.580 in there we've known each other since we were 13 it's fun so you would think that's fun the first 0.99

00:21:41.400 room I'll just say the blind was broken what okay I'm just sorry when I whisper those things it's

00:21:48.680 sort of um just for like I don't mean to interrupt you the first room the blind was was broken so

00:21:55.900 you could pull it up but not down like it was frustrating right the guy comes in it's just

00:22:01.440 completely broken so it was already like that it was broken I had trouble with a blind reason

00:22:06.560 In a hotel room

00:22:07.500 And I

00:22:07.920 It was broken

00:22:08.380 I knew it was me

00:22:08.960 It was broken

00:22:09.440 I knew it was me

00:22:10.060 But it was you know

00:22:11.020 When you have to

00:22:11.620 It wasn't me

00:22:12.580 You have to pull the string

00:22:13.540 In a certain direction

00:22:14.300 To release it

00:22:15.120 To bring it down

00:22:15.840 Usually that's like an up

00:22:17.440 This was to the left

00:22:18.440 This

00:22:18.920 I was unable to get there

00:22:20.220 This was completely

00:22:20.460 Independently

00:22:21.060 Actually I got there eventually

00:22:22.140 I saw

00:22:22.760 This had been ravaged by time

00:22:24.280 It was broken

00:22:25.100 Yeah

00:22:26.420 They move us to a room

00:22:27.400 A couple doors down

00:22:28.420 So in that room

00:22:29.740 We arrived

00:22:30.180 And by the way

00:22:30.780 We really

00:22:31.520 Gotta say

00:22:32.340 With Palm Springs

00:22:33.080 You're looking at

00:22:33.820 110 degrees

00:22:35.340 Okay

00:22:35.700 like really hot you need a you need blinds and and the grounds at two bunch palms here i'll say

00:22:43.000 beautiful breathtaking okay beautiful so i'm not here degrading the hotel at all

00:22:48.080 or even the the broken blind i'm like okay i can get past that it's too bad having to move for

00:22:53.480 all this luggage you know we move to the next room we get there after dinner the ac just is

00:22:58.280 not blasting like the old room it's just it's fine it's not like it's hot in the room but

00:23:04.020 you need it to be

00:23:05.840 and when it's a hundred

00:23:08.100 degree you know you you you need

00:23:10.080 it to be blasted yeah but is

00:23:12.120 it like most hotel rooms you know like you can

00:23:14.080 adjust the temperatures you go over to the machine and you press

00:23:16.060 up it's a unit

00:23:18.160 on the wall

00:23:19.440 yeah so but it won't do

00:23:22.140 it fully oh you mean there is no access

00:23:23.940 no there's access

00:23:25.880 but it ain't working so we

00:23:27.940 called and they were like and then this

00:23:29.860 wonderful woman who works there

00:23:31.740 came and she kind of we

00:23:33.840 could tell something was going on and one of my friends was like oh does this happen with this

00:23:37.760 room and she was like yeah so like it was an issue with that ac genius friend yeah genius friend

00:23:44.400 and so then and then whatever long story short we left a day early we left a day early not just

00:23:52.380 not and not so much because of the room was such a fiasco but just because it was 115 degrees only

00:23:57.780 gonna get hotter like it just and the pools are hot pools i repeat hot pools there's one regular

00:24:03.320 pool that's a cool off but a lot of the the pools are is it because they're literally like hot springs

00:24:09.880 water yes exactly or is that okay right and then there's like a regular cool off pool here's a

00:24:15.660 here's a big question when it's 100 degrees you don't want to be in a hot tub totally yeah yeah

00:24:21.500 it's nice at night anyway i'll just say that they were very apologetic and like they you know i was

00:24:27.220 like i'm leaving i didn't do a big complaint thing at all i was like paying through the nose

00:24:31.280 um not really because you're splitting four ways you know and um right right right but the point

00:24:38.520 is they waived the second night fee paid paid for the first night and i was like i'll be back or i

00:24:43.840 said something i was like you know like these things they were like we're so sorry it took

00:24:47.940 like 60 off the dinner i was like you could you could have gotten a little further with that

00:24:52.420 but I said I was like these things happen and I'll be back and they said we really appreciate

00:24:58.360 the second chance I wanted to say honey this wasn't my first time here but um but uh there's

00:25:05.080 the whole story you have it all yeah hold on I just want to say okay we we were almost you almost

00:25:12.380 crossed paths in Palm Springs so so I know the folks folks remember that I stayed at a luxury

00:25:17.680 spot that wasn't so luxury a couple weeks ago and due to that I was able to then get a a a deal so

00:25:26.400 good it can't even be spoken of okay okay at another place a more humble place okay I'll say

00:25:32.700 humble and right okay and and and I went and it was the exact thing where I was at peace completely

00:25:41.060 and everything I experienced because it was so affordable I was delighted by you know what I

00:25:46.320 mean and it was it was it was the fleur noir i was there for a week okay little bungalows it's

00:25:54.980 it's i would just pop out to the pool that was right outside my door there was a big kitchenette

00:25:59.820 okay love it the pics are coming folks you'll see i want to see god going out at night sitting next

00:26:06.560 to a fire pit you know now you go oh i don't think of myself as a fire pit person etc there i was

00:26:13.080 they were yeah yeah just just loving it going going yeah this is what nighttime is about right

00:26:19.000 it's the glow of the pool whatever the point is fleur noir delivered over delivered for their

00:26:24.520 their for their cost okay yeah i loved it i love that but anyway fleur noir was great and posting

00:26:31.620 all the pics you'll you'll see for yourself okay and honestly really appreciated that that they

00:26:37.140 seemed familiar with the pod oh i love to hear that and i know and here's the thing i went to

00:26:46.980 i went to an amazing sushi restaurant actually that you walk right it's actually one of the

00:26:51.280 benefits of the hotel is you can when you you can leave through this little back gate and you land

00:26:55.460 on the main drag in palm springs so all by foot go there's a sandfish and whiskey um place right

00:27:02.700 delicious sushi i ate there i'm not alone i texted you whiskey i believe is the name of it

00:27:07.980 it has a norwegian influenced sushi really good cocktails um i like begged yeah i begged uh well

00:27:19.420 you think of as a nordic naturals a common fish oil brand kind of all comes together right

00:27:26.080 you begged for what the deck and then and was wondering why it was so empty because it was

00:27:33.440 evening and the sun wasn't even out anymore and then i understood the wind the wind the winds

00:27:40.460 of palm springs in certain parts of the neighborhood they were nothing even the a plate

00:27:46.520 small plate topped with a sushi i mean with a soy sauce uh vial couldn't hold the couldn't hold the

00:27:54.020 paper down okay couldn't hold the menu down and the menu was an unretrieved menu you know when

00:27:58.920 the menu stays throughout your meal inexplicably yeah and which i sometimes like because there's

00:28:06.200 yeah i hate when they take the menu i hate when they when they take it well the promise of i might

00:28:10.860 order more what like the promise of i might order more you know it's a classic issue when they come

00:28:16.980 over and say like would you like anything else and you like talk about dessert for a minute and

00:28:21.600 then like decide no and then and then they pull out of their pocket the uh printed up check

00:28:26.800 oof that always hurts i guess you weren't ready for me to have some dessert that does why why

00:28:33.520 does that feel so that doesn't know when that happens i guess it's the i guess it's the assumption

00:28:40.380 that like i guess what it feels like is they thought you were i think i was gonna go for

00:28:44.740 dessert yeah they were like table four is cheap get the bill right yeah they're mocking hogs yeah

00:28:51.160 or or non-hogs i guess maybe it's like a maybe it's that i think like like like that then it 0.99

00:28:58.240 makes me more ashamed that i'm ordering this this um excess of dessert because it's like now you're

00:29:03.760 now you're gonna have to reprint the bill but anyway i hadn't i had a couple moments one how

00:29:08.340 do you feel about this i wrote this down i was like i want to talk about this table for one

00:29:13.620 and they offer the bar okay and it's like and here's the thing

00:29:17.580 and I'm talking about a situation where you can see all the tables also you mean the tables are

00:29:26.600 empty and they're shoving you at the bar and they're the claims that it's fully committed

00:29:31.160 okay you know whatever don't claim fully committed by the way that that euphemism that that's supposed

00:29:38.540 to that uh lipstick on a pig you know I mean who are you committed to we have no tables it's too

00:29:45.600 crass but the same you know like but anyway that's not what I wrote but the thing I'm realizing it

00:29:52.040 wasn't that okay but what I wrote down was oh but the thing with a bar like the sushi bar

00:29:56.780 if I'm at a restaurant alone I don't want to look at the wall right yeah I want to look at the rest

00:30:04.620 of the restaurant yeah and and count myself a person as well right right the bar the sushi bar

00:30:11.100 is is the shame the friend yeah i don't know if it's no no friend let's get real i don't want

00:30:16.800 to be at the sushi bar yeah it's hell no no forget that forget i ever spoke of that okay

00:30:21.840 but the other thing this was big are you ready to turn it could only be good with a lover if

00:30:26.220 you're intertwined right right and then and also like you better not be that hungry i don't know

00:30:32.880 like can you really settle in and kind of i don't know i feel like my elbows got they need to go

00:30:39.680 wide to really eat yeah yeah i don't think my elbows can be can be tucked in at that like a

00:30:44.840 soldier's yeah so here's my big realization on a plane i why the hell if we've talked about this

00:30:53.200 i'm sorry but why the hell is the pilot talking about what meals are going to be served have we

00:30:59.360 talked about this well i've never heard that keep your eyes keep your eye on the sky sir

00:31:05.160 keep your eye on the sky that doesn't talk about the food okay i'm pretty sure no no no yeah i'm

00:31:12.400 pretty sure it was the pilot okay i swear it's always swear it wasn't no because i was like i

00:31:17.320 know who the uh the uh you know the um tenants are clocked all of them whatever have you ever

00:31:23.460 heard this it was like it was like okay folks we're gonna be coming in and we got the chicken

00:31:27.380 three minutes early and then we get literally no that's the indignity i think it might be

00:31:36.420 semi-standard because when i heard it i thought oh right this this where like is is the is the

00:31:43.960 menu getting is the menu getting um sent under the the slit under the door to the to the locked

00:31:50.320 i i am baffled i have no i mean it must be and then they're going like um with some uh

00:31:58.280 sauteed greens no i i am the sky sir i am the sky i'm it's it's an indignity to everyone involved

00:32:07.600 i'm still not convinced i mean i believe what you're saying i know and that's okay

00:32:12.060 i'm not convinced either but there was something about it that i go no i've experienced it like

00:32:16.700 Like, uh, we're cruising at about 10,000 feet and, um, it looks like winds are coming in

00:32:22.440 this way and see, we got a, um, chicken piccata.

00:32:28.180 I don't think it happened.

00:32:32.640 You know, I'm almost positive it has happened.

00:32:34.980 Okay.

00:32:35.300 We'll, we'll, we'll do research and next week we will convert.

00:32:38.640 I have to say something, which we have to do a real shout out because JetBlue sent us

00:32:44.440 some incredible merch that we will that we have to photograph yeah we will we will we will share

00:32:49.560 however they sent us because this by the way this creates this i'll wait i'll wait for miles i'm

00:32:56.320 sorry i'll wait for miles no but jacqueline jacqueline they sent and this really makes me

00:33:02.420 loyal to jet blue it's working they sent us personalized poog air jet blue merch okay

00:33:08.480 we're talking about a microphone speaker we got a poog air jet blue sweatshirt i mean it's quite

00:33:13.300 wild it said poog air x jet blue merch will come i swear yeah and yeah well let's get the real

00:33:20.280 endorsement you know let's go well yeah yeah i think that was um i wanted to plug ion skincare

00:33:28.560 which today in the in the depths of my misery came home there was a package i go huh i open it

00:33:34.940 i see ion i out loud went holy shit yeah yeah i got really excited so i want to thank them

00:33:43.140 for sending the line

00:33:44.360 I can't wait to try it

00:33:45.200 I want to thank them as well

00:33:45.680 you know I

00:33:46.560 you really spearheaded that

00:33:47.760 before we begged

00:33:48.240 thank you

00:33:49.320 and then were you giving it to me

00:33:50.920 credit before you

00:33:51.860 because you could see me

00:33:52.620 desperate for it

00:33:53.380 like let me just give it to her up front 0.98

00:33:55.160 which I would totally get 0.89

00:33:56.720 yeah

00:33:57.480 no it's really kind

00:33:58.620 because I was going to say

00:33:59.360 I was like

00:34:00.660 that was one where I felt like

00:34:01.960 we were reading

00:34:02.780 copy off of their website

00:34:04.740 on an episode

00:34:06.460 oh yeah

00:34:06.740 that was

00:34:07.440 you're right

00:34:08.120 that was a major ad

00:34:09.320 so like

00:34:10.440 I felt pretty confident begging

00:34:12.000 yeah yeah

00:34:12.740 and then I

00:34:13.140 But I don't, I'm away, so I didn't try it.

00:34:14.680 But I did send it to my mother and she had, my mother, okay, I'm sending her the products.

00:34:19.900 It's a dream now.

00:34:20.800 When I go there, I just roll into her bathroom and use all the products I sent her.

00:34:23.840 Smart.

00:34:24.540 Literally.

00:34:25.160 Botter. 1.00

00:34:26.340 Shut up. 1.00

00:34:27.320 Well, you paid for Botter, to be clear. 1.00

00:34:29.900 Okay.

00:34:30.140 Augustinus Botter.

00:34:31.440 Beckham X Botter.

00:34:33.840 Mm-hmm.

00:34:34.240 Mm-hmm.

00:34:35.080 Wow.

00:34:35.760 Yeah.

00:34:35.980 For mother, I'll pay. 0.94

00:34:37.620 And eighth day serum from Violet Gray. 0.87

00:34:41.780 What else?

00:34:42.420 ion obviously

00:34:43.780 bioson squalane I mean you're getting

00:34:46.840 you're getting what I think is good

00:34:49.040 you're getting the good stuff

00:34:50.060 if you're hearing this right I got her a vitamin 0.83

00:34:52.980 C serum that might have been

00:34:55.020 stern I need to get a good vitamin C

00:34:56.900 well you woke in the night

00:34:59.100 realizing when I sent you some

00:35:01.020 kind of article

00:35:01.660 you were rightfully

00:35:04.940 humiliated to realize that you basically don't have

00:35:07.060 vitamin C in your regimen

00:35:07.900 skin care

00:35:09.280 Are you hearing me?

00:35:12.020 I can't even admit it on air

00:35:13.320 Like

00:35:14.840 Give me the brand now

00:35:16.480 You were given Drunk Elephant

00:35:17.880 You were given Drunk Elephant

00:35:19.400 I used that

00:35:20.280 Okay and then it's gone and you haven't re-upped in some form

00:35:23.500 Well I was devastated because Goop sent us

00:35:26.000 A nice vitamin C 0.99

00:35:27.780 And it fucking expired 0.97

00:35:29.240 I did the thing that I did as a child which I saved it going 0.97

00:35:31.640 Not yet, you don't deserve it yet

00:35:33.020 And then it expired

00:35:34.860 I mean the question is

00:35:37.860 Is it true

00:35:38.940 expiry or is it

00:35:41.160 merely less effective?

00:35:43.000 I can't get into that because

00:35:45.500 then I could have used it at that time.

00:35:47.480 Now it's super expired.

00:35:48.640 Oh, and it went straight.

00:35:51.260 I still have it.

00:35:54.040 You think it's done, it's not done

00:35:55.980 and then

00:35:56.660 you realize that you could have when you thought it.

00:35:59.560 You could have. You'd rather it just have never

00:36:02.040 been. It was really painful.

00:36:04.040 I should just email them. They probably would send me more.

00:36:07.520 Coco June

00:36:08.140 yogurt could use some cocoa June I think they did send it by the way I guess who's headed back

00:36:12.120 to coach okay like we talk about like the you're headed back to coach me me telling you just to do

00:36:21.740 coach yeah so I was like I was like I just you know these times that I've sprung for it yeah

00:36:28.340 the times I've sprung for it and whatever and then having these things and then did you fly coach

00:36:32.040 oh wow um and take it now

00:36:38.520 can't remember no i can't remember i'm like what was it

00:36:44.020 oh i know what it was i flew out of palm springs so it was like

00:36:47.060 it was like a regional jet it was like whoa there was nothing there no it was no you know no no not

00:36:53.540 not a fancy one i mean like the small one oh i hear jet i know that like a commercial airline

00:36:58.260 is a jet too it was just the word jet it is yeah but i i was like looking at prices to go to london

00:37:05.140 and um i was like oh yeah like i was even trying to look at like some premium like you know

00:37:10.000 whatever like premium economy or whatever it's like 12k i just was looking yesterday it's actually

00:37:15.260 twelve thousand dollars for premium economy it's literally unthinkable it's unthinkable so i was

00:37:20.340 like literally economy is the only option yeah yeah of course straight up economy is the only option

00:37:24.440 yeah and then i started telling myself how air travel itself is luxury yeah like there you go

00:37:29.840 like but but not like no i don't mean in a in a like i'm not trying to be like

00:37:33.140 like gratitudinous okay or grateful i guess is the word yeah yeah i'm not trying to be like

00:37:39.260 it's all luxury like like whatever obviously that's uh okay this part's gotta go whatever

00:37:45.160 but anyway the point no it doesn't continue in the 60s in the 60s it was like air travel alone

00:37:51.960 you got dressed up for and i had to remember that i have always loved air travel which has always

00:37:58.240 been in coach these few these few like well it's the problem is that when the business is paying

00:38:04.880 in some capacity and you get a taste when you get free well that's the thing yeah like you've gotten

00:38:10.160 a taste by being flown for something it's when you are in a position where you exactly and then

00:38:15.500 it's really hard and you can't unsee it it's really hard to unsee it to walk past those people

00:38:20.560 You can't walk past them.

00:38:21.680 And go, I know what you know.

00:38:23.360 I know what you know, and I know what I'm about to know.

00:38:25.620 There's an assumption.

00:38:27.120 There's a weird assumption on the plane.

00:38:29.760 Okay, that everyone in first class always and has only ever flown first class

00:38:34.000 and that everyone in coach is only and has ever flown coach.

00:38:37.340 And it's, like, literally when, like, it's like you forget that it's just, like,

00:38:41.160 could be just the status of the day because there are certain people,

00:38:44.140 probably a good percentage.

00:38:46.040 No, I don't know, because people get upgraded.

00:38:47.680 people get wouldn't it be great if people got punished that was like me when i boldly

00:38:52.360 when i walked from coach to the first class bathroom on a recent flight because i felt so

00:38:57.280 entitled to it because i was like i know i've been here sometimes a job puts me up here but

00:39:03.320 if i'm paying up my own pocket i'm in the back you know and i walked to the curtain just part

00:39:09.820 of the curtain i have to go to the away store because i think i should get a suitcase a carry-on

00:39:15.960 if away wants to well i got news for you they're bad no no i was gonna say right now you know i'm

00:39:24.480 onto that site italic okay that does the luxury factory uh they get it straight from the factory

00:39:30.480 whatever okay so they go this is the same manufacturer of away okay okay and and then

00:39:37.040 they go you know they do it with all sorts of stuff um you might want to consider it unless

00:39:42.920 you really want the word if you need no i don't need the brand at all i don't need the brand at

00:39:47.880 all right you just have a you just believe it's quality so honestly i'm gonna i'm gonna have to

00:39:51.180 send you the link and again is it a store is all online i like to touch it online see i kind of

00:39:57.220 want to like go there that's what you're paying do you like to touch it for 200 it's a good point

00:40:00.940 it's a good point i am a friend of my fancy friend was telling me about the luggage i want to tell

00:40:07.060 you the name that they were using and then i looked it up and it was like a three like a

00:40:11.560 $3,400 suitcase so I was like what was it well I won't be doing that what I know it's not that

00:40:17.980 I was just saying Briggs Riley because it's the one that I have that's that's the big ticket item

00:40:22.540 it's not like that expensive I mean it's not that expensive unless I don't know but oh this is huge

00:40:28.540 this is a huge moment on on a plane recently okay I made a note about it while it happened

00:40:35.560 and I was scared the guy could see so next to me on the plane right they come around to order

00:40:41.400 um, you know, drinks. Okay. I say, can I have a seltzer? Right. The guy next to me, a stranger

00:40:49.780 um, says I'll have seltzer as well. How dare he as well. Do you see what I'm saying? We have not

00:40:59.560 spoken. What do you mean? Like you mean, it's, he's basically propositioned you for sex.

00:41:05.880 Is that what you're saying? No, it was, it was presumptive.

00:41:09.320 I think that's I think it's almost um have heard my order to acknowledge having heard my order

00:41:17.000 no yes he heard it of course I think it's really cute and I think it's hot

00:41:23.740 I know I know I think it's cute like if someone did that to me I'd be like it's us now I'd be

00:41:31.020 like it's us no it is but it felt um I think because there was such a pronounced privacy

00:41:39.300 occurring we had not acknowledged each other and also i was not impressed because he um

00:41:44.740 trying to think maskless and and free coughing oh no see i haven't flown since the mask mandate

00:41:51.320 was lifted so just like this like this like like this like

00:41:54.320 no okay tongue didn't go out of his mouth that was an exaggeration really are animals it was 0.99

00:42:01.260 just like he was just like you can't and i like like like will fuck up and free cough inside my 0.98

00:42:06.800 own home when it surprises me it happens okay inside my own home to be clear which i still 0.97

00:42:11.760 think is rude inside one i by the way actually i did a free sneeze in my car alone and that felt

00:42:18.760 really like i had like a like a series of three yeah and i was like yeah just get it out like it

00:42:24.900 felt and i was in my own i was in my own cloud of my own sneeze and even then i rolled down the

00:42:31.540 window because it seemed so vile oh yeah just to have fun I like did a free sneeze but the idea

00:42:37.640 of coughing like that and oh my god no I would say I probably really struggle so yeah I was

00:42:43.640 already kind of not not pleased there and then the as well I'm like to me it felt as it felt to

00:42:49.440 be a transgression when we were not on friendly terms okay and then I mean we were and then I

00:42:55.480 and then I was it's practically a hand on your thigh I was weirdly like what are we having for

00:43:00.540 dessert baby

00:43:01.500 get my girl a biscotte 1.00

00:43:04.680 so 1.00

00:43:08.380 he orders a big blanket so he can

00:43:10.600 finger you from underneath it

00:43:13.220 ew my father 0.84

00:43:14.720 listens to this and my mother

00:43:16.700 sorry

00:43:18.720 keep going

00:43:21.060 they're used to your 0.95

00:43:22.980 they're used to my crass

00:43:26.620 turns

00:43:28.120 then I sort of

00:43:30.320 struggled because then you sneezed a couple times i sort of did it it was like well now i've been

00:43:34.860 forced into this dynamic with you and then i was like friendship sounds like your friend that

00:43:39.800 you're turning against i was like bless you i was like it felt really weird to me and his cough

00:43:47.040 and he coughed it no that would be genius okay that would be genius i didn't have the courage

00:43:52.120 but maybe it was out of the desire i'm trying to it felt if there was something about it when i

00:43:57.580 sort of mumbled bless you after his sneezes which I think was that I think I was trying to alert him

00:44:04.480 that I hear your various extuperance or whatever you know what I mean like I like in the way that

00:44:11.220 I just heard your sneeze I heard your freak off mere moments ago I'm listening yeah I don't know

00:44:17.860 you're trying to remind him that he's not alone yeah yeah yeah you know what it would be bold

00:44:25.000 just to completely turn your head completely 90 degrees whip it okay and hold what would happen

00:44:34.500 how long before they just if you not even have to cough i don't even know this is just about

00:44:40.320 whipping your head and looking at someone okay if you felt someone whip their head and look at you

00:44:43.980 and and it's such a deep whip that you know it is not just a glance out the window past you

00:44:48.940 right if you imagine you're in the reprimanding you okay it's absolutely you and they hold

00:44:55.040 how long before you glance over and go yeah i've done that you've been the whip i have actually

00:45:03.360 yeah i don't have i don't struggle with glaring at people in public rudely when i think they've

00:45:09.980 done the unimaginable wait did you hear that sound that mystical sound i actually yeah what

00:45:15.180 was that i don't know and i'm thinking maybe it was my phone just told me that the moon has moved

00:45:21.040 into aquarius if only that meant anything to me uh-oh a full moon i don't even know what that means

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00:48:34.320 Oh, I got something to show up.

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00:48:46.460 Okay, one of her big moves for facial massage. 1.00

00:48:49.340 So she's saying if you squeeze your lips,

00:48:53.620 kind of together yeah when you go along and you get to the corners of the mouth and you feel like

00:49:00.860 she's like it's like it feels like a ball of muscle there which i do you feel it she's like

00:49:07.740 that means that yeah these three muscles right here are like they're like muscle knots they're

00:49:13.700 all tight and whatever and you gotta work them wait feel ball here so like do like a duck lip

00:49:19.880 And then grab it like your, grab the whole meat of your lip, lips, and then go all the way to the corners of the edge and kind of rub like that.

00:49:30.800 Okay.

00:49:31.620 Do you feel like something there?

00:49:35.720 Because I sure do.

00:49:36.980 Barely.

00:49:38.360 Yeah.

00:49:39.260 So I'm going to work on it.

00:49:40.900 I'm going to work on it.

00:49:42.780 So now I have this, I'm living with this idea.

00:49:44.760 yeah well if it's tense there it leads to you know every i don't know it leads to hell

00:49:50.580 all you know it leads to like your face falling to the sea

00:49:55.560 i'm pretty excited we gotta get on minerals we gotta get we gotta get minerals we gotta get

00:50:01.360 amino acids i um i have to get back on my microdose tolocybin protocol but i've also heard

00:50:09.140 that it's really important that you remineralize when you're on that that it can be it can deplete

00:50:14.100 the minerals so i have to research that before i get on god and then and then there was a thing

00:50:18.540 about i was reading i forget who it was hymen uh you know one of his posts and and then and then

00:50:25.320 it was something and then it's like but of course you know you should consult with a with a functional

00:50:30.340 functional medicine whatever practitioner right and it's just like or like what functional medicine

00:50:37.180 doctor or whatever whatever and it's like when how what like am i driving to a facility going in

00:50:46.300 going hey marty it's really i heard great things about you and your functional medicine good to see

00:50:52.980 you here's what it is it's zoom so here's the thing so my friend who had the tranquil tranquilant

00:50:58.280 i think it was called the amino tablets she is a functional medicine person that she like meets

00:51:03.500 with on zoom and they order all the tests. So they're like, you're going to get this blood

00:51:07.120 test. You're going to get this. That's what I want. And I'm starving for it. And then they order

00:51:12.800 them and then they go, okay, here's what we're going to do. Okay. And it probably costs, you

00:51:17.160 know, 15 K. I mean, I don't know. Obviously not that much, but it's a lot. There was a thing.

00:51:22.260 Well, there's a lot, they're all flying into my Instagram feed. Um, all the different testing

00:51:28.420 things that test your your various levels i don't know who's good you know they all they all have

00:51:34.460 good um marketing like it all looks like the future is here you know what i mean it all looks

00:51:40.900 like this is the one this is the most comprehensive one the whole thing but isn't it so appealing

00:51:46.460 to be told like yes i want it i want to know exactly what your your thing is although although 0.97

00:51:55.560 then i just did feel a nervousness in my stomach you know the thesis of poog but oh fuck once we 0.95

00:52:00.860 once we know we have it all we know the supplements except we all we i mean it's the same 0.96

00:52:06.060 i know and then what no we face our lives again it's that yeah it's absolutely never ending and

00:52:10.820 the mineral so there is that i mean we are fine we are fine we are fine i mean right yeah i mean

00:52:19.420 we were depleted oh yeah absolutely absolutely yeah of course no no no we're very we're good

00:52:24.960 we're good health is wealth um I need to get that testing done stacked

00:52:33.080 no it's just like because I was like oh wait actually we don't need it like it seemed like

00:52:40.320 more was coming no we do I think that we do no right you're saying we do okay I thought I thought

00:52:45.620 we like just realized like oh but if we do all the testing and then we find out exactly what we

00:52:50.080 need and we take it and we feel great we're still uh we're the you know human the human what's the

00:52:56.320 basic term the existential will shall rage on maybe it's that it's so appealing to the night

00:53:02.140 to deal with the body in this way like this is feels bodily and it feels like okay we're gonna

00:53:07.880 focus on the body like and it's gonna trickle upwards towards effects on you know mood and

00:53:13.880 and whatever because who wants to what are we gonna we're gonna revisit our psychology no thank 0.97

00:53:21.540 you you know no take me back take me the fuck back to the body absolutely my house is a mess 0.69

00:53:31.560 it's chaos oh oh my god you know what i looked up regarding regarding this i can't remember if i 0.99

00:53:37.020 sent this to you or not you know i i was i was googling it's like that thing where i go there's

00:53:43.820 got to be someone who does this there's got to be someone who does this because you always see

00:53:47.560 these things about hiring an organizer right and I always I'm never interested in it because one

00:53:53.220 I'm like I know I've read all the books a person yeah right so all you're getting is a person to

00:54:00.200 force force you to do the thing I've read all the books right I don't need them to be like so what I

00:54:05.200 do is I put things in three piles you know what I mean like whatever like yeah yeah yeah you know

00:54:10.880 um you want someone to physically go in there and touch it you're really gonna wear that

00:54:15.440 you haven't worn it in a year okay yeah so i don't need that i don't need the coach yeah okay

00:54:20.760 okay like there's some you know whatever what so for me it's either i buck up and do it myself

00:54:26.780 right or the fantasy is is there someone who will come in and not and and basically do it without

00:54:34.060 you boldly oh absolutely yeah you're on your own okay imagine that now now they they just they just

00:54:42.340 go for it what they think okay now that could include i would love that i would love a bunch

00:54:47.400 of boxes of here's what i think you should donate you mean that means they're getting rid of things

00:54:51.380 well not really i think okay but technically it'd be great okay but with a minor intake form i feel

00:54:57.600 like they could but this was so so it was like i started like i started searching for like you know

00:55:02.260 full scale like basically and i found this this this company that pitches themselves like they

00:55:09.300 they deal with like cleaning out places after like people have died okay saying more include

00:55:16.800 and like hoarder situations and stuff or where there was a hoarder and now they're going in

00:55:21.240 whatever and and so that and then i realized this this is what gets me this is how this is it's the

00:55:27.640 same thing as Augustinus Bader or Botter or whatever treating you know dealing with real

00:55:33.160 burn you know victims in order to then come to come over to give us our serum right I'm like

00:55:40.280 I want the I want the house cleaners that deal with the absolute most emergency nightmare houses

00:55:47.920 of stuff yes to come and deal with my minor clutter because can you imagine the level of

00:55:53.780 excellence they would be able to bring to imagine what they could do see what I'm saying

00:55:56.780 oh of course of course and they do and they do because because i looked and they go well you

00:56:01.440 know we handle even minor little jobs and i saw i watched these videos it's the most satisfying

00:56:06.020 thing they come in sometimes they even install shelves like in your closet like so like there's

00:56:10.640 a big mess of a closet and they come in and they just look and they go like yeah there's not enough

00:56:13.660 storage and then there were these like sterilite things and they had put labels on them just like

00:56:18.340 underwear socks long sleeve shirts is that not yeah the ultimate luxury that sounds good

00:56:26.460 I don't know it's just like that's like the new fantasy now is um but would they know you know

00:56:32.360 I mean I'm in chaos I'm looking around I'm going my god oh my god I mean of course it's not that

00:56:38.080 bad but it's it's not it's not great well it's okay we got to bring back the high octane I don't

00:56:44.780 know I was pretty excited about about with the service what else do I got who because um

00:56:49.680 we gotta get back to exploring consciousness what here's what we need kate we can pursue

00:56:58.280 we can pursue amino acids but if there isn't something metaphysical for me to tether myself 0.98

00:57:04.500 to minerals it means nothing and minerals okay i need i want let's stop fucking around

00:57:10.260 astral projection now lucid dreaming now yeah now yeah we've been talking about it for three years

00:57:17.140 we haven't made a single move towards towards doing it i know we need to find okay from now on

00:57:24.320 this is false i'm false i'm false oh it says jacqueline novak's internet is weak not to blame

00:57:33.740 it on you no i know exactly what you were doing i am in a hotel but i am i was really making it

00:57:39.480 work i want to try the new honey mama's carrot cake it's in my fridge

00:57:42.700 sounds like you're gonna be able to try it on air sure should i try it on air

00:57:50.520 i need a little something

00:57:52.860 extreme home organizing the fact that i'm in the honey mama's family sorry entered walking as

00:58:07.780 usual it's entered talking as usual i was all right and i'm not because why i was because it's

00:58:14.920 not heat it's not keto um uh but the honey mom was it keto when i was family was eating peanut

00:58:23.040 butter straight out of the jar for the last three nights um in pure ecstasy standing at my parents

00:58:27.920 pantry um peanut butter doesn't really do it for me in that way i like it but i'm not like out of

00:58:35.280 a jar that's not like well i was stuffing their rice they have these rice crackers always in stock

00:58:40.920 at my parents and i was just stuffing them two fingers down descending it but the point was

00:58:45.860 really standing at the pantry standing at the pantry eating has meaning and but here's the

00:58:52.100 question i don't i'm not like i love peanut butter when i talk about peanut butter i love

00:58:55.520 p like i'm not that but then when i do take a little bite of peanut butter i'm i'm it's nearly

00:59:03.540 impossible for it to to there's no out can't stop so that's what i'm wondering have you never had

00:59:09.320 always a shock a woman with a nut allergy who can eat peanut butter i'll never understand

00:59:13.080 tree nuts well it's legume peanuts are legume it just happens to be the case some people have those

00:59:19.800 both those allergies so they just throw around the word nut like uh like it means whatever the

00:59:24.440 hell they want it to mean what's that brand of peanuts it comes in a jar they're all salted god

00:59:29.780 it's good. Uh, Mr. Uh, Mr. Peanut, Mr. Peanut. Nevermind. No, no, no. This is like a high,

00:59:37.720 this is like a, a little boutique. It's like, you know, it's like $17 for a jar of peanuts and

00:59:42.460 God damn, it'll make you moan. You're you'll unhinge your jaw and ecstasy. Yeah. I'm gonna 0.99

00:59:49.400 get you a jar for your birthday, little girl. Wait, I feel like I just ate something incredible.

00:59:53.660 Well, I don't generally enjoy a peanut plane because it's too reminiscent of a nut.

00:59:59.780 Every time I've cracked into something of that texture, it's caused horrors.

01:00:03.000 It scares you. 0.95

01:00:04.100 So I was never a Chunky whatever.

01:00:07.260 What did I, what was I just eating? 0.97

01:00:08.660 Chunky monkey?

01:00:09.400 I'm back on my protein pasta.

01:00:11.980 Which brand?

01:00:13.300 Well.

01:00:14.420 Ancient Harvest?

01:00:16.380 No, I feel like that's protein added.

01:00:20.260 No, it's this one from like Wholesome Foods or something.

01:00:24.040 It's like, I think it's from them.

01:00:26.020 Wait, who was the pasta lady you got me into?

01:00:28.080 Nom Nom?

01:00:28.500 incredible yeah yeah nuda what happened it's it's during covid it it stopped

01:00:35.040 that's this g-n-o-m g-n-o-m.com i believe it was pasta made friendable from the loop

01:00:42.700 what was it lupini bean lupin flour it's popping up in other places you got me onto that it was

01:00:48.740 good it actually had a chewy texture and i say chewy and you go what but you know when you've

01:00:54.140 tasted shirataki noodles you understand that classic pasta is chewy a shirataki noodle that is

01:01:00.120 rock bottom i think i might do it you're making me you're making me hungry you're making me hungry

01:01:06.620 over here you know what i think i'm gonna do parm i was gonna say i was gonna do a capellos

01:01:10.240 i love capellos i've talked about that almond flour pasta i would do a capellos for dinner

01:01:15.440 with some just simple olive oil salt pepper lemon zest lemon squeeze a lemon parmesan

01:01:22.980 black pepper maldon oh my god the pope himself you know it's a bad bad line they should never

01:01:30.620 do it but i'm just gonna say it what is i thought you said i'm all done like like parmesan lemon

01:01:38.200 i'm all done like you've just listed all the oh no no i'm all done i'm all done now what's genius

01:01:45.440 is a Maldon would be the last step so it's like a Maldon Maldon Maldon Maldon like a really

01:01:53.300 sometimes sometimes like a pun or wordplay you have to be careful because when you see this you

01:02:02.320 see this a lot folks someone gets seduced by a pun enough to completely abandon what their

01:02:09.480 branding should be like that should never be when when a pun goes far yeah or when a pun is lifted

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01:02:25.480 was seduced enough to bring it to poog just now you know i mean of course of course i think we

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